english: A more effective way to think about my relations might be in terms of closeness and distance, where at any given point in time, with any single person, I am both close and distant from that individual, all as a function of what I need to do right now.
non_english: Efikasniji način za razmišljanje  o mojim odnosima možda bi bio u vezi bliskosti i udaljenosti, gde sam u svakom trenutku sa svakom osobom, podjednako blizu i daleko od te osobe, a sve u funkciji toga šta treba da uradim sada.