english: So instead of beating ourselves up about that, just to recognize that and think maybe another way, name-ly, am I willing to go ahead and participate in those conversations and, you know, make my comments about the new phone that somebody bought or the movie they saw or whatever and that might, you know, tip people toward what you believe about your world view, but are you willing to befriend one or two or three of those friends and say to them: Could we do lunch together some time?
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