What's up guys? What's going on? Stream right now Pretty great day today Until the end of the day I guess but it's not like it was something unexpected Good. I'm good. How you doing Tiffany? Check out the market bubble today Give me one second. We're just setting things up for a little bit All right, so we're streaming on three different platform right now for some of the some of you guys They're new one like our Twitch Twitter, and I think on YouTube as well So check out the market bubble The most beat up today was the Lamb Western they've been getting pretty beat up during the last few earnings. So that's something we'll check out One of the biggest movers was fcx Huge reversal to like $34. It was bound to happen with dollar index getting a little weak. So that's pretty cool And then we have Disney Disney move a little bit today Google was moving up Facebook was actually pretty negative today Netflix as well, but I mean yo Netflix has been running non-stop for the past few days. It was bound to take a break Life nation finally giving up some some move there or Pretty huge move Apple a little bit moved to the upside. We'll see if this continues and video as well Had a nice gap You haven't missed already yet. We haven't looked at it yet. I think so I think only you on the YouTube side Tiffany, but we have some people on the on the twitch side. What's up mass appeal? Terribly happy Let's check it out. Let's check out till raise earnings report. So we posted a few charts today See I can pull it up. So we posted a few charts today and things working out pretty well Say probably one of the better days out there Yesterday I spoke a little bit and you know, we talked about How the market could potentially break up from that triple top and we end up, you know, breaking off that top there Ideal target was around 442 442 4 on the future side the S&P 500 futures and we literally hit that on the dot Then so that was the chart from this morning that I posted in stock chats and then Look at that, man. We hit it on the dot on that trend line perfectly and Kind of coming back down a little bit right now. So ideally probably look for it to hold around 437 and 50 on spy. That's probably a good area to hold on spy I think anymore we could be in trouble again. And unless you're bearish, we probably don't want that trouble. What's up, young bow? Yeah, well, how are you doing? I hope you guys took some profit today. It was a really really good day to take profit And you know like I don't know about you guys, man We've been praying for this move for like days now. Yo, man. God bless. We got the move. So If you didn't take profit today, you know, you guys are just being greedy, but let's take a look at some of the earnings from this morning So we have hello Troy What do they do? Consumer product house wear home beauty and stuff like that. Okay. So kind of like restoration hardware fifth at beyond I think So earnings per share is 265 as opposed to 217 estimates. So that's a good fee Sales is 475 million as opposed to 428 million. Wow, that's the top and bottom beat However compared to last year, this was a 29% decrease in earnings per share and And 10% decrease in sales compared to last year But they said they raised their full year 22 guidance They think they're gonna make they so before they said earnings per share for the year was gonna be around $10 25 cents to 1075 to now they're like, you know, we're gonna make $11 to 1135 Big change. That's pretty bullish from that perspective and sales. They expect to be over 2 mil Whereas before they were like, we were gonna make under mill So obviously the stock had a nice move today gapped up from 218 to 230 Gave some of it back a little bit here and there. Oh Yeah, let me know if you guys have a problem hearing me because I I Messed with the volume a little bit With the suppression and stuff. So I don't know if it's like picking my voice up. Okay We need for that Tesla pop all day Nice nice. Oh, that was a good pop today, huh? 805. Yo You guys got out there man Congratulations And then the other earnings we had this morning was Tilray, let's see earnings per share was negative 8 cents Since apparently it's pretty in line and apparently compared to last year, it's really really good So last year it was losing like a dollar and 75 cents per share this year is only losing 8 cents per share and then sales is 168 million missed the estimate of 172 However, it says this is like 250% increase compared to last year 48 million But then that's also because they they they had a merger with this other company Alpha alpharia So obviously they were gonna make more sales and stuff right because they had to merger. So that's that's Tilray It looks like they're doing pretty okay But who knows man? So here's looking at some other data. It says that They clocked in 43% sales growth in Q1 43% year-over-year missing the consensus a little bit Net revenue grew about 38% so that's pretty good and they said they're about to save about 80 million dollars Because of that, you know combination that they had So overall it looks like a pretty okay investment, but it's been going down skin pretty beat up Oh snap young bo is on YouTube side as well What else is going on today? So the other earnings we had was lamb Western This company is a world's second largest producer of Potatoes and french fries. Oh The twitch app has been working that well. We're streaming on on YouTube too. Maybe play with that see if that's working good But I know that lately the the twitch app's been pretty Pretty glitchy. Oh, there's like a 15 second delay too. Alright, so earnings per share is 20 cents down from 61 cents year-over-year Just the EPI TDA is 123 mil sales was 984 as opposed to 993 Also missing a little bit there Compared to last year is at It's the sales has a 13% increase almost so the cost gone up, but they're they're still able to increase the sales Let's see what they say about the guidance here. So this sales increased 13% That's good Income operations decline Net income decline. Oh that income in Including JV to be pressured through 2022. So they're expecting a tough year coming on my head. Oh snap The declining gross profit also include a 5.6 million decrease in unrealized Mark to market adjustment associated commodity hitting hedging contracts Yo, so they were playing some they were they were hedging, you know with commodity futures and And The climbing gross profit took a hit. I guess because they took a L Or it didn't do as well this quarter as compared to last year. I Could see why they got it like but it's it's pretty common though a lot of companies do this Gold mining companies like a lot of commodity companies do this They have to like hedge it in case things go against their direction Whoa Lulu had a 500 million buyback. Yo, let's check that out. Oh, yeah There's any stocks you guys want us to check out today chart it or take a look. Let me know And then once we think it we chart it or we take a look at it. We'll put it over here On this twitch sheet. So let's take a look at Lulu. See what's going on over here. Oh, yeah I saw this morning. They they they apparently brought like This other app called mirrors It's a popular nearly invisible interactive home gym will be offering nearly 40 Lulu stores Lulu lemon stores Across Canada and available for purchase in store online beginning Getting November 22nd guests in Canada will now have direct access to engage with mirrors digital community and experience The platform's best in class content for all levels Yo, that's pretty cool Envix I got you brother. Have has anybody ever seen this mirror thing yet? I'm curious how this is So apparently they acquired this company in 2020. Yo, this is like Lulu lemons version of like palatine So mirror offers new live-class daily lit by the lemons mirror ambassador and Thousands of on-demand Workout available 24-7 Including boxing. Oh, this is cardio strength yoga meditation board Members can compete one-on-one with friends in mirror class Whoa high-fives member can set emojis to motivate friends in class Friending mirror can find and follow friends in the mirror community Yeah, they can stalk each other What's up professor glass Recommend for you We see the set workouts each week based on the individual profile. Yo, I think that's pretty exciting and interesting for a little lemon man Is there a demo video of this? I want to see if there's a demo Hey, what's up, Arby Nicko? Let's see Whoa, this mirror is a thousand five hundred dollars Apparently, there's not much advertisement on On YouTube so check this out. What do you see a chance to grow stronger an opportunity to push yourself? Room to beat your best There is a window to a fitness experience the world has never seen before No matter who you are or where you are The mirror lets you work out with world-class trainers in live or on-demand classes Complete with encouragement when you need it Or don't think you need it You got this No wait lists no crowded parking lots Just your home the mirror and you Yo, honestly, I don't think that's a bad idea. I think that's pretty interesting concept. I kind of like it a little bit Yeah, it's pretty much a TV with a mirror that's like fifteen hundred dollars pretty expensive honestly, I Don't know man. It's like Mirror mirror on the wall true why a mirror when you can project it on the window or glass That's true. That's true Let me add the stickers ISRG view literally a TV with a mirror Man when is when is like when when are when is Nike gonna do something like this? I feel like Nike tried to do like Nike run With their shoes and things like that and that kind of I feel like in a way that they all pretty pretty badly because it didn't Didn't really get nowhere. It was a really good concept. It just didn't work. Well, or they didn't market it very well VV and T What is this? But I feel like hologram would have been pretty cool though Like a mini way to like project it and stuff But all these subscriptions man kind of annoying Pain the butt alright, so first ticker is EMV X. Let's take a look at that So EMV X had a nice bounce the other day over here Kind of V shape recovery up here We're at that that same resistance from the other top now at 2150s There's been a lot of momentum though, so Looking at that seeing the recovery to upside. There's been a lot of momentum If more momentum come in it could easily hit that next price target level around 23 ish So that's still a possibility if you're on bullish side if you sold it at 21 for like a sweet profit from $14 I don't think you should get back in just move on to the next one, bro There's so many other opportunities. Why bother? Oh my bad, dude I gotta check out this Lulu news Don't see the news on the buyback though. Oh, there we go. There we go. I see it now So that was Tuesday it did get that move on Tuesday 390 to 405 So that was a pretty good move right there But what's 500 mil to the market cap of like 53 billion, right? Yeah, this is a Google doc. It's a it's a public Google doc I think Tommy paste the YouTube link before Let me find it. Oh the YouTube link changes every day. I didn't even realize that So apparently I clicked on the YouTube link for yesterday And that's what I paste in the chat. All right. Next thing on the list is ISRG Let's take a look at that. So ISRG man. This is the stock that's been beating me to death. I Got wrecked a little bit honestly I got wrecked big time Not even gonna kid I was ideally looking for a move back to, you know, it's lower range on the Near the yellow line to look for buying opportunity But honestly is a little surprising. We had a we had a decent move today 2% move Man We wouldn't need like a really big move all the way to over here tomorrow around 360 For the $1,200 contract to be off any significance. Well, those $1,200 contracts and $400 now So we need like a huge move tomorrow, maybe 5 to 10 percent move to see even for those come contracts to come back Alive. Otherwise, it's getting pretty close to dead I don't know. This is one of the few times where We're like a stock that that is doing a split that that usually supposed to run a lot But hasn't ran as much anymore so Hopefully hopefully we see that recovery, but we also need market to be pretty bullish and And market was looking pretty good today, but we dropped on the 437 will probably be We'll probably be screw. I mean the split did do well I mean look at it, right? So it did split and it did move up So it did have a you know move, but we still need market to be pretty bullish The other indicators that are supporting it though, so I Mean we need that break over 341 on the half-day chart So you can see that, you know, you can see some some struggle here The R side it's about to cross over there and money flows spike like hardcore today in the morning But coming back down a little and we're also at that resistance on the half-day chart, right? But then on the one-day chart, you know, you see the crossover here There's a lot of momentum a lot of opportunity to to go from there So the momentum bar is still at the beginning. It's still pretty low at 46 We can easily come back to you know, the hundred to 90s plus and and if that does happen, you know That's looking for another move all the way from three thirties to Three thirties to to 347 That's like about a $17 move. We can have at least another $17 move left Unless this rounded up to even $20 that'll put it around 367 kind of put it back around the back of this range So if that moves happen by tomorrow The the $400 calls might have a chance to come back I have enough push so opportunities there only time will tell honestly Yeah, maybe they'll get ER run to so it's been weird man hitch funds are loading up on the stocks in shares But the contracts is just really really beat up Sucks, I mean overall Overall, right? It's looking good like at the end of the day. We have the confirmation to the upside We have the reversal confirmation that I typically look for, you know We have the cross over here and the cross over over here and then we have like, you know Two green candle confirmation. So at the end of the day, do we have a reversal confirmation to upside? Yes, we do But could could the market trap us? Why not, right? That's also a possibility as well You know, if you easily get trapped by the market at this point, it's still need to it needs is to open above 347 tomorrow for us to be like Really bullish we need to break above that trend line here. So let me show you what I mean So look, we have the trend line that we draw from the top As of today, we crossed over it, right? We crossed over there on spy as of today But at the end of the day, it came back down right under it. So That's the only thing I don't like about it right now because when when the market comes back And when it breaks the resistance and it comes back And sleeps right under the resistance That is pretty much that's probably the scariest part man because That means anything could happen Kind of like last time over here where you know, we had like pretty good reversal like You you you have, you know confirmation here as well and And you know, we failed to break above the line and it just like got stuck under the resistance. So Pretty pretty, um pretty scary Which gap are we looking for yet? Well the upside or the downside I thought we filled some gaps today on spy already What's up? So we'll see. Um, the other ticker you guys wanted to check out was view. Let's check that out real quick Let me paste this spy chart in case You guys want to check it out later on? I wouldn't imagine so So we have this downtrend that's been drawn here for a while Found some bottom support here. So look for that. You know, that's the reversal setup Um, if we come down look for it to test that area again. That's pretty pretty low man Ouch $3 man, it comes back to 350s. Oh It's an interesting company. They're they're getting dragged through the mud through some lawsuit right now So this issue is that it would it, you know, I was trying to break above here But couldn't do it last time So you can see the rejection here as well So those are some support and resistance levels. I hope that helps We usually do like one ticker for person But if nobody adds and I'll take a look at both of them for you, but a is usually This stock is usually super slow mover. So I don't even know if it's worth charting. It's kind of like FedEx um, you know, we're kind of like Does some weird stuff fcx they have a big move today um, but you know, it's natural it's it should as it should right because um, a lot of those commodity plays moves are based on the dollar index So, you know, market reversing dollar index went down a little bit. So I followed through Um, but based on the move of dollar index moving back up. I think fcx is going to get smacked again So that's why I kind of took profit the other day around that same range So next ticker is vvnt Let's check this out. Oh this company. I know this company They sell like security cameras and stuff interesting setup Got the pinch there pretty ugly downtrend pattern. Um found some support over here and nice bounce If we're bullish first target, we can see a move back to 968 um, you know, possibly even like 1140s for the second move And then if it makes the whole move all the way back to 1180s Dang That's a good area to take profit Pretty interesting. Oh, did you what did you play? You went long on it or did you did you short it? We got a good crossover here in the money flow index as well So that could be a reversal setup Um crossover over here too. So both of the things are looking good Um daily chart is still setting up. So we don't have a confirmation on the daily chart yet But the half day chart is looking good. We just need confirmation on the daily chart but I'm seeing a lot of setups like this across the board today and I don't know if it's real or not just because we're still waiting for that confirmation move In terms of um spy That's the only thing you long today Good luck. I hope it works out 940s to 1170s Looks good Um, I kind of honestly I want to check out RVP Just because I haven't I haven't looked at it for a while. It broke the trend line came back down pretty hard RP nico. What did you want me to look at? FX zero or was it fcx? So I kind of got stopped out of RVP a while back I still have the call spreads though, but I don't have the shares anymore. I got stopped out of the shares I'm still holding a few contracts the call spreads, uh, you know to see if this will come back around It looks like it's finding some some range here. Um, the money flow index is showing some momentum to the upside same thing here So it's showing a little diversion there actually Um, oh in a way, this could be the bottom. Is there a short squeeze on this? Still FX is oh And my boy RB nico always keeping me on edge man with these random tickers. I love it So it's got about 18% short So there's a possibility for a short squeeze as well.  I think it's an interesting area Um, ideally if you want to look for the bottom fish think eight dollars eight nineties are a good area to bottom fish it Um, it's a good really good support there But right now is at a weird range. It's coming down pretty hard But if markets starts to pick up anything would would move up, right? Why not? Hard to say I understand man. Sorry. Sorry. I didn't work out that well for you Let's check out lulu. I was hoping for the short squeeze on that too. Honestly Did you get into some pepsi with fuss man? I don't know if you were um here for the other streams like a monday or tuesday We're kind of talking about pepsi So lulu is just like, I don't know. I'm not finding like good range on the chart I have this trend line drawn from here, but I'm not seeing a hit um I can kind of start another trend line here Based on that move in this move. It's kind of weird The charts are kind of over the place, man So it's it's it's kind of hard to draw lulu honestly I mean some Sometimes I look for the low But not always Oh, I think some people said that when they're on 1080p the stream lacks a little bit So looking at iea It's at an interesting range Hold this line up from around here. So interesting the manzone from $10 to send in 70s There's some there's opportunity there if it were to bounce this would probably be the the area With bounce, you know anywhere from this This $10 to $1070 area to kind of bounce um On the daily chart no confirmation or anything yet. Um a little bit confirmation on the Uh, no confirmation on the the half day chart either So it hasn't set up that we've heard so yet I mean you can start a position, but it's risky. Dicky man, you know If you're bullish, I mean you could try to start a position with a tight stop loss around like Uh, maybe $10 Oh shoot you embossed deep Ugh Let's check out the flow for this see if there's any flow for you, man My man says yo, I'm boss deep Like I'm about to go Go big ago go broke So let's see The last time this had a flow Okay, so last time this had a flow was on June Hadn't really had a flow for a while had had a flow there Uh Yeah, and there was a there was a bullish sweep, but I mean that was a while ago They probably unloaded by now that was when it was $12 now $10 I mean, I don't know man. It's tough I guess if you're bullish look to trade it within this range between $10 and And what's the top here 1350s don't forget to stick profit Where did you start your position at 1276? Oh You started position a while back, huh? So, I mean the the the bullish case I can think for this is like if we get the infrastructure bill passed Um, this could be a big move to the upside But if um, you know, we don't know what the whole direction of that is they we thought the infrastructure bill was going to pass a while ago But they they throw in the back and forth Um, and it's very very tough, man So we got support at 1070s. We just in at 1355 There's also another ticker um that professor glass. I think told me a while back called pave Um, which which is literally called infrastructure development etf So that's a pretty interesting one too Oh, um see joe We're talking to some people on twitch. So we're streaming on youtube and twitch as well So you guys might not see some of the comments if you're on youtube, but It's there See how Check out this other ticket fx. So first trust Financials I see so this This investment seeks Investments results that correspond generally to the price and yield before the fund fee experience of an equity index call The strata quant financials index the fund will invest at least 90% of the net asset um including borrowing the common stocks and real estate investment trust that comp Compriced the index the index is modified equal dollar weight index designed by idi to Objectively identify and select stocks from the russell 1000 index in the financial service sector I just saw that too, man. I was reading I didn't even see that Why did they give me that ad? I'm not even 40 yet, man. She likes Too early It's good index pretty interesting, man. Um, I like what they talked about here in the way Um, looking for the russell. So this looks like something that could come out really well if um The market goes into like a recession or something, you know financial companies are typically safe I would say this time around But I gotta tell you something man. I do hate this bank the san tan san tan there san tan san tan there holdings Hate that bank, man. So fxl. Um charlux interesting All time high was around 34 last year and we're up bigly from that, right up nicely Could be could be something that outperforms interesting perspective Is it better performing than the xlf? Yeah, it has outperformed the xlf as well so Good stuff, man But as far as buying opportunity wise man, I don't know if you're looking for entry point This is one of those stocks that just kind of does his own thing So it it's probably pretty tricky to find entry points I'm just gonna have to bind hole or pray Reverse head and shoulders. Let me see. Let's see what you're looking at I guess kind of the market is doing that as well.  Let me check. Let me check the Let me check this Yo, thanks for bringing that to our view man. Appreciate that. So Let's say we're looking for a move back to 164 moving average Um right now it's at 155 Um from here is may 19 To june 1st. So it takes about two weeks to to make that move. Let's say right Um two weeks to make that move. Oh, we can only buy october 15th, november 19th And then when he moves in five dollar intervals Oh my gosh This ticker is extremely hard to play in options, man There's also one of the other reasons. I don't like it God dang But anyways, let's say it makes the move back to what's our target. It's my target My target would be 162. So let's say it makes the move back to 162, right? um Let me shrink this So that would be right here if it makes that move by the end of the month We would be risking 325 dollars to make about 172. That's about 50 percent move Give or take um, that's a pretty interesting That that's a that's a that's kind of a reasonable risk and reward there Stop loss would probably be somewhere around 150 So if it hits like 150 Oh, that's a lot of money lost there. Let me set up a different play for this So right now it's a 155 It'll less than 50 percent. I mean It can hit 50 percent All right, see you man. Thanks for that chart. I mean, thanks for that stock So the other move that could be interesting. Um, if you want to play Uh, play without the data burn. You could do the 155 to 160s call spread So if it makes that move there, um You have a nice potential to make a decent amount of money Max profit is around 270. So let's say by november 19 it gets above 160 You you could easily make a total of like 270 dollars, right? um But let's say it makes that move above 162 anytime between now and that time frame You could make anywhere from you know Like 97 to 97 plus so you can make a 50 percent move from there as well Um, I think this is a little bit safer because at least on the downside if it drops below 150 by the end of the month you can still close out at 50 percent Whereas the other one where if you just did a naked position It would burn against you even further and you wouldn't be able to close out But the other problem with this ticker is that the volume is really crap So it's very hard to do spread as well only 18 volume for the day um Alternatively the only other move I can think of the only other move I can think of is Is like if you like if you want to buy shares um If you want to buy shares I guess you can pick up the 140 or maybe the 150 even um If you buy the 150 and it moves to like 162 It will cost you 870 you would make anywhere from 495 To about 390 so still about 50 percent if it hits there If hits that range by the end of the month If it goes against you You could potentially lose 50 percent as well. So this is also a pretty reasonable risk and reward there as well Maybe this is a butterfly play Now I think the best play is just the call spread 155 to 160 easier is move out there I like the chart the setup is good got the crossover on the bottom Both indicators are supporting the bullish move dividend just paid off So any drop that usually drops after dividend is already happened So if market continued to move to the upside, I don't see why not This company is typically a slow mover pretty bullish overall Should be able to make that move as long as market continues to grind up and we don't falter So if you guys interested in setting up the The call spread This would be the play I'm gonna paste it over here Yeah, butterfly if I was to do a butterfly. I probably um, I probably leave the middle at 160s, right because Because we're looking for that move over here between, you know, we're looking for 160 to 165 by next month I don't think I would do any of the 150s or 155s on the bottom leg Or I would the middle leg's got to be at least the 160 or 165 range got to go a little ballsy, man Maybe even a little wider too, honestly Okay, even sell premium It's another way to play um sell premium the put side So next figure I got on the list is uh cl Colgate, I believe Okay, Colgate had a nice move too We're trading way below the pre-covid highs and that's like, um That's almost like in the way of standard deviation for me. It's it's like where I would ideally want a lot of things to pull back to Um, whether from the upside or from the downside So that's a good that's you know, it's good to see that it's below that As long as the company is performing well is doing good under that price should be a buying a batuni Which it is somewhat for Colgate. They've been doing okay. They've been on this downtrend We got on the bigger time frame. We got double bottom set up here Right. So if this is the the beginning of the reversal, this could be a nice move to the upside the other bullish case The other bullish case is that um is the fact that We have inflation and you know the companies that benefit the most from inflation's typically are our companies with uh A lot of cash on a lot of cash and good cash flow um generation You know consistent cash flow generation. Oh, the debt equity is actually pretty high So I don't know they may may not perform that well. Let's see Revenue grows a little slow. I mean, well typically consumer stables are doing pretty good though they usually do pretty good when when the market is like In uh inflationary period because a lot of tech companies don't do that well in that time frame um, so if like if their company would like strong cash And they don't have to borrow a lot of money to to grow and expand they perform better But if they're a tech company that has to borrow a lot of money to grow and expand then they don't perform as well So this is a good long-term investment. Honestly Bosnian writer. Yes, sir Um, the other ticket we got is core. Let's check that out What is this global infrastructure trust?  It's like kick around man This ticker is as bad as that main character from squid games It's pathetic Just kidding. Just kidding. Oh my god kip. You haven't seen it yet kip is sitting here. He's like man This guy's been talking about squid games for three days.  It's the way you just like squirt ink at people's face Yo, uh, let me ask does anybody have a bakery? Does anybody have a bakery or like a bulgur shop or anything? I think I have to have them have the smartest like idea right now Pretty interesting setup. Um, we got a little bit bottom here on the on the downside So four dollars are pretty pretty good buying area considering the move Um upside potential kind of aligns with the moving average as well It is about like five fifties So even at the range right now past potential for that dollar move good risk and reward Secret unless I can profit from it is a secret So pretty interesting. Um, the only other thing is anytime you see something that says global Wait, is this global? Let me look up this company. Oh, it's not global So it's probably focused on acquiring the financing mistream downstream real estate assets This is not like Super in terms of infrastructure is more like I think I like IEA a little bit better Because this company is more of like The reason is so beat up Because it's involving the mistream downstream Um, those are like the oil pipelines and stuff. So Like, you know, obviously we've seen some companies recover. We've seen like companies like xom recover pretty well but at the end of the day like Last year these companies got wrecked and Like if we were to truly value xom xom is somewhere around the 40s like 35 to 40 45 dollar area. That's probably the true value around for xom Um, because even though they like even though the oil market is doing good right now The u.s. Oil market went into the negative last year. So a lot of them, you know, not only didn't make money They have to pay money for other people to take the oil out so that's why a lot of the mistream and Stream company got wrecked as well because they didn't make any money either So like in terms of infrastructure, like they're just really holding the bags honestly of these oil companies I don't even know if they're gonna come back from that. It's it's tough. It's like, what's the what's the margins? Depth to equity like 35 x so How's that possible? So revenue growth is negative 86 percent, you know, so it's pretty ugly, right? I don't even know how the depth equity is 35 x man. That's crazy Um, yeah, let's take a look at the youth that mentioned that earlier. I'm sorry. I didn't put it on the sheet must have missed it buzzer Roku To the moon man, no trend line there would have love for it to come down a little bit more but This baby didn't want to come down We set that trend. What am I drawing? This thing moves the same way the market does What am I drawing? This is just like the spx. It's pretty similar in a way so, I mean At the end of the day if you're bullish on etsy Be bullish on the market, I guess For pretty similar move a lot of stuff for making the similar move It's got a little bit more upside potential though Maybe amazon. How about Shopify? That was a weird spike that it had over here I couldn't figure that out But a lot of the similar move honestly So if you're bullish on it, just look for that same, you know The same move on spy because I guess spy, you know, finally showed that reversal confirmation So now everything is looking like that nice reversal confirmation to the upside Uh pins Wow, so pins kind of topped around here Um coming back down a lot Didn't make us much big of a move as spy did Um honestly So it's been dropping since the earnings Could potentially set up for a reversal or some for another even facebook is setting up a little bit nicely Potential run into er. It's a little bit far away though. That's like we got a whole month man Um november 4th So if we're looking for a year of run, I probably do it like the week before or maybe two weeks before but right now It's really far away Have a bigger set up over here Probably shortened that trend line there So that later on when we're looking for exits, uh, that's probably a good area looking for exits Hmm Ha ha look I was able to build a shitty pattern out of it I did it after all This pattern looks good Yo, if I was playing switch games, man It'd be over for everybody So pretty interesting setup. Um, this could be the potential. It's a good move Um, there's opportunity for for a good move to the upside I can even see a price target around 57 so 56 So kind of aligned with one of the moving averages here We just need some confirmation. Um, honestly, we need a break above 54 To really confirm the bullish move And I don't think we have that yet maybe like 54 is like 100% Um, 50 53 22 is one of the resistance we're looking for the break above Um, if we can if we can get that confirmation Above it, that's probably a good area to get in. I mean you can try to crapshoot it now It's at a reasonable risk in war area to crapshoot it now if you want um What are we looking at? What's our price target price target would be 56 Um, if I were to to like take a random shot at it, so Let me see if I can build that up. I got you kid. I'm gonna take a look at chris a little bit I'm not looking at snap interest When is the earnings Earnings is an November 4th Okay, so the earnings is an November 4th. Um, if you want to do a naked call Can take the 55 dollar strike But if it doesn't make a move But in this time frame gonna get iv burn That's gonna be pretty ugly. So we don't want that. Um, probably do a bull call spread If we're looking if you're looking for er run, this is the best case scenario right here Take it from 52 to 56. That's a four dollar opportunity Right four dollar opportunity. Um The cost is a dollar 40 149 And if it makes that move to to the say 56 It makes that move to 56 You'll make 50% easily at any given time from now to like end of the month And then if it makes that move as we get very very close to the earnings date You're gonna be banking it, you know, you're gonna turn 100 and you're gonna risk 150 dollars and you're gonna earn at least 124 to 200 plus So really good risk and reward there Nice potential, uh, if you're looking for er run, so that's a call spread full call spread And then obviously if it goes above that even further you can make a lot more money too And and so 56 is the first target If we start a move to the upside hell man, you know, even make the move to like 60s, right? So that can be another target as well a lot of potential targets November and November 4th is a lot of times whole month out I like this play though. I think I might set this up for myself tomorrow too Um, so looking at 52 to 56 56 Yeah, that's a good one. Thanks for bringing that up to our attention, man. Appreciate it. So good setup Potential move to 56 UAVS, yo, I haven't looked at that stock in a while. Let me take a look And then for some of you guys that are new if you're on the youtube side, we're talking to people on the twitch side mostly Um, so if you guys on the youtube side check out this link for the docs I'm gonna be excited. Oh no Am I?  That's why I ran the stream for too long Talk to me kip. What are we looking at? We're looking for this downtrend pattern Yeah, I built this support from here. This is where I'm building this to support from So let me cross it over So I'm building this support from the highs of last year Which is at 314, right? So All right. See you later. Arby niggle. Thanks for stopping by buddy It's uh, this is a this is a big Uh, this is one of the stocks in the russells. It typically runs pretty well with the russells, but it's been on this downtrend all year long Um, you know, there was a while ago. I had this big hype um With the whole like drone system and things like that. I think that's some government contracts as well so So it's pretty interesting. Um, is this could I mean are we looking at short squeeze potential here? uavs let me see Oh, no, nothing no information on this. So I mean it's so cheap. Why not right? Why not? And you know what I already have a position at 315 So I do have position in this actually Um, I did start the position at the double bottom of um of this So when we when we had this bottom here on october 1st, I started the position already But you know, obviously that position is not working so well So that was a few days ago, you know, um when it was over here So i'm not doing so well right now It's a little bit high that day It's a 305 but if you're looking for a short squeeze why not um first target at 316 second target at 344 That's pretty much it guys. I'm gonna end it here. We found some really good tickers I like a I like to set up on a and like to set up on pinterest So shout out to those guys For for bringing that to our attention. I appreciate that And you know, hopefully we all get this money together and make money. Yeah Take care guys Have a good night I'll be back here tomorrow around four Thank you guys for stopping by And hanging out with us Not Friday my man It does because we had such a good move today


Well, hello and welcome to Understand Men. Now I'm Jonathan Asley of johnthasley.com and I'm so excited to be doing this short video for you today. Our topic, the six feminine traits men find irresistible. We're gonna talk about that in a second. Really quickly, if you're brand new to my YouTube channel, please hit the subscribe button, hit the bell so you can be notified of new videos. And if any time during this video, the content resonates with you, please hit that like button so I can be seen in the YouTube algorithms.  It's direct, a little tough love and a lot of heart. And occasionally I use expletives to enhance a sentence. So if an F-bomb or two isn't your cup of tea, I suggest logging off right now. Lastly, these are my thoughts, my perceptions, my opinions, by no means do I suggest this is the truth. You have to decide the truth for yourself. I'm a bit of a contrarian. So my advice goes contrary to public opinion and traditional expectations. All right, let's talk about those six feminine traits that men find irresistible. All right, so here's the thing. If you follow me, most of you know, I'm not a big fan of the whole masculine and feminine energy rhetoric for a variety of different reasons because I don't believe energy can be quantified in this sense of polarity within individuals. And what I mean to say is, I think if you're trying to find, if you happen to be a woman who's 80% feminine and you're trying to find a man who's 80% masculine, I just don't think that's even possible to try to line this up in some sense of polarity. So that's just an opinion I have with respects to masculine and feminine energy. In addition, a lot of advice that's geared around this rhetoric, by the way, is my live stream working because I'm noticing that the counter isn't going up. So I'm just checking in with you guys. Is this actually working? Please post a comment. Please post a comment. Let me know it's working. All right, really quickly. So coming back to this rhetoric, okay, good, is this idea that a woman needs to be in her feminine energy and a man is in her, his masculine energy. Okay, well, to me, masculine is doing and feminine is receiving, okay? But I don't think a woman could just sit there and be in receptive, receptive, receptive mode. Okay, it's just impossible.   But no, Jonathan, that's called femininity. No, it's just, remember, masculine is doing and then feminine is receiving. So I just wanna create some clarity around this language. So you might be wondering, why am I doing a topic about femininity or feminine traits? Well, it's because I do believe there's a difference between femininity and masculinity, okay? I'm not saying masculine energy or feminine energy. I'm saying femininity and masculinity. And a really easy way to look at this would be that femininity is soft and sexy and masculinity is strong and sexy, okay? That's the way I view it.  That's femininity. And when a man gets dressed up in his nice suit and tie, that's masculinity. That's the way I look at it. I think we should, as men and women, be okay with wanting to emphasize our traditional expectations around gender. What I'm not a big fan of some of the traditional expectations around gender, which is very egoic. And a lot of egoic men are seeking feminine energy woman. But what that really means that feminine energy is that you're submissive, that you can easily be controlled, that you're overly agreeable, okay? I know a lot of people are talking about this idea that women need to be agreeable. Well, I think men need to be agreeable too. To be in a healthy relationship, it's good to mutually agree on things. Not to submit your boundaries. It's more, so that's why I'm tired of this whole masculine and feminine rhetoric because there's no way to quantify it. Wait, let me see. Today, I'm 72% masculine, I'm 28% feminine. No, I'm 97 masculine percent today, but I need to find a woman.  Now, I'm all in favor for yin and yang terminology, yin and yang, but truthfully within ourselves we should find our yin and yang. Find that balance between being able to give and to be able to receive, to be able to do and to be able to receive.  Yeah, when he's chasing sex, you might do that, but I don't think that's in your best interest either. That's just how I feel about it. So coming back to why am I doing this topic? Well, because I think there are some, and where's my notes? Oh, I think what's going on in our world today is an actual depressing lack of, there's basically what I heard this from a podcast today. She called it an intimacy famine we're in. We're in an intimacy famine. And what I mean to say is people are thirsty for intimacy. Into me you see, to really connect because, and I was listening to another podcast today, two different podcasts, they were talking about how literally up until about a hundred years ago, human beings predominantly had to worry about their basal needs being met. In other words, their need of those basic Maslow hierarchy needs of food, water, shelter. And that was their predominant experience was having to focus on that. And now we can go to a grocery store to get food. We can go to our tap to get water. And for the most part, most people have a roof over their heads, even homeless people have a tent. A lot of people, not all, but at least the tent city there seems to be. So we as human beings are spending more time in our head. So the wars we used to be to defend ourselves from others from a tribal perspective is now the war we're having in our head around our emotions. And sadly, because we no longer live in tribe type of environments, we don't have the people around us to support us from an emotional perspective, many of us are stuck in our heads all day long with our emotions. And what's happening particularly because of COVID, a lot of people are having a famine of intimacy, of real connection with human beings. And that's what I wanna draw attention to. And the problem is these devices have created a false sense of intimacy with a lot of people. And then there's this false sense of intimacy in relationship because of these devices. And God forbid, and I had this happen just this past weekend, a miscommunication via text messaging. And I'll be candid with you, I overreacted to a misunderstanding and boy, did it blow up from what could have been a potential opportunity to a completely imploding because these devices don't necessarily properly articulate what were, my thumbs aren't the best indicator of my level of communication. Look at my hands, my eyes, my facial expressions, my pheromones, they're all part of the equation. So you're kinda wondering why it's so difficult to connect with people because all we're left with is our devices. And it's making it very difficult to actually meet these days. Well, let me retract that. By the way, my copy mug says let's just keep swimming from Dory. I'll be doing that or from finding Nemo. So coming back to these devices, you know, while they create a great opportunity to connect to people that you wouldn't otherwise meet in your daily life, it's also creating a distressing lack of dependency on these devices. And as I said earlier, I don't think humans were prepared. You'll think about it, electricity is only a hundred years old, give or take.  I don't think we were prepared for this invasion of our lives the way it's literally permeated in our lives. When you think about it for thousands and thousands of years, there wasn't any of this. For thinking about, I think caveman, you know, the Anderthal goes back 200, 300,000 years. I don't know exactly someone could find out for me, but we were prepared for all of this technology and it's making it increasingly hard to connect at a heart-centered level with people. This is why if you wanna read an amazing book, I was listening, I gotta tell you, I was reading this earlier today or listening to it online. The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer. I highly, highly recommend reading this book. It will change your life. It will change your life. And you may have to read it over and over again to get it. And you might have to buy it and then purchase the audio as well because it is like listening. It's like reading a book underwater, covered in molasses and swimming in spaghetti. It's that thick. I don't mean thick. I mean deep. It's like being in the Marianas trenches. And it's a lifesaver. It's a game changer, especially for learning how to, coming back to what my book is called, What the Heck Is Self-Love? Anyway, A Journey of Personal Development, Self-Alp in Spiritual Work. And I'm saying all this, I know I haven't gotten to the point of this topic. I'm saying all this because folks, my job, my job as a coach is to, my profession is help you learn how to ask better questions in the early stage of dating. So you avoid going out with the wrong person and actually become a magnetic attractor for the right person. Check out the link to a free discovery call with me to see if working with a coach is right for you. My other role here on my YouTube channel is to encourage, continually encourage personal development, personal development, personal development, personal development, self-help, self-help, self-help, spiritual work, spiritual work, spiritual work. Why?  And sadly, most humans have terrible relationship skills. If you follow my channel, you see my relationship chart. By the way, this is not a fact, it's an opinion, but I believe 20% of the human population, at least here in the United States, has real weak, they have clinical issues going on with them that affects their relationship and emotional maturity. And while I say there's 20% that are healthy, I'm being rather generous when I say 20%, most humans are dysfunctional. And you wonder why the divorce rate is 50% for most marriages. Second marriage is divorce rate, 65%. Third marriage is 75%. You would think you would be better after you've done it once. And think about those that are still married, half of them are miserable. They're going to couples counseling. And you know what happens at couples counseling? They're sitting there looking at the counselor going fix my partner. And the other person's looking at fix my partner. It starts with fixing yourself. Learning, read the books I recommend, Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Roseberg, The Hoffman Process at the Buddha Dated, Mating and Captivity, Just to Name a Few, Getting the Love You Want by Harvelle Hendricks, Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Eller. And I highly recommend Reading Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? If it is, hit that like button right now or post a comment. Because my goal is to awaken most people up to doing something differently. So, what's irresistible to guys? One of those six things. You can mark it right now, 13 minutes and 20 seconds is when I get started. Well, I've got my trusty notes and I just wanna say this. Egoic-based men and women operate from a place of emotional fear, emotional fear. What I'm talking about in a few minutes or starting now for the next few minutes is what emotionally healthy people are seeking in both men and women alike. What I'm gonna share, the six traits is not feminine or masculine.  It's not male or female.  I know the title was to get you in but what you have to learn is what I'm gonna share is men gotta be doing this too. Okay, number one. And it's the biggest one of all. Kindness and appreciation. Kindness and appreciation. You know, I once had a first date some years back and I met her at a restaurant for drinks. Well, actually I thought it was drinks.   And I mean, I saw it coming in. It was like the thickness of it was like permeating for 20 feet and there was a level of contempt on her face. And when she sat down at the bar, she goes, oh, I thought we were having dinner. Now that should have been my clue to get up and say we're done but the people please are in me sucked it up. And what ended up being is almost a $200 dinner and drinks and that was cheaper than therapy because it was miserable. I thought we were gonna have World War III. But frankly, she lacked kindness and appreciation and actually her lack of it brought out my lack of kindness and appreciation. So I've gotta take ownership in my part. There is nothing more beautiful than being with a woman or man who's genuinely kind and who's genuinely appreciative of another person's efforts. I mean, it saddens me how many people go on first dates and their lack of kindness. It's like most people these days oftentimes seem to go on a first date with a level of contempt and part of it is if you've gone on one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 19, 20 or more first dates in your life and feeling like it's gone nowhere, it's not hard to feel a level of contempt. So it's obvious to me that kindness and appreciation is a irresistible trait. And I know it's obvious to you too. Number two, intelligence. There's something sexy about a man or woman who is educated, thoughtful, witty and can hold their own in conversation. The most recent Matrix movie, Matrix 4 said ideas are the new sexy. I gotta tell you something as a single man out there I am thirst, my oxygen is the desire to talk to someone at a sapio sexual level, at a level of ideas. And to explore ideas, not from a place of ideologies that are so rigid, masks, no masks, Democrats, Republicans, vaccine, no vaccine. And then to be at odds with one another is absolutely exhausting. But maybe you have differences but exploring it from a place of curiosity. Why would this other person have a difference than my opinion? And I'm gonna listen to that person's difference. And I'm gonna accept it to be true for them. That is sexy because that takes intelligence, a thoughtfulness and to have that witty conversation. I mean, anyway, that's where I operate. I don't know where you stand, but that's where I stand. I gotta sneeze, by the way, excuse me. I don't know if it's dusty here or not. Okay, number three, open-mindedness flexible and down to earth. Oh my God, I've gone out with women who are so rigid. Well, this is my boundary and this is my standard.  And that's not very sexy. That's not irresistible. Men like women, we can say, hey, let's do this instead of that. And it's okay to offer your suggestions too. Excuse me, I'm yelling. By the way, I know I've had people say, Jonathan, you yell too much, but I'm passionate about this. I'm passionate. I feel like I'm that parent telling their child, don't touch fire, don't touch fire, don't touch fire.  If I could be there on a first date for you and I'd have the shotgun pointed at the guy's nose and say, what's your intentions with my little sister? That's my, so I'm a little bit passionate. But I did catch myself screaming there. So, number four, this is one of my favorites. She knows herself and she expresses herself. This is coming back to the self-love piece, the untethered soul piece. This is about really knowing who you are.  We oftentimes question, who am I? Why am I here? What's this all for? And someone who actually explores those questions about themselves. That's why I recommend these books. These are brilliant books to get to. By the way, here's a great book that really helps you get to know yourself. Spiritual Partnership by Gary Zukoff. He wrote the book, Seat of the Soul. Do you see that up top, Seat of the Soul? That is a great book to get to know yourself as well as many of the other books I recommended earlier. Emotional intimacy, getting the love you want. And I'm mentioning these because I invite you to really lean into knowing who you are. And then being able to express yourself because that is irresistible. Now, I don't mean vomiting yourself, that's not very sexy, vomiting your feelings, but leaning into your truth and speaking to it from a kind place. Because if it's searing from sincere and from the heart, you really can't say the wrong thing to the right person. Number five, this is said over and over again. Standards and boundaries, whether you're a man or woman, setting healthy standards for yourself and healthy boundaries, that demonstrates confidence and that you're comfortable in your own skin. And lastly, but not least, masculine or feminine, male or female trait is generosity. I've shared this story before. It's a first date story where I went out with this woman. I've shared it many times. And we went to a dye bar for our first date. It was a lot of fun, a lot of fun people there. And I paid for the first round. I gave like a $20 bill. It was time for our second round of drinks. And she pulls out her credit card and I said, I've got it. She goes, no, I have it. I go, no, I have it. And she goes, I got it. And we got into a pissing match and I know the feminine energy coaches. She was in her masculine trying to control things. Oh my, fuck, I gotta work out some more because my hands, my arms were wobbly.  She put her hand on my arm and she looked me straight in the eye and said, Jonathan, I really appreciated that you treated that first round. Will you allow me to show my appreciation and treat you this round because I think you're worth it? Can you receive? I was floored in that moment. What generosity, what partnership, what kindness? She wasn't trying to get anything from me. She was saying, I'm part of this process with you. Probably one of the most generous experiences I've ever had and I've had many generous experiences. But what I appreciate most was she was saying, you're worth it. And sadly, humans seem to operate from a place of what I can get versus what I can give. And I shared this story to a men's group I belong to, 15,000 men in the group, over 1,000 guys commented and said, she's one of a kind. She's a keeper. She's a unicorn. Don't let her go. And while it didn't work out, it was a long distance. You know how I feel about long distance. Generosity starts on the very first date. And I'm a big proponent of men and women alike operating from a place of generosity. Are you with me? If you are, give me an amen. All right, so just to repeat, those six feminine traits that men find irresistible. And by the way, men do this as well that women find irresistible as kindness and appreciation, intelligent, open-mindedness, knows themselves, express themselves, standards and boundaries, and lastly, generosity. Ah, I'm already getting the amen. So thank you. Thank you, Roller-Goer, oh, Mary Ann. All right, well that wraps up our content portion. Now we're gonna get into the Q&A. If you're watching this live, if you're live watching this program, there's a little chat box there. If you have a question for me, write the word question, post the question there after, or you can purchase a Super Sticker Super Chat with the little dollar sign there below. All the monies from the Super Sticker Super Chat goes to a scholarship fund in the name of my son, Connor Asley. That's a picture of him there. He's my son who passed away a few years ago and in his honor, I've started a scholarship fund to defray the cost of personal development and also to donate to causes like the Hoffman process and Insight Seminars. Everyone write this down. If you're listening to the replay or if you're watching the live, write this down. Insightsseminars.org, seminars plural.  They are an amazing organization, an amazing organization to help you really, their Insight Seminar One is about connecting with your heart and I gotta tell you, it is life changing and it can be done online now and it's very incredibly reasonably priced. They're a beautiful organization. I'm gonna donate some money for all the superstickers we get today. So please check out Insightsseminars.org. All right, we've got questions and we've got Heather here. Hey, Heather, question. Do you think people are too strict dating nowadays, long checklist and standards too high? You know, it's tough on this one, Heather, because I'm a believer. Oh, by the way, if you haven't read the book Two Dates by Neil Clark Warren. Now he started eHarmony. I'm not recommending eHarmony, okay? Whether you like them or not, I'm not here to endorse it. But he had this idea that if you took compatibility with chemistry, you're gonna have greater chance for success and there's 25, where's the chapter? Bear with me, 25 most important must-haves in a relationship for relationship success, okay? 25 most popular must-haves. The more you're aligned with the person, the more aligned Heather you are with the person, the greater chance you have for relationship success. So I'm not so certain that it doesn't. So in my coaching program, we come up with a questionnaire for you to ask men based on your personality. And now here's the thing. It's done very conversationally. But let me give an example of this. Now, I'm gonna catch some flak for saying this. But let's say you love Bernie Sanders and AOC and you would die on the sword for that part of the Democratic Party, okay? And you meet a guy online, he's got cute picture. You saw his picture, he's really cute. And he loves Donald Trump and would die on the sword for Donald Trump and all of the way he thinks and you like. Do you think these two people share the same values? Probably not. So when you want that question asked, what about the person that totally believes in vaccines and wants to be quadruple, triple facts and they wanna murder masks in bed while they're making love to you. And the other person will never get masks or get vaccines in their life. Do you think they're gonna get along with each other? Probably not. So yeah, you might wanna ask a few questions to see if you line up together. Now, at least Neil Warren says it takes 20, you have to know the 25, the more you're aligned in these 25 areas, the less likely you're to get divorced. So I leave it up to you, you've gotta decide how many questions are important for you. Because here's the bottom line. Love doesn't make a relationship work. Compat, let's put you to the side. Chemistry, well, let's go to the chemistry thing. Most everybody operates this way, my relationship iceberg. Chemistry, this is an iceberg, the chemistry is above the waterline. That's where we feel attraction. But compatibility is shared values, blendable lifestyles and emotional maturity. You could share the same lifestyles, share the same values, but if the person is emotionally immature, it ain't gonna work out. Or if you have terrible relationship skills, it ain't gonna work out. So I'm a big proponent of finding this stuff out and that's what I teach in my coaching. So Heather, I think you know how I stand with that. I love your question, I really appreciated it. I know you followed up by saying Seinfeld ruined it for me. She eats her peas one at a time, I get it. Those are being picky. Do you share the same values? Are your lifestyles blendable? And most importantly, are they emotionally mature? Great question, Heather, thank you so much. All right, let's go swimming. Let's go swimming. Lynn writes, question, have you had any weird or funny responses when you have been asked what commitment looks like to them? Okay, so here's the thing. I've noticed this as a dating and relationship coach. I work with about 50 to 80 women a year in my program.  Then they go through my proprietary coaching program. In fact, one of the first things they do is describe their ideal relationship on day one. Then they go through my proprietary program I created and at the end they have to come up with their new relationship desires. And can you guess what every woman says to me at the end of my coaching program? By the way, link below to schedule a discovery call with me. They all say the same thing. Jonathan, why didn't they teach me this in school? Jonathan, why didn't my parents teach me this? Jonathan, why didn't I learn this before I married the wrong guy? Folks, most men and women don't know what they want. Now, I'm very crystal clear, I say this in most videos. I'm looking for, and this is just a sample of what I'm looking for. Actually, let me read to you my match.com profile. You might get a kick out of this. So, let's go swim in. I'm gonna read you my match.com profile. This kind of illustrates it. Let me start with the following. I would like to get remarried or at least live together and I'm seeking a woman who feels the same. For me, this isn't about growing old with someone. I wanna grow in life and love with a special woman. Plus I promise my next partner emotional maturity, lots of great sex, chocolate massages, flirty text messages, poetry, travel, and tacos on Tuesday, how does that sound? The reason why I'm on this dating site as well as a few others is that I'm using any tool to connect with my soulmate and life partner.  I hope you feel the same, is that a deal?  Do you feel the same way? If yes, drop me a note if there's mutual connection, meaning we are attracted to each other's profiles, let's talk, and that goes both ways. The way I describe myself is an outwardly looking alpha male with a big teddy bear heart. Maybe I'd say I'm a good guy with an edge and yet I'm human with insecurities or dare I say flaws. What freaks me out most is condiments. I can't stand to be near catch up or mustard and yet what I can do is hold your heart like a precious jewel as both your lover and heart protector. Professionally, I'm a writer, speaker and coach choosing to be more of service than chasing egoic power because I wanna spread a message of self-love to all who are suffering. Ideally, I'd like to meet a conscious and powered inquisitive woman who is a combination of feminine and masculine. There I said it. In the sense she is both a giver and a receiver. She has a big heart that yearns to be expressed with emotional maturity and she's capable of truly opening her heart to love. She is either an empty nest or no children with the time to explore and play in the depths of love.  She's financially independent and she also has a generous sharing nature. My hope is when we see each other's profiles, we say, wow, as if we'd known each other for a lifetime and she or I will reach out with a heartfelt message expressing desire to connect. She believes the mating dance is a two lane street and she is confident within herself to approach the process with love in her heart. Once we connect here, let's get off the phone to hear each other's voice and then plan on meeting. As I said before, I'm not here to waste your time. No pressure when we meet because this isn't a sprint. The path to love and partnership is a gentle, beautiful connected dance of mind, body, spirit and emotions. Lastly, if you recognize me from YouTube or Apple podcast, yes, it's me and yes, I want a serious relationship. By the way, here are just some of the feelings I hope we experienced together. Desire, respect, emotional safety, acceptance, teamwork, curiosity, luxury, rootedness, depth, fun, play, laughter, spontaneity, intimacy and passionate, passionate, passionate connection. Thank you kindly for taking the time to read this far. Yes, I'm a graduate of the Hoffman process and insight one, two, three. One more thing, and this is a tough one to share. My youngest son at 19 passed away in the summer of 2018. So please be gentle with my heart as it is a bit tender. Folks, that didn't take five minutes to write. That's taken me a lifetime to determine what I'm truly seeking. And I've shared this before and I'll share it again. I'm seeking a relationship where we spend, coming back to your question, where we spend three or four days and nights a week together doing shared activities, hobbies, mutual interests, spending time with family and friends, traveling together, teamwork, building skills, both in our personal and professional life. Intimacy, both physical and emotional intimacy, that as I said before, leading to either living together or getting married. Folks, I want you to think of it this way.  There's my calendar, okay? Well, that's actually my calendar, okay? I want you to think of, put this person on your calendar. What are you doing on Monday? Are you just talking on the phone? What are you doing on Tuesday? Are you grabbing an ice cream or going to watch the sunset at the beach like where I live? What are you doing on Wednesday? What are you doing on Thursday? Are you spending Friday and Saturday together? Are you visiting friends? Are you going on a road trip to Santa Barbara, San Diego? Or maybe up to the mountains? What are you doing? Are you hanging out with friends? Are you going to weddings? What are you doing together? Well, Jonathan, I'm in a long distance relationship and we spend all day talking on the phone, on the phone, on the phone, on the phone, on the phone. Guys and gals, men don't bond through the telephone the same way you do. We bond through activities. I can't remember. I only remember one phone call I've ever gotten in my life. The day my son passed away, it's the only phone call I'll never forget. But I remember that time my ex-girlfriend and I went to Chicago. I remember those trips we went to New York. I remember the time we went to Vancouver. I remember the Burning Man party we went to. I remember so many different experiences. I don't remember phone calls. Why is it I don't remember phone calls? Oh, because that's not an experience. Folks, if you want a relationship, it's time to experience it outside of these devices. So I invite you to describe what are you looking for?  And that's why in the last two weeks, two weeks today, I've had four clients reach out to me. They're in happier relationships. I've shared these pictures already with you guys. Here's one of them, she got engaged. Here's another one. They're together, here's another one. Oh wait, that's the other way. Here's another one, whoosh. Don't want to show it. That's just three pictures out of four. I am blessed to help you truly figure out who's right for you. Lynn, that was a long-winded answer to your question. Let me know, did this resonate with you? Any of you, did this resonate with you? Say yes, Jonathan, that resonated with me and say thank you. All right, Lynn, thank you so much for that question, giving you a big, gigantic Jonathan Bear hug. And by the way, most women don't seem to know what commitment looks like for them.  Women don't know and guys don't know because men are winging it, they're winging it, they're winging it. Ladies, before the penis goes inside the vagina, read the book, eight dates, that's a great blueprint for figuring out the answer to all these questions. Will you do it? Please let me know. All right, oops. Woo-hoo. All right, thanks again so much, Lynn, I appreciate it. All right, let's, oh, Cindy, thank you for the super sticker, big hugs to you. By the way, that's super stickers for the Connor Asley Scholarship Fund. Thank you so much. Ah, let's go swimming. All right, Holly says yes, thank you. Colleen says yes, thank you. Roller girl, she's given me a bunch of high fives there. Thank you so much. All right, question. From a guy's point of view, do guys ever wanna go back with their exes to work it out and not just for sex? Well, here's the thing. There's a reason why you broke up. The sad part is going back is usually because of an attachment to that other person. If you're not familiar with the book attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, I highly recommend reading this book because oftentimes the reason why people are stuck with each other because of a love attachment style or something else known as the Amago, the Amago, read the book, Getting the Love You Want by Harvelle Hendricks and Helen Hunt. Why? The Amago is basically we oftentimes choose people similar to one or both of our parents. Men typically choose women that represent their mother and women choose men that represent their father. Not the good parts of that, the unhealthy parts to heal with our parents. So to answer your question, Heather, yes, men may want to go back beyond the sex, but it's usually if they haven't addressed the main core issue why they broke up, it's going to be oftentimes a problematic situation. So might temporarily work out in the short run, but think about this. Why do second marriages divorce at a 65% rate? Humans are bad at picking people.   I've had to study these books over and over and over again. And sadly today we're meeting, what are we meeting? We're meeting total strangers. We're meeting total strangers. It's hard. So what happens is we figure we've go back, it's like my son who plays, I remember the time Colin wanted to get a, there's Colin, by the way, him and I, he moved in nearby. We get to hang out together. We went to the jacuzzi today. Very blessed, but I remember the time when he was 14 and this, I'll get to a point that relates to this. Had to get this video game. He had to get this video game. He had to get this video game. And we stood out line till midnight to get the video game. And he played it and he played it and played it and played it until a new video game came out. And the video game went on the shelf. And I asked him, do you ever play that old video game? He goes, yeah, when I'm feeling lonely and bored. He didn't say it that way. That's my interpretation related to this conversation. That's what oftentimes happens when we feel lonely and bored. We go back to what is familiar. And sadly, it doesn't mean from a healthy place. So coming back to your question, Heather, that's my perception of what happens. Doesn't necessarily mean they're gonna work it out. So how do you make it work it out?  Heather, thank you so much for that question. All right. What is Leaf says, a lifetime well-discovered and conveyed in five minutes. Thank you. Oh, you're talking about my, what I'm seeking in relationship. Holly says, Jonathan, straight and to the point. Thank you. Roller girl says, beautiful writing. Thank you so much. Roseanne says, loved it. Thank you so much. All right, let's see what other questions we have. DD says, if someone doesn't wanna talk about commitment and that is what you're looking for and they don't wanna discuss it in the common sense, is there not for you my thought anyway? Look it. There's different kind of relationships out there. There are friends with benefits. There's situationships. There's casual relationships. And then there's those that are gonna lead to partnership. The reason why I have a lot of short-lived relationships, short-lived experiences, is none of the women I've met in the last couple of years are partnership material. Now, I gotta be candid with myself. I think I've been very closed off the last few years.  If I'm being really honest with myself. In fact, I was listening this morning to chapter seven. Well, let's go to Untethered Soul. It really helped me recognize this. I'm gonna find the chapter. But chapter six, the secret of a spiritual heart, chapter seven, transcending the tendency to close. Chapter eight, let go now and fall. Chapter nine, removing the inner thorn. If I'm being very genuine and honest with myself, I've had a very closed heart the last few years. And that's why most women don't get a third date with me. Couple of the women I wanted a third date but they didn't want it with me. But I mean, I meant to say women aren't getting a second date with me. And I'm now recognized that it's time to let go of the pain. It's time to let go of the fear because I have been afraid. I've been afraid of getting hurt again if I'm being really honest with myself and with everyone here. So I'm sharing this and I now can't remember the original question. I'm sharing this because I think most people are experiencing something along the same line of a closed heart. And as I shared earlier in the broadcast, I think we're also feeling an intimacy famine. By the way, I didn't coin that. I heard that on a podcast today. I really do believe there's this deep well of a lack of feeling a sense of connectivity and intimacy with people. So I make a prayer for myself and all of you. And I pray that I meet that special woman where we do have that energetic connection that we meet and that we have that level of communication where the banter can go on for hours and hours of the time. And we have that sense of the ability to blend lives with each other and that we share the same values with one another and that we have passionate attraction for one another and we have intellectual stimulation with one another and we feel that level of desire to go deeper than the surface and that we can build something together because we're going to co-create the relationship because it isn't about one person leading, it's about both being an active participant in the process and my desire and my invitation for myself and everyone else that you experience what you desire most as I've just shared what I desire most. And that's my invitation and commitment to all. Thank you for allowing you to share. Ah, did I answer your question, TD? So coming back to if someone doesn't wanna talk about commitment, that's what you'd get if you dated me.  Don't waste your time. Spend your time with people who genuinely, genuinely know what they want. That's my invitation. Thank you so much, TD. I appreciate it. All right. Wow. Marianne says, oops, thank you, amen. I appreciate that. Leif says, beautifully vulnerability lesson by role model example, Jonathan. Thank you very much. My pleasure. Ah, Holly says, amen. Jennifer says, we all want someone who we can fully be ourselves with exactly. Exactly. All right, we're gonna take one more question. Oh, Grace says, of course, it's been a rough time for you, Jonathan, prayers and big hugs. Thank you so much. I appreciate that. Roller Girl says, you putting up walls. Exactly, I did. Heather says, I love you mentioned teamwork. I really enjoy that my ex and I worked together on our individual projects. It was fun and the connection became so much deeper. Thank you so much, Heather. I appreciate that. All right, I think this will be the last question for the night. Question, the guy I'm dating sends me Spotify playlist but won't commit to a monogamous relationship. I can't tell if he really likes me. That's interesting. Ask him, do you like me? Ask him, what do you want?  By the way, this fear of losing someone, look at you only lose the wrong person by not speaking up. I'm gonna repeat that, you only lose the wrong person by not speaking up. Or did I say that? Let me reframe that. If it's sincere and from the heart, you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. So ask him, do you genuinely like me? Do you want to explore a fully committed relationship? Because if his penis is going inside his ear vagina, he's obviously getting all the cookies without having to do any more effort for it.  I started this podcast or this broadcast because I can't stand the feminine energy and the masculine energy rhetoric, although this is about femininity and masculinity. But what it is I shared before is really both men and women leaning into a relationship. And that's my invitation for you all.  Ladies, you give your power away to men and then you wonder why you're miserable. Stop doing it.  So like they said in the movie, Shawshank Redemption, get busy living or get busy dying. And Cameron, that's my invitation for you. Are you gonna do it? Give me an amen. All right, folks. I think this will be a good place to wrap up today. I hope you found, did you find value in this broadcast? Please write down, let me know. Hit that like button. Tell me you found value. Purchase a super sticker, super chat. I want to hear, please let me know or write a comment below. And if you need some support, check out the links below to a free discovery call by group called Midlife Love Mastery. And if I can be of service to you, I'm gonna do my best. All right, we're gonna wrap up this broadcast as I always do.  I'm gonna reach into the camera and give you a hug of love if that's okay. I'm gonna ask you to turn to someone. A pet, a teddy bear or pillow and give it or them a hug of love because hugs are a great source of love. And let's face it, we could all use more love in our lives. I wanna thank Kathy and Holly and Lexi and Nanette and Grace and Danielle and Leif and Kathy Ann and Denise and Grace.  I think I said that already. Everyone, purchase a super sticker before we wrap up to say thank you to Connor. Aslee, I'd be so grateful. And I'm wishing you a super duper, wonderful evening. Bye-bye now. Bye everyone. Lexi says I love your show. Holly says I love your videos. Teresa, Leif says thank you. Roller Girl says big hug. Thank you so much everyone. Bye now.


Welcome back to the Kathy Rayleigh show presented by Buffalo Wildwings I'm Sam Murray joined now with Stevenson women's lacrosse head coach Kathy Rayleigh and coach Face top seated 12th ranked messiah in the semifinals last week fifth straight air that you've seen them in the conference tournament Was close at halftime and then they kind of pulled away in the second half there Yeah, I'm getting kind of tired of messiah ending our season So we're gonna work really hard to make sure that doesn't happen again You know we played a great first half a lot of our shots didn't go our goalie made quise Their goalie made key saves our defense had great takeaways their defense had great take takeaways It was definitely a four to three game halfway in But then we really started to see the effects of having to play Saturday before and the Monday before so Anyone who plays in that play-in game on Monday? It makes it really tough to turn around on Wednesday and and play at that high level again Typically a coach wants a good solid-day arrest and maybe film review And then execution of what your game plan is we were not able to do that with messiah We had to utilize a day arrest because we had to be ready Somewhat legs on Wednesday, and you know, you know messiah didn't play on Saturday They didn't play on Monday and that really showed in the second half, you know with the heat being what it was I think that we will have a great solution to that With trying to increase our roster size next year Yeah, talking about that you only lose four this year a big hole in the defensive side with Jane Sheerings in the top ten in three different categories I think she ranks second and in calls turnovers. So talk about that How do you kind of like flip the page there and and get past messiah next year? Well, you know one of the greatest things I think about this year and one of the things that really made me the happiest if if you look at the Mac commonwealth stats and you look at who the top five people were and calls turnovers and in the Mac You're gonna see Jamie Bettner Sarah Rorty Gabby DeGello. So out of the top five we have three we represent three of the top five Nobody else has dual or two people and I think even in the top ten of a lot of those defensive stats So I feel very very good about the fact that not only Well, we have great players that are returning back on that defense But when there is a void of a leader of a captain Of somebody who just plays hard day in and day out with the kind of confidence that Jamie had I feel like when there's that void another player that we currently have will get exceptionally better to fill those shoes And I you know of all the teams in the Mac I think we have the most likely one or ones I should say to fill those shoes And then hopefully, you know, maybe have some younger players develop over the summer or have a freshman come in and Steal a spot maybe I don't see our defense our intensity and defense. I see it only improving and and that's due to you know A lot of Jamie's leadership and and I think a lot of the hard work of the girls around her. Yeah Well coach, thank you for taking time every week and sitting here and talking to me And wish you the best of luck with recruiting this summer and we'll see you back here next year Come back with a good tan and hopefully a lot of recruits. Here we go. Good. Thanks for coach Kathy Rayleigh I'm Sam Murray and this has been the Kathy Rayleigh show


Hi, I'm Leslie McVane, welcome to CTM Member Highlight. Today my guest is Bazia. Hi. Hi. From Project Bazia. That's correct. And do you want to let our audience know a little bit more about what Project Bazia does? And then we'll talk about some of the things you are doing. Already, Project Bazia is all about education and how the civic started for the South Sudanese community and then became globally of the all people who live in the United States through the system of this school, especially in the high school. We try to teach them how to understand American system. That's very important. Like back in Africa, we call, if you go to the party, do not sit down and watch. But a lot of time, the migrant came in a different background in this country because they speak two words of English. It doesn't mean that they understand. So if people who born in America still don't understand what the system looks like. So Project Bazia is all about education and how to be who you are and how to be succeed in the United States and be succeed in the global. That's what we're doing right now in high school here. Since I started between four year to five year, me and Arnie Smith working together. She's retired and teach in New Hampshire. And she moved here. And since she moved here, she made me through different education. I went to school to approve my English better, to do a lot. And today she's working together. But the goal of the project was it's all about education and how the student to be who they are. We are not coming to develop. A good self esteem. Self esteem. And to get putting them life in America in a better way. Because education is a key. And one of the things I keep telling people, not to tell people I have this education. When you have it in your daily life, the way you talk, the way you look at things, then you became educated. I wish when I go to apply for the job, I have to present the quality of education. But the quality of education correctly is supposed to be in the daily life. Well, I think that's wonderful. And you're doing this great work here. But you have not forgotten your African connections. And you've recently taken a trip back to Africa. Yeah, I did. Because almost a man believed until today. I know the politician who made us divided. But I believe we're all from Africa. That's the real story. And the world is changing. So my roots came from Africa. I'm originally from South Sudanese. If you go to my tribe Pacific, because Africa and I have this mentality, they say they have to ask you. If you say you're from South Sudan, they're still going behind. What's your tribe? I'm originally from Lua. I grew up in Wao. That's my home state. Because in South Sudan became a country in 2011 when they vote. We have 10 states originally. I'm not talking about what they're doing right now. But as they used to of South Sudan, became a nation, it was 10 states. I'm originally from Western Bacau. And I'm originally from South Sudan. I'm a Lua. But this trip took you somewhere that you're not so familiar with, to Malawi. Yeah, one of the reasons I went to Malawi, I met a good friend of mine. He's originally from Malawi in Maine. And it was through other friends who were talking about the Project Brazil. And he was one of the teachers, I believe, in South Sudan, education of South Sudan. Part of the project came through that. And they told him about there's a Project Brazil. So we met him on Miss Poland, imagine the way. And then we started talking. And I've never been in Malawi, to be honest. But I was attracted by Malawi behind. And I can say it's a younger country, or maybe the poor country in Africa. It's very small. But it's small. And I just, my heart grew up to that. And I tell him, I'm willing to go to a country. He was not even a believer. And I said, for my expectation of look at what I said, if I can't mean it, I don't say it. That's me. And you're working there and other places in Africa with young women to, what is the point of this or the purpose? Yeah, the trip was to start from Boston to UK, to South Africa. From South Africa is part of the project to connect with other girls, with other people because we write books. And especially there's a last book we did called Hippo. And we walked through that book. I've seen the book. And Ernest Mead, it's about, if the child doesn't born in America and you want to teach him English and you want to talk about it, it's no. We just feel like it's not making a sense. Why not we start with something when the child born, what he know? Right, that they're familiar with. We're familiar. And then later on he can know about it. It's not in other country. So that's one of the reasons we did that book. And this other book we did about it, talk about monkey, we use animal in that book. It's teaching a child how to be honest and how to be responsible. It's talk about friendship, how to understand who's your really true friend. We use on that book to teach kids and how to do the job correctly because you have to earn it. Sometimes people, they think just a job, be there from A to seven or whatever, it's not. What do you deliver between that hour? That was other book and a lot of people in the continent love it like Malawi in South Africa. Well, they're charming books. I wish we had copies to share with the audience. Yeah, I wish, yeah, yeah. Maybe all the time. Yes, and so one of the reasons you went was to distribute the book. The books. And Pacific was about Malawi. And we went to the village. We've been there for five days and we met close to 2,000 students. And we're expecting from this day we're there, we'll look what is going on, what is affecting them. And we're thinking to support them by October and we'll try to create a breakfast. Because really the kids in the village are behind because it's not really any good food for them. And I just feel like if they can't feed them, how they're gonna understand is cool. That's a major problem. Yeah, the other thing were working me and Arne Smith to approve the English level through the teacher and the grammar. And because a lot of them book right by people from Malawi. But we just said English is international language. So if you want to approve, you can be in the level of Malawi but it's still gonna connect yourself to America, to British to make your language be approved in the level of Malawi. If you go to other countries, you'll be able to speak better out to understand different accent. And you're working a lot with young girls. Is there a reason why you focused on that? Yeah, it's like I'm gonna use the chance to explain something very important for the man over the world. My mom was a woman, but we almost men have this wrong idea of the way I treat my mom different, the way I treat my woman different. But it's very close. In economic, our belief is strong. And one of the things, because if you look at the man, he almost like to talk about past, but the lady, they almost want to talk about future. So when I see what is happening in Africa, in my common sense, that's why I go back to what I just say earlier, education not to go tough before you're educated, but use that education in your daily life and where you operate the way you think and the way you see things what is going wrong. So I choose to have the young girl in the continent. So I have right now 23 in a different continent, Africa. Kenya, South Africa, South Sudan, North Sudan. It used to be one country, but now became two country. I have in Egypt, I have in Zimbabwe, I have in Cameroon. So I'm looking for 131. And I hope by 2020, we need to do something and keep down. And respecting maybe you can have Michelle Obama or maybe Oprah or maybe Serena William. Because those African lady who succeed in the level of globally in America or in other continent world. So I will help if one of them be there in that day. That's why the time to make the mission, or the mission statement of what we need to establish through the economic is all about education and how to change from academic to mechanic to hand job because hand job have money. And we're gonna be really very straight and I'll be happy to be part of it. All the girls in Africa. And I'll say to them very clear, I'm not a politician. I don't talk about religion, but I care about the young girls in Africa. And I wish I do my best. From now until 2020, we'll see whatever God gonna take us to it. And then back in this country, in this city, you've just moved your offices to the new immigration center. We wanna tell us a little bit about the center and why you decided to move there. Yeah, the center was in a good location close to the high school and we're there when they opened the ground. And the center that was there, Kingston, it came there. And one of the thing, it was kind of collaboration between African and American who raised in this state. And they came up with that idea to have a place, the old migrant Pacific in Contana, they can go to get help in English. And feel welcome. Feel welcome. Know that this was their place. There's a place for need. Right. So there's a real reason I accept to be there. And I wish through this, we're gonna do a lot. And since I'm here on TV, and I make sure everybody to come to the office anytime where I believe we're running six day in a week, only sign that we close our believes just in case. If you need any help, you can stop by there, you can ask any question, especially we're gonna focus on English and economic and especially in the business. Because really we need to change this community in a better way. Right. And this way you have collaboration with the other areas in the world where immigrants have come from. So that, you know, it's, there's more of a... That's correct. Yeah, we're gonna do something even through the WhatsApp. We're gonna connect other kids in other country to make sure. I did that a couple years ago when I was in Philadelphia. You know, like we have kids in high school, they have breakfast, they have dinner, and they see the complaint. So we tried to teach them something that was very interesting. We picked like 10 kids and we take them to Haiti. When they went to Haiti, the life there is different. So they never push it what they have in America. That's what's something amazing. So through this center we hope we're not gonna focus on in the level of, I mean, it's gonna be global just to motivate the kids how there are blessings in America and how we can change this blessing to other people in the continent. Right. And if people wanna get in touch with you. It's<PHONE_NUMBER>. Okay, that's great. And that's, as you say, the office is open 16 days a week. Yeah, 16 days a week, yeah. And they can come at any time. Anytime, because the purpose of the office is like I said in the beginning, we're gonna be focused more to make. Even in high school right now, we're doing something in the new, when the school gonna be open, we're gonna focus how to engage the parents to understand the school system. Because we find out there's a bearing of the language. And then the other challenge for the modern African community in Portland, the babysitter, we're hoping to push how to get the babysitter law within new center, maybe we can get a lot of ladies to come there to understand how the system of the high school work. Because everything now is more through the internet or email, so we need to engage them on that level. I think it sounds wonderful and it sounds like you're just going good. I'll try the best I can do. I was just in the radio show a couple weeks ago. I keep talking about it the way I'm talking, but I know we're gonna get somewhere somehow. Well, thank you so much for all you do. Thank you again.


To get it to come around the corner, and it almost looked like it rolled out before it got to the 1-3 and just Caves in the 7-10 late watch this The lane he picked to finish on just a little bit of work left for shawna Oh, no And if he doesn't make it Dick Allen has a chance. Oh God, so what did you just do?  Hang on. That's my friend. Thank you coach. You are correct, sir Wow, hang on Well rolling the two-pin. I'm not sure we call that a messenger you can I would call this one of the best breaks in my career if it goes on to To equal a victory, but this has gotten absolutely crazy two-and-a-half games now looks a little tricky said two-and-a-half I meant a game and a half All right now he needs eight eight to win seven gets us a roll-off Anything less than seven and Sean Raj wins it eight or better. He wins it his sixth career Go Berlin PBA tour title and he will never forget it and unfortunately neither will Sean Raj Dick there was a whole lot of motion going on right now for you walk me through that last frame Momentum always gains advantages Always that's it. I mean you saw that momentum right there in the first shot in the 10th And you made a good shot right after that now you were lucky on the last one He did but you know what you were in full command of these lanes coming into this because you seem to figure out both of these patterns How was that? Sometimes you just do your own game and things work out Now this is the first time you've been on a TV final since 2011 what does it mean to you to be back in the winner circle? Look at it. It's everything. It's it means everything Absolutely impossible to believe finish in this match Sean Raj needed to convert a 10-pin and he would have locked Dick Allen out