You have the healthiest attitude - we can't have what they were having anyway - it is not God's will for us.
لا تياسىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىى ىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىى فرج الله قريب من غير عمليات