english: But none of that will do any good unless you prevent the mistakes that can set you back, the unnecessary searches for explanations, idealizing your ex instead of focusing on how they were wrong for you, indulging thoughts and behaviors that still give them a starring role in this next chapter of your life when they shouldn't be an extra.
non_english: Međutim, ništa od toga neće vredeti ukoliko ne sprečite greške koje vas mogu vratit unazad, bespotrebna traganja za objašnjenjima, idealizacija bivših, umesto fokusiranja na to koliko su bili pogrešni za vas, prepuštanje mislima i ponašanjima koja im i dalje daju glavnu ulogu u vašem sledećem poglavlju života u kom bi trebalo da budu statisti.