Hi everyone, my name is Steph, this is Little Bookish Teacher, and today I'm really excited to share a compilation of videos and reviews that I have been sharing over the last couple of years on my main YouTube channel. These are the reviews for the Welcome to Our Country Picture Book series by Adam Goods, Ellie Lang, and illustrated by David Hardy. This is a gorgeous First Nations picture book series that celebrates First Nations culture. And the fourth book is coming out later this year. I'm very, very excited about that. And I thought it would be great to have these three reviews amalgamated on this channel as well, so that when that one comes out and I do share a review of it, everything's in the one place. I did originally receive all of these books from the publisher for review, so thank you very much to Ellen and Unwin. These still remain to this current day some of my favorite recent releases in children's picture books here in Australia, and I stand by that. So we're gonna jump into the reviews. I will have timestamps down below so that you can jump between the books. First up, we are going to talk about Somebody's Land. This is the first book in what will be a five book picture book series around teaching children and their parents, carers, and educators around First Nations culture and history here in Australia. And I am so excited to share this with you. I've had this now for nearly six weeks, and I haven't been able to talk about it because it's been under embargo, so it does release today on November the second, and it has just been something I wanted to shout about to everyone for the longest time. I'm actually filming this in the middle of October, and I recently attended a teacher's conference, the PETA conference, which is the Primary English Teachers Association of Australia. And they had a little book launch for this. There was an interview with Adam and Ellie around this book, and I was really, really pleased to be able to watch that because it did give me a little bit more insight into how this book came to be and the process of getting here. Before I go any further, I'm going to read you the back of the book. It says, for thousands and thousands of years, Aboriginal people lived in the land we call Australia. When the white people came, they called the land Terranullius. They said it was nobody's land, but it was somebody's land. This is a vibrant conversation started to help young and old understand the importance of acknowledging country and the rich cultures of the traditional custodians of the lands where we live. And that's exactly what it is. So this entire book is themed around that idea of Terranullius, that when Australia was invaded, that they claimed that there was no one here despite the fact that there were people with a rich, long culture already here. And this book really seeks to redress that and to really give us a new starting point with talking about that with kids. Whether or not you are a teacher or a parent, this book is enticing for kids, but it also has a really strong message for the adults who are engaging children with this book as well. While I was listening to the interview with Adam and Ellie, they were talking about how Ellie's youngest young son came home one day and was able to recite an acknowledgement of country, which is the first time that she had heard him do that. And it was just something very profound and powerful for her. And she got in contact with her friend Adam and asked him if he was ever considering writing books. And it turns out he was. And so together they collaborated to create somebody's land. And you'll notice that these illustrations are absolutely stunning. This book is just visually very appealing from the end papers with all the Australian animals to a really great opening for adults and anyone who is reading the text. But I mean, just look, these are so gorgeous. It is a book that is meant to be shared. And it is a book that is meant to celebrate our Aboriginal culture. I don't know how much I can gush about this because I love it. So it does go through aspects of Aboriginal life. And then it goes through how when the white people came, they called it Terranullius. They said it was nobody's land, but it was somebody's land. So it does engage kids in that way because they would be able to join in with the repetitive part of the story. But there are also parts where they'll be able to relate directly from their own experiences regardless of their cultural background. And I just, I want everyone to read this. And I wanna read the rest of the books in the series because these are gonna become a hugely important part of my classroom library. I cannot express how excited I am to go back and read this with my class because we have an acknowledgement of country that the kids know. And to be able to read this and explore it with them in such a kid-friendly way that's non-threatening, but informative is just, it's amazing to have a resource like this. So if you are looking to start or extend your Aboriginal First Nations library collection, this is definitely one to consider because it is absolutely amazing. And there are so many wonderful things to look at and talk about within this book. Next, we're gonna talk about ceremony. Today I am really very excited to share with you a brand new picture book that is the second book in a series. It is Ceremony by Adam Goods, Ellie Lang and Illustrated by David Hardy. It is part of their Welcome to Our Country series, which is a series of five picture books I believe that all center around Aboriginal First Nations stories. And these books explore a lot about Aboriginal culture and make it very, very accessible for their audiences. Now, you guys might remember last year, if you've been following along my channel, that I did a review of Somebody's Land, which was the first book in the series and I adored it. It is just a beautiful, stunning, very important picture book text. And ceremony is no different. It is absolutely glorious. So I'm gonna read you the blurb on the back. It says, welcome children, nanga nanga yakari. Tonight will be the ceremony. Our family gathers as the fire burns. The smoke rises up as we take it in turns. Then clap sticks, tap one, two, three. But a stick is missing, where could it be? Joyful and full of fun, ceremony invites you to celebrate the rich traditions of dance, family, community and caring for country from the world's oldest continuous culture. And that's exactly what this book does. It is one of the most warm and inviting and fun picture books I have read in a long time, especially one that celebrates something so important to Australia's Aboriginal culture.  They just draw you in. And I mean, just look at that face. Don't you just want to know what's going on in the story? I know I certainly did when I first saw the cover. I was just so excited. Another really cool feature of this book that will help through the story because this book does use words from Adam's language group. They've included a visual glossary on the endpapers and you have all of the pictures from the story as well as the Aboriginal word and the translation. So that's a really great resource. If you're using this with kids, I'm thinking myself in the classroom, that's going to be super important because it will really help them to understand exactly what is going on. As I said, the illustrations are just beautiful and invite you in. And this is really about a family and a community gathering to celebrate and to have one of their ceremonies the whole way through the story. We go through meeting the different characters, seeing the kids get up to mischief and having fun and how they interact with their adults and how they emulate and join in with the ceremony, which is so important. And I just, I adore it so much. I cannot even express how happy this book makes me to read. But I'm so excited to be able to share it with my students. So yes, this book celebrates the wonderful, rich culture of dance and family and celebration and coming together, it draws you in. The language is lyrical. The illustrations are just gorgeous. At the very back of the book, there is a QR code. So you can hear the authors reading the story as well, which I think is a really fantastic addition. And I love that so many books are now including that, especially these ones. So if you're looking for a bright, warm and inviting picture book story, one that shares information about the culture of Australia's first people, this is definitely something to check out. It does come out today. I will leave links to where you can purchase it down below. I cannot wait for the next books in this series. They're gonna be one of my most treasured to picture book collections. I can tell you that now, I'm just so excited. And finally, we're going to talk about Back on Country. Today I am here to talk about Back on Country by Adam Goodes, Ellie Lang and David Hardy. This is the next book in their series all about Australia's First Nations people. If you haven't seen my reviews for the two previous books in the series, I will leave them both linked on the screen. They are absolutely stunning. And I am always so excited to see when a new one comes out. I believe at the moment there are five books planned and I'm really hoping to continue with Ellen and Unwin to help promote and share these books because they are just beautiful. So I did receive this review from Ellen and Unwin. It is releasing on the 1st of November. It's gorgeous. Before I say anything else, that's exactly what I need to say about it. As I said, it is the third book in the series and this book is really about going back on country and reconnecting to family and culture and history and the importance that has for Australia's First Nations people. Lucy and David, these two young children are on their first trip back on country with their mother and they get the chance to meet their cousins, their family members, their elders and to experience the culture of their family when they are back on country and they get to know the places that are sacred and special to their people and see the land where their family is from and to get to know the stories and the language and the culture. As I said, it's absolutely gorgeous. Their mother is an Ajumatna woman and I hope I pronounced that correct, which is the country that Adam is from. Both Adam Goods and David Hardy are Aboriginal men and this story was crafted based on their experiences going back on country and then turned into a story that is accessible and gorgeous for children. This book has a really, really wonderful community and family and connection feel to it. And some of the things that I absolutely loved about this one are David's absolutely stunning illustrations in the book because every page is just utterly joyful. I mean, he has a very distinctive illustrative style. It is bright, it is colorful, it is full of feeling and emotion and I just, I adore looking at all of these pages. The book also uses dual language. So it is told part in English, part in the language native to the Ajumatna people and to help readers as with all the other books, you have the glossary on the endpapers. So all the words that are used, you then have the translation at the front and the back of the book as well. And I really enjoyed going back through and exploring that because when you're reading in context, you understand what the word is, but then to see it and to show kids that this is how you would work it out and how you would make sense of it is highly, highly valuable. And you know, it's educational in a really gentle way. It is helping to teach people about the rich history and culture and the importance of going back on country, the importance of family and connection and knowing the stories and the history of your people and it's just, like I have no words for this series because I thoroughly enjoy every book. I enjoy reading and rereading them. I've shared them with my class. I share them with everyone.  Here, go read this. This is amazing. And I just love that we have these kinds of books coming out now because they are so important. They are so valuable as not only just an book for entertainment, but a book to teach understanding and empathy and I can't wait to see what the next book is. I'm so excited because these books just bring me so much joy to read and to share with others. Thank you again to Alan and Anwen. Congratulations again to Adam, Ellie and David for another fantastic book. I will have links for all of these books listed down below. Thank you very much for watching these reviews. I hope that this has inspired you to pick them up. If you wanna let me know that you're here but you don't wanna leave a comment, feel free to leave a flag emoji that shows where you are from around the world. Otherwise, I hope that wherever you're on the world you're staying safe and healthy and I will see you in my next video. Thanks so much for watching. Bye everyone.


So, I just want to share with you, we've had like, gosh man, I think this is more like 1100 people sign up for the Amy Elliot Role Play App, okay? It is not on Android yet. So if you have an Android phone, it's coming, hey by the way, people are switching and giving up their Android phones to go to Apple just so they can get the Role Play App.  So what I have here, so we have 150 objections you already uploaded on the Role Play App. And what I thought is that last night I put another 50 on. So now there's 200. I'm going to tell you this, everything under the sun I'm going to cover, and by the way, real quick. I'm going to go over the first 50 objections with you that you will find in the Role Play App. I think that this is important. So you don't know what you don't know. So what I always try to do is make sure that you guys understand. If I were to go over this objection with you in person, would you know what to say? So I want you to just chill out for a second, put yourself as if you were in this chair right here, okay? And I want you to go through these objections one by one. And I want you to listen to what objections I put in the Role Play App. And I tell you exactly how to cross that objection and get over it. And I want you to see if you would be able to overcome this. So I'm going to read them off to you so you guys can understand what is in the Andy Elliott Role Play App. Let's go over the first 50. And I want you to think about right now if you could do this. By the way, share this video with somebody so that everybody knows that you are sharing the love.  Car sales nation, guys. If you're not in the car sales nation Facebook group right now, stop what you're doing. Go to Andy Elliott Car Sales Nation.   Guys, we've got people making $250,000, $300,000 group. We've got people in the group who are struggling that are now on like freaking what? They're showing like 10 car spree terrors. They're just so increasing. We've got people that are on furlough waiting to go back into the sewer. They have their mind right. They're staying focused right now.  There's nothing but positive and motivation. I don't try to sell you guys stuff in the group. I want to fire you up and surround you with other beasts that are in beast mode that want to see you do your best. It's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen in my life and that's why I wanted to create it. So thumbs up the video for your own YouTube. Share it with somebody. Like it. Make sure you subscribe. And if you're on car sales nation, guys, as we go live, I want you to just think about some of these objections that I'm going over right now. I want you to see where you would stand from 1 to 10 on being able to overcome this objection. If you had the app, you would be an 11. Okay? So let's do it. Okay. So first objection. We don't feel like we can afford this vehicle. What do you say? I feel like I just need to think this through. What do you say? I really don't see anything that I like. What do you say? There's one real vehicle I want to look at before buying yours. I'm going to start to back up on it. What do you say? I go over in the app. We don't need to test drive this used vehicle. We drove one just like that the other lot. I'm not buying it for three months. You are $1,000 higher than your competition. What word track do you have? Tattoo it on your heart. Ready to overcome that and move the self-word. I don't know how much I'm getting from a trade deal before I do anything. I don't have a co-signer. Guys, one word track and pull a co-signer. I'm not a customer. It's right here. I'm waiting until tax time. Hey, that's not right there. We don't see every day of the year, but when we have it, you know exactly what to say. The price needs to come down in order for me to do business every single time. That right there is deadly. The payments are too high. I appreciate you helping me over the phone that I live over an hour away. Whoa, Andy, are you pulling phone injections in? Sure am. Thanks for giving me the information over the phone, but I was just interested in the vehicle you already sold. If I teach you how to overcome that one, just that one alone would change your cells five cells a month. Okay? I saw the vehicle advertised, but I can't go in to see it today or tomorrow. That's not what I said at the appointment. I've got the word track for it. Teach you exactly how to do it. It's exactly how I made the money that I made selling cars. It's exactly how high achievers work. They have the words tattooed on the heart, so they choose them very carefully. Okay? Can you tell me what my car is worth over the phone? What? This is a cheat code. I give you the objection. I teach you how to overcome it. You memorize it.  Your life changes. You know why? Because if you're sitting here, if you were sitting on the other end, you were sitting in the seat. I drilled you on these. If you knew how to handle these, could you imagine what anyone else in your company or even in your state would be able to handle these? No ways. You're one choice away from getting the role play out. And by the way, you can click the link below. Get the role play out. You can sign up immediately. Okay? Can you tell me what my car is worth over the phone?  Overcoming the objection. Can you tell me over the phone what the financing terms will be? Guys, think about this. We're just getting warmed up. Before you get any fingers on this card, we want to go get some to eat or starve in. What do you say? It's right here. You guys have no idea how peaceful your life is going to be when you fear nothing anymore. This is amazing. Again, this is during negotiations. I appreciate you showing me the figures on this car, but before I finalize the deal, I want to look at something to eat. You're trying to leave. That one was on the lot. The one was actually inside. Two different ways. I see that my loan is for 84 months. I only want to go 60 months, but I don't want my payment to go up. Oh my gosh. Right here. Taking candy from a baby. I don't want to pay that price. I need a better deal of your business. I want to see what will give you before I pull my trade in, and then I'll decide whether it's worth my time. I think my trading is worth more money than you're offering me. I'm just going to wait to sell my car outright and get more money for it. Guys, they're completely all in line here. This is my first stop. I only have 15 minutes. What's my interest rate? I don't want to pay off for my trade in. I'll get back with you. I think that your price is too high. Watch this. And then I've got one that's actually a motive. I think that your price is too high, which means the guy's just proven for a better deal, and he doesn't actually have a reason why he thinks it's a better deal. This is actually a no motive. Your price is too high. This is when a guy's just proven for a better deal. I've got to set up two years of waste here. I'm just looking. I want to make sure you're not taking advantage of my girlfriend. We love this one. Or it could be just a third party. It could be anybody. I want to make sure that my son's getting the best deal. It could go from any angle. That's how you cover. And then my other copy is with me. What's the price? What's the price on a late-on program model here? So you've got what's the price? The fresh trade comes in, and you're trying to show it, and the guy's like, hey, what's the price on this? We teach you how to get around it so you can advance and sell forward, set yourself up to make a good deal. I don't have money for a down payment today. All of these guys. Can you give me the price of all three cars? I need to go home and sleep on it. We aren't interested in driving until we know the price. We don't feel like we can afford this vehicle. Look, I feel like I just need to think this through. I really don't see anything that I like. So as I go over these first 50 with you, I'm going to tell you this. These injections, just five of them, if you know how to overcome them, you can literally think about this. Just five of them. You can literally change your entire sales game. Can I tell you this? Most managers in the car business know two to three closes. Most managers. And no disrespect to management, but they're so busy trying to put car deals together on stop that the time for training just isn't there anymore. And that's why I want to tell you that you have to take it upon yourself to say, you know what? I'm just responsible for my own success. I know what my future will look like tomorrow. It's the way I create it today. You know what? I'm going to dedicate 15 minutes a day to doing the Andy Elliott role play out. If you role played with me for 15 minutes a day, guys, this is so cool. So you say, Andy, what happens when I get on the role play out? Like, go over this with me. Well, guess what? I get play. It serves me an objection. I read the over. I actually don't read it. I'm sorry. It serves me an objection. I try to overcome that objection. And if I get it wrong, what happens is it automatically flips the screen over and it will show me the right objection. I want to explain this to you. You are not a second rated version of me.  Once you learn the word track, here's what's beautiful. You can use 50% of it, 75% of it, or you can do 100% of it when you're outside of the lot. But bottom line is you have to set it on a tactic on your heart to say and you know what you want to talk about. And I think that's the biggest problem with salespeople is that they don't know what they're going to say, so you end up winning it and you actually end up saying the wrong things. And that's what costs us cartels.  Our customers are more prepared to object than we are to overcome the objections. Never again, if you partner with me, will you have to experience that? And check this out. If you put a sign on your desk a long time ago that says, hey, I stopped learning a long time ago, cool, I got you, man. I got you. But I'm going to tell you this, if that's not you, if you're like, hey, man, I want my best life right now, you don't get in life what you deserve, if you want to negotiate, if you want to become deadly at negotiating, if you want to have the words on your heart and learn from somebody, and just as I share this with you guys, there's no difference from you and me. Not at that, okay? Except for skill acquisition. Once you acquire the skill, you match it with hard work. It's lights out. This app is for everybody. And by the way, every time you get into the app, it starts with the brand new, it starts with the beginning objection, you go back through it over and over and over and you start working your way up to the levels faster. So, when I created the app, it was my own, obviously it was me, I would have somebody sitting next to me and they would learn one, two, three, four, five objections. They would go to six and they'd be like, nah, man, I got it. And then when they got back into the app 20 minutes later, we'd start back on one. Why? Because repetition is the mother's skill. They have to say it over. And now that one objection that it took them forever or two, three times to get down, now they're like, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. And they're just moving. And guess what happens? I'm sitting here watching salespeople right now moving. Yesterday I watched a video just on Zoom with one of the sales guys that got the app three days ago and got released. And dude, I mean, this guy could overcome the first objection in the beginning. He's already on number 12 now, just flying through it. Dude, this guy couldn't do one objection. And now he's gonna overcome 12? It's his first three days. What's gonna happen after a month? This guy's gonna know how to close at least 50 objections. What's gonna happen in two months? Three months about. This guy's gonna be a GM of a company. He's gonna be a manager. You come as a student. You go home as the teacher. You have to pay the rent. Every single day, guys, I'm still training. Every day. Every single day. What does that mean? If you train salespeople for a living, don't you get enough training? No way. You have to sharpen your sword daily. I sit in there every morning. I have Sean. I say, Sean, all right. Throw five objections at me. Tell us what you can think of. Come on, throw. I want it. I want a piece of it. I want to get caught off guard. I'm dying for it. Why? Because we're all human beings. What we don't practice will go away. Just the way it works. Doesn't matter how great you are today. Guess what? If you're not great today, it's kind of like credit. It's how I think about skill. If you have bad credit today, guess what? If you start paying your bills and doing good, you can have good credit tomorrow. That's the way it works. But if you've got good credit today, you don't pay your bills. You're going to have bad credit tomorrow. Our skill is determined by the work we're willing to put in today. You don't have to put in hours of training. But you do need to put in at least 15 or 20 minutes a day. Every single day. And with this role play out, you can do it in the morning. You can do it at lunch. You can do it at night before you go to bed. It doesn't matter. But I'm going to tell you this. Confidence. And not just confidence, but bulletproof confidence is everything. So if that being said, guys, we're going to wrap this up. We're going to have these 50 objections with you. The first 50. So as you can re-watch this again, as I go through them, if you're like, man, I don't know that one. I don't know that one. I don't know that one. Well, guess what? You're never going to not know them again. So at the end of the day, you guys have a very blessed day. Make sure you get the role play out. You see the first 50 tough objections that people struggle with. There are 200 objections in the role play out now. Guys, have a blessed day. We'll talk to you soon.


Hello people of the internet, my name is Johnny and today we have a brand new teaser on ScottGames.com. It is of course for the upcoming untitled FNAF game being made by SteelWolf Studios themselves. Now this one is interesting, it's a more detailed look at another character coming along with that game. If you guys remember a little bit back we got a detailed teaser of Rockstar or not Rockstar, sorry. What are their names again? I think it's Glamrock, Glamrock Freddy and now we have an entirely new character. Their name we do know and we'll get to that. So this is the teaser right here as you can see it is a completely new character still in the same setting, it's a mall that is currently being built in that was teased in a new update to FNAF Up Wanted. Now if you take a look back at the very first teaser we ever got for the brand new FNAF game, you can see that this guy is center stage along with Freddy since there's four characters that can't really be a center animatronic. So he is in the center along with Freddy. Clearly he has some sort of importance or maybe he's just there in the center with Freddy. I don't really know. So when we got the teaser of Freddy, Freddy's slogan was Rock and this new character is Jam. Kind of the same thing. So actually looking at the character as a whole now we can tell they are not your typical FNAF character. Like I've said many times because I keep repeating myself, I'm very tired. This is a brand new creature. This is not Foxy. It looks like there are three possibilities that people are saying. Alligator, Crocodile or Lizard. Honestly I don't know which one it could be. It could just be a normal lizard but the snout with the nostrils at the end and the very sharp teeth does make me lean more towards Alligator slash Crocodile but I'm not really sure. Kind of sad that brightening up this teaser doesn't really show anything. We've had this happen for the past couple of teasers and it's been a little bit sad. You know I miss the good old days when we used to brighten up the teasers and we'd find like secret codes and secret messages. But now this one doesn't really have anything to show. Honestly it does seem like this new character is greenish. It's got a greenish hue to them. But yeah the tail it's got those like spots on it so that alone just makes also the tail is not a typical Foxy tail. It's also not a typical Bunny tail. Like you look at the back of Toy Bonnie for example. They've got a little rod sticking out and then they've got a big circular white ball at the end to show that it's a Bunny tail. And then you look at the Foxies like Funtime Foxy and you can see that this tail is completely different. It's pointier it's more smooth you know Foxy's Funtime Foxy's tail goes up and then it kind of deals like a little swirl. This tail it goes out and it ends at a point. It's very simple and the dots like I said make it appear to be a lizard tail. They're holding a guitar which is interesting because normally that's Bonnie's role. Actually is there a Bonnie character? Hold on let me actually check because I don't know. We have a Freddy, we have this character which I still haven't announced the name yet. It doesn't appear that there was a Bonnie character. I'm looking at the original teaser which I will of course put up on screen now. But it looks like it's just this Freddy character, this lizard character and then two others. Probably one of them is Chica, the other one I don't know who it could be. Now let me finally tell you guys the name. When you save the image it saves as... Let me find it again. I thought it was so organized for this. I clearly was not. It saves as Montgomery dot JPEG and someone also went into the metadata.  So this character is named Montgomery nickname Monty. Now some people are also making connections to this green lizard-ish mask that you can see in Happiest Day. And to be honest I would not be surprised if this is what Scott was going for, okay? Because originally we thought it was Happy Frog but does that really look like a frog? Not really. It could maybe be representing the purple mask from that minigame because we don't really have anything else to connect that to. Mr. Hippo, yeah. But the snout on that mask is really long and Mr. Hippo's snout isn't that long. So maybe there was a color swap or maybe this isn't even referencing Happy's day at all. It's also worth noting that the source code for this image is the exact same. Saying stand the course. I will. Follow my voice. I will.  I won't. Have you selected one? I have. Now people are also calling attention to this girl in the front. People are either saying that it's Vanny or that it's Vanny's victim that she has selected. As you can tell from the source code saying have you selected one? I have. People are pointing out that this is the only character that doesn't have their glow stick in the air waving in a belt for Monty. There's also a lot more detail that you can tell by the hair and the face and just the overall body image that they appear to have more work put into them than the other characters. And again, this is still in the same model you can tell from the palm tree decorations and the escalators and the whole neon lights and all that stuff. It's interesting that we're getting a brand new spanking new character, you know? Throughout all of these games, throughout all of these series, it's always been Freddy, Bonnie, Chica and Foxy as the four main guys. And now here comes this brand new game being made by Steel Wall and you've got Freddy, Monty, what looks like some Chica character and then a completely new character as well. It's interesting that Scott has replaced Bonnie and Foxy. If we're assuming the character on the far right in the original image isn't Foxy or Bonnie, which let's be honest, doesn't really look like that's going to be the case. I don't think that final character is a Bonnie or Foxy, I think it is, just like Monty, a brand new character for this game. Do you know that, like I said earlier, Vanny is going to appear in this game somewhere? Whether she is that girl at the front of the stage, I'm not entirely sure. But it's interesting that we don't have just like a little bit of Vanny teasing. Because if you remember in the detailed, let me actually find it, sorry, I'm talking but also trying to look for the teaser at the same time. In the updated teaser of the detailed Freddy, you can see Vanny, god where is it? There it is, you can see Vanny up on the roof of all places, looking down with what is presumably a knife in her hands. So whether this girl at the front of the stage is Vanny or her victim, I don't know. Whether people are just looking into this farther than they should be, the fact that they're more detailed than others, I don't know. I have seen on the Reddit that some people are skeptical about this new game because it is adding a brand new cast of characters. Again, replacing Bonnie and Foxy, presumably those two. So my stance on it, I think it's great. I think it's great, like if you think about it, the series is nearly six years old and this is a little bit of innovation, you know? They're not throwing out Bonnie and Foxy.  There was no way that's going to happen. I'm sure Bonnie and Foxy are making an appearance in this game somewhere, especially considering that they are the two most popular characters. Well, maybe Freddy's above Bonnie, but Foxy, there's no way they are passing that opportunity. Steal World Studios did such an amazing job with Help Wanted. I fully believe in them. I fully believe that they can pull this off. Also, I should mention this because I was talking about this character making reference to other characters, specifically the Mask and FNAF 3. People have also been comparing this to Old Man Khan from FNAF World and Ultimate Custom Night. I don't think that's the case. Honestly, I don't know what Old Man Consequences is. I don't know what he's supposed to be, but just one glance at his design, you can tell that he's red because he's just fully red. And so I think comparing him with this new character that we can tell, especially when we burn it up, is very clearly green. I don't think that's the case. I don't think this is Old Man Consequences. Anyways, I know I'm really late on this. I'm sorry. I haven't looked at anyone else's videos. I know that Fusion and Darko have already uploaded their videos. I haven't watched those yet, so I don't know what their thoughts are on this. Right now, I'm really hyped for this new character. I hope... God, I hope he has a voice. Because if there's one thing I love, it's voice acting for the characters. I'm a little bit concerned about the release date.  Steel World Studios has hopefully been working real hard. They've been in the dark for a long time. I think they've only released one, maybe two updates for how wanted since Curse of Dreadbear or so. There hasn't been that many updates, which hopefully means that they're working real hard on this new title, which hopefully they're taking their time on it though, because I want it to be good. The fact that we've only seen two teasers and it's nearing the end of March does concern me a little bit. But like I said earlier, I have full trust in Steel World Studios.  I'm not sure how well they're going to perform with a certain virus that I'm not gonna name, because I don't want to get demonetized. Scott did address that saying he hopefully shouldn't have too many cancellations of things. I think someone mentioned the production on the books and how those are going to go with this unnamed virus. And Scott said that it hopefully shouldn't injure the projects too much. So hopefully we can still expect this title for 2020. But based on the information we've gotten, two at four characters teased and it's nearing the end of March, I would guess probably a quarter three, maybe even a quarter four release date. But right now I'm really banking on quarter three, okay? But I don't work at Steel World, so that's not final. Anyways, I think that's just about it. There's not really much to talk about. Because it is a new character and we don't have too much information on them, and I kicked my desk with my foot. Yeah, because it's a new character, we don't know too much about them, so there is a lot to speculate. As you can tell, I was just throwing out so many ideas, hoping one of them lands somewhere. Especially with the references from this character and the girl at the front of the stage. I don't know if those are true. I don't know if those are true, okay? I just want to point it out. Maybe the girl isn't Vanny, maybe the girl isn't her victim. Maybe people are looking into that too much. I don't know, but for right now that is it. I also know that I missed an upload the other day, and I'm sorry. I legit fell asleep on my living room couch. I have recorded half a video of the summary of Into the Pit, and I am planning on getting that done possibly tomorrow. But right now, things are not going well in real life, so I'm sorry if it's delayed a bit. Yeah, so that is it for this update video. Hopefully we're going to tease her really soon, because I actually really, really enjoy it when we get new teasers. It just fills me with hype. Hopefully you guys are helped. Nope, God. Hopefully you guys are hyped too. Nailed it, and I will see you all on the flip side. Goodbye.


Dylan Chumacher, Citadel Defense, welcome here. So, I can wax political a little bit here with you. I'd say this in all the permit classes I teach, but I thought this was worth mentioning in a video. As you know, or maybe should know, maybe you don't know, I don't know. Gun control does next to nothing to prevent actual crime, right? In some cases it does worse than nothing, it makes the problem worse. Different story. But the one example I always like to bring up is background checks and how a standard firearms background check is worthless. The reason I pick that is because if I tell you that background checks are worthless, first time I heard that, I was like, whoa. Like that's, you're against background checks? Like that's nuts.  How can you be against background checks? But they're worthless. And so I picked that one because it's a little bit jarring. And if that one is faulty, which we're gonna talk about, then I think it's a pretty easy to understand how the rest don't work either. So for those of you who don't know, the Brady Bill, which is what instituted background checks in this country, was passed in 1993. Now it is my understanding that it was not even enforceable until 1998 with the inception of the National Incident Criminal Background Check System, NICS, right? So that wasn't even enforceable for that five-year interim. If you have more information on that, or if I'm incorrect, would you please let me know and I would be happy to correct that if I'm wrong on that. So that means effectively in this country, we've been doing background checks for about 20 years, 21 years, right? That's it. That's it. Before that, you could buy a gun without a background check. Now, first of all, most people don't know that. Second of all, what is your perception? Second of all, what is your perception that in the past 20 years, violence, gun violence has become more of an issue or less of an issue, right? It's become more of an issue, right? And your perception is that gun violence is way worse than it used to be. And maybe in some small things, it is, right? Like there's mass shootings are a thing now, right? Active shooters are a thing now. That wasn't necessarily a thing when I was a small kid, but now that's a thing. That's a thing you gotta worry about, right? Still extremely rare, but it's a thing. It's a thing that we all know about. Overall, crime is down. Crime has been down since the 80s. You can look at a chart and it's been a long, slow decline since the 80s. Crime has been coming down. So, my question is, if our perception is that gun violence is up in reality, let's be honest, it's down, okay? But the issue of gun violence, we all know that the issue of gun violence. I even hate using that term as compared to what? Hammer violence. The issue of guns in America is huge, right? It's massive. So, if background checks actually did something, like they actually prevented crimes from happening, why are guns a bigger issue now than they ever have been? Why are the people who are against guns calling for more restrictions now than they ever have been? I mean, I'm asking you, right? Why? Why is it the case? And the answer is, is because background checks do nothing. They do nothing to prevent crime. You can look it up, right? But I think between 1998 and 2014, about 0.6% of all firearms purchases were rejected on a basis of the failed the background check, right? 0.6% of all firearms purchases that person was denied, okay? Less than 1%. And of those, almost none were prosecuted, right? It was usually a former felon trying to buy a gun and they got rejected, which is illegal, you can't do that. And then almost none of those people were prosecuted. So, what's the law there for? I'll tell you what it effectively does is it inconveniences every law-abiding American to buy a gun, right? It's also potentially a government snoop and a fourth amendment issue. But background checks, right? Do nothing but tread on my rights, tread on your rights, and do nothing to prevent crime. And so, the people who wanna pass these kinds of bills, their goal is ultimately the confiscation of all your guns, right? We used to be able to say that, when we used to say that people thought we were crazy, I thought that was a crazy statement a while ago. You know, I first started getting into guns and stuff, I thought that was a crazy statement. But people are coming for your guns and now they don't even hide it anymore.  He's calling for a buyback, which means gun confiscation, right? He wants to buyback, which means confiscate, all of the assault weapons, which means like my AR-15, right? So, they're coming for your guns. It's pretty apparent, right? So, what they do is they'll pass laws that they know are ineffective, like background checks, right? And then, with the intent of coming back to pass more laws with the ultimate goal of total confiscation. Well, we passed all these laws and none of them seem to work, so I guess we just gotta take the guns away. That's where it's going. If you think I'm crazy, don't believe me, that's fine, but I would charge you to look at the evidence. And the evidence is, mounting gun control laws that don't actually do anything to stop criminals from committing crimes, I have an idea. Why don't we make murder illegal? Then, there'd be no murder, just a thought. They'd pass laws that don't actually stop crimes. That do infringe on your rights as outlined in the Constitution. And then, when it does nothing, their solution is more of those laws. And they're gonna continue to try to get them more and more restrictive, again, with the ultimate goal of total confiscation. So, be curious to hear your thoughts on that. That's currently my take. And in the meantime, do brave deeds and endure.


When the narcissist knows you're gone for good. When they know you're not coming back, you don't desire to be around them anymore. And why?   Yeah, you're fed up of all of that.   Because that's pretty much what it was all along. I mean, to them it was as though they were trying to help you. They were trying to do all of these things for you. That's what they led you to believe. And of course that is what we call the illusion. Yes, that is what we call that. And yeah, they made you believe that they were about all of these things.  And many of you I know, as I did, you believed in it. You bought into it because you genuinely believe that this person was about it for real. And in time you realized that no, that wasn't true after all. You got that wrong. And what they were actually about is themselves. Because yes, as we know, narcissists, they only care about themselves. They don't care about you or anyone else. And the reason why is because they're self-absorbed and they lack empathy. And another thing they lack as well is self-awareness. A lot of the times they don't even look at the things they do and they're just thinking about, I want this, I want it now. So I'm going to go out and get it. Yeah, they're thinking like that. They're not even thinking about, what about you? How do you feel about this? What do you want and when do you want it? No, they're not thinking like that. They're thinking, I just woke up today and I want this. So I'm going to go and take it from you. And at some point you get fed up of it. You've had enough of being used and abused, being mistreated, of being lied to, manipulated, future faked, exploited, deceived. You've had enough of these things because you know that these things are not real. You're starting to wake up to that now. And yeah, at that point you're going for goods. You're not coming back and they know it. They know you are no longer susceptible to their manipulation. And they know you're not susceptible to it because they've tried to manipulate you. They've tried to return to the love-bombing phase. They've tried to deceive you again. And what are you doing? You're still walking away. You're still going along your own path. You're still doing what you want to do. Because you realize that they're not about you, they're only about themselves. They're only about themselves. And that is why you stay gone for good. And you think that by doing that, by realizing, oh, this person isn't about anything. They haven't got anything of value to give to me, other than an illusion which actually, in reality, that doesn't hold any value anyway. So, yeah, you realize that you've got to move on and you think that they're just going to let you move on because you figured it out. If you're thinking that way, you must not realize who you're dealing with. Because if you know what you're dealing with and you know that it is real, yes, one thing that is real is that you are dealing with a narcissist. And if you realize that, you will also realize that you figuring them out, you catching on to what they're doing, you maybe confronting them, exposing them but that's not just going to make them scratch their head. Okay, you got me, you caught me out. Now I'm going to suddenly change and be everything you want me to be. No narcissist thinks like that. They might use that to manipulate you, yes, but soon as you start catching on, you figure them out, that is going to hurt them. That's really going to wind them up. And yes, they will lash out at you. They will want to bring you down.   They will do everything they can to bring you down. And if they begin with something small, yes, they may attack you psychologically.  Yes, they may try to do that. I'm sure they've done that already. In most situations, they've already devalued you. And yes, that devaluation will continue after you've left them for good. They will still try to come back to do that. And not only that, but they will spread rumors about you. They will triangulate you with other people.  They will gossip about you to everyone. They will label you as this bad person who couldn't do anything right. As though it was all you, everything was your fault. That's how you know something's not right. Because for one thing, it's never just one person to blame. There's always someone else involved. But that's what they do when it's over. That's what they do every time. When it's over and you move on, the first thing they're going to do is blame you for everything. They're going to blame you for everything. They're not going to take accountability for anything. They're not going to do that. Because they already know that that would put them in a very unfavorable position. They wouldn't have a leg to stand on after that. Because they've done so many things in their lives, they wouldn't know where to start. They've got so many skeletons in the closet. So when they know that you're gone for goods, they kind of left to their own devices after that. They kind of left to introspect the limited amount that they can. To the limited amount that they can look inside themselves. They kind of left to do that and to look at what they've become, to look at what they've done to you. And that is enough to trigger a narcissist all on its own.   Because of how you're making them feel by you trying to move on. So yes, they will do all of these things.  Because they look at it like...  This is how the narcissist is thinking. If I can't get you to do all of that, then I don't want anyone to have you. I don't want anyone to have that. This is how these crazy people think in their minds. This is how they think. And it is the saddest thing it really is. If they can't have you the way they want, under their control, under their spell, where they pull the wool over your eyes and you just do whatever they want, whatever they want you to do it. If they can't have you like that, they just don't even care what happens to you. They really don't.  That's what they will try to do. Because they look at it like, okay, you're not going to be mine. You're not going to do what I want you to do. And the last thing they want to see is this person they've already invested so much of their time, effort, energy into controlling you and trying to keep you all theirs because they're extremely envious and jealous of you and anyone who tries to take you away from them. So that's why they're so deeply involved in all of this power and control. They're trying to control this thing that they are deeply envious of. Because they don't look at people the way we do. They don't look at people's uniqueness and strengths and individuality. And they don't want to see people move on with their lives and be happy with someone who could actually be good for them and treat them right. And also that person could do the same for someone else as well. But they don't care about that because they're narcissists. They're completely self-absorbed. They lack empathy. All they care about is themselves and what they want and what they want is to control you. They just want to keep you all to themselves. So no, they're not just going to let you get away.  And I have experienced that in my own life where I have tried to get away from certain narcissists. And yes, by doing that, I ended up in some very bad situations. I did situations as you know in the past where at one point I even tried to take my own life because I was so destroyed by the things that were being said to me, by the things that were being done to me. And at other times I lost a lot of money. I even ended up in jail at one point. And this is all because I'm trying to escape from these narcissists. And that's exactly what they're going to do. They're going to get you trapped. They're going to try and abuse you financially so that you can't physically move on. Because of course you're going to need some money to do that and they're aware of this. So even if you have a job, they're trying to get you fired from your job. They're trying to steal your money away from you. And they're trying to turn everyone against you so that you've got nowhere else to go. That's another thing they'll do. And another thing is they will make false accusations against you. Try and get you in trouble with the police, in trouble with the law. Even though you may not have done anything wrong. Because they want to label you as a criminal, a bad person. Someone who does not deserve anyone. And that's kind of what they want to drill inside your head is that you don't deserve anyone or anything good. I can tell you that right now, that is not right. We all deserve good things. Even people who have done things wrong, they deserve good things more than anyone else. And clearly you can see that. So don't let them brainwash you. Don't let them make you think like that. No matter what they're saying that you've done. They may be saying that you're abandoning them. You're leaving them because they lack self awareness. They're not looking up their actions and everything they've done to you. They don't even care about that. And that's how they can just return to the love bombing phase so easily. As you notice, they go back and forth between the love bombing, the devaluation, the discard, the hoovering. They can just go back and forth like that because it doesn't mean anything to them. It's all just a false reality anyway. It's all fake and they're giving you a false character.  So it's all just fantasy to them anyway. All of these things they do to you, they inflict harm on you. They make false accusations against you, they turn everyone against you. They steal your money, they do all of these things, they get you fired from your job. In their minds, none of this is real anyway. That's how they think. And of course it's not going to be real. Once you get to the point where there's no looking back and you don't want to be around them anymore and there's nothing that they can do to sway you. Of course nothing's real after that, is it? Because they know you're not coming back. They know you want nothing to do with them. Now that you know that they're not real. Now that you know that of course you don't want anything to do with them. Because you're about good things. That's what you're about. And I can tell you that there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with being about good things. We should all decide to have good things in our life. So yeah. But this is what they will do to you. And I know how crazy this may sound. I am fully aware of that. But yes, despite everything they've already done to you.  They brought you into this relationship knowing fully well that they weren't about anything for real.  And then when you started to catch on and you were thinking, hold on a minute. All of these things that you promised me, where are they? That's when they began to devalue you and make you feel like you're not good enough for it anyway. You don't deserve it. That's when they tried to make you feel like that. And then maybe they discarded you, maybe they returned back for the love bombing again.  They put you for the cycle so many times. Because you know what, it actually gets boring for them after a while. When they love bombing you all the time, they've been ablating you. That gets boring.  That gets boring as well.  They're bored again so they hoover you. That's why they have to switch through all of these different phases. Because they get bored after a while. They're very dysfunctional. They can't sustain anything for a long period of time. So yeah, they put you through the ringer pretty much. They put you for the cycles. They take you to the cleaners. They do all of these things to you. And when it's all said and done, and you just get to the point where you're like, okay, I get it.  I'm garbage. I'm not worth anything. You don't want me. Okay, I understand that. Now just let me go. Just let me move on. And maybe I can find someone who I can be good for. No, they're not going to let you do that. They love you the most when you've got one foot out the door. And when they can see that you've moved on, you've gone for goods, they get very envious, jealous and competitive. Because it makes them feel very insecure. They're not looking at all the crazy things they've done to you. It just instantly makes them question themselves and they're thinking, Hold on a minute. That means I'm not good enough. That's how they're thinking in their minds when they try to control you. Because it directly affects their self-esteem. So they see you getting away. And now they've got to reel you in. They've got to pull you right back in. Because it's triggering them. When they see you getting away. It's like there's crabs in the bucket mentality. They see you climbing out the bucket. They've got to pull you right back in. They can't let you get further ahead than them. Because then that makes them feel small. But they don't want to do the work to actually build something for real. Because a lot of them, they already know that they can't. They already know that they're missing that key ingredient. Empathy and without that, nothing's going to last anyway. Because you need to be able to empathize and understand other people. You need to be able to understand their situation and their feelings. Otherwise nothing's going to last. If you don't have that. But guess what? They do know that you have that. And that is one of the main reasons why they don't want to let you get away. Because you know, if they know you're not about anything. If they know that you don't have the tools to build anything for real. Why would they even bother trying to control you? If you're not that special. And if you don't have the tools to move on and find something for real. Why would they do that? It's because they know they can't. But they also know that you can. That's why they will go out of their way, track you down and try to control you. Because they know that they can't but you can. That is why. And if that isn't enough. After they've put you through the ring so many times.  And you've probably lost count of how many times they've done that. They might have been doing that for years, 10 years, 20 years, 30 years. You may have lost count of how long it's been.  And then once you've lost everything, maybe you've lost your job. You've lost all your friends, your family members, all of your support. By this point, no one wants anything to do with you.  And yes, you may have lost your job, they may have targeted you financially, you've got no money. You don't get anything.  And when I started to catch on, they devalued me, they made me feel like I'm nothing. Then they discarded me, then they came back, then they discarded me again, came back again. So many times until I finally got the picture, then it moved on myself.  Every relationship, money, job, everything. Many of you may not even have a place to stay. And after all of that, you would think it's finally over. But no, they lack self-awareness, object constancy. So they're not looking at all the crazy things they've done to you. What they're looking at is you trying to get away. And when they see that you are in this hopeless and helpless situation, where you assume that it's all over for you, they're just looking at it like, great, this is the perfect opportunity for me to come back and to start the cycle all over again. Which is exactly what they will do if they have succeeded in destroying you. What they're going to do is they're going to come back, manipulate you all over again, start with a love bomb and phase.  And then they'll discard you all over again. And then they'll come back with a hoover.  It really can. Because it is very unlikely that they're going to find someone else like you. Because if you've been watching my videos long enough, yes, you are very special. You really are. And I have talked to many of you, my clients in the sessions, and I'm not just talking about physically, although, yes, many of my clients, they are very beautiful people. But I'm not just talking about that. Narcissists, they target the best of the best. This is common knowledge. They don't want average people. And I'm not just talking about physically. I'm talking about people who have a purpose in life. They're striving towards something. And not only that, but they have a heart. That's one thing that pretty much every target of a narcissist has, is they have empathy. They have empathy. And in this world, that is actually, believe it or not, an extremely rare trait. It really is. And even a lot of the people who do have empathy, their own need and desires override it. They override it. So yes, you are actually a very special person.    They turn everyone against you to get caught in the law.  So that you're going to assume that you're no good for anyone. You're not even going to try because that's what they want us to do. They want us to stay alone, to stay isolated, to not engage with anyone, to think that we're not good for anyone. We don't deserve anyone. That's how they went to think. And of course, we don't think like that on this channel. This channel is about not only self-awareness and take responsibility, but also building confidence in ourselves, recognizing that yes, we are special. And that is why we were targeted by these narcissists. That is why they spend so much time around us.  They don't want you to be free. That is the last thing that they want. They want to take away your God-given free will, your ability to make your own choices and decisions. And they will do that in a variety of ways.  And also by trying to shame you, by making you think that actually, no, no, there's something wrong with your choices or your decisions. There's something wrong with that now. And so you shouldn't be doing that. No, that is exactly what you should be doing.  You need to go out and do that right now. Well, maybe not right now, but you need to take the time to heal from everything they put you through. And then in your own time, when you're ready, when you feel like the time is right, yes, you do need to move on. And you know, a lot of people who have been through this, they really do believe that it's all over for them. They believe that this is as good as it gets. There's nothing more for them after that. No one else is going to want them.  They want to leave you in a state where you are no good for anyone else. That's how they want to leave you. Because yes, that is what this is about. It is about you trying to move on and develop a relationship with someone else. That is what they are deeply afraid of because they're very envious, jealous and competitive. So yes, that is one thing that would bother them the most. To see that, to see you not only move on and you're happy without them, but to see that you've also done something they can't, which is develop a healthy functional relationship with someone else. Because then that really reveals who the problem was. If you're able to move on and do that, then that tells people everything they need to know. Once you've achieved that, then it's indeniable after that point. And of course they want to maintain the illusion, the false narrative. So the last thing they want you to do is that they don't want you to move on because of everything that tells them about themselves. Just by yes, that is the last thing they want you to do.  But yes, so what you need to do after you've been through this with these narcissists, you need to develop your self-confidence because of course they brought your confidence down. They made you believe as though you're not deserving of what you think you are. You're not who you say you are.  This is how they want you to think.   You can't even look anyone in the eye anymore. Because by this point you just feel like you're worth nothing. That's exactly how they want you to think. That does not mean that's who you are. This is the identity that they've given to you. And in actuality it really has nothing to do with you at all. Yes, as you can see it is raining now. I'm stuck out here with no umbrella. The crazy thing is I actually did bring an umbrella too and I left it in the car. It was so sunny when I came out as you probably can see at the beginning of the video. So I didn't expect it to come down like this. Luckily there is shade under these trees so that it should keep me dry a little bit. Hopefully it will stop soon. But yeah, I know a lot of you. It really breaks my heart. When I see, I read some of the emails, some of the comments, I speak to the clients and I hear some of you, you can't even because you were afraid. You've taken away your confidence in yourself. I know they targeted you. They always wanted to be around you because they're selfish. They just want to keep it to themselves. And yes, I hear from a lot of you lost all that confidence in yourself. You're afraid to go out and talk to people.  Some of you, you don't even want to leave your own house. You don't even want to leave your own house. It's gotten to that point where you just feel so much shame about yourself and for no reason at all. For no reason at all. Because it's not even you. It is them. They did all of these things to you. They targeted your self-esteem. They made you feel small. They made you feel like you're not good for anyone. And that is the thing that quite honestly brings me the most pain. When I read these stories from people and I speak to my clients that's what really irritates me the most. It really does. Because it's that loss of potential. What it could have been. What you could have had. And not only that but what someone else could have had with you. And sadly, we may never know what you could have had in the past. We may never know that. But you just got to see it as though being with a narcissist. Now it's made you more aware of yourself. And now you can strengthen yourself. You can recognize your weaknesses and you can deal with that now. Because that's all these narcissists, these haters do. They just expose your vulnerabilities and once they're exposed to you then you can take care of it. And you could be better for someone else. That's what you can do. So don't think of it as though it's all gone. Think of it as though it's just preparing you for a better future with someone else. That's how you've got to see it. But you do have to be aware. You do have to protect yourself because they're not going to want to see you do that. That's why it's because they already know they're not going to have that. They're never going to have that at all. And of course you should be able to recognize that by their actions. I mean if someone is really happy with their lives if someone is really happy with that with their job with whatever they've got maybe they've moved on, found new supply if they're really happy with that do you really think they're going to go out of their way to try to destroy you to try to manipulate you again? Of course not. I mean just put yourself in their shoes. If you moved on and things got better for you you found someone else that you liked you think you're going to be thinking about them again? Of course not. You're going to forget all about them. That's what you're going to do. So of course they've got to control you because they don't want to see you moving on and have something that they already know they are never going to have. Never. And yes it should be completely obvious by now that they will never have that. You're going to know that because of how they treated you of how they treated you that they ever care about you that they ever considered you.  Nothing ever came into reality the way that they put it out to you it was just all future faking and now in the end what have you got? You've got nothing from them all you got was abuse and revelation, deception lies and now you've got this crazy person coming after you trying to destroy you trying to bring you down again that's what you got that's what you got you got everything you didn't want and yet at the beginning they made you believe that they were about that for real but they were never about that for real they just wanted you to think that so that they could get what they wanted from you that's all they wanted to do that's all they wanted to do but yeah when you realise this you do need to become aware you do need to recognise everything that they've done everything that they're trying to do you do need to try and recognise all of that so that you can protect yourself in the future use these things these experiences to make you wiser more knowledgeable less naive as we were before because a lot of us yes we were foolish when we first met them for even giving them a chance we should have walked away from the very beginning so in a way that is on us we should take responsibility for that and yes just use this information to become wiser it could potentially help you to find your soulmate the person that you belong with but first you need to build yourself back up you need to heal because if it's your real soulmate I can tell you that they are not going to be like the narcissist they're not going to be anything like that they're not going to be insecure they're going to have everything that they need yes they may desire a relationship but that's the way that a healthy relationship should work it's not two people coming together to complete each other that is not a healthy relationship and that will fall apart at the end a healthy relationship is two complete people coming together two people who are already happy on their own but what do the narcissist do to you? they try to make you feel insecure for being alone as though that was the wrong thing for you to do because that's how they think because they always need supply and of course just that mindset alone it should already tell you where they're going to go it should already tell you that they're never going to have a type of relationship that you desire and to be honest they don't really care about that so much I mean you've got to think these people they lack empathy even if they did decide to have empathy it would only be so that they could manipulate you even more and you've got to look at that by the how that's all they've ever been trying to do anyway never trying to develop anything authentic with you because all they're about is their relationship they don't really care about empathy so much it doesn't do anything for them but they like it when you show empathy for them because then they can use that to control you they're getting you to feel guilty to feel bad for them to overlook all of the things they did to you in the past but yes you've just got to try you know it's not it's not going to be pretty it's not all sunshine and rainbows when you do try to move on they will try and bring you down pull you back in they will try to do that but you've just got to keep moving cut your losses yes you may lose a lot of things but then you just got to ask yourself at the end of the day what do I really want you've got to ask yourself that and recognize that yes at the beginning when you first met them you wanted something you wanted a real relationship you wanted marriage children you wanted a future with someone a healthy relationship that was what you wanted all along and they made you believe that they were about that but they weren't they weren't about that for real and they may have even tried to make you feel bad for wanting that but guess when you heal and you move on things will get a lot better for you and you can find that for real don't let anyone tell you that you can't and don't let anyone try to stop you if you have this desire so much in your heart for a real relationship a real connection true intimacy there is of course a reason for that because as we know not everyone desires that they're just looking to intimidate people to take advantage so there is a reason why you have this desire and you need to follow that desire let it take you to where you need to go because you know you may have thought it was good the love bombing phase even though it was fake it wasn't real imagine having that for real with someone else someone who is about it for real and you just gotta look at yourself imagine someone caring about you the way that you care about other people the way that you cared about the narcissist imagine someone loving you the way that you loved the narcissist just imagine that and when you imagine it you will know that it has to exist it has to because you're that person you were that person who gave your entire life to the narcissist you gave them everything give them all of your love, energy and attention so just take a moment to imagine that to imagine someone loving you the way that you love someone caring about you the way that you care and just knowing that you have that yes it must exist within someone else it must but of course you don't want to continue the health of the unhealthy dynamic you can't just go running into another relationship now just after you've moved on because obviously then you're going to be more dependent on someone else the way narcissist will see you in a weak position and take advantage of you that's not going to be good that's not going to be what you want because remember you wanted something more you wanted a real relationship you wanted true intimacy and if that's what you really want you've got to hold on you've got to take time to heal yourself and yes it will take time it might take six months it might take one year but however long it takes I can promise you that it will be worth it when you take the time to heal yourself and you become a complete person on your own you're fine being on your own you don't mind it you don't mind sleeping alone in your bed at night that's fine you're not long enough you're in it for anyone you're okay by yourself and guess what there's someone else out there who is exactly like you someone who is complete on their own no they don't need to exploit you they don't need to take advantage of you they don't need to do any of that but when you find each other it's just going to feel right it's going to feel amazing and I know that you're going to love it I know that you're going to love that and yes kind of goes back to this loss of potential that we talked about yes I hate that and I guess that is why I want this so much for you when you do get to heal and move on and you do find this person as we talked about yes it is very rare but once you become whole and complete within yourself you will be able to attract this type of person into your life and yes it will be an incredible feeling for you when you do find this person who loves the way that you love they care the way that you care you've got to be able to perceive of it first and to do that yes you do have to heal it's very important that you take time out it's very important that you do that and believe it or not sometimes these narcissists do create the perfect environment for us to do just that because they isolate us they turn everyone against us maybe it's all a plan all along to prepare you for what is really meant for you that's who you've got to think about it and yes that can be your reality and it's very rare if I'm honest I do hear these types of success stories unfortunately yes people move on they become happier they do better without the narcissist but it is extremely rare that I've heard anyone say they've moved on and found someone who loves and cares the way that they love and care it is very rare that I hear that but yes I do offer one-on-one coaching where I can guide you along your healing journey towards that because I've been and done it myself I mean you've seen enough times already in my videos I've made hundreds of videos I'm always alone and I'm happy on my own I can honestly say that but I'm also waiting for my time and I have a feeling that it is coming soon when I will meet someone who is complete within themselves someone who won't be so dependent on me they won't need me but they may desire me and we can be complete together so yes I am waiting for that time myself but I believe that I've already got to the point where I feel healthy I feel good on my own I feel happy 90% of the time because of course yes there are ups and downs I'm not dependent on anyone else's validation I don't need anyone to validate my reality I can validate it myself and at this point I don't think any narcissist is going to be able to manipulate me I can see it a mile away because I've been through it enough times and I've had time away to heal from that and I'd like you to get to that point as well and do well in time as I said I do offer one-on-one coaching which is available it's booked for my website anytime it's Narxifyva.co.uk so yes you can book a session through there and I will guide you I will give you the support that you need to get to where you need to be because as I said there is nothing that makes me happier especially for people who they have that loss of potential in their lives they were kept down for such a long time they thought they could never get back up nothing more amazing for me than to see a person like that finally finding the strength and confidence in themselves and being able to move on and to find out for real that real relationship, that real intimacy that feeling when you look into someone else's eyes and you know you have this connection because yes I have experienced that already a few times and it's the most amazing feeling in the world it really is I think that's why we cure we cure to connect and unfortunately a lot of people don't have the ability to do that they're just all about themselves they're all about getting something from you they're all about short term things they don't even care to get to know you they just want to have sex they just want to spend your money but we all come together on cure because we want something more we want something more and yes I'd love to be your guide on that I'd love to be the person who helps you to get there I'd love to be that for you but yes that's it for the video I'm actually quite hungry now I'm going to go and get something to eat hopefully I'll find something good but as always I'd just like to thank you all for joining me on another NARC's Highway Live video we do have 102 people watching this video right now only 34 thumbs ups so please do show some love give that thumbs up button down below support our community support my work this message it would mean a lot to me and share the video let me know your thoughts down in the comment section let me know if you agree with it or not let me know your experience if 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