So early on in my personal development career like when I was trying to actually improve myself I used to go to all these events and the thing that frustrated me the most was that People would only talk about money and I get that a lot of people are struggling with money Maybe most people I certainly want more money But I hated the fact that that's all people talked about and that was the only way they apparently defined success You know like if you went to an entrepreneur, they'd be like how much money does your business make? The first thing they want to know about the whole person's life is how much money and I think this is an Absolutely fatal flaw and one that makes people miserable for a lifetime Now in this video, I want to share what I think is my own personal definition of success and why you need to figure out What that really looks like for you What's up guys? Alex Hine here author of the book master the day now before we go on I've actually included the free one-page goal-setting worksheet and the beginner goal-setting email course It's the very first link right in the description box there below You'll be sent a one-page sheet to fill out with your goals your vision and your daily habits and again You can download it right there click that link sign up for the email list. You'll get it all right there You know at this stage in my life my definition of success is actually pretty similar to what it was five or ten years ago Because to me I always wanted to set what I thought was a conscious process of goal-setting So for me at this stage in my life success is first of all enjoyment because for me I saw all these people that were successful financially successful successful in a lot of different domains of Life, but a lot of them did not do work that they cared about and that to me seemed like it produced less peace of mind More than almost anything because they spent nine ten twelve hours a day doing work that didn't jack them up Right. They weren't jazzed about it. They weren't excited. They were like, you know, it's a job So for me success has to first and foremost be how I feel on a daily basis The second thing for me is fulfillment now for me fulfillment is the reason why I chose to build my business around an audience Like for me getting comments from you getting emails getting DMS Reading my books and sending me emails and messages about how they've changed your life That's literally what I live for, you know, like Gary V says like that's my oxygen That's what I've always been into more than like material success And so for me it has to be some aspect of fulfillment and seeing that my work is having an effect on people The third thing for me is the luxury of time and I didn't think about this until very recently in my life But I thought how for me being successful means I don't have to rush because I'm overbooked or because I'm Overscheduled the luxury of time means if I want I can take today off and I can go sit in a coffee shop and read a book It means today if I want I can take the day off and go hang out with a friend or my girlfriend or my parents or whatever it is The luxury of being able to have lots of time to actually live life is my third or fourth definition of success And then only after that does the material stuff come The ability to have tons of money to retire my parents so they don't have to work so hard to help out my siblings So that I can live in a nice apartment because for most of my adult life. I haven't lived in apartments I really liked I got cheap ones so that I could build my business The luxury of being able to live in a place with a beautiful view or having the prime real estate location in a city Or a suburb or the ability to have enough money to take three vacations per year and go to a new country or Go on a wolf tracking expedition or go to some remote village in Africa to do charity work Or to go to Haiti and look at like the Haitian zombies and like what it you know Explore this kind of mythology and all of these medical things Just the ability to be free to do all the things I've ever wanted to do That to me is the main value of having tons of money which absolutely is part of my definition of success but for me it is all of these different pieces and All of those have to be a necessity But I think there's a big mistake people make and it's that they put their ladder up against the wrong wall as the saying goes So the second thing that's really important here is for you to figure out how you define success And I really want to challenge you not to just describe it or articulate it as an external thing That was me before I realized. Wow, you know, I didn't include how I actually want to feel on a daily basis Which is no surprise. I became the beginning stages of successful But I didn't feel good because I was building a business that more than half the time I didn't like I was overworking 70 hours a week or more for five years And I missed all these other pieces about feeling good and even though I liked my work I forgot to say, you know plenty of free time inner peace and calm You know what I mean all these other inner things and the danger is as the same goes I don't know if it was John Maxwell or whoever Stephen Covey People spend their whole lives pursuing success at climbing the ladder Then they get to the top and realize they'd set the ladder up against the wrong wall or they climb the entirely wrong ladder You know, it's the person who becomes the physician instead of the artist or Instead of the monk instead of the painter instead of the musician Because they want the prestige and the fame and the I made mommy and daddy so proud of me and yet behind the scenes You don't know they're an alcoholic. They have an eating disorder. They're a drug addict I mean doctors have almost twice the rates of addiction as the normal populace And they can write themselves the own scripts to self-medicate with pharmaceuticals They have some of the highest rates of depression and suicide of any profession and yet they themselves are the healers And so it's this idea of you gain the whole world and you've traded or you've lost your soul as the Bible says and So many people do that with the way they pursue success because it is not their own definition They've chosen it's somebody else's it's societies and they get lost because they get everything externally And they don't understand why they could feel so empty internally So I want to challenge you here to figure out what you really want now Again a resource that might help you is that free goal-setting sheet And I want to challenge you to put not only the external but the internal of how you want to feel That's so key because you could be successful at a lot of things But you may hate your life You may be working too many hours you may affect your health you may wreck your relationships Write down all the internal and the external aspects of success So go click that link to the goal-setting worksheet It'll be a one-page printout you can do it on your computer You could print it off and it'll also provide a series of weekly emails to help you work on setting goals and Pursuing this unique path to success and again You can check out my last two videos that have come out right there and right there


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This was because, like her famous father, Thomas Barrett, before her, she loved music. It was a part of her. And she felt no more nervousness than he might have had at the height of his brilliant career as one of the world's most celebrated pianists. Pamela Barrett might have felt differently, however, if she knew what was in the heart and mind of someone watching her. Yes, Pamela Barrett's touch might not have been so fine, so sure if she had the knowledge of a cold calculated plan for murder. It was a plan that began some time back at an even more innocent affair, an impromptu concert at a pleasant social gathering, friends of Pamela's and of Denise Barrett's stepmother. Denise was watching admiringly as Pamela played for her friends. Softly, beautifully. Pamela, darling, it was beautiful, wonderful. Thank you, Denise, all of you. Thanks so much. She's ready now. You must arrange a concert debut for her, Denise. I should say so. You hear them, darling? It's what I've been telling you repeatedly. You mustn't let anything interfere with your music. Nothing will, Denise. And now if you'll excuse me. You've done a marvelous job as her guardian, Denise. Her father would be proud. Yes, it's a shame Thomas Barrett couldn't be here. Yes, he would have loved to hear his daughter play tonight. Yes. Oh, yes, it's our only regret. Oh, my dear, I'm sorry I mentioned that. It's all right. Just the excitement, the thrill of hearing her play so much like, like Thomas himself. Yes, Denise, so much like Thomas himself, your late husband. The thought is still on your mind as you excuse yourself. Leave your guests discussing the way you've managed Pamela. Brought her along, guided her career in affairs so efficiently. And on the terrace, you're congratulated again by a guest who has remained in the background. Marty Drake, attorney for the estate of the late Thomas Barrett. She was very good, Denise. Very good. The girl does have talent, doesn't she? Mm-hmm. You think she meant that about not letting anything interfere with her career? I hope so. Ah, so do I. You want to make sure, you know, young girl and love that way. I've managed her pretty well until now, Marty. And she has faith in you, both personally and as an attorney. She told me the other afternoon she was glad you were handling the estate. Oh, sure. I was just thinking that's all. I mean, her father's career ended by an accident. It'd be dreadful if anything had to end the daughters too. Please, Marty. Oh, I'm sorry. Like I said, I was just thinking. Marty, it would be terrible if... If you couldn't handle her and couldn't talk her out of marrying Richard Matthews? I can. I must. You can say that again, baby. Her marriage had put us in the position of having to account for the $100,000 we've managed to remove from the estate. $100,000? Is it that much, Marty? We've lived well, Denise, very well since Thomas fell over that cliff a year ago. But $100,000, Marty, that's... That's the difference between a misdemeanor and a felony. You better go to work on Pamela quick. I will. Tomorrow. Oh. I thought you might like a cocktail, Mrs. Barrett. Yes. Thank you, Alma. Yes, thank you. I could use one nicely. Alma, would you tell Pamela there's another number I'd like her to play? Oh, I'm sorry, ma'am. She told me to tell you. She's gone out. There was a phone call. Not Richard Matthews. Oh, yes, ma'am. Richard Matthews. Well, can you tell me not to worry? Marty. Marty, we're in trouble. So is Pamela. What do you mean? Well, we won't have much choice, Denise. If you're a lovely stepdaughter persistent married, there might be only one way to stop it. And this time you'll do the stopping. If you don't, baby, you won't be around to spend any more of Pamela's money. You'll be on the inside looking out. Don't worry, Marty. I'll stop her. 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Well, Denise, your conversation with Marty only strengthens your determination, doesn't it? Pamela Barrett must be talked out of her romance with Richard Matthews. The girl can't learn of the embezzlement you've engaged in with Marty during the last year. It might set her to thinking, to adding up something else, something that will suggest to her that her father's death a year ago might have been more than an accident. Yes, Denise, the problem faces you squarely now. And the following afternoon you decide to approach Pamela to attempt the first step in dissuading her. As you walk down the lawn corridor toward the music room, your maid, Alma, suddenly steps out of your late husband's study. Oh, ma'am. Yes, Alma. About Mr. Barrett's curio collection, Ms. Pamela said she didn't want anything touched. I told you. Oh, no, really. I don't see why she insists on keeping those awful things around. Spears, poison darts, those vials of South American and South African poisons. Curari, snake venom, and all those things. Oh, her father's, ma'am. I can't imagine what Mr. Barrett had in mind bringing those horrible things back with him after that foreign tour. I just can't... Poisons. They make me shiver. Oh, well, never mind, Alma. I'll talk to Pamela again later. Very good.   Well, I don't blame you really. I should have told you the reasons I thought it best that you postpone your marriage to Richard for a year or two. The main reason is that you enjoy telling me I can't do things, isn't it, Denise? You think I'm very unfair, don't you, dear? Aren't you? I don't think so.  It's been hard on me, too. I loved him very much. I've just been trying to keep a promise I made to your father about you. I guess I've gone at it very badly. Promise to Daddy? What was the promise? I promised him I'd see to it that you followed in his footsteps, become a great concert pianist. You did? Yes, dear, I did. Dad asked you to? Yes. He wanted you to make your debut at Civic Hall on your 19th birthday. Well, that's hardly two weeks away. Yes, but I made all the arrangements some time ago. That's why I was so shocked when you said you wanted to give up your music and marry Richard. And why I was so emphatic and saying I wouldn't let you. My career meant a lot to Dad, didn't it? Pamela, you're awfully young to get married. Why not wait for a couple of years? And in the meantime, go ahead with everything just as your father planned. I guess it would have made him happy. Of course it would. All right, Denise, I'll try to go on with my career. You'll always be glad, darling. You may feel badly now about postponing your marriage to Richard, but after you get started on your career... Oh, Denise, you must have misunderstood. I said I'd continue with my music, but I didn't say I changed my mind about marrying Richard. But you can't marry him. You wouldn't have time for both. Look, Denise, legally, I'm old enough to be married, with or without your consent, even if you are still guarded enough my money. If I decide to marry Richard, there's nothing you can do to stop it. Remember that. Nothing. You've failed, haven't you, Denise? That look on Pamela's face.  The man you married with so much more than love in mind. Yes, Denise, to gain control again is another step necessary, a more drastic one. But something more in your line. You've always managed with men easier than with women. And later that week, out at the swimming pool, you call on all the strength of your considerable feminine powers to turn the tide for you. Win him away from Pamela. Morning, Richard. Morning, Mrs. Barrett. How's the water? Warm and wonderful. Here, give me a hand, will you? There we are. Thanks. Now to get this cap off. Oh, it was such a beautiful morning. I just couldn't resist the pool. Hand me the towel, will you? Oh, here you are. Thank you. Pamela around? Oh, she had some shopping to do. That's why I asked you over. I want to talk to you alone. Sit down, Richard. All right. Pamela tells me you're quite a musician. Oh, she's prejudiced. You like Pamela very much, don't you? I love her. Enough to put her welfare before your happiness? Of course. Then, Richard, don't let her think about getting married until she's reached the place in the music world her father planned for her. Why couldn't she do both? She just couldn't, that's all. Hundreds of women have combined marriage with a career and rather successfully, too. Perhaps, but not Pamela. She's different. Her life shouldn't be complicated with emotional disturbances. Her thought should be only of her music. And you are rather distracting, Richard. Oh, not really, Mrs. Barrett. You make it sound... Denise, please. All right. Denise? Did it ever occur to you that they... Well, the things Pamela sees in you are obvious to other women, too? I, uh... I never thought much about it, Mrs. Barrett. Denise.  Naive and all. But you and I, Richard, we're the same kind. I knew it from the first time I saw you. Remember, Richard? Pamela's first cancer. The afternoon you brought her the first rose. I remember. You seemed a little surprised when we were introduced. Uh, yes, I suppose I was. I didn't expect Pamela's stepmother to be so... So what, Richard? Well, young and... and so attractive. How nice of you to say that, darling. You really think we're attractive? Yes. Very. Well, we are getting along well, aren't we, Richard? I think we should get to know more of one another, don't you? Uh-huh. Well, there's no time... like the present is there. Whatever you say. Denise. He's falling into the trap, isn't he, Denise?  Yes, you're confident that when you're through with Richard, he'll have forgotten that Pamela ever existed. You sit there at the edge of the pool with Richard for over an hour. Then when he's gone, you hurry to the telephone and call Marty. So you charmed the boy at the telephone? Isn't what I told him. It's what I left unsaid, Marty. That's what counts. I'm certain he thinks I'm quite mad about him. And he's very interested. Uh, little rendezvous? Of course not, and I didn't ask him to. I merely mentioned that I'd be dining alone tomorrow night at that quaint little café overlooking the sea. How I loved it there. The music, the candlelight. Yeah, yeah, I think you'll show up. How could he turn it down? Oh, well, honey. Don't worry, Marty. After tomorrow night, all our worries will be over. Promptly at seven the following night you enter Chavini. That quaint little café at Santa Monica. The head waiter steers you to a secluded table near the large window overlooking the sea. And there in the candlelight you sip a martini and wait for Richard to show up. Are you aware of someone standing by your elbow? Good evening, Mrs. Barrett. Yes? Allow me. I am René de Mont. May I sit down? Just a moment, I don't... I am from the Hollywood Escort Bureau. Escort Bureau? Yes, Mr. Richard Matthews hired me. He said Mrs. Barrett hated to dine alone.  Well, you are now Lord Mrs. Barrett. How about my fee? Collect your fee from the man who hired you. He'll pay. Yes. He'll pay all right. So, he sent you the two-bit Romeo, a guy from an Escort Bureau. Yes, of all the dirty, shabby tricks. Well, it's no worse than one you tried to pull on Pamela, baby. You must be losing your technique. You won't think it's so funny when I tell you that last night she informed me they're planning to get married right after the concert. What? I said they were planning, Marty. But the wedding will never take place. How are you going to stop it, poison her cornflakes?  Poison? Yes, poison. That's it, Marty. What are you going to do? My late husband's curio collection. The poisons he picked up in South Africa and South America. Some of them are fatal in almost a matter of minutes, Marty. I thought you'd gotten into that stuff. Pamela wouldn't let me. Pamela wouldn't let me get rid of a thing. But how very thoughtful of her. How very thoughtful. Just a scratch from any one of those poisons, Marty.  You're all right. But how are you going to do it? I don't know, Marty. But I'll think of something. I'll think of something. Yes, and it's on your mind all that night, isn't it, Denise? You've got to find a way to kill Pamela. But one of the poisons from her father's collection. And somehow Richard must be blamed. Just how you're going to do that isn't clear, not yet. Not until the following afternoon, when suddenly quite by accident, you stumble on the answer. You're sitting in the library when your maid walks into the room. Oh, Elmer. Yes, ma'am. Where are you going with those flowers? Well, Miss Pamela asked me to put them in here. The gardener picked them this morning. Aren't the roses beautiful? Yes, they are. They're quite beautiful. Put them in that vase over there. I just remembered I have something very important to do. It's all very simple, Marty. We poisoned Pamela with a rose. A rose from her darling Richard. I don't follow you, Denise. Richard always sends her a rose when she appears on the stage. To become a superstition with them, she wouldn't appear without it. All right, so. I'll arrange to be at the door when the florist delivers it. They always wrap the stem of the rose with a very thin wire. I'll put several sharp wires on it, Marty. One of them right up through the rose. All of them, especially treated. One of those wires will be sure to scratch Pamela. Uh-huh. Yeah, but suppose that she... I'll pin the rose on her. Arrange it so that she'll be certain to scratch herself. Oh, that'll never work. The police will be sure to find out. They'll make it all the better if they do. Richard sent her the rose. Not me. He always does. Yeah, but the motive. Why should he want her out of the way? Because he was madly in love with me, and he wanted the Barrett fortune, too. You see, he knew that with Pamela out of the way, all the money would go to me. You know, uh, that might work. And with you, the attorney for the Barrett estate to back up my story, it can't fail to work. Oh, sure, sure. That'll stand up, baby. In another month, Marty, the Barrett fortune will be all mine. Ours, baby. All right. Ours. However, I think I should warn you, Marty. Oh? Just in case you get ideas about pushing me off a cliff, keeping all the money for yourself. Oh. Now look, we're getting married. Yes, I know. I know. But I've taken the necessary precautions just the same, darling. I've set a letter to a friend of mine, a lawyer. That letter will be opened in the event of my death. What are you driving at? It's all there. In the letter, Marty. All the evidence the district attorney will need. How you embezzled money from the Barrett estate and the complete story of Thomas' death. You see, I'd hate to have an accident happen to me, Marty. Fall off a cliff like he did. You don't think I'd double-cross you than he's? I'm crazy about you. Yes, of course you are. But I just want to make certain you don't have a change of heart. You might get to think that a half million dollars looks better to you than I do. See what I mean, darling? And now a suggestion to drivers. With cold winter nights and mornings ahead, you don't want to be caught with your battery down. So now is a good time to stop by a signal service station for a free battery inspection. Perhaps your battery needs recharging to assure quick cold weather starting. In that case, your signal dealer has safe, speedy recharging equipment to serve you. If your cables are corroded, he can replace them with heavy-duty cables. And should you need a new battery, there's none finer than signal's new deluxe batteries. 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You lie down for a while, certain that you'll soon be in full control of the Barrett fortune. You're calm and confident when Marty calls for you a few moments after Pamela leaves with Richard.  The recital progresses, you become more and more tense. The fear that your plan has gone wrong gradually comes over. Something should have happened to Pamela long before they shouldn't have, Denise. And as her brilliant performance draws to a climax, you exchange worried glances with Marty. Baby, what's gone wrong? I don't know, I don't know. I was afraid of you right there from the start. It'll work, Marty. It's got to. Excuse me. Oh, come in, ma'am. Oh, wasn't this Pamela wonderful tonight? Yes, yes. Where is she? Oh, she didn't come back to her dressing room, ma'am. She ran right off the stage and left with Mr. Richard. What? Yes, ma'am. She gave me this note for you. My dear Denise, sorry to rush off like this. But Richard and I are driving to Las Vegas to be married. I know you don't approve, but I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive us. Love, Pamela. Married? Miss Pamela getting married? Oh, how wonderful. Oh, no wonder the poor child was so excited before she left for the council. Marty, I don't feel well. I feel a little pale myself. No, yes, ma'am. Miss Pamela was so nervous she couldn't pin Mr. Richard's rose on her dress. I had to do it for her. What? Miss Pamela was so excited. You pin Mr. Richard's rose on her? Yes, ma'am. But you couldn't have it. I did it for her. I took it at the door when it came and pinned it on her in her room. That's right. But I'm talking about the artificial rose Mr. Richard brought her later when it came to pick up Miss Pamela. Artificial rose? Why did he do that? Well, Mr. Richard said that at the last minute he remembered roses made Miss Pamela sneeze this time of year. He brought an artificial rose. Alma, what did you do with the other rose? Well, Miss Pamela thought it was too pretty to throw away, ma'am. So she put it in your corsage when the florist brought it just before she left for the concert with Mr. Richard. My corsage? This way, yes, ma'am, the one you're wearing. Denise, your arm's bleeding. Oh, my. You must have scratched yourself. Scratched? Myself? Yes, I have. When did you do that? I don't know. It must have been... Marty? Well, that's a matter, ma'am. There is something wrong. Marty? Poison. Call a doctor. You know... Quick. Don't help her, Mr. Marty. Denise. Denise. Let that whistle be your signal for the signal oil program The Whistler each Sunday night at the same time. Brought to you by the Signal Oil Company, marketers of signal gasoline and motor oil, and fine-quality automotive accessories. Remember, if you would like the fun of having your friends hear a limerick of yours on The Whistler, the address to which to send it is Signal Oil Company, Los Angeles 55, California. 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Everyone talks about getting their dream jobs, but what does it take to get that dream job? In a religious society like Nigeria, some people resort to prayer, but did you know that sometimes the only reason you're not getting the job isn't because you don't have the credentials? Many times about how well you can defend your credentials through your presentation and communication skills during the interview. According to the National Bureau of Statistics, the rates of unemployment in Nigeria rose to 33.3% in December 2020 from a 27.1% in three months. Interviewphobia is a major issue that contributes to unemployment in the country.  An expert spoke to us about interviewphobia and how it has increased the rate of unemployment within the country. Okay, so I mentioned I struggled. I went to Lagoset University, Public University, nobody taught you any of these things. And so I thought that if I come to the interview space, I would do well because I know I'm good enough. But coming in, it was difficult. I got plenty of rejections and I made up my mind that if you can get past this thing, you would help other people who are also like you. And so sitting down in that space, I also see people like me and I feel for them. According to Student Graduate Report, more than 50% of graduates in Nigeria disclose their communication skill is the least skill the academic education prepared them with. Like we have a compulsory NYSC every year. I believe the government or the education assistance sector should do something like when they know somebody is in their final year, maybe they allow them to go through a month or two or they introduce a course and make it mandatory for them to be able to go out there and face the outside when it comes to interviews, when it comes to networking and all of that. I've seen super amazing, intelligent people, lost opportunities because they were not confident and those who were not so smart but have built their confidence are able to get the job and get these networks and get these opportunities. Especially when you come from a Yoruba or Yoruba family, where you don't have to look at your dad in the eye. You get that kind of thing. So you have to learn to look at people in the eye when you talk to them. It makes them believe that you are not up to something. You're not hiding anything in your cupboard. We're going to school or having to attend different different schools. The just teachers will only have syllabus on what they've been doing so far in past years and there's no like there's no trend of bringing in new things. So the next time you complain about not getting a job, think about how well your CV is prepared, assess your communication skills during the interview and think about how well you presented yourself.