english: The indulgent self-pity was starved of oxygen, and it was replaced with the clean air of acceptance -- an acceptance that I did hurt this wonderful person standing next to me; an acceptance that I am part of a large and shockingly everyday grouping of men who have been sexually violent toward their partners.
non_english: Prepuštanje samosažaljenju je lišeno kiseonika i zamenio ga je svež vazduh prihvatanja - prihvatanja da jesam povredio ovo divno biće koje stoji pored mene; prihvatanje da sam deo velikog i šokantno svakodnevnog gomilanja muškaraca koji su seksualno nasilni prema svojim partnerima.