What's going on, Infinite Fam? Welcome back to another video. If you guys are new to the channel, make sure you guys hit that subscribe button, turn on your post notification bell, leave a positive comment down below for a chance to get a wha. For a chance to get a shout out in the next video. And it's right guys, so as you guys can tell by title and thumbnail of the video, we are going to have a guest appearance today, someone who hasn't been in our videos for quite some time now, because she thinks she's too good for us. Oh, the shade.  But yeah guys, so as you guys can tell by title and thumbnail of the video, we are basically gonna be pulling another loyalty test prank on my mom. The first loyalty test prank we did on her was when Janice was, what was it, you were trying to cheat on me or something like that? Yeah, it was like a cheating prank or something like that. So yeah guys, today we're gonna be basically leaving out Janice's wallet. She's gonna pretend to leave the car. I'm gonna take her wallet and I'm gonna act like I'm just like taking money from Janice basically.  Let's do some online shopping stuff like that. I'm gonna take pictures she'll never know. She just thinks that she got scammed a couple of days later. So I just wanna see my mom's reaction. Is she gonna tell Janice like, yo, your boyfriend's a scumbag and he's trying to take money from you? How do you think she's gonna react? I feel like hopefully your mom's just not gonna let that fly. Hopefully, I really hope that she doesn't. But we're gonna see, this is the point of doing this kind of video. We're gonna see how loyal she is, I guess, to me. I don't think she's gonna try to hide that from you.  He's trying to take money from you.  So this is why we're deciding to do this on her. So if you guys are ready for today's video, don't forget to smash that like button and also this is one of the first videos that we've been teaming up in a long time. I'm not happy about it. Honestly, I think it's going to be freaking hilarious. So when we get to his mom's house, we are going to just set everything up and get this prank started. Are you ready, baby? I'm ready, bro. I already know how this is gonna go.  Let's get it, guys. Just pulled up in front of my mom's house. I'm gonna go ahead and give her a call. I told her that I wanted to go to Walmart and if she wanted to tag along and all that, of course she wants to tag along and go to Wally World, because these two, you know, my mom and her, they have a spending problem.  When it comes to like Target, Walmart, or like any grocery food shopping kind of thing, you do. I guess. I like getting food to nurture our bodies. Who needs food? As if food is important. Anyway, guys, I'm gonna go ahead. I'm gonna give her a call. I'm gonna tell her that we're outside and you guys will see her from when she comes in the car. I'm low key nervous. Why?  Oh, she does. We're not the type of people like, you know, we're not that type of people. You know, we don't scan, we don't do any of that type of stuff. Of course not.  And if she, this just gives her better like leverage if she wants to swing on me, you know that, right? I know, that's what's funny. Oh my God, I'm scared. All right, so I'm gonna call her right now, let her know that we're outside waiting for her and let's see what happens. Pray for your boy. You ready to go to Wally World or what? Yeah. All right, well, we're outside waiting in front of the house. All right, she already sounded like she's not in a good mood. She does. She already sounded like she's not in a good mood. Man, she better put on a smile for the camera or something but we're gonna wait for her to come out guys and we'll take it from there. Oh my God, I'm scared. All right guys, she's about to get in the car. Whoa, whoa, whoa, would you look at who it is? Hello. Hi. First off, we're vlogging. Okay, so say hi to the camera because they haven't seen you in a while. Hi. And second of all, I'm gonna be honest here.   No, maybe because you're too busy for me. I'm never too busy. I'm actually always here almost every single day. This is not gonna be a whole debate thing. Well, I just wanted to go to Walmart. I wanted to see if you wanted to tag along and she wants to make everything a debate. So are we all ready to go to Walmart? No, let's clear this up first. I knew this was gonna be a thing. All right, go ahead. Say what you gotta say.  Say what you gotta say, go ahead. I am never too busy for him. He's just too busy for me. I think it's there. Is that all you wanna say? I'm not gonna make this a debate. That's it? That's all you gotta say? I just wanna make it clear. You're good? You got that out of your system? Yep, I feel good. All right, so now are we ready to go to Walmart? Absolutely. Wait, I'm not ready yet though. I have to go to the bathroom real quick, real quick. Bro, you're like an old lady. Oh my God. John, I wanna go to the bathroom at Walmart. Leave her alone.  And? What is it to you? How many times you gotta pee? Exactly. She always gotta pee. She's like an old lady. So what? I'm gonna be fast. Yeah, right. That's another lie right there. What is it with you guys? You guys always gotta pee. So? You don't pee? Yo, we lucked out. She left her purse. And what that means? You wanna do some online shopping? Isaiah, no. What? No. Let's do some online shopping. Isaiah, don't play with me. Look, no, she don't got physical cash. Isaiah, don't play with me. Ma, she won't even know. Don't play with me, Isaiah. Ma, I'm serious. Look, listen, listen to my plan. No, no, no, there's nothing to listen. Listen, listen to my plan. I didn't raise you like this. What is your problem?  Ma, listen to my plan. No, there ain't no plan. Ma. The plan is about to be on, but that's it out of you if you... Bro. What you mean, bro? Listen. Absolutely not. Absolutely not. You're not listening to my plan. Isaiah, I will still get out this car. Listen, she doesn't have physical... What are you gonna listen to? Ma, you won't let me talk. Listen. Why do I need to let you talk? You're like trying to take over her for it when you have your own. God, you and Janice are the same. You guys don't let me talk. Did I raise you this way? Ma. Answer that. Can you listen to my plan first? Can you let me talk? No, there shouldn't be no plan. Yo, I swear you guys are twins. Listen, she doesn't have physical cash. There's not a plan good enough. She doesn't have physical cash. She doesn't have physical cash. There's not a plan good enough. I'm gonna take pictures of her cars. Isaiah, don't. Boy, I will make the silliness out of you. Look, I'm gonna take pictures of cars. Yeah, I'm looking at you. And I swear to you, if you don't delete these pictures when she get in this car, I will tell her.  Call it what you want. Why would you be a snitch? Because I didn't raise you like this. Look, all we gotta do is take pictures. Absolutely not. We do online shopping. Absolutely not. I didn't raise you like this. What? Why are you trying to give me like a life lesson here? What is wrong with you? What do you mean a lesson? Since when you need somebody else's money, you have your own. Look, she's... No, absolutely not. No, we're not doing that. I'm telling you I'm gonna count to three and if you don't delete these pictures the minute she walks in here, I'm gonna tell her. Wait, wait, is she leaving? No, I don't know and I don't care how she left her purse. Oh my God, bro. You're really trying to give me a life lesson here. What you mean a life lesson? I'm trying to tell you if I take the pictures of the card and I use it, she'll never know. It's not like I'm taking physical cash and then she'll notice that money is missing. I'll just be able to... No. I can buy you something nice. No, I don't need nothing nice. I'm good. You're fumbling the bag. No, I'm not fumbling the bag. Yeah, you're fumbling the bag. Absolutely not. I'm good. I have the power to buy you something nice and you're over here like not taking it. Okay, so if you got the power to buy me something nice so that I'd be at your account, why does it gotta be when I add her accounts? Because I get to keep my money if I use her money. No, it doesn't work like that. All right, well, I'm gonna do it later. Okay, so how would that make you feel if she did that to you? It would be all right. She wouldn't, she wouldn't do it to me. Oh, she wouldn't, so why would you betray her like that? I wouldn't leave my wallet alone. It doesn't matter. It's not my fault she left her wallet. She should be able to trust you. You're over here really trying to give me a life lesson. I'm over here trying to do something nice for you and me. I don't need anything nice. I am good. Are we done here? Especially if you're sitting here taking from the next person. Since when we do that? If we can't afford it, we don't get it, period. We can't afford it with her card. No, that's what I'm trying to tell you. No, no, no we can't. If it's with her card, then obviously we can't. I can't even believe you right now, like for real. I guess you're not done, done, I don't know. No, I'm not gonna be done.  Mom, I'm not deleting them, bro. Like that's, I can buy myself something nice. I can buy you something nice. That's what you're not seeing here. Are you kidding me right now? She won't notice. She, look, she's coming. She's gonna notice. Oh no, she's coming. She's gonna notice because I'm gonna say something. If you really think, I'm gonna say something about it.  Absolutely. On your only son? Absolutely, I don't care. I ain't teach you this. I didn't teach you this. No, there ain't no, shh. You okay? What happened? You ready to go to Walmart? I ain't going to Walmart. Oh my God. Here we go. What happened? Here we go. Okay. I'm ready to go to Walmart. No, no, no.  Okay, she's really gonna do it. Okay. What happened? No. Be honest about what? Be honest about what? She's really gonna do it. Nothing. I don't know what she's talking about. Oh, so now you don't know what I'm talking about.  He took pictures of your cards, told me how he was gonna go online shopping with your money. I didn't do that. Oh no. You know I wouldn't do something like that. Unlock your phone. Why? For what? Unlock your phone. Show her your photos. She sees my phone all the time. She sees my phone. Okay, exactly. So unlock it and show her your photos. There's no reason to show them off. Look, are you... Okay, go into your photos. Look, what? There's nothing. No, no, no, no. Why are you scrolling to the bottom, bro? Let's go to the first picture.  Bro. Look, what? There's nothing there. I'm actually taking pictures of my card. I just saw it. There it goes. Look, look. Why are you doing that to me? You're really a snitch. Call it what you want. I don't care what you call it. You really snitched. I tell you what, I did not raise you like this. You're really a snitch. And you should know better. And no, I am not going to Walmart with you. Why would you do that, seriously? Like, answer me that question. Like, if you really wanted to buy something, you could have just asked. You didn't have to take pictures of my card and be sneaky like that. What was the point of that? She's really a snitch, yo. Call it what you want. Call it what you want. You're lucky I ain't losing it. I ain't smack you for that one. Exactly. Thank you. Thank you for actually sticking up for me because that's madman stuff that you would do something like that. Just taking pictures of my stuff. What's wrong with you? Why would you do that? I don't know to say. I really don't. No, what would you say? This whole situation is just funny to me. It really is. What's so funny about it? The whole thing is just hilarious. I don't get it. I don't get what's hilarious about it. You're literally trying to steal from me. Like, I'm your girlfriend. If you want something, you need money to just ask. Just tell her then. Tell her. Tell me what? Tell her why it's hilarious. The whole situation. Just tell her. Because it's a prank. I can't stand you. I'm really not going to Walmart. Yo, we're not going to Walmart. We never was going to Walmart. Oh, I thought y'all was being nice and inviting me to go to Walmart. No, bro, that was just to get you in the car, man. No, you know what, damn well, I would never steal from anybody, let alone her, let alone you. I would never steal from anyone. I told them that before you got in the car. I was like, I wasn't raised like that to steal, to scam.  My senses, they're not all there, but they're mostly there. So you got anything else you want to say? No, I just fell so bad. I got in the car. I was like, oh, I hope she didn't beat him up. I thought she was going to. She started yelling at me, so I had to turn my head this way, because if she was going to hit me, I didn't want to see it coming. I'd rather just take it. But yeah, the whole situation was just funny. I couldn't keep a straight face, but I felt like me smiling and laughing was getting her more mad, because she thought I was taking it as a joke. Because that's annoying. Do you think it's funny? Absolutely. Right now, yes, 100% I think it's funny. Yes. And what you would have done if I would have really lost this matter? Then that's not my problem. I mean, well, it is my problem, but I can't do anything about it. Honestly, this conversation is making me nervous now, because I don't want to get hit, so I'm going to let her cool off for like five minutes, and then we'll pick the camera back up. I survived. All right, guys, so that is it for today's video. Team Janice and Team Isaiah back with another banger. You guys are not going to hear that again, because I don't like teaming up with her. Yeah, I don't like it either. I'd rather keep it solo on my end, because I am always dropping bangers, and I drop that heat. I'm like that team. It kind of brings me down a little bit. You guys know. She's cramping my style. She's cramping my style. I don't want to hear it. Yeah, whatever. So Ma, you got anything else you want to say? No. All right, so you accept this L? It's OK. That's the dangerous part. When she's calm, that's the dangerous part. But yeah, guys, so again, that is it for today's video. It is now time for today's post notification shoutout. Today's post notification shoutout goes out to Nikki Felix. Shoutout to you, girl. Thank you for all the love and support. If you guys want a post notification shoutout, all you guys got to do is like, comment, share, and subscribe, and turn on those post notification bells so you're notified whenever we post a new video. And with all that being said, we will catch you in the next banger. That's right. You got anything else you want to say? No. The next one will be me. Silent but deadly.


Welcome to The Advocate, your reminder that important conversations are among the necessary tools for a saner society. Today, I'm calling for change from the bottom, which means from us. Comfort is asking what's gone wrong with the children and how do we correct misguided children? I don't really add words, spotlight what Nigerians want in 2023. In the same vein, Ruth is calling for everyone to come out and vote in the next elections. As always, your panelists are here to share ideas aimed at provoking thoughts with no holds barred. Stay with us. Change begins from the bottom, not the top. When you ask an average Nigerian to vote, he complains about how the man at the bottom is powerless. When you talk about reckless driving on the streets of Lagos, the average driver will blame the authorities and uniformed men, the LASMA, VIO, police, etc. We live a life which suggests that we have no responsibility as a people and all powers lie with the government. Worse still, we ignore local and state governments and dump everything under federal government. Truly, governments have been a disappointment for so long, such that an average Nigerian teenager does not understand the principle of good governance, communal living and responsible living. Not because he isn't learned, but because there is very little exposure to good governance in our society. All you see is embezzlement, abandoned projects and deflections, for example, the contaminated fuel saga. We all know how the blame game has started. While governments should be held culpable, we need to face the reality. Change cannot come from the top. It's a simple principle of life who changes a working idea, a winning team. If things go wrong and politicians get richer, why would any politician want to make things work? Now, this is not to say every politician is anti-Nigeria or Nigerians.  They were men like you and I who complained about bad governance, but today they are bad leaders. If you live in a society where everybody takes advantage of the other, then you cannot have good leaders. It is bad enough to have contaminated fuel, but what is evil is the fact that fuel attendants introduce 500 Naira to 1,000 Naira surcharge on every 25 litre of jerry can of fuel that is filled. What is demonic is the fact that managers of a filling station orders the pump to be shut down in order to create artificial scarcity. They stimulate frustrations and ultimately hike the price. There simply isn't brother's code anymore in Nigeria. As a kid, if you went to a kiosk to buy an item and the attendant tells you 300 Naira, what you thought she said 600 Naira and as such you decided to negotiate down to 500 Naira, she will gladly tell you, I said 300 Naira. Now when you make such corrections, this present moment, you are considered not to be a sharp guy. Take advantage, take the 500 Naira and move on. And when we say there is increase in ritual killings, I then say we ain't seen nothing yet. We cannot demand from politicians what you are born. Many of us complain about bad governance. But when our relatives get into power, suddenly our list well. Nigerians don't want good governance. Of course that's what it seems like. We only want a good life for ourselves and as such, as much as I know, we don't care who pays the price for it. There are too many irresponsible people on our roads. People who only care about themselves. People who do anything to make way for themselves. As long as you stop your car in the middle of the road to greet a friend and when other drivers caution you, you shout, get out of here, useless man. You deserve the leaders you have because you are not different from them. To get good leaders, we need to be good people. As long as we remain selfish, nothing will change permanently. If we change our attitude, it will be easier to identify quality leaders from among us. Then collectively, we can support such candidacy till he or she gets to the top. Remember, change begins from the bottom, not the top. God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria. Any change that comes from the top, not last. That's what I've come to realise because the people are not involved in it. They are only just going to do it because they want to do it. An example is the case of when the fashion law was governor of Lagos State. He made this compulsory that you do not have parties on the streets. People changed. People are just there. In the event centre, we are making more money.  So it's funny. It just tells us that people only did it because the system forced them to do it. But once it comes from within, it is a habit. It is something that we also initiate because we see the reasons why we should do this. Then it's more likely than to last. It's something we also hand down to our children. I may have to disagree with you a bit. That's because I think that everything rises and falls on leadership. Just look at the example you gave. The governor said, and I dare say that he probably started from within his cabinet to make sure that people are head to those things. I think that the reason why we see all the things we have seen is because there is no leadership. There is no leadership. Who is leading? Who is telling us how to, where to, when to? There is no one. Because again, even as children, we know that children don't do what they hear. Just because daddy said don't, doesn't mean they don't. They do what they see. So what are our leaders doing? Yes, I know that the bottom, it's a holistic collective thing. So the bottom has its part to play. But until leadership changes, I personally think that that's the problem. In my view, you don't become a good leader because you're in government. You must be a good follower. You must be a good leader from the bottom. So you don't suddenly change because now I'm in government, let me do the right thing. Is that true? We're just having a conversation about people we know who are human beings. I'm saying change for the better. I'm saying change for the better. If you were selfish, if you were nonchalant, if you were self-centered as a follower, and you vie for a position and you get to government, that is who we see. The governor-fascist we're talking about today, I know people who said in his house, even before he became a governor, you don't put on the generator anyhow. And he wasn't a poor man when he was not a governor. So he was frugal. Yeah, exactly. He knew how to manage things. So anyway, comfort. Yes, because you know this topic goes me. Because we've gone over and over this issue, we know very well that both parties are to blame for what we are. Both the top and both the bottom. And I agree with you 100%. That the leaders come from us. And coming from us meant that they were followers too. And they are now in these positions needing having stood on the sidelines at a certain point and complained. So where does that lead us now? We are left with a de-franchised followership, a battered followership, a run-less followership, a misguided followership. And it's still from these people. So even the change that you're talking about come from these people means that we still need to have leaders at the bottom. Exactly. Who are ready to say, you know what? Okay, okay. These people at the top that we said they are not doing the right thing. But here we are at the bottom. Exactly. They are not doing the wrong thing. And I love the example you used about the petrol station because it was the same argument I had two days ago. I said, so the federal government decides to screw us over. So we now decide at our level that we are the ones that are collecting the power of the school. Yes, we now do ourselves to more harm. The same person who is a manager of petrol attendant is still suffering in the same economy that me and him and them are. We are expected there. That is when we should show solidarity to ourselves. Okay. We have this bad situation. I'm going to make sure that there's no dumping of fuel. Even if it is, they wanted to make sure that everybody gets rationed so that your brother will get it. So if you're going to want to fill your tank, we'll say, no. Everybody across Bob will get 5000 so that at least let everybody be able to. But no. That's not what happens. Instead, we had human filling stations. So honestly, even the change starting from the bottom, there's still a level of change in it that needs to be given from the bottom. Well, as you rightly said, we need to look at each other as our brother's keeper. But unfortunately, our consciences have become so serious and we don't know what is going to take. And I think you've said it all that we need at this point. You see, there are a lot of people at the bottom who know what is right, but they don't do anything about it. The only complaint, we need to stop massing up such people. Forget that's what I was talking about. We can't change the top. If we don't start influencing our immediate environment. You who knows what is right, who knows doing this is wrong. Just start influencing your... Don't go far. Don't leave. Don't go for a state. You're Jerusalem. Exactly. Your local... Not even your local government might even be too human. Not even your home. Your home, exactly. I've been a good dad. I've been a good husband. I've been a good brother and a good son and then... A good community leader, your streets, whatever it is, just ensure that things are working well. That's it. So, the conversation continues starting from the top or the bottom. One thing is certain that we need to start influencing change. And anywhere you find yourself as a leader, start doing something right. Well, comfort is next after the break.