english: You need to take the traumas and make them part of who you've come to be, and you need to fold the worst events of your life into a narrative of triumph, evincing a better self in response to things that hurt.
non_english: Morate uzeti traume i načiniti ih delom toga što ste postali i morate da oblikujete najgore događaje u životu u priču o trijumfu, pokazujući boljeg sebe kao odgovor na stvari koje bole.