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What's up everybody welcome back to the channel I'm Evil Rabbit here on Forza Motorsports 7 we are in some Miata pro cup cars and we are here on Lime Rock and we are here to do a grip to drift build here today on this MX-5 definitely a pretty sweet MX-5 with the full digital cluster full roll cage and stuff like that so we are here just on Lime Rock just trying to grip race this thing right now and try not lose it at the same time and then we will be going into building this thing into a drift car because with the new angle kits pretty much any car can be turned into a drift car so as you can see we are in the MX-5 cup car which is definitely a pretty sweet Miata with the full cage digital dash sparkle wheel and everything like that so it is a car that I've been wanting to build into a drift car for a while and apparently I need should have turned the difficulty up on these guys because they are way back there I feel like I should slow down a little bit let them pass me and then have a little fun working my way through traffic because it is a spec cup race so there is a lot they are all you know Mazda cup cars but I feel like I must have turned the difficulty down because I am pretty much out driving these guys really easily trying to race clean and not hit them so this is something I've been wanting to do since the update came out and this car is a car I've tried to build a drift car on before but it just didn't have the angle that I needed to catch itself so we are going to do a full build on this probably a stock motor maybe a turbo and get that angle kit on here with the new update and build a nice little Miata cup drift car and yeah I definitely should have turned the difficulty up on these guys because apparently it's lower than I thought and I'm just out driving them pretty much in every corner so hey I tried to not hit you and you hit me so I do like the interior of this MX-5 because it's got the full digital cluster I wish it had an NRG wheel like my wheel setup does but it's got a spark code can't really change that so we are on our Logitech G920 with our energy innovations wheel as well as our energy innovations bucket seat hydraulic handbrake and sequential shifter but we don't need the handbrake in this one and he's not moving his hand this car automatic it's not even moved his hand to shift I could have been wrong oh apparently it's a paddle shifter minus the paddles that's kind of interesting so we are going to finish up this lap here in this MX-5 and then we are going to uh get in there and get a build on this car because I don't think this car will drift now we can always try it I mean if we tap the front that's not going to help so this thing is on pretty grippy tires because it is a you know a cup race car and um it doesn't have a lot of power so we're gonna have to uh cram more power into this car yeah as you can see the power is not there so we are gonna have to cram more power into this car and uh get that angle kit on there so that we can uh set this thing sideways and uh see if we can't get a good drift build on this car so like I said been wanting to do a build on this car for a while just haven't had the ability to because of the fact of the uh lack of steering angle which we now have fixed with the update so of course we took first on that one so we are going to go in there and get a build on this car and uh see if we can't get this thing sideways get some power out of this car we might have to do an engine swap who knows but uh I'll catch you guys when we get to the garage and uh we'll get this thing built up all right so let's see what we can do first here in the uh conversion aspect of it we can do an engine swap of course we can go up to v6 v8 or a 4 rotor uh we can do a turbo or a supercharger which would probably be doing a turbo on this car I don't think we can do any modifications on we can do a really big wing or we can take off the little duct spoiler but we'll leave it all on there so first thing we need to do is check out what tires and this thing is on sport tires that is why it is definitely gripping very well increase the fronts 235s increase the backs to 245s a little bit of a stagger and then uh throw on some interestingly uh light wheels hopefully I think I'm in the wrong aspect of light wheels do like the Yankees on there but I think we need something with a little bit of definition although five star gram lights we'll go with those so like I said we are doing a grip to drift build challenge to see what we can do with this car it is definitely a cool looking car on the inside with the full cage exposed roof gone so not a car you'd want to take into the rain but um you know it's forza we don't worry about it throw all these parts on there brakes hopefully it actually allows us to put your suspension up yep there it is angle kit yes I know and kick is me more steering angle install angle kit and this car is already light but we'll make it even lighter now let's see how much power we can get out of this thing on the stock motor because I am enjoying doing stock motor builds recently and not doing motor swaps so let's see what we can accomplish with this I mean it doesn't weigh much we're almost we're at like 300 we'll be at over 300 I think we will probably have to add a turbo to this thing and uh just give it a uh really big bump in horsepower because I think yep 360 we could give it a shot at what it is now and then we decide we need to add a turbo we can always add a turbo because we have the ability to add turbos in the game so we're gonna back out and we're gonna go to the tuning aspect of this car and uh get the suspension lowered and change our tire pressures up get everything to a baseline tune and then we will go from there we're gonna leave all that add a little bit so at high caster good steering angle slow these a little bit but not much because we're gonna see how it handles stock without adjustments on this angle kit a little bit higher in the front for uh nose diving for transitions and weight transfer definitely gonna have to drop these brakes down so we can maybe get a drag brake going for tandems if we can get some tandems we may take this on to an online session so that's why we did that and then we will put it on there and there we go that actually sits pretty pretty nice and low I do like it so we're gonna head to the track I'll catch you guys when we get to the track and we will uh well I don't think we want to do circuit day katalunya because we gotta go drift time-draze circuit drift there we go five to five minutes and where do we want to go with this car I mean we were at limerock so we could always throw it at limerock again and see since we were there for the grip section we're throw it at limerock see if we can't get uh combine those turns but definitely curious how the steering angle is going to work on this car since it did not have much to begin with and it is a race spec car air quotes so we're gonna see how this works definitely super excited to do this and uh because if this works then you know we can make any cars drift cars really with an angle kit which you know is kind of uh the idea of you know the angle kit to make any car a drift car I want to make sure it's on the standing nope I want to do standing start there we go so mx5 cup car switched over converted to basically drift car so let's see how this goes the car looks through it yep oh my gosh so steering angle now is so much and uh this should be good to go sideways for us and uh we're just gonna send it I don't think the power is there though but the angle is definitely there now so now the car has plenty of angle in the steering so I think we probably need a turbo kit for a little more power for this track as we go off track his head's just bobbing back and forth so we may need a turbo to get you know some more higher speed sections of tracks click it in so the angle on this car is definitely there now so the suspension feels okay it's there because we can just grab that right there I think a turbo might make this car a lot more fun but it's not too bad not too bad for a first uh throw out there get a little first person action going I really wish the wheel wheel would go 900 degrees we're just running that grass line right now I apparently I guess I just a little bit better at first person now well we'll clutch grab there to make sure we didn't over rotate I don't have to do that as much anymore with the steering angle kit so switched up to no steering wheel that's gonna hit the tires so I think we're gonna throw a turbo on this car because I think a turbo would make this car that much better so we're going to hop back real quick advantage of this now we do not have to quit so that was one of the biggest updates that they ever did on this including the drift suspension so we're in an upgrade shop we're going to throw a turbo on the car doesn't put it up too much but once we upgrade the turbo we should be upwards of a decent amount of power 435 453 and a little meata turbo meata this should give us enough power if not maybe we'll be doing a v8 swap and make some interesting angle choices in a v8 meata so now that we are got a turbo in here let's feel a little little flutter and all the the crackles from this car so see how much the turbo makes the difference we may have swapped this thing to a v8 or not I definitely like how this thing handles right now with that turbo we'll tap the brake there change of angle we wouldn't cut that grass we would have been a lot the angle kits make these cars so so much more fun to drive and so much more angled to be thrown that's what I was gonna wreck my car so if you guys are enjoying the angle kits like I am let me know down the comment section what have you guys built that doesn't normally drift did you build something that was maybe a different car that wouldn't normally be a drift car because I know I have a few of those that I want to bring out maybe another episode of building a let's build a drift car on a car that's not a drift car you know a swapped car that we know didn't have enough angle to begin with like say honey Veloster Veloster N maybe uh maybe a Civic you know because I'm pretty sure a lot of the Honda boys that like you know all the Honda cars are running Rural Drive converted Hondas now with angle kits and they're probably shredding just as hard as all the Rural Drive cars in the game so I feel like I don't need as much tow on the car anymore with this uh angle kits I feel like I'm going to adjust that a little bit but I totally forgot that we can link entire tracks now I forgot that was also part of it we're it's not just certain sections now which oh I was like oh we're just gonna bang red line and try and manji that so let's see if we can actually link this entire track without losing our drift scores that's not gonna so we're gonna start at the line or the first turn and we'll try and go so we are gonna see if we can actually link this track and keep our drift scores to the longevity of the entire track with this little Miata that angle is just so much oh now we gotta keep manging this we apparently miss that manji for half a second I have a feeling uh online sessions are gonna become manji fests now because the ability to get points everywhere like this yeah we're not gonna be able to do that in this car but this Miata is definitely getting down I think I need to turn the tow down a little bit because we used to have to run a lot of front tow to try and get angle out of these cars but with this angle kit now I don't think we have to so let's go make that quick adjustment and see how that changes so so far not options so so far this uh grip to drift is uh working out quite well so like I said I'm gonna probably be doing some other ones that are not meant to be drift cars that we will make drift cars what is the weirdest drift car you made in the game that wasn't supposed to be a drift car but is now because of the angle kits let me know I'm very interested to see what kind of builds people are making because I haven't hopped on an online session yet with these cars so I haven't been to an online session with these uh angle kits yet or scoring to see how far behind in points I'm gonna be because of everybody you know doing the mongeys down the straight so see how much getting rid of all that tow affects us because normally when you get rid of a lot of tow you didn't have anywhere near enough steering angle in the cars but now that we have actually changed a lot but now that we have 60 degrees of angle in the angle kits that's not bad I feel like I have to work a little bit harder though with almost zero tow we are gonna try and mongey this section out nope we're gonna lose it all in the grass so I feel like getting rid of the tow does make a big dramatic difference in my steering response in the front of the car so we are gonna probably end up putting tow back into this car because on a wheel that makes a bit of a difference as you can see I'm almost fighting to keep angle now unlike the other one that was before I wasn't really fighting to keep angle so you still need to run some tow on these cars see I'm not holding as much angle now as I think I should but the mongeys are good I was gonna try and throw a 360 but I didn't so I think that's gonna do it here for this episode here on grip to drift challenge on the mx5 so you guys like to see you want to see more let me know down in the comment section down below what is the weirdest car you guys have built so far I'm very curious to see I'm wondering did they have more smoke it seems like they almost added more smoke because I don't remember they're being this much smoke when I was doing donuts before so if they did and you or if I'm crazy let me know down in the comment section down below like I said let me know your craziest build that you've done with this new angle kit because I will be doing some crazy builds here soon so until next time you guys know if you follow me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram all of which are found in the description box below and as always like thank you guys for watching I think there's more smoke I'm EvilRabbit there's definitely more I'm out


Welcome to the Argos assembly guide for BMX bikes equipped with the gyro braking system. This video guides you through the basic steps in assembling your Argos cycle. For this cycle we recommend allowing 60 minutes for completion. This cycle has been rated a level 3 difficulty. Some help may be required. There may be some slight variations between the cycle assembled here and the cycle you have. This is OK as the procedure is the same. Remember to stay safe and legal with lights, cycle helmet, lock and many more accessories available at Argos now. Unboxing the cycle. Remove the seat and accessories from the box. Take extra care when lifting. When ready, remove the cycle from the box. Help may be required. Start removing the protective packaging. Use scissors to cut the cable ties where necessary. Open the kit box or bag containing the pedals, tools and all the accessories required to assemble the cycle. Attaching the handlebars. When attaching the handlebars, first loosen the four handbar clamp bolts and remove the clamp. Insert the handlebars. Reattach the clamp to secure the handlebar in place. Using the Allen key provided, tighten the bolts alternately until the handlebar is secure. This cycle is fitted with a gyro braking system. You may notice the gyro braking system has excessive play. This is perfectly normal. Attaching the rear reflector. Some rear reflectors come fitted already. If yours does not, you will have to attach it before fitting the saddle in place. Slide the reflector onto the saddle post and tighten the screw to secure it in place. Inserting the saddle. Align the saddle post with the bike frame. Remember to pay close attention to the minimum and maximum height marks. Insert the saddle post to the desired height. Tighten the seat clamp bolt with the Allen key provided to hold the saddle in place. Attaching the wheel. Located on the front forks, unclip the guide pipe noodle from the v-brake assembly. Fitting the front wheel is easier with the cycle upside down. Some assistance may be required. Firstly, remove the axle protector caps by pulling them off, not turning them. This will prevent the wheel nut from getting stuck in the cap. When ready, insert the wheel so the axle is located at the base of the forks. Now that the wheel is in place, move the retention washer to the base of the forks and tighten the outer wheel nut with the spanner provided. To finish attaching the wheel, reattach the guide pipe noodle and rotate the bike upright. Attaching the pedals. Firstly, unwrap the pedals. Note the left and right markings. The right hand pedal always attaches to the side with the chain. Screw the right pedal clockwise and tighten with the spanner. When fitting the left hand pedal, remember to screw anti-clockwise. Attaching the bell and front reflector. The bell and front reflector may also need attaching to the cycle. Starting with the front reflector, loosen the screw and attach to the handlebars. Once attached, tighten the screw to keep the reflector in place. Follow this same procedure for attaching the bell, but place on the left near the hand grip for comfortable operation. Inflating the tyres. Use a pump to inflate the tyres. Check the tyres are inflated to the correct pressure. The recommended pressure will be located on the wall of the tyre, attaching the stunt pegs. The stunt pegs are attached by screwing them onto the wheel axles in a clockwise direction. Tighten them by using a screwdriver to turn the pegs. Pre-ride checks. Before riding your new cycle for the first time, let's do some pre-ride checks. Check the saddle is secure by twisting it left and right. Spin the wheel to make sure there's no side-to-side movement. Make sure there's no excess play in the wheel hubs by moving the wheel left to right. Check the pedals are fully secure using the spanner provided. Check the brakes are operating correctly. Make sure the handlebars are tight and are turning with the wheel. Assembly complete. Congratulations! You now know the correct procedure to assemble your new cycle. Remember to take extra care on your first ride.


Ladies and gentlemen, let me see here see if I can Get this here Okay, let me see make sure my Wi-Fi working that Wi-Fi See here ladies and gentlemen y'all forgive me my video Guy I guess you kind of say like producer of the podcast The guy who shoots it and edits it texting me I put the link in the description to the podcast. So I got a I'm in season right now just flying around the country eventually be around the the world and Just flying around doing interviews and kind of loading up some interviews and then I'm a release them And it just me kind of studying, you know studying greatness. So I put the link in the description and I'll upload a kind of like an intro video soon that you can watch the video and Then once we get it all set up and going hopefully be launching In June at the latest. I'm hoping y'all forgive me for that now make sure on your Question put on the hashtag cue on there and I had a Was lotion in earlier. So I forgot my took my rain go if y'all give me one second. Let me get one Let me get around All right, y'all forgive I apologize about that It's just when I'll be doing a video Special if I'm gonna be answering relationship questions. I Feel naked without my ring on we got two minutes single men Giving relationship advice I can't be on here because you know, somebody might just be passing by and be like, oh lord another single man Talking about relationship. No No, not over here.   I Just can't I can't believe it. I just can't believe it because just to see what's going on out here with men trying to quantify a Woman's worth in dollars and it's like what what a day buddy. Good night. Love you Love you Like your hair Just just to think about the fact that we really out here doing that that's mind-boggling to me that men sitting and trying to count up How much money a woman is Value that and then to hear the one guy say $600 that a woman will be saving him $600. It just really blew me Just really blew me. I Said man, I cannot believe this Cannot believe this y'all give me one second. Let me put this on Instagram story cuz I won't be always going live for them So I'm there just to invite them on there But it's just mind-boggling, you know, and so I really appreciate y'all too for sending me the videos I see y'all questions coming in the good thing about this. This let me stay up where the questions at But I appreciate y'all sending me the videos about you know that type of stuff and a Lot of videos I forget to speak on it if I don't get to shoot a video right then I'll forget but I'll be you know looking and Catching the DMs on Instagram and I can't always I can't respond because it'd be so many I'd be sitting there 24 hours a day responding, but I try to go through them and look through it and see especially when this, you know Guys just sitting there saying ignorant stuff, you know, and I noticed that Other men will start to speak up and you know, I saw a young boy speaking up. I Mean he was on something else, but Other men are starting to speak up about the ignorance because a lot of men. I'm not raising daughters I got two sons. So I'm fortunate in that sense not to say a man raising daughters is unfortunate, but he kind of is a little Disadvantaged because of the type of men that's being raised out here I feel sorry for people raising daughters because he because the men with the voices the men with the large audiences is So many of them are so idiotic that The women just gonna have low self-esteem because these men on here spewing nonsense and got grown women Listening to them and calling in and going on the shows and sitting there. I'm like my good If you got grown women listening, y'all know it y'all know are the teenagers be on the phone the teenagers be on the phone So, you know all the 13 14 15 16 16 year-old 17 18 year-old young ladies is on Instagram They see in these viral clips And if you are young lady, you don't know any better because I'm not gonna be in the end crowd And I'm not gonna be going viral because I'm speaking and teaching on substance So it take me longer what I got to say. I can't always say it in one minute.  They want them all 16. Yeah, that's what they want They don't want no 30 35 with some sense.  It just ridiculous. They're like if I become the president Man, we're doing a thing different.  We start a slap line. I'm doing a thing differently Slapping tea fight your mouth.  We're starting a slap line It's just sickening man. It's just sickening. I Mean he hit you is lolly boys got mommas who work they finger to the bone and Then they get not here on podcast talking about women Like that like they were raised by wolves out in the in the wilderness Like they was out there eating locusts and honey Raised by wolves.  I haven't got a chance to post it yet but it was probably about two hours long and and Every man speak for themselves, but it's only two type of men a Grown boy and a grown man. So it ain't too many variations. It's just gonna be two types You're gonna see a grown man. You're gonna see a grown boy Point blank period and so I'm gonna post that one day because it's a white man talking to me about how in a circle His friends his family his homeboys The white man how black women are viewed and and then you're gonna have some white men Of course on the other side who have another kind of opinion and but it's only gonna be about two or three different types of opinions It ain't it ain't that complex, but it's it's women with channels now telling the women.  Like that is the promised land.  How in the world you expect the woman to feel safe and secure and protected When when when black men are here talking foolishness Talk about a woman worth six hundred dollars I don't know. I'm guessing he's talking about a week. I don't even talk about a month. Oh, you're talking about a month. I Was on my month. I'll say boy. Look here boy. Oh my goodness I'm finna start a Mike snatching club We finna be an all-black just going around the country just snatching microphone Jump bad if you want to lay down. We finna just be snatching my with it microphone boy and Mike Just tap him with it one time before we leave because it's just getting ridiculous That thing got me I felt like Jesus when he went into the church and we're flipping over tables when I when I be seeing some of this stuff I'm like in the room Say man the way I'm raising my son They gonna have all kind of savage women coming at him because these women fed up With these sorry no good men and Then for the good women my son's been to have they finna have a thousand women to choose from Because it ain't gonna be too many young men with sense If this how they daddy's talking I'm like, come on now. We got to do better We got to do better. We can't be out here telling men. Oh A woman ain't worth nothing, but some cooking and cleaning It just getting bad it getting bad y'all just I'm like man, I try to keep hope alive. I'm gonna try to keep hope alive Like my good. We got to start having morning corporate prayer Intercessory prayer every morning For these fools. I'm like my good Why don't men test women if they don't want a relationship with that one? Man, that's what we talk about Ratna.  Because you pray for him during the time of his mother's sickness, but that was last year in December and she died I'm not sure on that one. So that's a little too Specific on that one look too specific because that could be tear binding nephew Why would a man that you are sleeping with tell you in depth about him with other women and the pleasure he brought them Include That's a man who don't respect you and that's a man who listened to podcasts in the dark that's a man who he don't really he don't care nothing for you and a man who cares about you he wants you to feel like Believe you the only woman walking the face of the earth He really is not gonna mention other women to you. It's like he wants you to feel Special like the one the only one a man who bringing up other women for one He need he needs therapy to It's a sign of very strong soul ties that he have So that mean that if he talking to you about the women that mean he Still touching old women some of those women or will touch them if he get the opportunity and It also mean that he gonna be telling y'all business to another woman he'll soon And so that's what you got to understand on that one Now this one y'all only have to post y'all question one time because it don't just run away from it I'm able to just go in order Do you think that these Podcasts are influencing the mindset of men today and that's why it's so much division. I'm gonna tell you what I'm gonna tell you What and that's the best question we don't got so far Because we need to be addressing the state of the Union right now, but I'm gonna tell you what it is 100% influence in the mindset because it influenced my mindset and I know better It literally had me sitting there looking at my wife with a side eye like oh God had to check and correct and get me in line I had to hit my head. I had to wake up and smell the Folgers in the morning because That is the trick of the enemy. That's how the devil work plant a seed in your mind That's what he was doing after Jesus had fasted him 40 days 40 nights And he was hungry and he went to Jesus and say listen, I Give you all this right here the whole world If if you want that you gonna bow down to me.  That's that's human life That's in the budget of these men of these men on the podcast. So a Woman so irreplaceable They they Got no replacement for But that's how these men talking Like a woman just is useless like she just irreplaceable like he just could go climb on another man and have kids Like he like like a woman heart spirit her energy for these children her attention to detail her her Organization skills these men talking like a woman just ain't worth nothing and I'm just I'm just I'm like I'm finna just be walking around with olive oil And just be praying and just be putting it on my forehead just because the Trump is about to sound The way these men talking Lord on his way back Lord got to be on his way back How can women support men today mentally and emotionally in today's time? Without overstepping boundaries support is your presence and it's your words so What what a lot of women do that's overstepping boundaries is when you let a man move in with you and That's not your husband. That's overstepping boundaries when you invest money into a man like big money. I mean like 10k like when you invest money into a man business into him and that's not your husband when you Sucking and ducking ducking with a D. Okay on cuss and Trucking and you doing all of this for a man. That's not your husband.  That's overstepping boundaries Supporting a man is listening to him Asking him great questions pulling greatness out of him Listening to his answer not cutting them off not being condescending speaking life into him encouraging him praying for him in private If he the type that he liked to pray together and you cool with that and praying together that's support like and Speaking affirmations over him like man, you smart Like men we don't hear that enough like man.  She said I had a double take. I'm like who is this athlete? I'm like, well, I mean I've let it but she but she gave him a little compliment I had to sit on it. I had the process that like Oh, I just hope I look good 15 years in a marriage Yes, I just rolled off a tongue. I had a process that really sit down. Let me sit with it for a second y'all give me a second hmm Gonna order some more of these short short So, you know now Cuz this is in style that a little bit of thigh a little bit of muscle on your thigh right above your knee My wife liked to see that so I'm finna be why and I'm gonna tell you what I'll be doing There's nine. No, she liked it. So every time I step I got to step hard I got to plant that foot and then squee that thigh So the muscle kind of do that love upside down Mitt Donald logo Get a little ball. I'll be about the hyper stem. I need walking trying to play that muscle every time I hit around Trying to get that good flat. I know she liked that No, I ain't talking too loud. She watching Brooklyn next Don't watch grown. I work if I got to work. Why do you mean working? They got millions of dollars I got to be on here working too. So now listen to me.  I'll be like, hey baby I'm about to hit the milestone. I want me a cake. I want me I want me a cake with this number on it but a milestone I'm about to hit and I'll tell her that and That right there means something I need to remind her cuz I ain't got my dog on cake But so that's what that's what we need as men that I Say 90% of men really need words or affirmation cuz never got it Never really got it. I you should know this not recorded now They say live up Let me see Now, how do you know if a man is using you as a cover? So you really don't know But if you sense it then the way a woman's intuition is set up nine or ten ten times if you sense that the man using you as a cover up Cuz a Straight man ain't gonna confuse you like you gonna be able to tell a man straight if he's great now for man if Got other stuff going on It's gonna strike you it's gonna strike you now. Honestly, I have been around man Who I had no clue and I'm a man. I had no clue. Well, I can't say that I get a little inkling I Get a little inkling But you just still cuz sometimes they be muscular and you just ain't used to seeing muscular men and and like big men like when I like seven feet tall six five Muscular You just ain't used to seeing those kind of men Be using women as a cover up just because it just really I just like this even made sense Like what you and that man in the door? All of the hug each other I'll have on a shoulder contest like the world you hug a man With shoulders and so sometimes it just be confusing sometimes you cannot Tell but today is happening more and more and I'm gonna tell you why it's happening It be happening because of the web sites So what happened is people don't understand that lust Cannot be quenched So these men at the age of 12 10 11 12 a lot of these men is getting into these sites And they watching that stuff and they getting in and it's only so long after they even watched it What I don't notice they want to start experiment so these men they get bored with them a woman and then they start wanting them a Man who dressed like a woman but still Got old bat and ball and so I just Because some stuff that came across my desk or just emails and stuff women be sending me And then I just I'm flabbergasted at what's going on out here. I'm flabbergasted Because when I heard that the men be using snapchop Y'all know snapchop when stuff disappear the men be using snapchop. I got snapchop Nah, I won't go on now My son begging me to have it for his 15 snapchat snapchat and I said no son Cuz you got my name so somebody be searching you somebody be searching me find you One of these men being sent to some One of these women being sent to some that disappear Do you know it's an elderly Caucasian lady sent me a video But that they'll She and when I thought now I didn't mean elderly that not elderly in the sense of what y'all thinking I didn't mean that take that word back Because not a people who in they 50s or 60 be like elderly Ain't mean that I just meant my elder. I meant my elder but the lady There's a Caucasian lady which I have to clarify that cuz sometimes people think only black people deal with me This was a Caucasian lady And I don't know if it was another Tony. She was trying to send it to her and just not really too Familiar with Instagram The lady sent me a picture a baby.  That ain't good. Oh, I'll talk to you about it. Mm-hmm. That ain't good.  She says you don't remember I was I was floored and So that's what's happening right now because the web sites and these subscription sites men are becoming zombies and becoming so addicted to the access of Nakedness on a phone But see loss cannot be quenched So when you feed into lust it gets stronger So these men of today is want it going from wanting a budget Okay hot dog in a bun To then they wanting them on a woman then they wanted to enter the exit Then that ain't enough for them then they want to go get them a Person who looked like a woman but got the man body part and it's getting worse And it's just going and it's really they chasing lust and Then before you know it They all the way out there and it's all just because lust cannot be quenched It got to be started there and that's what's happening. Let me see this time Yeah, great. You can give out you your mentor has me excelling in self-worth with wrong boys Now men are telling me about my value and that I'm a rare gem. Thanks to your teaching God bless you. God bless you. That's not like I ate up. Let me see this here now Oh somebody has sent me something up there Mother God bless you. It was somebody else sent some I guess when I scroll down at a short to me Somebody has sent I've seen 499 of their God bless you Tony if I'm ready to invest in starting youtube channel slash blog should I file for LLC even though It may take a while to start Build something big. Yeah, you should get your LLC because in a lot of states It's probably only like a hundred to three hundred dollars on the state website To file for your LLC, but just having an LLC then you're going to get write-offs Just your your business expenses.  So we're taking tax it right on up out of them And they'll get a little tax return But they ain't going to have all the benefits and write-offs and Hiding in the tax code like you're going to be able to do as a business owner And so that's the very nuance to get really deep. So you got to talk to a you know CPA or a certified, you know tax person But um, I remember the first time I started my LLC was like 2008 And when I went to the CPA and she asked me what all my expenses was and I wrote them all down and you know I'm added all up gave it all to her and I got me a $1,500 check back And it didn't get to me because I owed student loans I hadn't been in collections on my student loans. So they the government took my my return from the student loans I say well, I tell you What y'all won't let nobody win Why do men ask for pictures? During the talking phase a man I met in person was asking me to send him photos of me when I was out of town Men are visual creatures and so a man to get that picture and a man to just sit down He'll sit down and look at that picture 30 minutes. He'll just sit down stare at that picture and Just and then he'll send it to his homeboys He'll send it to a couple homeboys and say hey, how does she look? You know what you think of her? So it just me and being visual pictures and I mean visual creatures and it's just it's like a feeling You know, it's like interaction for the man And it's just it's different because I realized that A lot of women don't get the same Feeling from looking at a man the way a man get from looking at a woman So it's like as as men just being so visual you will see like a man got to be It's a man who gonna make a woman turn her head and watch him walk That might be one out of a thousand And only know what what kind of man that is. I've never really seen that, you know, except for the little thirsty women who just be dehydrated but just A regular woman who not dehydrated She could look at a man and see a man might think he handsome or whatever But she's not tongue on the ground and just be spinning all around. But if you notice when you watch men Men are taking look at a woman all the way the whole way And so that's all it is What is your definition of wife material? That's another topic a lot of these men be talking about A lot of men are saying modern women are not wife material. Well, see you got to realize Modern women is a term that somebody made up So I don't know what modern women mean really and if they saying modern women today You know, I really don't know what that means but for me My standards are different because I feel like when I hear these men today They're looking for a woman that God has not created And they want a woman to be something that they are not the male equivalent of And so for me the wife material For for me is can I trust you? Like can I believe like will you be honest with me? Will you be faithful to me? Will you you know, can we build on trust and honesty? And humans going to fail at that too But it's like is this a habitual thing or is this You know an environment that I created that I need to fix and I don't think why and and being a role model So a woman being the type of woman That I want my sons or if I had a daughter to be able to look up to and see and respect So me personally I don't like For women to curse or smoke or get drunk Or to you know, like act irresponsibly like aquafool Like a woman over 30. She's still going to the club And drinking and in there smoking weed That right there all is totally no gold because some of that stuff can form an addiction And and when you form an addiction to hookah or to cigarettes black and miles marijuana alcohol When you form an addiction to those stuff toys battery operated devices That stuff can't always just be turned off And so for me I Feel like a woman who is emotionally intelligent Who is responsible who is a role model who like this woman being herself Can be looked up to by a eight-year-old little girl being herself And like how she carried herself is with class and dignity not perfect not an angel but respectable and I feel like That if that's what me and talking about modern women are just not motherly or not Respectable by the youth which I see I see a lot of it. You know I went to um But it's it's also phases. I feel like a lot of women Wait to meet a man to change Be because they tell themselves It's no sense for me to act You know like a wife if I'm if I don't have a husband or to act like a mother if I don't have kids And I have noticed that a lot of women can just turn it on and off And like just become motherly when they get pregnant But that's that's a little that's scary to me That's scary to me to kind of you know Do that I'm gonna tell y'all that what she said Now make sure you put hashtag q in front of your question so I could See that Yeah, I'm telling you Yeah, I need that Yeah, that's getting rough out here I'm trying to tell you How do we as women respond to some of these Alpha males who are convinced by the man in the dark without proving these Ideologies right Ideologies right You know that honestly that's type of man. You don't respond to If a man think he know it then he think he know it He think he convinced you got to go on about your business You really don't sit sit down try to argue because you're not going to be able to change a man mind A man got to hit rock bottom And hear the voice of god at rock bottom in order to change in mind And that's that's what you you you can't really argue a man out of something that he feel he believe And so that it's honestly a waste of time So if you see a man he thinking like the man in the dark you got to just take off running You got to take off running Because it really take a man who has real love For his mother for the women in his life Who saw a good example of a man from a man. That's what it takes for a man to really understand and respect You know women How do I tell Man, I'm not comfortable with out the one slip up But still want to date or should I just take the L and walk away? No, you could tell them like you're not talking to god If god if you can approach god, you know Anytime a day You can talk to a man. So you got to understand just next phone call Next text message just tell them like hey, I'm not really comfortable with this Point blank period. You know, I slipped up But that's not really where I want to be what I want to be doing and you know Can you respect that it's yes or no and so The right man he'll respect that and say okay, I get it and now He's not already Then done that so he know what it's like now So now it's put up a shut up now. It's like, okay, you didn't you didn't been down you know rodeo And me and always tell my oh, I got the test drive before I buy Well, and that's a horrible analogy to talk, you know compare a woman to a car But that became a thing from people saying I got the test drive Before I buy on buy a car without test driving it Then that came oh, let me check her car facts And and I got to keep on going. Let me check her tire pressure What how many miles she got on her, you know, so it just kept going. Oh, she needed she got a flat tire Oh, she need a new transmission. So now guys just equating so many men looking at women like A ride and you have to be able to address that and just let a man know if that's not what you're comfortable with The man for you a respectable man. He's gonna understand that and he's gonna respect that he's gonna appreciate that A man who he just thanked you full of it and you know All of that then that's different Is it a bad thing if a guy states you remind me of my ex but in a good way I feel it is Yeah, that's a bad thing.  He used to Have to mess with other men to get money to feed his kids Years ago, how should I? Just I got to go just I got to go Just I got to go I got If I was a woman on and I'm out on a date with that man Okay, all right Okay, all righty. Very good. No, you don't check me Okay, all right. Oh, this is good. No, you ask them a fist bump. Uh actually here you go Hey Okay I got I got to go come on now That but see that right there. That's the man trying to let you know He's trying to let you know right there. He's saying listen I do some strain for a piece of change Really he really what he trying to say is like listen He's trying to say he is out here like Look nice X And uh, what the boy named billy ocean or frank ocean He's trying to say that's how he feeling and he want to know if you're okay with it. That's all that is That's all that is So if a man tell you that because listen if that's the real if a real reason A man that if that's the real reason the man did that And he didn't want to do that or he wanted He took that to a grade So for a man to say that right there.  What else I could do for my kid.  That's the and that's the thing. It's like come on now Just at least be respectful of humans and be like, okay, listen You know, that's why I just I just want guys to just You know, get that together like come on now Because it's because what it's doing is it's it's confusing to the women And then y'all getting in a relationship And then the confusion happened and then y'all have had kids and then the confusion happened and then You know, the woman got to be Putting us set up with the olympic swimmer So it's like your man and went and Got that swimmer of caitlyn jenna Imagine if you want to fight for yours and you got to square up with caitlyn jenna You finna get wore out You finna get wore out the frame Caitlyn jenna finna put all kind of paws on On her on on her man girlfriend It's like come on not oh no, I think it's a caitlyn like women It just it's it's it's it's it's getting real out here for y'all now. God bless you. God bless you Because I just I'd rather people be honest like listen And then add the letters to it They didn't add the letters to it, but I don't know what the new letters mean. They added a i and a so I don't know what what it mean, but It's just I wish people just to be honest because it's it ain't fair For a male or a female to want something Of the same but then deceive somebody of the opposite And this person of the opposite think they getting love And they want somebody of the opposite But the person they with really want somebody of the same It's like just honesty is the best policy and people just need to be straight up about, you know, how you're living because It just you're gonna cause more problems than solve High tone I was dealing with a man who lied about dealing with multiple women I found out and blocked him on everything He keep contacting me from fake pages. It's been almost a year and he still won't stop Why is that he just don't want to lose Some men can't stand a loss Maria tall of a god bless you now jasmine blessing now some men can't stand a loss And i'ma tell you a man who's doing it.  He don't want you that bad.  So that's also a tactic So you can't ever really listen to what a man say You got to look at what a man shows So if a man showed you Then he gonna be on one knee Like jagged edge How does it mean when man says to the woman he's dating that He's met his match It don't mean nothing sis I think y'all, you know, y'all be reading a little too much into it.  Like we the same ones that created that stuff So y'all can't question everything a man say now some stuff is just just conversation He just he grew up with a computer And ain't really used to talking to women. So he just gonna say stuff I remember the boy played on my football team in college. He used to tell his girl Everyday girl, you gonna be the death of me. He was from pg county Um, Marilyn girl, you gonna be the death of me. I used to be like Why you keep saying that like what do that mean? Like did you grow up with your granddaddy? Like who keep telling the woman girl, you gonna be the death of me I said you grow up with your granddad.    You got to tap into your company You know, you got to get going like that And when you do that then that's what's gonna Help you not be so thirsty Man, I've been dating six months. Okay. I've seen that one Y'all don't have to post y'all question twice now. I know some of y'all missed that but This one allowed me to go in order. This is a little system Yes, uh Yeah, yes, it is my ex fiance listening to him. That's why we aren't together He became aggressive and dish that that's what it's doing the men in the dark with e-pod cat That's what they're doing to these men That's what they that's what they're doing. It's getting it's getting bad. I'm gonna tell you I don't know Tony talk about this spy weapon man using when they call women they call your phone Twice next to your camera Next to your camera on the phone is active Hmm Now I heard about that now, but it's different ones work different ways And that's why people be calling me like that too people be doing me like that Trying to listen in trying to get them an earful trying to see if I'm cheating on my wife I'll be telling my wife about that and the reason why I know about that because I know I know about it from women Because I because I remember one lady told me That she got an app that she was able to Tap her man. What's up? And see all his outgoing messages, maybe it was And then another lady told me she got an app that was like 80 dollars a month that she was able to You got to get access to her man phone But she was able to download the app on his phone and it hide in the background It don't show on his app list don't show on his phone And she just always able to hear his microphone Like whatever is whatever being said and she'll she say why he why why he's sitting in the car He had another woman in the car He was cheating on him and she was listening to their whole conversation because of the the app she put on the phone so Because of me knowing that stuff is out there and that stuff is real That's why I live my life 24 hours a day as if somebody listening to me And that's and that's just a lesson for everybody because it's so much stuff out here Anything that could be coded could be decoded ain't nothing safe.    He really think he the paper route, huh? Okay, yeah, all right, we're gonna be the right out there and and I don't know how they put Because they never access the people phone So the same way they tapping it it got to be other people who could tap it at the phone At call center at that. I mean at the thing. So that's how I live my life I live my life. Like somebody listening to me 24 hours a day If me and my wife having a deep discussion I just pretend it's a third party in there And they just sitting over there playing judge and jury like, oh, yeah, she got on this one Yeah, she she won this one. Oh, yeah, Tony got it on this one. And I guess that's how that's how hey Because yeah any day So that that's real now y'all got to be You know Paying attention out there male and female now Um, how can a female pinpoint the difference of a man who is truly busy working or with Family or if they are just entertaining other women like what signs would a player show? Honestly a player show the same signs as a faithful man It's it's really and that's why I just got to be trust And if there is no trust there is no relationship because a faithful man can go to work And have to work overtime And literally be working overtime Phone could die and don't have a charger And then get off four hours late come home And a cheetah could do the same exact thing And just depending on that man and who he is will determine If what he was doing like I just was in New Orleans and I was interviewing a young lady and You know, she in a relationship. She got a boyfriend and all that but If my my wife had no way of knowing that I'm in my hotel room alone that I'm not with another woman that I didn't fly Another woman in the New Orleans that I ain't you know, do nothing with another woman It just literally come down to trust so a lot of times it ain't gonna be as blatant as as you would think Surrender you post your question. You came on here late post that question a million times When you said that Tony that man in the dark said we should start promoting men and being Promoting men being That what the man said The man said Sister from some of the stuff I done seen Y'all send me I can't deny I can't tell I can't And I can't say I'm shot no more Gina. God bless you now.   He calls that love Now sister now Hooters is not the strip club now So, you know My mom and daddy was pastors used to take up the Hooters because them wanes now. So now if they blight now mark as Oh, y'all might be Hispanic But now a black folk just some black folk just love chicken wing And I'm gonna be honest with you You can't think about it like that because it's different as your man trying to go to the strip club now Hooters a lot of them wouldn't be enough It don't be nothing to look at it do not be nothing to look at because a lot of them be Just the flight of the board back there and that's where the black man into now They just beat us just the flight of the board back there and then just have all this right here.  You said I mean but now no way is good Now So so you can't be insecure. You got to have trust now It's different if a man trying to go literally look at booty clap Okay And throwing money that's different but not somewhere to eat at that kids is in there The soccer team the football team in there, you know celebrating they first place win in the pop wonder league now That's that's different. They're so so And you gotta realize no women in Hooters nine. That's the outfit nine Back in the day When me and my basketball team used to go out to eat to celebrate the win We used to drop push the napkin on the floor and say excuse me, man. Could you get that for me? And so we could see her been over And she's know what we was doing to grow my high woman. No, you know good.  He used to push the napkin off the table and say excuse me Could you get that for me?  So that right there before grown man Who does ain't nothing compared to what these men got access to on they phone You know the fans site and all the other site the hub and all the other site Listen If you can't you can't shield a man from from that kind of stuff and you're trying to shield him It's actually going to make him act out more That's going to ask to make him do more So the fact that my wife is not insecure And That make me want to be even Most straight and narrow because I'm like what turn why she asked me no question. Now what you got going on over there? I'll I'll be trying to figure out what she got going on because she's so secure And then one day I asked I'm like, why you don't be when I'm on the road like why you don't be checking like trying to see Well, man, you don't even wait up for me Like you be the knock that and when I be home, she'd be the same way like We'll go to the room when I get off this I go to the room. We'll be sitting down She'll fall asleep with her phone in her hand like she'll fall asleep And ain't plug the phone in and and she just be tired just the mom life getting up five o'clock a.m. Every morning And so but that's security and I asked her one time I said why you don't check me when I'm on the road like why you don't be Where you at what you're doing who you with and she said Because of you cheat on me.  You got let your husband know like listen. She ain't got no reign And there's a hunger games out here. So she's trying to do anything She's trying to do anything You know my next book is called husband material But it ain't for all y'all it's just for those in the blessed tribe and on the patreon the blessed tribes and the patreon Um, it's called husband material where i'm just exposing myself as a man of things I struggle with and the things i'm learning the things we got to do and the things that a you know Got to look for the woman got to look for How to balance following your god-given purpose With emotions of dating life I'm 26 and having a hard time finding balance between them Also, so much love for you and your family You don't you don't balance that system. You pursue your god-given purpose full flesh 100 And the man for you will tap you on your shoulder And ask you to take a time out for a second to hear him out And then that's when you have the natural flow Of that man being in your life with you pursuing purpose But until that and that um, and you should be so focused That the man has to get your attention And that's what you got to realize All right, tony. What would you say the best way to grow my following? I've got social media and do reels daily I do the same on my youtube. Perhaps it just takes time. It does take time.  I got a course on um Called social media mastery on tony gas's academy Dot com i'm gonna put the academy in here Now y'all when you go to academy use the code Um, i'm gonna put that in here. The code is happy 15. That's my son 15 birthday tomorrow on the guys in academy dot com cold happy 15 And I use I share my social media principles What helped me get the three and a half million people on social media I share the principles in you can't really share like the trends because it changed the algorithm changed all the time But there are principles to brand building online That can help you as the trends and all of that changes if you have some principles about what you're doing You'll be able to weather the storms and and grow over time And you don't want you don't want fast growth You want slow growth because you want to be organic you want to be real people If a man is intentional and says you are his wife Is less than a year okay for an engagement? It's a personal choice and you got to know that you know that you know and you got to really be feeling that man You got to really feel that in your spirit But I don't recommend it because I feel like a year is a good amount of time and it's a safe time To get to know that man to see if that man is the man for you And vice versa even with a man because it take about 12 months to really see a person And so I don't recommend Getting engaged under a year But if you feel it and he just springing on you and when I say under a year Like 10 months is the same thing basically now if a man come proposing that six months or less Then that's when it's really But like eight months the 12 months you you know It's it's pretty close but but the thing about it is engagement is not marriage So just because you get engaged don't feel like you stuck You don't feel like you got to go all the way through with it You still get the jump ship if it ain't right Says he liked me talking on and off for five months and also says he felt like if we were to be together He felt like his happiness wouldn't matter because every time he'd do something I leave for two to three months. Is he lying? Um What's this y'all only been talking on and off for five months So it sounds like he didn't did something you left for two months Then maybe you came back and then you didn't left again If you had to leave that many times and you leave for two three months you wasting your time You wasting your time and he right he don't he and he don't want you all right what he want to do It hurt you. Yeah, that man.   I'm 51. He's 62 He worked at sea I'm stable on my job. He's wishy washy and has health issues, but that's not everything to me sister I would say a whole lot. I would say don't get weird and well doing I would say Let's keep wading in the water. Not his water that he out there on but sister 11 years older than you he got to be perfect Because you're outside of the range range You really don't want to be with nobody more than 10 year difference unless it's an exception to the rule But he's nowhere near an exception to the rule because he out there working on the sea at 62 years old Yeah, they're working on the sea 62 years old And then he wishy washy and all that right there No But it let me know it let me know though that you uh You're a good one because A woman who ain't worth much They'll be trying to get with them put a life insurance policy on them with their health Can you be friends with someone you've been in a long-term relationship with before? Ex says he wants to start over but wants to establish a friendship first I turn this friendship down you did the right thing Because this was a long-term relationship if it ain't working a long term it really ain't meant to be It really ain't meant to be Kimberly that was my bad on that now Happened to me too. I deleted snap chop immediately Yeah, y'all got to get all that snap chop now It was way my accent is I really don't want to say your screen name.  I God bless you though. I so appreciate you Been dating for seven months communication is rough lots of debating about small stuff. Will it get better? No No, he watching the man in the dark Yeah, the man out there cackling like that and y'all cackling like some cats And going back at it pawing each other Like some little cats and y'all seven months in and communication already bad going about your business So that he think he know to him. He's too sassy He too sassy. You don't want no sassy man.  So you're a pr professional And building career but not satisfied with dating prospects. I've had is that normal should I be worried? Now now email me now about your um pr professional now.  That's normal because you're 23 You're 23 And i'm glad to know that you're saving yourself Because that give me hope for my sons that they're gonna be able to meet them a young lady Then saving herself So i'm glad to know that and I hope that If you could say yourself in this day and age that it's going to be women that could save themselves When my 15 year old is 23 in eight years because he told me he waited until marriage And I was glad to hear that and I hope he And I hope he hold on to it too Everyone say one second. All right. I'm back now ain't gonna be on here too much longer now about 15 minutes depending on what my wife doing She's been in a good mood I'm gonna tell y'all there's a husband life It just I don't know what it is about my wife, but she got she got a short-term memory in the sense of If I do something wrong or whatever I say something wrong And it upset her she just get over it like quick she get over it You know with it within 24 hours. She'd never yell at me. She'd never curse at me And i'm not the greatest guy, you know, I have communication issues just being blunt being direct You know with my sons and stuff and And just with people in general i'm real direct And I hurt people feelings. That's how i'm just a direct person and My wife she's just short-term memory and one thing I noticed though I was sitting the other day i was getting a bunch of text messages bunch of text messages about my podcast and uh My wife just was talking non-stop She was talking non-stop and she just be so excited and just be talking talking talking talking talking and A lot of time I'd be I'd be working. I might be doing something.  You can see all the back of my teeth And i'm just finna just dive deeper in that because we got the strength in these here relationships Tony do you think that holding on to onto toxic nostalgia and soul Has women holding on to uh earth and hence love Absolutely, that is what it is. And so it make it hard for women to accept real love and to accept a real man And a good man because of what you have become accustomed to from your past Divorced and failed now single mom. I have a great job Was also a provider In school for a second degree. I just learned he is having a baby Don't know how to feel what should be my focus feel broken Well, you got divorced in february Well, we in april All right good Well, since what you for one you shouldn't feel broken because you're not in a new relationship pregnant He the one in a new relationship with a baby on the way he is broken Because he didn't take the time to heal You actually healing so you can't let what he doing break you Because they ain't got nothing to do with you So you got to feel good that you healing that you taking your time that you in spaces like this Learning and growing and learning from other people experiences. You're doing the right thing So you can't let his brokenness Make you broken can't let his confusion. How are you confused? Because he's not healing. He ain't showing You see the man I remember a guy had a book called that man. It said men don't heal We ho And that was deep done now. Let me see now Jasmine smilf god bless you now guy i'm dating went to visit a uh out of State he made it clear that he wanted the guy On adam Will likely end it because it's suspect to me. He stayed three nights at his house thoughts Now i'm starting to thank y'all on his line Because this is wrong.  He's still strong now He's still strong And some of them be stronger because they've been lifting men up. So some of them be stronger than Men who just got who lifting a woman some of these men Sister you got to run now That if that's what a man want to do go right ahead buddy Go right ahead Can't have that man bring about them thing A feces give you, you know, uti I'll be seeing that commercial about that monostat ain't that what that monostat for Because of this right here these men going over there And that man and then coming Y'all might have to start me out because y'all conversation this stuff is getting too real.  No he is consistent calls daily dates every week Asked me to be his girl, but I wasn't ready. I found out he had with a girl. I left He is begging for forgiveness Should I give another chance since that's a personal choice? Me personally, I wouldn't recommend um Also to put your icon picture on the phone so we test call come visualize that too. I see since I wouldn't uh It's the thing as a woman went when as a human when you meet a man And y'all day for three months And y'all ain't sleeping together and he consistent And he called daily And y'all day every week and he asked you to be his girl and you not ready.  Even they're also being disrespectful Sister that's like why the sky blue? I ain't gonna understand everything about everybody Why do I get complimented a lot, but no man pursues me or asks me out on a date 27 year old female Now what you want to do is check that energy now You want to check that energy when they When they compliment you because that might be the little test So if you thank you Thank you Mm-hmm That's how you doing then they ain't gonna approach you So it's all right to be friendly. Well, thank you Thank you you single. Well, thank you. I really appreciate that. Thank you. I'm a married man But I always be looking at outfits. I check outfits. I test my wife. I've seen this lady.  I said, excuse me, man. Could you tell me where you got your shirt from? And she said Zara she said I actually got it from Zara I was like, oh wow, I didn't expect that I said, what about the pants? She said, oh these come from northstrom. She like they're like full leather They're like, wow, okay. I said, I love your outfit. I said I just will text my wife about it I said I ain't lying. I'm gonna show you here. Go to text. I showed her where she can see queen Because that's because that could be a corny pickup line for for some guys And so she was like and when I tell you that lady she she'd say Thank you so much. Thank you so much for recognizing my outfit. Thank you I was like, man, she got some good energy because a lot of women they'll be like Um, I don't know And so here's the thing It's what I have noticed too a lot of women And and and it and it could be because you're tired It could be because you fed up. It could be because you're tired of the games But a lot of women now Especially women of color If a man give you a compliment a man say something y'all be turning your nose up Y'all be tucking your purse extra hard and then go to speed walking And so it's like listen One is a quote that says it says success comes from Going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm So when you have bad experience bad experience bad experience, you got to reset You got to heal just like I tell my athletes that I mentor Next play reset every time you cross half court reset Every time you cross half court reset One player at a time win the possession and you can win the game Don't try to take it all at one time. You got to reset.   You like man. What the hell I did So you have to also make sure that it's not your energy Make sure you're operating the right way child father out of state Seeing our one-year-old two times Didn't come the first bday. I miss FaceTime called next day text. When can I see my son? Doors always open makes no effort while trying to make me look like a That is hilarious That that man show up two times And then gonna text when can I see my son? I look him he probably text that for a screenshot to send somebody on the text on social media Yeah, I'll text him back You ain't can't even but two times in the whole year and missed his first birthday screenshot Just so when it come back to you Of that when can I see my son like you holding your son hostage? You got that right there what you told him Boy, shout out boy I'ma tend to everyone who ain't had no child take that as a lesson now Y'all got to stop randomly choosing seeds from these men now you can't just just let no any man put no seed in you know You got to be a little more selective Part one my ex fiance and I split up and I said listen, I mean you got all these parts now, so I ain't been five part two now all these messages now Part one my ex fiance and I split a year ago I closed the business and raised our three kids all under six alone He had heaven. I blocked all contact with him. He wants me back and is now in rehab So to let him let him go through that rehab let him come out on that other side of rehab Let him get him a job. Let him have his sponsor. Let him get on his feet Let him do right for a year two years Before you even consider that and if you still single and he's still clean He cleaned for a year and you could be around him a few time with the kids and you could feel until he cleaned And that that's a different story That's a different story. Hey, I'm gonna be on here about three more minutes now Starting the way down. I'm gonna make sure Oh, I did part two And trying to get me back in marriage, but his family is poor of mine. It talks to his child outside of me is very Calm and old why we were together You did the right things just did the right thing To the new members. God bless you. I really appreciate you Really appreciate you I ain't see none of the um Moderators on here tonight Why do I constantly attract men who are looking for emotional support or someone to uplift them constantly?  So he definitely different He did whoever did that to you. He definitely different. So You know, understand that right there now Understand that right now one of my guys They text me but I always text me at the wrong time. I'd be tired up and then I'd be forgetting Hi, Tony What should I do if my guys overly attached to his mom but says I'm number one Hold or fold year three Year three To be honest with you since I really don't understand guys who heavily attached to their mom Because I was raised with my mom and dad, you know in the household and me and my mama we talk like on text every day Um Almost every day she text me but on the phone we might talk Once or twice a month And it just because just me having a family and just me ripping and running and Having you know dealing with so many people I don't get to talk to on the phone as much And so I just know we really understood men who real real close to their mama like that but I guess just different personalities And it's like if it's not affecting you if it's not like he's not comparing you to his mom and you don't do this Like my mama you don't do that like my mama and his mama not coming and giving you advice and telling you Hey, you need to do this for my son You need to treat my son like this if she ain't overstepping boundaries. It ain't nothing like that then But I would say in this year three this kind of it's coming about that time You know to put up a shut up because that's a that's a little long That's a little long and see jazz and it popped up at the top but on the on the feed here I'm just not getting to it I'm just not getting to it What does it mean when a guy questions a woman's emotions? So he'll be shocked by something and say and he'll say shocked is that manipulative instead of acknowledging the woman's feelings Of course the woman's emotions It's just a Jedi mind trick Just to see if you're gonna flip it up You know flip the script How do I hold a man accountable express my needs without nagging Is nagging is just You know perspective on how the man sees it But if you express your needs in a conversation then That's how you do it. That's not saying the same thing every day getting loud with it arguing with it cussing with it That's nagging but now you shouldn't have to express something too many times at least no more than three times for a man to get it How does the person earn money with a podcast? What is the earnings potential? There is no Cap on your earnings with a podcast because it it just if you're on youtube then views So you get paid, you know by your monetized views So if you get a million views or you get 10 million views and the more views the more pay And then with the advertisement It's the more you get the more downloads you get the more listeners you have then the more money you get paid So if you got 10 listeners I'm gonna pay you a dollar to promote my company And you get a thousand listeners.   I'm gonna pay you a thousand dollars So it just it goes up as as you go up by the way Course are excellent tonic god blessing our kimberlin for taking the course giving that old chance It's a minute fake scamming chamois courses out here that course to take a bad name sometime Do you believe in breaks been with my boyfriend for almost a year and he would like to personally grow So he can be better for us. We love each other but communication has been weird. Thank you No, I don't believe in breaks because It happens me and my wife had It was kind of like a break where it really was her breaking up with me But it wasn't but even that it wasn't pure It wasn't intentional it was because she was getting hounded, you know by her ex-boyfriend And then I was acting crazy, you know, I was acting insecure So it wasn't like we was taking a break it really like we was breaking up And we just so happened to get back together six months later But it really wasn't a real break because we didn't talk at all in that time And we really had no intention of coming back together It just so happened because this is what god had for us But I don't believe in breaks because in a marriage you cannot run from your problems You got to work through your problems. You got to sit down. You got to put your head together And you got to work through it. So that's why I don't believe in breaks now One okay like the reset but it should literally be no longer than two weeks And and you really shouldn't have multiple breaks You have one break or something like that, you know, that's different Hey, we done went an hour and hour and a half. It looked like it say so God bless you I really appreciate y'all make sure you taking Don't forget to use That cold because I got it up for you Happy 15 last month. I'm a 15th anniversary tomorrow. I'm a son 15th birthday. And so that's why Yeah, I just left it the same But it gave you 50 off your next course And I honestly do that I'm honestly doing that because I just heard from a lot of people just about the financial strain You know, joe stopped giving them stimulus checks and uh Them stimulus checks and that unemployment And people change went to looking strange. So because of the hearing so many people asked for payment plan That's why I just made a code and then each month I try to make some kind of code just to help out Even though my course already priced 50% of what the competition pricing their courses anyway, so you really getting 90 discount, but Hopefully it'll bless you And everything I do life love and business and if you need a coach Or consultant make sure you get on my mentor dot life Uh My mentor dot life I'm on there as well.  Yeah, everybody. Uh Everybody type like that. Yeah Let me type I put the link to my podcast channel So I'm I'm loading up the podcast and be releasing soon. Lord willing It's causing an arm and a leg because I like to fly. I'm flying to the people. I'm flying to the people driving to the people I'm going to the events. I'm going around the city. I'm filming in the city You know getting b-roll footage and sitting down with them in their house and So from state-state. So I've been in Texas and georgia and got alabama coming up new warlands Louisiana got new york california So i'm going all over so it it costs me an arm and a leg and i'm doing it You know with the help of the patreon supporters And on the bless tribe and bless business tribe supporters You know, that's extra like a blessing to me. So that helped me do little projects like these that can Just add to the lessons and the greatness that people are getting you know, we Extracting the greatness out of people's story So hey god bless y'all and we will talk soon Can't think of nothing else and if we had some moderators on here. I ain't really getting to see the moderators but I don't know if they I got on here. Oh Let go share look like But I don't know if it Working on here But I so appreciate y'all god bless you and we'll talk soon This right here got everybody With a With a green thing. I know everybody ain't green This money here ain't showing all the different colors. No, it's not normal But for a lot of men It is I ain't see that sister forgive me. I missed that When you put that so let me make sure I've seen Everybody who sent one of these Your blessing in here Okay, yeah I'm gonna try to scroll to the bottom Okay, yeah trying to answer though. Let me see Man, he messes a lot more than I thought was in here I'm scrolling for day um So let me see if I seen you at that restaurant now That mighta with me might not with me Yeah, that was me if it was the chicken spot But see listen says and put my business out there now Because I wasn't supposed to be eating that fried chicken. Was it fried chicken? because it was about Mid night after the trap karaoke. I went to trap karaoke. I met the gentleman who's who owned it who founded it with my Interviewee introduced me to the gentleman. So I walked past that good fried chicken I had to step in then Get a little bit of calorie-free fried chicken. So I'm just gonna put my business in the street But and then let the people know now I was by myself too. Why not their cheating? But uh, I was tying that chicken up midnight I was on the treadmill today. I'm trying to Walk it off. Hey god bless y'all and we'll talk soon


Hello, hello, everyone. My name is Laura. This is my channel Laura's Little Library and welcome to today's video. I Don't mean to say welcome to today's video in every intro. I do I just did that once and then twice and then it again and again Anyway, welcome to a new video Today I'm doing the Taurus tag. I was not tagged by anyone I decided to do it because I am a Taurus my birthday is May 10 So Taurus is my star sign Original creator down below But let's just get right into the tag. So there are five questions and they are pretty fun So the first one is earth sign and name a book with earth in the title So the only book that I have that has earth in the title is one I haven't read yet But I want to and it's actually on my Kindle. Yeah, I have a Kindle I never talk about it because I haven't charged it in a while But that book is journey to the center of the earth. Like I said, I own it on my Kindle And I haven't read it yet, but I've been meaning every time I keep thinking like my Kindle is perfect for traveling so I Can read it when I travel like when I'm on an airplane or you know Something like that because I can't read in the car, but I fly on planes quite a bit And I just I just haven't done that recently. I've flown quite a bit Okay, quite a bit for it being still a year of lockdown. I have three trips on a plane One was domestic one was to Canada and one was actually vacation to Ecuador and Panama. It was wonderful. Anyway, not the point So there's no good reason. I haven't read that and I've been wanting to Side note. So I recently watched a Olivia reads a latte video And she has started putting stickers on her Kindle That's a great idea because like this is the only Kindle case that I have and it's getting quite Beat up and the green is like fading and like I don't mind the green But I think if I were to add some stickers on here, it would give a new life to my Kindle case. So Yes, also, I need to use this more I I finally kind of realized that ebooks are Good and useful and a great way to receive arcs So I need to charge this up and then, you know, maybe I can also read Journey to the center of the earth while I'm at it number two Very reliable. Thank you. Name of reliable bestie I would say a pretty reliable bestie is the best friend and star daughter by Shvetta Thakrar Where's Shvetta Thakrar? So our main character is half human half star and she accidentally interests her father So she has to go up into the sky with the stars to ask them to heal her father and they say fight in a competition like a competition of art and music and beauty not like fight and then we will help you heal your father and so She does that and her bestie is right by her side her bestie eventually goes up into the sky and Supports her and it's like there for her on every front of her life. And I just love her She's so reliable. She's got a nice personality. So I Hope I can be that kind of bestie. I mean I would not be opposed to following someone into the sky at all but I gotta find star to be a friend first. Question number three Is ruled by Venus the planet that governs love Okay, uh name a book name your favorite romance book So I keep going back and forth between Which romance book is my favorite either red white and royal blue which I've talked a lot about on this channel Or B3 by Emily Henry. This is like a new favorite contemporary romance I haven't read that many like contemporary romances and not a lot of them have stuck out to me Uh, but this one certainly did and so I love it very much She is a romance writer, but she's technically classified as women's fiction Let's not go there. She's a romance writer and he is a literary fiction writer he's expected to try America's next greatest novel or whatever and Goodbye And it's an enemies to lovers. They decide to swap genres because they are both kind of in writer's block Um, and it's adorable.  So number four very committed Let's see Name a character in a book who is very committed and I'm going with I want to be where you are And this is by Christina Forrest This character I say is Super committed. So let me just let me just read it just here again. Okay. Okay. So basically this book book follows Our main character who is a dancer and she Want she needs to make it to this audition if she wants to like have any future with dance She needs to go to that audition But her mother is like, uh, no Then her mom goes out of town on a cruise with her boyfriend While the auditioning is happening in a different city. So our main character And the neighbor that she hates and has history with and is like Towards uh, you're up for a road trip And she I say she's very committed because she keeps like missing the audition and then Knowing that there's another one in another city. So she ends up like following the company Throughout the entire book. So it's it's uh, definitely a road trip book and she is So committed to dancing. She is not giving up on that audition.  Um So I would say that that's pretty committed I don't know what else would be more committed and the last question is question five and it's possessive Uh possessiveness is a trait of ours, which yes That is true. So the question is name a character who exhibits this trait And I would have to say that lula from bruja born Very much exhibits this so I have a labrith loss, which is the first in the trilogy But bruja born the one that so this follows sisters and it's a trilogy So the first one follows one sister second one follows another third follows another So I'm going with the second book and the second sister lula in bruja born. That's this trilogy Um, she is very possessive kind of over her boyfriend, but like you know what? But in a way that At the very beginning in the book They break up and she's brokenhearted and then there is a bus accident and She is I don't know if possessive really is the right word to describe her But I couldn't really come up with any other character that is like super possessive per se Um, but she goes through the effort of raising him from the dead To keep him she could not lose him. She just there was no way that was gonna happen. So Yes, it it definitely It was it was a good book. I love the entire trilogy. I would highly recommend it to anyone and everyone But yeah, that's that's the closest I could come up to for that prompt only five questions That's not too long of a tag Uh, but thank you for watching if you've come this far if you like this video, give it a thumbs up Comment down below. What is your star sign? I am very curious. Are there any other ataris's out there on Booktube with me Um, otherwise, yeah, if you are ataris and you have a channel, I am tagging you Uh, otherwise, you know the person who created this tag has also created it for all of the star signs I believe so it'd be really cool for you guys to go down and watch all of her videos Maybe do your own star sign. I just had a lot of fun with this I don't particularly believe in them, but I think there are a lot of fun to just play with Um Yeah, anyway, otherwise subscribe if you like this video. I am posting four videos every week in december That's a lot of content So if you subscribe you can hit the bell so that you can be notified when I post you don't miss anything Otherwise, I have bookish bookish socials Down below that you can follow me on and I will follow you back or you can friend me and we can be friends And we can give each other recommendations and have a great time Uh, but otherwise that is the end of this video and until I see you all in the next one. I wish you happy reading