You cheated on me? Okay, I'll do the Swaperoony and I will fall in love with the husband of the woman you're cheating on me with Warning royal AI is back to stay Stay till the end for a channel update, but first find out why this episode will be upsetting to cheaters I've fallen in love with the husband of the woman my husband is cheating on me with Let me begin with I'm so sorry as there are a lot of errors in my writings While I think my English is pretty awesome. It's not perfect. So apologies for any confusion This is going to be a long post. I'll do my best to make it short. I Found this sub on a podcast Maybe I can find comfort about what's been weighing me down for almost a year now I'm a female 36 and my husband is 38 years old. We've been together for 10 years We have one six-year-old daughter. She's everything to me. I Found out a year ago that my husband is sleeping with his employee being 30. She's younger than me How? Her 35-year-old husband, let's call him Jay contacted me. He was heartbroken and he thought I ought to know He provided me with the text messages and dates when they've been in hotels. I Recognized my husband's writing style and I recognized the other woman I have seen her on multiple occasions when I visited my husband's work She's been nothing but kind and pleasant towards me and she always doted on my daughter I asked Jay what he wanted to do and he said he wasn't sure yet So I requested that we should meet he agreed I told him about my life and that I'm currently not working as I lost my job during the pandemic. I Haven't had an opportunity to find a job within my field Instead, I've made sure to keep being busy and have been studying these past two years If I divorce now, I won't be able to provide for my daughter That would probably put her in my husband's custody as a primary provider. I Asked Jay if he could wait for a few months Hopefully longer therefore and to my surprise he agreed. I thanked him profusely But he told me that he didn't know what to do either so he's happy to wait Also, the other woman has three children from a previous relationship And he was worried that she would refuse him being in their lives once he confronted her because he's not the father We kept in touch, however He called me a few times a week and soon we started to talk about other things than our failed marriages and shared betrayal Afterwards we started going for walks coffee and movies. I found myself thinking about him often with a smile on my face He was the first thing I thought of in the morning and the last thing I thought of before going to bed For the last three to four months. We probably mentioned our spouses once or twice We talked about anything else and he always makes me laugh. He thinks I'm funny, too Two weeks ago. We were having a picnic and he just blurted out. I think that I'm in love with you When he tried to explain further I drove the point by saying that I'm also in love with him he said that at first he wasn't sure why he was feeling like this towards me and Explained it away as two jilted people finding comfort in each other But that he then realized that he wasn't broken anymore that he even believes of his wife's infidelity as a blessing Because it led him to me That was exactly how I felt, too. I Didn't know what to say. I told him that I'm terrified that these are false feelings that would go away Once we've freed ourselves from those who hurt us He just looked at me and said he was willing to take the risk just to find out He kissed my hand because we were still married and if we did something then how are we better than our cheating significant others? I don't know what to do now. I find myself daydreaming about him introducing him to my daughter Kiss him wake up next to him every morning. I still have one semester left and then I'm probably going to find a job I've already had some offers for when I'm finished with my studies I have thanked Jay so many times for being so patient with me about everything. I Appreciate that he's waiting for me to put my life in order Before we expose our spouses who aren't really seeing each other as often as they used to do He told me he's happy to help and he just wants a real kiss as a thank you when everything is over My goal now is to secure my job and leave this marriage Am I pathetic for wanting to give Jay and I a shot and see where it would go? Can two broken hearts really find happiness together when their love story started like ours? Do the Swaperoony? This is the perfect outcome. Don't overthink it go for it I would love to see both of their faces when they find out you two are together Why worry about them? They weren't worried about their significant others when they were having an affair Is it a good sign that I actually don't care what they do or how they react? I've stopped having revenge ideas in my head months ago I just want to move on and provide a good life for my daughter Because she's my world and she's been the only bright thing in my life since I found out about my husband Jay is now also a bright spot in my life, but mostly my daughter You are absolutely not pathetic and I think it's wonderful something beautiful came out of a horrible situation It's definitely complicated though and won't be easy. So I wish you luck. I hope it works out for you and your daughter The thing I dread the most is people around me start thinking less of me like I'm being petty or trying to get my revenge But I'm genuinely in love with Jay and have been for months now I haven't seen him since he confessed that he also had feelings for me It felt like if we continued seeing each other it would be cheating and I don't want that But we still talk on the phone and text trying to keep it to the minimum though We both feel that waiting is the best Hi again, this is not an update Since nothing new has happened in my life, but I've been feeling so down lately and my emotions are all over the place Hopefully this post will help me sort out my feelings. I'm sorry if you find it confusing, but this is how I'm feeling right now Confusion also, I'm sorry, but it's going to be a long and bumpy ride Like my last one. I'm still busy with my studies, especially now so close to the holidays Thereafter I'm going to have a break until January 16th and the start of my last semester I have got two job offers one with unpaid internship starting in April I like this job very much since I would be working from my laptop most of the days The other one is more of an in-office job, but with better pay I don't know how the custody arrangement is going to be but I feel like a job with more flexible hours is a better fit for me The reason why I'm writing this now Is that Jay and I met yesterday If you remember my last we decided not to see each other at least not as often since the I love you talk We did good keeping that promise, but we still saw each other once since I wrote here And we continued texting and calling each other on a daily basis Yesterday we met on Jay's initiative when I got to the park to our usual meeting spot Jay was already there He had flowers coffee and cake. I love cake and he told me that we're going to have a little celebration He said that today was the day we first met a year ago Yes, it was. I remember that day very well. It was raining then too, but it was much much gloomier I remembered how broken and desperate I was the feeling that my world had ended We talked a lot about the progress we made and how much stronger we both felt now He told me he loved me and it was all he could do not to just leave everything behind and jump into his arms He is so lovely When I got home my husband had already picked up our daughter and they were just joking around and having fun I felt so much sadness and pure horror building up inside of me What am I doing? What are we doing? All of us? The guilt washed over me, seeing my daughter's happy face playing around with her food I couldn't take it. My husband and the other woman haven't texted at all this month And they haven't met either or at least as far as Jay and I know Of course they work together so we don't know if the affair had subsided Or if they just have learned to be more cautious But my husband has been more attentive at home Warmer and more present He says he loves me all the time and that he misses me I haven't been intimate with him since I found out about the affair And even the smallest touch from him irks me And any beautiful word or compliment from him sets my teeth on edge I just want to scream, liar, and I feel like I'm cheating on Jay Accepting my husband's affection and the disdain for myself becomes unbearable Make this make sense, please I looked at my husband and tried to remember what I loved about him, but I couldn't All I could see is his texts to her about how great last time was And what he wanted to do to her next All the things he once said he wanted to do and did to me That made me feel so special I tried to think harder about the love But all I saw was Jay's face I felt immense rage and hatred towards my husband But also towards myself and Jay My husband because he broke us and brought this mess upon us And myself because I felt that I wasn't trying hard enough With my heart occupied with someone else Have I just given up so easily because I love Jay and my daughter? She's the one who's going to pay the hard price of seeing her home break Because daddy is a selfish, greedy cheater And mommy isn't trying hard enough to save her marriage While she is pining for another man I couldn't control my feelings of anger and resentment and guilt So I wrote Jay a long text telling him all of this and more He tried to call me but I couldn't answer him My heart was swollen in my throat I told my husband that I wanted to sleep in my daughter's room tonight Something I've been doing a lot since this all started I cried all night watching her beautiful face so peaceful and happy This morning Jay called me again and we talked for over an hour He was very subdued and I heard the fear in his voice He told me that he respected my wishes in taking a break from each other But also to remember that even when I was at my weakest I still knew exactly what I wanted And that I chose to stay to secure a future for myself and my daughter That I'm too close now to my goal and just to stumble and fail He said he loved me and that he never felt like this before And that he will wait I cried for a good hour afterwards Already missing his voice I knew that my marriage is unsalvageable And that I am doing the right thing Leaving it even with the nagging feeling of guilt That simmering beneath the surface boiling over every now and then Waking me up at night But I need to do this alone now I want to look back with no regrets The guilt is probably never going to go away entirely But at least it won't have Jay's face Now that he's not in the picture anymore So that's what's been up with my life I told you that it wasn't an update really And I'm sorry that it is long and confusing But that's all I have right now I'm not staying in my marriage I don't know if my English is this bad Or people don't bother reading my long boring rants I apologize for both But I'm floored because of the amount of comments and attacks on me As a person and a mother For staying with my cheating husband Please tell me Where did I say I was staying? I broke it off with Jay Yes, but it wasn't because I'm going back to my cheating husband Again, where did I write that I was staying with my husband? Do you think it would benefit you in telling your husband How you're feeling and looking to get out of the marriage? And then seeing what he does with that information Do you think it would be worth it? Hi everyone I know I had a dramatic episode last time I was here And swore not to update again But I'm a woman I can change my mind if I want to, right? Last time I was overwhelmed by the amount of comments And messages about me being a bad mother And I just couldn't take it So I freaked out on you But today I have a little update It's not about me It's about Jay Jay's mom is sick She lives in another city about seven or eight hours drive away Jay went to visit her and he texted me before going He apologized for texting me Because we weren't supposed to keep in touch anymore But he wanted me to know he was out of town I drove over there on Thursday because it sounded like it was serious I arrived at the hospital around noon He looked miserable His mother isn't even old She's only 58 My heart is breaking I could only stay for an hour before heading back home I feel so guilty leaving him alone His sisters live across the world And they won't be able to fly home before Christmas On Friday, Jay came home and broke off his marriage I don't know all the details But he didn't mention to her that he knew about her infidelity Just that he wasn't happy anymore Didn't want to be married to her He texted me and thanked me for visiting him and his mother And told me about him filing for divorce from his cheating wife He's moving back to his hometown to be with his mother He left yesterday But he will be back once more to get the rest of his stuff Even though I understand him And even if I wasn't seeing him anymore The city feels empty and gloomy without him Hi again I'm sorry I deleted my account I am very new to this And I just couldn't handle the criticism I was getting So I deleted my account I have understood now that the internet doesn't owe me politeness And people will say their opinion because I put myself out there And that makes it, I guess, okay for people to say hurtful things Because I chose to share my story I have learned that I could deactivate all private communication So if you have something nasty to say Be brave and put it in the comments instead Although I'm hoping for less amount of negative comments this time Since people were mainly angry that I was taking my time to leave my husband Thankfully, while my account is deleted I still, with some digging, found my original posts I have included them here for those who haven't followed my story I'm still going strong with my studies And as I said, I have secured a job in April With decent salary that will increase with 30% Once I graduate two months later I have also signed a lease on an apartment That is a few blocks away from my daughter's school I can't re-imagine the happiness I felt when I found the apartment But most importantly, that they accepted my bad credit Having not had income for over two years now My new job contract and reference was enough And I have to pay for three months ahead I get the keys April 1st too I still need to talk to a lawyer I just don't want to throw my money at anything before it's getting closer And I need the help I have found a non-profit organization for women That I could call and ask for information and advice I'm not really in an abusive marriage But they have experience of all sorts of marital and divorce problems As I stated, since I found out that my husband was cheating on me Our bed life crippled to nothing In the beginning, my husband didn't seem bothered about it Probably, no certainly Because he had someone else, someone new But with time, it had been over a year now And God, it has been the longest and yet shortest year of my life With time, he started to show me affection again Trying to get intimate with me I avoided him, like the plague He never pressured me, but he was getting upset And I felt him getting frustrated I think his affair had died out by then Or maybe it wasn't as fun and exciting for them anymore I don't know I'm not an expert on affairs and dishonest spouses For over two months now He's been trying to open the subject of our non-existent bed life But I don't entertain it much And just told him that I didn't have a drive Or that I was busy This being my last year of my studies I have been able to keep him at bay And while my explanation and excuses weren't making him happy They were good enough to keep him away That until about a week ago When he wanted to discuss this seriously I told him again that I was busy And that my drive is very low It is He said it wasn't about that alone Repeating that it wasn't just about not sleeping with him We had no more intimacy He barely is allowed to be near me I never talk to him anymore Like I don't make an effort at all I asked him if we could just wait until after the holidays Because I'm too busy And I didn't want to ruin it for our daughter who loves Christmas He then said something that triggered every nerve in my body Something like It was not healthy for a marriage when one partner neglects the other Because then You start looking somewhere else I just said That isn't true Because you started sleeping with her name Way before I started neglecting you He was in total shock First he asked me to repeat Followed by wanting to know more Maybe he misheard Then he started to deny it Then made excuses Then started apologizing Then he started asking for more details And what my plans were When I told him about me getting a job in an apartment He started pleading, trying to hold me Now this past week he's trying to talk to me every day And I have been calm with him He had so many questions Why didn't I tell him before? At least he could have explained She meant nothing to him Yada yada The relationship ended He had no feelings for her It was just physical He loved me and nobody else He even dropped the guilt strategy By demanding I should think about our daughter He regretted what he did And that's why he ended it Why was I not more upset? I told him that I had mourned us for a year And that I'm over it now He still thought it was unfair Because this was all new to him I told him about my job My new place And I asked him to be patient with me And to think about our daughter And put her first in whatever is coming He was so angry That I switched it back on him That he told me that If I thought about our daughter for a second I would have confronted him then and there He asked me to be honest That we could have tried to fix it with therapy And some effort Because he never loved anyone like he does me And he would drop everything else To try and make it right with me But I chose secrecy Plotting and planning my life without him While pretending everything was fine Did I though? I started crying and begged him That however angry he was with me Not to take it out in a way That would affect our daughter I told him that I did all this For her I didn't want her to see us fight I didn't want to leave without having the means To offer her a good life But now he knows everything And it slapped his lies to crumbles Now he's a different person Angry with me all the time He barely looks my way He's still sweet with our daughter though And that is comforting I sleep in my daughter's room most nights I never meant for it to blow up this soon But you can spend your whole time Planning and preparing the perfect exit But life has never been predictable I don't regret my outburst Maybe it was time anyway I will continue communicating with him About the importance of staying civil to each other He is angry now And he feels cheated and deceived And I get that But I need him to put aside his hurt And think of our daughter Just like I did before And just like I did He will get over the pain in time Sorry again for the long post And for the grammar Also Jay's still in the process of divorce too He has moved back to his hometown Because his mother is still very ill I'm afraid His sisters live in Australia They have both come home So it feels good that he and his mother are not alone I have visited them three times Since I heard the sad news But he lives far away So I haven't been able to stay For long periods to support them We talk over the phone every morning though He is devastated No I haven't told my husband about Jay Nor am I gonna If by any chance Jay and I end up together Then everyone will know Including my husband But we are not willing to tell my husband Or anybody about how Jay and I met We've decided that long ago When we were dreaming About our future plans together That we wouldn't tell our cheating exes How we met It is for the best for everyone involved I'm keeping this promise It's nobody's business but ours We don't know what the future holds Jay lives in another town Eight hours drive away We haven't talked about us in ages We have a lot going on in our lives Separately All I care about now Is his mom doing better Or at least not suffering You were secretive while he was What open about cheating on you I'm glad you were getting out of this soon His audacity of putting the blame On you is mind boggling Facts The boy is acting like he didn't have an affair In the first place Many women in my culture always say Men don't like being left They want to be the one leaving And that's what is happening here His low character ruined his marriage And now he wants his cake too His ego hurts Now she isn't begging to work on a relationship That he destroyed in the first place That she is moving on This isn't recognizing he loves her He had the whole year long affair to remember this And simply didn't care He's manipulating you with the Darvo tactic It's exactly what he's doing to you It means deny attack Reverse victim and offender Basically It shifts the focus away from the offender And onto the victim Don't feel sorry for him Tell him he fricked around and found out And to get over it Hold up you kidding me He's mad at her for choosing secrecy and plotting And now he's pouting and playing the victim I burst out laughing at the If you only told me that you knew I was cheating I would have stopped And the Think about our daughter Are you freaking kidding me This dude checks every single box On the discovered cheater bingo card He's just upset that he lost his chance To manipulate her response to it from the beginning By keeping her knowledge a secret She's stripped him of any power In the situation Such that his attempt to turn the tables And reclaim it is just pathetic at this point We all know he's About to use their daughter to mess with her Now that he's backed into a corner though It's what people of low character do He's a worm Whether the relationship with Jay pans out or not I'm glad the cheating Led to her leaving this world class joke There's no way That he magically became so vile overnight She had to have been ignoring His personality flaws Before this whole thing started Otherwise this very fortunately Revealed them to her Either way she needs to go thank his affair partner For inadvertently pushing the issue Wait, I'm totally Kidding about thanking the affair partner I just feel an enormous sense of relief That OP is well past the disillusionment stage And is truly done with this fart Hi everyone I hope you're doing well I was here about a year ago with my story Two years ago I found out that my husband was having an affair With one of his employees Who was married at the time A year ago I was in a different place I deleted my posts But I found them all gathered in one post When I googled myself I will include my old story on my bio To anyone who doesn't remember Or know my story Also the usual disclaimer that my English Will disappoint and my posts Will be long and ranty I have had the hardest year of my life Even if not everything Has been negative I have a great job now with a great company And even better and supportive co-workers I'm so thankful for that I live in my own apartment now That's where the greatness ends Because it doesn't matter how long You have known a person How much you have trusted and loved them Or how much you thought they loved And valued you You don't really know them before you hit rock bottom With them And for my ex-husband I'm so sorry Because he is still refusing to sign Any papers He has shown nothing but cruelty And vindictiveness towards me And at times towards our daughter Making me question why I have chosen to rock the boat I thought I was doing all this For my baby I wanted to give her a dignified life And a strong role model in me A happy and content mother To be her hero She was the one who suffered the most During this time When I told my husband about my plans to leave him He was in denial at first Which was bad But it was nothing Compared to when he realized I was telling the truth He used every means possible to break me And dissuade me from leaving He started with Threats about taking full custody Then he took all my assets from me At first he got primary custody Of our daughter and would refuse me to see her He filed a motion claiming I was too broke And suffered from a mental illness It was rough because he actually Had proof of his claims As I have been treated for depression And PTSD I'm lucky the court made the assessment That I was fit to have shared custody I couldn't see my daughter For eight weeks because of bureaucracy And I thought I was going mad because of that Even contemplating Just getting back together with him To get my daughter back When I finally saw her I was awarded shared custody the same day She was so angry and broken Telling me how much she hated me And how much she wanted to be With her daddy He told me that our daughter hated me Because I'm a bad mother While I knew he was poisoning her mind Even when we shared custody And she started to warm up to me again She still had a hard time loving me Every time she would be different the first day When I got her for the week After she'd been with her father She softens up as the days go by But just when she seems her normal Happy self at the end of the week She's going back to his place And the vicious cycle starts over He tried everything to not to Divide our assets according to the prenup But that wasn't any priority of mine Even if I had to start from scratch I was willing to give him anything Not to make him angrier Not to make him angrier with me So he would take it out on our baby Once he came with the golden suggestion That I could leave him the assets Sign my rights to it away And he would give me full custody It felt like I was blessed And my prayers were answered from above I think he wasn't expecting my reaction As he changed his mind on the spot And told me to forget about it Later I received the message That he would be suing For full custody Again, he was playing with me During this whole ordeal I was feeling doubts and resentment Towards myself For not just complying and obeying him And stay with him until our daughter is older The self-doubt And fear were almost paralyzing And one day In the beginning of summer I wrote a very long letter to him Reminding him of his love for his daughter And I wrote a very long letter to him Reminding him of his love for his daughter And the promise he made to her when she was born He promised to do anything to protect her I reminded him that I am Just a woman And he could replace me any time But that his daughter Is his daughter I begged him not to use her To hurt someone who is replaceable Don't use a valuable treasure as a weapon To destroy a cheap target A target you easily replaced Once before He didn't answer me But he stopped texting And calling me for other purposes Than our daughter She has been happier too And she says she loves me And she loves her daddy I don't know if it was my letter But he stopped all his attempts to hurt me Once when he dropped her off And he apologized for everything he did Back to cheating on me in the first place And said that he loved us And promised not to hurt us anymore He has since kept his promise I forgot to mention that during all this time Since the update before this one in January And when I still lived with him He's been having an on and off again Girlfriend She's 25 I'm okay with that Because during those times I got to see my daughter more And now I even get her on his weeks Whenever they break off again I find myself hoping for them To get back together So I can have my daughter with me In a stable home I don't know what the future holds And I hope my daughter forgives us For what we have put her through Most of the time I regret Asking for divorce when she was so little And wish that I would have waited Until she was old enough to understand But it still feels like It was the right decision anyway Of course As for Jay, he still lives In his hometown near his mother She is very sick and no chemo More procedure works now I have visited them as much as I have been able to He has been great support Throughout this ordeal which always Made me feel guilty Given what he is going through But he always said he is happy to listen And wants to know We call and text each other every day Last month when my husband Had my daughter on a trip with his family Jay showed up at my door He said he just wanted to see me And he had booked a hotel room That he ended up not using He spent the weekend with me In my apartment and it was the first time I have allowed myself to be with him He was everything I imagined And more He said he loved me and it was all I could do Not to start bawling pathetically I didn't know it was possible To love someone this much Jay's divorce is finalized But we have decided Not to make our relationship public Until my life is in order We have waited for two years What are a few more months? I am so much happier now And I am hopeful for the future Not just for me But for my daughter too I am taking her to a professional psychologist I want her to deal with our situation In a healthy way I hope we can all move on And be happy Also not going to prove Reid as it's exhausting Sorry Wow you are a true role model You didn't compromise your worth And used eloquence to talk your ex Out of mentally damaging your daughter You modeled to your daughter That self-respect is paramount To a happy life You fought for her Made your cheating ex realize how he's hurting her And have build a new life for yourself and her You're a superhero Well done I wish you every happiness I didn't see your first post But reading this You are one hell of a strong person You made the right decision for you And for your daughter Maybe one day she will understand it But that is not important for now Important right now Is just that you made it Remember this It helps me at least There will always be sunrise Even after the darkest of nights Bless you What happened to Jay's ex-wife Like the cheating wife You never mentioned her in your updates Well She hasn't been on my mind to be honest I don't think she's a good person though Aside from being a cheater When Jay asked for divorce She didn't seem to care much From Jay's perspective it's because Well he doesn't make enough money in her eyes The main reason I think she's a bad person Is because she told him That he wasn't allowed to be In her children's lives again He hasn't seen them since the separation And it is one of the things I know is hurting him deeply She probably thought she and my ex-husband Had a shot But my ex is seeing another woman now I think she and my husband Had a fallout or a big fight In February because she actually Texted me She was going on about introducing herself As the woman who my husband Has a relationship with Clearly not knowing that we were already separated I left her message on read And just blocked her A few months ago She reached out to Jay trying For reconciliation She doesn't work at my ex-husband's company anymore That brings us to the end of this story The ultimate update We'll be hearing about the cheaters finding out Their betrayed spouses Are into a committed relationship together But for that one We will have to wait When it comes out I will add it to the comments down below Now for the interesting part What would you advise OP? 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What's going on, everyone? Sam here with Leighton Sportsguards, ripping 22, 21, football hobby, 10 box break, number 36, pick your team style. Can we switch trash in the online really quick? Just for the last two. I'm going to re-op list for names in our teams. Got Anthony G, Dolphins, Bradley R, Chargers, Vikings, Niners, and Commanders, Kalamap with the Cardinals, Texans, Dan M, Raiders. Dan M, you Raiders, Dan M, A with the Eagles, Dylan S, Buccaneers, Eric B, Bills, that's a different Dylan S, just so everybody knows, not him. Evan A with the Bengals, Gary E, Chiefs, Jeffrey S, Lyons, Harper with the Steelers and Bears, Henrik J, Broncos, Joel B, Panthers, Browns, Jordan Q, Rams, Matt P, Titans, Matthew B, Jags, Patriots, Giants, Ravens, Matthew W with the Jets, Matthew N with the Packers, Mike I, Colts, Natalie M, Falcons, Sean O, Cowboys, and Tom B, Saints, and Seahawks. So good luck here, everybody. Let's do it. If it's cool with you, I might have you just stay for Paul's personal because there's a lot of sleeving on that one. And then after that, you're good. All right, box one, that's nice. Two of 99, Kenneth Walker, going to the Seahawks. Congrats on that. He has a lot of Matthews for sure. Congrats on that Seattle, going to, I believe, Tom, Tom B, right? Yep, Tom B, nice canine coming your way, buddy. Box, those got me to recap on this one either. Yeah, no recap on this one. This takes like less than 10 minutes to rip, so. Box two is going to the Saints, 27 of 99, Chris Olave, two-color RPA, going to Tom B as well. Congrats, Tom. Nice one there, buddy. Olave action. Nice one here, that's 69 of 99, Traylon Birx, going to the Titans. Three stud rookies from last year, obviously, this being 22. RPA again, Traylon Birx. The other Vaughn that Vaughn in, a few breaks is doing well. We have a couple of Vaughns outside. You're the main Vaughn, and then we have a couple other Vaughns too. Ooh, nice to 49. Sam Howell, RPA, going to the Commanders. Congrats, Washington. Bradley R, good stuff, man. We do a little bit of hockey, AT. Hockey, it's a little weird with upper deck. They're a little bit different with allocation and when you're allowed to sell stuff. So we'll do like one or two hockey breaks a week when there's stuff out, I would say. We had a couple recently. We did a couple stature breaks.  A few of the other ones that have come out recently. We did Synergy when it was out. We did like update series. We did breaks of that. So yeah, we'll do hockey from time to time. We did clear cut breaks. Just a matter of when we get the product in. But yeah, we'll do hockey. Ooh, that's cool. Jake the Snake. Once upon a time, Jake Plummer. That is 44-49 from last years. So 2021. Jake Plummer. There was a time. There was like a time we were doing like a solid like one break a day of hockey for like a month period when we had a lot of it in. And then there wasn't a huge release for a while. So we did, because there was like two or three hockey products that came out at like in like a month period and we were doing a ton of breaks of it. But yeah, we've stepped it up a little bit more. Nice. One man show. Deandre Swift, five of 25 for the Lions. Gratz on that of course, still a lion in this. So going to Detroit, Philip S picking up five in Star Wars Galaxy. Let's go Philip. Nice one here. One man show. Deontay Johnson going to Steelers to 49. Gratz on that to Pittsburgh. One man show. Yeah, Albert Expin behind on the releases as well. That is another Kenneth Walker, RPA precision this time to 99. Congrats on that one there again, Tom. Good stuff, buddy. Good stuff. Kenneth Walker. Nice. Going to Commanders. Johan Dodson, 46 to 49 RPA to go with the Sam Howell for Bradley R. Shut out. That's the reason why I'm still in it, dude. Meryl Kelly putting my line up on his back. Him and some time there. No, this is just a regular one, no captain. Missing the sticker? Oh yeah, I guess the Datsun was. Oh, the canine ones. Yeah, I was. That's weird. Yeah, keep an eye out, AT. Like, well, we post breaks a few days in advance. So keep an eye out. We do do hockey breaks, though. A decent amount. Last card is going to the Lions. Aiden Huxinson, 79 of 199 RPA. Congrats again. That will do it for the break, everybody. Thanks again for the fill. Coming up next is N.T.


Did you think about certain aspects of the relationship? Not knowing if it makes it stronger or weaker? In today's world, where most of us are either surrounded by relationships or are in a relationship ourselves, it can be hard to identify what makes a strong relationship and what doesn't. To help you with that, these are seven things strong relationships have in common. Number one, communication. It is rightly said that communication is key. If there is a gap in communication, you may not be able to express your wants and needs to your partner and vice versa. Not being able to communicate properly leaves room for misunderstandings, which isn't something that one might want in a strong relationship. Telling your partner how you feel as soon as you notice something is the best approach to be open with them. Don't wait for it to go away. Discuss it so you can begin working on a solution instead of hoping it'll resolve itself. Number two, trust. Trust is one of the core components of a relationship and must be there in a strong relationship. When two people trust each other, they give each other and themselves a sense of confidence and empowerment. Trusting your partner will help your relationship in overcoming several obstacles along the way because they know that no matter what, you've got their back and vice versa. Number three, compromise. No relationship will have zero fights or arguments. Every individual is different and has their own set of thoughts and opinions, which another person may not understand. However, wherever possible, it's crucial to strive to find win-win solutions that will satisfy both you and your partner. Try to find a way to build a path forward with some form of solution that feels like a fair compromise to everyone. In those moments, having a common understanding of what compromise really means is both healthy and necessary for the relationship to thrive. Number four, alone time.  If your partner is always reliant on you for organizing arrangements with friends and family or even just planning date nights and you want more independence in the relationship, it could lead to conflict. For example, some people require more alone time to relax, whereas others are more of a social butterfly who feeds off the energy of others. If you belong to the former type of people and feel guilty about not spending time with your partner, there's no need to feel guilty about spending time alone. Couples, regardless of how close they are, benefit from independence and alone time. After spending some time away from each other and taking time to do activities that make you feel good, both you and your partner will feel revived and in a better mindset. Number five, a common goal. Relationships that are held together by a common purpose and vision for what they can achieve are the most meaningful and strong relationships. When two people share a common goal, they feel like they're part of a team and they're more likely to stick together. Even if you're dissatisfied with the person with whom you are in a relationship, if you have a common goal, you're much more inclined to stick it out and find a way to make things work. Purpose builds relationships and when you go out of your way to find it, your relationship improves and strengthens. Number six, forgiveness. Holding on to baggage weighs heavily on any relationship. Resentment, dissatisfaction and frustration. When left unresolved, deplete trust and drain your energy. When you can communicate how you feel and let it go, you know you're in a strong relationship. You can overlook flaws and shortcomings. You help each other out. You move on after learning from your experiences. And number seven, you uplift each other. In a strong relationship, two people constantly support each other and help one another grow into a better version of themselves. In the long run, uplifting each other will also help your relationship flourish. Does your relationship have any of these traits or maybe you see it in your friend's relationship? Love comes in several ways and someone who you love may not come with these traits, but that doesn't mean they aren't a good partner. Find ways to work on these things together to have a stronger and healthier relationship with your partner. Do you think we missed something? Let us know in the comments down below. Please like and share this with friends that might find insight in this video as well. Make sure to subscribe to Psych2Go and hit the notification bell for more content. All the references used are in the description box below. Thanks for watching and we'll see you next time.


This is stock number 20F105. We are here at Summit Ford in Beaver Dam, Wisconsin. You're new and used Ford headquarters. Today we are checking out the all-new redesigned 2020 Ford Explorer. So we're going to do a walk around of this particular Explorer. I like to do the walk around from a ways away so you can see the light reflecting off all the different angles of the vehicle. And so you can get a good idea of the overall styling cues on this particular one. This one is an XLT with the 20 inch rim package. It also has the Ford 360 co-pilot assist, the tow package as well. Then we get up close and check out the specific options on this particular vehicle like the 20 inch painted alloy rims, Michelin primacy, 255 55R20s. There's some nice all-terrain tread pattern on it. Magnetic is the color. It's a nice metallic gray. This one has the LED headlamps, the LED running lights, and the LED fog lamps. So it's completely redesigned for this year. However, they didn't change it too much. You can still tell that it's an Explorer. So it still has a good look of the other Explorers. It does look a little bit longer, a little bit bigger. I really like the lines and styling on the side of the vehicle. So I'm going to show you the original buyer's guide for this particular vehicle so you can feel free to stop this at any time the video and check out the options and prices on there. This has an MSRP of $46,830. Fuel economy and all that good stuff. It has the Quad Seats leather interior on this XLT package. Four-wheel disc brakes. This one has the backup parking sensors, the 2.3 liter EcoBoost motor which pumps out 300 horsepower and also gives you the tow package with the four pin and seven pin wiring and the receiver hitch and this one is capable of pulling 5,300 pounds. Now if you get the V6 EcoBoost you can pull up to 5,600 pounds. This is a power liftgate so you just press that button like so. That gate lifts up, has a really cool zipper pouch back here. A little storage bin right there as well. These seats do fold down like so and they go up really nice and easy. It has some nice lighting back here so if it was dark out you could really see what you're doing and then just press that button and that gate will close. So this one comes with the all-weather formats in addition to the carpeted formats. LED tail lamps. This one has the capless fuel fill or easy fuel as Ford calls it. This one also has the blind spot monitoring and it has the driver side door code entry inside. The XLT package gives you the black leather interior. I drove this thing before. Super comfortable. The seats are very plush. Factory floor mats, power windows, power locks and power mirrors. Auto headlamps, the tilt and telescopic steering wheel and as we hop inside here I'm going to turn the fan down. You can see it has the digital display instrument cluster, digital spinometer. This one has the 360 Ford pilot co-pilot exist so you get adaptive cruise control. It'll actually keep your steering wheel for lane centering. It'll like turn your steering wheel for you to keep you in the lane. I have another video that I posted earlier showing a test drive of this particular vehicle so check out our YouTube channel for that and then you have the lane keep assist right here as well. Adaptive cruise control, really nice leather wrapped steering wheel to soft touch leather. Bluetooth and audio controls on the right. This one comes with the sync 8-inch touchscreen radio. This one has the factory navigation system. This is also where your backup camera shows up. It has the Ford pass connect. You can hook it up to your phones for the apps and everything. It has the push button start. The climate control is down here. This one has the 10 speed automatic turn dial transmission. You get a USB-C and a USB power point and then you also have your start stop, stability control, downhill assist control and the driving mode which is kind of cool. I'll show you that because it's all displayed right here. So you have a whole bunch of different settings.   You can see that right there and it'll change the background to let you know that you're which setting you're in which is pretty cool and then finally the last one is your deep snow and sand setting which also turns off your traction control and turns off the start-stop abilities. I'm gonna put it back to normal here. They really did a nice job on the instrument cluster and the dash and just the whole redesign is really well done on this vehicle. I really like it. Let's take a quick look at the back seats. So like I said it has the quad seating back here.  You have the armrests on the inside of the captain's chairs and to get to that third row you just grab this latch and it'll slide forward. Looks like they got a little bit more room in the back seats than they previously had. They do have the latch child safety system and these seats are adjustable so you can put them back or forward while they're in the upright position and just a really really nice job on the redesign. I'd like to personally thank you for checking out the video today. Hopefully you got a good idea of the overall looks and styling as well as some of the new options and stuff on the 2020 Ford Explorer and to see more pictures of this vehicle or one of our other 450 new and used cars, trucks, SUVs go to www.SummitAuto.com full pictures and descriptions of every single vehicle from two locations all at SummitAuto.com and if you'd like to check out more HD videos you can go to youtube.com slash SummitAuto. 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Hi everybody, Joe for jaspyscasebreaks.com coming at you with 2021 Panini mosaic football hobby box Six boxes half case pick your team number five remember six sold out after five So five ends up being the second half of the case all card ship and this is a wax party promo break So we'll run that randomizer at the end Big thanks to this group for making this happen on Tuesday the 18th You have a little rooftop next to your name. That means you won that spot in the filler I think it ended up being There you go James with the last bottom ojo Tampa Bay Buccaneers all right, so Remember in the previous break. I marked all of this pick your team five so we know it's all from the same case And let's go. All right. Good luck everybody. Ed's in this one Looking for some tray lances anyone else in this break watching live Looks like the autographs gonna pop early here And behind Jalen regor is quitty pay rookie autographs For the Colts Adam with the Colts won that spot in the filler nice James is here Yeah, he got the you got the buccaneers a little while ago for last spot mojo ricks here with the Dolphins This Jose is here too. What team do you what team do we have here? Do you guys get a team you got Gregg we're so 48 out of 49 for the bills Lou with Buffalo. All right, there's NFL debut trailance. Maybe we can find some You can find some whatchamacallit more parallels of him Mac Jones goes to the Patriots by the way Nico FSU you do not have the buccaneers in this one James does There's 34 out of 49 Justin Fields Another Justin Fields You're in the wrong break then the bandits are not in this break. It's Kevin bird for the Titans And it'll be for Ryan Heinz You must be confusing us with the other guys And a blue Justin Fields 18 out of 99 Steven flat with the Bears won that spot in the filler No, this is not USFL flawless. Sorry. Yeah, you must be confusing us with Alternate Universe Chaspies where that exists NFL debut Zach Wilson for Adam Try to find some more color for Zach Wilson, too Maybe some ink. Oh, those are two autographs right there Kevin bird and quitty pay All right box one done Next box if you click the break schedule ladies and gentlemen, I've made some early picks For this weekend's games and now I'll monitor the line this week and see see if I was on the right side of the number Or the wrong side of the number end up on the wrong side of the number a lot but my early picks Cincinnati at Tennessee taking Tennessee minus three and a half I may fire on them again If if that number drops to minus three or not even minus two and a half for some reason Going with the road dogs San Francisco plus five and a half at Green Bay feel like if they could got a pretty good defense if they can control the The game a little bit with their running game I think sometimes Green Bay can be a little shaky on the running game San Francisco has a pretty good running game Good coaching too, so they can figure that out They might keep it close that plus five and a half might be But if that that goes to plus six, maybe I'll go plus six two I'm gonna fire again there on Sunday Sunday's games. I got Rams at Buccaneers taking the Buccaneers minus three and I'm taking another road dog Buffalo plus two and a half at Kansas City This guy just needs not make mistakes. That'll help me out There's Gary Brightwell, New York football Giants Niko with the Giants got the Giants in the filler. Elijah Mitchell's been pretty good, too That is Edward with the Niners So when's the Jaspie's NFTs dropping? I'm glad you asked that Jose Because you can join the hits app that I just dropped into the chat You can download that to your mobile device. We've been working with them to do that very thing Along with other breakers But we're the best ones Now there's a lot of good breakers on there So it's basically like that that app which sports card investor has been been working on with There's our first Trevor Lawrence base card It's a tick-tock for for some of the the greatest hits of breakers past We're just hits in general Some great some okay Some awesome some average some good there's brand I blue 35 out of 99 So for now, it's just a it's just a highlights app for now But I think one of their ideas early on as some of you may remember when they launched that we were on a little panel on Their live stream But I think there there is they're messing around with the idea of making some of those Possible NFTs Yeah, Justin. Yeah, it would be possible To eventually get a Teddy NFT that'd be pretty great Teddy has a lot of tats we've been trying to trying to see if we could sell Teddy's body as an entire piece of art You could buy sections of you can buy like you can get an NFT of Teddy's arm or something like that We're gonna figure that out There's Joe Montana 19 out of 25 men of mastery for Edward and the Niners and we've got Killen Granson Rookie autograph for the blue horseshoes Adam The Colts Like I don't know what Exodia is but but maybe we'll have to look into that Lance blue chips insert There's Aaron Rodgers 25 out of 49 Yu-Gi-Oh reference that's nerd stuff. That's nerd stuff Yu-Gi-Oh I'm into non-nerd stuff like Pokemon That's that's not nerdy. That's serious business Pokemon Yu-Gi-Oh, I'm into cool high-level stuff like like Pokemon Yu-Gi-Oh's for babies Cool stuff cool stuff like Pokemon Yu-Gi-Oh's for nerds FSU saying Joe, I bet you still have a Tamagotchi, man. I haven't thought about a Tamagotchi in ages No, I don't have one Have I ever had I don't know if I ever had one Aren't those Tamagotchi's are they aren't they making a comeback for something like it is made? I feel like I read something where there's like a popular early 2000s like Tamagotchi style game maybe with cats and they had cats and Maybe there's a a crypto coin associated with this game Or maybe it's a different game, maybe it's like you hatch dragons or something that you hatch something No, I did not have did not have a Furby. I actually Who here's a honeycomb Bobby Wagner? These are cool-looking parallels Very short printed as well unless this is a honeycomb hotbox like Jason Jaspie got over the weekend Bobby Wagner for the Seahawks Patrick Evans with the Hawks of the sea We've got a montage insert Josh Allen 33 out of 49 purple Sorry points will give those away To one person the break winner take all on the points that usually takes the place of a autograph I'm gonna tray Nixon 24 out of 49 for the Chronicle and the Patriots and a red rookie tray Lance nice Edward with the Niners a little color match there. I like that Yeah rebel that box was pretty crazy. I was pretty stunned when I Watch that video. Has anyone ever seen that before? I'm wondering if I guess I'm wondering if that was a mistake or if They do have honeycomb hotboxes out there in the world Stephen flat with the Jags and behind Michael Thomas is Cam Chancellor Bobby Wagner and a cam chancellor autograph Patrick Evans Seahawks Rebel feels like it was almost like as if they had Some honeycombs left over and they're like dang. We've got one more box left We have a box left. We've got to shove them all in there Nine honeycombs all over saying yeah, it's a lot. That's the first one. I've seen like myself live It's Justin Fields for the Bears even flat Marches possible Offensive rookie of the year got a blue Gary Brightwell 50 out of 99 and there's Patrick Mahomes Could it be another another Super Bowl for Patrick Mahomes another Super Bowl appearance at least Right well goes to Niko in the Giants Andre Swift who do I think should win the MVP in football? I mean, I have a feeling that I mean, it seems like Aaron Rodgers is leading the way on that Don't think maybe if Jonathan Taylor finished the season a little bit stronger We're halfway through this break three boxes in three more to go Yeah, Oliver thinks Rodgers. Yeah, he's had a pretty good season I can't really think of anyone right off the top of my head after Rodgers who would be close Like I said, I think Jonathan Taylor running back for the Colts Might have had a chance was on his way. I guess Brady's had a solid season, but nothing super crazy Yeah, you would think Mahomes would have been a contender if he started off the season a little bit a little bit hotter Brady would be two right, but I still think Just even without just looking at the stats, I feel like I feel like Rodgers is ahead Is there anyone else in the Anyone else in that conversation? Just Josh Allen get a little Just get some mentions I don't think Josh Allen's gonna win it, but does he get some good? Does he get some attention? All right next box Greg Newsom the second Cleveland this is for you Mark Miller when a silver Zach Wilson, that's pretty cool. Yeah, I've been looking for some more More parallels of him Zach Wilson NFL debut insert going to Adam and his Jets Yeah, maybe TJ watch and maybe get get some attention, but yeah seems like defensive players Rarely get into the conversation On rookie or rookie of the year on MVP unless That's all the offensive players had a terrible year That Kurt Warner is 86 out of 90 anyone see when's that Kurt Warner movie coming out? Is it out already? Last month is any good? You haven't seen it, but you haven't seen it. Anyone watch that Kurt Warner movie? I think Brady's got maybe another couple years under contract with the with the Bucks And that Joe Montana is 11 out of 25 Does Brady surprise a retire? May I mean it's possible if he wins a Super Bowl this year? I mean I could see it happening It was Kine and Wang Wu for the Vikings Patrick Davis That's crazy who has who is the who was the oldest? I have no idea who the oldest NFL player was is he surely must be one of the oldest NFL Like starter starting quarterbacks Like who's played entire season I? Think there's been maybe some older quarterbacks who have made a spot start here and there, but But he certainly has to be one of the oldest regular starting quarterbacks. Here's Trevor Lawrence. Yeah, I guess a kicker would probably be Probably the ones that could be the oldest There's been scurronic 46 out of 49 So maybe a possible Possible touchdown prop guy It's for the Rams. I'll be for Ford. Maybe all over thinking Jan Stenerud He might have been around for a while George Belanda pets is thinking Another NFL debut carb this time mosaic Parallel for Adam and the J ETS jets jets jets Yeah, Morton Anderson kicker Morton Anderson is pretty old too. Yeah. I mean, I think Brady is just kind of Kind of playing it by ear. It's like if he's feeling good You know once the season ends, I think he's just gonna go And keep playing I think if he's not just if his heart's not into it He's just not gonna do it. Oh Both Oliver and Rex looked it up at a military military retired at 48 pets also looked up saying it's Blanda Blando's 48 as well. This might be the the old guys and Brady's how old? 43 I know right Rex all over all over uh and Rex's Google search making Adam Vinitry trend on Twitter or on on Google Why is Adam Vinitry trending and Justin saying Vinitry and Blanda both retired at 48 So those are those are the two oldest guys chase Claypool 52 out of 99 for the Steelers. That'll be for Patrick Bay sack Wilson in it to win it Aaron Rodgers not number Mason Crosby's got to be up there to Gordie how played until his 52. I Think Brady's trying to hit that 50 mark, right? That's what he seems to be considering But I don't know I Rex, I don't I don't know if Brady strikes me as a guy. He doesn't strike me as a guy that wants to That wants to really set a record per se In terms of oldest athlete or whatever I Think he's just like hey as long as I have a chance to win championships I'm gonna keep doing it It's Trayvon Mort rookie autograph from my Raiders that goes to Evan who won the Raiders in the filler I think he made the made one of those all rookie teams Yeah, pretty solid season actually Raiders definitely need the help in that secondary So he's it's gonna be part of that I hope for years to come There's NFL debut Trey Lance for Ed and the Niners And to Marcus Lawrence 25 out of 49 Cowboys have to go back to the drawing board see what they can do to Go a little deeper in the playoffs That one is for Terry and the Cowboys think what's his situation? I think he's Think he was moving extra. He has scary neck injury last game, but I think he's Kind of being checked out at the hospital. I think he's able to move his extremities. So Let's see. Let's see how he does I think he's back in Arizona though more Trevor Lawrence Can you imagine seeing flats like Brady's gonna back up my homes in a few years and just add a couple more rings Would that be the same now? I don't know if that'd feel the same. What if Tom ready just knocks out knocks out like four more Super Bowls because he's because he ends up being a He ends up being Patrick Mahomes is back up. I'll be like, yeah, he does have 12 rings, but There's Tiffan digs Lou It's to 49 And he got Patrick Surtain rookie autographs for my rivals the Denver Broncos I think he had a pretty good season to Nick the Denver Just like that last box coming up There were reports of the guy that hit him saying he was glad he hit him or something like that. Jeez. I hope that's not true Oliver was at the game on the other side of the field and heard the hit from your seat All right, since this is a wax party break here's what I'm gonna do with the points top two names We'll get the the wax party spots obviously in the third one named down We'll get the points winner take all the points in case there's any more box pick a team five. Good luck Jim Kelly 88 out of 99 center stage insert Trevor Lawrence NFL debut Another Trevor Lawrence card going to seem flat and the Jaguars Jim Kelly goes to Lou and the bills The autograph behind Charles Woodson is Elijah Meldon Rookie autograph for the Tennessee Titans tighten up Ryan Heights with Tennessee It's Caleb Farley 25 out of 99 Not a Titan for Ryan. Thank you To win it Jordy Nelson next stack Another Trevor Lawrence here for the Jaguars even flat No, that wasn't a Tom Brady rookie I think they have they did this whole Tom Brady insert set So he's got a bunch of NFC cards, then he has a bunch of AFC cards MVP cards Here's another Patrick Sartain you know AFC Super Bowl cards a lot of Brady's the hit the packs that Nick are Nick's working on right now are for Instagram tomorrow at Jaspy's breaks on Instagram So follow us there and join us tomorrow. I Think they're for tomorrow There's a Billy Sims 90 out of 99 for Detroit. That'll be for Riley Damian Harris overdrive So here's Brady Super Bowl MVP's card Mack Jones and that is that ladies and gentlemen excellent All right, so let's do the randomizer Like I said top two and the third name will get the 600 points top two gets the wax party spots So let's gather all the names. Thanks everyone for getting in new dice new list and Let's roll it and randomize it Three and a three six the hard way So top two will get the wax party spot try to win some boxes or you are gonna win some boxes It's to TBD on what you're gonna get so your automatic winners and the third name will get the 600 points after six one two three four five and Sixth and final time after six so from four on down Sorry, Adam not even a consolation points prize. I appreciate you getting in Third name consolation prize points seem flat Top two wax party happy times for Evan and James. Wow James last spot mojo bought the Buccaneers. I don't know days ago gets rewarded with the Wax party spot and Evan with the spot that he won in the filler gets a wax party spot. There you go gang I'm Joe for Jasper's case greats.com. Thanks for watching. Thanks for breaking with us. I'll see you next time for the next one


Sean, good afternoon. You've not had the chance to add to your squad so far during the January window. Is that likely to change today? I doubt it. I think it's improbable that anything comes in as the day gets longer. We'll see, but I think it's improbable. You've known the wider situation at the club, obviously, pretty much since you stepped in the door. Does that make it a little bit easier that there's not a huge amount of expectation that's been dampened in the fact that you've not been able to make? There's always expectation in this football club, I can assure you. So, no, I don't think it makes it easier, but there has to be a reality. You know, I think, when I got here, the fans' biggest thing was just finding out what's going on and the truth. I've tried to speak openly and transparently, and it's the situation in the clubs, in business-wise at the moment, is to make sure we're cutting our cloth accordingly. In terms of outgoings, Mason Holgate to Sheffield, United, are you expecting that one to go through today? There's a possibility. It's in a process that we'll see, but it's looking likely from their point of view, and it's a very favourable deal for this football club. I understand there were some interests from Saudi Arabia and Abdelay Dekore before their deadline, which was a couple of days ago. Obviously, the club wanted him to stay. He wanted him to stay, too. How significant that he sees his future here and how... Yeah, there wasn't anything in that, really. Duke very focused on getting himself fit, as he does. Very focused on life at Everton Football Club, so yeah, there was nothing in that. The wider point, though, I guess that if you are looking for some positives to take from the window, that all the players you would consider as your core will still be here come tomorrow? Absolutely. The balance I've spoken on many times is, of course, the club's looking at the business side of the club, the financial side, but equally, we're not in a position where we have to start losing players, and that's a key thing for me as manager with the group we've got, especially as stretched as it is. So yeah, we're very intent on this current group staying together, so that'll be the focus. Yeah, I was going to say, did that almost feel more important to you in any conversations you had with the board at the start of them that said, look, don't leave me any weaker than I am on the first day? No, I didn't say anything in that respect. I just said, what have I got to manage? What's the truth of the situation? You know, I like that idea that whatever it is to manage, I'll manage it the best I can. And so far, we've agreed on what needed to be done. We've tried to do it. This window is no different. You know, if a business deal looks right, which the main someone looks right for the club, then it has to be looked at seriously. And from our point of view, anything going out of the building would have to be a situation that was favourable to us in the sense of getting minutes in some of the younger players, experiences in some of the younger players. But the main first-in group is definitely keeping that together, and that's been a key focus because we know it's the season's work and we need everyone currently and never more so with the injuries that we've got. Just wanted to throw a couple of stats your way. Europe's top five leagues, only Barcelona and Bayern Munich have missed more big chances than Everton this season. You're also underperforming your XG, more than any other team across Europe's top five leagues. What does that tell you? Well, it tells you've got a competitive side that's performing in the right way to create all them things, but you've got to score a goal. You know, the braveness to miss is always key for me.  You know, not just us as coaches, me as manager, it's about the group and the collective ownership. We ask them to work hard as a group defensively, and we're asking them to work hard in attack, which they are doing. And I think that it's a shared responsibility as well. You know, I've spoken to the players about everyone scoring a goal. You know, it's not about one person, it's about all of them. And I think the attitude is right towards it. The stats support the performances and, you know, I've always wanted to play effective football. Well, that's obviously very supportive. The other end as well, the clean sheets we're keeping. The balance is there, but the final moment, the moment of truth, that's the bit that pays you back.  So that's the icing on the cake, if you like. A lot of the performance level stats are very strong, but you've got to make them, you know, sorry, you've got to take advantage of them stats by scoring in one end and stopping in the other. You know, that's one thing that hasn't changed. So we've got to make sure that we're focused on that. But it is pleasing in one way that the team is being effective to create them chances. Do those numbers, though? Does that mean that's more of an individual thing for your players to work on, to stay behind, do some more finishing? Because that tells you that the structure of how you're trying to attack is right, the fact that you're creating things. I think it's a shared responsibility from the players. The thing is, and Coach, you're sorry as well, the thing is about it is that sometimes you can overthink it. Sometimes, you know, the noise changes and it's like, why aren't you doing this? Why aren't you doing that? Sometimes it's releasing that a little bit. You know, bringing that freedom around the front area of the pitch, bringing that freedom to take the chance. And I think, you know, I never think we've been far away from that. We've hit the bar, I think. I think one of the bar and the post, the most in the Premier League or equal, I think 14 or something like that, 14, 15, you're talking about inches away from the all going in the goal. We've got to make sure, you know, every inch counts. We've got to make sure the balls go down the right side of them. Bars or posts or chances to make sure we score goals. And like I say, I know the stats, the underlying stats, they're important to a side and how it's working. They're not the absolute definitive. You know, XG is one of a measure, many measures, but it does show a sign of what you're doing and how the team's performing. Very positive signs, generally. But you know, don't worry too much. You've got to win a game. You've got to score goals. So that's the defining moment, is scoring goals and winning games. Thanks, Sean. Thank you. Excuse me. At the other end of the field, of course, I think it's clean sheets in three of the last four. How pleased have you been with the defending? Bear in mind, in fact, you've had to change things around quite often. Yeah, I mean, the strength of the group has been from the front backwards. You know, we're asking the centre forwards to play their part defending from the front. The wide players working hard, going through the midfield and into the back four or five adding the keeper. I think it's been good and I think that's been evident. And finding that balance to kind of be productive. The other end where we are finding it, as we've just discussed, is now the real key moments, you know, when you're doing both. And that's the biggest challenge in football is to do both well, defend well and attack well. And I think up and down in his form, in the sense of his best form, I think the way that Jules develops is like he's kind of lower form, he's still high because he sets the bar high and he should do, he's England's number one. But equally, when he's really on form, he's a very, very good goalkeeper. We know that. But I think he's appreciative of the team structure in front of him. I know he is, in fact. You know, I think he can see the picture well because the team's organisation is looking good in front of him and obviously keepers get a bird's eye view of how the team's operating the yardage just the distances, excuse me, how they're working as a collective. And I think he's been enjoying that in front of him. So, yeah, that's a good measure of a keeper when they think the structure's right. I think it gives them confidence. And likewise, the keeper gives the defense inside of the team, sorry, confidence as well. I mean, they sign players, they sign quality, but he's adapted them to what he wants. I would imagine, I don't know, I don't know him that well, but I'd imagine he's still working on that and getting it to where he really wants it to be. You know, play forward, run forward, they do that. You know, they play forward, they get energy, they build it, and they do leave themselves open at times. And that's part of the balance of how he wants them to play, it seems. So I'm sure he's still refining it. But they're having a very strong season, that's for sure. And you saw last night, the mentality to go with it. Can you just check on some injuries, first of all? Because I know there was quite a few touching go, maybe. So will they be back? I'm thinking Seamus is to call it any closer. Dukes on the grass, but not with us yet. So he's unlikely. We had a knock to Arnie. The game has come quickly, so he's in doubt. Amadou's still a doubt, but he's touching go. Seamus is getting more training in. So his injury's been good, but actually getting up to true fitness. So he's a maybe. Young has done great. I thought the other night, to play his first minutes in a long time. And I thought he did very well. So he's come through that well, and we're happy with that.  So we'll have to make a decision on them over the next 24 hours. With no arrivals then, and still a treatment room, it seems pretty full. Are you working with Paul Tate in the under 21s? I know Metcalfe and Hunt were on the bench the other night. Is the plans for any of the younger players to be getting any game time? Well, the crossover since I've been here is trying to get the younger players developed through either going out and working in their group or crossing over with us. So there's a number who've done that, and it's good for them, and it's good for us to see them. And it gives them a feeling that, you know, what the first team can be like, if you like. So that's been good. Whether they'll start or not, it's a big ask for some of them, but we'll just try and get them around the group. They've already done that, and to keep them around the group. Well, that's sort of a bonus for them in the sense of our injuries, because it allows them to get a feel of what it is to be at Everton in the first team group. The volume of decisions not going Everton's way this season, if you go right back to the first game against Fulham, there was one there, and I could list them all and they'd be here for a while. I know you spoke about it the other night. Are there any plans, you know, to list all these and ask them? No, I don't think so. I think, you know, it's an ongoing situation that we hope gets corrected over the season's work, but I don't think we've had our fair share of ones that go for us, and I think some have been really clear. You know, there are some that are debates. Obviously, the handball the other night did say afterwards, I think it's a harsh one if it goes against you, if it goes for you with the way the rules on handball are, then you take it. If you've been able for it, just using that as an example, if you've been able to say to me, it's a not deliberate act, because if it was, they would have put it in its own net. I don't think Ananas was deliberate the other week when he tried to just block a shot, and yet that was given. So, you know, all these arguments are consensious. Managers are most confused, I feel, with the handball situation. Probably most frustrated with it. You know, the idea of VR, I'm still a fan of it. I think it's hopefully going to get better, because I think it's been in an odd state, not good or bad, just the variance in decisions has been considerable, I would say. So we're hopeful on parity, and overseas, and like I started with, you want it to pay you back, you know, because you hope that things do come back your way if they go against you. It's been some reports, and I often have to abide his time a little bit this season, hasn't he? Yeah, I did mention that the night, sorry, he did well, and I think his professionalism has looked after himself, you know, and looked after us in the sense he's ready to play. Yeah, all the rest of noise is just noise. You know, I made it clear for a long time ago that the main group we've got will be staying and like I say, he's a player that's super professional in the camp and when his chance comes, he's ready. And I think, I can't express that enough to you or to them. You know, I've told them, it's a squad mentality. And I always admire the players who are not playing, because when I was a player, if you're in the team, you're always keeping yourself right, because you get that inner feeling that you're probably going to be playing. When you're not, or you've got the opposite feeling, then how do you keep yourself right then? Because when the time comes, you're going to be asked to play. And I think the group have done fantastic with that. It's always a maximum respect for people outside the squad, if you like, or the main team, sorry, not the squad. And he's one of them. And we've made that clear to him over the last couple of months. He goes in the other night and played very well. So there you go. He gets payback for looking after himself. Managing the squad you've got left, because you seem to be losing players every game, it gets smaller and smaller. So the smaller you've scored, the more times the players you've got left have to play, which increases the chance that they're going to get injured. How difficult a challenge is that for you? I mean, it's unfortunate in a sense. So to give you a bigger picture here, we've actually improved the stats of fitness. So therefore the players have been fitter for longer and available. The challenge we've had, if you think about this season, we've had chunks of players getting injured. And that's obviously test you more when you've got a skinny group. You haven't got that many players. So that's been the awkwardness of it. If you have an injury every week or so, you can kind of cover that. But when you get these groups of injuries all at once, and on top of a game schedule, there's been pretty heavy coming out the back of last year and into this one, then that's difficult. But that's the reality. So there's no carrying away from it. We look at it. We look at the training stats. We look at the rest and the work time and the rewards of that and finding the balance. And you always need a bit of luck as well. I mean, honestly, the night is out of nothing, almost like an attempted tackle that turns his ankle.  The ones in training, if they're soft tissue, they're the ones you look at and look at your training and schedule. But the ones that are on the pitch are often ones you can't do much about. So it's the reality. We keep working with the group. They're working very hard. I thought they were very hard the other night. Them down at Fulham and they're going to have to do that again at the weekend against a very strong Tottenham side. Yeah, he's recovering today and then he'll be in tomorrow morning. Oh, is he? Because obviously, when he went out, he had the calf injury, so obviously... Yeah, he was released to fitness. So, yeah, all good. So, in contention and to start off, potentially? He's certainly in contention, yeah. We've had to give him a down day because of the travelling and stuff today, so we'll catch up with him tomorrow and see how he's feeling. Just on the transfer window, I mean, in an ideal Wales, if you had the bigger squads, but the likes of Lewis Dobbin, maybe Chumiti Goals and get minutes and can they still develop behind the scenes in training and maybe get in sporadic minutes for the under-21s when... Yeah, I think it's, you know, a lot of development with it. Well, in theory, the way that we weren't the players, the culture here is to push all the time, so I think they will develop from the training and the kind of being around the first-in group. Of course, games are a big part of player development, with the squad being what it is. They're actually getting minutes for us when, maybe in a different season, we've got a deeper squad, they would be out on loan or they would be playing more development-style games, but they are developing with us. And that's just the reality, again, of the challenge of what's happened when you've got a skinny group. The good side for them, of course, are involved in the first-in ever in football club, and that's fantastic. You know, Dobbo and for Yousef, you know, the young players still learning, so that's the good side of it. The challenge of it is, in theory, you could have them developing, getting ready to be even more powerful for the first-in group away from the group, but currently, we need them in the group, and they are getting minutes. They are getting around it and getting on the pitch. I've been pleased for that side of things, for sure. I just want to ask, obviously, there's a lot of headlines as ever around the club that have nothing to do with your remit, and the appeal is ongoing. Do you get any updates inside here? Do you want any updates? No, no, no. We're just to wait and see when it comes out. The last time it came out, out of the blue, I didn't get a heads-up. It was just literally a half an hour before. So, we'll wait and see. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.


Do you have these seven signs of emotional intelligence? We all know what an IQ is, and that most of us fall within the average range.  What most people don't know is that we also possess an EQ, or EI, which is our level of emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is difficult to measure in numbers because it is that thing inside us that recognizes emotions in ourselves and others, then guides us to respond. Understanding emotions may seem unimportant or trivial, but in fact it is the opposite. It is widely believed by experts that a person's level of emotional intelligence may be a better predictor of success in overall happiness than their IQ. What is emotional intelligence? Being a high level of emotional intelligence means that you can accurately express your feelings and take responsibility for them.  A person with high EI realizes the feeling belongs to him and responds with statements such as, I was hurt by that. Being emotionally intelligent means that you can identify and manage not only your own emotions, but the emotions of others too. It means you have awareness of your own feelings and are able to balance emotion and reason. You can recognize feelings and emotion in others and show empathy and compassion, which is a crucial part of all relationships, both business and personal. For example, a good leader has the ability to understand what motivates others and build on that motivation. Seven signs you are emotionally smart Although emotional intelligence is not completely understood, it has become increasingly known that it plays a critical role in our quality of life. A person who is emotionally intelligent generally has better physical health, a more positive outlook, fulfilling relationships, and is more successful than those with low EI. One, you can read non-verbal communication.  Two, you are interested in other people and their feelings and thoughts. When someone asks you, what are you thinking about? It shows their interest in understanding. Emotionally intelligent people want to know and understand others and genuinely listen to their answers. Three, you are emotionally resilient. Bad things happen in life. You lose a good job, your significant other moves on without you. You have setbacks and know there will be more coming. However, you also know you are strong enough to persevere until better times come. You do not internalize failure. Four, you know where you need improvement. People with low EI make the world believe they know everything and can do anything. When something goes wrong, they put the blame anywhere but on themselves. If you have a high EI, you know the areas in your life that need improvement. You are always learning and therefore always growing. Five, you are aware of your own feelings. You know how you are feeling, what caused the feeling, and how to process and deal with the feeling. Your feelings guide you towards finding a solution rather than shutting you down. Six, you avoid negative self-talk. When something does not go right, even if it was by your own mistake, you do not berate and belittle yourself. You are able to acknowledge what went wrong and explore your options for solving the problem, then move forward and do so. Seven, you pursue success. You have dreams and strategies to make those dreams a reality.  How many of these qualities do you possess? The good news is that unlike brain intelligence or IQ, emotional intelligence can be raised to some extent. Part of our EI is innate. Part of it is shaped by our environment and another part is our attitude. Are you willing to learn to understand and conquer your emotions? Are you interested in becoming a better problem solver? Do you want to achieve your goals? Developing your emotional intelligence allows you the opportunity to avoid miscommunications and misunderstandings. It deepens your relationships and helps you balance work, home, and fun in a meaningful way. Remember, the biggest determinant of success is measured by EQ, not IQ. If you liked this video, don't forget to check out our other social media for more content. And don't forget to subscribe. Thanks for watching.


Yes, it's much better now, there'll be no problem. Thank you. Dr. James Newman, a board space vehicle endeavor. What's your mission? Our mission is actually not a single mission in the sense of just coming up and doing one thing. We're really here to work and live in space. Today we deployed the Spartan satellite, which will be on a two-day mission to study solar science. We'll next deploy the Wakefield facility for studying new technologies in micro, in semiconductor electronics. And we also have a spacewalk to study some of the techniques for the space station construction. Let me take some of the incoming calls to you. Maybe they can get through to you more clearly. Phone number 1-800-222-K ABC. Larry, good morning. Yes, good morning Michael. I just wanted to wish Dave Walker and the crew the very best of luck and congratulations from the Career Academy at Hollywood High School. And we'd love to have them come and visit the school after their experience and tell us a little bit about the trip in space. Well, were you a classmate? Yes, I was a classmate of Dave Walker's at the Test Pilot School, the Air Force Test Pilot School.  You look so incredibly relaxed, more relaxed than I feel right now. I want to go back to that question that I posed earlier.  The off-and-itself is probably the most frightening part of a launch. And if you've ever seen a launch, it's really a lot scarier to watch one than it is to be inside the shuttle. Inside the shuttle you don't see all of the fireworks going on outside and it's just like an elevator that's a whole building that goes straight up. Yeah, I'd rather take an elevator. You know something? That isn't true. I think every one of us watching now has fantasized about doing what you're doing. At what age did you begin to say to yourself, you know something? I'd like to be an astronaut. There's a little controversy about that, but it was when I was probably between 13 and 15, when I realized it would be a great way to combine flying, a love of the idea of flying, and also science and engineering. Let's take another call. We're speaking to Space Shuttle Endeavour. We're speaking with Dr. James Newman, astronaut. I'm Michael Jackson. René, good morning. Good morning, and I'm so thrilled I can barely believe what's happening to me. My name is René Shapiro. I'm speaking to you from the Republic of California. I'm 62, grandma of 11 grandkids, and two years ago my husband, myself, and two others flew a general aviation plane around the world through Ukraine and Russia doing within 65 hours, which you do every 90 minutes. My question is this. What words do you have to my own grandkids and to all the young people who may be listening? What guidance can you give them if they want to set their career along the flight path you've chosen? How lovely. Did you get that one, doctor? Yes, I did. And one of the questions that I often ask is why should kids study hard in school? Math and science are important, but they're hard subjects. We have to study hard at them to be good. And I think that one of the good answers for that question is a career in the space business, and certainly a career as an astronaut. I think that more and more people are going to have the opportunity to fly in space, and I think that this is one route. There's a number of other routes as well that give kids good reasons to study hard in school, but I strongly believe that the space program is an outstanding example. Great countries do great things, and this is something for all of us, for the kids, for adults, for seniors to enjoy. René, thank you very much for your call. And we're really on the verge of enormous, I'm quite frankly to use, I think it was Newt Gingrich's words, frontiers of knowledge and opportunity. And am I correct in saying that NASA is doing more with less these days? Short cut off, Houston. Do we lose him? You know, there's so many questions one should get to, and eventually I will. I've done so with the administrator of NASA, you know, why Congress wants to slash NASA's budget. But Doctor, is NASA doing more with less these days? Absolutely. NASA is finding ways to economize, to do things more efficiently, and up to this point, with a great deal of actually, I think, increased safety. The challenge is to continue that in the face of continuing budget pressure. Our phone number, 1-800-222-K-A-B-C, and it takes you all the way out into orbit, if you will. Bob, you're on 790-K-A-B-C talk radio with the man aboard Endeavour. How long will you be there, Dr. Newman? We'll be here for another 10 days. We'll be picking up the Spartan satellite. Hello? Oh, here's Bob for you, Doctor. There's a lot of science with it, and then doing the spacewalk on flight day 10. We hope you'll come and join us for that. I'd love it. I'd love to go, but I'm not bright enough, and I'm too young. Bob, you're on K-A-B-C talk radio. Good morning. How are you today? Fine. I'd like to say greetings from Belfall in California. What's on your mind? I just wanted to say good luck. This is a great opportunity for America. I think the space travel is our future. We should put more money into it. Well, instead of launching a few spacecraft every decade, I gather NASA is planning to send several probes into deep space each year. Would that be a fair assessment of what the plans are for the future? Yes. One of the initiatives that the administrator has been working on is getting some of these probes into space not only cheaper, but much more rapidly. It's the faster, better, cheaper idea, which is already beginning to bear fruit. Appreciate that call, Bob. Rick, you're on 790 K-A-B-C talk radio, live into space. I'm Michael Jackson. Good morning. Good morning, and greetings from Star Trek Voyager. You're on the set of Star Trek Voyager? We're in the art department creating the future just the way you folks are. My question is you're looking forward to the spacewalk and the space station assembly practice. The space station assembly practice. How would you respond to the guys who are doing it? More fantasy than fact. We're really looking forward to it. We've got a bunch of new tools and techniques. We're going to get the guys really cold. It'll be Mike and Mike Gernard and Jim Voss who are going outside. I'll be controlling them from the end of the Canadian-built arm that we have. I went on a spacewalk on my first flight, and so this time I'll get to be on the inside and move them around as we're going to take them to some really cold attitudes. We have some new suit improvements in order to help keep them warm because it is very cold when the sun is not shining on you here in space. For those who are just joining us, we are hearing a novel opportunity, but then that's what KABC is day in and day out. A novel opportunity. We are experiencing what it's like to hold a press conference live and direct for the man who's aboard a space vehicle. We're speaking with Dr. James Newman, astronaut aboard the space vehicle Endeavour. How many times have you been aloft? This is my second flight, and I remember from my first one two years ago on STS-51, also in September. A couple of months after I got back from that, I had this intense desire to come back to space, and it's not an opportunity that people get very often, so it's really a pleasure to be back. So is this what we would call a space shuttle? Yes, we are on the space shuttle and it's designed to be able to take cargo to not only to space, but also return from space. And that's where our program really complements the Russian space program in our international space program now, because we can bring a lot of stuff back, whereas the Russians can take a lot of mass into space for their space station, so they haven't been able to bring very much back. Steve, you're on 790K ABC Talk Radio with Dr. James Newman, astronaut. I'm Michael Jackson. Yes, Michael. I just want to say that since I was a little kid, I've always been very fascinated by the program, and I was wondering what was the most thrilling experience in space that you ever had? What gave you the biggest rush? I think it was my space walk that I'd have to say when I went outside in a space suit, and when you're outside here in the shuttle, of course, we still have air. We've got all the comforts of home, but getting into a space suit and going outside the shuttle, where there's really nothing between you except for this thin space suit, that was really probably the most unbelievable experience that I've ever had. I bet you were pretty cold as well when you went out there. Well, actually, in order to test the attitude that the Hubble Space Telescope repair guys, remember them also a couple of years ago, fixing the Hubble Space Telescope, they wanted us to test the attitude. Now in space, if the sun is shining on the space shuttle, then you'll be warm, but if deep space is all you can see, then you'll get very cold. So we tested an attitude to make sure that the Hubble Space Telescope repair workers would not get too cold. We had a medium cold attitude, not too cold. When you speak of the space shuttle, it's surely one of the most versatile of space vehicles ever developed, and yet it represents surely only a very fractional part of all our U.S. space launches, doesn't it? All space launches, yes. However, it's a significant number of launches of the American space program total. We've had, there's been a hundred human space flights, and the shuttle is now up to about 70. 71, actually. We're the 71st. Let's take one more call. If we can. George, you're on 790K ABC Talk Radio. If we can. George. Yes, Michael. Yes, sir. I would like to say, first of all, that I am extremely pleased to be able to speak to our astronauts out there and that I have never, ever lost the enthusiasm of watching our country send their men into space. My question is, doctor, what do you feel is the future of the shuttle? Is it going to be more of an unmanned as opposed to manned missions? And what do you think about the possibility of taking nuclear waste from our planet and putting it in space, launching it out to the sun and getting it off of our planet? I'll try to take the first part of that question, and that is that the space shuttle itself is definitely a vehicle for people. It's a way of getting people and cargo into space. And it will always be that until sometime in the next century we develop another one. But there's certainly going to continue to be a place for unmanned vehicles. When it comes to just hauling material into space and not having to worry about bringing it back or needing the special skills of people, then an unmanned vehicle is the way to go. For communications satellites, for most of those, for example, and for others. As far as just hauling raw material, essentially, or expended nuclear waste into space, that's a bit further down the road. I think it will be actually cheaper to find good solutions to that here on Earth rather than sending it into space. We are working on better technologies to make it cheaper to get into space, but in order to send the stuff off to the sun is a ways off. I envy and respect what you do. Let me stress the envy for a moment, because you are the true heroes that we still write about without criticism. You are the people who are visiting the frontiers that we, all of us, just sort of dream about, fantasize about. I am respectful of your being able to find some time for us, and I realize you've got a lot of work to do, haven't you? Yes, we have a very busy flight, but it's actually been a pleasure to take a short break to talk with you all. Then I'd love to do it again. Thank you very, very much indeed for joining us live from Endeavour. Thanks to you Captain James, Dr. James Newman.