if you dont tell someone then it could escalate, and he could be doing this to other people who are scared too


Honestly, a person like that deserves to get in serious trouble


It seems harsh but wouldnt the best way would be to ignore and move on?..


I had same kind of thing in the past ignoring doesnt change much but at least you stop gettin in more trouble..


well...I could try but Im afraid Ill be all alone again because Im not the greatest at making friends


Everyone's situations are different I guess


Yeah.. sorry for suggesting that


if I were you I would tell my parents I am getting bullied since you have strict parents but if they ask who it is just wish the best for urself


Im a bit nervous to tell them but i will try my best because I dont want him to do this to anyone else


Do you have any close family members that wont contact your family when you tell them stuff and you can trust?


Not really


Ive not close with any of my family members


do you have a sister?


Yes


try and talk to her


Okay


I feel like that will work because even if I dont talk to her much I know she will listen


Jusst a question maybe not important at all, do you go to a local school or one of those private ones?


Depending on the school they don't care as much


Local


Mm


Then nevermind what I just asked, go on


Every school is different with it, too


I know but private ones are a little like the student is another client of ours too


if no one does anything about it then your last option would be to contact the police but as a last resort


if he threatens your life though, tell the police immediately


And don't care about the students at all ffs..


yoonchigga


Thank you for helping me


I actually feel a bit more confident to tell someone about this


I will probably tell my school as they are a bit strict when it come to students and Im sure they will take this seriously


Yeah.. you're right dawn


Denzqi


Well.. It's my first time here qwq


I'm sorry to be that person, but police cannot/don't do a lot about bullying


@ it really depends on where you live. police in my area are ready to step in always


Denzqi same im trying to get used to here


if it becomes violent to the point your life is being threatened then police are needed


I want to be able to help people, that's the reason of my living tbh, not for myself at all


Just know if a fake friend threatens you, stand up for yourself. Reach out for a non fake friend. Or your parents.


why


are you expiriencing neck pain?


no


im just lonely depressed and i feel like a nobody that no one loves and wants


maybe that's true?


but you don't have to die because of it


ok


plus why do you even want to be loved and wanted so much


because nobody cares about me and everyone that i try to meet they say go kys and i want to be loved because idk how it feels to be loved or wanted


idek what love is


go onto dating app and make a profile and go meet random people your age


idk if that will work


why?


well first off im ugly 2nd of all i get nervous around girls so yeah


it's not all about looks


with the nervous idk


i dont even know what to say to a girl when i first meet her


say


hi


then she says hi


then say idk


go of the top of your head


idk


say who is your favourite you tuber


that's a good conversation starter


It actually is


you should try it


ok


thnx i guess


yeah


no problem


Good advice...


If anyone feels the need to talk about there problems I am completely willing to help out


same


ill copy paste something i told foxy


foxy/desty


Go ahead


That's a lot of text but let's see...


First no school doesn't only have homework and loneliness


Trust me


Do you have any friends? Irl? Neve


If yes then I'd suggest you spend more time with them and if no then I'd suggest you to... Try to make some... Even if it means waiting another 28 days... Just look please have patience and please endure those 28 days till school


Believe me I used to be like you when I was in quarantine I even used to sit in the corner and feel like I was the most miserable human being alive but... After I got out of quarantine and was forced to go to high school I met some really cool people


Also about your parents... Please try to report them or do something about them


Tell them that you are feeling this way


If they hit you please tell the school or tell an adult


You don't have to endure this


And the fact that you tried seeking therapy... Please if you don't tell the school the full story they won't be able to help you


Tell them everything... Like I said you don't deserve all of this...


Also crying acts as a natural pain killer so you are feeling pain and I think that you actually have ptsd from your parents...


I've lived with it my entire life


I actually thought it was normal


My friends think I'm seriously depressed


I dont want to admit it


And I cant self diagnose


What do you think is normal?


Getting abused?


My parents hitting me when I look at then the wrong way


Emotionally mentally and physically?


Your parents need serious help and you need help too


My dad is fine


My mum is the problem


Yeah moms are 50 more likely to abuse their kids


The more you know


My mum once locked me in the bathroom with her because I told her I brushed my teeth and she thought I was lying


I was so terrified


um


Not really


She seems fine to mw


Me


She never drinks


All she does to me is in her normal state of mind


I wonder what she would do if you added drinking to it


YOU NOTICE THAT'S WORSE THAN BEING AN ALCOHOLIC, RIGHT?


Dude


From one abused kid to another


Get help


Get the cops


Also if you have bruises or cuts from them then show the school


Show the cops


Show everyone!


Some people don't deserve kids.


I dont..


She just spanks me


So I have no proof


Spank you?


Welp tell her if you were a dog would she still hit you?


I bet she believes in antivax propaganda


Just get adult help


Talk to your grandma


Grandparents are in serbia


Yeah


Talk to any family member with enough brain to understand how messed up this is


You know there's something wrong when you're drawing pictures of you dying


There's something seriously wrong with me


I legit draw pictures of me killing myself


There is something wrong with me


I seriously need to get help


I'm glad you understand


Just get professionnel help or adult help


End of talk


Okay


Thanks for the advice


No problem


I have ptsd


I hate it and I hate going for therapy


@ hello! Tysm I feel like this everyday but I'm willing to change but I have to endure another 2530 days of pain;


Ram aw, I don't know how to help I suck at giving advice but I hope you feel better soon, therapy can help you;,


Ram well do you want to suddenly start crying and sweating in school or work after remembering a bad memory?


that's abuse


this is what i mean people experience bigger problems than mine im being a crybaby with my big deal problems


stay safe delighted


delighted Im so sorry this is happening I too had to put up with abuse for most of my childhood from our own dad. You need to tell someone so he doesnt hurt you anyone things wont get better unless you do he cant do that to you or your mother. Please be safe and stay strong dont give up just yet


Neve just because someone has it worse than you doesn't make your problems any less important.


delighted call the police


Call the freaking cops.


Akiro please dont be rude no matter what it is being rude isnt the right thing here this is a caring place for advice and venting safe place for people so please edit your message


Oh Abi this doesn't make sense


Like


If what they said was true then they're the most ignorant person in the world


I wont repeat it again since I dont want any problems please dont be rude no matter what the situation is being rude isnt the right thing here this is a caring place for advice and venting safe place for people so please edit your message


Its very simple thank you


Happy?


Done


But I won't tolerate any trolls here.


They made someone feel like their problems are nothing


And this is not nice.


Okay so what if theyre not trolling


it wouldnt be their intention to


That's what I said


if the other person feels that way its their negativity winning and in that case they need to talk to someone and vent so they can get help and know theyre worth


doesnt mean you should be downright be rude to the other person


That's why they come to venting


it gives you no right too


We all have our different problems


I won't stretch this conversation any further.


and thats why the first person came to vent


now idk what just happened and who ur talking about


We didn't want this to turn into a bigger problem so we deleted the messages.


If only I would be able to get a proper job, then when I have got enough, I will be able to move out, but the requirements keeps on demanding me to get Metric History that is not necessary for programmers like me. The reason why for a proper job is so that I can live independently without my parents spreading rumours lies about me, and due to my passion of programming I know I am a nerd.


but my parents would just make things worse, no matter what.


Maybe try freelancing?


Get some projects done so when they ask you if you have past experience then just show them the projects that you worked on


Like in future interviews


Also you're not a nerd you're cool


Freelancing you say? Sounds like a plan.


Thank you for calling me cool.


No problem dude


I need to talk to someone


My hands are shaking


Im not valid


Who says u arent?


Me


Every emotion in my body


Every thought in my mind


I can feel and hear them all


And they all hate me all of me hates me


Do you feel panicked?


I feel panicked and calm


Its shaking from side to side like a metronome


Is that how you spell it?


Choose one to act as first c:


it's your's too choose c:


I cant even figure that out


I cant


I feel them both


I cant choose


Its all happening at once


Hey bb, please please please calm down! You matter okay? Try to think positively no matter what obstacles youre facing. Your emotions matter, your mind and soul matters, it is best to move on from the toxic people who hurt you, take deep breaths and remember that you need to calm down and if you cant think, just write down how you feel, then crumble it up and say this is how I feel about this and this”


I cant move on from myself


I know how you feel really, the thing I do might not work for you but it's not a waste of time to try it c:


Are you okay?


I hope you feel better


Im not ok


I can literally feel everything


Try, just try


Its never ending


All of the emotions at once


I feel like im gonna pass out


Yet I feel so awake


Its nit stoping at all


Its endless and it filling my mind


Try to move on and please take deep breaths :


Its just wont stop


pat pat please calm down for a second


I cant take deep breaths


Wow such a poet, no jk, and all joke asides, you matter ok bb?


I dont matter


Have you ever wondered why, you feel this way?


I know why


But I dont how to stop it all


Then what is it


Toi much to list


I cant even remember anything from below 10 years old anymore


You are strong enough to choose a way if you're clever enough to know everything you are feeling at the same time


Do you know anything to help?


Just know that you do matter


And you are an amazing person I'm sure


Demzqi I cant choose a way


Im not amazing


Then what are you?


Who is amazing then?:c


I am just atoms


You're not the only one that is feeling this way. You can connect to people that have felt. Do you know anyone that has?


Atoms forming the parts for a carbon based life form


And despite all those atoms effort


Im not even good enough for tham


I dont know anyone that feels like this


There are people who do I know that


I dont know anyone who does


I cant talk to anyonw who understand it


Do you think you are the worst person in the world?


Then why, do you feel this way?


You might not be the greatest, and you are surely not the worst


Its nit just self hate


I'm not the greatest either


Its everything


I keep saying it. Its EVERYTHING


Are you confused?


Literally everything


Every emotion


Self hate, wow, I've felt selfhate too


I'm pretty sure I've muttered to myself that I wanted to die


everyone must've felt that way in their lifetime


Its not just that


but loving at the same time


I am feeling it all at the same time


Fear


Happiness


Saddness


Pain


Panic


Calm


Its keeps cycling between them all and combining them


Yes


You aren't calm. You're confused


Of course I am


Do you want to feel just one thing?


People can have mixed emotions


I want to feel one at a time


But I cant


Wanna try to listen to some music?


Its either nothing or everything


Yeah


I am


It doesnt work


It usually effects the way you feel


Relax..


I cant


Just focus or even sing


Do you want to go to a doctor?


My dad keeps prolonging it


Everyome keeps prolonging it all


Nobody wants to know my problems


I keep being left to rot


Who is everyone?


Being told im confused


Being told I dont know how I feel


Being told taht IM wrong


And thats not how I feel


I cant keep taking it all


So you aren't confused?


I am and Im not at the same time


I don't think that they don't want to know


I u derstand some things


Are you just in denial?


But at the same time others I dont


Denzqi my mother and father have denied me seeing a doctor since I was 8


Why is that?


I had hallucinations and psychedellic attacks and anxiety


I dont know


Do you have any drugs/medicine?


Do you hate your parents?


I dont hate them at all


I dont have medicine


Or drugs


Nothing


You are 1516 right?


Yes


Drugs are medicine just in american way


You're in high school?


Do you feel like you need a friend to tell your stuff too?


This may be due to stress then


Did you bottle it up too much?


Have you been stressed lately?


Bottled up your feelings


My friend dont help


I tell them not too


I know


I dont like pushing my problems on others


But do you have a feel to tell


mm..


I dont know what this feeling even is


But right now


The main one I am feeling that is the strongest


Im scared


Im absolutely terrified


Yet at the same time I am familiar to this


Are you scared of the mess in your mind?


Im scared of my own emotions


So


Oh


Do you need a reasoning?


I have one


Right now cant you see


I am literalky being torn apart by my own emotions


SO YOUR FEAR, IS FEAR?


Not just fear


Arent you listening


YES I WAS


I keep saying


but I'm focusing on the emotion fear right now


Its more than that


I know you're scared of emotions


No you dont


Then get torn apart and live again like the phoneix legend


I cany


I do that everyday


I hurt more and more each time


Are you getting any professional help by any chance Nico?


so are you saying I don't want to help you?


No


Im not


I have said this


No Im not


There are too many people too many emotions too much thoughts


My mind is tearing itself apart


I recommend you do get professional help to sort out your emotions, because it's quite serious


I cant


My parents keep prolonging it


You can, there's always people to help


And they dont velieve doctors


They dont want me ro get help


Do you believe doctors?


They think they can help me


I do


They are my last hope


So why not walk to the doctors one day after school or something?


Psychiatrists and therapists


Because mental health is very important


My dad wont let me


You are typing right now correct?


Yes


On aphone or computer?


Nico Maybe they're trying to make you stronger by making you let it deal with yourself on the other hand


Phone


You can call a phoneline


text


Call a doctor or ophonline


Someone can help you


There


Anything at all


At least try


The phoneline people can help you, or at the very least know you're not okay


I cant take all this


Yeah it's anoying really


I know it


Your parents not helping obviously makes it even worse


I just cant do this all


Why don't you tell them, what you are saying right now? Or have you tried


I cant handle it all


I have tried


Okay


I get yelled at


That's good


that you tried


Why dont you forget then?


At least


I cant forget ut


I tried forgetting


It doesnt work


You need to believe in yourself


Whether they believe doctors can help or not, sooner or later medical professionals will come into this and take you away or worse, an asylum.


I cant


So doctors are inevitably going to be involed


It's just a matter of time


I know that may happen


I KNOW


I cant keep doing this anymore


I get close to jumping out my window every second I feel this way


I just cant take it anymore


It keeps hurting


It wont stop ni matter how hard I try


The stress just keeps boiling up


Peoppe tell me I am going to be ok


They never say how


I dont have any hope


No offense to your parents, but just how ignorant are they for not realising their own child needs serious help?


I have nothing on my mind that is proof itll be ok


They know I do


They just don't believe in science


My dad knwos im suicidal he took my sword props because of it


He literalky told me he thinks Im suicidal


Same with my mother


Yet THEY WONT HELP


They thi k They can do it all


They think it's easy to cure


They put their mind and sanity before mine


Pfft


How typical


They think its my head


They think ik lying


I cant keep doing this


I just want to die


I just want to let it all go


I do t want go feel this way


Yet I know


Oh how typical of people these days, thinking it's all in your head


Omce I sleep and wake up


I wont feel again


Ill feel emoty


Then ill miss this feeling i am having


But I know ill hate it again


Its a neverending cycle


My life is what my dad calls the definition of insanoty


Yeah, helping is harder than assuming things right?


Doing the same thing over and over knowing the outcome yet doing ut anyway


Indeed


I cant do it all


It wont stop


Can I just say something?


Depression is like that.


Once you're done being sad, you'll miss the feeling.


Then you'll go back being sad again and you'll hate the feeling


Its nit just saddness


Depression is hard to explain really


I keep telling everyone


But it is a constant cycle of in and out


Its more than that


Much more


I am feeling it all


I cant keeo doing it


I didn't say you weren't feeling just sadness


Yet you keep acting liek I can just puck a feeling


You and that other person


Keep acting as if I can choose


I cant


Its all combined


My mind is non stop


Its liek its releasing every chemical it can


Endorphins


Seratonin


Dopamine


Melatonin


Qnd all others


I'm no doctor, but this is the highest level of depression here


Mm.. same


it couldn't be any clearer that doctors are needed


I agree


To the extreme that it would result in asylum


I dont want to feel but I dont want to feel nothing


Yet I know I will never get to the imbatween


Do you have any family member you can contact about it? other than your parents because I see that they're not really being helpful


You will, you just need someone to help you and professionals


Yes anyone to contact


Even if it's to bring the ambulance or police over


Cause it's very serious


Once they see your condition they'll know what to do


Have you ever showed your parents your anger about this situation, that they're not taking you to anywhere?


I dont want to feel nothing again


But I dont want to feel this


I cant even cry anymore


I physically cant cry


Again, I feel it's necessary to call the Police or paramedics on this one


Yeah that's the point


It's gotten to the point where the parents won't even try


And thats all I have left


Who cares what people think, what matters is your health


What is the meaning of the word family when they're not helping you?


Does it matter if they hate you at this situation?


If they hate you for taking car eof yourself or trying, then you don't need them


Exactly


I dont even know anymore


You have to think about yourself in this situation


Not worry about what others think


I'm so mad at those


Im slipping away


I dont want to feel nothing


I dont even know what I want to feel


So why care about what others feel if you don't know what to feel?


I dont know


mmhm


You don't even know how you feel right now


So why would it matter what they feel?


I just


Its fine


It's not fine


Its over now


It seems like a mere lie


You said several suicide sentences in less than an hour


That's not fine


You have to use the time now to take action, before you feel not fine


I said its fine


Just leave it ok


We just cant leave you like that too


My dad knwos im suicidal he took my sword props because of it


He literalky told me he thinks Im suicidal


Same with my mother


Yet THEY WONT HELP


They thi k They can do it all


That's your definition of fine?


Its fine Loco


Just keep yourself happy


MMM I don't know about that


Just don't do anything that'll harm you


Ok


No im fine Denzqi


You are fine now


Yea


So is your solution to wait it out?


Fair enough


Maybe


Im back at nothing


So I think im fine


If that's a solution, knowing I've suffered from mild depression before


It's peaceful at least


it's only a matter of time before it comes back


Like the eye in a cyclone


I know


mm.. same


PEaceful for now, then bad again


Mild depression was terrible, I can't imagine what chronic depression is like


yeah...


At least we can try to help them out of it


eventually leading to medical help or just feeling better


Yes you all did a good job


Here have some cookies


Hopefully in the future, medical help comes along


c:


even though not thinking of a solution seems wrong I dont think it is right either


reminding yourself of the things you hate


Hey guys one of you take the cookies


having another problem to deal with


I don't pick up ground cookies


...ok ill send then in chat


Oop


There we go


There


i guess ima just kms


sooo good bye forever ppl


good bye


Ram well do you want to suddenly start crying and sweating in school or work after remembering a bad memory?


Akiro


I


No


Ram then go to therapy


have you been able to get in contact with anyone? maybe when school starts. as for your dad, is there anything you can do to make him take you seriously?


Neve


Sap hii thanks for the message I like to draw and I also like to play with my dog I play the piano too and I like to sing and bake. I don't know what I could do to make my dad take me seriously.. he thinks it's a phase;


I still do feel emotions ofc but I hide them.. so I kind of have a poker face all the time;


Right now I feel tired.. not exactly happy


oi oi, no need for a poker face silly. at least not here. think of it this way, Sayu and all these other servers are for joy and support.


if you're tired, please rest?


okay.. I just don't know what to do at this point..


I need to wait for school to start


x.x I had a migraine earlier today, and dear snowpaws, have frosting. I slept all day.


aw


its noon right now


as for your dad, do you know things that he take seriously?


I woke up at 9am but I slept at 3am


Oh


oop, xd right. UK.


I'm not sure


No it's like almost 1pm noon as in 12:47


I'm one hour in front of the UK


My dad.. I think the only way he'll take it seriously is if the guidance teacher tells him or some professional or something


also its alright


by now you have 2830 days you said?


yep


my mum was talking about me and now im scared


all i understood was basically that my phone isn't my private space which it, is idk why it can't be


i also understood that she is gonna finish business with me


im just scared.


it's giving a bad feeling to my stomach.


Hm


Relax


Keep up your guard


And stay close to something that can block either a knife or a gun if you have in your house


Also lock your phone


Stay close to a potential weapon and put a chair near the door so you can only open the door a lil bit Neve


And if she pushes the door the chair would stop it


quit.


My sister hates me, we dont have a bond but thank you.


Not exactly, but when I talk to her she says leave me alone! I hate you! None of ur business! And she hits me any chance she gets.


Maybe you should tell your parents about that and tell them that you wanna spend time with her


Look it all depends on the way you're talking and the way you feel towards her


Try to be the sweetest person she'll ever meet for a week at least


Don't take any of her insults to heart


Also how old is she?


I'm guessing 1214


Wha


Wtf


She might be cranky because that's when puberty hits most people


Akiro


school is starting tomorrow and Im not ready for it


quit. well then um still try to be besties with her please... Sometimes I wish I spent time with my own sister more... I haven't seen her in person in 2 years... so please spend a lil more time with her


I will


Meowchii that's what I was thinking when I was getting in high school 7 days ago but then I just minded my own business, focused on the teacher and bam! The whole class likes me! Works like a charm so don't worry just focus on learning not making new friends


alright, thanks


last night i slept only 4 hours not really a vent.. just saying:c


Aww that's alright


Sometimes when I help people here I feel like... Who am I to give people advice? Who am I to help people fix something in their lives when my life is utter chaos... Idk those thoughts come and go in my head...


because you know how they feel, your helping other people


its not wrong to ask for help for yourself from those people youve helped


theres some point where youll say'today was a tough day' and they'd probably respond with' forreal' when you let them pour your heart out and they didnt show any sign of being caring the same way you did


those people shouldnt base how you feel about yourself, you can give good advice because other than seeing it youve probably experienced it. its better to have someone whose experienced a specific situation rather than skimmed across the situation and made poor assumptions on the way said person felt.


your a good person to give someone advice because you know how it feels. its all your choice to try to fix how they feel, you arent forced to all the time all because you have the role


Be yourself! Go with the flow and then theres Be who you want to be! Follow you're dreams.


I don't understand.. You wanted me to be myself, now you want me to be who I want to, what if i don't want to be myself? Heck, I don't even know who I am, I change so often. What is wrong with me? Is it my fault? Is it my surroundings? I want to stick to an identity, why, why can't I pick? What if I wanna be myself one day then someone else the other? Is that the reason people get tired of me and ignore me? Is it really my fault? Why can't I just stop being such an outcast and stick to something!


@ wholesome of the day!


it's not your fault, your not alone. it's okay to feel that way. i honestly got out of being plain sad for a while and was talking to a friend about wht to do. she said just be yourself and have fun! then it hit me, i had no idea who i was. literally, so many people feel this way and get lost. it's completely okay. sometimes u need somewhere to vent. there will always be someone there; whether it's your parents, your friends, a therapist, online friends, or even your pets! you can write about how your whole day went and what you want to change. the only way you'll change is it you step out of your comfort zone. if you don't like who u are, change it. if you don't know who u are, go find it! do different things. i know it'll be hard, but i promise once you get out there you won't regret it. you do you, and what you feel is right


Thank you, it's a rough journey, I really thought I found myself before; A heterosexual female, into girly stuff. That's what I thought every female had to be, I slowly started to figure out that I could really be whoever I wanted, reality hit me hard and now I can't understand who I am, I plan on doing my very best, thank you for your advice, it means alot I wish you all the best, thank you.


Akiro try not to focus on that, think about the good your doing! Even if it's hard to give advice sometimes and your going through something your self maybe you can try to take your own advice? don't worry I can't do that sometimes or get help from someone else!


Anyone here have any ideas how to make me calm from crying?


im a potato555 0 try to search some meme, or playing some games you like.. 4


tabioca It is normal to question your own existence and to think that life doesn't seem real. And perhaps to investigate philosophers who have done the same. The branch of philosophy that deals with questions of knowing and reality is called metaphysics.


Also don't worry we're happy for how you turned out as a person


At the end you're one in trillions of other that tried to get born but you finished the race first and became who you are today


oh wow.. thanks so much for that, I didnt even know how much I needed to hear it still, its kind of frustrating barely knowing really anything about whats life is, but Im glad to know Im not alone on that c:


Venting? Nope, not gonna do that and I will never.


Life just pushes us into this world with no instructions or what our purpose is, so just make up your own rules and purpose as long as you don't hurt anyone.


Your best friend isn't her fault, it was never going to be your fault, relapse is a part of recovery and no matter what you are strong and amazing and never deserve any type of pain, it's ok to hurt and let out your emotions and there will always be people that are proud of you


Aikashi here you go


I am losing a lot of friends, sleep and i dont even feel like eating anymore I dont rlly know whats happenin to me at this point rn, I am trying to attend school, but I really cant due to my sickness of me getting viral infection it isnt corona or anything , a lot of my friends are hating me because im leaving them alone in school. Whenever im trying to explain what happen, they always ignore me.. idk what to even do anymore.


Molly 3 I understand how you feel, And my DMs are forever open so please DM me if you need help, because I assure you I can help.


Smol vent, so I watched that video” I guess I could say it was traumatizing? I watched it at night so I couldnt really sleep.. when I was able to sleep I only got like 21 hours. and I saw a comment saying it could decrease mental health when someone sees that person k!/ing themselves? Ion know if thats tru


What did you watch?


Molly 3 it's okay it's actually good that those fakers are leaving you, real friends will stick with you and whatever you do they will find an excuse for it so don't worry just focus on school please and don't even try to explain yourself to the ones who can't handle you just explain yourself to the ones who really matter.


Akiro there was a livestream on fb of a man with a shotgun commiting nono but it went viral and people keep reposting it on tiktok and other platforms I think, theres also when someone puts something cute then it shows the gorey part of the stream


You mean the mosque shooting?


In new Zealand?


Hmm


I'm interested


If you have a link please send it to me


Yes I'm messed up


It's just satisfying to see people get shot


I aint sending anyone a link


I didnt see it on tiktok,I saw it on insta


I will just say the important things


In a few months ago i had a big crush on someone is pretending he's a boy, but when i joined her server i just got a big disappointment when i knew she's a female and i tried to avoid that and perhaps i had crush on her again and i asked to hang out but...she didn't told me she'd be dating someone and i just get into a deep depression and I'm still so damn sad then she started ignoring my messages


Ive seen it also. Its really messed up Akiro


Davthewolfy just know that she's feeling even more shame and guilt than you are feeling depressed, she knows she's a faker and she knows what she did was bad that's why she doesn't have the confidence to text you.


I'm really sorry that you had to go through this... But don't worry, there are plenty of fish in the sea and occasionally you might get a catfish and that's fine they don't deserve you thinking about them.


Just know that this is just another online troll.


So, this might be a bit silly but, I used to have a friend I played with in Minecraft in 2014, we always played on a prison server and had tons of fun, but then she disappeared one day and I still cant stop thinking about it. I dont want to forget her but I dont want to cry either, I honestly have no idea what to do but I hope I can meet her again someday. You dont have to reply to this as I said it was silly.


She's probably out or has no time to play currently, next time when she's back at least ask her discord or insta or etc


My discord friend once disappeared without a trace for a year and a half


Then he accidentally found me and we were happy


So there's hope ram one day they'll come back


Akiro bro i just wish i didn't meet her friends to tell me that


Davthewolfy yeah makes sense, a spineless coward like her would never tell the truth.


@ and that's why you don't join dating servers and servers with low moderation also I'm sorry that happened to you before.


wow


just tell everyone that the rumor is fake


e well step one is to ignore everything they say and treat them like barking dogs in the streat


Step 2 is to report that person that threatened you to the police or YouTube


Step 3 turn off your comment section.


That is if you are on YouTube


And then when I'm in 1st year of high school I now understand the feeling that I felt when I was a kid they said it's'depression' but for me I don't think I have those because y'know, I don't wanna be those people who'll only live in the darkness but I think not, even I is getting sucked up by the darkness they're saying, little by little the pain inside of me is getting worse. I am still getting bullied at school but I just ignore those and pretend nothing has happened.


I even left my friend because I was so down that I can't even control my anger and put it into someone that I don't even know.


And until rn


I'm still feeling down


But I don't wanna hurt people anymore so I try not to feel down.


That's all


Goodbye.


Sorry for the bad grammar


@ wholesome of the day!


Don't worry! Sometimes it feels as your hurting others even when you try your best not too!


Just try your best to be the best person you can! Everyone has flaws and makes mistakes


Maybe try to watch a show or take a nap to feel better? Ik that this won't be much but


Even when you think you might be hurting someone it's probably bc they feel down themselves try talking to them! Always be the best you can be, don't let others tell you otherwise


Try to feel happy by doing the stuff you love and enjoy!


All love is sent your way


Also it's like morning now so in tired hope this helps!


i can i understand exactly how u felt back then because i used to make fun of and was nervous and asked the same question'are they talking bout me?' I was made fun of mainly cuz of skin issues and stuff. But a tip you should always stand up to them u shouldnt let them get you down. Look into the people who love you, and the sweet people that makes you happy! Ans we all go thru these kind of things at least once throughout our life. Like i told so many people bout ugliness, it doesn't matter to me. What should they think about is your personality, which is important. and you have a kind, and amazing personaity that i met in chat.


Just be happy! don't be down. You've got to tell yourself you are an amazing, sweet, kind person.


sry for bad grammar n stuff


Thank you all for making me feel good, it really means so much to me, I don't deserve this kind of thing so I'm really really grateful that you guys notice my vent in here so I wish you all a good life and hope you all are doing well!


ilym Tolliver


. I wanted to try and relate to you so you wouldn't feel alone.


Christos you know... I understand how terrible being bullied is and I have a way of feeling better even if you are getting bullied... You need to understand the bully and why they are hurting you... When you come to the realization that they are just reflecting the household they live in on other students you start to actually understand them... So please don't feel bad that they are bullying you... Feel bad that they are bullying in general... If we can read the secret history of our enemies, we can find in them enough sarrow and suffering to disarm all of our hostility.


Henry Longfellow.


You can either understand them or avoid them at all costs


Aldin you know... I understand how terrible being bullied is and I have a way of feeling better even if you are getting bullied... You need to understand the bully and why they are hurting you... When you come to the realization that they are just reflecting the household they live in on other students you start to actually understand them... So please don't feel bad that they are bullying you... Feel bad that they are bullying in general... If we can read the secret history of our enemies, we can find in them enough sarrow and suffering to disarm all of our hostility.


Akiro yes ty and I understand


You know I used to get bullied like hell from a kid when I was in elementary school but after I saw their house... Their food... Their living conditions in general... I became actually their best friend...


They stopped bullying for good after I understood them and talked to them about it later when we were older


But it's better for you to just ignore them and avoid them at all costs


Aw.. so sad..


Sad


Aoi just know that they are in a better place and that one of your dogs got a meal.


I hope you're feeling better..


But hey.


You can find a new pet ?


im sorry for the loss


But all i can do is hug you becus i have no experience whatsoever


I was away from home so I didnt know, When I got home my brothers girlfriend told me that he died


i


aw


Im just in Discord


thank you


No problem


Aoi make sure to find things that are fun so you can at least distract yourself a bit


alright


ty


I feel you man.. Aoi


If you don't feel any agression try to forget aight?..


It's hard ik


I dont feel anything but just sadness


alright then


aWe cRap hERe wE gO agAin, I'm sorry I vent way too much, I think it's the fact quarantine came around and I can't really do my dailies which drives me slowly insane but,


A toy in the back of the shelf wanting attention, that's me, I feel so selfish is it the feeling of jealously? Or am I really being left out of everything. And I the second option? Or the last? I tip over to atleast get a look at but no matter what I do they ignore me, is it I am not loud enough? Or is it I'm too loud? Is it because I have too much flaws? Why do I feel like I never get treated the way I use to. I feel thrown away. It's like the are trying to sell me off, introducing me to their new friends. But never hanging out with us together. I get it, I'm a thrown out rag doll aren't I? If so.. Why don't I atleast get replies from people. It's like they ignore me. They immediately go offline when I text them.. Why would I text you if I knew you weren't online? Is it something they want from me? Am I supposed to be a Barbie? Instead I'm a cheaper thrown out doll, wanting to be stitched up with tons of happiness. I want to get rid of the empty feeling inside, nothing I do is never enough is it? I feel so selfish.


@ wholesome of the day!


Aww.. i know it hurt.. but, cheer up! You'll find someone who can make you feel happy


You will find it. Don't give up!


Thank you.


the fact you feel that way is not your fault, you aren't selfish, or to loud, or not loud enough. True friends should never make you feel like a thrown out toy with no worth, cause in reality you're so much more than that but yet you can't see it, because you don't have the right people in your life to let you see that. I'm sure you'll meet some friends who will make you feel your worth, cause you really seem like an amazing person who doesn't deserve to feel this way, I have faith in you


The thing is I know it's not my friends, they are supportive of everything I do. Is it the mindset I wake up in? I feel so selfish like I'm shifting the blame on them when they are really supportive and It hurts.


the mindset you wake up in isn't your fault and you shouldn't be expected to control it, you aren't selfish at all and the best thing to do is express your emotions and let the ones who mean the most to you hear about your pain and concerns, instead of bottling up the things that are really hurting you


Will do, thank you guys a ton.


anytime you need help my dms are open


istu well first you have to not ask for attention, second don't try too hard, third be interesting not saying you're not interesting, forth... No you're not selfish, humans are social creatures they like to be noticed so it's just natural instincts so don't be harsh on yourself and have patience.


I wanna meet my more than friend but I can't because he lives so far away


oof.


I would say that I can relate?


But its a bit too late to say that I guess.


oooF


I can defo relate


I could relate but honestly idk now


My childhood friend found himself a toxic possessive girlfriend online and I have no idea what to do. She doesnt let him talk to me and hes been really distant ever since. I just want my old friend back. I knew him for so long and letting him go because of this just... I dont know. Someone please help me. I know you are all going to think Im lame or something but I really need advice.


aw.. must be hurt, but hey! keep strong! someday you'll find your own happiness.


yea


sometimes people arent meant for u


its not always meant to be


youre always gonna be something to someone and that someone is gonna know you have worth to them, its a little bit hard to grasp that fact but some people cant really show affection but its possible i promise u that


it might be hard to believe but people care and people dont


its just how the world is and always has been


a human is a human, no matter what qualities. you can feel lesser than what that girl is but in no way could someone be better than something of the same specimen


Just because someone left you for another one that doesnt mean your worth changes. I prefer to drop that person, theyll know what theyre missing once they break up with their current partner. Your worth will never change, dont let a mf make you think you changed. I hope that guy comes to his senses and knows what he did wrong. Lord how people get blinded with supposed love”.


and maybe that person didnt like u


sad truth


maybe they found someone more interesting to talk to


but sweetheart dont think that your not worth anything to anyone


they werent right for u and thats okay : its a painful process i know


Thanks everyone


i feel like i dont fit in anywhere. this past week, all of my friends have been hanging out with their own friend groups and i have nobody else to talk to. my friends would hang out by themselves and never invite me, saying, oh we thought you were gonna be busy that day i feel like they are leaving me out on purpose. what should i do?


@ wholesome of the day!


Awe, you should maybe try to be more social? Find more friends! Get out of that comfort zone and find new things to do, just be more social and drop your friends if they continue this type of behavior. Its clear enough now to you and to everyone that they are they to distance themselves from you. You can ask whats up and if they dont give you a response then leave, just drop them. Find new more people itll be much more better


ive had that problem with my friend group as well, honestly it only hurt me more to be with them. i recommend going to discord or other socials to find a new friend group to socialize with. but i wouldnt worry trying to find a group right now, its a pandemic and people might not be about to go outside. you should focus on yourself and self love


ty ill try that


Hello?


saduglyroach this is the venting channel, go to chat to talk


my screen cracked and im really afraid my mom will punish me really bad and i can't handle the pressure anymore


Today my work friend will call J and Me will just call me Ivar ig.


So J got fired today for some bull. And I was p hes one of the hardest workers there and they just do this s. But I was p off so much I was shaking so bad. Then the f assistant manager came up to me all happy and s she just fired someome will just call her Karen. If you dont get the reference dont ask. But Karens like So where down a cart person so your gonna have to pull extra hours! And I lost my stuff. I'm working my a off and do everything im told and i was like you know what f this s I'm done. She started talking to me like I'm a f kindergartener and I said you know what. F you Karen. F this store. F this walky. And F your money. And ripped off my vest trough it on the floor ripped off the walky same with the vest and the mask and got my ciggrettes went up stairs and dumb follows me. Im trying to get my s and leave but shes gotta follow me like a little lost puppy. And then she gets the manager and comes out to me and hes like You cant be acting like that in my store and stuff. And i try to explain to him that she fired the only person who was trying to help me and train me in carts and she fired him. I was so angery. I better get my money or imma raise something.


I censored it the best i could I'm ngl i cuss way too much


Nono the ping is fine, I think most of us here can agree that toxic friendships aren't worth thinking about. Things will get better as time goes on and just keep telling yourself you'll get better and you will.


Thats kinda screwed up too


idk i just get anxious because being confronted or yelled at makes my anxiety spike and i think i have adhd plus i believe i have bipolar depression so im all over the place and i feel bad to make people maybe upset with my own problems on accident even tho i know i probably wont get better if i dont get help


Guenevere you were right to stand up for what you believe in the comments they made were totally unnecessary my advice block the toxic people and move on because you don't need that extra stress in your life.


And even i get some anger risen in me to shout at her. I cant control it because i have mood swings. I dont want her to feel uncomfortable or sad


Awh, I know how you feel. I have 6 siblings and my mom always just wants to pull her hair out. A few months ago I saw her texting my uncle saying They wouldn't care if I left So I definitely know how you feel. But you have to love your mom no matter what, and always think positive. Yeah, your mom is being stressed but you have to remind her that staying with her family is the best thing ever. Even if your sisters make her stressed you have to give her the most love and show her that she should stay. And yes, kids get angry at their parents, but you shouldn't let it out at them. Because they are going through things way worse already. Like bills and money. If you do yell at her just tell her sorry. A sorry, hug and crying can do alot.


Just tell her that she can't let the negativity get to her head.


I'm sorry if somethings didn't make sense


quit account no no you made much sense! Tysm for your feedback and yeah it must be tough having 6 siblings


It's is. But I'm glad I could help love!


My best friend kinda just cut me off and I dont know why and then I remember earlier today some of my friends and her they made a server of some sort? And they left me out of it and now Im having a panic attack because Im thinking I did something and now that she hates and Im about to start hating myself because I feel like a horrible person And all the friends who went to the server said something happened but they wont tell me and she dmed me saying its for the best” and now I really dont know what to do and we all have mutual friends so if I tell one of them their going to tell her and I cant vent barely any servers because were in a lot of them together and the servers I own are mostly friends so I cant vent anywhere and idk Im panicking so bad rn


This is one of the servers shes in and Im so scared


But I dont know what to do anymore


@ wholesome of the day!


Alle dont over think it and if it really is something try to ask someone for help or try to talk it out with her. This is a tough scenario. I feel bad for you


Does anyone else have any advice for her?


well first take a few breaths and get some water so you can calm down, and dont start hating yourself just because something happened between you two im pretty sure it wasnt your fault, im sorry that this has happened but just know you will get through it


yes do that please


yes please


Its 8pm and I still havent eaten dinner


and take some rest


maybe try washing off if u havent already


showers tend to help


or take a relaxing bath


and ofc eat


Thanks Ill go eat something now


Yeah get some rest and rethink the situation try relaxing


Well, it depends. Try to ask her whatever so bad you did, take some time to gather the courage. If you want to connect with them, try to talk it out, make it up to them, etc. If you really want to stay friends with them, you gotta try hard! But if they continue leaving them out and more, you should drop them and move on. Its rude and quite toxic, and things wont get better, I may damage your mental health if you like them a lot. Of course, take some time to move on and calm down. I hope things get better, take care of yourself.!


Take care Alle


take care


i hope you feel better soon


Guess what


Its somewhat fixed


I feel lighter now


I still dont know what happened but she said she didnt mean it to look like she hated me


uh, this isnt a big vent: but, irl i have these 3 friends, kind of? well, they usually ignore me, or just run away laughing at me. today they started yelling at me, and just hitting me, for dropping one of their jackets on the floor on accident. idk what to do, i feel so bad and guilty, although it was me who got hit and yelled at by them? please help me,


@ wholesome of the day! im sorry for the bother..


i suggest you to find new friend


Hm, they arent real friends. Hun, I suggest you leave them. Because there will be plenty of other opportunities for you to find better friends than them. They are just jerks.


They arent real friends, I think its best you report them and find new friendsthey arent worth it


You dont have to feel bad or guilty because its not your fault


exactly


cause they already being harsh on you. if you let them to always be your friend, they would hit you more


You shouldn't get hit for doing something by accident. Those aren't your real friends they're just bullying you and making you feel bad. They already ignore you and laugh at you. We're here for you bby. I'll fight them off


I dont know, theyre nice to me sometimes but rarely..


just left them


ignore them like how they ignore you


I can try..


That isnt real friend characteristics. If they make you uncomfortable, hurt you and bully you. I dont think those little bit of nice moments are worth it.


mhm


I mean, I think youre right.. so Ill just try and leave them


if it's rare, then i suggest you to really leave them


I agree


youll meet some better people. Just have to give it time, and you cant force friendships


I suggest you use this method:


Create a list of things that you like while being friends with them and create a list about things that made you feel bad, if the good outweighs the bad, keep them as your friendsif the bad outweighs the good, let them go and find new friends, there are a lot of people out there who are worth your time and deserve your kindness


Find people who care about you and are attached to you for who you are


and i know they will regret bullying you!


Thank you, guys. Ill try:


give them an ora ora


Also I highly suggest surrounding and associating yourself with people who try to make good decisions and dont do dumb mean things for the sack of being mean


Its no problem hun, you just have to know when to let go sometimes


Like surrounding your self with people who make smart choices and are nice to you is honestly the best advice I can give


here to help! dont too much thinking you'll feel bad because you left them. it's all their fault!


I wish you the best of luck good luck


You dont have a thing to worry about because of your personality


always be aware! good luck on finding new friends!


Hello..! So... like on Friday, I was on a call with my IBFF She was having serious problems, cried for hours and even thought about harming herself and I was trying to help her and talk to her when my mother came. She asked me who I was calling and said that I have to stop talking on the phone right away. She got really mad because she told me to do homework but I didn't, so she took my phone. I couldn't even say Goodbye to my friend or tell her that I have to stop talking to her now, my mother just stopped the call. Then she asked me again who it was and I told her. My mother got even angrier and said that I can't contact my IBFF anymore. And now I really don't know what to do...


I know other people have more serious issues than me so I won't ping the Vent helpers but I still hope that someone can give me advice...'


First try reasoning with your mom


please tell your mom that they need serious help and that you're only helping them


Try explaining to your mom what you where doing, maybe she will understand then you will be able to talk your your ibf again! I hope everyone is okay tho


I think instead of disobeying I think you should have talking about it to your mom. And even if she would get angrier you should still take the chance.


Im not really supposed to be on my phone rn if I get caught I am going to get in trouble. So I have to go


Just reason it out with your mom because its your best chance right now


Thank you all


I'll try and talk to her:


Ive had very similar problems with my mom saying I cant talk to anyone on the internet and that just broke me because I have so much amazing friends here. But what I did was I texted her and told her how I let and we reasoned and now im good to go.


Warning!: On the 21st day of each month, the DMs and Friend Requests will be temporarily closed to prevent attackers meaning'Hackers' from getting info of my account!


Gosh how do I always knew that my mom is going to do something suspicious...?


My friend is suddenly being rude to me. She was nice a second ago now shes rude and than back to kind and back to rude and it keeps on going. I didn't nothing to her. She was just rude a second ago now shes kind.


I did before.


She was just like well than do you not like me


BRuh, that is something called manipulation


idk if this is a vent but.. i just feel like i have to talk about this. cause im really scared at this point..


@ Annie . maybe your friend has some type of disorder? Maybe she's had a bad day? Maybe it's that time of the month for her. Just ask her if there is anything wrong or how was her day today, NEVER assume by saying what's wrong or I know something is wrong because that will probably just make her even more rude


Just let her vent to you


but why suddenly rude than back to kind..


you need to get friends that wont betray you...


that's literally impossible


all my life i've been a loner, i don't know why, no one seems to come up to me to talk and if i come up to someone else, they just look at me weirdly


I can be your friend:


IVE TRIED OKAY?


i've tried to be confident, something as simple as asking where a classroom is, this STUPID GIRL JUST SCOFFS AT ME FOR NO REASON. I don't know anymore


And oh


Thank you


c':


i sent you a friend request;


Yeah I dont have a lot of friends either dont worry


Neve that's a yikes, you need to vent in better servers and those are just yucky people.


Just either leave that server or never vent there again


Vent here so I can get paid more


But yeah seriously just block them out of your life they're just trolls.


thing is ik them irl


and im gonna see them in 20 days


they're just gonna bully me


and no one will care enough to stop it


parents wont care, teachers dont care


Honestly if no one irl will care just find friends online who can


I personally live life online


Ive given up on my physical life


Ooh you have a point there Akiro


And when they insult you, you can just smile back like nothing happened


There won't be a digital screen between you and them


Also people tend to say and do stuff they wouldn't do irl


Online


Yeah neve just worry about yourself and dont let other peoples opinions get to you, if they are negative and fake people whats the point of caring about their opinions


So they'll probably just be scared away if you scold them


Or just glare at them


Also DO NOT make yourself look sad in school


Never let them take advantage of you because if they do they will never stop.


Yup or else you will become an even bigger target


Yea


My friends seem to have become more and more sad and suicidal I don't know what to do and I myself aren't in the best state right now because I have been feeling pessimistic and I don't know what to do everyday becomes harder and harder at first it was just me but then my friends started to become more open with me which I'm happy with but they seem to be suicidal or sad and it hurts me to see them like this because I know they deserve so much more and should love themselves and I can't help but feel like it's my fault because I vent way too much and I had a sudden change in attitude and maybe somehow she adapted to getting a negative mindset by the way I vent and I wish I could help somehow, my friends seem to be getting worser everyday and it just hurts. @ wholesome of the day!


well maybe they feel like your using them as an emotional punching bag, instead of just venting to them without letting them do the same back for a relapse you need to help them and make them feel better with compliments even if they say they dont accept them because i know it boosts their mood anyway


being randomly reminded theyre beautiful and loved is a great way to make sure that your still there for them and theyre there for u


you can always help by giving them time and space and a shoulder to lean on


i dont often accept compliments because i feel like its not true but thinking back on them can make someone happier, even just your presence is enough to make someoneand me happier if they care about you enough and platonically love you since i dont want to make it sound like only love as in relationships is what would keep someone


i only use myself as an example, not because i have the same depression but i know how it feels to be suicidal and sad sometimes


you just sometimes gotta stick with people and its okay to do the same and be patient with the way someone thinks


sometimes they say stuff they dont mean yknow


its just through thick and thin


I've been nice to them I don't know it's just confusing


I treat them as I'd like to be treated and I tend to keep a positive mindset during normal conversations and only keep the negative energy in the times I vent


yeah, i understand


sometimes depression confuses people and how they think


it happens to me a lot


but at least your doing whats right and doing your best to help them when the option is available


Also offer help whenever wether it be taking time to help them or if the situation worsens call local hotlines for help


The thing is


They are online friends


I don't know the area they live in


I'd say just keep being there for them. they helped you through and in your darkest hours. you should do the same, they'll appreciate it just as you probably appreciate the support from them. and remind them of what you see. beautiful people, people you can rely on, people who deserve the love even if they don't think it themselves. be patient with them. that's really the only way things will get better because nobody can fix a problem like this overnight. with sadness comes openess a lot.


point out the things they don't see. it never hurts to say it how it is. because often times, people can't see what's in front of them until someone helps them realize it and then things become a little clearer.


as for those hotlines. why not just ask them? if y'all are close enough for them to talk about their personal feelings they might be willing to give that info. otherwise if things continue, if things get too much for you, yourself. you're welcome to vent to anyone here I'm betting while they vent to you.


Thank you!


My friend just blocked me on all her socials... I did nothing wrong though.


Have you guys had any arguments before then?


I was sleeping


I'm late


Suki no i havent..


@ Annie . she just completely ghosted you without reason?


Yep.


Well I cant speak for everyone or you, but that doesn't sound like a real friend to me. No friend just ghosts their friend without explanation and completely out of nowhere. But I hope she comes back and explains everything to you. If not try to get over it, her actions aren't of a true friend. I hope you're okay and get better though


i went on a alt and asked her and she said she didnt. She said she thinks it was her brother how come all my socials.


Did she unblock and refriend you?


no.


In my opinion, I feel like she's lying


same


Am I a bad person


Hm


I just


feel so sad


for some reason


ah ok


What's been going on?


hm


I just want someone to vent to


But my friends ignore my vents


okayyyluis we're all here for you, you can vent to us


Tysm


I have this friend.


Her name is Kim. Kim is a fake name


She is really rude.


she doesn't listen to me sometimes.


She ghosts me.


And talks to other people. While I talk to her. She Backstabs me


We haven't talked that much.


I mean


I know I should just dump her


But sometimes


I feel like I'm overexaggerating


or just simply jealous


In all honesty, that's not a great friend. A friend should always be there for you through thick and thin. Any person who is rude, doesn't listen to you, ghost, and backstabs you is no friend at all. In my opinion you should just stop being her friend. okayyyluis


yeahprobably


lorie, i think you should see if she changes, but if she does not maybe try talking to her? i have a fake friend too and she hates everything i do. i have just avoided her and she has stopped messing with me now. maybe give it some time. i know it is easier said than done, but people come and go nobody stays forever.


but i totally understand where you are coming from. i do not think she is a real friend sorry if i sound rude.


do you not have any other friends to talk to instead of her?


TvT


You could try talking to her and tell her your feelings if you haven't. It never hurts to try as mocha said


hm


i have


I do have friends


If she didnt acknowledge them


yeah


I just feel like


friends are my backbones


they're the ones that hold me up


she's my childhood friend


I knew her since 2nd grade


And if I lose her


Maybe I'll lose a piece of me


oh well you should keep yourself away from her a little while. but you will feel bad about losing her?


but seriously, you should try and see what is bothering her so much about chu


Guys help


My friend just said she wants to giveaway all her account I think its because of me...


Oof did u ask her why


No..


I tried.


She never responded.


The last thing she said scared me...


She said..


Shut it. Im done with life”


I dont know what to say, do i cant really think rn.


Oof


Idk


What exactly happened?


what happened?


i dont care dyno.


Guys I think I ruined my own birthday...


Guys I'm worrying rn idk what will I give my father a gift? Help me out pls


My friend is being forced to go to the army and I don't know how I feel about that


Guys I I dont feel like Im good enough I feel like Im just a cry baby my brother is just toxic one time I was showing him something and he said he wants it and I was saying to him what if someone else wants it?” He said yeah I want it” I started crying and then a few minutes later I said to him I KNOW U GO THE EASY WAY BUT JUST LISTEN TO ME!”


... what hurt me the most was when he said... WHY DO YOU HAVE TO BE SO DIFFICULT” he said that to me 2X then when he got it i said are you happy now?...” he said yes but you didnt have to make it difficult” I kept on saying IIM SORRY” but he wouldnt take it and then I had to do math and my dad yelled at me too my other brother,mom and sister were not home..


please what can I do to help me...


And on top of that Ive been having family issues. Constant arguments with my parents to the point where they start yelling at me.


foxtea Im sorry that you are feeling this way. My feedback to you is to tell your parents that you love them with all of your heart and give them a big hug. If you are feeling lonely, you can talk to your parents and try to work it out. I hope you feel better soon.


Im really sorry you feel this way but please dont ever feel that you are worthless, and the girl you are in a relationship with is perhaps busy but you can always talk it out with her. And as for having friends, I'm sure many people would love to be your friend, my dm's are always open and I'll be willing to listen to you if you're going through something. I sincerely hope you feel better.


Thank you


...! Ii am getting a Monika De Ja Vu...


i have major depression and i mostly get panic attacks when i am nervous


So.. I have had a crush on one of my best friends and still do, I had confessed to her about 2 days ago and got rejected. Normally after a rejection I just forget about it and move on.. but this one sticks and it hurts. Ive tried to move on and focus on other things to not think about it.. its not working and I dont wanna end the friendship with her.


@ wholesome of the day!


If the friendship is true then you shouldn't have to end the friendship with her, she should accept the fact that you like her and move on without it being a big thing, I'm sorry that happened to you and I really hope you find someone worth while


I was in a similar situation for a long time. I say, just treat it like a normal crush, like the confession hadn't happened. Don't encroach on their boundaries, and you'll move on eventually. It'll take time, but it'll happen.


yui hug breezy


aw.. sad to hear. hope your mother realize what does she always do to you


Awe it's okay, same thing to me, maybe ask her why she does that, or try and connect with her and do something with her? I honestly don't really know though because my mum hates me too


:c


Me too


You aren't doing anything, as much as your mum tries to make you believe it, you should be allowed to cry and express your emotions and your mum should come to terms with that. No matter what she says she'll never be a victim in that situation, I really hope life gets better for you and you work out something with your dad


Ty


Yall are so nice


Omg


Ily


Wow, relatable unfortunately. So far I use outlets such as friends or Discord to vent about it then I'll play the role, bite my tongue no matter how unfair, but I always no deep down that I won't respect them. That keeps me going. Also, counting down the days until you turn 18!


Do you think you can contact any family member or your dad? My mom did the same thing to me for years but I talked to other family members about it. She always yelled at me and never thought I was doing stuff right, and she'd force me to quit school activities to manage the house instead. You aren't alone in your situation. Hopefully your mom realizes how bad it affects chu.aulove:


I talked to my other cousins about it. They are trying to work out somethings for me to do.


That's good, I hope it all works out. Much love


thats great! good luck for the future I give my best wishes


uhm.. im not very good at talk about my feelings at all. because i never really do it..and i mean never. but this is a little something that i kinda would like to say, or just talk about. because i heard talking about how i feel would made me feel better...so here i go..


about two weeks ago i had started to school, and it was very scary for me. its because i had moved schools and homes. so i didnt know anyone..and i felt so scared and alone. and i had talked to my bf about it, but he only made me feel so much more worse..and i ended up cutting my wrists and having a big break down the day before i started school..and the first day wasnt the greatest..i had another break down during school. and i just got so much anxiety. and even now after two weeks i still cry and get so much anxiety in school..and i just feel like a big baby who cant go thru things on my own..and i just feel so alone...


@ wholesome of the day!


You arent alone at all! So many people feel the same! Did you tell ur bf it made u feel worse? Also, everyone has anxiety! Some people just dont show it. You arent a baby. Ive cried sometimes too, and crying is a good way to make yourself feel better. You should watch Psych2Go, they make videos a lot of people can relate to, and it makes u feel a lot better if you can relate to someone! You are not a baby. And you dont need to do it by yourself! Who cares if you cant do it alone? Its natural for a human to need support in life!


Anyone got any Advice for Lori


I get that, it's scary and settling in is daunting. I'd say try and identify who seems nice and talk to them. Maybe start talking to others as time goes on, but that's not an obligation. It's alright, you're not a baby. Everyone is allowed to feel things and everyone feels this way when they start. It'll get easier, trust me.


I couldnt have said it better myself, WhatamIdoinghere


Thank you, MM


Np


Yui hug Suicidal Slut


air hugs to the extreme adapting to a new environment can always be rough at first Lori. You arent alone. you are not a big baby. In all honesty dont bottle your feelings its okay to cry about it. Just know that we are to listen and for you just do little smal things that are familiar like remembering to have a small quote to boost you up. Or saying affirmations in the morning or hearing a song that you would enjoy with others. air hugs


Have you tried talking to your school counselor about your problem? I suggest you do that, I'm sure they'll understand.


Know you are not a baby for having emotions, and it's also anxiety, anxiety can really tear you down. Take deep breaths whenever you feel uneasy, ask a teacher if you can go out the class for a bit to breathe and drink water, something like that. Find ways to cope is basically what I'm saying. You're not alone nor a baby! What youre feeling is valid!


Eclipsa ive had one of the teachers ask me if i wanted to see a school counsellor. because some of the teachers do notice i get upset. but i told them no. because i think i said that im not very good at saying how i feel. in person its just even more worse. because i cry so much and i dont really talk much.. and even if i did want to talk to her. i really wouldnt be able to talk i guess.. because my dad forced me to go to therapy when he found out i was cutting and wanted to kill myself..


i know it's hard, i struggled to speak to my counselor too. Opening up isn't the easiest thing. You're feelings are valid and should be heard. You shouldn't be struggling like this in an educational environment. They should find ways to help you with, like small breaks whenever needed. Please try to get a hold of them and tell them you do need to talk to your counselor. The counselor should be patient with you and give you time to get comfortable and able to talk about your problem.


Like we said, crying is totally ok! It lets you get it all out. And I understand not wanting to talk to the school counselor. No one really wants to. You dont really know them and its awkward, and most of the time all they say is Aw well Im sorry, Im gonna call your parents and tell them what happened” even after saying no. It sucks, and same for the therapist. You dont really know them. But you do have to open up to somebody, and the therapist is the best option, they have to right training and it will make you feel so much better!


Opening up will never be easy, but it will make you feel a ton better


awww dear its okk weve all been there tbh and dont feel ashamed about venting! we all have our ups and downs and just know that were all here for you


Yes


im really sorry i cant really respond right nwow because im kinda shaking a lot and crying a lot...


Feelings are very complicated and very hard to deal with, but its the beautiful thing about life. Its understandable when you say opening up is hard for you, especially when your scared of judgment. But thats what counselors and therapists are for! They wont judge you, and once you start, youll be getting gl better and everything will seem great again. It sounds unbelievable but its true, trust us


hey it's alright! Take deep breaths, drink some water.


Suicidal Slut Thats totally ok! take some time to get it all out, however much you need


Suicidal Slut its okkayy! you dont have to reply, take deep breaths an talk wen youre ready. theres no need to rush. drink some water and maybe listen to music or do something that makes you happy and/or relaxed!


i love you all so much! thank you


Anytime sis


we love you too! We are always here to help


ofc dear, were all here for you


Yui hug Suicidal Slut


so i have a crush that i really like we don't normally talk irl but when i got his discord i started to talk to him a lot and he started to talk to me a lot too. he asked me to hangout a few times but yk since corona is rlly bad rn i had to plan ahead but yesterday i found time on next sunday and i told him i could hangout and bike together. he said yes so im getting really nervous... i want to tell him how i feel and just get it over with? or i really dont know. But what if he says he doesnt like me and just treats me kindly as a friend? i would get really embarassed and no, i just dont wanna think about it... should i tell him? or should i do it on discord? just virtually so it won't get too embarrasing? and what way should i do it? like what ways are there...please help...


Be yourself


Period. Thats all


yui hug MM


He will love you for you, and thats how it should be


But


If thats not enough advice, just try your best to act natural


Making mistakes is ok, turn it into a joke, thats totally fine. If things get awkward, then just drop everything and run into a nearby tree.


No Im just kidding dont do that


Its ok to be nervous, I mean its your crush after all, but dont try too hard. Like I said, be yourself


MM omg tysmm 3 it helps so much 33


This advice is useless Im sorry


Oh wait really?


no its not OnO


owo hug MM


i dont wanna get into what has happened but i really need some hugs rn


jdismsosmsisjis okay uhm..hi i exist again. and i think i feel a bit better now


jdismsiwmiwmwisjsijs. ack to council thingy thing uhmm yeah i dont really know anymore.. but the thing itzjustmeh said they wont judge you” thats the thing im terrified of. getting judged. and its not just about how i feel, or express myself..its of how i look. and speak. and my personality..im scared ill get judged of those things too.


What?


Sorry but I can't understand anything from the first few phrases but I'm glad you're feeling better


Lori, you have always existed air hugs to the extreme Im thankful that you gave us an update on feeling a bit better. I hope nothing but the best for you. Also I think when you say stuff about judging its not always judging someone just think of it as hey They are just getting to know me. I know being critical of yourself is hard, I know it well because I would judge many things about myself but dont try to dig a hole of negativity of yourself. You are amazing and its okay we can definitely help you with talking more I guess and Im sure your personality is fine. Im more of an introvert to do being more to yourself is normal. Maybe just write a few things you like and when youre ready Im sure you can share it with ppl that are new to you. Dont worry, we will be here to air hug you if you feel scared still


Hey don't forget if people judge you that means that you're interesting enough that you brought their attention


Not everyone got that power


If people judge you, I find it best to try and push them aside mentally and seek out those that care for you. Just as a reminder, we care for you and we'll never judge you Lori


i dont know if i should say goodbye to you all im crying so much @ wholesome of the day!


Why?


im disgusting


i did so much bad stuff


i made so much people suffer


so? that doesnt mean you cant change


i just want to dissapear


ive beendoing it for years


i just ruin everyone


its wrong but it doesnt prevent you from being a better person


you dont ruin everyone


i did


you dont know how much i inflicted pain


you did


but now you dont


thats past tense sweetheart


no


i did now too


i just lost all of my friends and boyfriend


i lost everything


because of what i did in the past


i got what i deserved


stuff resurfaces


people are childish to assume it will always reflect on who you are currently


I can't imagine how painful that would be and i'm sorry, but people can always change, they just have to prove they can


it happens as a lot of online drama


its only able to be safely assumed that people are THE same ONLY if the things they did, as in a pattern or a way of what they did seems to have to always reoccur have they not changed


It was in the past, you can change, everyone can for the better or for worse it all depends on the outcome,


its not something you should feel miserable for


i regret the things i have done


but ive done so much


You'll find people who'll accept you even after those so called mistakes you've made. Those friends who you just lost, Left you over an old mistake that you made that resurfaced


they have lost trust


people are unpredictable


besides you haven't lost everything, you still have us


But you regret it, so thats the change you needed we have all done things we regret but we at least know we wont be doing it again


You have all our support, mate


sometimes theyre utter sweethearts to you then they turn their back on you in an instant


pretending or just an impulse


your not a bad person in our eyes


i changed ive done so much to change


i hope at least im not hated here


You're not hated here at all!


You aren't hated here


You're loved by all of us


We love you!


thank you


Just dont lose hope so easily! There are people out there whome you havent met yet!


if they can't accept someone then they aren't worth waiting for, if someone is willing to change for the better despite past issues then they deserve friends who will love and support them the whole way through


Fax, we all want to give you our support and affection!


this made me a bit better


thank you guys


anytime,


Dont lose hope so easily there are times we have let go to get what's better for us


They may have turned their back on you, yes. But you have us! We'll be your friend, We'll be your support and we'll pick you up every time you fall down


anytime


its what the role and channel are for


for us to support you


i wont recover in a long time but at least i will a bit


We're all here for you and with you


if you ever feel alone just know we'll be here every step of the way!


Any time 3


We're here to help you!


no need to thank us, we're here for you


i regret the things i have done


kleid hey, i know how you feel. i used to live in the past and be stuck on the past and wish i could go back and fix it all. i ruined relationships and i felt that i deserved terrible things bc of what i did. but one day i realized you can't go back. uou cannot go back into the past and change anything about it, so there is no point in dwelling on it. you might've done some deep stuff, but it's okay. you'll be okay if you fix your mindset. everyone does bad things at least once in their life. don't let it define you or get to you. you can change. you can show the people you're different. if they choose to only see uyou for your old self, that's their fault. you don't need them in your life. mistakes are made to learn from them. some might haunt you for years, but i promise you it's not forever. just listen to me. i know how hard it is to listen to other people's advice and actually take it in, but when you're more calm, come back snd take a look at it. ny dms are open if you need someone to vent to. you aren't alone, you're gonna be okay


ayewa thank you


For the random person reading this


Alright the same girl came back to my dms telling me she will stop ignoring me and she promised me with that, and then i was ignored many times


Blimy, this seems to prove that hackers day is real; my friend has been victimized by a malicious software right at the 21st day of this month reference of today...


Anyone good with Desktop Computers?


wew i don't know much about computers but has she/he reported it? or got it checked by a professional?


i really need help


so ive been dating my bf for like 6 months now, hes polysexual my bestfriend is also poly and he asked if he can join the relationship, i said yes cause i wanted to help my best friend out with his relationship to see if hes poly. its been over a month now and my bf also loves my best friend, while my best friend loves me and my bf, but I don't like him that way, he was my ex a year ago. i don't know what to do i just feel left out and i don't want to be in a relationship with him in it, its making me uncomfortable, i wish i could send screenshots but yeah


i dmed my bf yesterday that i barely feel loved by him, he said he will show me how much he loves me, its been a day and the only sweet remark i got was a heart emoji when i said 5 min ago that i gtg'study' which was just an excuse for me to leave the convo. i'm too scared to confront them about it, i'm seriously not made for relationships


it would help me more if someone else dmed them instead, but i really dont want to make people uncomfortable it


hmmm


honeyy Okay, well if it's an issue within he relationship, then you'll have to confront your bf about if. I'm so sorry, but communication is really important. It seems that you're monogamous, so perhaps being with a poly person isn't what's right for you. Be brave honey, I believe in you. No one deserves to feel like the third wheel in their own relationship.


@ wholesome of the day!


just letting you know, polysexual and polyamorous are two different things


geez I feel like I'm not a good helper but I'm gonna try Honey you're amazing, but communication with them both should help. I'm proud of you for making sure both of them are happy but if you aren't happy then it's just not benefitting you. Even if you have to talk to them separately I think it would help. You are meant for a relationship, just maybe not with them. You're a wonderful person you shouldn't feel left out or sad, because that makes me sad. I want you to be happy. Probably the poly thing isn't for you, it's probably something else, but if they're really hurting you about it you should tell them. Be brave little soldier I believe in chu


Rant again I think yes.


Aha here we go again. I hate the fact that I always feel alone and I have no one when I have people. I stay up for days at a time thinking about the past bc I cant let it go. Ive been hurt so many times I pretend it doesnt hurt anymore. All my friends say I have changed and that they dont think Im the same anymore. They act like Im weirdo now. Im more awkward around people. I get major anxiety when Im around people I dont know. I end up crying in the middle of class and no one noticed thank god I hate the way I dress but if I dress the way I want to everyone judges me. I always think about the way people think of me bc I dont know how not too. Im constantly hiding the pain so my friends dont worry about me. Im scared for my own mental health bc that went down so fast and badly. I used to think about suicide a lot but now I rarely do. I cant imagine the pain my family would go through if I did go. @ wholesome of the day!


breezy, Believe me, I know exactly what youre going through. I constantly felt the same way you did, just feeling so alone, and everyone else saying that youve changed. That exact same thing happened to me, thoughts of dying crossing through my mind, thank god not anymore. The best thing you can do, honestly, is to talk to your family. Theyre going to be there for you no matter what, and I know that I cant say how your parents feel about you, but they want the best for you. Maybe talking to your parents about seeing a therapist to get more back to your normal self would be beneficial, however, that is up to you. The best thing you can do is confide in the ones who want to help you. Much love and I hope everything gets better.


breezy I understand that. Pretending it doesn't hurt anymore only backfires, trust me. Also, this may seem a little out of left field but boundaries and communication are important. And I understand not wanting to worry your friends. But they'll continue worrying about the behavioural shift if you don't tell them a bit of what's happening. They're your friends, you can trust them. As for hating what you wear, I suggest adding 1 element of your style and seeing whether people judge. If they don't, go with 2, etc. Those people's opinions shouldn't matter but I understand that they do. Also, seeing a professional may help as well. It didn't personally, but that doesn't mean that it won't work for you. Keep a diary/journal. Oddly enough, I always felt like it understood me better than most people. You're allowed to be scared, that's okay. But I promise it gets better.


Mar WhatamIdoinghere Thanks, I will talk to my bf now, I really needed that, I'm scared of the reaction, but I just have to do it, ty again


ikaenia I cant talk to my family. The only one who would listen to me and care is dead sadly. It was one of the hardest things I had to go through. Its sad bc I have no one. Everyone I try to talk to other than the people on and lullu, moka, etc are the only people have rn who would actually listen and care. I cant go to a therapist my mom said she wont let me bc I havent been through a lot. My whole childhood was a living hell. She acts like my happiness doesnt matter. Ty tho ily


honeyy That's great news! I'm glad you then courage to do so. You're so strong and I promise this will makes things better. Ily


Ily2, I will try my best, it might seem weird but this gave me a boost, I can't really explain it


No I get it, just gets you psyched up!/It's a good feeling,


I dmed him, now I just wait for a response, I don't even feel scared for some reason


That's the spirit. Always have that confidence to talk to them about how you feel


HE RESPONDED NO IM GONNA PANIC IM SORRY


I'm too scared to open the dm


I really don't want to be rejected


Dw you can do it If you need help we can always support you if they don't appreciate that you told them how you felt. We wove chu


Okay okay, it isn't that bad, I can't send a screenshot tho


He said he'll do something about that, I feel really bad


No feel bad only feel good


So uh... some of you might know this but about that childhood friend who got into a really possessive relationship. He changed. A LOT. He would ignore me, send really dry messages, and just... it wasn't like before where we would talk for hours. He sent me a tweet making fun of BTS a group that saved me from TW/suicide and I just kind of snapped. I poured out all my feelings and insulted him and he just replied with. I don't care, don't be my friend then. I'm not forcing you to. He didn't even reply with sorry or I didn't know. He just made it feel like it was my fault. And I just feel so horrible now. I lost a friend whom I knew for so long and I feel like it's my fault. And worst of all, it's 7 days until my birthday so I just feel so horrible and I think it's all my fault and I don't know what to do.


@ wholesome of the day!


CUT HIM OFFF


yeah man


man fck him


thats really toxic


ill punch him in the throat


thats a bit excessive.


no?


never


what?


you're not helping.


no it just depends how hard you punch


uhm.


Most of the people change after getting in relationships! They will try removing every friend and give time for there gf or bf I too got that problem with my really good friend


but dude you should cut him off


We literally fight for 30minutes day before today


I blocked him


still that's too violent to be a solution.


Don't worry they probably aren't in the best mindset, But you should only keep around you people who respect you and keep you happy! They obviously aren't worth your tears nor your time!


exactly.


Yaa


but it's gotten pretty bad


he kinda crossed the line


What's up?


that's exactly what i was saying but more concise, why tf was i being scolded


Exactly


Huh?


uhm


sneezes violently


ill punch him in the throat


thats just violent.


Lmao.


It wouldnt help anything if you were to punch them in the throat.


Also BTS is ePic


Maybe not literally?


guess he/she's just carried by the topic.


But still.


a shame


should i apologize or not:T


No.


Why should you?


dont apologise


i think i kinda went too far with the insults


Nope


You had some stuff to get off your chest.


And in the end,


all he said was


I dont care.


Meaning,


hm


iok


it would be pointless to apologize.


i mean boys just hate bts beacuse of social media


Especially if he doesnt care already.


Yaa maybe true


he kKNOWS how much they mean to me


THEY LITERALLY SAVED MY LIFE


that's a bit odd


Maybe he just want to cut it off


I still think I went too far with the insults ngl


But dont apologiz


Ignoring someone is one of the worst things someone can do to someone.


Don't apologize they'll take advantage of you


Believe me,


oki i wont


let him realize it


Ive been in he same situation.


sneezes violently Simp


Just Reese. no, just trying to cheer up someone who needs help. a simp is entirely different, look at uo the definition instead of spouting words because you're pressed, xoxo.


It was a joke.


Lmao.


Chill.


They'll understand you have mercy for them and they'll just walk over you


And dont tell me about looking up the definition of a word thats meant as a meme.


too bad: dont joke to me about that especially after you were coming after me for a joke as well


Don't pay attention to them and give them the cold shoulder back


uhm


you literally said youd punch someone in the throat.


oki


They'll come running back to you in no time!


Just Reese. yeah and?


thats violent.


And,


can we just help her?


WELL I BLOCKED HIM SO NOT GUNNA HAPPEN


Ushijima this


not really something to be joked about?..


Well just don't unblock them!


sneezes violently just accept the fault from the first.


its not hard.


okii


WELL I BLOCKED THEM SO NOT GUNNA HAPPEN


candy good, don't let them come back. those types of people in the end, as painful as it is, they aren't worth your time as it will just happen again.


now, let's focus on her


Okay uh so, i kinda want to commit suicide, i told my parents i need therapy and all but like im so awkward i can't tell the reason why, and i can't tell them. I really don't know what to do and i need help. @ wholesome of the day!


Alfie I wasn't at fault for a joke.


sneezes violently If someone said they were going to punch your friend in the throat, would you take it as a joke?


Or literally?


Okay uh so, i kinda want to commit suicide, i told my parents i need therapy and all but like im so awkward i can't tell the reason why, and i can't tell them. I really don't know what to do and i need help.


Shanahan don't do it bb please:


duh, just stop mr.


And i like 3 people, and i have a girlfriend but i like a lot of people and i don't want to break her heart


Just Reese. uh? my friend? no


exactly.


can we drop that topic and focus on helping the person whos in trouble rn please


lets drop the topic


and help eclipse


Une what i would do is i would try to find other ways to tell them besides face to face like texting


violence wouldn't help even if its a joke.


its not worth it


ok drop. the. topic.


bruh


even if you cant talk to them


lets not argue over this punching throat thing


we might have different povs on violence


I can't breathe about it, and i feel like nothings a joke anymore I hate myself and someone laughed at me today and it was just


yeah please just help people.


candy didnt even mind, it was just meant to lighten the mood. why are you all coming for me instead of helping candy? stop


Terrible


yes texting is often easier because you can think over everything


uhm.


can u guys please help the person who asked for it instead of arguing


please


Helping.


uh ima go


Jeanie that's what ive been trying to do


ok stop arguing nobody and bratty please:


ty now lets help eclipse


Kipp tbh your not alone dont worry you can dm me whenever you feel down or need help with something


im almost always on


I don't want to call a suicide line, and everytime i think of dying its it makes me cry, but also feel happy as if it happens.


call a suicide line please


Ogg you should not felt awkward, its your parents after all


Okay uh so, i kinda want to commit suicide, i told my parents i need therapy and all but like im so awkward i can't tell the reason why, and i can't tell them. I really don't know what to do and i need help. @ wholesome of the day!


Lonni I remember something similar happening to me. And when I finally told my parents, all they did was give a bottle of pills.


B r u h


Maybe in some cases it does help to tell someone?


Stop pinging


Yeah


Ums can we pleaseee stop quoting the venting ping


sorry


pls stop pinging the vent role over and over again you can revoke the ping by deleting it even if your quoting it


I didnt realize I was doing that .


suicide will just pass the pain to someone.


I agree but lets not argue about that now


someone is suicidal


and now isn't the right time to argue about pinging


If your parents aren't there to help you try calling a hot line


I've tried to give hints about the depression, and everyone hates me irl so no one will care.


i care!


Suicide isn't the answer


My dads the one house currently


i dont know you but i care!


Go ask him


If they don't help call a hot line


go tell him how you feal


It's better than suicide


yeah


and if they dont care call a hotline


why would someone hate your because your suicidal?


theres always someone in this world that cares


i think even if it makes you happy thinking about it you need to text or call someone from a suicide hotline and just tell them about how it makes you feel and they can discuss pros and cons of it mostly cons but just talk to them as if theyre a friend because trust me, hotlines really do care and will be there to just talk about it with you


mhm.


just a reminder everything gets worse before it gets better


i know a lot of people with experience in and with hotlines and theyre a huge support and their goal is simply to help you feel happy and better about things


if you do what you're thinking about, think about the pain it will inflict onto other people and all the things you could miss out on by never trying


I would suggest writing a text paragraph or just a message about explaining how you feel to your parents since I did that a few days ago and they've started to try to understand me. It takes a lot of guts and I know there's a lot to fear like, what if they will never understand? but trust me, if they don't understand then it's their fault.


Right like Shah said if your awkward just write text paragraph and vent yourself out.


If they don't understand call a hot line


maybe do what i do when im stressed about things and write a physical letter to myself about it, then i use that letter and i tear it up to make art with it to show myself that you can turn negativity into something beautiful this works even if youre not artistic


Woah, you have quite a unique coping strategy.


They definetely would understand, the thing is i just feel embarrassed, like I'd be laughed at And the thought of anything is just


Making me feel terrible


And i cry every day and every night


you won't be laughed at


What I do to cope is write a text about how I am feeling and What I want to do and then send it to my alt account or to someone that I know won't check their DMs. I can go back to them and see what I was thinking wrong..


Don't be embarrassed asking for help doesn't make you weak it shows your confident enough to say your flaws.


When I think of stuff like this, I write them down on my personal server so nobody would see it and it also helps me to get my thoughts out, If I want to share them just copy pasting it works


Please do ask for help it'll be worth it, you don't have to fight or suffer alone there's people out there who want to help you.


Eclipse, Trust me when I say this. There's no need to be embarrassed. You need to seek for help to get better and like you said, they'll understand. So, Seek the help you need and get better. We'd love to see you recover.


mhm..


Okay, thank you all so much, this has kind of boosted me to feel better, and it feels a lot better


If that's how you feel, I'm glad to hear it although I didnt contribute much because thinking


Think to yourself, imagine it as if every time you harm yourself your hurting others because truly if people you know and love figure out they will be hurt.


I'm glad!


. Apparently my bff was taking trash about he behind my back, and my ibf/rp ex rp wife started spreading rumors about me.


@ wholesome of the day!


oh no.


Thats terrible, don't associate with them anymore, leave them alone


This is why I shouldnt make friends


what is exactly going on?


Make friends carefully from now on


Don trust everyone


So my friend kinda just used me for fame.


AND DUMP THAT butterfly


Fine that book


LMAO


If this wasn't a pg 13 server, I would say that fr


Uncensored


It's weird that, now it happens so much it seems normal


Yea.


can somebody remove my vent roleee