english: But more importantly, for me to begin to understand who are the couples who have an erotic spark, what sustains desire, I had to go back to the original definition of eroticism, the mystical definition, and I went through it through a bifurcation by looking, actually, at trauma, which is the other side.
non_english: Da bih otkrila ko su parovi sa erotskom iskrom, šta održava žudnju, morala sam da se vratim početnoj definiciji erotičnosti, mističnoj definiciji i istražila sam je posmatrajući grupe ljudi koji su preživeli traumu, koja je druga krajnost, i posmatrala sam