Alright you guys, I'm having a little trouble going live but hopefully you are able to see me here or hear me here. So I will give you guys just a minute to pop in, make sure that we are on the same page or that you are able to connect. I love technology. I'll wait for you guys to pop in, hopefully you can see the chat. So we'll get started. As you guys fill up the stream, sorry about that, I had a little trouble connecting there and two different live streams going at the same time and that was bizarre. But feel free to pop in and say hello, we're going to talk about the anxious attachment style in relationships. So the book that I am working out of is called Attached and if you look at your screen up there on the top right, right there on the live screen, there's a picture of the book. It's got two magnets in the shape put together to form a heart. Interestingly enough, they're not actually attached but yes or Monday, we talked about the avoidant attachment style. And if you miss that love cast, there's a playlist that you can go back and listen to try to understand what exactly the avoidant attachment love style is. Today we're going to talk about the anxious and then on Friday we'll talk about the secure. So with the anxious attachment style, it's basically, it's kind of like the difference between the avoidant, the anxious attachment style has a need to stay attached to their partner where the avoidant does not. The avoidant has a need to be detached from their partner. So with the anxious, there's a few, there's a cheat sheet to give you some type of understanding of what an anxiously attached relationship looks like where one or both partners are in the anxiously attached. When you're hearing this, this could, you could relate it to yourself or it could be a person that you have a relationship with. So hello, Vlad. So I guess everybody must be in the other chat and I don't know what happened, but we'll just get right into it and then you guys could play it back later. So some of the things that an anxious attached person will do in a relationship. One thing, number one is they want a lot of closeness in a relationship. One sec and please forgive any sound you might hear in the background. An anxiously attached person expresses insecurities and has a deep worry about rejection. Also an anxiously attached person tends to be unhappy when not in a relationship. Okay, the other thing an anxiously attached person will do is they will have a tendency to play games to keep the other person's attention or interest. So it's not necessarily playing games like trying to hurt the other person, but we'll do stuff to get noticed, to redirect the focus back onto them. An anxiously attached person has difficulty explaining what's bothering him or her and expects their person to guess at times. An anxiously attached person will have a tendency to act out. And these are all based on, these are like fears. If an anxiously attached person is especially in a relationship with an avoidant, these things can absolutely play out more so, be more intense. The anxiously attached person has a hard time not making things about themselves in the relationship. And I'll go into a little more depth with that. An anxiously attached people will let the other person set the tone of a relationship. They will also be preoccupied with their relationships or the person they're involved with. An anxiously attached people fear that small acts will ruin the relationship. They believe that they must work harder to keep their partner's interest. They also oftentimes have suspicions that their partner may not be faithful. So these are some of the, I guess I want to say symptoms, but these can be some of the things that the anxiously attached person may do in order to keep the relationship from falling apart and talk about fighting for a relationship. I mean, if there's one person that will stand the test of time to keep a relationship together, it's an anxiously attached person. Okay. So those are some of the things. People also with anxious attachment style tend to jump to conclusions very quickly. And when they do, they tend to misinterpret another person's emotional state. Okay. And instead of just waiting a little longer before reacting and jumping to conclusions, which can cause a problem in a relationship, it's basically if the anxious attachment style person would just wait and not react or jump to a conclusion, they have a better ability to decipher what's going on in the relationship to use it to their advantage. But as soon as an anxiously attached person shoots from the hip, they'll be all over the place making misjudgments and possibly even hurting themselves. Okay. So the one thing I want to tell you is that an avoidant will use deactivating strategies to keep themselves at arm's length from their partner. Because as I said in the last podcast, the avoidant attachment style person has a fear of abandonment just as much as an anxiously attached style person. The avoidant won't go in too deep. They won't fight real hard for the relationship because they have a fear of exposure and they have a fear of rejection or being abandoned. And when they pull away, if the anxious attached person sees that, they then get triggered and have a fear of being abandoned by their partner. So they will in turn dive even harder into the relationship. Okay. And so the anxious attached person will have what's called activating strategies as the avoidant has deactivating. So once activated, the anxiously attached will be consumed or often consumed with thoughts that have a single purpose and that is to reestablish closeness with their partner. These thoughts are, as I said, are called activating strategies. They are thoughts or feelings that compel to get closer physically or emotionally to the other partner. And once that partner responds to the anxiously attached in a way that reestablishes security, anxiously attached people can revert back to their calm, normal selves, okay? So some of the activating strategies that an anxiously attached person, their thoughts and feelings will compel them to see closeness with their partner would be thinking about their partner and having difficulty concentrating on other things, always remembering only their partner's good qualities, putting them on a pedestal, underestimating their talents and abilities and often their own as well. And the one way you can tell if you are feeling, if you have anxious attachment is that feeling of anxiety goes away only when you are in contact with your partner, okay? And also believing that this is your only chance for love as in you might, if it's you, if you relate to this, you might say to yourself, I'm only compatible with very few people. What are the chances I'll find this person again in my life, okay? You might say to yourself, it takes years to meet someone new. I'll just wind up alone if I let this person go, which is not true. It's just the fear and anxiety that you could be feeling if you are anxiously attached or it could be the other person, of course, just remember the goal here is to identify if this is someone you're involved with or if this is you, okay? So you may have a tendency to believe that even though you're unhappy, you'd better not let go. You might say to yourself, if my partner leaves me, they'll turn into a greater partner for someone else. If you find yourself seeing that, you don't want to leave your person because you're fearful that somebody else will find them and they'll be better with them.  See, this is why I have subscribers mode only on, but I guess I must not have turned it on, you guys. This is why I put, this is why I put subscribers only on because naked online strippers without clothing is not something we're trying to get into, right? It's not the time and the place.  Let me fix it, you guys. Hold on a minute. We're not doing that today. No, we're not. People say, well, what? I have to subscribe to your channel in order to participate. I mean, yeah, you have to and this is why, because these types of, these types get in here and this subscribing keeps the trolls out, okay? Let me just get rid of these and hopefully I can. Okay. Let's get back to the, let's get back to what we're talking about here. Oh my goodness. Okay. The drama continues. So yeah, there's a fear for the anxiously attached that if they let their partner go, then they'll be better for the next person. There's a great fear of that anxiously attached people have more faith in their person that they can change than they do in themselves, okay? Or have a fear that their partner will change for somebody else. There may be, and I'm not sure if this relates to you guys, but if you're anxiously attached, you may say all couples have problems. We're not special in that regard. So those are just some of the things that an anxiously attached person can feel and usually the avoidant and the anxiously attached come from the same place. They just deal, they handle things differently. They both have a fear of abandonment. They both have a fear of getting close because there could be rejection. And one tries to keep the relationship from dissolving when the, and the avoidant tries to keep the relationship at a distance, okay? So each attachment style has a protest behavior, but mostly the anxious attached has a protest behavior, okay? So some of the things that an anxiously attached person will do, okay, because remember we've got the avoidant attachment style. We have the anxiously, anxious attachment style, and then we have the secure attached style. The avoidant and the anxious are insecure attachment, okay? So when you are in a position in a relationship where you feel your partner's pulling away or could be avoidant or keeps you at a distance a lot, some things you might do, there might be excessive attempts to reestablish contact with that person. So some anxiously attached people will have excessive calling, texting or emailing, waiting for a phone call, driving by the person's workplace or wherever it is that you guys were connected with the hopes of running into each other, the hopes of running into the person. There's also the anxiously attached will withdraw and will sit silently engrossed in their paper, their phone, literally turning their back on their partner, not speaking, talking with other people on the phone and ignoring them, okay? An anxiously attached person will also tend to keep score. An anxiously attached person can tend to pay attention to how long it took for their partner to text them back or call them back and wait just as long to return the text and the call.  So I'm not going to respond for 35 minutes and do the mirror thing, okay? And some anxiously attached people will wait for their partner to make the first makeup move and act distant until such time, okay? Sometimes they'll do, well, this person's not answering my calls, so I'm not going to leave a message. You know, there's a keeping score kind of game that gets played here when you're anxiously attached. Anxiously attached people can sometimes act hostile, rolling their eyes when they speak, looking away, getting up and leaving the room while somebody else is talking, acting hostile can transgress to outright violence at times. An anxiously attached person will threaten to leave, making threats like we're not getting along, I don't think I can do this anymore, or I knew we weren't really right for each other, or I'll be better off without you, although I, while hoping that their partner will stop them from leaving. There's very interesting stuff here. An anxiously attached person can have tendency for manipulation, so they can act busy or unapproachable, ignore phone calls, or saying they have plans when they don't. An anxiously attached person can try to make their partner feel jealous, and these are all to re-establish connection with their partner, so making plans to get together when the next for lunch, going out with friends to a singles bar, telling their partner about someone who hit on them today. These are all protest behavior, and it's all done to re-establish connection and get their attention. It's basically anything that can jolt their person into noticing them and responding to them. Yeah, it's harsh, and both of the insecure activating and deactivating strategies are very harsh. The anxiously attached person, if they're involved with an avoidant, feels that the avoidant is harsh because they neglect and they ignore and they stifle and they put aside and they don't make them a priority. The anxiously attached person can get very angry, so it's a dance. The avoidant and the anxious attachment tend to get into relationships with each other more often than not. More often than not. There's this deterioration of this relationship that will just keep happening and it will keep going and going and going until there's really nothing left until one person is able to take a look and say, how am I behaving? What style? What attachment style am I exhibiting in my relationships? Because even if this relationship deteriorates and ends, if there's no healing to become secure, the next relationship, and this is for the avoidant and anxiously attached, will keep repeating this cycle with the next and the next and the next. It's really important, as I was saying, these behaviors and strategies can also continue long after your partner is gone. This is part of what heartache is all about. The longing for someone who is no longer available to us when our biological and emotional makeup is programmed to try to win them back. Even if your rational mind knows you shouldn't be with this person, your attachment system doesn't always comply. The process of attachment follows its own course and its own schedule, which means you will continue to think about the other person and will be unable to push them out of your mind for a very long time. Most people with anxious attachment styles are particularly susceptible to falling into chronically activated attachment system situations, which means that once your attachment system is activated, you will find it much harder to turn it off if you have an anxious attachment style. So it's not easy. So here's the one little thing that I think is really important to understand. If you identify as having an anxious attachment and there's a whole lot more in depth into understanding, if you identify yourself there to learn about, to heal from, to get more secure, if you feel that this is you, you should not be dating someone avoidant. If you're in a relationship and you have an insecure attachment and your person is an avoidant, this is, this is a tower, this is a destructive type of a relationship because you want closeness and intimacy and your avoidant will want to maintain some distance emotional and or physical. If you have an anxious attachment style, you will be very sensitive to any signs of rejection. Okay. And they send mixed signals that often come across as rejecting. Okay. You, if you're anxiously attached, will find it hard to tell your partner directly what you need and what's bothering you, which is called effective communication. And you instead may use protest behavior. And I talked about all of that, the acting out to get reestablished connection with your person, excessive calling, texting, emailing, drive by stalking. Oh, the list goes on and on doing all kinds of things, creating jealousy situations, things like that. But the avoidant, your partner are bad at reading your verbal and nonverbal cues and they don't think it's their responsibility to do so. So because you cannot communicate what's bothering you and you struggle to communicate your needs, your partner who could be avoidant, right, doesn't have a clue. They don't feel it's their job to, to, to pick your brain. They don't feel it's their responsibility to read your mind. And so there's the breakdown right there because there's a lack of communication. The avoidant doesn't think it's their job to talk to you and you struggle to open up. You have a fear of rejection and most likely you would because the avoidant will reject. Okay. If you are anxiously attached, you need to be reassured and feel love or feel loved and the avoidant will tend to put you down to create distance as a means to deactivate from them getting attached. You see the dance, the runner chaser dance. Okay. As an anxiously attached person, you may need to know exactly where you stand in the relationship where the avoidant prefers to keep things fuzzy, blurry, even if your relationship is very serious, some question marks will always remain. Okay. So the, the dance between the avoidant and the anxiously attached is, it's, it's not healthy. It's not healthy. And the first thing that's really important to understand is to figure out, first of all, what attachment styles are playing out in your relationship with your person? Okay. People with an avoidant attachment style tend to end their relationships more frequently. Okay. They also suppress loving emotions and therefore get over their partners very quickly so they can start dating again almost immediately. All right. Avoidants are never fully invested in, in the, even to begin with. Okay. Avoidants. Well, I have to say, if you're anxiously attached, you should be dating someone who is securely attached within themselves because you want closeness and intimacy and secure people are comfortable with closeness and they don't try to push you away. Okay. Because you are very sensitive to any signs of relationship that you are very sensitive to any signs of rejection. If you're anxiously attached, the secure attached are very consistent and reliable and won't send mixed messages that will upset you. If you become distressed, they know how to reassure you. Okay. Your, if you are anxiously attached, you, you, as I said before, you find it hard to tell someone directly what you need and what's bothering you, which is effective communication and use protest behavior instead of effectively communicating how you feel and talking about what you need. The secure person will see your wellbeing as a top priority and do their best to read your verbal and nonverbal cues. You need to be reassured and feel loved. The secure person feels comfortable telling you how they feel very early on in a, in a consistent manner. Okay. You need to know exactly where you stand in the relationships. Secures are very stable. They also feel comfortable with commitment. So does that mean that if you're anxiously attached that you're avoidant because the majority of the relationships play out this way. Avoidant and anxious. Does that mean your avoidant is this awful, awful person? No.  If you are anxiously attached? No. There's a trauma. There's a wound that needs to be healed. And there's a great fear of abandonment and rejection. Okay. So the purpose of these messages here is for you to take a look and try to identify if you are anxiously attached. Okay. So again, just to recap, avoidance will send mixed messages. Okay. About how they feel towards you or about their commitment to you. Avoidance long for an ideal relationship but they give subtle hints that it will not be with you. Okay. They will desperately want to meet the one quote unquote but somehow always find some fault in you or in the circumstances that make commitment impossible. They will disregard your emotional well-being and when confronted they will continue to disregard it. They, an avoidant may suggest that you are too needy.   Okay. They will ignore things you say that inconvenience them. They don't, they won't respond or they don't usually respond or they will change the topic instead. Avoidance will address your concern as in a court of law responding to the facts without taking your feelings into account and your messages will not get across despite your best efforts to communicate your needs. The avoidant doesn't seem to get the message or they ignore it. Okay. And this is all called deactivating strategies so that they don't have to get close. You got to take a look at that and you can't base how the relation, you can't base really the relationship on your emotions and your feelings. You can love the person but you have to understand that being in a relationship where it's a runner chaser, no one's ever standing still and has time to build a firm foundation together because one's running away and the other's chasing. And a lot of times when you become more securely attached, if you are involved with an avoidant, they will have a tendency either to reach back out or they will find someone else to keep them that they can keep it a distance. Okay. So that they avoidance like to be lightly attached. Anxious have to be severely attached. Okay. And that's really the only difference. They both fear abandonment and rejection. Right. So let me take a look here. Yeah. I don't want to get too much into the avoidant because I already did the podcast already on that and you can go back and listen to it to try to understand a little bit more of what that really looks like. But I think it's, I don't know. I'm hoping that, so Friday we're going to take a look at, like I said, the secure and what that really looks like. I gave you a couple of secure behaviors so that you could try to understand, but I'll reiterate once again, if you feel like you are constantly thinking about your person and you have a heart, you're having a hard time concentrating on other things, then you are anxiously attached. You have an anxious attachment style. If all you can remember is they're good qualities, even though they may have treated you like they've treated you like even though they may have treated you like dog meat with neglect or being dismissive towards you and all you tend to think, well, yeah, they do that, but there's just such a great person. That is an anxious attachment because that's basically saying you're not taking into account the full picture.  If you find yourself putting this person on a pedestal or overestimating their ability to be attached to you in a healthy relationship, that's anxious attachment. If you ever feel extreme anxiety that only goes away when this person is in touch with you or when you are talking to them or when you reestablish the connection with them and that anxiety goes away, that should be a clue for you that you could be anxiously attached. If you believe that this person is your only chance for love and that there's never going to be anybody else in your life that you're never going to mean anybody as great as this person is, I mean, you probably have your person way too high on a pedestal as it is, so it would be really difficult for you to give anybody else a chance, but if you think to yourself, I'm only compatible with very few people.  You may also, even though you know that you're unhappy in this relationship with this person, you will tell yourself, well, yes, I'm unhappy, but I'm not going to let go because if I let them go, they'll turn into someone better for somebody else. And if that's, if you find yourself having that great fear, well, fear and anxiety go hand in hand. So you're anxiously attached because that's not always the case, because if you're involved with someone who has an avoidant attachment style and they don't change and become secure, why do you think the next person is going to, the next person might not be better for them. The next person might be anxiously attached like you and the same dynamic, the cycle will play again, or the next person could be avoidant, but avoidants don't tend to find other avoidants, not often. Usually the way it works is the runner chaser, that's the dynamic. Okay, because they both, does that, so does that mean that either one of you does not love each other? Not at all. That that it doesn't even play out in here.  It's clearly anybody who's in and out of your life like that, has an avoidant attachment style. They want to keep you there, but they can't go any further than that. They're incapable. They may not even know that they're dealing with this, to have this attachment style and you might not even realize that you are anxiously attached. Okay, so those were just the basics that I wanted to start with to give you some type of idea. Okay. Does it mean that the avoidant has borderline personality disorder? Does it mean that they are a narcissist? Does it mean that your person has a masochism problem? Not necessarily. You know, some people just have these attachment styles that have been produced usually from the time when they were young. Okay. And it's, you have to, you have to have agency because I know some of you will wind up leaving the relationship and then somebody else will come along and if you're anxiously attached and you don't heal that, you could have a tendency this cycle will repeat again and you will get in, they tend to attract each other avoidance and anxiously attached. Secure people will pick up on the avoidant, the person will pick up on the anxious attachment style. They won't bold, they don't run, secure people, they deal with the issues head on, they talk things out, they try to understand, but even the secure attached can only do so much. Okay. So if the secure attached feels like they're being neglected or they're being ignored or this person is distancing, they'll try to have a conversation with them. But if securely attached people do not hang on to relationships and they don't run in and out of somebody's life, securely attached people say, Hmm, well, I've done all I can possibly do here. So I think I got to go find someone who's a bit more stable, not so fickle and isn't playing games or vice versa, you know, whichever. Yeah.  And this book called attached, it is by Amir Levine. You can find it anywhere. There's a picture of the book there on the, on the, I think it's there. Do you guys see it there on the screen? Hopefully it's showing up there, but there's some tests in there. You can take self tests to see where you fall. Okay. Let me just see if there's anything else that. Oh, there's a couple other things. Okay. Oh yeah. No. So you can actually, it's interesting. So this book gives you a little test so you can identify your attachment style. And it also gives you a little test to help you identify your partner's attachment style. You can take it for them. You can ask them to take it. Or if you're not with them, you can, you know, look at some of the questions that ask and see based on past history. You know, you can use this on family members. You can use it on spouses, people that you're in relationships with, you know, friends, whatever relationship is most important to you that, you know, is causing you a bit of headache. And I feel like it's a really important tool to begin assessing for your healing. Somebody commented, I think in the comments that she was doing her dissertation on attachment styles. I don't know how old, I don't know how old this study is. I don't really think it's all that old. There is, and I think was it you've led that asked about codependency or somebody asked about codependency. And there is a section in here. It's called the codependency myth. So it even can be something, I guess you could look at it as also to do with your children. If you have children to see what their attachment style is. You know, I guess not if they're real little children, but I guess if they're older. But yeah. So does anybody have any questions for those of you who are in the chat? Like I said, Friday, I'm going to look at the securely attached to see what that looks like and what a relationship looks like with two people who are very secure. There's even tips and tricks on how to have effective communication with somebody. Oh, okay. So let's see. Yeah, I would recommend that you guys check out this book. Okay. Monti says deflect negative projection. Yes, definitely. Never let negative people make you negative. Well, we're all human. We all interact with each other. So never is pretty strong. We just try to do our best to have good communication with other people. Codependency is myth. Everyone needs someone for something. Absolutely. Codependency, I wouldn't say codependency is more along the lines of like if there's like an addiction, but being dependent on someone is a necessity in a relationship. Married liars. What does that mean? What does married liars mean? Married liars. You mean being in a relationship or married to someone who's a liar? She was married and wanted me. Well, she has a commitment elsewhere. There's plenty. Listen, have you ever been married? There's plenty of married people who are unhappy in the relationship. So they step out of their marriage because the grass is greener. You know, even if they're in an abusive relationship, they're in an abusive marriage. Abusive marriages or relationships are very difficult to get out of for people who have been conditioned for a very long time. And it can also create these dynamics, these attachment styles as well, I believe. There are people that I've heard who go into a marriage, a relationship very secure, and the damage that gets done by the person that they're with who's either avoidant or anxious can take a toll on that person and really turn things around on them and then they have to rebuild their core. So there's no linear perfection in personality. Yeah, I don't really see any benefit to getting involved with someone who's married. That's my personal opinion. Why finish your business? You know, and if someone is to approach and they're married, I feel like that's very much a low ball offer. I really do because it's like sometimes married people just want to step out for a little bit and then they see the grass is in that green, they wind up going back to their partners or spouses. Yeah. Here's an interesting thing I will say before I close out there's a chapter in here. Common anxious thoughts, emotions and reactions. So the anxious attached person have this quote unquote gift of mind reading. They'll say to themselves, that's it. I know my person is leaving me without really having that conversation. It's almost like as soon as there's a quick little sum change, anxiously attached person can very easily tune in. They have a hyper sensitivity that can tune in very well to little subtle changes in a partner and we'll have a tendency to, you know, if one tiny little thing feels off, they will say, oh my gosh, no, this is something's going on. They're breaking up or they're leaving me or they're cheating. They have a tendency to have dark downward thoughts and fears take over. They'll also tend to say, I'll never find anyone else or I knew this was too good to last. Anxiously attached people have all or nothing thinking. They'll say, I've ruined everything. There's nothing I can do to mend the situation. Or they'll say, my person can't treat me this way. I'll show them and they can be revengeful. Or they'll say, I knew something would go wrong. Nothing ever works out right for me. Or they have this desire, this strong desire. I have to talk to my person right now. Talk or see them right now. Like it has to be done right now. It's like an emergency. Or they all say to themselves, my person will come crawling back to beg my forgiveness. Otherwise they can forget about me forever. Right. Sometimes the anxiously attached person will do this thing where they'll say, well, maybe if I look drop dead, gorgeous or ex-deductive, things will work out, which can be a tool for manipulation. Or an anxious attached person will say, he or she is so amazing. Why would they want to be with me anyway? If there's a breakup or they feel like their person doesn't want them. Anxiously attached people will remember all the good things their partner ever did and said after calming down from a fight. They'll automatically lose the desire to have their need met. They're just happy that they're back or happy that things are calm and there's no more confrontation. An anxiously attached person will also tend to recall only the bad things their partner has ever done when fighting. And all these emotions will represent, well, most of the time, the emotions that an anxiously attached person tends to feel is sad, angry, fearful, resentful, frustrated, depressed, hopeless, despairing, jealous, hostile, vengeful, guilty, self-loathing, restless, uneasy, misunderstood, unloved, rejected, uncertain, or unappreciated. And so they'll tend to act out. They'll attempt to reestablish contact at any cost. They'll pick a fight. They'll wait for their person to make the first reconciliation move. They'll threaten to leave. Like I said, act hostile, roll the eyes, look disdainful and don't. Listen, I always do the eye roll thing, but that's like an 80s thing. I would never like in somebody's face say to somebody like roll my eyes right at their face. You know, but there's, so you don't want to look at just one symptom of your person. Okay. Or just one symptom of yourself. One symptom does not equate the whole thing. It all has to be there. Okay. They anxiously attached will try to make their person feel jealous. They'll act busy or unapproachable. They'll withdraw. Stop talking to them or turn away from them physically. Or they will have a tendency to act manipulative. Okay. And it's interesting because the avoidant tends to have some of the same things that the anxiously attached person will do. And I probably should have mentioned those in yesterday's, but I didn't even see it. But I will give you some of them. They will also have all or nothing thinking or black and white thinking. They will also say, I knew he or she wasn't right for me. This proves it. Or they'll over generalize and they may say to you, I knew I wasn't mean to be in a close relationship. They may even say, you're too good for me. These are deactivating strategies. They may say this that you're taking over their life and they can't take it. Or they may say, now I have to do everything your way. And the price, this price is too high for me to pay. Or I need to get out of here. I feel suffocated. They may say, if you were the one, they say to themselves, if you were the one, this kind of thing wouldn't happen. Or they may bring up an X and say this never happened with my X. Okay. They may accuse you of being really out to annoy them and say it's so obvious what you're doing. They may think that because you want to tie them down, that this isn't true love. They may fantasize about having SCX with other people. They may say they'll be better off on their own. Or they may just say you're so needy and they may look down on you because of that. Okay. And they'll act out. They'll get up and leave. They'll belittle you. They could act hostile, look disdainful, make critical remarks, minimize contact, keep emotional sharing to a minimum or stop listening to you or ignore you. Okay. Right. So first thing is take a look at yourself.  Identify where you are on the spectrum here of things, where you are and look at your past relationships as well and see if there's, if you say to yourself, you know, I keep getting involved with these types of same types. You know, ask yourself, am I anxious and I'm just attracting avoidance and why? And look and see if the person, you know, if you're still with that person and you're going through this struggle, look and see if that's what's going on. And if you're not with that person and something's ended, just, there's no need to, you know, call them up and say, Hey, guess what? I just found out what my attachment style is and this is why we have all our problems.  I understand it's all my fault and I'm going to fix it. If they're avoidant and they're not trying to fix it, you need to stop with that person, but you have to figure out if they are an avoidant. You could also have two people who are anxiously attached. Together and that's like hellfire. That's, that's all consuming. Two anxiously attached people will burn the house down. Okay. And two avoidants won't even have a house. Okay.  There's no house in this cycle. Just keeps repeating to securely attached people. That's peace. And that's the goal.  And this book, I believe there's a lot of information in there to help you to start doing the work. If you feel like you identify with either the avoidant or the anxiously attached. And that's really it for this Lovecast. So I hope that was helpful. I hope that it was clear and that you were able to understand some of the dynamic here of this new love science. This book again, it's called attached. You can find it, I guess on Amazon or anywhere else. Yeah, there could be, like I said, the anxious will tend to withdraw at times as a protest behavior to try to draw their person back good, which would be the definition of using no contact as a manipulation tool. A lot of people who are anxiously attached will say, well, I'll go no contact and I'll show them it's a tool of revenge. And I'll do it for 30 days. And that'll get them to come back because then they'll be thinking about me and wondering where I am. And the whole premise of no contact is for you to not be in no contact with anyone that you feel things are deteriorating so that you can get yourself back in a good place and to use that time for healing, not as a tool for manipulation. Because what will happen is when you use no contact on an avoidant, they'll welcome it.  He or she is giving me exactly what I want. And if you come back after 30 days, they're going to be all happy to hear from you because you gave them all the space. And avoidants like that.  And I can honestly tell you that when you become secure, you probably won't be looking in the rear view mirror and you'll probably be like, wow, I don't know that I want that relationship back anymore, but you have to give that time to yourself to, you know, say, hey, I'm worth this, you know? So, yeah, that's pretty much it empathic and used to attract type Bs here. Okay. Well, you're very welcome. I hope that that was helpful. I think there's transcripts on this. So hopefully you guys will be able to find everything or listen to it and be able to gain some insight and clarity from this. I really love this book and I feel like it's funny. I do tarot card readings and I want to help you guys, but I want to see you heal more than I want to do this for a living, you know? And I feel like there's always going to be people who are struggling in relationships, but if everybody who follows me and is able to get that healing in, maybe someday you'll get to a chance where you'll become able to listen to tarot readings to see how you could be more successful in other areas of your life when you're dealing with relationships that are just not healthy for you. Okay. So hopefully that will give you a little bit of a power boost. All right. So do you get that book? Do you check it out? I'm sure you can download it on Kindle or you can purchase the book and there's oodles and oodles of attachment style videos on YouTube that you can also use to understand and it's just another piece of the pie for you to understand what exactly that you've been dealing with and so that you can understand that, you know, you don't have to suffer. You don't have to suffer. All right, you guys. So that's going to be it. I'm going to end this now and I will see you guys. I'll try to be on later this evening. If not, I will catch you all later. All right. Take care, everybody. Bye-bye.


high number. Oh, it's out of 10. It's a low number, which is why this patch looks so nice. Use this blank card to hide the hits a little bit. It's Cal Raleigh, five out of 10 rookie patch. That's pretty sick. That's the compass rose on the Mariners logo. That'll be for Ed Aarons and the Ems. I mean, that could be a patch for a one-of-one and I'd be like, yeah, it makes sense. It's awesome. All right, good start. Next card is a five out of seven. Ricky Henderson, Ken Griffey, Jr., both Mariners edition. That's for Ed Aarons, Mariners. It's a nice dual relic. How many teams did Ricky play for? I feel like he played for like 15 teams. Maybe 20. We got a five out of five Reed Detmers. I think that's sort of the lettering or the number of the Angels. That's a train whistle. That's five out of five. Out of fives and underget the train whistle. This might not fit into a 180 top loader, or will it? And, but, I'd rather put it into a slider box. I think it would be more comfortable in there. All right, that's nice. Congrats to Shawn Matic and the Angels. Out of fives and underget the train whistle. All aboard the Big Head Express. Woo-hoo. And then back to the Mariners. 21 out of 25. Jared Kalanick, triple relic and autograph. 21 out of 25 for Ed A and the M's. So, A.L. West, so far. Then we'll go to the East. 15 out of 15, N.L. East. That's Brian with Boston. Gets the Blaze Jordan autograph. Only nine teams for Rick Anderson. Mike Tarris, it seems like more. And then back across the country to Seattle. 24 out of 25. Rookie, Patch, Otto, Matt Brash. Then back across the country to Tampa Bay. Two, three out of 25. Randy, Arozarenia. That'll be for David M. and the Reyes. And we got, for the Rockies, Charlie Blackman. Five out of 25. Nice patch, nice Otto. And that'll be for David D. and the Colorado Rockies. Let's see what we got in here. I think the right side was the gem. It's a one of one. It's a one of one Babe Ruth Diamond. Wow. That's Eric Klicks, who got Last Spot Mojo. With the yank, gets randomized the yank. And you can tell that the one of one diamonds are a larger size as well. Eric, all aboard. The Big Hit Express. Woo-hoo! That is nice. All right. And this other one is Ronald Acuna Jr. Not too bad either. Five out of seven. Thomas with the Braves. We still have one more case to go. If there's a hit in the middle, it's usually like a cleat or a bat knob or something like that. All right. So Otto on the left side. You can kind of see the squiggle. I don't see the name, so I just want to be sort of as surprised as you guys are like I was with that Babe Ruth. All right, five out of 15, Eddie Murray. Eddie Murray for the Cleveland, I guess, Indians at the time, Guardians now. That'll go to Eric. Eric Klicks, Cleveland, Cleveland. This is for you. Nice, nice colors there. One out of seven. Cal Ribken. Dual Relic for David. David D. Nice, nice game used. Dual Relic. We got Hunter Brown, six out of 15 for Dan and the Astros. Dan Oat. Got a train whistle four out of five. Trey Sweeney, two color quad relic and autograph. That's another train whistle for Eric Klicks in that Yankee spot. There you go, Eric. All aboard. Got Hedbert Perez, 11 out of 15. Brew Crew, Carter with the Brewers. Few more here, Jake Myers. RPA, five out of 25. Book them, Dan Oat. Got another hit, booking another hit here. Got the Astros badge right there as well. We got Joe Carter, walk off World Series Homer. Nine out of 15. Apologies to Philly's fans who had to see this. This goes to Michael and the Blue Jays. All right, and the last encased one is another Astro. Book them, Dan Oat, 17 out of 20. Booking in a Yordon Alvarez signature prime materials autograph is what this is. Nice, we got here a little blue. We got a double diamond. Flawless pics, double diamond. Chris Bryant, Chicago. Aaron Judge, Yankees. That's going to be a randomizer between Ryan and the Cubs and Eric and the Yankees. We'll do that in a second after this. The final one is George Brett. That's pretty cool. You don't see a lot of George Brett autographs, I feel like. Two out of seven. Shadow signatures, I like that design too. With a dark background. Steve Herrick with the Royals. Here you go, Steve. All right, now time to make one person happy and another person sad. All right, let's get some clean dice right here. New dice, new list. We got Chicago Cubs, New York Yankees. Team on top after eight, six into two, eight times. Good luck, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, and eighth and final time. Stays with Chicago. So that's going to, apologies to Eric. I guess you'll have to settle for that Babe Ruth one of one diamond. Congrats to the Cubs, Ryan Gamsby. Ryan G, congrats to you. You got the Cubs and you got the Flawless Pics double diamond seven out of 20. There you go ladies and gentlemen, the case is closed on a two box break, a two briefcase break of 2022 Flawless Baseball Random Team Break number two. I'm Joe, keep an eye on the website for more of this stuff and I'll see you next time for the next one. Bye bye. Nice break, nice break, nice break. You got to clickbait that, right? Babe Ruth one of one diamond. Got to clickbait that. Why don't you ever pull, you Babe Ruth one of ones who never joined breaks like Flawless.  They don't have any logos. Flawless is way overpriced. It's not worth it. You never joined Panini Baseball Breaks, Joe Pizzle. So yeah, we're going to leave it to the people who enjoy Flawless, not to the Flawless haters.  What about your sons, Joe Pizzle? Just struggling to beat your nemesis. Struggling to beat your nemesis, the Mavs. Just limping their way into beating Kairi and Luca Dancic. Delisa, I'm kidding. They look really good. What are you talking about? That was a great game. Let's see a seven game series of that. Let's see seven games of that. And that's going to go back and forth. That's going to go, that's going to game seven. That's going to a game seven. And even then, that's a coin flip. That should have been the Sunday night game. I didn't want to see Memphis Clippers. Oh, you know what? Come on, Joe, that Flawless plus that filler, it's part of the promo. Come on, man. Yeah, I know, come on, John Moranet. Flawless baseball two plus the fillers. Here's the filler. All right, so it got your names in the Cup Hockey Mixer, plus I already got the filler for Cup Hockey, but the Cup Hockey break itself is also a promo break. Oh, Sapphire. But I didn't put the Sapphire name. Come on, man. There we go. So now look at this, this is awesome. All we got to do is the quick hit football mixer plus the fillers, and the Flawless collegiate basketball plus the fillers. That's it, and we unlock rate credit. We might even unlock rate credit in the first half of tomorrow's show, the deadline's Monday, the deadline's tomorrow night. So yeah, there's plenty of time, which is awesome news for everybody. I think we should be able to get that break credit done in a low stress manner. And of course, everyone has access to that promo list. If there's ever a case where you're in a promo break, you can always audit me, you know what I mean? Because it's on the break schedule that a nightbot just dropped. If you click that link, that'll take you to the schedule page right here. And you can even access this when we're off air as well. But you can click to the next tab over, and there's the promo list. If you ever see me forget, you know, definitely, and I'm starting to move on to the next break, definitely holler at me in the chat and be like, hey, I think you forgot our names for one of the promo breaks. And I'll definitely double check that and add your names as they rightfully should be added if I have forgotten them. Let's set this up here. So this might end up being our last break of the night. But as promised, if that anti-soccer break sells out by the end of this break, I'll do it. That's like a five minute break. So that'll be nothing. Hi, everyone, Joe for jaspyscasebreaks.com coming at you with Jaspy's 12 box chasing the cup hockey mixer. I accidentally left 11 in there. We bumped up to 12, because here's what happened. Different from previous, the previous five breaks, we didn't have any more of those black diamond certified diamond dealer exclusive boxes. So we just added, so we just added a hobby boxes, two of them instead. So it's one extra box, but not the exclusive, just the regular hobby edition, two of those instead of the one exclusive edition. All card chip, all Kraken cards would be randomized to one person as one lot to one person to break at the end of the video. And this is the sixth and final cup hockey box that's what was driving this mixer. Big thanks to this group for making it happen. I think I got all the names here. Thanks to the people who bought their spots straight up and congrats again to the people who won spots in the filler. Take out Kraken and let's roll it and randomize names and teams one and a three. One and a two, three times. One, two and three. After three times we got Gerald down to Steve Burch. One and a two, three times for the teams. One, two and three. After three times we got Detroit down to the New York Rangers. All right, Gerald with Detroit, Robert with the Jets, Sean with the Panthers, Shay with the Coyotes, Sean with the Flames and Stars, Thomas with the Wild Peter with the Canadians, Ryan with the Flyers, John with the Devils and the Blackhawks, David with the Canucks, Thomas with the Blues and the Hurricanes, Steve Burch with my Kings, David with the Islanders, Jason Kay with the Knights, David with the Senators, Dan with the Avs, Steve Burch, Blue Jackets and Maple Leaves, Blue Teams, Jacob with the Sabres, Thomas with the Capitals, Chris with the Sharks, Robert with the Ducks, Mike Tower with the Bruins, Jay with the Lightning, Robert with the Penguins, Ryan with the Oilers, Gerald with the Predators and Steve Burch with the New York Hockey Rangers. Let's sort alphabetically by team and we're gonna pause the video when we come back, we're gonna see if there's any trades and then we will have the 12 box hockey break, BRB. So feel free to trade if you'd like. Everyone's not a fan of the hockey, which is fine, that's okay. It's an acquired taste, but my colleague, Teddy, Ted Jaspy, is about to pop open the latest mystery crate. I think it's draft. So if you wanna go to Instagram Live, you can go hang with him there and see what gets pulled out of there. The mystery crate should be pretty nice. Seven, eight, nine, 10, 11, 12. No trades. Is there actually anybody in the chat now that's in this break? Could I just, if I skipped it, would anyone notice on this list? Maybe not. Randy and Dan would notice. Okay, you guys would notice. It's all right. I was like, oh, I'm gonna sneak out of here an hour earlier.  You can just go and skip it for all I care. Hey, sometimes a team that you perceive as the worst, if that's the only team hitting, that becomes the best team. Oh, half a sleigh, all right. Let's get a move on then. TWC trade window closed. We got people half asleep. We got some, a lot of you probably have to work tomorrow. Let's close that trade window. Good luck, everybody. Hi, welcome back, everybody. No deals were done here on a Sunday night. We got a few people here in the break. They're ready to go. I'm ready to go. Good luck, everyone. Sea birch with last spot mojo with my Kings. Thomas had last spot mojo in that filler. Clear cut two, got himself the blues, got himself a spot in the break for a fraction of the price, got some blues. All right, so we're gonna, obviously, we're gonna do the base heavier stuff first and then we'll work our way around to the non-base heavier stuff. And of course, the closer for this will be the cup hockey. So this is break number, mixer number six. And each mixer had a box of the cup, cups of six box case. You can do the math. So that's the sixth and final box of the case. And I think, I think this is actually box six as well. We're just kind of grabbing random boxes anyway, but it turns out that's also box six. Now, for those of you keeping track of these mixers, I know I haven't been, but if you've been keeping track of the mixers, how is cup one through five? That cup box have, you could have, should have been, could have done your research, but let's see what we got. Now, I have to warn you, I am watching more hockey in recent years. Some of you may have seen some of my hockey breaks from years ago, where I'm just, where Mark Shifley's name, man, that's a name that would really jam me up. You should find some of those early videos that are pretty funny, but, you know, I'm absorbing a little more hockey knowledge, but I'm, I can't say that, you know, compared to some of the other sports, definitely cannot speak to it. So excuse some mispronunciations and excuse my casual hockey knowledge. So you're going to have to let me know if I end up pulling a monster or not. Now, Skybox, we're not really looking, the autographs are not too common, but we're definitely looking for anything like that. The Jumbalaya or the PMGs in specific colors. Some colors are lower number than others. That's what we want to see. And all card ship in this as well. So remember, you didn't have the Kraken on the list, so Mark Giordano will represent the randomizer. That's right, Mike Tower. Any hard to pronounce name will just end up being Jaspies. So it'll be like Mark Shafet, oh, Mark Jaspie. Mark Jaspie, just roll with that. Konermic, Konermic Jaspie, put up. And we've got Alex Newhoek to 199. Is that a, is that considered a PMG? I don't know if it is. I think we still might be able to look that map. That just might be a numbered card. That's for the abs. That's for Dan U, the Cheddar die cut. Well, maybe that was the PMG. It really says on there. All right, that's your first Metal Universe box. Next. Well, I'm opening these packs. Should we, is there any hockey going on? Should we whip around the league? Oh yeah, we've got some updates here. Got some updates. The 36 and 20 Kraken are having a pretty good, a pretty Kraken season in overtime. Kraken three abs two. Another overtime game in Arizona took overtime for the New Jersey Devils to beat the Coyotes. I don't know if Coyote has given them some trouble, huh? In Vegas, Golden Knights have been playing well. They win four to three, beating the Canadians for three. In Philadelphia, Flyers beat the Red Wings 3-1. And in Carolina, Hurricanes, shutting out the Lightning. Wow, six-nothing, and Lightning are a pretty good team too. Offense and defense, that can make the Carolina Hurricanes a scary team in the playoffs. I think Jonathan Quick made his debut for Vegas tonight. Definitely will be missed, a legend. Now he was in the net tonight. I think last night, the guy that he was traded for, Corpusallo, Corpusallo was minding the net last night in a four to victory for the Kings. Kings have a shot at winning the division. I think that's, they've got it. They're trying to chase down Vegas. I was doing a little bit of reading, trying to improve my knowledge a little bit, at least for my hometown team, the Kings. I guess Corpusallo was kind of not used, as often, in Columbus, I think that's where he's from. He was a little unhappy there. Felt like he could be the main dog on a team. I think there were some people were kind of being like, hey, what is he good? Is he not good? I feel like the sample size wasn't really there this season. People weren't too impressed with his saved percentage. I guess that's the thing people look at. Ooh, I know this guy, Brock Besser. Autographs are few and far between here. Vancouver Canucks, David D. I feel like you've been calling your name all night, Dave. Nice, Brock Besser autograph. Nice. But anyway, I think that was reading something in the athletic, though, that was saying that there were some concerns about his saved percentage. But people were thinking maybe it shouldn't be that much of a concern because on the flip side of it, the Columbus defense, I think, wasn't very good. So they were high volume of shots against, high volume of shots were being taken. And of course, you allow that many shots, goals are gonna go in at some point.  I guess the idea is that with fewer shots, he should have a nicer, safe percentage, which is what the Kings need. Need to improve him on then, unfortunately, quick as having a down year. And the kid that they called up to replace quick, Phillip Phoenix Coppola or something like that? Well, I believe some North, the North Pole Alaska, you know, was a long time AHL guy who's been performing admirably, but getting the wins. The Kings are looking for maybe a little more experience. A little slight, a little bit of a goalie improvement. It could be the difference in the playoff and they got another defenseman from apparently, I'm just parroting what articles are saying now, but apparently the Kings needed a left-handed defenseman. The rest of the team seems to be looking fine. Some of the youngsters are looking really good. I think adding Fiala in the off-season is really good. Yeah, Spartan saying Boston won their 10th game in a row. What's the record again? How many points in a season? Was it 130 something? We were talking about this the other day. I think we were talking about it the last time we were doing this hockey mixer. Yeah, 10 in a row, that's wild. No, Minnesota is wild, that's just bananas, bonkers. I mean, it doesn't matter. They're doing it at home, they're 26, two and three at home. They're doing it on the road, 23, six and two on the road. They have a plus 105 goal differential. Next closest team, the Hurricanes at plus 57. That's crazy. And then it's New Jersey Devils plus 53 goal differential, then it drops to Dallas Stars plus 45 goal differential. My Kings are at plus three goal differential. So they're pretty good. The other crazy thing, I think we were talking about this too, some of you may remember, but if you're just joining us, I want to say we were looking at Stanley Cup odds. They were not even close to being a favorite. They're the favorite now. But beginning of the season, I think they were like plus 2000, plus 25. I think they were like 25 to one or something like that. That's Alex Chercot. Oh, I thought there was going to be different. I thought there's going to be a number. Oh, and an autograph, Shane Pinto. Rookie Otto for the Senators. David with Ottawa. You can have my answer now, Senator. I remember Michael Corleone and Reno. I think I was asking a Bruins fan, the Boston Bruins fan the other week.  I mean, are you happy with what you have now or happy with whatever happens, happens, or has the line in the sand been redrawn? Has the, they're like, yeah, I mean, at this point, it's Boston, so you're playing like this. The line in the sand is totally drawn, redrawn, and anything less than hoisting the Stanley Cup would be a failure on the season. So we'll see. You know, if you look back though, the track record for teams in professional sports, team sports, the track record for teams with the best regular season record, the track record for those teams in the playoffs as has, at least in recent memory, has often ended in sad times, right? I think the Warriors won a zillion games. I think they fell to the cabs, maybe, in the playoffs. Right, I mean, I feel like that's a huge season for Colorado, 56 wins, 119 points, and they did not make it to the Stanley Cup final. You know, Patriots had that undefeated regular season, didn't win the Super Bowl. Oh, and as Zach Jones autographed, 12 out of 99. Rangers, Steve Burch. I'll show you all the numbered cards in a second. Let me, there's a lot of them, so we'll breeze through the non-numbered cards first. All right, Brent Burns, Thomas Hurdle, 478 out of 999. That's for the Sharks, that'll be for Chris. Rookie Journey, Zegras to 79. We'll go to Anaheim, that'll be for Robert. Dylan Cousins to 499. That'll be for Buffalo, Jacob. Timo Meyer to 275, for San Jose, be for Chris Parent. A couple Panthers here, that's gonna go to Florida. That'll be for Sean. We got Nettle, Nettle Jovic to 899. That'll be for Carolina. Thomas, we got Niles Lundquist for the Rangers. To 275, that's for Steve Burch. Nazim Kadri to 899, that'll be for the Avs. That's gonna go to Dan. Got Ovechkin and Bondra. For Washington, that'll be for Thomas. Then we've got Ross Colton. Exceptional Futures to 899, that will be for Tampa Bay. That's gonna be for Jay. Right, yeah. I just mentioned that a few moments ago, Spartan. Oh, sorry, we gotta do more synergy. Yeah, bosses at 49 and eight with 103 points. I was also mentioning how it's not like their home and away splits are pretty much the same too. 26 wins at home, 23 wins away. So it's not like they're just doing it at home or something like that, you know? Doesn't matter where they're playing, they're just, they're just killing it. I think we got what, 18 games left? Hockey's almost like a basketball season, right? Like 80 some odd games. So it looks like it's just a little under 20 games left. 18 games left maybe for Boston. They can be breaking records by the time all seven done. Oh, Colorado won. Oh, that's right, they did win the cup last year. So they had the best record, but it wasn't a record-setting record. I guess that's what I'm saying. I don't think that was record-setting though. I think that was my point. The Patriots undefeated season, the Warriors 73 win season or something like that. Didn't that beat the Bulls record? There's Riley Damiani, 56 out of 99. That'll be for Dallas, Sean Maddock, and then the Patriots' perfect season. All right, Max Packier ready for the Golden Knights Vegas. That'll be for Jason Kaye, Jeremy Swamin for Boston. That's gonna go to Mike, Brent Burns and Eklund for San Jose, got Phil Kessel to 199 for Arizona. That's for Shea, Mason McTavish, Rookie Journey to 499. That is for Anaheim, that's gonna be for Robert. Johnny Goudreau to 899. For Calgary, that's gonna go to Sean. And we got Paterka to 299 for Buffalo. Jacob, we got Dylan Larkin and C.V. Iserman. That'll be for Detroit. That's gonna go to Gerald, Timo Meyer for San Jose for Chris, that's to 899. And to 275, Mathica Chuck for Carolina, for Calgary, Sean. All right, another box of synergy. All right, so then we'll work through the three boxes of SP game use, the two box of Black Diamond, then of course, a cup of hockey. So who's doing it for the Bruins? David Pasternak leading his team in points with 84. Goals with 44, assists 40, 44 goals. Then Brad Marchand with 19 goals, 54 points. 19 goals, 35 assists. We got another guy with 50 points already. Kretschki, Kretschki. Patrice Bergeron is 48 points, so on and so forth. And Dan, Dancing, what? And Ulmark's been a beast in the net, that helps too. That goal differential is just, you know, which I always use in all the sports, I always use like as a mark and say, hey, where is it, especially like, you know, like in baseball or in the NHL. But NFL too, where you kind of, if you kind of look at goal differential, soccer, you know, you can get a lot of, you can kind of see and you compare that to the rest of the league and you're like, there's one of the guys, that's David Pasternak, he's pretty good. And that goal, he's locked in, you know, stands on his head through the playoffs. I mean, you can't stop that. All right, there's Debrinkat for Chicago. It's at 8.99. That'll be for John. We've got Yegor Shinnikov for Columbus. That's gonna be for Steve Burch to 7.49. We've got Vasili, but Coulson, one ping, one ping only, Vasili. To 8.99, that goes to Vancouver. That'll be for David. Patrice Vergeron to 7.49. Turcotte to 9.99. Vergeron going to Mike Tower in Boston. Turcotte going to the Kings. That'll be for Steve Burch. Jonathan Taves going to Chicago to 4.99. Brent Burns, Doug Wilson. To 8.99. There's Pasternak right there to 2.99 for Mike. And another king out of 4.49 for Steve Burch. So if you think like, this is crazy how good breaking news. Connor McDavid is pretty good. So I'm looking at David Pasternak's 44 goals, which is second in the league, right?  Right? It gives him 84 points so far in the year. And you're like thinking, that's pretty good. And then you look at Connor McDavid who has 122 points at this point in the season. It's David Favorens in 9.99. Nashville, that's for Gerald. We've got you, Soros, also for Gerald. Got authentic rookie autographs. Matthew Phillips for Calgary.  There's Ed Belfort, Blackhawks goaltender. That's gonna go to John in Chicago. Chris, no, that's already sold out. Someone saw the 50% off already. That's like, that deal's good enough. And they grabbed it. We're already taking half off. We're not gonna give it to you for 150. There's Chicago, that's for John. And there's Sean Monaghan to 150. That's for Calgary. That's gonna be for Sean. But, hey, I like the boldness of your offer. I like the boldness of your offer. Gotta shoot your shot, Chris. Hmm, Jaspy's already giving me 50% off. Let's see if I can get another 50% off that. And it's authentic rookies. Cole Perfetti for Winnipeg. Sebastian Aho to 205. Thomas Carolina. And there's Brandon Duhame, Duhame. Duhime, Duhame. For Minnesota, that's gonna be for Thomas. I mean, they can negotiate Joe Pizzle. They can negotiate. I won't negotiate. There's Nicholas Lidstrom. Red Wings, that's gonna go to Detroit. Gerald. Matthew Kachuk. Carolina, that's gonna go to Sean Maddock. And Alex LeFrenier for the Rangers. It's gonna go to Steve Birch. All right, final, final SP game used box. Two boxes of black diamond and then the good stuff. The, I mean, it's all good stuff, but my coffee hockey is definitely another level. So let's see what we got in there. Riley Damiani to 999. And we've got a Jeremy Swamin' for Boston to 999. And a authentic rookies, two-color jersey and autograph. Jesse Yolonen, gonna go with that. One out of 49. Canadian's, that'll be for Peter. I hope he's a good rookie. Not only is he authentic, I hope he actually plays well too. And there's Joe Sackett for Colorado. That's gonna go to Dan. And there's Banner Year, Ryan O'Reilly for the St. Louis Blues. Thomas, I guess that's why they call it the Blues. And Max Paciorelli, purity. That cool laser cut punch-outs right there too, which I think is kind of cool. That'll be for Vega, that'll be for Jason K. All right, black diamond. 349, Braden Point, Tampa Bay, Jay. We got Diamond debut relics, Ross Colton, 24 out of 49. That will be for Jay goings in Tampa Bay. We got rookie team logo jumbos, Trevor Zegres. Nice, it's a manufactured patch, but they still look pretty cool. Anaheim, that'll be for Robert. We got Cole Caulfield, Diamond cutters for Montreal. That will be for Peter. And to 249, Eliza Lindholm for Calgary. That's gonna go to Sean Matic. And the exquisite card, Spencer Knight, 77 out of 99 for Florida. That's gonna go to Sean Matic. Don't say that, I mean, don't say that if he's in the chat. You meant Oregon Ducks, right? Not Anaheim Ducks. So you might catch some hands if Jason hears you say stuff like that. All right, next box, next box. Got Soros at 349. Nashville, Gerald. We got Brent Burns. Five out of 25, sparkling scripts autograph. I don't know if you remember Joe Pills, remember the time when we were breaking at the, the All-Star game was here in LA a few years ago, maybe four years ago at this point. And then they, who was that, he was upper deck. They hooked us up with a table or maybe one of our distributors, hooked us up with a table there and we were like ripping open hockey and stuff like that at the, you know, fan fest area. And they got, I think upper deck or the distributor got a guest for us or both. They got it, got a guest for us. And it was a, I forget who it was, but it was a shark. Obviously we're big Kings fans here in there. He was cool though, Jason was happy. Connor McDid just any player to hang out with us was awesome. Connor McDavid, these have like these weird die cuts here that make it hard to put into a sleeve. Just gonna put it in a slider box. Connor McDavid, Edmunds and Oilers. You've got these weird points right there that make it weird, but next couple, we got Diamond debut, Relics Cole Caulfield for the Hobby Tom that goes to Peter. Yeah, it was really cool. It was, there's Dawson Mercer. And then it was one of our, I think for me it was a day off for me. And it was a Jason's work day. And so he was obviously, he knows hockey the best out of all of us. There's 81 out of 399 Swamin' Exquisite Collection for Boston, it's for Mike Tower. But I popped down there to visit. And it was really cool. We, I think after we worked the shift, we got to go around. There was like little Bay setup where you can hit slap shots, which was really cool. And there was like the ones where you see at the skills competition, they'll have like a target there, there and like there or whatever, like shoot at the targets. And there was like fastest kind of, we'll measure the time of your, the speed of your shot and everything. It's pretty cool. I'd like to think, I don't know if my speed was up there, but I feel like my accuracy was pretty good if I do say so myself. All right, good luck everybody. A lot of roller hockey growing up, Joe Pizzle. A lot of street hockey, a lot of roller hockey. Out of 249, Kevin Fialas is Minnesota Wild Edition. Oh yeah, I played every sport. I love playing sports. I'm not very good at it, but I'll play it. There's Thomas with the Wild. There's Rookie Autopatch, Josh Norris. 183 out of 249. Feel like we had a, in high school, we had a pretty good physical education program. Actually, I'll tell you what it is. Now that I think about it, it's all coming back to me. Ottawa Center is David D. So playing JV Doubles, Tennis, that's how good I was, I was able to, more penny sleeves here. I was able to take what they called an advanced PE class or something like that. And it was usually like six period, or the final period, and it's usually for real athletes, we'll just usually take that off and we'll go to soccer practice or football practice or whatever. But for everyone else, it was for kids who needed a little more athletic stimulation, right? So it was like, so each quarter or however they broke down our school year would be just a different sport. One year they'll be like, hey, try water polo when like the spring, summer, and we play water polo. And we'll just swim around and play water polo. One year it'd be like, hey, let's play tennis. One year it's like, hey, let's run track events. And here's how to run a relay and here's how to hand off batons. Like it was sort of like that, which was actually kind of awesome. Looking back on it, 36 out of 50, David Perron for the St. Louis Blues. So yeah, so we got to do that for kids who wanted to play more, a little more organized PE. Nice, lamp lighters, boom, Byron. Abs, Dan. So played a lot of games. This is pretty cool, Dan. I like these, it's a die cut. Nice gold ink auto that really pops. It's really nice. A couple more here. I think these are relic and a card. Quad relic, Connor McMichael. Different Connor going to the caps. That'll be for Thomas. Is that a nice one? Nice. But if you're happy, I'm happy. Thanks for staying up late with me, Dan. And the last one here is Mike Richter. 184 out of 249, classic all time alum. I remember this guy, Steve Birch and the Rangers.  Thanks everybody for getting into the, to all six of the Chasing the Cup hockey mixers. Thanks for chasing the cup with us. If we find more cup hockey, we'll load up more hockey, keep an eye out for that. All right, now let's see who gets all of those crackin' cards. Name on top, one out of five, six times. Name on top after six. One, two, three, four, five, and six. Mike Tower, after six times, you'll get those Seattle crackin' cards going away. I don't think I called your number too often during the break, Mike, but I appreciate you getting in. Thanks. And thank you, everybody. Thanks for chasing the cup with us. I'm Joe. I'll see you next time for the next hockey break. Bye-bye. Yeah, played a lot of different, got exposure to a lot of different sport. Not that I was good at it. Played a lot of intramural flag football in college. Was actually decent at that. I'm just small. Just not very big. A lot of soccer. I think it's one of the things that actually, Mike, will give you credit for that extra team, too. But I think I enjoyed having all that exposure to sports. I would recommend that if any of you have kids or are a kid or something like that, play sports. Even if you suck, still play. Because I think just, especially if you have a cool team around you, I think it's important just winning, losing, knowing, getting self-awareness about what you're good at, what you're not good at. It's cliched, I'd say, but it really does create a lot of character. Getting older, and I played a lot of music, too. I still do. And you can also kind of tell who played music and who didn't play music, or who sort of different kind of disciplines you create for yourself when you do that, or who played organized team sports and who didn't. I think it's important to play. You learn a lot about yourself. I guess I was lucky. I grew up in a pretty good, even though I wasn't very good at sports. I think all of the coaches that I, all the coach that I've played with were always just still, still wanted to coach you and still wanted to teach you something even though you weren't very good at it. You know, they've always had some nice experiences. I think that also helped, too. All right, well, as promised, if NT soccer sold out, I told you I'd do it. And it did sell out. So I'm going to do it. It's a one box break. It's going to take five minutes. It's not going to take too long. For the rest of you, that's our last break of the night. So if you don't care about soccer, if you don't care about hanging out, then class is dismissed. Thanks, everybody, for hanging. I appreciate it. We'll see you tomorrow. I'll be back three o'clock Pacific, six o'clock Eastern, and we'll run the show till around now. That's what we do, seven nights a week. Although I think Jason, on Fridays and Saturdays, actually starts a little bit earlier. I think he starts an hour earlier. At two o'clock Pacific, and then wraps things up around 10 o'clock Pacific. But I roll from around three o'clock Pacific to 11 o'clock Pacific. And like you're seeing tonight, that's not a hard deadline. So if we go over a little bit, especially if it's kind of like short, fun, quick little breaks, you could probably more often than not twist my arm and be able to get me to knock out another break. Unless it's my Friday, which is Thursday. Although I think I stayed late last Thursday, too. I think you guys fooled me into, tricked me into staying late then, too. So I guess that's not true. I guess I will stay late. Even on my Friday. I'm definitely not this Friday. I wish I was in the NBA. All that load management going on in the NBA. How awesome would that be? I guess we only have these two boxes left? Yeah, I think that's it. So let me post the next one for tomorrow. So if you missed out on your teams the first time, don't miss out this time. Actually, maybe not. I'll have to double check to make sure that the discount still, because I think I did this last time and then the discount didn't roll over when I duplicated this item. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. So hang tight. Don't buy any spots yet. I just wanna double check. Okay, so discount is not applying. So don't buy your teams yet, because that discount won't apply. How did Nick tell me to do this again? Wait for it. Stand by, stand by. Stay on target. Stay on target. Stay on target. Let me just test this really quick. Should be automatically applied at checkout. Boom. All right, so now it's ready to go. So the break 50 will be the final box of the case. So be sure to get into that while you can, jazby'scasebreaks.com. All right, now let's roll with this one. Just print out the label here. We'll print out the list. The list already printed out. Hi everyone, Joe for jazby'scasebreaks.com with the last break of the night. 2022 Panini National Treasures. FIFA Road to World Cup Soccer. Pick your team at number 49. 50% off all the teams discount applied in the cart. There's all the whole list of teams right there. Very big thanks to this group for making it happen. Appreciate it on a Sunday night. Sean Maddock with Last Bob Mojo. Good luck, sir. Straight no filler. We're down to our last two boxes. So one of these will be for break 49. The other one's already loaded up in the store, break 50. All right, we'll use Liverpool Red right here as the die. One, two, three for the top box. Four, five, six for the bottom box. Huge win over our rivals, Man United. Seven nil. Love it. All right, one, two, three for the top box. Four, five, six for the bottom box. So this will be reserved for random number block, or sorry, pick your team number 50. Bright spot for sort of a difficult season for Liverpool. So hopefully they'll be able to slip into a Champions League spot before all said and done. All right, thanks my friends. Good luck. Oh my God, Matthias Norman, 93 out of 99. That is for Norway. That's gonna go to Robert. There's Paul Pogba. That is 89 out of 99 for Le Bleu, for France. That's gonna go to Sean Maddock. By the way, probably a good idea to collect current year road to World Cup stuff. It's a lot of those rookies four years later. You know, they might be playing bigger roles for their team, some good investment opportunity there. Oh, we've got Peerless Signatures Redemption, Roberto Pereya. Is he Argentinian? I think he is. Yes, he's a, he will go to Argentina. Rob Clemens with Argentina plays in Syria for Udinese. He wasn't Wattford for a bit. I think that's where I remember him. And Argentina did it. They knocked out the World Cup. Messi finally has Jules Ramey to add to his resume. Next up, we've got Forza Zuri. That's Andrea Bellotti, 16 out of 25. Forza Zuri, Connor with Italy. Need to see Italy in the World Cup in four years. We've got for Belgium, Charles de Cadillare, 27 out of 49. It's Brian with the Belgians. Colossal materials. We've got Luka Modric, 31 out of 49 for Croatia. Rob, I think everyone was saying, oh, the creations are on the wrong side of 30, blah, blah, but they still put up a nice campaign last year. Our first autograph from this box, Peerless Autograph, 44 out of 99 for the Orange, Hans Hattabor. That's for Brian in the Netherlands. We've got Andres Guardado, 32 out of 49 for L3. National Archives, Inc. for Victor in Mexico. Couple more here. We've got three out of 25. That's Aaron Ramsdale for the Three Lions. It's coming home, it's coming home, it's coming, football's coming home. That goes to Nick Coba, Three Lions. All right, final one. Good luck. An Italian, it's Filippo in Gaghi, in Zaghi, that is. Seven out of 25 for Zazzuri. That is for Connor and the Italians. There you go. Thanks, everybody. Final box in the store, jaspyscasebreaks.com. I'll see you next time for the next soccer break. Bye-bye. Alrighty, wanted to see some slightly bigger names in there, but maybe that's in that final box. Maybe that's where it is. What happened to that product? What did I do to it? Oh, it's still active. Oh, I know what I shortened the link on that. There it is, still there. Still there, it's still good. It's still good. I had to shorten the link to make it a little bit, so I can drop it into the chat. All right, remember, 50% off. Take advantage of it. Normally, our prices are usually so good that you normally will not see us do steep discounts like that. So take advantage of it. Let's upload that video. Let's not forget about that. And ladies and gentlemen, that's it for me. Thank you very much. Another great night of breaks in the books. Great to see everybody. This is your Sunday, my Monday. Great start to the week. So I'm very happy with all the work we put in, especially with the break credit promo.  And believe it or not, I enjoy giving away money. So get into those breaks. Let's give away some break credit tonight. We've got some nice new releases coming up this week. We got Immaculate Pick Your Teams and Random Teams. And we got Bowman's Best Baseball. That also drops on Wednesday. So that's gonna be, and pre-orders are available now. So get into it. What else are we gonna do? We'll probably do that soccer break tomorrow. With that flawless, we'll definitely have tomorrow as part of the promo. The Football Mixer too. That's a Pick Your Team Mixer. Let's make sure we get that done. That's a quick one as well. So let's knock that out. Do some more pre-orders, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Give away some money, you know? And as we knock out these breaks, I'm sure we'll add some more Pick Your Teams. If you're like, hey, I missed my team.  Probably, especially as we start working through some more of the non-new release breaks. So keep working on those. Now, we don't break 24 hours a day. The website is open 24 hours a day. And I always say, and this is something to think about the entire week, I always say that momentum is the biggest key here.  Guess what? East coasters, they're gonna start waking up in a few hours, three or four hours. It'll be like 6 a.m., 7 a.m. their time, in like three or four hours, four or five hours.  There is these spots left. And there's like, well, when I went to bed, it was at this many spots. Now I'm waking up, checking jasby'scasefrakes.com and now it's down to this. That might inspire them to buy some spots. And then the West coasters wake up a few hours later. It's like, when I went to bed, it was there. It looks like the East coaster did some work. I'll buy an extra spot.  That's the momentum we need. And if we keep that cycle going, then we keep a great cycle of breaks going and then fingers crossed, the hard part is, hopefully we'll pull you some hits as well. So thanks very much for trying, everybody. Get your at-bats in. We'll get you some hits eventually, I hope. Gotta keep trying. Thanks for watching, everybody. Have a great night. We'll see you tomorrow. Bye-bye.


I wish I were a dog. You've got these, you life's why. Saved! Red or blue, I'm almost out of time. Which is it? I, I am saved. Various plans, my evil scheme. Curse you adorable corgi.  I just overheard the girls are having a pillow fight. What? Girls having a pillow fight? We have to go. I know! Yeah! Oh, I suppose you're too cool for- Ow! My brain box! You had me at the pillow fight. As I did just now? Isn't what I was expecting. Yeah. They have brought this honor to the great name of pillow fights. Well, there's only one thing left to do. This was a great idea. Hee hee, you can't catch me. I believe that I can catch you. Time out, feather in the eye, feather right in my eye. How I feel about her, I think. I don't know, maybe? What do you think, Blake? Oh my gosh, you're right. What was I thinking? That would have, that would have been a disaster. You know, I feel like you really get me. Thanks, Blake. Can't be like that. You're good. You're very good. Always weird when these shadow clones don't vanish. My gosh, Blake, I have so many girl problems. Oh, good thing you're such a great listener. Ask what you can, because Roman Torchwank is back in town.  You thought you could just move on into a spin-off comedy series and leave me behind? I will have my revenge. This time, things are going to be different. It's time to destroy those meddling kids once and for all.  Prepare the death row.  My hour of victory is at hand. Mio, load the highly explosive dust crystals. Gotta hear you, Mindy Mutt.   Can't feel my legs. Mio, how do I look? Thanks for checking out that episode of Ruby Chibi. We're going to be re-releasing the entire first season every week on this channel. If you want more from the team that brought you Ruby and other great animated shows, you can check out Eye of Notes or any of our select all content. Our live-action content helps support the animation content, so it's all going in the same place. Like things, subscribe things, do things to bells.


I could not stress this enough. Stop competing with your teammates. As a leader of a design team, never put yourself in a situation where you have to compete with your teammates. If you have to step in and help, do so in partnership with a junior member and use this opportunity to mental them. Let me tell you one thing.


And I think a piece of 3-H rebar all the way. The Paradise Irrigation District, with the help of our colleagues at Water Works Engineering, based in Reading, are undertaking the unprecedented task of repairing our entire water system in a way that enables us to address our two most critical needs simultaneously. By targeting the areas with the highest concentration of undamaged occupied structures, we at PID are getting potable water fastest to those customers. At the same time, we are actively identifying and performing immediately when possible the repairs essential to recovering the larger water system. Once an undamaged home is identified for testing of its water service line, PID's focus shifts immediately to an adjacent destroyed property where we attach a sampling manifold to its meter service line. Taking the test at the unoccupied property prevents the neighbor's occupants' service from being disrupted during the three-day wait period before the sample test can be drawn. Water Works Engineer Michael Lindquist explains. The sample manifold allows us to take a water quality sample from the service lateral pipe from here to the street. We take that sample after the water stagnated for 72 hours, which gives ample time for any contaminants that are absorbed into the pipe to leach back into the water in the service lateral. From this same location, we can also sample the water quality in the main pipe by flushing all of the water out of the service lateral and taking a second sample, which represents the water out in the main pipe. At each location, we're going to take two samples. One's from the service lateral, the other's from the main. This first sample is from the service lateral. We've got main water now. Hey Jim. Michael. The test results came back for the service lateral, and they're non-detect. Outstanding. So we have no contamination in this service lateral. So what might be the next step that you're going to do here? So that's good news. So now we are looking at having to sample a standing structure, and in order to sample the standing structure, we need to be able to isolate that standing structure. In order to isolate that standing structure for the stagnation period, we need to provide them with water because we do not want customers to be without water at any time. So we will actually utilize this now that it's come back non-detect as the supply service line for the standing structure, and we'll be able to utilize a hose going from this apparatus to their service line to the customer side service line on the standing structure. We'll give them water, and we will set up this same apparatus on their service line, and we will sample them in the same manner that we sampled this service line. But what happens when the sample results for our customer service line comes back showing the presence of contaminants? We have a plan for that too. So Jim, the test results for this particular service lateral showed a contaminant level above the MCL. What are the next steps that are going to occur to this service lateral? One of the first things that we want to do whenever we encounter any kind of contamination is to limit that and isolate that particular portion of where we found that contaminant. So the method for doing that is to actually excavate in the street at the water main. We will actually isolate at the corporation stop, the valve that we will use to shut off to now isolate that service line from the water main. Overall, our plan puts you the customer first. We're getting potable water to paradise the surviving homes and businesses as quickly as possible while avoiding the inconvenience of a customer being without water service during the necessary three-day stagnation period. Although this plan is more efficient because it uses much fewer resources, the timeline for completion of repairs is extended slightly. The trade-off is that between the tireless work of the contractors and the generous mutual aid, PID personnel can more immediately get back to the business of serving our customers in the way that you were accustomed before the fire.