english: Double standards for men and women, sex as a source of shame, family control limiting individual choices, and a vast gulf between appearance and reality: what people are doing and what they're willing to admit to, and a general reluctance to move  beyond private whispers to a serious and sustained public discussion.
non_english: Dvostruki standardi za muškarce i žene, seks kao izvor sramote, porodična kontrola koja ograničava izbor pojedinca, i veliki jaz između pojave i realnosti: onoga što ljudi rade i onoga što su voljni da priznaju, i sveopšte ustezanje da se pomeriš van privatnih šaputanja u ozbiljnu i podržanu javnu diskusiju.