Okay, so you want a man to think about you and miss you when you're not around. You want his desire and interest to grow for you.   And if you use this, it will work. Hello, my name is Matthew Coest and welcome to Commitment Connection. First, if before we get started, if you're really serious about having and getting into and creating a relationship that makes you feel loved and seen and appreciated, then make sure you go to thegoddesscommunity.com and check out Joining Our Community there. Okay, so how do you make a man miss you? What are the five steps that I'm gonna go over today? So before we start, if you're here and you are watching this right now, make sure that you say hello in the chat and let us know where it is that you're watching this from. It's really cool seeing so many people from all over the world watching our live streams. So number one is you want to connect with him on a deep emotional level.  Why are you guys are just interested in sex with me? And a lot of times they're not really connecting with men on anything more than just a surface level and then they wonder why a guy only wants a surface level relationship with them. Well, if you want him to want something deeper, then go somewhere deeper with him. If you want the relationship to be deeper and if you want him to miss you more, then go somewhere deeper with him. And so how you do this is you become curious about him and learn about his struggles, learn about his successes, learn about his childhood, how he's gotten to where he is with his life and his career. Find out what really makes him tick. Why does he do what he does? What gets him excited about life? What are his passions? What are his goals? What are his dreams that he has in life? Because those are like the deep, those are the deep emotional things that rest at the core of his identity, of who he is and what he wants to be and what he wants to create in the world. And when you connect with that, when you can pull that out of him and have him share that with you, that's a great first step in connecting with him on a much deeper level. And so that's what you wanna do. There's a bunch of different ways that you can do this. One of the ways is just ask him, ask him what his goals are, ask him what his dreams are. Another way is to ask him about like when he was a kid, like what did he wanna be when he grew up? Because a lot of times what ends up happening as you probably know, is that we have goals and dreams and ideas of who we wanna be when we're children. And then when we grow up, sometimes life gets in the way, right? And that doesn't end up being what we do for our career, for our life. So sometimes we have hobbies that we fulfill our passions and dreams in life. Sometimes we don't go after him at all. And if he isn't going after him at all, it can be really powerful to find out what those things are that he did really love because that will pull that out of him and remind him of those things, whether he's going after him or not. And that can be incredibly, incredibly powerful. So number two is make him feel amazing when you're around. And so be someone that who brings, be someone who he really enjoys being around so much that he can't wait to see you again. And you'd think that this one is kind of a little bit more obvious, but sometimes we'll get women that'll come into our community and they'll be like, oh, why? How do I make this guy miss me? How do I make him feel all these great things about me? And you're like, oh, well, what are your kind of interactions with this guy up to this point? And they'll be like, oh, well, we argue all the time. I always pick fights with him about these different things and like all this stuff. And you're like, okay. So basically, it's like, you've created this weird environment there. I'm just, I'm adding the chat just because I thought that might be fun to add the chat to our live stream here so that you can see what everybody's saying. So make him feel amazing when you're around him because when he, if he feels really, it's like anything, right? If you go and you feel amazing around something and then you leave that, right? A lot of people miss, like for instance, just talking about other things, a lot of people might miss other experiences that they have, experiences of eating, right? Like, oh, I really would love to have that again. They'll think about it in their mind. They're like, oh, it was so good when I was eating that pizza or when I was eating that steak and they'll think about it and they'll miss it, right? And it's the same concept. Obviously you're not a steak or a pizza. Although it's the same concept that goes there, right? It's this great emotional experience that you have around something. And when you have that great emotional experience, when you go away from it, all of a sudden you miss it. You're like, man, that was really, really good.  And so in the last one, we talked about figuring out who he is and what he wants to become. And in this one, what you're doing is, what you wanna do is find parts of his personality where you can see that part of his personality helping him become that person that he wants to become. So for instance, let's say that he's an entrepreneur. It's an easy one, because I'm an entrepreneur. And so if he's an entrepreneur, let's say he wants to become an entrepreneur and you talk to him and you see that he's really charming, for instance, or you talk to him and you hear him talk about something where he was really persevered towards something or he fought for something or he was really kind to somebody, like let's say he was kind to a waiter or a waitress or anything, you just find things that he does that you can tell, you're like, wow, I can really tell that you could be a really great entrepreneur one day because I saw you interacting with that waitress and how kind she is and I don't know much about business, but I think you really have to be kind and gentle and loving towards people in order to have a great business. And just the way that you interacted with her, it tells me that you could be a really great business person one day.  There's a way to kind of like cut it off there, right, if it becomes a little bit too mushy-gushy, kind of lovey-dovey type of thing, you could always be like, it's too bad, there's like ways to cut it back, right?  I might really like you or something, you know? And basically if you throw that tease in there, it can be a little bit more playful, a little bit more fun and a little bit feeling less like it's super like lovey-dovey-gushy type stuff that's going on there. So if you understand what I'm talking about, say I get it in the chat, say I get it. So another thing that you want to pay attention to here is avoiding falling in love with his potential because we get lots of women that come to us that say this stuff, they're like, oh well, he said he was gonna be this and he said he was gonna be that and all that kind of stuff. And he's not doing it and so I'm like, nagging him and criticizing him and I'm gonna force him to be a better man, right? And men don't like that. Men want you to love them for who they are and so you wanna, and for your best interest, it's to love him for who he is because he may never reach that person that he talks about or that he dreams about or whatever. And so if you can't live with the person that he is today, then it'll be a problem if he doesn't ever end up making it to be that person that he wants to become. As we said, a lot of times life gets in the way with our dreams and our goals that we have and so that can happen, it can happen. So make sure that you see him for who he is and love him for who he is. So number one was connect with him on a deep emotional level. Number two is make him feel amazing when you're around him. Number three is creating an emotional range with him. And so I just want you to notice that we're talking about emotions right now, this whole thing. And a lot of women come to us and they're like, oh, do men even have emotions? We all have emotions. We all decide everything that we're doing based on emotions and then we backwards rationalize it with our intellect. So absolutely, everybody does things with emotions, otherwise everybody would be, all men would be really thin, they'd make lots of money and they would have great relationships if they didn't do everything based on emotions.  And that's why we talk so much about emotions because when he feels those emotions for you, when that goes away, that's when he'll miss you. And so you wanna create an emotional range for him. Being happy isn't the only emotion that men want to experience. And men typically don't experience as much emotion as women do. And so whenever you can connect with him and connect him with emotion, that will help him experience more emotion for himself and it'll connect him to you in a deeper level. So think of this like a good movie, right? There's bad movies, there's mediocre movies and there's good movies. Bad movies are movies that suck, they're boring, they're not very funny and you never wanna see them again, right? And mediocre movie is a movie that's kind of like one dimensional. It's fun, but it's like, yeah, you know, who really cares that much about the movie? I mean, it was good, it was cool to watch one time, but do I ever wanna see it again? Am I ever gonna think about it again? Probably not. Maybe if somebody brings it up in a conversation, I'll be like, oh yeah, I saw that movie that one time. But that's not what you want. You want a good movie, right? A good movie is a movie that pulls on your heartstrings. It makes you laugh, it makes you get scared, it makes you cry, it makes you feel anticipation and you go back and you watch it over and over and over again.  Like what an awesome movie I just watched. Have you ever seen such an amazing movie? Oh, that one point where such and such did whatever, right? And you talk about all these things because it was such a great movie. And now you don't have to become an actress or something like that. However, the point is still there, right? Like the more emotion that you experience, the more things that happen, the more dimensions there are to what happens with you and him, the more emotionally engaged he'll be, the more he'll feel like he misses you and he wants you back and he wants to see you again and he wants to be with you again. And so the fastest way to elicit these types of emotions is to ask questions. And the way that you do that, and sometimes what you'll have to do, and this takes a little bit of courage on your part, is to come out and talk about things yourself, right? Where if you want a structure to this, what you'd end up doing is you'd say something like, you know, one thing that really kind of scares me is, and then you talk about something that really scares you.  And you know, I feel like I'm really confident in a lot of other areas of my life and it's fun to go out and do things and I'm adventurous, but as soon as I see a spider, it's like I curl up into a ball and I start crying and I get really scared and I freak out and I just, you know, it's like I can't do anything anymore when I see these spiders, right? And one, doing something like that will make him feel like he wants to protect you and do all those things because it's kind of like this girly, like emotional thing that you're doing. And then when you're done with that, you can ask him what he's afraid of, right? Which elicits even more emotions. So the first one's eliciting kind of this masculine, primal drive in him. And then asking him about what he's kind of scared of will allow him to think of things that he's actually scared of and feel like get a little bit of a glimpse or a little bit of a taste of that. And if you want to take it even further, ask him about why or what happened or have you ever experienced that before?    This is the adventures and horrible and horrible parents stories right here. But you know, so for instance, let's say that something like that happened to him. And then all of a sudden it's like he's experiencing all these things again. He's feeling it and he's talking about it and he's getting these emotions coming up. And so when he's around you then, he's associating all kinds of different emotions around you. And as long as you're doing the other things that we talked about before this where you're connecting with them, you're making them feel really good most of the time and you're connecting with them on a deep level then what's gonna end up happening is that it's gonna be like this little blip of kind of this other emotion and it's gonna create this more connectivity to you than just being kind of this one dimensional kind of thing where you're connecting with them. You're just happy, it's superficial and it's like, oh, is this really anything? Does any of this mean anything? Who really cares? And instead you're creating an emotion.  Like all these different things, like just ask him questions about different types of emotions, talk about different types of emotions that you've had, tell stories about it, which is the second best way to do this is through storytelling, which I gave an example a little bit earlier, which is kind of the spider story, although that's a really small story you can get into telling even longer stories about actual things that happen or maybe there's a specific instance where there was a spider and it scared you and freaked you out. Well, that's another great way to have him elicit these emotions because he's going through kind of this experience with you and so he's experiencing these emotions as you're experiencing them and it's a really, really powerful thing to do. And so if you have different stories that you can tell about difficult things that have happened in your life, fun times, sad times, scary times, those are things that you can talk about and have fun with. And as long as it's not something that's like still debilitating to you in the current time, I'd only talk about things that really, especially if you're kind of new to the relationship and it's not a deeper relationship you haven't been together for a long time, just talk about some things that you've kind of gotten over or things that aren't a really big deal to you right now so that it doesn't become this kind of weird dynamic where you're kind of pushing into kind of this realm of being super vulnerable in a way that he's not really sure how to deal with really early on. If you get what we're talking about here, say I get it, say I get it. All right, so another way to do this and this is kind of a more passive way to do it is to get involved with things that create emotions. So go do fun things, go do scary things, go do sad things, go to comedy shows, go do, try doing something that's spontaneous, daring, risky, adventurous and you can just do all kinds of different types of things. Go gambling one time if you guys aren't gambling and he doesn't have a problem with that or go try something, go to an area you've never been to, a part of town you've never been to and check out something you've never seen before. Just go do fun things and the more kind of fun and interesting things and more things that have emotion tied to it, the more he'll start associating different kind of aspects of things to you. So number one was connect with him on a deep emotional level, number two is make him feel amazing when you're around, three is create emotional range, four is be different than the other women that he meets and so you want him to feel like you're special, like you're different than all the other women that he meets out there and the fastest way that you can do this is to just show different sides of your personality. So you have lots of different things that make you interesting and quirky and unique and about your personality. If you don't think that you have these things you probably do and what you'll wanna do is just take some time, get like a notepad out and just say, hey, what are some fun, different things about my personality? Just write a question and just keep a running list of it and if that doesn't really work then go ask your friends, go ask your family, go ask people that you know, just say, hey, what are some quirky or interesting things about me and just see what they have to say about it and if you really want to spark somebody's knowledge of that just tell them quirky and interesting things about them and usually they'll tell those things back to you but what you wanna do is let some of those things come out, let some of those weird little things that you have come out. Maybe you are really interested in panda bears or something and at home you've got a huge panda bear collection and it's kind of embarrassing, it's a little quirky but it's something that you do and it's something that you like and it's something that you have and so you talk about that or whatever is going on with your personality, just let it come out or another thing that you wanna do to make yourself kind of special and stand out is develop the behaviors of a high quality woman and so you attract how you act and if you want to attract a high quality man you have to have behaviors that are in alignment with being a high quality woman and so not to say that people don't have inherent quality but you have to differentiate through people, right?  I did a live stream on this, I think it was a couple weeks ago where I go through an entire kind of system on how to do this and actually I'm putting together a full system about how to do this, a full program about how to do this, it's gonna be called the forever woman and I'm giving it away for free for joining our community, it'll be done here in a couple weeks and if you wanna go and check that out, go to thegoddiscommunity.com and check out joining our community there for free. So the fastest way to kind of differentiate yourself because so many women come to relationships and they start acting really needy and clingy and desperate is to do what step number five is which is creating scarcity. So a fire can't grow if you're always smothering it and so what you wanna think about his desire and his interest and his being in love with you is, is kind of like a fire and so you wanna let it grow, you wanna give it oxygen, you wanna give it air, you don't wanna completely leave it alone which is what some women say.  And then all of a sudden they're gone and they're like, oh, I never contact him, I never reach out to him, I never respond to him and you're like, oh, I couldn't imagine why he's not trying to talk to you anymore, right? So there's a middle ground here, there's always a middle ground for all of these things that we talk about and what it, but what it is, is most women come to us and they're in a state of being needy and clean and smothering and so they're smothering a guy, trying to talk to him all the time.   Is she out with other guys? Why is she, you know, I sent her this message at 8 p.m. on a Friday and she didn't respond until the next day. Why was that, right? And it's because you have other things going on in your life, which is what you want to do, right? We value and appreciate things because of the contrast between experiencing it and not experiencing it. So it's, we don't value and appreciate things because it's there all the time. We value and appreciate it because of the contrast and so that is what causes us to miss it and so stop sending him good morning texts every single day, stop, right? And stop doing things where you're just trying to constantly reach out to him and figure out what's going on with him and talking to him and smothering him all the time and finding out, you know, what's going on with you? Are you mad at me? You know, all that kind of stuff.  Start having other things that are going on in your life that allow you to have time, space and attention away from him. Give him the gift of missing you by creating space and scarcity.  What you wanna do is just give him some room, give him some room to breathe, give him some oxygen and allow him to kind of build and grow that flame of desire and love that he has for you. And so that's it. Number one was connect with him on a deep emotional level two is make him feel amazing. Three, emotional range, four, be different. Five, create scarcity. And so next we're gonna do question and answer. So if you have questions that you want to ask, make sure that you put them in the chat and I will get to them next. But before we go there, if you're really serious about having an amazing relationship where a man loves you and he sees you for who you are and he cherishes you and he adores you, make sure that you go to thegoddiscommunity.com and check out joining our community there.  You get question and answer with one of our coaches and you can join our support network of other women that are going through a similar journey. Some of them are on the other side of it. And so go and check that out. And I'll let you learn more about that at thegoddiscommunity.com. All right, so let's see what everybody's saying. Got lots of highs, high, high, high. Marisha, Tracy. Helena Hart's here. Helena Hart, my favorite person in the world. Helena Hart is here. And I told Helena that whenever she comes to our live streams that I'd always say wonderful and amazing things to her because I just think she's just so amazing and so adorable and just so wonderful. And so what could I say today that's really unique and amazing about Helena Hart? I think Helena is, one thing I wanna mention was that one time that we went and sang karaoke together at that Irish pub over near her place. And I just, I really want to appreciate you and tell you that I really had a lot of fun hanging out with you and spending time with you. And I think that you're one of the coolest people that I know and I appreciate all the people that you've helped me connect with and all the time that you've stayed connected with me and all the things that you've helped me out with in my life and I just, I think you're awesome, Helena. So thank you so much for being on the live stream today. So Latrice says, hi, Mississippi. Chelsea says, New York. Brianna from California. Sonia from Colorado. Buffalo, New York. Donna says, hello from Ohio. That's actually where I was born. I was born in Ohio. Esther says, Oman. Wow, cool, Oman. Hello from UK, Yorkshire, UK, cool. Huntington Beach. Leslie says, how are you? I'm fairly new. In a new relationship we've been dating since mid to late April. He hasn't said I love you. I want him to be the one. I want him to be the one for you as well. The crazy unicorn lady says, I'm watching this from Illinois, Oklahoma. Patty Doe says, Hampshire in the UK. Bulgaria, Cammie's from Bulgaria. Like it's so cool to see so many people from all over the world. Shannon Wilson says she's from Cincinnati, Ohio. That's where I was born and raised, Cincinnati, Ohio. That's cool. So Georgia, Indiana. Shazine says, hey, I have a question. At first I attract guys greatly, but after some time he loses interest, help. Yet you're probably doing exactly what I'm talking about here, which is a lot of women, what will end up happening is they'll get a guy and he'll be really, really into them. And then what ends up happening is usually the guy starts out chasing women from the very beginning, right? And so a guy approaches, he pursues, he tries to push towards a sexual relationship. And then at some point what ends up typically happening is the woman's biology starts kicking in and she wants to start connecting with him, which isn't a bad thing necessarily. But what ends up happening is a lot of times women will start smothering a guy and then he'll start backing off and she's like, hey, what's going on? And she starts becoming the planner and she starts taking over the masculine role and the next thing you know, she's chasing him. And so I don't know much about your situation, Shazine. You know, you might wanna talk a little bit more about it, but that's typically what happens a lot of time with a lot of women, and which is why we talk a lot about leaning back and chilling out and relaxing in a lot of these situations. So Jackie says she's from Chattanooga, nice. Ivana says Serbia, nice, Serbia. Nancy says Park City, Utah, that's a cool place. Fort Worth, Texas, Erin, nice. Tricia says, greetings from Germany. Cool, cool, Germany, Marietta, New York. Shereen says, what if we don't spend that much time together? For example, I haven't seen him for about a month. Well, okay, so are you talking to him on the phone all the time? You know, why haven't you seen him in about a month? Is it because you're in a long distance relationship or is it because you guys are talking so much over the phone or text that he doesn't feel any need to meet up with you and find out what's going on with you and you're so available that he doesn't actually miss you? Flower Child says, hello, Matthew. I say hello, Flower Child, hello. Donna says, the guy I'm seeing, I have been using things you say and it's working well for us, awesome. I'm always playful when I'm around him. I always encourage his dreams and he is doing it. You know what, Donna? High five to your awesomeness. A lot of women go through our stuff and they look at my stuff and they don't end up using any of it, which is why they don't get results. So props to you, Donna, for using what we talk about and getting results here. Poetry Lover says, this is incredibly important. It is incredibly important. You're right. Angel says, I have a question. This guy I was seeing told me the other day he misses and loves me, but I texted him yesterday and he hasn't even contacted me since he told me that stuff. Did he mean it or not? Yeah, I mean, it depends on what's going on with him. When did he, when did you contact him? What did you say when you contacted him? You know, what's going on in that situation?  It just kind of depends on what's going on with him, right? So, I mean, it's a little weird that he hasn't responded in a day so that might tell you something a little bit more about what's actually going on there, but has it been an actual day? Was it like last night and now it's this morning? Depends on what's going on, what kind of communication you have. You'd have to tell us a little bit more about your situation. It's difficult. A lot of times people will kind of throw out these like real quick things. They're like, hey, there's this guy and I said something to him and it's tomorrow and he hasn't said anything back. Does he love me? And it's like, how do we know anything about your situation when we don't hear more about it? So Nancy says, what if son is cranky and everything I say gets twisted, trying to be supportive and make time amazing yet he keeps growling?  You have to remember too, when you get involved with somebody is that if you're marrying somebody, if you get into a relationship with somebody, you're developing a relationship with everybody in his family. So you're developing a relationship with his son, his parents, his ex, if his ex is still in the picture because they had a son together, right? And so that's one of the things that you want to think about when you get into a situation. And one of the things that I talk about in some of my other stuff is this place of being in abundance because a lot of women are like, there's this one guy, right? And I gotta make him love me, but his family's crazy and it's like, okay, well if you had abundance going on in your life, then this one guy and all of his crazy people that he's around wouldn't be such a thing of like, how do I make him love me and make his family love me because you'd be like, I don't know if I wanna deal with this, right? Like I've got these other guys around me that are interesting too, and they don't have crazy exes and crazy kids and crazy parents and stuff that I gotta deal with. And so that's one thing that you might wanna think about in this situation as well. So Mandy says she's from London. Hey Mandy, welcome, welcome, welcome. Chelsea says the man I'm seeing has severe anxiety and depression and I'm pregnant with his baby. He's been hurt so much in his past, he's pulling away. He's pulling me away from him. Yeah, I mean that happens in situations and like I said, you wanna give him some space. If he's pulling away from you at all, you wanna give him space. It's one of the things I talk about, it's called pacing and basically what you wanna do is mirror his kind of behavior, his interest level and any time that a guy starts pulling away, you wanna pull back as well because you don't wanna end up smothering him, you don't wanna end up chasing him.  I could go on a laundry list of different weird situations that have happened in my family where people like, it's a hard situation but what do you gotta do about it is get other people in your life, have other things going on, even if you're pregnant, have other people that you're talking to, make him not the focus of everything that's going on in your life so that you have other things that you're living for and you're experiencing so that you're not just stuck on him all the time. I get it, I get it, Crystal says she gets it, Amanda says I get it, I do all these things. Unfortunately, he is so busy working now that I don't get the opportunity to capitalize on these things. Flower Child says support his goals, that's what I'm talking about, support those goals, Flower Child. So Chelsea says how can I show him that I'm not like the other women who has hurt him without making it seem like I'm being clingy and needy? Well, what you have to do is you have to be careful with him, you have to give him, being, showing him that you're not like the other women has nothing to do with being needy and clingy. Like those two things are completely separate, right? In fact, what you wanna do is typically do the opposite where you're giving him some space, you're allowing him to come and go, right? That's what allows him to find out that you're not gonna hurt him. And if he's misinterpreting things that you're doing as you're gonna hurt me, that tells you a lot about his situation and what's going on with him. And do I really want to be in this situation where he has so much distrust for women and whatever because what's gonna end up happening is if you do get into a relationship with him and he doesn't end up healing these things before you're in that relationship with him, he's gonna bring that stuff into the relationship and he's probably not gonna heal it because he's getting his needs met with you and then what could end up happening is he ends up throwing it on you. And so really there's two things that I have to say about this. One is to give him space and allow him to figure this stuff out on his own because that's really the only way that it's gonna happen. You're not gonna force your, him feeling okay and comfortable with you onto him.  And you're gonna be like, no.  You weren't trying to hurt me and I figured that out.  And so the real question is, do you really wanna be in a relationship with this guy? And how long have you been seeing him and all that kind of stuff, which another place to come from abundances. Flower Child says, otherwise accept him and love him for the awesome person he is. Yep. Susan says, my man is a good man today and I believe he will be able to fulfill his goals. He's very good at what he does. Awesome. It's good to hear. Amy says, thank you so much, Matt. You're welcome, Amy. Shereen says, is him talking about his family or telling his family about me emotional? It's a sign. What it is is a sign that says that he likes you because he probably wouldn't be talking to his family about you if he wasn't, if he didn't like you that much. So militia says Cape Town, South Africa, welcome, welcome. Men think more logically where us women are more with our hearts. Yep. Flower Child says, yes, notebook. I don't know what that means. That's a movie, right? I haven't seen it. That's a chick flick. I haven't seen that chick flick. Tammy says, what if he's married and getting a divorce? So he says, if he's married and getting divorce you should probably, I'm actually doing a couple of videos in the next two weeks about this where I'm gonna be posting them. They're not gonna be live streams. But you wanna think about it. If I were you, I wouldn't get involved with a guy who's married at all. That's it. I wouldn't get involved with a guy who's married at all because he might be lying to you. He might be telling you things. He might be more involved, right? He might still be emotionally kind of connected to his ex. And so what ends up happening sometimes is guys who are still kind of involved in that.  And two, what could end up happening is he might end up kind of pulling away from her and being around with you but he's got this deep emotional connection with lots of range and lots of time in with this other woman and that space might make him rethink what's going on with her and he might end up going back to her which happens all the time. And so you wanna be very, very careful with a guy who's married. Be very careful about that. Shirley Adkins says, you are so awesome. I love listening to you. Thank you so much. If you guys don't know it, I love compliments. So if you wanna compliment me, please compliment me. I love hearing compliments. Thank you so much Shirley. I appreciate you complimenting me. So Paulie says, hello from Qatar. Hello, Shereen says, but when I talk about it, he changes the subject or he's not comfortable. Well, that tells you something. Gracie gave me 99 cents. Thank you so much Gracie. I appreciate any money you want to give me. Julia says hi from Spain. Hello, Marita says happy and I don't miss him. Okay, D.D. says my circuit. Chelsea says, what if he claims he doesn't have any fears? Well, one, he's lying to you because everybody has fears. And anybody that says that they don't have fears is either lying or they're delusional. One or the other. And you don't have to just talk about his fears. You can talk about other things that are going on with him. Maybe a lot of guys want to pretend that they don't have fears because it's not very masculine. It's not very manly to talk about fears. And so a lot of men have been kind of hurt and abused in the past by talking about those things. They've been taking for granted or taking advantage of because of talking about those things. So Shereen says, do these techniques work via chat?  Stop having conversations all over chat. That's the answer to that. You don't want to do this over chat. The magic, the magic happens in person. So get him in person. You want to get him in person, not over chat. Magic happens in person. So QTS with eight says it's complicated when you are emotional involved and he won't take, he want to take it slow even after 11 months, frowny face. Tried to stop, but he always come back and says that he didn't want to continue with me, didn't stayed for all these months. I'm not sure what you're saying right there. Okay, Merida says, stay away from the womanizer, drunks and possessive man. That's right, do that. Olivia says, hi Matt. How do I get a man to miss me after he's pulled away due to me being clingy and needy? Worse, after saying I love you, he ghosted me after. Didn't contact him about fourth day we talked, but he's cold. First off, do all the things that we talked about. Second off, start with scarcity. Start with scarcity. Start with chilling out, start with pulling back, start with giving him space to miss you and remember the good times, and then do all the things that we talked about. Stay away from being on chat. Stay away from doing phone calls and focus on getting him to meet up with you because that's where the magic happens. And so if he's contacting you again, that means there's some interest that's redeveloped there and you want to give that some space and give it some oxygen to grow, become that big fire that you want it to be, you gotta give him some space, you gotta focus on meeting up with him, stop talking to people over chat. Camilla says, yay, another live stream. Camilla from Denmark in the hose. That's right, Nancy McLaulen says, do believe in those phrases that makes men love struck. I think who wants to manipulate anyone. That's right. I don't know what phrases you're talking about. Don't know what phrases you're talking about, girl. You gotta tell me which phrases. Tell me which phrases. All right, so Lorraine says, hi Matt, I get it, good. Chelsea says, what is you have very low confidence and don't know how to. I don't know what that means. So Sissy says, hi Matt from New York, hey Sissy, hi from Chicago, hi from Denmark, met Monk, yeah. Susanna says, what's narcissist? That's a long subject. So cutesy says, I'm trying to lean back when I see that he's cold and he does come back after three days or after a day. There you go. Didi says, a fire grows with air. Genius Matt, it does, grows with air. I'm a genius here. So he is still active on dating app. Yeah, well that tells you something, what's that tell you? Camila says, I have a question. I have a problem with guys. It's why you're here. They check me out but they don't approach me. I am by no means a woman that dresses provocatively nor am I busty or any of that. What could be the reason? There could be a million different reasons why a guy looks at you but doesn't approach you. One, he might be intimidated. Most guys don't really approach women unless they get some kind of invitation to approach her. Unless he thinks it's gonna be in his favor to approach you. Unless he thinks that it's gonna go really, really well if he approaches you he's probably not gonna do it. And so you have to give him some kind of indication that you want him to approach you if you want him to approach you. And so he has to feel like it's gonna go well and there's a bunch of different ways that you can do that. I was gonna do a video on that sometime in the near future. And how do I make a guy approach me if he happens to be too shy to do it?  What you wanna do is you wanna open doors.  You're opening them doors for guys and give them space to come through the door. You don't wanna do everything for a guy because that tells you a lot about who this guy is, what kind of a man he is and how much he likes you depending on whether he goes through that door or not. And it also tells you how your relationship is gonna be in the future. So if you're like opening a door and he's not walking through, if you're giving him invitations and he's not coming over and then you end up doing everything for him and chasing him and doing all the work, that's gonna lead into the relationship, what's gonna happen if something ends up falling apart and he needs to man up and come in and start being the man. It tells you a lot about what's going on with him. What if you block him? Why would you block him? Okay, so be busy. Flower child says be busy and have self-importance. But don't be too busy.  Oracle Katrina, great name, says how to get back to dating when you've been really hurt. Well, what you need to do is focus on self-love. You need to work on healing yourself. You need to focus on building yourself up, finding things that you love to do in your life, figuring out things that you really like and love about yourself, getting around men and friendship type relationships where you can just build more trust around them and go back to it slowly and just allow your heart to heal, go through different trainings. If it's really bad, go through therapy. There's other types of transformational training that you can go through. Join our program actually at thegoddiscommunity.com and we have, Anya has a program in there that's called the Goddess Initiations. That's all about connecting back with your heart and healing your heart that you get for free as a part of joining the program. So check that out if you want to. Angel says, what should I do if he doesn't contact me for a few days? Just let him not contact you for a few days. That's what you do.  And if he doesn't contact you for a few days, you can always reach out to him and just tell him that you're thinking about him or something made you think about him or something like that and just see what he ends up doing as kind of like a barometer for where he is with you at that moment. And just make sure that you don't have any expectations around it. Make sure that you're not chasing him. Make sure that you're not kind of trying to push something forward. Suzanne says, how do I get my husband who I am currently separated from interested again? I already know everything about him. So there's, I mean, one, we don't know anything about your situation. Who ended up deciding that you needed a separation from who? Was it you? Was it him? What's going on? How much contact have you guys had with each other? What I do want to say is that you do want to give him some space and some room and allow him to come to you. And, you know, it's like, okay, there's just too many questions I have about what's going on in your situation to really know how to work with you in your situation. But what I would say is do all the things that we talk about in this.  You want to go check that one out. Demours says, how do I give him space without seeming uninterested in him?  We're not talking about being cold here. We're not talking about never contacting him, never reaching out. We're not talking about any of those kinds of things. We're just talking about not smothering him.  And if there's nothing else that you want to, and if there's nothing else that you want to talk about or specific that he talks about with you, then it's kind of a barometer, like I was just talking about, there's a barometer for what's going on with him and with you. And so you want to just give him some space but that doesn't mean being completely cold. It doesn't mean ignoring him. It doesn't mean when he contacts you, you wait days to contact him back. These are all mistakes, right? That will make him think that you're uninterested in him. But if he does contact you and you do talk to him, then you want to be warm and friendly and all that kind of stuff. It's not, you're not seeming uninterested by giving him space. You're seeming uninterested by reacting to conversations with him. Marissa says, I'm seeing a guy who's 22 year old and I'm 39. We're having a great time to space work on a 22 year old. Yes, it does. It absolutely does. And a 22 year old is pretty young, especially a 22 year old guy, right? I don't know what kind of a guy you're seeing who's a 22 year old, but my guess would be that he's probably got a lot of other things going on, especially if he's in college or something like that. So you might want to think about that. Camila says also, what are your thoughts on if the guy a girl likes is in a relationship? Should I try to be his friend to stand by or should I leave him alone? I know he likes me too. Well, if he tries to do anything, if he's trying to pursue something with you, what you should do is just ask him if he is still seeing somebody and if he's still seeing the woman that he's with and if he is still seeing the woman that he's with, just say, hey, I don't hang out with guys who have girlfriends. If you end up getting single at some point, I like you and I'd love to hang out with you, but just let me know if you guys end up breaking up because I'm not going to be, I'm not going to deal with that. I'm not going to be a part of that, right? Because you don't want to end up being the other woman.  And so you want to wait until he is single and no, you don't want to stand by. You want to go out and date other people. You want to create a fun, awesome life and you want to find somebody that's single that's interested in you. And if he really likes you, he'll get single quick and he'll end up talking to you and figuring out how to make sure that you guys are together. Joanna says, Helena and you are so cute. Poetry Lover says, she is perfect. Camila says, I think you have a crush on Helena. Dee Dee says, Matt, I don't have many things going on socially though. I'm working on changing that. Does it still show value if I have hobbies and passions to keep me busy? Yeah, I mean, you don't have to like turn into an extrovert here, right? Like that doesn't mean that you need to like start creating all these things where you're busy out hanging out with people if that's not the kind of person that you are. You just want to have things that you do in your life.  Let's say that you like playing video games. Most women that I talk to don't like playing video games.   You know, what are you doing right now?  You're busy doing your thing. You're busy having fun doing whatever it is that you like to do.  Right? And so that's what you want to do is you want to have things going on in your life so that you're not being crazy. Truth be told, says nice talk, Matt. Thanks. Donna says, hi Helena, you're awesome. Oracle Katrina says, how to get back dating after you've been really hurt? We just talked about this. Marissa says, I love this talk. Great. Melo says, hey Matt, Gracie here from Tampa, Florida. You are so handsome. And thank you for giving us all this advice. Thank you so much for being here. Thanks for telling me that I'm handsome. I love that kind of, I love that kind of talk. I love it. Flattery will get you everywhere. Didi says, Helena's a pure soul. That's sweet. That is sweet. And when she's creating videos, she likes to make me sandwiches when she's creating, that's a, that's an inside joke right there. Oh God, what am I doing? What am I doing to myself? So Houston, Texas, Chicago, Chelsea says the guy that I'm interested in has had a very traumatic childhood. He's been diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression and PTSD. I'm pregnant with his first born son. It's difficult. It's a difficult situation. Hello everyone from Seattle, Washington. Kate from New Hampshire. Lisbon, Portugal. And I was actually thinking about going to Portugal here in the next couple of months. Malta, cool. I love Malta. I've been there a few times. Love that place. Taking it slow with this guy I like, Hija. I don't know what that means. Linda says, can you do a show on what red flags to look out for in the beginning with a guy? Yes, I was just thinking about doing that today. Yes, I will do that. That he is not ready for anything serious. Yes. Yes, I will do that. Patty do says, so weird hearing my nickname said with an American accent. Yep. Yep, yep, yep. Gazelle says, oh my God, I'm from Cincinnati also, but in Miami now I concur on the notion of not chasing men and texting them too much. I think that's the biggest mistake we women make. It can be. Another Lisbon, Portugal. Vanessa Manal says, the very best hello to you from Sacramento. Oracle Katrina first live with you. What's your, what's your take on? What's your, what's your take on dating? After you've been really, I just talked about that. I just talked about that Oracle Katrina. All right, Jamie says, I feel like cutting him the MF off.  Yeah, that's a problem. Yeah, I would cut that off. Merida says, I'm from Costa Rica. I live in Rhode Island. Cool. Lorraine says, I'm sure Ms. Helena Hart feels the same about you, Matt. You're both kind and awesome people. Thank you both for gracing our minds with encouragement on relationships with men in our lives. You are welcome. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your journey. Chelsea says, there are times he says he doesn't want anything to do with the baby than the complete opposite. How can I tell what's the truth and what's just his anxiety and depression talking? Well, you can look at his actions. And so what you wanna do is, it sounds like you guys are having a lot of conflict right now. That's what it sounds like. And so what you wanna do is limit the amount of conflict because the more conflict that you create with him, and my guess is that you're probably trying to force things with him because that's the only time that guys kind of do that kind of thing where they're like, oh, you know, like why would he say that? And he's saying that because he's feeling pressure from you. He's feeling like you're trying to get him to do something or feel a certain way or act a certain way. And then he's acting in a different way because that's what he truly wants. And so what you need to do is chill out on him a little bit and pull back a little bit and relax a little bit and start focusing, like I said, on other things, focusing on making sure that you're taking care of that baby, focusing on making sure that you're relaxing and creating a healthy environment for that baby to grow inside of your womb so that when you do give birth to that baby, it's healthy and functional and it feels really good and strong because of you giving it love instead of being in a state of stress and anxiety because of whatever this guy is doing that's in your life. Littleface says, so I'm trying to get this guy back. We dated before and I really want him back and I don't know how to do that. Okay, well, please help. It's a big topic and I don't know anything about your conversation, your situation. And so I'll probably do some stuff. I'm actually part of the new forever woman program that I'm putting out here. I'm going to be putting a whole how to get your ex back thing into that. So make sure to go to thegoddaskommunity.com and check out joining our community there. All right, it looks like we're hitting the top of the hour here. So I'm going to have to go here. Thank you for everybody being here. Like I said, if you want to join our community, if you're really serious about getting into an amazing relationship, make sure to join our community at thegoddaskommunity.com. And I really appreciate you being here. We're all about helping men and women come together for stronger, more empowering relationships. I'm all about empowering you and helping you have a great relationship and feel like you are strong and confident and can have what kind of relationship that you want with the kind of man that you want. So thank you so much for being here and allowing me to be a part of your journey. And I will see you again in the next livestream. So thank you all for being here. I appreciate you. And I will talk with you again soon.


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Hello! In this lecture, we will define sales journal. According to fundamental accounting principles, wild 22nd edition of the definition of sales journal is journal normally used to record sales of goods on credit. We're going to use the sales journal as a type of shorthand journal to record sales, a particular type of sales. However, those sales that we make on credit, those sales that we do not receive cash for, those sales that we're going to have accounts related to the sales in. When we think of a sales journal, we can think of it in a format as if we have a paper system where we're doing our accounting transactions by hand. If we use a sales journal rather than using a general ledger, we don't have to have the debit and credit that we can record down each time. We can have a simplified system of recording the sales in the sales journal, then take that sales journal and record all the sales for a particular time period, a week, a month, a day into our system. So it could look something like this where we have the date, we could have the sale slip, the customer. The big point here is that we're going to record one number representing both the debit and the credit because this is the same transaction that we're going to record all the time. We can imagine if we're going out somewhere to do sales by hand and we're just going to record this information down. We don't really need to record the debit half and the credit half. It's all the same. We're going to have accounts receivable be debited and the sales, the revenue be credited. So we're just going to record that one time, sum up these transactions, and then record all of them in the format of a journal entry to our system at the end of the day, at the end of the week, or at the end of the month. For example, we might have the date, sales number, customer, and then we just have the one number 500. Of course, that means that it's going to be a debit to receivable and a credit to sales. We can do this for often every customer that we sell to. Obviously, we can then sum that up, then record this total for that time period into our system with a debit to account receivable and a credit to sales, also knowing that we do have to track this as well by customers so that we can go back and check the customer. So we will need to track this by subsidiary ledger as well. Important to note that even though this is called the sales journal, if we make a sale for cash, we will not record it on this journal, we'll record it on the cash receipts journal. So this is really a shorthand name for this account. This should be called sales on account journal, or sales for accounts receivable journal, because if we make a sale for cash, that will typically not go in this journal. It'll go in the cash receipts journal.


Hi, beautiful. Thank you for being here today. You look really good, but what else is new? Today we're watching some classic bleach battles. Apparently also everybody that we're watching today has never bleached their own hair themselves. I'm sure there's a lot of people who absolutely demolished their hair and there might be a couple people who get out of this with actually a cute look. Cause sometimes you guys surprise me with the things you accomplish at home. Let's see what happens today. First we have a video by Alexis Marie. Tomorrow we will be dyeing my hair. Okay, let's examine the palette we got going on because her hair looks to be virgin or looks to be box dyed black. I would prefer the virgin hair one cause otherwise she's gonna have a very, very, very, very, very, very hard time lifting out that very dark color she has going on. So handsy today. I've been wanting to dye the two strands of my hair like platinum blonde. Thank God. She's just doing some strips of blonde in the front like a skunk stripe type thing. I keep on looking all around the room today. I don't know what's going on.  Look forward, not around. All right, we're back. Hi, that's good. All right, let's keep going. I don't think I've ever dyed my hair by myself. Okay, this section is super important when you do these skunk stripe pieces. You have a lot of options here, okay? You can either just do those kind of like triangular sections at the top, basically going from your part down to the corner of your eyebrow. That's a great sectioning for this. Or you could do the extended skunk stripe. You want to be really crazy with it and go from the part up here all the way down to the front of the ears.   Do you know what I mean? Okay, so I'm gonna do 40 minutes or like 30 because my hair's black and then I'm gonna do 15 minutes for my roots. Kind of like how it sounds. Don't put that in your nostrils. Believe me, I've had a lot of bleach in my nostrils and look at how I ended up. Mental damage, physical. Well, physical is kind of looking slight today, but. Mental, for sure, f***ed up. What? Why are you so mean to that bag?  I think she's trying to use it as a glove because she forgot to get gloves.  We've seen a lot of people raw dog it with no gloves or no protection and it's not good. That sh** hurts. All of your little f***ing lines and sh** on your hands will be burned off by the end of the bleach in processing. Oh my God. Well, guys, I don't think this is right. No, it's definitely not right. What you do need to do is apply way more lightener. Oh my God, please do not tell me that's all she's applying. We need to saturate that hair in lightener. Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. This shouldn't be that hard, but I'm sure it will be. Yo, I was doing that with my fingers. I'm struggling. These foils, what is that? Be careful when you clump foils like that because what happens is it can be clumped in some areas, right, like push down on the hair and it can kind of move the lightener off of that spot and create like a line where you crumple the foil. So we really want to fold the foil nicely and make a nice compact and don't squish it. Don't do that. Yo, so it's already been like f***ing 20 minutes and this s*** has not changed color. Oh, what? Why is she applying more? What's going on? I mean, I'm glad she's applying more because there was not enough on there, but like what? Oh no, I did this so late, girl. Her hair does not seem to be lifting at all, like not even a little bit, so cool. After this three minutes, I'm gonna do 10 more minutes. No, girl, you're gonna need like an hour of processing time on that hair. Your hair is dark. And then something tells me it is box-dive because it's not lifting or you just like didn't actually mix developer in with the lightener, I'm confused. Why is it not lightening at all? Oh yeah, I forgot to record it. I'm like trying to be rude. Focus right now. She did do a really good job though, I will say, at waiting to apply the lightener to the root. Like she really was waiting until something happened with her ends in order to do the root. Except I don't think she waited quite long enough because we need to wait until those ends and midsections get like yellow or like pale yellow until we hit the roots because those roots lighten quickly. They're like that. I'm putting this on for 10 minutes so it's gonna be 15 minutes together. Then I'm gonna wash it out, put coconut oil on it. Y'all, so I'm washing it out and I'm gonna dye it again. I wouldn't wash that out. Like why are your ends actually the same color that you started with? I don't know what developer she's using but it must be 10 volume because nothing is happening. Babe, we need something that happened. Let's go. F***, I don't need it. Ooh. Absolute f***ing fail. What happened? My hair feels so dead, guys. It's like red and then black, foul. Just gonna dye it again. I think I'm gonna go for 30 minutes. And I'm like kind of, even though it's looking f***ed up, I like like the lightness. Where's the lightness? Am I missing it? Where is it? Because I have been searching all over for it and I can't find it. What? I'm like lining it out first and then coating it a lot. Round two. Okay, so I'm about to do my roots. I should all go to sleep, bro. I'm not doing this how round I am. All right, well, we said f*** it this time to doing the mids and ends first and doing the roots last. We just did the entire thing at once, so. Oh. Can we do five minutes to see how I'm feeling? Please this time, please. Let something happen to her hair. Like honestly, just anything. What it was giving last time was absolutely nothing. Oh f***, you know what I was supposed to do? I literally bought this so I can keep bleaching it like if it doesn't go right, so it doesn't damage that much. But I'm not even using that house. So the third time I'm gonna use this. No! Don't use 10 volume.   You need more developer than that. You need more. Okay, it looks like pink in the camera. Or like red, but it's not. It's just because it's wet, but it's definitely not as light as this, but it did get a lot lighter. Oh, this is one of those videos that is torturous. It only looks like a half a shade lighter. Oh, I don't wanna watch anymore. Just do something. I'm gonna do the rest of the morning. I'm gonna find out. The hot roots look so crazy. What? This is so painful. Dude, this should have been done in one pass or maybe two. Like I don't know why we're on step three now. This is so much work. All you gotta do 30 volume lightener. A lot of it, a lot of it on there. Mids and ends, boom. Place it in a foil. A beautiful foil. Smaller sections, the better. Your hair will process better and more evenly and faster. So you could probably do like four different foils or even six if you really wanted to go crazy. And then once the ends and mids are processed to a yellow, a bright yellow, we then can do the roots. But this way of doing it is a disaster. It's already been in for like 40 minutes and I'm just doing five minutes on my roots cause they're like already hella yellow. Oh! I'm done with this video. I'm just gonna fast forward to the end guys. I don't know how much more of this I can take. Like I'm gonna do a little skim right now. Hold on, let's do a skim together because I don't want to keep watching this if nothing happens. She's got some more lightener in some spots and her roots are blonde, but her ends are still red. What else we got going on here? Oh, it's getting lighter. Let's come back to the video here. I feel like it wasn't bleaching that good because I kept washing it with shampoo. Like I think you're supposed to let your hair be dirty. No, that's not true. Your hair can be clean or dirty.  But it does not matter if you're shampooing your hair that's not gonna make a difference. You're not using the right burp. It's not as light as I wanted it to be. So yeah, I'm using T10, which is pale blonde. Oh, your hair is not light enough for that color.  So it's like black. It looks like a caramel brown.  You and me both.  I'm about to cry. Ew. Why does it look like that? I'm only saying you because we're both in agreement. Why did it turn so dark? So I'm not supposed to be using box dye, but we're doing it because we can find a new toner. Ah, this video just keeps getting worse. Oh my God. You guys, I've been through it. She's using box dye now, which is a permanent color and color doesn't lift colored hair. So the most it's gonna do is just like tone it. Let me also say in that same breath, color does actually lift color even though technically it's not supposed to. So she could get some kind of result here, but I don't think it's a good idea. And she does need to bleach her hair again to get the best results.  I'm leaving you right now.  Like I really like the color, I think. Hey everybody, so this is what my hair looks like. Okay, in the video, bye. What?  It's actually even from roots to ends. What? It doesn't look bad. It's just still very yellow, but with the right toner, like a level nine ash, she could make this nice and ashy and silvery and beautiful and it'll really go much better with her base color on the back of her hair. That was horrifying. I hated watching that. Thank you, but no thank you for making that video. Miss Alexis, but I hope you're okay now. I hope you've recovered from that horrifying bleaching session. Cause I know I haven't recovered yet. I will, I hope I will. Up next, we have a video by the Asian Latina. It definitely looks like I don't have any eyebrows right now and it's because I'm waiting to bleach the whole head too. To achieve a light brown color. All right, if your hair is not yet colored, I really hope it's colored because if it's not colored, all you had to do was just get color.  So I hope that she really does have colored hair and if she does have colored hair, I mean, luckily she's only making it light brown. She's not going blonde, but she has very dark hair. So this is gonna be a little bit of a task. Bleach is one to two ratio. So one scoop, bleach, two scoops, developer, I use three scoops. BW2 is strong and she is actually following mixing ratios, which is commendable. Great job. Okay, another thing she's doing great is starting from the bottom of her hair and working her way up. She's taking relatively small sections and she's not doing the root first, which is really great three things. Ooh. The thing she's not doing correctly, which seems to be a theme today, is not putting enough lightener on the hair. This is dry. Creamy, thick, light substance on the hair. That is what we're going for. Okay, she's applying it to the whole head. She's working way around, avoiding the roots as much as possible. It's looking dry. It's looking like not enough lightener. By far not enough. Oh boy, it's starting to get really, really bad at the top. We were doing good at the bottom. We were taking small sections and now at the top, we are just taking these big clumps of hair and just slapping it on and just calling it a day. You're gonna get a lot of spotting that way. It's not gonna look right. It's not gonna look cute.  I promise. So, stop. Oh, horizontal section guys, or vertical. Honestly, any kind of small sectioning, just grab a talcum while you do this, you know? Section and then apply. Do one layer at a time. One, two, three, four, you know?  It's so simple. I can't believe that's the amount of lightener she's gonna put on her head. There's literally nothing there. Oh. The most important thing for her to consider or to remember while doing her lightening process is to not lighten her hair to a pale yellow or even yellow. Like if we're trying to do a light brown, we wanna get it to that orange stage. We do not wanna go past that because when you put that brown on, you want a nice orangey base to work with, right? Cause that makes the brown really rich and vibrant and healthy looking. If we go too blonde, you're gonna get a very hollow color once you apply that brown over it and it's gonna fade off really quickly because there is just nothing behind that color holding it down. There is just, that hair is just like ready to let any color molecule out of it. When your hair is damaged and too light, it doesn't like to stick onto things. All right, we're going into the roots because she's only going to a light brown, this might be okay to stage to start doing the roots except, I don't know, it's really hard to see through the screen. Also, she did a good job. I'm glad that she didn't let her ends get to blonde before doing the roots because that's not what she wants. That is not the end result she desires. No, no, no. We're on my second bleach. I did a bleach bath, which did help a lot and there was a lot of yellowing. No, we went too far. It's yellow. Exactly what I didn't want to happen. Oh my God. And she has hot roots. Psst, psst, psst. Eugh. This is where we're at. Oh Lord. It does look decently even and an okay base to put the brown on. I really switched up from like two seconds ago where I said everything looks terrible but she ended up pulling it together. I got Carol Liquid Permanent Medium Rich. Carol? It's Carol. Come on. Neutral blonde, but it's actually like a brown. Oh my God. Neutral blonde is not a brown. It's either Carol is wrong or it's you.  Okay, we're going with 30 volume with the permanent color. So she's gonna get even more lifting, which she doesn't need because her hair is lifted enough. You could go in with 10 volume with this color because we just want deposit and the least amount of lifting power possible. It's gonna be really important now that she does not miss any sections. When you're doing this at home, it's probably best for you to use a cutting comb with wider teeth on one end and comb through your hair as you put that brown onto it to ensure you got every single spot of your hair covered. It is so easy to miss spots, even as a professional when you're going from a very light color to a very dark color. So using that comb to ensure that you got every single piece and moving it in different directions, the hair flow, you know, getting it all in there. It's gonna be really important to making sure you don't miss anything. We are getting that color in there. At least she's sectioning. Not great sectioning, but she is sectioning and she is fully covering every strand of her hair. So I love to see it. And I feel like we might get a decent result here. You said update of my hair. I did do some blue shampoo. So I got like a little more brown, light brown. I achieved it.  I like the color. Yo, she actually slayed that. That is a cute color. It is definitely blonde, not brown, but it looks amazing. It's like a dirty blonde color and it looks very, very natural. I don't know how she accomplished that and she made it look so easy, but it looks beautiful. It's a gorgeous, very even color. Everything just looks like it came together for her. So congratulations. Whoa, oh my God. Up next, we have a video by Tara Hartman. Welcome to Tara's salon. That's a salon, welcome. That don't look like a salon, Tara. That looks like your home. Now I've made it through my quarter life crisis. I'm a little too early for a midlife crisis. So I think right about now I'm going through like a third of life crisis. You know what I mean? I've been going through a crisis every quarter of every year since the day I was born. So for you to be hitting your first crisis, good for you.   You have beautiful hair. Very long and luscious and look very healthy and very natural. That's the key word. Again, is this their natural color? Nobody's telling me if it's their natural. Sorry, I had so much saliva in my mouth. Nobody's telling me if they have color. God. Sometimes like I have to talk about hair and I just like don't even know what hair is anymore. Like I talk about it so much that I don't even like know what I'm saying anymore. Oh, la, la, la, la, la, la. So much hair stuff. Always talking about hair, hair, hair, hair. Imagine if everybody was bald and nobody had hair. What would I do with my life? Who would I be? It's my whole identity. Wow, that'd be kind of crazy if I nobody had hair and then I'd have to like figure out, well, what am I gonna do? I would work in the creative field.  I don't know. Make a matcha. I don't know. I'm getting tired today. Ooh. Today's a Saturday, by the way. And you know, Saturdays are usually for the boys. But today it's for Hair Just React. So struggle a little bit. I did do a little cheeky test strand just to like try and see how many times I'd need to bleach it to get the sort of desired effect that I'm looking for. I'm ready for her to funk it up.  Put some lightness in there or do the whole thing blonde. That would be a total new look for her. And I'm very excited to see what she does. I'm also going to be cutting a little bit off of my hair. It's long. Oh, it is long. This is gonna be a long process to try and get this light. This is hard.  That literally took me 20 minutes to try to figure out how to like part my hair in a decent way. Okay, the sectioning looks clean. It looks legit. All right, I'll give you a round of applause for that. You did that, yeah. I bought the Ion bright white cream lightener and I went with a 30 volume sensitive scalp developer. It's fine. I want the 30 because I have dark hair and also because I do have a little bit of that like reddish chestnut pigment kind of still in there a tiny bit from when I did like a tint because we're going for a blonde. We are not going for orange. Okay, slay. Yes, 30 volume and cream developer. Cream developer definitely lightens to the max. Not a huge fan of cream developer, to be honest with you, but it works for some people. She's using 30 volume. Good choice for her. She said she has a little chestnut in her hair. I think she meant like she had colored her hair before previously and it had a little bit of that reddish orange undertone to it. So she's gonna need a lot of power to get that all lifted out and let's see what happens. Y'all always try to do with a brush. Am I the one who taught you to use a brush for everything? I feel like I'm not that guy. Like I always like just use your hands. Go in with your hands, scoop some lightener and put it on there. I mean, at this point, we're not doing anything precise so you might as well just do it like that. And also to get her hair nice and light and bright from this dark brown, you're gonna need to use foil. So something to think about. This is really scary, but if there's one thing I've learned after watching thousands and thousands of hours of videos of people bleaching their hair, if you use enough bleach, everything will be okay. But this is what I'm talking about. She is using enough lightener. This is very heavily saturated and that is what I like to see. One of y'all said I did it. And the other thing is, when I say don't do your roots first, I don't mean leave out three inches of hair at the root. I mean leave out one inch, all right, from the scalp evenly. Like this is giving three inches. Oh, hair still feels really strong, nice and bleach-y. Yes, it's getting light. Yeah. Here's the first round of bleach, mostly dried. Honestly, for a first round, not bad at all. I don't know why she didn't do her roots in one process.  Do it all at once, okay? Well, do the roots last, but do it at the same time that means it ends the processing. Ready for round two of bleach. And now I'm gonna have to mix my fresh batch for my roots, I think, and we'll maybe add in a little bit of 10 volume so it is closer to 20 volume rather than 30 so I don't end up with extra hot roots because I feel like I'm doing it myself, you know? We're gonna get hot roots a little bit probably. You're gonna get banding is what you're gonna get because you have four inches in the back that has not been colored yet. That root section, that one inch off the scalp is gonna look great, but then everything in between is gonna look orange and then the ends are gonna also look decently good. Why did you leave that much out? Guys, one inch, one inch. Oh. This is starting to look spooky. She's going all over the place with this one. I don't know what the result is gonna be. Is she gonna break her hair off? She's overlapping onto the existing lightened hair and some of those hairs were already nice and bright.  Second round of bleach done with my roots. It turned out so much more even than I was expecting it to. I wouldn't say it's a level 10 blonde, but I'm not sure how it's gonna take the toner that I have. Yeah, it's definitely giving like level nine vibes, but she did a pretty good job. I'm interested to see the back though. I've started going crazy and it's a little rough at the moment. We're gonna fix it up. It's just like the rough beginning trim. All right, so I guess she finished the color section. I don't know what happened, but she's cutting her hair now. Let me watch a second of this. Oh my God, she's going short. I think it's pretty dang cute. On camera, for some reason, the color really turns out more orange than it actually looks in real life. It's definitely like a pearly blonde pink. I'm obsessed with it. I love it very much. Oh my God, she did such a good job. This looks great. I mean, like what she started with was such a kind of safe and like boring look. And now she has a style, she has a vibe. She has something going on. I love it. Like I'm so happy she took the leap of faith and colored her hair and cut her hair and she really kind of slayed. I would however like the underneath to be a little more ash tone just to compliment the darker brown at the top or do the underneath like a purple or a pink or a blue or really any color. That'd be really fun for you. But overall, I mean, the vibe is there. The vibe is good. Yeah, you kind of slayed from what I could see. I didn't see the back very much, so I'm glad you hid that for me. Well, those first timers definitely looked like it was their first time. But good job. 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All right, so now Google Business Profile is managed from Google Maps now. So basically this right here, so Google Maps. And basically you'll just go to the App Store, Play Store, and download Google Maps. It may already be on your phone. So next I'm going to click on Google Maps. From there at the very top, you'll see a search here, box at the very top. To the right of search here, you'll see a little microphone. And then to the right of that, you'll see your logo. So your logo is in the top right-hand corner. It's above where it says Hotels in the top right-hand corner. So I'm going to click on my logo. That's going to open up the menu. And then you'll notice that there is turn on incognito mode. There's your profile. And then there's your business profile. So your business profiles is what you want to click. So I'm going to click on your business profiles. And then it's going to bring up any business profiles you have. So I'm going to click on System Dynamics. And obviously yours is going to be your business name. And then from here, if you go below the different menus, it'll say your business on Google, how many views, and then there's an edit profile. So you'll click on edit profile. And basically if you want to upload a photo at the very top, right here where I stop, there's overview, services, reviews, photos. So if you want to add photos, you just click on add photos. Which is this top button right here. So right there. And you can do updates from here. So you could add an event, add an update. If you go to the about down at the bottom, it says edit your business information down here at the very bottom. So edit your business information at the very bottom. So you can just go through these different tabs and update things right on your phone.


Before we get into the video, people am giving away 11,500 Apex coins every single month to beam with a chance of winning them, make sure you are subscribed to this channel and have that bell notification button ticked, drop a like on the video and leave a comment down below, more details are in the video description. What is going on guys, welcome back to the channel and I do appreciate you being here. Today I bring you news of season 2 of Apex Legends. Too little too late, well you decide. I think what Respawn have confirmed is actually coming with season 2 is pretty damn great though, but hey, they have took their time delivering such content which is the problem I feel most will have. But let's get into it. Okay so Respawn announced details on season 2 and what we can expect as well as a limited time game mode coming next week. So let's first check out the details on that limited time mode, quoting Respawn right now. Hey Legends, as we approach June, we want to give you a heads up on a fun in-game event coming next week, as well as just some of the first details on season 2's battle pass. The hunt begins. Starting next Tuesday, we'll be kicking off a new event called the Legendary Hunt. This limited time event will last two weeks and with it brings all these two kings canyon. Apex Elite Q. Test yourself against the best with the Apex Elite Q. Make it to the top 5 in any match to earn your way into a select queue full of other top 5 winners. Here's the catch, in order to continue playing in the queue you will have to keep placing in the top 5. Legendary Hunt challenge rewards complete a set of limited time challenges and earn new rare epic and legendary skin. So that's the event people and it drops next week. Should be quite cool. Quoting Respawn again. WXP weekend from Friday June 7th at 10am PST through to Monday June 10th 10am PST and WXP on base progression and battle pass progression. Battle pass bonus XP, finish top 5 in any match and earn an entire battle pass level once per day. Legendary Hunt store skins every 3-4 days during the event. We'll have new Legendary Hunt theme skins rotating through the in-game store for direct purchase. Two additional Legendary skins for all battle pass owners. Players who have the wild frontier battle pass will automatically get their Legendary Honored Prey R31 skin. Players who reach battle pass level 15 before the end of the event will get the Wraith Night Terror Legendary skin. We'll have more details to share with you next Tuesday but for now get ready for the hunt. On screen now people we can see the Legendary Honored Prey R31 skin and the Legendary Night Terror Wraith skin which will be a part of that Hunt mode and they look absolutely amazing people these are the skins we want to see, don't you agree. These are super unique and actually feel the means of earning them is something many Apex fans want to see in the game. In-game events offering such rewards it's a great way to keep people coming back and playing in my opinion. Let's hope we get many more in the future. Okay so let's move on to the details dropped by Respawn on the season 2 battle pass. Quoting Respawn again. Season 2 battle pass will be revealed at 10am PST on Saturday June 8th. We'll be showing some of the first details on Apex Legends season 2 as part of our EA play livestream. Today we want to tell you about just a few of the high level improvements you can expect from our second battle pass. So without further ado we'll let our lead product manager Lee Horne tell you more. Take it away. Lee Respawn here with an update on battle pass season 2. We've been listening to the community's discussion regarding the season 1 battle pass and have gotten a ton of great feedback from players. Today we're excited to share just some of the changes and improvements you can expect with the season 2 battle pass. So you all can know that we are headed in the right direction. TLDR too long didn't read on just some of their common improvements. Level up via daily and weekly challenges. Time to battle pass level 100 should be significantly reduced. 3 additional legendary skins added to the rewards track. 3 entirely new content categories to place badge and stack track rewards. You'll earn enough crafting metals from the full reward track to craft a legendary item or whatever your heart desires. Daily, weekly challenges and improving the grind starting in season 2. You'll be able to complete a mix of daily and weekly challenges to level up your battle pass. If you miss a few weeks or start late, your weekly challenges will still be around for when you return and you can complete them all at once. While we don't want to introduce wacky challenges that drastically warp the way you play the game, these challenges should provide some interesting variation from game to game. This means all players should feel more rapid battle pass progression and the journey will hopefully be more fun and interesting. Also, the additions should allow players who can only dedicate a few hours a week to the game to make a very deep cut into their battle pass progression. More legendaries. We're adding 3 legendary items to the battle pass and there will now be a legendary item every 25 battle pass levels in the premium track, including at purchase. So that's level 1, 25, 50, 75 and 100. Our goal is to have a nice balance of cool character exclusives and cosmetics for everyone, like weapon skins. Their level 100 reward will be an evolving weapon skin and a special recolour version for those players who make it to a level 110. New cosmetic types and no badge or stat tracker rewards. On premium path, we removed badges and basic stat trackers completely from the premium battle pass rewards track for season 2. You'll still get a seasonal badge, but it'll be a single evolving badge that won't take up any additional reward slots. We have kept seasonal wind trackers in the free path and they will all be enable in the first 10 levels. You'll also be able to earn items from 3 new content categories in place of badges and trackers. We'll be revealing details about these categories closer to the launch of season 2. Earn enough crafting metals for a legendary item. We're replacing the voice lines with crafting metal rewards. You'll now be able to earn enough crafting metals, 1200 to craft the legendary item of your choosing. So if there's an existing item you've been converting, you'll be able to get it in season 2. You can still get additional crafting metals from the various apex packs in the battle pass as well. We have a lot more to tell you about what you can expect in season 2, so make sure you tune into our livestream on saturday June 8th to hear what else we have in store. So yeah, people season 2 actually sound really good and the way I feel we expected season 2 to land. The fact they have a listen to what we want is pretty cool too and from even a minute's details on season 2 battle pass I can tell you season 2 will be a million times better than what we got with season 1. Daily and weekly challenges were a must and they've been included. More exclusive rewards and stat trackers and badges removed. Great move. All this with the new battle pass paired with limited time game mould events with even more stuff to earn is absolutely great in my opinion. So season 2 is shaping up to be amazing. On June 8th, which is a saturday 10am pst, which I believe is 6pm UK time, this is a date we will learn more about season 2 of apex legends from respawn themselves. And you guys can be sure I will have you covered right here on my channel. Anything else drops between now and then guys. Again, I will have you covered right here on my channel. Guys, let me know what you think about all this down below in the comments section. If you've got any questions you can leave a comment down below or hit me up on twitter at dpjsc08 which is linked within the video description. But guys, on that note, I am out. I hope you enjoyed the video. If you did, leave me a rating truly helps me out. Enjoy the rest of your day and hopefully people I will catch you on that next one.