Discourage afternoon naps....


Don't procrastinate on big tasks....


Stick to sleepfriendly bedtime routines....


Try melatonin.


whats he got like 400 or something?


Maybe try those if you havent already


melatonin might work


I put my phone and all that on the other side of my room on my desk


if u cant get the perscription


I'm able to


my dad takes that now that he cant take ambien


well he can they just wont let him


Maybe try melatonin


If you can get ut


It


most likely i would just go the perscription way first if u can


That's what my dad gives me


if not then the melatonan


and ah


it doesnt seem to help does it?


No not really


yea


ur body has probably gotten used to it


It's either that or venadril


Have you been getting any big tasks lately?


the same will happen if u take the ambien


Benadryl However you spell it


u take it a certain amount of days


bb grill I mean school work but not really


and then u have to go a day or 2 without taking it


Yeah pretty much


Hmm...


that way ur body doesnt become like imune to it or tolerant


Yea my dad gives it to me when I ask which is like 2 3 days apart


how much he give u?


Like one of the pills


of what?


I forgot how much


But I need to read the bottle


of what tho?


Celestiatofu have you tried reading a book or a lot of books? That usually helps me sleep


Benadryl or melatonin depends


bb grill I haven't but I could try


hmm


Do that, its the best option


normally i watch yt ngl


Try and read a bunch of books tonight maybe that will help


I've tried a bunch of things before but nothing really worked for me I usually have to wait till it's over but it got annoying not being able to sleep


It is very annoying


Yesterday I was up til 4 in the morning and finally getting rest and waking up litterly 2 hours later


And if I do ever get almost asleep my body with shake awake


Oh


Your body really doesnt want you to sleep smh


It always me falling or feel like in falling then I'll shake awake


bb grill;;


oof


ive had that problem alot


The only times i was unable to sleep was when i had my stomachaches


Wow


I feel fine and I can't sleep at all


well


Your lucky that's the only time you can't sleep


maybe ur not meant to sleep at night?


Heh


Lmao I stay awake during the day


hmm


I always get headaches from not sleeping whenever this happens


Hopefully you will be able to sleep tonight


I hope honestly


Thank you both for the suggestions 3


Np


hey


can one of yall message lori


Suicidal Slut


cause i think i upset them accidently talking to them like about there venting thing


i wasnt trying to


but i think she blocked me or something


and i feel bad now


Oh okay


idk if they left the server or if i just cant see them


but i feel really bad now


do they have a red hoodie as a pfp?


yea


Okay,


Uh she left sayu


You want me to talk to her about her venting situation?


honestly i just want her to know i didnt mean to upset her


Okay


It said i was blocked by the recipient?


Can i send you a picture of what i mean by that?


i know


did u message her at all


ugh god i messed up;;


I did


sigh


Sowwry


eh no need for u to be sorry


thanks for trying


im the one that upset her


Its ok:


not really


Hmm


im really worried for her


she thinks no one cares about her and stuff


all i did was try to tell her she matters and other stuff and she got upset and stuff


well im sorry that im so dumb to understand that


that what she said


i dont understand it


ah ok


i was only trying to help tho;;


Yeah


I dont really understand why she got upset but i guess different people get sensitive about different things


yea


sigh


this is why i try to stay away from vent stuff ngl


oh well


i wonder if anyone in this server is friends with her


Anyways probably best to change the subject


How are u doing?


Im good


Sorry I answered so late w


Remember to check pinned messages everyone


hi so, theres this admin in my friends server I co own there, and theyve been a big help, yeah sure, but they said my layout was weird and their bf says the f slur and yeah.


and they also dox


have you talked to the server owner about it?


they seem like they shouldnt be an admin in my opinion but thats none of my business


yeah, in their intro they said Im a little toxic”


which I didnt see because at the time I was busy


people who think being rude and toxic is their entire life and take it as a compliment” get omn


but yeah i think you should mention it to the server owner mention that their actions made you uncomfortable or upset if they did and talk to them about possibly removing their admin role?


well ive never been in charge of a server before this is the best i can do if it was you who gave the role then probably dm and tell them instead of the owner and then tell the owner so that they know why he was removed? yikes idk


u said that they kind of have helped


so in a sense u did do good on choosing


u just didnt notice that they were pricks


and yea probably just talk to the owner


or maybe talk to them and see if u can get them to be better without bringing the owner into this?


God, I know Im used to being Ignored but it still huts, like yes I know I try to hard to be heard and that back fires...and now Im just being ignored again...it hurts but life is life so whatever


I'm sorry to hear ur being ignored


I'm heading home atm but if u want to talk or something I can in about 20 or so mins?


Trashman


Mhm, I can wait


Trashman I'm here whenever u get on


ok?


hmm


ngl im pretty sad


sigh


19PATEK sounds like your going through something I'm sorry you feel that way but you matter and not everyone here is fake you just have to find people you can relate to and be yourself Mabey talk to a trusted adult tell them how your feeling and try some therapy19PATEK


Sorry for the double ping dang phone


W here have a hug


im very bad at giving advices at things like this but im really sorry that you're going through something and that you feel that way. we're all here to help you and we love you so much!


Oh my... What took my psychiatrist so long to realize about my traumatic experience being so bad?


Come to think of it, it took me a lot of effort to talk to her about it, but at the same time, it was very embarrassing for me...


Uh, hey everyone! If anyone here is having a sad day, or is feeling sad, I hope things get better for you! If you're ever feeling lonely, I'll be here for you! Being sad is okay, it's an emotion, we all get to feel it, if you guys feel suicidal or anything... Please know that there are People's out there who care for you, we may not know who, but there's atleast 1 or 2 person out there.. if you're ever going through a difficult path, don't worry.. the time will come where you'll reach your destination.


There's always a rain before the rainbow., Someone told me this before, and I really cherish them, so I hope that..you guys know that too, that before happiness, we all go through hard and tough times.. but, things get better, neve lose hope. Just a reminder that I love you all and that there's people's out there who care for you!


I don't know if this will help you guys, but I do hope that, it would sort of make you guys feel better...


i feel like this is not really a vent bc all the vents below are pretty serious there's an art contest in a server that i'm in, i want to do it but i feel like no one will like it, because there are so many people out there who are more talented then me, so now i don't wanna do it because it will take up a lot of time and probably not win anything but i still kinda want to do it. basically i'm just scared no one will notice it


Im sure no one will hate it! It's better to try than be too scared to participate


I feel like such a bother today has been so awful, i feel so bad,


The separation anxiety is so bad, i just wanna let my bf gane for one time today, something im usually fine with cuz he has his phone with him and i give random hugs but today is just awful and i feel like im relapsing


I dont wanna sit here alone it feels like im gonna start bursting into tears again i dont know why im like this


Ive already broke down twice today i dont want to again


Im just so sorry and its hard to stay calm i really need a little help:


@ wholesome of the day! can i have a litte support? Sorry


Sure!


of course


ofc you can! talk to us until you feel calm 3


okay i don't make sense wait


okay thats better


Hold on let me read it then Ill help


yeah!


i think is that you should take some time to appreciate the space. after all, if youre able to look at something more positive, youll feel better about yourself. remind yourself that it wont be long before you can see your bf.


take this as a time to work on your own hobbies, and dont stress yourself out. do what makes you feel relaxed


You should write a paper and think positive! And watch anime, cartoons or movies Your never a bother at anyone Try to think positive! And draw cute art works of your own


im sorry to hear that i know its very hard to be separated with someone special. im really bad at advices but what they said, try to think of it in a positive way and find distractions! you're not alone.


Thank you guys


I JUST WANT TO CRY AND TO TALK TO OSMEONE IM SO DRUNK SND DEPRESSED KM SCARED MY GF IS GONNA LEAVE ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND I JSUT WSNT THIS FEELING TO GI AWAY IM SO JEALIUS BC SHE FIDNT TALK TO ME MUCH TODAY AND I JUST WANGED TO TSLK TO HER SND I GOT DRHNK BC I CANT HSNDLE MY OWN EMOTIONS SND IT SUCKS AND IM A MESS IM SORRY EVERYONE I STRUGGLE WITB SGUPJD STUFF


Well maybe she just wanted some space today and maybe instead of getting drunk talk to someone or just do something that makes you happy ex: listening to music


Okay so, yesterday was the worst day of my entire life and my bf and i saw it only appropriate to fix one of the biggest problems


Its one of the reasons i broke down yesterday and i really just wanna talk with someone to find the root and close it for sure


So long story short, azu, someone i met a while ago. She was highly manipulative and needy, made me think i couldnt live without her


Near the middle of this she had told me about her experiences with death and that she knew what happened after, this terrified me more as she just kept going and because of that i started to fear for my life


I wanna sort this out, i keep being told and even tell myself that everything she said was a manipulative lie but i cant get it through yet. this ended maybe 2 months ago but i still cant do it


I just need some help with this as soon as i can, maybe just some advice please


So apparently the only person who made me happy, now has a boyfriend. Hes now annoyed with me because im clingy. The reasoning for my clingyness is because hes been terribly distant lately and i dont want to lose him. I feel bad because he got really mad at me and now i feel absolutely terrible.


Ur Local Lucas if the person that your really close with now is not as close with you anymore and thinks your clingy then maybe you should stop reaching out to him. He is growing distant and you should give him and yourself some space before reaching out again.


Datura   You should probably talk to that person about how your feeling with all of the stuff they are saying. If they get upset when your trying to talk to them I suggest unfriending them no matter how manipulative they can be. I dont think that you need one person to survive, especially a manipulative and needy one. So I say unfriend them as soon as possible.


I did


Didnt work


He left:,


but tysm for the advice:


So I have a friend who I've known for year. These few years she been chnaging.. She makes jokes that hurt me. This year she moved schools. We stopped talking. We've been friends for almost my whole life. Its like half of me just flew away. She was my bff now its just like shes nothing... @ wholesome of the day!


So you miss your friend?


are you worried about what she's become to you?


I can see why that is very upsetting


pretty much. I just kinda feel empty now.


I had a similar thing happen with my best friend, unfortunately they hurt me and became toxic, I won't get into it but It was extremely upsetting and i found it comforting to have people to talk too


I know what its like to lose someone close to you. Like a part of you is gone. But you have to come to terms with the fact that people will come and go out of your life sweetheart. Try to get your mind off of it


Surround yourself by the people who are close to you


You think she'll leave you or something like that basically?


yea.


Aww


Be happy with the good memories you had with them and move on


It will be hard, but this too shall pass


Maybe try and get incontact with her somehow?


I'm really bad at this but don't worry, maybe it's something that's going on with her life at the moment. I'm sure she doesn't mean to do things that hurt you, but you should talk to her. Talking is key. But if she is really changing and you don't like it, maybe it is for the best. But don't worry! Because we're your friends! And we love you! You have all of the memories you share with her and then you can make new ones with us! I know she'll come around


i still have her discord.


that's good!


thats happpened to me many times before, i always just try and start a conversation with her/him/other by saying hi.


if i start talking with her i think we can get back together..


mhm, maybe try that?


Im sowy


kk


ty.


I wish I could help but Im not good at that stuff:3


i am very sorry that happened, though!


it'll heal. I once had a friend who I knew for years. she hardly ever talk. I almost cut her off for various reasons of which I decline go get into she moved schools which is the initial reason we quit talking for the most part.


I'll say this to you, I don't think you should be around them, jokes no matter how jokingly? they may make it seem, those things can still hurt people.


but I also say, there's one thing I kinda learned once. even if people don't talk, even if y'all don't even see one another; if one of you is going through something eithet of you can reach out. the connection still stays alive.


so no worrying otay?


Feel better hun


thank you.


i think shes still in lass.


We are here for you, if you ever need someone to contact Ill be here


Same


Just dm or @ me


My dms are open so anything u need.


Ill try to help but Im not the best at it.


Someone joined a server who triggers me a lot...when I saw them join the breath left my throat and my tummy started hurting...they also caused me mental strain...to get me where I am today...in the worst possible mindset


Trashman Do you have he/she blocked? If not block them. This'll prevent the person from grabbing your attention to bother you and so you won't have to see their messages.


No...no I dont...but everywhere I go with a server this one person always invites them..


The first time I saw this I...I kinda snapped because I was triggered and...I hurt myself when I got back home because I needed to revile stress


I know its bad but I cant help it


Btw I love your pfp


Are people intentionally trying to bother you? If so, distant yourself from thosee servers and people. I'd say go to a server that is less toxic and where the community is friendly. This server for example, its nontoxic, friendly, and chill, you wouldn't be bothered and can make new friends. Also, do you know the individual purposely inviting the person who bothers you and do they know that person bothers you?


And i love yours too


Text?


Did you just disappear?


Also, never resort to self harm. There's many ways to relieve stress such as gaming, music, drawing, and etc.


Oh if you cussed it auto deleted


Wait it does?


Yee


Careful you'll get auto kicked after a certain amount


oh no


And only one person knows dont feel comfortable with that one person...


Ahh, well try staying away from the person. Sometimes you gotta say to yourself, it's just the internet


Yeah but its something that brings me joy


Like one of the only things that makes me happy now


And I was almost blamed for someone almost offing themselves


Well I was blamed


It was horrible


I need some help


Idk if the problem was me?


What happened?


So i joined to my friend's friend's gfx server


So it was kinda basic so i told the server is unorganized


So the owner said aka my friend's friend


the server is revamping


And so i didnt know


So she told me i was rude


And it kinda trigger me so instead of being toxic i told it was free speech


And yet my friend attacked me


Saying she worked hard for it and i apologized 5 times


And yet she is still angry and banned me from the server


And i got panic attack and loss control so all i can say is sorry and i apologize


But her friend said i dont look like i am sorry


And yet i still got flashback from my ex bff from discord i loss her because of me


And it caused me 2 months of depression


And i tried to not to be toxic cause i wanna change me, but it make me to give up


the problem was 100 not you


you didnt know that the server was revamping


you just gave ur opinion


the server owner was clearly the one being rude


I was having a panic attack cause i think i was being toxic


you werent


thats not being toxic


They said i caused the drama and i have no words to say


what is toxic is you still being attacked even tho you had apologised multiple times


You did not wrong though it wasn't your fault, and you apologized and didn't know what was happening. The owner clearly was being a bit irrational to ban you


My friend called me pathetoc


And a piece of E


U know it


thats is not ur friend


But i dont want to lose her


I was looking for a friend so i dont want to lose her


keeping her as a friend is going to hurt you more than letting her go


True..


that's rude. they shouldn't have said mean things to you. it wasn't entirely your fault because you didn't know there was a revamp, and the owner must have never announced the revamp if you were confused and didn't see any info about it


no friend should ever insult their friend


But i dont want to be empty


if they insult you they aren't truly your friends...


whether you did something wrong or not. they should be there to comfort you


They said i was looking for attention and faking depression


I was told the same thing from people in a server I was in. I realized they never really liked me so I left the server


And it kinda isnult me


@.Mar7611 oh


I don't think people realize how bad those things affect people until it's affected them. I got told I wanted attention for venting in a server only once and no one helped me


I almost give up my life in the past but i didnt give up yet so wanted tl make a change


That's good


thats so good


But it make me look like i am the problem


I lose 3 bffs


i go through a lot of friends too


Cause one of my friend had a crush on me and i rejected him and they said it was my fault


And i lose them


the way i see it is that its about finding the right people for you and who will accept you for who you are


I know but it would be diffuclt for me cause i have trust issues


and help you throught ur dark times and change you for the better


i have trust issues too and it makes it hard for me to let go of friends no matter how toxic they are to me


but i know that these people wont make anything better, in fact they will make me worse


But people judge too much


But thanks


I feel good


I feel like im being destroyed by my mental illness, im starting to look at them more as a disease than a part of me and im just burdening them


I blame them for how i feel when i stop realizing that i have the power to face them


I just need some advice, i dont know what to do, its killing me, im terrified to relapse or breakdown again


Im so scared, idk what to do, its like all this effort was for nothing


I just need some help please @ wholesome of the day!


you will be okay


i promise


having a mental illness is normal


You will be fine. Think positive:.


you are loved


Thankie i really needed just a little motivation:,


Oh no I was late


now that i think about i kind feel like my friends think im avoiding them at this point because i havent rlly been talking much these days and can barely speak in calls too but they all seem really supportive


Hii! I have realized one thing that the only time my mom ever says I love you to me is when she makes me cry, I dont know why she cant just apologize normally. Im terrified of her when she starts yelling at me she only yells at me when my dad isnt at home when he is she just tells what to do in a calm sweet voice. My sister is who Im also scared of she says she wants to play with me but when I dont want to she starts yelling and throwing things at me so I usually say yes and when I do she starts playing ruff, kicking hitting and even biting me even when I tell my dad he doesnt do anything and ignores me my mom wouldnt care either so I usually just deal with it I usually lock the doors when she wants something because Im scared she might hit me. She has hit me with rocks, sticks and pencils oh and her toys. It starts turning into a daily routine. If she is in a good mood she might be nice to me. Please tell me what to do.


Fish Sounds like a toxic family, i dont know if you already know this but your sister is abusing you. You should talk to her about this type of behaviour. Also you should talk to your mom as well and if she actually cares for you. You dad too. Also you shouldnt let yourself get yelled at and then just instantly be expected to get over it, cause its not like that.


so. if anyone remembers, i had this friend who thought i was clingy and annoying.. so i vented to a friend about it and she cussed him out. but little did i know he would text me and make fun of me and tell me to hang myself because nobody loves me. i have proof.


@ wholesome of the day!


that's really messed up


it is.


hes messed up in general


Aw Poor you, Can you try blocking him and please dont hang stay strong and your loved and sweet


i did and i wont i know people care about me unlike him


i know i already reported him and stuff


people are so cruel nowadays, i had someone tell me i wanted attention and was annoying because I vented one time, and I only vented because they constantly bullied my best friend. I told them to stop being so insensitive and they all lashed out at me for it.


Well Im going to sleep, Stay calm


I feel so down, it's been like that lately do to school related stress and I feel like crying and hurting myself event though I don't want to, I'm so frickin tired of life


I just want someone to talk to rn idk, I feel lonely:


pat pat


Nori if u need someone to talk to im here to listen


thank you


everything will be okay


just believe that good things will come


because i promise they will


Gdhjw. I don't if I'm even supposed/have the right to vent over this but its really bothering me and I don't know what to do, one of my friends, who I used to be really, really close with, we just lost connection and we rarely talk anymore, I'm starting to get the I don't really care, vibe from her. And it's lowkey breaking my heart, so I decided to talk to her, after 3 months of lost connection, I texted her something simple, and we had a very short convo, and then she asked me if I know anyone that is her type because she wants to start a relationship, mind you, we were barely catching up or even talking. I told her I didn't really have anyone in mind, and she just replied with ok, literally. Just, that. And after a week I texted her again, I knew I was being annoying, but our friendship was something that really meant a lot to me, but she didn't answer, I was left on seen. I don't know what to do, If I don't start a convo we never have one, I really want our friendship to be back as it was but I don't know what to do, I'm sorry but I really need some advice. @ wholesome of the day!


Why wouldn't u have the right to vent?


Everyone has a right to their voice on their problems


And I'm sure we've all had those types of friends before


You're more than welcome to vent


Thank you so much.


sometimes friendships just end, and we have to move on. but before that i think its best you talk to them once more. be honest with them and tell them that you wanna keep being friends. if they say so, then thats great. but in case things dont go well, come back and well be happy to support you


Thank you That really helped my mood.


She does seem to rely more on finding a bf/gf than rekindling your friendship with you. Idk it seems like your friendship is slowly ending, and she'd rather to talk to guys more than try to fix something that's fading. sometimes we can never help how people react and move on and it hurts us, but eventually we find even better people who fill in the gaps they left behind, and it won't hurt as much anymore.


youre welcome


its best to be honest in any relationship no matter what


so keep going strong


I'll be your friend if you want


That would be really sweet! Thank you.


You are welcome!


All this advice really helped me. Thanks a lot.


No problemo. You're more than welcome to vent here anytime


youre welcome!


feel free to come back anytime you need us


My heart kfjkdl


I have no words to explain how much this helped djek.


Im sorry to hear this bonk Ofc u can vent about it dont worry! Sometimes friendships end, and maybe its for the best, I understand that its really hard for you but sometimes we just need to let go, and I would be glad to be your friend!


Thank you! Everyone here is so positive its making my heart melt.


This a lil off topic but just curious is ur name like a mix of pokemon or? mikachu


nipotino yes ty for noticing:3 My name is Mika and my friends call me Mikachu Pikachu sometimes


Ohhh


Ok I was gonna ask


Cause i thought it was mew and Pikachu


And I was gonna ask if u knew about this rom hack that has that pokemon as a starter pokemon


Its a pretty fun one


I cant show u it here


Sorry for the off topic


I am sorry to hear that bonk it has happened to me too...and I know how much it hurts when your good friend does that! But if they dont care/bother to text you or be with you then it is good to leave them as they wish as if we do things to make it up it will end up hurting us more! I am telling you from my personal experience so maybe leaving after trying for few times is good...hope you get a good friend who values your friendship!


Sorry for the late help tho...hope you will feel better!


You don't need to be sorry! Your advice is really sweet, thank you.


i am about to cry right now, my art teacher assigned a STUPID drawing that i don't have any idea how to draw and made me start over twice i just found out two of my friends are dating but didn't tell me it feels like my heart has been ripped out i probably don't have the right to vent about this @ wholesome of the day!


dont ever think you dont have the right to vent


There is no rights” when it comes to expressing your feelings hun.


you always have a chance to express your emotions


I know its frustrating to have to do things repeatedly, but its how you get better. Practice makes better.


Check pinned messages


id say if seeing your two friends date upsets you, its best to simply talk it out. theyll understand you, and besides, theres nothing bad that can happen


You can always say how you feel, I'll always stay to listen, I know you're stressed out right now, but, don't worry! I'm always gonna believe in you3


expiredmilk did someone disobey the rules or are you just reinforcing them?


Its not for rules, I have a message there


i hate my art teacher


he literally made me cry


i don't want to be in his class anymore


but my parents already paid for it


So there's this artist on Instagram that I've followed for a really long time and they did splatoon art and it was really amazing, unfortunately there was some arguments but I don't know the specifics, over the years they've made new accounts alfter new accounts, all with different usernames and different themes anime and gacha but I recognized the art style, I wanna send them a message being like hey I knew you way back when but I think that might freak them out as if I'm trying to resurface arguments, but I'm not, I'm just trying to have a heartfelt conversation from artist to artist about how I've sticked and really appreciate the artwork, but I don't know, I really need another opinion on this social dilemma


@ wholesome of the day!


id say just try to approach them as someone who appreciates their artwork. dont be paranoid about giving the wrong idea, just be a little cautious going in. try to just tell them that you wanted to say hello and enjoyed their artwork. if you want to talk with them, this is your safest bet


dont worry too much about their own incidents. itll only make you feel worse


So is this good:


Hey there, I just wanted to say that I really appreciate all of your amazing artwork and that you should keep up the good work and I hope we can become friends


MayXStar sorry for ping


yes! thats fine


sorry i was busy


That sounds good!


whose the instagram artist?


Okay, so my uncle is dying next week and hes not even 60 yet. Thats my last uncle and i had 2 others. My uncle has had a lung transplant and is still dying, i feel like everythings over I dont even talk to my mom anymore my brother lives out of state and we dont talk anymore me and him get into fights, he hurts me I have 2 sisters and 3 brothers that I havent seen and talked to since i was 4, I hate my dads new girlfriend, My grandfather abuses my grandmother and makes her do things she doesnt want to do Please dont open this next text its very sensitive I was also raped at 11 by my step grandfather he also raped my mother. I feel like everythings over please help.


Amirah I am so sorry to hear about ur uncle  I dont know what to say accept for that I think u need to tell a trusted person and report it to them


let me just start by saying im sorry to hear that youre going through this. im hoping things go better. if you have nobody to talk to, its best to get in contact with a close friend or possibly someone who knows your family. this seems like a serious situation, so its best if you be as open as possible


And what May said


i feel really bad for you, if i were you i would just report that too the police or just try to relax and think positive thoughts.


im sorry u had to deal with that


at least u were willing to open up about it


even if its just here


thats a step in the right direction and hopefully ull reach out to people that are near by and can help u out further than we are able to


perhaps with better advice or a better like home or are able to take care of the people that hurt u


also i hope ur uncle goes peacefully and ur able to move on and just remember the happy times with him and not the sad times or the fact he is dying at such a young age


yui hug junnie


Welp another person blocks me when I try to be nice


Oh well


I'm very sad noq


Now


I just dont understand it


At least this time


This one makes no sense as well


2 times in a row


Disclaimer: This is not certain to be a vent its just be expressing how I feel.


So, Time passes by and I still feel lovesick. I dont get it.. The person is not disappearing from my mind causing me more heart ache and more tears. Im keeping my distance because I dont know if Ill end up yelling at them about my feelings or just breaking down in general. Im trying to focus on things that matter but I keep getting distracted and crying every single second. And its getting worse and I cant talk to anyone about it without having a emotional breakdown and it hurts so badly... I dont know what to do... but I just want this pain to go away...


@ wholesome of the day!


Who are u lovesick over?


Hey I'm really sorry that you just feel hurt over this. I prefer if you try to let out your feelings. I'm sorry that you keep getting distracted. It's okay to cry frequently. If you can't talk to anyone about this without having an emotional breakdown maybe try letting it all out before discussing about it? But whatever you do please don't bottle anything up.


I dont really know how to explain my situation but lately my friends have been slowly excluding me from everything.


I have this one guy friend who clearly prefers my best friend over me which I dont really care about but its gotten to the point where she doesnt even want me around and it hurts me.


We were genuine friends


I have no one else now and she was the only person who had similar interests as me


Its hurts so badly


I just wish someone would stay with me and not leave for someone else


I hate being a second option


I have no one and it hurts


I dont know what to do and I just need some advise even if its not much


Im so lost


Firstly it is his problem that he prefers your best friend over you...and you are not alone...we all are with you and I know how it feels when your close friend just want to leave you for the sake of there relationship! It is as bad as leaving your parents...


haruki Dont let yourself be a second option to your friends. I think you should confront them about how your feeling left out. If it doesnt work you can always come to discord and find new friends. I can be your friend if you like c: but i cant accept friend requests


Yes she is right Ayaka


I think you should also talk to your parents about your problem Ayaka


Its just that I dont have any irl friends anymore as she was the only friend who hadnt left me or just got into different friend groups


maybe you should then try to make new friends...it will help you


Yeah


Having friends online is different but having friends irl is better


Find people you get along well and try telling your feelings to your best friend...


If you move on from your friends then you can show them that your strong and never give up:


Yes that's true!


And we are here everytime you need us!


I know...but I really introverted person...Ive tried a lot of times to get more friends but they all kinda just left


Well...maybe you dont need friends? You just need yourself. You can try and get over them by maybe doing something that helps you relax..go for a walk. Selfcare is much more important than friends


It is hard to keep up with friends but it is worth trying! Dont give up it is the most easy thing to do but life would be miserable after that! Keep trying dont give up


And believe in yourself! Discover what you are there are many people who just come and go but the only thing you have is yourself!


Okay Ill try and not give up


It will take a lot of courage to confront them but Ill and do it


Good luck! and we are here for you!


I hope we could help


Thank you!


Np 33


I dont really know how to explain my situation but lately my friends have been slowly excluding me from everything.


I have this one guy friend who clearly prefers my best friend over me which I dont really care about but its gotten to the point where she doesnt even want me around and it hurts me.


We were genuine friends


I have no one else now and she was the only person who had similar interests as me


Its hurts so badly


I just wish someone would stay with me and not leave for someone else


I hate being a second option


I have no one and it hurts


I dont know what to do and I just need some advise even if its not much


Im so lost


haruki Hey, it's fine! Calm down and breathe. crap like this happens to almost every friendship, its her fault for leaving you, don't blame yourself, you did nothing wrong, just trying talking to her about it, tell her how much it hurts you, and if nothing changes after you talk to her, then im so sorry but you would have to leave her, move on. I know it isn't easy but i'm sorry you're strong enough to do it, don't search for happiness in the place that you have lost it! we're all here for you.


thank you!


Im planning on telling her about it although she is a very sensitive person so I dont want her to feel too bad about it so Im trying to find a way I can tell her without making her upset


Hey, you seem like a nice person. Im a very sensitive person, but I appreciate when people let me know their feelings and whatnot haruki


Pancake


I feel like telling her now is a bit extreme so Ill be sure to tell her soon!


not really a vent, but a scary thought...


i couldve died at the age of 5... twice. from almost drowning in a pool.


Oop I almost died at birth because i couldnt breathe but almost drowning is scary!


im telling you


if my dad didnt save me i would have been dead at the gae of 5


this isnt a vent either


but


sometimes


i wonder


Did my dad really die from kidney problems?


So I have 2 groups of friends, one is my rlly rlly close ones that Ive been friends with since forever, and then another one that felt kinda free? yk? But since my second group of friends there is only 3 of us started hanging out with this other girl it kinda seems like they dont want me anymore. And it feels like theyre drifting away from me. We also have a class together and they dont even say hi to me. Maybe because its online? I mean they used to say hi to each other like 2 weeks ago but only said hi to me once. That seems kinda stupid to think about but that how I feel. And I feel like im not cool enough for them anymore. @ wholesome of the day!


id say if you feel like youre drifting away from them, its best to just talk with them yourself. find a time where you can talk with the two of them and be honest. tell them that you wish to talk more, or at least once a day. its best to just be honest and open, theyll understand you better


You know it is really common in our age that when we get in relationships or get a friend who is girl we tend to drift our friends away for there sack! I have been on your side so I know how it feels! I would tell you to tell your friends about how you feel and after then also if they dont care then I am sorry but you might have to leave them for your own good!


Try giving time for your own growth as it is essential


Ty! I think im going to talk to them maybe sometime this week? And I think theyll understand


i really wish i could return the people and ask them to forgive me but they blocked me, they don't understand what made them seperate from me and they won't listen if i elaborate it


i keep crying and feeling like im watched


i can't keep myself happy anymore


i dont know what to do


@ wholesome of the day!


We are here for you. Love


awww hun I'm sorry. I know it'll get better soon


People will come and go


And if someone leaves


that feeling doesn't last forever actually. i had the same thing occur to me last week


Someone better will show up


Like us!


People come people go some friends and people understand and aome dont. The best people are the people who stay and try to fix it


but they were the only ones that could've helped me form a healthy life


yeah, people come and go, its all natural


Not to toot the horn


we love chu and we aren't gonna just abandon you


but this keeps happening


it's not normal


We just attacked the person with straight seratonin


i can't keep myself happy anymore


i dont know what to do


kleid ahh i see whats wrong


why do i always in the end lose friends


those people are bullies smh


i think im just really that unlikable


no you're likable


most likely those people were super hostile and toxic if they just blocked you for no reason


dont think about yourself like that, if they let go that easily, then they probably weren't the best people to be around.


they were


its always best to surround yourself with good people.


they were good people


you were the one in the wrong?


yeah


you sure? i know a few people from experience who suddenly turn cold and block you


accidents happen love


did you apologize for it?


that's fine, we all make mistakes. sometimes people need a little time to forgive.


no


it's not sudden


they think that im faking something


which im not


hm


they sound sus


and they called me a manipulator for it


but it was an accident.. i'm sure you didn't mean to do anything bad...


i cant control that


that's ok it's a part of life. we all learn from our mistakes


accidents happen and we grow from them


if they wouldn't let you elaborate maybe they weren't the best people to have around you


im trying to grow from them but this all is stopping me


i think im just really that unlikable


kleid nooo not true cuz i like you alot!


what if they're still talking about me


they probably are


what if they're seeing what i do


and if they are


Them


they're toxic


Oop


Better


i dont want that i want to start a career of animation and comics that everyone will enjoy


if they have the nerve to secretly talk about you then they weren't nice people at all


i dont want them to ruin it


They wont


You rise up past them


Your the greater person here


i want to become better and i won't quit


Yes!


i want my projects to aspire people and for them to like it


Thats the spirit


i love seeing joy from everyone it's what keeps me alive


spooky ou I know your trying to help dis person, but please do not bypass.


Bypass?!?


you are welcome! i learned how to live without them myself. a lot of people secretly hate you but you have to know deep inside that you aren't the person they think you are, they only see the negative in you not the positive, they literally ignore your happy side. it gets better trust me


My teacher says It's okay to stress about school and it's healthy to stress time to time! well I really don't have a particular reason why I feel constant fear or stress when talking about school. My parents are all about my education which makes it worst because I don't wanna disappoint them if I fail. It feels like butterflies in my stomach are eating me from the inside out and I can't stop them I just get stressed easily and so when it comes to school I just absolutely want to close my eyes and go back to sleep.


Also I'm scared to ask for glasses for certain reason but my vision is the reason I fail in class if I do, because most of the work is presented on the board and if the teachers see you struggling with seeing they call your parents and talk about it so I can't even squint


istu I understand the pressure u are feeling about good grades and ur parents because ik what its like to b in that situation, but ive learned that sometimes they understand if u dont always get the best grades. I also get that u r scared to ask for glasses But maybe if u tell ur parents they can get u glasses and maybe the glasses will help u with more than just school!


This isnt rlly a vent but I really really need a hug rn, with all the things that are happening to me. I forgot how warm and tight a hug could be, and I feel like it would rlly help. @ wholesome of the day!


istu Also maybe when doing school work take short breaks in between! That helps me sometimes


mikachu do you want me to yui hug u? Also your not alone:


Yui hug mikachu


yui hug mikachu


hi. so, Ive been having a big crush on someone that meant a lot to me. I thought they felt the same way, by the way they treated me. I just confessed and they rejected. I should have expected that, and I know its normal and just life but it hurts. a lot. @ wholesome of the day! sorry for ping but Ive been feeling rlly suicidal lately and this is just making it worse. thanks.


yui hug @'kaitokid


I know how it feels! It happened to me too! At this time I would tell you to keep your distance with them! As you got feelings for them let them die...if you keep talking to them your feeling might increase for them and it will hurt you more!


dont feel bad.


rejection is a hard thing to go through, but the important part was that you had the courage to tell your crush you liked them.


relax a little, do the stuff you enjoy to get them off your mind.


mwah i wuv youu


Yes true and use this time for self growth


And understanding yourself better!


Someone else is going to come along!


I know...but they mean a lot to me and were actually one of the only reasons I didnt kms. they saved my life and thats when the feelings developed. everyone else hurts me. literally every other friend I have treats me, well, not okay. I feel bad


@'kaitokid I know exactly how youre feeling, and I get that it sucks. I chased one person around for a while without any response back, thankfully I dont do so anymore. But taking your mind off things will help ease the pain of the initial moment a ton. Stay strong, we all love you.


you'll be fine, just vent to us! we're here for you!


thank you guys, I just


You will be good!


Ive been feeling so so suicidal lately, I almost ended it yesterday and now this happens


Of course! We've all been through it. But trust me it gets better. Don't bring yourself down for it. We all love you and we're gonna help you


he just told me to stop talking to him and if he just took that part out...I dont mind being friends with him


Dont think negative things alright everyone has their ups and downs soemtimes


Aw thank you


@'kaitokid if thats the case, you still need to move on. being around them will only make you feel worse. give yourself time alone, and stay strong


We are always here to help kai dont worry


Dont think negatively!


Negative bad, positive good


If you ever want to vent you can talk to me in my dms idm


Im gonna try. but guess all those Ill never leave you” promises


aw, thank you guys


youre welcome!


come back anytime you need some encouragement


i just wanna go back in time and erase my confession


@'kaitokid


It doesnt matter at some parts! We are not telling to cknolete leave away but keep a distance


listen, im telling you, getting your feelings out is the best thing you can do.


i had a crush i never confessed to, and i regret it more than being rejected


What is done is done you cant erase what you have done! You have to except it and move on...


Omg I hate those. Trust me you have to ignore them at some point if you feel like they won't keep it. I get those promises every time and they just dip and leave. Sometimes you have evaluate your own worth to make sure that kind of stuff won't hurt you as much as it should. People are always going to make false promises and won't apologize for it. But either way I love you for who you are. You have nothing to worry about here


Dont think about it anymore dont keep your head down keep your head up and think well


Yes yes


yes! take some time to get into hobbies, drawing, writing, editing. find yourself a creative outlet


Girl or boy


Remmeber there is always someone out there who will love you unconditionally and doesnt need a reason to love you!


Idk your pronouns


But


they/them but thank you, and I will try


Stay strong, as suicide is nowhere near the answer. As this may sound brash, life does go on, and you cant focus the rest of your life off of one person.


Once again dont think too much Im sure your a amazing person and you dont deserve these negativity


True


Yes


If you die I'd be losing my friend and I'd cry


Aw dont cry


Suicide is never a option and once again you can always vent in my dms even if Im offline Ill always read them later


keep going strong, dont let this obstacle overcome you


youll find your significant other soon!


my therapist cancelled on me too, I really have no real hope rn xD but Ill try


You're always welcome to talk to us!


If you try suicide it will pass your pain to other! It is not a relf but passing of pain


Can I vent a bit longer here?


Of course, my dms are always open if you need someone to talk to.


Of course!


Yes ofc


if you want, you have permission to vent in my DMs


just ping me and ill allow it


Thank you


And of course! This is the venting channel, after all.


Yaa


youre welcome!


stay strong kai


Im just a bit broken hearted. our friendship wasnt the typical one, there was lots of affection, mental health support, mixed in with the fun too. it was just perfect, and Ive ruined it


Ill try :


He just said he sees me like a little sister and that he thinks its best if we stop talking for a bit. I know he was so so nice about it but it still hurts


@'kaitokid your therapist is the absolute worst how can they cancel a patient who needs help?


i understand, but looking back will only make you feel worse. nows a good time to pick up a hobby or such, find something to distract you


She said Im fine to her


Ive never seen a irresponsible therapist,unless they have a good reason then


Shes clearly a bad therapist just fire her and get a new one tbh


Everything has been losing its flavor recently


First dont blame yourself! It happens alot of times in friendship...if he looks at you as a little sister than he wont stop talking...he would have said so, so that you can control your feelings


I write so much! And so slow! Xd


well, theres gotta be something you enjoy.


or try something new, that always helps


@'kaitokid Well thats when you gotta reach out! Try new things you may not know could interest you, see if something sticks! You may just find a new hobby:


yes!


I mean I guess I could try painting


Thats a great one!


ooh, painting


I feel so loved rn tysm guys


youre welcome!


Maybe because you are loved


aww


should I block him or no


Im not sure


Im trying to think of other things but it was just so like yeah


I wouldnt personally, give it some time to die down, and maybe come back to it later, maybe you can rekindle what you had.


Well Id say we see how the situation is first


And then think if blocking is a good idea


Cause if I was in your shoes the person would confront you about it tomorrow and I dont want you to deal with that


So Id say personally not to block and just avoid him a while I guess


Im not really helpful yes


Even if he doesnt like me that way, I still want to have him as a friend, yk? I can try changing my feelings, hes just a good person


No no. You are helpful!


I dont see why you guys cant stay friends so


Id say go for it


Ill try quoting what he said brb


Sure


you guys can definitely be friends, but id say give a couple days of recovery first


possibly 12 weeks


so then you can come back and not have to worry


Yeah thats good


Here btw


He was rlly ncie about it, Im just extra sensitive


I'm sorry but, I simply don't know what to say, I don't feel the same way. I love you as a younger sister, nothing more. If you're being honest and are actually developing feelings for me, I think it's better if we go our separate ways for now. We could talk in the future if you want, but I just don't think it's safe to continue talking daily like this if that's the case. I just don't want to interfere in your faith and create another roadblock for you. I'm sorry


Ahh


Well if he still sees you as a younger sister I think you guys could still be good friends


Dont worry your not being sensitive about it


Its normal to feel that way


Hes been really nice through the convo actually


Yeah he has


Thats why I just feel so bad


You can be great friends but I'm sure another person loves you. You have to find them. I mean I've felt the same way multiple times because people are just really heartbreaking, especially if they've brought you up so many times before


Yeah, I dont think a bond like that can be thrown away so easily, honestly. There will always be lasting feelings from both you and him, if not the same way exactly.


it seems like hes really respectful. so staying friends would be a good idea. that is of course once youve had some time apart


But he does still care about you, just not in that way. I'm sure you guys could still be good friends


Yeah, I just dont know how to move on


It'll happen trust me. I've told myself I wouldn't move on from things that are hard for me but I do end up finding someone else to be good friends with


Aww thats good


start by taking some time away. maybe try that painting you mentioned earlier


Dw someone else is coming along without you realizing it


it will definitely take time. Its not so simple that hey i dont like this person anymore, it takes a while. i thought that i wouldnt find anyone after my first crush, and now i have someone special for me: and im sure the same can and will happen to you


: I hope so


i personally havent found anyone just yet, but ive learned to be patient


that special someone will come for you, just with a little bit of waiting


is it bad that I wanna cry?


no!


No!


crying is good honestly..


its best to let out your emotions


Let it all out, love.


dont think its wrong


Crying makes you stronger. It's always okay to cry


Thank you


It means a lot to me


It would be bad if you didn't cry actually. You shouldn't bottle up your emotions


Just one last thing before I go, how do I respond, should I respond at all?


You've been strong for so long that it's okay to cry now


Um...


If he does message you then yeah you should try hearing him out


I think maybe just respond to the other things first then ignore that one?


Mhm


I wouldn't respond to that topic so it doesn't make you sad anymore


But you guys can still have friendly conversations


Yeah : Im just kinda a bit sad . Obv. Just all my other friends had successful confessions 24/7, why cant I xD oh well, things like this happen I guess. Cant let it cut me down


Being sad or upset will happen of course, but those feelings will fade with time. Stay strong, not just for other people in your life, but for yourself.


Thank you so so much guys


I feel better then when it happened, so thank you


Ill go try having a me day today. Thank you so much


of course! anytime: and if you ever need someone to vent to again and dont want to do it publicly, my dms are always wide open


Remember to check pinned messages to read a special message from me if you feel scared, nervous, or have anything to get off your chest


im stressing so heres a vent


i missed a whole week of school for personal issues. now i have so much work that i have to do by friday. i have bad grades rn and all the work i have to do making me stressed. i dont have the time to do my work and my teachers are acting so rude bc i wasnt doing it. i wish i could do it but, my mom makes me do things like take of my brothers, cleaning the house, etc:/ @ wholesome of the day!


First things first you should go into a call to talk, not with emails you should talk to them directly about everything so they understand


u ever cry so hard that ur throat hurts the next day


first off, dont pull your hair over this! itll only make you feel worse. my idea would be to first ask your teachers if theres any work they can remove, and explain why you were away from school


whatever work you have, do it in small portions, that way you wont be stressed but can still get your work done


i wish you the best of luck


yui hug expiredmilk


yui hug MayXStar


ty


youre welcome!


yui hug breezy


bro what.


ur kidding s


Ur kidding


They really never try understanding the life of the student. Like my teacher has been yelling at me all week about going to school to pickup a textbook to take home when like my greatgrandmother passed away and my bf dumped me on the exact same day and it was affecting me and now I'm a week behind on work. I have to makeup reading assignments, a test, and a quiz, and I have a super huge test tomorrow. I just with wish teachers were different. It isn't your fault chefy.


@ Fluff Admins!


can u help


i sent a really long message


and it all deleted


sure


hold on


can u get it out of logs


thank u


ayewa can i dm u it


yea


thanks


@ wholesome of the day!


Our pleasure that we helped a person in pain!


I didnt did anything but I hope you will be good!ayewa


Big tip: some people are jerks


Therapy?


let her finish yall, shes typing..


We're always going to be here for you don't ever think you have to suicide to feel better. We love you! I'm sorry you aren't enjoying things that make you happy anymore. I really hope things get better and you find solace in your activities. I mean my parents aren't really that proud anymore either because they expect my success now and get mad at me if I suddenly slip up and my teachers yell at me if I don't give them my best work. Sometimes you have to talk about how you feel so they understand your mental health issues and they don't have to make you feel bad about yourself. And yeah those friends of yours should apologize. They don't see how hurt you are and only cause drama. Trust me some people say they aren't toxic but secretly act a bit toxic to innocent people, usually through dm's so no one sees it. I'd probably would want to talk to your parents about getting help and making sure you're alright. But if you ever need someone to talk to come to me alright?


I hate seeing you upset


No it's okay they can type it was a lot


yui hug ayewa


i thought you were venting lmao


mb mb


No no it's fine


my school is going down


grades


istu alr had it


nothing worked


Oh?


have you tried medications?


for 2 years


ye


Are you still having them or?


yea


Hm..


Have you tried healthy coping strategies?


Like not cutting?


for a whileye but i vertical did it last night


Did you get treated yet?


didn't tell anyone


Go tell someone!


Telling someone your woes doesn't make you a bad nor weak person


The worst thing you can do is sit and cry and tear yourself a part about it


Trust me I hid my feelings for 2 straight years and it's made it worse


Some people feel good when people vent to them because they think your comfortable with them.


Even if you don't tell your family at least tell us


Or that's what I've been told


As long as you have some support system it makes things better


Don't try ripping yourself a part


Right you have a voice and you can use it.


Take advantage of it!


you can trust us we won't tell anyone if you really feel uncomfortable about it


just vent to us if you need to


we'll listen to you


You can do it, we're rooting for you!


thankss


Very interesting vents


Ty everyone for the hugs


I dont get hugs


Yui hug BunBun


Owo hug BunBun


?afk


owo hug BunBun


Owo hug mikachu


Hehe


Bro I really need someone to tell me everything will be ok i


Its hard now, but it will get better. After all, the universe circles around balance. For each bad moment you have, a good one arises, and even tho it wont show up now, it will soon :


Plus if you want to vent anytime and dont feel like putting it here, my DMs are open


Youshie everything will be okey


why do i feel this way.. why cant i just let her love me.. i dont understand..


i shouldnt be loved.. i dont deserve it


theres people that need it much more than i do


what do i even do.. i seriously dont know..


why cant i just accept it


guys.. what do i do? i dont want to ping because i dont want to show too many people..


What makes you think you don't deserved to be loved?


there are other people that deserve it more than i do


Everyone deserves to be loved, no matter what gender, race, or background. We're all humans, we all need love.


There's other people that may need it too, but that doesn't mean you can't her's. Love can be shared with everyone, friendly love that is.


@ wholesome of the day!


I need your guys opinion on this. Today I had my, hopefully final argument with an ex, who, a month ago, celebrated because of us breaking up. Throwing a literal party because of it, everybody congratulated her and everything, I found this out through being invited there myself. However, this was after she apologized to me for seemingly no reason at first, but that was simply because of how naive I was. Mind you, Im only thirteen. Actually turned it this year. A week later, a few of her friends wanted to have a'talk' with me, little did I know, it would be a ten minute session of being cursed and yelled at, before receiving death threats, for apparently comparing her to one of my exes? If you want details on the argument in question, feel free to dm me. I felt horrible, and with my newly cured depression and anxiety, it wasnt helping that I wanted to kill myself afterwards. I powered through it, and now, flash forward a month or so, it all came pouring out. I told her about how bad of a person she was, how much of a coward she was because of all the things she did. A few minutes later, I threatened to tell every last person in the servers she was in, how bad of a person she was. She begged for me not to. And I still did it. Am I in the wrong for doing what I did?


Sorry for the ping by the way


Just thought it would have fit the occasion


Shrug.


it sounds like the best thing all of you should do is keep a distance and stop communication.


from what i can tell you only got upset at the moment


currently the worse thing you could do is continue talking, so its best if you block them off completely. if things get worse, tell your parents or an adult yoh trust.


i only hope things get better


They already blocked me


Im gonna stop talking to them for a while.


And depending on if my mind changes about them,


or if I try apologizing to hed?


Her


thatll determine if I begin to talk to her again.


The thing is, before our final argument?


thats probably the best idea at the moment.


again, if things get worse its best to probably tell someone you trust. the last thing you want to do is feel worse about the situation


receiving death threats and getting told bad things is horrible and im sorry that happened to you. i do think its wrong that you did what you did but youre still young and you cant revert what you did. people make mistakes and learn from them. i wouldnt suggest doing something like that again and maybe you can try and talk it out next time? i dont think i would try staying with someone who did that to you but apologizing when you and her are ready to talk again is a good thing to do


ye probably


i do agree on that point. its best to give things some time, then try to come back to them in about a weeks time to apologize


mhm.


that way theyll have some time to recover


yeah


I doubt shell accept my apology.


Even if I did


but who knows.


Because I sure did.


I agree with May and Melon


I think u should wait a little for now


i think you should maybe try apologizing once more so you dont regret on it later? idk thats just what happens to me


even if the apology isnt accepted, you can at least say you did the right thing.


And im sorry that this is happening to u


Eh its nothing Im not used to.


And, thank you all.


For your opinions.


youre welcome!


feel free to come back anytime you need help


mhmm


Mhm


Mkay, well, seeya till then.'v'


laters!


Cya!


cya


Can I vent rq or is it to quick?


go aheadd


okie so


I like this guy and its rlly confusing, and I have for 3 years now I think. He knows I like him and it kinda seemed like he liked me. But I dont know anymore after what happened recently and idk who to believe. Im still questioning if I like him still or not. I really dont know. And sometimes I get jealous of my friend and him sometimes. But ik she doesnt like him and she hasnt liked anyone for years now. And I dont want to feel jealous because I dont like how it impacts on me and others.


oop


yeah;;


No, its not that, its just, my comment got deleted because of a word


What I was trying to say was,


Like,


its okay to feel jealous and it happens. ive felt that way before too about someone and i dont like feeling jealous but over time i just kinda thought about it


rip your message


but, thats coming from someone who was dumped after a week.


The person I was dating liked girls anyway, and was dating me just laughs and giggles.


Oh im sorry:c


no, its fine.


I wouldnt be sorry.


And besides, this isnt about me


No no its ok


@ wholesome of the day! I was ignored by most of my classmates. They think I am boring. A guy came to me and started talking he was the only person who understood me that I am not boring. more than 15 of my classmates didn't even give me comfort zone to talk


They will know it soon


They made me like a physopath.


Sorry for the ping by the way


oof..


I can relate. But,


it isnt because Im boring, or people just dont like me.


I will just tell my fellings to everyone in farewell


Its because I choose to be this way.


I am the most silent guy in my class


you should see me.


The only time I ever talk,


And I mostly observe people


is if the teacher is asking a question.


Same


I just talk with few friends


ah


hmmm.. honestly,


I would just open up to those you trust.


People you know are cool.


And hey,


if they accept you for who you are,


then you can probably trust them.


I was in a class for 3 years and no one cares for me


You dont know that,


And the another section got to know me and started being friendly


some people probably do.


Few do


Thats still a number of people who do.


If that makes any sense.


The other section boys understand me and only few ppl understand about me in my class


Just Reese. yep few still do


mhm


People had good impression on me 1 year ago and one guy said something about me in class


That changed me a lot


What did he say?


I can't here


I can dm


Please do/


I want to help.


If possible.


so, i broke a 2 months clean streak,


wait, clean as in?


cutting


Oh.


Wait, why?


Did something happen?


Huh


well,


just know that, what youre doing, is but a temporary solution to a problem, not a permanent. There are better ways of going about such a thing. Do something that makes you feel happy. As a matter of fact, throw away any razors you have, just in case you do have an urge to do it again. Including sharp objects that you could use to fulfill such a task. Im sorry that youre resorting to such a thing.


I cant quite relate.


While I was playing I broke a sink


Not a steel one though


I got a big cut on my hand


And that happened when I was 10


sheesh.


Ive never cut myself?


But,


Ive definitely pinched myself a few times. A little too hard, mind you.


Leaving small scratches.


And marks.


And yes, I know.


Pinching, seriously?


Anyways, I hope the best for both of you,


good luck.


So, I vented about this in another server but didnt get much advice on the situation.


I have an online best friend I've had for 3 years. Lately she has been responding in short words and not wanting to respond to my troubles and such in a serious manner, she just spams letters and leaves.


I've asked her if she has been ok and she said yes. I asked her why she has been doing it and she just said oh and nothing else.


I'm thinking it's almost time to cut her off but if I do I will only have one person to talk to. Me and her had a fun convo earlier but the second I talk too much for her liking or something she doesnt like she spams letters or says to everything.


I want someone who will be honest with me and tell me if I'm doing something wrong so I can fix it. Not ignore my words. I dont ignore hers when she vents or anything so it's just her solely not liking my personality or how much I'm talking. The thing is, is I havent talked to her all day and she hasnt talked to me either. I have thought about ignoring her messages out of spite because of how she acts towards me when it comes to talking but I couldnt do it, despite her doing that shes still a good friend.


I dont know how to handle this situation, if I should cut her off or just ignore it. She goes back and forth from doing it and not doing it.


I'm not upset by the situation I'm just lost


So I was an OG in a server, I became staff, but quit a few months ago. That day she started kicking me from the server and soon banning me. I couldn't say goodbye to all my friends in the server., but a few days ago they all started hating me. The owner started a rumor about me and made all my friends go against me. The owner was my ibf Internet best friend she made me break server rules to get members for the server. She calls it her server:/ suddenly she made group chat with me in it, since I was friends with one of the members at the time. That day I hated myself. I already had a lot going on in my life. I try to act happy when I'm not. She always gets what she wants. She wanted to raid a scam server and that's when my friends and I quit. I always dreamed about having a real friend. It never came true. She talks trash about the server, she made me get members from. All of the members were from that server. That day I knew she was always faked and used me. It still hurts me. I wrote this in a different server once no one replied or helped. I hope this server can.


@ wholesome of the day!


first off, were happy to help you.


second, its seems like your best friend” is being super toxic. by all means you should stay away from her and anyone whod acquainted with her. block all of them, dont speak with them. the best thing you can do is put yourself as far away from her as possible. itll help you out emotionally and mentally


and if youre looking for a friend, im always here to talk


I am sorry to say but she is not a person someone will like to have around them! Such people are just meant to be ignored and if you try getting close to them they will use you and nothing else! Don't lose hope for finding a real friend! You have them here! If you want I can be your friend in your sorrow or good times! Maybe it is good for you to quit that server and let your friends know she is not telling the truth


If you want I can be your friend...


I understand how you feel; feeling rejected and betrayed by people that you trusted before hurts a ton. These people do not appreciate you for you at all times, they only appreciate you when you were doing something for the server; that is not okay. They were cyberbullying you, telling you that you arent worth it if you arent enough for them. You are enough; dont listen to what they are saying, you are amazing, and you dont deserve to succum to the hate that these people are spewing at you. There are people will appreciate you for who you are! I will totally be your friend and there are so many others who would be too!


The thing is.


Okay, seeing stuff like this makes me very mad. Listen, it's your choice if you didn't wanna be a staff anymore, she can't just, do all this for no reason, she's very fake, she acts like my friend, she may get whatever she wants but one thing she can't have is...a dang heart for other people


If you ever need someone, I'm here


she calls me underaged, when I'm older that her


shes 12.


than she said oh I probably told you that the day before I turned 13


Hmm so you should just teach her some MANNERS! As you are older you can just tell her, her bad things and then leave her on her own


than after she attacked me she said ive known her for liek 2 years


shes acts like she loves me;/


Shes just being immature, you can be the better person and tell her you will not give in to her toxicity


This kinda people are just fake...they use and throw people like objects


Exactly


yea.


im only happy about 1 thing


You should know how to deal with them! Tell her, her faults and then leave her as of what she is


the day my friends and I quit the owner talked trash about us and a lot of members left because they only liked the server because of us


the other day she had 2.5k now she has 2.3k


thats sweet karma


Yes, it is.


honestly she acts like a real child.


You can always make friends wherever you are! You just need to know how the person thinks about you


anyone want to be friends


I can be but I don't talk much as I am kinda busy this days! I am open for all the good people to be my friends!


okay


I can be friends!


friended cl


@ AnnIE have you blocked her? or maybe just lost communication with her?


if you havent then thatd be the best thing to do.


Check Pinned messages everyone for a special message from me


Bruh i have a D and an F and i cant get it up. I CANT... ITS SO HARD THESE TWO CLASSES.


I cant take it anymore


I cant


I just wanna pass out


I dont wanna be on earth anymore


someone messaged me and was being RUDE TO ME


LIKE EXCUSE ME?


you used ME as an emotional crutch


came to me saying you were gonna off yourself andi had to stop it


I WAS 15


YOU WERE 18 BUT OH YOU ALSO LIED ABOUT THAT?


when you were really 17


so you lied to me


im crying


i really really wanna hurt myself


Trashman you need to distant yourself with whoever that person is. No human should ever make you have thoughts of self harm. Block, leave groupchats, do whatever you have to do to get away from that person. Self harm is never the answer though.


but first im sending something to him


but my gf thinks it a bad idea


well he called me a little bith


You shouldn't speak to him at all, completely forget he exists. If you girlfriend thinks its a bad idea, it must be.


but i can't let this slide


Sometimes you gotta let it go. It'd be pointless to waste time on some random person.


why? they have caused me sooo much trauma


It'll just keep continuing if you leep going on with it


So, its over which is great


I have all the screen shots now


SOMEONE MESSAGED ME AND I JUST CANT ANYMORR


Nope nope nope


Time to delete discord all together


First time venting to anyone so here I go I keep on get bad bad thoughts and it I have been trying really hard not to give in but with all the presser my Mom puts on me to be number 1 in school and here finding out i'm failing and pushing me harder. Then to help out with everything at home because my older sister is leaving soon and moving in December away from all from all my Friends I just don't know if I can do this anymore with everyday coming and going it just keeps on getting harder. I don't want to hurt myself but if it keeps on going like this I don't know if I will be able to keep the thoughts away.


Have u talked to ur mom about ur feelings any?


so my friend says shes sad and stressed and I dont really know what to do.. its about her parents, school, and her feelings.. and everytime i try to make her as happy as i can.. i just feel like i fail everytime like i cant help her.. i want to help her bc she helped me when i was sad. it just feels so unfair to me that i cant do anything to make her feel better..


she said she wants to change for the better and make us happy but i dont want her to change herself..


@ wholesome of the day!


You rang?


Read above love


@ saki Maybe she should talk to her parents about how she feels, or she can go to a therapist of some sort and say her problems. Another good way is she can listen to relaxing music that helps or calm down, maybe she could take like yoga class or meditate.


Someone called me immature and began to rant to to me about stuff


This was hours ago and I balled my eyes out


More stuff happened but I gotta sleep now sadly


Who am I kidding, I cant sleep


I feel sick


Why did they have to message me?


Calling me immature


Ive been through so much


I am more mature then youll ever be


People who say sht about someone is cuz they're sad and don't know how to handle with their problems


And get this...Im 15


and need to believe they're better than others, if you're sad or bad that kind of person will be happy for making you suffer


Ive done more then they have, why couldnt they have left me alone? They said they might not have messaged me and they did


Like if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it at all


you're better than those people, respect yourself and love yourself you should know who you are, don't care about the things that sad people say. They did it cuz they want to hurt you


And I overreacted to a math problem...well Im sorry Im not that smart...its not my fault


And they pointed that out and it hurt


I took screen shots and I will be sending them to my friends


Just so they know


Now I feel like I have to change


I have to be mature


Don't say bad things about you, nobody is perfect you must say the good things you do and you're bro


I hope you get better and think about it, it takes time but you won't be sad forever, trust me, big love g.


They just act like they're your friends and didn't say anything?


Basically


Even tho everyone knows what they did


You should don't care about them, they just wanna hurt you cuz they got problems with themselves


they're toxic, don't stay w people like that, they just ruin your life


bb grill what if she says she cant


Uhhh


oof im not sure then...


well she just said that


First time venting to anyone so here I go I keep on get bad bad thoughts and it I have been trying really hard not to give in but with all the presser my Mom puts on me to be number 1 in school and here finding out i'm failing and pushing me harder. Then to help out with everything at home because my older sister is leaving soon and moving in December away from all from all my Friends I just don't know if I can do this anymore with everyday coming and going it just keeps on getting harder. I don't want to hurt myself but if it keeps on going like this I don't know if I will be able to keep the thoughts away.


Fang remember, dont be afraid to tell your mom she puts to much pressure on you. you are amazing and noone should tell you different. you are capable of so much. please dont hurt yourself. everybody loves you so much. if your ever feeling down my dms are open cutie


My mom made me throw away all my stuff for little space and all my sensory toys...


That's rough


TW: my ed is coming back in at full speed and i really wish i didn't want to throw up food. it's hard to eat.. i can't stop cutting, the pain makes me feel good in a way. i don't know what to anymore. i feel so useless. i just hate all of it. i don't think i can hold on any longer... i'm about to just give up. someone please give me a genuine good reason to live, i'm desperate at this point. i'm this close to giving up..


@ wholesome of the day!


r0ttenFr0g I dont know you or the Situation you are in but try to get out of this whole, go so something funny with your family or your friends. You can go on a walk, you can Cook or bake together or just hang out and play games. The most important thing is to find a Hobby or just something that makes you happy, even if it's just for a moment and pur all energy you have left in it. It helped me and gave me New energy to Start doing my work again and I got back into my social life what is keeping me happy and busy so I dont have time to think about the bad things. And about the eating, I never had a Kind of those Problems but my sister, she started with very small portions like just a bite or two and tried not to throw it up and as soon as it was okay she took one or two bites more and now she can almost eat normally. im so sorry English isnt my first language


r0ttenFr0g The girl above said something really helpful, get a hobby, maybe something you like a lot, you will be busy and you'll enjoying it, you are learning something new everyday and being better on it, so trust on us, don't feel like your useless cuz nobody is, I see you are a good person who wanna be alive, just you don't know the reason and I felt like that in the past but I realized that I'm not useless and everyone has the same reason, enjoy life. Life isn't bored, you got a lot of stuff to learn and enjoy, you probably will know people toxic, criticizing in a bad way and hurting you but you must don't give a fk about them, cuz they're like you in these moments and they don't know how to handle with it.


Conclusion: Never give up, life is something you should enjoy, bad things will always happening but please, always think about the good things and also do good things for YOU and people. Big love  btw as the girl above My english isn't my first language but I hope you understand me 3


Life keeps getting worse and worse for me, first my constant unhappiness, abuse from relatives, loneliness and now this. My grandmother was diagnosed with alzheimer's, and I believe that slowly she will forget me and everyone else. She was the best grandmother in the world, and I just kept crying over the news.. i dont know what to do


My mother is of course very stressed, and I'm 100 sure that she will take it out on me at some point, by hitting me, screaming and calling me names. Didnt happen yet but I'm sure it will


I never had something like this happen to my family, so I don't know how to feel.


@ wholesome of the day! please help.. I'm scared and lost at this point


I'm sorry if I'm disturbing anyone by pinging


Amey thank you... I really don't know what to do at this point


Bby you're not I'm so so sorry this is happening. I wish I could help I really do. But don't think of the negative alright? I know it's hard but don't immediately expect the worse. Life is one huge circle and I know you and your family get through it.


Mar thank you..


Don't feel bad alright? Think of the happy memories you have


Okay..


Just spend your time with your grandmother! Be with her all the way till end...


I cant


That's the problem


She lives all the way in serbia


Then talk to her on calls


Neve to this point, I think you can help yourself and your family by being there for them, by trying to give them the feeling that you are there, no matter what it is. This time will be hard for you and your family but you can do this, it will be difficult and tiring but keep it up and stay together to help each other and you will see that can also handle this Problem when you keep together as a family.


Also feel free to DM me anytime, you arent disturbing any of us.


Try been with her...


Gisser okay..


She knows you love her you aren't losing her at all


Okay.. I'll try calling her


And there are such bad times...after then there are good times this cycle goes on thats how life works


If you give up on bad times then you can't see the sunrise of good things


The last time I heard her was when I was in my room, I just heard her crying and then mum came in and told me the news..


Hope we help you alittle


Yeah, thanks for listening..


Anytime!


It's just hard to think about


I get that, but it'll get better


Thank you all 3


I just need to talk it off my chest. So i have been in a relationship with a boy for 9 months and i recently broke up because i couldnt handle it anymore. He raped me almost every week but i didnt want to admit it so i told myself it was my fault and he made me think that its okay. But now every time i see him i get flashbacks and i cant breath, i cant sleep because i always dream about it. I already went to the police and i talked to my therapist about it but since i had the breakdown my depression got worse and i just dont want to live like this in my body anymore. thanks to everybody who took their time to read this, it means a lot to me3


@ wholesome of the day!


Please help them.


im sorry you had to be with such a cold and toxic person.


stay away from that man, dont talk to him, if you find him report him, just stay away from him. im hoping everything gets better for you, and well be here to support you


I am really sorry to hear that...it is really the worst thing in this world and you are small too...I hope you will fell better! If you need to talk or remove your anger on anyone feel free to dm me! Just stay away from him...


Jacquette im so sorry to hear that but if you could just stay away block him or if it gets worse just call the sxual assault is also the rape hotline hotline but if anything else bad happens to you, you can dm me if you want to talk about it but it's ok we're here for you


I don't understand why would even people do such things!


Istg if I see the person who hurt you I'm getting arrested. He's a sick person to use you in such a way. I'm really sorry this happened love. And I assure you once another person comes along they'll love you no matter what happened in your past. That wasn't your fault and I'm glad you were brave enough to speak up about it. You're a fantastic human being and deserve all of the love possible for you.


Omg i felt you very much


I have the same situation like you


And when my teachers recognized it, i quickly want to change bc i dont want to let my mom know im depressed


But its kinda hurt when you have to smile alone sometimes


Omg...I feel the same way every single day that it isn't even funny anymore. I feel your pain. I'm glad you said something though because your happiness matters just as much as others. It hurts to have to fake a smile a lot and just watch others go through things when you're hurting on the inside. It honestly feels like no one even cares to read your own story to notice that even if they're hurting you have it just as bad as everyone else.. Jesus Christ your story is freaking inspiring that I have no idea what to even say...


Ikr, when im 12 everyday I cried non stop and my stress are quite serious. But i just don't want to tell anybody because its hurt. Really hurt.


I am sorry for what you feel! I too think about it that way! But you see life us always unfair! It won't give you as many chances as it gives to cry! You see, making people smile us really good of you but sometimes you just can't make them smile! Don't worry for it too much...and stop overthinking it is a really bad killer! J3SS


Hope we help you somehow...


you guys just made my day tysm ily guys


We love you more!


@ wholesome of the day!


i'm sorry i have to hear all of that. if you're worried about your friends, you should talk to them and listen to their problems. i'm sure all of them have a reason to live, and same with you. as for your parents, it's best to take the free time you have to relax. if you rebel it's only going to make the situation worse.


and if you want to, you're always welcome to talk to me


it's a serious situation, and i only hope things get better for you


So, today my friends and I were playing a game. one of them started acting wired. She was saying some things about being used by friends. My other friend and I asked her if she was okay. She completely ignored the message. So I kept asking. She still completely ignored the question. Now I feel like she was talking me and my friend. I feel ashamed.


Thats sad to hear...maybe confront her? Tell her that you want an answer...if they ignore it theres ussualy something going om


I did. She never responded.


Ok bby I'm gonna be honest with you on this one, that's one neglectful mother. You really need nutrients and vitamins in order to live and function in virtual school. You'll never grow properly if you never eat. And having a mother that just ignores your concerns is really disappointing. I really wish I could help in any way possible I really do wish I could. I know you'd get through it though. Have you talked to your dad about what's been going on at home, and if he could offer any assistance? If you have a close connection with him you may want to reach out to him and see if he could possibly send you a few things. Tbh... I went through the exact same thing 2 years ago. Like my mom never did my laundry, cooked for me, fed me, helped groom my hair, that sort of thing. But we weren't virtual then so I kind of had to go to school that way and it made me embarrassed. But I do have my father to help now. I'm sure your father is willing to help you get there or talk with your mom about the issues going on. You're a strong individual I know you are, and you are going to get through it trust me. Don't let your mom, family, or friends crush any dreams you may have alright?


You can always vent here we don't mind at all


I have also been called a mistake by my mom... I havent talked to my dad that much... Because he knows most of the stuff that goes on during my life... And I am just afraid if I say something about it its just gonna make things worse... So I didnt want to talk about what I am going through... So I have had a rough life over the years of my terrible existence... I sometimes questioned... why am i even here if my mom doesnt want to take care of me but she takes care of my sister like she is the only child and i am just a burden towards her... I just feel... left out... and unwanted


Decapitator You really need to report your mom, if shes purposely ignoring you, starving you and disrupting your education, you cant let that keep going on. While yes, you may be scared to, itd be better than suffering with her any longer. You should definitely talk to your dad about this. This may sound a bit mean, unintentionally ofc, but being scared of doing this is just going to make it even worse, you should speak up now while you still can.


air hugs to the extreme Rose. Fashion sense doesnt define you, slowly you will find what you like and will see what makes you feel good. It took me awhile to find my own fashion sense it took till college to find something that felt like me. Also I dont want to ask questions about your best friend because I dont want you to hurt. There are a lot of things ppl are good at. Some can read books and can analyze things. Others can understand other ppls feelings and knows how to rechannel energy. It takes time to know what you are good at and its okay to not be super good at those things not everyone is. Your dad will always be there so dont worry. Sometimes its not laziness, maybe its stress or the environment that can make you feel like you cant study. You can try to create a different space, certain music to gather focus and just do 30/15 minute increments of study and breaks.


But anyways sending much love to you be safe as well and I hope that you know being sensitive is okay. I still sleep with plushies or pillows or just try to have my dog with me. Its normal so dont ever feel its something that you can grow out of cause..even 30 yr old marriage colleagues I have still need plushies to sleep with


Thank you so much


what the fawk


rosie, not having a talent that is considered a normal talent to society, is nothing to be ashamed about. you do not need to be able to do sports, draw, or anything to be talented, you are talented in your own way. maybe you are good at guessing plots? maybe you are very good at comforting people? maybe you have a thing for design, and you're very good at making stuff visually please? it can be anything, talents can take any form, and just because you can't use them daily, does not mean they do not count.


fashion sense, once again, is nothing to be ashamed of. dress however you want, frick everyone, you look good in anything you wear and you do not have to care about looking good every single day. though if you need help with figuring out your style, making outfits or anything like that, hmu, i like talking to people about their style of dressing and stuff:Dd


adding on, i am sorry for you, the best friend situation will definitely be rough at the start, but you will get over them, whoever it might be. they don't deserve you and never have deserved, do not let them influence you. you are your own person, and you have your own qualities. if they were stupid enough to replace you, frick them. you deserve better 3


if you ever need to talk, let out you feeling, whatever, i am always here for you and I am free to give you tips on school! stay put:


ive been in this toxic friendship for a long time


it was just fine until they started being extremely toxic


they never defend me


one of them literally sent innapropriate pictures and stuff to our groupchat knowing im uncomfortable


i cant say that one cause its pretty bad


they always talk bad about my other friends, making fun of them, etc


i asked one of them


what would you do if i left the friendgroup


i wouldnt do anything because its ur choice


yeah no


i left the friendgroup right now


i feel way way better than i did


i felt stuck


i was in the group for such a long time


i need to get this off my chest. i feel fake. i dont knwo how to explain it but, when i got demoted from mod in a server i went and told the person who demoted me how much i appreciated them and i got my job back. i feel like i didnt even actually mean that. i do appreciate her a lot now that we have gotten closer but i feel like then, i was just fake saying that to get my job back. i hate fake people and i dont wanna become one but i dont know what to do and its stressing me so much rn. i keep thinking am i fake? was that fake? i feel like theres someone else inside of me and i dont wanna be that part of me but it just comes out and i cant stop it..@ wholesome of the day!


it wasnt fake, im sure of it, you just wanted to thank the person for being there, it doesnt mean you yourself arent fake! Kenzie 3


sometimes it's on instinct, and that's okay. But I trust that it wasn't fake. But I'm not saying that it's okay to be fake. But you've learnt, and that's completely fine.


So uh. I have not slept in 3 days. And when I do sleep, its me passing out from exhaustion. I want to sleep but i cant. I wake up screaming at night from my nightmares and I... I just cant anymore. There is only one person who I feel safe, loved, and protected with but theyre busy and their wifi cuts out soon so they cant help me., there is my best friend but he is currently sleeping... and even if i do sleep in call with him. Yes i feel safe and all but i still get nightmares... or pass out in call with him and wake up an hour later not remembering if i fell asleep or passed out from exhaustion. i dont know if this is for this channel but yeah.. nothing helps btw.


@ wholesome of the day!


Tag me if you respond pls, i dont check if i dont get tagged


you can talk to us! and i suggest making a proper schedule and before dreaming watch/listen to something calming/inspiring so you get your mind away from potential nightmares shah.


I dont have anybody else to call with who makes me feel safe or who i trust to fall asleep in a call with. And ive tried those things, they dont work on me. I dont like calming music before sleep and stuff like that


maybe tell your parents about it? shah.


They dont care


And never will


No matter how much i try to explain to them


shah. Hii qt im really sorry to hear that but as much as the nightmares are haunting you, you still have to get your sleep. I would recommend listening to calming music or things you enjoy everyday for a few minutes before going to bed


woooshh


wooosh


go ahead


oh...


at least you're in a good mood then . I'm glad


WOOOSHHH


woooshhh


shah. you can talk to me!


give hugs


How do I talk to someone I haven't talked to in a while but I want them to text me first because I'm always the one that starts the conversation But they haven't been online for a while. But I feel like they dont care anymore


@ wholesome of the day!


bonk just a warm welcome will be good saying hello and that youve thought about them recently and wanted to check up on them and see how theyre doing with life


Thank you.


a nice welcoming hello should be fine. and asking about their day. if you haven't talked for a while hopefully you guys have a nice conversation now


ask what they have been doing lately


I came out too my mom today and she just scolds me for not being a Christian or apart of the christan belief just because of my strong bond with my hero Ivar The Boneless and because I'm a peguan and belive in the dark forms it can take. And that I belive in the seers. Just because i am me and she thinks shes better than me with her jesus talk and her crist is my savor she can trample on my relijn and how I am and my belifes. Just because shes a Saved Christan she thinks Christianity is above all relijns. Theres more too this world than her reljin and her jesus. There are things way be beond her control and mine. The belief of the old gods and there sacret ways. I'm just done with it in all honestly.


That's just...ok parents are honestly dumb sometimes ngl


Just because you aren't a Christian doesn't make you any less of a person than she is. Christianity has so many dumb rules that no one follows anyway, like being a sinner for getting tattoos and piercings. I mean we all believe in different stuff but at least we usually have faith in something, including ourselves. What kind of mother scolds their kid for believing something that is not in their control. At least you opened up smh


Parents just never understand


I dont want to be alone all the time. I want to be with someone. I can only imagine it with him, no one else. I dont rlly know. I tried to forget about him because of the things that his friend was telling me, but he just came back. And I still like him, he still makes me blush, even tho I deny it. @ wholesome of the day! Sowwy for ping


Hey, it's okay, did you try telling him you liked him?


bonk mhm, he knows


Does he like you back?


He didnt say yes or no himself exactly, but there are actions that he showed, I could talk about it more in dms


I think I ruined the friendship between my bff and I. I said I gtg I had to go do some hm yes on the weekends she asked me if I just wanted to go or had to go, and the dumb old me said both. So than we started fighting and I told her 1 thing before I left. I hope she thinks about it but I feel like our friendship is ruined.


mikachu it's best to just come out to him directly, so that you know for sure. just get ready for the rejection, and don't worry, we'll be there for you.


also sorry for pings, i just wanna make sure i'm addressing the right person


Thank you, and its ok


Could I talk to someone about it more in depth in dms


as for you annie, it's best not to overthink this. one small fight isn't gonna ruin a strong friendship. i'd say give it some time and talk to her a different day


The thing is.


apologize for what you said, and don't worry


Let things cool off


oh?


The past few days she been saying a lot and I mean a lot of wired things.


Like saying how fake some her friends are.


But yeah, apologize and make clear being rude wasnt at all your intention


It kinda started like she was talking a about me.


you shouldn't worry, if she disliked you she would start avoiding you


it's clear that the both of you just had a bad day, and you'll be able to make up soon


bonk sorry if this is kinda weird, but would u mind if I could talk about my problem to u more in depth, in dms? Just wondering;;


I dont want to be alone all the time. I want to be with someone. I can only imagine it with him, no one else. I dont rlly know. I tried to forget about him because of the things that his friend was telling me, but he just came back. And I still like him, he still makes me blush, even tho I deny it.


mikachu Understandable. But trust me if he doesn't like you it's his loss love. I felt the exact same way about an ex of mine and it hurts a lot, but someone else will come along. You aren't alone bby