Buddy the pup. Not so much of a pup anymore, he's already 10 years old, but I still call him Buddy the pup. Anyway, still working on the adjustments of my new-ish office to make sure that when he's here he shows up on camera. Okay, so today's topic I want to just bring back. I've talked about this before, but I think it's always worth bringing back. The topic of a lightness, lightness. It's one of my higher top values, you might say, and the way I approach lightness, the way I approach it is that it is based on deep, deep foundational, spiritual, psychological security. It's based on deep security. I think that's where lightness comes from, for me. For me, anyway, there may be other ways of approaching it, and I look forward to seeing your comments below, but the reason why, for me, it comes from deep security is because when there is a strong foundation, then you can really play. If there was a flimsy foundation, I mean, you could think of it physically, too.    That's the kind of foundation I'm talking about. And so that kind of completely safe, stable foundation allows deep rest and allows the most full, authentic play in this life. So again, I encourage you to return to that foundation of yours, and please feel free to comment below what method do you use to return to your solid, stable, ever-present foundation.  You can turn left, turn right, not turn anywhere. You can make as many mistakes as you want to until the game is over for this particular turn. What is that deep foundational safety for you that then allows the lightness? I know I haven't really gotten to the lightness part of it. I was starting with the lightness as the idea, but then I started talking about this deep foundation again. So I'll say that for me, the way I like to work my way into it is to remember yet again divine love. That to me is the foundation for me is the divine love that is always present, always reaching out and healing you and me and all of us, all beings, always providing this philosophical, psychological safety that all will be well. All will be profoundly, profoundly well, no matter what it might seem like right now. Actually, all is well in another dimension that is even more real than this dimension. All is well no matter what you do or don't do today. All is completely and ever more well. And if you simply spent an entire lifetime bathing in that warm feeling or idea that all is well and however you want to come to it, whether it's by divine love or something else, if you just spent your entire life doing nothing other than feeling it whenever you can, it would be a life well lived. You would have lived a worthwhile life doing nothing other than all this well. And yet you've done many things in your life.   You've had to, you know, go to work. You've had to help others, help yourself. You've had to make money. You've had to take on hobbies. You've had to clean the house, do the chores, everything. You've done so much already. And of course it sounds so idealistic to say, oh, you know, a life well lived just bathing in divine love, nothing else is required. And yet, and yet our bodies require us to do things. Our bodies are actually remarkably resilient and require remarkably little for us to survive. Right? Like if you just wanted to survive bodily for as long as possible to just bathe in divine love and all as well, you probably could survive for decades. You know, I always bring up whenever I can the example of peace pilgrim, my spiritual hero still to this day. And peace pilgrim, if you've never heard of her story, I highly recommend the audiobook, which is free, right? Nothing's required. It's free audiobook. It always encourages me whenever I listen to it again. You can go online to type in peace pilgrim, audiobook, SoundCloud, and there's the entire free audiobook there. It might even be on YouTube, but at this point I'm not sure.  And then she decided, I'm just going to do nothing. Well, so I'll tell you what happened was instead of doing nothing, she she required the most minimal of bodily survival to continue being in love and therefore she was so filled with the love that she just gave it to everyone that she saw. And she lived an entire life walking from one end of the United States to the other end of the United States back and forth. She did that like 30 times in her life. No, she had nothing to her name, owned it, not a single thing.  And she had, I think some pamphlets she passed out every now and then she had nothing else other than the clothes she wore and then the pamphlets, I think. And she just walked from one end of the country to the other waiting until someone needed help. She could see someone needed help. She would help them, but she never asked for anything. She never kept any money. And she just waited until someone said, hey, would you like to stay in my home for the night?  Would you like something to eat? She never asked, never begged, never asked for anything. She just went around helping people that she saw needed help and then waiting. And oftentimes she would sleep on the concrete on the side of the road. Many nights was like that. Many nights was spent foraging for food, when she got hungry, you know, whatever dumpster berries on the road, on the side of bushes, whatever. It's homeless person basically for 30 years or 30 or 40 years. But everyone who encountered her reports say that she was the most loving person. And thankfully she gave talks and people transcribed those talks and made the audiobook of her life story and her teachings. So that's an example of a life of requiring minimal from the body to survive and yet living in divine love. Now, are you called to that? Most of us are not called to that. I heard of a funny story of someone who tried living the peace pilgrim life and couldn't last for like three days or something like that or maybe three weeks. It was either three days or three weeks, but not 30 years and like ran back to their parents' home and said, I can't do it too hard. It's a funny story, but I'm sure it has been repeated many times, right? Like, but this is the reality is that most of us are not called to that life because we are not built for that kind of hardiness and we want comforts. And so because we want comforts, which are a crutch. I mean, look at Pete's pilgrim, she didn't need it, but because we want comfort, we say, okay, I need to make some money so I can not just have rice and beans, the bare minimum and live in a cardboard box, but I would like to live in more than a cardboard box. I would like to live in an apartment in a particular city where there are amenities, where there's good restaurants, where there are bakeries, where there are, you know, and I would like to look not homeless because I like to keep up a particular self-image. And so I'd like to buy some clothing now and I'd like to go to certain events and to have friends and to connect with other people. Anyway, so we have all these wants, even though those are above the minimum of what's required to survive and just simply live a life bathing in divine love. Because, like I said, most of us aren't called to the homeless life where we are so physically struggling that we can't bathe in divine love. We don't believe all as well because we're cold and hungry and tired. And so we want, we want some comfort so that we can believe that all as well. We want some sense of security for the future so we can believe that all as well. And that's all okay. That's all part of the game that you chose to play, knowing yourself and what you need to feel well. And yet, beyond the minimum wellness, here's what happens. You look at other people and say, oh, they have that. They get to do that. Oh, I want that too. And every time, every single time we have another want, that's above and beyond the minimum physical comfort level that we need, which is relatively cheap. Again, you don't have to live in your city. You don't have to live in pick the New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco, you know, London, you know, Sydney, wherever you're living, that's expensive. You don't have to live there. I moved to Mexico. My expenses, it's funny. It's so funny. I actually, I was going to say my expenses are less, but as I live, been looking at my budget, I'm like, how come we're spending just about the same amount of money as we were in San Francisco? Well, we had paid off our home in San Francisco, so we didn't have the mortgage anymore. So that was a big deal. But here we pay rent. I was like, we're not spending barely any less because we have upgraded our lifestyle because now we get to buy more things at a cheaper price. But and so again, I'm looking at my, this is a message for myself, by the way, I'm sorry, I didn't, I didn't mention at the beginning of the video, you don't have to, you don't have to watch anymore. This is, I'm just talking to myself right now. So if you want to keep watching, you're welcome to. It's all optional. And but that's the thing. It's all optional is what we keep forgetting. Because the only thing that's required or that even that's not a requirement, but the only thing that's really needed is basic survival and bathing in divine love. Or basically, however you get to the philosophy and the daily experience, emotionally at the very least, mentally and emotionally, that all is well with the most minimum physical wellness that you need to believe that all is well. Like that is the basic foundation of a life well lived, literally well lived because all this well is what you experience emotionally and mentally. And that's what your thoughts and feelings are at whatever basic level of physical survival that you need, which means, like I said, if you can move to a cheaper place and don't do what I do and increase your lifestyle in the cheaper place so that you're somehow spending the same amount of money. I think we're still working out our re-homing and we need to buy things for our new home. So that's probably why. But I'm hoping by next year I will see that the expenses have gone down quite a lot. Maybe it's inflation, I don't know, but I am generally shocked by the fact that my expenses haven't really gone down. But yes, that's the point is, can you go somewhere, live, move somewhere where your lifestyle expenses are lower, another country perhaps? There are costs to the relocation, but beyond that it's cheaper. Can you in other ways lessen your expenses so that you don't have to, you aren't required to do as much to keep up the living of all as well, to practice your spiritual growth? Or could be that, you know what, you do want to make money, you do want to live at a higher physical standard. That's okay too. That also is completely accepted, not just accepted but celebrated. Every level of choice is not just accepted but celebrated in the bigger reality where all is well. If all is well, then all your choices are well too, no matter if you're choosing virtue so-called or vice so-called. In the greater reality it not only accepts but is able to hold and celebrate and find value in all of it. So if you do want to live at a higher, well I guess that's the choice I've been making up to now apparently. I do want to live at a higher level of physical standard and so I do want to make money, therefore I have to make money to live at a higher level standard. So therefore what I do is I place the all as well filter onto all of my money making activities. So I say okay I want to make a certain amount of money and I'm going to do these things to make the money but even as I'm doing those things all as well and I get to play in experimenting with my money making activities and a lot of times it doesn't work out. This is where the all as well filter is so needed. It's like I have so many experiments I make in my business, some of them don't work out and I could be discouraged and go and try to become desperate and to become more manipulative of other people to try to make money for myself but then and that's okay too. All as well there is also but I try to put the all as well so I don't get desperate. I say well that didn't work out well quickly let me experiment with something else.  I don't care if I look I'm embarrassed by my failure that other people can see and I try something different because all is well. I don't care if I have to experiment a hundred times to find two things that work because all is well and how quickly can I do it knowing that experimentation gives me the information to make different experiments, hopefully better experiments because all is well how quickly can I do it and and if it doesn't and none of it works out all is well also. If none of it works out and I need to decrease my physical lifestyle because I have less money all is well also and so it's okay to play. The foundation is really strong therefore for experimentation, expression and play and growth in that in that kind of game all is well. I hope that my self ramblings here if any one person is watching or listening.


Hello there, good morning people, good day, good evening, wherever I may catch you. I thought I'll record a quick video talking to you about fatigue. And what do you actually do when you just feel tired? You just feel like you can't really take action, you're not motivated anymore. And this happened, this basically came up after talking to a prospect on the phone today who has big dreams, the dude really wanted to become a successful coach and stuff just didn't work out for him, like he didn't get the results he wanted, he just kind of gave up and he talked to me with just no motivation at all and so how do you avoid this situation and how do you actually solve it if you actually got there? Well, first of all, what does fatigue even mean? What does it mean to be fatigued, to lack motivation? Basically this starts when you lose belief in yourself, when you no longer believe that you can actually generate results in life and you set targets, you don't get to them, you don't reach them, so it's not that you failed that's the problem, it's that you don't even try. So I'm just adjusting myself to find a good spot to sit. So it's not that you failed, it's that you didn't even try that is the problem and eventually you just don't trust yourself anymore and you just don't take action or you don't get results fast enough, like instead of taking 10x action you just take a bit of action and you don't get the results you wanted and that really, really sucks. So how do you actually avoid that situation? Well, you need two things, you need a lot of commitment and you need a big result and for that you need strategy. So how do you get to that? Well, what I would tell somebody who's already in that situation who's stuck is find a coach or a mentor, find somebody who will help you push through the lack of activity because at the end of the day the reason you're not getting results is because your strategy sucks and because you're not taking enough action and once you kind of lose that faith in yourself it's very hard to go back to taking action because you're too focused on what's not going to work and you have too many, just what's the word? You basically told yourself so many stories about why you're not going to be successful or why this doesn't work or why you're not going to do X that you just kind of give up. So you want to get a coach or a mentor. We want to get somebody that will help you get back to taking massive action so try to find somebody who's highly motivated and really just take all of your efforts and find somebody like that. I would love to be that person for you if you're willing so feel free to contact me if you need help. And how would you actually avoid it? How do you avoid fatigue? How do you not get to that situation? Well, what you need to do is every day you got to set your targets and realize just sit down, write down your goals and choose targets. Choose things that you want to get done today. They'll move you towards your goals and actually get them done. So take, put other importance on massive activity, over exposure, making constant commitments to new clients, to prospects, to yourself, to your wife. Always be pushing forward because the thing is once you start slowing down it's really, really hard to get the momentum back and that's one of the reasons why I really, really hate vacations. To be more precise, that's one of the reasons I work on vacations and that keeps them fun.  It's a horrible thing to experience and I know very well how it feels to just wake up and not want to get out of bed or to just, you know, start the day and not have any goal and then finish the day and basically see that nothing actually changed. You're still at the same exact spot that you started, perhaps even a bit worse. So if you need help solving it again, feel free to contact me. I'll be happy to be your coach and if you're not there right now just do whatever it takes to always increase the activity, refocus on your targets and goals, make new commitments all the time and you're basically, you'll be safe from it. You also need a really supportive environment like friends and highly successful people that are your peer group that you talk to every day. So your environment has a massive impact as well. And that's about it. I mean that's kind of my riff on the whole fatigue thing. Again it came up because of a really important call I had today and I'm happy because I managed to get the guy to actually meet me. So, you know, we scheduled the meeting and again, out of that situation and into the fire, you know, the burning desire. So again, thanks for watching. I hope this gave you some value and feel free to go to my website, download my free ebook, set up a free coaching call with me if you're interested and just keep following my stuff. I'll be happy to help you. Bye-bye.


I need to go to the local Indian grocer and get some thumbs up so we can have some thumbs up in Old Monk. Thumbs up, Jameson is what I was telling you. Well, have you tried thumbs up in Old Monk? It's probably made for it. Can't imagine it's going to be any better. Well, but I would like to try it. I love Jameson. Hey, welcome back to our stream where we actually get some Corbett. Riveting, content friends, riveting. Today we got a, is the Indian Army and US Army in action together? We've seen one of these before. We've seen, I think it was more the action. This is actually, the Indian and US soldiers share their perspective from the past two weeks of training together in India. So it's more of like them talking about it. Giving feedback about what was like to do that. I think the other one was more of like a, just an action, I think show like different drills. Then this shows some of that. This is actually them talking a little bit about it. So we enjoy these videos, especially because we do like the military. We do. You know how much the United States spends on the military? More than education. More than like the next nine countries combined.  I was saying in India, it's goes like, I think they will blow up, which means the guest should be treated like God's. Love the backpipes. Join the Army was my first time out of my state. And so coming here in India has been, it's been great. The hospitality here is, it's second to none. And I think we've got some big shoes to fill when they hit America again. The food is great. The music is great. And the people are the best. I couldn't have asked for more or greater experience than what I've experienced here. The materials of the machine guns, I was explaining to one of the privates. And after we, after I was done with that, the private came to me and he asked me whether we can exchange the patches, the national flags. And that's the best day. That was one of the best experience I had through the exercise. The intelligence advisor, I'm looking to try and learn a little bit of Hindi, but it's not. Hasn't been going as well as their English. So it's not a terrible setback. Well, it learned it from a young age. Yeah. The most important one is Kya, I've been best deported. She's, do you speak English? That's about as far as I can get. We are building huge bonds, like half a month, beating me like brothers. And as an officer, I'm getting treated like they belong to the same Italian and we are building good bonds between personal bonds and personal bonds as well. Training is sort of, hey, this is, it's going to be my way of the highway. This is how we're going to do it. And if there are signs of an ID, then they call it an ID. This year, it's a lot of exchanging of ideas and how we, how we do things to try and find a happy middle ground or maybe I can take something from the Indian Army or the Indian Army take something from myself and how they conduct their operations. And we are exchanging our knowledge since the United States, soldiers are in good exposure with the Afghanistan and Iraq. So we are exchanging the professional knowledge and the counter insurgency and counter terms amount in the desert area. We can take back with us the U.S. and implement in our systems. Yeah.  The things we do, the tricks which we do, which we do, the tactics, the procedure are more or less the same. We, at the end of the day, we are foot soldiers. I think it's important to continuously maintain our friendship and relationship both on a personal and professional level. All the soldiers are the protectors of peace and freedom. In the future, we are expecting interoperability between both the soldiers, both the soldiers from both the countries and we are exchanging military knowledge with that. We can, we can act together if something bad happens. A few weeks that we've been here, I've gained probably years worth of experience interacting with the Indian Army. They've got a rich history of military operations, a rich history of, a rich cultural history in general. And they've got a lot to teach us. That was lovely. I enjoyed that. I did too. Lovely. When two, two militaries can get together and learn from each other and also share experiences, obviously as friends. So hopefully one day we can obviously remain friends and work together and all that. But yeah, tanks, I was, obviously I grew up basically on military bases. Yeah. A lot of times with my dad. So he has lots of friends and I got to ride when I was younger on the United States. That's cool. I don't know what kind, but apparently, this was really cool. In Germany, there's a place that you can rent World War II style tanks and drive them for like an hour. Wow. In Germany, they have this entire course that's set up in these old single World War II tanks that you can drive and shoot. Wow, which I think would be really fun. That'd be really fun. That's one of my things that would love to do like rolls of all time would to be in a military film where you get to portray the military, especially portraying military in combat like a World War II film or a Vietnam film. That just was, yes, be special. Studio gets to pay for your military training. Yeah, it's pretty fun. And then your inexact replicas of things and experiencing them in ways that only those people did in that era. So amazing. Yeah, that was great. That was cool. I loved it. Let us know what other military style videos we can react to. Uh, down below.