english: (Laughter) But no, in our mind up there are a host of things going on that we don't always know how to bring to the person that we love, because we think love comes with selflessness and in fact desire comes with a certain amount of selfishness in the best sense of the word: the ability to stay connected to one's self in the presence of another.
non_english: Ali ne, gore u našoj glavi, odvija se toliko toga što ne znamo uvek kako da pokažemo osobi koju volimo, jer mislimo da uz ljubav ide nesebičnost, dok zapravo uz žudnju dolazi jedna doza sebičnosti, u najboljem smislu reči: to je sposobnost da ostanemo povezani sa sobom u prisustvu drugog.