english: But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?
non_english: Kako pomiriti ideju da je neko - da je loše nekog smatrati gubitnikom s idejom koja je mnogim ljudima privlačna, a to je da kontrolišu svoj zivot? I da u društvu koje to podstiče moraju da postoje i dobitnici i gubitnici.