english: Now, in this paradox between love and desire, what seems to be so puzzling is that the very ingredients that nurture love -- mutuality, reciprocity, protection, worry, responsibility for the other -- are sometimes the very ingredients that stifle desire.
non_english: U ovom paradoksu između ljubavi i žudnje, čini se da najviše zbunjuje to što isti oni sastojci koji hrane ljubav - zajedništvo, uzajamnost, zaštita, briga, odgovornost za drugoga - baš ti sastojci nekada  guše žudnju.