and see her inside ears looking at me right here so that means she's kind of paying attention to me and traveling out nice. Then the next thing I'm going to teach the horses how to stop and uh so I'm going to go around here whoa okay so she she did good there and so see how this mare stopped and how she stayed parallel for me that's uh that's how I would like for four horses stop. When we're working a cow we want them to stop parallel with the cow and so same thing when I'm here on the ground I don't like for a horse to stop and I don't mind that she looked at me here but she stayed square with her body and so that's that's what I'm looking for there. If for some reason she didn't stop just then rather than all I would have done is one thing my father-in-law told me whenever he kind of started teaching me to break colts he said a colt isn't broke until you have control of their feet and I think that's a lot of truth in that and uh so I'm gonna put this foot rope on her here and uh I'll I'll just first I'm just putting just a little bit of pressure here and then she gives I give I'm not asking for much I just want to step so I'm going to hold right here she gave a little bit I give it back okay right there she let me place that foot forward and that's where I wanted it and so I'm gonna give her a release there and give her a reward and then I just move it back a little further and I and I run it back all the way into the flank for mine because I want them if something breaks one day or something happens and that rope gets back there I don't want them to think anything of it so I'm just holding right here until she quits moving her feet whatever parts closest to me is the part I'm working on if the hips closest to me I'm generally moving it out if the shoulder leans in I'm moving it out because I'd like for them to have shape going around me here and whoa good she still stopped parallel so that's very good all right now I'm going to send her this other way and there I just blocked her because I'm going to send her around right here there good girl good girl and right there's the reward I'm going to let her there you go so very good she's licking her lips again she's very receptive to this it's really good okay stop her good very good okay transitioning that shoulder all the way through there good


Before I answer that let me tell you about an argument that I'm having like frequently with one of our head instructors one of one of my best friends and the really head instructor of CR Kian. He's sitting right over there and Kian is by far the greatest instructor I have ever seen. He has performed so magical results out of students that you really can't believe your eyes at times.   I mean I just think people lose their virginities on boot camps. People who are like 35 virgins and you think like yeah this is gonna take time and nope one night one night with Kian that's how it works. One of our greatest instructor no doubt and we always have this we frequently have this kind of argument that eventually led me to this speech and that is usually when I coach I tend to try to teach people my kind of game.  He said well look at you look at them they're different and so we continually have these arguments where I'm like yeah but you see it's if you do it right and he says yeah but you need to be able to do it right but if you can't do it right it's not gonna work and so we always we like we explore this whole thing what is doing certain techniques or certain routines or whatever you want to call it right what does it come down to? Let me tell you about two openers two of my favorite openers at the moment. The one the first is really simple yet genius it goes like this I just approach like let me first tell you about my game my game is aimed towards the tense like I go out in nightclubs that's my favorite thing to do I go out nightclubs and I always aim for the high social status tense have I ever gone home with women of less beauty yeah but it's more of an exception and really it's not what I want I'm never satisfied with that I always go for the 10 and to be told you guys paid a lot of money I don't think you should settle for less either now I'm not saying you should all aim for you know the nightclub 10 but you should definitely always go after what you want don't ever forget that however so my game is pretty much geared towards that hardcore kind of stuff and yet some of the things I do are really simple like for example this opener it goes like this I go up I walk up to women I'm like hi I don't recognize you who are you that's my opener hi I don't recognize you who are you?