So today we're going to talk about what it takes to attract a real high-quality man And I'm really excited to have a dear friend of mine in the house Catherine Woodward Thomas Catherine wrote the book calling in the one Everybody I just want you to see this and by the way if you want to get a copy of it click the link below She's a marriage and family therapist. She's written another book called conscious uncoupling In fact, we recently did a video on that we talked about the ending of my relationship And today we're going to talk about what it takes to attract A love in our lives soulmate and I'm going to be part of this journey as well because I'm basically back in the single marketplace So welcome Catherine. Thank you Jonathan. What a joy to be here for part two of the conversation Now that we have a wonderful coupling We're open to new love Well, you know, it's interesting I did a post today in my instagram and I talked about the quality of a relationship isn't predicated by the amount of time or going the distance with someone it's really about the healing and the growth that can come out of a relationship and for those that You know a lot of times are in a state of fear and this piggybacks on our last conversation I want to show that there's hope to attracting, you know that Go the distance partner if that does exist and I was hoping that today we can kind of Pick that pick the nooks and crannies of that Yeah, absolutely So I think there's You know, I I've been lately pondering the idea of the difference between dating and attracting and And particularly because our dating marketplace has been consumed with things of swiping and such an internet I think of people, you know, many people are spending way too much time in the In the weeds and not really at the higher stage of attracting love in our life So maybe we could talk about that to get our conversation started. I think that's a great place to start because I've heard from so many people that it's a lot of work To do yeah sorting Right kind of trying to find that needle in a haystack Yeah, and I think what we're talking about today Is how do I become magnetic so that? You know that I just draw that person in the right way. I'm not I'm not constantly sorting through all the people who are not right And I think that you know the the conversation of this high quality man For a high quality relationship Yeah has to begin with us It has to begin with us because yeah, first of all all relationships are a spectrum of possibilities Right average relationship has its has its Potential for toxicity And it also has potential for elevation Okay, the higher dimensions of love where true love really can show up Where you get to have boundaries Where you get to make mistakes where you get to be who you really are But somehow the the field in the relationship inspires You to really strive to be the best person that you can be And to do in life, right? That's what we're all really hungry for Yeah So, you know all of us here I'm going to I'm going to just assume that everybody here who's listening to you Is a pretty high quality person because you're a pretty high quality man Well, thank you, you know and the fact that I use this term I'll be candid with everyone watching It's a little bit of you know for uh search engine optimization purposes But I I don't necessarily like to grade people based on quality but at the same time I do believe that there are humans that are suffering on the inside and makes it difficult for them to be in relationship And then there are people that are more empowered in their lives and they make better partners in relationship and to some degree That's what I mean by the word quality Dating what's interesting. I want to share with you an idea I had the other day I was thinking about particularly the way our current dating marketplaces where they're swiping And it's internet based and it's almost like telemarketing It's almost like, you know, like I I used to be in sales and I would be given a list of 100 names And I just call one after the other after the other after another and that really generated poor results Versus when I got out and did networking when I went out and played golf with business people When I started to do things like that. I generated better leads when I was in sales Those what we called warm leads And I'm I'm liking the dating process today is what can we do to create? You know warmer leads. What can we do to attract someone in? Rather than this dialing for dollars kind of methodology that we're currently involved in That's a great way to put it dialing So I I agree with you everyone has inherent value Yeah, I think if we even approach the you know Dialing for dollars dating scene We want to bring that that everyone has value even if people are mistreating us because it's a meat market out there We don't want to be a part of that So, you know, if you want to if you want to attract in love you have to start by being actually interested in being a loving person Let's start there So be loving wherever you are be respectful Be kind be generous as you can and have good boundaries and also You know, don't get your fantasies all caught up in the dating for dating for dollars Seen because you know, we have a lot of projections all of our hopes and dreams kind of get pinned on You know, we like that particular picture of that particular profile So without knowing who that person is but so so let's get you know, definitely so high quality I'm just going to define high quality Okay, quality is a man who has the capacity to commit Is to commit Yes, who has good character Yes, it's people. Well, he he aspires to have integrity in his business dealings in his Family relationships. He shows up with people You know as an honorable person And he has the capacity to create trust because love is unconditional but relationships are not Relationships depend on trust Yeah, trust depends on you keep your word. You show up. You're accountable You can self reflect on yourself as the source of the breakdown.  You can respond. Well, you know, you can Be an ownership of your flaws So so it's somebody who has that capacity now They either have the capacity because they were raised in a really loving family So they understand what it takes to actually create safety and love Okay, and or Okay, they've done a lot of work on themselves They've really they've they've you know, they've read the books. They've sat on the cushion in the couch for a long time You know And when you ask them so what went wrong in your last relationship, they're going to tell you more about themselves and about the other person Yeah So, okay, so I I reflect on this for a moment because well, I I grew up fairly Middle-class and to some degree I definitely had some childhood wounds and traumas in a variety of different ways But thankfully I didn't have an extreme case of trauma or abuse or neglect or that sort of thing And I recognize that I needed to do work on myself And and I've been on a journey a real soul searching journey for well over a decade To really become kind of the best person I can be And it starts with everything you just shared, you know I did a video about character and actions consistently matching the words and And genuinely wanting commitment and trust as paramount in their relationship and I listed literally everything you just shared So no matter whoever's watching this no matter where you're out in the spectrum I do do believe we have a capacity to call in A really fantastic life partner in our lives. In fact, everybody really quickly. I just want to say something Catherine's going to be hosting an event very soon I'm actually attending this event. It's a virtual event called calling in the one There will be a link below in the show notes There'll be a link in the in the in the comments section as well If you want to attend this I highly recommend it. I'll be attending this So today Catherine, I thought maybe we could talk about Kind of what's going to be happening in this course over the next is it eight weeks? Yes, it's a week course Yeah, so and I was and I was just looking at the chapters myself, you know Um, are you open to going through it little by little with everyone? Sure? absolutely So let's start with the first week Preparing because I think this conversation so fits into the idea of attracting And not the dialing for dollars. Okay Well, and and by the way, I met my partner Michael online Okay, but he's the only person that I I met On that online. I met one person. It was Michael and he's amazing like, you know, so So that's what we're talking about. How do you initiate magic into the process? Yeah, right. So, you know, we don't have We don't have our parents arranging our matches anymore And we're and we're not back where our grandparents had like four people to choose from because that's all Single people in their town. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, and and I think that You know, we have to recognize that the kind of wealth of choices that we have really can paralyze us So We have to initiate a little bit of magic Okay, you can set a goal to get a phd or to buy a house or get a great job But you can't really set a goal for true love you have to rely on magic You have to rely on That kind of intangible Synchronicity all those steps that we call the shirt You know, what is that when you meet somebody, you know, like when Michael and I met You know, I happened to say I just said to my daughter out of like how many songs are there in the lexicon of millions Two days before I just said to my daughter, you know My favorite song is is my sweet lord Okay, right old old song right old song And uh, I'm talking to Michael. I'm just getting to know him. We hadn't even met in person yet And he mentions my favorite song is my sweet lord, you know, that kind of the shirt those is kind of synchronicities inside So that's what we're really wanting to initiate here So that's that's that's what we're teaching in the class is how to awaken that and become magnetic To the person that you're really who's really right for you Well, some people are gonna consider that woo-woo, you know magic is you know, that's that's ridiculous. That's so illogical But I don't believe that to be true Well, I mean, it's just kind of an In our lexicon that you get these kind of synchronicities and songs It's somebody important if you ever had that experience You're sorry, you know, it's interesting because to some degree I I felt that in my most recent relationship But oh, so let me share something with you. So and I might have mentioned this before When we first connected I I felt a disconnect between the two of us And but the same time I had this nine there was this weird curiosity I am meant to meet this person. I really had this strong sense I'm meant to meet this person and when I met her We we we hit it off And and to some degree I I look back and I go, okay Well, now I can see where maybe there was some misalignment between the two of us But the same time Catherine, I want to say something This relationship was probably the healthiest relationship I've ever experienced It's a relationship where I went all in I I showed up in ways I never had before And she's really a beautiful human being we were just we're in, you know I almost want to say it's a timing thing or something else that's a misalignment But I I knew there was something about her that I couldn't put my finger on And now looking back I know this relationship wasn't meant to go the distance This relationship was meant to offer a deeper healing for and by the way And I think she would openly admit she healed tremendously in our relationship because I know I did Well, that's wonderful.  There's nothing wrong with it Well, you know and and what we said last time just for those who didn't watch that particular video Is that the happily ever aftermath was created when the lifespan was less than 40 years of age And they really weren't there wasn't any mobility in life you were kind of born into one area and That's the area you were going to stay in for the most part that that was it So your options were pretty narrow in life as well In your particular case you had did you met somebody you got married You had a child and the relationship didn't work out and do you mind sharing at what age did you meet? Your current beloved current partner. Oh gosh. I was 61 Yeah, you're 61. So it's like there's this Yeah, you put that golden bachelorette category I know I watched that show this week. It's fabulous. Yeah, I'm I'm analyzing it quite a bit Well, you know work By the way 68, you know the fastest growing single demographic is going to be 60 year olds I know Well, you know gray divorce is the fastest category of divorce people who are divorcing After you know long-term marriages and that Feel, you know that they can be complete. It's not a contentious hostile divorce. Maybe they raise children together They did a business together And while they're on to the next thing You know, it really this really started in the 60s by the way with the pill Yes, the pill. Yes treatment and viagra and yes, we're like, all right. I'm 80 I'm getting a makeover get me, you know to the lingerie store So for my 80th birthday because I'm going to go out and find me a new lover I think Louise. Hey, you know modeled that for us. So beautiful. Okay. Okay. So, but I'm just saying our expectations have really radically changed Thank goodness And we're not just ready to to hang it up at the age of 60 We're ready to then do the next part of our life in a really vibrant way How do we attract in a high quality man just to kind of because we're moseying Yeah, so let's start with the first week of Preparing for love like Do you mind giving us a little insight into the first week of the course you're going to be doing? No, the first week of the course actually begins with the future because most of us when we're working on our relationship issues What to go back into our past we want to we look at our parents marriage We look at our relationships With our older siblings or with our early caregivers You know and we we are going to find some Generally, most of us will find some wounds there some of us severe traumas, you know, some very severe of some kind of abuse or neglect which is a very high form of abuse and So so there's things to do. There's things to heal But I have discovered that we have kind of an under we have kind of a myth Inside of psychotherapy and i'm a therapist. So i've been around the block for a while And i've been with a lot of people But I think there's this method if I understand my past enough and I understand why I am the way that I am Why my patterns are the way they are where they come from What happened when with who why it happened that somehow it's going to liberate me to do it differently Kind of organically moving forward and occasionally that will happen It's not that it never happens, but when it comes to love These patterns tend to be very primitive and very deep and very Saved So I say let's start with the future Let's start with the future of what it is that you're committed to creating And set an intention because the moment somebody sets an intention for love It's different than having a goal. It's different than wanting love. It's different than hoping for love Because you know if you want something you hope for something The fulfillment of that really is outside of you you might pray for it You might even put it on a vision board But really if you're going to set an intention What an intention does like I'm going to be engaged by my 42nd birthday, which is the I said that started the whole calling in the one process, you know 20-something years ago with my first Wusband who is still a dear friend of mine who I did have my daughter with But I started with that intention and what that does is when you set kind of an unreasonable Intention for a future that does not look likely at all Particularly given that you've been trying to do this for a while The game is not to run out and make that happen The game becomes to become who you would need to be In order for that to manifest and then to be able to sustain it Yeah So it begins to pull you into the development all the ways you're going to need to grow When we have traumas in the past why it doesn't work just to go through your old trauma To try and just heal enough so that you can have love is because when you were traumatized You actually stopped developing certain skills or you never had the chance to develop certain skills Let's say you had a narcissistic parent So you kind of breathed it into your soul that you're invisible that no one really cares about your feelings and needs and then Inside of that consciousness Which you learned when you were two And you know it was kind of true in that home Because not because the other person didn't want to love you maybe they just didn't have the capacity That to care about your feelings and needs separate from their own But you never actually learned how to Present yourself how to ask how to ask what you need so that becomes developmental So if you then set an intention you've got a pattern and your science seem to wind up with narcissists and then you know Oh, I've dated my mother again Really what's happening is you know, you're you're kind of missing the capacity To presence yourself and to ask for what you want and need in the recognition That the other person actually cares. So what basically happens is if you think you're invisible You're sourcing your safety in relationship by disappearing yourself and putting all your attention on the other person Well, let me jump in for a moment because something I've observed as a coach is um, you know And and folks if you're watching this isn't just for the 60 year old category. This is the 30 40 50 60 even 70 year old category I noticed that when I went through my divorce at age 40 You know people they the the dating marketplace was very active because the internet was relatively the wild west at that time People began saying to me. Well, I learned what I want by what I don't want But I want to put a thumbnail here What I truly observed was people for example would write in their profile all the things they didn't want And so the focus was what they didn't want But they didn't really have an idea of what they really wanted to experience more importantly what they wanted to experience in this space in their life And you know, kind of the law of attraction is if your energy, you know, you know Whatever the energy you put out. Is it what you track? So what I've observed is women in particular We could keep attracting narcissist and players and bad boys and Emotionally unavailable men and commitment folks because they focused on what they didn't want and from what I'm understanding in the course That's your offering. There's going to be more an expansion on that Intention, correct. Yeah, I mean it look a lot of a lot of people have actually gotten Very clear about what they won't tolerate anymore. They won't settle for and then they're lonely because They're not pulling in what they do want. They don't know how to create what they do want So in week one and preparing for love We start with that intention. So in case of invisibility, you might say I my intention is to create a wonderful Mutual relate mutually respectful Mutually loving relationship where we both feel seen we both feel heard That we are best friends spiritual partners and lovers And this relationship will be in my life by New Year's Eve And the reason I like to put that, you know timeline in it is because it kind of puts a little I better get ready now. I better start, you know, preparing for that right now So, you know, whether it happens or not, it's not the main goal It's becoming who you'd need to be in order for that to happen So now you're you know, now you're just kind of playing a game and the game is To to begin to create your environment. So the first week we're we're redoing our home to match that environment Maybe you get two night stands instead of one Maybe you clean space out in your closet where that person can put their things I want to bring something up real quick. Yeah.  I mean Weeks before I attracted Marie into my life I had cleared out my closet my walk-in closet.  I'm a big believer in vision boards. So I had created a vision board and I had a picture of Marie Osmond in the Just because I love the hairstyle and coincidentally Actually, I should add Linda Carter because her name was Marie and she even had a little bit of the look to her as well So, you know, I think vision boards. It's not the literal sense But it really it's a powerful experience to put in what you want and And focus on it from a real heart centered space of joy and excitement And not necessarily from a place of lack Well, I like that what you're saying that the value of the vision board, which is also part of the preparing for love course that portion of the course um The value of creating the vision board is trying on that future Because when you're visioning you actually want to not be visioning like you're watching a movie out there You want to be closing your eyes and imagining what does it feel like? What does it look like? What does it sound like? What does it smell like? When he's just fresh out of the shower and I'm smelling the shampoo in his hair What is it like when we're laughing together or what does it smell like when he's cooking dinner for me? See what I actually get in into your body when you're visioning And then you're going to ask the universe for Four questions Okay, who am I who am I here? I'm loved. I'm seen. I'm safe. I'm happy. I'm thrilled I'm sexually turned on right so you're getting into your own experience That's not a list of external attributes. Yeah other person to have You're coming at it from the inside out. That's the first question second question What would I need to let go of?  You're gonna have to let go of your anger towards your sister Like there's we just know these things intuitively you just ask the question It will it will be there. You have to learn to listen to your deeper knowing Do I have to let go of my pickiness? Well, no, do you like it's not that it's not like i'm not telling you what you have to let go Telling yourself Well, I I bring that up because I We love avoidant behavior, you know, yeah, well, I was gonna say I think people and you know, I'm guilty of this But to some degree, you know letting go of you know, all the rules is really what i'm talking about when I say pickiness, you know, all the Oh Yeah, well, it's not I do find that there's a little bit. We have these images But I always say but you're not going to compromise your attraction to that person.  We're talking about the audience watching, you know, where you know You know the average height of a man is five foot nine and a half So, you know, I I think to some degree There's You know, it's it's one thing to have a desire It's another thing to create it as an expectation Yeah, you know and and and let me be clear. I'm in all in favor of you know, honesty integrity trust as expectations You know, I'm those aren't desires. Those are what I call bare minimums But how that package looks I think sometimes letting go of that And just trusting that the universe will find the person for you that fits exactly what you want anyway So we're making space for that person So what is he teaching points in preparing for loves? He was still on the first step, right? There's seven, but there's a lot that happens with velocity because I've worked with at least 60 000 Probably 70 000 people taking them through this process. That's okay. Wow three stuff That's my paid courses that people are coming up for the years because I've been doing this for a while for calling And the one came out almost 20 years ago. Oh, yeah And I we wrote it So this is the revised edition that we're looking at today just to clarify everything in there But the key teaching point I'm going to say in week one is introducing this idea of self as source And what I mean by that is to start to understand that, you know, a lot of us understand Why we are why the patterns are I'm attracted to this x y z I'm attracted to alcoholics because my father was an alcoholic or Or because I'm codependent. I don't you know, I I I go with you know dominating men because I'm afraid to speak up and you know, so we have our psychology down but And and it's interesting to know those things but nothing changes from those insights So what we want to say is you're not responsible for what happened to you as a child But you are responsible for the choices you're making and actions you're taking as an adult And you want to start to recognize That the patterns are happening through you and not just to you So the first thing is so I might say, you know, what's your pattern with with, you know, with all your lovers, you know Different size shapes ages colors, whatever income levels But there's always some dynamic And it might be that, you know, I'm always somebody's, you know caregiver I always like end up taking care of them Right, that's a common thing. I hear most frequently from women. I always choose emotionally unavailable men That was my thing too. Mostly on a woman. I had a big thing for married men when I was single years ago You know, and there were and it just seemed like my fate to be living that story because no matter what room I walked into none of the available men looked at me and all of the married men looked at It's just maddening and painful like we're laughing right now, but it was actually painful And um, so okay unavailable men. So so how am I the source Of unavailable men. So I'll tell you what I discovered Yeah, okay inside of looking at how am I the source of this And I you know, I went the psychology is my father left when I was 10 and crushed me And so I never want to get my heart hurt like that again, you know, that's the psychology of it But if I took responsibility for it, it's that I Never wanted I was literally choosing drama over love Because I never really wanted anyone to get close enough that they could hurt me again Now I'm being responsible for that. That's my choice. I'm doing that over and over and over I'm breaking my own heart in the process over and over and over Not able to fulfill my desire to have a child which I had wanted for years So, you know, when you when you when you put it like that Then you can sit with yourself and say Catherine sweetheart Is that is that worth it because this is costing you love could you you're not 10 anymore? You were crushed when you were 10 you have a lot more tools now You can handle it if somebody hurts you But I don't think you can handle it to go for your whole life without love Right you can negotiate that so all of a sudden when you make it conscious like how am I the source of this? So that that gets introduced That's a through line throughout all of calling in the one is personal responsibility because If you are able to see the specific choices you're making the actions you're taking or not taking As an adult you get to renegotiate those contracts and you get to think that we are not bound to continue Uh, our what I call our pseudo safety strategies that we developed when we were young and we didn't have any resources We have a lot of resources now as adults A lot of support a lot of help So that's really weak one preparing for love. Okay The level setting and intention seeing the pattern seeing ourselves as the source of that pattern starting to live into that future Okay And by the way folks just as a reminder if you want to join the course There'll be a link below to sign up for this to get the more full flavor of it So let's dive into and we're going to cover all the weeks really quickly What's happens in week two? Well, let's put week two and week three together because okay, okay While we've declared this future and i'm going to say it's almost like Michelangelo looking at a big slab of marvel saying okay, i'm going to i'm going to create david Okay, and when Michelangelo talked about how he created david And if you've never seen the statue of david in florence, I you know, I suggest you go because it's okay to behold It's beautiful But when he he said I just took away everything that was not david that was yeah Yeah, i've heard that everything that was not david so In week two we're looking at completing your past because we want to untether All of the anchors that we have in the past. So that's going to be resentments Because you know if you're resentful it's probably because somebody did something that was quite a violation You have every right to feel resentful But where where it stops love is that even if it was 97 percent the other person you've got to see your three percent Yeah, we're to plug up that hole Not having a boundary the not speaking your needs clearly the not negotiating for your needs Yeah, you know the skipping over of the red flags the avoidance of conflict to those kinds of subtle things That ended you know blowing up in our face. So you've got to see your part In a dynamic not for what happened when you were a child again, but for how that's playing out again with other people So once you make you see that you make an amends to yourself. You're on the road to trusting yourself Be able to love The other part of that is old agreements To look at it's like what are the promises you've made along the way because all of our agreements serve as Intentions and they're still operating. So if you when you were 16, I'm never going to get married like my mother and get Oh, oh, I see what you mean. Got it. Or I'm gonna you're the great love of my life I'll never love another man like I love you Hmm Or I'm never gonna I'm I'm gonna let my older sister get married first because I don't want her to be unhappy Right. So there's kind of overt agreements things we said out loud And then there's covert kind of contracts loyalty contracts We have that are tethering us to the past and tethering us to being unhappily single the other dive into this for a second because You know, we talked about a moment ago graying the graying divorce I've noticed a significant percentage of people who declare I don't want to get married again and And to some degree and I can understand why many people might feel that way, you know I mean they're especially from a financial perspective um That's an old agreement but it and so is it important to replace even let's say you don't want to get married again What replacement would you want that or is that further down the line in the course? No, really. I mean, I think when you're you're talking about the gray divorce and Truthfully, many people don't want to get married because now they have children And they have you know, they want to leave their assets to their children And yeah, I think to get married because so you can have a spiritual marriage. I don't mind marriage is Kind of a legal contract. It's a business contract. It is I think it's separate From the contract that you're making with your beloved michelin are not married for that very reason I wouldn't marry also michael gets a pension from his late wife Okay, it cost us a lot of money to get married Well, we don't really need to be married. We're kind of married in our hearts. We are going to have a spiritual ceremony and um, maybe have our friend mary and williamson who's off You know, it's very it's our our union is quite beautiful and sacred and we've been together five years now But um, but I don't I am not a big Advocate for the need to marry but I am a big advocate for commitment Well, where i'm getting though is if there's an animus or even a resistance to marriage that might coming back to the letting go Is that energy could be blocking just any relationship? Even if it doesn't have to be Well, it's incomplete. So you're putting up a wall Exactly. That's what you're talking about. Yeah, that's what you want to look at in this What so that is what you would be looking at in the second? Of the program here because it's completing that relationship In a way that would leave you liberated and free to marry or not marry So you're not like sourcing the next relic You're not bringing that the baggage of that relationship into the next relationship, which is essentially What's happening in that set case scenario the other piece the third piece of this is a toxic relationships where you're actually losing personal power So that's in a relationship with you know an alcoholic sibling or Maybe a boss who's abused, you know abusive with the hours or you know always yelling at you So you have to actually if you if you're if you're really standing for the highest and the best of love You have to be in your highest and best. You can't compartmentalize that I'm going to be you know giving my power away to my younger sister Constantly and never speak the truth or never set boundaries And then suddenly I'm going to be at my absolute finest in this relationship and negotiate and navigate it to its higher potentials It doesn't work like that. We have to be healthy across the board So you're getting your whole relational field lined up with the future that you're standing for Okay. Okay. Okay. I like that Oh, go ahead take us to the next step. So week three has to do with transforming your core Love identity because the biggest obstacle to love long-term love manifesting and sustaining happy healthy love Has to do with a core sense of self that developed when you were very young in relationship with your caregivers that you're somehow Not worthy that you're not important That you don't matter as much as other people matter that you're destined to be alone It's somehow you're not safe. So we all have Kind of you know, maybe multiple core wounds But I find that usually there's one particular identity that's getting in the way Might not be there in the early stages of dating Once you start to get a little triggered is when it's show up. That's when we go into I'm threatened here I'm not safe here or seeing no one was ever going to show up for me Anyway, and we kind of collapse into those old stories And then we start operating out of those old stories from the consciousness of that old story And when we're centered wherever we're centered at the level of identity is where we're generating our relationships from So you'll actually set somebody up to play out that story Now this is where people are like crazy because we're like, oh, it's in my unconscious This is where I'm victimized by am I on psychology? I can't get rid of this That was like exactly where I was going to go next. I want to hear now So and calling in the one we actually had this very elegant process of being able to name it from your body To learn how to mentor that self in your body who's holding that story Connect it with the part of you that is holding a different possible truth the deeper truth I know that i'm valuable I know that i'm worthy of love I didn't come here to be alone. I came here to love and be loved.  You still get triggered, but you're not creating the relationship from the triggered place Okay I want to jump in really quickly Because just thinking about what we've shared in the last 20 minutes. I go wow, this is a lot of work You know, I mean will I ever get there? Will I ever actually be in that space and my point is is that You know, I think there's a tipping point where Doing individual work taking personal responsibility You know changing patterns letting go It's not like there's a you know, you reach this epitome at some point You reach this pinnacle if you will but I feel like when you reach a tipping point Then things start to manifest in your favor and and this is just a supposition on my part And I want your perception on it or perspective on it. It's not that you have to love yourself fully It's just that you're in a state of loving yourself to attract love in does that feel Here's the thing Jonathan, okay Calling in the one was created when I was in my 40s Okay, and I had been a psychotherapist for years. I've been a spiritual practitioner for decades I've been therapy for 12 years in in I went to landmark education for 12 years And I was my thing I guess because I was in 12 step programs for 12 years So what was calling in the one is it's almost like I've done the work for you You actually can have this shift in seven weeks. That's the promise of course That's what and I have a lot of evidence for that a lot. Okay. Very quickly So I know what it is to work on your issues for many years It doesn't mean look and what you're pointing to is it some of the hurts that we suffered when we were young We'll always we're always going to be healing those wounds. Yeah, that's kind of where I'm getting at Yeah, like so this myth like you have to heal all your wounds before you can have love That's what I'm breaking up. No calling in the one is manifesting love now outside that story You're outside the story and you're accessing your capacity to create love from the highest and the best of who you are Not from the weakest part of who you are. Okay Well, let's go into thank you for that. So let's go into the next week and the week after that Well, so week four now. Okay, so we've gotten rid of everything that we don't want Okay week four is now about how to actually manifest Okay, okay. Is this dating? Dating or you know walking through the islet whole foods and you know, there he is and you know that kind of That that's that like your love light is on and people are showing up And it's a whole different caliber of people So this is where you start kind of evolve you see evidence Very quickly That you do indeed have the power to begin to attract people that are outside of your old story Okay, and so the first, you know, three weeks are just kind of clearing the field clearing the space and when we get into this Uh part of the course what we're doing is essentially we're doing a lot of visioning And one of the keys to being able to manifest quickly is when you desire something like an Like and of course I can have less like the world is my oyster Everything is possible and when you're actually centered in that part of yourself And then you're feeling desire. It's one of the strongest magnets on the planet You know, it's very different than wanting something if you if you break down the latin route of to want it's from black Is what it gent it what is? But if you break down the latin route to the word desire Okay, to await what the stars will bring Right so the energy of Can you say that one more time? Yes, so if you if you go back and you and you break down the word To want to want something At its root it means from black Okay, got it coming from not having The consciousness of wanting something is okay. I don't have it The consciousness of desire And what the word actually means is to await what the stars will bring so there's just kind of delicious experience so if You know if we desire if we try and desire before we do the david thing where we're looking for taking away everything but In our consciousness, we're kind of like I can't have this other people can have it I have a lot of evidence about why I can't have it right. Yes. Yes. Yeah So so it it's that's what neediness is I want something but I can't have it and it's repelling and none of us want to be needy So then we pretend we don't have any needs at all Which is horrible because then you can't assess if somebody has the capacity to give you what you need If you're not going to actually need something So when you're in uh, when you're in what I call power center Your adult center, you know, you're worthy of love. You know, you have the power to create it Which is where we get you by week four Then you can start to dream. I want to have you know Sexuality like just you know all in the field a lot of arrows in the field I want to have a laughter. I want to create a family with this person I want to just swoon when they walk in the door. I want to you know, all the experiences I want to be intellectually stimulated. I want to be spiritually inspired The word daydream comes to mind. Is it kind of daydreaming in a sense? Maybe I mean, I think I think of daydreaming I mean, maybe it's just how I think of is kind of out here up in the clouds a little bit. This is a good body Okay, okay in your body. Remember I was talking about but but what does it look like? What is it? Like what is it?  Yeah. Yeah. Yeah Mission and what was missing in your relationship I just saw that my battery is about to run out Well, we're okay, we'll make it fight. Can we do it? We'll do the balance of it in the last five minutes I have two percent. Is it going to make five minutes? Well, let's see where we go and then we'll end there Okay, so step Five six and seven five is about self-love Okay, that's where you just learned how to just love yourself. Yeah After woodward thomas right here Well, you just learned how to love yourself. You're in communion with yourself.  You know how to soothe yourself like you're learning all these skills Six and seven is about starting to put it into practice having the courage to show up in new ways If you've never asked for what you need to learn to just be overt about that to take the risk to show up differently To be able to hold the high watch for love to bounce back in the face of disappointments because it's all food for growth You have a new relationship to disappointments And and you're holding space for the unimagined to show up So I know you're going to run out of battery and folks if she all of a sudden disappears You know, we're grateful for the time that you've shared with us You know Everyone I want you to know something Catherine is not just a dear friend, but I truly value her work I want to share with you Catherine Some of what you teach kind of mirrors what I do in my own work, you know for my clientele Not, you know, and I and I noticed that there was this mirroring because I think there's a universal truth You know truth, you know is that when a person has let go of the past they've done the inner work They're loving on themselves.  So really quickly. Oh, she's back She's back oops So everyone first off now that Catherine's back, I want to thank you for you know joining us today This has been a real treat to have you on if you want to join the course with me There's a link below to Join the course it starts in a couple days. So check it out I think you'll get a great amount of value from it. Also. I highly recommend checking out the book Calling in the one Which there's a link below to get a copy of this book as well So if you found value in this video, please do me a favor Please hit that like button. Please share this video. 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All right, you're alive. You're alive. What's up, y'all? Are you sad? Sad. Sad is what? Come on. Because we have to leave. We have to leave. We'll be back though. Sad is one. Linda, first one. What's up? She's not hiding. She's just mixing. Mixed solid G over there. I'm being science-y, all right? Oh, now they all come in. So many, so many fam-fams. It's like overwhelming. It's crazy. Wow. Two nights in a row, Eek. But we had classes at... Yeah. Hold off on the questions. We're getting ready. She's over there and I'm right here. Hold off on the questions. Please. If you have any questions. If you don't. Please. Please.  So we can see the tints and the metallics and what these tints do. Are you about to leave? You have to read the thing. It looks like milk attack. A little bit chilly here. A little bit chilly here. A little bit chilly here. I should have done hot water baths but sometimes you get better cells with thicker resins. The resins that have been setting up for a while I'm going to assume that's right. That's a new science assumption. Yeah. The reason why we're using round bases is because they're available and they're a lot of fun to pour on. I feel like it's a little different. Yeah. So Wilden. Romesh. Romesh. Well thank you Jamie. Have a good night. Thanks for dropping in. Happy Monday y'all. Tuesday for us. We're time travel. We're coming to you from the future. So if it echoes. That's why. I think we're going to do a few pours today for y'all. And I'm just going to do a pour after I do a pour and I'm also going to do a color test because I've got a lot of questions about the differences in some of the colors. So one of the most popular ones I'm going to do for y'all. You're welcome. It's amazing here. Sandy if that's who said that I think that's who said that. The name ended with I. It's beautiful here. Hi Rozzy. Is that Rozzy or Rusty? There's Rusty. He's in here. Yeah Sandy said that. Roz. Sorry. Buttercup moocow. East Coast is better. I haven't seen Buttercup moocow a little bit.    Thanks Cheryl. You're about to sneeze. I just didn't want to fall off this little steps stool. Just over exaggeration. Happy Owl. Sarah Cliff. Trudy. 101 people watching. I can't make me. Well, it'll only take a second but it is a little chilly so it might take a little longer to dry so it might affect it. She's taking a little journey outside. She can see we put those pieces out there in the sun so they can cure a little faster. I knew you're flying back. Tonight. I think our plane leaves at 11. Something like that. She went outside to spray paint the edges of this round. I'm not sure what she's going to do. Oh, she's going to do black, white, dark turquoise and gold. I think she's going to do like a negative space I think. I think it's going to be amazing. How do you mix the cold? I'll send you guys some boxing kangaroos if you don't put that thumbs up in here. I would mix it a little longer than you should but then know that if you do for too long you're just messing with the working time. So be careful with that. Hi, Lisa. How are you? Zaki Zoo. Indiana. Kathy is in Indiana. Sorry if I'm the internet is catching up a little fast. It's a little slow out here. So I'm trying to get y'all and yeah, we had a good time, Cheryl. We definitely saw a lot of stuff here. We went and explored. Took a train yesterday to the city. That was fun. Debbie is in there showing off. Marty and I just got back from our cruise leaving Friday for another one. Way to rub it in there, Debbie. I hope you guys had a good time. We love going on cruises. Hey from Galveston. How are you, Pamela? Thanks for joining us live here in Australia. Yeah, we'll definitely visit Queensland. Did I say Queensland or Queensland? Queensland. On our next tour I think we'll do, aren't we doing kind of like a big U ending up here for the final finale? Cruise, what's a cruise? Somebody said Zaki Zoo. Cruise, what's a cruise? Are they those mystical things called holidays? Mary Jane Thompson, hello. Do you do classes in San Francisco? We sure could. Make a stop in Florida, please. Cheryl, it was literally the trees and the plants that made the city smell good. Where we were at we were in a park that it smelled like you walked by one of those soap companies in the mall. It was pretty amazing. Yeah. How about New Jersey? Hey, you know what? We are game for all the stops. We're going to have to make a moo tour so we can take moo. He can't be at the babysitters all the time. Ozzy, Ozzy, Ozzy. I didn't want to do it because I'm not Australian. Can't handle Florida. We're not going anywhere near Florida, so that's good. What about Florida? She said don't go to the Panhandle in Florida. Our end goal is to be able to afford to rent an RV for a month and do like the gamut. We want to see all the people and all the places. Jeff, love your very soft whisper voice. Mary Jane, I'm behind the camera so I don't want to yell. We have it looks like a different language with some hearts. I don't understand that, but thank you. The color we're using today are dark turquoise by color. Hold on. A little up close there. I can kind of see it. Just know that that's dark turquoise. Dark turquoise. I'm also going to use one of the tints. Turquoise. Jeff and I loved the tints from before we came up here, now after seeing all of them. Invisible artists. Thank you. Thank you. Stone Coat, thanks to you, I'm sure as well. They said they've been watching us for over a year. You guys are great. We try. Thank you very much. Julie, hi. I'm talking about the kangaroos. Can you tell me about this? How is it? It's a low density wife. Rhode Island. Cheryl, we'd love to come up to Rhode Island. So Snow White, dark turquoise, and turquoise sees tints. If you use the tints, it doesn't take much. Always have. Oh, she said I love you guys. What language was that? Diana West with the heart. Sorry. She said I love you guys. Heart, heart, heart. Yeah, we'll definitely do some California touring. I'm hoping this new gold is available to you all soon. That gold is going to go crazy. It's going to go bananas. Miss Janice is in the room. If you guys have any color obsession questions, you would like us to rest. She's just over there in the corner. Hold on a second. She's just observing, being quiet. She's resting. She's been filling everybody's orders. Hi, Robin. He's like, I use the code ATD in all capitals, and you'll get $30 off of your $80 order. Any advice? I'm not a great drawer. Drawer. Trudy, what I've learned, I'm good D, thank you. What I've learned on drawing hands, this will be a fast little like, see the shape of a hand. Draw this shape. Try to get this angle, then just do lines. Then do just this part, this part, this part, this part. Just draw squares, and then you can kind of shape it after that. Even if it's like this or sideways, just draw the main draw the main structure and then do these parts. Because if you try to go outline of a hand, it's nearly impossible unless you've been doing it since Leonardo did it. But just do the main part of the hand first, then the fingernails, and just our fingers, and it's just practice.  That's the best way. Just do it when you're not doing anything. Or when you want to do it, just you'll find that you'll want to do it more once you start doing it. Tammy, this is going to be nice. I've done these colors before, minus the tints, and with a different bold and I loved it. So I wanted to do it again. Let me get in here. With colors up, I hope are going to intensify the look of the original piece. You guys forgive me if this is very wobbly. I'm going to try to get in here and get it close up. There you go. It charged me to read the comments right now, so if I don't get your comment or your question or... So I had an idea of the way I want to go with it, and now I'm thinking different. I'm thinking I want to do like... I would go with your original. That's what happens to me every time. And I steer away from what I originally wanted to do, and then I want to throw it outside. I just rework it till I like it better. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. What's the gold is doing in the thing? 100-141 people and that's awesome. Can you see it like bubbling up? Like the gold speck? It just wants to come up through there. That's a trash can. Hey, Terry. Buttercup. I had some Ted beer, and then I had something at the airport, I believe. It wasn't bad. But I did find Tiger beer that I really I really enjoy that. It's a good one. Ted was a little bit much for me. We did we did try Vegemite. We did try party pies. Is that what they're called? Meat pies. Tim Tams. Sausage rolls. Yeah. Wait till you guys see this gold. It does everything that you expect it will to do. Did I just make some words up? Yeah.  Whackers. Where's our mods at? Where's our our troll finders? Troll patrol. Yes, this is all color obsession Cheryl. Are you selling that new gold yet? She has you're not selling it yet. Not yet. That's just a sample. She's just giving you guys a little taste. A taste. Whose gold is that Jeff? It's color obsessions. It's Janice. Thank you guys for the thumbs up. Thank you. Thank you. And if you give us a thumbs down at least let us know. We love feedback. Even if it's negative which we could learn from and you can get it out. And what you don't like about it. Go ahead. We're not mad at you. Yeah. Just know that our followers might say something to you. When will we be able to buy it? We didn't tell the question. I'll let you guys know. She'll let you know. We will definitely let you know. They're super busy right now. So yes. Giving a nibble of gold. Thanks Tammy. Yeah, Denise. That's gonna be interesting. I think I want to move this because I'm getting that reflection of outside. Then if I move it I get the reflection of the light. So basically this trouble is real? Robin, we leave tonight. Diana, is that how to say that? Diana West. What you'll have to do is just let it dry completely. Give it a couple days. Depending on what kind of resin you've used. And wipe it down with rubbing alcohol.  Wipe it down one more time and just do a flood coat with your resin. Wipe it somewhere where the dust will not get on it. You're getting a beautiful reflection of Erika. That's true. Heather Moore, how are you? CJ, how are you? So simple, so simple. How fun. Let's see here. I'm gonna take you guys off this stand so we can take you around. Look at that. She's showing off for you guys today. Right? Buttercup just has all M's. Joe Fish, how are you? Wow, amazing. Love that gold. Hey guys, stunning piece. Oh my goodness. Go over here so you can see this reflection of this gold. Can I even see it also? Yeah. This is unreasonably badass. Somebody called 911 because she just murdered this board. Murdered. Murder board. Murder board. That's bananas. Babe, so simple. So it's like you were under the sea and you were recording. Hey, where's the height button? We just got $25. Cheryl, thank you very much.  Like, oh my gosh, that's so amazing, babe. Oops, sorry for that reflection. Kim says that is so beautiful. Tiffany, so elegant. Wave, chum. Margaret. Awesome. Love it. Love this one. That gold is everything. E, I hope you bring me some gold. Rick S. Sweet pea. Bunch of little... Yeah. Holy... That's insane. So simple. So elegant. So classy. Could you list the colors when you finish? Sure can. We can tell you right now. Soon to be out for gold. She doesn't have it out yet. She has what was the white? You said it's a dense? A low density white color obsession. The dark turquoise which is amazing. It's been hard to see that. And then she used turquoise sea for the black. She used stone coats of that black. Very nice, babe. Very, very classy. Donna Parker says do you know how long their resin can last? Can be played with. They who? What resin? Margaret, thank you very much. Ocean. Need gallons of that gold. Hi Mallory, welcome. Sorry, I'm going back through the questions. There goes another wad of cash on ATU website stuff. What does low density mean? Sherry's creative poor art. What does that mean? Low density. Oh, babe, that's lovely. I'm picking up the terms. Lovely. Just a simple little gold flutter. But look at that. Look at that, you guys. You can see that turquoise in there. Through there. I don't know if you guys can see it. You can see there's black. Then there's the teal there. You can see it better from the other side. I thought you could see the gold black spider from the other side. There's a small one there. All right. If you guys haven't seen this, I'll give you guys a little taste of our color selections here. Yes, Cheryl, we used Oh, they said they couldn't hear you. Yeah. So what were you saying about the white? What's the difference to density? It's to the weight of the pigment. So what's the difference to density? Is that the snow white or is that you have two different whites? White uses a light density white. Gotcha. So it may create different effects because it has a different density. Gotcha. Are you going to list them on the website as the same color? Or are you going to list it as light density? There you go. Thanks, Ocean. Ocean. I think so. I think so. It's like a matrix thing. She's going to do a smaller one here. Should we give you another something to put under there? That makes me nervous. Just having one of these buckets under here. That's not going to work. Sorry for all the moving around, y'all. Let me put you guys back in this stand. How do we follow Janice? Does she also have a YouTube channel or Instagram? Instagram. She has an Instagram. She's in an Ocean studio. And that's how she spells color obsession. That's for your YouTube channel. Yeah. I'm going to get her on YouTube, people. It's going to happen. I have Janice all my art budget. This, oh, maybe, I have Janice to thank all my art budget this month already. Oh Gabe, yeah. It is for sale here. I think some of it's being re-surfaced, I believe, flood-coated, flood coat. Judy's in the house, Judy, Judy.  That's up to you, babe. If you're feeling that white, do it. But then, you know, that's gonna come through there. So, I don't know, maybe you should do a reverse, do all white and then some black, gold and the teal. If that's enough, which, oh, that's enough. This is for you, Judy, from Janice. Lavender purple. Got you a little smiley face there. Did Graham draw the smiley face? He's pretty good at, oh, okay. I saw a smiley face on his sign. It looks like you're decorating a cake. You can't decorate cakes because I always eat them before I'm finished. Sherry, we've enjoyed our trip tremendously. It's been an amazing time here, yes. I miss when you guys list everything in the description of what you used. Do we not use, do we not do that? No. It just is the colors. I don't list them anymore, but I can and go back and do that. Okay, well, there you go. Yeah, the rounds are fun to pour on. It's such a, it's a different, it's a different dealio. Everything happens for a reason, babe. I would heat it up. It's a little more easier to, couldn't hear Janice.  Probably be around 45 minutes. Yeah, I'd say about 45 minutes. If it's a little hot in the room, it would be 45. If it wasn't too hot, you didn't use too much heat.  I believe that is, is that the tint? Okay, she just used the dark turquoise and now this is, oh, look at that. You're welcome. I believe this is, what size is that? She said 40 centimeter, so probably 12 to, what would that be, about 15? Let's get, it'll be, it'll be fine. It'll be that, it goes along with that guy. Sorry, y'all. There's the clean rag that, I think you might need some more white, but it might be just subtle. That's what she said. 18 inches-ish. Please, size isn't important. No, that's not 24 inches around. The one that she used, she just used is probably 24 inches. What you thinking? You had someone asking about buying the last piece. Oh, I didn't see that. Sorry. Thank you, Tammy. I don't know what, how much is the last piece? What are you doing? Are you going to swipe? Oh boy. Look at that. Do it. Do it. Swipe. Everybody's like, do it. Let me take you guys down so you can kind of see this. Please swipe, swipe. Oh, Tamara asked. What do you think, babe? Look at that. But look at that, you guys. How crazy is that? Swipe on a curve. No, wait. We can always do another one. She's going for it, and she's using a rag with alcohol on it. Look at that, but that's still fun, though. Too far right there. It's still fun. That's like so different, babe. Holy creepers. Yes. I think it's awesome. I think I'm going to do a full swipe. Looks good. No. Amazing. Leave it. Amazing. Those cells are bananas. Actually, that looks good. Oh boy. Oh boy. She's going crazy, ladies and gentlemen. Yeah, Rod. That was pretty genius of him. Yeah. You know that just added like $10 million to that piece? If it's real, that would be amazing. The thing is, if he's ever been caught doing anything, stealing anything, got arrested, DUI, and his fingerprints are out there, they're definitely going to find the fingerprints on that. He wasn't wearing any gloves when he made that shredder. Babe, you turn everything into amazing when it's already amazing. I'm not digging the composition. I just wanted to see what would happen. You think I'm going to heat it and pull it all the way through? Babe, you're acting like me right now. Just leave it. Look at her face. She squinted like somebody farted. I'm in love with this. Wow, that's bananas. All right. Well, here she goes. This is the Banksy in her. Somebody, she, long time ago, made a destroyer swipe for this piece just in case somebody wanted to buy it. This cell is amazing. Leave it. Last call. If somebody wants to buy this, she's about ready to do a big swipe. She's got two ready. Leave it. It's amazing. How much for it? Super tilt. Don't even go there, Jen. Walk away. Y'all like it better. Leave it. I have to say goodbye. Goodbye, Terry. More turquoise. No, love you guys. It was great meeting you. Thanks, Terry. Drop that paper towel. He's amazing. That's still fun. Look at that. That's so fun. Wow, that's amazing. He's more turquoise. Do you guys like that heat gun better than the red one? Well, we can't use our red one because their power will blow it up. We tried to plug it into an adapter and it nearly blew up seconds when we turned it on. So these heat guns are good. They're a little more powerful than we're used to, but you adapt. It's just heat. If I did what he did, it would turn to mud. Sea turtle. Yeah, I can see sea turtle. I think I'm going to put it up on a slow tilt and let it... I'm definitely going to have to do a bore over it, a little flood coat. Yeah, I would definitely heat those so that it does kind of slowly tilt. No, Rod, it's not... It's a dense white from color obsession. The black is the black from Stone Coat. There's your more turquoise, y'all. That's the dark turquoise. And that's the... What color is that? Turquoise C? The tent? These tents are amazing. It might be. Hey, Jeff and Erica, Florida calling. That's beautiful. Thanks, Kathy. Thank you very much. Yeah, Julie, those tents are amazing. I'm going to be using the tents here in a minute. If we have enough time on the phone... Oh yeah, I forgot. It's like, I can feel it. It's hot. Please take a pretty part out of it. Yeah. I don't know if your phone's gonna... All right, y'all. I'm up here. I need all those colors in my life. Everybody does. They're amazing. Do you still have a code on buying stuff? For... For whom? On my website or another website. Hey, y'all. Thank you. I don't know if you... I can put another code up for y'all today. Let's... What code should we put up today? I'll put one up for you guys. Thank you, Philly Phil. I'm not sure. I haven't talked to him today. Hi, Mary Jane. I did this one yesterday. The ATD fan code is still active. The temperature in the studio is 24 Celsius. Isn't that new gold just bananas? I can't even handle it. Morning, Annie. Isn't the studio space amazing? How much fun is it to play in the color house? All of the amazing. It's almost overwhelming, right? So, the turquoise was now on my finger. Dark turquoise by color obsession and the turquoise C's tint also by color obsession. Absolutely, Lisa. I'll start listing them for sure. Can you guys make purple and orange work together? I have so many people asking for those colors. Oh, that's a tall order. Oh, I lost one today. They're all about to go. Yeah, I would definitely add black or white to it, possibly both. The gold is a powder, which I'll show you guys in a second. I've used almost all of her stock of it, though. What was the green blue on your pour from yesterday? I think it was green C's by color obsession, but let me double check her. Yeah, it was green C's. This is the green teal-y color that I used yesterday. Could you make a tint by just adding less pigment to the resin or would that not work the same? Well, the pastes are mostly usually very opaque. So, depending on how much resin you are using, you probably could, but you wouldn't be able to get the depth of the tints with just adding a little bit of the paste instead of using a tint because reasons. I'm trying to think of the scientific way to explain it. You could. You could get a faint color by just adding a little bit to a lot of resin, but you won't get the depth that you can from using a tint. Thanks, Jerry. We'll see you in Sydney, I'm sure. Are you using the silver leafing one? I want to do a piece for breast cancer awareness. We're actually thinking about making that the challenge for this month. What pinks do you have? She has every pink ever invented and some that haven't even been invented yet. Let me take you on a journey. Let's go adventuring. So that's about a tenth of them. Then some powders. Then I'll show you over there. I would love to work with resin. I have you any tips? I could purchase in the UK and recommend a brand. Do you have a distributor in the UK? She's currently working on a distributor for color obsession in the UK. Right now, as far as I know, the best resin to use is Eli Kim. So master cast or ultra cast. That pink chiffon is so nice. Peach pearl is good, but those aren't really breast cancer. The color, no, it's just pink. That's a little bit too faint. Hi, Tysie. How are you? Thank you, Sherry. On October 5th, you did that big gorgeous round. Did you also have deep purple with the magenta and turquoise? Trying to remember what colors I had in that. I don't think I had a purple. I think that was the result of colors mixing because I had tints. This is a good baby pink. The dusty peony is good. It's very subtle. Taffy pink is kind of like a Barbie pink. The wild berry is kind of a more of a hot color. I know it's all the pinks. Is that flamingo? This is magenta. This is a magenta ink. Nope, tint. Sherry, I don't think I used a purple in that pour. Hi, Kathy. Wish I could find those discs in the US. We're thinking about finding someone to make them and carrying them. Absolutely, Tabitha, anything we can do to help raise awareness. Congrats, Brandy. Is that the stuff you're bringing back with you? That is all Color of Sessions stock. This one is flamingo. I don't know if I have that one in stock. I may have to add it to our order. Is y'all a foreign term to y'all or is that just me? Noticing people are like, what is y'all? Are you going to be getting the flamingo pink tint? Yes, I'll add it to my order before we leave Australia so that you guys will have access to that awesome color. Bye, Kathy. Congrats to all the people that are survivors. The difference with the Home Depot rounds and these is they're lighter and they have a ring on the back. I don't know if you can see that so that you can hang them. And the ones at Home Depot are solid. They're very rough. Yeah, you have to prep them a little bit. Ray, can you send me a link to those people and I will get in contact with them for the fam. Jeff, can you save a piece if you mix the resin wrong by putting another coat on top? If you mix the resin wrong, I guess and it doesn't set. Can you save it by just adding another coat? I wouldn't even possible. And then wipe it, try to wipe it down with alcohol maybe and then sand it or just scrap it if it doesn't work. I mean that's hard to say. Send us a picture of what's going on and what will definitely help you. I speak y'all language. Thank you Colette for the thumbs up reminder. I've started saying y'all at work and they look at me like I'm a lunatic. Hello y'all from Arizona. Lori, yeah they're super heavy like almost one and a half inch thick and solid but we're working on finding a source of these lighter prepped MDF style boards for y'all. Y'all is normal to me. Rhonda, so Bea you're using all the colors I see. Well I'm using them because I want to add these tints to them to show you how intense they get like how much of a more vibrant or it changes the color completely that you can make your own color if you wanted with just adding a little bit of tint to these. For some reason I really excited about this orange and the yellow see if I can make like a really bright. It looks like you're working on a rainbow. It does doesn't it? And then I want to put the tints in that silver leaf. How much for the rounds it loves? They're pretty affordable. I think you can get like ten dollars. The small ones are ten dollars. Something like that. They're not bad at all and I'll see girls saying y'all on a construction site gets them confused. I'd imagine. Thank you Cheryl. Hi Melba we are having an amazing time. Who did the thumbs down? I'm offended by that Doris. We have about ten consistent trolls that just hit the thumbs down on every video. It's always like eight to ten. Whatever. So the inks are transparent. Yes the tints are transparent. It doesn't matter how much you put in. They will always be so that you can see through them. They get darker. They just don't get opaque. Yeah there's definitely a difference between dark and opaque. Hey Nina. The question is this is a Nina from the class and she went to dinner with us. She's a lovely lovely lady does amazing artwork. I just saw this message. Love the studio. It's amazing isn't it? I use y'all all the time but I'm in Texas. Well I'm in love with my pigments. Can't wait for you to get the rest so I can place another order. Won't be long. I think our shipment's going out the same time we are ish. Dirty cat pour that rainbow on some white. From you to blue paste is that more black than blue? It looks black on the website. Give me just one second and I will. We can't hear Jeff. Talk up. Talk up. It's not words. Add it to this text. Yes. Just to show you guys I actually have to do a blue color test. So I will be showing you y'all all the things. So Trudy wants to know what the difference a tint and an ink is. So a tint is made from color crystals and it's like an amplified ink. It's way more saturated. I can tell you that I've had colors on my fingers since I got here and made the mistake of touching something without a glove on. I think I also have some on my face. So that's pretty poor. We miss you too Judy. Yeah Nina I can see you. A thumbs down if someone is jealous don't stress there are 124 thumbs up. Thank you for all the thumbs. Also there are 187 people in here so someone's slacking. Is there a supplier available in the UK for all these products? Can you send me a link or would the P&P not be cost effective? Well I can ship to the UK. If you send me an email Annie I will check how much it would cost me to send to you or how much it would cost Janice to send to you from Australia. We can find the cheapest way to get you these colors until we have a set supplier in the UK. There is someone in negotiations with Janice to do that. I absolutely love the color of sessions sparkling diamonds fuchsia I bought from you. It's amazing. Yeah it is. It is a very very sparkly opaque crushed diamonds and pearls color. Richard I'm working on finding somewhere in the States to get the rounds. Ellen did you ask why they put the name ecru on the green? I haven't but I will. In the States ecru is kind of like a tan color and say they were like why is it green? It looks like a caterpillar from like a child's book pink chiffon. Yeah does color obsession have a silver that acts similar to the new gold? Yes they do and he's using it on his pour that he's about to do right now. It actually does some bananas stuff let me just show you one. It just gathers at the top just like the gold does. It's a different application same amazing. Do they carry an opaque deep green emerald as opaque? Yeah the emerald green pace and the emerald green and the diamonds and pearls are both opaque. Are you getting plum epoxy pigment back in? Yes I have some ordered plum. I have ordered yeah I have a lot of plum ordered with color obsession but the Artisou plum I believe has gone bye bye. Melissa from Amarillo. Nina asked if Jeff has tried using the torch on the resin piece like she did on hers on Saturday. We haven't busted out the torch again since that class but it's on his experiment list. Margaret I'm super excited about your upcoming stone coat delivery. Thongarengry caterpillar color pillar. It does look like Thongarengry caterpillar. I'm gonna need that silver and that gold. I'm gonna need it. I'm gonna try to sneak but I basically used it all warm. What is the silver called and do you have it in stock? Not yet. It's this quantity is just a tester for Janice. So now that I think she likes it she will be able to carry it. She just has to order it and then she has to rejar it and then it'll be available and then I can order it. Hopefully that won't be that long though. Oh yeah Margaret if you're looking for a stained glass window type look that is definitely what you need. The tints. No I have allergies. There's something. Maybe kangaroo dander. I don't know. That is messing with my sniffle system. So sniffle system. Listen it is technical and I don't have time to explain science to you right now. Everyone's like are you do you have a cold? What's up cat? Pick up some oscaciliconisysium if you're getting a cold or goose eggs. Okay I'm pretty sure I nailed how to pronounce whatever that is though and I don't think I could do it twice. Okay we'll have to order a lot. Well if you're if you're going for a stained glass that it's amazing what the tints will do because you can put one drop and it'll be a lovely color. Six drops later every drop you add is different has different intensity. Also heads up if you use tints don't put them in a cup first because it's so pigmented that it will eat through plastic and that is not a good time.  I know I got a video and a picture from his sitter today. Poor Moo missed him. He's having a great time though. I'm sorry for all the sniffling y'all.  Are you new Jeff? He's familiar with the me. That's the only descriptor I have. Hi Jane Dee. So he's adding the leafing silver to the yellow to make it an experiment. I'm gonna list all of this for y'all. It's gonna take at least 45 minutes to figure out what he used. Nina said I absolutely love my class with you Eric and Jeff can't wait till you come to Adelaide. It's honored to do list for 2019. Wait what year is it? That's next year. Yeah I'm definitely gonna add a video. I'm gonna record going to pick up Moo so everybody can see I was excitement. I know I'm gonna fall off of this step stool before like the end of it. Now Jeff's getting all sciency. Are y'all carrying the tent? Oh yes I do have the tent on the site. Artistsoflet.com, 2Ts, 2Ls and if you're in Australia you can also find them on Colour Obsession site. You hope to make it to Melbourne one day. Nina I do want to get a Moo Mosaic for sure. The discs are not on the website. We hope to start carrying them as soon as I find manufacturer. So can we make two of them? Yeah I just made just put that green into this with this what is this Caribbean blue with this purple. You guys it just makes it royal like it really intensifies this blue little green in there. Y'all I'm gonna have to re-watch this whole video to find out what may work so if I don't get the colors loaded loaded up today um. Also hold your questions for a second because I'm mixing colors. All right y'all I'm back on the original so I'm ending this one I think it'll be better stream. Sorry about the confusion. Hi Linda thanks y'all for bouncing around like that. I know it's frustrating. Is the feed better? This looks so fun. Yes Cheryl it's so interesting. It looks like it would be bubbles but it's not. It sells. So how did you do this part by just stretching it over the side and pulling it back? What's up Elspicy? It's so color wheel-y. So cat mermaid on the other feed basically Jeff just heated it all up and tilted it one way brought it back to the center tilted it this way. There are birds fighting outside right now sorry. Back to the center this way. What's up Elina? Back to the center this way back to the center so that it has this like faded stretch that creates these cells. So make sure you check out that other super short video. We're gonna put it. You can paint over that pink one. What color do you want me to spray paint the base? So I'm just getting sorry about the bouncing around y'all. Have a good evening Cheryl thank you so much. I just need you to know about how awesome this piece is. Look at those cells where you can see the other like the next color through it like so the red you can see the purple which is the next one. The blue you can see the green through because it's the next one. The green you can see the yellow through. Focus oh yeah those are from yesterday. Put y'all back in this. I know he made lime green and orange and yellow work next to each other which I have no idea how that happened. All right y'all I'm back. Anybody have any questions? What did I miss? Robin those are already set up. We're just helping them to get closer to a hard cure out there. They're already done. Hi Tamara. Dan how are you doing? Are you getting apricot back in really soon? I don't know if I had that on my order. I can add it to my order. Pardon? Lucy this one? Splendor. Hi Simi. Dora says looks like the shade from the Philadelphia Eagles. How does everyone keep from getting super sticky? I just found resin residue on my eyebrow. Um I just have accepted the sticky life. Also we keep um that bottle right there is alcohol. We just use put it on paper towels or a rag and wipe our hands off frequently or use alcohol wipes. Simi finally this also is watching ATD Live in Australia.  We've had a lovely time. I miss Kujo that's what I'm excited about when I get home.  I was wondering if you guys would possibly be interested in doing a collaboration. Absolutely Jeff. Please shoot me an email. Thorntonatartistall.com. 2g2ls. Jen are you in here? Can you put my email up? Jeff's like a kid in a candy store trying all the flavors. I just wanted to see about using these this silver with other colors. Um Nina I'm not using u-resin today. We've run out Jeff and I have gone through all of the u-resin that they brought us to use. So today's resin is pro-marine. Ah sweet yes please thank you. Okay absolutely I'll add apricot to my order. Jeff definitely looks like a mad scientist. No Diane it didn't go out yet but as soon as I get back I'll send it out. Um we definitely need to chat. I want to know how things are with all of the things you know. Poor artists are sticky. It's true one of our best selling aprons says poor artists like it messy and it's evident which I got metallics the other night. There's um she has a sparkle that basically you can add to any color to make it a metallic. I did the silver sorry I didn't mean to interrupt. I just got excited. I just I just mixed that silver leaf and then I took the tints just added the tints to it and that's it. I didn't put any metallics in there. That's an awesome color. Um Erica how did you like famo wood? Not not my favorite resin. Um it it has a propensity to yellow. It doesn't have a very long working time and it really smells. Did Jeff's first piece from yesterday sell to Aussie Karen? I believe she is taking the first piece from yesterday. Sorry Tamara. Jen can't wait to see it. I'm gonna miss you too Diane. Got 70 colors through your website and use the code. Okay ATD fam code is working so if you guys want I can't remember the discount it gives. Is it 10 percent? Five percent? It's one of those percents. What day is it there? We are in Tuesday. We are coming to you from the future and it's a lovely day. All right 10 percent. ATD fam is 10 percent. Yes it's silver leafing powder which is the same as the gold I used only silver. That looks like a rainbow planet. You're getting some smoke. It's definitely coming to the end. Allah hooray. What time is it? 11? It's not 11. What time is it? I can't tell time. It is 11. We've been filming for almost three hours. I want to live on that planet right Robin? What is smoking? When you work resin really far into the setting time and put a lot of heat on it it will smoke a little bit. It won't catch on fire. That's how you mix that. But it'll smoke. Trying to take over too much just makes it in with a tent and then it comes out where the tent's at. Can you recommend a gold that works like the one you're using today? Kind of mayron. That's probably going to be your best bet. We don't carry it on our website but mayron is like a body paint and it works very similarly to this. Zachy Zew says I'm three extra hours in the future over here. Just got to one up me, huh? What's up, Sherry? I just got my first commission for two pieces. Congrats. Lucy, Amy, Lynn. I ordered a mystery box. Bunny, I think I saw your mystery box order come in and I just haven't. Our intern doesn't fill mystery boxes. We want to make sure we customize them for people. Amazon has it. Oh yeah, yeah. I have it linked in the description box. It really for real does look like a planet. Rose gold mayron. I will do a test of the rose gold mayron for you guys for sure. So here's what's next. Jeff's going to set that piece aside and I'm going to start a new feed doing a blue color test of three of the blues by color obsession that kind of look black or similar on the website but I'm going to do a side-by-side test so you guys can see the difference. We've been asked a lot about those colors and I'm going to do a practical demonstration for you guys as practical as I can be anyways. Do we have an estimate on the gold? Not quite yet but as soon as I know something, y'all won't know something. Have you ever done string pulls and resin? We have. I would definitely recommend doing a chain pull rather than do a chain pull instead of a string pull. Thanks for stopping in Donna. So do a chain pull. It's heavier. You'll get more of the reaction out of it. This one's still evolving and being one of y'all do to come home. We leave today this evening actually. Super nice and this is just going to keep evolving as well. It's just going to keep moving. Where can we get one of those circles from? Well I don't know where in the states you can get one from. I'm working on it so that I can make them available to you guys hopefully. Yeah hopefully we can stock them. If not at the very least I'll find out who can make them and ship them for you. So basically you'll be home two days ago. Yeah. Pretty much that's how it's going to go down. All right y'all. Oh I wanted to be with you a little more but dying of sleep. I'm so tired because it's in hugs from the Brazilian girl. Good night Diana. Thank you. Thank you. Is Jeff bringing his work home? We're only bringing home things that's that and if a piece sells to someone in the U.S. we'll bring it home so we don't have to pay international shipping on it but probably most everybody that purchases from here will are probably Aussies. Can tints be mixed with this white or the logistic white to create a tinted cell power? I don't know why it wouldn't but it would be a fainted color instead of the deep color. You know what I mean? It'd be muted like maybe it would make a pastel. If I had this white here I would do a demo for you guys but all the only stumper to have here is black. What other prices for the rounds he's working on? Do you have a price for either of these? Just pick a number. So 350 for that one and six for the first one? I think all of our big rounds are six. Can we see your first four? Yes. So I hope that I don't lose cell service while I'm showing you. Jeff's amazing right here. Look at those understretched cells. That happens when things are slightly on tilt. This is the first one I did today. Look at that gold being amazing. Ghost cells out here. This is my favorite part. Is that weird? I gotta play go back in. It does look like a purple nose. Thank you all so much for the compliments. Hey Andrea, good to see you. So here's the thing. We're gonna try to get some rounds available in the states for you guys. I think Judy has a contact. She's trying to work with me. The big rounds are 600 and the little ones are 325. The first one that I did that was over there. That's one of the big ones. The second one we did was a small one. Jeff did a big one and a small one. So now I'm gonna do a really quick practical demonstration. Just for a minute but this is really gonna be a demo to show the difference in colors rather than doing a complete piece. So the three colors that I'm showing you guys today are Depression Blue which I don't know if you can see it here. It looks basically black and I'm gonna do Bermuda Blue which is a little bit like lighter and stormy seas which is also pretty dark. Oh sorry I can't see what y'all are saying right now. Jeff will be out here in a second to read all your questions, comments, concerns, suggestions, other things. It is gonna be a lovely day here. It's so warm. Maybe I haven't seen our previous video I think from yesterday where we filmed live from here to check it out and see a lovely area that's around the color of Session Shop. You get to see kangaroos and friendly possums. Maybe not friendly but not hideous and cuckaburrows and black because with the red tails which apparently are endangered. Slash super rare but they're five here because it's magical and then we saw some eagles. I haven't seen any koakas or koalas next time. So we're doing three blues and some white. I'm choosing to use mainly white because I want you guys to see the difference in the colors and if I use black you really wouldn't be able to see it. Not fully in frame. It's not in frame. Oh yeah sorry y'all. The first one is stormy seas. Looks super super dark. A little bit more down but bring it out this way. Yeah just first observation for the thin areas in the jar. It has kind of a blue purpley hue to it which is fine because Jeff and I a lot of times when we're trying to make the color darker with a blue darker we'll add purple instead of a black. You can kind of see the color on the stick. Hold it up below. Up. No the whole thing. There you go. Yeah you can see it through the cup easier. I was trying to show you on the stick. Didn't see it. Anyways. Hour. Wait a hundred and nine minutes. I thought we started over. Well I just started over when I had to get your phone and then nobody could it was pixelated so I picked up as soon as mine came back on from charging. Pick mine up again. So this one looks a bit more deep colored. Possibly even more purple in this one than the first one. But you'll see the differences soon. That is the Prussian Blues the second one. Stormy Prussian. Take it to where you can see through it. The last one's Bermuda Blue which is a bit lighter. We're using her phone. We didn't bring any of the cameras. So I don't know if you can see initially is this one's definitively brighter. This one's a little bit more purple and this one's a little bit darker. So Stormy C's a little bit more purple. Prussian Blue. Prussian Blue. Move over that way so they can see through it. There you go. Is a little bit darker but just by hair and Bermuda Blue is that one. Thanks Angela. I got you Andrea. But that all looks slightly different once they're interacting with the light. Any questions? They're talking amongst themselves. I want to keep you in order. Stormy C's. Prussian Blue. Bermuda. We're gonna do Lizard Eye Level. Lizard Eye Level? So I guess I'm gonna do... You guys noticed that Lizard's been drinking a little bit in there. So I'm gonna do one color at a time. Devo. I want a purple hoodie. Okay we can make you a purple hoodie. No problem. Stormy C's. That's Stormy C's. Master with that heat gun. That is Stormy C's. This is Stormy C's y'all. My nice elegant color. On this side we're gonna do Bermuda. Good use of color babe. Good use of color. Stormy C's needs bronze but it would look good with bronze. That one for sure. What's this one? This one's Bermuda. This one is Bermuda. Exciting ocean color. Good difference. Bermuda is where it's at. This white is so amazing with it. This is the new density white.  I always like my blues to have some degree of transparency so that that happens. Not the baddest transparent. And then this is... This one is Prussian Blue. Prussian Blue. I would put white right there and shoot it right up that way. Good job shooting it babe. Good job shooting it. You can definitely tell the difference between these colors. So it's almost like this color. This color makes that color. It would all be that way. So as you can see this first one the Stormy C's has a little bit of a purple heat to it. You can see it all right here where it fades especially. That's not a monkey. I know it sounds like monkeys. Not a monkey. Cucumber. The second one was Bermuda. It's probably my favorite because it's not transparent but it lends itself well to creating depth when you use white next to it. Hollowaw wants to know if the colors we're using do we have them on the website? Believe they are on the website. What is that white cat wants to know? That is Snow White by Color Obsession. Also on the website. And then the Prussian Blue is here in the middle which is like a deep cobalt. So two of them are very similar but... Two different Snow Whites that are great. I'm not finding them at all. None of them? Oh boy. I know Stormy C's is on there unless it's sold out since we've been here. I will definitely check before we leave and I don't have the inventory. Go ahead and add it to the order. Why not make it something? Do you have a name for that gold yet? Not yet. 007 gold. That's it's because it's classy and it's a little dangerous. For sure. You see her shirt? Bananas. I'm super dating this blue. Yeah it's really nice. You are out of a lot of colors in 50 milliliter size. Thank you Rusty. Good night. I was wondering why there's this like ridge right here. I forgot that there was a raised middle area. Bank. Okay those pigments all kick booty. I close my eyes for a second and magic. Please step away. It's done. It looks like an amazing planet. Just stormy planet. Let me see here. Tamara, Jeff's piece that he showed is still available if so. How much? I don't know which one. Jeff's ease piece that she showed. Oh over there. Yeah it's still available right now the deep turquoise. I don't know. That one? Deep turquoise black and white? Gold? Oh I read that dyslexia. Yes the deep turquoise and gold is still available. I believe how much? I think yeah 600. Dan, Ben, what up E and J? What resin are you using? This today is from Marine. I'm out of all the other ones. Misty Chambers said wow that's truly amazing. Thank you. I'll thank you very much. Good bluing. Good bluing. E even makes color sample demos look amazing. It's true. I couldn't do it if I didn't have the materials. Look at this gold. Can we just talk about it? Look what happened.   One of this? All that did yourselves. No. Thank you. Thank you. We will. Jeff and Erica can make peanut butter jelly look amazing. Thank you. I appreciate that. We just we love it. We have fun and she just subtly pushed that. She didn't overwork it. She didn't push it more than maybe twice. No I can't overwork it. The cells will not hold if you put too much heat on it. Yeah. You have sunlight so you can do that. Wouldn't that be amazing if a kangaroo just went. This has worked its way from. Can arrange it. Excuse me. I have a question for you. I'm ordering them colors now. A little running person. I hope we have them on the site. I guess. Yeah. It looks like it's setting. I just need a little bit of help making the colors glide. Yeah. It's honey. All right. I have this strategy. This is called going for it. We need it. We need it single by artist or death. We need to get you some what you caught. We really make our dachs in the Star Wars stuff. Molds. Molds. Yeah. It definitely looks purple. Like rolled over those pink colors. Again that's all these awesome sounds when we trade it in for city sounds, sirens, you know. Bums. Talking to themselves. You can definitely see the difference in resin. Yeah. You can see the difference in colors. Much of what Misty Chambers said. Paula Wall just bought something. Thank you Paula. I'm entitling this one. I have no idea. Last minute decision. It's almost surely going to smoke. Let's just use. Oh. Scared me. That was so hot. I can feel it. Sorry for the movement. Not a long enough work time. I question myself. Myself too. Too long by the time I would. Misty this. What is this? What was this working time? This might hurt. I mean this is leftover. Misty this is leftover from the original blue one she did. And you saw how many colors I used. It does have it. And you know what I like about this gold is it doesn't turn the blue green. Like if it hits a blue sometimes gold looks into and then make it green and people are like well what green is that? It's just gold hitting blue. Look at that. It just sells over the gold. I've decided that veins of gold are my signature. Just decided it right now. Shipping is too much with Stone Coat. Shoot an email. Yeah shoot them an email. And if they don't answer shoot them an email again and look up Mitch and hit Mitch up on Facebook. They're they're super busy and they can't answer everybody's emails or questions or comments but if you're persistent you'll definitely get to speak with them. Call them up. Yeah give them a call. It's like Graham if you have a question call Graham 555. He's like oh Jeff that's not funny. Alright y'all we got some packing to do. Yeah we've got to pack. I've got to do a little air brushing. If you use the ATD code you save $30. How much is shipping? If you only knew how cute you were with a very faint bluish dot on your forehead with a little bit of white. It's cute. Thanks Art. She's in Canada Jeff. Yeah stuff does get a little expensive with shipping. Alright I'm gonna put this back on the stand. My hand is cramping up. You're over to E. So you can see mine. You're hotness babe you're just the hotness one. Alright y'all if you have any questions shoot us an email for an artistalitha.com side slide to show you all the information. So I'll just I can't see what I'm doing. Let's see here. You can contact us at there. That's art. ArtisTelDeath.com. Two T's. Two L's. And if you want to look us up on YouTube which you're on right now ArtisTelDeath on Facebook Thornton ArtisTelDeath and on Instagram ArtisTelDeath Studios. And this is our new card which I'm very happy with. It's very 007. You can't really see it then you can. And we are here at Color Obsession Studios here in Perth, Australia with the myth, the legend, the two of one of a kinds. Yeah it's a poker hand. You have to be drinking though. Janice and Graham and Peanut and Poppy are inside We can't bring them out. Ocean says thanks Color Obsession. Collette says thank you Color Obsession. Everybody says bye Janice and Graham. Pleasure pleasure. We will be back. Everybody thanks Janice and Graham. I'm telling y'all we'll do the comeback tour. Yep called the horseshoe. The Texas horseshoe tour. Y'all. Y'all. Y'all. The poor y'all tour. The y'all poor tour. The y'all poor. Anyway we'll be back in our studio. Nope because we'll have a live from Doha again I'm sure. And you're coming to Vegas too. Thank you guys so so much for tuning in. We'll see you all next time. Bye. I said bye.