there. Uh, we welcome to the red line show with myself, Steve, the Dean Williams and everybody. How is everybody doing now? Turn that down. And my boy, George Bruno, the man, white chocolate. How you doing, George? What's going on with your brother doing? Doing very good. It's a good night tonight. Yeah, it is a very, very great night. Now, George, can you talk a little bit? I got you.  Let's see. If you could, but yeah, we can, we can definitely hear you though. We definitely can hear you. How was that? Is that better? Yeah, that's that's better. Yeah, I can hear you. Uh, let me know guys, if y'all have any issues with them, we'll tell them, but guys, uh, we want to welcome you all to the show. Uh, Donovan is uh, taking care of some business and he will be off for a little while. So we'll be just kicking off shows right here, but what I want to say real quick before we get into the show, this show is being brought to you by tactical soap guys. Make sure y'all get your soap. 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And guys, like I say, guys in the chat room, uh, we will put the number out. Guys will have the number running if y'all want to call in. You can call in at five one five six oh five nine three seven three. That's five one five six oh five nine three seven three. Anytime that we get a super chat or something like this, uh, well, for instance, this kind of a question right here where you guys saying that we will pause and we will answer questions like that, but we have a very, very great show for you guys today. If y'all want to call in, we are talking about the dreaded friend zone, how it starts, where is it from and what can you do to avoid it? George, I want to start with you, my brother. Oh, well, hey, well, hey, George, hey, George's getting the smoke on. Oh, yeah. Hey, hey, hey, like all great men. He's relaxed. He's got a cigar. George, you Friday night, man. Friday night. Yeah. It's a Friday night. You always tell great stories when you smoking that cigar, man. I remember, uh, at the 21 convention, you passed out cigars and you just just had great stories, brother. Great stories, man. Got the pipe going tonight. Awesome, man. All right, George, talk to us about the friend zone, man. What is your take on the friend zone, man? Well, you know, it's a situation where there's two people, uh, one who has a romantic idea or a sexual interest in the other. Um, it's not reciprocated by the other person and it's pretty much generally considered to be an undesirable situation. Yeah, that's how that's how I would define it. Like a guy might say to me, you know, I whenever I meet a girl, I always end up in the friend zone and then and then I end up watching them pursue other guys. That's a great, uh, symptom of being in the friend zone. Um, there are several symptoms of friend zone, uh, of being in a friend zone and I hope to share some of those things with guys from my experience, uh, and coaching guys and when I was a younger guy, getting friend zoned, let's just give some symptoms. First of all, you're love sick. You're love sick.  It's not rational. There's nothing normal about it.  Another symptom of being in the friend zone is frustration because you can't be with that woman the way that you want to be with her and she's a mystery. She's perplexing.  Another symptom is you're speaking two different languages. Uh, people will text a woman will text you a heart and say things, say things like, love you, not I love you. Lovers say, I love you.   And what that is, that's a testimony and a kind of a symptom of your own loneliness and your desire to be in a relationship. And you are not in your right frame of mind when you are like that. You're blind to cues early on. Women make it very, very clear if they're interested in you and what what happens is because of your obsession and your needs that you bring into that friendship, you're expecting her to love you the way that you want, desire, or need to be loved. Uh, another symptom would be if you have other girlfriends, she doesn't mind. If a girl is into you, she's going to exhibit a certain amount of jealousy. I had a girl tell me once, you are now off the market. You're not to date anyone else. And that was a sign that she was into me. If you say something like, oh, I went out with Sally the other night and went out with the girls and went dancing or did this and that and she's like, oh, did you have fun? Like, if she doesn't exhibit any jealousy over that, if she says, oh, that's cool. Good for you. You're in the friend zone. All right.  She doesn't make you weak. The right woman, and that's a whole different episode of the right woman, but the woman that's into you makes you strong. The woman that you're in the friend zone with makes you weak. You don't want to be weak. She makes you look like a friend in public. You're out in the movies. You're out at a theater. You're at a bar.  She's treating them like a friend, not like a lover. She makes it very clear to other men that are in that public venue that you are not her boyfriend. So when other guys look at you as a couple, they they think, oh they're just friends. They're not, they're not girlfriend and boyfriend. She doesn't belong to him because if she belonged to him, she would be leaning into him. She would be having the body language and if if it's true that body language is over 90 percent of our communication. Uh, friend, the friend zone, uh, I would say half of the friend zone is identified by body language. The other half of friend zone is through her language. Uh, another symptom of friend zone might be she uses your male brain to figure out how to get the guy that she really wants. When she says, well, you as a guy, what do you think of, you know, like she's trying to find a shortcut or a life hack to, to being attractive or finding other men and she's using your, what I would call your man brain to get advice from because you represent men to her. Right. And then finally, if she consults with you about her hair, her nails, her fashion, her shoes, something that she should do with a girlfriend or family, someone of the same sex, you are in the friend zone. Yeah, I, I, for a lot of guys out there, uh, I think they don't realize that they come in doing the worst thing that I think a guy can do and that is trying to be liked by the woman. And I think instead of trying to build attraction, they think that in order to get her, I've got to get her to like me. And when guys do that, uh, when they out there trying to get women to like them, what happens is they begin to do a process of behaviors. Uh, they can't say no to a woman. They are always available for her. They'll drop everything they're doing just to be around her. Uh, these guys out there will always, uh, like I say, do anything for, but also there are certain things that women are always going to look for. A woman cannot sleep with every guy in the world, gentlemen. And what she does is she looks for certain behaviors in you. If there is no assertiveness in you, if all you are, if you have nervousness, you're nervous, you don't know how to speak, uh, speak without stuttering when she sees that you have anxiety, she doesn't really want somebody like that.  Yeah, all, all these things that are, that are happening and going on that she will love to do. And the problem is, um, a lot of you guys don't even realize what's going on, um, because there are certain things like number one, you're paying her too much attention, okay? Meaning that you wait, you wait for her to come online and you automatically want to talk to her. You're always sitting around, like I say, the shoulder, you're listening to her problems. And not only trying to listen to her problems, you're trying to solve her problems.  I can't stand George Bruno. All he does is smoke that pipe. I can't stand him, but I can't stop seeing him. Then all of a sudden you try to be Mr. Fix It, like her father. Well, you need to stay away from George. George has other women and George does this and you don't need to be with someone like that. What you do is you push her to see you more like a brother. Another thing that you do is, is that you're always being too generous towards her. Anytime she needs something, you are always there. Mr. Fix It, around when Halloween pops up, you'll be putting up her Halloween lights. If she has something broken in her house, you'll be the first one over there to fix it because you think that, okay, we have been hanging out for five years, four months, three weeks, 12 hours and 47 minutes and today is going to be my day. I get to have her or she is going to like me. But here's the thing, you are always trying to hard as well. And the thing is, is that women don't like individuals that tries. There are certain things she wants and she knows George when it comes to a real man that real men, we don't, I don't believe, like I say, for me, George, and I'm going to talk to you, I've never had a woman friend, man. Listen, I've had women acquaintances, you know when I'm at work, hey Betty, how's your day? Hey Julie, how was your day? But outside of that, I've never been around a beautiful woman that I would just hang out with, George would say you sir. Yeah, there's a certain amount of danger. I had a I had a woman say to me once, we were talking and she says to me, you're dangerous. I said, what do you mean dangerous? Which basically meant I could very easily have sex with you. If she views you as a safe guy, think about it like oh you're one of the safe ones. You're one of the men that I can talk to. You're not always trying to get down my, you know, if just think of all the synonyms for the word safe, you can recognize the friend zone immediately if she starts referring to you as safe or you're not a threat. What you want to be is a threat, not a physical threat. I don't mean violence in that way, but what you want to do, she will tell you if you are breaking down her defenses and her walls, or she will literally break down those walls all by herself. Take them down and allow you in, right in through the front door. Oh absolutely George, absolutely. Guys, I want to call in<PHONE_NUMBER>. That's<PHONE_NUMBER>. Guys, don't forget we are being brought to you by the 21 convention guys. Make sure y'all get your tickets as soon as possible. It's going to be a hot lineup of individuals there. But yeah, and guys, what we want to do in this thing guys, we're not telling you to be mean to women. That's not how to not get out of the front door.  We're not telling you to pretend to be somebody you're not. But what we're saying is, is that these women notice certain behaviors in a person that will make her give make her give herself a determination George of what she wants to do. And I'll give you all an example. Since George is here, I'm going to use George as my, he's not a dummy, but my crash test dummy. I'm going to use George as my man here. George, see a lot of you guys have never met George. But when you meet George, George is laid back. You know what that tells a woman? He's got options. George doesn't make it about sex. You know what it tells a woman? That he's the kind of man that has direction. He's the kind of man that will listen to understand. He's the kind of man that sees the big picture. He's the kind of man that is a risk taker and is not fearless. But with that being said, when George talks to a woman, he makes her feel key word, gentlemen. He makes her feel like, wow, who is this guy? And what do I have to do to get to know him better? And that's why when I tell you George is smoother than the other side of pillow, that kind of a man, that's what I mean. And that's what a woman sees. A woman will not friend zone a man like George. Why? Because she knows George doesn't do that friend zone thing. But George, I don't want to speak for you, but that's what I see when I've met you, man. What say you, sir? Yeah, I make it very clear that I'm not safe. I'm not the safe guy. I'm going to use language that's different than the language everybody else uses. I think there's a certain amount of peril and threat and danger that turns her on. You see on many dating sites, women say they want a sapio file, which means that they love intelligence. That right there, as soon as a man sees that, he needs to know that she's putting up her defenses. She's turned on not by intelligence. She is moved by emotions. That's telling you that she's over-emotional. Many times on dating sites, if you have to describe yourself in 500 words or less in a profile, many times women will say the opposite, not interested in a hookup. Usually that means I'm ready to rock at any time. Absolutely. And you know it's amazing. It's the opposite. There's a paradox, I call it paradoxical intention. It's the opposite. It's the opposite. Now what someone says about themselves is so different than how they act. If you give somebody a chance to describe themselves, they're going to try to use the highest and best words that they can. But nothing, absolutely, and I've talked to many, many women about this and dated many women who, and I said how quick on a date when you meet men, how fast do you know? She says I know right away. Really? I said really? She says, oh I know right away. It doesn't build. So no matter how much he talks, no matter what he orders for dinner, no matter how the night's going, she goes nope, I can tell right away if I'm going to be kissing that man, if I'm going to let him near me, she knows it right away. Yes, sir. But in her dating profile, she said she loves a man who's intelligent, knows how to read, loves museums. Yeah, okay, right. Absolutely. We have a call, George, and then we have a call in line real quick. And guys, if you want to call in, you can call in at<PHONE_NUMBER>. Also, super chats. I'm looking at the chat room. If you have a question in there, we will also be able to help you out with this is what this is for. This is for you guys who have problems and issues in relationships. Area code 918. What's your name? What's your question, sir? What's up? We're at a milestone stream. Yes, sir. What's going on? Hello. So my name is Mike Burton. And so I kind of wanted to talk about who you think is the better fighter. Like, I want to tell you about my top five best boxers, you know? Okay, Mike. Mike. Mike. He's playing. No, no, no. Well, Mike. Mike. I want everybody to hear this.  Pick up your balls. Pick your spine up and learn how to talk like a man and then call back.  Thank you. Cakes, man. But that's what I'm saying, George. It's a problem. This is y'all, y'all hear him in his voice. Now I could have kept on everybody, but this is what y'all need to hear. You don't think this is what women hear from the majority of you guys. I know a lot of y'all guys might be laughing at that guy right now. But don't think she doesn't hear that from you guys. Someone that can't even form a sentence without pausing, stuttering. There was no bass in his voice. There was no thunder in his voice.  What say you, George? Well, yesterday I cut the hair of a guy who went on a first date with a girl and they went out to like a diner kind of thing, not an expensive, not an expensive restaurant. It was something that probably would cost 20, 25 bucks for both of them, you know, where they get soup and sandwich or a salad and sandwich. And he purposely got quiet and she looked at him, he made eye contact with her and she says, she goes, what? She goes, what are you thinking?  But I will tell you that he saved himself. You know, I was talking to him about this and he was sharing this with me. I don't counsel men like that to go down that road. But I said, do you realize what you did? You were very direct with her and there are other guys that she's dating that probably have taken her out for five dinners and are happy just to get a kiss at the end of the night and you told her, I'm feeling kind of frisky right now. She knew exactly what that meant and he got what he was going for and he was very, very, he didn't play around about it. So what happened was he doesn't feel the need to win her over with multiple dates. He was, his purpose for going out was to potentially score sexually with her, to have sexual relations with her before the end of the evening and he got it. And and she was one of those that says, you know, I never do this on the first date and all this kind of stuff and that's, you know, whatever. Many guys have heard that and he avoided getting friendzoned because part of a first date when you date people online is so so have you met anyone here? Have you met many people? Oh, yeah, I've met a lot of nice guys. That's the first clue that you should not be another one of those guys. Just a thought. No, absolutely. And guys, I want to call in<PHONE_NUMBER>. And if you have a question, go ahead and post it. We will also answer especially a super chat. The thing is that we're trying to get y'all guys to understand is and I've been talking about it all last week. School is starting all over the world for a lot of young guys. You get a brand new batch of women out there. But within that batch what you what you guys need to understand and there there are brand new women going into the world that are maybe not in college but she's legal now and she's starting her own life and she's out in the world. What a lot of you guys need to understand is that a lot of these women have our grandmasters in friendzone 101 because all through high school that is all they have been doing to guys. But there are characteristics that they look for now and you guys to see where you're going to get because like George is saying when a woman is a see when a woman is attracted to you even though she might not like George's cigar even though she can't stand George's nice hat that he has on guess what she still has to go see him. She wants to see him. She wants to be with him. George doesn't have to buy her a drink unless he wants to buy her drink. George doesn't have to make her take her out to dinner because George has moved enough to take to the house and make dinner at his place but that's just some smooth stuff but she doesn't care what she would love to do is she would bend over backwards and she will probably bring something to his place just to spend time with him because women are fascinated by men gentlemen. They're fascinated by the assertiveness of a man. They're fascinated by the dominance that they hear in his voice. That's why that caller I was saying you can tell that that guy is having problems with women but for a lot of you guys out there unfortunately in her ears and her eyes that's how she sees a majority of you guys out there who are trying to manipulate her trying to lie trying to deceive these women are smart and these women keep their ears to the ground but you have to understand every day she is being hit on either online walking down the street going to work or through her office she was running into men after men after men and all she's trying to do is determine where you going to fall at in her category George would say you sir. Yeah I mean most women are being you know if a woman is acceptable and looks she's getting hit on I used to walk through you know if I was walking through a mall and I saw a woman that was you know obese and unattractive I used to think to myself there's somebody somewhere in the world that's going to look at her and say that is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen and sometimes you look at like people that are physically unappealing to you and you go gosh how could anyone ever well there might be someone somewhere that really likes that person loves that person considers them attractive like you know I life is funny like that I mean they say there's a lid for every pot and that's you know and that's cool but um most women most women are getting hit on usually every day something or getting the eyeball you know whether she's pumping gas and some dude is at pumping gas across the way from her just checking her out and then she you know locks eyes with them depending on where she's at in life if she's happily married if she's on her way somewhere if she has kids in car seats you know in the back of that car depending on where she's at she's going to respond appropriately if she has a need in her life we're talking about the needs that men have these unconscious needs that are just below the surface the need for approval from a female the need for affection the need for closeness the need for pseudo love the need for love ya the need for texting little hearts to one another I think depending where she's at she will respond accordingly so I don't think a man can win a woman over I think a lot of it has to do with how ready, willing, and able the woman is where she is in her life I know the woman in my life is very dedicated to me right now and is very happy to say that she's taken and that's cool that's fine but I also realize that you know she's a big girl and she doesn't want a daddy looking over her shoulder and I'm not going to dominate her and all all leaders and I consider myself a leader because I believe men are the leaders in relationships the best leaders have volunteers if she's not voluntarily in your life if you have to constantly juggle and perform stunts and tricks to win her over then she really doesn't belong to you she needs to be voluntarily yours and willfully give herself up to you with absolutely no limitations no regards and a woman who hesitates like that is not yours that's just a fact and many men are blind because they have needs they need to be loved they need to they're filling something that was not provided for them when they were younger there's nothing there's nothing stronger and more dangerous than a content man a man with options well um the thing is I don't know I see captain America captain had a good question I would put that in the second but I don't think guys understand this and somebody did make a thing I don't care with women one period but that's why you lose with women because you got to learn how to listen with your ears and listen with your eyes and to understand that there are two types of like when you're in the friend zone she feels safe with you but then there's a special kind of safe she is when she's around a real man and a lot of you guys don't even know that you guys this is to see the problem with a lot of you guys is you don't know it all and nor will you ever take time to learn the thing that you're trying to go after to even see where you're at you know there's some women out there that if she dresses in front of you and all that other stuff don't think that she's doing it because she's interested in you she's doing it because you feel safe you're not a threat in a sexual way you're somebody like her kid sister her gay best friend or somebody that she can just walk around in her underwear and bra and not even worry but then there's that other feel safe when she's around a man where when she's putting something on she's asking George how do I look in this George does this make my butt look big George is this bra too small for my breath those are things that see a lot of you guys don't hear there's a lot of y'all guys and it's sad that some of you guys out there don't even want to learn about the thing you want to go after nobody says you have to give in to what a woman wants but you've got to learn women and learn that women are unique and women are different and not everyone is the same but if you choose to keep your like eyes closed and ears closed then of course what use are you going to be in her why would she invest her body into you when she can't even get it what's the return on her investment but from getting with you someone that's going to handcuff her someone that's going to helicopter someone that's going to always be insecure someone's going to be snooping through her clothes through her telephone wondering what she's doing all day night they don't want that but you're a nice person and because you're a nice person sure we can be the best of friends just like girlfriends you can be my girlfriend and that's how they look at some of you guys out there but let me go ahead and pop this up because someone asked a good question George I wanted you to answer it first and it says what should you do if a woman doesn't know what they want with you George or how would you answer that one sir and I'll go after you well first of all how would you know that you know if she says I don't I don't know what I want wrong answer what what she needs to say is I want you and make it very clear that she wants you if she doesn't know if she says that she doesn't know what she wants while she's in your presence guess what that means she doesn't want you but because of your unmet needs you have a desire to work for her or you have a desire to labor for her you have a desire to be Sherlock Holmes and figure out that mystery women are not the mysterious creatures that many men think they are the right you need the right combination you need the right chemistry you need to say the right words you need to stand a certain way you need to look a certain way none of that is true if she's interested she will make it very very clear now this is what you can do you can be you can prompt her to say that she wants you you don't have to come right out and say do you want me ask her what what do you want what do you want do you know what you want you don't and don't make it about you if it's about if if it's if you are what she wants she'll make it very clear yeah you know what George and for you America the thing is George is right on this man this is a thing when you if a woman's saying that to you then she really doesn't want you at all and she's just trying to figure out what now I'm not saying all women use but some women have uses for you let's just put it that way my question is and the reason why she doesn't know what she wants is because she knows that you're willing to give her your time you're always going to be available in her eyes or and and I would love for you to call in because I will ask you how did you even approach her what did you say to her when you met her how long have you been texting her have you been on a date yet have you even set up a date I mean there are guys now that are telling y'all guys to wait to meet a chick don't talk to her at all until the date I don't know what your situation is so America if you can if you can call in we would have yeah we'll appreciate it because I would need to know a little bit more because for a lot of guys out there you won't understand that the way you start is going to be probably the way you finish with them because they don't like weakness and I'm not saying how you come as weakness but we've got to peel back the layers because this is what this show does the rabbit group and its people we just don't do things on a surface level call in let's talk we can peel back the layers and see where you're at and see if we can fix this we want to give shout out to hey down with my dog 1976 $5 tip jar appreciate that man much love to you man and guys if y'all want to call in y'all can call in at<PHONE_NUMBER> and we are talking about the friends of them but yeah if y'all want to call in call in if y'all have any good questions if y'all are asking questions but we're going to only answer the ones that are important man and and for those and guys please I know some of y'all are trying to give advice but some of the advice that some of y'all are giving in this chat room and you know who you are will be more detrimental to men than helping them so please be careful about the advice you give if you don't have when and you don't have options because all you're doing is telling guys the wrong information but yeah but back to the the friend zone and all that other stuff like we were talking about and I'm here with myself with my dog George Bruno we're here being brought to you by tactical so and the 21 convention you have to understand the friends to me George the friend zone with the woman doesn't start when he first meets her I believe how he feels about himself I mean for a lot of you guys you meet a woman or you see a woman and every day and every week and every month you just look at her for far trying to do the one thing that there is no such thing of and that is waiting for the perfect moment to say something I know now is not the time I'm going to wait I'm going to wait I'm going to wait and then when you finally do that perfect moment George and she says I got a boyfriend or she says to you well why didn't you say something before then you're either mad at her or you get mad at yourself and I just want to say this before I throw you George I always tell guys always see the thing I always do is take things to nature George that's all I do because nature is nature nature doesn't tweet Instagram or Facebook it's just nature and when a lion captures a zebra he does not leave that carcass in the middle of the Serengeti around all the other creatures out there the other predators thinking that I can walk away from this carcass come back a week later and it's still going to be there it doesn't work that way and the thing that these women notice about you guys is she knows that you like her because she notices you looking at her a certain way and she's saying okay is he going to say something or is he going to stare at me like a weird creepy guy that's going to have chloroform duct tape and rope and he's going to do they think that and I'm hey George you know what I'm talking about they and y'all don't realize that George you got the board that's funny yeah I this you know a lot of guys just don't know what to do I've always said this you know we we move in the direction and I learned this my god 35 years ago you move in the direction of your most dominant thoughts the stuff that you think about your behavior is consistent with your thoughts let's get real if you think you're a winner you're going to act like a winner you're going to stand up straight you're going to talk like a winner if you feel like a loser if you feel like you're lacking if you feel like you're incomplete you're going to act that way that and what's going to happen is that's going to no matter how you act no matter what kind of mask you put on no matter what dating coaches you talk to no matter what books you read or what channels on YouTube you watch that stuff is going to come out there's no there's no technique or tactic that's going to seduce a woman women don't respond to tactics they respond to the man they respond to the man so what I recommend is direct speech clear speech make it very clear men who are friendzoned are very ambiguous they're wishy washy in their words they're not straight talkers another great thing a guy can do to not get friendzoned or if he's already in a friendzone one of the things he can do is make sure that he doesn't spend a lot of time with the woman you have to create a little space in between you are not I hate to say the phrase you're not her girlfriend because that gets thrown around a lot but the extended time that you spend together shouldn't happen every healthy relationship doesn't matter what that relationship is doesn't matter what it is you can wear out your welcome so you need to create a little bit of space a little breathing space and usually breathing space will either ignite her desire or extinguish her desire so if you stop talking to her and she's not texting you or calling you and saying where you been so I haven't heard from you what's going on did I do something wrong did I say something wrong she needs to be responding like that if and if she is that means that you might have touched her heart or not distance and quiet ignites desire in the right woman she needs to know and you need to stand firm on this that you are not shoulder boy you are not a shoulder to cry on although you think that that's a technique that's going to bring her close that's a job for the same sex friend or the family member that's not your job yes you know George time is something I hate to waste and I tell you guys all the time y'all waste time all the time with women you know you meet a woman you know you want to get to know her better but yet you don't even do the thing that you want to do instead you go totally opposite and go on excuse me go in the opposite direction if you want to get to know her better and now listen guys and remember this is not porn this is not I can just walk up to a woman and say hey how you doing and she's going to rip her clothes off it doesn't work that way gentlemen so y'all got to start getting that stuff out of your head thinking that life is porn it doesn't work that way but with a problem with y'all guys y'all sit around and when you get the opportunity you waste it why are you talking to her about her day that's her girlfriend's job why are you asking her how was traffic that's her girlfriend's job to answer so when you begin to ask those kinds of questions she begins to see you as a caring thoughtful brother someone that is sweet and kind because let me tell you something I cannot say kill words for me George is when they say that yeah they I am sweet but I'm talking about we first meet they say oh you're sweet and you're kind and you're thoughtful and you listen and you're and you're such a great guy any woman would be happy to be with a guy like you if you hear that guys you are not close to getting that woman I'm not saying that she's got to be mad and angry at you and things like that what I'm saying is is that there is certain things in the conversations that we have I don't want to waste my time when I meet you I'm letting you know I want to take you out when I meet you when I meet you I'm letting you know why I came over there ask yourselves the question how many of you guys even do that you're interested in her and yet you won't even tell her why you're talking to her you're automatically assuming that she knows that you think that she likes you just because you're hanging out with her don't assume anything like in a 21 convention you've got to be Star Trek you know back in the oh the old Star Trek back in the 60s I think late 70s wherever boldly go where no man is gone before because the key thing is is most of you guys won't even go out your doorstep to talk to a woman more or less tell her what's on your mind and I'm not saying oh girl I just want to put your face in the pillow type things you got to talk to a woman see any guy out there who doesn't want to learn about a woman about about a woman then you're missing out on something that's a great chess player you're missing out on somebody that's smart enough to manipulate you and getting what you want you're missing out on somebody that you know what I cannot you don't have to learn from her but you can observe her behaviors and see if she's playing games with you because a lot of you guys understand they will keep you around like prisoners and how will they do it a touch on your shoulder a hug rubbing the side of your face that's all you get and you're going to think you won the lottery but she's going to use those tactics to keep you right where you're at George would say you sir I say you got to penetrate her mind before you penetrate her body all right I've got a question right here yeah it says uh how can guys get rid of that nice guy syndrome because it rolls over in your relationships with women they sniff beta what but sometimes Matt the answer is in the question you this well for me and I I don't want to speak for George I'll speak for me and I keep telling you guys all the time this thing has nothing to do with women this whole thing has everything to do with you if she smells beta of course because when two individuals come together there's a top and a bottom that's it there's either going to be there's going to be a leader and there's going to be a follower and nine times out of ten whoever is more emotionally invested is going to be the follower but and with with a lot of you guys that's how it works now when women meet someone like a George that kind of individual she will follow because she will do the thing that they do in nature when they get around real men and that cement they do it in nature all the time it doesn't matter what creature mammal or insect it is when they determine the man the alpha they will submit but you're asking how do they get how do you get rid of the nice guy syndrome don't wait wait wait let me say something real quick George don't get rid of your nice guy I don't know what let me explain some to y'all guys I am a nice guy I am a geek I'm a nerd hell I even told you I watch SpongeBob sometimes when I'm not doing anything I'm a big kid but I am a nice guy but the difference between me and you is that I can do the thing that you guys can't do and that is say no y'all can't be transparent y'all are not clear and concise and you're not impactful in your conversations or what you do in your life I don't want you to get rid of your nice guy I don't want you to you don't have to be mean you can you can be nice to women and George I don't I think they see I think see George I keep telling people we gotta come up with a name for us George because we are the last of our kind because we came before the internet so you know what I mean we I don't know what we need to call ourselves but these young boys are getting so much bad information because there's nothing wrong with being nice we're saying don't get walked over we're saying have a backbone balls and a standard you can be nice George is a nice man George doesn't walk around saying I'm George Bruno we get out of my way no George is one of the nicest people I know but you know what you want to know what makes George a man there's several things to keep telling y'all the things that make George a man George is assertive George likes to succeed George gets things done George acts decisively George drives results George takes risks George is fearless but guess what he's also a nice guy and I don't want y'all to think that being nice is weak it's weak when you begin to submit and give your respect away like Halloween candy would say you George yeah I I tell guys don't race ahead in your head don't have a relationship with her in your head before you actually have a real relationship with her and again that stems from your unmet needs and what you what you desire or what you never got in your life and if you race ahead rather than take it as it is enjoy it if it's love it's going to unfold and kind of bloom like a flower if it's not then there's nothing you're gonna do to make that happen don't have a relationship with that woman in your head before you have a relationship in real life in your mind you might think you have a relationship with her because you're spending time with her logically you're thinking my gosh I spend the best nights of the week with her the my my best hours she must like me don't come to those conclusions if someone likes you they're gonna make it very very clear I always tell guys you need to find a beautiful distraction somehow that could be another woman that's fine yes or it could be a hobby here it is a Friday night what the hell am I doing home on a Friday night this is my night this is one of the only nights that I get a chance to like be by myself you know I fire up a pipe or a cigar I make myself a drink I watch something on Netflix I'll just sit quietly and read a book I actually get a decent night's sleep because I work on Saturday mornings and do I have options absolutely could I go out tonight if I want to sure absolutely but when I'm done here I'm probably just gonna smoke a pipe maybe have a second drink who knows I will go in the house because I'm outside right now I'll go in the house take a cool shower cool off because it's hot as hell here right now cool off lower my core body temperature fluff up my pillows get a great night's sleep I'll be up at four thirty five o'clock in the morning ready to start my day and have a magnificent Saturday so for me a beautiful distraction means a night a nice free night to myself I don't need to fill every waking moment with another human being there's times where I just really enjoy my pets and have a good time and sit on the couch and shake the little jar and say who wants treats and they all come running in and I just have a good time with my pets that's it you know another thing a guy could do is spend time with with others that's that's a remedy for being in the friend zone getting out of the friend zone or not getting into it in the first place I mean the best thing you can do is not get into it in the first place but if you find yourself already into it spending time with other people don't if you think that only one person can meet all your needs you're living a delusional life oh boy oh boy I had to post this I keep telling you Russell I would love for you to call in because I want you to explain to me that false statement I'm just posting right now this is right there if you act see here let me say something let me let me say it again guys if you act let me tell y'all something a man does not act and that's the problem see think about the game gentlemen it's either on you or in you and when it's on you that means you pretend to be something that you're not thinking that she doesn't see through your bullshit I want you to call in Russell because I'd like to challenge you on that false message that you said you want to know why she feels like I don't care about her because honestly I really don't care about her because I don't know her well enough to care about her and that means she's got to prove herself to me but one thing I'm not going to do nor I'm not on this show I'm not going to tell you I'm not going to have y'all guys give bad information I'm going to call you out on that you do not act this is not a Oscar winning performance this is why y'all lose because you can't even stand on your own principles see see Mr. Moore if you had principles narratives laws rules and codes you wouldn't have to act anything because you can stand on those things and that is going to make you an asshole that's going to make her want you but when you try to pretend how many times do I tell you guys you cannot manipulate a manipulative woman that thrives on deception manipulation and lies don't listen I had to post that because that is bad information do not act anything and that's your problem guys because when you want to act then that means you want to play the game and then when you play the game believe me you're not going to win and the game is going to end up you buying bartering begging being a shoulder a chauffeur and buying her things and you're not going to have any experience with it now getting back to what uh you were saying I wanted to say something on uh say something on what you were saying George and I want to say about the nice thing you guys don't understand how many of you guys out there are romantic how many of you guys out there are sensual sexual flirty how many of you guys are doing those things and then you wonder why she doesn't want to be and you remember guys crayons out she will only invest in somebody that's going to give her a return on her investment she is and when I say invest her body and her mind that's what she's going to invest George we got a call let's bring that call in but George did you want to say something real quick before we bring the call in no you can bring the call in all right let's bring the call in this is like maybe Virginia seven seven five seven seven five what's your name what's your question what's up yeah this is uh my name is Donovan I'm in Philly how can we help what's your question brother yeah this is Donovan Steve oh Donovan oh sure yeah yeah how you doing man what's good man what's up not not too much man um yeah yeah I was just um managed to uh you know break away a little bit to uh to listen in um I guess for the guy who said uh you know by not you know acting like you don't care yes it'll be five times more attractive to women and listen we all know that that's grossly incorrect but I'm not gonna I'm not gonna be too hard on guys like that because it's obvious that he's new he's he's sort of new to the red pill right because that's those are the same things I thought I thought okay I'm new to the red pill all women are you know we all we know that all women are like that but that doesn't mean that they're all the same right women are you know women all operate with the same sort of imperatives but they all operate they all they all do things differently this doesn't mean that they're not quote unquote like that but the point is is that you don't really need to act like you don't care right because when you have a life of your own when you have goals when you have things that you're working toward you're going to be you're going to be really busy like if you're if you're working on your business restoring cars physical fitness whatever it is that you're doing if you don't but I guess by virtue of you just being busy it's going to see it's not going to seem like you don't care it's just it just shows the one that you have other things going on yes so you don't have to act like you don't care yeah right it's not about acting like you don't care it's just about having other things going on in your life because if a woman has too much access to you like if if if you're always around or if she calls you and you always call right back or she texts you and people you know you always fix back she thinks that she is the only thing in your life and it's obvious that that she is if that's the case but women like to know and if this is subconsciously women don't think about this they don't think about this consciously subconsciously women like men who have other things going on other than them women don't want to be women don't want to be the center of your universe they want to be a part of your universe and if you're out building your universe you're not going to have time to be up her ass all the time ergo it gives off the impression that you quote-unquote don't care so to the guy that made that comment in the chat just understand that's a hundred percent wrong i understand where you're coming from so instead of pretending you don't care how about picking up other productive hobbies how about having other shit going on in your life other than chasing pussy all day at that point because again it's just like you always say this to me that's not about women it's about yourself so if you have other shit going on women are going to be more attracted to you by virtue of you having other things going on now she'll tell all her friends well he just acts like he doesn't care but what's really happening is that you just have other shit going on i'll get to you when i get to you you're you can never make a woman the most important thing in your life because at that point that's when it appears that you care too much when when a woman that you are pursuing is not the most important thing in your life you give her the impression ever that you have other things going on not that you quote unquote don't care so whatever that guy's name was in the chat just kind of try to pull back you know let's let's let's stop listening to the meathead you know red pill podcast oh bitches ain't shit no i want to do as fucking fart and eat listen i get it we all listen when i joined the red pill i was all piffin when i was the same way but it took me a while to figure out just like steve said it took me a while to figure out that the red pill isn't about women at all it's really about developing yourself and that women just like you say steve they're merely a perk because they know you have other things going on absolutely all right would you like to stay on with a guy the call that's all i got steve all right thank you don't appreciate you man hey we know you're busy and everything but whenever you okay thanks donovan we miss you brother much love brother all right man all right all right george we got two calls in a queue we got area code 909 then 508 in that order 909 you're up first george i'll let you answer question 909 which question statement what's up hey this is american captain um 2010 you already saw my question from before um pretty much she's saying that she doesn't know what she wants with me so i don't i don't know what to do from here really i don't um as of right now i stopped talking to her because i just didn't i just didn't want to fuck with it anymore i felt like she was wasting my time well george i'll let you go first but i got something to say to george you you can take it first sir well i i think you did the right thing um do it not out of spite for her but out of love for yourself you you stopped eating food with high fructose corn syrup you stopped eating things with soy you stopped eating a shit hey wait i don't think i don't think you can hear you george you got to talk i think you're i can't hear anything yeah yeah george yeah yeah yeah mike george you got to come talk a little bit louder because yeah you sound all right can you hear me now i hear nothing can you hear him now can you hear me now no no we can't hear you now okay i didn't i didn't do anything no yeah we can hear i can hear you but i don't think they can hear because it's you're still low your volume is still low for some reason well we can you hear the chat room can hear you i don't think the caller can hear you that's all all right caller uh i don't know uh let me uh hold on wait okay yeah all right well yeah he can hear you now george go ahead talk he can let you all right all right okay wait america can you turn that down yeah sorry that's a good idea um yeah i can't hear him at all from the call so i don't know what to do with this well okay all right well i'm okay i'm gonna let me answer you real quickly i'm gonna let george answer on the on the oh george let okay look okay go ahead and i'll mute you i'm gonna mute the phone on you right now i'm gonna let george talk turn on your computer see it's always been solved things i'm gonna mute you here turn the computer on let george talk and then i'll come in so i'll mute you now george go ahead and talk five away we'll bring you in one second george you have the floor yeah if you stop talking to her because of love for yourself rather than spite for her you're not punishing her you cease communicating with her because you love yourself because you do things for you you don't get involved in activity the reason why you might not do drugs the reason why you don't drink anything with high fructose corn syrup or soy in it is because you care for yourself many times you need to exercise the same the same things that you exercise as far as your nutrition is concerned all of a sudden men become stupid when it becomes a relationship you don't eat things that aren't good for you you don't hang out with people that aren't good for you utilize the same mentality and principles when dealing with people people are supposed to make you happy not frustrated train yourself to not be addicted to people who don't like you you might be addicted to disappointment i want you to be addicted to encouragement people that boring the best out of you people who draw the man the warrior the creative man out of you rather than reject you you're setting yourself up for rejection when you spend time with somebody who doesn't know what they want if you know what you want and make it clear then all of your actions will be moving you in the direction of those goals yes like i i i'm interested in being married again i've been divorced and single for 15 years i never thought i would say that again i thought i was going to be single for the rest of my life and i'm actually entertaining the thought of maybe spending the rest of my life with somebody and moving in that direction so all of my actions are moving me in the direction of permanence putting on blinders i'm actually spending time significant time with the person what's happening is i'm moving in the direction of my goals if i didn't feel like this person was reciprocating to me i'd get out of dodge i would be out i wouldn't i wouldn't be there trying to win them over like i said a good leader has volunteers people that willingly come to them if she's not willingly volunteering her love her heart herself her essence to you then you are not the leader for her and you just need to accept that and move on okay 909 are you there now nine are you there you can meet you now now you're there yeah i'm here hello hey so hello guys are five away we bring you one second not on a magic question how long have you been quote unquote messaging and texting her for talking we've been talking for a month now it's been about a month a month on the 13th okay big dog that's three that's three weeks and really four days too long why haven't you have you asked her out have you have you told her that you yeah i've been on a date already oh you already know i did right when i yeah i took your advice on the approaching boot camp right okay that's as you said when it comes to that okay so you went out i got the date early on so the date happens right right when i met her pretty much i met online though so then would you say maybe the date didn't go as well as you thought it did then no the date went excellent oh well then i feel maybe it was great wow congratulations okay then somewhere along the line thank you she came up and said she didn't know what she wanted then that's where you gotta throw her back or say hey listen just send her a message listen i don't want you to listen and this is no knock or no disrespect and i'm not saying this about you don't do what women do women just stop talking yeah you know what you let her know listen the last thing i want to do is waste your time of my time when you find out and know what you want get back with me other than that take care and leave it just like that man why because you still have the high ground that's what men do we don't sit around and wait for life to happen to us you don't do that don't play defense play office just as you approach her if she doesn't know what she wants acknowledge that she doesn't know what she wants but let her know the last thing i want to do is waste my time and your time so when you know what you want get back with me why because most guys don't talk that way to women you know what they do 909 they just stop talking to them see then they're like oh well okay so do that let us know what happened because we got to grab this other call but do that okay my my friend thank you i appreciate it all right much loved hey hey hey eyes forward baby good i'm proud of you man good job respect all right brother pull you back in area code 508 what's your name what's your question what's up hey how's it going guys how you doing i'm 508 i'm the guy that type that if you act as if you're not interested in the girl she's going to be five times more attracted to you and i just wanted to take a second and explain what where i'm coming from here absolutely what donovan said what you said is absolutely the best way to be it's better to not have to act of course it's much better to have three or four girls facing you at all times so that you don't have to act but my advice is for these new guys into the game and these blue pill guys who were taught to put the woman first and take her out and buy the meal and paul her every night it's for those guys okay what you're talking about you're talking about a guy with like level five game i'm talking about the guys with like level one level two games no sir yes sir no sir let me explain why where you're wrong at see this is your problem that's who every man has to start off learning the thing called the truth the truth that's the problem nowadays y'all want to soften up the blow everybody's a winner let me let me let me let me give you a soft picture of the real world that's not how you're supposed to do i never no hold on let me finish you put the words in my mouth hold on sir hold on you put the words in my mouth i never said that wait wait i'm explaining where you're why i'm saying you did say where you're saying that because you know what i'm making you're making a straw man you're making a straw man out sir wait please please i'm gonna let you on i'm talking do not interrupt me what i'm saying to you is just because these guys come from a blue or orange or green i don't care what peel they come from they need to learn the truth from the beginning they're not you don't if you teach these guys to start lying then you are doing them a disservice because men don't lie period i don't care where they came from they need to know the harsh reality of the world young man you are doing a disservice to somebody new telling them to pretend and act because you know what happens they're not a prepared for the woman that knows they're pretending and acting they're not prepared for the woman that's going to use and manipulate them to a point where they might do something bad to themselves or somebody else because they thought i will i'm new to this so let me start off lying first men don't lie that's and i'm opening it up for you let you talk because i don't want you to feel that i'm being rude that's like a lion teaching his cubs how to be a duck and then once he landed how to quack and swim in the water then they're gonna say well now you're level five let me teach you how to hunt like a lion life doesn't work that way in nature man and that's what i want to say now george do you have something to say about that real quick before i bring him on yeah you know when i was younger i used to say this there's three things that get a woman and this is back from my player days and i don't coming from decades of being a player even though i don't look like a player the gray hair makes me look like an old man but when i when i was a younger handsome guy now i'm like an older gray guy the same principles still apply but when i was younger it was always i always said three things it was scarcity indifference and dread or what you need to generate manufacture orchestrate constantly it's like a little game and i'm just like so tired of it and i found that when i was direct with my intentions right from the get go yes you can that women you can get through the ones that are serious or not yes so the woman that i have in my life right now literally no scarcity no indifference no dread she knows i love her she knows i care about her she can count on me she gives up herself freely to me without limitation absolutely not which if it keeps going it could actually lead to a future together so that's kind of like what we're exploring right now i find that the less i apply the tactics and the techniques the more success that i had when i was the more the more success that i have when i was younger it really was about tactics and the various steps step one step two step you know right up to the fifth phase and so forth i for me i guess for guys that don't have like flow social flow uh with people like i've always i don't even like i don't want to use the words that everyone else uses like game and all this kind of stuff like that but i find that guys that are smooth with other men are going to be smooth with women and i've always said if you learn how to be good with people like for instance i got a good a good buddy my my buddy robert um acting interest acting uninterested in him does not make him closer to me acting uninterested in him to him in him he'll say dude i thought we were friends like what's up and i'm like you're right you're right i want to be close to my guy friends i want them to talk to me i don't care if they just leave a 20 second message about what's going on in their life you know or i'm driving to work and say hey robert man it's george here just call and see how you're doing see what's up trying to catch up with you give me call when you get a chance have a good day buddy and that's it i'll do that with my guy friends and i also do that with her if i can't catch her on the phone how's your day good to see you i was thinking about you that's all no you know so be good with people the tactics that work with people will work with women because women are people if you think women are some mysterious thing that you need some secret combination of techniques and tactics to get to that i think that's that's kind of like the wrong mindset it's the wrong worldview even though it does work temporarily at it there is a instant gratification from it you do get a chance to play ping pong you volley back and forth with our little flirty stuff that's what flirting this is but you can't was it uh you know jesus said man cannot live by bread alone well you know in relationships man can't live on flirting alone after after a period of flirting you need to throw an anchor down if that's where you want to go so identify your intentions right from the get that way you don't waste your time she doesn't waste her time and you can actually develop something together uh just like in business we call a mastermind group you get five individuals sitting around a table discussing ideas well guess what the power of all of those five together is the mastermind okay in a relationship if it's just you and her as individuals and not kind of having a mind meld and a heart meld then what happens is you're really not developing anything it's just it's you end up just becoming roommates forever uh when i when i've uh dated women they always you know during in my dating years a lot of women said yeah towards the you know i would say well tell me your story what's going on you know tell me you know like what happened and she says the last few years of my marriage we felt like we were just roommates we just felt like we were two individual people living under the same roof you know i started sleeping in the guest bedroom and he was sleeping on the couch and we were just kind of going you know day to day and we'd cross each other's paths in the morning on the way to work and there was no oneness there they lost it you know what i call in i will give you a chance to respond because i'm not going to let you sit here and call nobody a feminist you want to you do you really want me to be honest with you i don't think you're ready for me to be honest with you because you are acting more like a woman than a man these guys are coming from line manipulation and deception and all you're doing is reinforcing the same thing because you think this thing is about levels who taught you about being a man levels this game is not on about levels this game see the problem is guys like you and i hope you call him let you talk guys like you are just like a lot of these guys with their mother sheltering them from the thing called the truth making life rainbows and fucking sugar cubes and then when they get out to the real world they can't handle it and then what you see on the news is they're either doing something to their cells or they're doing something to other people because they cannot handle the life and the truth you want guys to come in this thing how are you going to tell them they're a man when you're telling them to do something that only women should be doing and that's lying you're telling guys to act more like women you want them to lie you want them to lie because they're new well let me tell you something buddy there's a thing in my myself in george's time in school before school let out there's a thing called field day and field day they only had three ribbons there was the red one the blue one and the white one there wasn't a yellow one or a pink one and everybody got a trophy it was the real deal you fought for the ribbons your loss you accepted it but one thing that guys who are successful mr. Moore mr. Moore is that a real man doesn't tell anybody to lie that shows a lot about your character because i'm sure you don't have any women so i'm gonna move on from you because i know that you are doing a great disservice to a lot of these men by those false hoods that you're telling me guys i keep telling y'all you gotta be careful about these agent smiths there are guys out there that don't want you to grow as a man they want to give you a lot of false information let you run with it and then when the woman manipulates you and deceives you and knocks you down then you go running and scurrying and then they win guys you've got to bite the gold to see what is real and what is fake and if anybody tells you to lie and act like a man then run in the opposite direction let me go ahead so hey you won't call in see this is like i say hey you see that see that right there look at that that's that feminine stuff look at him keep talking that feminine stuff dawg you can talk all you want but guess what you ain't gonna call back in huh yeah i thought so but now let me get back we got a question here in the thing and i apologize guys we're gonna have to go ahead and uh go ahead and have him sit on the sideline for a second now uh we have a great guy andrew asked a great question here how do you control your emotions george when you start uh to care and catch feelings for a chick your emotions tend to sabotage yourself you lose your edge or you catch feelings and you become weak sir you have the first one george you lose your edge when you become weak because she's not into you at all a woman who's into you makes you feel strong and unstoppable just thinking about my woman i feel like i could fight an army i feel like i'm strong she makes me feel that way i might not be able to but the reality is she makes me feel creative i get poetic i write i build things and i build permanence for the future now this if this show was like how to pick up women if that was the title of this show the topic the conversation would be a lot different we talked about friend zone the reason why men are in friend zones or even refer to that number one is because they might be looking for a relationship of some type and that's and that's what i'm helping trying to help men build is relationships the topic is not how to pick up girls and have sex with them at will call them and have sex and that's it eventually believe me i had a revolving door on my house for a long time and a lot of women did the walk of shame in the mornings leaving my apartment in my house and and that was one of those things that i guess it was a stage that i had to go through that's that's fine i don't want that now i get i get great pleasure from being with one woman great pleasure it makes me happy it makes it adds for stability and it uh for instance if you were going to get a new addition put on your house or get your kitchen remodeled if a different contractor showed up every day who didn't communicate with the one that showed up yesterday it would be discombobulated okay you want to have continuity and consistency and so you can build something you never will have continuity consistency and i know i could i i don't care if anyone calls me a feminist i'm not believe me i'm not a feminist and i'm not weak and i'm not like whatever term that these people come up with i've got decades of successful experience behind me and positive mental health no more grieving sure every man takes a hit when they go through a divorce who doesn't yeah but but the reality is i had many many years of success prior to marriage and many many years of success after marriage and if i allowed cynicism to be louder than hope in my life then i would not have options i'd be alone every night and that my desire is not to be alone who who the hell wants to grow old alone all the guys that you know talk like that they're really lonely not not only do women not want to be with them but men don't want to be i don't want to be around guys like that i i like being around guys that are happy i like being around guys that are getting laid i like being around guys that are fulfilled in life that are making more money every year that's whose relationships are getting better and better they're building something there's continuity and you don't get that by having a revolving door with women now i i offer the older mature stable side of the intergender relationship world and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that yeah and i just want to say you did a great job and andrew i just want to give you credit man and you know what i really appreciate the question that you asked andrew because you know what that's what makes you a man right there being able to ask good questions and asking for help man i really appreciated george hit everything on the head so we have um five minutes left and i guess kp dog zero two two if you want to call in you've got a few more minutes left in the show but we have one from mega that's asking steve how do you know when you have a good worthy girl well i oh man i can talk to you ours about this one but how how you know i'll sum it up the thing that you'll know when you have a good worthy girl is when you know your wealth your worth as a man number one that's the first step the second thing is is you got to realize that every see a lot of you guys don't know you go through different phases of relationships there's the meeting and dating phase there's a relationship phase there's the moving in together phase engagement phase and marriage phase and every phase that you go through gentlemen you have got to start writing what you your expectations are in those phases because the higher she goes up the mountain the harder it should be to reach your ring and your expectations have to be that much harder for her and if she's worthy of those things she's not going to fight you on those any memory she's got a mind to george i don't want people to think that women can't have their thoughts too i'm just saying for you that in order to find worthiness of a woman there's a lot of things that maybe i'll maybe i'll do that mega i'll cover that on the show on monday worthiness maybe we'll talk about that because it's just so broad we just don't have enough time to talk about that but george george i'll throw the question to you sir how do you know when you have a worthy woman sir when there's a a nice give and take i feel uh there has to be interact healthy interaction between you and you have to know how to be a man and that is for instance uh when it comes to your emotions share your emotions with a buddy not with her always maintain uh strength with her and a woman will lose respect for her man if he buckles under pressure yes uh if he cries if he gets too emotional save those emotions for your buddies for your brother for your father you know for a good friend she she wants a rock she doesn't want to be the rock in the relationship and what happens is when you dominate and when i when i say dominate i don't mean in a sexual way and i don't mean in a dictator kind of way but when you are the leader which is i define it as divine order men are the leaders in the family or the relationship your leadership ignites her desire yes and you're absolutely right and guys we are just about out of time guys uh don't forget there's a we have a show tomorrow uh the red man group tomorrow make sure y'all check that out also guys we are going to have matter of fact before i even talk about me i want george man i appreciate you george you know um we'll be doing this every Friday if you can come in and take you know donovan's uh take care of business but you're more than welcome to ride with me dog while we do this man but george why don't you tell them how they can get in touch with you how they can uh get your contact information you have the floor sir yeah you can follow me on uh twitter at george bruno i have a uh a lifestyle channel on youtube just with my name george bruno with a number of things diet fitness relationship things interesting things i like to keep it interesting it's not a it's not a uh monolithic channel with just one thing and also you can sign up for my newsletter if you just go to georgebruno.com i'm gonna be putting out a lifestyle newsletter and i hope it to be an actionable newsletter that every time you get it and i will be publishing it regularly that you get a little tip that makes your life better not just something to pet you you know and make you feel good but something that's actionable you read my newsletter in the morning you can act out that advice during the day uh whether it be financial whether it be uh in relationships whether it be business relationships whether it be starting a side hustle whether it be losing weight whether it be getting fit all of the all of those things i have successfully done and i come from a place of joy and offer that to you all right all right guys for myself guys if y'all want to get at me uh you can get at me at the man mindset on facebook the man mindset on twitter and the man mindset on instagram and guys if y'all need help send me an email at the man mindset at gmail.com send me a number let's talk right now we're in our birthday it's my birthday uh my birthday is wednesday so all month long we're having uh deals on all products but i do want to say to y'all guys uh i think i'm gonna take i'm gonna take that as a topic for monday how to know if she's worthy that's what i'm gonna do on my show for y'all because here's the thing at the end of the day that i want to say then i appreciate george the reason why we're on here is we're not to batter you we're not here to belittle you we're not here to make you feel stupid we we know that y'all have questions and why i the majority of you guys i love you guys because it really takes a real man to ask questions and that's what we appreciate about all you guys in the chat room we we love you guys and what we're here to do on this station is to do everything we can to give you that edge so you can just grow a little bit be more than who you are today and that's the thing and last thing i want to say before i wrap this up before we end all is like always say guys all i want you guys when y'all get a chance before y'all go to bed tonight take a moment and think about the graveyard i always say this on my shows what i'm gonna say this year i want y'all to think about this think about the graveyard is everybody in there they had one thing in common and that is they thought they had tomorrow coming to them guys we don't know when our time is going to be up so would myself and george and the two and those speakers in 21 what we're trying to do is we're trying to make you the best you that you possibly can be live your life like a man live it to the fullest accept the highs accept the lows accept the rejection that's all part of it okay don't run from it accept it for what it is and you will return out to be a better man later on george is smoking this pipe he's going to chill but we just want to say thank you very much for your time if y'all need george get in touch with george you need to get in touch with me please do that but please guys pat yourselves on the back we are proud of you you are great men and the questions were awesome and we hope we continue the same successes so we will see y'all tomorrow on the red men group then we'll see you monday on the uh red pill mindset for myself and george we're out here we're out thank you cheers gentlemen