english: "Why do you stay in this job or this relationship?" -- what may happen when you ask why is that you actually create an attitude that wasn't there before you asked the question.
non_english: "Zašto ostajete na ovom poslu ili u ovoj vezi?" - ono što se može desiti kada upitate zašto je da zapravo kreirate stav koji nije postojao pre nego što ste postavili pitanje.