What he represents is patriarchy. We're here to do work as men, as patriarchs. There's nothing more natural than being a father. Welcome back to the third annual 21 Convention Patriarch Edition. Our next speaker is a big YouTube personality. He is the author of two books, including Free Agent Lifestyle. He's had quite a few different coaching opportunities. And we're very grateful that he brings that experience here to be able to help you men understand what your roles and what your relationships are as men better. One of the things that I love about this next speaker is he goes into this whole approach of marriage, relationships, the intersexual dynamics with his eyes wide open. A lot of times you get kind of this simplistic naivety or a lot of bitter resentment. And we can get kind of too emotional in either direction. And what our next speaker does is he takes all the information that we get from both of those. But he approaches it with a realism and even a sense of optimism to still help men make the best decisions for them. So please welcome to the stage Coach Greg Adams. Thank you, sir. Thank you, thank you. What's going on? 21 Convention Patriarch Edition. Anybody never heard of me? Raise your hand. OK, we got a familiar crowd.  All right, so today we're talking about removing the protector. Removing the protector. I gave this similar speech to the ladies over there at the 22 convention. Most of them were receptive of the majority of the information. And I would imagine you would be too. You don't have to agree with anything that I say. You can agree with some of the things. I'm not bothered either way. So my opinion doesn't change on this topic. But let me just introduce you to me, basically. So you know where I'm coming from. Coach Greg Adams. I'm not a dating coach. I'm not a relationship coach or any of that. This was my name before I started doing YouTube. Coach Greg Adams comes from a basketball coaching position that I held high school and college my entire adult life, essentially, from age 19 all the way to my mid-30s when I coached girls in women's basketball. So it's been a whirlwind time learning women. Most of the time when I traveled, I was the only guy. Traveled, bus, airplane, hotels, dinners. I was the only guy, and I spent a lot of time mentoring and leading young women. And with that, I came to the idea that you can either love women or understand them. You can't do both. And I lived the life of understanding them. And as much as I understand them, it is almost impossible for me to love them. But doesn't mean I can't have good relationships with them.  From a marriage that I'm no longer in. So I'm divorced. Two children that I co-parent. I co-protect when they're with their mother. The mother protects them in her own way with her own rules. Those kids are teenagers now. And now I have a different protection model because I have to basically watch their lives and watch them make decisions as a young adult entering into adulthood. I can influence, but really the influence is done at a young age. So this is basically how my life has turned out. I got on YouTube after my divorce and talked to men about what the possibilities are. If you get married, everything that I say in my content, it may not happen to you. And you may have a successful marriage. My content is not geared to sway you against marrying the girl of your dreams. If you find her and you say, she'll never do that to me because I'm a good man, all right? Well, then so be it. It's fine.  Well, it might. But for other men that don't know what's on the other side, that's what I do, I inform them. I say, man, I just wanna make you know that there could be danger ahead. And when that danger comes, it's out of my control, it's out of your control, okay? So let's talk about this. And this is kinda gonna be an interactive situation. I'm gonna have you feeling some things here, feeling some phrases. But would you say that we're in an incredible time of comfort? Are you comfortable right now? You guys got seats and water, you guys got lunch and dinner, you guys got shelter, food, air conditioning, and et cetera. We don't have anyone trying to maim us, no saber to tiger, no terrorist. There's nothing going on other than a little virus floating around the sky where you need a face condom from time to time. So that's the only thing that you have to worry about. We have times of comfort. And in times of comfort, people, the protectors have given us and allowed us and afforded us. Sometimes people think there's something wrong. This relationship is going too well, let's mess it up. And then they'll start involving themselves, maybe we can make this better, and maybe we can do this, and maybe we can do that. The men start fighting the women, the women start fighting the men, the Democrats started fighting the Republicans, et cetera, et cetera, the whites and the blacks and the gays and the not gays. And then we get all of this stuff that we deal with here. We get to go home in safety and we have protection. Let's talk about this though, and raising kids. Who wants kids? Who wants kids in their future? You wanna marry? Okay, let me do this. Who is not a father? Raise your hand. We got a few, okay? The rest are fathers. Who has been married before? Okay, good. Who's, of those who were married, who's divorced? Got us some divorces here, that's more than 50%. That's more than the 50% divorce rate. Who now wants to be married and have kids? Nobody, okay, thank you, all right.  You like hell to the no. Funny, in the women's conference, there were some women over there. Coach, but I wanna be married, I'm a good woman. I would never do that. I would never do those things you talk about on your show of the mind. What can I do to my boyfriend to let him know I would never do that? And I said, you can't do nothing. He has to believe that in a time where he's hearing a lot of men tell the truth about marriage. So, in knowing this, let's talk about the protector. The father absence crisis in America, I talked about this in last year's show, is talking about one in four children grow up without a father.  They're kinda absentee or they work a lot and the mom's the only one raised soccer mom type style. If I throw in the amount of conflict within marriages where the father is henpecked and he can't contribute, this number probably is three out of four, okay? It's probably three out of four. Not a lot of children are in households that are promoted to be the father is leading. We're gonna get to that in a second, okay? But what would you say, there's my favorite woman right there. What would you say? This is the interaction right here. You can raise your hand with the answer. What would you say the duties of a man would be as you've been taught or understand? Anybody, what would the duties be for a man with a family, anyone? Lead, provide, discipline, all right, those are? Protect, okay, very good. Okay, what about women? What would their role be in the family or the parent? What would you say their role would be? What was the back one? What is it? A helpmate? Helpmate to the family. Okay, so anybody else? Nurturer, that's it, damn, she got an easy job. She got an easy job. Follow, okay, because the other person's leading, she's to follow, okay? Anything else, are you guys scared to say what her role is or?  Okay, she's only capable of cooking and cleaning.  Now, do you know any cooks? Any professional cooks? Are they women?  So why are you gonna make her cook? She can't do nothing. No, I'm just not just okay. Well, some of those roles were given in addition because there was a time and a place in our country that wasn't as comfortable as we are today. Meaning she couldn't do much. There were wars, famine, attacks. There were also agricultural, heavy lifting, refining, labor, slavery. There were those things and that was the majority of the condition around the country, maybe around the world. Now it's different, right? You got computers and keyboards and cubicles and all of these meeting rooms and spaces and email. They can now do things. So those roles, nurturing, following, they don't have to because we're comfortable. So when we try to put them in those roles, they say, no, we don't have to do that anymore. Why don't you do it? You see what I mean? You can do that, right? Can you cook? We already established that men could cook. So we could cook now. This is how they think. Now, we also have this right here, a threat to the system. So since we provided the typical roles of men, our duty is to protect. It is always gonna be that way. Even though they will say we don't wanna do what we were doing before, you can do it. When it comes down to it, we do have to protect. Okay, somebody comes through that front door, no matter how much of a feminine she is, no matter how much of a progressive woman she is, she ain't going with the baseball bat. She's not going to get the firearm. We have to do that. And it's pretty clear and concrete that they don't want to take that role.  But then, if she changes her mind, she will find another protector, okay? And so our job as a protector is getting harder every day because we get nominated and selected to be the protector. And then when she wants to remove it, she can. And then she goes to some sort of protectorship that we'll talk about here in a minute, okay? But the greatest threats for us as raising children, and they'll tell you this, most of these women here, that we're the threat, you're raising children today, you got daughters, and thank you for the fathers who have daughters, I have a daughter and a son. Well, I don't know if you know that the generation of young children today and young kids, their biggest influence on them is TikTok and social media. This is how they judge each other. This is how they date each other. This is how they measure how significant you are in your status. And so if you have a young lady, she gets her news from the people who she follows on TikTok. It is a 30 second reel, 30 to 60 second reel of crazy stuff, humor, news, politics, whatever it is. And this is the ability, they have the ability, the young ladies to market themselves on social media. And so she can get up and skimpy a tire, whatever she wants. She can dress up like a furry animal, doesn't matter. She can market herself on TikTok. Now we didn't have this when we were dating. The woman's reach wasn't as much as a woman's reach is today. And so when a woman dates you, a young woman, and she says, hey, do you have a TikTok? Do you have an Instagram and a Snapchat and all of this stuff? You think she's using that as a means to communicate with you, but no, this is a means to market and sell to you. This is a means to measure you. And this is a means to now basically remove the protection model against the father because you're not monitoring that as a dad, but she's doing this. And then when she turns 18, she then sells herself in some way or another. And when I say sell herself, we're talking about all the way or just a little bit. And then she looks at you, sir, and she says, well, I was looking at your Snapchat and your Snapchat score is very low, meaning you don't use it. Well, you must not be that popular. I can deal with you. I only wanna deal with people that wanna see me dance and you want some pictures of my feet and all of this stuff. She wants you to see that, okay? The guys know, young guy back there, he knows what I'm talking about, this is the truth. Eventually she'll go to Holly fans. Eventually she'll go to Instagram model. Eventually she'll go to seeking arrangements and sell herself to older men. It's happening. That's your daughter.  You want them to be able to fight through adversity. Well, it's much easier to be a woman. And how easy is it to be a woman? Well, you can be a woman for less than a year and be the woman of the year, okay?  This is where we are. And so you want your son, be tough. Get out there, man, hit that guy, tackle him. Come on, man, be tough. And everybody's on, you're gonna hurt his feelings. We need some feelings in the guy, just relax. Relax, dad, remove the protector. So this guy is an audience I did not know. This is Mr. Jeffrey Younger, raise your hand, sir. This has just happened to be a coincidence. I did not know he was here. And I was talking about this. He's on the slide. I don't know in the entire story, so I'll just give you a little bit and I'll talk to him right before this. But removing the protector. This is a father, he married a woman. And he said, she said, I would never do those things to you, I'm perhaps, she said that. And he felt comfortable enough, he committed enough to marry her and produce a child. The common story, there's a divorce for whatever reason, separation. The child has to go somewhere. What we do in America is called co-parent for 50-50 split custody. If you're lucky, that's a win for a man. It's a loss for the woman. She loses her mind when she hears 50-50, she's like, I own that kid, no, you don't. Well, in this situation, the young boy who was born a boy goes with the father. The woman, the wife is saying that the kid is identifying as a woman or a transgender. I don't get it, but that's what it is. So in this battle, when this is early on, when the young boy is with the father, it's a boy. He's a boy. When he goes with the mother, it dresses up like a girl. And they're in a constant court battle, in which I've just been updated. The child has been removed from the father, he has no influence, he has supervised visits, and he can have no influence religiously or any conversations about him being taught masculinity, protection, or anything. This is all court order. And I believe that the child's no longer with you, correct? There's no more split custody. So the parent or the protector, the father has been completely removed, and the mother wants to do hormone replacements if I'm not mistaken at some particular point. The protector has been removed. Now we're gonna get to an important part of the story because this is where people don't get.  Because a lot of this will make you angry. You'll be like, what the, these women? And I want to ask you a question here. Are women free? Are women free? Now I'm not talking about don't seek an arrangement. I'm not talking about don't free. They cost us a couple of dollars. You gotta pay. You don't have to, but are women free? Do they experience a freedom in society? This is what we're taught. They're independent. They make their own choices, et cetera, et cetera. Are women free? Because if somebody answered this, are women free? They think they're not free. Okay. They've been convinced that they're not. Oh, okay. So they believe that there's something wrong. They need to be free. Okay. Good one. They're protesting these young women here. Are women free? Okay. The women in the other convention said, in essence, yes. Okay. So they believe that they're free. Now, let's go ahead and tell you what they really are. There was a point where women were property. Doesn't matter. A lot of people were considered property, but they were considered property mainly because what I said before was they couldn't fend for themselves. The Saber Tube Tiger wouldn't eat their asses up. Okay. Saber Tube Tiger wouldn't take care of the women a long time ago, but they needed a protector and they wisely said, I'll be with you. Then they got the cage. They had to give up some monkey double back lips for it, but that's how they got a little bit of freedom. She had to say, I love you to not get eaten by the Saber Tube Tiger. It makes sense, right? You thought she loved you. She just didn't want to get eaten. Now, in this situation here, we've been told that they're no longer property. They have rights and they can vote. I'm not against that at all. Absolutely. You go ahead and assume those responsibilities and be held 100% accountable for your life. Well, now they don't have a husband or a father. There's no need for it. They may want it. If that's the case, the husband no longer owns them. They no longer have to ask the father for their hand in marriage. The father doesn't own her. You don't own me, daddy. She can go to TikTok and torque it out and she'll be okay, right? She can survive. There's a millionaire girls doing this, by the way. And we're sitting here shaking our head and they make more than us, per day. They make what we make in a day. I mean, they make what we make in a year in one day. That's incredible power. That's the power that they've been given. But in this, what they don't understand and what most people don't understand is they've taken their ownership from the husband and the father and they've given it to someone else. This right here is the government. This is the Chinese government building, but we're not too far from that right now. We're pretty close to what they're doing here. Although I've never experienced what they've been doing, but it seems a little different. The government is an entity that owns women. And we know that because you gotta ask them to marry them now, no longer the father. You gotta go to your government source. Hey, can I marry this woman? And they say yes. Because if you don't marry them, the government has to support her. So they give you the support mechanism for just a while. And on the back end of that, they say, well, if you mess up, then you gotta keep paying a portion of her expenses and then we'll cover the rest. Now, is that freedom? That doesn't seem like freedom, but I want you to understand that as a father, your daughter, cause some of you guys gotta have daughters. This is what the daughter is going to go through in life. She's gonna believe she's free. She's gonna put out a Janet Jackson control album. Talk about I'm in control. No, you're not. The government is your daddy now. A lot of them go to the child support system.  A lot of them call the police.  Am I wrong on this one? This is pretty much how it works. All right, anybody know what this is? That's a college campus. Some of you guys don't have degrees obviously. That's called college. Freshman year dorm is lit. One of you guys that y'all never been to Arizona State I see you there, okay. This is a college. Every American pretty much was told in the last 20 years that you should go to college and it'll improve your job opportunities.  It did for some, most people it did not.  Okay, he was like, damn, what happened? Oh, well, degrees don't mean that much now. You need a master's degree, okay? But they keep just moving the goalposts just slightly. Well, in this situation, in this situation, college women are pushed into college instead of parenting in their most fertile years in which they could pop out babies left and right with ease. They're told, don't do that. Come here. Now they'll teach you classes but mostly they'll teach you how to protest and become an activist. And they'll indoctrinate you in whatever they want. This is why I call it the public school indoctrination camp. And they'll tell them, I don't have them babies focus on your career. Now that's even before you as a man has gotten to that woman. She's already been introduced to the government and public school as an adult and now you come in if you think you come in. You come in at this point. Hey baby, well let's make a life of each other. Oh no, no, no, no, not right now. I'm still riding the car carousel at the school and I'm focusing on my career. When I get a little bit stable, then I'll talk to you. Her fertility is increasing by the day. The public school owns women and I'm gonna prove it. We have a college debt bubble of about $1.6 trillion dollars of over unpaid debt. 1.6 trillion dollars. You know how much women own of this debt? One trillion, one trillion. They owned the boatload or it's like 950 billion. All right, so it's 70%. 70% of it is the women that they told forget having a family, forget all of that, go to school. You'll get a good career and it's all been a lie and a lot of them are still angry. They're still protesting. We don't make as much as men. We were told X, Y, and Z and they're finding out that that's not necessarily true.   And then when she gets out of school, 10, 20 years down the line, she wants to marry you and you find out she still owes her owner debt, okay? This woman is working. She has a career now. So now she seems to have a kid in between, but now she went from the government to the institution and now she works for a corporate entity. They're not entrepreneurs. Anytime they start a business, we're talking about a service business that employs less than five people. So we're not talking about CEOs of major companies. We're talking about small-time entrepreneurs, if that.  You ask a woman to quit her job, she probably would not. Oh, I'm not comfortable with that. What if you leave me? What if you have an affair? What if this, what if that? All the things you say, what if you leave me? What if you divorce me? What, and they say, just get over it. I would never do any of that. Just sign this pre-nup because what if you, oh, come on. But if you wanted to marry a woman today, you would have to fall behind the job. You come in behind the university, behind the government, behind the job. And rightly so, guys, they can work. I'm not telling women not to work. I'm telling you, you're not marriageable to me at some particular point, but go ahead and go to work. There's even thoughts that tell you as a man, you're the protector, hey, my job is going pretty well. We do have a child here that's being ignored. She'll be on TikTok in five years, and then she'll be on OnlyFans pretty soon after that, or Instagram. She's working on this job and she says, you know, the daycare is getting kind of expensive. Yeah, it is, it's burning a hole in our pocket. She'll tell you, why don't you come home from work early? Why don't you stay home and raise a kid? Have you ever heard a woman say that?  Because I'm the protector, I'm the earner. Well, I have a job. You see how you're falling in order because we're in a comfortable times, you start falling down.  She's gonna be like, oh, somehow I can't respect you as a man and there's a do that work that takes her in the supply closet and she smuggles Islam, all right? And she succeeds and so she owns, she's owned by the corporation. I'm gonna prove it. I always prove what I say. Oh, this is the other thing that owns them. They like to shop. Corporate logos, Fendi, Gucci, Louis Vuitton, Nike, yoga pants, under armor, whatever you name it, I'm gonna prove it. 83% of every dollar spent towards corporate needs are spent by women or they are close to the decision making. 83% out of 100, that's well over $8 out of $10. It's spent directly on their decision making, spent directly on corporate impulse. If you ask a woman, you know what, why don't we just wear old Navy clothes for about five years, get our money up? Don't buy any makeup, no hair products, no purses, no handbags, no shoes. She's probably gonna divorce you. She ain't going for that. She needs those logos. She needs those shoes. She needs that to get on her TikTok. She needs to go to France to take pictures for Instagram. She ain't going there. She's gonna be like, all right, we took the iPhone 12 picture, okay, we outta here. She don't even look at the picture back there. She don't even look at the tower back there. She just took the picture. This is what they do. Now, again, these are things that I describe about them. There's no reason to hate them. You just understand it. This is how they operate. They wanna go to the football game with you to take pictures. Just say they were there.  Gonna be hurt in her selfie in the picture. Now, I'm gonna prove to you that these corporate entities own them. This right here, Goldman Sachs last year, committed to, oh, I just touched the microphone, so let me know if the audio's off, okay? All right, Goldman Sachs, everybody knows what Goldman Sachs are, right? Yeah, okay. They launched a one million black woman, black women, it's a new initiative committing $10 billion in investment capital and a hundred million in philanthropic support to advance racial equality and economic opportunity by investing in black families, the black community, black men, no. They said the money goes to the woman. Now, where the money goes, the loyalty lies. And this is a trick, by the way, because some of this is loan money and these women are gonna get hooked again, like they got hooked on the student loan debt. They're gonna start hair businesses and all kind of bullshitting their salons and shoe stores and modeling companies PPP loan scam, this is what's gonna happen and they're gonna be hooked again. LBJ, Lyndon Baines Johnson, the president that followed John F. Kennedy after he got a hair part, signed the Civil Rights Act in 1964 reluctantly to give what they would say minorities civil rights, which were already afforded to buy in the Constitution, but we had to go ahead and do that. But the doozy was, he said, this is a trap. We can track them. Martin Luther King or Michael King, his name is Martin Luther King, really known as Michael King, born as Michael King, was right along with it. Yes, signed this bill. And when he signed it, he said, anybody know what he said? Boom, with this signature, these end words will be voting Democrat for the next 200 years. We're 70 years in, how's that going? Seem like it worked, seemed like it worked because 90% of them ends our voting Democrat. This is a continuation of it in which the corporate entities will own the remaining black women, the ones that remain for the next 200 years, they own them.  The protector will never be you or very rarely. The only case where it will be you is if she allows you to. And they will say that.  They allow you. Now, what if they don't wanna allow you today? What are you dealing with? Some BS, okay? All right, so protector, before you get there, gentlemen, you're gonna meet the girls of your dreams. She has to not be on the ownership of the government, which you can't get by that one, the public school indoctrination camp. I have a PhD, that's what she's gonna say. I have a PhD, every argument, I have a PhD. Okay, you gotta go through her corporate job. Hey, hon, can you come home at five, pick up little Johnny from soccer practice, take him over to Taekwondo, drop him off the tutoring, give him a bath, put him in the bed. She gonna be like, eh, my boss said I gotta work the sick. What do you do? Why don't you take little Johnny from football practice? That's what she gonna say, you take him. Well, I gotta work the sicks.  You'll find your babysitters making TikToks with your kids. You remove the protector, and now they're under the ownership of these entities, the job, the corporations, in terms to sell and market to them, the corporations that are gonna use them to their advantage to enslave them, further enslave them into debt. Remove the protector. It's all fine though, you know, we're in a good situation. We're gonna have a woman president pretty soon here, probably tomorrow, I don't know. At this rate, it could happen any moment. You think women would be very happy right now. You think relationships would be going fine. I mean, I think right now we have very good situations going on here. We got comfort, there's no tigers, bumblebees don't come into your house. You don't have to protect anybody coming through your front door. They got jobs, you got a job, some of you guys, some of them out earn you, especially in the 20s, it is very common for women to out earn men in their 20s. They seem to forget that sometimes. But we're in good times. This should be a workable situation, right? They shouldn't be complaining about anything. We shouldn't be complaining. We wouldn't even have a 21 convention if everything was fine, right? Something's wrong. And then everybody feels it. Some people are scared to say what's wrong.  You're the enemy. You're the person who's wrong. You're the person that's behind times. You're the caveman, you're the Neanderthal. What do you do? What's the situation here? Well, under this situation now, you are vulnerable, you are vulnerable to attacks. This is removing the father. These are strategic things that have been put in place in order to subvert from within. I had a lady who was very fond of World War II. She was like a, she's in her 60s. You know, I think she's an undercover white supremacist, but she would always hire me for personal training when I was a trainer. But she wouldn't always say some things and I'll be like, huh? Cause she was on the side, like you can tell she was like on the side of Hitler. You be like, what? But she would tell me some things. She would say, who won World War II? And I said, obviously the allies won. We're still here. She was like, no. She said, the communists won. And I'm like, what? She says, the communists won. How? Well, it's very apparent now. You can see it. Now, five years ago when she told me I couldn't really see it, but it's very apparent now. The strategy is subvert from within. The strategy is long-term, not bombs, not fighting, not tanks, not bullets. It is to subvert your culture so much to remove the protector, infiltrate the education system over years. And they've done this at Columbia University from the beginning. They've done this, make you fight each other, race, gender, class, transgender, whatever it is. We fight each other. We're the enemy now. There's no more boogeyman. You're the boogeyman. You're the boogeywoman. But they first have to remove the protector because if the father's there, then you're least likely to be indoctrinated. Your kids least likely to be indoctrinated. Your wife's least unlikely to be indoctrinated. Why? Because she's nurturing, cooking, cleaning. She don't got time for that. You plucked her right before she got to the university. But the communists knew, and their teachers, the Marxists are at the university.  In my marriage, Will, which we're not gonna talk about, this is in there. She either becomes a feminist or the feminist is reborn in her. Meaning whatever she said she would never do, all of a sudden she's gonna do. She's gonna say, well, the kids are seven years old, I'm going back to work. Well, we can't yet, it's gonna cost us too much money. What job are you gonna get? She gets a retail job. It cost her more, it cost your family more for her to be at work than for her to be at home.  Well, she's a feminist reborn. Plus she can do whatever she wants.  And you'll be paying child support and she'll have her retail job and your kids will be raised by strangers to do what, the cycle of indoctrination. How much does public school cost? Everything.  It costs you your kids' brain. It costs you your marriage. That free education costs most Americans everything.  All of a sudden they're told that woman's equal from you. And the boy's fifth grade, he looking at that girl, she equal to me? She don't look equal to me. I start running right now.  I start jumping, punching, kicking. I start doing anything just about anything right now. She can't keep up. Math, science, done. But she killing it in the behavior category so they don't, Sally. But this is what they're told and so your generation of boys are told not to prosper, not to be ambitious. That no matter what she does, she gets paid the same as you. So this is kind of the stuff that's happening but before they do that, they gotta remove the father. And most kids are, we already showed you the stat, they're raised without the father who dare to protect them from that. You basically decompress them of the information. They return home from school and if you have to send them to school, they return home. By the fact, you get no choice in school, by the way. You guys know that, right? They gotta go to school. But if you have a job and she has a job, she has to go to public school. Who tells them that they have to go to school? Government, right? Who is, who? Y'all's own. So you're not free. They tell you gotta go to school. All right, so they remove the father, they make it difficult for him and then they silence the protectors.  It's because you haven't heard men brave enough to say this stuff in public on camera and put his face out there. Well, I don't have a boss. I'm my own boss. I'm my own man. I don't got no wife to look at me.  I don't have any of that.   They like masculine men. They just don't like to compete with masculine men. Okay, but the only people that can stop me is the government. They are the only ones.  Okay, but silence the protectors.  Are we gonna get you fired from your job? I'm gonna falsely accuse you or something.  They do it. And so they silence you even in your marriages, right? They have the alignment of the government because the government knows they own them. 100 years ago, men voted, outvoted women 100% to zero. Today, women outvote men 60% to 40% because you guys don't show up to the polls. So who does the government glad hand to? Now that that percentage has flipped, whatever you notice, politicians doing more, dictating because they know women are scared and weak men. So the people that when you grew up, used to see them come out, politicians come out shaking hands. How are you, sir? How are you, young lady? They take a baby, kiss it, do they do that anymore?   Do not go to work unless you've got the jab.  They don't even do nothing. They got a president, they got voted in. He didn't even campaign. He's just like, sit over here, okay? And guess what? The women, oh, he's such a good man and he's so handsome. He looks nice, 60%, 40%. Then she starts saying, you know, I don't feel safe with that firearm in the house. Well, I'm not getting rid of my firearm woman.  No more firearms in the house. It's that simple.  But this is not a reason to hate them. Who remembers the conversation? You might be old enough to remember this. Boys can play with dolls. How long ago was that about? 15, 20 years ago, maybe? And the boy will play with a doll. You're a father, you rip it out of there. No, no, no, no. Oh, your wife will tell you, he can play with a doll. You gotta catch up with the times. That was 20 years ago. What did you go on to do? Now there's a father in here that the woman wants to inject with hormones to change it to a woman.  Oh honey, I guess he can play with that doll. And your girl out there crossover dribbling. She tackled it dudes on the football field. You'd be like, well, at least she'll be the best athlete in the family.   It escalates. The things that we're seeing in society, they'll test you with drip campaigns. I was in real estate, so they would teach you a drip campaign. They would say, you just market the people a little bit at a time. Skim a little bit, skim a little bit.  They just test it.  So they just give you a little bit. This is what's happened to you guys. They start with a little commercial. They start with an idea. Then they'll start up with a TV show. Then it's a movie. Then it's a freaking policy. You were like, damn, I was watching demolition, man. And now we're here. Just like that. I thought that was just a movie. No, you're here now. And they do this incrementally. They predict it because they have social scientists that study this.   And you don't. Cause this is just a little bit. Well, that was just them. That was their family. One of the divorce rates creeps up from 30%, 40%, 50%, 60%. You guys were like, well, that's just them. But nobody sounds the alarm. If you do, they silence you. Okay. Last point on this one. Marketing campaigns. Okay, this is where I need your help. This is when they shame the protector. This is a man makes millions of dollars. He supports his family. His family loves him. He has an intact family. He don't have any outside kids, no baby mamas. He seems to be a model citizen. As far as I know, he might smoke a little weed or something. He has a business that employs probably other families that he supports and he puts other people to work. He comes out and tells what his version of the truth and they said, let's hurt his ability to earn money. Let's take it away. Let's distribute the wealth.  We're gonna cancel him. Most often people that are canceled are men. Or we'll meet to him. We'll false allege him. We'll do all of these things. Remove the protector, shame the protector. And so in this point, they got a guy who's actually doing more great than harm. But one little thing can turn that into we gotta take him down. Now it's easy to do that to any of you. You guys don't even get this far, right? You don't even get to the million dollar protector model, they just take your job. And they have many ways to do so. Because you depend on them. Change the language of the protector. Change the language. And I don't know if you know about Marxism. This is a strategy that they use. They change everything. Secretary, administrative assistant. Stewardess, flight attendant. And they do this every 20 years. You know what I'm saying? Negro, black. Any black people in here? Yeah, me neither. You know what I'm saying? Some people are half black, they're Mitch. You don't even know what, like who named black? Like what does black mean? Like who named you that? You know somebody gave us that name. Like we didn't say we're black. Matter of fact, when I look at my skin, I'm dark brown. But somebody named us that and we accepted it. Okay, we're black now? Yeah, got it. Then all of a sudden, we're African-American. Wait a minute. Who named us that? Jesse Jackson. Guys realize that he came up with that. Jesse Jackson came up with the term African-American. And he put that in the lexicon. And now we're African-American. Like damn. So they changed this language in the means to control you. And when they control you, they can control your mind and your language. Even if you disagree, I come out and say I'm not black. People get mad.  And they go, how dare you? I said, I'm not African-American either. What? And they go, how dare you? And I said, well, I didn't name myself that, number one. And I say, the next part of it is, why can't I give it away, but you can take it away? Somebody can tell me you ain't black because I talk a certain way. Because I date a certain type of woman. Because I leave the community. You see what I'm saying? Now, how psycho is that? You can take it away from me with no problem, with no thoughts. But I can't say I don't want it. Cause number one, there's no benefits to this privilege card.  There's really no other benefit. So in essence, why would I be something that somebody else made me be? And then when I can't give it away, you can take it away. That's called control. And when I release myself from that control, you don't like it. That's how I know I'm hitting on the right spots. I give the control away. You no longer control me. But let's talk about this. Let's talk about in your relationships. I want you to help me with this. I'm gonna come up with some phrases that you might have heard before.  Happy wife, happy life. Anybody ever heard that before? Happy wife, happy life. Now, if you've ever been married, you know that's a lie, but it's a temporary band-aid on the problem. You know what I mean? You're like, well, I'll make her happy. Now, when I ask you what are the male duties to their family, did anybody say make her happy? Nope. No. Imagine if you made her happy, but you didn't do what we said, provision, protection, security. How happy is she? Still ain't happy, right? Cause she like, well, I'm happy, but you don't provide. You don't protect. You don't secure. So this happiness is basically manipulation and control. It's not your job. It's her job. But they are convinced you to always jump through those hoops and hermals.  Happy wife, happy life. And if you don't do it, you're in the wrong. How about this one? She wears the, how come you guys know these? This is sick. She wears the pants in this family. Now, let's switch it. He wears the pants in this family. Imagine what they're gonna do with that wife. They're gonna sneak in while you're asleep. Make her escape. Take her to therapists in courts.  He wears the pants in this family. We were not going for that. She's gonna work. She's gonna go to work. He wears the pants in my family. What? The girls are gonna say, no, no, no, no. But when we say, she wears the pants in the family. You're such a good man. Yes. You hear this once. You hear it twice. You hear it 15 times. It becomes natural. She wears the pants in this family. It's okay.  I have to ask, here it is. Finish the statement. I have to ask the wife. I have to ask for permission. Now, she's not your mama. But you wanna go to the ball game with your boys. Amen. We got Lakers tickets from Roesteaks. Bruh, we gotta leave right after work though. Let's go to the game. You're married. You have responsibilities and duties. You also pay, support, provide, secure. You do all that stuff. Can you just go to the game? You can do it.  Now, is this not control? Is this not weakening you? Is this strengthening you or weakening you? We know this, sleep on the couch. You come home all, honey, I know. Can I get the pillow and the beds for it, please?  Now imagine, this just doesn't make sense, but we're conditioned to believe it's true and she knows it and she can look at you like this and this guy says, oh, well, how about this one? It is cheaper to, it's cheaper to keep her. I'm telling you, there's so many of these. I can come up with dozens of these subservient language to control that are phrases that they put into the lexicon that basically when you hear it, I know what that means. Yeah, because she can divorce great beauty kingdom come. Yes, she can.  Especially if you leave her and she blow up like the Goodyear blimp, you left her while she was fat. You dang shaming, oh my God. You cheated on her with a young hot girl from the junior college.  Yes, I did. Do you see my wife?   This sounds fantastic. These sounds like great ways to support the relationship and keep you as the protector. No, these sound like great ways to weaken you. Now, I've gave you plenty of evidence. It's in the lexicon. You guys know it, you're familiar with it. Well, if she gets mad, then I'm gonna be in the dog boy. You see this? I'm gonna be in the dog house. Can you put your wife in the dog house? You can. You can, but it's not common to hear it. And then eventually he's controlling. He verbally abuses me. He changed. Don't let her tell that story, bro. You ever hear a woman tell a story? Just don't believe like half of it. You know what I mean? She's extended it out a little bit. She about to, you know, what do you call it? She about to add details to it and extend the length of it. He handcuffed me to the bed for 10 hours. It was 10 minutes. We were having sex. We got a little rough that night. All right, but then it's handcuffed me for hours. But cheaper to keep her sleeping in the dog house. These are the things that we use to promote relationships and these are healthy relationships.  Well, you know, happy wife, happy life. That's your therapist. That's your marriage counselor, bro. You sitting there like this about to help me. Now, if I say to you, no, man, don't take none of this stuff, man. She's manipulating you. I'm bitter. I'm hurt. Who hurt me? I'm angry.  More language. It's a way to silence you. Now, you can have a healthy relationship with all of this stuff and there are women that will not make this part of your relationship stuff, okay? But here's the deal. We already determined that you no longer own women the Constitution has asserted that. Equal rights amendments in 19, the whole 1970s was a whole sigh outs but whatever happened from that, most of our equal right laws and civil right laws stem from the 70s even though the Constitution afforded us all this stuff. Okay, but that's neither here or there. They've convinced you that women are free, okay? And they have their own free of choice. Strong and independent. Is that true? Like are men independent really? Do you have a boss? Most of us got bosses. Like how are you independent of the boss? Like how are you independent? Are you independent of relationships? Not really, it's kind of a coexisting but she believes I'm strong and independent. This is garbage. There's no way. And men know we will always operate in a hierarchy. Don't we know that? So if I go up to Elliot, look at Elliot, take a look over there. You guys know him, he's right over there and the big masculine looking guy over there. And we walked in the room together. I'm not looking as masculine as Elliot. And I challenge him. Elliot, I challenge you to a physical matchup. Well, we'll probably know how that will end. It's probably not gonna end that well with me but I'll put up a good fight as best as I could.  You know why? Cause we know the repercussions.  And so there's the hierarchy right there. And then it extends to finances. Then it extends to looks. Then it extends to status. Then it extends to all of that stuff. And all of a sudden everybody in here will know the latter in about an hour. Everybody will know who the masculine guy is and the most beta guy will be right up at the bottom.  He won't even interject in the conversation.   Like you're in a conversation with three dudes and the fourth dude come and you find yourself like, damn, another dude come. You kind of just get closed out. That's hierarchy. That's what's happening. And what men know is that that's how our society works. However, they don't know that. That's not fair. So they want to equal it by doing all these other campaigns and everything and they don't want to fight. They don't want to put skin in a game. They don't want to invest. And so essentially they've been able to say, we want what you have and the bad stuff you have, we don't want that. That's equality.  Doesn't mean it's right or wrong. However, in the protection model that you guys talked about, protection, security, et cetera, it ain't gonna work. It ain't gonna work. And so when you find your girl, just understand that she has been already trained in condition and has the support system of these owners before you get to her. And she says, but I would never do that to you. I'm in love with you. She's already been here before you got here. Now, this doesn't make them bad. It just makes you, I'm just making you aware of what's going on. Now you know what this is if you watch my show. This is the barbarian. And the barbarian is at the gate today. He's here. He's outside the gate. He's ready to come in. Now when the barbarian comes in, this is a mythical figure that I created. When the barbarian comes in, there's no negotiating with the barbarian. Does he look like he wants to listen to anything that I have to say? He has one mission and one mission only. And that is to destroy and take the spoils of war, which in the history of our living civilization, 200,000 years, the spoils of war have always been women. They've never been the protector. They've never been the secure. But in our society, I'm banking on from what we know that they would do that because we're equal. Just no hierarchy. They're capable. They're strong and independent. Right? Right? We're assuming when the barbarian shows up, we're all gonna be together fighting, right? Or am I wrong? That's wrong.  They are not having that. Let a mosquito, a bee, a fly, a caterpillar. What have you? Come in here.  Let the electricity go out. The wifi, TikTok, Facebook. Facebook went out the other day and mostly women lost their mind. This is how fast this BS that you've been promoted. This is how fast it will go away. It wouldn't take very much. The barbarian is here. And it's only a matter of time before it starts doing damage. And communist and Marxism and all of this stuff remove the protector first to allow the barbarian to come in. So much so that some of your dudes will be making TikTok videos with the barbarian. They'll record it before they start fighting. And there will be some women that will try to fight the barbarian. More than a lot of young men. But what we have to caution people is any outside force that comes in, any outside force that comes in was invited in. Invited in to control you. If you don't believe that, that could sound a little strange to you if you were in the matrix in your blue pill. You're like, what do you mean? These politicians mean no harm to us. I get it. I'm like, damn, you far gone. But the barbarians always invited in. And we're kind of seeing this as we go along. The best way to get them invited in is to give women things. I mean, that's the best way to do it. That's the best way to her heart. That's the best way to everything. And she's been giving a lot of things. And so now we're seeing what you guys got face condoms on everywhere. You guys have to distance. You got the divorce rate. You got the bitter custody battle. And you have all of that hanging over your head, but you just want love. Who wants a woman to love them? Raise your hand. I want a woman to love me. Who doesn't want that? Who's ever had a woman love them? Okay, does she still love you? She still loves you good. But it is a rare thing. It's almost like romance and fantasy. Not everybody will experience it and it's okay. But you can attempt to grab it. You can attempt to hold on to it. But just understand the outside culture has more influence on her than you do. Because the protector is no longer men. We no longer own them. And we're not going back. We're not going back to the 50s, which was created too. We're not going back to the agrarian age, although you might have to. It might be forced to. But the protection model was no longer there. So we have to find a new way to make influence over ourselves and to protect ourselves. The barbarian is here. And when the barbarian starts swinging, you're gonna have to fight or deal with what remains. Baby boomers in Generation X will probably fight. The millennials and Gen Z, they ain't gonna fight. Just let you know.   Just understand that. Some of you baby boomers too old to fight. So you only have Gen X to depend on. And guess what you guys make Gen X, latchkey kids. Okay, so good luck with that. Have you noticed, and this is what I'll end with and I'll deal with questions, have you noticed in the last five years, the barbarians been swinging a little bit harder. Politicians have been pushing the envelope. Rights have been taken away. They've been saying, don't you like safety? Don't you like this comfort? Well, give up a little bit of your rights.  Have you noticed that the last five years? Now, what generation died in the last five years? Like you barely see any of them anymore.  And he'll have on a hat that says what? War, war, veteran. And that's the culture of people who fought, the last culture of freedom, people who fought for American freedoms and rights. And they know what it is to be Americans. They know the Constitution. They're like, we ain't giving them nothing. If they would have tried this 20 years ago, that culture of people would have said, hell no. But they're dead. And the culture of Gen Z and millennials, they don't care about the Constitution, they've never read it. So where are they gonna fight?   Now, nobody will say anything, they just will record it. This is where we're going in the future. Just understand we're going to more socialism and it will be voted in like Adolf Hitler was voted in. It will be voted in like, what do you call them? Like the leaders that are, like they take all your, they're like the dominant leader. I can't even think of it. But you know they're voted in too. We will have the same thing here. And the reason why is the protectors gone. Any questions with all of this stuff? I think that's the last slide. Did I ruin everybody's dream of finding their, they're like, damn, I can't find one good woman here. There are some good women here. Unfortunately, they're the vocal majority. They're scared. You know, they're scared. They've been intimidated out of their freedoms and rights just as much as you have. Like, can a woman today, I'll end with this. Can a woman today say at age 18, 19 or 20? Cause they're free, right? They can do whatever they want. Can she say, you know what? I'm gonna find a husband and start hatching babies. I'm getting married, mom. I'm not going to college or work. Can she say that? Most likely she's going to be talked out of it by just about everybody, including her mom and grandmother. One more secret, this mindset that a lot of women have has been secretly taught to them by their mother and their grandmother.  Their grandmother said, don't do what I did. Be free. Don't serve your man. Especially in the minority communities that was definitely told to this generation.  They'll remember what their grandmother told them to not do it. You guys got me, I got all the secrets, by the way, with proof and evidence. No questions, any questions? All right, thank you guys. He represents his patriarchy. We're here to do work as men, as patriarchs. There's nothing more natural than being a father.


I made a video very recently where I talk about steel curtain and I give my thoughts on the ride and how it could potentially be a real game changer for the amusement industry in terms of coaster manufacturers having to sort of think outside the boundaries of what they've typically done in the past to fit in with the current climate. I touched on that a little bit in that video and I wanted to make this video because I failed to mention in that video whatsoever Max Force which is another ride that's opening in 2019 that I think looks absolutely incredible. I don't think it's getting enough recognition for what it could possibly do so I want to sort of give my thoughts on that today in this video. Let's break this down and see what we have here. Max Force starts off by going out into the launch track here. We hit the launch it goes up into this tiny little airtime pop and then we hit this double inversion touted as the world's tallest double inversion. We hit this awesome looking bank turn go through the fastest inversion in the world that zero g roll and then we hit these two inversions at the end we dive down back into the station. So obviously Max Force is a very short ride. I know a lot of people are complaining about that saying oh you know it's only half a ride this and that. I don't think we should be complaining about this a whole lot. This ride looks absolutely amazing and the pacing is going to be great because it's not going to have any way to die down. I mean this is just going to be such an intense fast ride through and through provided there are no trims. I don't see why there would be. The ride from launch to coming back to the station is about 15 to 17 seconds long you know and it manages to throw in quite a few elements during that time so it's going to have great pacing lots of great elements and that acceleration 78 miles per hour and under two seconds. It has that air compressed launch like rides like doda donpa and hypersonic xlc had and these launches are just so great because they just allow the trains to launch at such a great speed in such a short amount of time versus the hydraulic launches or the lsm launches we find on most coasters. SNS has previously explored compressed air launch coasters with rides like I mentioned before doda donpa and hypersonic xlc which operated from 2000 to 2007 at king's dominion those were the types of coasters that even the most hardened of coaster enthusiasts would be intimidated by because they were just so intense so intense I mean that launch that you get on those rides is unlike anything else in the world doda donpa you reach 112 miles per hour one of the fastest coasters in the world and you hit that speed in two seconds it is absolutely incredible it might be like a little under three seconds or something like that but it's really fast so the acceleration with these air compressed launches are phenomenal and I think max force could be a real turning point along with steel curtain for the amusement industry in 2019 SNS hasn't really done a whole lot in terms of coasters in the us recently in fact SNS does not currently have any operating elite coasters in the us I believe steel curtain and max force really have a lot of potential to change that there are two really incredible looking rides both very different but both offering very high thrills very unique rides personally I think max force is going to be one of the top rides of 2019 I honestly believe that along with steel curtain these might be the two best rides of 2019 I think hopper head strike has a chance to be in the top two and beat one of those out but these rides just look so incredible six flags likes to brag about max force having the world's tallest double inversion with this ride and it's going to have that weird looking double inversion right after the launch it's going to be 175 feet in the air and flips you upside down twice which it's the record for sake of being a record it feels like you know they wanted it to be the world's tallest inversion but steel curtain has the world's tallest inversion so you know they had to say that it's the world's tallest double inversion and you know whatever it is what it is it's a record it's a way to market the ride for them but the rides pacing max force is going to have some incredible pacing because you hit the launch that super fast air compressed launch go up a little airtime bump and then you hit this massive double inversion which looks pretty good but then I think the ride gets really great after that when you drop down you hit the bank turn to the right and then you go through that zero g roll which is being marketed as the world's fastest inversion you're going to roll through that 60 miles per hour I know a lot of people have sort of made fun of that record but I actually think that one is really cool sounding honestly I mean going through a zero g roll at 60 miles per hour I feel like that's going to be pretty forceful and possibly the best moment on the ride and then after that you go up into I don't even know what to call the element but it flips you upside down then rolls back around then you hit like a dive loop type thing to go back down into the station so yeah it's a really short ride but it packs in five inversions within 15 seconds and I think those stats just kind of support how extreme this ride is going to be such a short ride time so many inversions it's going to fly through this course I think the name is all right very six-flag sounding I guess but you know it doesn't impact the ride at all has a pretty cool logo I think the ride itself looks really cool it's very quirky looking just like steel curtain is has a very quirky look and it's so odd but it looks awesome and I think this is going to be a true standout ride for Six Flags Great America I've heard people talk about Six Flags Great America's lineup before saying that they're lacking that one truly standout coaster they have these great rides like Goliath and the Batman the ride clone things like that but a lot of people seem to think they're missing that true standout ride and I think this is going to give a lot of people that so to all the people complaining about the length of this ride I don't really see how you can complain I mean sure yeah it would be nice to have a couple more elements I'll give you that but the pacing on this is going to be incredible the capacity is going to be great touching on the topic of this ride being short I'm going to go off into a little bit of a side tangent here so bear with me I got to say Goliath which is at the same park Six Flags Great America everybody complains about Goliath Goliath is an RMC wooden coaster has the world's longest drop on a wooden coaster an 85 degree drop two awesome inversions from what I hear the inversions especially that zero G stall are incredible has a great looking dive loop the only dive loop on an RMC to date and it just has great pacing and I think Goliath looks truly incredible and a lot of people talk bad about it because it's so short and it is pretty short but you still get a full ride really lots of great elements and so many people would love to have a ride like this at their home park I just kind of wanted to put that out there a little bit of a side thing like I said so what are your guys' thoughts on Max Force opening at Six Flags Great America this year do you think it's going to be a new elite coaster and do you think it's going to be successful I know I expressed a lot of concerns about SNS in my video about steel curtain and those also apply here and I feel like Max Force actually has more potential to have issues because it's a launch coaster so what do you guys think are you looking forward to riding this do you think it's going to be a top-notch ride when you get to ride it let me know your opinions on this subscribe like comment all that stuff I upload at least once a week so I'm looking forward to seeing you guys some more stay tuned and thanks for watching this is coaster daddy bye


So I saw my friend make these carrots the other day and they are indeed some of the best carrots I've ever had. Check out how I make them. Start out by shaving your carrots. We're gonna slice our carrots into nice sized pieces like that. Throw them in a bowl. Now you're gonna need some olive oil. Some of the dano's cheese in them. That's the cream top.  We're also gonna use some of the dano's black top. That's the crunchy. And we're even gonna add some of the dano's chipotle.  You need a bowl and some parmesan cheese. And grate it up. Get you a baking pan and lay some parchment paper on it. Take your carrot. Identify the flat side. Lay it straight down in the cheese. And now set it on your parchment paper. Take your leftover cheese and just sprinkle it right on the top. Now into our 400 degree oven we go. 25 minutes later. Now that is some beautiful carrots. Let's give it a bite. That is amazing. The crunch of the parmesan, all that flavor, yum-yum gets you some. Hope you enjoyed.


unhealthy issues it's the things in our life that God calls you to conquer but the enemy comes in and say you've tried already make a covenant with me maybe you know what all the men struggle with pornography that's just the way you are you're a visual guy you can't control it it's everywhere that is the way you are well tell your wife that's just the way I am she was slapped at out of you she was saying no you're not she said I can't do it she said well I'll do it for you that's not the way you are the enemy will come and he will say your issue is your identity but God has called you to conquer you shouldn't make a covenant with it some people they have anger problems like the smallest thing and they're like the bomb that explodes and they say well I'm Irish well that's my character well that's my nationality well I'm Puerto Rican I'm Russian well you know what I'm just a redneck this is just the way we are we throw axes we just we just shoot listen that is your issue that is not your identity don't blame your nationality for it because somebody say amen you know other people simply say well I was born with the sexual orientation I tried to switch that and now it's popular in my culture but the issue you have to understand is if the Bible gives you power to conquer something you cannot conquer it as long as you may covenant with it as long as you say well this is who I am the Bible doesn't say that's who you are the Bible says you are in Christ not in crisis the Bible says your identity is in Jesus not in your sin because somebody say man it's all because Jesus Christ always will give you power to conquer if you choose not to make a covenant you cannot conquer what you refuse to confront when you begin to fight God most heaven and earth in your way when you get discouraged and you say I've tried so hard it's been so long you know what I prayed already Vlad for this I already gave up listen you still got a breath in your nostrils why are you on this earth if it's not to fight why are you on this earth if it's not to dream why are you on this earth if it's not to reach new heights for God people die at 40 we bury them at 80 don't live a life where you just simply from a job home job at home the husky that his next neighbor dog lives better than that he doesn't even have to work God gave you potential the Holy Spirit inside that raises things from the dead and here we are settled in front of a mosquito this problem is a mosquito in the eyes of God yes it's too big for you but not too big for the one who lives inside of you don't make a covenant with that with God called you to conquer


The narcissist will never do this, there are many things that narcissists will never do but this is definitely one of the main things you should never expect from them and that is for them to be loyal, for them to give or show firm and a constant support and allegiance to you, to the positive and productive aspects of society, to a religious educational or social purpose or to an established law, practice or custom, they are never going to do that, they are never going to be loyal, honest or trustworthy, they're never going to be able to love you or anyone else, they're never going to experience true joy or happiness and the reason why is because they have a void, they're very insecure so they often feel empty and nothing you or anyone else does will ever fulfill them, they're never going to be satisfied and as soon as you figure them out you will quickly discard them because you know that you're not going to be able to make them happy, they're never going to be happy with anyone but you would rather that they would be someone else's problem because all they're going to do is bring you down in an attempt to fill that void, when it's a void that can never be filled, they're always going to want more and they're never going to be happy because they're never going to be faithful, they're never going to be true to their word promises or vows, they're never going to be deserving of your trust, because they're never going to keep their promises which is why they will only end up cheating on you, they will always be looking for something better or something more, the bigger better deal, the next shiny new toy, because they have this inflated ego an exaggerated sense for unabilities and importance, which distorts their ability to recognize truth in themselves and other people and cause them to have a strong sense of entitlement for things that they haven't even worked for, for things that they don't deserve and yet they will hide it because they already know that what they're doing is wrong, but even though you may not think that they're cheating, a lot of times they are, you're just unaware of it, you haven't caught on, you haven't recognized the signs because they are expert manipulators, they can make you believe that they're committed to you and you will be none the wiser until one day you catch them out, you find out that they have been cheating on you but when you first got involved with them you felt like they were dedicated to you and you were dedicated to them and it would have appeared that way to anyone outside of the relationship as though you were connected and everything was great, but that was just a love bombing, it was manipulation and they used it to fill the relationship with enthusiasm and excitement to make you believe that it's who they really are and everything is amazing, so then you wanted to stay with them and be with them but then it trapped you and kept you stuck as you started to notice things that they were hiding and they started to withdraw, they became distant and reserved, they began to hide their phone, they would disappear for hours at a time and when you tried to confront them on it they didn't want to talk about it or they would get angry as though you have no right to question them because they're just trying to distract you, maybe they already met up with someone else and now they're gaslighting you or they're love bombing you again, they're acting nice all of a sudden but there's something going on and they don't want you to become suspicious because the truth is that they will never be loyal, they will never be faithful, even if you give them everything that they need, even if you give them money at a place to live, even if you give them sex, even if you treat them well, they're still going to want more and you're not going to be able to give that to them, they're not even going to want it from you after they've spent a certain amount of time around you, they're going to want it from someone else because it really isn't about what you're given or not given to them, they will still hurt you regardless of how well you're treating them, regardless of you being a good person because they don't really care about your good qualities, they just feel you as an appliance, an object that exists to meet their needs, they don't care about who you are as a person, that doesn't concern them, which is why you may not remember a time where you actually sat down and had an actual conversation with them, it was always something superficial, there was never a time where they tried to get to know who you actually are because they never cared about that, all they cared about is getting their needs met at your expense, whether it's emotional or financial, which means that they're never going to be able to love you, they're never going to experience true joy or happiness because they're always looking for something to fill that void, they're not a complete person on their own, which is why they can never be alone and they will never be honest with themselves or be honest with you, they will never be grateful and it's because of their ego, they're addicted, it's just whatever makes them feel good, whatever makes them feel important, so they're enslaved to their impulses, they can't control it, so they're just going to keep doing the same things again and again and it's never going to change until they accept who they are, but in the beginning it will look like they actually cared about you, when they're just addicted to the chase, they always want what they don't have and once they've got it, they don't want it anymore because they've locked you down, they know you're not going anywhere, so then they start seeking new supply, they start looking for something else to fulfill them, they're bored of you now, they've learned you, they know what makes you tick, they know what you're about, so for them it's just lost that sense of mystery and excitement that it once had in the beginning, it's more fun for them to chase someone else, to try to attract and win another person because the more time you spend around them, the more your value goes down, they don't value themselves, so why would they value you, they see it as though if you're willingly desiring to spend time around them then you can't be that special, which is why it seems like they're always chasing people who are out of their reach or people who they believe they can't have because that's what feels special to them but as soon as they know that they can have you, they won't want you anymore, they will instantly lose interest in you, they may keep you around if you're fulfilling their emotional and financial needs but they're never going to see you in the way that they did before, they're never going to look at you like you're the prize because they know they've already got you, you're not going anywhere so they begin to take for granted, they have their eye on someone else or they may just be fantasizing about them but either way they're still cheating, they're still not being loyal because they believe that there's something better or greater than you and while they may not have physically cheated on you, a lot of times it may just be because they can't, they may have tried to cheat on you already but then they got tuned down and by staying with them, you are disrespecting yourself because they're never going to respect you after that, whether you know it or not, they're always going to feel like they have that upper hand over you, they're going to feel like they're more powerful, they're never going to treat you as a equal because they have this void and they have these desires and they know you're never going to be enough for them, they're never going to feel satisfied with you and they know there's nothing you can do to change that so they look at it like they're always the winner in the end because in their minds you fail to satisfy them which always leaves them in a position of power because you're associated with them, you're connected to them so they're always going to take you for granted, they're always going to look at it like if you were anything special you wouldn't want anything to do with them because they already know that they mean you know well, they've been through this many times before, they know what they're like, they know they get cold feet, they lose confidence in the relationship, they lose desire and attraction towards the other person so they know it's only a matter of time until they idealise someone else which puts them in a position of power over you from the very beginning because you're unaware you don't know that, you genuinely believe that you could be enough for them when deep down they already know the truth and a lot of times that's what gives them the sound realistic and superficial self-esteem, it's just the fact that they know that no matter who you think you are or how much of an asset you think you're going to be to them in the long run you're going to fall short, you're not going to live up to their expectations and they're going to feel pressured to give you credit to patronise you and to feed your ego to make you feel like you can be good enough for them when deep down they already know the truth as soon as they've got you they're going to want something else but they don't see it as a character flaw in their minds that makes them powerful because they can just toss you aside whenever they want to even if they're emotionally or financially tied to you, they don't care and many of you are deluding yourselves into thinking that you hold some level of significance to them, yes they may play along with it and they may even trick themselves into thinking that they want you because they like how that makes them feel in that moment but time reveals all and just as a lost desire and attraction towards other people before you the same thing is going to happen again and it will begin to affect your self-esteem you will start to feel like something is wrong with you when this person just can't be satisfied they're always going to want more and it's because they know that you don't really want them you don't really accept them and what they're looking for is someone who does accept them because they don't accept themselves and it's almost like they need permission from someone to be able to accept themselves someone who won't judge them someone who will let them be who they actually are but even then they're just going to walk all over you they're going to take you for granted and they're going to have other sources on the side you will never be the only one you're never going to feel special they're always going to overlook you unless they think they can get something out of you and in the end all you're really going to have is these moments and it was just a figment of your imagination a shared fantasy it was never real because everything they gave to you was not real all they cared about is the moment and to get that they have to sell you a dream that they can never live up to and as long as you think it's real it will feel real for you but it won't ever be something that's actually grounded in reality thank you for watching if you found this video helpful please give it a thumbs up share your thoughts in the comment section hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications if you would like to support the channel you could donate our paypal.me slash NARC survivor you could book a one-on-one with me on my website it's NARC survivor the code UK thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon