Good evening. How are you guys? Yes, I have to be safe and wear my mask. What's up y'all? Welcome back. It's been a little while, took a little break. Do you like the ensemble?  And how can you prioritize yourself? first Now as a as a mother and a wife and a daughter and a sister And includes and all those things I have to put myself Between one and two on that priority list or else nothing will get done So uh, oh, thank you. It's scissor speech from xpornicle Um If i'm not up there, then I can't do anything for anyone else if i'm not top two I can't do anything for anyone else. And so this is why you have to make yourself a priority team Um, and you also want to try to look decent and good doing whatever you're doing as well If you're going to be helping other people and doing stuff for other people you're going to have to look good So you need to take care of yourself first First and foremost That means not rushing and jumping up to help someone as soon as they call or need a little small thing or Stop offering up your services or offering your help every five to ten minutes If someone is you know in the same room with you Stop making it happen I'm asking people if they need anything people will tell you when they need something So stop asking if people want or need anything from you That's volunteering up yourself That is putting yourself as a low priority So don't do that because I I know that I usually do that to my kids But I try to do it less and less so they become more independent And then I can start prioritizing myself On a higher level as they get older, you know, so um And when when you do that, especially in your marriage or relationship or even friendships Even your family People will start to take you for granted when you're always offering help You're always Asking if there's something you can do. Can I help? They're going to start Oh Let's see. Is that a cash out? Uh-oh. Thank you deanna sparkle sparkle girl Oh, thank you. It's Caesar um You encouraged to donate. Oh, thank you. So so special sprinkle sprinkle Yes, please if you would like to donate my cash app is below in the description bar and I'll type it in if y'all want, um, so Yeah, they'll start to take you for granted and so you can't you can't do that And expect When you need something or want something For them to show up and then all of a sudden. Oh, I'm busy. I'm sorry. I can't You know, um, but I helped you But when I was they don't care because they didn't ask you You offered so we can't feel some type of way if we don't get the help in return Or if we get taken for granted because we never I mean, they never actually You know offered Or they never asked as we offered. So that's why we have to make sure That We don't get that confused um over We don't need to get that confused so if you are, um Sorry, it's just she was seven with the little dollar signified I think Um, let me make you double sure because I haven't given that out and watching myself live But anyway, um Yeah, that's that's the same so Even kids will start to take you for granted if you buy them too much junk like I do So it's good to say no sometimes That way they they don't take it for granted I don't know how to panic Let me see if I figure that out. Okay All right, so That's a new feature Or I just figured out how to use it so You know what the cool thing about this mask is you can drink through it But it's probably gonna spill everywhere. So We're not gonna do that. I know y'all want to see my face. I'm taking it off Look, I have like marks from my lipstick. Well, at least I tried for you guys Y'all like my lipstick part Try to do some a little deer form Actually, I was playing in the mirror and some of my makeup and things like that Um But isn't this little mask so cute This is so abouge And it matches the bling on this hat. So Let me keep that there. I'm just so cute So basically all this little lipstick thing is is just my Level-up cosmetics Um Matt red lipstick and number eight And then I took like this Two-face crystal whip It's just like a liquid color, um You can use it as eyeshadow and then I just outlined it in liner I don't know. Just died those off a little deer form So I'm just going to fix my lipstick real quick while I finish talking to you guys about Putting yourself as a priority or no one else will Even at your job if you work And you're always offering other employees extra help arrive Lunt to lunch or something like that Pretty soon. It's going to be as if You're obligated to do those things that were once a nice gesture And so that's why you don't get in the habit Of doing stuff for people every day, especially when they don't do anything in return for you as a priority Put yourself as a priority Um Switch it up at least every other day. Say okay tomorrow. You're driving to lunch Don't make a habit of you always doing something That way you'll never get taken for granted and they'll look forward to it Or they'll stop taking your kindness if they can't return it In a respectful way You know So I like this because it stays on like 24 hours if you're looking for a good Lipstick that's matte and a cute red number eight and number five are the reds and the liquid met Level up cosmetics. All right so Shameless plug time. 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So we have the level up cut in um face sponges And soon we have palette coming out It'll be here soon as long as along with lipsticks So get your Anyway, just in time for Halloween. Is this a real lip lip piercing? No, I drew it in, baby Y'all know I'm gonna get my lip pierced I took this It's just like a liquid color That's not I did that then I took some black liner And I did it baby. Let's see You just take some liquid liner and then line it up make it look like a lip piercing Let's see see You don't need to get your lip pierced. You just need to draw it in I think this lip liner is out But you know how it's supposed to look likes it Um, so putting I'm putting my lips as a priority right now. So y'all just gonna have to wait Literally I'm putting my lip as a priority. Hold on. Let me fix it if I look crazy like I got one tooth sticking out Mm-hmm. So now what I'm going to be for Halloween this year Let's see if y'all can guess. I know one of y'all gonna be able to guess thing Vampire Michael. Oh no, I'm not gonna be Michael this year. I'm gonna be another celebrity though That's a hint. It's gonna be a celebrity Eric Abadou. Yes, Antoinette got it I'm gonna be Eric Abadou. I'm gonna be Eric Abadou when she goes to award shows Y'all know that she'd be wearing the same outfit The big old giant Top hat Ned Babadouk outfit that's me It's gonna be me This year I'm going to be Eric Abadou. Yeah, I'm getting me some hazel contacts from the beauty supply store And I already got the rest of that outfit in a week so How to be a priority to married Sugar daddies, I feel they come and go as they please also I know you said to ask for money on the first date, but they asked me what I want from them and to be sure Thank you for the donation Emani's so You if the sugar daddy is married, you're probably a priority to them More so than their wife Especially if they're if you're getting money from They are probably simply just having to be at certain places at certain times Due to the fact that they are married So you you may be getting more or you're maybe getting enough to make yourself a priority I would definitely treat myself as a priority when you're around them and make them make you promises And when they ask you what is you want Don't just talk about the money talk about I would like you to keep your word On everything you ever tell me and I would like you to Make me a priority and give me some money put those three things in there and They will be surprised you didn't straight up ask for money for the you know Majority of whatever you were telling them that you wanted um, put those things on the list And then you will be because they'll remember that like they she should have asked her This is not but she asked to be a priority and for me to keep my word when I or keep my promises and Then she asked for the money So asked in that order When they ask you That way you won't seem like such a gold digger, but just you know One that has a high priority of themselves Okay So I know a lot of a lot of ladies ask me What should I do if my family keeps asking me to do stuff for them? or um Mother or siblings or how do I put myself as a priority when I'm young? Be unavailable be unavailable To do any of the things that you don't want to do This is an easy way to put yourself as a priority without people really Putting pressure on you Is to be unavailable Always have something to do basically I have a doctor's appointment. I have to go here.  It doesn't matter Make yourself a priority go listen to audio book if you ain't got nothing else to do or anywhere to go You know, um, but you don't have to always do stuff Just because you're not busy That's another thing just because your time is not occupied does not mean it's someone else's time So that's what you need to um realize just because your time is not occupied does not mean it belongs to anyone else And they they need to remember that as well um If you have a job and you're it's your day off and they call you in don't answer your phone And if you do tell them you're not even in town On it's my day off. I'm out of town So make sure you don't give your free time away to people when that's supposed to be for you Um If you answer that phone as oh your it's your day off.  I know a lot of people will say yes or Um at the last minute or they've been taught to say no at the last minute If a man calls you up and you've already gotten plans or they didn't ask far enough at advance If you want to go Tell them you have to think about it first At least have them waiting and you know on their toes Tell them you have to think about it first and then you give your yes or no At the last minute to them So for example, if they are trying to go out with you tomorrow And they had you know all week to ask you tell them you'll let them know Let them know at the very last minute If you if you're gonna go and then it's always still your choice to say no That way they're not trying to find your replacement while Um after you had said yes or no or no So just give them the very last No, I'm sorry.  You'll make up your nails.  Oh, let me make you breakfast. Oh, let me do this.  So they're gonna have to do it eventually anyway. So Don't rush to put other people as a priority when they would not do it for you ever Okay We can't do that anymore because that's when people start thinking that You are Obligated to them You notice a lot of friends will expect you to help them get ready. But when it's your turn, they're rushing now I would always say I'm let me get ready first Then I'll help you Because I'm I'm I'm gonna rush whatever you're doing.     Throw a hat on it. This cute mask. Automatic mystery. Who is that? I gotta go see who out of you I like your mask Why thank you darling. I like your hair Um, I didn't wear this or this but you know, I wore the rest I got I think I got hit on two times almost today Um By people that thought I was way younger than what I was. I'm like, oh my goodness That's why I stay in the house Um Young and them young and be looking. Oh Y'all keep y'all eyeballs. Y'all here. I'm too old Um Ain't you hey You know that makes me more uncomfortable than an old man looking at me a young man It feels strange just like more I hear sasha laughing at me. Are you laughing at me sasha? I hear you She's in there in the next room laughing You dropping Oh sasha she was there, you know Crazy child Yes, so putting ourselves as a priority Not caring what other people think as well Like Not always asking people do you like this? Do you like that? Should I wear this? Should I change? Not waiting for other people's approval of whatever it is you're trying to do like Let's say if We were getting ready to go out with a group of friends, which I used to do back in the old days, but And I said this is what I'm wearing and they had a problem with it.  Why don't you wear this dress? No, this is what I'm wearing and Stay confident in your choice and keep yourself as a priority.  Okay, so let's let's pretend like You want to go out you have a boyfriend or a husband, right?  I'll be back later You remember hate women who cheat on Or me to their husband why she get cheated on many times I don't think people should judge other people and what they do in their relationships unless they're willing to give them money to move out and pay their bills Sparkle sparkle Okay That's number one y'all already know I have been on youtube for so long and I have Given advice to many people And I have told people to do this people to do that I know I've told people to cheat if they want to I've told people to not cheat I told people whatever was necessary for them to keep themselves as a priority And to keep their self-love and their self-esteem. That's what I told them to do And if people get mad at other people for doing such things then make sure they got that bank account number So they can transfer funds to help them make better decisions. Okay That's what I tell people because you know, we're not going to judge people Especially if you're not going to do anything about it Family of friends try to sabotage. They are jealous. So where what makes you feel best and look best? That's right You great advice you agree even some of them are jealous of their daughters Yeah, that's sad, but you know, it's true. I've seen a lot of people like that I just say everybody try to look the best they can look And do the best they can do No need to be jealous And if you jealous of whoever you hang it out with go hang out with somebody less attracted. That's the best thing I can tell you Okay What I'm always going to say that If you want to teach someone a lesson By always putting them first or without, you know Making yourself a priority Do it almost as a joke like If you're supposed to be going with someone or if you're supposed to be giving somebody a ride Like your kids or if you're supposed to be doing like something with someone And they keep asking you to do stuff for them. Say, yeah, sure. I'll do it. I'll do it. You know, I got it I'm gonna I'm gonna handle it And then when it's time for you to go or do the big the big grand finale thing Oh, you know, I can't do that because I just did so much for you So you have a good time, but really what you're doing is going out with someone else or by yourself Okay Or oh, I'm sorry. I can't get you right. I gotta go somewhere um Call your friend And then oh because I spent so much time doing all those things for you. I didn't have time to do anything for me So I'm not going Mm-hmm So You said guess what I made your plastic surgeon give you a breast implants for free for real. Wow He must like you girl Or he must That's good. That's what you want He puts you as a priority Obviously What about when you ask for things and your man refuses You already know when he asks us up until we asked what also refused That you want he he won't refuse Phil Y'all know that game if he refused you refuse For as long as the day Well, y'all know how to play this game if he say no, you say no Oh sprinkle sprinkle Kayla So, yeah No, sir Remember that time I asked you for this all right Yes, I guess you have the answer the same one you gave me. Nope What to do when husband pays you for sex 100 dollars per session, but you don't want to 100 dollars How long the last two minutes is longer than two minutes And you got to do stuff and you guys you change this later then double it maybe trivially If if if you're not just laying there for two minutes, then no, you need to ask us a moment like this Like if you guys actually got to do stuff 100 dollars ain't worth it 100 dollars. Just a later. Okay Sorry Everything else is extra everything else is 50 dollars extra Just like the menu at the nail the nail and pedicure place that he's a big old menu And they got all the different pedicures and many cures on there with the different squirrels and stuff You need to make you a menu Just laying there for two minutes 100 dollars then add on that little the little extras I wear perfume and shave my legs for one fitting Uh I wear lingerie for 200 and then keep adding on red is extra Okay Lights can be off lights off with candles 75 extra shoulder massage That's another 30 That before you know, he's gonna fit his whole jet over there. Okay To touch music For me to talk about it what you tomorrow is 20 extra dollars Shit Husband should invest anyway before away like now so my Your type of language. Uh-huh. I just have on some black slacks with wide leg bottoms No biggie and then this is just this top from sheet in But um, yeah, so another another way to put yourself as a priority and Not doing stuff you don't like to do Okay This is a this is a major thing. This is major There's something you don't like to do never do it Never attempt to do it or do it as less as possible That way you're never asked to do it And people will make other arrangements But make it well known to everyone, you know I don't like to do this Or I don't ever want you to ask me to do these certain things And if they ever try or if they ever attempt to they already know the answer is going to be no So they won't be as disappointing But always make sure always make sure That You have your No, I will never do this or no. I'm not doing this. But don't even ask Okay From the start because if you don't people will start to ask Mm-hmm, you say looking like the female future. I got the keys keys Yes men that try to get with us And our married do we acknowledge that fact or act obvious and try to get wherever we can from them or bring up America Well, I always ask and most of the time they're going to lie Even if they are married, so even asking will not guarantee you the truth But if they are going to be honest with you, then they they figure that you already know the deal And And depending on what your goals are That's what you go by, you know, some people have different morals and goals So if you don't date me either say, no, I'm sorry. I don't date me or me or you're like, okay. Well, no, I'm gonna need this this But remember most of the time they're gonna lie to you if they are married so Just make sure you do your own research on that Make sure you do I know from personal experience Um What if you say no and they act as if they're angry Then chart then give them your price Well, if you would like me to say if you want me to do a bc and d then I'm gonna need here are my requirements.  Well, I guess I can do it if You do this No, okay, then we don't have a deal Sorry No deal What to say is they if he try to break up with you because you're asking for things Break up when he when he start asking for things Okay Because you know all them all they all the men all they about is that thing that thing that thing That's a thing too So you stop asking for things then And when I say thing I mean that thing that thing that thing if I can't ask for things you can't ask a thing Okay, so you better tell him to get his priorities in order Say Just because y'all know you're mine. Y'all know I gotta have a bad mouth. You know, I'm quick I gotta hold it back sometime like well Uh-uh, I think about it first like I can't say that I'm not on youtube and this is real life Okay Oh pan african sprinkles for this video is a side chick's dream Send your man the next woman to the next woman's table playing yourself out of youthful The next woman's table Yep, send him to the next one on the table.  Nope when you're quick to send someone to the next woman's table, how do you think they feel?  I thought every man wanted girl because it's little Spread the sparkle Thank you Don't close it all the way.  We're gonna make a cat ASMR channel. We're gonna get paid, kitty Put some cat food on the mic I saw some of those cat videos Those cat ASMR videos and they put food on the mic and they Cat purring and licking the mic and they got like a million views. I'm like, oh my god So what do you do for a living? Oh, I make cat ASMR videos. I'm a millionaire Can we go shopping? Sure. It's on the kitties That'll kind of be so corny, you know them Dudes that have all them cats and stuff that they kind of weird anyway, but you know, I take I take the money the cat cat ASMR money.  That's nasty I'm not putting cat food on my mic either Okay I have to buy a separate mic for that Um See even bill that has her pride.   What is this normal? Should I say him to that? Girl if you start breaking out, I would definitely tell him to stop Why he kissing all over your face? First of all, that ain't gonna work for me. Like you can kiss a reloaded mask That's it.  I don't I don't know your germ. Did you brush your teeth?  Oh Conject me how to reject men when they are pushy You had dices try to talk to you at the gas station and at the mall You on your way to the hospital, baby. I'm on my way to the hospital I'm on my way to pick up my kids from the daycare. I'm on my way to The clinic well or something That's how you reject them make them reject you I'm out of money and you pay for my gas I've learned the hard way. You don't reject them.  Oh That is so sweet. Hold on. Um I'm actually on my way to the hospital. Um, I'm actually on my way to the clinic I'm actually on my way to pick up my kids And just say all my kids That okay, they'll give you the wrong number They'll give you the wrong number I'm on my way to the probation officer say something or something. That's how you get rid of Where y'all laugh? I'm on my way to my probation officer Even though you're not and you're like really good and have no records Oh, I can't hang out with other criminals. I'm on my probation myself Yes, we'll never see each other again You thought you told her does he had eight kids to discourage him and he said shy. I love the kids You got to go further than that Now get creative You see a probation so get him If you're trying to get rid of someone you don't ever want to see them again, it doesn't matter I'll become a church lady real quick I'm on my way to church Bible study Holy oil I'm on my way to church. Do you read the word?  Um anyway so Yep, prioritize yourself Make time for yourself Even if you have to get a planner and plan your time or sit the lines on your clock to say Take time out for you put you as a priority If your makeup is not done by this time in the morning, stop everything you're doing and go put it on especially if you're going somewhere I actually bumped it to one of you guys the other day at the gas station And it was someone that had done a consultation with a long time ago and I actually remember doing their consultation They had moved here And they're telling me that they're moving here all up in the comments And she saw me and she's like I was like, hey So, um That's cool. That's like the third person I ran into there That I've known that's known me from youtube Mm-hmm You said men run away when you say you like a gentleman nowadays. Oh Oops So I don't know about that If they run away, then maybe they're not a gentleman How do you deal with guys that don't want to take you out? You want to cook at his house and buy drinks or come to mine? Tell them you'll you will go out with your friends And if you have time you'll stop by their house Um That's fun if you have been dating for a while and you've already been out and done all that stuff But not when you're starting to date. That's not something that I would I wouldn't even agree to like That's something you're doing. You already in a relationship Not when you're trying to date date means go out I don't like seeing people that I know in public. I go to the other way Well, I don't really know them They know me from youtube, but that was that's my first time meeting them What do you think the best site to start an online business? Whichever one you have passion for Uh Shopify is decent Etsy is decent Unless they got a mansion and a somebody clicking for y'all. I don't know about that You said the pygmy show agenda is real You're dating a guy who has a bad job, but he comes from a wealthy family treats you good and gives you gifts I stay with him As a couple or keep searching for other guys He comes from a wealthy family and has a bad job, but gives you gifts. Well, he's gonna be broke forever and I mean unless it makes you uncomfortable I would definitely I mean he's giving you gifts You probably don't plan on marrying him. Do you I don't know.  Yeah Um, yeah, a lot of women realize that You know when they let their intelligence You know out Sometimes men get intimidated by that and it backfires.          Do you think you know, um It it represents being able to tell a woman what to do Um making her make you a priority Um getting her to be submissive to you da da da Um, then this just role playing after that. She's not even doing those things for real It's just role play after that. So your respect ain't even real is role play Okay, so a lot of men will take role play In the form of respect or submission, but it's fake You know, uh I mean I hear a man talking. Oh, I got I got a woman and she's independent make her own money Do whatever I asked her to do. She's a good woman. She's role playing Okay That's a role play Because as soon as you make her mad all that role plays that I change and so is that script Okay Okay, there you go.  Okay Kid kiddie you say woulda drank love most about me That I don't change for nobody and I'm gonna be who I am regardless and That's this who I am. I mean that's gotta be it because I don't know You're plotting ways and writing it down in your journal. Okay.  It's you can get this on amazon it's the daily affirmation book and You If you ever feeling just if you ever have a man travel just pick this book up And keep reading it until you remember who you are I promise you if y'all had this book Y'all comment if you ever had a bad date man trouble self-esteem issue Vending argument and you pick this up and read it How do you feel?   That's what this book will do for you And even if you are single it's gonna be like I forgot I forgot Who I am let me go make sure everybody Turn a head when I walk in his room This book will have you thinking like that The wisdom Of sheer seven daily affirmations and quotes it is linked below and it is also on amazon A lot of people may have some issues with what I say how honest I am my unbothered attitude My morals and things like that. I'm I'm well aware of those things every Every cause has an effect and this just happens to be The effect of some of those causes That we as ladies have to deal with in this world. So Um, I don't think there's any shame in that Especially if you're honest with yourself and other people around you I think that's your choice and our free will and our choice to Claim that this is how we think this is what we will and will not tolerate We tell you from the start It is up to you to say yes and accept it or no we want a different type of woman But at least you have the heads up to know But this is what we are This is our priorities us ourselves if you want something different go get something different Don't try to change us into something that we cannot be And a lot of men have trouble with this they want to change you They want to mold you they want to create you recreate you or create you It won't happen Can't recreate someone especially when they're their own priority Would you say staying fit? is number one level up Or is it mentally wise level up how much Is your book um I don't know how much my book is. Let me check this part It's on amazon. I haven't looked at the prices. Oh, it's not that expensive.  It's you know, um their self-esteem. So whatever gets you the most results Are you whatever you have noticed? Then you continue to do those things How do you function in a long-term relationship and achieve the goals we have if women is on her own page? Half time for yourself like men do do you think men career suffer because of a woman?    I'm sorry. You don't feel the same way about me But good luck That's what I would tell someone like especially if you're trying to date someone And then they start to tell you about yourself Like you're just not that if I may have started 60 miles Especially if you've been dating and to tell you what you're not Then you need to tell them what you are Well, there is one thing I know for sure that I'm not not your mother And I really don't care And if you want me to be all those things Then let me give you the list of my bills so that you can pay them on for all And then we can discuss My monthly allowance and then we can also discuss how um, you're not going to expect me to do anything except for Take care of myself so that I can look good and then You know for us to be in a relationship because any other way It's not happening. So if you are looking for someone That can do all those things that you need them to do. I wish you the best of luck That's what you need to tell them Because they expect you to try to be fulfilling whatever role that they're trying to create for you And if that's not your role, that ain't your role Sorry, that's not my role. I don't do those types of things unless Um, I don't work. I don't have to work or get up early and pretty much have everything, um At my fingertips When I need them when I need it.  Nothing I'm a good man. So is he he doing the same thing He ain't giving me nothing. He's looking You do the same thing.  Good Better than somebody can't do nothing for me What's your biggest tip to seduce our own self To love oneself Get that book I'm trying to tell you Remember who you are, you know I always go back to the best moment that you can remember in your life when it comes to Dating or the response you got or the looks you got And relive that moment in your mind Or several moments or whatever and remember who you are That's what you got to do because we forget forget how great we are I'm like Do you like literally if someone's talk crazy to you? Especially if it's a guy or they're trying to get you to do something You don't want to do or they're trying to treat you below What you're used to be being treated like Think about the best moments you've had With maybe somebody else that don't even let them be like This fool is literally sitting over here talking to me like I can't do any better And remember when you did better And that's when you get up and leave or tell them off or remember who you are and get your confidence back You just tune in oh it's just my book it's The Wisdom of Sheerah 7 A Daily affirmation and quotes it's on amazon and it's also linked below In the description I'll try to link it in the comments too after The videos of her Uh and y'all go back in the permanent comments and get it so Remember to type MJ or maybe I can link it now. Hold on a second Boom we get that book like I'm just gonna put all my book blanks up in there Copy Here I go I'm gonna pin it too because somebody told me how to pin it Maybe it's too long Who's gonna ever place that there you go.   Oh my goodness What's my body count Let's see. It's probably gonna be the same around the same number as your mother So Just ask her That'd be the last time you ever see that person Because I would I really think that they would be joking and I would That'd be ascended or I'd say the the line like oh, I've never killed anyone before. What are you talking about?   Don't drink too much.  I told him go and date a man.   There is no middle.  Should you trust nope?  I'm not believing you love me till we done been through a natural disaster Until you didn't pay at least three four my car notes Until I don't have to work I don't believe that somebody loves me until all those things have fallen in divine order Okay, you don't love me until all them things happen Sorry You don't love me unless you got all these bills and you don't pay them and I got one of your blank checks credit card numbers Automatic deposit credit card with my name on you don't love me Okay, that's love words No I need action I need I need all of those things to know And what I know I know You can't tell me I have you got to show me. There's you You said way too soon. It's only two months. Yeah It If it's too soon for you you to ask him to pay your car note It's too soon for him to be talking about kids and marriage Men will look at you crazy. You talk about paying your bills and then car now, but But we'll think you crazy if you don't respond to kids and marriage after two months Well, how you gonna pay for I need to see what you can do without kids and marriage for me Some of us are already a for the right woman There is no right woman. You know, you know what there is. There's a woman that will tolerate you And then there's women that Are like me I'm not the right woman. You know what I am I'm the woman I am and if you like me you like me You gonna do what I asked you to do And everybody's gonna be happy Because the woman can change your mind in two seconds and be the wrong woman tomorrow After the wedding, okay, so you better know who you marry The right woman is the woman who puts herself as a prior or a team And that woman that you get to know who always putting herself first That is the most extreme version of her If you meet someone that's always putting you first and putting everybody else first You you come back and visit the relationship in about 10 years.   It's done So don't have her over there looking crazy Talk about she was the right woman what I met her Mm-hmm You dated two months. He gave you a ring and We use rings as a couple why he doesn't do he need a green card? Or he just won't don't want nobody else to have your girl how many carrots is this ring? Okay, do we got a diamond on it? How many carrots? Is it nice? Is it worth some? What's going on? Some women will literally let a man pick them up and dope them whenever Oh drop them whenever. Oh, no, sir. Got me Red flag there are no judgment. Okay. Um Somebody said he put voodoo in that ring You see it pop up on his job and see if he got that ring on. Oh my goodness That ring will go off as soon as I leave his presence Unless there's a couple of carrots, okay It's a silver ring girl. I know you line Girl, you could go buy a silver ring at tj max You can go buy a silver ring at Walmart. What the heck? No I'm not first of all. I ain't wearing no ring Unless I'm proposed to and there's some carrots in it. That's number one So girl take the thing Put it on your toe make a toe ring. Okay. There you go Um, I think it looks better on my toe You know, see I'm it's a sweet gesture. It's very nice and da-da-da, but Is that all your worth, baby? A silver ring Okay, I bet my cat's collar costs more than a ring Don't do it. It ain't worth it to take yourself off the market for a piece of silver girl. No You said toe rings are ratchet. That's exactly why I That's exactly that's exactly what I was trying to get across like I would take that ring and put it on my toe She or how do you spice up your love life?  I'm not going to involve myself in any man's business But if you're talking about to get involved into the relationship, they all say that darling I mean when he's supposed to say this ain't gonna work. I'm gonna be broke forever You know I wouldn't bet anything on that Uh, you know, I would just allow him to prove himself to himself Get the clients he says he's gonna have and then we'll celebrate once his big deal You know, his big chick hit the bank whatever He's a new entrepreneur. He doesn't have it yet right now. It's a dollar and a jury. That's correct Like this is why like meets Meet somebody after they're established because if they're just getting a business up and running off the ground They ain't gonna have time for you anyway Now if he's got money and a large investment and You see a lot of potential because he's already got money. That's different But if he just like rubbing two pennies together, you know, he's not gonna have time to do all those things for you And make that company into something that he wants it to be mm-hmm and Usually they say okay when a man is Starting off the type of woman he's starting off with it's not the same woman He ended up with one until like when he becomes successful. So you you just have to realize sometimes Mm-hmm So ask yourself this question. This is what I always tell people who have trouble with this If your man has if your man had the money that he thinks he's gonna have Right now, would he be with you? If your if your man got all of them big clients and Big contracts, would he be talking to you? Or what are we talking to some other girl? That's how you know, that's how you measure the potential But if he'd be talking to you if he had a million dollars Or half a million dollars or if you wouldn't be talking to you That's how you measure his potential Thank you, Gracie sprinkle sprinkle. Thank you for changing my life Sugar daddy upped your allowance During the pandemic so you could come Homeschool your child. Oh He wants to marry you but don't love him give Give money giving you all the time To write two books and start new business. Well, that's good like Don't like don't worry about that other part get your get your priorities taken care of and then You won't really need him if you don't want him anymore or you may fall In love with him or you may just become really good friends with him. So, you know, remember that priority What do you want most in life right now? What do you need most in life right now? That's where your priority needs to stay focused, but that's great That's right. Yeah, you got a keeper for right now He now has several you see if that's for he now has several successful businesses and marry someone else. Oh my goodness You know a guy that married a girl. I read the The last one first, you know, my guy that married a girl years ago and started a main Started the main reason was she helped him in money with money when he was dying out and now he's married to somebody else. Oh my goodness A lot of guys talk to the women they really want once they get their money No wonder women to go for men with potential exactly So y'all just keep that in mind Whatever man is wealthy, but you can't stand him You can stand his money, which one do you want him or his money? Or do you have to make a choice? Is there somebody else with money that you could stand? If you can't find somebody and stick with him until you find somebody to stand again A lot of guys talk to the women they really want once they get the money. Yep Thank you, David's friend. What if a man already read time If a man it's like I just want a good woman. I'm ready for the right woman. He ain't ready That's a big giveaway when he when people say that they don't know what that is What's a good woman? What's the right woman? Right for you do everything you say or the correct woman that knows how to deal with you I think like out of all the times that I've ever Like before I got married and stuff and all the videos. I've never had the words To say I'm looking for a good man. I'm ready to find a good man I never based Anything on Whether that man was good Or right And I'm gonna tell you why Because like I said, no one is 100% good And no one is 100% right You're never gonna find that because it doesn't exist What you're gonna find is somebody who's Good enough today You you may find someone who's you know Correct today depending on your level of knowledge and what you think you want today But in five years from now All that could change you could want something totally different and that might not be the right person um What you thought was good Five years ago may not be good in five years from now So y'all gotta remember that So I don't base stuff on good or right. I base it on Long-term effects of being with this person. What is going to happen? And a lot of people say well, what about love? What about love? Honeymoon stage and mostly infatuation Love like I said is when Good bad right and wrong all mix up together and that person's still paying them bills and they're still there Okay There you go I know a lot of men or modern men these days have problem with women asking them to pay their bills Or to pay all the bills Or that the woman doesn't want to bring anything to the table first I know a lot of these Men don't feel that that's fair And it's not and neither is the woman having to go through nine months of childbirth But we ain't sitting up there puffing and puffing about that You know and then Men expect you to work while pregnant men. I mean women are sitting up there complaining about that so that's why The argument is not even close and Yes, sir for a woman Especially if it's a woman who is attracted To take herself off the market To be in a long-term relationship possible marriage and have kids with a man What that needs to be She needs to be guaranteed full bill payment Being fully taken care of living a stress free life If you can't do that then move out the way and make room for someone else who can't Okay, I know that's harsh I know a lot of men don't like to hear that But That's how some women feel And they can do those things for themselves So why even you know bother getting with somebody who can't even do those things That she can do for herself What is the you know Men forget that women can do stuff for themselves And still date And still have kids And still have a career and still get other men to pay for her bill if she so desires They forgot about that Okay Think about this. You know how many women are doing this right now?  They're acting like all of that when it happens every day on a daily basis You said men take you for granted we gave birth and raised them without women the man would be nothing Well, we all know that and so do they but they want you to quickly forget We all know that sprinkle sprinkle that's right queen.  You got one job They want to make us feel like we have no value Even the even did your body has more value than a male's body in science so tell me Even in death your body worth more baby so, um Y'all know me my mortician morbid Memories start coming out You know men don't like how to transfer that appreciation for money to the women they date They don't like And men always wonder why women are so why are you so materialistic? Why do you always think about money because we have to pay for almost every single thing you see on our body and our fashion changes and You know Stuff costs more for deodorant costs more for women you know We got to get our nail done or we got to buy powers to do our nail It's like stuff costs more for us our perfume is more expensive We need money You said men get paid 80 dollars for a couple days per Now women get paid 12k to donate one each and they want to be the price Exactly it cost money to look the way they look exactly Mm-hmm. So, you know stuff for women is more expensive. And so that's why women like comfort Yeah If a woman and a man sat down and talked about why women like money why women like men with money And how it's fair for a man to pay in deodorant The woman would never lose the argument The only the only problem that would occur is a man asking the woman why she can't pay sometimes or Why they can't work and be all together And you know, the woman will then freeze and be in fear of sounding like a gold digger And the man Just sounding like oh, I just needs, you know, we're just trying to build together. What's wrong with that?  I look too good to build Next question Well, why can't why can't we Split the bills Well, why can't you split your wife with another man? The same reason baby. Okay. Next question Well, um, um back in the old days, this is how we did it. This is 2021 almost 2022. We ain't back in them day You can get online and make quick money What's your excuse Well, um That's not how I was raised. I want an independent woman. Well, you know where to go find them Why are you wasting my time and her time and her time? Well, what's wrong with building nothing Nothing at all nothing is wrong with building I didn't go to school for architecture or construction Do you want to pay for my school because I don't know how to be a baby Build me Barbara the builder Barbara build a baby These men think they women these days wishing they Oh my gosh. Yeah What's so wrong about You know putting stuff together to have more nothing that means you living outside your means Because of what something happened to you then who's gonna pay for everything? So like none of those type of questions and none of those type of Men can ever face me because the answer is correct.  I bet he paid all his woman builder if you had one he would And that's the thought that would go through the head of a woman who's sitting there building with somebody That she don't really want to be building For anyone, but she want him to build for her Man broke someone said they only married for a wealthy house Oh, well some people got that reasons I can never understand how man is the prior They're the price to themselves Mm-hmm too many pickings are going 50-50 and when they pick up the slide Well, that's what they want but Just because some women are doing certain things don't mean you got to do them If those women were so sought after they wouldn't be up in your face Or cheating on those women with you I promise you So don't who cares Mm-hmm Do you think it because they haven't had an awakening More opportunity for me But at this time men like comfort like women does it's not cute Well, you know, they mama can comfort them Draw them a map right back to the mama house, baby. Sprinkle sprinkle. I like comfort too. Oh, you do I've got something for you Tell me what you think about this What you write? Oh, I'm drawing something Oh, okay You're drawing a girl a diagram of how we can build It's gonna be a map right back there in mama house. There you go. There's some comfort over there I was listening to the song it it almost turned me off. I was mad like it was not you know, it's like, um He was I think it was that one with charlie wilson and he was like let's both like I'm looking for somebody that's independent and let's go and louis and both drop 30 and big love and the I'll have sex in the um The dresser room and then he'll go hi you ain't about that like I'm sure right because somebody else will go by me some stuff And get a hotel room It's like Sprink sprinkle No, I ain't about that life That's why That's that's why No If women and race their standard all the men will straighten up these pick me should run it run it Mm-hmm. I remember you saying we should study the wealthy so we can pick it out of your crop Does he's on approach if your energy is right? That's true The moment I heard let's build together. I already know the time it's time to go You see to save your money fellows. Yep, save your money I was listening to that song too and made me mad not fine, but that's probably why he's still single I know like That's that's one of the issues with some type with certain types of men They don't feel like they have to spend money on women even though they have the money They don't feel like they should have to spend but wait till they get old Wait till they oh, okay They're gonna be spending money lifting right so they better save now You remember me. I was a rapper. I don't know who you are Lil Nas ex is that you?  Mm-hmm You're gonna be rapping about a rp.    That's fine When you walk out in public and everybody turning they had to look at you He already know who the real price is you don't got to tell him nothing. Just look like the price Okay Have you ever fell in love? I don't remember child I feel I gotta dust it myself off Did the moonwalk? It's a world club But I'll tell you one thing When I fell in love it was with myself Y'all saw my video I posted up on the commuters Um grow don't fall what That's when you win You fell in love with yourself when you lost 40 pounds. That's wonderful Do you think about having a party with James and your family for your 20 year marriage? I we don't celebrate our anniversary Spark Sparkle Um Whenever a man is doing something wrong, I have your voice in my head saying get another one At your old job you started talking to the owner. It was like he wanted you to acknowledge him as my boss I had to think to myself. He needs to feel acknowledged He needs to feel acknowledged Then you better ask your boss for some days off paid vacation You said you don't think my game works for um Females who want a dude to love them You have to love yourself first and love yourself more to play this game, right? If y'all are looking for their Oh, I love you so much. Oh, I can't live without you Da da da da, how many people do you see after like 10 to 15 years still acting the same way? Not that many so You know, it's temporary or it's just infatuation most of the time I mean, it'll be it'll be cool if that type of love lasted and it was 100 genuine, but We know It's just not So i'm not investing too much into that It's fine for the first couple of weeks or months or whatever maybe a couple of years, but that's it After that is back to business So just keep that in mind don't throw away all of your potential or don't feel like A temporary feeling is worth You know making permanent decisions behind You said once you get past the fairy tale, it's easy. That's right Where to take a provider than a man who says he loves me every day and doesn't output anything Mary for stability not just live. I know like yep You I don't need somebody to tell me I needed to show me By paying all these bills by having a nice place to live. Like I said talk is cheap Okay, well, anyway put yourself as a priority words Not enough need action and proof um Say no when you need to say no Never feel obligated to do something you don't want to do just don't do it if you have guilt behind that then Flip the script in the scenario and ask what the person do the same for you If the answer is no Then you won't feel any guilt I'll pay in afghan with what's this sprinkle sprinkle Visit the third world country follow the example of women who don't have resources to waste absent child support and government title I have visited a third world country and I've seen women and how they take care of themselves in their home and their children and If I were then I probably wouldn't know any better either But I'm not them and I do know better. So I want better You know, that's just like if a super wealthy woman who has a gold toilet and gets $1,000 manicures says well go look at You know the suburbs and see how those housewives live And see how they make do with their husband's check or you know, whatever income they receive. It's the same thing It's just a number. So what I feel is you work with what you have and the type of culture and environment that you are Raised in has a lot to do with your priorities. So I'm sure their mom never told them to be a gold digger because Opportunity wasn't there I'm sure their mom never told them they'll find the richest man and never look back Because that's not their culture and But in America totally different So I can't base my life on what someone else is doing in a third world country Um, I have to base it on the reality that I live in today right now Mm-hmm. You said you love Nicki, but you don't understand her dating decision with Have you seen Nicki? Have you seen Nicki Minaj's interviews? She because of people out She like it doesn't seem like she has a lot of patience at all She has she's a boss she she need a man. She could tell what to do and he go do it We already know that Sprinkle sprinkle Deluxe Michael sparkle.  Oh my goodness. I owe sparkle sparkle Thank you. No, I'm sweet. So Your support your son Okay, that's good. He's a poor family Already having money should make it easier to date hire not pick up the help with kids are already. I'm sorry Well Not pick up the help with kids Whatever it had me Nikki should have followed you even got a billionaire There's two things there's two things difference about Nikki and eat Nikki speaks her mind She will crush you out in two seconds and laugh at At you You really like this woman Callie and she's really struggling a lot. Should I keep helping her financially? Yeah, help her out.   That's all they need And hopefully enough to buy them a really nice birthday gift And to pay for dinners and stuff like that The basic things men pay for because I'm sure those women are already pretty much established Got they don't have anything but It's very hard for those type of women to date regular men They got they got to go find a billionaire and even Rihanna was dating a billionaire and he did not work out So you already know she's crazy She'll find things too I don't care about your billion dollars. I'm gonna have a billion dollars like in four months like in next year That's what I'm saying, you know You said you guess men don't like all that back talk. No, they don't that's why if you want a decent type of woman You better pay for everything You said there aren't many JZ running around. Y'all know who run that relationship Having them having an opinion is something we must sacrifice. I believe it's worth it in the end, but very challenging I'm gonna always have an opinion. I'm just gonna have a different opinion with different people Where it benefits me at the most I'm gonna smile and not say much if I don't agree And get my check and pass go and be out Don't matter Pan-African Sprexburg Women trade up but end up losing out and left behind. They all have one who got away Never appreciating the successful square money Oh, okay Sprexburg. Oh, yeah I think they appreciate the successful square For the time that the successful square was in their life but I feel that the successful square Usually does not realize that you need more than success In order to keep a woman interested Unless the woman has the agenda of Dating a successful square for her some money only then he can't be upset at her for dating her And knowing that it was for his money only You know what I'm saying? so You said the successful square gets cocky exactly If you are a successful square remain a successful square. Don't forget what you don't forget the the deal You forget the deal. That's when the deal starts not working You only look up to the women who Came from money was still married without the help that's nice Yeah, um That's usually how it goes Uh Deluxe wrinkle sprinkle successful square equals dusty with income Oh, that's so silly Successful squares will treat you crazy too if you let them. Yeah, they sure See the thing is They only see themselves as successful squares until they get you Then they think they're the man and if they could get any other woman and That and then hopefully You won't see them like the square that they are anymore and No You said the successful square don't want the square females. They want the model types who have Many options. That's right.  Okay What do you do when you understand that the man's intent is only to get your attention? Then you make your intent to only get his money Or at least for him to buy you something I would definitely take a successful square. He can pay to be cool I don't think so I would Anyway, some people just can never be cool No matter how hard they try Well, I think about creating bad karma for next life. I don't believe in karma I keep trying to deal y'all I believe this Everything that happens is always for my benefit always for my good Always to the next step that brings me what I want That's my karma no matter what so I don't think about that if somebody want to believe that then let them believe it. I don't believe it You said a millionaire you're talking to is dry and I was asking you for news and when y'all texting And you scared to ask for money because he seems too busy in his saliv life girl He asks you for news and he dry If you don't ask him for money, then you wasted time I wouldn't give nobody no nude and if you're scared, he ain't scared to ask you for no news That's done. Why are you scared? Send him your cash out sprinkle sprinkle. Oh, thank you Petrina patrima sprinkle sprinkle You mean ask for a new at center cinema cash out with with your price Then send somebody else's nude with your head glued on it Photo shot you said karma is you and what you want by all means necessary.  You're not upset because That's who they are And so I think that will make them even I think that makes them even more upset that you don't care and you stay involved Because that's just who they are I mean what more could you expect? um Like oh, that's just how y'all are Well I'm not gonna get upset. That's just who you are.  Oh Just be done with it This all you gotta do Successful squares can be the worst though Because they are smart too Not as smart as not as smart as certain type of women Yeah, I mean if they are smart, that's great. That's wonderful, but They're the type of men that that sit right below the radar And have You know A feeling and a way about themselves thinking they deserve this and then the the woman that they like um She's probably out of his league, but since he feels like he deserves because he's smart and he's you know He's got some money.  All right sprinkle sprinkle. Thanks for the donation But I guarantee you he done a lot of dirt His wife just ain't divorced. So I don't even believe men sitting out here really think thinking men are faithful You said Denzel a square I don't think Denzel's a square at all So you telling me for his for his widow cry here Going around more than this then You might be right. Okay. Come on bumpy. I certainly don't think Denzel is a square me neither You are too much If Denzel is or was cheating he makes sure his wife don't find out he knows His wife probably don't hear Anyway, there are some people that Are not going to divorce, but they know Certain things come with certain territories. What do you mean square? I came late, sorry Oh people are just talking about like Successful men who are like dorks or you know square It's the best thing a man is to make the most money possible so I can give Cali and the best lifestyle ever sent like a good Sure, I'm sure she'll think it's a good plan. Thank you sparkle sparkle His wife is not there for faithfulness exactly.  Um I don't think it's the most important thing, but I think it's in the top three Okay Money power respects what you need in life Money power respect That little him that little him And score face So yeah, yeah Get that book. It's on amazon. Y'all just get on amazon. Y'all know what to do Hit that link up there He said there was no black male actor more love than denzel washington with the exception of sydney pohiyak Well, what about chat with he gone now, but uh, I think they're starting like chat with bozeman And You know black panther He said live don't pay the bill. Uh-huh. Don't get why The building get get them afterwards because they always seem to have changed a part of us there, but I don't know I'm sorry that I feel this way, but I'm not sorry. Sorry not sorry I don't believe in building with of me Because that's not how it's supposed to go I mean we can but you'll never get the respect as a man From a woman who has built with you And they a lot of men walk around wanting to be respected To be treated like an alpha male To be you know for their woman to be submissive.   I ain't working for no man. I'm not showing up every day And you can put me on your payroll, but I will not show up for work So, you know That's just something I I I feel personally that I could never do And so I feel like there's a lot of issues I've done a lot of consultations over the years where women have worked with men husbands boyfriends Help build them and it's always the same old story Doesn't work Oh, yeah, he can get he can give you money to start your own business. Yeah of course Generally, it's men who will seek women in the first place and they say they seduced him Mm-hmm Also, um, let me read this out. You love my look is fierce. Thank you. Thank you Well Keep y'all so the priority. I'ma go. I'm gonna be on here all night Appreciate y'all, but I might go to my other channel in a few minutes. Um, so if y'all I'm gonna come over there later. I might be over there might All right. I see y'all sprinkle sprinkle. Thank y'all members. Appreciate y'all. Thanks for picking the topic Bye. Oh wait, am I still here? Can we give him emotional support?  Bye y'all. Thanks for joining. Bye


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This is your FBI This is your FBI the official broadcast from the files of the Federal Bureau of Investigation Present as a public service by the equitable life assurance society of the United States and the equitable society is representative in your community During the past few weeks thousands of postcards have been mailed by equitable society representatives Thousands of personal phone calls have been made urging people to pay particular attention to the commercial on this equitable program tonight When you hear this message, you'll understand why it tells about the equitable society's independent 60s plan a practical workable plan for men and women who want to be completely self-supporting when they reach the age of 60 I'll give full details in about 14 minutes Tonight's FBI file the respectable thief The success of swindlers in this country and the fact that they collect millions of dollars every year from unsuspecting Citizens is all the warning against them any alert person should need There is no reason for the continuing success that swindlers enjoy Except for the fact that every year they find a new crop of people who are looking for a pot of gold at the end of a man-made rainbow That most of their stories are engrossing is true That most of them are extremely personable and charming people is also true But those two things are not reasons for investing your money with a stranger Rather, they should make you cautious Two major factors in the success of our nation's swindlers are the joint facts that no law enforcement agency can stop a swindler Before he commits his crime And that once he has done his work. It is frequently too late to recover the money. He is stolen For those reasons it will pay you well to remember one cardinal rule Investigate before you invest Tonight's file opens in the private office of Walters Stevens located in the downtown skyscraper of a large eastern city Mr. Stevens secretary has just ushered in a visitor one mr. Marshall Sit down Marshall. Okay Hey Saga never use how about a drink? I've got some milk. Mr. Stevens. You don't have to romance me like I'm a customer Let's get down to business, huh? Very well Who told you about me Ned Hollinger You uh, you might be pleased to know that Ned thinks you're the best in the business That's fine. So in the strength of that praise. I called you right down this name in the dress I'd rather just remember things What is it? Victor Brown to 15 North Adams Street He's a man about 50 with gray hair. He wears glasses Stevens. Yes before we go any further Let's get the financial arrangement straight now. I forget I'm paying you 500. That's not enough. What about a thousand? What does Ned Hollinger tell you? A thousand Man like you must know that the price of everything is going up All right, you name it 2000 that's pretty steep. That's the number mr. Stevens Okay, it's a deal. Yes. Oh one other thing This must look like suicide that'll cost you another 500. No, wait a minute cherry on the cake mr. Stevens All right, what do you want it done tonight? Ted yeah, honey, I hate to bother you with this right after dinner, but I'd like you to go over these bills with me What bills grocery butcher melt man? I just can't think it works anymore, honey I'm just gonna have to have a bigger allowance look some other time with that Jonah Trying to think something out. Oh, I'm sorry What's trouble? I Got a commission of a who from a guy named Walter Stevens. Uh-huh Wants me to knock off an old gentleman named Victor Brown can't figure It's mr. Brown lives on Adams Street over a dirty saloon. Yeah, I went over got a line on the guy Well, what's he like? It gets loaded every day goes upstairs sleeps it off, but he comes down to saloon for more Then it's got me though as I can't figure why Stevens wants them taken care of maybe knows something Have to be real important Where's he got the money to drink all day? He had a job up to a couple of days ago. How'd you find that off? I talked to the old guy What's his Stevens paying for the job? 2500 well, that's pretty hard.  I haven't taken care of it might be worth a lot more to us to find out why When'd you say you do the killing? tonight Any special time? Well, let's go over these bills first then I'll let the local FBI field office special agent Jim Taylor is just approaching the desk of agent Norman Grant Busy Norman. Oh, Jim. I just got to sign this report. Okay Yeah, that one's finished. I don't lean back and relax on the boss. Just put you on a case I'm working on. Well, that was a short vacation What's this one about some boy scouts while hiking on Sunday up in the hills? They ran across a body where just off fire trail 23 up in the National Park They called the police police called us in how long had the body been there medical examiners The men have been dead about a year. I don't imagine any identification was possible then no no physical identity But near the body which had been buried in a shallow grave the scout master found an address board Could you still read anything in it? Yeah, I was pretty well preserved was the owner's name in the book No, I sent it down to the lab had them smoke up all the pages so we could read the names and addresses how the job Can I fine lab did a great job on it? Well, then I called every person in the book We had them list any friend who might have had their address or a friend. They hadn't heard from in a year The name Dodge turned up on a dozen of the list Well, then I checked back with every one of them and I'm not who the dead man was who was he? Well, do you remember the disappearance about a year ago of a man named Paul Dodge? No, not particularly Jim. I was in the San Francisco office last year. Oh, that's right. I forgot that well Paul Dodge was a bookkeeper who disappeared completely Shortly thereafter his employer a man named Walter Jones went through bankruptcy. Who is John? Oh a promoter He was engaged in promoting a new airport here in town at the time And of course his bankruptcy cost a lot of local people their wartime savings Oh dodge was buried up in the hills Wouldn't you say that it's certainly safe to assume that he was murdered Jim? I no doubt about that. Well, where is this Walter Jones? He left town shortly after the bankruptcy Norma I think our job now is to see if we can find John He here to uh-huh there he is back in a rear boot want me to wait at the bar. No, baby. Come on back with me It's nice old guy. I love talking Hello, mr. Brown. Oh, hello there son. Mr. Brown. This is my wife. Oh, how do you do? Hello? Do you mind if we sit down with you? Oh, no, no, please do What do you want to drink honey Ryan ginger, okay, how about you mr. Brown straight for To Ryan ginger one straight bourbon I'm very pleased that you were able to what is stopped by here again Well, I told the wife about it and she wanted to see the place live in the neighborhood. Do you know? Oh, that's a pity. I was hoping I well I'd have the pleasure of your congenial company off.  Brown? Well, I commute between here and my apartment upstairs Oh, thanks, that's a bucket Yeah, keep change. Thanks, mr. Brown. How can you spend so much time here? Are you in the banking business? What did I were a young lady? I guess a wife means that you live like one I'm a man of many trades banking has never been one of them My last employment was bookkeeping for an investment company. Oh, which one mr. Brown? Worked for a man named Walter Stevens. He was organizing a stock issue for a television network Can you like it there? Oh to a point I did and then I Well, I shan't burden you with my problem. Oh, no talk them out, mr. Brown. It'll do you good. No, no, it's a private matter Let's have another drink Okay, I'll call it by tonight. Oh, no, never mind. I'll go up and get them Charlie doesn't serve the tables Well, when there's anybody at the bar Yeah, sure Money, I think I know what this is all about. You do. Yeah I'm not gonna do anything to this old man until I have another talk with Stevens. Just stay here with mr. Brown I'll be back later Jim here's a further report from the medical examiner on Paul Dodge Two bullet holes through the head. Well, that clinches the murder theory The police are digging around where the body was found to see if they can locate any bullets good Might help if they can find some did you get anything on the man? He worked for this Walter Jones. Well, yes, and no What do you mean? I discovered some things that make his bankruptcy seem awful suspicious But I don't know where he is where did the trailer lead to well I started at the apartment hotel where used to live he moved out of there a few days after the bankruptcy Did they have any forwarding address? No, but the transportation desk at the hotel fortunately keeps records They told me that he bought a compartment on a train from Miami Beach when he left They also told me what hotel he'd gone to so I called our office down in Miami and had them checked Well, did they come up with anything? I found out that Jones had spent an awful lot of money gambling when he was down there last year Oh, sounds like it was a profitable bankruptcy certainly does then from Miami Jones went to Philadelphia Well, it's notified the Philadelphia office to locate and interviewing. I did that Jones can't be located Say we're doing Philly to be witnesses in the forest kidnapping case tomorrow morning. Yeah, I know Soon as we're thrown court, I think we'll do a little checking up Work on the books Well, how did it go? It didn't What? Ron is still alive What's the idea? The price has changed What do you mean? Well, you had to talk with the old guy But we made a deal Marshall Yeah, that's right I didn't know when we made it what your angle was No, I do You collected a lot of dough to start a television network Are you going to skip with it and hang the shortage of an old man brown, huh? Marshall even if that were true, it wouldn't be any of your business. It is when it affects the price There's a new line in this race They want 50% of the whole deal Are you kidding? No Look, look forget about brown. I'll get somebody else to do the job. Oh, I wouldn't do that if I were you Oh, what can you do about it?  Oh, I wouldn't tell them who I am I just call them on a phone Give them a tip That's all Marshall Yeah How about 25% Uh-uh I want 50 and I want it in cash No, I'll just make myself comfortable here. Would you okay the deal? Old man still in the salon? No Where is he? No, he got very drunk and very unhappy Had to take him upstairs to his apartment Is he up there now? No Let's go up Get your deal straightened up? Yeah We go in here and up a flight of service Is your guy unhappy about? No Because he was a failure He used to be a big man, he said Oh He didn't stop drinking. He became a bum The bartender said he straightened himself up when he went to work for Stevens And all of a sudden he started drinking again I think I know his reason Why?  That's his room there. Left his door unlocked Okay, baby Holy Joan, come here What is it? What's the matter? Oh There's a bullet hole right to the old man's head We will return in just a moment to tonight's file Which shows how your FBI helps promote national security Now let's talk briefly about another kind of security Security for men and women who want to look forward to independent 60s What's that mean? Financial independence after you're 60 years old That's it exactly Bruce Independent 60s means that you've got a regular monthly income guaranteed for life You're not asking help from anyone So what you do is your own business To you Bruce Independent 60s may mean a chance to catch up with all the fishing you've missed in your busy years I can see you in your outboard motorboat With a look in your eyes that says you're going to get the biggest musky in the lake Or to another man Independent 60s means a pleasant home in a friendly little town With a garden and a workshop and a place to pitch horseshoes But no matter what your picture may be Why not do something about it right now Take the first step towards a better future By investigating the independent 60s plan Offered by the equitable life assure in society I've heard those plans are pretty expensive Mr Keating Guess I better wait a few more years before I start investigating That's all that's holding you back Bruce Then your equitable society representative Has a very pleasant surprise for you He'll work out an independent 60s plan That's geared to your present income Actually if you're between the ages of 30 and 45 And covered by social security You'll be amazed how little this equitable plan costs Considering how much it does for you At any rate it costs absolutely nothing to find out Your equitable society representative Will give you the facts Get in touch with him soon Or write care of this station To the Home Office of the Equitable Society That's E-Q-U-I-T-A-B-L-E The Equitable Life Assurance Society of the United States Now back to tonight's file The Respectable Feat Tonight's case from the files of your FBI Once more brings home the truly callous emotions Of the professional criminal The man who attempts to make his living Through pillage or arson or murder He brings to his work many attributes This man who must inevitably fail But foremost among his characteristics There is an utter disregard for his fellow man If the untimely death of one of those fellow men Or more than one Will bring the criminal further surseys from labor Then that fellow man who stands in his way must die He has no compunctions about it No pangs of conscience To him it is perfectly obvious That only the strong deserve to live And that those who are strong are at liberty To assert their strength in any manner they choose Even when that assertion of strength carries with it Someone else's verdict of doom Tonight's file continues in the shabby apartment Of the late Victor Brown Poor old man He killed himself Yeah Do you touch anything in this room when you brought him up? No, I... I'm not born having any fingerprints found in here Aren't you going to take the gun out of his hand? What for? It's supposed to make it look like a suicide and I don't have to buy it Ted? What? How does this help Stephen? Well, he goes to a bankruptcy and says the old guy stole all his money Oh, and he keeps the money Yeah, not all of us That's what I want to talk to him about We get 50% Yeah? What's that come to? About 50 cheese Honey, when do you get it? In the morning when I see Stevens Come on, baby, let's get out of here Well, Jim, we're free to work on the Jones case Why, what happened? The forest kidnapping case has been continued until next Monday That's good Oh, I've been doing a little work on Jones this morning Find anything? Yes, I had his picture with me And I found a hotel clerk who recognized him Unfortunately, he moved out six months ago Where, too? I don't know that yet, but the clerk did tell me two things The first is Jones has changed his name To what? Walter Stevens The other is he saw Stevens here in Philadelphia yesterday Coming out of a restaurant down on Broad Street Oh, did he remember Clark Restor? Yes, I went over there, but apparently Stevens isn't a regular customer They didn't know who he was Well, at least we know he's here Yeah Oh, I asked the local police to check See if they could find out where he lived Or where his office was And I looked in the phone book And the only Walter Stevens that's listed isn't the one we want Oh, I see Oh, excuse me Sure Special Agent Taylor Hello, Mr. Taylor This is Sergeant Warren Yes, hello, Sergeant Your Mr. Stevens has an office in the Wright Building Under the name of the Broadlawn Television Network Company Wright Building And that's the Broadlawn Television Network Company Is that it? Yeah Thanks very much, Sergeant Not at all Goodbye Bye We've got a lead on Stevens, ma'am Oh? Clark, will you check here and see what you can find out About the Broadlawn Television Network Company? Sure I'll go up and see if I can have a talk with him Hello? Hello, Mr. Stevens At you, Marshal? Yeah What do you want? You took care of it Sure Do you old man give you much of a fight?  I didn't I just missed Stevens That was his office, sir Yeah And from all I gathered, it's another of his blue sky propositions I found that much out while you were gone Oh? We got a phone call from Mr. Pine Who's he? One of the men who invested his money with Stevens How come he called the office? Well, he said he got a letter in this morning's mail From a man named Victor Brown He said he was going to commit suicide But before he did, he wanted to tell him something Who was Brown? He was Stevens' bookkeeper Oh According to Pine's story, Brown was out of work for some time Before he got the job with Stevens And he was so grateful to him That he got all of his friends to invest their money Tell me, did Brown commit suicide? Yes, I checked He killed himself last night in his apartment Oh What else he told this Mr. Pine in the letter? That he had discovered that Stevens Was stealing the funds of the company And trying to pin it on him I see, and then decided he couldn't face them When he found out what was going on That's right Poor guy Did you find anything at all with Stevens' office, Jim? Nothing much Some charred papers and no wastebasket Stevens had been in this morning, all right I guess he burned everything that might have proved damaging to him Where does he live? We might catch him at home No one in the office knows where he lives He seemed to be very careful to keep that a secret, Norm Yeah, it's obvious why Yeah, it is now Where are we headed for, Jim? The bank, where the Broadloin Television Network Company Has an account Let's hope they know where Stevens lives What have you got there, Jim? These are all the canceled checks from the Broadloin Television Network Company's account Oh, good Yeah, Mr. Hubbard said we'd use this desk here Okay, sit over there Really? Well, except for the salary checks for the people up at the office Stevens doesn't seem to have drawn checks to anyone but himself That sounds like him Oh, Stevens also keeps his personal account here Are we going to get the canceled checks on that account too? Yeah Mr. Hubbard said he'd bring them over as soon as his girl got them out of the files Mr. Hubbard didn't have a home address on Stevens, did he, Jim? No, no, both the business and the personal accounts gave only his office address Here is Stevens' personal checks I'm sorry we were so long in getting it Oh, it's all right, thanks very much, Mr. Hubbard I hope they'll be of some help to you And we do too You'll be able to keep the name of the bank out of all this, won't you? I'm sure we will, sir Thank you very much Not at all Hey, Norm, this is more like it Why didn't we get these first? Come on, let's get to the phone Who's there?  What do you think? Who told you where I lived?   That's my business But I got the gun I'll give you 30 seconds to come up with that money, Stevens If you don't, this gun goes off Drop that gun Pick up his gun, Norm Right I'm certainly glad you men got here when you did These people forced their way in here They were just holding me up I'll save that for the jury, Stevens We're special agents of the FBI So what? Yes, you're the one we came here to get Catching these two is just velvet All right, Norm, let's take them all downtown Walder Stevens was tried, convicted and executed Convicted and executed for the murder on the government Reservation of Paul Dodge, his first bookkeeper Ted Marshall was found to have been previously wanted for murder He too was prosecuted, convicted and executed on this charge His wife, June, was given a life sentence for conspiracy To commit murder The solution to tonight's case was brought about By the bank investigation In going over canceled checks One of the checks in Stevens' personal account Was found to be made out to the Winona Taylor shop A phone call to the shop revealed Stevens' home address And thus armed, your FBI was able to close the careers of these criminals Sometimes, as in tonight's case, a criminal will seemingly escape Unpunished after having committed as grave a crime as murder But as the record show, he never really escapes It may take a month or a year or 15 years to catch him But ultimately, the clock runs out for every criminal Because your FBI is not an organization with a short memory However long it takes, no file is ever forgotten or put away Until there is a rubber stamp affixed to the first page A rubber stamp which spells out one word The word convicted In just a moment, we will tell you about next week's case From the files of your FBI Now three final questions on the equitable society's independent 60s plan Mr. Keating, suppose I start a plan now and then my income goes up in the next few years Can I increase the amount of my independent 60s plan? 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Your equitable society representative will give you the exact figure Either get in touch with him soon or send a postcard care of this station To the equitable life assurance society of the United States Next week we will bring you another case from the files of the federal bureau of investigation A case that involves the bold operations of a receiver of stolen goods It's subject, hijacking, it's title The three-way frame-up The incidents used in tonight's equitable life assurance society's broadcast Are adapted from the files of the federal bureau of investigation However, all names used are fictitious and any similarity thereof To the names of persons living or dead is accidental Tonight the music was composed and conducted by Frederick Steiner The author was Jerry Lewis Your narrator was William Woodson and special agent Taylor was played by Stacy Harris This is your FBI is a Jerry Divine production This is Larry Keating speaking for the equitable life assurance society of the United States And the equitable society's representative in your community And inviting you to tune in again next week at this same time When the equitable life assurance society will bring you another thrilling story From the files of the federal bureau of investigation The three-way frame-up on this is your FBI The preceding program came to you by transcription


Okay, in this second video, we are looking at inspection techniques as a part of the quality assurance process An inspection as a reminder is all about looking at the static system at not executing anything looking at documentation looking at code not running it and There are essentially two two kinds of techniques. You can do this manually so you really read through that and You do it in an automated or in a dynamic Yeah, spelling is difficult in a dynamic way and Manual techniques are for example as we already discussed in the requirements module reviews where you read through the requirement specification and try to find issues inconsistencies you try to figure out if any needs are missing and Essentially just by reading by thinking you try to detect issues and There are for reviews. There are of course formal procedures So you have certain checklists or a kind of for example perspective based readings different people look at it from different ways And there is of course at Hawk where you just basically without any process you read through we try to find issues reviews are Extremely effective So they are quite useful and they are as a matter of fact standard practice at Definitely the bigger companies the established software companies, but also at smaller ones So this is again to remind you inspection is nothing that you can replace with testing It's actually a very useful standalone technique and maybe as a reasoning why this is so good is that on the one hand you can check properties That you otherwise could not For example imagine code reliability or the how well commented there is a code That's nothing you can do with an automated test. So even if you can execute the system, even if you have everything Checking the whether you follow certain guidelines is just often easier in a in a If in a manual way if you reviewed it the code So that's one of the reasons the other reason that is good is essentially That you build up a shared understanding So if we talk about code It's not so common anymore if you have code reviews that only one person knows how a certain piece of code works But by reading it other people start getting that knowledge as well And then this way you actually effectively share the knowledge within the company Which is really a struggle otherwise. So that's another reason why we would like to do code reviews and These two things together really make that This is such a standard process in many companies Then we should also mention that we actually have dynamic ways of doing inspection or automated ways. So for example There are tools that are called linters that can automatically check code for For example style violations, you might have a certain Coding style that people have to follow and the tool automatically detects that The tools nowadays are so good that they can also detect for example, what is called a bad smell. So code fragments that are Written in a in a suboptimal way and that are known to cause problems later on So these kind of can highlight them and say well, you cannot commit this until you have fixed it or well Please fix it if you can so that's a very effective thing then in general There is the whole area of natural language processing. So basically techniques that try to read text and Reason based on that and that's for example used In requirements engineering to automatically try to analyze requirements or try to Check the requirements, whether they fulfill certain legal standards So these are things that are also getting more and more common and then finally Something that has been an extremely Active research area for a while, but now is getting more and more Common in practice is the area of program analysis and repair. So you have tools that automatically check your software code Find issues with it and actually repair them. So last year. This was quite a new thing That's why I had it sort of a news article in the lecture But Facebook has now launched this as a standard process So if there is a bug if tests fail automated tests then there is an automated program that Analyzes the code and tries to fix it until the test passes So this is actually not an engineer that has to go in but as some kind of automated process That does this without anyone intervening and then the engineers basically just have to sign off and say yes This is a good solution. So overall, this is an extremely powerful tool and Just as a reminder You don't really need the running system. You can do this with parts of your code You can do it with an architecture documentation. So The this can be done very very early even if there's nothing running. This can be done in a waterfall process Years before the final product is ready. So it's an Not to underestimate technique that you can run on basically anything Okay, so From now on we'll leave the the area of inspection. This was just a quick dive into that But now we go into the dynamic part of actually executing the system