Let's see here. Camera a little bit. Want to pop on because I haven't been able to really shoot any videos here the last couple of days. Been a little tired up, but I want to pop on here. Do a little Q and A, a little chat. Try to utilize this time with my son at practice.  I don't, I don't really watch practice cause I get some work done. I watch the games, but I let them do their thing on practice. But want to pop on here for the blessed tribe. If you're not in the blessed tribe, then you'll see up under the videos where it say join. And blessed tribe members get the post questions in the chat and we go through those and try to, you know, get some answers. Y'all got to forgive me. So remember, that's funny. Pop Bush, thank you very much. Now remember if you have a question, make sure you put hashtag Q in front of your question. I shot a video earlier today talking about a little relationship topic where I was using Tom Brady and Giselle Bunching as the inspiration. And I'll be talking about that a little more because one of the things I'm noticing is relationships going through a lot right now. Relationships really going through a lot. Relationships really under attack. And it's not a good thing. It's not a good thing. And so I'll be touching on that because we live in kind of in a fantasy world right now and not just relationships but life across the board. When you look at social media, you got to be very, very mindful. When you watching this social media, you have to pay attention to what you're not paying attention to. So when you see this stuff about a soft life, it's sending a wrong message.   And then when you look at these reels and these TikToks of couples, it make it look like a relationship is just all peaches and cream and creating content together and laughing and joking together.  When you look at all of this content about these, you know, the different bosses and you see all these fancy cars and fancy clothes and you see all this different stuff, that ain't life.  And so we got to understand that. Chastity, come in with the first question I seen. I find myself, okay, Chastity, the leader of her question. What are your thoughts on a guy not tipping in a restaurant? He broke or he's broke-minded, one or the other? And neither is good. But if he had to be one, broke or be better than to be broke-minded. Beauty by Crystal, God bless you now. God bless you. You know, only like to miss a day, but I appreciate y'all not holding that against me. L'Oreal, L'Oreal, that's your real name now.  L'Oreal, welcome to the blessed tribe. How long does a man stay distanced if the woman mess up? You might wanna let that go. You might wanna let that go. If it's early enough, you might wanna let that go. Men don't forgive. Men do not forgive. Tony Advice for a 30 year old virgin moving in NYC.   They do not, you know, it's a handful of y'all up there at NYC. I would say join a virgin community, a group on meetup.com or start one. So that y'all could encourage and keep each other uplifted because I heard that on the Tyre Bank show years ago, the average New Yorker got 18 sexual partners. So that's a real fast city. And when you live in fast cities, they move fast and they love life. So, you know, what do I tell a guy on the first day? And y'all gotta forgive me with these questions cause still to me trying to be doing all this scrolling. I'm gonna just grab the one that pop in when I finish talking and I'm looking at this page. I'm gonna grab the one that pop in right there. Black Barbie put the hashtag Q in front of your question so I'll see it. Y'all make sure y'all put the hashtag Q in front of your question. Tony, do you think women should date older men? I'm used to dating men 10 plus years old with me. To each day on, to each day on, so no, I don't think you should just because, you know, it's just timing and life and stuff going on in life.  If you grew up, what kids could get spanked in school or what kids can't get spanked in school, like it's a difference in those generations sometimes. So you got to be careful with that age difference stuff because sometimes when a man is too much older than you, he feel like he could raise you.  What do I tell a guy on the first date when he asks what I'm looking for? What serious relationship that will, what serious relationship that will lead to marriage but don't wanna look thirsty and don't wanna lie and say nothing serious? Yes, just answer his question. You know, you don't have to say every little detail, but because you don't want a man to play a role so you don't wanna read him a script but just tell him that, you know, I'm not in a position of playing games. So I'm looking for somebody who is in the same space, like who is dating intentionally and not just for fun. I'm not artistic. I can't make things. I don't have a service to provide. I really want to generate an income at home. Is there anything for me that I can do? Yeah, you could just serve other people. You could be a virtual assistant from home. You could do customer service from home. You could do drop shipping from home, meaning somebody else can have a store and you are their warehouse. You got their t-shirts and the orders come in. They come to your email as well. They see the order, the money go to them but they come to your email and you do the packaging and shipping.  What can you do for somebody else? Somebody might want you to run their social media. Somebody might want you to answer their emails. You know, DM people who look like they got something going on and might need some help. Why are a lot of couples partners today instead of husband and wife? Just cause people looking at it economically. Why can't I get into a relationship? Not a good question. Y'all gotta ask questions cause I don't know you so I can't answer a question like in general question. I feel men like to play with me. A guy hid me, then got a girlfriend, then called me and said jokingly, if it don't work out with her, I know I can fall back on you. I took it personal, self-reflecting. Now y'all, now don't y'all be using the Q and A for y'all journaling and all of that. Y'all ask a real question and they'll not and if you don't have a real question to ask, you know, don't y'all be like the kids in class just saying something, just to say something. Y'all think about your question and ask a question that other people watching could get something from. Don't be like the kids in class just trying to be seen. Uh, yeah, Mr. Gasker. Why when you Google Richard, it say that? That's what a boy asked me.  And y'all know what it show up when you Google Richard. The D word, D-I. And he asked the question with a straight face too. So come on now, as adults, we gotta ask a real question. Y'all come on now, come on now. Don't do me like that now. Come on here to give my precious time. Y'all asking me, yeah, Mr. Tony. So I was wondering why is the sky blue? It's like, come on now. Y'all ask a real question.  God bless you. God bless your Chatorier. That's a beautiful name to us. Lord, God bless you. That is a creative name. That's my first time seeing that name. That's a beautiful name. And you know, when I just see stuff like that, beautiful name, like that, it just made me think of how many applications that white man passed on that name. Chatorier, yeah, some Gordon Brittany. You know how they always tell us about that with all creative names. I don't know if that's what my daddy named me, Tony. But that's the first of a kind name. That's a beautiful name. Thank you, Tony, for the consistency.  God bless you. Yes, sister, make you some shirts now. And I wear this shirt for myself. I ain't even got this shirt for sale yet. I was trying to send 30, but there's no option for it. God bless you. So this is Chatorier over there doing good. Done, done. Named a mate of some money. Sister over there got blessings on blessings and blessing me. Met this guy planning to go to park, but didn't call it all that day. I called and he said, we'll have to reschedule and said he can't move forward with me romantically. Appreciate it. Appreciate it. Chatorier said, I'll say the name right. Appreciate what he did. Appreciate what he told you. Get the lesson and go on about your business.  Cause he could have played with you, strung you along and all of that. Hey, Tony, should you accept an ultimatum from a man to get married if you're not ready? Well, Brittany, that's a good problem to have cause a lot of women wish a man to give them an ultimatum to get married. So that's at least a good problem to have, but no, you should not. Because if a woman is created for love, a woman is made for love. So if you with a man and you're not sure about marrying him, I don't think he's the one for you because a woman's disposition is already for love. A woman already is not disposition, but her position, she's position for love. A woman typically desires marriage, desires a family. So when you don't want that with a man, I believe it's something in your spirit that's telling you to act like the young lady, like the Courtney Kardashian, who was with Scott Disick and had his kids cause she didn't want them ex to be over easy. So had his kids, but never married them. And then as soon as she meet this other man, Travis Barker, she absolutely head over heels and ready for marriage. So it was like her spirit knew that Scott won marriage material, but he was all right for the gene pool to have them kids out of. It's easier to get married than it is to have a child. So she had a kid from him, but wouldn't marry him. But not meet this other guy, boom, let's get married. So that's why you have to listen to your intuition because if you don't want to get married, how to deal with sadness that's coming from never being one of love by a man. I have been single my whole life and now I feel like something is wrong with me. All you could do is work on you. That's all you could do is work on you. See, sometimes we don't really do the work. We just kind of sit in our feelings. We sit in our emotions, but words have so much power. So if you're taking, you have a therapy session, your therapist or you have a coaching session, you could hear one line, one phrase that says something that says something that is like life changing and you grab onto that and you start to move toward that. So it could be one little tweak you need to make, one little change you need to make, but if you're not getting that outside input and doing the work, then you'll just keep doing what you've been doing and you'll keep getting what you've been getting. Tiki, God bless you.  Both apply. Both apply. Your partner could bring out the worst. Your partner could bring out the best. Humans gonna bring out of humans everything. So you have to be prepared for that.  No. But will they at some point? Yes. When you address that and let them know you bringing out the worst of me, if they're not willing to change or do differently, should you let that go? Yes. I like my guy friend, but he knows I've dealt with his cousin. Not having, would this stop him from liking me if he did or tried to pursue something? Yeah, it very well, man. Some people do that, but some people just got a cold. Some people just got a cold against that. Just never mess with somebody that a friend or a family member mess with because for one, he don't know the extent of how y'all messed around. And then two, it's like, if y'all they live in the same city, then he'll be with you and I always gotta be thinking about what you did with his cousin. And so it's just not a good thing. I would say just kinda close your heart to that and start looking elsewhere and stop fantasizing about him. Tony, is it common to have lingering recurring thoughts of ex who have moved on? It was a four month relationship after being 15 years a widow. Yes, it is common.  Laquisha God bless you, and I thank you, Tony. Hello, bless tribe. It's Ms. Lessie. Hey, God bless you, and I. What does it mean when a guy is always comparing you to other girls? I mean, he's saying it out loud. It's either he trying to get more out of you, like he want more from you. He want more affection or more attention. Or he trying to get under you, under your skin, trying to make you feel inadequate, insecure. And you kinda need to ask him like, what are you doing and why are you doing it? Because the way you going about it is kinda childish. And I'm not gonna stand for that. I'm not gonna be here for that. So what is your goal here? And you gotta talk to him direct like that. You gotta be real with him. Because sometimes it's me and Will do stuff because we were not raised in a world to articulate and communicate. And so we will beat around the bush, we'll take jabs, we'll do and say hurtful things, trying to get our point across. It's kinda like what you have to think of it as, what is light shining in the car? The light that came on. It's kinda one of them things to where like, you know how on the playground, when you see the little boy pull the girl ponytail and they be like, oh, he got a crush on her? That's how it is as adult men. Like him doing certain things is him pulling your ponytail on the playground. Because he just don't know how to say like, hey, I feel a little inadequate. I feel like you look better than me.  Oh, hold on now. I ain't even really see that. Beauty by Krista. Hey, God bless you. I thought that said $9 and 99 cent. That thing say 99, 99. Krista, you must be a RN. Thank you Tony for your miniature and consistency blessing you. Krista must be a RN. It looks like you got scrubs on Krista. What you going to? Esthetician, 99 dollars? Oh, I'm a hundred dollars. God bless you. So scrubs you got on? Like an esthetician. Doing something in a hundred dollars? In the recession? God bless you. Well, look here, boy, God, good. You give me God, good. God, no, I woke up in the negative this morning. I woke up, count said, I was like, whoa, count. I'm like, baby, I can make a transfer. Now I got to make a transfer. Lord, know what you need when you need it. Boy, because Krista came through with that RN money. My goodness. Look at her. Krista and she are esthetician. Y'all see, intuitive, I'm just guessing. I know she had to be doing something because it's a lot of money in vanity. And so people want their face right. I'm finna be male esthetician. I'm finna be male esthetician and don't let me get the certification where you could teach how to do eyebrows or how to do lashes, because that's where the real money at now. For those of y'all who like school and who like doing work and like doing certification, get certified to teach somebody how to do lashes. You could barely know how to do the lashes, but if you got the paperwork to teach somebody how to do lashes, women will pay $1,500 for that class. If you train 1,000 women a year, you could go around the country and do 10 at a time, 15, 20 women at a time. That's $1.5 million a year you'll make. Training people $1,500. And people will take that class faster than they take life coach certification. I got a life coach certification where I'm training people to be a life coach. It costs $1,500, but it's like three people take it. So, but now if I was teaching how to do lashes, well, I'd be on somebody yacht. I'd be on somebody yacht. That's next Tony, whole Academy. Hey, Christopher, end up be on here, giving another 100 after that Academy get going. Do you believe you could meet someone at the wrong time and have missed a opportunity? Good guy courted me before I was saved. Now I'm awake and see the loss, but my mind wasn't ready. Yeah, you could meet somebody at the wrong time. And it just mean that it, he's not for you. Just mean that's not your man, that's somebody else man. But if you can meet somebody at the wrong time, then that also means you can meet somebody at the right time. So you got to be ready for what's coming next. Found out X was cheating, got angry and key his car. Found out X was cheating, got angry and key his car. Not proud, but it was a split second decision. People believe he'll be back, but I need him to stay away because I don't trust myself so tired. Hey, God bless you. Yeah, don't make no split second decision like that again because, and so you need to pray that up about you. Them split second decision because you may split second decision, but you got to remember how you hit somebody, they can hit you back harder. So if he make a split second decision that involve a trigger, then guess what, your life gone. So don't ever do something to somebody if you don't want them to do something back to you. And when they do something back to you, you don't know how they're gonna have to do it. Caramel kids, you don't have to work, you don't have to work that hard. Don't take your break. That's what the Caramel kids over there working. Don't worry about it, sister. Don't worry about it. This is man, the chat. Y'all is working, my sister. Y'all gotta like that meme with that person on it. Y'all working on it. Don't worry about it, sister. Hey, y'all just try to put questions in the chat and put the hashtag Q because Caramel kids over there trying to keep the chat clean so I can see the questions. So a lot of the extra stuff getting deleted, just put questions in the chat. Put questions in the chat. Now your little smiley faces and all of that, that, you know, laugh, that's okay. But keep down on the commentary. Christine, God bless you. God bless you. What is the best way to detach a eye from an X when cutting an S, not biological system? You might have to talk to a co-parent and coach on my mentor.life on that one. One thing I realized, and this is how I look at it, I look at it like children lose, they biological father every day. And grow up to be great, grow up to do great things. Half of your pro athletes then have the biological father.   So for one child that may be able, you may say, well, we aren't friends anymore. You know how you aren't friends with Crystal anymore because she pulled your hair? Yes. Well, that's the same thing with me and Tom. Did he pull your hair? No, he didn't pull my hair, but we just aren't friends anymore because we aren't being nice to each other.  Another child that might be more direct. Well, we were in a relationship, but we broke up.   And I would say just, you know, don't make a habit of lying.  Sometimes it's better to just deal with the truth and let them process, cry, cry a little bit. But the way the brain work, we're gonna self soothe and we're gonna heal. So if people could get over a biological father being absent, they definitely could get over a non-biological father being absent. Told him my husband is just now trying to read God's word with me and hold himself accountable after I gotta protect order against him in jail. Should I move forward with it or stay? You're gonna need coaching. You're gonna need coaching because whenever you deal with marriage, you can't deal with something that big. That's a covenant under God. So you can't really make a decision like that on a kind of chat like this. So go on MyMentor.Life in a book or session or email in to support at tonigaskins.com, the book of VIP session. If you need to get in this week or next week, just write in, when you go to support, when you email support at tonigaskins.com, just put in the subject VIP session. So that way we'll know. And then other than that, if you don't need one within the next couple of weeks, then just go to MyMentor.Life. And when you click on browse coaches, the coaches will come up, you'll see me as the second coach on there. Where's a good place to meet Sears like minded mates? I got a video on that. So look through my videos and search, you know, where to meet good men, Tony Gaskins. Tony Mann told me after the second hanging, hiking that he likes me, do men know that early? I thought he would. Yeah, man, no. But for you to think he, that says a lot, because what I've noticed is a lot of women can't tell when a man is. So for you to think he, they'll let me know he might be. He might be. Cause typically women don't really see it. Like that brother who'd be doing all that hollering on them reels when his wife do something, he'd be, okay, tell that woman husband might be watching men on the screen. But y'all can't tell if he'd be, if he'd be coveting their relationship. I was like, oh, that brother though, that brother though might want him another persuasion. I said, God bless you. Well, but y'all got some bad vision. I said, but, so when you as a woman feel like a man might be, nah, nah, 10 times, he, you hear me? Listen to me now. Listen when I tell you now. Are there any payment options when it comes to taking a writing skill course? Nah, yeah, I would imagine now, I don't have a writing skill course. So now I got the ghost writing. Do I got a ghost writing course? Well, my course is too cheap for a payment plan. So when I tell people just put it in your savings and then just go buy it like that. Cause I rather you save and give yourself a payment plan, then the reason why I stopped giving payment plans cause my demographic is not upper class.  We haven't hit the upper class yet across the board. So people will get my whole course and make one payment. And it's like, I'm like, I don't have the ability to be losing money, like Chase and Discover and American Express and all of that. I can't, they billions, they got billions. So they can afford to give you that credit card and then you charge it all up and don't pay. But me, my little content, I got to feed my family. So that's why I stopped doing payment plans cause people will come make one payment, get the whole life code certification, go through all the content, get a certificate and run off on the plug, change their card, let it get declined time after time again. I say, well, and then wanna go be a life coach with no integrity. I'm like, how you finna steal my content then go make a honest living. You think God finna bless that? You done ran off on the plug.  Hey, Yema God bless you now. Thanks for your input. I definitely utilize counseling and coaching. Hey, keep that up now. Keep that up.  Got my course on discount, on Christmas. Signed up on my mentor.life, then called a bank and claim fraud in January. I say, I say, I had to hit the noise like the brother of the reals, I say, my goodness. These people have got a thing on a 90% discount.   I say, boy, look here, I'll say, boy, we down bad. I'll say we a down bad. What's one advice you would give you yourself? Jerusalem, your question, you know, maybe you took it back. Put your hashtag Q on there. X unblocked me after two years. He blocked me because he was very mad at me because I tried to have another relationship after him. I still love him, but don't know what that to do. He a grown man. Well, keep on, keep moving about your business. Keep going about your business, sister. And by your name, I don't know if y'all Muslim or if y'all love a certain religion or what have you, but a man block you for two years and then there ain't no good sign. He might be coming, he might be trying to open up that channel of communication for the wrong reason. He got that much pride to block you for moving on after y'all no longer together. That's a red flag. I'm 23 and in the Air Force, boyfriend just separated from Air Force and moved back home with his parents 5,000 miles away to readjust how long his long distance appropriate. He's 22. He's known me for two years. Don't let me rain on your parade. I really don't really believe in long distance relationship especially with children. Under the age of 25, that's a man, not even a man.  So I really, yeah, that's true. God bless y'all on that one, sister.  Do the best you can. That ain't, but that's not real to me. What's the longest a man takes to propose? Hey, you gotta ask that lady off love hip hop, New York. God, Lord, she waited. Man, it's all different kind of numbers now. What's one advice you would give yourself at the start of your career? Be confident and be consistent. I think that's the two main things and probably the hardest two to come by. But if you could be confident and be consistent, when I actually did that, ironically, I became less confident and less consistent the bigger I got. The bigger my brand got, the more I got shy and got reserved and got quieted because it's more eyes on your opinion. Whereas when I was building, I didn't care what I said. I was so real and raw and unfiltered, unadulterated. But when you get bigger, it's like you kind of start to mince your words and change the way you're saying stuff. What's it mean when he says he wants to set us up for success before going into relationship? Then two months later says he doesn't want to hurt me, says he cares about me, but wants to stop seeing. That's what it mean. When he said the first one, it really was just an excuse. And what every woman needs to understand is if a man feels you are his wife, if a man feels you are his wife, he will never postpone or push that relationship back when you ready to move forward. When a man is unsure if you're his wife, that's when he postpones or pushes it back. Because when a man sees value, he understands that everybody else will see value. So you never leave a lot if you got the money to get your dream car and it's sitting right there in front of you. You only leave a lot when you ain't got the money or that ain't your dream car. So the same thing in every aspect of life, a man ain't gonna leave nothing on the table if that's what he want.   He trying to snatch you up off that market immediately. The reason being, cause he understand that if he don't take you off that market, another man gonna see your value and another man gonna shoot his shot, make his move and take you off that market. And so men don't play around when we meet our wife. We don't play around with it. Oh, y'all, this is a lot of questions coming up and y'all are forgiving. Y'all sitting down here got the pee. I drank a whole bottle of water before I got on here and I had my half a cup of iced coffee. So now I'm up here blotting, ooh, I'm 22. My baby daddy is 40, I am 22. My baby daddy is 43. He didn't want to tell his family about our son who is child number seven for him.  Oh, Lord, oh my goodness. Sister, God bless you.  I don't like when they be making people feels bad. So I try not to do that.   Welcome to the blessed tribe. I'm glad you're in the blessed tribe. This is where you need to be. My goodness, my goodness. Oh, Lord, did that, Lord? Woo, oh.  It just, you know what really upset and bother me is that, and that shouldn't be the case. I should want to be a good man to be a good man. But listen to everybody who see what the sister did. Y'all stop letting the elderly men finesse y'all. And 43 is still young, but when I say elderly, I mean compared to you. 43 compared to 22 is an old head. That's like me at 38 compared to a 19 year old. I'm an old head. I'm elderly compared to a 19 year old. Y'all got to stop again finesse by the geriatrics. I don't even know what the geriatric is, but male land female, because men do it and women do it. Try to rot the cradle and got to stop being finesse. Please y'all stop that. Please stop that. Talk to somebody in your age group. And this man here just all the way bad because he 43 gossiping like he 23 with his mama gossiping. Got it. Then mama Hayden, it's like he 43. His mama definitely too old to be acting childish. She get an attitude with you.  Man, your son 43 and must key and getting 20 years pregnant. And you got the nerve, ma'am, to be mad at a 22 year old with your old bro, musky son. Messing with this little girl, messing with this 22 year old.  But see, that's what let you know why he moving, how he moving at 43. Because his mama immature, his mama immature. Listen, if I'm 22 as a woman and my baby daddy, 43 and his mama giving me attitude, I'm gone about my bed with my child. I'm finesse that as a spurred donor. I tell my daughter, go about your business.   Absolutely not.  You took a L, learn from it, gone about your business. Don't live, don't live in that stress. I got to go. I got to go on a situation like that. That man too old to be acting like that. Thali God bless you now. Sorry, your question disappeared. What do I do about a guy met in 2020 that lied about getting a divorce? I cut it off immediately, but they both make fake pages her to harass me. Just keep blocking them. Just make it like that little game.  Just treat their fake pages like that. Cause you got to realize them making a fake page, take 10, 15 minutes, sometimes 20, cause the computer finished started giving them a hard time about that same IP making another page. So now what Instagram did, they didn't got the way you could block that page and all other pages they create from that same device. So it take you two seconds. Bloop, bloop, bloop, bloop, bloop. But they taken all that time out of their life, the ball to you. So me personally, I just make a little game. Oh, another fake page, boop, boop, boop, boop. Make another one, boop, boop. Got you again, make another one, boop. I let them take all their time. All right, keep making them. I sit there and talk with one of the fake pages one day. I give them a little time. I sit there and talk with them. I'm the wrong one. I beat a lot to the woman on the fake page. Yeah. Well, when he was sucking my toes, I just used to tickle. I beat a, you see what I'm saying? Don't let nobody ruin your peace.  Sometime you gotta have time for people. Do men get insecure about their own looks? If so, why society doesn't pressure men, society doesn't pressure them to look good 24 seven, yet the men in my life right now are like this, units, fat, diets, et cetera. God bless. Yeah, yeah, we get insecure. Nah, we do get insecure. And the reason why we get insecure is so I ain't reason women get insecure because when a man go online and he see this prisoner mug shot go viral and all the women talking about how good the man look and then the man look in the mirror, look at itself and be like, well, man, okay, I need to work on this, need to work on that. I feel ugly all the time. I'm around here getting bull talks. I'm getting around here getting bull talks. I'm around here getting a headline sprayed on. Men go through the same thing. Men ask them more insecure than women. In your society don't pressures, but what pressure men is seeing the comments about other men and a man not feeling up the part. That's what pressure men. And men just already naturally insecure just from the workforce, just from the world, just from the money, competition and all of those things. From your experience, how long has it took divorced women to start dating again? I coach women who on their second, third, fourth marriage. So, you know, but on average, it takes a long time. On average, I see between a year and two years just because of a woman being shell shopped, just not knowing the dating scene, feeling fearful, inadequate, insecure. Just wondering if she can adapt and if she'll be okay with the games, the new games that's being played. Hi, Tony, I am 13 weeks pregnant. Father child broke up with me, but once the co-parent disrespected me, told me I'm a nobody and he'll treat me like a nobody. Blocked him, did I do the right thing? Yeah, you did the right thing. Yeah, you did the right thing. Cause he crazy. You did the right thing. You can't even play around with a man like that. Man like that crazy. Man'll say all that when you carry his child. Knowing that, him saying that, go how you releasing toxins into your bloodstream and how your baby in there, blood pressure rising and all of that. You need to get some soft, calm and music gone by your bed and then get out there. Just live your life, create your routine and schedule a relaxation and peace. Now you live the real soft life, what they talking about.   Cause when you praying, it's about that child. STA 52, God bless you. Val, welcome to the blessed trial. Cause that man, they're crazy. He'll say something like that. That man crazy. I met a guy, we spoke by text for two days. I asked him, what is he looking for? He said, you, I asked, can you elaborate? Nothing for one week.   He got somebody already and just playing game. That's why he gave it a little weak response right there. He thought that he swore that sounding good, but he thought he hit, he thought he had you blow. When he said you, he just thought the sky fell. He thought you were going to be like, ooh, that was good. Oh my goodness. So when you had a follow up question, he didn't know what to do. Ex-husband and I divorced seven years. I unvalue living my life says he gets it and wants me back. Prioritizes his cars, hangs with ex-wife and her new husband. Saying we friends and don't see my issue. Wow. Oh my goodness. Now me personally, just as a man, when I hear that a man hang with his ex-wife and her new husband, it's just the only thing to make me think is the man like me. I just can't imagine a man wanting to be around his ex-wife and her new husband unless he like a fan of the new husband. Like if the new husband is like a celebrity or like a pro athlete and he's just a fan and he feel honored that this man of status and stature will want his ex. And he thinking like, man, man, we hit the same woman. Like, man, so you want the woman out of hat, the woman out of thrash and ran through? Oh, you want her? Okay. So like if the ex-wife husband is like a rapper, famous rapper, athlete, I could see a heterosexual man doing that because he thinking about money, he thinking about clout, he thinking about coming up and men will put money and clout before any woman. Then I could understand that.  I just can't fathom that. I can't fathom, me and my wife got a divorce and she went and got a new man. They ain't got a word about seeing me. He not even, I'm not even speaking to him. You not even gonna be in the same vicinity as me. It gonna feel like I got a restraining order on y'all. I'm not gonna be around him. I could be childish though. I could be childish. Forgive me if I'm childish, I could be. But forgive me. I know I wouldn't be around though. Tell you that now. 40 year old man, married, wife has two kids from two prior relationships. No kids of his own says it's too late for him to have kids. What does that mean? I thought men wanted to have their own. Most men do, but some men, he's a special case. Some men, he's one of them special cases. Some men are special case. And so typically it's a man who like men who is with a woman, or it's a man who just was raised differently. And he just don't feel, he feels inadequate. He doesn't feel comfortable being a father. If he didn't see a father, if he wasn't raised with his father, sometimes men gain confidence from seeing it be done. And so that could be it. How do you feel about the quote, age is nothing but a number. I'm 24 mature and an old soul. I sometimes like older men in their 30s, 40s and 50. Well, if age was only a number, then our health would not go down as we get older. So, the person who made that up was trying to convince themselves that they're not over the hump, over the hill. And so that's all that is. Age is way more than a number. It is an indication of where you are in your life and how close you is to the grade. So age is, that's why menopause hit a woman at a certain point. That's why a woman can't have kids at a certain point because age have some things that it come with other than just the numbers. So it's gonna come with some changes in your health, in your body, in your mind. My body at 38 cannot do what I was doing at 18. When I was 18, well look here, I was something else. You hear me? Nah. Get my little bit in, I'm tired. Ooh, I'm just gonna sleep. 18, different story. Body changes, body change. Yeah, still can do a little something but there ain't no one that's the same. How do you know if a guy truly likes you or just pretending?  That's when you know. That's when you know he pretended. That's when you know. Concern about the down low population was dating this really smart mid 40s black engineer and he pretended to not know about down low. We never kissed in four months but isn't down low well known? I would imagine unless he raised in that type of environment that shelter but I would imagine he would know about that but and a man who ain't kissing four don't necessarily mean it like me and just could not just be comfortable period. Could be asexual if that's a, I don't know what that mean but I just figure you either A, B, or C so maybe he A. Is it bad if you don't ever get DMs on social media or is it nothing to worry about? I have pictures and my page is open. I also post on my stories. No, it's not bad but just play with your picture. Change your picture up sometimes. With your picture up sometimes keep posting on your stories. Just experiment with it. But it's not a bad thing.  Y'all hold on, I got my body. I think I got the P2 band is sending something up into my stomach. My bladder's starting to ache up on me. I don't know how long he supposed to hold it. I might even have to go in here. So I'm gonna get on off of him about five minutes cause I'm sitting up here feeling like I'm geriatric. And y'all forgive me, I don't even know what that mean but I just thought it mean something. Y'all to me, so y'all forgive me if that's a derogatory term. My Kayla God bless you. Hi Tony, thank you for all your advice. I'm 29, he was 39. We met online, we recently broke up. It's been three weeks. He had a baby mama constantly sub tweets and says how toxic she is on Twitter. Said he loves me but then broke up. Well, sister, be glad that it's old. He was too old for you cause you know, 10 years difference. I was gonna sub tweet and he planned with her. So he game probably ran out. She probably threatened with that child support. And he realized he got to cut off the games. What dating options do single mothers have in your opinion? Seems like only fools try to talk to me. Well, single fathers, that's one of the main options but also just mature men. And so you got to be where mature men are. And mature men not gonna be in the club. Mature men not gonna be in the dating app. Mature men not gonna be in immature places. So a mature man, he gonna be in an organization, a little club, social club in the community. He gonna, you gonna have some devils in the church but a mature man gonna be in the church too. He gonna be in the coffee shop reading. He gonna be in Starbucks and another coffee shop Barnes and Noble. You know, the mature man gonna be in places where there's some growth, there's some learning, there's some networking, there's some community. And so understanding that single mom of two, six and eight months, boyfriend takes on full time job and leave kids up to me always. Told him I want to work nights on the weekend. Won't help due to beauty sleep. No daycare for a daughter. Well, sister, you know, you got to understand seasons.  If he working and he paying the bills, paying the bills, then don't worry about working. You know, it's the seasons for things. You got to eight months old. You know, and traditionally the woman is with the kids.  And that's the mistake that women make. It's like, listen, the Bible tell us in Genesis what a woman gonna go through because of what Eve did. So it ain't gonna be pieces and cream. It's gonna be hard now. It's gonna feel unfair, but you got to embrace that and understand that if God told you to go through it, he'll get you through it. He didn't gave you an equip you with what you need. He ain't get a man that. That's why we can't as men, that's why we can't get pregnant. That's why we can't have no child.  But so you got to understand a man's, this is what we got to realize is everything work together. So if your stomach could do this and stretch and then your private area could push that out.  A man did not have that ability. So his brain ain't gonna have all of the capacity to deal with discomfort on the level that a woman can. To deal with pain on the level that a woman can. That's why a woman life expectancy is longer. A woman have a higher threshold of pain.  And I know that I'm not a bad guy. And for that very reason, I don't trust no man with no baby. It's a lot of women say, oh, my granddad, my boyfriend, my husband is amazing with kids.  It's a lot of men know how to act. It's a lot of men know how to act.  That's your last option in the world. That's your last option in the world.   I'm telling y'all, I can't trust myself, I don't trust no man. And look, you see women doing it.  Women who is equipped to be a mother. So what you think a man finna go through when that baby crying and he can't get that baby to start crying?  A woman could pop this right here in that baby mouth and that baby be quiet. You see what I'm saying? So you got to understand that. And that's, I know it's a lot of men mad about that because it's the one out of 10,000 men that's excellent with kids or watch this. And that's not fair. I never do anything to harm a child. I love kids. I get along better with a baby than I do with a dog. Yeah, that's cause you childish.  That's all it is. Use the great with the kid cause you childish. Okay, congratulations. You by yourself. You by yourself. That is not, that is not coming. It's not coming. But that's the same reason why when a woman got to work too hard, the woman started to say, I can't do this.  It's too hard. I'm drained. I'm not built for this hustling. I'm not built for this. Oh, I want a man. I want, I want, I want to hug him so I could relax. The reason why a woman say that is because the same thing. God made a man and gave a man something to be a grinder and a go getter. And he gave a woman something to be a caretaker, a nurturer, a lover. A man can become a caretaker, a nurturer and a lover. A woman can become a grinder and a hustler. Our mind can adapt, but that don't mean that's our nature. We can adapt to do whatever is required of us, but that don't mean that's what we was put here to do. That don't mean that's what we were called to do. So you got to realize that. Think about that. Dating this 40 year old man has never been married, doesn't want children. We are not abstaining at the moment, but doesn't initiate relations as much. And his father said, I'll be concerned. Yeah, you be conserved now. Yeah, you got to be conserved now. Cause if it's daddy like that, a lot of times a man learn from their daddy now. And even if he's not like that, he probably might be what they call, bi-curious. You know what they call that. He could just be a little unsure, a little uneasy. So listen to them. So yeah, you could be concerned now. It ain't no telling now, but yeah, you ain't wrong for being concerned now. Let me see what time it is. 8.35, my son get out of practice in 25 minutes. Family pressured me to have a boyfriend and kids right now, I'm 29. Am I too old? Kaila Garfield. No, you ain't not too old. You're not too old at all.  A lot of times the white folks wait. They'll be 31, 32 before they get down and serious. Being to travel the world and seeing stuff and live on their own in New York and London. And then settle down and have a family. The parents, that's my son's age is in their 60s. I'm 38, a lot of my 15 year old son, his friends, his white friends, a lot of their parents, it really ain't none of them under 40. If they be taking their time, I'd be like, my goodness, I was knocking them boots, you and me. We began started, but it's a lot of folks wait into their 30s, but that's how my wife family was. But they kind of was like that more so school, get education, do all that. My wife, mom and dad was I think 30 and 31. Does on and off, y'all I got to go, they help bladder. My wife tell them I got a bladder like a pregnant woman. They help bladder getting on them, got to go. Make sure you get on over to tonicgastonacademy.com, get a course for you. One course could change your life. Make sure you get on over there, aspiring life coach, I need some help. I need some help. And if you happen to be in South Africa, I might be coming over there. So South Africa, start putting a few dollars to the side, a few of them ran, put a few of them ran to the side. And if you're in America and you've never been to South Africa, come on over there. We'll do some stuff together, you going over there. I'm not no travel agent. So I don't know how to create no plan now. I can tell you where to even at. I can tell you where a hotel near. You got to book your own traveling and all that. But I'll link up with you if you from America and you come on over there. I link up with you. Well, you know how it's a little America's Americans in South Africa dinner, maybe go on a safari or something.   So for my coaches who didn't took the certification, y'all market challenge, I think it'll be November. I'm thinking about South Africa, November.  I just like South Africa. I know that. I know if you is South Africa, you might not be all crazy about it, but I like it over there. Get my house over there one day when I get me some money. Hey, but God bless y'all. Thank you for being on here. This was a little overwhelming. So I got to cut it off at my hour because there's so many questions coming in. It's like the more questions, the worse I got to pee. So, because of what my brain releasing into my bladder. So, hey, God bless y'all. Thank you for being on here.  And some of y'all sent my wife a cash out. Now y'all send that to me and let me get to her. I'm just playing. But my wife told me some of y'all sent her a cash out. And she said, I think she bought her a couple of pair of shoes. I said, well, I say, what a oil run from the head on it. I'm like, can I get a thank you? I'm like, I'm the one shot a job. I'm like, can I get a thank you? All right. I'm gonna tell my people don't send it over there no more. Send it to me. But I just wanna say thank y'all for that. Cause, you know, she sacrificed a lot and she put up with a lot from me. When y'all, you know, when people stress me out in business, it ain't y'all cause y'all in the bless try. But when people, you know, stress me out and work, then I stress her out.  If I have a bad day, I'm taking that on her. So she put up with a lot, you know, being beside me and my spiritual warfare and my calling and what I'm doing. So that mean a lot to me for the few of y'all that did that. That mean a lot to me. That was a blessing.  But I sure appreciate that. I sure appreciate that. Her birthday is month too, on the 26th. So I'm thinking of some stuff and planning some stuff now. But hey, God bless y'all and we will be in touch. I'm gonna try to pop on here sometime when my son had these ill practices. God bless you, take care. Oh, before I go, thank you to the moderators. Lord, thank you for remembering me to thank the moderators. The moderators must stay behind. So to y'all moderators, God bless you. Thank you so much for your support on here. And just keeping the chat clear. It does not go unnoticed. I really appreciate that. Y'all take care now.


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Hello Linda. Welcome. While you're here make sure you hit the like button because I don't see any likes on my videos yet. Tap the screen or tap the thumbs up or the heart. I want to see more likes. Hey Zilo from Canada. Hey from Las Vegas. Only 750 away be able to go live. Fantastic. Hey from Illinois. What frequency? This is the loud boost frequency. Turn it up a little. Zilo or Zilo. Hey frequency healing. You know Einstein said that the future medicine will be the medicine of frequencies. So he said that decades ago and he's considered one of the world's smartest people that ever lived. And he's the one who says frequencies is the way that we're going to heal people in the future. So now we're in the future and guess what we're doing. We are healing with frequencies. So we are basically fulfilling the vision that Einstein had when he was alive. Because he understood that the world operated on frequency and on ratios. And in the same way Tesla Nikola Tesla also understood the world because he said that the world secrets couldn't be unlocked if you understood three things energy frequency and vibration. So why is it that the smartest people on earth that ever considered ever live all agree on the same thing is that we are all frequencies. The world is basically frequencies and our reality as we perceive it is just a frequency. And the reason that we experience reality is because we are tuned to a certain frequency. Our consciousness is tuned to a certain frequency. So you want to change realities. All you have to do is just like turning the radio knob. If you still have radios you know you turn the radios up and down or you switch the channel on your television or you swipe up and down. Whenever you swipe you're changing the channel. So being able to do this the same way and how we can change our frequency. We can change it like swiping up and down the channel or changing a channel on a television. So we have the world's most powerful quantum and higher quantum frequencies through our company called Chi life. And we spent over 20 years developing them testing them with thousands of people. And we found that our frequencies are the most effective and the most powerful and they work a lot faster and more dramatically. And very profoundly on many levels with the people that listen to our frequencies. And of course you can use our frequencies together with chi coils to enhance the effects even further because now you change the sounds into electromagnetic waves. So all these experts throughout history we have Max Planck who basically is the father of quantum mechanics. He theorized that everything was or particles can act in two ways. It can they can act as a wave or a particle. And the way that it changes depends on the observer. So if you sum up what quantum physics and quantum mechanics is that nothing is 100% certain. Everything is just a probability. Some if there's an electron that exists in a point in space and time. It's only a probability of it happening in there. There's a not a probability of it happening somewhere else. And depending on the person or the consciousness that observes it. When it when it is in a moment as it is observed it locks it in place and it becomes a particle or it becomes a wave depending on once again the observer. So it means that our minds determine what reality is. And we have frequencies operating around us all the time that's surrounding us. So our minds have actual control over these frequencies depending on how we observe them and how we tune ourselves and tune our brain waves or tune our whole being. We can actually affect or alter the way things go. And they've done many studies on this and this one simple one is basically guessing heads or tails right. You know you flip a coin you can guess heads or tails. So they had a device that would either give you your heads or tails. And they had a person sit there and then guess what the device was going to flip. So it's completely random right. And you would think well if the person is going to guess the chances of their success is 50 50 mathematically that would be logical right. Logically if the things actually random and if the person is guessing then the then the success rate will be 50 50 right. But guess what happened the success rate was not 50 50. And they did this with thousands and thousands of people. Now there's people who are trained psychics people who are trained she go masters and there's people who are not trained. And all they did was tell them OK I want you to you know use your intention and make it what a heads or make it tails in your mind while you guess what's going to come out. And guess what the result was this is shocked everybody. The result was that they were about one to two percent more accurate when they had the intention for intention for it to show up the way that the way that they wanted. Now you might think well one to one to two percent is nothing is trivial is negligible but it's not statistically it's impossible. It's like one in a billion chances for that to happen because they did one to two percent over tens of thousands of experiments. We're not just doing like 10 experiments with like five people. We're talking about thousands of people doing tens of thousands of these experiments and they came up that they were able to guess it one to two percent accurately more with more success if they had the intention for it to be heads or intention for it to be tails. So which shows scientifically that our minds can actually control the outcome of a heads or tails coin toss. So you may think OK well one to two percent is not that much but statistically it's huge. Now if you extract that and then if you train that you know that some of the people who are trained and then can increase it higher than one to two percent. And if you do stocks right are you trade currencies or you trade any kind of do any like online trading. You know if you had a hundred one to two percent like fifty two percent success rate you can make millions of dollars. OK so so there's a lot of these experiments and I explained it in my book Life of Chi Life of Chi. If you see my book back then back back here and you can get this book for a dollar on my website. Go to use the chi dot com and get a book for a dollar. And I explain and I reveal all these scientific experiments that have been done all around the world. This is not just in the United States. Right there's these experiments done everywhere throughout the last hundred years or so in you know in America in Germany in Sweden in China Japan all sorts of places. And they all basically saying the same thing is that there is this basically we live in a frequency reality. And everything is just happening by probability and everything is not solid. We are mostly empty space. Everything around us is mostly empty space. We study you know physics like molecular physics. That's the foundation right is that we have we have electrons spinning around a tiny nucleus and there's a ton of empty space in between. So so then how does empty space if we are empty space control empty space. Think about that for a second. If we are empty space then how does empty space control empty space. So that's the key the key is vibration and the key is frequency because if you can use frequency the frequency changes. How that empty space will manifest itself. It's all about frequency. Okay. Even if you look back at what the Bible says it says in the beginning was the word.  So in the beginning you can translate it as in the beginning there was vibration or there was frequency. Okay. And so and that's not the not just biblically there's many other cultures and you know religions that base a lot of their beliefs on that on that you know resonance and sound and frequency and vibration are the keys to unlock unlock the secrets on the universe. Hey hundreds. Love my coils playing the sun frequency. Thank you. Hey Mateo. What's up? Yeah. What's up? So what do you guys think about that? Do you think that we live in the world as everything's mechanistic? Everything just you know, like particles bumping into each other? Or do you think that there's something deeper? Do you think that there is a sort of force that brings everything together? It's another interesting thing that I explained in my book is that astrophysicists when they look at space, they use them as scopes and they look into space. They can they cannot explain what they're trying to explain now why 80% of space they cannot see or 80% of the mass in space is completely invisible to any telescope or any detection. What I mean by that is that they can see if you observe the stars in the sky that there is mass that is distorting the light and distorting gravity. And the only way that you can distort light and gravity is to have mass, but they cannot find this mass. There's nothing there. So what they call it is they call it dark matter or dark energy. Not meaning like evil, it just means that they can't see it. It's invisible. It's completely dark, but it's there. They can see the effects of it because they can see it bending light and they can see it bending gravity. And it accounts for 80% of everything in the universe. So how come, you know, what makes up most of our universe is completely visible to us. So, you know, the theory comes along about dark energy and how it is like the force that we have yet to detect or yet to harness. And guess what? Some people have figured out how to harness this. We call it dark matter, right? We actually have a technology that does it right now. Believe it or not, we have something called chi-energy.ai, which actually uses this energy, this concept, and this technology to connect anything we want with a frequency. All right? So if you look at some of our frequencies or listen to them or use the chi-chose with them, you would know. Okay, if you play over a frequency, it makes you feel energized. If you play another frequency, it makes you feel sleepy. Okay? So you know that different frequencies do different things. But what if we can use this frequency and be able to use this concept of quantum entanglement, the concept of dark energy or dark subtle energy to basically connect a place or connect, let's say, a phone to this frequency and allow any frequency to be broadcasted through a phone or through somebody's home. Wouldn't that be crazy? Wouldn't that be unbelievable? A lot of people think that's impossible, right? How can you send energy to a phone or send energy to an address and not have it be completely invisible? Well, guess what? We've already done it. So we've spent quite a long time, total of about 20 years developing and perfecting this technology. So you want to try it out? You don't believe me? That's fine. Go try it out. There's a free demo. Go to gc.com. Go to Chi Energy AI demo. There's a page. So we were able to send energy through this web page. Go to that web page, see if you can feel it. All right? Test it out for yourself. Ask your friends to try it out. Send it to your friends to see if they can feel it. All right? And if you can't feel it, then OK, fine. It doesn't work. But if you can't feel it, then you might then you can start asking how the heck is this happening? How does this actually work? OK, so go there. Check it out. It's going to start opening your mind to how the world actually works and how frequency actually works. Any advice on depression is that low vibration. Depression. Well, depression.  Also, smile more, exercise, eat better, OK? And associate with people who are happy.  Watch happy, watch comedy. Listen to music that is upbeat. OK, so that's all the convention stuff that you hear. All the practical wisdom that you hear that you can do any time you want and all those things work. What I would give you is use our technology because it's much faster. So use our move negative energy frequency. Play this love boost frequency that we're playing right now.  It's like a balloon. And all the air came out and you're literally depressed.  So do the opposite of that. Start filling yourself up with air. Breathe deeply. Do some breathing exercises, right? And use our technology together with it and it's going to enhance your energy, your life force, OK?  So do a lot of breathing. Drink lots of water. Use our frequencies. If you have chi clothes, use chi clothes. And it works amazing. So people who use chi clothes, they have no more depression in a matter of a week or so. Like they're in severe depression. They use our chi clothes, no more depression. It's as simple as that. And I'm not saying that it can hear you or cure you. That's just what's been happening with people who are using chi clothes. Like we just like knock depression out of the park. So I know what it's been like to have depression.  You feel kind of negative. You feel kind of like you're stuck in even addictions very easily. And you don't want to talk to anyone. You just want to be by yourself. You don't want to go out. You don't want to exercise. You just want to lie there. Do nothing. You might eat a lot. Right? Or you watch binge Netflix or something like that. And you feel this thing weighing down your heart.  You know, it keeps running in your head of trauma or of like negative self talk.  So I've been through that. Okay. So I know what it's like. And at that point, sometimes you're so deep in that depression is really hard for you to do all the conventional things I talk about like exercise and do other things. Because you just don't have the motivation, right? You can't even get up a lot of times from your bed. So what you do is listen to the frequencies. All you have to do is just press play. Go to our website. Choose to cheat on com. Sign up for a free account. Get some of these frequencies. Just press play. And you can keep being depressed. You don't have to do anything. Just keep being depressed. But just play these frequencies in the background throughout the whole day. And then I can guarantee you that you're going to start feeling a little bit better at the end of the day. And the next day you feel a little bit better. And the next day you feel like, hmm, I don't feel as bad anymore. I feel like I want to do something. And then the next day you feel like, hmm, maybe I feel like, you know, going out a bit or I feel like actually cleaning out my place. And the next day you're going to feel, oh, I'm feeling actually doing a little bit of exercise today. Maybe going for a walk. And the next day you feel like, oh, I actually feel like I want to give somebody a call and talk to them. And the next day you feel like, oh, I got all these ideas of things I wanted to do like that. I kind of put in the back burner. I kind of feel like I want to do them right now.  You can't explain it. It's like, it's not, you're not doing anything. You know that, right? You're not going to church. You're not praying. You're not meditating. You're not exercising. But this is happening to you because your frequency is slowly changing while these frequencies are playing in the background. Understand? So the frequencies transforming you on autopilot, whether you are conscious or actively do it or not. Now you actively do it. Let's say you start doing exercise. You start meditating. You do breathing. You do qigong. You do yoga, whatever you want, right? Then this will happen even faster for you. But for those people that, you know, are having problems even starting those things, then this is exactly what you need because you need something that requires no effort. No effort to begin. And that is the only effort is just using our technology and getting our technology or just using our frequencies. So this may be the only thing that a lot of people in depression can do. Okay, because they may be so deep in it that they have absolutely no energy or no motivation to do anything. Now, if you have somebody in your home or near you that you care about that has this has depression. Well, guess what you can do. You don't need to be a therapist. You don't need to use psychotherapists or whatever. Or you just need to have a phone or a speaker and you just need to play this in the background while the person is just lying there if they want, right? They're lying there. They're all depressed. And you listen and you play this or you just put this under their bed or near them or on the table in the middle of the room. And they can say, ask what it is. It's always nothing. It's just some decoration. Right? Always nothing. It's just some kind of toy I bought and turn on the frequency and then you can watch their energy level slowly coming back. Slowly getting improved, you know, minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, week after week. Okay. So you become the force wheeler. You wheel the force. You have this. You are the force user. You become a Jedi. Okay. This is like your Kyber crystal. Jedi use Kyber crystals.  Right? So this is like your Kyber crystal that, that enhances the power of your lightsaber. So you need this. This is like your lightsaber. This is your tool. This is your, you can say your weapon. And this is what enhances your frequencies. Okay. And even the Star Wars, they have different crystals for different frequencies, right? That's why they glow different ways, glow different colors. Anyway, but that's sci-fi, but, but we can learn a lot from Star Wars. And there's a lot of truth into it. Right? Or even Avatar. Who watched a recent Avatar? We can learn a lot about truths about the world from movies. Like an Avatar, you know, they're hunting all those whales. I forgot how you call them, those giant whales. And you know that the equipment that they used in the movie are the actual harpoons and equipment that they use to hunt real whales that are made in Japan. Okay. And guess what they do in Japan? They hunt dolphins and whales all day long. They actually massacre them. Okay. You probably, I don't know if you've heard of this before, but they massacre thousands of dolphins every year in Japan just for the sake of it. They don't even harvest them. Okay. I don't know why they do it. It's actually, I think it's pretty evil. Okay. They massacre thousands of dolphins and whales in Japanese waters. Or maybe even beyond that. I don't know why they do it. Maybe they just like killing dolphins. Okay. But the equipment they use in the movie Avatar, the new one, is the actual equipment they use to kill whales in real life. So talk about the dark side of frequency, right? Talk about the dark side of humanity. Yeah. They eat dolphins, right? You can actually go there and, you know, some restaurants and it's surprising you can get dolphins sashimi. Okay. Kind of scary. So I guess people have different, they're different cultural, you know, habits and cultural norms. I mean, they, you know, some other people might come to America and think that we are, we are crazy. But it's just like, you know, why would you kill thousands of dolphins for no reason? I don't understand. You know, so anyway, so part of the reason why I'm doing this is to heal the world together. I believe that this technology that we have discovered and that we have brought to you guys, the frequencies and the Chi clothes and the Chico Aura and Chi energy AI, this literally has the potential to heal the world because if we can change the frequency of a lot of people, then that group of people can change the frequency of the world, right? Now you don't need, you don't need to change 100% of the world. You just need about a 1% or so of the population or even less of the world. And once you change that frequency, it's going to start affecting and start creating a cascading effect around the world. Okay. So it's really the light side of the force versus the dark side of the force. Okay. We all familiar with what the dark side is. We've seen what they've done in the last three years to cause all this chaos and disease in the world. And, you know, for the sake of power and for the sake of a lot of it is actually very, very scary. Like an evil, dark, it's like the emperor, right? Like the evil dark emperor from stars, literally, you know, manipulating things in the way that they can have more power and then not caring about who they kill and who they, you know, what kind of destruction and disease and dark things they bring into the world as long as they have more power. So that's the dark side. But the light side of the force, we operate by healing. We operate by truth and we operate through virtue and justice and honor, which is in short supply these days, right? What do you see? You don't see much of that right now. Especially in the news. They just want to show you all the dark side of humanity. But what about all the good side of humanity? There's lots of heroes out there. We may be watching this from now. You may be a hero. You don't even know it. Or you could be a hero to a lot of people in the world. All you have to do is just start walking towards that direction and start believing in yourself and also believing in the humanity. So many people, especially young people these days, they don't believe in the world anymore. They don't believe in God. They don't believe in themselves. They don't believe in humanity because they seem so much darkness.  They think that world is about to end. So that's why they're in depression. That's why they're in anxiety. And what do the doctors do? They prescribe them more medication for their anxiety. Something like three out of or maybe like three out of ten kids, adolescents now are on some kind of anxiety medication. And what happens to their bodies if they take that medication for long periods of time? Well, it doesn't really solve the problem of what's causing the anxiety. They're just dealing with the symptoms. So all these pills are doing just dealing with symptoms and just masking and band-aiding solutions to just the symptoms. But they never really deal with the root cause of it, which is the lack of life force, the lack of motivation, the lack of purpose in their life. So if you have more purpose and you're going to have more courage and you're going to be able to feel more fulfilled and you feel like every day is meaningful to you because you have a purpose.  You have setbacks. Things don't go your way. You still are not depressed because you know that this is part of the process and you know that you're going to... It's not about the destination. It's about the journey. So it just gives you motivation to just keep going every day.  So, okay. There's some lots of comments here. Yeah, you think everything is energy and existing just facts as that force becomes physical and reaction to elevation to how life plays out. Isn't dark matter dangerous to mess with or is that inaccurate? No, it's not. Well, it's all of the universe. There's dark matter on Earth, okay? Just because it's called dark doesn't mean it's evil or dangerous. It's just a technical term for it. But we interact with it all the time and it can be used for good. You can use it for healing. You can use dark energy for healing. Okay? I'm not saying like... The word dark just means it's just a scientific term for it. It doesn't mean it's evil, okay? On average, how long does it take to see results listening to these frequencies? Typically, a few days. It could be a few weeks. Some people like a few minutes. It just depends on how sensitive you are to these frequencies, right? Some people are more sensitive. Like, how many of you are more sensitive to full moon? Anybody? You know, when there's a full moon, for some reason, you just feel different. Or you feel more anxiety or you feel more energized when there's a full moon. Who's noticed that? Okay? If you're like that, then you are sensitive to this, to any kind of frequency. Okay? Not just the energy from the moon.  Okay? I know that's a dark thing to think about, but it's the fact that more people commit suicide during full moon. Okay? So somehow astrological events, such as the planets moving through the sky, changes behaviors of humans. Why does that? Because these subtle frequencies are minor, very light frequencies that are coming from the reflection of planets. Even though there's thousands of kilometers away, millions of kilometers away, they still affect us on planet Earth. Okay? So that's why we have all this astrology, mythology, mythology, mythology that we have, you know, that we take, we read with us, that goes back thousands and thousands of years, right? So there's truth to it, because they observed back then that it does affect humankind and affect the way that societies operate. So it affects individuals as well as societies and as well as the whole human race. What happens, you know, in the sky and the moon and things like that. So it is all based on frequencies too. Okay? So if you notice that during full moons, something changes in your behavior, then you're more likely to feel the effects of these frequencies faster. All right? Now, if you don't have that, then it just means it's going to take longer. So it's like plasticity, right?  Your brain can be changed and it can change yourself. You can read a book called The Brain That Changes Itself. So it's scientifically proven.  Your brain is plastic and it can change and it can be rewired. But how plastic your brain is determined and how fast it can be rewired, right? Just imagine you have dough. And if it's soft dough, you can reshape it and reshape it easily, right? But if the dough is hardened, it's harder to shape. So for some of us, we have very plastic energies. But some of other groups of us have very non-plastic energies. So it just takes longer to mold. So that's why some people, when they use sheet clothes, it may take them a few weeks to start feeling the effects. But then some people, they turn it on instinctively, like, whoa, I feel the energy is amazing. It's moving all around my body. So we have lots of different things. But regardless of whether you are plastic or non-plastic, like soft or not soft, it will transform you over time, right? Because sheet clothes is not something that you just use one day. This is something you can use your whole life.  That's our slogan, right? Transform yourself 1% a day with an ancient force or with meditation technology. And that's what sheet clothes do. Does that make sense? Okay, let's see more comments here. My environment makes it so difficult to keep pulling myself out of the negative feelings, especially since I have people who have been trying to keep me down. I really want to get your sheet clothes frequencies. Yeah, so there's exactly the situation where you absolutely need sheet clothes. You need something that is going to be like a tool to protect you from bad frequencies. That could become from, you know, from cell phone, Wi-Fi, 5G. It can protect you from them, okay? Or bad frequencies from just people around you. Bad energies from people around you. And when you put this in your home, and we have the larger ones that you can do this with, the big ones, we call them the Chi-Ko-Ora, because you literally create a healing environment in your home. So use it to create a healing environment in your home because with these Chi-Ko-Ora, the big ones, they cover 3,000 square foot, and they can be playing in your home 24-7 and protecting everybody in it, including your pets, including your plants and energizing all the water in your home, all the entire water supply, and all the food in your home will be energized because this is in your home playing and broadcasting the frequencies magnetically and with scalar energy too, okay, in your home. And a lot of people are doing that and getting some pretty good results with it. You went so bad. My boyfriend's cancer came back. Yeah, so hopefully you get one of these and it will raise your vibration, it will raise your vibration of everybody in your home. You can start with small ones if you can't afford the big ones. Start with the small ones, $400. But you can do financing and do payment plans, get it down to like 30 bucks a month or something like that. So it's really affordable and it's something you can use forever. You can use it your whole life. You can use it every day of your life and everybody in your house will benefit from it. So you can get like 10 people in your house and you can divide the cost by 10. So it's only $40 a person because everybody will benefit from it. What if you're depressed? I thought I just answered that. So if you're depressed, just use the frequencies and you won't be depressed. Just keep using that. You won't be depressed. So depression is... I think it's an easy fix, okay? You may not think it's easy. You may think, oh, there's no fix for depression. I'm going to be depressed forever. No matter how I try, I just feel depressed. Well, I think this is it. This is the easy fix for depression because you just use the technology and it's going to increase your life force energy, increase your resonance. Like literally, your electrical charge of your body will go up. Your voltage will go up in your body and then your organs will start to work better and then your energy production will start to increase and then you'll feel more and more motivated and then it's going to relieve a lot of the stress too. The stress of depression is connected. It's helped you to release a lot of the stress helping you to feel calmer and actually make you feel hard to believe but maybe even feel good. Maybe even feel lighter. I know it seems like a far pipe dream to actually feel happy. People don't even use the word happy. People don't even say, oh, I feel happy anymore because so many people are depressed and in anxiety. They're having a hard time getting to normal. The word happy does not even resonate with them. They don't understand. It doesn't comprehend. It just goes through their brain and they don't even hear the word happy because it never even comes close to it. But you can. Look at the smile on my face. I'm happy all the time and if something best happens to me, I may go get down for a bit but then I bounce up very quickly. I bounce up within the matter of like half an hour to an hour and I bounce up and then back to my happy self. So is that a donut? It's a donut shape but it's not a donut. It's called Qi Coil. It's a technology that invented that uses soothing sound and magnetic waves to transform your mind and body. Okay? That's how I do it, it does. What's the name of the product? The product is called Qi Coil. Q-I-C-O-I-L. You can see it on my, you know, the name of my account. It says Qi Coil. You can do a lot of research on it. Hey, Demicea is here. Maybe I'll invite her. Sounds like the Jetsons. How old are you? You still remember the Jetsons? I remember the Jetsons. Have you always been good at talking about this stuff? No. I haven't always been good at talking about this stuff, but I've been talking about this stuff for so long and because I've succeeded so much, I get so much success from this Qi Coil and it healed me, first of all, if you didn't know. I healed myself from a chronic disease that I had for 10 years, which is incurable, but I proved them wrong because I cured myself with it in 90 days using the Qi Coils. And I just kept talking about it and sharing it with other people and then they started using the Qi Coils and they got success and then it's just about sharing what's happening. So it's just good because we like to share good news, right? It feels good to share good news. So the more I do it, the more fun it is and the easier it becomes. You look healthy and very young. Yes, how old do you think I am? You're in the Caribbean. How can you order this? Just order from the website, cheedikestore.com or just go to use the cheed.com here. If you see this link, you can order up there. Between the 1, 3, S and max, which one has the most to offer? It really depends, you know, how you use the thing. Like if you have a clinic or you're just using it personally or using it with more than one person, are you planning to bring it with you a lot or are you just planning to leave it at home? So the 3S is great if you are planning to take it around with you. If you want to bring it around with you, the 3S is ideal because it's small and you can put everything in this case and it's very powerful. So that's the 3S. Okay? And you don't even have to bring the whole case with you. You can just bring one coil and a transducer and that may be all you need. So if you want something mobile, you can get the 3S. If you want something for the home, that's like, you know, kind of like a mini version of our Orofoil. Max. The Max is this one. These ones in the background here, those are the Cheeko Max. They have a 20 feet radius. Okay? So use that. If you want something that you like to hold on to, right? Or you apply it on to some body part on somebody, then the one is what is that one recommend, right? So a lot of practitioners use that. And the one, this one up here, you know, it's more like a decoration and jewelry too. Like we combine artwork, jewelry, and into a product or into the device technology that can improve people's wellness. You try finance and they wouldn't process. Yeah, so they're going to check your credit. There's two ways. You can try split it and Klarna. There's two ways of financing. Maybe no one might go through. You can try that one. Yeah, the one doesn't have Yin and Yang. The 3S and the Max has Yin and Yang. So Alice says, I'm mercury filings in some of my teeth. What frequencies can I use to counteract the mercury in my teeth until I can get the mercury taken out? We have, if you look at our right frequencies, we have something for mercury detox, I think. You can use that mercury detox. I like the last one as a gift idea for my god brother. Love your products. Yeah. Yeah, so you just make really good gifts. I know there's Valentine's Day. It could be a Valentine's gift. Actually, we're giving away some rose quartz pendants. If you purchase a certain amount of stuff, start a store, you're going to get a free pendant. That's coming up, I think, this weekend. Hey from Connecticut. Is there a way to body scan with it to see if this physical area needs attention or healing? No, it doesn't do any scans. And my concept is that a lot of these scans aren't very accurate anyway. And a lot of them are actually random. There's a lot of devices I tried and actually broke down their softwares because I'm a software developer before. And as I find out, how did they actually do these scans? And a lot of them are not that accurate. So instead, just use the frequency and it's going to help everything in your body. It'll support every function in your body. So you don't need to find out, was there something wrong, this is wrong, this is wrong. You just use it and then you don't need to think. You don't need to analyze. You just turn it on and then it's going to support every body function that you have. How the body works is all integrated. It's all connected anyway. So a lot of times, yeah, sometimes we may have a heart condition or sometimes we have a lung condition or kidney condition. A lot of times it's really connected to something else. It could be psychosomatic, which means it could be connected to an emotion or it can be connected to a trauma. So if you increase and elevate the resonance of your entire body, a lot of times those specific things take care of themselves. Because if you increase the body's own ability to heal itself, the body is intelligent and it knows how to heal itself. So if you give it the balance that it needs, like the yin and the yang balance, if your body is balanced properly and you have the energy, so you have high energy and you have balance, the body will naturally heal itself. That's the concept of traditional Chinese medicine. You're using needles or herbs to basically just balance the yin and yang on your body and increase the Qi energy circulation. And once you do that, basically your body heals itself no matter what it is. So what's the frequency? You use any frequency that you want. I use lots of frequencies. I use the luck boost. I use move, think of energy. Digestion, frequencies, whatever I need. I just search into the console and find whatever I need. I find the frequency and I play it. I use Qi energy AI every day too. If you don't know Qi energy AI, very powerful stuff. They'll give you a little quick thing about Qi energy AI. I'll show you how the website looks like in the back end. So this Qi energy AI, when you go in the back end, these are the different energies that you can turn on and send to your phone and send to your address. This is not Qi calls, by the way. This is another technology. So you have like mind energy, quantum recovery, quantum calm, quantum cleanse, quantum mood. So you're wondering why I'm in good mood right now. I have quantum mood right now on. It makes you feel good. Makes you happy. Quantum body energy, quantum meditation, quantum brain, quantum immune boost, quantum detox, quantum abundance, quantum entrepreneur, quantum motivation, quantum dream, quantum libido, quantum psychic and weight loss. So this is the AI. So basically it's kind of like artificial intelligence that sends energy, sends healing energy to you. No, they don't come with a call. So that's a separate product, separate technology. If you don't believe it works, there's a demo webpage that's sending mind energy go to that webpage and then see if you can feel it. Okay. If you want to learn about it, go to usethechee.com. There's a couple of links that says Qi Energy AI. There's one that's the demo. Go to the demo page. If you want to do it, you can do it right now. I'll show you. Okay. So this is usethechee.com. You can see this on your phone or on your computer. If you go... Well, first of all, enter for the draw and then get my book. The second one is my book for a dollar. Then you can get your free frequencies on the third link. Then you can learn about Qi calls on the fourth and fifth link. And then there's this one here, the Qi Energy AI. You can learn about it. And there's a free demo there. And then you can become an affiliate and then you can join our community. So just go to that page, usethechee.com. It's got lots of free stuff on here. And you can learn about the technologies that I've developed and invented. The webpage is this one right here, usethechee.com. Okay.  So, no, I'm not in my late 20s. I'm 42. So I have to... People say you're a good representation of the product. Yeah. So, yeah, this... When you have Life Force, the other side effect is you're going to look younger. And you'll have longevity. So, it's another added bonus to having lots of Qi energy. And lots of Qi energy, you will definitely look younger. Okay. I don't go to any dermatologist or anything. I don't, you know, I don't go to any beauty spa or anything like that. So, I just use my own technology. 35 hertz. Okay. Yeah. So, I mean, if you just listen to one frequency, just like that. I mean, if you're getting some good results with that, then that's great. Our technology goes, you know, three or four steps beyond just single frequencies. You know, we go into two, three and four dimensions with our frequencies. And you're going to have a lot more intense and dramatic, profound experiences with our frequencies than just the ones you find on YouTube, for sure. We call ourselves the Tesla frequencies. Tesla, you know how Tesla kind of revolutionized the car industry? So, our product, the Qi calls revolutionize the wellness industry. What do you use for beating age? Well, we use our longevity. We have a longevity energy with our Qi energy. We have longevity frequencies with our Qi clothes. You can use both of them. Just use that. We have something. We have actually something called the, we have a collection for longevity. We have a collection for anti-aging frequencies for anti-aging for skin care. We have an NAD, NMN, these are new tropics that are supplements for longevity that improve brain function. But yeah, we have all that. We're way ahead of that. Okay. Who here has got my book already? My life of Qi book for a dollar. It's got 15,000 hours of knowledge in that book for only one dollar. Who bought it already? How long have you been doing this? This company is about five years old. I'm the perfect face for the product. That's awesome. Yeah. Thank you. Does it strengthen the mind to where you can control healing more easily with just your thoughts, mind even without the coil? Of course. Yeah. It does. So remember that what a cause does is it raises your vibration, right? It raises your frequency. It raises your energy. And guess what you need in order to heal yourself, right? With your mind. You need all those things. Like take a look at all the energy healers, Reiki healers or any kind of like people who heal. With their hands or whatever kind of healing, right? Or just through meditation, right? People who meditate. What do you need to meditate more successfully or deeper? What do you need to heal better with energy? You need all those things. You need high vibration. You need to have a lot of energy, like real energy in your body. And you need to have the right frequency.  All right. So now there's so many things to do here. Now this is your first time here and you're wondering what to do next. I think the first thing to do is to go to use the cheat.com and then go to the third link and starts using those seven free frequencies. You just sign up for email. You go to the website. You can play those seven free frequencies. Start playing them every day. And while you're at that, get my book for a dollar and start reading that ebook. You can read the ebook or listen to my audio book or you can read the ebook or you buy the book from Amazon. But Amazon is 10 bucks while you listen to your frequency. So I can do two things at once, right? Then once you do those things, then you're going to understand what all this technology is about. You're going to understand the science behind it. And then you might want to buy a cheek oil. Okay.  You just want to try it out. Then, you know, you can get the small one and then or you can just invest in a larger and more powerful system like the three or even the oras. So that's what I would do. So, yeah, I'm very excited to see you in your healing journey. I want to really excited to hear your stories and your results as I've been hearing from a lot of you already. And a lot of you really love cheek oils and tongue, you know, so thankful for them, which makes me feel really good because that's my life purpose. So I look forward to seeing your story and hearing about your story of personal transformation and for healing and for spiritual enlightenment and whatever it is that you want to improve in your life. And I'm very honored for you to allow me to be part of that. Alright, so you guys have a good night. Use the chi and prosper. Okay. Thanks, Bantu Green.


Dear students, in this topic we shall discuss the lung volumes and capacities. The lung volumes refer to the volumes of air which are associated with different phases of the respiratory cycle. These volumes can be directly measured. The lung capacities can be inferred from the lung volumes. There are five types of malleable lung volumes. The resting tidal volume, inspiratory reserve volume, expiratory reserve volume, the residual volume and the minimal volume. The resting tidal volume is the amount of air that moves into or out of the lungs during a single, quite normal breathing. It averages about 500 millilitre in human, male and female both. We shall discuss the inspiratory reserve volume which is the amount of air which can be inhaled by maximum inspiratory effort. On average, the lungs of males are larger than females. So the inspiratory reserve volume of males is greater and the average is about 3,300 millilitre. We shall discuss the expiratory reserve volume which refers to the amount of air which can be voluntarily expelled out after the tidal volume by maximum inspiratory effort. A male can forcefully expel additional 1,000 ml air by use of accessory muscles while in females this amount is about 700 millilitres. The residual volume is the amount of air that still remains in the lungs even after maximum exhalation. It is about 1200 ml in males and 1,100 millilitres in females. A component of residual volume is the minimal volume. This is the amount of air that still remains in the lungs when they fully collapse. This volume ranges about 30 to 120 ml. Unlike other volumes, it cannot be measured in a healthy living person. Now we shall discuss the lung capacities which are calculated by adding the values of various lung volumes. These include inspiratory capacity, functional residual capacity, vital capacity and total lung capacity. The inspiratory capacity is calculated by adding the tidal volume and inspiratory reserve volume. It refers to the amount of air that can be drawn into the lungs after a complete respiratory cycle. The functional residual capacity can be calculated by adding expiratory reserve volume and residual volume. It refers to the amount of air which remains in the lungs after a complete respiratory cycle. Vital capacity refers to the maximum amount of air which can be moved into or out of the lungs in a single respiratory cycle. It is calculated by adding expiratory reserve volume, tidal volume and inspiratory reserve volume. Its overall amount is about 4800 ml in males and 3400 ml in human females. The total lung capacity refers to the total volume of the lungs. It is calculated by adding the vital capacity and residual volume. The total lung capacity in males averages about 6000 ml in human males and 4200 ml in human females.