He's involved and why does it look like I'm there? Why are you in this photo, bro? I was there it seems like Japan is gonna need to make some major changes in their society for the future But the question is do you think they can and will they yeah? We're talking about three viral stories out of Japan today that sort of speak to Japan's need to change But will they the first one is about chaos breaking out in the Japanese Parliament over a new like asylum Refugee law the second video is about gender equality Japan wants to make sure that 30% of all high ranking executive positions at its Corporations are women and then number three Andrew We've actually got a viral incident on China Airlines, which is a Taiwanese Airlines Involving a Japanese Karen who's mad that nobody else can speak the Japanese language Okay Everybody so please hit that like button check out other episodes of the hot-pot boys as we talk about this Altogether, so please leave a comment down below as you watch the video David So for the first one Parliament, what are they arguing about? What are the parties involved and why does it look like I'm there? Why are you in this photo, bro? I was let us know in the comment section below Yeah, what were you doing a Japanese Parliament? Long story short Andrew There's a left wing a right wing party the right wing party ended up winning So there is there a repeal of a law that basically said that Asylum seekers could stay in Japan as long as they kept reapplying even if they failed to hit the Requirement to stay in Japan. So basically they got rid of this law now So while they're considering your asylum application, they're gonna go ahead and deport you now if they want But of course the more liberal leaning politicians were like dude They could face persecution they could be killed if we send them back to the country that they're seeking asylum from this turn Into a left-right, you know liberal conservative issue within the context of Japanese politics and this caused Andrew a Dogpile scuffle in Parliament in Japan something that you wouldn't think that you would see yeah I mean I've seen it in the Taiwanese Parliament a little bit and I obviously I've seen videos in India as well when politics get heated There is some physical fights wouldn't work in America I don't know because I'm pretty sure the Republicans would win because they would bring guns But yeah, I guess it'd be interesting. Yeah, and in South Korea. I have actually seen a judo throw in Parliament as well So it's not Unbelievable, but you would just think of out of the Asian countries. It probably be Japan would not be like this, right? I guess it's interesting that they don't they're like government in America Is not violent, but then it can get violent in Asia although the societies in Asia are less violent. It's interesting It's a very very nuanced complex Somebody said Japan has always been very homogeneous You're welcome to stay for a short period of time, but a permanent status is pretty much frowned upon if you're not Japanese And someone said yes, that's generally true You can be a long-term resident But you have to make a very very very serious effort to assimilate into the culture and contribute to the economy Which doesn't seem like an unreasonable expectation and then of course Andrew this led to other people being like yeah See they're doing things right in Japan You know We're getting all this riffraff in America draining us of our resources not following rules bringing our great land down the land of The samurai they want to uphold it. I guess my question for Americans which first of all I do think if you immigrate to America there is a healthy amount of assimilation that probably should happen and Contributing of course paying taxes having a job whatever whatever but but I guess what does it mean to assimilate to American culture? Because American culture at this point is so diverse obviously Japanese culture it being more homogenous I think we all kind of get an idea of what that is like Japan has been 98 to 99 percent Japanese for like the Pretty much all of recorded history right America is constantly changing That's why I do think it's difficult to make those comparisons Andrew But I do think the people who are making that comparison are probably realistically They're probably white Yeah, yeah, yeah, probably um somebody says a Japan system is so good. Then why is their population vanishing, huh? Why do they need immigration? Because every country at some point or another functionally needs immigration Nativists like it or not it doesn't matter It's simple math and simple societal building if you study history Yeah, especially because most advanced societies around the world right now have a declining birth rate Even Sweden as well as that, you know as great as that country is ran Everybody loves talking about Sweden and how about it sweet into Japan would be the two ones I guess more pointed out. I would say by everybody, but perhaps perhaps particularly the right side Yeah, the Western people love pointing out Japan and Swedish, but all of them are experiencing a birth rate decline I think Japan's is a little bit steeper than most places So that's why this thought of like, oh what changes are we gonna make? Oh, yeah? We need to make some changes somebody said the truth is that Japan Prioritizes its majority ethnicity and they would rather shrink in number live a little poorer each family But just remain Japanese that's interesting and I don't doubt that some people think like this, but I don't want to say most people think like this Somebody said well, look at this if China is trying to be the next superpower to take over the US How come refugees aren't flocking over there, huh? But they're all flocking to Japan in America still They that's a good one. That's a good day. Yeah, I mean, that's a good observation. Well, that's because China. Yeah, it doesn't seem It's not as appealing. Yeah, I will say this though not refugees But people who want to live like a more middle class to upper middle class life I do see them fleeing to like Shanghai. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, there are people going to China But obviously the rules are much stricter there. So it's a little bit less more than stricting this comment said refugees have done their homework They have learned that if they go to China, they will have to work very long hours and receive very low wages in return If they protest or say anything negative about Chinese culture, they will not be there for more than a week or less They will be kicked out immediately. Yo, you know, it's really interesting about a lot of like right-wing ideas is like I cannot tell whether they support the Japanese system the Chinese system or the American system And I'm just like which system is it because like odd ban system is better But I like to wait sometimes China does things to America's the best It is a little confusing. I'm trying to understand what you're saying moving on to the second article It is a proposal in the Japanese government that basically says 30% of executive positions should be women Obviously traditionally Jap Japan is considered a very patriarchal society Women weren't even really allowed to like work in the corporate work fairs and any sort of like significant positions I believe until the the 60s or the 70s and still Pretty much like if we were to segment jobs in a like low-middle high the high-tier is very few women in Japan, right? Occupy high-tier positions. Yeah, I mean, I think that this is Generally how things a lot of go in a lot of like, you know advanced societies late-stage capitalism, right?  However, I will say I don't know if that plays against the birth rate as well So that might be another reason because it is true that statistics speaking the more career women There are the less likely they're gonna have a kid or the later. They're having well They're just splitting their focus. Yeah, just if that's how things are somebody said when Shinzo Abe took office a few years ago They had the same target and literally no progress was attained clearly There is a gap between what Japanese proposals and the government say and the actual follow through through and movement of society to actually change Dude, I think to help the declining birth rate in a lot of places You really have to make raising a child less burdensome and you have to be able to help families out and Help subsidize their rent so that they can live and Feel like that they can afford to even have a kid because otherwise a kid is it is very time-consuming and very costly But if you can help the cost at least then people just got to deal with the time right right So this brings us back to the concept of immigration to Japan possibly it could uplift the birth rates and stuff like that But that sort of leads us to this crazy roundabout incident that we have in the third place Andrew Let's run the clip to what long story short and China Airlines is a Taiwanese airline It's fine from Fukuoka Japan to Taipei. The lady is asking for a water in Japanese She's not being acknowledged because the stewardess is only speak Mandarin and English and she throws a fit This is not a Japanese Taiju. This is Japanese Karen This is a Japanese woman acting badly And I don't think you really see this behavior from Japanese people a lot generally the Stereotype is that Japanese people they will complain but they will do it like afterwards like at your face They do not want to show anything man And I think that that's why it went so viral because this is just not stereotypically what you would think I'm gonna lie. She was yelling like an American Karen. Yeah, so the way she sounded it was very I guess she Embodied the American spirit and this even comes ties back to our issue of Japan changing Andrew a lot of people in the comment section We're talking about though. Listen Japan doesn't rule Taiwan anymore guys because if you guys know what Japan actually used to Colonize Taiwan for like a number I believe 50 years and people in Taiwan of all the surrounding Asian countries They do probably have the highest proficiency in Japanese like in terms of just people naturally being exposed to it So you're saying that this lady deep down might think or might Think that Taiwan still should be part of Japan. So therefore she is demanding the stewardess is to speak Japanese Yeah, it seems unlikely that she would do that on a Korea air of lines flight from Fukuoka to Seoul They to demand that the Korean stewardess is would speak Japanese. I don't know these are just speculations from the comments Well, it looks like she might have had a little too much sake on the flight And this sort of led us down even this other hole where some people were said I'm Japanese And I feel like the only other Asians that could become Japanese to uplift the Japanese population Would be Taiwanese because they have already had so much influence from us over the years and the way their culture developed also as an island country They could become part of Japan. So this is a ultra-nationalistic So this ultra-prior Proudful Japanese nationalists is saying are the only immigrants that we would want are from Taiwan. Yes Nobody I don't know if they even want the immigrants from Taiwan. They just want Taiwan to become Japanese This is not the majority of people in Japan. I'm just reading right. This is just a comment. That's interesting perspective Anyways, David, I guess your takeaways, you know, we don't live in Japan. We haven't lived there We're not otakus. We're not we have relatives that grew up in Japan. Obviously You know, if you just study Asia Japan is a pretty significant player for good and for bad reasons in Asia to be honest So, um, yeah, basically, I think this major comment was just like yo listen man at the end of the day No, whether they issues things about changing Japanese society to like get more on with the trends or not changing society It's just frozen. Yeah, it's not gonna change either way. Yeah Yeah, I think Japan one of the main things that they're gonna deal with is I do think in a lot of older Japanese people There is a deep down superiority complex still at least of the people who are running Japan. Oh for sure Yeah, or yeah for sure. So I and maybe you can see why to play the devil's advocate You can see why they yeah, I get it But they're but their problems, I guess at least the way we view their problems They keep on stacking on top of each other. So now it seems like looking from the outside in we're like, yo Japan, why don't you make some changes like, you know, make some shifts and then they're like, uh, but We are like trying to you know, figure it out and balance it like well Do we want to stay superior? Do we mix in with people?  How many immigrants are you gonna have to bring? Have to be right think about it We're talking about hundreds of thousands to even make a dent in their population And everything that I read because I did do some brief research for this on various platforms Most people's general opinion is they're just gonna live and die by yeah by pretty much being Japanese I think Japan is gonna continue shrink until they somehow can subsidize the families who are raising families and help them out Make it less burdensome inspire Young Japanese to want to start families that you do need to bring in some immigrants for sure and then Yeah, maybe in like 10 15 years it starts to look better But yeah, I think it's actually gonna shrink for the next like 10 years But let us know what you guys think in the comment section below like I said, you know, we're not Japan experts What do you think about everybody in the West always trying to draw these comparisons though being like yeah See we need to do what they're doing right now in Japan leaning into conservatism. Yeah, say Japan's so great They're their system so great and then there's like yeah, but Japan's shrinking Yeah, but their system so great I do think there's something to take away not from Japanese Japan's actual like policies and stuff because I think the Civilizations are just so different. You can argue America's only like 250 years old not 3500 years old or whatever Japan is and I would say this in 1990 Andrew America was 84% white in 2030 it'll be 55% white The biggest population growth will be Latino Latino will 10x from 2% in 1990 to 22% over 40 years So America is like gonna become like a partially Latin Latino country. Yeah I mean like it's already a Latino country, but it's gonna be like statistically Latino population. Yeah So that's what I'm saying where I'm like I could understand Theoretically from like white people's perspective because you could still remember the 90s Michael Jordan won his first championship in 1991 The internet didn't even come in a vogue until like 96 on a like a everyday consumer basis This shift is tremendous for Americans to accept if Japanese don't even want to accept like a 5% shift Americans are accepting a 25 30% shift So I guess you could argue that they're handling it well as they can or that they're not handling it well Oh, I don't know guys. You let us know in the comments down below what you think What is in store for Japan's future and can they make the changes when when will they make the changes? And what will those changes be and what can we take away from it because obviously America's becoming more diverse We got to figure out a way to all get along have respect for each other and not be divisive So let us know what you guys think are possible solutions in the comment section below keep it civil until next time We the hop-hop boys. We out. Peace


By speaking of natural gas, we do have a briefing on the interim report on the natural gas air quality study. Michael, this was a request by the council to have this interim look before we get the final product, even though it's not a completed piece of work, it gives us an indication of how this process is going. Michael. Thank you, Mayor and members of council. As the mayor eloquently put it, we're here on the interim report. It's preliminary data. It's just a piece of the puzzle going towards the final report. This is interim in nature. I'll be focusing the day to cover quickly the study objectives, a quick discussion as well on the interim report as well as a progress update on our current field testing and a discussion on the final report. The study objectives as you see in the past focus on these four questions. These four questions are the focus to be answered in the final report. They are not completely answered and can't be completely answered within the interim report. The interim report is broken into, it's posted on the website currently. It is on the city of Fort Worth website up and out there. It's broken into the executive summary. The ambient air monitoring as well as the point source testing to date. I'm going to start with the ambient air monitoring. The current, the ambient air monitoring network was set up to do a two month testing. We did one in three day sample polls for a 24 hour basis. So that means those sample results directly compare to short term health benchmarks. Those are hourly, daily or weekly comparisons. The good news is there, no pollutants were above those short term health benchmarks. In other words, published by TCEQ, EPA or ATSDRD. The other key component here is that network was designed with some assumptions in mind. One of the assumptions was which way would the wind be blowing? The wind conditions during the sampling did match very similar to the historical. That means what we are trying to pick up the monitors was being blown towards those monitors. So the emissions we wanted to pick up at the monitors were being blown towards those monitors. Some of the key pollutants that they did identify across the network are acetaldehyde, benzene, carbatetrichloride, chloromethine and formaldehyde. I'm going to pause here for a minute on these. We're comparing it short term because it's a direct comparison on the daily measurements we collected within the two month study. The long term comparisons will be done within the public health evaluation in the final report. The long term comparisons are most appropriately done against the average concentrations at these sites, not the daily concentrations. This is how the network was designed. We had basically seven sites, one of which moved around. The site three, you see three A and three B. Those were capturing permitted activities such as well completion, work over, fracturing operations, those type of things, pre-production activities. So that one did move to make sure we were in an area that was having those operations while we were collecting samples. The one sample site on here, site four, which was in a high level of natural gas activity as well as compressors, those type of things. That site is the one with the highest concentrations across the network. So I just want to draw that to your attention as you go through the report. The ambient air network, the ambient air interim report is roughly 180 plus pages. That report contains all the raw data. It has the daily concentrations, the averages. There's a lot of data within that. So you can go through that. The conclusions drawn right now are a high level based on what we have to date. Moving into the point source testing. This is where we went as you might recall. This is where we went back through August, September and October. The comparisons drawn in the interim report are focused on air permitting requirements. So the permit by rule, that's the lowest level. That's kind of what used to be called an exemption. The permit by rule is the lowest level of an air permit. If your volatile organic compounds or your total hazardous air pollutants, total haps are less than 25 tons per year, you qualify for a PBR. With one exception, if you have any individual hap, one individual hazardous air pollutant that is over 10 tons per year, then you don't meet the requirement for the PBR. If you don't meet any of those thresholds, then you actually apply for under the new source review a full air permit. So this is permitting conditions as to what those sites would have to operate under. What we have to date is we visited 180 active well sites. 31 of those during the visits had no detectable emissions. That means with the IR camera, the toxic vapor analyzer, they did not find any detectable emissions on 31 sites. 55 out of the 57 sites that we currently have detailed information on, 55 of those sites are well below the threshold for the PBR. We do have two sites that seem to be outliers that are above that threshold. That just means they would actually be potentially required to have a full air permit, not just operate under the permit by rule. The compressor sites, we visited seven, all of them were below the thresholds. The one gas processing plant that's in Fort Worth was also below the PBR thresholds. We also focused on some of the other activities that are involved in gas wells. This is not directly comparable to a permit condition. In other words, we can't directly compare to the PBR threshold or anything like that, but the completion operation was almost 100% methane. The detailed analysis is in the report, almost 100% methane. We're still doing the detailed analysis on the drilling, fracturing, and saltwater disposal operations. I'm going to pause here. This is a graphic to show you where all the sites fall. The red stars are sites that had no detectable emissions. The green circles are sites where we actually have the preliminary results, where we've done the detailed analysis on those sites, and the blue squares are sites that were still pending analysis. One of the reasons we're pending analysis is, as you may recall, when we entered this project, we had first thought we might only need 45 canisters. The canisters sent to the laboratory for detailed analysis to get the chemical breakdown of the emissions. We actually expanded that. We ended up collecting 73 during the first phase. During the second phase of testing, we're out there collecting more canisters. We need to take the time to look at all the canister results to then apply those canister results across all those blue squares. So that's the reason that's not complete at this point. The point source, the interim report, does have three main tables in it. Table one is the 66 sites where we have the detailed emissions data. You can look into that for the volatile organic compounds, the hazardous air pollutants. Table two is the 31 sites that had no detectable emissions. And table three is those sites that we're still pending detailed analysis on. It does tell you the address, how many valves, fittings, tanks, those kind of things that were there, and how many IR emissions or toxic vapor analyzer readings we had on those sites. That's how the interim report is outlined. The two sites that are unique, one is near North Fort Worth up on Ricardo Drive and one is out in West Fort Worth. Those two are just above the PBR threshold, which means they would more than likely have to apply for an air permit. This information has been discussed with TCEQ. We are looking at those sites to determine how to appropriately permit those sites and make sure they are in compliance with the current regulations. Progress update on what we're doing right now in the field. We're out there going to 180 sites, started on January 3rd. We have been collecting canisters. They're off for laboratory analysis. Following completion of this phasor work, which should be very soon in the next either today or the next coming days, we'll actually do all the non-field-related analysis. We're going to be taking all of the point source data, the original Phase 1, the Phase 2 data, doing the regulatory assessment, performing dispersion modeling, doing the health analysis, and doing the full build-up estimates. And then we'll be moving into the final report. This is a graphic representation of where we've been this time, what we've done since January 3rd through February 13th. So every one of those green circles is where we've gone the second time out. We put that in context as where we went the first time. There's an overlay of both. You'll see where we've been this time as well as where we were back in the fall. The fall sites are the blue triangles, the current sites are the green circles. What will the final report contain? Again, these seven sections, I believe we've shared that before. It's due to us on June 30th. One of the key components is the point source. Section 2 is not complete yet. Once that's complete, that data has been done. Then they'll also do the dispersion modeling, the public health evaluation, regulatory assessment, full build-up estimates. And then lastly, they'll be drawing conclusions and recommendations based on the totality of all that data. So the data that's shared in the interim report is just what we have today. It's preliminary. It's what we have today. It does not take into account everything listed here because we have not done sections 3, 4, 5, or 6, and we haven't even yet completed section 2. That concludes my briefing if you have any questions.


We got scoop time. We it's the bulls. They don't have any room for any big mistakes and it looks like now They're out without Busevich for a minute. What happened? Yeah, Nicola Busevich has a groin strain and I'm told he's gonna be silent for at least the next seven to ten days Are you said Michelle? This is a team without Zach Levine right now They've had several different injury woes Tori Craig also out for the foreseeable future now Nicola Busevich You hope with this groin strain over the next seven to ten days He's able to get right get back on the court definitely a significant loss He's been out of all their guys very very durable played all 82 games last season last night missed his first game all year He's averaging 19 points 11 rebounds over his last 10 games But listen last night Andre Drummond 24 points 25 rebounds two blocks He's he was their starter for them at center and the numbers that he's put up last night Hakeem Lodge one Charles Barkley Roy Tarpley Chris Weber Dwight Howard, that's the group that he joined So they won nine of last 13. They're gonna have to do it without Busevich at least for the next week or so All right, that's a big one. It obviously changes the rotation a little bit. You heard about drumming there Who else steps up in his absence Lou? What are you saying? Was it gotta be Kobe white, you know, Kobe white has to be the guy that's gonna be you know The Robin to DeMar DeRozan. Obviously DeMar DeRozan is gonna wake up He's gonna have 20 20 to 25 points a game. That's just who he is But Kobe white, you know, the NBA is about situation and about opportunity You know, he was a highly drafted guy and then boom you bring in two all-star caliber guys And you kind of get pushed to the back of the bus and so now this is an opportunity for him to show improve His work with this organization and this team and his teammates and going forward and another guy that we got We got to mention Alice Caruso got to play better for this group now That he's gonna have an opportunity to play big-time minutes as well So they still have the talent and the guys that can keep this ship going in a positive direction They just got to step up and do it at this point Such a weird season for the bulls of the way it started now. You've got injuries They seem to be doing something together Successful season for this team Chandler when it's all said and done. What does that look like? I Mean if they don't make any moves then it's to get into the play and playoffs and you know Hopefully survive in advance. But when you look at this team, I look at Patrick Williams, man This is fourth fourth year. I think and this is a top five NBA draft pick who at this point now This should be his team, right? They should be so comfortable to be trading Zach Levy and a Des Moines Rosen because they have this guy And it's just not he disappears just two for seven six points This happens too much and he's got all the intangibles when he's coming out This guy's get a koai litter type guy, you know Scotty Barnes He can defend he can score big and strong and he just hasn't panned out to what they thought he would be coming out of Florida State with that, you know, the fourth pick in the draft So this to me is a golden opportunity for him. Your guys are out. Everyone's on the training block You're one of the young pieces that they don't really want to give up yet This is to me where he steps up and he can be that breath of fresh air and give them that just sigh of relief So yeah exactly being we can move off from him because we have this guy moving forward And they just he they for whatever reason System style of play he hasn't given them that that boat of confidence yet. So Like there was this team of contender no no chant not even close, but they do have the experience They do have the best they do have the team to go and be a tough out in a playoff series, but They've been trying they I thought they were going to trade everybody last year And it's this year. It's like pull the pull the plug already So help me shams if we get to the trade deadline and the bulls and raptors do nothing I don't know what I'm capable of doing. That's all I'm saying I mean the one guy that we can say For a fact is they're trying, you know, they're going to try to work on a deal with Zach LaVie Now if the deal doesn't happen, he's he's owed. I think what three years 140 million the next three years like that contract is a significant number for any team So it won't be for lack of trying now guys like DeMar DeRos and Nikola Busovic Those guys I'm less sure of because this team is playing better. They're competing For for at least a play-in playoff berth right now Sean, I love you. Oh, this team is better off Not making the playoff shamp and then going and getting lucky and getting a lively with the 10th pick or something like that You know, I mean, they're not going to get 10 not going to win Blow it up and prepare for the future, man They might end up higher than the pistons in the lottery. You never know.


What's up everybody? Welcome back to my channel. Welcome to the third episode of our little podcast here And today I have some friends with me. This is Jo idea and her husband Dom They've been on my channel before it's been a while. Yes But we thought that we would go through some of the red flags and green flags that you guys have sent us over on my Instagram when it comes to Dating and I figured you know we have a single woman's perspective and then we have a married woman's perspective and a married Perspective so the couple different perspectives here. Yeah, we have to work with so Dom has my phone. He has all of your Comments and suggestions that you guys sent in. Are you guys ready? Yeah, I think so And we should probably say before we start we were just talking about this before we turn the camera on We're gonna put a little disclaimer here. Okay. These are our opinions Mm-hmm, and even our opinions might differ from each other This is just what kind of works for us so it may not work for you So if we maybe don't agree with you don't take it personally. It's just kind of what works for us So yeah, yeah, take this all with a grain of salt. Yeah, this is from our experiences And I'll try to just kind of pick some of these and let you guys do most of the talking Okay, but I'll chime in when I feel like I want to defend that You are in control. You're done. Okay, so red flag Says he's big on communication usually means they're not What do you think? I feel like if you have to I don't know I feel like verbally saying it means that it's at least at the forefront of your mind But I don't want to take that as a red flag. I wouldn't take it as a red flag either I mean the red flag would be the lack of actions that followed. Yeah Because if someone asked me like on a first date like what's something that's really important in your relationship And I said like communication. I'm a big on communication. I wouldn't think that's a red flag But you just have to like prove that you mean it. Yeah, exactly If you say that and then I mean immediately you're no like not texting or like you don't call right or something like that You know, that's kind of right going back on what you're saying Red flag when your significant other tells white lies frequently. Oh, I hate that. That's definitely.  That's just a red flag right white lies are kind of just why? Yeah, I know.  Exactly.  Yeah, I never understood the like keeping things from your partner It's like why that's your partner if you can't tell them the truth then like Yeah, what's the point? I don't know. All right, this one we talked about a bit before we started red flag He won't post you and I'm assuming that means on social media Yeah, I mean I feel like it depends on the person Um, like if you are a regular poster on Instagram and you start dating someone and you're getting serious Then I feel like you probably should post them if you are you know an active user But if you're someone like me and Dom who don't really use social media Yeah, if you don't post someone I wouldn't take that as an offense. You just have to know your partner exactly If it's someone who posts on their stories regularly or out with their friends Then that means that they enjoy using social media And so if you have someone in your life that you're proud to show off Then if you're an active user like Johnny said then it would be a red flag if they chose to post everything but you Then you start to feel like you're like being hidden on purpose and that's not good So right but it depends. I didn't even post when we got married. Yeah, right So context. Yeah, it depends on like how you use social media. Yeah, I'm weird. So Okay Let's find another one green flag goes to therapy Green flag. I agree with this. Love that. I always said that I really think the world would be a better place if everyone gets even just like a month of therapy Totally green flag for me. Yeah. Yeah, definitely red flag incapable of doing things solo and gets mad when you do Oh, yeah, that's a huge red flag. You are an independent person Outside of your relationship When you come together like it's definitely it's always good to like want to do things together But I think it's you know also good to you know do things independently and stuff. So not hidden But independent, right? You shouldn't you shouldn't need To be with your person you should just want to be exactly your person I think my biggest gripe with that one was gets mad when you do. Yes. That's a yeah. Yeah, that's that's definitely a red flag That's just toxic. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, how he treats his mother and sisters says a lot about how he will treat you Yeah, yeah, I believe it. I don't know if that would be I saw I guess a green flag then would be Treats his mom and sister with respect. Yeah, there's a lot of that kind of stuff Yeah, that's one of the first things my mom taught me about like guys and dating was like be careful How he treats his mom? Hmm. I'm trying to think about how I treat my sisters You treat them with love and like, you know, you guys go around. It's not disrespect or anything like that And you guys all have a great relationship annoying to them. I think Well, you're the little brother. Yeah brother, so red flag they get overly upset if you glance at their phone screen Yeah, yeah Yeah, I think it's a two-way street like one Why do you feel the need to look over at their phone? But to yeah, it's a red flag for them to get overly defensive I don't think it's necessarily wrong. I guess to be private, but there's a difference between being private and being secretive, so Yeah Getting overly defensive is definitely a red flag because it's like why you should be an open love to your partner That's right. I think I agree. Absolutely. Okay green flag arranges the date instead of asking what you want to do Oh, we love that. That's interesting because there's actually another one here I think that I saw a red flag that said the same thing doesn't ask for your input on the on the first date I mean, I agree when a guy Asks you out you don't want to always have to be especially like a on the first date I feel like it's nice to have something planned for you now if you're Four dates in and your opinion is never taken into consideration or you're never asked What do you want to do then that's a different story? Mm-hmm, but I can confirm from a woman's point of view that it is nice to just be told like hey I made reservations for us at X place for 7 p.m. Mm-hmm. I'll pick you up. Yeah, exactly something very romantic about that Mm-hmm. I think getting picked up for the first day is a red flag green flag Neither me personally it's just a preference thing, but like I don't need you to know where I live yet now You know, I would feel weird asking That yeah, I'll pick you up where you live, right? It's weird. I feel like nowadays now a day red flag Overly kissing and touching on the first date three red flags on this one three red flags. Yeah Yeah, yeah Um, I would agree It's a red flag listen I'm all if if the vibes are good the vibes are good I'm not gonna say first date like no kissing. I'm not gonna say that if it feels right. It feels right but for me personally My comfort levels there has to be a line if I just met you that day and You know, I'm being like held and hands everywhere. It's a little too much. I agree for me Yeah, because if it's going well and there are going to be other dates, then there's plenty of time for that exactly, you know I like this one green flag benching over 200 pounds. That's Jake That's my friend Jake. I It's great. I was I responded and said red flag Because he was talking about himself I Jake This one is this one's interesting I'm curious to see what you think about it because I know what you're gonna think I think okay red flag sharing location Okay, I saw that someone sent this and I was gonna bounce off of you guys So I actually don't even know whether you share locations or we do yeah, we should have we should so every couple pretty much that I know Shares location like it's just normal and like my friends have my location My mom has my location and I have theirs.  Especially someone who you've been with like long-term like it's a long-term serious relationship And they're like a lot of feel comfortable giving you my location. I think that's a huge red flag I think I think there's a really big context to this too. I'm sure like if Excuse me. I think it's a it's a good thing. We did it in college and it was super helpful But if it's the kind of thing where someone is like pressuring like oh share your location with me share location I wonder where like where you're going, especially like Yeah, does that make sense? I think it's a red flag overall like yeah to like not share locations I think at what point you start sharing locations and start having a conversation can You know be green or red flag depending on how you do and how you go about it And so because I think if you're just dating you've gone on three dates or something There's not even like a label or anything like that You know, but like if you've been together for like, you know, six months I don't think it's a weird name to ask and I think you know It's I think it's worth having a conversation about but if you're like immediately start dating you know, you're my boyfriend now You're my girlfriend now. Okay, give me your location. Yeah, that's a problem But if it's like a year a year and a half in and I don't think it's an issue Yeah, also from experience of being married for almost a year. You just always know where your spouse is Yeah, but it's helpful sometimes to say green flag if they know your coffee order or orders in general I think it's also nice, you know, if they are feeling generous one day and they want to get you your favorite, you know Lunch or breakfast coffee, whatever the thing is, you know, that's a nice thing to know. Okay This one just says good with kids for exclamation points. I'm assuming that's a green flag They didn't specify that's why I'm saying Probably green flag. Yeah, I don't think being good with kids couldn't be really be a red flag Yeah, when they expect the girl to pay for her share all the time That's what you start at this one me. Yeah. Oh, yeah. I well, I would never do that. Okay I would never do that. That's just the way I was raised would be that I would pay for everything I'm sorry. What did I say? Was it first date or just it's just when they expect the girl to pay for her share all the time All the time I'll context this with it says all the time, right? So, I mean if you're going on a date, especially in the beginning, yes I personally will call me old-fashioned. I believe it's the men's man's responsibility to pay for them Y'all for the date and stuff if you've been dating for a while though I mean this should become a shared responsibility now because that's gonna become taxed Depending on one part of the relationship's finance Finances and like, yeah, if you go on vacation, there's no way like I should be expecting to pay for your cruise ticket or something like that Yeah, like you should at some point that switches I think so like if if you're out like if I'm being asked out on the date and you're asking me to come meet you Then I feel like yeah, it's the nice thing to do as the person who initiated the date To like treat that person. Yeah, I agree with them like, you know the first few days in the beginning I think it's Nice if the man wants to pay and I think it's yeah It shows some chivalry that like he you know, maybe is you know just holds those morals and stuff like that So he's just like you know, he wants to be nice But I also think there is a part on the woman's side to also maybe if you're gonna pick the restaurant Maybe you don't pick like the four-star Michelin, you know There's a part on your side as well By the man should pick and plan it so they can cater it to their I think it's important to like even though I Don't say it's like a game because it's not but it's a first date for example I would especially if I was asked on the date like I would Say expect but like I would appreciate if he treated me right, but I think it's important also to Be appreciative. Yes, I always will like reach for my wallet anyway Of course, you always hope that they're like no, no, no, I could put it away, but like it's important to Show appreciation that it's just expected like you take it for granted This is a good one I agree with this one a lot red flag when they don't show you the same energy when they're with their friends That's definitely our red flag. Yeah, you shouldn't have multiple different personalities with different people and stuff Yeah, I agree with that, but also it's like another thing communication Context wise because maybe they're just like a different person with their friends. They're not used to Kind of you know having a relationship and then like you bring a spouse in and it's it's it's a different dynamic now And so like I'm a different person with my high school friends than I am when we're hanging out the three of us together Sure, so in the beginning it might be like in the beginning it might come across as a jarring like Who is this person? You know what I mean because you're kind of different when you're with other people Yeah, I mean I think be different people bring different sides of you out But I don't think it's you changing as a person like every girl that has a girl's night with her friends You know you act like different with your girlfriends, then you do like when your husband's around So that's normal, but I don't think it's something huge where like you're like I shouldn't be where you're like Completely like keeping a part of yourself from your partner because I'm not yeah. Yeah. Yeah I've seen a couple like this. So red flag. He is rude to waiters cashiers in supermarkets, etc Absolutely. That's one of my biggest pet views. That is a red flag. Such a red flag as a person That's awful. Yeah, you should treat everybody with the same amount of respect and dignity that they deserve No matter what their profession is and no matter if they're in front of the counter or behind the counter Green flag both of you agree slash disagree on marriage having children and religion Yeah, I mean that's a great green flag Excuse me with the agree slash disagree Or I guess like You both have the same views views. Oh, that's very I think that's very important very important I think if one person is like that they know for sure that they never want to have kids But you know that you want to have kids um, I mean that's a that's What do you do? Yeah, like there's gonna be difficult to get through. Yeah, exactly So it's like, I mean not laying it all out on the first date or anything But you know if there are certain parts of your life that you're not willing to compromise on I mean, I think it works. Yeah, and then if you find someone that you agree with obviously, that's a wonderful That's a great green flag. Yeah, it's okay to call that an orange flag if you disagree Maybe like a proceed with caution Kind of like this should be something we talk about because I mean there are lots of Very successful relationships with people in different religions or Sure different views on I think marriage is a big one. I think you should you should be in the same boat there But um And kids too, but even that like can change. Yeah, but if you have the same view, I would make I would think of it being like Proceed with caution kind of thing I don't know if that makes sense Maybe to dig deeper into it as something that should be at least talked about Yeah, I think the when it comes to religion too though The thing that I always think about is like it's cool to like disagree and just have like conversations about it But when like kids come into the picture, how do you decide? How to raise your your kid you just not talk about it at all or do you just favor one side? I think that's that's really hard. It becomes then you really got to get into the communication Yeah, and then green flag on a couple goes to therapy together We do too. Yeah And that kind of ties into this one. So red flag wanting something casual no commitment ever Like it's just someone that just doesn't want to settle down ever. Yeah, that's a red flag It's a red flag unless you meet someone who has the same mentality Mm-hmm Then I guess your green flags for each other But like if you're like someone like me for example who like wants to settle down and has kids Someone who tells me that they never want to settle down. It would be a huge red flag. Yeah Just want to shout out the profile picture of this asker. It's a wonderful wedding shot Yeah, okay Sorry, here we go. I'm gonna throw this one in there red flag smoker ultimate red flag I don't know if they mean cigarettes or something different But they're calling that a red flag. That's a preference thing Like for me personally, I'm I'm not a huge fan of that because I personally don't do it myself. So I don't know how We would like mesh very well But again, if it's like, you know what I'm saying, like there's a lid for every pot So like for someone else that wouldn't be a big deal. You've never heard. I've never heard that Am I guys There's a lid for every pot. So So like there's someone out there for everyone like everybody like could find their match. There's a Yes, I thought it was the pot. Well, yeah, I guess you could decide who's what but Oh, I like this one green flag Opening doors for you active listener encourages and supports you. Oh, we love that. Yeah Opening doors for you. That's such a nice little I love that. You know, people don't like that I don't understand that some people thought it was like mean or Or something like you could open a door yourself I'll open a door for anyone. Yeah, I like it. Yeah, it's not even like a romantic thing It's just like a nice thing to do for people. What about opening a car door? Yeah, how do you feel about that? I will not say like, oh, he doesn't open my car door. Like I'm never going to talk to him again Yeah, yeah, but when it happens I'm like I'm a size five and a half Like that's you know, like that's You know, I was gonna say actually I'm a size five Oh my gosh I feel like I feel that I If we're going someplace swanky usually because I will I will not do this all the time. First of all, it just takes way too long It's it's obsessed Like if we're going someplace nice and if I'm wearing a suit and tie then I'm gonna be like I'm gonna pull out all the James Bond steps that I'm walking over and open the door open Because then I also feel super fancy. Yeah, you know, I agree. Like I think it's it's nice. It's classy It's classy, but it shouldn't be expected all the time. It's not like a deal breaker. Do you guys know the sidewalk rule? No, yes, I do. I know that the man should always be on the side That's another thing too where I wouldn't say that that's like an actual like deal breaker never talked to you again Really? I love that. That's like a 50-50 thing though. I mean, I could just it's very rare. It could just be by accident Yeah, some people just don't even know that that exists. Yeah, but it's just a matter of if you know it If you know, you know Yeah, exactly So you wouldn't tell them that if it bothered you No, I don't think it's something that would bother me Could you imagine telling someone you have to stand there because if we get hit You're supposed to hit that whole point of it.  Um, and now I'm just going off book here We were talking with the sidewalk rule and I was saying how there are other little Things like that like what the man does and I read this quote From I don't remember the exact quote, but it was it was Something that one of the royal the English royalty said and his thing was that his style was always just like Gray tuxedos and like gray suits and he never wore anything flashy Because this thing was he said that he was literally the accessory To his wife So he was just there to like be not seen really and just kind of like let her shine I thought that was really cool and I and I was like I like that, you know Not to like flaunt and try to steal the spotlight. Okay. Here we go. This is this is a good one Green flag good relationship with mom red flag too good of a relationship with mom Yes, I mean a green flag for having a great relationship with your mom. That's never a bad thing um, I think there comes a point um when you know I think it just becomes sort of like a trust issue between like if you don't trust your girlfriend or wife More than you trust your mom, you know, it's and it's you should always have a great relationship with your mother um But yeah, I think at some point you're there has to be a shift from like this is now the most important woman in my life And honestly it goes, you know from the son, but also from the mother's perspective Also, like, you know, she has to let her son go and stuff and build that relationship with his wife And you know girlfriend stuff as well Yeah, I just disagree with the wording of too good of a relationship It's too good of a relationship sounds to me like it would be a healthy relationship. They probably mean unhealthy I would say red flag, but it's an unhealthy relationship with their mom There was another one talking about mom still does everything for him in his 20s or in his late 20s Also, just I know it's not a bad thing when relationships have to change because you're in a relationship And then just going off of that like if you're a guy and say you have a bunch of close friends that are girls Um, I don't think it's a bad thing that those relationships might change because you start dating someone seriously So that's a that's a whole other discussion There was another one kind of like that that said red flag he has a Best friend is a girl who doesn't like you.  That's a common thing That is a huge red flag Huge It's I will say it is hard like You know if I got into a relationship and one of my guy friends like How do I say this nicely I have a guy friends in my life that when I was in a relationship they they Flat out told me that they took a little step back because they wanted to make sure that they're respectful And as the person in the relationships like me who kind of like is like in the middle I can Appreciate that it is a tricky thing It's it's hard to feel like in the middle because you're like, oh, but that's that's my friend and that's my partner Like it's different But it is a normal thing that relationships do kind of have to change not like never to never be friends again Like don't talk nothing But like I would never go just in a relationship go have dinner with my guy friend. It's just us too. Yeah Some people disagree on that me personally. I think it's just a respect thing Now i'm gonna throw in one more thing with that Um, you guys might disagree with this, but if I if you flip the switch a bit I think you could possibly say it's a red flag If like your sister or your mom doesn't like the person I think that's a tricky one because I mean You obviously your mom and your sister are like the first women in your life You know that you like love and care for and stuff and so when you bring a new person into your life a new You know a girlfriend and stuff Obviously you want your mom and your sister to like them But I don't think that necessarily has to be the end all be all they're looking out for your best interests But they're not seeing like I guess the like the actual relationship They're seeing it from the outside So you have to be the best judge of that relationship I will say too just to play devil's advocate that it is true that love does like make you blind and people in your life Who really know you can sometimes see things that you can't That's true. So I yeah, I go both ways with that. I agree with what you said But also there are there are instances where people see things that you don't Yeah, so just kind of like listen listen to what they're saying And then from there it becomes on you to make that decision. Okay red flag doesn't put the effort in getting to know your family Yeah, we don't like that. That's a red flag especially if you're very family oriented and your family live in the area or something and there's like an easy opportunity for you to get to know them, you know If that's a big part of your life and you know, this new person's gonna start to become a bigger part of your life They should you know, it's always great for like that to work together. They should want to know. Yeah, okay This one says red flag when she says she's independent I love I mean your perspective that looks like I have like no perspective on this I don't know what I would I don't know I don't know what I'd say you start So I would say I am I am a very independent woman So there's I'm not gonna I don't want to say that I'm a red flag because I don't believe that that's true I think in certain situations and sometimes like people who Like women who have been hurt in the past will use that and be like I'm an independent woman. I don't need you And then that comes across I wouldn't say it's a red flag.  Um, I think honestly Dating independent woman is probably the way to go because you don't want someone who again like I said before Who's gonna need you you're gonna want you want someone who wants you? So I think someone who's independent and even an independent man is the same thing Like I think that that's someone who is their own person who can survive on their own That's a good thing and then you bring two independent people together And then you build a life from there I think for maybe the for devil's advocate reasons if it's the kind of thing where maybe they're like not treating you Correctfully because of it if they're going a little too far with it maybe and saying like oh, you know I'm not putting a label on this. I'm independent. You're just kind of like with me It could definitely anyone claiming that they're so independent that they're like an island And don't need other people that could definitely be a red flag. There's a couple of green flags They text or call when they're thinking about you through the day and when they text you that they want to see you Small but underrated. Yes, we love that. That's great. I love that Everybody wants to be loved or everybody wants to be wanted and stuff. So you know, it's great to hear that. Yeah Okay, red flag following so many girls slash bikini models on instagram or liking their pictures Yeah It's a red flag It sounds like a pretty obvious one that I don't see why men don't understand that No, it's still it is a thing that happens often Yeah That it's just it's not It's not healthy. It's not healthy. It's just training yourself to to Be open to looking at people who aren't your partner. Yes And then you start to you're even if you tell yourself Even if you tell yourself that you're not going to you're going to start comparing your partner to those girls And they're not going to be the same because those girls on instagram don't actually look like that I could make a whole video. Yeah, this is why you should I I question I question why one social media doesn't I'm gonna give you a book. Oh god Okay, here's a good one red flag that I totally agree with when they drive off before you get into your house I agree. Yeah red flag You got to see the door open and like closed behind that stuff Yeah, also, here's the other thing if you have the kind of house where you can pull up right front Then I think you should walk them up to the door. Okay. Yeah Okay, red flag gets upset when you want to go out with your girlfriends Big red flag Yeah, that shows like miss not that was word mistrust Yeah, that's a big red flag. Yeah And I think then if you're the woman and you're you want to go out with your girlfriends But now you start to feel uncomfortable even Telling your partner that you want to do that because you think that they might get mad or that they might get anxious Or uncomfortable or whatever Um, then you're changing, you know a good relationship with your girlfriends For maybe a not-so-great relationship green flag when he accepts your kids even though they are not his That's definitely green flag that shows serious maturity And actual seriousness in you that they respect you and it goes vice versa. Honestly for both of those. Yeah Green flag is they watch asmr Is that really in there? Yes it is in there and I would add green flag Subscribe to saw this Big green flag Green flag if they hit the light button Big green flag if you like this video Okay, yeah red flag when she expects you to buy her a $1,500 person the third date. Yeah, that's run.  I respect it, but I could never imagine Asking my boyfriend to pay for me to get my nails done. I just It's just not me. I don't know. Yeah, like I work for my money. You know what I mean? I don't know Yeah, he wants to treat you like sure, you know, that's a very nice thing. I wouldn't say no But to ask for it. I can't even imagine. Yeah, okay This one kind of ties in what we said before red flag seeing their name under every girl's instagram photo For sure Yeah, kind of goes back into that like you got to step away from some of those relationships When you're in another relationship just because you're in a relationship does not mean that you lose your ability to be like Hey, that's an attractive person But what you do with those thoughts? Because you could see a picture and be like, oh, they look really good in that picture. You don't gotta like it Nobody's putting a gun to your hand being like I need to double tap this picture So that they and everybody else knows that I find them attractive But also maybe maybe It depends on the type of photo. It shouldn't be like checking so much What they're doing. Well, you could just see it. Yeah, I guess you're right If you're like going to look for it, you're probably setting yourself up for some hurt Yes, but if you just like see it and then also it to me, it depends on the picture If it's like a half naked bikini picture, that's different than like them posting a picture with their like mom You know, like it's different red flag when they want you to go to their house on a first date Yeah, I don't like I don't like that Big red flag It just I mean it depends on why y'all are there, right? If you're there With like the intention of like this could be like a relationship. That's like that's one thing and if you're There with the mentality of you know, this is just like a fun one night thing That that's that's also on you and that's fine but you gotta be on the same page about it and It's just if it's a first date and you're like, let's go back to my place. It just it shows Where your intentions are and it would make me a little wary for sure. Weary wary Weary. Yeah, you make me a little weary. I think it's wary. I think it's wary. I think it's wary Weary is like you're tired. Oh Beware be wary. Okay. Red flag them talking down on things you're passionate about Yeah Yeah, that is mean I want to be supportive of of your partner and I think a green flag like I'll make my own green flag here off of this Green flag to me is like being very open-minded And if it's something that you don't understand a some are for example It's a perfect example Right is someone who like doesn't know what it is and upon first glance you might be like what the heck is this But instead of being like that's weird. I want nothing to do with that like google it like inform yourself Educate yourself about things like that Rather than just being so like closed-minded. I like this one Red flag uses the B slur to describe women. Oh, yeah Definitely dignify that with a response. No. Oh, here's one a red flag is This is worded a little weird. So I'm gonna try to like translate it a red flag is So when his closest friends are like not nice, they're like f-boys like Those are his closest friends So not necessarily saying that the person you're dating is like that but his friends are Yeah, that's that's a red flag. I think so too I don't know if that's like again like a showstopper because I mean You're your own person still and like if you the two of you get along great like That's nice. I mean that's more important. But yeah, like the people he chooses to surround himself with then I feel like that's kind of uh You know because what what sort of situations are they might they lead him into? Um, all right, let me see like a pick a couple. We'll just do like rapid fire. Yeah, red red or green Love bombing. What is that? I I skipped that one because I didn't know what it was. Love bombing is Very early on in a relationship like you've had one day and you're like, I love you I'm so excited to see you like you're like you're everything to me. Oh, yeah, that's a red flag Yeah, it sounds like Yeah, something a red flag emotional intelligence We love that A lot of it is based on that a lot of the ones we've been talking about Yes, oh wait, you skipped the one on the love languages Oh, it was like brief Okay, it just said when you're love green flag when your love languages match Yeah, I like I don't know if it's a hot take but like I feel like I have a little bit of every love language I think I did it was quality time and physical touch for my top two and they were like pretty almost even Yeah, those are my two but I don't know. I think they're all Kind of important. Yeah, but Yeah, those those are my top two when he has two phones Yeah, that's just weird. Why would I really get the only thing I can think of is a work phone That's the only thing I could think of is not a work phone. Then yeah, what's going on? Then you should yeah That's weird when the x is still some somehow in the picture When their x is still in the picture, I feel like that depends on the context because yeah I mean if like they have kids with somebody else like It's kind of like a red flag if they're not in the other person's life because you have to co-parent and stuff But I think if there are no kids involved. Yes I think um, I don't understand me personally how people could still be like best friends with their x's I just don't get it. Um, and I don't think I can personally date someone who was still super close with his x and like Saw her all the time and like I just I was just throwing this in there. Um, yeah, like what about if they were still in communication with Like the friends or family of the x. That's very hard There's like no right or wrong answer. It's just you have to communicate with each other and figure it out I feel like it's very contextual very personal on on you Like how you feel about it and then you have to kind of gauge with the relationships like Yeah, yeah, and also is it weirdly is it an uncomfortable? like inappropriate relationships still or is it just like You know, I don't know what we did in high school 15 years ago. I mean how we're just like Still close or something. No, I don't think so I like my high school ex I'm friendly with him But I would never like hang out with him or text him or like be friendly in that maybe you like dated someone in high school Just because and then you broke up and then like 15 years later. They're just still part of your high school crew or something I don't know. You know, I think that there's I'm just coming up with different shots Explanations on how because it's the if the relationship Becomes weird. That's what makes it weird. So yeah, I think it also depends on how the split went Yeah, yeah, you know, was it amicable? Was it nasty? You know Getting along with your friends. That's a green flag. Yeah Yeah, there was one about that red flag. I'm not wanting to hang out with your friends Yeah, yeah, it's like Um, I don't think you have to like hang out maybe on like the second or third day But like, you know at some point at some point. Yeah, you and you want, you know, you should want to like have all those people like When he tries to I'm saying he because that's what it's written, but this could be he she whatever Yeah, um, when he doesn't try to belittle your feelings or gaslight you Yeah Yeah, that's that's a soft explanatory belittle you. Yeah, I'll tell you that your emotions aren't valid. Yeah, we don't we don't like that Um, can we take a step back and talk about what it even means for something to be a red flag? Is this like a red flag you run away or is this red flag? You should start assessing stuff Because I feel weird talking about some of this stuff and saying like red flag get out of there A lot of them. I feel like are assessing But there are a few that I probably I think belittling and gaslighting is one that kind of makes me very wary Very weary Yeah, yeah that I would say like you should Consider stepping away kind of doing yeah, I feel like you have more context than this Now because I've just been married or in a relationship for so long Yeah, that's this wild out there This is wild out there Um, all right, let's do one more. We'll end on this one when they're when they start to show jealousy right away And it says accusing you of flirting or maybe they're jealous of your ex and then it says it only gets worst trust is a must So I guess early on in the relationship showing jealousy. Yeah I mean, that's definitely a red flag Especially for someone who you just started dating so there shouldn't there shouldn't be reasons for you to feel Like jealousy yet and if there are then there it's either Past traumas of that person or the person they're dating is really sketchy. Yeah, exactly Yeah, it's a two-way street But I mean your first reaction shouldn't really be like jealousy if if they've given you no reason to not Trust them You should trust them and not be jealous of where they are who they're with what they're doing. Yeah, agreed I think we did pretty dang good. I think we did. Okay. I think this video is also really long It's probably very long.  We appreciate it But thank you guys for joining me. Yeah Sharing your perspectives again. Thanks for all with us very personal opinions. Yeah. Yeah You know a lot of this needs to get dug into a lot deeper. Yes Don't run away from someone just because of something trivial. Yeah And I'm sure that there are a lot of back stories of the people that wrote these I'm sure they could go and tell us our their stories. So Like Dom said in the beginning take everything with a grain of salt. This was just upon our first glance our opinions. So Um But go ahead and leave us your thoughts down below if you agree with us If you disagree with us on any of the points we talked about, uh, we'd love to read them Go ahead and turn that like button into a red flag Because it turns red when you oh wow Wow All right guys. Well, that's gonna be it for today's video. Thank you so much for watching again Thank you to my lovely friends for being here with us and if you want them to come back then just let them know in the comments We'll be back You guys want it Okay, we'll be back either way. All right. Thank you guys so much for watching and I'll see you next time. Bye