english: We do this not only to ourselves, but also to people we love, like our children -- we may inadvertently shame them out of emotions seen as negative, jump to a solution, and fail to help them to see these emotions as inherently valuable.
non_english: Ne radimo to samo sebi, već i ljudima koje volimo, poput naše dece - možda ih nenamerno posramljujemo zbog emocija koje vidimo kao negativne, nalazimo prosta rešenja i ne uspevamo da im pomognemo da vide ova osećanja kao suštinski vredna.