english: And by "parent yourself", I mean it's your job to make yourself do the crap you don't want to do, so you can be everything that you're supposed to be.
non_english: A kad kažem "starate o sebi", mislim da je vaš posao da se naterate da uradite stvari koje ne želilte da radite, tako da možete da budete sve što ste hteli da budete.