Ladies and gentlemen, let me see here Right and get the situation going on my end I think I got everything set up Apologize I had this set for nine o'clock and then Still redoing my flows in the house So I had to go to Lowe's with my wife throw it on me So I actually just walked back in the house and was able to hop on here I didn't get to do a video today. So I said, you know, let me hop on and do a live get one of my Q&A's in for this week So be sure to put on hashtag Q in front of your question I believe the Lord only call me to a hour tonight. I had a headache, but he didn't took it away so y'all Shaquita Harris God bless you now y'all give him one second now. Let me invite the Lord in the room I got my back brace on the night now. So I'm a little hot and invite the Lord in the room now I don't like answering people question without the Lord being with me now. Yes What are some things you can do alone while single when you fear being alone and Misunderstood, you know what while you single To be honest with you. That's I wrote that book single is not a curse and that's why I wrote the book because Everybody always thinks single is a curse You know, everybody is so ready to get into a relationship when they single And I'm like, you know what when you single You really don't realize what you missed out on until you get in a relationship Now it's beautiful being in a relationship But it's some things that God called you to in your singleness that he didn't call a spouse to you You know, I mean so when you single you can open that business you can start that business And you don't have to ask nobody and if any only makes sense to you that might not make sense to your spouse So when you single you can go where you want to go do what you want to do work as late as you want to work You know, you could do what you want to do because you only answer in the God And that's what you got to understand why you single.  So that's what you got to understand that now Miss J. God bless you now how to check a guy without coming off insecure or angry or Do they use that to make you not want to check them?  You see what I mean? So it just you have to it's kind of like if you see a man looking at another one in Buddha if you look at him like and You might elbow on and look at him like What's wrong with you Now if you wait you get home and then you You know, I just always said to be growing up Then I have NASA tall If you know what NASA tall means And then we every time we go out you see what I mean Then you go into that whole spiel and you crying and it hurts me because you're looking at her butt And now he's like wow But if you just kind of look at him You see what I mean now you're not screaming. You're not crying So that's how you got it. You have to be able to check a man cool calm and collected. Don't don't get beside yourself All right now Let's see Elmorell then I look up to grab me a question out the chat and it's Elmorell Elmorell. Oh, what's going on now? Grasp your honor. Let me grasp your honor the question. Elmorella. I'm gonna answer your question 90 times How long should a man wait today after losing his wife to COVID? That's interesting. So You talk to a man that lost his wife to the pandemic and Y'all already talking and you wondering about that. You see what I mean Like y'all shouldn't even be talking if that's the case. Let me turn my back brace back on y'all. I forget. I got to look My brain why you got me with me flows now. I tell you this now me personally situation like that happened I'm gonna be saying the rest of my life But he need to be waiting at least a year to be honest with you I mean at least a year just out of respect for her family But to be honest you can't put a time limit on that and But if for you on the other side, I stay out of the way, I stay out of the way at least a year I stay out of the way La vie God bless you. No, hi Tony. Can I build a blog from knowledge? I got from a real estate Formation that cost a lot Made bad decision. Will I be? pursued for copyright Yes, you could build a blog you could build a blog on that you could write about anything You want to if it's your knowledge.  God bless you now.  Okay. That could be 12 months down the line But knowing you have a child that's out the gate. How it happened.  Why do men try to fight for the relationship when they start seeing you slowly giving up Just want a fan You know, that's a Men humans want a fan But I want a fan want somebody to be there for them.  I listen to your advice and put on track shoes. Okay. Good job. Good job Put on a track shoe confuse me that when you said boyfriend Maybe you meant best friend or a guy friend as my brother Ex fiance. Okay ex fiance. Okay y'all broke up Ex fiance of six years moved on with a with an older woman She is 45 and he is 26 after four months since the breakup Well, this last is this a rebound relationship Edmorell Now you become on her every night asking about that man You need sign up for a session Edmorell Another session, I know you say you had a session, but yes, that is a rebound relationship He 26 she 40 something It's been four months. He won't be with her for security She probably got a little nicer place to stay than he do a nicer car And so yes, that's a rebound relationship Tiffany Lane God bless you. Mr. Gaskins. Thank you. I had a great coaching session with Miss Carol Relationship restored boundary set Question though, why do men lie about their age adding on one to two years to seem mature? Well, that's why because most women are women are more mature than men and I'm glad you did a coaching session with Miss Carol Congratulations coach Carol So if a man thank you older or he know you older He'll add that on because see a 20 year old man and a 20 year old woman aren't really the same age See a 20 year old woman is really When it comes to maturity she's more equivalent to a 23 or 25 year old man Men knew that Landonia God bless you. Thank you Tony for allowing God to use you you are truly an inspiration to me I'm done with grown boys. God bless you now.  Thanks Tony for all the videos and Q&A that you do they have truly blessed my life I always get something out of them even if it's not my situation. I still listening learn you doing the right thing That's that's how you supposed to do it. A lot of people don't get that though Hello, Anna God bless you. I usually study my Bible and read books in my favorite coffee place alone What does a man think when he sees a woman sitting alone with a book? Well, that's a good thing. It means you're comfortable in your own skin. It means you confident And so a man don't think anything, you know now it just depends on what he's gone through as well So different men don't have different perspectives of that to be honest with you. You're sitting duck So what that means is he could come over there and Approach you a lot easier than if you were speed walking somewhere Looking at your phone like most women do or if you sitting there with a whole group of women like a lot of women do so Actually, that's really what you want to be doing when you get ready for a relationship to is being out and about but being approachable Juicy Vic God bless you now husband separated six months came to me said he wanted his family back and do counseling slash work Then he said he liked the girl at the job Heard he lived With a different girl I filed for divorce Yeah, go about your business go about your business says he coming back and then telling you he likes somebody at the job Go about your business. You're doing the right thing. Keep keep it moving. It's his soul tie. That's bothering. I'm not love Geo God bless you. What does it mean when a man asks you to teach him how to love? Is he sincere or is he making excuses to change? Well, he just grew up listening to music soul child and heard that song so many times planning the mama car Somebody car and it's just a line. He giving you but truthfully He ought to be wanting to learn how to love But he ought to be making moves because you can't really just teach a man how to love you could check them on stuff But what he's saying is Honestly is play the fool for me a little bit. Let me dog you out a little bit Let me make some mistakes and you just kind of put up with it and be entangled for a little bit in the name of Love that's really what what he's saying And in other than that he just trying to sound cute and coy Amber God bless you not a man. I recently started talking to have not met yet Suggested we get an apartment together by the end of the year if things are good He seemed like a good Christian man. Should I end it? Yeah, I'll be trying to end that I'll be trying to end that right now and because you know good Christian man and moving in together by the end of the Year y'all and he met yet and he already throwing out moving plans It sound like he in a situation to where when this hill Over it let up He finna get his eviction notice and he needs somewhere to move because he right now you got vixen for a baron's He sound like he needs somewhere to stay when they let this hill this eviction thing up this eviction situation up because a Man not supposed to be trying to plan to move in with a one by the end of the year He y'all and he met and y'all recently just started talking because you could be Lorraine a bobbitt daughter You said I mean y'all know what Lorraine a bobbitt did, huh? Yeah, man. It's right here swaying between his leg Off to la vista you could be Lorraine a bobbitt daughter. He don't know so that let me know He's not looking for love. He's looking for help. He want a roommate. He needs somebody to go half on some rent So he ain't be sleeping in his car Mr. Grateful God miss grace for God bless you now Tony I am conflicted on whether I should marry a man who has good character and faith But it's a bit immature and has childhood trauma from his dad leaving him I'm 23. He's 26. Should I move on also love your sense of humor. God bless you now Now now listen what you said now read that back to you read that back to yourself. Okay? A man who has good character and faith All right, good character and faith does not go with immature and Childhood trauma that don't all that don't go together. Okay, cuz good character and fave gonna wash out Immaturity and childhood Trump. So what you got to realize is He one or the other So the good character and faith must be a act Because he'd know you looking into that and you giving him points for that you give him credit for that But the immaturity and him not addressing his childhood issue that wash out that good character and faith So and he 26 years old. So he passed the age of reckoning which is 25 So now it's time for him to get some things together So what you got to do is you got to put a timeline on that situation right there. You give them about six months 12 months at absolute most and then you got to be making the decision Bless 100 God bless you now And y'all forgive me if I miss some of these. Let me see Lola I see now it if I'm on track, but child's father does music Dream listen to music how to keep son stable without being influenced by a child's father Well, hopefully your child father know not to do, you know crazy in this Lc.  That's when you got the yes your honor My son's father's Illegally Smokes the green leaf that's when you got to tell the business and Also has a DUI and also smell alcohol on his breath yesterday So I just don't feel safe with my son going over there That's when you got to go ahead and tell the business because you can't have Him being immature around your child, but hopefully he know how to separate stuff and do right Shayla card bless you now Last week you told a younger woman 28 who was in a relationship Who was in a relationship not to buy a house? What is your advice for a 46 year old and no relationship? Needs the tax credit for salary by your house Gone by your house 46 46 at 46 now you want to start planning to be apostle Paulina Because see the Lord says better to marry than to burn but If you ain't called a marriage then you call to the work of the Lord So at 46 you you gonna settle in you gonna settle in Your apostle Paulina until the Lord meet you on the road to Damascus and show you your husband Otherwise and at 46 the man you meet should already have him a house So then y'all can turn one of y'all y'all could date for a year He get on one knee in the month 13 Y'all plan the wedding for 12 months out y'all get married now You got two years together if everything's still going good you walk on down the aisle or you go into the courthouse Then y'all take one of y'all houses and turn it into an income property. You see what I mean? So at your age 46 you gonna start to settle on in do what you need to do get your tax credit from your house 28 total different ball game, you know that total different ball game Still got another seven years of just playtime when you're 28 Sonny Lee. God bless you X gave me a key which was nice But doesn't call or text for days when I address him about it His response is just pop up on me.  You see what I mean? So gonna give him give him his key back to let him know it ain't nothing. It ain't nothing I'm going about my business you go about your business if you want something with me Then you got to show up and show out other than that go about your business. Hey y'all I got about 30 more minutes on here. No, I don't 40 more minutes on here About 40 more minutes on here the Lord only come to an hour tonight Brooklyn God bless you get some money from women lives of Going back and forth between two women Household one is pregnant for him from him and the other has two kids. I Have a nine month old baby from him as well, but Hasn't tried to move in Or live off me I'll tell you what so stay at this point right here. I'll be thanking Lord. You Caught nothing Because he's dealing with all them kind of women I've been thinking Lord you caught nothing and what I do I go right down at a child support court put them right on that child support Change my locks. He can't come in or I got to call me set up visitation I go and get on up out of that because see when the man juggling women like that You'll never know which one them women won't her episode on snap You'll never know what woman when you got old reckless man.  No toy. God bless you guy I've been talking to well past the 10 years Just ask me out Okay God been talking to well past The 10. Oh, okay 10 hours. Okay. I Love check my eyes. I thought it was a why that's okay 10 hours. Okay, I is Is a date on a boat at the lake a good first date he suggested due to the pandemic Mm-hmm No, I'll tell you need to keep your feet on solid ground Trust when I say keep your feet on solid ground because if he act up you need to be able to run See that right there the definition of up the creek without a paddle that man I had you out down that boat you can't do nothing and he know he you got you too far to the swim You not finna jump in there with all of the alligator. Uh, you know snake at a shark You up the creek without a paddle.  You could go to the park Sit social distance one is he on one side of the bench you on the other side of the bench. How your mask on So I don't like new Because he man too crazy today Tessie God bless your height on my boyfriend is 64 and I'm 52 He does not Talk about a future with me When should he start talking about a future with me I've been back with him for nine months after a year and a half break up. He stays on social media Yeah, Tessie, it's time to go it's time to go sister It's been nine months after you and a half break. It's time to go because at 64 He don't have much future left. So he out Talking about his future ought to be a priority so at 64 The way the Lord calling me man home today at 70 75 8 he doesn't have much of a future left It's more behind him than in front of him.  He knows way around a relationship and then he's on social media So it sound like you have one of those men that's failure to launch So he's 64, but really he 34 in his mind because at 64 They didn't have no cell phones in his adolescence and a lot of his peak years. He didn't have a cell phone That's when they used to have the cell phone Like this here. I remember my uncle came over to my house with a cell phone. Yeah nephew. Hey, but you want to call somebody? Yeah, I was like, yeah, what's going on? So at 64 years old He right, you know what I mean? And so he on social media at this age in his life it's like welcome on now you supposed to be working on your real estate portfolio and Selling down to get married and to talk to the woman you're dealing with to plan out your life together So you have to be able to look at the signs and say a 64 year old man or did the social media That's a dead giveaway. You got to go. Yeah, go gotta go It's squizzed it be God bless. I apologize for something that I did to a guy I was dating he accepted my apology, but a jealous girl told him some things about me and he ghosted me Let him go let him go if another woman can make a man ghost you He'll deserve to have you so let him go don't worry about it.   You got to recognize the red flags and go on about your business Allah God bless you do mature Christian men want a woman who respects and honors them See decent men with women who disrespect and talk down on them Makes no sense Well, see when a man get a woman like that, he's not really a mature Christian man Those men that do that that you see that is the editor the nasty movies They did the nasty movies or they like men's And unfortunately, that's a lot of men today. That's either did the nasty movies or Like men's and so the woman is a cover so she could yell holla cuss all she want to cuss Sister your mister got him a mister. So you it just his sister So that's why you could yell and cuss and y'all fight like cats and dogs like brothers It's because he got him a man You see what I'm saying?  So when you meet the economy It's it's it's typically one or two thing. They like men's or they preoccupied with the nasty movies They get that cell phone on that dot-com on that hub With hands a look so she could yep. Yeah, all she want to cuss he preoccupied You see what I mean? That's what that is and that's that's the thing that I want y'all related to understand It's like real men do real things When you see a man doing fake things, that's not a real man. You see what I mean? Miss grace for God bless you now I think he needs more time to grow as a person But I think I will move on because I see some red flags parents have another suitor For me, but my fear is I might have an emotional soul time since I'm waiting for marriage to commit Yeah, you might have emotional soul time you probably need you one session of coaching this is my mentor dot-life get you one session of Bell beauty God bless. I'm 32 and going to be single for a while. My older brother is special needs and Caregiver is ready to retire. It's taking care of him long term and my two kids Let lessen the chance of me finding love in the future Well, it just makes your pool of men a little different So the man that you attract will have just a different heart. It probably will be a man so what you need to do on Belle Beauty is Get on meetup.com and find a support group for Caretakers or caregivers whatever the terminology is and what you're going to do is you're going to find them You're gonna meet a man that's taking care of his sister with special needs or taking care of his brother or his mama and so you got to find old support groups meetup.com or whatever dot-com y'all have in your area and It might be zoom calls that they're doing right now They're doing zoom calls for y'all to just talk about, you know So when your brothers when your brother go to sleep, they that's when they schedule zoom calls So y'all can just kind of tell your story and vent and talk to each other About what it's like and how resources and that's how you're gonna meet your man So see it's not that you can't have no man just that it changes Alina God bless you I've had some bad relationships in the past But I finally met someone that's good and he has the requirements that I'm looking for but I feel no Attraction or chemistry for him don't want don't know what to do. Well, then that means he doesn't have the requirements that you're looking for because If the requirements that you're looking for Don't include being able to look at him Then that's not the man for you see the man for you is not going to be You know bump booty ugly if the man for you is going to be Lookable you're gonna have some chemistry with him. You see what I mean? So it's kind of like salt Slug trying to be with salt.  That's a term of an endearment of you know Looks challenged Okay, it's a lot of us men that are Looks challenged and so when a man is looks challenged to see We learn how to be kind we learn how to be nice. We learn how to be humble we learn how to Have all the requirements Because when a man go through a looks challenge season in his life It changes life because he can't overlook by a lot of women So what you have to realize is that sometimes the man that is what you would consider a little ugly? He actually not a good guy Because if he really was a good guy, he would want the woman that want him instead of wanting the woman that don't want him See when you ain't got no physical attractive is man. It's because of how you see him So it's somebody that's attracted to him that got all the chemistry in the world for him like science class But he don't want her he won't dog her out He want to chase after who don't want him. So that actually means he's not actually a good guy Because if you're a good guy, he'll want who want him. He'll treat that one with respect who trying to be with him instead of chasing you And you not his type He's not your type sunshine God bless you now. I met this guy one day I Was upset about an ex we talked about it y'all gotta give him not my hard draw this Situated Okay, I Was upset about an ex we talked about it and exchange number He calls me friend and treats me as such took me to eat a few times I'm starting to lust after him in the friendship or no well that's a tough one now because You don't know if he calling you friend because you vented to him about your ex or You don't know if he calling you friend because he actually want to just keep you as a friend and maybe Promote you to friend with benefits because he may be attracted to somebody else a little more and when she tied up because she booked and busy he called you and You know you the six man off the bench. You see what I mean? So that's a tough one right there now I'm gonna tell you like right here You got to be careful with that lust and and with that lust is when you go to fantasizing So stop fantasizing about him when you with him alright you with him y'all on the date when you not with him You need to be busy Building your business working on you focusing on you and not thinking about him because that's what it gets you called up But just pay attention now pay attention Queen heart God bless you now Is it overly critical to call a guy out for always using I Instead of we when discussing his future plans Plain to want to marry me in a year called it off because it seemed like he's doing his own thing well, I mean It you could have jumped the gun a little bit on that one now you could have jumped the gun a little bit on that one because That's the difference between I and we is also knowing how to use proper English and Just knowing how to talk You know with the right context and so and he lived with itself and y'all not married And so when he's saying I he could just be just talking You know if he with you and was spending time with you and treating you like his woman That just could be a slip of the tongue, you know, I do that still today You know, I do that still today and everything I got is my wife's and I still might say man I got the bill to pay up man. I did this or I got this or hey, you know, it just I But it just cuz you thinking out loud you talking about yourself you live with yourself So you you could have you could have jumped the gun on that one there Just cuz man sometimes mind just is not that politically correct and Women possess cognitive skills that men lack so as a woman you more articulate and expressive than a man So you really got to go off how he treats you now If he literally was treating you like he's single and he doing all the way him then that's totally different Okay, Jenna now where y'all at now where you at John? PHP 499, but I got a feeling I Got a feeling that's both ours in America now where PHP at nine Jenna He's 38.    You got to run now Need a session Break God bless you. How do you heal from a spiritual soul tired from a man? I connected with this man so deeply and there was never any It's embarrassing that I still have feelings any advice do I need coaching? Well, you probably need therapy on that one You probably need a therapy session a couple therapy session a couple and coaching session or help you with a relationship coach But really what it is is it's not about the man in the tie. It's about your desire for love So what you got a really uncovered is that brokenness that pain that? Abandonment those issues that you dealing with internally that made you cling to him and desire him and want him because he didn't Do that much for you to feel that deeply he just was the The placeholder he was the filler of the voice and so you really You will did it to what he represented, but It's not him. So you got to heal you you got to heal your heart God's daughter God bless your struggle with severe depression before God helped for it scared if I meet a man and fall in love and If I open up about this That I had struggled he will leave me. How do I deal with this fear?  You see what I mean Don't don't don't put everything on somebody you date Scranton God bless you now a I got about 17 minutes now In a culture that celebrates Thick women how hard will it be for women such as myself who haven't been blessed with a behind to find a man Who is genuinely attracted to her and wants to date? Well scranton, you know to each their own inside of the same races and cultures that Celebrate thick women. It's men who? Don't do who prefer very petite women. So it's beauties and out of a holder Don't feel like you got to go get your booty put in because a lot of them installs end up Falling apart they end up dropping and sighing It turned at lower booty meat Real dark sometimes get infected and start to flow through the blood So what you could do because when I met my wife and she turned around and walk away. I Said oh Lord ain't gonna be able to do it Ain't gonna be able to do it cuz see my wife is African and Indian meaning we all from Africa, but her daddy side from India Indian women built different than African women see African women they had to carry them big jugs of water And so they had this hill set back there to set that stuff on Indian women they built a little different on average now you cross over you gonna have some African women that you and you Have some Indian women that you but why it got this Indian in them. So when she turned around And her bike did like that.  She went to the gym She went to the gym. I was such a booty man coming from the South I was such a booty man that I was almost okay with her going to get a booty install but The Lord dealt with my spirit and that's something that she would never do and We had a couple conversation about it cuz it seemed like everybody was doing it and She say that's what you sit on.  So I say yeah, you're right They ain't I ain't want you to do that anyway, but yet on the other side the immature grown boy side So what my wife did she went through this workout regimen With dealt with a lot of squats and lunges and all of that and guess what got a booty today Got a booty. I remember she saw my sister one time and my sister said your wife got a booty done I said no, that's Dr. Jim. That is Dr. Jim not J. I am G. Y. M. G. Y. M Not J. I am that's Dr. Jim. So let's tell me with that right there You ain't got to go under the night. You got to get on a step master Squats holding the dumbbells in your hand Lunges holding the dumbbells you're gonna get all you want back though Nisi on moderators y'all can relax y'all can relax only got 14 more minutes on here Y'all can relax now I'm behind on my question now y'all hold on now. I only got 14 more minutes on here now y'all hold on So many questions now hold on Nicely, God bless you just moved in an apartment five years five days ago Today my job had a meeting about possible layoffs in September Should I try to get out of my lease or take a chance that things will work out? Well, see the thing is you got to walk by faith. They say possible layoffs. All right possible layoffs All right, so what's your possibilities what I do right now? I'll be the work 30 minutes early I'll be the standard work 30 minutes late. I'll be doing my work and somebody else work Oh, yeah, I think my work and I finish the work too. So here you go. You should I mean you want value? You got to add value. So don't don't give up on God. Don't lose your faith. Don't operate from fear You got operate from faith. You got to do more Melody be God bless your husband emotionally cheated in the first year of marriage He's really changed his behavior, but I scrutinized everything and I can't get past it And I still question everything how to heal in the marriage.  It's been three years since he say he had changed Everybody say they change can he show you he changed but me personally it's been three years And that's your baby daddy and y'all you ain't say my ex-husband So I really wouldn't be taking no risk on no baby daddy now if it's a husband and you trying to make marriage work That's a little different but baby daddy Got to go Miss M. God bless you now We are both in mid 40s long distance three months spoke to his mom for the first time Small talk told her she raised him right. He has been a gentleman. She responded until you get to know him red flag Yep, that's an absolute 100% red flag either his mama crazy She trying to save you but both of them bad. I don't want to be on neither side of it Because if the mama say that if she lying she crazy If she lying she absolutely crazy you have me mama gonna put strict nine in your suit Because she don't want nobody to take her son if she telling the truth That's the woman cold and she trying to save you another thing too.  Thank you so much Tony God bless you. I am 18 a professional model Just published in bold your videos have changed my life now I know how to respond to men and stay a V. Yep Stay old v. Now stay old v. Naja and God bless you on a bold Publishing that's a show no blessing now Stay near the cross and nitty's have video They show gone be out there God bless you Yasmin D. God bless Tony for man takes a few years to fall in love. Why are some But what I was Huh About to say Man voice at the door this time of night. I'm like what the man do it? I'm a dough. I put something on them What UPS working this time of night? Well, you want some overtime? Yeah, I'll get back. Oh, yeah, I'm gonna video. I'm gonna video Hey, that's old me. Oh Voice at my door What are you PS? I'm gonna tell you something That woman now then got a package every day. It depends in give me She's got a package every day. I said, Lord, you pee open bike up So this woman don't feel like she got to order something. I mean, it'll just be a neck neck Hey, what you ordered? Oh, I just ordered a cone Boy lord marriage, it's a beautiful thing. Hey, I got eight more minutes. I got to go Yeah, Tony for man takes a few years to fall in love Why are some men willing to leave their wives and change their family dynamic to be with another woman that They newly met are they in love? No, they're not in love the man is not in love But the issue is that Because it takes me in years to fall in love. He never fell in love with his wife So when he meet a next woman, he think that he got a better chance of falling in love with her quickly Faster so that's why he leaves his wife because he never fell in love with her and That's a man. That's not a man right there That's a grown boy and the other thing when a man do something like that when men do something like that You got to get you you got to just thank the Lord because of a man that nasty the amount of lightning strikes gonna be coming near his life the amount of Drivers on the wrong side of the road the amount of deers running in front of his car The minor stuff that man got to be dodging he gonna be living like he in that final destination movie every day He's just everything he's doing the matrix because when a man that nasty Ain't nothing by his life gonna be pleasant and blessed In the real now he might make it look good, but he's going through it Marcia God bless or Marsha Marcia God best I dated a man For five years. I never got the committed relationship. I know I should have left a long time ago. I fell in love and Was so hard to let go. I've been through so much with him. What should I do?   What about a boat ride on the same lake? My father will be on same day now Or how about invite him on my father's boat first date now now Up nine if you're going out in that water take your father with you take your father with you Normally, you don't want to introduce a man to your daddy that soon, but if you is Bent to go out on that water now. I hope you can swim like a fish Since you and now you blessed your daddy got a boat. You don't mean your daddy got a boat Let me draw the boat.  God bless you now I seen you right there Man, all right now. All right. I miss some questions. I miss some questions Jenae God bless you the saying if it's meant to be It'll come back to you. How do I know if it's truly coming back? For me or coming back to potentially teach me a lesson that I haven't grasped yet like a test You don't know only time I tell so that's why if you take somebody back You give them about three months and six months at the mass at the at the max and that'll show you That'll show you what they're coming back for now GG God bless the neighbor slash mechanic passed away last month In a motorcycle accident, it hit me hard the guy you told the guy you told me to pay that Wanted to fix my car for free Okay. All right. All right sit with it. You know sit with it feel it feel that GG. It's all right to feel grief Feel that okay. It's all right to feel grief Feel that and then look at y'all Time that y'all talk and knew each other and get all the lessons from it, too and then also Ask yourself if you miss the opportunity to witness to him because if you miss the opportunity to witness to him That's the lesson that you got to get from it so that Anybody else you meet in your life you speak into their life anybody else you meet you speak into their life Same thing having me a few times where I met somebody and they died not long after and I realized that they were sent to me For me to be a witness to them and ever since then I speak in everybody life I come in contact with I'm pushing them to purpose tomorrow morning I'm producing a course for one of my homeboys that got so many gifts and everything but he tapping in he tapping into it and I want to help him tap in even deeper even faster because We only got one like to live so that's what you got to do.    Oh boy If all of us conversation See what I'm saying. Can't hear nothing. He's saying Uh Tammy God bless you. He keeps me at bay slash emotionally unavailable. He lost after older woman Father was in and out of his life raised by mom. Can you expand on this father son relationship? How it relates to the love life? Well, a lot of times with that situation is it determines a man's level of confidence In a relationship. So if he didn't see his father love his mom, that's where His example of manhood comes from so he feels You know Uncomfortable and unsure of himself And but that's a little deeper right there. So you might need a session on that bridge at God bless a high toning I'm on chapter 10 of a woman's influence It's a great book and just sending you and the queen of blessing keep up the great word.  I'll be reading the message And I'll be like lord, don't let me say nothing out loud. That's gonna be bad now So thank you for the compliment. She needs God bless. God bless you Tony. I realized at the third Year too late. I was dating an unbeliever and it triggered my spirit I walked away. He mentioned to other men that I was pressuring him on marriage Thank you Tony. Hey, God bless you. I'm glad you got on out of there Ashley. Oh bless. Hey y'all. I got to go now. No more questions. I don't put the nine Don't put no more questions in here now. I'm on now Ashley. Oh bless your divorced mother working on the three B's landscaper flirts contact The dad for yard He asked for my number and dad cut the combo Dad knows husband was abusive and toxic family. I like the son. Will he pursue? We are late 30s Well, he flirting but see you got to realize now men like notches in a belt So what I mean by that men like notches in a belt if you do landscaping You want to landscape some something else? You want to mow you another line? You see what I mean?    Somebody told how can we as women avoid being a placeholder? And be with the one that actually loves us since men don't really operate from love Well, you answered your own question When a man loves a woman it's so obvious. So if you don't feel a tsunami of love You got to go You got to go Because see a man ain't got to be in love with you to show you love and for you to feel that So by that 12 month mark, you got to ask yourself. Am I being washed in love? Do I feel loved? Do I feel like he truly loves me to where if somebody said a your life is on the line Can you tell me does he love you? Yes or no If you're wrong you lose your life if you can't answer that with a confident Yes, that you know that you know that this man love you on day three 66 All right get this purse. Okay got to go. All right hand sanitizer Okay. Well, hey, it's been nice knowing you. All right. I will Everything's been okay, but we finna have to go ahead and okay, so Thank you and I'm gonna take my stapler with me. You see what I'm saying at day three 66 I got to go I got to go if if you don't feel all kind of love Oh, I'm gonna take this check with me too.  Okay. Do we kiss me? Do we hold me? Do we take my own dates? All right. Have he cooked yet? Have he clean yet? Okay. All right You going right down the list If the good can't outweigh the bad I got to get this soy sauce out of my office. I was wondering why I was smelling zesty in here But I got this open pack of soy sauce and why I brought some pan to express the other day. I left that soy sauce but Since four minutes, I got to go. Hey god bless y'all. Thank you Now I said no more question y'all saying now y'all seen y'all seen the moderates say no more question I know more questions than the last question life a soul. Okay life a soul and double it up on the question God bless you Tony my culture only courts and we believe in love after marriage not before So that complicates things Well, I can't remember your last question But that's good because courting should feel like love even though y'all believe in love after marriage That's what that coordinates. That's the love before marriage. That's what that coordinates Because see without that courting then you won't have nothing. So just understand that right now So so may say you getting courted properly Because see y'all court, but there's some rules and regulations to that court.  I'm just one person over here. I'm trying to Get the question. Let me see I'm gonna do one little scroll through here And make sure I ain't miss none. That's left right here in the chat Y'all forgive me now Okay, court and I hope I see your disappeared on me. Do you think it would make sense to call and meet with uh Still trying to heal and he thinks he did nothing wrong No, no, go on about your business. I can't even say the words on here because it didn't got my video took down All right I think I got all the question That popped up there at the top to the vip line Forgive me. I ain't get enough of the ones in the regular chat But sometimes I get old flooded that with them wanting them colorful ones popping up there on my screen Um the day third that I probably won't be on here tomorrow unless the lord moved my spirit differently But I might try to make it on hill saturday or sunday But I can't make no promises. So on the community page on my page And uh caramel kisses and the moderators they teach y'all how to set your notification bell So if I post some or whatever you'll be notified, but I try to do as many of these I can for the blessed tribe members So god bless you. I appreciate you to the moderators. Thank y'all so much for your help tonight bless you And um and we'll talk soon


Well, the point is that we really want to be in a position where we can combine theory, policy, and practitioners in one spot so they can discuss the extent to which they agree with what they disagree and how they can work together to improve outcomes. Well, I thought the session with Sims and Reese was the most interesting in part because it talked a lot about historical episodes and how those historical episodes of big fiscal deficits and high inflation or low inflation periods, how we ought to be thinking about them today because some of those things are similar as they're happening today.


Okay, so heat is the amount of energy you need to add to something to warm it up. But I would actually calculate precisely how much energy is required, how many joules of heat or energy you need to change the temperature of something by, say, 10 degrees. Well, the way you work that out is by using a number known as the specific heat capacity. It's written with a letter C and it's defined as the amount of energy you need to add or subtract to 1 kilogram of some material to change its temperature by 1 Kelvin. If you write that down as an equation, the amount of energy you need to add or subtract is written as delta E. That triangle is a capital Greek letter delta and that means the change in the energy. So it's the amount of energy you're adding or subtracting. Now that is equal to the mass of the object in kilograms times the specific heat capacity times the change in temperature. And once again we're using that big triangle of the capital Greek letter delta to indicate the change in temperature. So the change in energy of a system equals the mass times the specific heat capacity times the change in temperature. Okay, so let's do an example of this. Let's say you want to have a nice hot bath after coming home from a hard day at school. How much energy are you going to need to warm up the water for a bath? Now, okay, so we're going to need to work out the change in temperature, the mass of the bath, and the specific heat capacity. The specific heat capacity you would look up. So for water, specific capacity is roughly 4,186 joules per kilogram per Kelvin. So that's the specific heat capacity of water. Look it up. Now what's the change of temperature? Well, let's say the water is coming out of the pipes at, let's say it's a cambera and it's winter, maybe at 10 degrees C. And a nice hot bath would be about 38 degrees C. So we're going to change the temperature from 10 degrees centigrade to 38 degrees centigrade. So the change in temperature equals 28 degrees centigrade. Now that's in centigrade. We need it in Kelvin. But it turns out that the change in Kelvin is the same as a change in centigrade. Because if you remember, the temperature in Kelvin is just equal to the temperature in centigrade plus 273.15. So if you take two different temperatures and subtract them in centigrade, or two different temperatures and subtract them in Kelvin, this will cancel out and you'll get the same answer. So delta T is that. It's also the same value in Kelvin. Finally, we need to work out the mass. So what's the mass of water in a typical bath? Okay, so let's imagine our bath is, I don't know, 1 meter long, maybe 40 centimeters. It's 0.4 meters wide. And I don't know something like 30 centimeters deep the water, 0.3 meters. It's probably not an unreasonable size for a bath. And we'll approximate it as a cube of water. It's not really a rectangular prism of water. It's not really, of course, actual baths are curved, but that will get us fairly close to the right answer. So the volume is going to be roughly 0.4 times 0.3 times 1, which is equal to 0.12 cubic meters. That's the volume of water, but what we need up here is the mass of water. So the mass is just equal to the volume times the density, the ring-letter row. Density of water is by definition 1,000 kilograms per cubic meter. You can look that up again. So that equals 0.12 times 1,000 equals 120 kilograms. Is that plausible? Well, I mean, the water in a bath is pretty heavy. If you poured that much water into a bucket, it would be almost impossible to lift, but not totally impossible. That's probably about the same as the weight of a big person, so that sounds like a reasonably plausible number. Okay, so now how much energy do we need? Let's use that equation. So delta E equals the mass, which is 120 times the specific heat capacity, which is 4186 times the change in temperature, which is 28 Kelvin, which comes out as 14064960 joules, roughly speaking 14 million joules, 14 megajoules, which is a lot of energy. That's why running a hot bath will bump up your energy bill quite a lot.


Okay, thank you for joining me, Arayana, thank you. This is the fun part of today's event. Before we break, this is the part where we recognize the Innovation Award winners. I'm happy to have this opportunity to recognize this year's Safety Innovation Award winners as a top three, whom will be provided not just a recognition, but also a cash prize totaling $85,000. So I would first like to thank University of Vermont Medical Center, our Patient Safety Innovation Award sponsor, for helping to make these awards possible for the second year in a row. As in previous years, we had an amazing application, but this year the quality of the submissions were very high, which made our selection process even harder. The entire board gets involved and we actually get on conference calls, hear the pitch, it's kind of a shark tank made for medical innovation. So we received 55 submissions from six countries, Canada, Ireland, Mexico, Nigeria, the Netherlands, and the United States. And I want to thank all the innovators who submitted their product and process innovations for patient safety. It was truly a privilege for our whole board to review these applications. And you should know what we think through when we're looking at these innovations, because they're all so good, is, number one, the belief that it was going to improve patient safety more dramatically than the other innovations, and two, innovations that are available to implement today that don't require any more regulatory clearance or any more enhancements. It's something we can do today so that we can fast approach our goal of zero. So now, I'd like to invite the top three finalists to the stage, Abby Kern, Chris Landrigan, and Renee Montmigian. Please come on up, sorry about that, thank you. And I understand, unfortunately Dr. Landrigan is still on the plane, he's got a little delayed, so he won't be here. But I'm going to go through these and then I'm going to kind of leave some suspense for the end so we know what happened. So, and we will have the number one winner according to our board also give us some few words. So, first of all, Clearline IV is being represented by, not Abby, sorry, Abby is her assistant, I find. We're totally messing things up, I apologize. Thank you, thank you, Anne. And, Clearline IV is the only FDA-cleared product for the automatic detection and removal of air from IV lines. So, Clearline IV is placed below IV bags and may be used with fluid warmers and infusion pumps and all fluid types. Clearline IV makes IV administration of fluids safer for patients and is designed to protect patients from serious clinical complications and death caused by air in fluid lines. Air burden is known to cause serious morbidity, including paralysis, coma, brain damage and quadriplegia among others. Air embolism has a 30% mortality rate and is ranked the number two hospital acquired condition by CMS. So, Chris who's not here, thank you, represents the I-PASS Institute. Well, let me tell you about I-PASS. A need assessment is conducted by an I-PASS mentor and an internal I-PASS hospital champion. With our web-based immersive learning providers receive training on I-PASS and can practice and self-assess their handoff skills. Their web-based observational measurement tools support data collection from observation of actual handoffs. And data is available on demand for hospital administrators to measure and benchmark adherence of I-PASS use and to provide feedback to their staff. And Renee, thank you, represents, we have not met in person. It's all been by telephone. So, I apologize. Renee represents Right Biometrics. Misplaced NG tubes will be one of the five patient safety initiatives of 2018. PH has emerged as the global gold standard for confirming gastric placement. Right Biometrics makes the only FDA cleared clear wave CE mark product that used PH to confirm gastric placement of NG OG tubes intended to end in the stomach. Anyone from trained medical personnel to loved ones caring for family members at home can use it. So, now is the time to present the prizes. Ariana, are you here? So, first, I will present the third prize. Okay, thank you. I guess this is going to be for... Chris Landrigan, so he's not here. Okay. Unfortunately, Chris is not here. Anyone to... We'll give this to Chris later. So, third prize goes to Chris. That's a relief. All right. And second prize goes to Ann. So, Ann, yeah. Thank you so much. Congratulations. Thank you. And now you know who the first prize is. So, clear line. So, please stay. Please stay. Yes. We're going to take some pictures. And first prize goes to Yurine. Thank you so much for your incredible work. Thank you. Congratulations. Would you like to say a few words? Please, thank you. This is quite an honor. Thank you, Joe. Thank you, Ariana. Thank you to all of you. Right Biometrics and the Right Spot Device was actually invented by an emergency room physician, Dr. Paul Gilbert. He's actually still practicing. But 10 years ago, within a six-month period, he had two bad outcomes with patients due to misplaced tubes. He has made it his lifetime mission since then to ensure that every tube that's intended for the stomach is in the stomach. So, it's really... It's an honor to be here accepting this award on his behalf. And it's also kind of apropos to be here in the U.K. Because here in the U.K., misplaced tubes are a reportable event, and they're a never event. And in the U.S., they're neither. So, it's wonderful to see the... Pardon me, the focus. Thank you. Thank you so much. I know tomorrow we're going to have the openings begin with the ESA president, our co-convener, Jeremy. Anything you want to say before we break and go to the Lancaster House? Okay. We're going to have buses take people to those who don't want to walk and go to the Lancaster House. I think we're going to do that at 6.45? The buses will leave at 6.30? 6.30. Buses will leave at 6.30. You will have your invitations. I think you have them by now. They're going to be very strict with them. So, please do bring your invitations. And there's some places I've not been to before. I'm very much looking forward to it. Thank you so much for hosting us tonight. Thank you for a terrific day and look forward to seeing it tonight. Thank you.


The purpose of a fluid system is to transmit power from one location to another. Fluid power is converted to mechanical power by means of an actuator. Cylinder actuators deliver a linear push-pull motion via a rod and piston within a cylindrical tube. A single-acting cylinder is a cylinder in which the working fluid acts on only one side of the piston. The other side of the cylinder utilizes a mechanical load, springs, compressed air, other cylinders, or the momentum of a flywheel to push the piston back in the other direction. This particular cylinder utilizes a spring on the non-fluid side. A single-acting cylinder produces linear motion in one direction. When a control valve directs fluid through the inlet port into the blind end, pressure builds up and generates a force on the piston. When the pressure buildup is large enough, the piston begins to move, extending the rod. This is called the forward stroke. When a control valve directs fluid out of the port, the fluid pressure is removed. The force of the spring pushes against the piston in the other direction, and the rod returns to the cylinder. This is called the retraction stroke. Single-acting cylinders are most often found in reciprocating engines, pumps, and hydraulic rams. A double-acting cylinder is a cylinder in which fluid acts on both sides of the piston. This type of cylinder can produce linear motion in two directions. A double-acting cylinder has two fluid ports, one on the blind end and one on the rod end. A directional control valve sends fluid through the blind end port while venting fluid out the rod end port back to the tank. Pressure builds up and generates a force on the piston, causing the extension stroke. When the directional control valve is shifted, it sends fluid into the rod end port out of the blind end port and back to the tank. Pressure builds up and generates a force on the other side of the piston, causing the retraction stroke. To determine the speed of a piston during extension and retraction, we must first determine the significant working areas. The full piston area is the side of the piston without the rod. This is the area that feels pressure as the piston extends. The next significant working area is called the net area. This area is the size of the full piston area minus the area of the rod. The net area feels pressure when the cylinder retracts. The speed at which the piston extends and retracts is calculated using the volumetric flow rate divided by the area for the incoming fluid. Since each side of the cylinder has a different working area, each side experiences a different speed. Let's assume that the volumetric flow rate is equal for each inlet. Because the rod takes up space within the cylinder, less fluid is required to fill that side. This means that the fluid can fill the rod end side more quickly than it can fill the blind end. Since the rod end side fills with fluid more quickly, the cylinder will always retract faster than it can extend. All the cylinders shown to this point have been single-ended. They have only one working rod. On special cylinders, two rods may be used. These are called double-ended cylinders. They have two rods, both attached to the piston, and each coming through an end cap. Double-ended cylinders work similarly to single-ended, but are used when a constant speed is required for both the extension and retraction strokes. Since the flow rate is the same and the piston areas are the same, the speed for extension and retraction is also the same. Due to their simple design, cylinders are used more often than any other type of actuator for industrial applications. Although their motion is linear, it can be converted to rotary motion by levers, racks and pinions, or other means, making them one of the most versatile types of actuator.


Kenny Pickett is a, he's f***ing good, man. Got the Moxie, not that Trebisky isn't. But this is the comparable stats here from Good Morning Football, which is still a show. Thank you, good morning. Thank you, J.M.F.B. Mitchell Trebisky was 24 of 34, completion percentage. Yeah, they messed up. Oh no. Passed yards, 283 to 261, Mitchell Trebisky wins. Yards per attempt, 8.3 to Kenny Pickett, 7.3. Mitchell Trebisky wins. Pasty to E interception ratio, two touchdowns, zero interceptions for Trebisky, three tugs for Kenny Pickett, zero interceptions for he. Go ahead, J.M.F.B. Oh, I like the Good Morning Football used a picture from his freshman year of college. I mean, he's got glorious, long flowing air. It didn't look like it in his helmet, by the way. It's like a feathered out the back, I love it.


What's up, everybody? My name is John Hammond. We're looking at MITRE CTF, the capture flag. This challenge is the 50 point web challenge, and it's called super secret hidden service. So the challenge prompt here is just a link and then the URL to this IP address here. And we have just a little, okay, insert your connection. That's fine. We'll just roll through these as usual. Add exception, blah, blah, blah. But we get nothing. This page says, 421 site, this IP address is not served on this interface. Control U gives us nothing, right? Robots.txt. Nothing there. Looks like it returned it no matter what I had in there. So literally whatever we enter, it just tells us this error message. So I had Googled this. I tried to do a little bit of a research. Site is not served on this interface. Try to Google this a little bit. Looks like the caddy community. Caddy, 404 site not served on this interface. Caddy server, it sounds like there's just a lot from all the research that I had done and from all the reading that I had done, it was able, pretty simple or at least logical to deduce that, okay, maybe this is a caddy server. I had done a little bit of research and understanding. And I was talking with people in the Discord server. We were banging our head against the wall on this for a while. If you aren't in the Discord server, you should totally come hang out. That's an awesome think tank. And someone had said, like, someone who had solved it, had said there's literally everything that you need is on the webpage. I'm like, what the F? What does that mean?  So I Googled this more, looked through it. And I tried to think of, am I missing something? Is there something clever that I'm just not seeing? I couldn't tell what it was. And then eventually, my eyes came back to the certificate. And I was wondering, why is this HTTPS? When all the other challenges, seemingly anyway, now in hindsight now that I've gone through more of them, but they're just regular HTTPS. If it's HTTPS in a CTF challenge, like if you're seeing SSL or HTTPS in a capture the flag task, it's there for a reason. Like everything that's in a CTF challenge has got to be there for a reason. So why? Some of my Google search, some of my readings had stumbled upon one kind of, this link specifically, it said, catty serves wrong SSL server for a site that's not served on an HTTPS port. And I thought this was odd because I read about it. And then I went through and they mentioned there, it's had a host file. And I was like, Oh, my God, is this like some virtual host thing? Is that not served on this interface? Kind of a tip of the hat or a nudge to, Oh, it needs a domain or it needs something specific as a virtual hosting thing. And then I was like, Oh, domains, right? Domains are stored in the certificate. So I'm like, Okay, let me dig this out. Let me let me actually open this up. Let's see what the certificate is. If I check out more information on this thing, looks like a website view certificate. It's a caddy self sign. Okay, so that confirmed that is caddy. And I opened up the view certificate, got some details here, we can explore it. I just try to look through each of these to see if I get anything interesting like a domain name or something. And then eventually, I found, Okay, we have a DNS name in the alt name, the certificate subject of 138, the IP address dot xip.io. And I was like, What is that? Do I need to set that in my server host file? And I added it in and mess with it. And turns out I didn't need to do that. Now that I've kind of relived this challenge a couple of times over again. But it's funny, had I actually just looked at that originally, like had I read through the prompt to access this on an insecure setup, like if I open Firefox again, just create a new prompt, a new page for it, let's go to that location. And I don't know if I maybe I need to close this other Firefox. I'll do it. You know what? I'll do it for you guys. Just for you. Let's go to this location. Okay, let's remove the certificate. That's probably all I needed to do.  Remove exception. Great. So having seen this prompt now, if had I not just steamrolled over it like we always tend to, it says the owner of this site has configured their website improperly. Let's check out the advanced stuff. It says this uses an invalid security certificate. The certificate is not trusted because it's self signed that I would expect. The certificate is only valid for this. So I'm like, Okay, that must be a thing. I didn't know if I needed to set an IP address for it and set our host file. Eventually, I just tried. Let's go to this location. Let's try and open that in our URL. Address bar. So HTTPS though, right? Because it needs to have that certificate. So I enter that. And this tells me, Oh, your connection's not secure. Check out advanced. But it says the certificate is not trusted because it's self signed. It doesn't matter. It seems at least be valid, right? So add exception. Yeah, okay, let's do it. And there's the flag. Like that's it. I didn't I from what I understand, there were a lot of people that were like, tweaking out over this thing, like the site's not loading for me, the page isn't working, what's going wrong, etc. And you just kind of need to be really super duper observant and everything in the page. Check out the certificate. Always check out a certificate if it exists. And that's honestly my like learning takeaway right now is if you're given a certificate in a CTF problem, it's probably there for a reason. So dig through it is does it have a domain name as having the other information email addresses, usernames, stuff that you might just find any information you can like latch onto. And that's that it gave us this IP address. And some of the research helped us find with caddy and stuff. And that's great.  But that's that that's that challenge. You can submit that get some points. And thanks for watching guys hope you enjoyed this. This is a lot of fun. I love recording these videos. I hope you guys really enjoy watching them. Thank you so much. I'm looking forward to join into the next CTF. I think TAMU CTF is gonna start or already did start. But now that minor CTF is over, I want to jump into that. So thanks for watching guys. If you liked this video, please do like comment subscribe hope to see in the next video. Love to see you on the discord server love to see you on patreon PayPal. Thank you. Thank you so much. Never say enough.


Hello and welcome to NewSkink. I'm Poranjoy Gohar Thakurtha and with me here is Ajay Shukla. He retired as a colonel in the Indian Army. He's been a combat soldier for over two decades. He was served in various parts of the country, Jammu and Kashmir, Nagaland, Manipura, Rajal Pradesh, Punjab, Rajasthan and has now been a journalist for several years now. Earlier work with NTTV is a regular columnist with business standard, has a strategic affairs blog called Broad Sword and has of course reported from the ground in Afghanistan, Iraq, Lebanon, Syria, besides of course different parts of India. Jammu and Kashmir and different parts of the north-eastern India was a UN peacekeeper in Mozambique. Thank you so much Ajay for giving us your time and pleasure. Let me start with something that's very very topic. As we are talking I heard that, I've read that the Prasar-Bharti cooperation, the one government owned broadcaster that has accused the press trust of India, arguably India's biggest news agency, of being quote-unquote anti-national. Why? Apparently because after the press trust of India interviewed the Chinese ambassador in Delhi, Sun Wei Dong, maybe my pronunciation is not all there, then the press trust of India interviewed ambassador Vikram Misri in Beijing and he was quoted as saying that Chinese troops need to move back to their side of the line of actual control and he said the only way to resolve the military standoff along the LSE is for China to stop erecting new structures. Now I mean you, because of your reporting, you have been accused of being an anti-national element by the media channels like Times Now and others. How do you react to the way the media has been drawn into this whole standoff between India and China? Let me start by saying that to be called anti-national nowadays is the highest form of praise in the media circles I think, because if you are not being called anti-national that means that you are for all practical purposes taking and reporting handouts from the government, saying exactly what the powers that we want you to say and in that sense not doing a reporting job as such, but being a stenographer for the government. So I think to say that you are anti-national is a very happy thing and I welcome it. You have done a very good thing, you are also a patriot. Further, the nation of India, which is in Beijing, Vikram Misri did what he said. Why are you so confused? According to the official narrative, there are no Chinese soldiers on Indian territory. Because if there are any Chinese soldiers on Indian territory, that would make the government look bad. So the Prime Minister has said there are no soldiers on Indian territory and he had to go back from that statement. His official website was modified to sort of accommodate that. But when the ambassador in Beijing says that the Chinese troops should go back from Indian territory across the line of actual control, then the Indian ambassador to China is also saying effectively that there are Chinese soldiers on Indian territory. So that makes him also anti-national. So welcome Mr. Misri, one more member of the anti-national club. Ajay, this controversial statement made on the 19th of June at the so-called All-Party meeting though the Aam Admi Party and the Ratri Janta Dal was not represented. I quote exactly and this was a television, everybody saw it, even if it is not currently on the official website of the Prime Minister's office or the Prime Minister. He said that there is no post on any other territory. Which has been interpreted, literally translated. Neither has anybody intruded inside our territory nor are any of our posts being captured. Now when this was said, various people commented on it including former Prime Minister Manwansingh who said that the Prime Minister has to be very mindful of the implications of his words because they have an implication on national security, on strategic and of course territorial interests. And of course the BJP reacted very, very negatively. Mr. JP Nanta, the BJP president said that Manwansingh belongs to a political party that has helplessly surrendered 43,000 square kilometres and there have been 600 Chinese incursions between 2010 and 2000. You know, I mean, we are really seeing a political slanging match when the country is supposed to be united. And then I think nobody wants more. I think that's absolutely correct, aptly summed up by you. The whole problem is that the Chinese entry into Indian territory has sort of made the government look bad, look weak, look fusillanimous. So the government has to create this fiction that no Chinese are on Indian territory. Now to create this fiction, you have to reconcile the statements of a large number of people as it is the external affairs ministry statement has gone against what the fiction should be because they have also talked about the line of actual control and respecting the need to respect the line of actual control. Vikram Mishri has talked about going back across the line of actual control. The fact that 20 Indian soldiers have been killed means that the Chinese were across on our side of the line of control or else that our soldiers went across the line of actual control, which is what the Chinese say. So now the official narrative has come to be aligned with the Chinese narrative. So there are so many complications in creating this fiction that no Chinese soldiers are on the Indian side of the line of control and I think everybody with an ounce of common sense would ask how have 20 soldiers died if no Chinese soldiers came across our side of the line of control? Is India aggressing against China? So I think it's just a fiction that China is playing very beautifully. It aligns with the statements that they want to make and depending on what China's ultimate intentions are we might rarely come to regret having made the statement that there are no Chinese soldiers on our side of the line. Let's come to that in a little bit and we'll talk about Jingoism and what's happening but let me briefly ask you to react to some of the comments that were made by left-wing general SL Narasimhan in an interview with Karan Thapar. It was a long 40-minute interview so I'm picking out some particular portions. But what he said is that on the 15th of June the clash at Galwan Valley began on Indian territory. It was a melee, both sides pushed each other around. There were physical contacts and it may have concluded on the Chinese side of the LSE and there were no Chinese on the Indian side when the clash ended. This is what he said. And he said that the structure that was destroyed by one of the people who was martyred, the Colonel Santosh Babu, was a few meters on the Indian side of the LSE. And now this is the whole thing. I mean General Narasimhan is dismissing media reports on the Galwan Valley, on Debsang, on Pangong Lake that India had agreed to some sort of a buffer zone and no man's land along this area which has always been ill-defined as to what is the line of actual control. Your comments please. General Narasimhan is an honorable man but he finds himself in the awkward position of having to support the official narrative and the method he has chosen to doing it is by saying that the Chinese were on the Indian side of the line of actual control but they were there only a few meters and they were there only temporarily because the melee began on the Indian side and then went over to the Chinese side. So now how convoluted can we get? They are there but they are there only a few meters. As far as I am concerned, if anybody violates Indian territory by even one meter that person is violating Indian territory. It's simple as all that. A violation becomes a violation at the border not after you have ingressed several kilometers inside. So, you know, there are far too many may have beens, might have beens. I believe it is my belief and statements like that which essentially absolve him from having to tell a lie. But at the bottom of the entire thing is that he is finding himself in a position as a member of the National Security Advisory Board and sort of advisor to the government of having to support the government in telling a lie. Okay, Ajay, we are all aware that the origins of the problem are very very old and it's been, I mean this problem has been going on for well over 70 years, way back in the 70s and we know that India and China haven't been able to agree on a fully demarcated border. It is different from the LOC with Pakistan, the line of control. But, you know, we've had a 62 war and now when we say that the Chinese have entered 18 kilometers into the ELSC and then they're building a helipad in the Bangong area. Now all of these, we are hearing a huge amount of claims, counter claims and most of us don't know the truth. I mean, we all know that India is the only country that held out in Asia against the BRI, the Belt and Road Initiative. The China-Pakistan Economic Corridor, we know that this whole, when Amit Shah says we'll take back every inch of Pakistan occupied Kashmir and Aksai Jinn, you know, I mean you know it's threatening not just the BRI, there are two corridors, the Tibet-Zinjiang Corridor and the Kashgar-Gwadar Corridor. Now if Amit Shah thought he was meant for a domestic audience, the Chinese clearly responded by building up the infrastructure quicker than what we anticipated. It would certainly appear to the unbiased observer that the Home Minister was extremely rash in saying what he said. Basically threatening both Pakistan and China. There are negotiations underway with both countries for these disputed territories. And when you sort of make a political statement that we will get back these territories, especially having come on the back of having already made a very aggressive move in Kashmir, then it would be sort of harsh to assume that only Indians are listening to this speech and you know the foreign people concerned are not hearing what I'm saying or not taking it seriously. These are not the actions of the Serious Defence Minister. So I think that you know the ball may have been set into motion. The ball that has led to the current crisis and the current standoff may have been set in motion there. There could be other reasons as well as you bring out yourself. China might be well sort of seeking to give India a message that there is only one power pyramid in Asia and at the apex of that power pyramid sits China, not you. So there could be that dimension as well. And there is of course this whole issue of infrastructure building which China has never liked on the Indian side. There is no reason why we should not build infrastructure on our own territory. Let me ask you a few questions about the geopolitical aspects of what you just commented on. But before that, what General Harcharanjit Singh Panagya, he's retired as left in general, he says China has taken over ridges that are strategically important. Now, strategically important for these corridors. Now these are 14,000 feet, 16,000 feet above sea level. We know the famous statement made by Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru, not a blade of grass grows in Aksai Chin. But one claim is that commanding officer Santosh Babu went with 35 jawans to negotiate a Chinese dismantling of structures that had been agreed on. Now, this is the whole issue. You had a face off on the 5th and the 6th of May. And then on the 6th of June at Chushul, you had a first meeting of the lay core commander left in general, Harinder Singh, and the South Xinjiang military region's representative, Major General Lin Liu, if I'm not correct, if I'm correct. So the point is what, I mean, if you look at the sequence of events, why don't you just clarify what happened and then I'll ask you a few questions on the bigger geopolitical story. Yes. It's hard for me to offer anyone here to actually piece together the precise events that took place that day and the events that led to the killing of 20 soldiers. But we can certainly assume and be sure of a few things. One is that Colonel Babu who was the commander on the ground at the spot over there, a brave man, a good soldier by all accounts. He was charged with the job of ensuring that Chinese ingress into Indian territory had been reversed, that the structures they had built on Indian territory had been dismantled, and that they had gone over to the Chinese side itself. Now that tells its own story to all those who wish to exercise their common sense, which side of the line of control were the Chinese. Clearly on the Indian side, they were to go back to the Chinese side. The other thing we can be sure of is that the Chinese had sort of created an altercation. This sort of Indian pressure to move back on their side was not taken kindly to by the Chinese and an altercation began and there were casualties in that altercation. We do not know how many Chinese were killed in that altercation. It is very regrettable that the Indian government has sought to make acceptable the killing of 20 Indian soldiers by seeking to create the narrative that 43 Chinese soldiers were also killed. I don't care if one Chinese soldier was killed, 10 were killed, 20 or 100. The deaths of 20 Indian soldiers have to be sort of accounted for. And if there was any sort of missed judgment of the tactical situation or some sort of militarily unsound decisions that were taken that led to those deaths, that needs to be judged regardless of how many Chinese soldiers were killed. There are just too many fictions being created around all these events which are resulting in our losing focus on what the real issues are, what we should be looking at. And that is very, very regrettable and it's a direct function of this whole politicization of this event. Okay, let's talk a little bit about the geopolitical aspects of what has happened. Now it's hardly a secret that suddenly China perceives India to have tilted excessively towards the United States and the Quad which includes Japan and Australia. Now, after Article 370 was written down and all that happened in parliament, what Amit Shah said, we've also seen Houdi Modi and Namaste Trump happening. But the point is, if India joins the United States geopolitically, will it be beneficial for us? Will it be economically beneficial for us? Will it be geopolitically beneficial for us? Many say we have both nuclear powers but India will be hurt far more than China and just even the trade boycott and the investment relations or the restrictions on investment is all going to hurt India more than that. So how do you see the whole geopolitical compulsions and what has happened in Ladakh? I mean it means for what has happened and what is likely to happen at the end of the day. Perhaps you can argue that President Xi Jinping has accumulated more power than any Chinese leader since Mao or Mao Zedong. We can talk about all those. We know that Modi also needs to save peace. So how do you sort of connect all these dots together, the geopolitical dots and the geo-strategic dots? First of all, the access or the deepening of friendship with the United States of America is long overdue, is to be extremely sort of happily welcomed by all parties concerned in India and will certainly be in India's national interest. That having been said, this is no more so than the deepening of relationship with Russia, with China, with the European countries and so on and so forth. What I am really saying is India should be deepening its relationship with all countries. It should be deepening its relationship with the United States but not getting into any camp or any overt alliance with one or the other, the superpowers. That has always been India's sort of multi-alignment strategy. Earlier it was called non-alignment. It is seen as the best way to avoid getting into conflicts and to maximize India's national insecurity interests. The problem starts, however, when as you increase your relationship and deepen your friendship with one country, if another country that is hostile to that first country or deepening your relationship with, in this case China with America, then you have potentially a problem on your hands because there is pressure from country A, namely America, to ally with that country or to at least partner that country in countering country B, which is China. There is also on the part of country B, which is China, the fear that this country India is getting too deep into the other country's camp and that needs to be deterred in some way. But when it takes the form of armed action as it has taken now, I think we need to ask ourselves several questions here. Was India really too deep into the American camp? Is that it aroused China's sort of fears to such an extent that China felt emboldened to act militarily? Which got exacerbated by the COVID pandemic and the economic crisis that is accompanying it. Paranjoy, one of the great lessons that China has internalized from the 1962 war was that it was a tactical victory but a huge strategic defeat because for half a century after that it has placed India in opposition to China. And therefore I am a little hesitant to jump too easily to the conclusion that China is doing what it is doing because it wants to deter India from joining the American camp because the one action that is certain if China takes any steps forward in this matter and perhaps gets into an open war with India is that India will be an alienable part of the American axis and be a part of the Quad forevermore. So is China making that same strategic error that it made in 1962? That's the question that we want to ask ourselves because if China has become smarter than it was at the time of Mao then the aim behind what it is doing is different. It is more tactical, less strategic, less geopolitical and it could have to do something with just sort of while sending a subliminal message to India it could be more to do with tactical issues like infrastructure building and sort of encouraging India to reach a border settlement that favors China or things of that kind. So I think we'll have to wait and see how this plays out and then there are a jump to these conclusions. Okay, my last question to you since you have limited time. We don't want to be jingoistic. We don't want war. Neither side may be innocent but both sides tried to build perhaps infrastructure where the line of actual control is not well defined. Is the board calling the cat to cat lack? Are we going to get into more and more into this tutu-meh-meh business? The Chinese didn't react initially when the TBO, the Dolatbe Goldi Road was being built and then Alam Bell's land after what happened Article 370 was written down but with. Mr. Modi, India's Prime Minister has invested heavily in his relationship with the Chinese President Xi Jinping. We know that they've met at least 18 times since he became Prime Minister including one-on-one meetings at Wuhan April 2018 in Mahabali Puram in October 2019, the famous swing on the banks of the Sabar Mati. So now this excludes all the time he spent when he was Chief Minister of Gujarat but the point is since Mr. Modi became Prime Minister in 2014 he's met the Chinese Premier at least 18 times and he's visited China five times. So we're seeing the belligerence on the part of Nepal, on the Mahishu. So how does Mr. Modi save base? I go back to the final question. What do you see happening from here onwards on the India side and on the China side? Well, let me start by saying that I don't necessarily think that meeting the Chinese Prime Minister numerous times is a bad thing. For India it would be good if the Prime Minister met the leader and the supreme leader I should say of China as many times as possible. The problem however starts when the Indian Prime Minister starts seeing these meetings as a substitute for the hard actions that are needed to drive forward the diplomatic relationship or he sees it as a way of having won over the Chinese president and put him in his pocket and now China will do what India wants. That would be self delusion of the highest order and my fear is that in these 19 or 18 meetings Prime Minister Modi may not have really understood Xi Jinping but Xi Jinping has really understood Prime Minister Modi and he has understood his vulnerability in the sense of his need to appear powerful and domestically strong to his audience which leads directly to the conclusion from the Chinese side that his need to not be seen as having taken a body blow from the Chinese means that even when we go into Indian territory Modi and his supporters will argue that we have not come there. So this is a very dangerous situation to be in. Going forward from here, I mean that Mr Modi is China's best choice as Prime Minister for India. I think that Mr Modi in the chair over here would give a lot of happiness to China because he appears to believe that he is a great supporter of China has a great relationship with China, with China Supreme Leader. So why would China want to shake him off the chair? So I think that going forward there will be a modus vivendi. Mr Modi will actively acquiesce in trying to paint that vivendi as sort of an equal one with China but it will be on China's terms by the looks of it. Thank you so much, Jay for giving us your time and giving us your views. Thank you for the pleasure of talking to you. And time alone will tell what happens from here onwards but on behalf of all the viewers of this program and on behalf of Newsclick thank you very much once again and keep watching Newsclick.


Have you ever wondered how to get someone to like you? They may think you're pretty alright, whether this is a crush friend or acquaintance, but you want them to jump for joy at the mere sight of you. Well, that may not be so easy to happen, the literal jumping, but there are a few things that people find likeable. Do you do these things? Possess these traits? People are more likely to like you if you do these five things. 1. You're holding a warm beverage. Do you like your coffee hot or iced? If you prefer your beverages cold then you may need to switch over to the hot side. You may just come across as hotter. This study does suggest you may come across as warmer. A 2008 study published in the academic journal Science found that if you're holding a warm beverage people may perceive you as more personable. The researchers conducted two studies with interesting results. The study states, In study one, participants who briefly held a cup of hot versus iced coffee judged a target person as having a warmer personality, generous, caring. In study two, participants holding a hot versus cold therapeutic pad were more likely to choose a gift for a friend instead of for themselves. Hm, how sweet of them, see? You may not only be perceived as sweet as the hot cocoa you're holding on your date, but hopefully as hot as it is too. We can only dream, right? 2. They see you in a group first. Do you hang out with your friends often? In large groups? No? Well, you might as well say yes to that next group outing because it may make others see you as more attractive and even like you more. Research shows that people tend to find others more attractive when they are in groups than on their own. This idea is called the cheerleader effect and has been proven through tests by psychologists to be consistent. Researchers Edward Voll and Drew Walker of the University of California, San Diego conducted five experiments where subjects would rate people based on photographs of them. They found that subjects rated people more attractive when they were pictured in a group of the same gender compared to an individual photograph of someone pictured alone. As the study suggests, individual faces will seem more attractive when presented in a group because they will appear more similar to the average group face, which is more attractive than group members, individual faces. 3. Do you make small mistakes sometimes? Do you often make mistakes? It's time to rejoice. Your time has arrived to be appreciated. Well, kind of. While it's best to be our best selves, small mistakes and blunders are bound to happen from time to time. While you may think of this as an embarrassing or unattractive thing, sometimes people perceive it as the opposite. A study published in the journal Psychonomic Science found that if you make some small mistakes but still show that you are capable and intelligent, you may be seen as more attractive. In the study, researcher Elliot Aronson had people rate fake test takers based on their attractiveness. Test takers would either do great on a test, mediocre or poor. The imperfection? Some test takers would act clumsy and spill coffee at the end of the interview. After their scores were revealed, people rated the test takers who spilled coffee at the end of their interview the highest on the attractive scale, meaning people want to see you are intelligent and capable, but that you aren't perfect. As the research paper states, a superior person may be viewed as superhuman and therefore distant. A blunder tends to humanize them and, consequently, increases their attractiveness. Poor test takers, mediocre test takers and even great test takers were still rated lower than the superior test taker who scored great and spilled coffee at the end. Others may be intimidated if you come across as perfect and make no mistakes. They want to see your human side, but when you show you're capable and yet still relatable as a human being who makes mistakes, people tend to like you more. Number four, you give people compliments. Do you enjoy receiving compliments? Are you pretty good at telling when they're genuine? People are pretty good at spotting when a compliment is genuine versus just being polite. So when you genuinely appreciate something about someone, let them know. Wouldn't you want to know if someone was thinking highly of you? When we speak of others in a positive light, people will associate the traits we use to describe that person with ourselves. This happens when we talk about someone to someone else. This is called spontaneous trait transference. And it occurs when communicators are perceived as possessing the very traits they describe in others. According to several studies published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, researchers found that when we describe someone with a certain trait to another person, that person will associate us with the trait described. So who will you compliment next? And number five, you're a great listener and allow others to talk about themselves too. Who doesn't love having a caring friend who is a great listener? It's great to allow both parties to talk a bit about themselves when having a conversation. And if you really want someone to like you, the key may just be to simply listen to them. Let them talk about themselves for a while too. Harvard researchers discovered that taking the time to talk about yourself can have its rewards. In one of the five studies, subjects sat in an FMRI machine and had to respond to questions about either their own opinions on a subject or another's. Regions of the brain associated with reward and motivation were most active when talking about their own thoughts on a subject, as opposed to others. In fact, the need to talk about ourselves is so strong that in another study conducted by Harvard researchers, some subjects even declined money to talk about themselves more, as the research article states. Self-disclosure was strongly associated with increased activation in brain regions that formed the mesolimbic dopamine system, including the nucleus accumbens and ventral-tankmental area. Moreover, individuals were willing to forego money to disclose about the self. Don't be afraid to share your opinions and thoughts, but also remember to listen to theirs as well. They may just like you for it. And you may just hear something about them that you like. So, do you do any of these things? Will you work on your listening skills? Be less embarrassed when you make a small blender? Feel free to share with us your thoughts in the comments down below. If you enjoyed this video, don't forget to click the like button and share it with a friend. Subscribe to Psych2Go and hit the notification bell icon for more content like this. As always, thanks so much for watching.


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