english: And so with our overhelp, our overprotection and overdirection and hand-holding, we deprive our kids of the chance to build self-efficacy, which is a really fundamental tenet of the human psyche, far more important than that self-esteem they get every time we applaud.
non_english: Pa uz našu preteranu pomoć, našu prezaštićenost i preterano usmeravanje i paženje, lišavamo našu decu prilike da izgrade samoefikasnost, a to je zaista temeljno načelo ljudske psihe, daleko važnije od samopouzdanja koje dobiju svaki put kad im aplaudiramo.