Soul people, the two best push rifles or even PvP weapons in the game right now are the Vigilance Wing and the Graviton Lance, 99% of the community would agree. But oh boy, there is another player in town. What is going on guys, welcome back to the channel and I appreciate you being here. Today I am back with another Destiny 2 video and today we compare the Graviton Lance, the Vigilance Wing and the Redrix's Claymore. But hey guys, if you do like the video and would like to support the channel, hitting that like button truly does help me and my channel out and I do indeed appreciate that support. Okay, so the Redrix's Claymore, a weapon that's so rare at the moment, literally less than 1% of the entire player base for Destiny 2 own it. Luckily, thanks to Blinks, who I believe was the first in the world to get this, an amazing PvP player who's Twitch and Twitter, you will find a link to it in the video description. All gameplay footage of this Redrix's Claymore is thanks to Blinks, so do go and show these guys some love people. Now I know you shouldn't really be comparing exotics to legendaries, as for the most part, it's an unfair comparison due to the fact. Exotics have exotic intrinsic perks and legendaries can be equipped alongside said exotics, so in reality, comparisons are kind of silly between the two. But if you are a PvP player and you want a weapon which will guide you to victory, if you want a weapon you can rely on, if you want to come out on top of gunfights more times than not, Redrix here doesn't matter, as setups can be based around any specific weapon or an armor piece for that matter. So the only comparison here, which truly matters, is which is more effective for a better overall play style and setup you can keep on top with. All three weapons are relatively equal within their own unique rights, but one weapon today, in my opinion, towers above the rest. So let's first check out the Graviton Lance. Firstly, this weapon has changed a lot from before the war mine was released. It's a whole new level of a beast right now. It now fires two bullets per burst, and fires roughly two bursts per second. With a total of 30 bullets in the mag, it will empty its entire clip in around 7 seconds. So it certainly hasn't got the fastest fire rate we've ever seen. The damage numbers on this thing are kind of weird also. The first shot of the burst to the head does 12. The second shot to the head does 59 or 60, depending on how close you are.  And you can do this in about 1.5 seconds, which is its fastest time to kill. The exotic perk on the Graviton Lance can not be ignored considering we're comparing weapons for effectiveness in PvP. Black Hole, second shot of the burst trips a whole through space-time, doing high damage and recoil with no fall-off. Now if you have come across a team stacked together, killing one of them and this triggering truly damages your enemy if they are trapped within its blast. It also spawns Minyak symbols, which also chase them too, which are pretty lethal. The clip in the background now is by Destiny Overwatch whose channel can be found linked within the video description. This shows how devastating this weapon can be in the right circumstances. It's absolutely lethal. The Vigilance Wing is also an animal now. This fires 5 bullets per burst and roughly 2 bursts per second. It has a total of 50 bullets in its mag and will empty that entire mag in just over 5 seconds.  The pause between bursts though does kind of hold it back, but it definitely has a faster time to kill than the Graviton Lance. But because of its recoil direction, landing all 5 bullets to the head over a certain range is almost impossible, especially if that target is moving. And although it does kill quicker on paper, it doesn't necessarily mean you will be able to do it on a constant basis going into gunfights with opponents using the Graviton Lance. It just ain't going to happen. Its intrinsic perk is fairly decent. I don't really see the one side of it coming into play that often though, and that is you gain health and movement speed when a nearby ally is killed. I mean, I show under exact radius of this, but I'm guessing you probably have to be holding hands with your allies, which to be honest is what a lot of PvP players do these days anyway, so it doesn't even matter. Now out at the Graviton Lance and Vigilance wing, it's hard for me to pick one. Both have unique properties and depending on the map and the playstyle you're going after, it ultimately leads me to pick either. If I had one choice and had to pick one, I'd probably go over the Graviton Lance. Okay, so the third weapon within today's video is a weapon like I said is so rare, hardly anyone on the planet has it. But there are a certain set few who do own it. Luckily, thanks to blinks, we can see it in action and just how fast this thing can kill. So, the Red Rix is claymore. What's special about it? Well, first off, let's check out this thing's stats. So, it shoots three bullets per burst like a standard legendary push rifle would, and two bursts per second. So, six shots can be landed in a second. It has a clip side of 27 and it will clear out that clip in roughly 4.5 seconds. This weapon does 29 damage to the head, so it will kill any opponent in little over a second, basically matching that of the Vigilance wing. But people, it gets better, way, way better. This weapon is unique because it has a pair of perks not seen on any weapon anywhere else in the game, and it's highly unlikely that they ever will. It's pair of trait perks are Outlaw. Position kills greatly decrease reload time, and then it has Desperado. Reloading while Outlaw is active greatly increases your rate of fire. Very interesting. So, if you get a kill, your reload becomes kind of instant. That's if you do reload while Outlaw is active, which lasts five seconds, by the way.  But at what cost? There has to be a cost, but the only cost I can see is ammo. Check this out. So, it now with Desperado active, which lasts seven seconds, by the way. It now shoots 11 bullets per second. Yes, people, 11 bullets per second. Almost doubling its rate of fire, but yet it does the exact same amount of damage, meaning people, it kills people in around half a second, but it's capable of such. You can see this on screen now how fast this thing kills. It is truly insane, guys.  So, if you reload a game within five seconds, Desperado kicks in their game. I mean, this is a weapon you can seriously do a lot of damage with. What were Bungee thinking putting such a weapon in the game? I honestly don't know what they were thinking, but I love it. And they need to keep it up. Weapons are such to chase, are the reason many of us keep logging in every day. And people looking at the Redrix's Claymore in action, you can understand why you can compare this to the two of the Exhaustics today. When it performs like this, it's hard not to. So if I had a choice out of three, the Redrix's Claymore for me takes the crown. A big factor also, although in me picking the Redrix's Claymore over the other two Exhaustics here, is the fact I probably won't ever get it. The Redrix's Claymore requires you to reach a Glow rank of three in season three, when season three is gone. So is the weapon. This means you have to play competitive for a long while and continuously win. I'm not sure how many games it is, but I'm guessing it's over 50. Something I just ain't capable of doing. I just ain't good enough in PvP to do so, I will admit it. The one thing I will say about such a weapon is though, why luck it behind a war only good PvP players can break through. This will just lead to all the best PvP players owning this weapon, while all the PvP players like me who ain't that skilled will be left down and out. Will be at such a major disadvantage, it would be crazy. I'm truly hoping there is such a PvE weapon which requires a crazy grind, in which also performs just as well. I don't see it happening, but hey, I can always dream. And hey guys, we have come to the end of the video. The Redrix's Claymore truly is an animal of a weapon. Unfortunately, a weapon many of us won't ever see. What's even crazy guys though is that you can actually pair the Redrix's Claymore with the Graviton Lance if you wanted to go full sweat. But that's just not. But guys, I have come to the end of the video. If you enjoyed it, leaving a like truly does help me out. Tell me what you think about the Redrix's Claymore. Also tell me which exotic you prefer, Graviton Lance or the Vigilance Wing. Guys, I hope you enjoyed the video. Thanks as always for stopping by and hopefully people I will see you on that next one.


In 1992 Fred Dibna, a well-known steeplejack and television personality, was contracted by the museum to repair the chimney. Fred arrived at the museum on 11th of May 1992 to start the work and set up his famous Dibna flying scaffold. The repair work was completed by June. Fred's presence at the museum gained a lot of attention and helped generate enough money to cover the remaining cost of the chimney repairs.


Yes sir. Welcome to this interview. After visiting this registration centre, what is your take so far? First I want to say I'm very impressed by the response of the members of the community. There are lots of people who have come to register. Some of them I believe came as early as five o'clock. That is very impressive when I think that this is the trend throughout the country. However, I decided not to register so that I can give confidence to the Colombian people that with the politicians are going to work hard to make sure that the system is improved. I've just noticed that it's taking about six minutes to register one person. Obviously that is creating some disenchantment among people. I have chosen not to register. I could have registered but let me first do whatever I can. I'm meeting with the Honourable Vice President this morning and later on we should be meeting with the ECZ to try and streamline the operation so that we improve the registration process. I think that it's better for me to make sure that things are running better before I register. For me to register and create an impression to the people that all is done. I think we haven't finished this exercise. It's a small hitch but I'm sure that it's one that the ECZ will be able to address. They want to capture as many citizens as possible and I think that the system must be made to work more efficiently. We should be having a number of streamers at every polling station. One person who cannot manage to capture all the people who want to register at that polling station. So I'd like to appeal to the Zambians, please don't become despondent, don't become discouraged. Your government is putting in place better systems. The ECZ do this in a more efficient manner. So people don't spend too much time. If people came as early as 5 o'clock and up to now 8.30 they have not been attended to. And I believe that only up to 10 people attended to this morning. That is not good here. We have to improve the system. We shall do that. Thank you Honour. Okay so you are registered.


Today we are going to be riding to the longest beach on the planet. Hi I'm Lavi and I'm Oli and this is our hero Bumblebee. Together we are attempting a Guinness World Record to become the youngest pair to circumnavigate the globe by motorcycle. Join us for season three here in South America. Good morning world, welcome back to the channel. It's day number 225 on our circumnavigation around the globe by motorcycle. And we are here in the town of South Jose de Norte. We're just hiding behind the bike because of the wind but we're in this field in the middle of town. Some horses behind, they were our companions in the night. Very cute. We asked the guys at the police station just behind us yesterday and they said it was absolutely fine for us to just camp here in the middle of town so it's awesome. Thanks so much. It was really really nice and a quiet night. But we've got an exciting day for our last ride in Brazil so let me show you guys where we're heading today. So we are here in South Jose de Norte and today we are going to be taking a ferry across the Rio Grande River to Rio Grande heading slightly across to the town of Casino where the longest beach in the world is before making our way down the coast all the way to the bottom just before the edge of the map and the border of Uruguay. Yeah super exciting to see the beach definitely as the longest beach on this planet. Absolutely crazy. So we have about 150 miles today and it's already 7 20. We're thinking that the ferry is leaving at 8 o'clock but we have to check out that now so better hit the road let's go. I don't think I can pick it up. Yeah all right so this grass that we camped on yesterday is very very sandy grass. Look at that it's a bit deep here oh yeah a little bit soft. Nice there's the police station the lovely police that let us camp. Obrigado ready to rock and roll hey ready let's do it. I think it's only a mile or so to get over to the ferry port. We read online that the ferry has three sailings. The first one is at eight and the next one isn't until one so if we missed the eight o'clock one then we would have to wait quite a long time. Yes looks like a really cute place here though. I mean of course the roads are again very nice and bumpy. Kind of like that town we were in yesterday where we had lunch Havades. They have all got this main street and the buildings are quite charming aren't they? According to the GPS it's down here let's see. Oh maybe it's there maybe it's here actually. Okay so I think this is the ferry in front and there's a couple of motorcycles here at the front so I'll just go with them. Yeah okay. What's your number today? Um cylinder two cylinders two cylinders 1,050 cc. Oh I think 50 cc swap. So all these cars are trying to get onto the ferry but they're all like these lowered cars. Look how low this car is and the last one he could hardly get up because he was hitting the middle of the car on the edge of the ferry. What about this guy? Look it's definitely hitting something underneath. I don't know why these guys all lowered their cars so much. Do you hear that? Oh my lord all of them are like going up the ramp and then they're like all of them. Oh my lord. It's okay? How close.  The last. We're going we are going we always have so much time on the ferries and then it's always a massive rush as soon as it's like oh they're quickly they're going. Time to pick up the hitchhiker. Awesome so we have arrived in Rio Grande. Wow it looks actually very historic here.  Wow it looks amazing. Look at that cool. Oh I think we'll just fuel up. Yes. Yes. There was 12 pounds 40 for the full tank. That is crazy. What a good price man. What a good price. Wow. So just check out quick the cathedral here. Yeah because it looks really stunning. Oh the streets are nice and empty because it's a Sunday.  It's a big place as well. It's a really big place so Rio Grande means actually a great river. The river that we just crossed. Yes exactly and it's one of the oldest cities here in the Brazilian state of Rio Grande do Sol. Yeah this city was actually the state capital between 1835 and 1845 and is still one of the most important port cities in the state and in Brazil. So there's a lot of history here in Rio Grande. Yeah and you can see it. You can see it in the buildings. It's really cool. But so we are heading out of this city and over to a neighboring city called Casino and there we can visit the longest beach in the world. Wow. That's epic man. So we're coming into the town Casino. Now the longest beach in the world is called Praia do Casino. So the beach actually takes its name from the town and the town is named Casino because back in the day there was a lot of casinos here. This is one of the first tourist towns in Brazil and in the late 1800s a lot of people came here and people used to come here to gamble. Everything went downhill when they actually banned roulette. I think that was in the 40s or the 50s or the 60s and so once people couldn't come here to gamble anymore it was just like but maybe nobody realized back then that they actually have the longest beach in the world right in front of them. So now Casino is well known for a different reason. Very interesting. A little bit of history on the bike. Ollie's history lessons. So it looks like the beach is actually coming up pretty quickly. You can see it up ahead. Let's see how far we can get with our little boat bumblebee. It looks like it's right in front but let's go around here and see where we can get. Oh no way look. Wow. It looks like we might be able to ride right onto it. The sand is pretty compact actually. Cool. Let's check this out. No way. I think we can ride on the longest beach in the world. Yes. Look at this. Here it is. Wow. How cool is that?  The longest beach on the planet. Freya de Casino. Wow. Cool. Let me just go across. Yeah. Oh the sand is actually very, very compact. It's like riding on tarmac. Amazing. No way. It's amazing. I did not expect it to be that easy to just come here and ride. Oh my god. That's absolutely amazing. Isn't it? Look at that. You just have to look out for the dry sand which I can see in front this part because we are going to slip about if we hit that. Absolutely awesome. So this beach is 158 miles long, 250 kilometers, like we said before, the longest beach in the world by far. And it's only broken at the border of Uruguay where it's intersected by the choice stream that marks the border between the two countries. So pretty much the beach runs from the Rio Grande River, unbroken all the way to the choice stream 158 miles later. They actually hold an ultra marathon race on this beach where they run the entire length. So that's kind of crazy. I wouldn't run it but I would certainly ride it. Cool. What a place, hey? Yeah, absolutely. What a place. We're just going to be careful for sand castles. Bloody kids. Oh, there he is, the culprit. Nice. Wow. Motorcycle on the beach. Awesome. Nice. It's awesome. It's absolutely magical. We've passed pretty much all the cars now and it's just us and the beach. Cool. Oh my lord. Let's check that out. Okay, let's go check that out. Look at this. It's a carcass of a dolphin, a little dolphin. Oh my lord. Whoa. He doesn't really smell, hey. I think it's the log that they've seen it. How strict are we with the vegetarian thing? Because this is quite fresh. Crazy stuff. Look at this. Totally alone. Wow. Oh, look at this up ahead. A shipwreck. Cool. Shipwreck on the beach. That's pretty cool. That is so cool. Cool. Nice. Whoa, look at this. Awesome. That's a really, really, really degraded ship though. Look at that. Wow. It's like barely anything left. Barely anything left. Awesome. Yeah, I think probably this is as far as we go on the beach, hey? Yes. It was cool enough that we could ride on the beach anyway. Like I didn't really expect that. No, I didn't know if we would be able to get on either and it was just so easy in the end, so it's amazing. But I think it's time for us to turn around and make our way back. Apparently it is possible to ride all the way down to the border of Uruguay, the whole like 158 miles. But we are very inexperienced sand riders. Yeah, absolutely. And the bike is very, very heavy, so we don't really want to risk it to get stuck halfway through. We don't know about the tights and we don't know like any conditions here, so. Yeah, and according to the map of what I looked, it's like there's not many options to escape the beach after Casino at the beginning. So if you had some problems, we would be quite stuck. Yes. So for now I'm really happy that we could ride on it for 10-15 miles. We could check it out a little bit. That's really cool. Yeah, how unbelievable riding on the longest beach in the world. It's amazing. Very cool, a very cool experience. We're coming back to the beginning of the beach now at Casino and look, everyone's having a barbecue and a chill.  A little bit soft. Oh my god. But it's amazing because the darker sand is so nice to ride on. Just when we see like the lighter patches, we are like, oh my god, we have to stop. Slow down. They say that the faster you ride on the sand, the easier it is. But I don't know, it's a bit, it's a bit scary to ride on the soft sand at a fast speed, I tell you. But this is lovely. Wow, now it's packed with people here. Yeah. But I think for us, this is the end of our experience on Praia do Casino. Goodbye, Praia. Goodbye, Praia. Wow, what an incredible experience, hey? Yeah, it's really cool. Not every day that you get to ride on a beach and the longest beach in the world.   Just stopping here in Casino at the Padaria. Hopefully we can find something cheesy. Let's check it out. Let's have a look. I'm not sure this is vegetarian. These might be vegetarian. Queijo. This one, queijo or carne? Oh, todo is with carne. Padre queijo vegetariano. Okay. Cispa de queijo, cuatro. This is a obrigada. No, obrigada. All right.  There wasn't that much choice for vegetarians, unfortunately. So this is all I could find. Hey, how's that? Very good. So we're just leaving Casino and we've actually rooted to a small town, which is just before the border to Uruguay. So it's 137 miles to get over to this town and we've checked on iOverlander and it seems that you can pitch up a tent at the petrol station in that town and apparently they have free wi-fi and a free hot shower. I'm really, really excited to see if this is real or not. And this will be our last ride in Brazil because tomorrow it'll only be a short ride and then we'll be crossing over the border to Uruguay. Yes. Country number eight. Oh, yes. My god, guys. Look how many capybara there are here.  One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10, 11, like hundreds. Oh my god. Just absolutely hundreds and look this one on the beach over there. There's one on the beach. There's one swimming and there's one in the mud. Oh my god, look at them. Hundreds. Oh my god. Just hundreds. They're just relaxing. They are just having a good time, aren't they? Wow. Beautiful creatures. Wow. And then the field as well. Look, and then the field. Are they farming them here? Those are sheep in the background, no? Oh, then they're on the side as well. Look, he's walking.  These guys know how to live, hey. It looks like it. It looks like it's such a nice calm animal. Wow.  If I had to come back as anything, hopefully it'd be one of these guys. Awesome. Bye-bye guys. Yeah, we read actually on the sign that this one here is a 17 kilometers long stretch of protected area. Yeah, it's just a huge amount of wetlands. I don't know if you can see in the background here, some lagoons. And if you can see on my garment here in front, but huge lagoons here. I mean, that's massive. So this whole area. Oh my lord, it is just capybara all the way along. Wow. And then in the field as well. And taking over the farmer's field. Cool. That's awesome. That's awesome. I love seeing those guys. This is like the capybara stretch of Brazil. Wait a second. I think you have to turn around. Maybe there was either a crocodile or alligator? No. Yes, yes, yes, yes. Are you kidding me? No. Are you actually kidding me? Okay, I will turn around for that. Okay, go slow. A little bit further. There.  Wait a minute. Wait a minute. This is a safari now. That is massive. How did you spot that? Okay, so maybe the capybaras don't have such a good life after all. Capybaras on the right and alligators on the left. Yes, that's absolutely magical. After a few, few hours on a very, very long straight road, we are finally arriving in this town which is called Santa Vitoria do Palma. So, it's quarter to five now. So, it's time for us to head to this place and see if we can actually pitch up our tent there. And I think it is just this petrol station in front. Obrigado. Are you sure it's this one? Let me check on my phone. I didn't save it, unfortunately I didn't even screenshot it. Oh, okay. Okay. Maybe if you translate that. Okay. Here at the somewhere here. It is possible to camp here? We are just looking for a place here in town to camp and then we will cross the border to Uruguay tomorrow. Here is only a hotel. They said here is only a hotel. So, I think we could have a drive around and see. So, we had a check on Ioverlanda, checked out a couple of spots but there was nothing really going in this town unfortunately. So, we've seen a truck stop a couple of miles out of town that's listed on Ioverlanda. So, we're going to go and see how it is over there. All right. We're going to ask at Posto Alberto if there's a place for us to pitch our tent. Look, there's some grass.  Let's check it out. He says we can camp on the grass over here or we can camp over here. Okay. Let's see if we can find a flat spot of grass, shall we? I only found a new friend. Very nice, Doug. Another free place to pitch our tent. How awesome is that? It might not be the flattest, best bit of grass in the world but it's free, it's here and it's perfect. It was a really, really awesome day today seeing the largest beat on our planet and not just seeing it, riding it as well was absolutely epic. I didn't realize that we would get to do that actually so that was an amazing surprise and then to see a shipwreck, that was really, really cool and then an unexpected safari on the way over to here. Yeah, we did at the end about 190 miles so we're just about 250 kilometers so a pretty good ride. Tomorrow morning we will cross into Uruguay because we are very close to the border now which will be awesome. I'm super excited about that. Yes. So that's it from us today, we hope you enjoyed the episode. If so, please give us a thumbs up, subscribe to the channel, share the video with your friends and family, comment below. Too much wind. The owner said that there's rain coming tonight and he's advised that we put our tent under a canopy which is over there so that's really nice of him to warn us so we're going to move everything over to there instead. Home sweet home. This might be a one way. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That is a one way. Ah, I was getting used to the beach mentality, no lanes, just go everyone.


Alright guys, I was Vince Kelvin, found with PUA Summit, and a whole bunch of other things too. Awesome guy, awesome speech. Next up, we have Frederick, aka Satisfaction. This guy's been studying success with women for six years. Three of those, he's been in relationships. The way he coaches, he likes to call it flirting. That's really what it's all about to him. Not so much the classic term we like to label social skills, game. So it's all about flirting. Not so much the game. He also coaches women too actually. Well he's been a coach for a long time and he coaches women and he's been coaching in this field like Vince and other guys for about a year and a half now, a little bit more actually. And he's from Amsterdam. I was actually staying with him. I've actually seen the speech he's about to give you. I saw him practice it in Amsterdam and it was, I'm not going to lie, pretty badass. It was the first time I saw him speak and I really, really liked it. And I spoke right after him. Fun time, fun city and I appreciate him letting me crash at his place. No problem. So yeah, dude take it away man, kill it. Thanks Anthony. Alright guys, my actual name is Frederick. Yeah. Do you have an online name? Do you have an online name? What's your online name? Well I can't even say it. You don't even know how to say it, but you do have an online name. So you have a double identity, right? So I have that too. I try to get rid of it. Do you know why I want to get rid of it? Because I like being real. I just like being a real, real guy. That's what it really comes down to. I love to be in touch with myself. I love to know what I want. I love to really have standards, both for myself and also the people I meet, right? Like if I meet not only a girl but also a guy and he doesn't really fit my core standards. For example, if he's dishonest, well he can go somewhere, but please not near me. And this is kind of something I want to talk to you about. Having standards in the women you meet and also having standards in yourself. Does that correspond to something you know from method flirting or some people call it game, fine. Does that correspond to something, having standards? Can you imagine? What do you, what do you think? No? Anybody? Value. Value? It's not bad. However, I'm looking for something else. I'm looking for the most overlooked understated thing there is in old school method. I'll say one more time, game. Respect yourself. Qualification. Have you ever heard that word? Qualification? Yeah. Right. This used to be something where you would give the woman a reason why you like her. See I think you should give her a real reason, a reason that actually corresponds to you. And this is basically what I want to talk about. Like Anthony said, I've been in this for six years, I've had one committed relationship in between for three years, where I was with one woman. And that's actually something that, you know, when I'm 35, it's going to be over seven years. I don't see myself being at the club the whole weekend, you know, every now and then I will be, maybe once a week, but I'll have somebody with me, beautiful girl that I really love. I'm actually in a relationship right now, open relationship. Excellent girl, really like her. So this is what it's all about for me, but first of all, you know, it's pretty sad.  Not the last three, luckily, but in a period of my life when I was 18, 19 to sort of 21, 22. There was a period of my life where I almost didn't even kiss a girl besides the yearly one drunk occasion where you sort of fall into somebody's lab accidentally. Right? You guys can probably relate to that.  Who has a period of, who's had a period in his life where he didn't get what he want in terms of relationships, in terms of sex life, in terms of your own attractive lifestyle. Almost everybody can relate to this. Awesome. How long was your period of time where you had this? Two years? Yeah, two, three years.  Yeah, exactly. So how bad is that? So you've exactly been at the place where I've been. Congratulations. That's really nice that you actually also admit this, you know? I really like that. See, I've been there too. And a lot of people in this room have been there as well. Right? And this is what got me into learning how to flirt with women better, learning how to better interact with women, learning how to be both happy with myself and the people I meet and the people I be with, the people I basically spend my time with. But since we've already started with a sort of story that kind of corresponds to Alcoholics Anonymous, I'm Frederick.  I want to sort of take this a little bit deeper, because there are some things that people, when they get into this, some pitfalls that almost, I would say that almost nobody can avoid. And I've certainly had my share of these pitfalls. And I want to talk to you a little bit about these five, in my opinion, worst pitfalls that you can fall into. Number one, the information download junkie. Right? A lot of these companies make a lot of stuff freely available to you so that you come back to them, which is, I think, a good thing, both for their business and for your development. However, if you download the number 169 free e-book, what do you think that's going to give you? Any idea? What do you think that's going to give you? Just advertising for the rest. And a lot of advertisement for the rest? Yes. And a lot of stuff you've read before already. Is it going to be boring? Yes, it's going to be boring. And you know what? You're going to spend a lot of time searching and downloading these e-books. And then in the end, you're going to get completely confused. Because as we all know, there's natural flirting. There's a method for it. There's even NLP-based methods for it. Speed seduction, whatever you name it, it's there. And when you get into the phase where you try to naturalize speed seduction in a method phase model, then you're really going to get screwed up. And you're never going to get anywhere. You know, I've certainly had my share of this. Has anybody downloaded a lot of stuff that, afterwards, they thought is completely useless a few years later? Yeah, half of the room can relate. The other half are still downloading. I hope you stop that right now. And you actually focus on the stuff you have. And actually on yourself and your interactions with others, because that's what you learn most. That's exactly the point where you really learn. You don't learn something by just reading stuff in front of your computer. And I like to say, mentally masturbating about it. That doesn't give you anything. Get out of the house. Meet people. You know, meet girls, meet guys. Like Vince said earlier, meet the old lady. Why not? Talk to the cashier in the supermarket. You will make their day. It has a few benefits for you, too. You know how I check into a hotel? How do you check into a hotel? Well, you say my name is X, Y, Z. I have a reservation, usually, right? Yeah, do you know what I say? Hey, how are you doing? Are you having a good day? Awesome. Really like to meet you. It's good being here. And yeah, my name's Frederick. And yeah, I've reserved a room. But first of all, I try to make their day just a little bit better. I've spent 122 nights in a hotel last year for my job. And you know what? I realize this at some point. And it's not only making their day better, but you know what it also happens, what it also leads to.  So how is that?  It's a mutual exchange of value. So actually go out and do stuff and don't be reading the whole time, right? Actually, practice another pitfall. I need to take my notes here, because I'm not that smart to remember an entire poem by myself. Without the confused information or download junkie, what could this relate to? Wasting time, right? This is another pitfall, wasting time on activities that are basically not useful, that are not bringing you further. So we know now the two pitfalls and what they lead to. So what I really want to do now is I don't just want to paint a black picture. I want to give you guys a remedy for this. Also you guys at home watching right now. Because maybe you're watching the second video, which is good, because there are awesome videos on the side. Maybe you're watching the 69th video. Well, in a row, I think you should first of all go pick up something to eat, maybe have a drink, and exercise before you watch the other videos.  I'm not saying that having a lot of information is not useful, but A, it can get you confused. And B, it can help you to waste a lot of time. Limit yourself. I will only read two hours worth of e-books every week. Or four, or six, depending on if you're a student or if you're unemployed and you might have a bit more time. Personally, I have a job that costs me 50 to 70 hours a week. If I start reading 16 hours worth of e-books, you can imagine where my week goes and my sleep. Absolutely nowhere. I won't have a life anymore. So take this as a rule, read stuff about time management, and apply it to this. Apply it to learning flirting skills. There are better things to do than just dabbling around on the internet. Another one is guru worshipping. I found my share of this pitfall, definitely. I remember myself a few years ago vividly defending one company against the other on a forum. And none of these companies I was even affiliated with. And I bet you like 100 euros right now, these companies didn't care about me defending them against each other. Absolutely not. They're grown-up men or women. They can perfectly defend themselves if they need to. Do you really need to defend yourself if you know you've got something good? Absolutely not, because you know it's good. It should be people, take it or leave it. The ones who it's good for, they will take it. And the other ones should discard it. So don't spend your time guru worshipping. Seriously, do not do this. These are just, I might be up here, but I'm just a dude. I'm just a guy like you are. That's, I'm Frederick. What's your name? Jonas, you're Jonas. We're just a bunch of guys, right? There's nothing really, there's nothing really different. We're just two men who are actually interested in getting the most out of our lives. These guys are not gods. These guys are just normal dudes. Just quit. My remedy for this is just quit guru worshipping. Take their information, take it seriously. Think about it critically.  This is a very important point because it also, again, leads to wasting a lot of time and reading a lot of useless ebooks. See, these points are all kind of interconnected. What's also a really thing, a thing that I really fell into is living through other people. When you watch the 150th infield video of somebody doing almost exactly the same, you've watched in at least 20 other infield videos before. You know what this is? You know what, you might as well watch? You might as well watch reality television because it comes down to exactly the same, right? Yeah, you sort of live your own emotions through others. So you could be like, oh, is this guy gonna get our phone number? Is this guy gonna be able to kiss this girl? I need to keep watching this. I wanna see how this ends. Why not go out yourself? Why not go out yourself and try to get this phone number and try to kiss this girl? Because that's what you actually want. And don't try, just do it and actually be it.  Take action yourself. I bet you've heard the sentence, take action yourself quite a few times. And you know what, because it's right. Taking action is the basis of reaching any goal you have in life. We have another one, a last one. The pick up only life. I know people that have been kicked out of university. Personally, luckily I just got around that. I know people that have lost a bunch of friends. I certainly haven't lost my friends, but I did have to regain a few friends, like re-befriend them sort of, you know? Get them back, show them that all the time that I ignored them while I was wasting time and reading 169 e-books in a row, I actually still did care about them even though I was like, nah, sorry, I can't make it. Can't go to football with you. First I got to read, then I got to prepare and then I got to go in field, you know? Is that how a real attractive lifestyle is supposed to be? I dare to differ. I think a real attractive lifestyle is something different. So these are, in my opinion, the five worst pitfalls you can fall into. And like I said, had my share of those and we found out that a lot of you guys had your share of these as well. So for the people at home, for the people here, write those five pitfalls down. Or actually, if you forgot to write them down, watch the video maybe again or send an email to info at naturalqualification.com and I'll write them all out for you. By the way, Anthony said you should take notes. I will right now relief all of you of taking notes because actually the content, my natural qualification content, which I'm gonna talk about in just a minute, I will take notes for you and send them to you for free. Like I said, I have a real job. I make money through coaching people one-on-one, yes. But actually my real job, it does pay my rent, it's fine. I'm exactly where I wanna be in that sense. So write me an email at info at naturalqualification.com. It's all spelled together, natural qualification, no dots, no dashes, no nothing. And I will send you the notes once I'm really done with them, right? It's gonna be quality notes. So I wanna review them and get them reviewed by other people as well.  Well, guess what? I will send those to you as well for free. So you get the whole picture basically. So let's talk about the naturally attractive young man. What do you guys think is attractive? What do you guys think is attractive in a man? Ken, like, does anybody have a good opinion on this? Does anybody know? Has anybody studied attraction a lot? Who has? You have? I did study it, but I just haven't suggested it. You had a suggestion. Anybody who's really studied it a lot, like in depth, knows which qualities are naturally attractive in a man. Would you like to come up here with me? Take a microphone and we'll have a seat together. We'll just explore this a little bit. Hi, Fredrik. Have a seat. It's like Oprah. I actually like Tyra better, but that's all right. I like Tyra better. So tell me, what do you think is naturally attractive in a guy? Confidence. Yes. Knows what he wants. Two points. It's kind of interconnected, confidence in knowing what you want, huh? Yeah. Just keep going, sorry. In a way, in a way. Yeah, it's basically the same, but it has ambitions. Yeah. Works on itself. Yes. Like we're all doing here, working on yourself. And getting the best out of yourselves. Yeah, that's a bunch of really good points. I'd just like to add to that a little bit, but first of all, I thank you really for being up here. Just give him a hand. It's tough to be on camera up here. And I'll buy you a beer later on. Oh, thank you. That's another mantra, you know, don't ever drink alcohol. It's fine, you know, if you didn't ever drink alcohol before you got into this, cool. Stay with that, because that's yourself. However, if you like to have a beer every now and then before you got into this, why would you pick up a mantra of don't ever have a nice beer and enjoy that beer again?  While I got news for you, the community also conditions you socially. Just in a different way. I think Anthony mentioned this morning that you should always keep thinking critically about everything you encounter. Yeah, and this is really, really important.  You know, this is an industry where there is a lot of supply and less demand. So there's a lot of people out there, probably none of them are here, that might not, you know, connect you to the right stuff. So think about everything you encounter critically. Basically, a man who embodies fun is attractive, who's not only fun himself, but he makes the whole experience of being with him also more fun for other people, right? Embodying fun. I mean, there's a lot more, right? There's being authentic, something we're gonna talk about today a lot. There's being masculine, what Jeffrey already mentioned, excellent point, having a high self-esteem, being socially valued. You know, socially valued? It's this one guy who comes into the bar and he's like, yes, he's there, it's gonna be an awesome night.  A naturally attractive man. And lastly, there are a lot more, these are just the ones that I apply to myself. Lastly, the naturally attractive man has standards. He has standards for the people who are with him and for himself as well. And later on, I'll tell you how these actually reflect on each other. So somebody who hasn't said something and would like to speak up, what's one of the standards that you hold yourself to? Anybody, just shoot, just shout. Consistency, good. So you also like to be with consistent people. In a way. It's maybe worth spending a minute thinking about it. For me, it's honesty. If you're dishonest with me, you're out of my life immediately. You know, if you just tell me I got five minutes late because there was traffic, I don't really care about this. This is not a fundamental lie to me if there was traffic or not. This doesn't affect me negatively. But if you dare to affect me negatively with your dishonesty, that's it. Bye-bye, go find other friends. It's one of, this is the single highest standard I hold myself into, towards. Because I always have to look at my own mirror image every night and be like, all right, you know. I'm still a good guy, I'm happy with myself. I can sleep well and wake up well. And when I wake up, I look into that mirror again, and I say, yes, I can have a good day because I'm still exactly the guy I want to be. And honesty for me is the absolute foundation for this. So we've talked about the attractive man. Think about those qualities a little bit for yourself. Don't necessarily read a lot of stuff about them, but just, you know, apply some clear thinking, some critical, clear thinking of what do you want to be in terms of characteristics? And how do you want the people to be that you're spending your time with? Because in the end that leads to having an attractive lifestyle and creating attraction, as they say, or whatever, is just maybe gonna be good for the moment. But if you don't work on having this attractive lifestyle, this is the foundation of it, guys. Basically, your house will break down. My attractive lifestyle is, you know, like a house in Amsterdam, I always like to say, is built on wooden poles. Because the city I live in, I'm actually German. I'm very sorry that I don't speak the German accent English, but I can do that as well if you like. However, I think we'd rather keep it with proper English so that everybody can understand this, semi-proper English, I'm still a foreigner. If you don't have this attractive lifestyle, or if it's only based on learning how to flirt with people, then your whole house is built on one pole. The houses in Amsterdam are built on poles. But surely there's more than one pole every single house is built on. What if the one pole breaks away?  And then you need some real help. For me, right now I go to the gym a few times a week because I wanna practice for playing American football again. I've played tennis a lot, I've played, well, in America, you call it soccer, we prefer the word football here. You know, that kickball game of which the World Cup is now starting. And I've played that for a lot, tennis, football, American football. I like going to art exhibitions. I have a lot of friends who are into creative things. I have friends who are DJs, I love listening to their music, I love hanging out with them and speaking about this too with them, learning also from them. I like hanging out with my friends, not only to go and approach girls, but also just to sometimes have a drink together or to just spend the time watching a nice movie together that we both enjoy. You should have, it's not everything by far, but the point I really wanna make is that the house at the canal in Amsterdam, which is your life, should not be built on one or two poles, but on a bit more than that. Don't make it too many because otherwise you do a lot, but you don't do anything right. But find the balance of the things you can explore and the things you can do.  I love my job, I jump out of bed every morning and I put my suit and my tie on. I know you can't imagine that right now, but then I run to work because I like it. I have exactly the job that I wanna have right now. This is also one of the poles that my house is built on. And this attractive lifestyle is the foundation. In the slides that you can download, if you send me the email, there will be a little triangle and the foundation will be attractive lifestyle. If you don't have that, whoop, house breaks down, life breaks down. Then it's gonna be attractive presence. This is something you can somewhat learn as well. However, it needs to be also based on an attractive lifestyle. Otherwise, people are going to notice that it's not really there at some point. Basically, the thought in the girl's head is going to be somehow this guy doesn't check out. There's something that's not real. It felt good in the beginning, but now there's something that's not real. So have an attractive lifestyle that will lead to an attractive presence. And all the stuff you're learning in the community is basically communication and subcommunication. Subcommunication is the next layer. And communication is only the tip of the iceberg. Some people used to say, fake it till you make it. I completely disagree. I believe you should have the ambition to really make it. And until you think you're there where you wanna be, you just display the ambition and the way you've already brought it forward, the distance that you've already went. You don't need to say, I went two kilometers already and I still have 50 more to go. No, but basically say, this is where I wanna be and this is what I've done to get there to yourself, right? I mean, I don't really don't agree with fake it till you make it. You can learn communication, you can learn subcommunication, but you have to develop an attractive presence. And it all needs to be based on having an attractive lifestyle. I hope that's understandable and clear to everybody. And when you see it in the slides, you'll get the nice little pyramid diagram, which is kind of like, in Dutch they say, beroepsteformatie. I think in English it would be like a sickness of the job you have, working as a consultant. I sort of have to make everything graphically accessible all the time to people. Strange analytical stuff and important facts. So that's what my slides are gonna be like and I hope you'll enjoy them. So let's get into the actual topic of what I wanna talk about today. So who knows a lot about qualification in this room? I'm just gonna sit down and give you guys the floor for a second. Who knows a lot about qualification or it used to be called male to female interest, A3 phase in the books. Qualification in other books as well. Who knows a lot about this? Nobody? Well, just qualifying a girl in an interaction. The old school way. We're just talking old school pickup right now for a minute. Old school pickup, yes. In the old school way, you give her an indicate that you like her, that she's probably your type or... Yeah. Or that it can be something good or it can be. Yeah, exactly. Just qualify her. That's exactly the explanation of what qualification is in a way. I would like to add a few things to this. However, there are different ways you can do this. You can qualify somebody directly, indirectly, physically, verbally. And you can even have large qualifiers, medium qualifiers, and just really small qualifiers that are really light and enjoyable. So what we're gonna do today is I'm quickly gonna talk those through and then you will think about what your standards and other people are, especially in the girls you meet. And you will apply this with the old school methodological stuff in a way, but based on you. You know what? You're making flirting authentic. You're not blabbing the stuff that other people have in their books anymore. No, it actually comes from you, from your heart, from your core, really. So indirect qualification. It's a really easy one. For example, one of my standards is that I like to spend time with creative people. I'm indirectly qualifying all of you right now. Basically, indirect qualification is a statement that I generally make about myself, about my own lifestyle. It would be something, in an interaction it would be something like, you know, I really like to spend my time with creative people. It just gives me so many new insights all the time. It just makes my life richer. What do you think is going to happen after this? What do you think the answer is going to be? Nobody? I can tell you what the answer is if the girl has some sort of a creative passion, which a lot of girls have and fairly enough a lot of guys, hopefully. It's going to be like, yeah, I completely understand this, you know, I like painting pictures, usually Aquarelle type of pictures or whatever oil paintings, it doesn't matter, or I'm a graphic designer and that's sort of the creative work that I do.  Well, qualified. You tell the girl, you've just told the girl indirectly that you like her because she is creative. You don't have to do the old school models of, oh my God, are you French? No.  It's not a problem, you just need to be clear of who you are and what you want. Directly is, you wouldn't talk about yourself but you would ask the girl.  It's kind of like graphically funny. It looks like there are some Egyptian hieroglyphics on there. It's really a nice top.  Right?  Whoop, that's pretty creative. I mean, that was a bit fake right now because I knew she was a journalist but basically if you just keep your eyes and your senses open, you can see these things. Right? There are other things like adventurous. You can usually, in a conversation, people in Europe like to travel the world a little bit or quite a lot lately. In a conversation, inevitably it will come up like, yeah, when I traveled South America for four months, awesome, you traveled South America.   Physical qualification. You don't need words for everything. I'm just gonna tell you a little story how I once have been physically qualified by a girl and then it hit me. We're having a conversation at roughly three in the morning in the middle of the week and yes, I did have to work the next day and it was a tough day at work because we were having a few gin and tonics as well. However, what happened was we were talking about sex and specifically, we were talking about having or not having pubic hair. So the girl basically said, if I give oral sex to a guy, I basically have to breathe through my nose the whole time. So it's kind of annoying if he has pubic hair. And my direct answer to this was, you know what?  You know what she did?  That is a physical way of qualifying me. Understood? You can do this as well. When you meet a girl and she says something that is just purely awesome to you, you're just like, ah, this is so nice. Whoop, give her a hug. You know, just let yourself free of the thinking, oh my God, I can't give her a hug right now because then she thinks that I'm threatening physically.  This doesn't need to be about anything sexual. This can be like a shared experience that you also have or the traveling or something else. Or when she said like, yeah, I used to have a good friend and I don't want to be friends with her anymore because she lied to me too much. You'd say, yeah, I completely understand, you know? You just share something. This is a way of physically qualifying. There are large hoops, there are small hoops and there are medium hoops. Something talking about being fun or being creative, that's something you can easily do at a bar and find shared ground on this. However, religion, politics is pretty large and might come later. Should come definitely later. It's definitely not a topic for the bar. And you can just assume for it, you can just, if you think about it critically yourself, I don't want to give you all the information, I just want to make you think today. If you think about this critically yourself, you can find out what is small, medium and large. It's not a problem. I've just told you the extremes and you can fill out the scale in between for yourself because it's different for everybody. And guess what? If something that you think is small is really large for her, do you think you're ever gonna get along really well on the long term? No, because you have a fundamentally different view of what's okay in life and what's not okay in life already or okay to talk about right away. You know what? Talk about some things that she thinks you shouldn't talk about right away. She's gonna get annoyed by you pulling up these conversational topics around her friends all the time. And you know what this really does? Actually, what this qualification thing really does is it helps you, it helps you to get an entrance towards building a real emotional connection. Let's just come back, let me just sit down. Has anybody traveled for a few months? Would you like to come up here actually? Frederick, nice to be here. Have a seat. Do you want some water or anything like that? Can somebody be a gentleman in this room and get the girl a glass? We have water here. Oh, Jeffrey, don't worry, it's coming. Thank you, William. Let me just fill this up for you. So you're thinking right now that I'm sort of in old school ways you would say, oh, you're putting her on a footstep by doing stuff for her. No, I'm just being a well raised individual at the moment. I'm accommodating somebody that's taken a big step. So where have you been traveling? Well, funny you should actually say you went traveling, talking about someone that went traveling around South America for a few months because that's where I went. Cool, I've really never been to South America, but when I was 16, I lived in North America, Portland, Oregon for a year and went to high school there. And I've also lived in Canada for half a year. I really enjoy just being at new places. Was that the same for you in South America? Yeah, definitely, yeah. It's just a bit of a whirlwind trip, but yeah. Yeah, exactly. And how would it be if a guy and you in a bar, a guy who you just met, within like five, 10 minutes, find out that you have this shared ground together? Could you not talk about this for hours together? Yeah, definitely. Really like the type of experiences you made there? Yeah, yeah. And how cool that was just so you know. Nice things that you have in common that you've learned from that same experience that you've had. Exactly, what's like one of the biggest things that you learned in being in South America? Hiding your wallet. Each day as it comes and be happy in the now. That's what I learned from being in South America. I didn't learn this through traveling, but I really learned that through other things. Like when I used to be at university, I was quite stressed out about a few subjects. And I did really bad in the first year.  I'm just gonna take every day as it is and do the work I need to do. And woof, my grades went up like that. But again, now we have another shared experience as being in the now and, you know, just taking the days as they come. Still having long-term goals, maybe. But just actually living as that day happens. Breaking it down from an insurmountable into steps. I really like the fact that you travel in South America. And I also like the fact that you're, you know, about being in the present moment. I think that's really cool about you. Thank you very much for being up here. Give me a hug. Can I take my water with me? Of course, it's yours.  Thank you. And if you just hand the microphone back to the guy back there. Thank you, give her a hand. So this was kind of a normal conversation, right? But she knows exactly why I like her right now. Because she's an adventurous person that's open to new experiences. And also that she likes living in the present moment and actually enjoying the days as they come. So this is what I call natural qualification, right? There used to be methods for this and people used to learn scripts to do this. No, I think you should know what you like in yourself and what you like in others. And you know, practice this in your conversations really. So why are we doing all of this? What's the reason behind qualifying a girl? I'm going back to a methodological style right now because how I teach usually is I help guys to methodologically become naturally attractive. I know that's quite, you know, for some people that's, bluh, flash. I don't think so. I think when you're a bit analytical, which I am for the job that I have to do, I have to be, you can find out how to, you know, give people little exercises or give people, help people to just, help actually people to discover different mindsets to, you know, find these things out for themselves. So why would we do qualification? Why would we have standards and actually exercise them? That's how I like to call it. Why do you think so? If you know yourself, I know you. Exactly, if you know yourself and you know what you want, you want to point yourself into the proper direction because you know what will make you happy and you will achieve it through that. That's what you mean, right? Thank you. It's orientation. Yeah, exactly, orientation, thanks a lot. This is very philosophical and that's what I think is exactly the right basis to touch upon. But I also want to give you guys a little practical reason because you think there's this guy in his jacket and he's just talking philosophical stuff that really I cannot apply when I go out at night. Let me tell you why you should apply it when you go out at night. It's actually very, very easy, the reason. You're the fun bar guy. Well, guess what? She'll meet another fun bar guy in 10 minutes. And definitely next weekend, another few fun bar guys. So you got your number close. You got your phone number. Well, you know what? Guess what?   But I really don't have any idea why he's calling me because we're not at the bar in the moment. It's not the situation. However, if you displayed yourself as a real guy with real interests, and this can be done in a short three to five minute conversation like we've seen right now, then she knows that you share something and then she will pick up the phone. You know what's the worst thing that can happen actually and this happened to me a few times. When I wasn't into this, this was the reason that I actually started getting into this topic of having standards or back then qualification, right? Natural qualification as I now like to call it. The reason was that I sometimes got a phone number and I got a six instead of a nine in the phone number or nine instead of a six. I can tell you one thing for sure. This does not lead to a 69 in the end. This does lead to Harry picking up the phone when you try to call Sally. Not very nice, you know? You think like, I'm gonna call her right now. Yes, I know exactly what I do. I remember her sweet voice, you know?  You're like, this is Harry, what's up? Whoa, what did I do, you know? Or she might just not pick up at all and she gave you the right phone number. But in the end, if you don't display yourself or if you are not are a real guy and you show that with real interests, real activities and real standards in life, you will either get the wrong phone number or she's not gonna pick up unless you're like a mixture of George Clooney and Brad Pitt and you have Albert Einstein intelligence, which if I look into the mirror, nah, not really. Not really. So we know now a bit more about why should we do this? Let me just see if I don't forget anything because like I said, I'm not that smart to remember an entire poem and I just wanna make sure to give you guys all the information here. Yeah, we've had it. In pickup terms, you would call this reducing flake, bringing the interaction further, having an entry into comfort and being able to build an emotional connection. This is what it relates to in the stuff that you've read before.  So this brings us to the natural view. In my opinion, natural qualification is really about knowing yourself as well as getting to know the other person, both in depth and in breath in a pleasant way. It's a way of screening potential partners, may it be a one night stand, may it be a lifelong relationship. There are different things that you look for when you want different things. But it's basically a way of screening people in a light and enjoyable way. A lot of my interactions, not all of them, I talk to a girl and basically I go up to a girl, it's exactly what Vince said earlier, this was awesome. It's like, wow, cool, let's see what she's like. That's been my mindset. That's how I go up to a girl. And if it doesn't fit what I have in my standards, then at some point in the conversation, because I said, oh, she's cool, let's see what she's like, exactly what you said, exactly. And then basically at some point in the conversation, I will say, well, it's been really nice meeting you, it's been really nice talking to you.  I'm not gonna say, you are not matching my standards, get away now. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, absolutely not. I don't wanna ruin anybody's day or night, but I don't wanna ruin mine either by spending time with somebody that I'm essentially not gonna be able to connect with. So I'm telling that I have a really nice and fun conversation and then I'm just gonna go back to my friends and I maybe see you later for a drink or so. But definitely not connect outside of that bar. That's something that I will not do. So have you guys understood where the match between those things is? Yeah? Can somebody maybe grab a microphone and tell me where the match is? The match between old school qualification techniques and a natural qualification mindset of having standards for yourself and in your life. Now how do they fit together? How can you bring this together? Because you can talk about having standards and all this kind of stuff, but if you don't really bring it into practice, it's not gonna help you or anybody else. What I usually do at this point is I do the following. Unfortunately, we don't have a visual aid here because I didn't wanna ruin the camera pictures. What I do at some point is, when I teach this, is I put people into a trance. This is one of my newest passions, trance learning, trance hypnosis, fast inductions, deep inductions, based on NLP as well. This is one of my newer passions in life. Actually learning, if you asked me five years ago, mumbo jumbo, you know? No, I thought about it critically again. And now I actually enjoy learning about this. So normally what I do at this moment, however I don't think it's right without the visual aid in front, is that I put the room into a very light trance. And I help everybody to actually realize the type of standards that they have. So what we're gonna do instead right now, first of all, this is not gonna go to waste. I will record this and I will make it available on the 21 Convention website if possible, if not against an email to Info at Natural Qualification and I will make it available to you. The visuals and the spoken trance. Absolutely no problem for free. So I just wanna collect a few standards. I just want you guys to really, we're gonna take a break now for three minutes. And I don't want anybody to get up out of this room. I want you guys to sit down and close your eyes and critically think, actually creatively think, actually, no, passionately think. What are the things that you have in other people around you? Three minutes as of now. Alex, whenever you're ready. All right, eyes open everybody. And I just want you guys, I just want the microphone to be passed around and a few guys that really feel like they need to scream something into the world. I want them to scream at least one good standard that they have, one for yourself and one for other people that you meet. It doesn't matter if it's men or women, it really doesn't matter because your world should be a world where you spend your time with people who correspond to what you want because you also correspond to what they want, something where you can connect with people. You have to spend so much time maybe at work with people you don't like. Why would you spend your free time with people you don't like? So what's one of your standards? I value adventure for myself and I value humility in others. Adventure and humility. Adventure for yourself, humility in other people. Please pass on the microphone to the next person who wants to say something. For my friends, I don't have any qualifications because I accept them who they are. For women, I have like creative, ambitious, and I'm not told, well, I can go on. You've just said something really interesting. You've just expressed a big standard that you hold yourself to which is namely acceptance. Yes. Have you ever heard of the fact that 90% of a relationship is acceptance and 10% is change? Should be able to know what you can accept and you know, because otherwise you'll be getting into the wrong relationships but this is really awesome. Just pass on the microphone. Thank you very much. The one thing I find important is for a woman that she will be able to have a life of her own. That's something I find very important. You want an independent woman? Yes. That's very good. That's very clean. Yeah. And that's then, of course, for myself. So I can also have my life for my own. Yeah. Enjoy the things she do together. And you know what? You should build into your conversations with girls. I'm just going to stick with you for a moment if you don't mind. What you should, I mean, if you want to come up here, it's all right. If not, it's also all right. Do you want to come up here? No problem. Come up here. Join me. Give them a big hand. Hi, Fredrik. Nice meeting you. Have a seat. So you really like independent women? Yes, but it has to do with a past relationship where that was the fact that it's a learning point for me. Let me give you another little learning point of how you can actually find out if a woman is attractive for you, because that's something that's really important to you, her being independent. I mean, for example, if she throws you a bait and says like, oh, I'm basically, I've always worked myself through college, through university, you can say this is really nice because it shows that you don't rely on your parents' wallet. It shows that you are independent of your parents and I really like that in you. What if she doesn't say that? Find a positive way to interact on that and maybe decide that person's not for you. Yeah, well, you can just also make an indirect qualification, which again brings us to naturalizing something that's been methodologically explained. You can just say, I really love to spend my time with people who stand on their own two feet and who are sort of not relying on others for everything but who are able to create their own life and make it happen for themselves. You don't need to make everything happen for yourself, but I like people who've done something themselves for themselves, who've come up for themselves. If she has done something like this, the next minute she'll probably tell you what. And then you say, oh, this is really awesome.  And what are you gonna do then?   You're gonna say, that's really awesome, come here. That's really nice. So now you've done, started with an indirect qualification. You've led that into a direct qualification about her and in the end you rounded it off with a physical qualifier. Do you think the woman now knows why you like her? Yeah. Yeah. It's pretty obvious. And so she will pick up the phone. Thank you very much. Give this guy a hand. Thank you. Thanks. Let's put the microphone back to him. So it's really important that you guys spend some time figuring this out. And the trends that you can get when you write me an email will maybe help you. Well, it might not help, might it be the right thing for everybody? Not everybody's into this. But definitely spend at least time thinking about it. So what is this all good for? Qualification or natural qualification or whatever you wanna call it. What are the goals of this? Well, in my opinion, there are three goals. Because you've been that awesome guy before who has not been, you know, bowing to her like many of the other guys. You haven't said to her, oh, what's your name? Where are you from? You've been positively different. You know what? Let me break some news to you. Women have self-esteem issues too. I know this. I work with women a lot. I love coaching women. Self-esteem is one of their biggest issues. I think I'm ugly. How many times have I heard that from a woman that's actually been on a modeling poster? This is a bit physically-based, but there are also character-based things. I feel like I don't reach anything in life. Somebody who's just busy with their second master's degree which they've done at the same time as the other and they're about to finish it off and do it well. Now, still, you know, the proof is obvious, but still they don't get it for themselves. And they think they're not worth this awesome guy that they just met. But by telling them what you like about them, you are communicating that you are available to them. Yeah?   No, you're positively different, but you are available. You're hard to get, but she can get you. So you've communicated availability. It also leads to her compliance. She will comply with you right more. When you say, oh, let's go over there and get a drink.  She will comply with you better. She actually lets you lead her.  You know what it also leads to? It also leads to her investing more into the interaction. If you meet somebody and it's a really awkward, annoying person or somebody who you absolutely not have a connection with, would you introduce him or her to your friends? Absolutely not. Because you only wanna introduce the people to your friends that you really like and that you feel really like you. Or at least you have a hunch of that happening, at least.  Don't wanna hang out with this person. I thought my friend didn't wanna hang out with them either. But when she knows, and this also goes for the women, when he knows why, why you like her or why you might be able to develop a good connection with her, then she will do this or he will do this as well. And this is again another thing that I wanna talk about. This is the glue, ladies and gentlemen. Natural qualification is the glue. You're not only the attractive bar guy, but you actually glue this together with comfort, as they call it. You find an entry into this. This glues the whole interaction together. How can you ever build a connection on something that you don't really believe in? Remember what I said in the beginning? Ah, this guy somehow doesn't check out. There's something fake about him. This is strange. Well, this is not gonna happen if it's real. If you really have standards and you practice and exercise them, you have glue. You have an entry level, an entry into really building that solid emotional connection.  You know, I used to be into one-night stands. And what I usually would look for is the girl who'd be dancing in the club like nothing would matter to her. She'd be completely in her own world, you know? And I just come up to her like, hey, I just gotta tell you, the way you're dancing is really cool because you know why? Because it shows you have absolute inner freedom.  You just do exactly what you want in this really moment. And I like people who have a lot of inner freedom. Basically, I've just given her permission to ditch all social conditioning.  But I've basically given her the permission to be free. Or actually, she's given that permission to herself. I've just reminded her that she's given it to her, to herself.   The large hoop can maybe be, oh, you're very sexy. You know, that's also fine. I like to always start small and then quickly go further. Because if it's not for me, then I can also get out small. So right now, I want to give you guys a little warning. Do not ever use the things that we just talked about as an excuse. Oh no, she's not from my standards. I'm just not even going to talk to her. Oh no, she doesn't fit my standards. I'm just going to go away. I'm not going to like try to bring this further. Do never ever use this as such an excuse. Be clear of what you want and exercise this. But don't use it as a basis for making excuses. There are some things that you will only find out in the long term, like real deep intelligence. If that's something you value, you know what? I have to be intelligent from Monday to Friday.  Do you think I'm still intelligent though? Yes, I am, but I might not always show it at the bar.  Well, whatever they think, I don't care. I'm intelligent during the week for 50 to 70 hours.  So what I'm really saying is don't use this as an excuse because the first picture you're getting might not be the final one. The end of the movie is not displayed in the beginning, unless in certain arty movies which are quite nice at times. So we know now what the goals of qualification are and we kind of know how you can apply this to your life. I've basically talked to you about the different techniques of indirect qualification, direct qualification, physical qualification, small, large, medium hoops, having standards in yourself and in others and you basically can apply those old school techniques to your actual standards. You can still use this stuff and you know, bring it into practice really. So isn't this awesome? Isn't this like a method for flirting naturally? That's what I like, you know? Because I'm a very analytical guy. I don't really learn through, oh yeah, just be in the moment and go. I'll question the moment, but if I know why and how, then I can enjoy the moment. So think about this critically, develop your own standards. Again, check out the website of the 21 convention. It might be available through this. If not, definitely send me an email to info at naturalqualification.com. I will send you the slides with my explanations and I will make the trans available to you, the light trans.  And then you can bring them into practice and maybe you'll fail a couple of times. Maybe you've come up with something that's not really your standard, which brings us back to the point of thinking critically again. Not everything that you just put down is always set in stone forever. Be able to reevaluate yourself from time to time and the things you do. You know, guys, when we talk about, because the way I teach is basically attraction, qualification, comfort, seduction, old school way, but I help people to naturalize this. And I've just taught you guys a little bit about naturalizing qualification. The reason why I pick qualification is because it's the most overlooked and undervalued topic, or formerly called a phase in a model, in this whole flirting with women thing, or also for women flirting with guys. It's one of the most overlooked and undervalued things. And I've also told you guys why. Remember the three goals? Increasing her compliance, helping her to invest and communicating that you're available. Don't you think that's important when you flirt with somebody? Well, I think that's very important. And you know what you're actually doing when you are out at the bar and you're flirting? I want to talk about my parents for a while. Mom, dad, love you. Well, my parents, my parents are married for more than 30 years. I'm 28 right now. So they're married for 33 years, I believe. I don't want to pick up a number right now because it might be wrong, but definitely more than 30 years. And mostly my parents, if I go back to old school terms, mostly my parents are in comfort with each other. But you know what?  You know what my dad will do? Ah, come on. You see? You see where I'm getting at? Sometimes my mom will be like, oh, I'm not really happy with the way I play tennis today. And my dad's gonna be like, if you played awesome tennis today, the other girl was maybe a bit stronger than you on the court, but you practice all the time and you've won a lot of tournaments, you are a good tennis player. He qualifies her. Sometimes my dad will tease my mom. He builds attraction with her. So do you know where I'm getting at? Do you understand this? Where I'm getting at is what we're doing at a bar is creating a relationship in a nutshell. And the relationship will always be like this. Just the balance will shift. In the beginning you'll maybe be a bit more in attraction and qualification, a bit less in comfort. And when you're together for 30 years, you're gonna be 90% in comfort and the other 10% are gonna divide between attraction and qualification. And hopefully every night you're gonna be still in seduction. Because in the end, sexual attraction is one of the very, very big reasons why you would approach a stranger from the other gender. Unless you have lost your way in a foreign town, like I did in the last couple of days a few times. Or unless you wanna know what time of the day it is or other things.  She looks kinda cool. Let's see what she's about. But either consciously or subconsciously you are sexually attracted. So that is also a basis. But again, what we're doing here in those 10, 15, 20, 30 minutes at a bar is we're creating a relationship, I'm forming a heart, in a nutshell. This is something that you should really think about. How do you want your relationship to be later on? That's the kinda nutshell you should build at the bar.  You know, it might be useful to write some stuff down for yourself. Some typical teasing things or some themes you would like to talk about when you're in a comfort type of conversation. The type of themes you'd like to talk about. If you're a funny guy, maybe a couple of teasers that you usually do. So when you actually go, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah. When your mind goes blank, like my mouth goes right now because I haven't had enough water for the last 10 minutes. Yeah, I've been in the sun a lot. Basically, when your mind goes blank, make sure you have those little things that you can always pull out. But make sure they're based on you and not on what somebody else has done before. It's kinda like learning how to ride a bicycle and when you're still in the learning phase and you haven't done it for a while, it might be a good idea to put the side wheels on for a bit again. Or at least have the side wheels with you so that you can always take them out of your pocket and put them on.  So make sure it's based on yourself. Build nice relationships in a nutshell. Enjoy yourself and enjoy the people you are meeting. Have standards in your life, both for yourself and others. The standards you have in others actually reflect the standards you hold yourself onto. For example, I really love feminine women. Taking a really hard standard right now. Does this mean I wanna be a feminine guy? No, this is a polar standard. This means I want to be a very masculine guy which I think I am, which I've worked towards becoming. However, personally I like creative writing and I like spending my time with creative people. A lot of my ex-girlfriends are graphic designers or are into music. So basically what I look for in other people reflects the things I want to have in myself and the stuff I want to go for in life. Think about this when you've spent the time critically thinking about your standards or when you've gone through the little trance that you've figured out a few standards, how this reflects onto your personality and how you can actually put this into practice. And be intelligent about it. Some things are polar, some things are not. Meet nice people, create really nice relationships in a nutshell.   If you only live once, unless you're reborn of course, but how usually reborn people don't remember the last life. It's maybe one in a thousand or a million who does. I don't remember any of my last lives so I really have to take care of enjoying this one.  It's titanseduction.com. Website is not really up at the moment because we're redoing it. If you need information on this very topic, please write an info at naturalqualification.com. Then I exactly know where you're coming from and what you're asking about. General emails are also welcome at that address. You know, get in touch with me. I'm usually able, if I have time, I'll usually give you time of the day as well. So thank you very much. My name's Frederick and I answer any questions right now. We got like eight minutes for questions, right? Yeah, a few minutes. A few minutes, okay. You know, let's take maybe three questions. And then you can like, then you can ask me like all the other questions that you don't want to ask right now or that you just don't have on your mind right now. Any of those I will take outside. So I'm here until Sunday. Melvin, go. Yeah. My first question is something wasn't really clear. You were talking about three goals. One was increasing compliance and the other two, I forgot, interesting. Communicating your availability. Yeah. And helping her to also invest into the conversation, not being the guy that performs for her, but actually increasing her investment into it, into you, not you as a person, but the both of you together. And the question following that was, would you consider that being, what team would it be? Like would it be the total of how you talk to women or something or is it what revolves around qualification? This is purely around qualification. However, everything here, communicating your availability, making her able and enabling her to invest into the interaction into the relationship that you two are creating. And also helping her to comply with you are things that are important for creating these relationships. First in a nutshell and then at large. So it's specific but important to the whole picture. Okay. Does that answer your question? A little bit because I don't really see the difference between investing and compliance. Okay. Investing is basically when she brings stuff in, right? When she says, hey, you know, you should really go and meet my friends. You would really like my friends. Compliance is something that comes from, in compliance, she positively reacts to something that you lead her towards. Okay. So one's based from her side and the other one is her not rejecting what comes from you. Does that answer it? Yeah, it does answer it. Awesome, next question. Do we have any more? If you don't wanna, there's one in the back. If you don't wanna ask them right now, like I said, you can ask them anytime. Hi, Frederick. I'm curious on this subject of compliance, like I've noticed that, like you talked about one of the pit files guys can get into with qualification where they kind of use it as an excuse to avoid a lot of girls. I've also seen guys kind of take the opposite tack and think that the compliance means that they can almost use their qualifiers as kind of like a bully tactic, right? That they can force this girl that they're talking to if they ask enough qualifiers that they can force her to qualify for them, even though, you know, time after time, she's turning out to be not exactly what they're looking for, but that they'll just keep pushing and pushing, hoping that they can lead her to be someone she's really not ever going to become. So I was just wondering if you have methods that you use to kind of help guys overcome that. Yeah, when I talked about the thing when I said in the beginning, when girls at some point think when you fake it or when you are faking stuff and they're like, this guy doesn't really check out. You know, guess what guys? You have the permission to do that too. Like I said, these qualification things lead towards being able to have a deeper conversation and exploring topics deeper. And it's like, oh yeah, I'm a very adventurous person and you start talking about the adventurous things that you've done and you'd sort of like ask you, so what have you been doing?  Then you know that whatever statement she made didn't check out. Don't just be a qualification machine gun. Use things on purpose and make them lead the interaction between the two of you further. And if it's fake, that's the point when you will notice. At some point she can't uphold it anymore. Does that answer your question? Thank you. Is there any more? Are there any more questions? We can take one final one. One in the front. So if I understand you correctly, you know, you have to balance your need for honesty. We didn't need to qualify her. You have to be a little bit creative in winging out the positives that you see in her that are consistent to what you look for. Yes, exactly. That's completely right. That was a statement. And you understood it right.  And you don't have to be dishonest. You don't want to be dishonest. No, no, no, no. I never want to be dishonest. And I never feel pressured at the bar either because I'm there to enjoy myself. I used to feel pressured at the bar. I used to start sweating. Holy, I have to approach this girl right now. But basically when me and her talked, she talked about that she really likes enjoying the moment and taking it day by day. And that's something that I really learned that helped me not to feel pressured in these situations anymore. And I will never, I will never, ever qualify a girl on something that I really don't care about because then I will not check out in the end when we get into the deeper conversation. Do you think you would always find something to qualify a girl for that you look for? Yeah, definitely. Because I have certain standards that are very light, like being fun, being creative. Those are very light standards. Or also being active, having an active lifestyle. You know, those are three different things that are all important to me. And again, don't use it as an excuse.  If she doesn't have all three, she's out of the picture. No way, Jose. You know, nobody is ever fully perfect for you. But people are very, very good for you. And you can find this out this way. Don't use it as an excuse, but make sure that you know what you want and make sure that that's what you're going for. Does that answer your question? Thank you. All right, I think we're done, guys. Thanks a lot.