Well, I guess no one can really answer that except you (and I may have scared you to death with this description!?), but I wanted you to try to see that your husband really IS the same person--he's still in there.
Ik ben heel benieuwd naar jouw mening, laat het me weten in de comments! •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••