Hello everyone today, we are talking about type 1 diabetes mistakes now if you're a type 2 diabetic I think these still will apply to you But it applies more for type 1 diabetics and you will understand why in a minute. So anyways, I'm dr. Ahmet Ergen I'm an endocrinologist and a diabetes education specialist. I practice in Florida in New York. So Let's get started So guys we are going to divide this into pieces of course for you to better understand I'm gonna try to keep that short and precise so you don't get bored and leave the video But I would recommend watching the entire video to understand the whole concept fully now number one mistake for type 1 Diabetics is not counting carbs correctly in my diabetes practice. I get patients Who have been diabetic for 20 plus years 30 plus years they come and I ask them. Hey, do you count carbs? They're like, what's that? So that's a huge mistake you need to understand your carbs even people who are like health freaks and you know People who are into fitness they do that. They don't have that one diabetes So counting carbs is not a punishment But it's obligatory for even healthy people for even type 2 diabetics But for type 1 diabetics is such essential because if you don't count your carbs You will never be successful in controlling your diabetes because you're giving insulin based on the carbs you're eating So you have to match that and if you are not precise in terms of how much insulin you are taking and you're just Yanking it or whatever just thinking that it may work or whatnot and trying to do a trial and error method That's generally not going to work and most of the time it doesn't another common mistake is even if they know How to count carbs they eat a lot of carbs now if any you eat a lot of carbs You can cover those but number one You're going to gain a lot of weight, right?  So another mistake that can happen with this is there is always a margin of error It's up to 20% or more Every time even if you are perfectly calculating your carbs and you're giving the perfect amount of insulin It will change the your blood sugar or the efficacy of that method will be 20% off It's just because it's not a perfect world The insulin absorption is different every time you give a shot Even your different body parts will have a different type of absorption Your activity level will affect the absorption and so forth And the other thing is the food labels are not always correct So you may think that you are making a correct decision by looking at the labels And you should but you can still be off 20% now 20% of a small number Is much less of a mistake than a 20% of a larger number So 20% of 100 is 20 20% of 20 is only what for right? So you can see the higher the carbs the higher the margin of error Another mistake a lot of type one diabetics make even the doctors make that mistake is giving too much basal insulin So if you're a top one diabetic you should be able to understand what is basal and bolus insulin Basal insulin is the insulin you some people call long-term insulin or wrong acting insulin That stays in your system for 24 hours If you're on a pump, uh, you're actually using a short acting insulin But in small bursts, but it feels like a long acting insulin for pump users In your case though, most people consider the long acting insulin safer But actually it's not and the reason they think that sometimes when they take a bolus insulin like a short acting insulin in other words Or a fast acting insulin Their blood sugar sometimes drop very quickly and they get scared They think that the short acting insulin is going to drop them Well, that's true if you overdo it It can drop your blood sugars, but to compensate what they do They end up taking more and more long acting insulin such as levomir, lontus, tujea, terciba Or they just increase the basal insulin rate in their pump And as a result what happens is that you're constantly getting insulin to your body And then you start being constantly hungry and if you skip a meal your blood sugar will keep going down So the purpose of basal insulin is not to lower your blood sugar You have to understand that the purpose of basal insulin or long acting insulin or your basal rates in your insulin pump Is to maintain your blood sugar. So if you're fasting for a while, it's easy to test If you're fasting for a while, you're not extremely physically active, but normal day you're fasting You're skipping a meal, etc. If your blood sugars are dropping you're on too much insulin And that not only causes excessive weight gain, but actually it will cause low blood sugars Especially at night as well. And it's not going to help your blood sugar spikes because basal insulin is just a basal flat Insulin you're just increasing the basal rate But you may need way more insulin than that for a short time after you eat So as a result, if you are not really giving enough bolus and you're just relying on your basal insulin You are going to continue to have blood sugar spikes, which is the main reason for people to have complications from diabetes And in addition to that, you will have low blood sugars, which is not a good feeling and will make you feel miserable Even a few days after a low blood sugar people still not feel good So you're going to induce a lot of low blood sugars So and then you're gonna have this roller coaster of blood sugar and you're gonna be like i'm taking so much insulin Why is my blood sugar is also up and down? Well, that's because you're taking too much insulin I mean basal insulin and of course in addition to that one of the biggest mistakes is skipping boluses They for example, especially young diabetics with type 1 diabetes. They'll say i'm too busy. I'm at work. They don't allow me Oh, you can you can have countless excuses for not to take an insulin shot But if you make a rule to yourself, you will find a way to do it You can just go to restroom quickly or you can just find a way to either use your pump or Get an insulin shot with your pen Before your meals is essential You have to do that otherwise Once you skip a dose your blood sugar will climb so high It's going to be difficult to bring it down and then that's going to cause more problems If you you may if you over correct you will go low And then you will try to correct that and it's going to be a mess So try to avoid skipping bolus doses the insulin doses before the meals the short acting one At all cost in addition to that one more mistake is Overcorrecting low blood sugars So when you're using too much basal insulin, not only you're causing low blood sugar But when you are low you feel like you're so hungry you can eat the whole world And we tell people to only eat 15 20 grams of carbs, but actually in reality that doesn't satisfy them So if you had a low blood sugar, you will know how it feels and you feel like that's just not gonna do You're so hungry and then you end up over treating and your blood sugar goes from 50 to 300 And then now you have to correct that that are that are that so it's endless So do you not over correct your low blood sugars? The best is to avoid low blood sugars, but do you not over correct your blood sugars? And I always say, you know one gram of carb will increase your blood sugar on average three to four points So if you're you know depending on how much you want to raise your blood sugar You can just estimate those carbs So for example, if you want to increase your blood sugar by 60 points Because you're really low and you want to feel like you're in a safe range Then you can eat 20 grams of carbs and that's going to increase your blood sugar by 60 points If you have a lot of insulin in your system, if you inadvertently gave insulin You can continue to monitor your blood sugar if your blood sugar is trending down You can take another carbohydrate ingestion But if you are not careful about this, you may just end up in the sky and that will be difficult to control later And one more mistake is being resistant to technology guys open your eyes We live in 21st century. We have a lot of technology available and they are evolving Just because you had a bad experience with a device in the past For example a cgm a continuous glucose monitoring system or insulin pump Does not mean that you will have a problem today I would say, you know, if you have never tried it try the Monitoring systems. Nowadays, there's no finger sticks. Yes, they're not perfect. Yes, they have problems We have videos about that just type on the search button dexcom versus libre You will see I have a lot of videos about that But it's still an essential part and you need to understand how to use those devices Most people end up getting those devices just to avoid finger sticks But you need to know how to use it. You know, yeah, you may want to get a car Just to avoid walking But if you don't know how to use a car you'll end up crashing So same thing with the devices, you need to really know what you're doing with your devices Understand what they mean and what the numbers mean and what the arrows mean on those devices And the insulin pump is the same way Depending on how you use it, it may turn out to be great or it may turn out to be horrible So make sure that you are seeing an endocrinologist who's on top of these as well One final mistake is not understanding the effect of the proteins and fat in your diet Yes, we are shooting for carbohydrates However, if you're on a high fat diet and if you're especially overweight Your insulin resistance will go high So you will need actually more insulin when you're eating higher fat Up to 30% more insulin may be needed on a higher fat diet For example, the the pizza is a best example when you eat pizza Your blood sugar will go high and will stay high for a long time Because fat will keep your blood sugar high will make you insulin resistant And the ball is insulin that you are giving only will last you three to four hours But then after that up to Six to eight hours the blood sugars are running high because of the pizza and fat content And you will have to have multiple boluses or you will just stay high Of course proteins raise your blood sugar too. Some people will say, hey, I don't even eat carbs I don't know why my blood sugar are going high Well, you're eating protein if you're eating a whole chicken That's a lot of protein and those proteins actually raise your blood sugar as well Not as much as carbs definitely maybe one fourth of a carb, you know Like maybe you know 10 grams of protein will increase your blood sugar as much as a 40 grams of carbs But that still will do something so you need to understand that the protein has a role in your blood sugars as well So guys, I hope that helps. So if you have questions comments, please put it down Share this video, especially with people you love and I think they will find it useful And give a like if you like the video. Thank you very much. We'll see you in the next one All right. Thank you for watching and I want you to be more informed and more educated So to do that go ahead and watch this next video right here


Hey everyone, welcome back to Prime 5, your 5 biggest Nintendo news stories here in the last 24 hours. We got some big news for you today, we got some stuff about Autopad Traveler 2, oh boy, it's pretty exciting. Some stuff on Sonic Frontiers as well, couple stories dealing with that game. We have a little bit of news on an upcoming release related to Breath of the Wild, so keep that in mind, and a very old game for my childhood is coming back in a new fantastic way to Nintendo Switch that actually has me a little bit excited.  Is that possible? Can we do that? I don't know, it would just bring a smile to my face for this holiday season. That being said, let's get right into the news. So our first story deal is a brand new 5 minute trailer for Autopad Traveler 2 and it looks really damn good. This game has looked really good every time they've shown it off. It features a ton of locations and characters, story elements, and even music from the game which you won't hear here. Several gameplay systems are also detailed throughout this trailer and yeah it features the game's HD 2D graphics and they get a ton of time in the spotlight as they're trying to show you how they have advanced since the original Autopad Traveler. Look, this is one of my most anticipated upcoming games on Nintendo Switch. It is going to be a multi-platform release which is awesome because that means all gamers get to play it. The original Autopad Traveler eventually went to everything as well. So look, this is really good news. The prequel even on phones is pretty good. People always say hey, what's a good phone game? Hey, the prequel for Autopad Traveler is actually a very good phone game. So look, I'm really excited for this one. It's going to be a major RPG coming to Switch yet again. Raise your hand, clap, put them together, clap your hands if you've heard major RPG coming to Switch because Switch is sort of becoming a haven for RPGs. Western JRPG doesn't really seem to matter so yes, yes, yes, I'm all for that. Let's get into our next story. So Sonic Frontiers has, well, leaked and leaked online in some various ways. I don't believe there's a playable version online yet. Some people are somehow getting early retail copies, falling off the truck copies, whatever the case might be in certain countries, but because of this we are getting a bunch of footage and details about the game leaking at places such as 4chan. Now we're not going to actually dive into these leaks themselves. I will say I did watch some of the gameplay clips and confirmed these are actually legit leaks. So yes, this is real. This is a thing. The game is out there and people are posting gameplay clips at places that are hard to shut down. So right now this isn't everyone can play the game style leak. This is just people have it and they're sharing all the information, but we're not going to cover much more than that. I just wanted to point out that if you're trying to avoid spoilers they do exist out there. They aren't being widely shared on Twitter and YouTube and stuff like that because Sega is shutting that stuff down, but if you're interested we will have a link to where I found some of this stuff. If you want to go check it out, again it's your prerogative if this is something you're interested in and just hey look, I watched a few of the clips. Game looks pretty good so far, but these are just clips. So I mentioned earlier that there would be something related to the Breath of the Wild in here and that's because a new statue from First 4 Figures is up for pre-order right now and if you pre-order now before November 25th, yes, you can end up getting a $10 discount. It's going to cost you $139.99, normally $149.99. It's 11.2 inches tall. It's made out of PVC. We're talking about Urbosa. It looks fantastic. This is one of their more affordable new figures that they're releasing and I always love the PVC line because it takes the quality of First 4 Figures and then makes it affordable for the masses versus the $5,000 statues they've done in the past. So this is really great news. If you guys want to go ahead and pre-order it, we'll put a link down in the description. Now before we get into our next story, I wanted to thank the sponsor of today's video, Ewan Racing maybe. Ewan Racing has decided to sponsor our entire channel for the next three months. Big shout out to them. And you know what? If you are looking for a new office chair, if you're looking for a new gamer chair just to kind of sit back and relax when you're gaming on your TV or at your PC or wherever you like to sit, I can't suggest Ewan Racing chairs enough. They have a lot of different options ranging from $230 all the way up to a more premium $450 plus option depending on what suits your style. I've been using them for a couple of years. I really enjoy their chairs. You've seen them on my channel a lot. If you guys would like to get your own Ewan Racing chair, why don't you use the link down in the description. And hey, if you use code Nintendo Prime at checkout, all one word, capital N and capital P, you can get 20% off your order. So thank you guys so much to Ewan Racing for supporting us. And for those of you that want to continue to support us and purchase one of these chairs down below. Remember when I said Sonic Frontiers a moment ago is leaking? Well, this isn't actually a leak for this part. I wanted to mention that they did release a prologue. Sega released an official prologue animation for the game. I'm hoping this animation is included in the game. Again, I haven't watched it because I have been avoiding spoilers. If it's not included in the game, I've already voiced on a live stream that I think that's a bit of a problem if they don't include it with the game because I don't think when you're playing Sonic Frontiers you should have to leave Sonic Frontiers to find out information about Sonic Frontiers. Apparently something about the protagonist is in this and to me that's vital information should be in the game. It's out there though in case you want to watch it. It's officially released. It's not a leak. So go ahead and enjoy. We'll put a link to it down below. Now I mentioned a game for my childhood is coming back and I can't stress enough how big of a deal this is to me because I spent so many hours playing this game. Oregon Trail is coming back. Yes. The Oregon Trail. For those that don't know what this game is, can't blame you because it's really ancient. But it's coming back. It's being remastered. It's going to be $29.99. It's made by GameLoft. We don't know when it's coming out. We just know it's coming to Switch and PC. And here's what they had to say about it. Experience the Oregon Trail like never before. A modern twist on the trials and tribulations of the road to Oregon. This official successor to the global phenomenon will immerse players in exhilarating journeys ranging from historically accurate to the totally extreme. Players will pick their traveling party, stock the wagon with supplies, and embark on an adventure filled with tough choices, new dangers, and unexpected situations. Surviving blizzards, broken limbs, snake bites, exhaustion, starvation, and the dreaded dysentery of no small feat. All the while navigating an untamed frontier to get your party to their new life in Oregon before the winter. Track down a missing party in the aftermath of a fierce blizzard, transport volatile gunpowder through blistering desert heat, compete in challenging hunting mini-games, and meet a broadcast of historic figures. With procedurally selected random events where players' choices affect their party and future game events, there's always a new adventure on the horizon every time you play, and all I can hope is that while I'm traveling an Oregon Trail that I don't end up drowning my entire family while crossing a river. Yes folks, I have very fond memories of Oregon Trail played a lot of this. It was actually one of the few games that were on our school computers back in the 90s. Can you believe that? That's crazy. That number munchers. Anyways folks, I want to thank you guys so much for tuning in to Prime 5. It's been a nice journey to get back here. I'm really glad that we got a regular flow of content. Hopefully I have another video for you later today on a completely different topic. But hey, if you enjoyed this stuff, drop a like, subscribe to the channel, and I want to catch you guys in the next video.


Which delivery platform should you be signing up for your restaurant? Ultimately, the question is choosing the delivery app that gives you the best support at the lowest cost possible and that's why we're making this video for you Hello friends, it's Wilson here your friend in helping you build a profitable restaurant today We're gonna be comparing the four major food delivery apps side by side and comparing four different components The commission they charge the market share they have the accessibility and last but not least their terms of service Now we're gonna dive into why terms of service is key in determining the future of the restaurant business And for now, I want to thank my great friend actually for making this video happen He writes about food and technology and the future of where ghost kitchen is going So if you want to get the latest news if you want to get the latest insights from someone who's been there done that Then you must follow his blog at superfoods.substack.com in the link below go follow him and Without further ado, let's dive right in today We're gonna be comparing the four biggest food delivery apps out there Postmates uber eats door-dash and grub hub and we're gonna be comparing them with four of the biggest metrics commission availability Market share and terms and now we're gonna dive into commission first commission is basically what these Delivery apps will be charging you up front and ultimately determining how much money you can put into your pocket Now keep in mind the commission that I'm sharing with you is on a rough estimate only because each of these apps will send someone out and to Negotiate a customized Percentage with you. So this is for reference purpose only so make sure that you guys don't sue me for any of The information that we're gonna give out for you to start off. We have postmates postmate charges around 30% in commission What does that mean? That means for postmates to process your order to deliver your order They charge 30% if you were to have a burger that you sell for $10 on postmates They're gonna give you back $7 at the end of the month and they're gonna keep $3 for them to fulfill for you Also on postmates website They also claim that you don't need to pay any upfront cost to sign up as a merchant with uber eats You pay around 15 to 30% commission depending on the type of services that you sign up for So if you have your own delivery driver or if you want to do your own deliveries You can do that all you have to do is sign up with uber eats for them to process your order for you to get exposed to all the different customers that uber eats has to offer and You do your own fulfillment and that would cost you around 15% in commission But if you want to utilize the whole system that uber eats has to offer from ordering to delivery That would run you up to 30% roughly as well Door dash is by far the cheapest one that is out there for a collective of their services Around 20 ish percent is what I'm seeing now once again with these commissions You are and you can negotiate directly with their reps depending on your volume depending on your brand and Depending on your negotiation skills You would have different types of commission door dash try charges around 20% and on top of that That would include basically other insurance the onboarding of their drivers and all those items with grubhub They charge around 15 to 30% as well depending on the services that you sign up for Next up we have Availability what does that mean that means how many restaurants are on board these different apps? The more restaurants on these apps the more happier your customers are going to be because they have more choices To choose from and that's the reason why if you're going to be signing up with apps You would want to choose one that has more Availability and more choices to choose from now with postmates.  They have 320,000 restaurants that are signed up with them And their focus is much more international and having that presence next up door dash 310,000 restaurants sign up with them primarily all in the United States and lastly we have grubhub at 140,000 restaurants Next up we have market share. What does that mean? That means how much? Users are on these platforms the more users that are on these platforms the more Possibility for them to buy from your restaurant So that's the reason why you would always want to sign up the one with a more more market share It has direct impact to your restaurant postmates has 7% market share Uber Eats has around 23% and door dash having 50% market share in the United States and Primarily the reason is because they are really really focused on having most locations in the United States And lastly we have grubhub at 18% market share in the United States Before we dive into the metrics here We're gonna have to talk about what is the terms of services and why it is so crucial for you as the restaurant owner to understand this before Choosing the right food delivery partner to start off. What is the terms and services? It is basically how friendly it is to work with these food delivery apps are the contract easy to find and are they easy to Understand that's one metric the second one is who owns the data Is it you as the restaurant or is it the food delivery apps and what data are we talking about? How many people are ordering from you? When are they ordering from you? What are they ordering from you? And third of all it is how you as the restaurant can utilize these data Can you utilize these data as insights for you to market better to your customers? Can you sell these data to bigger corporations? What can you do with this data and lastly is what can the food delivery apps do with this data? Can they use the data and sell this data off to other big corporations? Or they can they only use this data for the purpose of conducting food delivery? Combining the four metrics I just shared with you We came up and generated these numbers Which is what we ranked for the different delivery apps and the reason why this is so important is because Moving forward data is everything being able to understand and utilize the data Gives you the insight of what promotions to do next what kind of marketing campaigns are going to do Where are you going to open up your new restaurant and the worst thing that can happen is? When these apps become more mature and for them to come in and create something very very similar To your concept and to hijack your listing so then that way they push your listing all the way down and put their Own concept at the top to take all your market share and this is something called the Amazon effect So what it is is basically Amazon had a lot of third-party retailer that sells on their platform And Amazon sees what's selling really well and which has the highest margins and they go and create their own concept Very very similar to the top dogs that are selling on their platform And that itself allowed them to be even more profitable and to really push out the competitors And this is called the Amazon effect which you do not want to happen for your restaurant And that's the reason why the higher the number here the more protected you are for your restaurants So now we understand why terms and conditions are so important with postmates They rank the highest because not only do they let you know what the contract is about They basically decode Every single clause as you can see right here making it super easy for you to understand their terms and condition And on top of that you own all your data and you can use your data. However the way you wish and on top of that Postmates would not use and sell any of your data in any way that causes harm to you as the restaurant owner So that's the reason why they rank super high in our list Next up we have Uber Eats Uber Eats make it super easy for you to find their contract and to read their contract and their terms and condition Yet on that note you co-owned the data with Uber Eats And they also reserve the right to use the data wherever they see fit So that's really that means that technically speaking they can sell your data in the future Then we have DoorDash DoorDash makes it difficult for us to find their contract and on top of that They own the data and once again, they reserve the right to use the data as they see fit Once again, allowing them to potentially sell the data to bigger corporations or to come up with their own concept down the road Worst of all is Grubhub. Grubhub makes you send in your tax receipt in order for you to get the latest terms and condition agreement Not only that Do they also reserve to write to use the data as they see fit and on top of that You are required to delete your data if They say so and that's the reason why they're on the bottom of our list That is the least friendliest when it comes to terms and conditions Now to help you out a little bit further I've compiled these sets of questions that you can start asking your representative So then that way you can get clarity to protect yourself and to ensure you get the best deal from the delivery apps So there you go friends the side-by-side comparison of the four biggest delivery apps out there Whichever platform you choose to use one thing is for sure is that the industry is shifting and changing every single day Technology is rapidly advancing So we need to make sure that we keep an open mind and be receiving and adapting to new technology at the same time Customer's behavior is changing all the time as well So we need to make sure that we stay on top of the game in order for us to thrive If you guys like this video if you guys like the content and want to learn more About the food technology space definitely give my great friend a follow in the link below superfoods.substack.com Follow him because he shares a lot of great insight within this industry I really really hope you enjoyed this video if you guys enjoyed it make sure you smash like button Leave me a comment. Let me know how you think about this video. Otherwise, I'll see you guys in the next video


Mae'r ddysgol yn ddoch, fi gynnwys. Mae yn enwedig, mae Sawerdd wedi ardennau. Felly mae'n ddysgol mewn ddau, neu gwahanol sydd wedi cael eu ddysgol ffwnau a'r prynodd. Mae'n dod o'r regall yn gweithio'i gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio, felly rydyn ni wedi cael ei gwybod ar langwys. Rydyn ni'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio ar gyfer eu gweithio ar gyfer ei ddysgol. Rydyn ni'n golygu'n gwneud hynny dyfodill'u gweithio. ac mae'r ddweud ydych yn erbyn unrhyw i'r gweithio perffian dependingol sy'n gyffredinol a gyrsbeth gyda hwnnw yn unigach. Mae'n ystafell o'n unigach a gwrsfyn. If you are confused about your sexuality or gender in this culture, you are worshipped. But if you claim to God's objective standard for how He designed men and women, you're called the bigot. While those from secular culture are content with calling the other side names, as Christians that's not what we should be resorting to. I believe that we're commanded to speak the truth in love. mae'n ymwneud o'r ddweud o'r ddweud i'r pronowns a sexualwad, ond y gallwn gwirioneddau nesaf a chylywb am y gwirioneddau yw ymol, o'r ddweud y ddweud o'r ddweud, o'r ddweud o'r ddweud o'r ddweud o'r ddweud a'r ddweud o'r ddweud o'r ddweud o'r ddweud. Mae ydych chi'n siarad ymlaen, ymlaen i'r ddweud. When we step away from our own distorted perspectives of what love looks like and we look into the Bible to biblical love, we find out that actual biblical love is speaking the truth to somebody even when it may offend them. This kind of cultural engagement is so necessary for Christians today. We should not be withdrawing from the culture when we see this kind of craziness going on, but rather go into it, engage the culture with love. Because people like this don't leave their confusion to themselves. Actually, they're leading a lot of other young teens down this path to be confused about their gender and sexuality. They're finding community in this confusion.  While Jesus said he's the way, the truth and the life, he shines light into the confusion, into the darkness. In Christ we are all made new. Follow for more.


Welcome learners, this is the third video lecture for the unit concept of product and this is for BBA second semester marketing management program. First we will go to the up line of this presentation. After going through this video lecture, you will be able to define the meaning of product lifecycle. Then I will be able to explain the product lifecycle concept and we will be able to describe the stages of product lifecycle and then at the end we will discuss different factors which affects the product lifecycle. So first we should go to the concept of product lifecycle. Every product passes through certain different or distinct stages during its lifespan. As we human like from the time of our birth till our death we passes through different stages likewise product also passes through different stages. Hence the term product lifecycle concept denotes the stages through which a product passes from its introduction to the market and till its disappearance like when the product becomes obsolete from the market. So in this diagram I have shown what are the different stages of product lifecycle like first it introduces in the market then it grows then at the point it reaches the maturity stage and then slowly it started declining from the market. So first we should know what are the factors which influences in this product lifecycle. There are number of factors which affect the product lifecycle. The main factors affecting the product lifecycle are one is your rate of technological changes. Nowadays technology is changing very fast and because of which like products also becoming obsolete very fast. Earlier the lifespan of products was longer compared to recent stage. Then next is your rate of market acceptance like if a product gets accepted in the market quickly then maybe like its lifecycle will vary compared to the product which gets accepted in the market slowly. Then another point is your case of competitive entry like in the lifecycle of the product how the competitors are doing their role. If there are much competition then what companies need to do they need to upgrade their product quickly to meet the competition and as a result the lifecycle of the product will be shorter. And then economic forces also influences in the lifecycle of the product. Then protection by patent if the company has the patent for their product then the lifecycle of the product will be longer compared to unpatented products. And then personal strategies like different companies will have different strategy and that also influences in the lifecycle of a product. So basically in this video lecture we have discussed about the lifecycle of a product how it passes through from the stage of introduction till the stage of when it becomes obsolete. So in this video lecture we have discussed the product lifecycle which helps marketers in deciding correct strategy for the product. Product lifecycle concept denotes the stages through which a product passes from its introduction to the market and till its disappearance from the market. There are certain factors which influences product lifecycle like technological changes for example if we consider the computers. We can see like how the first generation computer was then the second generation and now how it has transformed from desktop to laptop to palm top. So all these technological changes then competitors legal protection external forces all this has made the product lifecycle to vary. Like higher the technologies the lifecycle of the product may be shorter and shorter. Hope you have understood this video lecture and this is the end of your chapter 4 that is concept of product. I will see you again with another video lecture. Thank you.


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QuickBooks Online 2024. Customize report. Get ready because we're going to bookkeeping cloud nine with QuickBooks Online 2024. Here we are online in our browser searching for QuickBooks Online Test Drive looking for the result that has Intuit.com and the URL Intuit being the owner of QuickBooks selecting the United States version of the software and verifying that we're not a robot. Open it up our major financial statement reports like we do every time reports on the left hand side and then within the favorites we're going to right click on that balance sheet report open in new tab right click on the profit and loss open in new tab go up to that middle tab we just open close up the hamburger there's our balance sheet let's do a range change up top going from 010123 tab 123123 that's January to December 2023 run it to refresh it tab into the right closing the hand boogie ranging to the change in 010123 tab 123123 and run it to refresh it let's go back on over to the balance sheet this is where our point of focus has been and we talked last time about the components of the balance sheet the comparison between the balance sheet and the income statement between our two major reports and we talked about some of the formatting items the formatting and customized items that are in this gray area up top as well as this header section here now we want to go into the customized settings further into these customized settings some of the information in here will be duplicated and I think the idea from QuickBooks is they had they're kind of not knowing which how much stuff they want within the customize and how much stuff they want in this ribbon area so some of it is basically duplicated they might change it over time that's why we update the course from time to time so that we have the up-to-date locations of all these little functions but typically the functions will remain the same they might just change exactly the like the formatting and where they are located so let's go into the customization up top we have the customization categories if I close all of the triangles we've got the general we've got the rows and columns we've got the filters we got the headers and footers let's start off with the top one the general information so we have the periods note that this period information is the exact same thing that we saw over here in a prior presentation therefore most likely you're going to be going into that stuff on this side and not going into the customized reports to get there and then we got the accounting method once again that was something that was over here as well so you have that toggle that they put over here now with the accounting method I'm recommending remember to use the accrual method I went into a big long rant on it last time as to why that's the case so if you have if you're thinking I want to click over to the cash method over here just go into my rant before and then think about it and see if that is the thing you want to do in the prior presentation but in any case we're then going to the number formatting so this is new stuff we've got the divide by 1000 without cents except zero amounts negative numbers and show in red so let's go through these one at a time we're going to say first divide by 1000 now most of the time small reports or companies might not do this but if you have a large numbers then dividing by 1000 is a way to take off some zeros to round basically so if we click that one off we're going to say boom and then it rounds it out to the thousand so if I go into my trusty calculator here and we were to say that we had 1.2 times 1000 that's where that's the amount here so if I go back up top again and we say I'm going to go back up top to my customization and then if I bring it back off we were at the 1201 right so it rounds it to the thousands now if I take if I do that here and I say divide by 1000 and we want to have the without cents then it's going to take off the decimal so now it takes off the decimal that wasn't really sense here that was the rounded that was the rounded amount here right so you probably possibly want the decimal maybe if you're rounding there but those are the rounding one now if I bring it back to where we were here's where we were and now I have the pennies here so what if I want to round it to the pennies I just want to take off the pennies I'm not going to divide by a thousand just want to take off the pennies well that's the sense so we don't want sense we want the report to make sense but not have pennies that's what we're talking about so that's a little bit cleaner obviously the question would be is is the financial statement reports are they still when you take off or round certain items do you have what you need for decision making purposes usually for external reporting taking off the pennies is fine for the internal reports I like to have the pennies on there because I want to see the exact numbers when I do my data input information so I would usually take off the pennies for external reporting possibly divide if I'm looking with working with large numbers then we have the accept zero amount this is checked off by default and that's probably the way that we want to keep it let's run the report just to see what that is doing if I go down here for example to this truck account you can see it has a parent subsidiary account relationship let's go back to the first half just to get an idea of what that means if I go into the transactions and then go into my chart of accounts when we set up our accounts we could set them up so that we have a parent type of account and then put other accounts below it so we have this subsidiary relationship that's what's creating that particular drop down when we do that oftentimes we don't want to actually post anything to this truck account but instead just use it to give us the drop down and then post to the accounts below it so you can see that nothing over here is posted to the truck account and it didn't put a zero which is nice because the zero would be a little bit messy right so instead it has the drop down and here's the amount here and then it gives us the total below also down below in retained earnings you could see nothing's in retained earnings but it still keeps retained earnings because that's like a permanent account and it doesn't put as it didn't put a zero there if I go back up top and customize it and then uncheck that one you can see that in this subsidiary truck account there it puts the zero which is a little bit ugly right it's not as nice and then it puts it here now if you want to remove the zeros that don't have anything in there remember that was here where you can say I want to have not active accounts that had activity in them but non-zero accounts so that'll remove all the accounts that have zeros in them so so usually if you want to remove the zeros you'll do this and usually by default you'll just keep this one checked off and just don't mess with that one typically so then let's go to the next one we're going to say rows and columns so we have the totals the days the months and this is all stuff that we saw over here same exact drop down that we had over here just repeated show non-zero amounts this is the same exact drop down that I just showed you over here so once again you probably will not go into the rows and column section because you could do that right at the header of


So today I'm really excited to bring my friend Susan winter to chat with us about this topic of About this topic. He's just not that into you and really quickly Susan is someone I admire She has a substantial YouTube channel. She's one of those people that genuinely cares and wants to help people So Susan welcome to this interview or conversation Jonathan thank you and hello all the Jonathanites out there welcome talk to us Let us know what you what your questions are. Yeah, so we're gonna talk about why men won't commit what to do about it And while this is centered around men because my audience are women seeking advice on men This is really true for men and women a lot. Would you agree? Yeah? Yeah, I work with all people men women straight gay all ages and yeah The prep that what we're talking about is universal absolutely Well, I certainly suspect with you know since I deal with more of a heterosexual marketplace There are probably some unique differences for those who people who are in gay and lesbian relationships Certainly those that are cultural differences from different countries at the same time I think human behavior Particularly in the area of childhood wounds and traumas and adult traumas is not I mean not every person is unique to themselves But it's still one of the common reasons why people struggle with commitment Exactly because of their original template and you know, that's why you're an advocate for people doing their own work Working on themselves. So we can work on ourselves a lot and be very knowledgeable and women are really really good at this You know women women mullet over. We listen to his message 40 times Ask our friends what they thought what did he mean? Why did they do it with journal?  I don't know.  It's done and they tend to not process But you're in california.    Yeah, you know, like that's the so the differences between men and women in the area of Maybe processing Maybe women do that They process the relationship. Maybe over and over again Different than men. How about actually healing their childhood wounds and their traumas over relationship? Do you think women do a better job or is it, you know, equally poor with for both genders? I think when we hit a hot wire, we all freak out Yeah, no matter how much we know and how much therapy we have But I Okay, so I'm I don't know that I've ever talked to you about this, but okay I have this inherent belief that if done beautifully consciously and intentionally We could utilize The actual relationship that we are in to assist our healing because oh We are gonna bump up next to somebody that we were attracted to not for nothing childhood You know attachment stuff going on and we're gonna bump up next to them and if we had the vocabulary to send to That brought up something in me. I'm working through it. I know it did the exact opposite for you Here we stand. Can we heal together? That wouldn't that be amazing if you trigger me? I trigger you, but we're both aware of it Because that's the sacred relationship that we're talking about in a higher evolution of what I believe why we have relationships We so and then we could have co co healing right So I'm in full agreement that one of the challenges in relationship is is the is the languaging to use And it's interesting because communication is often, you know, everyone says how important communication is important communication is but really it's it's having the tools to Communicate in a way that's to be seen heard and understood And you made a really good point I want to piggyback on and I've learned this in my new relationship and it's not new We're almost celebrating a year together now um I did a lot of personal development self-help spiritual work before I met her I recognize my patterns of Of my and my my patterns of my limiting beliefs my negative self-talk that that I worked on a lot before I met her I worked on my attachment style now that i'm in this relationship I'm actually still budding up against the residue Of all the work I did and this particular relationship. We don't trigger each other to run away You know Then we actually lean in to work on those little it's like they're healing the residue that's left over from our past Am I making sense? It is not only it's brilliantly stated the word residue You know, I had a friend once who said We talked about issues and triggers and he said because we were in this Adult children of alcoholics Okay rehab together trying to heal from the experience with our parents and he said susan I think the best we can do Is to get it to go from an alarm a fire alarm Down to a doorbell ringing Interesting isn't that cool and I said yeah yeah so so Okay, so You talked about the languaging I oftentimes recommend the book non-violent communication by marshal rozenberg Okay um, I I wish the title was called compassionate communication Because what I observed within couples and you know, we're talking about why people don't commit I think we have A lot of human beings out there that are rather dysfunctional in relationship They enter in with another person to get companionship connection and sex or maybe occasional companionship occasional connection occasional sex, but there's not a real intentionality To build a relationship with someone do you see the same thing in your practice? Well, from a female perspective here in female clients They struggle to Get a relationship that is agreeable and So we talked about and it's a stereotype. So forgive me, but generally speaking that men are less Able to articulate their feelings Okay, I've been taught not to Pity backed on that's this generation Like 40 and above Yeah under that you've got people that can't Communicate can't even look at each other eye to eye Now you've got a double impactful thing and Nobody's really talking about it. So there seems to be a general Attrition as far as the quality of communication and you are correct The way in which the political It's like diplomatic tactful elegant Expression of what we are feeling Okay, so difficult. You've got to have restraint. You've got to think it through you've got to know Exactly what are the things that I need to say because now here from a female You know this johnathan we go into this bubble of 500 words and you're like, what that? What is the point? What did she Exactly Dress and then we're you don't know where what's the point and and we do that I know so communication skills. It sounds so boring But I know so I did my first ever group class and the last five weeks was communication. I realized By the way, I'm going to put my headset on because people are saying they can't hear me so well So they're why I hear you here. I'm sorry that they can't But I I think I think we underestimate it's not a sexy title non combative communication or communication compassionate communication for relationships is better but the Necessity to once we know what we're feeling Be able to express what we're feeling in a way that doesn't trigger our partner into defensiveness Running away deflection shutting down. That's an art in itself So where do people go to get help for that? Like how do you help? I mean because I'm not an expert at communication and what I mean to say Well, I can model it in and certainly when I bring marie on to our video She models it because she's really great at At what I speaking her truth, you know in a kind loving way But that's not something that you know, like we're not taught that No, no, no, we're we're not taught to be diplomatic and tactful I mean people have two responses. You either repress it Doubt that you're feeling it not sure and take the cues from your partner Or you feel something feel fearful which translates into anger and you get reactive and blame them So those tend to be the two. I mean look at television. What do we see all day long? How many how many examples do you see of somebody having great communication on tv? Yeah, I mean just in movies The whole the whole premise of romantic movies is they love each other. They don't say it till the end I'm sorry. I'm interrupting but they're scripted in the movies. That's all someone is writing their dialogue for us We don't have anyone writing our dialogue for us. I I do I I have to be honest with you. I technically write the things for my clients to say And they come back and go. Oh my god But we you can do it too and we have. Oh, no, I do that for clients. I we have the luxury of Observation not being emotionally in it when you're in the middle of it To try to articulate those things is a whole nother ballgame Right to know how to say it I had to practice a dialogue with a lady whose dog aggressed against nika Not because she was a bad dog Their their cords got caught together and nika couldn't get away. I couldn't be a good dog mom.  Keep good relationships and teach her that you need to train your dog So I had to I had to practice in my head And I my heart was pounding and then I called her But you would do the same with a partner. You're like, okay, what do I need to say? How can I say it? How can I say so they can hear it? That's the that's the art in the translation So my partner can knowing their disposition How can I weave that conversation in? So they hear me without getting reactive and want to help me work on this so we can get to conflict resolution Okay, so let me ask you since you know, we titled this, you know Why men over 40 won't commit and what to do about it is is part of the issue you see for men Not committing centered around communication Is there something deeper than that that's actually happening for the over 40 crowd? Horrible. Yeah, it's hard It's hard It's hard to be in a relationship Yeah Honestly, yeah, they want easy They won't hurt us men Crave that I don't know who told them that maybe porn taught them that their mom taught them that because they were wonderful I do not know but most men want a Buddy Yeah, it's their activities.  Yeah, and I think the Dialogue about oh honey, I'm feeling this or I'm doing that.  I have to keep her happy. It's so hard I had to you know show up at that cocktail party and I had to smile Oh, it's so hard. I had to listen to her when she was upset and oh, it's so hard because I don't think We as humans ever had a class in grade school That taught us how to communicate negotiate get what we want and respect the other person's opinion I don't think we did that, you know, you brought up something I want to touch upon because you're right We're not taught how to be in relationship and all we have is the modeling we saw Growing up with our parents and oftentimes, I mean, it's funny with my parents All I remember as a child was all the bad things that happened in their marriage I don't really remember all the loving that happened. I mean, I didn't pay attention till I was an adult but um, I to the extent that men um Want it easy Well, I would agree with that. I would say yes, I want it easy. I don't want an easy relationship Most ever I think over 40 though I think the real issue for the older demographic is when we're in our 20s and 30s Many of us are on the hunt for a wife. In other words, the mother of our children And for whatever reason that marriage dissipates. Okay, and by the way 70 70% of divorces are initiated by women So it's the women ending it because they weren't getting their needs met. Here's what happens what I think men over 40 If they're not on the hunt for a wife, they want companionship. They want connection. They want sex But they're not really looking at it from the perspective of a teammate I think that's the real issue with men is both they want it easy for sure But there's there's not a recognition of the value of having a teammate in your life You know, am I making sense? Jonathan, this is why every woman loves you that watches We're like, can we please clone you? Clone I mean they do tons of stuff with AI. They're doing genetic research Forget the sheet. We need you. Okay. Okay. Well, thank you. We started with Polly. Now we got you But another thing and Okay, I have to say this because I absolutely love men. I might be one of the few females That truly loves and I think I understand men Um, there is another thing Okay, divorced men. Okay, bear with me, but anyone dating knows I'm talking about I believe when a man makes a commitment in his first marriage He walks down that aisle and he mentally goes. Okay, this is it. I'm closing the door to everything else and creates a family And children and a wife when that dream is shattered for reasons that he didn't understand why they got there And that dream dies a part of him wanting to ever love again dies I have been so mortally wounded and shut down like that hurt me I'm not going there again And I see a lot of these gals dating men that have had divorces that It's like the last tear they keep trying to knock on that door Like the last bit of I know he loves me and he won't give it up Because he's so terrified because he does he didn't get the help he needed So when they lose the dream for a man, it is so shattering.  So then he finds his way to these men's groups That him to treat us like a rubber doll and throw us out Yeah, and then he's fodder for those groups that inherently hate women because they're unhealed so Well, I want to as a man I want to say that I agree to the extent that when I It's funny in the movie bronx tail Uh, one of the characters who's kind of a mob person says we men have three loves in our lives Okay, and and I I to some degree Kind of can relate to that because in my when I got married that was technically my first love and it was really I was supposed to marry a woman to be the mother of my children So I had that that that programming running in my head and when that relationship ended You know, I I was out playing. I was having a good time I was I was a serial dator and such like that because there was this new freedom Out there and then I met another woman who I really cared for but I was really still rather emotionally Messed up And that's when I began doing personal development self-open spiritual work So now that I've met this partner I'm now in a better position to love because I'm not sure I might have had attachment in the past But I I do agree when a man loves someone deeply and it doesn't work out I believe they become very gun shy for a period of time And if they if they haven't healed That's gonna that could last decades I agree. You made the active choice as a man to heal yourself for yourself. But More times than not We're we're here intentionally dating talking about consciously healing ourselves Johnson you understand the segment of the population that's like it's too much. I just want to improve my golf game, you know I mean, it's it's this is what I mean when I say it's hard It's so do you think it's hopeless for women? I mean, do you think it's going to be impossible because I do believe good men exist I know good men exist. I work with them It's my fact I work with somebody men that one point Lauren and I wondered if I should Specialize in it, but I'm going to tell you in every female in your Channel needs to hear this when a man loves a woman He will pay anything to get it, right? He will do anything to get her back He will walk across glass on fire to get that woman that he loves and I know that to be true And it's heartbreaking when I hear the stories and I know she's not in it for the right reasons Or that it's not going to happen Okay, so So let's differentiate between the men who Are, you know, they're in relationship with you But the difference between the guy who's just in it for themselves versus the guys that will walk through glass There is a difference between the two. What do you see the difference? Like how can a woman recognize the guy who's going to walk over glass versus the guy that just wants their own needs met Easy, it's easy Okay They are a man of character And true integrity that is woven throughout every aspect of their personality. Okay, there is an inherent I have If and when I go online I go on for like a day. I'm like, oh, I don't want to do this anymore But okay number one sentence I say is I am looking for a true gentleman of character and substance and I figure A real guy who knows who he is Well, yeah, well You know next But a guy that goes, uh Because I think There are so if I had to say one thing to look for Okay, without everything one thing I would say look for a fine human being The person who couldn't be cruel if they wanted to like it they might have to make a business move But it's uncomfortable for them to fire people It's not there, you know, they're not the person to go cut off a car and gloat over it, you know, there's somebody who Do you know what I mean? They're an initially I know I don't want to say moral like there are moral values, but they have a code that they live by That kind of person it if it is woven through their whole personality and they're not just cherry picking You know like it serves me well because I look good in front of my community to say To say I do this right I give to children or I go to church, but it's really in them how they live At least you've got some good material to work with even if they haven't consciously gone to therapy or anything about it They would be more incentivized To come back to harmony to go through conflict to get to resolution I had a client who had a blind date with a man and the one thing she knew about him ahead of time Was um, she got fixed up obviously was that he gave a kidney to a total stranger Oh my goodness, and so like to me somebody who does that and I mean, that's something But yes, that's over the top, but you know what? So he's here here. She is she was a highly successful woman made Substantial about a money and he was struggling financially and she talked to me about it and said Jonathan I'm struggling with the fact that he's not at my level And I said but he's a man of character So she gave him a chance and and guess what now he basically runs her life She gets to run the business and he takes care of everything else and he's not a beta male. He's a contractor He's on a baseball league. He is very loving and devoted to her But she had to overcome that he wasn't at my level and what I said was his character Madden more than your level. I love Jonathan. I love that and can we talk about this for a second? Sure, sure many of your females are going to have far greater resources than the men they are meeting That can create disharmony in the man and he can feel emasculated by that. However We have this huge social mantle of like, you know, she won She picked well. She got top brass ring and it is such I mean You are looking for the person who will be there when you have the mastectomy not the guy who's going to run away Yeah for the person who's going to pick. You know how I choose today Not the hot one that's chasing me around the gym. I think who's going to be there after my colonoscopy sitting in that Who's going to be waiting for me and by my side, right? By the way, I took I took marie to get a colonoscopy and I was there afterwards I always say will that person be there for you to wipe the vomit off your face when you're going through chemotherapy to me That's what matters more than but but we are look at let's we talked about something before we began We're talking about the aging how you know the aging of america and and how there's a judgment around aging and looking good And and such and that Women are they you we talked about is are they at a disadvantage when they hit 50 or 60 years old? And you and I talked about that for a moment. Do you want to expand upon what we talked about? Well, I think Most women who've been online feel seen Because if they list their real most women feel compelled to cheat and say that they are the age that they look Only they have to reveal to a guy who could then double slap them because he did like the way they look But now he doesn't like the truth about their age and then he'll do me once So we're up against a jam because youth and beauty Have been the hallmark of desirability and at one point in time. Unfortunately our virginity I think we passed that in 21st century. Yeah, most definitely Beauty were the selling points Now we have financial resources and we are we can have a complete We can have a seat at the table and we can be much more multi-dimensional However, the world has not evolved to the point that they've released us from this insane thing about our age In the equation of our worth and we feel it and we fight against it We may not we may know i'm a hell of a person. I'm a great woman worth dating, but there is that The same Social mantle that weight of the messaging that was given to your lady friend who finally overwrote it. You know, we got to be So by the way for the record my sweetheart, there's a picture of her and I she's a year older than me So I didn't go 10 20 30 years younger. So I want you to know I went to a wedding Three weeks ago. Uh, the woman was 63 and he was he's actually Uh too much younger than her so he dated he's with an older woman in fact Number of my friends my circle of friends the women are actually somewhere between one year and less than one year older Um, and these are all people that got married within the last 10 years. So while There is we talked about there's the fear. There's the actual judgment that does occur There's no doubt that occurs Right, but I think also women who overcome the fear of that judgment Do better in the dating realm than those that are stuck with a story that I won't be chosen because I'm too old Do you agree with that? You nailed it Absolutely, that's exactly the point because it's the energy we carry with us You know There will be there will be guys that will swipe and swipe because there is still of the thinking that I'm not looking for totality. I'm looking for externals and you want them to swipe past you Right. Yeah. Yeah, exactly That's not if you're a woman of substance and you want to bring the whole of you to the party Not just that this and jump into bed Then you need them to feel that for you to feel incentivized even connect with them So good. It's a filtering process Okay, I'm filtering and I remember you did a video not too long ago talking about filtering. Hey, um So really quickly I've noticed some questions come in. Do you mind if we scroll through or I'm going to go through some other questions? I think we could Let's see bear with me one second Um And it I don't know how to pronounce her name artist wrote I have an experience where the guys Past relationship willingly pursue women who are in relationships. I wonder if that gives them trouble to have healthy And commitment to relationships. I think what she's saying is Women who are still pursuing men while they're in other relationships. Do you have you seen that in your practice? No, normally when they're in one and they're happy with it. They're not hunting Yeah No, but other women other women hunting for the guy who's in a relationship Of course. Oh, oh because We know a man's status Elevates when another woman validates. He's worth partnering with So kind of like trying to like oh have a guy with a child in the park every woman wants that guy Children The dog. Yeah, so it's interesting and I would like your take on the following because marie and I were talking about this In a recent video she and I shot there were some women who wrote some really cruel things about marie In the video and I was in the comment section. I was really disappointed with that Um, and she you know, she brushes a lot. She has no issues. I'm the protector I'm like I want to protect you from this and she goes look jonathan women can be caddy And you know, I I don't see my male friends doing the same thing. I've noticed with women And this is I'm not trying to point out a flaw. But do you think women can be caddy to other women? We have been taught that each other we have okay, let's go back. This is historic jonathan and It was a reality of survival You had men who were the only source Of attaining a life so you wouldn't be putting a nunnery a seamstress or a prostitute I mean you had to marry you women got their first credit card when I was watching Walter Cronkite In my television the first woman in history By the way, I was only laughing because I remember Walter Cronkite not because of what you're saying. So, okay Okay, so a woman didn't have a credit card in her own name until the 1960s Yeah, you you couldn't have property in the 1900s. I mean, you know So we competed with each other For survival innately In native it was like part of the deal But now We are the breadwinners and we are outpacing men in colleges.  But I think the younger generations are much more collaborative And I think that will come about but marie your woman Yeah, gets every mark of How do I say this? Irritating another woman. Yeah, okay.  We don't even help. I was thinking of devil wears Prada when you said that It's the underachiever with a good heart. She can't get it right or the cold one You know, look at what and every time we have anything like this. We keep reinforcing that It's going to take even more generations for women to get over this thing. Okay, and realize that We are just looking for one man One man who sees us That's it. Yeah, and and in all fairness to women as well because I'm in full agreement to what you just shared You know men play a role in this too because there's a lot of jackass men out there. There are a lot of men who play Oh, yeah, believe me Well, you know, you and I like to talk about the you know, that probably the small percentage of population that's done healing the small percentage of population that works on Uh, communicating better at the same time, you know, men can be like I said men can be jackasses too And I and I'm always like, you know, my channel is I'm the big brother, you know, I'm trying to protect women from the bad I know Men can and by the way for your very successful women who are of a certain age who feel rejected by certain men There's another part of it. It's actually coming from their wound. They don't feel like they have anything to offer you Oh, we never consider and and in a way I understand men enough To know that when they look at a successful beautiful woman, not only are they intimidated not because they dislike you They're trying to think well, what would she want with me? I can't do anything for her So men are in a bit of a quandary nowadays And that's where our success oftentimes looks like a double-edged sword because we did it for ourselves We want to achieve something and we can't coddle them if they're not feeling good enough We can't be less so they will feel like more But at the same time We have to understand that they're desperately trying to find how can I be How can I serve her? How can I be her king? How can I be something in her life? If she's got every box checked off I will say I am guilty of what you just talked about I have in the past and I was in a relationship where I put a woman up on a pedestal And I thought I was less than because she had more status. She had more prestige She had been tell this is before my youtube channel took off and I was in the beginning of my business Um, and she was on television and I and she didn't intimidate me I I don't like the frame that a man is intimidated by a woman I felt less than on my own. She didn't do anything other than I projected that she was better than me And I know even in dating. I've done the same thing. I thought oh, she lives in a nicer home She drives a nicer car. She has nicer clothes I've projected that she isn't going to want me Because she might have more status than me now I've learned since then that that's just a story made up in my head talking about the men You talked about but I'm guilty of that. I can I can relate But Jonathan we both Male and female carry this heavy burden. It's a double locking system I've written about this women are trapped in that I must Get the highest rung to do well. Oh, she did well in life God be like I have to be the biggest guy so that I can take care of her You know, it's changing now and and it's hard for us to let go of Sometimes in order to be with our true love, we got to walk against society and we've got to have certain people go Oh, really? He does that or you know, well, he doesn't make what kind of car does he drive? He works You got to deal with that stuff Do you ever watch netflix has a show called indian matchmaker? I watched the first series of it. Okay, so so the new season came out just a couple days ago And I love this this a woman this the the matchmaker is like look if you get 60 percent of what you want You should be happy and looks is the least important thing on the list But you know like she's like look, you know, you're looking for character and all these things So when we can get out of our own way when we get out of our head and into our heart That's actually the space to really connect with someone by the way We have another question that came in so vicki writes question By the way, folks, if you have a question write the word question and post the question thereafter What is the best way to heal from a abandonment wound at age 12 a boy? I like just rejected me one day I'm now 48 and I seem to only attract guys who are emotionally unavailable. What are your thoughts susan Sweetie you were 12 Boys didn't want relationships then they wanted to play with a softball. He didn't know what to do with you It doesn't it had I I okay, I would if you haven't gone to therapy definitely go Yeah To somebody you trust but the way you framed that you see children. I did this too. I got my things too So not a reprimand. I want to be really clear. I still got stuff in me that I catch We children have a concrete vision we see things in black and white and at 12 You're kind of on the cusp, but you could have seen that as the truth This is the truth and into your child mind Or you know, you're not fully developed yet. You you realize you thought you made a conclusion that this is the truth about me Yeah, we have to as jonathan did with his life after You know his marriage we have to go through these old tapes and read them and say is that true today And again a kid 12. He didn't know what he was doing. He didn't reject you He wanted to go play softball with his buddies So I I believe also I'm gonna piggyback on what you said I believe every Bit of rejection we experience in our life is an opportunity To love ourselves like that's really like I think it's almost god's little trick going Okay, I'm gonna send you someone who's gonna reject you and abandon you because I want you to love yourself I'm gonna send you another emotionally unavailable man. So you're gonna love yourself I'm gonna send you that emotionally constipated man. So you can love yourself, okay? And when you love yourself just enough, you know, it's not this whole thing You have to love yourself to love another you know when you begin loving yourself.  He's so loving and kind All right, we have another question from Nicole. Let's hear what she has to say question for those of us That have dysfunctional family origins. My father was married four times and my mother's been married five times How does someone with a toxic family of origin not scare a guy away? Yeah I I'm assuming susan what she's saying is if I share the story of my parents That's gonna scare a guy away, but I don't really think that's an issue. I think there's something else Yeah, you're right. Okay It takes a lot of intuition to see through, you know, three or four sentences First of all, the story of your family is not the story of you In my understanding, although that's been your template When children are given that heavy a dose it is almost to piggyback on what you said earlier a spiritual message like I Don't want that. I want better My desire is better. I'm gonna make that happen because I certainly know I don't want that So you've probably never been more incentivized Then to have a healthy relationship because you see the price when it's not so I don't think that is being against you I see that as being the thing that propels you forward This is how we get our life purpose our life going every Every desire is born of a challenge And and that's what all these challenges are for hard in the middle of it. Oh, yeah, love the pain Oh, thank you life for your challenge. But you know, it is true So, you know, it's interesting most everyone in my channel knows I lost a child And and I'm bringing this up because some people will say that's the most terrific thing That's happened in your life and and I can tell you that I've had other things that feel equally as challenging And my point and bringing this up is we all have Challenges that happened in our lives, whether it's in this particular case having parents who've been married four or five times Each one of them somebody's had a different issue. We've all have challenges the real question piggybacking on what you said is Have we overcome the emotional trauma that we experience and are we going to excel because I made a promise to my son when he passed away I knew he wanted me to live my most, you know, authentic happy life So in his honor, I'm not letting that take me down and my advice for anyone any challenge you have Was an opportunity for you to grow as a person going forward. That's just my take on that Um, we got another question. This is a good one. Um, bear with me a second Susan I I'm so overwhelmed by your technical command. I Okay artist joys Says question I guess how much can you heal together before it becomes too much to handle or is it unrealistic to give up easily? Ooh, that's an interesting question Um, well, can I I'm going to jump in on this one I believe that I Marie and I both did quite a bit of work before we We met I did the Hoffman process. I did insight into she did life spring when she was 19 She did the naked just she did something called naked divorce to heal after her divorce I did other things Now that we're together It's really I remember I said earlier the residue Yeah, we're just we're learning to love differently than we were taught as you know, what we Observed as children and I think the residue comes up But we we lean to love because we made a commitment to each other I think if you had a ton of healing to do with someone That might be overwhelming It might be exhausting and I would agree and maybe that's meant to take you to the next level Not for this relationship. That's just my two cents on that one It could be that the The person that sent this message Feels as though they are constantly working Oh, got it trying to get to everything you said plus another You know because we're guessing here. We've got a couple sentences. So we're exactly patient so another thing is Are you spending all your time trying to just get to Calm or functional and if every bit of your day is them going through their issues and you going through your issues That gets very heavy. Yeah Point of it is as jonathan said you go from this big Ball of this to it should be diminishing and you should be seeing progress in your relationship Meaning more peaceful happy agreeable moments and less crises. This is this is the sign of A relationship that's on the right track So we have another question I want to take but I have an observation. I want your opinion on this So I see relationships tend to take off with all this, you know, oh my god It's like romance and lovey-dovey and it's all perfect And then once you're in all of a sudden the real issues start coming up about issues about finances Issues about snoring issues about you know, if you're living together You know how they do daily life together. So it's kind of fascinating You know, it's not we go from this bad to good Oftentimes it starts good and it starts becoming bad and I'm going to this is how I would like to everyone to address this Don't sweep anything under the rug The most important time to address things is right when it happens So you can overcome them and the more little barriers you overcome in your relationship the stronger the relationship becomes I love that if you can identify it Yeah, clearly figure out what the point is that you want to say to your partner Do it diplomatically in a way that it is a neutral manner If you if you can work on how you communicate And and then let them know they're not bad or wrong It's just something that happened and can you find another way to do it? I think that's brilliant We've all tried to ignore it Uh for the relationship like okay. I'm you know what I'm not going to I don't want to make a big deal out of it Early days. I don't want to ruffle anybody's feathers. Yeah Okay, we got another question from charlene. Thank you for that one Susan. So Question can you give us three small things we can do to attract a good man or I'm going to say good man or woman So I'd like to hear your three things and I'll give you three things Well one I did Well, first of all for you Really know exactly what you want to experience in this relationship And do the mental work of imagining how you want to feel in the relationship.  You have to see you so so somehow you either have to put yourself out there and more importantly Put the best representation of yourself out there if you were trying to get a job with the the company of your dreams Would you show up in pajamas and with a resume that was all crinkled up or would you? You know, would you get dressed up and put the best foot forward? So I think first is put yourself out there and the piggyback on that Put the best version of yourself out there to be seen and and i'm not saying going overboard I don't mean small mini skirts or things like that Okay, number two and you said this and I have to piggyback on this I think women are rather clueless on what they want. They all come to me and coaching jonathan I know what I want. I know what I want.  Oh my god. I now realize I now know what I want I it's always a lot of for a lot of women and remember men want it easy We get that piece but women have a fantasy of what it's supposed to look like and they created a box And that box they never end up with that box. They end up with someone different So and then the third piece I always talk about vetting You got to ask the right questions to determine. Is he a player? Is he a serial monogamous? Is a serial data is a nice guy a bad boy or the person looking for you? You got to ask good questions, which you talked about. So anyways, those are my three things. So charlene. Thank you for that question charlene So roller girl said jonathan, I love that jonathan said rejection so we can love ourselves more exactly patricia writes question Does it make you a bad person for wait? Does it make you a bad person for a good relationship if you've been married multiple times?  So I think most people are used to multiple relationships or multiple marriages I mean, are we talking 15 or 20? Are we talking? No, what I'm gonna assume Someone's been married four times. That could be a red flag. I think if someone's been married twice I think we did it seven times. Yeah, so uh, and larry king. I think was married eight times. So Younger women they kept dying Yeah, and leonardo de caprio the minute he takes them to a an event. She's already too old But I think I think the judgment we see Probably does more damage than the judgment someone else sees Yeah, I At that point I think I'd say Why am I marrying? Um at a certain age We really don't need to do that. It is a litigious issue for children Step kids. I mean you're just walking into a mess Unless it is deeply against your religion not to marry. I would suggest as Some somebody over 40 who's had your kids Um, why don't you think about creating a partnership? Possibly dating for a while being exclusive living together Yeah, and I've seen if marriage is the right choice you might be somebody Inherently that though you think you want forever you really don't And this is a big realization for people You may know what is great for this time segment and when you're done you're done And I know that that defies the I want one person for the rest of my life But there are a number of people that are realizing this about themselves And so to marry is a that's a lot of expense and time and cumbersome getting out It's a lot to get into So, you know in my particular case we live together and and I jokingly say I'm the one who wants to get married And she doesn't we and I say that tongue-in-cheek. I think what we have is an agreed partnership We we operate in our relationship like a partnership and and maybe someday that might turn into marriage That may not okay, but what's most important is each day we invest in this partnership now if for whatever reason One person wants out or maybe someone you know wants out for an altruistic reason One of us gets sick and the other person says I want to leave so I don't want to be a burden on you, which you know, you don't By the way, I think if either one of us said that we might say that but I think we'd still want to stay um, the point is Marriage is not the end all be all Per se that says I think what matters most is do we treat each other like teammates with one another Do we treat each other like partners with one another? Do we co-create together? Is this a mutual? Uh effort in the relationship that to me has way more weight than whether or not you have the paper But I do believe living together. I'm going to say something about living together You really get to know another human being when you live together with them, you know And by the way, a lot of people they could have been dating for five years Live together and it could blow up in a matter of weeks You know or months because that's when you really get to know someone is when you live together We okay, so some 25 years ago. I was talking about evolutionary designs and how to create Okay relationship. That's right for your disposition. So I think we are at the point in time where We are I think it would be serve us better if we looked at the agreements that we create between ourselves Jonathan has done And you look at your life and you you operate by an agreement for how you want to live together knowing who you are and what What dynamic gives us the greatest quality of relationship and satisfaction? Yes, people I know have been married and like, um, I'm in the southwest now And so if you have somebody that lives in scott's dill their partner may be in twosome, which is now we're in a half away Yeah, sometimes the guys will say Honey, I think it's time. We live together and the lady'll go baby. I love you But you know what I love about this I come to you every weekend you come to me I've got the whole week to work and when you and I are together on the weekend Everything stops and I can totally pay attention to you and I can handle my business and my life It don't want it the other way, but that is an individual decision So we have this incredible moment in time where we have the freedom to understand what works for us presents to our partner and does this work for you and always as you said be open to amending that For a greater evolution of where we want to go. Hey, this is really good. We lovely We can get married. Yeah, I'm all for it. No, I like it the way it is. What do you think? So you've just talked about something called living together apart There was a book I read on that and and I'm a big proponent of but what I what I like about that I said, but I want to retract about what I like about it is it's agreements again Whether you get married whether you live together whether you live together apart or even if you're in a relationship where you're see I think ultimately It's about being conscious and intentional about why are we doing this and and to some degree How long do we want to do this? Do we want to do this till the day we die? And and no matter what it looks like living together apart living together a marriage At least choose someone who wants to partner with you that to me and wants to be a teammate otherwise The other alternative is casual relationships and friends with benefits and there's nothing wrong with that But when one person wants more and then it's an imbalance in the agreement oftentimes and and if we a huge proponent of Baking growth and flexibility into the relationship from the beginning The reason that are so so many marriages have failed as of the 1970s and onward is that it was rigid structure with rules and roles And it did not allow for an expanding consciousness So it had to be broken. Wouldn't it be better if we did one of those? Up to whoopie whoopie whoopie You feel your trash bag and you're like it's not going to take any more and it goes more If we build a relationship that was able to flex and give as we grow Then we have a dynamic alive Vehicle that carries aren't the cradles our love as we grow as individuals to give And and that Requires communication consciousness union and it's like where do we go from here honey because it Growing relationships that stay alive and flourish are always open to new conversations about how what do you think about this? How do you want to say that this is great? I love this Right, that's how they grow Exactly Well, sweetheart, uh, if you don't mind that term of endearment Uh Okay, thank you You know, I made a promise to you to because you had to run at noon So I can't begin to tell you how much I appreciate you joining for this discussion I'd like to have you on maybe in a few months. We do it again. By the way folks In the link below is a link to susan's channel. I highly recommend following her She's got she's got a great channel. Her titles are more specific to what's going on Which I you know, which is uh very niche and there's a lot of value in that so check out the link You know what? I'm talking about sweet. I feel like I lived in the 1800s and wrote treatise on mechanical technology from the perspective It's not very sexy. I don't have that down So however with that said I always tune in because you have great content I want everyone to start following susan on her channel. She does great I'm so grateful that you came in to talk about this conversation and let's do this again. Is that okay with you Jonathan, I adore you, you know, it is so refreshing and I know your audience will back me up in that to have a solid credible voice of wisdom and guidance in these very confusing times where there are there are thousands of voices and Much of it's regurgitated not thought just repeated and yours is very novel very current very new And and always growing as well and thoughtful and heart-based So please know that I appreciate you immensely and really count myself lucky to have you in my corner and as a colleague Well, thank you. Well, can I reach into the camera and give you a big gigantic hug? All right everyone, we're gonna say goodbye. You stay on have a great day. I want to thank you all for being on so I'm gonna Wrap up this broad


What's up everyone takedown here welcome back to another hockey card video today I'm gonna be opening up another pack that I purchased from pristine marketing This is the 20 hockey cards plus one at your zero autograph That's what I purchased and they also sent a bonus 20 hockey cards pack as well. So we're gonna start off with this Now again, you likely won't receive anything great, but this is awesome for me to get Players that I PC For relatively cheap. I think this pack here is a dollar twenty five Maybe two dollars through them and they sent it for me for free So it's awesome to collect the players that I PC for the years that I wasn't collecting So I'm gonna get right into it's Gabrielle Lans cog Antoni Russel Mark Habschilds a Ron Francis Craig Simpson Flip it here. They're always gonna be ever which way Jack Johnson David Crici Kim Iso Mark Ricci, I like that one. Actually, I don't think I have that one Nilly Neminev Naminin Steve Sullivan, I think I have that one. I think I've gotten it from these for more. Oh, look at that a Markey rookies for Mikael Bottiker, which I do PC But it is an Opieci Platinum. I'm assuming it actually doesn't say Opieci Platinum So is this a special variant? That is really really cool So this is for 0809 Opieci and I do collect Bottiker, I know he's no longer in the NHL at the time I'm recording this he's signed with over in Sweden for two years, but he was on the Ottawa Senators, which is where I grew to knew him or to know him So Markey rookies for him for Mikael Bottiker. That is very very interesting I'm not sure what this is I think it might just be a Markey rookie foil card because normally Opieci Platinum says Opieci Platinum on the front We have another one here Opieci. This is just a base card, but for Opieci. It's actually looks like a foil card If you guys can believe it, you guys can barely see the rainbow foil on this one for a lubs Lubbomir Biz Novski not sure who that is. I know I butchered the name We have Nick Stauda her Tim Sheveldale. I think I might already have that card Roberts Lang Trevor Latowski Luke Shen This one looks really cool Mark Dennis and We have Raji Vacan So that's really cool. I do collect Bottiker So I don't usually get anything out of these let alone a Markey rookie So that to me is really really cool Now for the 20 cards and a jersey card is somewhere in here So we have Peque Rene Rick Nash a Jocelyn Thieboldt as well. That's really cool. I like that's a thick card as well. So that's one of my PC Rijan Linn not sure who it is Kijel Samuelson Blake Como Kyle Caldler Don McCotts Marcotts Brayden Coburn, I'm just gonna flip around do this side now Thomas Vok Vokun Vokun Milan McKellick, that's cool blackhawks for Brian Marshmint We have Alan Pedersen Whoop that one flew there. We have a heroes and prospects for John Delgrey We have Marion Gabric for McDonald's cards Kyle Cadler again a different one though. So same player different one gills Gilbert We have a jersey card for Olaf Causing I'm not sure who this is obviously it's Washington capitals and flip it here and see 2014-15 upper deck series one which that was before I started collecting So very interesting. I do like the Jersey cards this year. However, I just don't know who this is. So This one here just like the last video. I did of this this one here might be going in my eBay mystery packs So expect to find it there normally I'd collect anything goalies, but I just don't know who that is So I might as well put it in my mystery packs to be honest with you Jamie Matthews Neil Brotin and Bobby Smith So this was really really cool. We did get a Jersey card again It's not something or of a player that I collect so I'm likely going to Use it for my eb mystery packs or maybe I'll hold on to it for now I did get some players that a PC which is really cool There's more in here I just started to put them everywhere and we did get from the free pack that they sent me a Merckie rookies for Miko Bodecker, which I'm really really excited for this That is really really cool seems to be in great condition. I'm really excited Again, it does not look like it's Opiechi platinum It looks like it just might be a foil Merckie rookie card of that year But comment down below and let me know because I'm not a hundred percent sure But I'm gonna be leaving this here I am gonna be opening up the last pack that I purchased in the next video by itself And I do have a figure that I got at Dollar Ram as well that I'm gonna be sharing so I'll see you guys in the next one Please take care peace