Welcome to today's episode of the mindset mentor podcast. I'm your host Rob dial. If you have not yet done so hit that subscribe button such you never miss another podcast episode.  Reason wise, because the more positive rating and reviews and we get the more that those platforms show this podcast to people have never listened to it before. So it's a way for you to be able to pay it forward by allowing to, you know, more people who have never seen it before, I've never heard it before to possibly be able to find it. And it'd be really nice to give us a rating review. So if you do that, I would greatly, greatly appreciate it. Today, we're going to be talking about three questions to reprogram your mind so that you can start living your truest self. And I say the words reprogrammed or the word reprogrammed very intentionally, because we are programmed as children. We're programmed whether we realize or whether we're not. And it's not like when I say this, it's not like your parents are behind the scenes and they're evil programmers and they're programming this child to be exactly as they want. They're basically doing it unintentionally. And when I say programmed, if you think of like a program like a computer programmer, they're literally sitting there and they're typing the programmed in so that the program runs exactly the way that they want it to them. That is kind of how we are brought up in this world. From zero to seven years old, our brain is the most plastic. It is so ridiculously able to bend and mold and change depending on what it sees, what it hears and what it's told. And what we are is to be able to fit in with society. We're taught what to do. A few episodes ago, I said it, we are domesticated, right? So we are taught what to do. But even more than what we're taught, we see what we're supposed to do more than anything else. We observe and then we take that on. We observe and then we take that on. And these develop what we call our core beliefs. Now, here's the thing. Just because you have a belief of something does not mean that that something is true. So you can have completely different beliefs than I do. Then your neighbor does. Then your other neighbor does. And we develop our core beliefs. Beliefs are not true. Beliefs can be changed. So the things that we're taught of how we're supposed to act and the things that we see our parents and we see our family and we see everybody else around us doing, develop who we are. That develops our core beliefs. That's all fine and dandy, but then it develops a problem. The problem is this. As we get older, we wonder why we feel a little bit odd in our body. We wonder why we feel at ends with ourself. Like what I mean by it ends with ourself is on one side, we could be like, I want to lose weight. I want to go to the gym. I want to get fit.  There's nothing that I want to do here. Or we could want to build a really successful business and make something amazing. But on the other side, we're like, I'm going to fail. I'm going to fail. I'm going to fail. And we think we're going to fail so much. We don't do anything. And so we can literally be at two completely different ends. And it's like the conscious mind, which is only 5% of your brain, 5% of your thoughts can consciously want to build a successful business. But the other 95%, which is your subconscious, which means under the conscious that 95% is like, no, no, no, no, no. Your dad had a failed business.  And that's the subconscious program that's playing in the background that we usually don't pay a whole lot of attention to. And if you do 5% compared to 95%, that means that your subconscious thoughts are 19 times stronger than your conscious ones. And so we don't know why we feel so weird, but there's a part of us that's like, I feel like there's two parts of me, two parts of me that are battling.  I feel like in cartoons where it's like the cartoon and on one side, they'd have the angel on their shoulder, and the other side, they'd have the devil on their shoulder. And they both be whispering into their ears. That's kind of like your conscious and your subconscious. You can feel completely at ends with yourself. And we can feel like, man, you know what, I think there might be something wrong with me. I don't know about you. I felt like there's something wrong. I feel like there's always something wrong with me, right? Like I was like, I'm a weirdo. Where the hell did that thought come from?  I'm like, that wasn't my thought. Who's thought was that? That's kind of weird. So we feel like we're weirdos. We feel like there's something wrong with us. And at times, what happens is we can be holding on to baggage and beliefs that aren't even ours. None. Like a lot of them cannot be ours. We're literally holding on to beliefs and trying to prop up a belief that isn't ours, but it was taught to us at a young age, and we're still trying to prop it up, but it's like we're getting weaker and weaker propping it because it's starting to lose its value. We're starting to not see it as much anymore. And so we're holding on to baggage and beliefs that aren't even ours. And a lot of times, these are your parents' baggage and their beliefs, which was their parents' baggage and beliefs. And so it's generational trauma just passed on over and over and over and over again.  And we're basically living somebody else's life. We're not living our truth. We're living the truth that was taught to us by our parents or that we saw in society in our family when we were growing up. And we're not living our truth. We're living someone else's truth. And so our parents tell us what we should do, who you should marry, when you should marry, what you should go study in school, what job you should take, what you should do based off of the things that they had earlier in life. And like one of the biggest things that you could see is that college enrollment continues to go down and down and down. I think it said it's third year in a row where college enrollment is actually declining. Well, people are starting to wake up to the fact that most college is not actually worth it. But that's really hard because a lot of our parents were raised where college had a great ROI.  And with that little bit of debt, you can eventually pay it off pretty soon and you can get a much better job by going to college. Now college is so ridiculously expensive. I think I saw that the statistically college has gone up 1200% to the 1200% or 12,000%. Don't quote me on it. But I think it was 1200% what it was in the past 20 years. But the price, the actual pavement that people get, the actual salary only went up like 276%. That's a big delta. That's a big difference. And so what used to be easy to pay off is now pretty much impossible to pay off and people were looking and going, there's no ROI. But parents still think that there is ROI. So they push that under their children. You need to go to college. You need to go to college. Go into debt. You'll pay it off. Go into debt. You'll pay it off. Well, it used to be easier to pay off. Now some people will never pay off their college debt. And so you start to actually take on what your parents' belief is, which could be college is worth it. When in reality, it might or might not be now, but that could be one of their beliefs based off of things that happened to them in their childhood that now they're trying to pass on to you. And we start to realize that we're living the life that society wants us to live. You get a job because of money, not because of passion. Think about that one for a second. Do you have a job specifically because of money and not because of passion? Most people do. So let's dive into the core beliefs. Where do we get them from? Well, we do get them from our parents, but our parents didn't most likely do it to try to screw us over. They tried to make us the best they possibly could. All of your parents, no matter who you are, what they did, they did the best they could with what they had. No matter how good they were, no matter how screwed up they were, they did the best they could. It's your job to, you know, that was the cards that we were all dealt. It's our job just to work through it. So parents, we get it from our parents. We get our core beliefs from our parents. We get our core beliefs from our family. It could be your brothers, sisters. It could be your aunts, uncles, grandparents, putting on a time you spent with them. You could get it from your teachers. You can get your core beliefs from your religion. And what we think about ourselves and what we think about the world around us is usually coming from other people, usually coming from our parents, from our teachers, from our family, from our religion. What's crazy about it is that psychologists have found that 70 to 80 percent of your core beliefs, of a person's core beliefs, 70, 80 percent of them are actually negative. Take that one in for a second. 70 to 80 percent of a human's core beliefs are negative. We have these core beliefs like, I'm not good enough. I don't deserve love. I'm not smart enough. The world is dangerous. People cannot be trusted. Don't start a business because you'll fail like your father. You'll never amount to anything. I'm worthless. Money doesn't grow on trees. And it's just negative, negative, negative core beliefs. And we take those core beliefs that are programmed into us. What's once again is just like baggage and beliefs. And we try to take them on as our own because we think that that is actual, instead of a belief, we perceive it as a child, as absolute truth. But it's not absolute truth. It's a belief and a belief can be changed. So they persist, they persist, they persist because it is programmed into us as a child because we're like a sponge with no questioning. And the thing about it that's really sad too is that children, that's why you can see your parents get divorced and the children think it's their fault, is because children think children are narcissistic. That's just the way that it goes. We think of when we're children that everything happens because of us. So you could have an abuse of parent and you don't think what's wrong with them. You don't think what's wrong with my mom. But you have an abusive parent and you think what's wrong with me. It doesn't have to be physically, it could be emotionally, it could be sexually, it could be all kinds of different emotional damage or, excuse me, all different kinds of damage that we could have and abuse that we can have from that parent. And we don't think what's wrong with them. We think what's wrong with me. We can think we're just being ourselves, we're having fun, playing with our toys, and your dad had a really bad day.  Not that dad might have had a shitty day at work, but what's wrong with me. It's my fault. I'm doing something wrong. You can have, your mother can be a very anxious person. I have a friend whose mother fears everything, the world. Everything is to be feared. And her and her siblings, at least when I first met them, are terrified. We're terrified of many different things and it was fears, fears, fears, fears, fears, fears, fears. Well, her mother got it from her grandmother. So her mother got it from her mother, which is my friend's grandmother. And it's just passed on, passed on. They watched the news, they immediately call and they're like, did you see that XYZ happen? And it's like bad news, bad news, bad news.  She texts me, lets me know this. So your mother could be anxious, could be filled with worry.  They grow up scared. They grow up thinking that nothing can be trusted, that there's something bad that's always going to happen. They grow up with much more fear than they need to. Not as programmed into them, not because their mother didn't love them or because she was trying to screw them over. The mother was actually disguising her worry as love. The mother was disguising her fear as love.   So my mom knows where I am at all points of time.  Why does she need to know where you are? Why does she need to know every single thing? It's the worry in her mind.  It's like, well, that's a form of enablement. So that can be passed on. And then you find out that the people who have mothers like that are, you know, even fathers like that too, not just mothers. But I see it from mothers quite often is their children ended being a lot more worried, a lot more fearful, a lot harder to take action because there is an aspect of being afraid of being afraid of the world, of being afraid of screwing up, being afraid of messing things up. And so the mother accidentally takes their worry and their fears, their anxiety and places it on top of the child and child grows up that way. And so they grow up and they subconsciously repeat the same things over and over and over and over again. It's just programming. So my question to you, and I want you to think about this, I said, I was going to give you three questions. This isn't one of them. This is a question, but it's not the questions. Is where do you feel stuck in your life? Where do you feel stuck? Do you feel stuck in relationships?    Where do you feel stuck in your life? Where do you feel stuck? And before I give you these questions, another question I ask you is what core beliefs were built into you as a children? So like, where do you feel stuck? And then what core beliefs could have been built into you as a child, consciously and unconsciously? And what do you want them to be? Plan them. And so here's the three questions that I want you to go through. So when you identify, you know, I feel stuck in my relationships. Why do I still feel stuck in my relationships? You start to go through it. And you notice I feel stuck in my relationships because I feel like men can't be trusted. That could be something, right? And then you ask yourself, these are the three questions to kind of start to work through and reprogram your beliefs, not somebody else's beliefs into you. Question number one is, where did I learn this? So if I think men can't be trusted, where did I learn this? Well, maybe when your parents are getting divorced, you remember your mom talking trash about your dad and the woman that he was with and how could he do this and all this stuff. And you started thinking, men can't be trusted, men can't be trusted, men can't be trusted. That's possible. I've heard it many times. So the first question is, where did I learn this? The second question to start to decide if it's something that you want to carry with you is, what is my truth? What is my truth? My truth is that I actually don't think that men can be trusted. Okay. Well, then that is your truth. Or my, my, my actual truth is I do think that men can be trusted. Maybe that's yours. I don't know what it is. It's up for you. I'm not telling you what's right. I'm not telling you what's wrong. Completely up to you. So where did I learn this? What is my truth? And then what do I choose to believe? So I found out where I learned it. I find out my truth. And then I'm going to ask myself from this moment forward, I'm going to ask myself, what do I choose to believe? So maybe it is that, you know, you got it from your mom, men are cheaters, men can't be trusted. What is my belief? My belief is that they can be trusted. I don't want to live the majority of my life thinking that. What do I choose to believe? I choose to believe that men can be trusted. And you can go through all aspects of your life. You can go through your religion. You can go through your money. You can go through your relationships. You can go through your career. You can go through your family. You can go through all aspects of this and start to really start to figure out number one, who you truly are. And number two, start to reprogram yourself based off of what you choose to believe. And if you find a place where, you know, your core beliefs don't line up with your truth, make a plan to get past that. It's not going to go away like that. You're not going to drill through it. It's going to be like, oh my God, my core belief is gone. It's going to pop up. You're going to notice it. You're just going to pop. You're going to see it. But when it does have a plan for what it does pop up, you notice yourself falling into that pit of somebody else's core belief of how you're going to get yourself out of it. So once again, the three questions are number one, where did I learn this? Number two, is that my truth or what is my truth? And number three, what do I choose to believe?  So that's all I got for you for today's episode. If you love this episode, please share it on your Instagram stories and tag me at Rob Dial Jr, R-O-B-D-I-A-L-J-R. You can also follow me there. I think we have over like 420,000 people that follow me on Instagram. And then we also have a Facebook or some Instagram page specifically for this podcast called the Mindset Mentor podcast. 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My name is Stan Baknien and I am the author of malignant self-love, Narcissism Revisible. Sometimes the breakup is initiated by the long-suffering spouse or intimate partner of the narcissist or the psychopath. As she develops and matures, gaining in self-confidence and a modicum of self-esteem, ironically, at the narcissist behest, in his capacity as her guru or father figure, well as these developments happen, she acquires more personal autonomy and refuses to cater to the energy-draining neediness of her narcissist. She no longer provides him with all-important secondary narcissistic supply or stentatious respect or adulation, undivided attention, admiration and the rehashed memories of past successes, glories and trials. Typically when this happens, when the spouse or the intimate partner of the narcissist initiates breakup because she has outgrown the relationship, when this happens, the roles are reversed. The narcissist then displays codependent behaviors, such as clinging. In a desperate attempt to hang on to his creation is either to a veteran and reliable source of quality narcissistic supply. These behaviors are further exacerbated by the narcissist increasing social isolation, psychological disintegration, decompensation and recurrent failures and defeats as he grows older. But the question of who did what to whom and even why is largely irrelevant. What is relevant is to stop mourning oneself, to start smiling again and to love in a less observant, hopeless and pain-inflicting manner. On the face of it, there is no emotional partner or mate who typically binds with the narcissist. They come in all shapes, all sizes. The initial phases of attraction, infatuation and falling in love are pretty normal. The narcissist puts on his best face. The other party is blinded by budding love or lust. The natural selection process occurs only much later as the relationship develops and is put to the test by the narcissist. Living with the narcissist can be exhilarating. It's always onerous and often harrowing. Surviving a relationship with the narcissist indicates, therefore, the parameters of the personality of the survivor. She, or more rarely he, is molded by the relationship into the v-typical narcissistic, narcissistic mate, partner or spouse. First informs, the narcissist's partner must have a deficient or distorted grasp of herself and of reality. Otherwise, she or he is bound to abandon the narcissist's ship early on. The cognitive distortion of the partner of the narcissist is likely to consist of belittling and demeaning herself while aggrandizing and adoring the narcissist. The partner is thus placing herself in the position of the eternal victim. Undeserving, punishable, a scapegoat. Sometimes it is very important to the partner to appear moral, sacrificial and victimized. At other times, she is not even aware of this predicament. The narcissist is perceived by the partner to be a person in the position to demand these sacrifices from her. Why? Because he is superior in many ways, intellectually, emotionally, morally, professionally, financially, whatever. He is superior, she is inferior, he has the right to demand she must comply. The status of professional victim sits well with the partner's tendency to punish herself, mainly with her masochistic streak. The tormented life with the narcissist is just what she deserves, so she firmly believes, consciously or unconsciously. In this respect, the partner of the narcissist is the mirror image of the narcissist by maintaining a symbiotic relationship with the narcissist by being totally dependent upon her source of masochistic supply, which the narcissist most reliably constitutes and most amply provides. The partner enhances certain traits and encourages certain behaviors, which are at the very core of narcissism. On the other hand, the narcissist has never hauled without an adoring, submissive available and self-denigrating partner. The narcissist's very sense of superiority, indeed his false self, depends on the existence of such a partner. Its sadistic superego switches its attentions from the narcissist, in whom it often provokes suicidal ideation, to the partner, thus finally obtaining an alternative source of sadistic satisfaction. It is true self-demial that the partner survives. She denies her wishes, her hopes, her dreams, inspirations, sexual, psychological, material needs, choices, preferences, values, much much else besides. She even denies her family and friends. She perceives her needs as threatening, because they might engender the rough, the rage of the narcissist's godlike superego figure. The narcissist is rendered in his partner's eyes even more superior through and because of this self-denial. Self-denial, undertaken to facilitate and ease the life of a great man, is more palatable and acceptable to the victim. The greater the man, in other words, the greater the narcissist, the easier it is for the victimized partner to ignore her own self, to dwindle, to degenerate, to turn into an appendix of the narcissist. And finally, to become nothing but an extension, to merge with the narcissist to the point of oblivion and of merely dim memories of herself. The two, the narcissist and his intimate partner, collaborate in this macabre dance. The narcissist is formed by his partner and in as much as he forms her. Submission breeds superiority. Masochism breeds sadism. The relationships are characterized by emergentism. The roles are allocated among the narcissist and his partner, almost from the start. And any deviation from the roles meets with an aggressive, even violent reaction. The predominant state of the partner's mind is utter confusion. Even the most basic relationships with husbands, with husbands, children, parents, all-time friends, even these relationships remain bafflingly obscure by the giant shadow cast by the intensive interaction with the narcissist. A suspension of judgment is part and parcel of a suspension of individuality, which is both a prerequisite, too, in the result of living with the narcissist. The partner no longer knows. That is true. What is right? What is wrong? What is forbidden? What is disease? The narcissist recreates for the partner the sort of emotional ambience that led to his own formation in the first place.  The world becomes hostile and ominous. The partner has only one thing left to cling to. The partner is not a narcissist. And cling, she does. If there is anything which can safely be said about those who emotionally team up with the narcissist, is that they are overtly and overly dependent. The partner doesn't know what to do. This is only too natural in the mayhem that is a relationship with the narcissist. It's a roller coaster. But the typical partner also does not know what she wants, to a large extent, who she is and what does she wish to become. The unanswered questions, these unanswered questions, they hamper the partner's ability to gorge reality. She loses the reality test. Her primordial sin is that she fell in love with an image, not with a real person. The narcissist is a projection, the false self, a concoction, the whole thing, a confabulation. The voiding of the image that is mourned when the relationship ends, not the real narcissist. The breakup of a relationship with the narcissist is therefore very emotionally charged. It is the culmination of a long chain of humiliations and subjugation. It is the rebellion of the functioning and the healthy parts of the partner's personality against the tyranny of the narcissist. The partner is likely to have totally misread the whole interaction, I hesitate to call it a relationship. This lack of proper interface with reality might be erroneously labeled pathological. It's not, it's reactive. The narcissist provokes this quasi-pathology in his partner. Why is it that the partner seeks to prolong her pain in the first place? What is the source and purpose of this masochistic streak? Upon the breakup of the relationship, the partner, but not the narcissist who usually refuses to provide closure, engages in a torturous, torturous, drawn-out, post-mortem autopsy of what could have been a relationship and never was.


We are in Belgrade in Nova Gallery and it's my exhibition entitled You'll remember me. I tried to imitate these very strange real situations from partner relations, some weird and carefully hidden situations. It is about the rights that we all have that I have to call the things by their real names and the real name for this particular situation is actually abuse. And when we come to abuse, then it is easier to find a solution and to make big decisions because we all know and we all agree that violence is bad. When we say violence, we usually think of physical manifestations and here I talk about something that is actually invisible, which is psychological abuse. Even the most radical types, if I can say so, of violence are not treated in a very effective way in Serbia and therefore psychological violence is something that is actually mostly not even called violence. So when you are a victim of this type and you finally get enough strength to talk to someone to tell your secret, then you can often have the answer which is like you're very spoiled, such as life, this is how it is with a man that's marriage or something like that. One part of the installation are these follies. I fulfilled these figures with some words I collected for a very long time. Some of them are phrases and most of them I've heard myself and some of them I just picked up walking in the street. There is also a sound. These are six sentences which are from the same life experience as all the others used on follies, but I took only the very strongest ones for sound. And when you hear one of those there's no doubt then what is going on and what am I trying actually to point to. These sentences are recorded word by word and put together in editing so that they also sound a bit strange and even funny. The drawings are something very, very gentle. I try to open something positive to leave the positive ending with the drawings. The only very important difference is that for the drawings I only use the very positive words. I made stamps that print the words like I dance or I wish or I bloom or I can, I want. So something really positive and again I played with the figures and with these nice words and with this positive energy.


Why is Jeff McCoy so upset about your rainbows, has he got something to hide? Your rainbows are harmless, there is no confusion, they sure wear all on the same side It washes away, don't you see? The rainbow, rejection, the lovers, the LBGTs and me


Do I do you share mansions hope here? Well, I don't think so. I think he's very naive as Chris Wallace called him He says that he's giving props to his Republican colleagues who are doing the right thing without regard to their careers That's a very disingenuous remark from senator mansion because that's exactly what he's doing He knows that straddling the the I guess the Republican base But I don't know how to put it. It's not straddling the base. That sounds a little sexual, but By doing what the Republican Party might like he keeps his job in West Virginia as my point But we're talking about basically saving the country here, and I feel very sad for us and annoyed with him frankly Hi, right So if Democrats don't have omnipotent one-party rule power propped up by Democrat state media propaganda Then the country's done for welcome back everybody. Please hit that like button and subscribe You may have noticed the media losing its mind over the fact that moderate Democrat Joe Manchin has broken with his party and Joe Biden on HR1 and getting rid of the filibuster President Biden's push for voting rights and his big infrastructure package took a big hit on Sunday from a fellow Democrat George when there is a 50-50 Senate and all Republicans are in opposition Joe Biden needs every single Democrat to get anything done That could sink the move to override Republican state laws that limit voting access We should hang is at the White House. We should what are the odds that the president can get Manchin could change his mind? Good morning, Anthony at this point. It looks like it is close to zero Of course, Biden and the AOC Communist wing of the Democrat Party want to get rid of the filibuster So they have absolute power and HR1 is meant to solidify that power for the foreseeable future Democrats hate the filibuster when they're in power, but they love it when they're out of power Manchin can see the obvious problems with this especially since it's a party-line vote with no Republican support Not even the Rhino wing of the GOP is going along with it for all the talk we hear from the media about saving democracy They sure are focused on securing one-party rule and silencing the voices of over a hundred million Americans over at the spew They're not at all happy about this bipartisanship Which is really weird because they always love the Maverick John McCain when he would break from his party that 100% of the Republicans focus is to block the Biden agenda Okay, and isn't that typically what the party out of power does for the last four years?  It's just a complete lack of self-awareness 100% of the focus and so it is not only naive to think that bipartisanship in the Senate is possible It is 100% Just dead wrong and let's think about what's happening in the states. You have 389 bills 389 bills in 48 states that would make it harder for their own residents to vote in upcoming elections All of those bills have been put forth by Republicans Nobody is making it harder to vote in elections All we're doing is rolling back the rules to what they were pre-covid and some states are requiring voter ID Which is not hard to get it's free in many cases And if the democrats wanted to during their registration drives, they could sign people up for free IDs There's actually zero proof that there's any widespread voter suppression going on at all It's funny that host in here says that the republicans want to cheat But hr1 is all about democrats securing power for the foreseeable future. And again, I just find this all really ironic because back when And again, I find this all really ironic. I guess we shouldn't find this very surprising because the media is always Hypocritical it's like their main rule But if you go back to the times of joe Lieberman, he was a democrat that would cross the aisle and be bipartisan very often And he was always a target of the democrat state media and the democrats exactly like they're going after mansion now But when we're talking about republicans crossing the aisle, well, they turn them into heroes. They label them mavericks There's so many uh conversations about whether or not republicans have to bend the need of trump Well, do democrats have to bend the need of the squad and everything on the far left because it looks like aoc in the squad Is dictating who's allowed in your party as well something about winning red states But instead of taking the lessons of joe mansion, they'd rather just you know Call him a heretic and call him a traitor.  So the media Coverage of him is really interesting especially for someone like me Everything mega mccain just said right there is 100 accurate But don't ever expect these harpies or co-hosts to ever admit their hypocrisy They simply don't care that they're hypocrites because they know that nobody's ever really gonna call them on it Yeah, megan just did it, but it will have no impact. All right, folks. That's all I have for this one I'm not feeling great today. So I don't have a lot of time to do a video But if you enjoyed it, please hit that like button share and subscribe and keep coming back every day I'll have new videos


filming this for me thank you so much farm system so it comes with an apartment everything is already paid for it within the rent I got a utility package so I'm gonna set that up tonight cuz baby why don't you say 2012? Oh no I'll cause it in pantry so it comes with shelves for your pantry and then this will be for your coats and jackets and stuff like that already be able to be in today so that's why you're gonna see some stuff in the apartment tour but I'll just be rolling over all right moving over this way this is what they call your dining room space so my dining room take will go under here on the chandelier over here is the living room which is really big but y'all know I gotta be couch so just probably want to take up all this space these apartments already have this little mounting situation thingy so none of my floors will be able to show because the plug-ins and stuff are already up in here coming over here is my bar area yeah I know I just bought a barcar from Amazon like five months ago so I'm gonna put that in the closet and start on that using more but this has so much space plug-ins up there this is where you find they got drawers cabinets down here so very very spacious I'm thinking we put my bottles up there moving over here this is the kitchen a huge island I like this little situation thingy here with the water like this real cute real cute real cute I will say I think my last apartment had a few more like cabinet like I mean countertop space but whatever this one isn't a smooth stove top but it's okay these are sometimes a little bit easier to clean so mark away stainless steel the fridge is pretty big bigger than my last place and then it has all the little gadget gadget thingies that you need and then moving over here this way is my laundry room area so I have a few things in here so I think washer go over here and dryer definitely go over there and get this they said they clean look at all that I'll have them up and the cool thing about this is it's a laundry shoe so if you open it this actually goes into my master bedroom so I can put like a basket right there so I can easily you know wash and stuff so this is gonna be the master bedroom the lightest door so y'all know my bed is huge it's gonna take up this entire room but that's fine and then I'm gonna be able to mount my TV over there with a little mount thing and then this is my favorite part of the apartment my bathroom yes so tons of cabinet space in here I don't want to be able to fill this up everybody think I am but I don't think so and then over here I got clean the shower so I can't be set in so this is how big it is literally can fit like literally my arms all the way out so shower head I'll turn that on real quick to show y'all and you can have them both going at the same time so it's super cute super nice I feel real bougie or whatever and this if this is closed this will be my closet it already comes with some shelves in here and then this is the laundry shoe that I was telling y'all about so I put a basket here throw my dirty clothes and then I can get it out over there and yeah just your regular closet super cute now now we're gonna go to the guest room so this would be my YouTube studio my inventory studio my everything anyways this is it already got my boxes and stuff in here I think this wall would be for YouTube videos and then this wall over here will be for all of my inventory and anything h.a.d. beauty collection related go shop link is in the bio all right next is my guest bathroom so literally the same setup the only difference is this one has a tub that I'm super excited about this is the main reason why I wanted to move because one so I can make the dog and I can take a you know low back in here and this one is this closet this was free space because I can walk in here in this one and then it got the shelves and everything like that too so I'm super excited this is so cute this is so me I probably throw in some b-roll some cute little love footage the patio is huge I'll probably put in like a little video myself of the patio and then I also have a patio what is it storage so yeah that's all for this portion of the video in the next part of the video I'm gonna be showing you guys me cleaning up the whole entire apartment so don't forget to like this video comment subscribe and then I'll see y'all in the next clip by our only kitchen because this is not clean anywhere even if they see if they clean because of what kind of clean in this day and then my dishwasher I forgot to bring actual like dishwasher cleaner but I did bring a little pot that I was just gonna throw in there and then obviously clean it out with the Lysol stuff like that or something but this is really all I got I forgot to get dishwash cleaner so I'm about to go ahead and spray this Lysol down again here to my bleach so I'm gonna have to go to the store and get some bleach and y'all I actually got a door y'all know my last apartment I didn't have a glass door it's just the shower be open so I'm now I'm about to put this comment right Lysol all right so it is 7 12 the sun is slightly trying to set I didn't bring my ring light so I'm just working off the lights is here in the apartment Janae just left just did my tour and stuff like that so what I'm about to do now is finish cleaning I have to finish cleaning my shower and in my room and then the guest room I got finished cleaning like that tub and shower and then I do have to back in my floor both closets and sweep and mop the entire like recipe apartment so I'm about to go ahead and back him now because I don't know when quiet hours are so I don't want to like do everything else and then not back him about to take my actual like shoes off and I'm about to put house shoes on simply because I feel like they're a little less dirty because you know they were them in the house but first what I'm about to do is use my swifter or swifter swifter swifter sweeper to clean the perimeter of all the floors and then I'm going to use my dust pad and my broom to actually sweep the rest of it of you know whatever I missed in this sweep of the pile that I accumulate from the swifter and then I'm going to use my swifter wet jet to Bob I do have a robot but I didn't want to bring that over here until I get my furniture in here so we can kind of learn the apartment a little bit easier so yeah so what I do I just swept the patio in the patio storage so that's looking nice I have a really cool idea for that like this apartment I have so many ideas for and I'm literally about to start working on them like next month because I want this place to be home like I said I'm already like praying here prayed over stuff like that and it just already feels like home like I got my two bedroom too bad literally walk-in shower with the tub amazing walk-in shower with the rain fall showerhead at the top like can't ask for nothing more then I got a bar right here I'm gonna use my bar cart anymore so yeah it's just I love it I don't know if I told you about my thermostat was actually not intact like I'll insert a clip or a video right now overlaying this whole thing was off so they came and put that on today I want to tell them that at like 5 o'clock 5 15 literally got back over here like 545 and it was already good and then my stove was like turned off I guess it was unplugged so I think plug that back up so they've been doing everything fairly quickly over here super excited everybody in a mama got a dog over here baby like they're not about to be one of house that Prince and Oreo literally have a ball like the dog park is literally all the way done like it's cool got so many amenities and stuff to use here about the count of my gym membership actually because we have a full gym here too actually so we just live so I'm about to finish cleaning though and like back and then stuff like that because it is seven I really haven't been home all day besides getting stuff and bring it back and I'm also about to get a jumpstart on we got an Amazon hub so whenever I get packages and stuff like that they'll put in like the Amazon hub I go to the office pick it up super cool so I need to fill that out I also need to set up my security system I also need to fill out the documentation for the apartment like writing down anything that like got scratches and stuff like that so when I move out they know that I didn't do it if you got your own apartment whatever you know what I'm talking about so yeah I got a few more things to do here and then I will come back tomorrow tomorrow I do actually got a call the light company entry is what they use here and get my lights set up because she said I got two days from the day I moved in moved in Wednesday so I got into like Friday so I'm gonna call them tomorrow get my lights which over to my name as y'all know I don't pay a light bill right now like I literally just paid rent in my apartment so that's the downside about living here but let me that's so far the only downside hopefully that will be the only downside so yeah I got all the lights on right now about to try to leave it up before I got to pay myself okay but I'm about to go ahead and back in my room like I said in the closets and then I'll just kind of let the music play I may do a voiceover if need be but hopefully you guys are enjoying this video I didn't get much of like the moving process because you know that's not really what this vlog is about I don't believe yeah this is just my if the apartment or me cleaning so the next vlog after this one would be me actually like moving in some stuff because I really don't move it until like Saturday so I'm not gonna be staying the night here until Saturday I should say so yeah today's Wednesday so I'm about to just let y'all wash me clean working on a weekend like usual way off in the deep end like usual nigga swear they passed us they doing too haven't done about to clean the shower and use this from like one more to the dollar store it's all I have that's long enough with like a sponge type I just ordered this saw this on a few people using this but I've been seeing it before it kind of went viral but I ordered this one super cool doesn't take batteries just charges on its own so we got a long handle and all the cool little attachment heads so after today I will be actually using the right tool to do this without hurting my freaking back so I'm about to play my music and I'm about to just vibe out


The chief of AMI's staff, Lt. Gen. Tower Reed Lagma, just says, the Nigerian AMI will continue to be responsible and responsive in its engagement with the society. He stressed that such commitment in the ongoing end-of-year exercises and operations have strengthened its objectives to combating piracy, oil theft, banditry, kidnapping, terrorism, insurgency, secessionist agitation, and others. He made this known at the close and brief press briefing of exercise clean sweep, declaring Ikeja Kanton meant free of exploded ordinances, plus TV defence correspondent Destiny Momo has more. These historical feats have satisfied Ikeja Kanton meant safe and free of every unexploded ordinances following a bomb explosion that happened 21 years ago. The closing ceremony, which took place at the officer's nest, 9th Brigade Ikeja Kanton meant, had the chief of AMI staff, Gen. Tower Reed Lagma, in attendance, as well as notable members of other security agencies. The chief of AMI staff was ably represented by the commander, engineer, core major, Gen. Philip E. Romoselle, who said the Nigerian AMI would continue to be responsible and responsive in its engagement with the society, among other invaluable addition. As the clean sweep witnessed the deployment of some of the most sophisticated explosive order disposal technologies and techniques are palpable today in the market. These include ground penetrating radar detection systems, drone propagated chemical clearance of vegetation, as well as remote controlled exclusive order disposal robots. Addictionally, the best Nigerian AMI personnel in exclusive order disposal and ammunition technical experts from Nigerian AMI agents and Nigerian AMI order scores were employed. The efficient mobilization of these men and equipment resulted in a timely search, recovery, and disposal of 2,055 ordnance of virus calibers from the cotter military sites. The blast epicenter, measuring over a world of 55,000 square meters, is now safe and secure for immediate productive development. Earlier, Colonel Kazim Abdul Razak, the coordinator of exercise clean sweep, would doubles as the acting directorate of explosive search and disposal and Nigerian AMI engineers informed that during the period the clearance operation lasted, not a single order was deliberately or accidentally deteriorated at the clearance site. By working in collaboration with other stakeholders, we are not only ensure the safety of our citizens, but also foster synergy among various security agencies. Very much in line with the Jeep of Armistice Command philosophy. In adherence to international best practices as well as quality assurance, the site will double checks by the Nigerian Police Force Explosive Ordnance Disposer and chemical, biological, and nuclear units. They particularly expected an area of about 155,000 square meters and certify the site's claim haven't found any item of U.S.O. during the search. I'm happy to therefore announce that the site of 2002 explosion is now clear of any form of an explosion and will today be handed over to the ambient process of future development. I witnessed it during the three months program and they called me to inspect. So I'm also pleased that my area is secure now, so it's secure. Clear from any hazard, any identifying hazard or potential hazard. You know, one of the common characteristics of a no-go area is that some certain hazard has been identified. Of course, the area will now have a clean certificate of safety. The Chief of Army himself was presented a certificate by the Commander of the Nigerian Police Explosive Ordnance Department, DSP Awadele Jude, who represented the Commissioner of Police of Lagos State Command while declaring Operation Clean Sweep closed. Also, plus TV Africa and notable media organizations were given awards of excellence for being part of the historical process. Destiny Mama plus TV News.