english: And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.
non_english: Ve sorun da şuydu, biz dağılmıştık, depresyondaydık, ona çocuğumuz gibi, pozitif bir açıdan bakmıyorduk, ona bir problem olarak bakıyorduk.