Sendered of California on behalf of independent Chevron gas stations and standard stations throughout the West, invite you to let George do it. Another adventure of George Valentine. Personal notice. Danger is my stock and trade. If you feel that you're one against the world and the help you need must be discreet and confidential call on me, George Valentine. Write full details. Dear Mr. Valentine, in this whole world is only one person I care about, my 12-year-old daughter Penny. This Friday I lose her, unless I can make her change her mind about me. You may be the one person who believes my side of the story instead of the juicy tabloid version everyone else chooses to believe. If this appeals to your, let's say, chivalrous side. To your, let's say, chivalrous side, I'll be home all day tomorrow. 19 Montclair Drive, Lakeside Heights, signed Barbara Eversole. Barbara Eversole? What do you know? What do you know? Barbara Lawson Eversole. All right, so she has a maiden name. Hey, you know I've flunked mediaeval history in college because of this gal? You mean she wouldn't let you copy from her paper? Nothing as intimate as that, Angel. You see, she was in a musical comedy and had stayed in town for six weeks. Ah-huh. Matt and A's Tuesday and Thursday, 2.30, same time as my class in mediaeval history. Yeah, I know. You had a conflict. On my history exam they asked me who sank the Spanish Armada and the only name I could think of was Barbara Lawson, the most beautiful girl in the world, to quote the poster. And I thought you worked your way through college. Yeah, except on those Tuesdays and Thursdays. Bruxy, what can I drop in on Barbara Eversole? If just for all Langsine. Ah-huh. Ah-huh. Uh, pardon me, young lady. Yes? The maid showed us Angel. We're looking for Mrs. Eversole. She's my mother. She's upstairs, but she's probably listening to see if I'm practicing my piano list. Oh, so you're Penny. You know something. What's that to you? I could play like this. Well, that's a great improvement on what we heard when we came in. That's the way she'd like to hear me play. But when she's in the house, I play like this. Hi.  I think so. Oh, Mr. Valentine? Oh, yes, Mrs. Eversole, and this is Miss Brooks, my assistant. How do you do, Miss Brooks? Are these people here to take your pictures for the tabloids again? Penny. I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that. I hate it. I don't know if it's any use at all, Mr. Valentine. Even if the courts let me keep Penny, I can't make her love me. What is it that's so wrong between you and Penny, Mrs. Eversole? Her father. Her wonderful, irreproachable father who drove his car off the cliff a year ago. Oh, I didn't know. I'm sorry. Why should you be? No one else ever was. I was the lucky one to have such a charming and tentative husband. Even his own child never suspected he was mean, cruel, and deceitful. No. That irresistible boy's smile took care of everything like that. I see. The last few months before he died, I started going out every night just to get away from him and his indifference to whether I was dead or alive. Of course, everybody was saying, how can she do that to Jerry, poor, charming Jerry? Uh-huh.  Somehow he doesn't sound the type. I'll never forget that night. We had the most bitter quarrel we ever had and he stormed out of the house. Yes. Penny overheard us. Ever since, she's blamed me for what happened. Well, what's this about losing her on Friday? When Jerry died, his mother was determined to take Penny away from me. She almost did because Penny said she wanted to leave me. But the judge decided to put me on a sort of parole, one misstep, and I lose my child because I'm an unfit mother. Uh-huh. Now I think I get it. That business about tabloids, that was the picture of you in the papers when you were brought up on a traffic charge. You don't have to be so charitable, Mr. Valentine. They called it drunk driving. But I tell you, I was framed. Framed? I had dinner with Dan Edwards. I swear I had nothing stronger than coffee. Next thing I knew, I was alone in my car on the side of the road and there was the policeman. Oh, is this Dan Edwards? I met him a short time ago. It was fun. We went out a few times and then, well, this thing happened. Well, certainly this Mr. Edwards can explain you weren't drinking, that you were ill or something. Seems the little gentleman can't tell a lie. His version is that I had a little too much created a scene in the parking lot at Club 44 and drove off without him. And you want me to prove it was a frame, is that right? I don't know how you're going to do it. But you must. And before Friday, Penny's all I got. I can't lose her. She'd go on thinking of me as a... Oh, Mr. Valentine. Oh, no, Mrs. Edwards. Two days isn't an awful lot of time, Mrs. Edwards, but I'll do my best. I won't be hypocritical, Mr. Valentine. I'm glad this thing happened to Barbara. Mrs. Eversole, isn't that a pretty harsh thing to say about your daughter-in-law? I told Jerry he should never marry a girl like that. Now, mother, Barbara was Jerry's one. And you're his brother, Leonard. You should be glad we're getting Penny away from this woman on Friday. Oh, we've heard so much about your son, Jerry. Yes. When Jerry walked into a room, the other men there stopped existing. You could tell that just by looking into the eyes of every woman. Yet he was kind and gentle. And when he smiled... Yes. We've heard all about that smile. I can understand your skepticism, Miss Brooks, but mother's quite right. My younger brother was admittedly perfect. Mrs. Eversole, I just often to tell you I'm playing on Barbara's team. Young man, you're wasting your time. There's no other explanation for what happened to Barbara that night, except the obvious one you'll find on the police blotter. I'm afraid, Mr. Valentine, my sister-in-law hired you to make her story sound a little more plausible. Could be. I'm going to have that child if it's the last thing I do. And I'm going to see that Barbara gets an even break if it's the last thing I do. Come on, Brooksy. Yes, George. Hey, look, Brooksy, how would you like to go to Club 44 tonight? I can recommend the food and the music's not too bad. Oh, I'd love it, darling. What time do you pick me up? You're going to be there alone. Alone? Well, not exactly. If I've got the right slant on this thing, you'll be with Dan Edwards most of the evening. Dan Edwards? I'll be waiting at Barbara's for your call. What am I supposed to do? Mostly be a beautiful self, Brooksy. But to be more specific, here's the deal. Claire, Mr. Edwards, I'm just dreadful. I mean, being here alone in a nightclub in a big city with a strange man. Not a strange man, Claire. Just a lonely man. Oh. When Ed Wanda, the head waiter, told me that you were here all alone, I couldn't resist coming over to your table and introducing myself. And I wouldn't have it any different, Mr. Edwards. It's Dan. Yes, Dan. I wonder what Daddy would say if he could see me now. Daddy? He's always saying, Claire, honey, people with our position and money have to be mighty careful whom they meet. Oh, and he's so right. Would you believe it? I slipped out of the hotel after Daddy and Mother went to bed. Aren't I just awful? Let's compromise and say you're the sweetest thing that ever walked into my life. Oh, Dan, you're... And I'm going to find out a lot about you. What your Daddy does, that great big house you must live in. Yes, Dan. And I'm going to find out a lot about you, too. Practicing tonight, eh, Penny? Oh, Mr. Valentine. Anyway, she can't hear me. She's in her room, and the door is closed.  Yes, well, I'm alone. Well, tell me something, Pie Face. Who started you taking piano lessons? She did, and made me practice every day whether I wanted to or not. Now you'll love to play, but not when she can hear it. Well, that's kind of cock-eyed, isn't it, kid? Well, I... I don't have to talk to you. I'm going up to bed. Where's my book? Oh, this it? Yes, let me have it. Your book, Denfield College, 1933. Yes. My father's picture is in there. I'll show you what they say about him. Here, doesn't he have a wonderful smile? Hmm. Listen, Ebersole, Jerry, most popular man on the campus, Captain Water Polo Team, most likely to succeed. Yeah, that's all right. None of the others had things like that written about him. Look at the very next one under Father's picture. Eggleston, Frank, campus clown, good ol' Eggy. See what I mean? Eggy the clown. What's good to hear you laugh, dear? Oh, I was just going up to bed. Penny, wait. Good night. Never mind. Did you find out anything, Mr. Valentine? No, no, but I did want to know a little more about this. Stan Edwards. Well, he introduced himself and said he was a friend of Jerry's at Denfield College. Yeah. He told me about the time just before he and Jerry were supposed to graduate. Jerry stole the clapper out of the chapel bell. Oh. Leonard had to square things with the dean and make sure his mother never found out. I see. Mr. Valentine, there was nothing wrong with me going out with Dan. For a year, I kept myself cooped up in this house trying to be the perfect mother. Always remembering Judge Blanchard saying, what a misstep, Mrs. Ebersole. And Penny goes to her grandmother. And having dinner with Dan once in a while sort of helped take the pressure off her. That's right. I can't think of any reason Dan would lie about what happened that night. But what did you find out about him? Not much, Mrs. Ebersole, not much. But I have an idea that even at this distance, I'm learning more and more about Dan Edwards. Every minute. Well, tell me, Claire, what would it take to impress your daddy? Well, like I keep saying, Daniel, he judges everybody by the substantial people they know. Well, I know some pretty important people in this town. You do? Yes. I advise them on their investments, help them spend their money. Here. Just look at this check. Oh, my goodness. $5,000. Agnes Ebersole. I'm afraid the name wouldn't mean anything to daddy. Oh, Mrs. Ebersole. A family stand for just about everything in this town. I didn't know you were so clever, Daniel. Oh, dear. Hmm? I've made up my mind. I'm going to call the hotel and tell daddy I'm right here at Club 44 with a very respectable gentleman. He'll be proud to meet. Oh, thank you.  I'll be right back. I got here as soon as I could, Brooks. He Edwards inside. Yes, daddy. And I just bet Mr. Dan has got awful fitched in there. All right, all right. Are you sure about that check? Yeah, I saw the signature. Agnes Ebersole. Oh, good. That's a break I didn't even hope for. I'm going back inside. Well, what are you going to do, George? 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And now back to tonight's adventure of George Valentine. Under what circumstances would you say a mother deserves to lose custody of her child? Well, Barbara Ebersole, ex-chorus girl, is almost certain to be declared an unfit mother unless George proves that Barbara's recent front page escapade was a free muff. At Club 44 now, George makes his way toward the table where Claire is sitting with Dan Edwards, the man who seems to be the key to the whole problem. Hello, beautiful. I beg your pardon. I don't say you don't know me just because it happens to be true. Now, wait a minute, friend. Friend? Okay, proven. Introduce me to the lady. Just you pay him no heed, Daniel, honey. Aha, a bell from Brooklyn. Mind if I sit down? Look, we don't know you, Mr. Now, on your way. Please, Daniel, not here. What would daddy say if he found out I was involved in a fuss? Well, the lady's absolutely right, sir. But I'll be glad to give you a satisfaction out in the alley. Okay, smart guy, come on.  Don't you think you'd better give me the name of your nearest kin so I can notify him? Okay, brother, how do we begin? You want to knock the chip off my shoulder or do I just poke you in the nose? Stop the kid's stuff. I've got a proposition to make. Now, what are you talking about? I'm working up a business deal with a young lady in there. I've got to impress her. Now, what do you say you take this ten bucks and have yourself a time somewhere else? Forget the whole thing. Oh, come on, boy, let's play rough.  Let's see if you can take care of yourself. Okay, I gave you your chance.   I'll teach you to... not to go around waving checks in front of young ladies. Now, where is it? Here we are. $5,000. Mrs. Agnes Ebersole paid at Dan Edwards. Well, I wonder how she's going to explain this little payment. Yeah, hello. George, what happened to you? I've been calling your apartment for an hour. I know, Angel just came in. I went out to see old Mrs. Ebersole. Oh, then you got the check. What did she say? Nothing, because she wouldn't see me. Oh. But maybe it's just as well. She can explain it to the judge tomorrow. The scene in the office nice and early. Oh, and Bruxy. Yeah. Just wanted to say you did a smooth job with Edwards. Thanks. Good night, chicken chan. Not as smooth as your thought, Valentine. Now, what? How'd you get in my room, Edwards? I've been waiting for you to show up.  You're quite a grim character when you're holding a gun. I could just ask you to hand over that check, but I'm going to do it the hard way, too. How is this for a storm? You said night and early in the office this morning, and I... George. Now, no comments on my appearance, Bruxy. Let's just say I overslept with somebody's help. What? The important thing is I don't have that check anymore. Huh? Hey, wait a minute. Hello, Valentine. Yeah, Barbara? What's that? Oh, what'd you miss here? Look, getting hysterical isn't going to help. Penny? Just a minute, Bruxy. Yeah, I have an idea where to find her. So stay where you are. I'll get in touch with you. I'll see to that, Penny dear. This is something you have nothing to say about Mrs. Eversole. Can't you see, Valentine, it's better this way. You can call Barbara and tell her to meet us at Judge Blanchard's this afternoon. It's a foregone conclusion. He's going to award Penny to us anyway, Leonard.   I thought this might be the kind of stunt you'd pull, Penny. Now, here, look at me. I mean, straighten the eye. You know if you came to the Judge with your grandmother, your mother wouldn't stand a chance of keeping you. Now, didn't you? What about it? Just this. You're coming home with me. Grandma!  Young man, you're not the police, you know. And it's a good thing, Mrs. Eversole. You can be charged with abduction, trying to keep Penny here. And another thing. What have you got to say about a $5,000 check you gave Dan Edwards? What? I never issued any such check. Oh, I see we're going to have to play this right out to the end. Come on, Penny. No, no, no! Don't give me any trouble, Pie Face, because I've got a lot of things to do between now and two o'clock. Dean Bronson, young Jerry Eversole, was quite a big man here at Denfield College, wasn't he? Well, Mr. Valentine, he had one of those rare personalities that ingratiated him to everyone he'd met. Yeah, I know. That charming smile. That's right. Um, wouldn't you say that the way he died, I mean, suicide was way out of character? Well, since you say this information is important to his wife, the whole Eversole family... You can take my word for that, Dean. I guess it's my duty to tell you there was a regrettable week streak in Jerry's character. Oh, what do you mean? He forged quite a sizable check against the student body funds in his junior year. Of course his mother made good, and we hushed it up. You know, the family endowed the Eversole library here at Denfield. Yeah, thank you, Dean Bronson. You've been a great help. A great help. Mr. Dunlap, Jerry Eversole was working for your brokerage firm when he committed suicide, wasn't he? Well, yes. He was one of our best contact men, Mr. Valentine. He made that Eversole personality go a long way. Well, I've heard enough about that. Let me ask you a simple direct question. Yes? How much did Jerry Eversole steal from your firm? What you're saying, I... I don't understand.  One's love, the other's money. Everybody loved Eversole, the personality boy. Now, how much money did he steal from you? I... I don't know how you ever found this out, Mr. Valentine. His mother made good. Oh, Grandma of the Rescue. We never prosecuted him. I do hope there won't be any publicity at this late date. The firm of Dunlap and Garrett is very conservative. How much was it? A shortage of $20,000 in his accounts. I see. I've always thought poor Jerry began to load himself so much he just couldn't go on anymore. That was the real reason for his suicide.  Thanks a lot. Brooks, you have made up my mind. I'm going to tell both Barbara and the kid the truth about Eversole. Where are they? Upstairs, getting ready to leave for Judge Blanchard. Well, that's right. We don't have much time. George, we usually see eye to eye about things. But I think you're wrong this time. Penny's a sensitive, unpredictable child. You don't know what a thing like this might do to her. Well, it may just jar enough to realize what she owes her mother. Or it may have the very opposite effect. All right, so it's taking a chance. Okay. But look, Brooks, he's pegged his young with a whole life ahead of it to get over any kind of shock. What does Barbara have left if they take a daughter away from her? Well... Oh, no, Brooks. I'm going to tell them both what the score is before we meet the judge. I need your help, just the way we worked it out. Barbara, we still have a few minutes and the courthouse is only across the street. Yes? Well, there's something I must tell you. What's that, Mr. Valentine? Suppose we go into this little park and sit down. Penny wouldn't even walk down here with me. She insisted on walking with Miss Brooks a half a block behind us. What chance do I have? Let's wait and see, honey. Chimes from the tower over there. They're beautiful, aren't they? Yes. What did you want to say, Mr. Valentine? I'd like to see the judge and get this over with. Please, Barbara. Oh, it's chimes. They make me feel like praying. It's been such a long time since I've prayed. This is only one thing I want. What I've got to say can wait, Barbara. Why don't we both just sit here and listen to the chimes for a while? Dear Lord, if I can't have Penny, I'd be happy wherever she is. And if the only thing that will really make her happy is to forget that I was ever her mother, I'd be that way, too. Oh, yes. Barbara, this is what I wanted to tell you. I found out today why Jerry killed himself. What? He stole $20,000 from Dunlap and Garrett. Oh, no. That's the truth. And his mother covered for him just as she did every other time he got into trouble. I don't believe it. You're lying. Penny, what's she doing here? I didn't know she... Oh, never mind. Oh, Mr. Valentine. I'm sorry. I thought if Claire brought Penny here... No, whatever slight chance I had is gone. But it doesn't matter. Judge Blanchard's already made up his mind. Let's go and get the formalities over with. Come here, dear. Yes, Judge Blanchard? The last time we were together about a year ago, I had to make the decision about you and your mother. Now it's up to you. I know. Don't be frightened, Penny. Tell the judge how you feel. Yes, Grandma. There's nothing I'd like to say, Judge Blanchard. Please, Mr. Valentine, what else is there to say? You can see the nervous state of this child and it'll be a crime to let her stay with her mother. But, Penny, go on, Mr. Valentine. Okay, but I'm not through. Take it easy, darling.  And you're old enough to know whom you'd like to live with. Well... Don't be afraid to talk to the judge, Penny. I would like to... Go on. I want to go home and live with my mother. Oh, mother, mother, Penny. My baby. I heard what you said when you were over there in the park. That it would be better if I forgot all about you if it would make me happy. Now, Hush, darling, that doesn't matter now. I kept thinking about it. Somehow I know what Mr. Valentine said about father is true. Oh, mother! Mother, in the whole years since you called me that. Judge Blanchard, I don't know what came over, Penny, but certainly we can't forgive this woman's scandalous behavior. Don't you dare talk about my mother that way. Penny, what are you saying? Couldn't we go home now? Together, Mommy? Judge? I think you can decide the way your heart's telling you too, Judge Blanchard. And if we can have a few minutes alone, I think we'll even be able to satisfy the law. Yes, Judge Blanchard. Leonard hired Dan Edwards to have Barbara conveniently drugged that night. But what would be Leonard Ebersole's reason for doing anything like that? Well, the old girl was prepared to leave her entire fortune to Penny if she could get her legal custody. Leonard wanted to be in the position to administer the estate. After all, Penny doesn't come of age for nine years. But what about this check to Dan Edwards that you said it was signed by Mrs. Ebersole? Some fancy blackmail, Judge. When Edwards was through with Leonard, he started on his mother. The Ebersole? Hard to believe. George, how did you suspect Leonard? Edwards never graduated from Denfield with Jerry. In a college yearbook, it was Ebersole and then Eggleston. No Edwards. Then who could have told Edwards about that little escapade Jerry had in his senior year? The one with the chapel bell. Well, that was all hushed up, Bruxy. But I never knew about it. It had to be Leonard. Pretty good work, Valentine. You know, when I was district attorney, I would have a job for you. Oh, well, thanks. George may be able to return the compliment and have a job for you someday soon, Judge. I hope. Oh, of course, we could go to a church. Oh. Oh, no. I'll be more than glad to say the all-important words, Miss Brooks. Oh, wait a minute. Now who's getting framed? Come on, Bruxy. I'd be willing to bet there's not one car owner in a thousand who could lubricate his car thoroughly. For there are more than 20 vital wear points on the average car, and if most of us tried to find them, it would be pure guesswork. Even the expert lube men at independent chevron gas stations and standard stations don't rely on experience alone when they grease your car. 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Hello, I welcome you all once again to my channel, Explore Education and I am Dr. Rashmi Singh, Assistant Professor, Department of Education, S.S. Khanna Girls from the college, University of Allahabad and we are discussing the topic topics under educational psychology nowadays. And today I'm going to discuss a new topic under the main heading of educational psychology that is problem solving. When we are learning about critical thinking, creativity, thinking styles, then a topic emerge, problem solving. It is a very unique, you can say and not so complex topic, but many questions have been asked from this topic. So today I'm going to cover this topic of educational psychology that is problem solving behavior or you can say problem solving skills in psychology. And the lecture will be in bilingual mode and very useful as useful. So let's start. First of all, problem solving means problem solving. Hindi means problem solving. So the causal meaning of problem solving means how does a person solve the problem in his brain. What are the steps of problem solving? The problem is how does a person reach the stage of thinking? What is the level of his hierarchy? Problem solving is a very good strategy, so how do we implement it in the classroom? What are the factors that come in the path of problem solving? Means they work like obstacles. We will learn all this in the lecture. So what is problem solving? The process by which individuals attempt to overcome difficulties. It is simple that first there should be a problem, then its solution will be done. So that process in which individuals try to overcome any problems, go up. And achieve plans that move them from a starting situation to the desired goal. And they do planning, they make plans so that they reach their goal. And then reach conclusions through the use of higher mental functions. There are a lot of mental sanctions involved in that. That means from here we have come to know that problem solving brings a higher stage in the thinking stage. Such as reasoning and creative thinking. Like the word Tarik, the word Srijanatmak, the word Chintan. So problem solving is seen in non-human animals also. Even your psychology, your behavioural practical, experimented. They are all involved in non-human, in laboratory, in control condition. Involving mages, like the riddles, they have to get out, they have to get food. So what have they done? And other tests as well as in natural settings to obtain hidden foods. The food that is hidden, the food that has to be found, the way that has to be found. So they solved the problem in all this too. Then a deliberate and purposeful act. The biggest thing is deliberate act. Problem solving is not done. We have to actively work for that. Purposeful, that is the purposeful act on the part of an individual. On the part of an individual to realise the set goals and objectives by inventing some novel methods. We have to think something unique, something new. That is why creativity is also involved. Creative thinking is also coming. Stimatically following some plan steps for the removal of the interferences and obstacles in the path of the realisation of these goals. That is to say, whatever goal, whatever goal we have to reach, what do we have to do for that? We have to remove obstacles, obstacles, obstacles from some planned step. Or we have to think something uniquely and in a novel way. When usual methods like trial and error, habit formation and conditioning fail. I am so sorry. So problem solving, when do we have to use it? When the trial and error is not working. Habit formation means that we are not able to solve the problem with the habit formation. Or our conditioning is also failing. Then problem solving, that is, problem solving is somewhere higher mental thinking. That is all I understood from here. Now let's come to the definition. Let's see some definitions. For example, Woodsworth and Markowitz define this. Problem solving behavior occurs in the novel or difficult situations. Novel means a new situation. A situation that we have not experienced before. Difficult situation, difficult situation. In which a solution is not obtainable by the habitual methods of applying concepts and principles derived from past experiences in a very similar situation. I mean, in a similar situation, if our experience is something like this, then we usually solve it in a way that does not mean a solution. This means problem solving behavior is a difficult situation for us. It is a new situation for us. We have never had such a problem before. That problem is solved. That is, higher mental functions will be involved. We have to think in a novel way. You will not be able to do any habit. Then, Skinner. Skinner is saying that problem solving is a process of overcoming difficulties that appear to interfere with the attainment of a goal. That is, we have a goal here, but there are many obstacles to reach the goal. What is the name of it? And it is a procedure of making adjustments in spite of interferences. That is, despite the obstacles, we will have to make adjustments in the process of making adjustments. Then, how is Mayor and Wittrock defining this? Somewhat less open-ended than creative thinking. In creative thinking, what does it mean? Divergent thinking. That is, you can find the answers to all the problems that can be found in creative thinking. Creative thinking is only a little less open-ended. It is open-ended. Creativity will be involved in this. Problem solving, the analysis and solution of tasks or situations that are complex or ambiguous and that pose difficulties or obstacles of some kind. That is, creative thinking is only a little less open-ended. In this, we will have to do analysis. We will have to find a solution for the task situations that are very complex and ambiguous. That is, we are not clearly defined. And the difficulties that we are facing, we are facing problems, we are facing obstacles. Where are we going? For whom? To reach the goal. So, what is problem solving? I wanted to make you recall this. In Gain, I have taught you Robert Gadney's hierarchy of learning. In that, his steps of instruction are also read. According to the hierarchy, he is saying that this is not a signal learning. Our level of complexity is increasing here. The bottom is the simplest and the top is the toughest. So, signal learning, then SR learning. When SR is connected to each other in SR learning, then it becomes a chain. After the chain, it becomes a verbal association. Then we learn to differentiate it. So, it becomes a multiple discrimination. When we want to learn multiple discriminations, it means that our concept is formed. That is, we can define that this concept is different from this concept. Then this rule learning is called principle learning. That is, learning of concept and learning of principles are also in your syllabus. So, concept learning comes first, then principle learning comes. And what is the highest level of problem solving? That is, you have to understand that problem solving is based on the topmost position of hierarchy in thinking. That is, this is the most difficult to think of. So, what they are saying starts from here. That is, multiple discrimination, concept learning, principle learning and problem solving. These are the cognitive aspects of thinking. And signal learning, SR learning, chaining, up to your verbal association, these are behavioral aspects. So, we understand that in all these behaviors, we have studied SR, concept, chaining and conditioning. So, this is just to recall you that problem solving actually doesn't lie. I have told you this, otherwise you can listen to the video again. There are steps in effective problem solving. How do we solve the problem? Or if we have to teach students the capacity of problem solving, when they have to be there, what should we tell them? How do you have to go? How do you have to lead them? So, John Brantford and Barry Steen told us 5 steps in 1984. Advocated 5 steps that are basically associated with the task of problem solving. That is, the goals of the society are related to them. They refer to these steps as ideal thinking and arrange them in the following order. They gave it the abbreviation of ideal. That is, there is also an ideal thinking in itself. And if we only remember the ideal, we will remember the steps. Like, I for identifying the problem. That is, first of all, we have to identify the problem. That is, first of all, we have to know what the problem is. Then D, defining and representing the problem. When we recognize the problem, what do we have to do? We have to change it. What do we want to study? What do we want to find out? Then what is E? Exploring possible strategies. That is, now we have to work on a lot of strategies. If we work on one strategy, then that strategy may not work. So, we have to take a lot of options. This may be the solution. This may be the solution. Exploring possible strategies. As many strategies as possible, we will have to work on them. We will have to study them. We will have to explore them. And A, acting on these strategies. Now, we have a problem. The problem has been solved. We have worked on a lot of strategies. Now, we have explored the strategy. Now, what are we going to do? We will work on the strategy. Then L is looking back and evaluating the effects of one's activity. That is, you can call it a follow-up stage. You can call it an evaluation stage. We have to look back and see where we are going. Where are we going? And how fruitful are the solutions that we have come to? Then, factors affecting problems. What are the factors that affect the problem? What are the factors that affect the problem? You can say that there are obstacles in learning the problem. So, the first thing is that factors inherent in the nature of the problem itself. The problem is in the nature of the problem. Or it is the same thing. The problem is ill-defined. If you are not aware of the ill-defined problem, then you will never be able to answer the question. This means that the problem should be clearly worded. It should be concise. It should be precise. It should be non-ambiguous. So, we can deal with this factor on a level. But what is the second important level? Factors associated with the problem solver. That is, who is the problem solver? He is a student. He is our subject. We are ourselves. So, we ourselves are the problem solvers. So, what are the factors that create obstacles in inherent and problem solving? First of all, the level of previous learning. As we have said, in subsumption learning, we should have a level of previous learning. We will not learn from it. So, the level of previous learning is very bad. It is bad. If you are not aware of it, then you will not be able to solve the problem. That is why the problem is being solved. Then, the interest and motivation level of the students. You are not interested in that subject. You are not interested in that subject. So, we do not believe in solving the problem. The students who are very interested in maths, are interested in reasoning. They feel that they have asked questions about maths all day. They feel that they are self-motivated to do it. The mind in the computer. And the mind is not interested in it. And now, both the students are not interested in it. Then, the problem solving will not be possible. Then, understanding and analysis of the problem. We have to understand the problem, whether it has been asked or not. We have to investigate whether it has been solved. This will also tell us that the problem will be solved by now. Mental set or functional fixedness. These are the two points that need further elaboration. I will tell you in the future. The mental and physical state of the problem solving. Our mental state is very bad. We are feeling mentally low, physically low. So, in spite of this, we are very competent. We will not be able to solve the problem. And the time spent on solving the problem. If we get very little time, and the problem is very complex, we will not be able to solve it. In spite of this, we have the ability to solve it. So, these are the two points. The most psychological concept. You can say that mental set or functional fixedness. The factors that are obstacle to the problem solving. And to solve the problem solving. We create uneasiness. What is mental set? What is mental set? A tendency to only see solutions that have worked in the past. That is, our mental set. We believe that we are very rigid. That we only want to see the solution from that angle. Like we first got that solution. That means that we first got that problem. So, the way we got the solution, we fix ourselves. We stop ourselves. We make a set. That the problem will be solved in the same way. So, what did we do with thinking? We fixed it. We rigid it. What do we do with thinking? We have to keep a novel. We have to make something new. We have to think differently. So, the problem will be solved. So, this type of fixed thinking can make it difficult to come up with solutions. That is, if we want to think in this way, then we will have a problem in finding a new solution. And can impede the problem solving process. So, the problem that is going on in our mind will be solved later. And this phenomena is also known as the iron-stay lung effect. And this phenomena is known as iron-stay lung effect. When the brain, the individual, and the mental set is made. We had this problem. In the last examination, we performed it wrongly. So, we came out of this way. This solution worked. So, whenever there is a problem like this, we feel that this solution will work. But it does not happen. Every time, we have to think in a different way. Some situations change. So, we change the solution as well. Similarly, functional fixedness. Functional fixedness is what is called a cognitive bias. See how good the word is. Bias, we are there. But not cognitive bias. In the mind, we have taken that bias. Like this means that once the brain is used to thinking of a particular thinking in a specific way. That is, our brain is used to whenever there is a problem, we think in the same way and it is solved in the same way. Both are very similar to each other. Which limits your ability to think of it in a new or innovative way. So, what happens is that the thought that we have to think in a new way is limited somewhere. Because we feel that every time we think the same way, the solution will come out. It is the perceived inability of someone. That is, this is our ability that we perceive to use an object for something other than its original intended purpose. Right? You can say that there is a lot of creativity in this. That we have accepted that any object has an intended purpose. Meaning, for which it is made, it will be used in the same way. It will be fixed in our mind. We cannot think that it has a different utilization. It can be thought in a different way. It can be used in a different way. This is functional fixedness. So, these two feelings that if you are with a problem solver, then that problem solving capacity will not be able to solve well. And that problem solving will not be able to solve. We can. Then, useful strategies for problem solving. What should we do? What should we learn? Who has practiced their students in the class so that they can solve problems. Algorithms and heuristics. These two are very popular. Other than that, there are many other things that you should know. What is an algorithm? An algorithm is a problem solving formula. Look, this is a problem solving formula. It provides you with step-by-step instructions used to achieve a desired outcome. That is, it tells us step-by-step, it gives us an idea so that we can get to desired outcome. One can think of an algorithm as a recipe with highly detailed instructions that produce the same result every time they are performed. Look, the algorithm is also in our computer. In its Google Chrome. As soon as we search, it gives us so many results. We meet them. Every time. Same set of results. Same set of performances. So it helps us to get to desired outcome. If we don't know the whole thing and only know that much, we reach our solution. Because it helped us. Then what are the heuristics? The algorithm must be followed exactly to produce a correct result. The algorithm must be followed in the same way. Then we will reach the correct result. But in heuristics, it is a general problem solving framework. It can be used in many places. For general problem solving. You can think of these as mental shortcuts that are used to solve problems. These are mental shortcuts. We don't have to think too much. We know the rule of thumb. The rule of thumb is an example of heuristics. We have to do this. We don't look at the logic behind it. We don't look at theory behind it. We don't look at practice. We know the rule of thumb. This is the problem. This is the solution. This is the problem. This is the solution. This is a mental shortcut. Working backwards is a useful heuristic. If we focus on working backwards, we focus on the end result. We focus on the processes of the seed. We focus on the focus. But we will reach the solution of the problem soon. Similarly, another useful heuristic is the practice of accomplishing a large goal. We have taken a very big goal. How will we achieve the whole goal? What should we do? We should break it. We should make it. First we will achieve it. Then we will achieve it. Then we will achieve it. Then we will achieve a large goal. Another useful heuristic is the practice of accomplishing a large goal and task by breaking it into a series of smaller steps. We will cross the small steps. Then we will achieve a big goal. I think I have covered. Okay. What are the things to know in problem solving? The problem solving is the highest level according to the hierarchy of knowledge. That is, these mental higher mental functions are involved in it. Then we have to teach the students the capacity of problem solving. The ideal of problem solving is first we will identify, then we will define, then we will explore, then we will act. Then we will look backward in the end. Then after that, what are our many things? Problems are factors in which the mental set of functional fixness is most important, popular factor. Apart from that, there are many factors. So what should we do? We should overcome these factors. And strategies, algorithm, heuristics, and anything else are there. Like abstraction. What is abstraction? It refers to solving the problem within a model of the situation before applying it to reality. That is, before we go into the real world, we should apply a model to it. If we feel, yes, this is workable, then we should apply it to reality. Analogy. Using a solution that solves a similar problem. If we find that solution in a similar problem, then we bring that solution here and see if it can be solved. Divide and concord. That means a big circle, divide it into small parts and one by one. Lateral thinking. Approaching problems indirectly and creatively by viewing the problem in a new light. There are many times where we do not get the solution in the same way. But suddenly, in a novel and creative way, we have to see it in a new light. We have to see it in a new light. We have to see it in a new way. We feel that this is the solution. Means and analysis. Choosing and analyzing an action at a series of smaller steps to move closer to the goal. Reduction. We will reduce it. How? Adapting the problem to similar problems where the solution exists. What do we do? We bring this problem into the adaptation of a similar problem. We make it cool. We know the solution of it. If we do not know the solution of our problem, we take it into the same solution. We know the solution. Then we apply the findings of research. Root cause analysis will be reduced. What is the root cause? If the root cause is reduced, then the problem will be solved. There are numerous strategies that are useful in solving problems. Okay. There is a small topic. But if anything is asked, then we will not be able to tell where is the gain, what is the higher, what is the ability to use. Who described which are the steps. What is the last step? What are the functional fix-nits?  There are many things. And in the subject, I ask a lot of short notes. Right short notes on problem solving and problem solving skills. How do you inculcate the skill of problem solving in your student service? There are many questions about the application. So, you read it. Read it. Okay. So, sorry. Thank you. And don't forget to like and subscribe my channel. And join my telegram group. Explore Education 2. Okay. Done for my essay.


Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to Fenway Park. Dante Luna and the Bell Time Club present. New England All-Stars of Wrestling. We're going to be kicking things here today with the Green Monster Challenge. Thank you, Pa. I'm beyond excited for this Green Monster Challenge here. We've got two teams forming on each team. We've got eight of New England's hardest up-and-coming stars here. We're starting off here at the ring with Nick Westgate. No, now Alec Parnell takes the tag in. Nice wrist lock here. A student of Bo Douglas over at the Bell Time Club. Squaring off here with Eric Dillon starting the bell. Oh, poke to the eye. Right away, folks. Look at this. I used to like this guy. I don't know what happened. Apparently he's taking a new leaf over. Crowd here at Historic Fenway Park ready for some wrestling action. Oh, this isn't even half the crowd we're going to have later. People are still pouring here into the Latino family festival here. Tagging to Foxy Calvin Campbell. I don't know what the ref's doing, though. One man in, one man out. That's always how it's been. They got some Foxy ring attire there for our friend Calvin. Get the tag in now. Looks like he just got his hair done. I guess that's why he was late. See some smart tag team wrestling here cutting the ring in half. Absolutely. There's classic tactics here. Parnell is also the least experienced member of his team which is something to point out. It's something I assume they're going to look to take advantage of. Jacobi takes the tag in for his team. Oh, look at this. Riddick asking for it.  He has been up and down for a while now. He's got a clear mean streak. Oh my goodness. There's that Japanese influence he picks up from Jake Reddy. And there goes, we've got a first elimination. Here comes Ty Shun. Two big arm drags. Wait, what happened Alec? I looked away. What happened? We had our first elimination. My goodness. Brutal neck raker. Eric Dillon in to make the save for his team. Ty Shun self-proclaimed best eyebrows in the game. Let me take a look. Not bad. Not bad. I can, I can dig it. Tagging the old school pool. Oh, still just two off the double hip toss. I tell you I'm impressed with old school cool and his ability to wrestle with that hat on. That's true. That hat has not moved an inch. Nick Westgate back into the ring for his team. Oh, I don't like what he's doing to Jacobi's shoulder. I don't like this at all. What has he got playing? Oh man, leg drop across the leg maintains control. Jacobi needs a tag. I don't like the way. I don't like the way his arms bend him right now. Oh, come on. Leave him alone. That's not. Okay, good. Come on, Jacobi. Maintaining firm control. Tie shot with the tag back in. Clear size difference here. Oh, very much so. Irish whip into the ropes. Oh, that's what I'm saying. The educated feet of Jacobi. Oh, went low. He has some very solid training under his belt. Hey, we see the unorthodox shoes. Why doesn't he have shoes? The unorthodox style of Mr. Eric Dillon. Did you steal his shoes? Shade the Kevin Von Erich. Apparently. Oh, come on. That's just disrespectful. That is just a disrespectful maneuver. That could be it, folks. Oh no, just two shoulders up. Shine out. Oh man, how's your burger, dude? Comes old school cool. It's going to make the tags. I'll tell you, for two teams who aren't used to working together, they're definitely using some smart, scientific tag team formula here. Absolutely. Cutting the ring in half. Making quick tags in and out. Keeping everybody fresh. Come on. Tactics clearly working. First into a pit. No, still just two. Old school cool getting the shoulder up. Eric Dillon's going to bring them back to his own corner. Step back into my man, Kevin. Kevin Cartwright here. Looks to maintain control for his team. Oh, blatant choke on the ropes. Get the referee in there to make that count. Listen, this is a family festival. We don't need activities like this. There's no reason this can't be... Oh, and there goes the hat. Disrespectful son of a... There's going to be retribution for that hat. I'm telling you, there's going to be retribution for the hat. We're going to have to see how old school cool can handle the pressure of wrestling without his hat. He's got his arm in a bad way right... Oh, man! I don't know if you ever add your elbow stomped on like that, but you feel that for weeks afterwards. Oh, textbook suplex. Into the pin. Still just two. Tag back into Nick Westgate.  I don't know what he's going for. Beautiful drop kick. Picture-perfect drop kick they have about Westgate. Oh, he's got something else in mind though. Oh, beautiful suplex. Oh, quick look over the opposing team. He's letting them know what's up. I like the mos... I like the mosquisee. A real mensch. Say the Green Monster Challenge. Oh, Vichinoku Driver from Thai Shine. Green Monster Challenge. Oh, I'm not enough to put my man Kevin away though. Given the fans here at Historic Fenway Park, a real treat. They're still filing in here. The crowd is just getting bigger and bigger as we go here. Here we go, Thai Shine in a world of trouble now. In the wrong part of town. A big elbow from Jacoby in the corner. Oh, what is this? What shenanigans going on in the corner? Come on, ref. I know you're trained. You know what to do here. Get him out of there. Oh, small package. One, two, three. He got him. And Jacoby Riddick has been eliminated. Oh, and a cheap shot. A quick shot. Oh my God, I love it. A nice kick to the face. And Jacoby Riddick has been eliminated from the Green Monster Challenge. Oh, big back job, Driver. And that's going to be a three on Thai Shine. He's going back. Oh, big kick to the face from Old School Cool. That's smart, taking advantage. Oh, big line off the ropes. Oh, he's ready for more. Nice heel kick there by Old School Cool. Right under the chin. He doesn't know where he's at right now.  Into the corner now, big elbow. Snaps him over. Cartwheel. Oh, kick it off the face. This could be it, folks. Let's see. No, shoulder up, not enough. Come on, Kevin, get the tag. I just realized we currently have a three on two situation. We have an uphill battle here for Old School Cool and Dick Westgate. Oh, it rakes the eyes. Again, again. Westgate down hard. It's going to be a one, two, no. No, it's going to take more than that to put Westgate away. He's been around this game for way too long to go down to a simple leverage maneuver like that. Mr. Dillon back in the ring. Quick roll up. Not enough to put away Westgate. Oh, big club to the side of the ear. Old School Cool and Westgate. Shaking right back to the ropes. Now have to deal with two fresh opponents on the outside who've had ample time to rest. You're right. There's a clear advantage building here. The elbow catches him on the dive. Backbreaker. I think he's going away for a ride. Oh, there he goes. You fall away slam by Westgate. Oh, he's going up, folks. Oh, and the crowd here at Fenway Park is ready. What's he looking for? Going airborne. Hey, what are they doing? Hit. Another elimination off the frog ledge. Dick Westgate has pinned Eric down. We are down to a classic tag team setup here, folks, two on two. As the Foxy won, Calvin Campbell puts the boots. These guys want to win. They've been choking on the ropes, hitting people from behind, choking while they're in their corner. They don't care. They want to win at Fenway Park. This means something to them right now. Well, this is history in the making here, folks. Professional wrestling here at Historic Fenway Park. Wrestling all starts in New England. They definitely have a point to prove. Our second annual outing here. Again, Dante Luna, thank you for bringing wrestling to Fenway Park with the Bell Time Club. Oh, look at this. One, two, three. Oh, we got him. And we are down to two on one as Old School Cool. Back into the ring. Wait, is Foxy on his own? It looks like. Foxy, Calvin Campbell is going to look to finish this match by himself. Luckily, he has spent the least time in the ring out of all of his entire team. He is the fractious man in this whole match. The Foxy won us at ample times of wrestling. We see a big elbow drop over the pinfall. One, two, not enough. No, not enough to put away Old School Cool. Oh, the hat is back on. Hat back on. Let's see what kind of an effect that's going to have on Old School Cool now. I'll tell you, that's going to give him the power he needs. That's where he gets his energy. Let's not forget we have a.  No, not enough, not enough. Shoulders up. Oh, vicious clothesline there by the Foxy one. Right across the throat. One, two, not enough. He's going to be sucking wind after that. Look at this. Nick Westgate dawning Old School Cool's red leather hat. Oh, he's feeling the power. You see it. He's getting psyched up. Here we go. The crowd's getting into it now. Give him the hat back. Give him the hat back. He needs his power. It's the vicious neck breaking. Let's see if this could be it folks. One, two, no. Old School Cool is up. Nick Westgate. No, he keeps getting back to his feet over and over. Oh, and we got a slugfest here folks. I just cut myself off there. I got a little shocked by the way these two are swinging at each other. I think some teeth might be flying into the front row in a second. Folks, the Green Monster Challenge has deteriorated into a slugfest. I don't know man. This is what I like to see. Just two dudes hitting each other in the face. I mean for my money I can't get anything better than that. These men pulling out all the stops for the big win here at Fenway Park folks. You see the grimace on his face now. Fatigue clearly starting to catch up with him. He's got to get that tag to Westgate. Can't get the pinstalls. Look at that tag. Just barely. Barely getting that shoulder up. Calvin's by himself. He got to reiterate this point. Calvin is in this ring by himself. I do not know what he calls that. Innovative offense there folks. And that is it. Coming from behind. He's even this up. This is now a one-on-one contest. Next pinfall wins the opening contest. It is Eric Westgate. That's the line. Oh big backdrop. Oh man. What is he doing? Oh stay down son. Stay down. Oh folks. A little you can't see me. Shades of the hole. Five knuckles shuffle. There we go. Who would have thought we'd have seen a five knuckles shuffle. It might be the hat. Oh what's he going for? Climans carry. A little attitude. The attitude adjustment. One, two, three. That's three. Nick Westgate wins. Nick Westgate wins the opening contest here. New England All-Stars are wrestling. Dante Luna, the bell time club. Welcome everybody to Fenway Park.


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Well, hello and welcome to Jonathan from the Heart. I'm Jonathan Assey of JonathanAssey.com and I'm so excited to be doing this short video for you today. The topic, do this to hook them in the early stage of the relationship. You're going to do a couple things I'm going to share with you today. Really quickly, if you're brand new to my YouTube channel, please hit the subscribe button, hit the bell so you could be notified of new videos. And if any time during this video the content resonates with you, please hit that like button so I can be seen in the YouTube algorithms. Really quickly, these are my weekend videos I shoot out on my balcony, very similar to the videos I shoot in my private group called Midlife Love Mastery. This is a group where you can have direct access to me on a regular basis and based on the questions you post in the group, I shoot personalized videos just for you. So check out the link below to my VIP group called Midlife Love Mastery. All right, let's talk about getting a guy hooked in the early stage of dating. Now, let's just be candid with one another. Dating is a mess out there. It is a total mess out there and it seems as though both men and women are barely making effort with one another or it might seem like one person is making more effort than the other which creates an imbalance and that's why a lot of relationships just aren't taking off, they're just not taking off. Now, in full transparency, I actually saw this title on one of my contemporaries pages, Matthew Hussey, I'll be candid with you. And I like his work and I'm sharing this publicly, I like his work because much of what he talks about is centered around making mutual effort. So it's not that lopsided type of effort and this is one of the reasons why folks, I continually criticize the feminine energy perspective because it's all predicated on the idea that the man does all this heroic work to get you and basically all you have to do is sit in your feminine energy which is a passivity way of approaching relationships or what I call a princess energy way of approaching a relationship and this is why, especially if you're in the midlife category, this is backfiring on you and men are actually getting turned off. Now ladies, I know my channel since it's mostly women, I know that you're absolutely frustrated with men and I think it's important to, let me go off on a tangent here for a second because I was watching, I was watching a movie the other night Pride and Prejudice and the reason was I posted a, I had a post that said what's your favorite movie and a lot of women posted Pride and Prejudice so I went and watched it. And it's just this idyllic fantasy way of looking at relationships for a couple different reasons. First off, these were more, the people in the movie were the richer, the upper class folks and it didn't really represent the entire population of England at that time which is actually quite, most, the reality is even here in the United States, the 80% of the population makes less than $100,000 a year and I'm only going back to Pride and Prejudice. It was like looking at people that lived in Beverly Hills or they lived in Orange County or they lived in New York City, it was like the affluent wasn't the average. And the other thing that frustrates me about this movie and the fantasy that it creates is there, you take Darcy who is this emotionally unavailable guy who finally opens up and wins her heart and there's Bing Lee and there's Jane and then there's Mr. Collins and all this stuff and for those that haven't watched the movie you're not going to understand but my point is, back then all it took to get married was if two people were attracted to one another they'd literally got hitched right away or worse if you were a woman who didn't have any means or beauty you just had to accept whatever you got. So I'm just saying these narratives don't apply in today's world and primarily because here's the challenge with dating today that didn't exist 60, 70 years ago. The challenge today for the most part is that we're meeting total strangers. We're meeting total strangers because we're using for the most part people are meeting through these devices so why I'm pointing this out is when you're meeting a total stranger there isn't much trust built between the two of you. In fact there's little or no trust and because the dating process hyper focuses on chemistry and romance for hooking each other a lot of times you find yourself you might find yourself attracted to someone who you may not even be interested in. You might be hooked in someone who may be a terrible fit for you. This is why I'm a big proponent of shifting the narrative in the early stages of dating by getting to actually know someone. If you're not familiar with the book I keep talking about this in my live videos. It's called Talking to Strangers, Getting to Know the People You Don't Know. Why I'm recommending this book is I want to help. The conversation I'm attempting to present to the world is that to create a sense of awareness and intentionality in the dating process. I'm going to create that to create a sense of intentionality and awareness in the dating process and what I mean to say is understanding that chemistry which is incredibly I mean just intoxicating is not an indicator of relationship success. If you're not familiar with my relationship iceberg I talk about this almost in every video I want you to look at this real quick. Above the waterline is the word chemistry and we we say attraction you know that's what we're usually connected with is chemistry. Below the waterline is shared values blendable lifestyles and emotional maturity that's where compatibility lies and why this is so critically important to understand you know think about it these days it's so easy to get physically intimate with someone and you know nothing about them you could you know it's interesting you know how many how many men ever not I'm not talking about you out there but think about how many times a woman might select with a man doesn't know his favorite color doesn't know his birthday doesn't even know his last name and I'm sorry that sounds so you know why is that important because when you engage with the total physically with a total stranger it might hook you emotionally to someone and then if it doesn't work out it can feel like an emotional collapse this is why for those who watch my channel I continually recommend reading my book what the heck is self-love anyway what the heck is self-love anyway by the way there's a link to all the books I recommend below and why I'm recommending my book is because it's a vaccination to emotional chaos so you don't allow yourself to get overly invested in somebody you don't know yet so how do we shift this narrative how do we change this you know this way of operating I think first is coming to a sense of understanding understanding that you're meeting a total stranger now oftentimes the dating process is more like a job interview you know he's interviewing for the job of your boyfriend and you're interviewing him for the job of his right you're interviewing him the job for your boyfriend and he's interviewing you for the job of your girlfriend but the problem is that's a lopsided way of doing it now you might be thinking but Jonathan you talk about interviewing all the time that is true and what I mean to say lopsided is oftentimes the person that's doing the interviewing thinks that they're in this power position and the other person is the subservient okay and by the way men are doing the same thing now I don't believe this is conscious I think this is unconsciously happening okay to some degree for those who actually want a relationship the real issue let me just say the real issue today is so many dysfunctional people are and by the way I'm dysfunctional myself so I'm not you know I'm not excluding myself from this most humans today are really thirsty for connection without any real capacity to be in relationship I'm going to repeat that they're thirsty for connection without any real strong capacity to be in relationship because most humans lack a sense of emotional maturity if you're not familiar with my emotion of being excuse me relationship skills if you're not familiar with my chart on emotional maturity relationship skills by the way this is not a fact this is an opinion by the way a big I say I say roughly 20% of the population has clinical issues and then 60% is rather dysfunctional in their capacity to be in relationship I'm talking about their relationship skills so it's no wonder it's a mess out there so how do we shift this narrative how do we actually bring two people closer together well I want to start by suggesting is that we have to look at we have to stop looking at it from a job interview perspective and start looking at it from the perspective of let me give you an example of say two lawyers that are deciding that they're going to partner up with one another two lawyers that they want to be in a partnership together think about that for a second the way you would approach that person is not a one up one down type of thing and let me give you an example of one up one down the man is the leader of relationship the woman is the subservient person in the relationship the man plans all the dates and the woman just accepts all the date that's a one up one down a partnership is looking at it from a two lane street in other words you're driving your cars together in fact I read a business book years ago and I think this is a fantastic book to consider from a relationship perspective it's called partnership charter how to start outright with your new business partner now this isn't a relationship but this is a business book why am I recommending this it's because it's it's shifting the narrative the traditional narrative now I know many of you prefer the traditional narrative of the one up one down man is here woman is here although you don't like it you know say it silently you don't you're actually resistive but on some level there's this innate expectation on it I'm here to recommend a whole different way of approaching it think not thinking it from listen I'm not trying to suggest being analytical about it per se because you certainly this is about fun and and there and I'm certainly a big proponent of romance let me just say this I'm a big proponent of romance for two people that are in a relationship not trying to form a relationship that's where I differentiate because here's the real challenge is when we when we have expectation based on genders it's going to set you up set you up for failure this is why I continually recommend the book if the Buddha dated if the Buddha dated because it throws out the stupid stupid gender rhetoric and says how can we connect at a heart-centered level so coming back to my original when I shared that Matthew Hussie was the impetus for this video or the inspiration for this video and I said he's I like the way he coaches because he thinks about things from a mutual effort perspective so if you really want to get a guy hooked in you just recognize that most men are rather clueless to this and most men are winging it most men are winging it this is why if you first I highly recommend asking some really good questions before you ever meet for a date just to see if you're on the same page just to see if you're on the same page with one another asking questions like what does commitment look like for you what does a fully committed what does monogamy look like for you what does exclusivity look like for you is this something that you want in your life ask about do you share like for example value questions politics religion these are good questions to determine are you on the same page and this notion that opposites attract is a crock of shit oops I wasn't supposed to curse on my weekend videos my coffee mug says coffee tastes better when shared and my t-shirt is I've got your back and I'm going to share this is such an important by the way this is missing a back and this is the person holding the back and why this is important for this conversation because ultimately first off determining if you're on the same page it's hugely important because opposites do not attract number one well they I mean they they might attract it doesn't mean they're gonna be successful in relationship so being on the same page also making mutual effort in the process I once had a woman where we went on a date and it was time to pay for the second round of drinks and she picked she wanted to pick up the second round and I said no you don't have to it's on me you know that the masculine kind of thing you know being in control what not and she she put her hand when we we were kind of going back and forth on this and she put her hand on my arm and said Jonathan I really appreciated the first round of drinks were you know on you and I want to show you my appreciation by treating you this next round will you receive you know she's got her hand on my arm she's looking me in the eyes and saying will you receive this and I was floored in that moment because this is the actions of this person operated from a place of partnership perspective and not expectation-based and that's so by the way I did a post in a group of 15,000 men and I shared the story I just shared with you and you know what over a thousand men commented she's one of a kind she's a keeper don't let her go she's a unicorn my point is when you're making a quake when you're meeting strangers it's better that you both mutually make effort and not create the expectation around men so for example I know a lot of women complained to me they are frustrated that I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in a week and my response is have you reached out to him by the way folks you can lead by example you can lead by example and that's what I'm leaning into right now because ultimately if you want to get a person hooked on you in the early stage of dating then it's critically important to recognize these three things number one deeper communication builds intimacy I'm going to repeat that deeper communication builds intimacy intimacy is into me you see in other words by asking deeper questions with one another you can actually start talking from your heart and not from your head I'm going to repeat that talk from your heart and not from your head and what I mean by deeper questions I mean more emotionally important questions about someone's life by the way if you need help with those questions check out the link to a free discovery call with me to see if working with the coach is right for you because that's my area of expertise is to help you ask those questions number two it's significantly important to to have play in your relationship play in your relationship this is why folks the dating process of going out to fancy dinners or drinks and that sort of thing all is predicated on romance and not actual play so I was talking to a group of men recently and one man told me on his first date with with someone he went out with she had suggested going to the Santa Monica pier where there's carousels and all these rides and things like that because she wanted this was her request and he said absolutely and they got to play together folks men bond through social activities hobbies mutual interest spending time with family and friends that's how we eventually bond with someone we don't bond over the telephone this expectation of listen unless you're seeing each other a lot on a regular basis then it puts all the pressure on the telephone to build a relationship and men aren't necessarily best at that we we certainly in the beginning stages will be good on the telephone because we're trying to be physical with you but on an emotional level it requires spending regular time together to truly connect so I mean why I'm saying this if you want to get a guy hooked on you then it's going to happen then I invite I invite you to do make sure that you're doing social activities hobbies mutual interest spending time with family and friends and then the third piece I wanted to share with you oh is the understanding of trust is the understanding of trust folks most of the time we think of trust from the perspective of infidelity infidelity what I'm here to say is trust is really more does this person have my back does this person care about my feelings and do I care about their feelings coming back to the t-shirt and how that's going to be built is through some radical honesty so I highly recommend I've mentioned this before before two people sleep together get the book eight dates by doctors John and Julie Gottman and read this together this is a great opportunity to build trust with one another at least look it's going to take about a hundred hours of face to face time and then covering the things in this book to actually develop the first layer of trust because when you build the first layer of trust you can build upon that and just recognize relationships are going to have some friction this is why it's important to build those roots of trust early if you want to be have this kind of relationship where you're hooked with each other long-term instead of these fizzled out relationships so look at I covered a lot in this video I covered a lot in this video I'm here to say I know it's frustrating that it seems like it's all on the women to do this work and I'm here to suggest to you I get it it's frustrating but believe it or not when you introduce this stuff to the right guy they get hooked on you because they see you different than all the other women out there and that's the benefit of knowing this information because ultimately if you want to build this great partnership it's going to require both people being on the same page and what I shared through these books is a great opportunity for the two of you to get there so you can be hooked on each other is this making sense is this resonating with you please let me know post a comment below please share this video if it did resonate with you and I'm going to do my best to read them all the comments as well all right I'm going to wrap up this video as I always do first off giving myself a big gigantic John the bear hug of self love I'm going to reach into the camera and give you a hug of love that's okay I'm going to ask you to turn to someone a pet a teddy bear a pillow here's my teddy bear and give it or them a hug of love because hugs are a great source of love and let's face it we could all use more love in our lives bye now bye


Welcome to Church of the Chair where we have no idea why my t-shirt is glitching. I'm your host E, and today we're taking a trip to Boo-Yamoon. If you're new around here, I need to give you a warning. If you have not read all of Stephen King's books, I will be spoiling them in this series. So if you haven't read them all, I suggest you click away now. You've been warned. Today, we're talking about Leasy Story by Stephen King. So how does Leasy Story tie into the Stephen King universe and the Dark Tower series? Let's talk about that. The first thing I'll mention is the territories. The territories are mentioned in Leasy Story. They're also mentioned in The Wastelands and The Talisman, which Stephen King wrote with Peter Straub. I don't know why I was going to say Richard Bachman, but anyways, moving on. The town East Stoneman also shows up in Wolves of the Kala and Leasy Story. Now on to my theory. I feel like Boo-Yamoon, the place where Leasy travels in this book, is very similar, if not the exact same place as the place Mrs. Todd goes in Mrs. Todd's shortcut. It might even be the same location that Rosie goes to in Rose Matter, meaning that all three of those, I believe, these women travel to mid-world. I would also like to note, and this might be reaching. I will admit, I like to admit when it's reaching, but there's a lot of emphasis put on Tom Cullen and M-O-O-N. That spells Tom Cullen or M-O-O-N. That spells Nick, that kind of thing. And I know that there is significance for the moon in the stand, but also I can't help but feel like this might be the moon that Tom's talking about. And the reason I say that is because the moon in this one, Boo-Yamoon, the moon that Leasy sees, is in mid-world if my prior theory about Mrs. Todd's shortcut and Rose Matter holds water. But I would love to hear what you guys have to say about that down there in the comments. If Tom Cullen and M-O-O-N, that spells moon, might have a tie into Boo-Yamoon. But that's all the time I have for you today. If I missed anything, if you have any corrections for anything I said in this video, or if you have theories of your own about how Leasy's story ties into the Stephen King universe and the Dark Tower series, let me know down there in the comments. But until next time, Boo-Yamoon, So are you standing alone, Without a tear in your heart, Without a love of your own. I'll hail the chair.


What's going on everyone? Sam here with late in sports cards. We are ripping 2022 topscrone black baseball hobby 12 box case break number one random division style. Let me just change the name of the break. There you go. Here's looking again at your random results. As always you can find these on the website under the results tab as well as the link in chat. It's good luck everybody. Let's do it. Let me just get live on TikTok. All right let's do it. First look at this for the year. I'm pretty pumped man. It's going to be fun. 22.  Super frack there if some sort. It'd be really awesome. Oh nice design. Box design is very pretty. I like it. I like it a lot. It's going to be tough to flip out of here. All right good luck everybody. Let's do it. Do my best to cover the autos here. I like the color of the first one. Here we go. Start with our first pack. Got set beer rookie. Bobby Whit rookie. Nice one there. Not numbered. And purple Max Scherzer. Wow that looks great to 150. Congrats on that Mets ALR NL East. And we've got looks like orange coming up first. Yes it is of David Wright. 10 of 25 for the NL East. Nice one there. Congrats Scott F. Nice right man. That's pretty sweet. 10 of 25. Yeah colors are really nice I have to say. Colors have been very solid. Machado. Juan Yepas. Not everything just pretty much can be like the second third cards. Jose Ramirez. That's gold 32 out of 50 NL Central because it'll it'll usually go base then rookie of some sort and then color. So like the the last one had three rookies in it. That's one. And we've got second auto. It's going to be Tre Mancini going to the AL East. Congrats Sho F on the Mancini. Nice one there. I guess maybe for at least I sleep and talk about everything just for the first day. There's only one extra card. Max. Seya Suzuki rookie. Cody Bellinger base. And purple Dylan Carlson. That's 49 out of 150. Cool one there. So we may have another gold coming up as well. We've got gold Miguel Cabrera. 41 out of 50. Going to William H. in the AL Central. Nice Miggy. Dude that is sweet. Is it not on the schedule yet? Here I'm going to take a look for you really quick Ev. Was it Origins? You said at what time was it? What day was it supposed to be? Yeah I keep mad at this. Here it is. I'll drop you the link really quick Ev. I got it on my own. Sick Miggy dude. Love that card. Chuck Nasty. Blue Bob. And Brian De La Cruz on the refractor rookie to 199 for the AL East. The Marlins. Got green coming up now. It's going to be Jose Altuve. 8 out of 99. Here we go Al West. Chris C. Grats Chris on the Altuve. Bogarts. Salvi Perez. Nice. Green Atomic. Shohei Otani. 21 out of 99. AL West. Chris C. Pace it. Torkelson. Nice. There you go Max. Grats buddy. We've got Gold Speckle. Eloy Jimenez. 33 out of 50. Nice one there for the AL Central. William H. Grats William. Bryce Harper. Now Tray Young. Cal Raleigh. I would have drained it if it was Tray Young. Blue Yordan Alvarez. The 75 should have called me Jason Tatum. I'm not one. I would have been like if I was Jason Tatum I would have been like up lost the finals. Up not clutch. That's what it would have been. We've got Edgar Martinez. AL West. Nice one there for the Mariners. Chris C. Crack myself up dude. I really do.  A hood looking card. I'm assuming he meant to say good but it's also a hood looking card too. True. G and H are right next to each other on the keyboard so. Oh nice. You can get a mag for one of these. Lars Newport. Spencer Torkelson. And right behind it is a Gold Spencer Torkelson. 32 out of 50. Congrats on that. There you go AL Central. William H. Doing well with that spot man. Nice Tigers card so far. Mag that one for you man. We've got Rookie. That is CJ Abrams. 86 out of 150 for the NLS. There we go Derek. Congrats man. Nice Abrams. Lane was telling me apparently in black Abrams. His autos it's like triple threads. His autos are Padres but his base is Nationals. It's weird. Sharon Durand. Brandon Marsh. And Matt Manning. Nice one there. It's a 199. Fair shame. Fair. We've got Rookie Otto. Josh Lowe. Going to the AL East. Sho F. Jumping in again. Nice hit there man. Tobias. Jose Ramirez. And green Stephen Kwan. On the Rookie. There we go. That's 69 out of 99. Get the Kwan. Of Seth Beer. Going to the NLS again. There you go Derek. Doing well with that spot now. Two Rookie autos coming your way. This time Seth Beer. I've done that many times before. So you're good. Not only did I sleeve it but I topped it. O'Neil Cruz Rookie. Mookie Betts. And Orange. Starling Marte. 11 out of 25. Color match for the NLE East there. There you go Scott. Two oranges coming your way Scott. And we've got Andrew Jones. Nice one there. Braves NLE East. Love it.  It's so good. So good. It's not bad actually. Johnson 101. Reshempti Gold. That's very solid I have to say DK. There's Bobby Whit. Nick Ladolo. Green Atomic. Freddie Freeman. 44 out of 99 NLE West. And we've got Cabrion Hayes. Nice one there. On the second year. I'm assuming that's out of triple threads. The out of nine. And last box of break. Good luck everybody. Not going to do a recap on this one. Everything is a hit basically so no real reason to do a recap.  Purple Wander Franco. 48 out of 150. There we go. Congrats on that NLE East. Nice Wander. And JD Martinez. And we've got our last card of the break is NLCentral Paul Goldschmidt. Nice one there of the MVP. Congrats on that one. That'll do it for the break guys. Thanks again for the fill. That'll do it for me for group breaks this morning.