english: And so to avoid idealizing, you have to balance them out by remembering their frown, not just their smile, how bad they made you feel, the fact that after the lovemaking, you got lost coming down the mountain, argued like crazy and didn't speak for two days.
non_english: Pa, kako biste izbegli idealizovanje, morate da ih uravnotežite sećajući se njenog mrštenja, ne samo njenog osmeha, koliko ste se loše zbog nje osećali, činjenice da ste nakon vođenja ljubavi, zalutali spuštajući se niz planinu, da ste se prepirali kao ludi i niste razgovarali dva dana.