To understand this we must understand that the child we have is not ours but God’s and his/her outcome is to be God’s design and not ours.
لا تياسىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىى ىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىىى فرج الله قريب من غير عمليات