This is a joint work with Abyshek Jane, Adriana Lopez-Hart, around Thromer, if you're not by Contanata, and then in Wix. And in secure multi-party computation, we have some set of parties, such as private input, and they wish to compute some joint function of their inputs without revealing any unnecessary information. FHE provides that fully homomorphic encryption and provides us a really nice and simple template for secure two-party computation. Charlie creates the keys, sends the public key to get the encryption of its input to Sally. Sally encrypts her input and then homomorphically evaluates the function on the ciphertext. On the encrypted input, get an evaluated ciphertext Y, send it back to Charlie who has the decryption key and can decrypt and learn the result. So that's it. That's the old protocol. It's really simple and nice protocol. In addition, this protocol has several advantages of regular and classical MPC protocols. First of all, it has really low round complexity. We have only two rounds. We have one message from Charlie to Sally and one message back. And that's it. In addition, it has really low communication complexity. All the information that it sends is the public key encryption of input and encryption of output. And that's it. In particular, it's independent of the function F on the complexity of the function that the parties compute. Third, it has really low computation. Charlie is lazy. He doesn't do anything. He just creates keys, decrypts, and that's it. And it's really, really simple template. It's really easy to understand why it's secure and what is going on. And our question is, how can we take all these advantages to the multi-party case? In the multi-party case, we have one party that creates the keys. One party should do the homomorphic evaluation. The party that does the homomorphic evaluation should have all the encryptions of all the inputs. One of the two parties could load the one that does the homomorphic evaluation. The one that holds the secret key. Once they both collude, they learn anything. They learn all the inputs of all the other parties. So how can we get all these advantages in the multi-party? So the idea is to use what we call a threshold fully homomorphic encryption. Here, the key generation is now a functionality or interactive protocol and no longer an algorithm. And the parties invoke this key generation functionality, who creates the keys, sends back the parties, the joint public key, together with a share of the secret key. So no one knows the secret keys, but we have the information in the system. Later, the parties can do the homomorphic input encryption. Each party can take the input and encrypt it under the joint public key, send it to all other parties. Later, the party can do, each party, given all the encryptions of inputs, can homomorphically evaluate the function on the ciphertext and get a joint ciphertext. The comments evaluate the ciphertext. Why? We can assume that a homomorphic evaluation is a terministic function. So all the parties get the same value. We can also delegate this step to a cloud. We can send it to a server, external server that does this homomorphic evaluation. And so the parties and the server send back the parties the evaluated ciphertext. Then, given the common ciphertext y and share of the secret key, the parties come to the decryption. Again, the decryption now is a functionality and not an algorithm. The parties send to the functionality the common ciphertext y together with the shares of the secret key. The functionality reconstruct the secret key and decrypt the value and send back the parties the message m. So for conclusion, the MPC protocol is simply threshold key generation, which is now a functionality that creates joint public key share of the secret key. The parties encrypt their input and homomorphically evaluate the function. And then we have, again, the threshold decryption, which is now a functionality. So given an implementation for fully homomorphic encryption and given this template that we just show, we can implement the threshold key generation and threshold decryption using generic multiparty computation techniques like BMW and stuff like that. So this approach already give us several advantages. First of all, we have low communication complexity. Communication complexity is independent of the function F. The homomorphic evaluation, as we have seen, can be easily delegated to a cloud. We can also get a low computation. With several disadvantages, first of all, we need to use the heavy machinery of the MPC technique, of the general MPC technique. We need to use GMW with all the zero knowledge at each step. And in addition, we can also have the round complexity can be very high, which is, since we use generic MPC, we can do it in a constant round, but the constants may be not a nice constant to work with. So what we show in the paper, we show how we can implement threshold key generation, threshold decryption. We show a concrete implementation for those two functionalities, for the recent scheme of Barkev scheme and Vinod, and Barkev de Gentry and Vinod. This already give us the advantages like we had before, low communication complexity and the ability to delegate the computation to external server. But in addition, our scheme is really simple. There is no need for the generic MPC technique. And most importantly, our protocol achieves a really extremely low round complexity. Our protocol is only three broadcast rounds. The question of round complexity and what is the minimal number of rounds that we can construct protocol is a theoretically interesting question. And we show the first three rounds protocol for any function. The protocol's general can compute any function. So we show the first three rounds protocol in the CRS model and the common reference string one. In addition, our protocol is only two rounds in the public infrastructure, which is optimal. Our results holds for the semi-honest. And the malicious as well, wherein the malicious we also we get use security for any number of corrupted parties. But we need to add the assumption of using ISC, the existence of non-interactive zero knowledge. And if you want to do this delegation to a cloud, we in addition need the cloud to prove that he has computed the correct function. So we need to assume CS proofs and non-interactive arguments. But we don't have to assume it if we can do it by each party evaluate the function by himself. Some words about related work. CDN were the first to show MPC with threshold homomorphic encryption. In those days, there was no FHG yet. Gentry, in 2009, among some other things, showed how to do MPC with using threshold FHG. Bending and Damgar showed how to do threshold version for LWE, which our scheme is also realizing the same assumption. We took ideas from that paper. Katzenostrovsky showed a lower bound of five rounds for MPC in the plain model, which means that the CRS is essential in order to get three rounds. And we have a concurrent world that show another threshold version of another FHG scheme. So I'm starting with the details. I'm starting with the LWE assumption, the learning refer assumptions. Here we have two distribution. And we assume that they are indistinguishable. The first distribution, each sample of the first distribution, is simply the uniform distribution. It's simply the uniform. The second distribution, we have some secret S that we choose uniformly at random. And for each sample, we choose AI to be the uniform. We took some small error and we compute VI to be the inner product of AI with S, with the secret S. And we add this noise, EI. So the LWE assumption says that those two distributions are indistinguishable. It's hard to distinguish. Recall, observe that without the error, it's really easy to distinguish. All we need to do is just gauss elimination. So the LWE, one can show that the LWE is also hard once we take Q, Q to be odd. And we choose the error to be small and even. So given this assumption, we can build a basic encryption scheme. The symmetric key, the secret key is simply S. In order to encrypt a bit mu, what we do is just take a uniformly random A and compute the inner product of A with S. Add some even noise. Add the message mu. In order to decrypt, what we take is we need to create. Our cybertext includes A and B. We know the secret key S. And so in order to decrypt, we need to compute the inner product of A with S. Once we remove that from B, we are left with some even noise plus mu. We take everything, too, and we get only mu. For the public key, we do the generic transformation. The secret key, again, is just S. The public key is just a bunch of encryptions of 0. And so once we have a bunch of encryptions of 0, it is like we take a matrix A, multiply with S, and take an even vector of noise. This is exactly what we have over here. In order to decrypt, what we do is just we take a random subset sum of the public key and we add our B to mu. So this is the encryption scheme. And the cybertext under the symmetric key and the cybertext under the public key looks exactly the same, meaning we have some coefficient A inner product of A with S plus even noise plus mu. So this basic scheme has really nice key homomorphic properties. If you take two public keys, the one is corresponds to secret key S1. The other is corresponds to secret key S2. But those two public keys were made under some joint coefficient under some joint parameter A, the same matrix A. Once we take those two public keys and we add them, we get a new public key, the joint public key, that corresponds to the summation of the secret keys. OK, so we create a new public key from existing public key. This is really close to what we have in El Gamal, that we can take public keys and combine them into a joint public key. So given this, we can show the threshold key generation for this basic scheme quite easily. Each part just creates its own secret key. And according to some joint parameter, random matrix A that we have in the sky, in the CRS, each party can create its own public key, send it. And so at the end of this run, all the parties can do locally the summation, the sum of all those public keys, and get the joint public key, which corresponds to the summation of the secret keys. In fact, this is exactly what we wanted. We wanted to create somehow a joint public key from the public key. And to have a secret key, to have the chief party, we'll have a share of the secret key. And since we have summation of secret keys, this is exactly an out-of-end secret sharing. So in addition to the key generation, we can also have threshold decryption quite easily. What we have, we have some joint ciphertext. A and B, all the parties knows this joint ciphertext, where B is encrypted under the joint secret key under S-star, which is the summation of the secret key. Recall that in order to decrypt, what we need to do is to compute the inner product of A with S-star. So we need to somehow create this inner product, and no one knows S-star, so how can we do that? So the idea is that, given this coefficient A, each party just compute the inner product of A with its own secret key, add some even noise, send it, and at the end of this operation, we get exactly the inner product of A with the summation of the secret key with the joint secret key. And each party can compute locally B minus V, which gives it some even noise, plus mu, take everything, minus two, and we are left with mu. We need to play a little bit with the noises, because this gives some information about the original noise that we have in the ciphertext, but we can do that, we can play with the noise and do exactly this protocol for decryption. So we show how we do threshold key generation, threshold decryption, each takes only one round for the basic scheme, but the basic scheme is not fully homomorphic. What we need is fully homomorphic encryption. So let's see the scheme, the basic scheme is additively homomorphic, but when we come to multiplication, it's a little bit more complicated. We can't just take two ciphertexts and multiply them and take and get a nice ciphertext. Like we want. So here we have a recent work by BV and BJV, that shows that once we have all the multiplications, once we have all the products of the secret key, all the pearls, S-I-S-Js, all those encryptions public, we can take two ciphertexts and do some magic that gives us the cipher, which hides the multiplication of the ciphertext. This is simplified, I'm cheating, but we can't do that. And what it means for us, it means that we need to generate all those encryptions in a threshold manner. We need that the parties needs to create all the products of the joint secret key. We call that the joint secret key is simply the summation of the secret keys. We need to create all the encryptions of the product S-I-I with S-I-J. Now, if we plug in just writing instead of S-I-I, we write the summation of the secret keys. What we should make is encryptions of all of that. Since the scheme, our scheme is additively homomorphic, we can move the sigma outside. And in fact, what we get is just encryptions of all the pairs S-K-I with S-L-J, meaning that it's enough to create the encryption, the I positions of parties K secret key with the J positions of party L secret key. Once we have all this information, we can come back to S-I with S-L-J. So I'm going to show how to do that in three rounds, although in the paper we do it in two rounds. So in the first round, we call that the parties create joint public key. This is what we had before with the matrix A. In the second round, what each party does, it just takes its secret key and encrypts each element, each positions of its own secret key. All the parties do that and send it and at the end of this round, all the parties knows all the single positions of the secret key, the encryptions of all the single positions of the single keys of all parties. In the third round, what we'd like to do is to take these elements for each one of those elements S-K-I, we want to multiply in S-L-J, we want to get all the S-K-I with S-L-J. So we do that for each one of the encryption that we had before, each party just multiply in all the positions of its own secret key. Essentially, you can do that because the scheme is additively homomorphic, which means that we can add ciphertext, which also means that we can multiply with a constant. Once we know the constant and we have the encryptions, which is just, it's like, multiply with a constant, it's like we add the same number of time, the encryption. And so we get all the parties do the same. And so at the end of this round, we have all the encryptions of S-K-I with S-L-J. And as we mentioned before, this is enough to create the encryption of S-I with S-L-J. So this is the basic, this is the scheme. I'm repeating the protocol just for conclusion what we have in round one. In the first round, the parties established the joint public key. In the second round, each party creates encryptions of single positions of its own secret key. At the round three, each party multiplies in all the S-L-J. And at the end of this round, the parties can compute S-I with S-L-J. In the paper, we show how we can combine the first round and the second round and get the key generation of two rounds total. So we get only two rounds key generation, one round for decryption. And so the overall MPC protocol, we have three short key generation of two rounds where in the first round, the parties creates the public key plus some information for the evaluation key. At the end of round two, they finish the creation of the evaluation key. Now I recall that the parties need to encrypt their inputs, but the public key is already ready after the first round. And so the parties can encrypt their inputs after the second round of key generation together concurrently with the second round of key generation. Okay, so after the second round, all the parties know the public key evaluation key and the encryption of the inputs of all other parties. Moreover, the threshold decryption takes one round and we are done. Only three rounds MPC protocol. Some words about the malicious, so we showed how to do that for the semi-honest. We assume that the parties follow the protocol. For the malicious, we can just take the generic transformation which means that we need coin tossing for the random tapes of all the parties. We want uniformly coins for all the random tapes plus take zero knowledge or non-interactive zero knowledge. This will give us the problem of this approach that increases the round complexity and the generic non-interactive zero knowledge is not efficient. What we do in the paper, we show that the coin tossing is not necessary, meaning that in some critical parts in the protocol, the parties, the honest parties can smudge out bad noise of the corrupted parties by adding some bigger noise. And so if you use bad randomness, it can only hurt you because it gives some information about your secrets. And so we save the coin tossing. In addition, we show efficient Sigma protocols for all the zero knowledge relations that we have in our protocol, which means that we can get non-interactive zero knowledge efficient, non-interactive zero knowledge in the random molecule model. So for conclusion, we show a threshold fully homomorphic encryption based on LWE. In the paper, we also have a variant for the wring LWE, which is more efficient. We get three rounds multi-party protocol. It's only two rounds in a PKI and it's also reusable, meaning that we can take the same PKI and compute again and again over different functions. Our protocol has really low communication complexity, low run complexity, easy to delegate, and that's it. Thank you very much. Questions? Please use the microphone. Thank you. So you may have been getting this sum in the last slide, but I want to understand a little bit better whether you can get a true threshold K out of N system out of this. Yeah, we can do that. We also show that in the paper. And how does that affect the efficiency? Efficiency? Yeah. It's, in terms of number of rounds, you can get five rounds in total because you need to record, just in order to get T out of N, each party just need to do T out of N for its own secret key and send it to the others. We also get fairness for honest majority. So it means that when parties come to the, someone has cheated and we want to, or abort and we want to reconstruct its secret. So we need additional round of disreconstruction. So we take five rounds in total. One for the key gen, one for the decryption. Thanks. Other questions? Okay, let's thank Gerard. I know all of us keep us in this session.


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Please advise See that's the thing what you gotta Um, look at what you're saying Joanna when you say this guy is really nice Uh, hold on one second Have a commercial break real quick. I forgot to pray for I got on you know So I need to go talk to the lord You got to look at what you're saying now when you say he's really nice and good manners But after three months of dating he became impatient and sarcastic. He wanted sex. Please advise So that shows you who he really is. He's not a nice guy with good manners. He's actually a guy who Showed you his representative and he was playing games with you. 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I have been listening to worldly dating coaches to get a wife or girlfriend Well, if if you if you godly then you shouldn't be listening to worldly dating coaches because they're not going to get you godly advice So if gods they don't fornicate and the worldly coaches say hey, go sleep round You know go do what you want to do then you getting bad advice, you know you you wouldn't ask somebody who Don't know how to do what you trying to do how to do it, you know So you got to think about that because your input going to determine your output But the thing about worldly dating coaches is that It's going to be The information going to be easier to digest because when you're doing things the right way, it's harder It requires more sacrifice Boo Baker. God bless you. Haven't heard from my ex in two weeks after an argument He called yesterday. I told him to stay gone doesn't take two weeks to calm down.  It don't take that long now And you can't take no two week break just because you had an argument. That's not a relationship So when you have an argument in relationship, y'all sit down and y'all talk that thing out and you work it out You you get on the same page what he did.  Thank you, tony I'm on the last chapter of a woman's influence good read. Hey god bless you Jacqueline. Let me see if I miss. I'm up here Real quick Okay, I think I got it tiny Jordan.  I'm trying to cut off a soul tie last week and struggling a bit. I keep I'm keeping myself busy as usual, but still feel sad any suggestions. What else I can do to stay focused Um Veronica, it just was a week ago, you know, so you got to realize a soul tie Some soul tie take a lifetime, you know, so you're talking about one week.  So when you get off here Go back to reading your book when you finish reading your book lock in on your favorite show on netflix Uh go on a bike ride go walking, you know start writing your book start planning your company What's the name of your company who you're going to serve? What's your logo look like? What colors is it? You see what I mean? So it's so much that you could be doing. All right, you got your for-profit company What about your non-profit company because you're going to make good money in your for-profit company But you need a charitable thing that you need to be able to give back what that looked like What's the name of you see what I mean? A lot of times we think we don't have work to do When it's always something that we could be building upon Um lady, what does it mean if he hasn't had a serious relationship after you? It's been a year Well, it's still early, you know, it's still early and and uh You really don't know if he hasn't had a serious relationship because that's between him and her She might think they full fledged all in and they might be full fledged all in and you don't know that So, you know, what does it mean? The real question is what does it mean that you still worried about him and it's been a year That you still checking for him and it's been a year. What does that mean? See, that's that's the real question. See you weren't about the wrong thing. And so you got to realize You got to ask you got to ask a different question like why am I checking for him? Why am I worried about him? What am I doing with my life that I'm still looking backwards? And it's been a whole year Hey in the chat only put a question if you don't have a question, don't type anything, please Because it's thing going Disappearing on me. If you don't have a question, don't type anything, please What type of video should I make? Regarding the dating and relationships niche What are the best platforms to use as far as social media platforms? Devante if you want to do videos um instagram tv and Facebook just posting the video from your phone and youtube of course those are going to be your top three for that dating and relationship Instagram tv they trying to build it still so they're going to push you the algorithm going to be there.  And you haven't even met yet um He just don't know what he's doing. Jessica martinez. God bless you. Just God bless part in her life He just don't know what he's doing He don't know how to date. He just you know, he's socially awkward. He just a little You know a little slow in the dating world and just don't know how to talk to a woman approach a woman They don't really mean a whole lot though to be honest with you. He just don't have a clue what he's doing Is it okay to date just to gain the experience and not to find love? Well, it's kind of like this. Is it okay to play fire play with fire? If I don't want to get burned, you know what I mean? So it's like If you dating stuff come with dating like there's nothing casual about dating when you date you form Soul ties emotional or physical or spiritual. So there's repercussions to dating So if you're going to date you got to date intentional You got to be ready for a real relationship for a soul tie And you got to be desiring marriage if you don't desire that then don't date because Things going to come with it. You could be talking to somebody talking about you getting experience, but that's Ted Bundy nephew So here you will talking Ted Bundy nephew And you think you just getting experience and he got totally different plans for you. You see what I mean?   God bless God bless How to identify when God is calling you towards a purpose. I have a hard time identifying my gifts um Purpose is not about a gift. So purpose is about service. So Serving like what you see um share h doing she she put and put the hashtag before the queue And thank you for that sheriff for putting that in there. You ain't got to put it You ain't got to put it enough. Uh, no more share. I think they But you see what share doing she's saying look, I'm gonna come on here and this live going People live being touched being changed I'm not giving advice, but let me serve. You see what I mean that could be purpose That could be purpose. So You got to think about that like purpose start with where can you serve? You could go to the soup kitchen You know, you go down to the soup kitchen and do that And you could go To the local foundation and in that your gift may be serving Baby, that is blocked all of a sudden. He sent me money thoughts. Well, that's your baby. That's carolina So take the money, you know and don't worry about it Take the money don't worry about it and um a count it all joy wealth of the wicked stored up for the righteous How do I break a soul tie from my husband who abandoned me? and my children for the third time in five years You're gonna need coaching you're gonna need coaching with that one because this your husband um, what you say Third time in five years.  Um, the soul ties course is ontonic gassesacademy.com I reduced it from 50 dollars to five dollars because this is the perfect time for people to be breaking soul ties so I just wanted to make it you know dirt cheap but The work is gonna look the same. No matter how deep your relationship is the work is gonna look the same It just may take longer. So you reading you getting new knowledge You're doing coaching you working on yourself. You're building your dream.   You're not allowed to use on here. I mean my goodness You need to be in a therapy session Chanel. Come on now.   It really ain't about, you know, what you doing That's in that man. So if a man is emotionally intelligent, if a man is healthy whole hill confident You could be back crazy and that ain't gonna make him get out of character. He's just gonna say, okay All right. See you later. Ain't going by his business. So that's what you got to realize on that It's just what he them been through and I tell people all the time some men have been raised so cold They don't know how to be warm like some men begin punched in their chest since they were six months old And that's what you got to realize. So when he come into a relationship He don't even know how to function and be gentle because he begin punked and bullied his whole life Even sometimes by his daddy Tiffany God bless you appreciate you Tony your genuineness and honesty your sincere love for helping people God bless you and sure we ate God bless. I sure appreciate you um Lorenzo You mentioned legal zoom and llc.com. I'm wondering if one is even slightly better than the other or if the quality and service is the same I go with legal zoom. They cost more go with legal zoom.com. They bigger they more well known llc.com popped up You know, they really ain't got The budget to do the marketing that legal zoom can do I use legal zoom for my first company that I formed in 2008 So, um, they've been around since then so They do what they supposed to do Ventus eagle Hey in the chat only put questions in there, you know, I told the moderators to remove the other Messages so the waving hands the hate emojis so that I could get to the questions So I could really help the people who got a question all the extra y'all leave that out of there Don't don't put nothing in the chat unless you got a question. Okay Ventus eagle my date six months.  I unfollowed him And he asked me why my date six months I told him why and told him if he does it again, I'll block him. He did then I blocked them I just sent him your video about a man in his social media.  You playing a game all wrong.  You just you see what I'm saying and then he continues to do it. He does not respect you So Six months you've been dating them It's the end of it now It's time to move on with your life because social media does matter And every man knows that you should not be liking another woman pictures if you got a girlfriend or you dating this woman You should not be liking other woman pictures because that's sending a message to that woman Diane god bless you just wanted to bless you mr. Gats for your time and your world of blessing part in her life or part in her life tilde God bless you now the coach's mentor Now make sure you join us not till the on my mentor dot life So you start coaching some of some some of our clients too. Now god bless you till the part in her life, lord From one coach to another i've been so blessed by a woman's influence.  That's a perfect thing to do That's a perfect thing to do Especially if it's not a number that you had since eighth grade Do everybody named mama got it the way you have to notify a thousand people that you change your number But that's a perfect thing to do Linda we didn't speak for a week, but he ended up calling me and telling me And sending me pics that he moved out of his ex's place and working To better himself with everything he is serious with everything else is he serious about us? He might not necessarily be serious about y'all, but he's serious about working on himself And you really don't know if he actually moved out or not. So You know if y'all ain't talk go on about your pity Hi Tony, I purchased two of your books. Thank you. Have you written a book strictly speaking on understanding men? Understanding men That book had to be longer the bible That's what these videos is to be honest with you because I can't write that much in the world So that's every day what I'm doing is hour long videos make that your book because I can't write no book on that because That book would be so long. You hear me? They wouldn't even be able to print that book but um I have not I have not that that's a that's a good idea though. I try to see what I can do How do I kindly show my husband that his grown boy behavior is no longer acceptable? Mimi god bless you God bless you not what you're gonna have to do Mimi is read a woman's influence Read a woman's influence in here.  So what this means is You may have to Pull back you may have to be in the house But be silent. You may have to remove your energy.   It's like ariana You could feel that way, but what you want for you know what I mean? It's kind of like you got to ask yourself. Do I want a cookie?  It's really not that you built him up for the next woman It's just he was on his journey and you was a part of his journey so he he was not going to be your husband regardless because When his when he intersected with you if he was intended to be your husband He would have grew in in your season in the season that you were in his life. So when he takes and He moves forward to the next woman.   You reinforced that so you didn't actually build them up You reinforced the negative behavior. So then when y'all broke up now he gets with the next woman If he gets with the next woman she put her foot down She actually building them up because she put her foot down You see what I mean and so you can't really focus on that instead You got to say what can I learn from this?  You see what I mean versus looking backwards And and that's where it gets a little complicated. Natasha.  What are your thoughts on women who date younger men cougars? I don't think you have a video on this Um, no, I don't have no video on that I really don't understand women, you know, I answer questions about men. I really don't I and and to be honest with you. I saw a cougar last night on the show. I was watching what that show was Uh on Netflix. Me and my wife was watching Netflix and chill Selling sunset selling sunset. We were watching the reality the people who sell houses in california And they had a lady on there that was 38 and she was a man that's 25 I could look at that man and tell he on bit more like her than a can of paint She planned herself like a deck of cars and she thinks she didn't got her something She think that jezebel spirit and got him what she needed to be And he planned her that man don't want her that man want that green car because he's from another country with an accent Strong accent. He want that citizenship or he want some money or some plugs to be plugged in in the city This man 25 tall muscular look like what they be grabbing for the model this lady 38 you know Not all that And she thinking she got her love some some Listen them cool. I don't even want to call them cool. That's that's y'all term Okay, the lady who dated the men that's young enough to be their son They plan themselves because for that young man, he's not attracted to her. That's just a notch in his belt He won't hurt for her stability. He won't hurt for where she live at what cost she drive her credit So he could play on her her loneliness her desperation He could play on her use her to get in position Marry her then if they want to get a divorce, he'd get 50% He then came up and just gave three to five years of his life Which he was going to waste in the club anyways, so that's how that right there break down Uh, jenna god bless her high tony. How do I stop feeling angry when a man keeps on lying?    They know he's full of drama. You see what I mean? So that's what you got the word by Hey, when people pop in and say hey, y'all can let them say that hey that that one time If they keep on putting hey You know then remove it so I could keep the chat clear But if they pop in and say hey, they just not catching in they just not coming in So they ain't heard what I said earlier about keeping the chat clear For those of you who just popping in and keep the chat clear don't post nothing in the chat unless it's a question And uh, so I could so I could get to those questions in there Jessica god bless you none. There is a man That is husband material He is what you call looks challenge. Should I give him a chance? There is this other guy that Went m.i.a for five days and message on facebook came back saying that he left his phone in a uber Now that's a good line. Hey, that's a good line. I do know a guy who did leave his phone in the uber So hey, that's a good line. I don't know if it takes five days to get it back But that's a good line. Well, that's what up. Hey That's what up bad if he lied if he made that up that's what else smooth up but I will tell you now See when it comes to a person that you consider looks challenge now that now that's the word are you But I don't consider him looks challenge. You consider him looks challenge because beauty's in the eye to behold So that's you judging him I can't I can't tell you see what i'm saying.  You're gonna be there with him more You know so he can't grow on you now if looking at him turn your stomach then That's not fair to you. So you and see what you got to realize. This is the other thing that a lot of time we don't think about. Okay is This man who could be looks challenge He could be showing you his representative because he know that he don't often get to sit down and talk to a woman who Look like you Or on your level So he could be treating the woman that want him. He could be treating her like trash But then because you look better than him. He treating you like a treasure But really he don't have character and he's not a good person So you doing him a favor by swallowing Your preference or or your pride and being with him when you're not attracted to him You could be doing a no-good man a favor So that's where if you're gonna Deal with him. You got to make sure that he truly a man of character and integrity Uh cocoa god bless you your video grown girl verse grown women made me realize that I have some growing up to do I still need to get my emotions in check and get over that issues. Hey god bless you cocoa god bless you for You know just that realization and just You know sitting with the word and seeing what you can get from it, you know instead of being defensive and want to argue And uh speaking to that, you know, I responded to one lady I don't always respond to people on there just because everybody got their opinion and I just don't have the time But one thing I noticed is that a lot of women cannot Understand when I'm talking about a man with character who may make 40,000 dollars and A lot of women cannot understand that that amount of money don't mean anything And women always want to say well, what if I made six figures? It's like, okay, so what? The 19 hit you could be making zero figures. You see what I'm saying?  It's profits still up there, but It's like money.  Do you have any advice for people dealing with a toxic family during the quarantine? Um, I'm guessing y'all live together.  Tell them you studying for a test and you can't be bothered You're not going to be coming out the room See love god bless you see law. I saw you put a question in the chat God bless you poor thing you like put it put your question back in the chat I was answering another one one of the vip that was up here But I did see you I saw your name with a question.  I blocked him but he keeps calling On max numbers to see how i'm doing does he want me back?    So what I would say is Put your children on a schedule on a routine So depending on their age if they older then they should know better 13 14 day in the room 6 7 you got to create a routine and this is a part about coaching yourself So like my sons up until a certain age every single day they had a nap at like 2 p.m So from like 2 p.m to 4 p.m That was their schedule every single day they taken a nap And so if you a coach now, you know, you can coach 2 to 3 and 3 to 4 And if something happens that you didn't plan for your client will be understanding with that Then bedtime 8 p.m. So now you can call coach 8 to 9 or not in 9 to 10 You should have mean if they wake up at a certain time 8 a.m. You can coach 7 to 8 So you put your child on a schedule and you build this schedule in so they know the difference between morning and night Nap time break time. What have you game time or tv time abc mouse? You know, they love that do abc mouse And then you coach around that there and if you got any friends or family then You can help you can have somebody help you, you know See love. I'm a minister and travel at times. When should I mention in dating? Has resulted before in guys being Uncomfortable acting like I will be judging them. That's good. You know, that's a first day conversation. See love That's a first day conversation that you administer That's a first day conversation if a guy get uncomfortable about that and he's looking like you're gonna be judging him What that means is that means that He got a spirit in him and your spirit Is tweaking that spirit, you know, it's spiking his spirit He like oh and he starts to feel it And so when you mention that and I noticed that too because energy attract or repel so When I go around certain people Because my energy is pure because I live a life of integrity a person who doesn't live a life of integrity They're kind of going to squirm around me. I remember I met a celebrity one time and and he shut my hand and we was doing some work And um for a project and he said man, I'm around all of these major Celebrities and I'm never nervous. He's like but I meet you and I'm like nervous. I'm kind of shaking and Come to find out a few years later He was putting hands on his woman And so when he met me and knew that I'm a relationship coach that's living right doing right and treating my woman right It made him feel guilty Because he's not treating women right and that came out later that he was putting hands on her and that's why my spirit spiked here So you got to be very mindful You know, you got to be very mindful um Hey only put questions in the comments because I was trying to find the questions in here and if you ask the question Wait and let some other people ask a question if I already answered one of your questions You know be fair to some of the other people Let me answer some questions from somebody who haven't answered the question so that this is not like a one-on-one session Um, good afternoon Tony. I'm 28 and being told that I look like I'm barely out of high school And feel like people don't take me seriously because of it. How do I change that? Well, you might do look like that.  I used to have dreads. You see what I mean? So it's kind of like if you looking like you fresh out of high school put your red lip on Go to a hairstylist and say hey, what hairstyle will help me look more mature like make the changes Don't just walk around mad saying man People don't take me serious because I look 18 Go do what you got to do to look your age Put your red lip on Learn a new style of dress. It might you might have to dress a different way Put your blazer on put your six inch heels on put your put your jeans on You see what I mean?  It's adjusting your packaging. It's changing your packaging. It ain't changing you I'm still the same person the same guy who has six gold teeth I still got the same heart the same energy. I just changed my packaging Alexandria called god bless you good afternoon There's two parts first happy belated birthday tg Hey god bless you y'all ain't got to say all that you know all them You know formalities and stuff when y'all come in here, you know what I mean trying to be former like your grandma raised Y'all could just give me the question. You know what i'm saying?  You know see God is sending people like that right there Uh just to remind you what you're doing lady wrote me yesterday talking about I'm posting too many videos and losing value Can you guess what happened to her? blocked My fingers my thumb still red blocked another lady posted since when did tony go from Uh being informational to being misogynistic. It's like I don't know what that word is I know what the word is But I know i'm the furthest thing from it because ain't no misogynist gonna be on here giving all the game away That's what she got blocked You hear me So you have detractors coming to try to derail what the lord doing and what happened I go to the block ministry and then the lord send folks like y'all to say tony. Hey, just blessing me Keep doing what you're doing and that's why you know keep doing it Do you think it's best to find my wife now? Here go davante with his second question for his one-on-one session Okay, do you think it's best to find my wife before diving into my purpose and passion Your videos about your wife really make me want to find her I can't wait to buy the book. Um me personally. I think you should find your wife, but see here's the thing If you're not in your you know passions Your purpose and your passion your wife might not want you So you could be operating in your purpose and your passion and find your wife And your purpose and your passion might just be coaching might be speaking. I can't remember what you said that you do But and you could find your wife simultaneously so You know Me I wasn't doing nothing when I found my wife. I was in school.   So she keeps you balanced physically okay And then also spiritually Hey, only put questions in the chat. Kia Reminding y'all only put questions in the chat because we're filling up the chat And I can't get to the questions And remember to put the hashtag q in front of your question.  Thank you tony for all you do and without compromise.  Lord bless her now Allison Whitworth bless her lord. Hey tony. I just wanted to let you know I have purchased your book a woman's influence through books a million I can't wait to begin reading. Thank you for everything you do Hey, bless you Allison bless you And and see she got she said I purchased your book through books a million One of the questions that always confused me that I get and maybe y'all understand this But I don't want you to answer in the chat is how do I get your book? And I'm like, uh, where do you get books from? Uh This your first book, uh, you don't know where they sell books at What how do you get my book and we ain't selling these out to trump You know, I'm saying amazon.com bars and noble books a million wal-mart target honorable That question always confused me Can you possibly think of doing a mini movie series? On youtube about your topics to grasp a visual on the importance of waiting on god and the woman's influence and importance of not fornicating. Yep I am and um, think about that. That's in the works, but we in this hill situation right now So we can't move on it right now, but um, that take a lot of you know, it take money. Okay, take money And so I got to You know get the finances where it need to be and I really don't Like the dual crowd funding and asking people I never believed in like the go fund me type stuff, you know And the kickstarter type stuff. I don't like asking for handouts. If somebody bless me with something I'm happy and I receive it But I don't you don't see me posting asking for a donation or asking to raise money. I just don't I just don't like that because I for me especially when it's something That is like a dream or like a hobby or you know, so I got to get my money right the way I put my own money up You know what I mean? So That take that take money what you're asking Do you think that it's possible that marriage is not in the cards for some people? True love is like winning the lotto. What do you think cjl cjl just came here See, this is the thing It's a quote that says if you think you can you can if you think you can't you can't That's what I feel about love and marriage If you have that mindset then you have a pessimistic glasses half empty mindset So guess what that's going to show up in your energy So it could be disparity between how many men and how many women there are But the women that's going to get the men are the women who believe marriage is for them Because when you believe that it's for you your energy is going to be pure and attractive and it's going to be pleasant So you're going to go from that 90 to the top 10 percent and you're going to be Who the men are attracted to but if you keep telling yourself that marriage just might not be in the cars for me Marriage just might not be in the cars for me. It just might not be the thing You know, I don't I don't know then guess what?  Why does spouse feel awkward around me? We're separated but have to see each other because of the kids he left. I've accepted it. He seems irritable also It's a soul type Whenever I say it's soul type strangling That's what I mean. I mean that soul type that emotional tide that y'all have if he doesn't know how To address it see you on here doing the work So you get your answer But then you also get the answer that I give to everybody else question With every answer you add knowledge with that knowledge you add confidence that turns into power So you have gotten over it because of the work that you're doing He's sitting in his mess and he like a pig wallowing in the mud So when he comes around you, he don't know how to you know How to maneuver because he hasn't done the work because he don't know about coaching He don't know about getting on live and for the q&a with a relationship coach. So he's struggling See love god bless you. Thanks for the answer It's just hard sometimes getting rejected for my purpose and I can't lie and say it doesn't hurt a little bit too Well, that's the thing see love you got to shift your mindset and you got you cannot see it and you being a minister You need to hear this and you need to understand that it is not Rejection that's god's protection and that's what you got to realize that's god's redirection.  So you can't take it personal It's kind of like any space that you can fit in it means that that's that that's space can't hold you It means that that space is not on your energy any person that don't want to be in your life That means that their energy is not where your energy is so you can't see that as rejection That's protection and you got to shift your your mindset.  So you don't have to sit idle While you working on yourself you could be working on yourself and Meet some people at the same time Lady god bless you working on my online business It is a requirement to register the business or is it a requirement to register the business through my state first? Um, it will be smart.  What would you recommend for a single woman? No kids woman of faith in the 30s Since dating sites are a no in current 19 situation. Thank you. Isaiah 13 I don't know what Isaiah 13 say, but I know it says something good now Uh, I recommend for you single woman. No kids woman of faith In this time in this 19 You got to see this like your wilderness experience.  It's kind of like You know having an infant you got to get that infant to a certain place to where He or she can walk, you know And they could start to and when they can walk and they can talk Life start to get easier and easier and easier the older your son or daughter get But when they real little You get as a baby you get up every two hours every two hours to feed That's how it is with your dreams and your business when it's real small And you just not starting out it take a lot of time So this is the time why you single with no children to be doing that so that way when your man come and The kid's coming Then stuff already up and running I want to learn how to give people real second chances But after they hurt me, I don't look at them the same any advice on how to overcome this um You can forgive a person and forget a person so it's kind of like You know if if you know a person is a serial killer, okay, and they took your cousin You could forgive that person to release your heart But that don't mean you got to go hang out with them forgiveness don't mean being in the presence of somebody So it's okay if a person crossed you so bad to the point that you know They really didn't send you a real real message. It's okay to forgive them and to remove them from your life That's all right. Like don't feel like forgiveness means that's what god is for you see what I mean That's what god is for that you have to be there You know with He is there for him. So you got to think about that What to do when you're already pregnant by a grown boy How to move forward business relationship only um Yes, uh, I got a video on how to co-parent I believe that's the name of it. So type in how to co-parent tony gaskins It's a whole hour. I don't want to cheat you on that one because that one that one right there is deep You know, and if that video don't do it, you need to sign up for a session We got co-parenting coaches on my mentor dot life but co-parenting and marriage You know those those deep those real deep, you know questions Like this one right here. I have been married for 12 years But four years ago my husband cheated on me. I found it in myself to forgive him But now after four years I have a new lover in my life He makes me happy. What do I do? Okay So you marry with a new lover Okay Okay, all right So lord and brought everybody out. Oh lord and brought y'all over here Now y'all know this is christian channel.   You see what I'm saying And um miss v We uh Don't add no comments. All right. No comments in the chat Like the people said I posted it the post for the For the blessed tribe I didn't delete it for the new member So they don't have to see that but y'all see what the people said now They don't want nobody answering on their questions and all of that adding on to their questions So y'all just put questions in the chat questions in the chat Do I need to say this in espanol? ha cuando la suce Let's chat a okay only put questions in the chat So what you got to realize is the man who dealing with you? Is he does not see you As a good woman So he's there.  He gonna play you. Boom. He gonna play you. He got you Just like that.  Thank you for your work tony truly god sent I believe the holy spirit led me to your videos and it has changed my life. Hey god bless you That's what i'm here for that's what i'm trying to do help any kind of way I can If you have a question put hashtag q In front of the question Tony when you said it can take a man a year. Wow on a past hour I got 24 more minutes I told my wife I said i'm gonna just try to do the do an hour today on this first life She said man, you can't talk just for an hour And sure enough I look up and we in past hour Hey, hold your question. I hold your question right quick. I see I see something right here Tony when you said it can take a man a year to know if you're his wife If there are deal breakers If there are deal breakers were you saying deal breakers on behalf of the man or on behalf of the woman You can take a man a year to know if you're his wife If there are deal breakers Um, doesn't really know what you're saying but what I'm but what i'm saying is Is even if it's deal breakers meaning that Even if the woman if you got insecurities if you got some childhood issues If you got some stuff like that that may be a deal breaker Even if y'all talked about how many bodies you got to your name and he don't like that number that he heard That could be a deal breaker I said even if it's deal breakers It will not take him more than a year to know if he wants to marry you So and that's on either side his side or your side Just period like a man will know by the 12 month mark If you're his wife and the reason being If y'all actively dating now if y'all talk one month, then y'all ain't talk And y'all talk once a month for the next 11 months. That's different. But if y'all actively dating you in a relationship y'all talk every day then you know You'll see that Leticia casinha asked a question at the beginning of the hour And she reposted it I look for LaCenia um And now it's easy over there latif for you to see the questions because you know, you read all the questions I'm over here answering the question. So You got to post it when you post your question You got a when I'm when I'm talking if you post your question I'm not gonna see it because other people still posting it So when you hear me stop talking, that's when you post your question and then I could see it but I can't answer the question and read the question. So I don't see LaCenia nowhere So she might be stuck on your chat. Your chat might have stopped but on my chat. I'm right here queen experience My kid's father does not support or call our two children He sends a text saying tell the kids that I love them. They will understand it better Coming from you. What do I do with this information? um Don't tell him nothing, you know, if he don't want to be there then He dead you see the mean so don't don't Be don't tell him nothing for him Because he a grown man.  Like we 30 some years old why why your friend can't walk up to me? Is something wrong with his legs? No, he got two legs so I don't want to talk to the Man that can't that got to tell his friend to come talk to me the same thing with that right there A man shouldn't be telling the woman to tell his own kids That he loved him because if you can't talk to your kid, then you don't love him So stop lying. So When he's not there, what what what a woman has to do is you got to be everything But one thing that we make the mistake is we think that we 50 50 No, when you lay down to have a kid you 100 percent they want 100 percent your children So if something happened to your partner, whether they leave or whether they pass on and they go meet the lord Then you are 100 percent. So you be 100 percent mama and then They're not even going to be focused on him and they'll deal with that as they get older and they're able to deal with it Miss china doll. How does a man see women who are okay with sharing him your thoughts?    That's why they put that on the resume What is your desire because they want to see if you know your worth So when you put 30k because you just trying to squeak in the door They're not going to say well actually we got your resume and we see that you would like 30k You're actually worth 60k. So what we're going to do is we're going to pay you 60k They're going to say we see that you would like 30k, but would you be okay with 25k? You see what I'm saying? That's the same way it happened in relationships when you go to a man And you work for a whole man, but you so broken from everything you've gone through then You say I'm okay. You know, I understand every man gonna cheat. I understand men gonna have other women I'm all right as long as you tell me about it when you say that then he gonna say Oh, yeah, you're right. You know every man No man could be with one woman like even that relationship coach you listen to online He got other women I don't heard about it through the grapevine But of course he ain't gonna say that because that's his business But that ain't realistic like And and be honest with you just having one other woman. That's not even realistic Like you a man really have to have three or four women.  Absolutely not. Does he love you? Absolutely not Can he be in love with you? Absolutely not. He see you as Like this he'll piece of paper I can't I can't borrow that up because I'm a car note See this he'll piece of paper. That's what he see you ask And when he's done with you, he's gonna do you just like that?  You're going out alone Don't depend on your hug If you separating from him and he wants you to get on your back to get some money show him You don't need your money.   You see what I mean? Don't ever depend on another human being and that's the thing that we get wrong That we think just because we got in a relationship or just because we slept with somebody or just because we got They child that now we become 50 percent of a person.  He got the answer to the seeds. He's on he got to deal with that harvest So you can't worry about that.  You ain't you out of work right now. Get on the unemployment. They're giving out six hundred dollars a week Seven hundred dollars a week Tonya Birkin god bless you. Should I apply for an LLC first or an EIN? Uh to go into this auto paint shop mechanic shop with my brother He got his certification in prison and will be getting out soon. Tonya, you need a coaching session I know that's your brother. I know you love him, but running a business is totally different I don't know if I hop in no business with somebody hopping right from behind them bars You hit me running the business, especially a brick and mortar business, especially a auto paint Shop and mechanic shop So you need you need a coaching session Tonya because what are you in prison for? How you know he rehabilitated? What does he know about business? That's a tiff kit that they give out in prison. We don't know if that's The same thing you get out of crackerjack box. You see what I mean? So and Tonya that costs a lot of money. I know you love him now. I got a sister. I love him I opened a restaurant for my family that restaurant lasted one year One year the money was gone. They couldn't tell me where the money went I came in there. They had to made all this money I still had to pay the taxes out of my pocket after they had them been making money every day They had every excuse in the world What the food cost this and this cost this and this cost this you got to be careful about doing business with family If they ain't never ran no brick and mortar business and don't know nothing about no business And the question that you asked let me know as well that you need a coaching session because Should I apply for a LLC first or an eion? That let me know You're gonna need a consultant in this process Because you can't get an eion unless you got a LLC So the LLC you get that first and then you get your employee identification number From the IRS Which is basically your tax ID. So you get a LLC, but then that eion. That's your tax ID So you're gonna need a consultant and I help you with that It's other business coaches as well on my mentor dot life that could walk you through this process But listen to me Listen to me You'll be better off letting your brother get out And take his certificate and work for for mike's auto body Larry's auto body The the shop that's been there for 30 years let him work there Learn how they run the business climb the ranks in a couple years become the manager supervisor Learn how it's done then ask mike for his blessing to go open his own shop with his sister That'd be more wisdom Cassinia tonic When did you know that sharing this knowledge is your mission? How do you handle frenemies? Latte thank you for um sending that blessing to ask Cassinia question I don't know if Cassinia your your cousin Or why you felt so pressed to ask that question for her but god bless you for um Sending that blessing and ask that question for her I know she is blessed. I am Cassinia forgive me. I ain't see your question. You see i'm seeing questions, but I ain't see your question um I started this when I was 22 And to be honest with you, I was sharing it just because I had played the game So deep on so many levels and I'm I could express myself I could express what I did and why I did it and I knew in talking to other guys that they couldn't explain Why they did what they did to the women that they heard they couldn't explain it And they wouldn't come to terms with it and they wouldn't see it for what it was, you know And so that's what you have to to realize somebody say in michigan y'all need an EIN before the LLC So see that's another thing that different states is different, you know in florida You will apply for our LLC on our state business site And then they send us a link to go to the IRS site to get the EIN So that's why if you're going to open business you need to have a Business coach in your state or that know your state laws And um, I forgot to other half of that question that you posted for casinia How to deal with frenemies? Oh When did you know? Okay glam rocks sent casinia question to a y'all got to realize on the q&a Y'all spending y'all money the answer question The ask a question that is not no make or break question Not casinia not gonna Pass away for not getting that answer casinia understand that there's a q&a with a thousand people on it So don't y'all get so self righteous to feel like oh, let me go spend money to ask this question This question has nothing to do with her life being on the line with her being in a toxic relationship And so y'all got to understand Don't get self righteous in this hill chat like they understand It's a million people asking questions. I do two q&a's on saturdays So I come back later tonight if casinia and get her question asked she can ask it later tonight It's it's it's a hundred other people and get they question asked you know what I'm saying So it's like y'all just put the hashtag q in front of your question and then put it up there If I miss it, I'm gonna go through the chat, but y'all got to have to understand in that I'm one person reading a hundred questions. So if I miss a question That's just what it is because I'm trying to read everybody question, but this question right here It's a woman that's getting abused right now and y'all ain't grabbed that question this question right here This this this started the do or die question So how to how to handle frenemies you see what I'm saying if you if you know your friend as an enemy Then the problem is not with your friend with your friend. I mean the problem is with you So once you find out that a friend as an enemy You get gone you move on about your life You you don't handle frenemies. You don't keep somebody in your circle That you that could stab you in your bag You don't keep that somebody say It was a paid question the paid questions that I missed what I do is I go back to the chat and I scroll through To find all of the colors That I missed so I had not Missed her question because I still go back through to scroll through the question on y'all's side Y'all see all the questions stuck right there So understand that and y'all just take a chill pill Cousin cousin ain't got to go to the hospital if I miss her question Veronica see I'll be your translator Tony. God bless you solo pregunto and y'all see what Veronica said Alexandria God bless you now. Hey the Lord and show bless you now because this is checking time up here friend a word Okay Married three years Four little eyes watch What's happening to her? Still married just had jr. She pays a lot good four months fifth drinks four months fifth drinks plus Abuse cycle. She said when dating previously was of you Married her knowing he does it No married her now he does it afraid will get the call What to do?  He gets to read you. He gets to study. He gets to learn So now if he's really really toxic to that place to where he could study How he can do something to you and get away with it The longer you stay there the more time you give him to plot and plan So that when he want to get off Get that tension off of him From his inner demons He can do it and get away with it or think he could get away with it or he had a courage to do it Because he done played with it for so long. So that's why I say recognize crazy early As soon as you recognize it and you know it's toxic and you know if this is Repeated it could be deadly.  But he's taking care of the children and she's working And he's her only help at this time Well, you got to decide what that word means when you say toxic, you know If it's just if it gets on your nerves If it gets on your nerves if if you feeling, you know Overly sensitive the way it makes you cry, but you know, it got a lot to do with how you processing what's happening And you not having a release Then you may need to take some of your income to get therapy or get your usual insurance to get therapy so that you have a release Now if it's really toxic to where you know, it's serious serious serious Then you can't worry about that a little bit of help you get on google It's foundations that'll replace his help It's foundations in your city that will help you leave that situation And they got grants that they could help you pay whatever bills you need paid Then you also got child support that he could be put on that. He got to pay a price um Mishitra God bless you. God bless you. Nicky rolling. God bless you now. I'm part of their lives lord God bless you Tony. Thank you for all you do. I've been consistently watching all your videos even the old ones Since the ending of 2019 and it helps me getting closer to the lord and finding so much peace in my life. Thank you Hey, god bless you. Thank you Now y'all hold on right quick. Let me see uh Scroll through here and see if I see any colors in here And thank glen rocks and leti for asking casinia question Um crystal. I got crystal question I got that question. Now this uh, Nishitra. You sent another blessing. Hey, I don't know if you meant to do that twice now or if your your phone glitch God bless you now. I'm part of their life. Miss g Miss g bless you bless you I saw miss g Hey, I appreciate y'all trying to keep the chat clean Thank you to the moderators who tried to keep the chat clean um Had some complaints come in with the chat because you know, we live in this blog culture We live in this blog culture and when when you follow blogs on instagram That posts All this stuff sometimes it just becomes second nature To just come in and clap back and you know make light of stuff and you know Just say a little stuff and you send it from a you know a fun place or a loving place you're not trying to be serious, but The thing is is you never know where a person is at So a person could be on here on their last leg Sabrina. God bless you. Okay. I I'm on an 18, but you really got at me. God bless you Sabrina See that was in the chat. So that's why I tell y'all some of these messages somebody sent a blessing It only shows up in the chat Y'all could see the chat because y'all reading it But when I got a question that top of the screen blow it up it's blow it up on my screen So I can't see nothing that's happening in the chat So we're on two different sides of it. So y'all got to understand sometimes just that human error um the sheetra now I want somebody to install your phone. God bless you now Allison I saw Allison message And so what happens is you know The person who wrote in Or the people who wrote in they could have been being sensitive, but it's kind of like this They got the right to be sensitive Now me i'm always going to answer my question blunt, but this is the thing You got to have report with a person So when I answer my questions blunt The person who asked me the question They watched my videos an hour a day. So they know my style When they ask a question If one of y'all answer the question in the chat, they don't know you So you are stranger to them and so your message your answer could be the same just like mine But because they have not watched you for 10 15 20 hours It comes off as abrasive and offensive And so that's why people was writing in you know about the chat room and this the thing I don't ever want to run the shade room. That's too messy. That's too toxic And so for me, this is about helping people grow And that's why I say Well, it's a lot of people on here and i'm just one person. You see what I mean? So I got to try to read all these messages and you two really need to work on it to where It's a chat section on one half of the screen And it's a question section and if somebody hit question It goes into a hole to the other side of the screen so that I could clearly separate Y'all just chatting and somebody asking a real question But see for this I can't separate between y'all chatting and putting the emojis and things of that nature and a real question Evac God bless you. Uh, hey, I got to go. I'm gonna pass them in. I'm gonna grab these last two questions I got to go. I lord willing. I'll be back tonight. I say that but it's not a promise But if I if I could be back tonight to do round number two for the people who I miss your question It typically be round It's typically at 7 p.m. Eastern or 9 p.m. Eastern depend on You know my family situation what we doing date night or dinner Evac I only have male friends never really had female friends. What can I do? It's just the way it's always been for me. I'm very ladylike and like men only adjust And like men only adjust f y Um, yeah, you're gonna have to kind of distance yourself a little bit You're gonna have to have to distance yourself. You got to ask yourself why you don't like women I get it.  Anyways, they waiting to put you on your bike anyways I know you don't believe that but that's all that is because a man ain't gonna be talking to no woman every day If he don't want something Unless he like men's and he just not into you So understand that they're Men who are friends is typically a man in waiting in the wings for you to get desperate enough for you to be vulnerable enough For him to pounce. So those friends you could put them on like conversation. Happy birthday. Merry Christmas. Happy Easter How'd the child doing tell you baby? Happy birthday.   God bless you. No pour out in her life Tony after the 14 days should I remain silent if he doesn't try to reach me again? Yes, you should You should I am 21 baby daddy is 39 am I wrong to leave him even though we have a child No, you're not wrong to leave you never wrong to leave Never wrong to leave when you got reason to leave And that's you and your baby daddy That he your baby daddy and he your daddy he 18 years older than you he old enough to be your daddy If you have a soul time and you think about the person all the time Is it possible they are thinking about you as well the same way Can you be the only one with an emotional soul time? It is very possible It's very possible Uh-oh Got 20 I got 20 left It's very possible That they're thinking about you most likely they are Two months since ending the seven-year toxic relationship live together Five years, I'm happy with my decisions But I'm having a hard time learning how to be alone It hits more at night Trying not to become depressed. I'm 27 Well, it's only been two months Seven years a seven year toxic relationship could take 14 years to heal from if you're not doing real work So and it's gonna hit more at night because that's when the music stopped playing everything quiet at night That's when your mind go to racing So what you may need to do is start listening to affirmations at night or the soundscapes the music with the affirmations Or you can listen to a teaching video that you have heard before You've already heard it two or three times so that it's not really stimulating your brain is background noise But you could do that But hey, I got to go. God bless y'all. Congratulations to the new coaches. Um, who took the life coach certification The coupon code is still available. It just The value is different just a little bit, but the value is different, but I just heard the um My junk hauler just pulled up. I heard it horn outside. So I got the help You know, get this junk hauled off Hey, god bless y'all Let me grab this last question from from bruce. I feel like I saw her name. This is my last question right here. Okay How should I stay positive after telling a lover? I no longer want a relationship with him anymore So I don't fall back on my back You stay positive by doing what you're doing.  We'll talk soon Hey, thank you all for for the thanks


All right. Okay. Welcome everyone to the sales enablement training for November 1st. We are going to do part two of the sales enablement for Azure DevOps, formerly known as VSTS or Visual Studio Team Services and TFS, which is a team foundation server. So last time we talked about kind of an overview of what Microsoft has in terms of Azure DevOps and kind of a little bit of fringe stuff around what is not Azure DevOps, but kind of still plays in this space. Went in a little bit more into detail about kind of the high level of what is in each of those different segments and a little bit about how that compares to what we have. Today I'm going to answer some of the questions that are a little more strategy-based that came up and we didn't get a chance to get to last time, plus go deeper into a discussion around what they have from a strengths and weaknesses perspective and really this is kind of the beginning of a discussion and I want to make that point very clear here that how we position ultimately against Microsoft's Azure DevOps is going to come down to what you guys find and encounter in the field, what we bring in from the market awareness and as a team put together an effective, you know, iterated, put together an effective response and a set of strategy to have them approach them. Right now we're looking at our homepage. I'm going to always start here because I want to make sure everyone's aware of how to get to the information that I'm about to show you. You want to get to the DevOps tools page, which you can get to by our main menu or if you are down here you can get to it by comparing all DevOps tools. On that page we've got the Azure DevOps through the comparison page for Azure DevOps. You'll note again I am running this out of my local right now. It's still pushing a change up to the main branch, but this will be probably by the end of this call live. On this page we are, this is where we're collecting information about this particular competitor. We talked last time on Tuesday about how Azure DevOps is really the rebranding for the most part of VSTS and TFS. I do want to point out a couple of things. I misspoke on Tuesday about whether or not pipelines was a new piece or not. It is not. I said that it was. I want to clarify that. A pipeline capability, actually two, have been part of VSTS and TFS since about 2015. They have build pipelines for running the CI side and they have explicitly, specifically different release pipelines for running the release side. The new pipeline capability is being talked about in Azure DevOps. The only part that is new about it is that they have made the default, the ability to construct those pipelines using YAML files and having your code, basically pipelines as code or processes code. That is actually also in VSTS and TFS was just getting released, but they have made that the default. The YAML defined pipelines is, again, it is from VSTS, but it is a fairly new capability. We will see as we look at the weaknesses or some of the things about that. It is actually not connected to a lot of stuff yet. Still a lot that you cannot do with it. That is an ephemeral. That is a very fleeting small window that we have where that is at least a weakness in that capability. Going back to that, to last week, there was also a question about whether or not there was a separate code base between VSTS and TFS. I have confirmed at this point, so I did hear from their project manager that it was the notion that they are actually taking three months or a quarter to release TFS after they released functionality on a three-week cycle with the SaaS service is kind of what was pushing us away from that concept. But in both the video by the folks who actually converted Microsoft over to use Git and in a write-up on Microsoft blog site right here, it is pretty confirmed at this point that it is the same code base. They say the two products are separate, but about 90% of their code is the same. One code base, but they are taking cycle time to produce an on-prem version. There were some good questions that came up that we did not get a chance to get to. Phil asked what does the migration path look like from Azure DevOps to GitLab from SCM and CICD. I answered that a little bit, but just wanted to point out that I have added more of that answer down here under comments and anecdotes. That is right here. They have two types of SCM capability built into VSTS and TFS. One of those is their legacy. I think I mentioned that earlier this week, the TF, basically the team foundation code management. That is a centralized service. It is part of VSTS and TFS. The migration from either of those is there is plenty of migration tools out there. It is well-established. Microsoft made their own because they moved all of their code over as well to Git. Once it is in Git, then getting it from Git to Git is not hard. The bigger issue is if someone is coming from their older centralized control or code control system to Git-based, to decentralized, and there is coming from any product, you would have this problem, but there is training to go through for the organization about how to work with Git, but that is something you are all familiar with at this point. The CICD migration is a little bit tougher. Their primary definitions for pipelines at this point are going to be done through the UI, which does not lay itself out as a YAML file. Maybe that is coming, but that is not there yet. Converting into Git lab would require doing a task-by-task breakdown in conversion when converting the pipelines over. Also, their pipelines are broken into, again, as I mentioned earlier, build pipelines and release pipelines as separate, whereas we do not do that. There would be a little bit more work to consider there, but not insurmountable. Joel also asked earlier, do we know how Azure DevOps is positioning against us? No, not yet. Doing some searches, there is nothing publicly stated about how they position us. What you can read through the tea leaves is that they are aware. They have anywhere where they talk about being able to import other competitors into their project. Obviously, they mention us without any issue. Where they talk about integrations, they definitely do not mention us. That is about as much as we have right now. This is something that we are going to learn over time as we engage them more and more. I need you guys to bring that feedback back in so we can centralize it and get it captured. What I do have is right here. This is how they are positioning themselves out at customers. This was out on the Internet. There is no proprietary mark on it, but I am going to switch over to it. This is their presentation, one of their presentations in Germany. It is pretty long. I am not going to go through it here, but it is linked. You can go through it and check it out and get a sense of how they are positioning. They are doing a lot about building credibility of themselves and how they transfer themselves over so they understand the challenges of moving to DevOps. They talk about the practices and how they can help with those pieces. This looks familiar. In fairness, this is on the DevOps Wikipedia page, but the rest of the deck goes through talking out each of these pieces in these four sections, plan, develop and test, release and monitor and learn. This is going to be a sense at least about what they are saying when they go in and they start talking about Azure DevOps to prospects. I will look to get feedback from you guys on what you are experiencing out there, and I will continue to work on building a way to talk against this or to counter this. This is what we covered in a pictorial version, what we covered last time. This is just no review. If we look at the stages that we subscribe, which goes by, and we place in it things like they have, for example, under verify, they have pipelines, but they also actually have test plans, so they get double credit there. This is how it lays out. Manage, we don't have anything yet. We are working on that. They have got MS portfolio management. It is not part of Azure. It is actually part of Office 365 right now. It is not integrated in, but it is a product that they have. They don't have anything under configure. This is a big point here right now, is they don't have anything under secure. They do have security operational services or products to help operation security, but they don't have code scanning or any of that built in. They work through integrations with the standard Black Duck white source, all of those guys. As a result, they don't have it tightly integrated, and you are hopping to different UIs when you go get the results. That is one of the strengths that we definitely have.