im straight up crying right now, i lost one of my close friends i dont know what to do anymore me and her were in a fight sort of and she was calling me names as a joke but then i tell her not to later she dms me saying: Charlie i just wanna say some stuff. its getting kinda annoying when i feel like i cant say anything anymore. its a JOKE, ur not a pig or anything. and ik its bc of ur anger issues, and same here, but sometimes i just feel unsafe. like i just am scared to talk to you bc ur gonna get mad and block me.;/ a bunch of stuff happened and now she said she doesnt want to be my friend i dont know what to do anymore she pretends shes fine then next thing you know she wants to die i really dont know what to do anymore i constantly lose friends and it hurts so much but fr i just wanna leave but my friends that i still have, are gonna be worried again.


im sorry that you lost your friend, but..


she doesnt seem understanding.


a close friend wouldnt call you names, and then just say deal with it its just a joke. if you asked her to stop, she should have stopped. its not your fault that you dont want to be called names.


im not the best advice, but... try talking things calmy with her, even if you're not gonna be friends.


i wish the best for you and im so sorry this all happened


the person i was venting about before, we were gonna take a break n stuff but then i wake up to a dm from her saying she doesnt want to be friends anymore just because she doesnt want to fight. im so sick of losing my best friends and its a horrible DM to wake up to. i dont even want to talk to her at this point how sad i feel right now because she was my best friend and its really upsetting i lose so many people, and im worried im gonna lose more. like for example i almost lost ashi, but luckily we had a close bond so it didnt last long the fight. and then another person i got into maybe 2 fights with him and i almost cried, and had another mental breakdown because i was so overwhelmed that day. i just really want someone who will be there forever, no matter the fight if its literally not something bad


Im sorry. But that person will come, and the person will stay if they truly care about you and know the fights will be temporary.


I'm sorry that you had to go through loosing your best friend. But just know that you will find the person you're looking and they will be there for you through all the good and bad time. And fights are inevitable in friendships and both the people need to work it out together. I hope that you get over this soon and feel better soon.


Where is general


Hayne chat


I can't type there.


Oh


Ill tell the staffs


Ive got no enthusiasm for life left. I dont wanna do anything, I dont wanna see or talk to anyone. I wanna be alone. People think that Im ignoring them but no. I am not as I used to be, happy, joyful, enthusiastic... I just wanna lie on my bed and look idly.. but I dont want it too. I dont even know if I want to live longer. It feels like I will never get rid of this. Either I wanna get old me back, or... I dont wanna eat, I dont wanna workout, I dont wanna go out... whereas they were my favorite activities. I dont know who i was. I dont wanna live like this no longer


It feels like peoples lives would be better without me. At least they wont feel my emptiness. They will cry for a couple of days. Then they will go on


I am nothing


I am no one.


Im sorry you have to go through that, but I assure you people will miss you. Heck, Ive lost people from years ago and sometimes I still mourn over them. Its a dark time in your life, but it will get better, you hear me? You are something. Everyone is, and everyone is needed to complete the puzzle we call life. Peoples lives will be worse without you, much much worse. So hang in there, please.


maam, i think you just want to be happy


i can say the same thing


and im sure many others can too.


its completely normal


dont do anything to harm yourself tho


ok so like im getting tired of getting messages like why cant you act cute” or why do you always have an attitude?” bruh i still havent figured out how to change my personality. and dont ever get my attitude mixed with my personality. i cant just be myself without getting hate comments. im starting to rlly give up now. im sad now, mission accomplished, are you happy? are you happy that i can no longer be mel because all you wanna do is criticize me of what i do like come on man


i dont have to say wElCcY” or hewo” if i dont want to. just because im in a cute server doesnt mean i have to follow after the people there LMAO. but really


Don't listen to people just because they dislike your personality. You are allowed to be whoever you want and be yourself, that's the whole point of this group: To be welcome and be yourself while making friends. You are allowed to be your own person, and not follow other people. Just like you said yourself Just because you are in a cute server doesn't mean you have to act like everyone else. You are correct, you don't have to. As long as you aren't hurting anyone, which I doubt, then there's no issue. Go ahead mel, be yourself and be amazing. Don't listen to those who criticize you, because if they have a problem with you that's their issue, not yours.


Sitting in front of pc crying, fingers heavy from arguing and losing reality, mind and every frame of reference i had. want to go but am too lazy. think this is it, fingers dont want to write more


I feel ugly today..


I'm sad


So my friend group is sorta breaking apart we barely ever talk anymore, but it's sorta sad because we were great friends, I just wish we hung out more, last time we really hung out was in like may.


ik


bu


but


Please, I got a C in math, he ligit BEATED me for it..


no but literally my moms like


my mom:daisy get off ur phone. my dad's name tell DAISY TO GET OFF HER PHONE


My dad: daisy get off ur freaking phone or im taking it away


like they support each other


and when i talk


im not allowed to


because my mom tells me


i ahve no freedom of speech in her house


so i have to agree with all the wrong things she says


shes so egotistical


she tells me im always right ive never been wrong and when i try to argue she tells me to shush and to stop arguing then she tells me im being a bad daughter if i argue


im trying not to cry


i want to punch them both


@ wholesome of the day! :/


Ouuu


i feel u


I know exactly how you feel


she sounds extremely overconfident


Some of us may relate


ur not alone daisy


Mhm:


parents need to realize they arent always right and should let their kids speak


i saw myself when i read it


You have a right of saying your opinion where you live right? That's some law going right against your mother's tales.


otherwise the relationship is just rlly toxic


tysm


Try music to make you feel better and write down how u feel in like a book or something. I hope everything gets better!


i cant deal with them


np daisy


if you ever wanna talk my dms are open


my face when they blame me during an arguement for that 1 chore i didnt do 2 years ago ebcause i didnt want to


mine also! dms open if u need to talk


ty guys sm


and then my mom just told me shes not making me lunch omg


mintie ty ily


breezy ilyy 33


we love you too


ilyt


Hello


Whts tht,


this is where you come to vent if ur feeling down!


the main chat is chat


yup!


its okay! 3


daisy OMG I feel u mannn


bahah


ikr


PARENTS ARE STOOPID SMH!


yes


awh i didnt get here in time for the pingg


qQ


WHY CANT I HAVE MY FREEDOM DAN G IT


I'm like 18


BUT STILL


awwhh


mom supports me cuz she is away


Father is...


Let's not Xd


LMAO


I SO RELATE


But mines worse


My father is like gurl u still a child


They want me to be a doctor


But I dont wanna


Obey me u dumb f


I'm like;;


Id probably kill people if I became a doc


Omg


i wanna be an oncologist if im honest


or an author


so its kind of... ehhh


Just bc of my father


I can't live my life like anyone else..


so we all agree


AND HE ALWAYS TRY TO RELATE ME SONE SOMEONE


aww... im sorry that happens to you i wish i could help


It's Okie dear


I try to forget it by socialising on the internet


But no


react with if u think parents are pretty annoying and sometimes WRONG but they'll never admit it


react with if u think no


why are u always on that phone?


YES IK THATS LIKE


i try to relieve my stress by going in the internet but its kinda worse


they dont understand us


they dont understand why we're in our room on our phones


Stryker OMG same


BC IM ANXIOUS AROUND THEM


they dont understand why some of us have depression/anxiety


Yes


they dont understand why we get so sensitive


YES


Omg


Finally understand


Pll


im here if u need to talk


I FEEL RELIEVED


WOOO


I was just panicking 2mins before now


ok imma go to main chat 33


Okay lmao


how can ya'll vent so easily?


i dont understand coz its really hard for me to vent


I just let it all out


Studner u have to


To make urself feel better


its... difficult, i just dont wanna bother or annoy people with my feelings


and im kinda scared of what someone will say


I got a issue where I get anxious then I need to go pwee xD


Well


THIS


IS


VENTING


CHANNEL


am sorri


Its okie lul


Just let it out


Who knows maybe someone may relate to you Rusticus


Btw I'm trying to relax xd


Aww


awweh, im sorri:c


i kind of relate to u in a way


tyty


i have a question tho


hm?


why do you feel the need to push urself?


bc i had an aunt and she was like my second mom. but she died and i just wanna make her proud


awww


Hey Chefy I know how you feel plus that feeling when you want to talk so much about how you feel yet its hard dw,if they dont help you as your friends and ignore how you feel then they dont deserve to be called your friend youre an amazing person and Im sure if you talked to one of them they would hear you out and help you.Keep your chin up luv!


im sure your aunt is proud of you already


ty abi ilyyy


aw ty ily


yw


Ily2 if you ever need to vent come to my DMs if needed!


okok tysmmm


my dms are open too


Why would you say that.


That doesnt help


suki you just pinged again


Sorry


Its okay


its fine


Next time be careful though


im at online class


ty suki!


Np qt


No worries suki. We should focus on our cuties that need a Helper now.


Oof pings?


OMG TYSM teefy i'm so greateful for the help


grateful


Please take care of yourself! i know its hard but its gonna get better, just know you're going to be alright.


I feel like my focused on fashion and her phone more than us because, I think she doesnt care about us she just focused on her phone rather than. That we spend many days without her cooking food.. It makes me sad @ wholesome of the day!


She would say I looked like a homeless when I wear something she hates


wdym?


And other stuff


who


My mother


I feel like my focused on fashion and her phone more than us because, I think she doesnt care about us she just focused on her phone rather than. That we spend many days without her cooking food.. It makes me sad, by that I mean shes so much more addicted to her phone and fashion she doesnt care about us, shes so focused on her phone sometimes we spend days without her cooking dinner..


@ wholesome of the day!


Sorry to hear this cutie. It quite sounds like your mother is a phone addict, sadly. Maybe you should talk with the rest of your family and try and get your mother to do a therapy against addictions 3


Hope you'll be better soon..


Shes so much more focused on her reputation too


Im sorry to hear that mwilku. I really hope you guys arent going hungry and that youre eating;;


We are


is your dad home?


if he is then ask him to get you some food


Im at his house right now


then you should ask for some food


I have abit of a gambling addiction


We eat okay but thats the case sometimes


aw hope everything gets better!


Okay, so I used to work in the Don't Trip Army discord server If you don't know which server that is, its YouTuber Jeremy's official discord server. I was really happy that I got in! I worked at another place as well and it was called Scammer Police. We try to prevent scams and stop them. The owner, my exfriend, was jealous that I got into the Don't Trip Army staff team and thought that I didn't deserve it and that she should've gotten in instead of me. She made up fake rumors and made fake evidence and made me get fired from my Don't Trip Army staff position. I was devastated because working there was my dream. I cried for an hour. Only one of the don't trip army staff believed me. Soon later, I decided to quit being staff in scammer police because the owner was toxic, and didn't care about anything except for the fame that her server brought her. I got over it, but now I just remembered it and started crying. I need advice...


Poor you..


Its best to explain how the proof is fake, expose as much of it as possible..


Im not good at explaining.


Awww


What was the rumor?


Do you know?


what the heck


thats just


thats so toxic


Yeah


you didnt deserve that at all


shame on the dont trip army staff


Awe Stellaif it's toxic like that then you don't need to be in that! You should explain how the rumor was fake.


If they don't believe you maybe you shouldn't be in that! I hope everything goes better for you!


DMs open if you need to talk!


im giving props to the staff member that believed u


if you ever wanna talk about something my dms are open as well


you deserve better


agreed


mintie it wasnt the staff fault they didnt know it was fake


It her friend”


ik but still


It wouldnt make sense to fault them for not knowing


i just wonder how good the fake evidence was


because if mustve been really good if only one person believed stella


it could also depend on the relationships


but either way stella deserves better than a toxic friend”


i just really hope


that the servers doesnt bring up on the situation and starts talking crap about you


wow


I now work at 3 servers with 1k members each and the owners aren't toxic. My toxic friend who framed me is now begging for me to come work at scammer police again because they are losing a bunch of members since I left. apparently I was the members favorite staff


did the staff know you were lesbian?


No..


This happened a month ago and I wasn't confident exposing my sexuality in public. But last week, my real friends explained that it was okay to be attracted to the same gender and that it doesn't make me any less of who I am now.


is your exfriend still trying to contact you?


if so you should block them


If things don't work out it wasn't meant to be and you should let go of it, I'm not really good at comforting people, don't worry karma is going to collect her debt.


im sorry if my somewhat advice isnt helpful


half of the time i was mad and not giving u some good advice;;


I'm so sorry this is happening to you Stella! DMs open if u need to talk.


I'm bad at advice


stellatrix also you should tell them your sexuality! Then perhaps they won't think your homophobic?


Of course, only if your comfortable with it


it may be too late to try and get her job back since it happened over a month ago


Oh right


I missed that


and she already works with 3 other servers and she shouldnt stress herself out


Yeah.


Thank you all for the advice. Unfortunately, I don't have contact with the staff anymore, but now I feel more confident! Thank you all!


yw stella


Glad we helped you, I hope you the best of luck with the other 3 servers you work in!


I've sorta got to get this off my chest, it's been around a few hours now and I've still been feeling guilty, my friend and her other friends made a marriage server which was a joke server and I had alot of fun there! And me and a girl were joking about being yanderes and murder, no we weren't joking about deaths that have happened we were just joking around and saying stuff like we were going to murder each other, we were joking don't worry. And out of nowhere a girl starts to scold us for joking about it and saying it wasn't funny, we all got into a fight and the girl who owned the server was so upset that we wouldn't stop fighting that she considered deleting the server, and a few other events happened, I felt guilty for a while, and I sorta want someone to shame me. I feel like I ruined their friendship. The whole situation is sorta stupid but I just feel guilty.


@ wholesome of the day!


It really depends on everyones humor


lord


i cannot type


bruh


Listen it's not your fault! You were just messing around with someone. Everyone takes everything differently! It's just how she took it! Don't feel guilty for being yourself. So you just do you and let them do them


DM me if u need to talk more!


You didnt do anything wrong. Its just that you and the girl have different types of humor. You werent making fun of anyones death so you dont need to be shamed!


qwq


Thank you all for the advice, I was actually sorta afraid to talk about this situation at first, I really appreciate it.


yw yw


yw


Ya see thats the stuff i like not just ;;” actually reading the story and helping


istu you have no need to feel gulity, she probably didn't understand it was a joke


Hi, I just needed to well say something. I've had this close friend. She is really nice. But it seems like she copies everything I do. I tried to take it as flattery. But it is really hard. I know she looks up to me somehow, but sometimes I just want my ideas to my own? Like she copied my writing idea, decided to make banners when I did. Copied my style once. Tried to copy my channel namevery similar. Now she is trying to make discord banners. She got into anime when I did. Now she is trying to make discord servers as well as I got into making discord servers for people. I love my friend. I told her this. And she yes, got better, but still kinda copies. I'm glad she learned. But, I still feel sad because sometimes she acts really odd. Like for example, when I tell her to stop, sometimes she doesn't stop. It angried me enough to block her for 1 hour. I'm a really easy forgiving person. But, this time, I feel really angered. I know I shouldn't be angry. But I am. I feel like I'm the bad person for feeling thing way.


Hm, your friend should stop if you ask them..


Tell them you had enough of them copying you, if they dont listen still just block her for 1 hr or something


Its okay to be harsh sometimes


Copying is never okay even if it's from a friend


Theres a huge difference between being inspired by someone and just straight up copying someone.


Yeah, Inspiration is wayyy different; anyone who's experienced in any creative field would understand the difference.;P


even though shes a friend, if their just copying you its not okay you cant just go down right copy someone and expect them to be okay with it


Yeah, thanks for the help. I will somehow try to confront her. I really appreciate it that you came here to help me. Thank you again!


np


and yw


I just wonder if she actually enjoys doing all of this stuff or if she only does these things because you do them


Yeah. Well I'm gonna go and try to get ready to confront her. Goodbye!


Bye bye and Gl


@ wholesome of the day! I dont know if Im supposed to ping or how this works sorry if I wasnt supposed to


its okay!


u pinged the correct thing:


Its okay to still feel upset about something someone did


For some people, an apology doesnt work when someone does something


That's kinda why I don't apologize to someone right away


It can even depend on what that someone did


but what I say is you should just tell him how you feel and then give it a little time


atleast that's what I would do


mhmm


Okay. Thank you so much you guys


Np and yw


It's okie sweetie dw


Yui hug justpeachy


yui hug justpeachy


alright i give up


i seriously needa vent


i dont feel comfortable talking about everything i feel depressed about though, just what i really need to put out.


My life feels like a loop, im stressed everyday, i get angry everyday, i cry everyday, and i just overall never really feel peaceful. I cant do my hobbies anymore, i just... cant bring myself to enjoy them anymore, no matter how inspired or how much i want to do them. My family is just stressing me every day and its not their fault, i just get stressed too easily. I feel depressed a lot and i cant enjoy my life anymore like i did. I always end up angry and locked in my room doing nothing but crying.


School just worsens everything since i have to do all my homeworks, projects and essays, etc. No matter how much i sleep i always wake up tired and wishing i could sleep for a few more days, i always wake up with either leg pains, back pains or fatigue. I take medicine for anxiety and insomnia but it feels like it doesnt help.


Oh my god I wish I could just hug you for days


Being stressed must suck so so bad and I wish I could relate and help you but I cant do much


yui hug Goff


Secor sorry for ping try to find something to help you cope. like find a happy place and go there when u feel sad for ex: mine is music also drinking hot tea helps me a lot


My happy place is when I daydream


Its nice being in a world where you can do what you want.


My hobbies, like music, cooking, drawing, etc. Helped me cope... im trying to enjoy them more


And tysvm guys


No worries!!


i should be here more often 0.0


yui hug Jonathan


i was gonna vent here since none of my friends r available atm but i feel like all im gonna get is rlly short answers and like


its okay qt!, a bot hug, or something of the sort


it rlly doesnt help at all, im literally in a state of distress


teefy Hiya and if you'd like to vent here i'll try my best to give you good advice and whatever I can to help out! Just ping me with your messages


im just sad all the time it's like a curse


im crying and idek why


im probably overracting to a little bit of stress


ugh everything bad is my fault, even if it isnt i still have to find a way to make it my fault, im such terrible whiney person smh


youre probably sick of me


maybe i should delete those messages


oh this counts as spam


cya...


@ wholesome of the day! so sorry for ping


What happened?


everything


What is the thing you are mainly sad abt..?


We arent sick of you, and its not your fault. Some things just happen, and they sometimes arent in your control. That doesnt make it your fault at all. You just have to keep having hope that things will get better, thats the key to healing. If you ever want to vent again its fine because you arent making us sick of you or anything so feel free


idk some toxic friend i had 3 years ago


Oh ic.


thanks


so


much


but im not into dealing with positivity directed at me, apologies but i usually only suck up negative things


i


i mean


were gonna say negative things to you


so uh.


yeah


lmao


im not a 2 year old


Any advice to make myself happier?.. I have a really really bad time in my Life and now i feel depressed even more.


@ wholesome of the day!


sorry for late ping!


hmm how about text your friends or think about something that makes you happier?


Hmm, first of all, Im sorry you are going through a bad time. Keep in mind that it will be over soon, so hang in there! I suggest trying new things. Doing that might find you a new hobby which will be able to bring you a bit of joy for a while, or at least distract you.


orrr play with your pets if you have one?


im not good with advices so cri


Yeah thats a good idea! If you dont have one you can also just talk to your friends as they suggested earlier


SOME GOOD ADVICE FROM ME TO BE HAPPY jkjk, im bad at this but BEAR WITH ME


Just don't think about it:D


Maybe you're lonely? THEN JUST IDK JUMP AROUND UR BED OR Read some manga like me


And that's basically it actually, Everything you do makes u happy as long as you enjoy everything


i was gonna vent here since none of my friends r available atm but i feel like all im gonna get is rlly short answers and like


its okay qt!, a bot hug, or something of the sort


it rlly doesnt help at all, im literally in a state of distress


Then should I say IKNOWITSNOTOKAYBUTJUSTENJOYEVERYTHINGYOUDOANDANDJUSTBEHAPPY Okay my bad xd


Well, just overcome or overwhelm? SORRY BAD VOCABULATY ur stress


You have problems irl? That's okay, it happens, that's just how life works


But if u overcome it, you'll turn into a stronger person stronger than John cena NEVERMIND


ayachii do what you love do something that makes you happy. If you don't have something find it or watch a show that'll make you feel good. If there's anything you need help on don't hesitate to ask any of us


ayachii


i agree with the statement above, find something that you will find satisfaction and contentment in. don't be afraid to express how you feel, don't force yourself to feel happy if you can't at the moment. let your feelings flow for a while then muster up the strength to get back up again. it's best you find a healthy coping mechanism like maybe journalling or a support group like this channel. hydrate yourself and never skip meals. remember that these bad times will end too and that healing isn't linear.


can someone comfort me for something?


Im kinda upset rn for the harsh and hurtful words my Best Friend Told me...


what did they tell you?


well,


Aoi i cann sorry ping and being here late


This is sorta not a big problem but it's been going on for a while so hey! Why not vent about it! People usually leave me either on read which doesn't really bother me but then there's people who full on go offline right when I DM them and it's sorta hurtful usually the only reason people respond to me are if because I asked something or if I'm offering something and it's sorta sad. It's sorta made me feel like I'm annoying or a bother


@ wholesome of the day!


I have a question for you, are they your friends or just people you just met?


Well, usually both


It's not that big of a deal but it just sorta hurts y'know?


Hey imma be real people now a days don't really expect whole heartedness


They always expect people to be fake and think they want something in return


Just remember it's ok and there's a never a reason to fret however


I'm just talking from personal experience


Your never a bother or annoyance to anyone


han


well...


Its not really harsh but


She's just annoyed at my excuses


like im busy and all, But its really true that im busy...she just only cares about us roleplaying and not letting me have small breaks since im working on my youtube and editings and all...I also wanted to joke around and it doesnt seem like she cares and i told her than im upset and she just said


Are we just gonna be sad and not continue? coz if you are gonna be sad all day Im out!


We've been friends since 2nd grade i dont know why she's been treating me differently as I treat her...


istu I'm so sorry that happens to you. If they don't text back, maybe find new friends. Find some real people, not people who don't talk to you. It's kinda hard to find some like that! But, i wish you luck finding friends sorry for ping DMs open if u need to talk more


Alright thank you.


Yeah my DMS are always open if you need to talk


I wouldn't consider them fake though


They do talk to me


And they aren't toxic in any way


Just sorta hurts seeing people purposely leaving me on read


Ah I see


Like I said though it's not that big of a deal


Just wanted to talk to someone about it


Perhaps you could confront them about it just to know if they do it on purpose and maybe it'll make you feel better to get a direct answer


O h n o


Oh I see


han


well...


Its not really harsh but


She's just annoyed at my excuses


Aoi


hm, can you try bringing up her behavior? and when did she start treating you like this? if she doesn't own up to her actions and apologize and not do it again after you explain how you feel and how she's been acting toward you, it's best to cut contact with her as it will affect you mentally.


explain to her that you have a life outside of roleplaying.


When i tell her that im afraid that she'll say more hurtful words to me and might stop being my best friend...she is kinda my only friend that i talk or roleplay if i might say everyday...


when did she start this?


Well the first ever i noticed about this was at 4th grade I changed schools and havent gotten in contact with her for that grade and at 5th grade i came back to that school where we both met and started our friendship there is when I noticed she kinda hates me a bit i didnt do anything to her or probably its because I changed schools...this kinda went up until now...


I do also have other friends but I dont wanna loose a friend...im not used to it


aww, i'm pretty sure that a lot of people is not used to it. but, she is toxic, and its bad if you have a toxic friend. i know you might feel really sad, but you need to well have to cut ties with her! its better to have friends that treat you better than have a friend that can affect you mentally.


Aoi In this situation, I don't think this is your fault. Maybe she is not in a good mood or some kind of that? Still, you have other friends and they will support you w. What about you guys spend more time which each other like playing games, having a sleepover? About her harmful words, ask her if she really mean it or having a talk with her about it! I hope you found this helpful because I'm not good at these stuff as well TT


i agree with Sayaki, this isn't your fault.


i know it must be hard to confront her about it but it's better if this matter is addressed, it's not good she's acting hurtful towards you. as Sayaki said, ask her if she really meant it and talk about it. she's been your bestfriend for a long time, she's supposed to understand.


i already confronted her and talked things out and in the matter of fact, I forgave her in the end


i see, did it go alright?


yepp


well, that's good to know then!


she's just been jealous about me ever since she met me...i dont really know why...


ok my first time venting


real story actually,


I know this is not a venting actually but...


I really wanna open my own YouTube channel in which I share my covers. But I dont trust myself actually and dont know if I can do it or not because people may not like my voice, i dont even know if my voice is good my friends say so but im not sure oof;;


potato queen Why don't you just post a short piece of your singing and see where it goes? If your friends like it, I'm sure there will be other people who like it as well! I often don't trust myself too, but I can tell you: Just try it! If people don't like it, ignore them. Focus on the persons who like it, and the most important thing is: You have to like it. So many like its xD Hope I could help!


Dw sweetie I'm sure your voice is fantastic and great3 you'll just have to practice if your voice changes while you panic. No one has a bad voice you know cutiepotato queen


Oop


Or u can just join vc!


aww thanks


Asebility it might be good even tho my earphones are broken hehe


oop


I feel like I wanna let my crying out. I try to stay strong. But watching one of my family members suffer. Makes me sad, my cousin is in the hospital. And she wants to go home so bad, it makes me wanna cry when she says that. Shes the one that always spend times with me, and I appreciate that. I just want a chance to talk to her for once. But again, my family keeps fighting and yelling. They cant even agree one single thing. My cousin needs to do this one thing but she cant. She doesnt believe in herself. I dont wanna lose one of my love ones...


@ wholesome of the day!


Omg..


I am so sorry


in having a hard time too


im


I'm.. Speachless, I'm so sorry you have to go through this..


If you'd like to vent more my DMs are always opened


I feel like I wanna let my crying out. I try to stay strong. But watching one of my family members suffer. Makes me sad, my cousin is in the hospital. And she wants to go home so bad, it makes me wanna cry when she says that. Shes the one that always spend times with me, and I appreciate that. I just want a chance to talk to her for once. But again, my family keeps fighting and yelling. They cant even agree one single thing. My cousin needs to do this one thing but she cant. She doesnt believe in herself. I dont wanna loss one of my love ones...


ria hey, its good. I would try to talk to someone about it, like someone you really know, a family member, it'll be good to actually get it off your chest, and you'll feel better. Take a deep breath, and just sit there without doing anything but breathing. It'll really help im sure


It will get better with time. For now it seems like it's a dead end but it really isn't. Your cousin will be okay. Pleasd stay strong, I believe in you


omg. Thats crazy i'm so sorry that happened you to u dms open if u need to vent more


If you every need anything else my dms are always opened


ria im so sorry to hear that, cherri. its very hard to deal with, but i know everything will turn out well in the future, i hope the best for you. keep staying positive! 33


I am TMinus 11 days until College restarts, I have put together a plan but it may be the riskiest undertaking I will ever do


If you are not caught up with my situation, slide left, hit search and paste this into the search bar


From: Th3S0uth3rnGamR6920 inloveletter:venting


With my college opening 11 days out, I do have a plan


The college has a different system now, you only have to go to class every other day


Before we get started, at the end of this I want to know if Im crazy


With the class system in mind, I will be up there every day


But, this may be breaking the rules


Which Im worried about


Suki, it may be a while for me to lay all this out


So dont feel forced to stay


You can always come back


Im just reading it.


You can continue


If the latter occurs I may circumvent to make every day count


I dont want to hurt anyone, I didnt want to break the rules, I just want to be loved while Im still young


I am but one man


Its ok!


I have surveyed the area to see exactly where people would be, and areas that are marked off


Mhm.


Sorry to interrupt you!


Im sure you understand my situation of never being loved in my life. It is a disaster that I will have to resort to violating COVID rules


But its the only plan I have


I have bettered myself for this very moment


I now have a car


A drivers license


All acquired in mere months


I am proud


I have readied myself


I have more independence then I ever have had in my whole life


All acquired in months


Not years


I will try the hardest


I respect authority, I always have. Everyone who is above me, I have treated with the utmost respect, and I will continue to do so


I follow the rules, I respect the rules i obey the rules, but these new rules, if I have to break them just to be find a person I can hold in my arms and cry into, your damn right Ill break them, Im not hurting anybody by doing so


Yes I understand, and you are right


Still, nobody do what what Im gonna do


Seriously


But thanks for your understanding


Mhm


Y'know those times where you feel offended, betrayed and ganged up on but you know the other people are just kidding but you still feel offended and try to keep it secretive but your failing and you don't know what to do and it's just a bit rude what they said to you but you really don't feel like confronting them because they are your best friends and you don't know what to do because you've turned the awkward and you start to panic a bit and yeah


@ wholesome of the day!


I feel you sis


I'm


mood


I don't know what to do


Ah, I can relate to that


Lmao


i feel you


I usually confront them..


Yes we got into a fight once


But I usually tell them to think before they say something


Oh no


I can't do that


Awe why is that?


I'd look rude and I don't know not calling you rude or anything but I just feel like it'd be rude coming from me you know


Dont worry


There is always a first


I'm not good at confronting people


u wont look rude just tell them straight up that you dont like it


Yeah


Alright


They are technically the ones rude


I think


but be polite about it at the same time


Mgm


Mhm


w


Umm like Im sorry but that quite offended me somehow”


Something like that


Umm sorry I wasnt much help but goodluck!


I hope the best for you and always alwayss have a great day!


God bless you!


Thank you!


My pleasure


You too!


Do you believe in alternate timelines?


if youre lonely


My friend blocked me for no reason and Im worried


He even kicked my friend and me out of their server


oop


Idk why


He even blocked me out of their insta


have you heard of a l t s?


Yes


use an alt to check it out


But idk if they would text


I texted him why


He texted me and he said that he will talk about it later


yo they muted the deletedchannel


and the deletedchannel


Ok so lately I got a text message that a friend of mine in grade 8 wanted to have a gay relationship with me even though Im straight! I told her that I have a straight relationship with another person. but she told me that she would not tell him anything about our relationship. Even if I told her that I have another straight relationship with someone, she would text me a sweating emoji. I really need the @ wholesome of the day! to help me how to solve the problem to that because Im straight


Oh, yikes. It really looks like shes not respecting your boundaries.


Thats not okay at all, Im sorry shes doing that to you.


dang ive never heard of a situation like this before


but ill try my best to help


She really really loves me but idk how to respond to that


Judson hmm that sounds bad. i would suggest warning her saying stop, i'm not interested. if you do this again i'll have to block you i know its hard but shes clearly going over the line. tell her to stop, and if u need me to help ill try my best 3.


op


please be careful with double pings


I can send the text screenshot for proof


Shes trying to pressure you into having a relationship with her, thats not okay! Thats honestly very shady, and disrespectful to you as a friend.


No need to


if she starts getting toxic over it i would suggest separating from her for a bit


K


Im trying but she likes texting me all the time


I told her that we can still be friends


But she texted


Ok


Yes, please dont let her pressure you into anything... If she keeps texting you, just dont reply if you dont want to. If youre busy, or just dont feel like talking, or at any time feel uncomfortable with the conversation, Id recommend to stop texting. She needs to learn to respect your feelings


Ok thanks so much Peach!


if she cant understand that theres boundaries then she might not be a good friend after all


two p i n g s


I told her that Im not interested and shes telling me why


Idk how to reply to that


Ok so lately I got a text message that a friend of mine in grade 8 wanted to have a gay relationship with me even though Im straight! I told her that I have a straight relationship with another person. but she told me that she would not tell him anything about our relationship. Even if I told her that I have another straight relationship with someone, she would text me a sweating emoji. I really need the @/692408666330103968 to help me how to solve the problem to that because Im straight


Dygall


If she wants to stay friends with you or overall to be in good relations with you, you should ask her to stop pressuring you into something you're not interested in. First off you are taken and in happy relationship, second off nobody has right to pressure you into different sexuality if you don't feel comfortable about it because it your personal thing and not their business.


Also you should tell your partner too in case she starts to bother you.


Comfort her together if that's the only solution to get her to stop.


Ok so I decided to block her because shes forcing me on a relationship that Im not ok with


@ wholesome of the day! thanks so much guys


yw


Im sad that I couldnt help but hopefully you feel better:


P i n g


if you ever need to talk again my dms are open


p i n g


Y e s


thanks so much guys


Charil next time just say thank you, the ping is for if you have need to vent


or just ping a few people who helped


This isnt exactly a vent but its just my body hurts my shoulder hurts everything hurts it hurts too much and Im getting extremely cold.. My throat feels weird its like the pain Mercer stop


@ wholesome of the day!


Oof well i suggest drinking more water


did you try resting D:


Yes


I even drunk water


And putting something warm on like pajamas


maybe just take a nice nap


drink water maybe drink some tea for your throat get a blanket and eat something warm like soup


oh if you have a heating blanket you can put that on your shoulders


or something warm


Maybe take a hot shower.


yeah that to


i hope you feel better:/


honestly Scooterrat i would suggest getting off discord, off electronics. then heat up some milk or drink some warm water. then you should maybe eat something off the BRAT diet if u feel hungry. but you should take a nap and wrap yourself in warm blankets. i hope you feel better hun 3


BRAT diet is Bananas, Rice, Applesauce, Toast


I lost my appetite..


The only thing I ate all the day was cereal


oh no


try having some saltine crackers


mhm


just take a nap tho, it'll help for sure. make sure you dont sleep more than an hour or else u might feel woozy


or dizzy


or just ewird


weird


sleeping to much can make you feel sick


yeah


Ill try


stuff nose


hmm


u might be sick


or anxious


i get that feeling when im anxious


Ive had it for a few days


I dont know what to do


Its getting like worse


go wrap urself in blankets and sleep or watch some television, have like 2 saltine crackers and i'd advise u to eat either airborne or vitamin c drink that always helps also have some soup


talk to ur parents


Hello


Whts tht?


They told me to take a warm bath


i felt similar when i got food poisoning abt 2 weeks ago. maybe you should schedule an app with your doctor depending on how you feel in the morning to see whats wrong, in the meantime if you get hungry eat but not too much and try to avoid very sugary or salty things if you begin to feel sick to the stomach.


My dad currently started taking night shifts at his workplace and most of the workers there have either caught COVID19 or have a few symptoms, most workers who have took the night shifts are the ones that caught COVID and although my dad hasn't developed any symptoms I'm concerned. He smokes aswell as drinks, which isn't any help, I really am concerned and I have a younger brother who's only 7 and most likely doesn't have that strong of an immune system, I'm really nervous and I just really hope none of us catch COVID during this pandemic. @ wholesome of the day! .


warm baths will help but i would reccomend a shower then a bath so you can feel refreshed then relax in a bath dont use any bath bombs or scented things! Scooterrat


I just took a shower


Didnt help


alright hmm


awww i'm really sorry ur going thru that. i hope ur family stays safe, istu


Thank you


mwily did you read my other message?


I really hope so aswell


Yes


what time is it for you


Alot of people near me have caught COVID and a few are recovering from it which gives me hope.


My state is top contagious.


mwilky what time is it


Im at my dad house


Since my mom wants me safe


what are you going to do next, eat, sleep, or do something else.


u should sleep


Lay down and take a nap if possible


If I feel better Ill eat


alright heres what i did when i got food poisoning


i would usually go te sleep early at around 8 and would eat something very small like a granola bar


Yes..


You could do some activities like drawing to keep your mind calm


lag?


or spam


Lag


ahh ok


hmmm


Thank you for the suggestions.. right now we dont have any crackers


im not too sure. try heating up some water and going to bed 3 i hope u feel better


In camp I had a similiar CASS but with throwing up and waking up to throw up


if i started to feel sick or began shaking i would turn on a dim light and distract myself with something while in a sleeping or resting position in my bed and if it got very bad i would get up and take a shower or bath then try to relax myself so i would stop getting chills or shaking and then fall asleep, it helps i you have a warm fluffy pet resting by your side.


yeah, omg pets are the best


also drink tiny sips of water, do not eat or chug water or any other liquid if you begin to shake or feel nauseous


i would focus on stuff i usually dont; watch the news, watch my ssiter, do some hw or something


sister


i hope this helped mwilky bun if you need anything else just ask and ill help as ive said i got food poisoning recently which felt very similar to as yyou are describing how you feel


Ill try..


and of course this is my take on things so not everythong is accurate as we are different


Yes


if you need to distract yourself by talking dim your brightness and ill be here


low light and relaxing steam helps calm your stomach and relax you


I need help with things i dont know how to say tbh im torn between 2 people 1 i have a lot of history with and started talking too again and knows a lot about me and has helped me through some shiz the other she knows a lot about me helped me through a lot shiz and they both have keep me from doing things and i dont know to say too one and too the other i mean i love them both but like i just need help honestly. Sorry its not really a vent but it is at the same time idk anymore. @ wholesome of the day!


Torn?


do you mean like you want to date one of them?


I cant spell for the life of me


I don't really understand what you mean by torn. Can you elaborate more on that?


Its hard to explain honestly


oh.


Is it like


You like two people?


Its like i like 2 people who both like me i have history with one a long history not like dating just knowing eachother and helping eachother


choose both


why tho


Why not start a polymory?


wel i mean


My friend is in one and she perfectly fine!


choose the one u think will be there for u, the one who's kind, the one who's helpful and the one that puts the most smiles on ur face


If you like her then date her


Tbh


I dont know what to tell the other one


It's alright to reject them


Ive read the thread. You dont need to tell me anything


Just apologize


Thanks for the help


I really do wish I helped more, unfortunately I'm not that great in giving advice when it comes to love.


I've never been in a relationship so


I have to go now


Alright!


Stay safe


I feel like Im going to die. I didnt realize I loved him until it was too late. And theres nothing I can do about it. I didnt even know I could love another person. Im. Im devastated I dont know what to do.


I dont know if Ive ever cried like this its so strange to me. I thought I was aromantic before this, but. My heart hurts so freaking bad.


@ wholesome of the day!


justpeachy what do you mean? what happened


He literally left every server we have in common Im


daisy Im the other girl..


Like


I just


Im not ready for a relationship


But I love him I didnt even know it


Until he found another girl


I just feel so stupid


He thinks Id be mad at him for being with another girl


I dont hate him I hate myself


Im not happy. I cant be. I love him. I dont know her. Im literally devastated. He told me hes liked her all this time. It feels like a sucker punch. He told me he loved me even though he knew he still liked her


I just. I wish I couldve been a normal person so I couldve been with him like I wanted to.


I shouldve just never fallen for him oh my life. My religion says we arent supposed to do that kind of thing and I did it anyway. This has gotta be my punishment or something. Gods trying to teach me something. Unless this is just sick karma. I never knew a person could hurt like this.


It feels like he offered me the world, and I was hesitant about taking him up on it, then he ripped the carpet out from under my feet


expiredmilk didnt work..


what happened?


is everything alright?


is u ok


Scooterrat


Im still hurting


what pain u feel


stomach, eyes, headache, back or your whole body hurt


what does it feel like, are you getting waves of hot and cold, are you getting chills or are u achey and feel like ur whole body is bruised


i sound like a doctor


i am your temporary support doctor heehee


It hurts and whenever I touch something cold it feels like it hurts more


are you very tense in your legs and chest?


By that what do you mean


like do your legs and chest feel weird or do they ache and feel different from the rest of your body


thats good


Well its more like a slightly intense ache when I touch something cold


well you need to warm up and balance yourself between hot and cold until you find a temp and position that you comfortable with then the most important thing through all of this is relax and try to get as much rest as you can, like i said earlier try to relax by doing an activity that will make you fall asleep that comforts you


ik saying it a lot doesnt really help


but just keep trying to fall asleep, its best if you have a warm soft pet that you can be near its very soothing


all im really saying is the same thing over and over which you dont want to hear but its very needed


Okay


i have to go soon so if you have any more problems relax yourself and get some rest ill be here in the morning around 7:30 to 8 in your timezone. Please sleep good and I hope you feel much better


That can be serious


How big was the computer and how heavy is it


Hon go to the damn doctor


Tell someone to take you


dont say it like that


vun, tell your parents about it.


:D


Even if its nothing, thats not a risk you want to take. Especially if youve already had a heart attack.


Definitely go doctor


hope ur okay


I hope you will get a good doctor!


im back if anyone needs more help im here for the day!


i dont want to seem like im searching for attention, but i hope i dont. nowadays i feel like theres nothing to like about, life isnt going great and i keep wishing it would. sometimes i feel so lonely. its like theres no one around me anymore. i keep getting stressed from school work and i want to relax, i want to have more friends but im just such an awkward person they'll say im weird. honestly, i dont know whats this feeling. im sorry if i offended you or seem like an attention seeker, thank you for reading this. i love you, enjoy your day/ night.


were here for you


Rien hey it's ok to be weird. We all are. It's ok to feel bad. I've been there quite a bit. But it gets better cause we as a community are here for you. If you ever need to talk dm me cause I would love to help you in any way I can


thank you, case and milk.


Of course


Anytime you need to talk I'm here


Huh, It turns out that I look pale. What else will be happening?


However, I have to admit; I had a cold night for two nights in a row...


Im so mad today... yesterday about my situation, my sister had a text from her and she said it was a joke about me being lesbians with her. The reason why she pranked me is that she! Is bored


@ wholesome of the day!


Im so mad I need help


Thats just


Messed up


wrong on so many levels


queer baiting AND messed up


Thats so unfair! I can see why you would be mad. Maybe though, if you show her you were unaffected she wont do it again. And also thats so wrong and messed up. Im sorry you have to go through that : Do you have any hobbies you could do?


I think you should give a lecture on why thats completely wrong


thats rude.


yeah


that makes me angry on so many levels


frfr


I was confused until she said that shes fricking bored


Yeah its just so wrong on like so many levels


i would be pissed at them if someone did that to me


Im not gonna be friends with her


Like Im done


Clearly she doesnt realize what people go through when they are part of the LGBTQ community


Yeah, I dont think you should be friends anymore


like i said before i recommend giving her a lecture on why that wasnt okay so she doesnt do it again


Ya


My mom told me that its ok but done talk to her


Unless she changes anytime soon, sorry but I dont think shes worth it


Mhmm


Its not worth it


Yeah, thats honestly just messed up and hurtful ngl


Thanks so much @ wholesome of the day!


Anytime


no problem


Yw! We got your back


I just found out my boyfriend cheating on me with my sister. I don't wanna comfort them but i wanna kill them. Please help @ wholesome of the day!


np and DUMP THAT BF


DUMP YO SISTER


Nani


Yes


Slap your sister and tell her what shes doing wrong


Im so so sorry. That is so messed up. I know it might be hard, but I strongly suggest breaking up or taking a break until you can make up your mind


The fact that it was with ur sister


Why would your sister go behind your back?


Yeah


The most trusted person


I'm sorry that happened to you, your bf doesn't deserve you if he is going to treat you so terribly


Saira i dont know


Did she know it was your boyfriend?


Saira ofc she did. She was my favorite sister


I


Unforgivable


There should be no excuse


I think she was fake to you the whole time Im sorry to hear that


Cheating is a big deal in relationships especially when they cheat with someone you trust. You have got to break up. Take a break from your sister too


Yes for now you must be very hurt so


how is that nsfw


Dont make big decisions


Do break up with him


And take a break


Ill try


When you are calm and able to think properly then deal with your sister


You shouldnt have to get along with people who treat you terribly and break your trust in this way, break up with him and just take some time to heal


Ill do so


Yes


No one deserves to get cheated


I think you should break up ngl. Its your choice in the end but thats so wrong. You dont deserve to be in a relationship with someone who would stoop so low


He showed me signs that he didnt like me anymore but i was just too naive to read them


I hope that you feel better soon and get over this terrible incident


I hope so too


Its alright what matters is now it is revealed


Many people can be d!Ckheads in our world


Well he didnt have to go as far as cheating on you, he could've directly let you know and in the end its his fault for treating you like this


I agree


He couldve told you


If he didnt like you


Couldve been honest with you


please dont ping that role


please dont pint


ping


AH


Anytime, we are always here


no problem:


We dont mind


you can ping for a vent but dont ping the everyone with the thanks, just a few people


yh but some people don't like it when it constantly gets pinged, but its okay for now since it was probably just an accident


@ wholesome of the day! for some reason I have this vibe that that my mother likes my brother more..In the case I mean that whenever I want to do something shes like Oh no I dont have money sorry next time! but when Im at my dad she goes with my brother and Does all the things I wanted to do.. its not fair


try talking to her about it. she might not realize it or maybe ur brother is going thru something and she's tryna make him feel better. talk to her about it, tell her i feel like i'm treated unfairly. i hope everything goes well 3


Talk to your mother


Thats mean


Yes


Let her know


You feel this way


Communication is key here in the relationship so try talking to her alone when no one is around and telling her how you feel


Inactive: talk to her sweetheart i am sure it is not a conscious decision to do all of that. if you two discuss it, im sure she will see that and everything will get better as pepper said, communication is key between any relationship


take away her phone gently and then tell her when shes focused on you


Inactive: or wait for her to finish


no need to be aggressive


habhahaha


Tell your dad whats happening maybe he can help?


Inactive: sit next to her at a point she seems available and try to start a conversation, if she says to wait, then wait, but make sure she knows that you are waiting


i dont think being aggressive about it will help


you dont know that, it can easily be a misunderstanding


i think trying the nice way first would be better


for some reason I have this vibe that that my mother likes my brother more..In the case I mean that whenever I want to do something shes like Oh no I dont have money sorry next time! but when Im at my dad she goes with my brother and Does all the things I wanted to do.. its not fair


Scooterrat My mom does that too. Ask your mother some questions like who is better at this or who do you think will succeed in life if she says you everything is fine in most questions if she says your brother then you must really talk to her about it. Cuz thats not good parenting


Dont be aggressive bruh


Be nice if she doesnt listen


You know she aint yo mama


Inactive: as milk said, if they just pull their phone away theyll get grounded


Shes to addicted to her phone shes so addicted that one day is started raining and we where all outside so I had to shout at her and she got mad at me for shouting at her for using the phone in the rain


And grounded me


Shes to focused on my fashion


And to focused on how I dress than rather me


Oh if phone isnt the problem


She needs to see somebody


It is


Shes an addict


Their so addicted that they like watching tv and using the phone at the same time


Facebook thats all I see


I didnt even know


Parents could be phone addict


Inactive: then talk to her


everyone can be addicted to anything


its not good


Im tired of her she broke my tablet with my piggy bank so I had to get a new one..


Oops


Yeah discord has been acting up lately


I mean if she broke it


She will buy it


No


She says that 1 dollar candy is too expensive but when it comes to her she buys 300500S stuff that she doesnt even touch


I tried telling her but she gets mad at me


My brother is locked in his room all day


Go to Dr.phil Scooterrat


He will help your mother


Ye doesnt play fortnite


She isnt even a understanding mother


Thats why I said Dr.Phil


Yes.


But


Hm?


She gets so mad she almost threw a knife at me


Run away


Just because I didnt answer her


I have Depression thats Crippling me into pieces from people bullying me all the time, and im sick of it. I cry everyday, and sadness always overcomes me, and i hate it. my parents say i don't have depression but i don't know, i always fake my smiles, and..its just..SICKENING. my friend, also recently told me that she liked me and i didn't like her, matter of fact i have a girlfriend but she's a friend and i didn't wanna be mean so idk what to do


@ wholesome of the day!


Actually you should politely say no


Because I think thats the best option


idk how to help but if ya wanna talk my dms are always open!


Also I dont think your parents understand how your feeling


i haven't told them about the depression


I see


Maybe instead of telling your parents you can contact some type of online therapist


i asked my mom that i wanted to get checked up abut it or go to a therapist but i want their consultation


Also if somebody is bullying you, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF


Thats the best option in my opinion


Oh okay


sometimes i think my dad doesnt love me, he gets mad and yells and tells me he doesnt then he always after says sorry and we go back to normal but i cant keep doing this is hurts and hurts every time and i love my dad bc hes my dad but sometimes i just question, does he really love me back? @ wholesome of the day!


and i told my other friend about her liking me who is also her best friend but she kept saying bc your a very good friend and brushed it off


I'm sorry all this is happening to you Eclipse, its better to come clean to your friend and politely decline them and letting them know you dont feel the same way so that it doesnt cause any misunderstandings later on


i would talk to him and ask


Sometimes i dont wanna be happy


WRONG CHAT


SORRY


Oh no problem


Kenzie 3 this happens with both of my parents too, and sometimes I dont think they love me. But even if he yells at you, deep down he loves you with all his heart


thank you.


Kenzie 3 Im thinking the same thing about my mom but i think he loves you, I know i hurts a lot but I know youre strong enough  My dms are open if you want


No problem Kenzie


pls don't quote the msg it pings a lot of people


oh okie


Maybe he just cant express his love to you Kenzie but im sure your father loves you and Cares about you very much


potato, the double pings ping venting helpers all over again, thats why ty! 333


if you do quote get rid of the venting helpers ping 3


i got it, imma be careful


Sheri


If you feel like committing suicide then you have to talk with your parents!


Yee ty Potato


They need to understand what is going on


And if you feel like punching him in the face, then do it! verbally of course, express your anger and put your bullies in their place


Who warned me


and everytime i think of it cry, becuase my mom just told me really sweet and wshe would be devasted if i was dead, like


Who warned me if you warned me poner me


Ping me


Becuase my discord was lagging


Its great that your letting out all your feelings Eclipse, but your parents understand your mire then anyone could!


More


So talk to them, then come back here and tell me what happened


Scooterrat you feeling better with the family stuff and the sickness?


um


can i vent a bit?


idek why im asking


Well, I've been noticing how much of perfectionist my mom is. She'll come into my room randomly and point out every little thing. If there's things on the floor, she'll start getting angry with everything that's on the floor. Even though there's something on the floor, it's not even taken up a lot of space or cluttering things up. It's so annoying too. I feel like everything has to be perfect otherwise I'm going to get yelled at.


It's the same thing with my bathroom counter. There can't be anything on it, but she literally has stuff on her bathroom counter and that just makes me angry.


But I know if I confront her about it, she'll start getting mad, probably call me disrespectful, and say something about me to make an excuse.


But at the same time she wants me to be honest with her


I honestly don't know what to do about it, but it's really starting to get on my nerves.


Maybe just maybe I'm in the wrong though...


Shes just like my mom, but its a personality trait, she wants everything to be perfect because she thinks if somebody comes into her house they will think that shes dirty and careless


Even though it may seem annoying, you have to respect how she behaves


But then you also have to speak up for yourself and say that not everything can be perfect, and that she needs to cool down


I just don't want her to yell at me when I try to


You have to make her realise how shes acting


And go farther in to comfort her


I'll try. tysm for the advice i really appreciate it


Your welcome:


I


Dont ask that, when somebody vents they are in pain.. So..you should probably wait until somebody wants or feels comfortable to vent


Ok


Fair enough


Me just wanna help ppl


Mhm I understand!


expiredmilk my body kinda started hurting and it burns whenever I breath


hm


have you asked your parents to go to the doctor


ik u probably have but you should really go to the doctors


for now drink cold wate and sit upright or slightly laid back


Help


I inhaled foam that is soap


@ wholesome of the day!


Wdym?


is this a joke


why did you inhale it


Drink water


yeah why


It was a accident


Uh put some water in your mouth, and spit it out maybe? Like gurgle? Or just drink water if you cant do that


i dont really understand my dear


I swallowed..


u ate soap


i'd try to eat smhin seweet to get the tast eout


3like candy, icecream, ad that you like thats flavorful


oh, i see.


i dont think this is helping


drink water


but i searched it up online


and


uh


im sscared now


use mouth wash i suppose?


Toxicity: Hand and body soaps are minimally toxic, but may cause mild irritation to the stomach or intestines. also that just drink some water and notify ur parents


yeah


thats


what i searched


Oh noo


Im so scared


dmed you the needed link


how tf did you swallow soap


just try not to drink soap again, okay?


Yes I was washing my hands and accidentally inhaled


It


My stomach hurts


aww are you okay?


WAIT YOU SWALLOWED SOAP?


Oh that mustve tasted awful im sorry


call a posion center;;


It is okay..


Nothing bad has happened


I'm afraid of what will happen


That's serious


But Im lucky it was only a bit..


mwilky


hey


did you talk abt going to the doctor with your parents


ik ive said it and everyone else has but that is extremely important rn.


with everything that happened yesterday and the soap you need to go to the doctor asap.


Not yet.


Im scared to tell them


you need to rest as much as you can, drink lots of water, and stay calm


until you get to the doctor


just stay in one place close to the bathroom thats cozy and relaxing


Well my stomach started hurting


A bit


and drink water and calm yourself


its 9:09 pm for u rn right


if it is try to get to bed early to get sleep as the rest of the night could be rough as you might have a hard time sleeping


Im scared becuase it can possibly happen while Im asleep


its ok vuni we all do silly stuff


And I dont want anything bad


dont worry mwilky it will not happen while you are asleep your body will wake up, heres what u do if u do wake up randomly with a painful stomach


My leg has been twitching for a while


ok heres what u do


you wake up randomly with a sick stomach. dont run to the bathroom, stay still, feel whats going on, think abt it, then if you think its gonna happen go to bathrrom and stay for a bit, then please please please PLEASE tell your parents you need to go to the doctor that is so important. if you dont tell them you will not get the help you need and this wont heal.


i have to go now i wish the best of luck to you, think abt my advice and make sure to get sleep and do not forget to tell your parents you need medical attention! goodnight mwilky. feel better


My nose is clogged


Goodnight


idk why im like dis:


anyway


dont worry vuni im very clumsy too!


i cant walk without tripping, making a mess, knocking over something, running into a wall, or falling


just dont think abt it, the more u think abt it the worse it gets!


Ok not feeling so well my head hurts and my stomach feels like I need to throw up


expiredmilk


Huh, I did not have good rest last night. And those are due the two causes; one is that I had to recovery rest for recovery purposes; I struggled last night with Gastritis again, which is why I did a recovery rest; the other cause is that I wasn't able to get to my Chronic Medications; without them, I have very bad and dark flaws waiting for me to trigger; and those are the two that caused it. I have to admit, Recovery Rest is for Recovery purposes Not for stamina purposes.


@ wholesome of the day!


Hello! U called owo


hello my dearr


Hello


whats the problem my darlingg?


Its for the person above the ping


Oh okay


oh i


Wait did someone swallow soap?


MegaPlasma Were you able to at least take a nap?


Sorry what i


I did


bb grill yeah milky


A very short one yes, but not enough to recover my stamina.


Yes.


Wait there is another yuki?!


Oh doki


Well medical pains are something nobody can fix except doctors. If youre having trouble with sleep you could try listening to music or having another medication thats more accessible


Oki


Asmr eating/ satisfying videos is a possible sulotipn MegaPlasma


im sorry, but i cannot help yuri due to my english, im sorry. 3


Rien please leave if your not helping.


You could also try and eat a soft food


that was kind of.


That is alright Rienna. Maybe I can teach you one day.


You see just talking about yuri and other things


Why do I feel like if you a venting helper you arent allowed to vent? Because thats whats stopping me from venting


And listen to some classical music or Lofi


ill go then, bye loves.


Im not feeling so well


Bye Rienna c:


I swallowed soap foam yesterday


bb grill nothing should stop you from getting help my dms are open if you need someone to talk to!


Seems like you are not the only one that experienced it MilkyBun.


Thanks Ice :


Mhm np


Well try and eat something or drink water to wash it out


What kind of soap is it?


Im always here to help


Kids soap


Probably a tiny chunk


Have you been drinking a lot of water


Yes


Have you been resting well


I feel sick in my stomach and constantly going to the restroom


Seems like Nausea that you are having...


Have you told your parents?


I havent told anyone


Tell them and go to the ER


Drink a lot of water


Can you taste anything


if your hungry try eating soft foods


Like fruit


Just fine


And tell your parents


If one of them is busy tell the other


mwilky im here to help


they seem to have it under control actually


thx


Text your parents


You need them


Im at home


Are they at work?


No


Not yet


Ok


Who is going to work mom or dad?


Nothing happened yet


But stepmom


And please tell them


miwlky please the most important thing is telling thrm to get the help you need you cannot hold it off any longer.


I know its hard


But please


Yes


My stomach has a burning feeling though


We are here for you


mwilky you need to tell them.


Drink water


im sorry its gonna be hard but you have to


Ok I will


Please tell them


Send them a text


Ok good


Uhh


I just want to sleep


Mwilky did you tell them


Ok them play some Lofi and take a nap


Lofi is on YouTube Spotify


Scooterrat


Did you tell them


Not yet


Im going to in a bit


She says Im acting like I while die”


expiredmilk holiday


Oops sorry


its ok


just tell her you need to go to the docto and you threw up blood


Oop


Hi Sayumi CENSOR


totally didnt do it


Yes do what expiredmilk


So the BioResonance is actually correct...


Fortunately, my recovery rest worked...


I don't have much experience, But I hope you feel better and the sickness is resolved!


Scooterrat did you go to the doctor?


How is you tummy


Now my mom says, You are asymptomatic, yet it is true that I do not show any symptoms, unless at night. Now I have to admit, she has a lot of experience with the Health Profession of hers, but she is not as good with Cyber as I am.


You do not show any symptoms.


True indeed...


Try some research MegaPlasma


Hi..so yeah, Im venting here and Im very sorry I need to vent but no one has been listening to me lately...


Im so used to the feeling of death that it feels like it follows me. Everyday Im greeted with at least 24 people who want to die and recently Ive been dealing with so many deaths as well. Ive been sensing deaths around too that are soon to happen and I know its dumb..but I feel like Im the reason they feel this way. I cant go anywhere without feeling the familiar feeling of deaths despair beside me. Today I lost my best friend and I was so used to the feeling of loss I couldnt even feel anything strongly...it was like everything was numbed down.


So yeah, I really needed to get this off my chest since no one has listened to me. Thank you for listening and sorry for the bother.


I think I might have to do the ping...Im sorry for everyone with the role


@ wholesome of the day!


Im so so sorry about your best friend! The fact of dealing with trauma because of deaths if absolutely depressing, if you ever need somebody to talk too, feel free to dm me


Its extremely sad to hear what youre experiencing... I honestly dont know a way to comfort you, but stand strong. Some people hate being strong, but understand your life is worth it. People in this server love you. Know that! And as for your best friend, keep her in heart. Look up into the sky and say goodbye. Ya need to let it out sometimes, girl. Were here for you!


Thank you so much, both of you


Aw Kai I'm sorry that you have been going through so much and it is indeed hard to loose people important to you. And it is really hard to get over it as well, I hope that you heal from this soon and if you need someone to talk to my dms always open


Thank you


I miss him but Ive been sensing the feeling of death around him before he passed. Im glad we spent our time together though..


I see I guess you were somehow ready for this but nonetheless its very sad and I am sorry for your loss


its ok


You need help


Ive loss some one who was important


Thats the thing thats bothering the most. I can sense it before they go. Whether its a dream or vision, or just the heavy feeling in my heart I can tell. I dont want to say this but Ive been sensing it around my grandmother lately and now Im waiting...Im sorry to bother you all again but thank you


Its ok


We have time to spare


Im sorry for your loss


Thats what were here for


Its not a bother at all and perhaps since you spend time around these people you developed a bond with them and can sense if something bad is going to happen to these important people


That makes sense yeah


Thank you it was my grandpa in 2014 on my dads side


Aw : that must have been tough. Im so sorry again


And you are trying to look out for them


I hope that you heal from this soon and take care of your self


I still miss him


Even though


I bearly knew him


But its ok


I have good memories


Yeah, keeping them close to you is good


Try to relax


Death happens


All around the world


Yeah I know


And I shouldnt be feeling bad about this when others have it worse


I got to go now but thank you


Mhm np


Ok take care Kai


If you ever need someone to talk to


My dms are open


Thank you, all of you so much


Talking about this rlly helped


Tminus 3 days until College restarts. Everything is in place and prepared.


same


@ wholesome of the day! come help them because idk what to say


or 2 ppl


p i n g


I am so so sorry you have to go through that. Thats so unfair! : please dont listen to anything they say tho. hug


Maybe try talking to your parents about it? Sorry if I got something wrong and I know its hard to do it but I think its best if you do


It doesnt matter what those people say about you cause its most likely untrue but, you need to tell the teachers whats happening and even talk to your parents about all thats going on in the classroom. Its considered bullying and manipulation and its wrong. Have that relationship with your parents where you tell them whats bothering you at school and how you were really upset about it. Tell them you feel left out and they make you cry from the things they say. You have got to speak up and tell someone. Im really sorry youre going through this hugs


i may not be a venting helper but Shiro needs a hug rn


yui hug Shiro


I'm going though the same thing! I recommend sharing your emotions. Keeping them bottled, will only make it worse


I found a video just for that ill dm you itt


hi! I'm not good with helping but if you want to talk my dms are always open!


yui hug Eclipsa


I'm trying to share my emotions more, just anxiety is stopping me from doing that.


Thank you!


We are all uniquely created maple! You should not judge yourself or let what others think of you inside your head! My dms are always open


Yui hug Shiro


hi, maybe try to talk to someone about your thoughts! my dms are open!


Yui hug Eclipsa


yui hug maple


You're gonna be alright, ik what you're saying though, my friends are the same too but don't try and stay quiet, there are going to be people like that in the world, you just need love yourself more bc you're awesome the way you are and only you need to understand that


ily maple


Thank you all so much, so have no idea how much i needed this. Been wanting to be told those words for so long. I really, really appreciate it! Ilya!


yui hug @ Zoe


idk how to help people so have this:'


Yui hug breezy


Yui hug Lovely.Starlight


Yui hug savanus


bots please!


sorry


Its ok!


LY TOO


suki uwu3 i think these hugs in here are okay since theyre for comfort and a kind act


;I;


I need physical hugs


Hehe


even tho i'm not w you


here


yui hug SouthGamer


this isnt really for me, but its for Jin from bts. People say hes ugly, useless and he cant even sing or dance well. Hes been through enough. When he was little, his mother always listened to people bragging about their sons and how they were so great. Jin felt that he disappointed his mum, so he joined bts to make his parents proud of him instead of just sitting around and listening to other people brag about their own sons. Just before, when I showed what he looked like, people kept saying he was ugly. I know how that feels because Ive been bullied at school, how would you feel if someone said that to you? Antis even payed google to take him off there. Its annoying and rude at this point. People dont just like bts because they like 1 or 2 members. This is extremely unfair and I think this should come to a stop. This hurts me deep down even though its not me. Nobody should be treated this way. Justiceforjin


Lehman lord late reply but ok


Oh


Yui hug @ Zoe


Yeah I feel the same way


Its ok.


My belly is big so Im fat.


But then


My stinky arms


There so annoying


I dont want to have them.


Everyone calls me stick.


It hurts but you cant let it get to you.


Im sorry you have to go through that


Ill try but its really hard, its like Im stuck without being able to speak up about it to them


Just do youre best!


Ill try, thank you


So Im kind of one of those people who get VERY into roleplays and I did and I found this very cute guy and we are the same age, we think the exact same, we feel the same emotions and we got along so well, in many times the roleplay caused me to cry tears of joy or sadness irl and last night we were hanging out and doing cute things in the rp and then some girl started flirting with him and we both knew without saying it that he was gonna choose me over her and we tried to give the girl a hint but she wouldnt stop with him and we didnt tell her directly to stop so i immediately left saying i had to go to sleep and i had a nervous breakdown and fell asleep in the shower for abt 20 mins then i fell asleep sick to my stomach not being comfortable at all and im still stressed and nervous we both know that he likes me not her and we both felt the same last night he told me that he didnt sleep and was stressed too so how can you guys help us get through this please? @ wholesome of the day!


what we need help on is handling the girl and handling our emotions better.


Im so sorry that happened : I think just straight up telling her though, ask if you can sit down and talk to her and just tell her the truth. Im sorry I cant help much but I hope it gets better


I tbh dont know how to deal with these stuffs because Im not like that one girl that dates a lot


i dont want to talk to the girl whenever i even go into the game we were roleplaying in start to have a panick attack


expiredmilk Actually meeting someone over the Internet is very, VERY risky. But If you really think your safe and sure that he is a good guy, you have to speak to her directly since the boy also knows whats up.


yes ik it was risky but its ok w


Okay thats fine then c:


sorry im just a nervous wreck


i cant talk to her and he cant either we get so nervous and start panicking


ill be afk hold on


Okay


expiredmilk idk, just dont talk to that girl? if you and him ignore her then she'll probably just forget about it


Dont ping the Vent Helpers malady


Um please try to not ping the venting helpers tag when replying or responding to someones vent tyy


Yes please


oh


uhm


we cnat do that we are nice people and she follows us around


Hm but that is a good option tho


Why double ping


Im sorry you feel that way


Well do you not want help from regular people


aww


the staff do care about you sometimes we're just kind of busy. we all love you! mwah @.SYO


We all care about you


Alright


thank you! c:


My bad


dw about it:


I thought it would be okay Bc they are already in the server


aww im sorry


sometimes that happens on accident, no staff would EVER ignore you on purpose


sometimes we get busy and just miss it:/


ill try to keep an eye out for questions and if you have any, just ping me! c:


@.SYO hope you feel better; we're all here for you. ill try my best to answer any questions you have:


@.SYO ofc! ill be happy to help:


Please everyone if you quote a msg make sure to put the ping venting helpers out of it or don't quote bcs it pings a lot of people and not everyone likes pings i hope everyone can understand


you are beautiful, there should be no reason you should want to change


I am terribly sorry that you feel that way and I want to let you know that you are very special. Everyone messes up sometimes, but eventually we all get over it. I think you will too, with enough selfesteem and help!


thank you, i just wish i didnt mess up..


its okay to mess up! I bet you are an amazing person.


Sorry im late! Im not the best at supporting nor advice but ill try!


just know, everyone makes mistakes! Its part of our human nature!


You're none of those awful things, no one is. We are all different in beautiful ways. We are born in different shapes and sizes, and all shapes and sizes are beautiful no matter what. If you ever want a comfy place, you can always come here, or to my dms! I'll accept you, everyone here will! You are loved by us all, and if you ever want to, just ping me and ask if we can dm, cause i may be asleep or busy so ask first! Ily!


I'm so sorry you have to deal with that, nobody deserves to go through that.


That sounds terrible:


You are beautiful just the way you are!


I hate it, I cant do anything or have my own privacy


I'm not the best at supporting but always be yourself don't try and change for others. I'm so sorry about your sister and friends you do deserve your own privacy like any other person.


Same


Im not really good at helping people


Im also not sure if this is trauma but my sister used to beat me when we were younger so im kinda like, scared of her


I'll be your new friend i'm kinda bad at replying but if it helps i'll talk about anything with you!


But you are beautiful just the way you are, dont believe such lies they make. Its whats inside that matters


Tysm


Mipha! are you younger or older?


Younger


Ah I see.


Shes 1415 im only 13


I see


Mipha!, That sounds really bad, but you should never ever go through that. I'm sorry if you feel un secure about your body, but let me tell you, your beautiful in your own way, and you should never let anyone bring you down


Don't let your sister push you down keep your head up and shoot for the stars!


Tysm @.SYO dwacuiina


Tysm too zenon


Hm, you have to step up your game soon! Once you have the courage, you should go have a family meeting. Express all your feelings, tell them everything on how you feel.. its hard building up courage but I believe you can do it!


yw!


Every single body is... temporary


bc ur body changes


day after day


So you cant really control it


Im also scared to come out since my sister made fun of me, I was still finding myself out as I thought I was lesbian so now im Pan but still scared


Mipha!, Never let anyone bring you down! always show your true colors, no matter how different you are from others:


You need to confront your sister soon:. Im not the best at helping tho its the only thing that can mostly help


We are here for emotional support the rest is up to you 3


Ty for your help guys


It was my pleasure


Dm me anytime! My dms are open. Feel free to talk to me, whether you just feel like it or you out of the blue 3


if you need a friend to talk to im here


Ive checked my colleges website and it seems that it is allowed to be on campus on days with no class. So, crisis may be averted, but I dont know just yet


Im.. Not gonna ping anyone but hi! Uh, this is the first time I ever vented here.


Lately Ive been feeling really really dull, and thanks to my mother who is very verbally abusive, Ive started to hate myself more and more I had a massive meltdown earlier.


And in that breakdown I pretty much lost all my motivation to do the things I love playing my instruments and cosplaying. Its just really frustrating when youre not appreciated for majority of the things you do


All in all, I just want love and support my story is super long and its tiring to tYpE so Im leaving it there.


@ M u y Make some friends here that will help you escape the reality sometime and feel loved here if not there. And follow your dreams. Do cosplay and play instruments have fun. Enjoy your time while you still have it. Dont let people bring you down not even your abusive mother. Stay safe, dear!


i feel quite sad


my mothers boyfriend is really abusive and i hate being at her place cos of it, but she cant do anything cos if she kicks him out then she loses her house


cos she cant pay bills


and my dad just broke up with his girlfriend so hes really sad and stuff and idk what to do to cheer him up


and ive been super busy the past week so i havent had time to sit down and relax, and now that i am able to right now a lot of things are just playing on my mind


i think about my future and im really not sure what i want to do with my career path, and i worry because i know that people expect great things for me


and honestly i just miss my boyfriend, he makes me really happy and i love being with him and i wish i could have him come over to help take my mind off things


although i know i cant keep avoiding how i feel


@ wholesome of the day! if anyone has any advice on any of these things id love to listen


Oh


That sounds.. terrible.


Im really bad at comforting people but


Look, things dont last forever


They all have a end


I havent experienced any of those situations so Im sorry that I cant relate or anything


And, Im not just gonna say that I understand your feelings n stuff but


Just relax.


Itll be all fine.


Things might look terrible, and it is but


Life is just hard:


I cant think of anything to solve, or fix your problems but


Just know that Im here:D


My advice kinda sucks, but Im really trying my best to comfort you


Even if


i


um


suck at that


Sorry Im really awkward um


Sorry if I sound like Im not taking you seriously


im really sorry. i think you should try to like help your mom make money by doing small things? selling adopt me pets, making servers, earn her a bit of cash and try to help. cheer your mom up because she might be in a dark zone due to her sit. rn. about ur dad, idk.. make him something to make him happy. hug him and tell both ur parents i love you more often to help them know that they're loved. take ur mind off of it because it might damage ur mental health and im sure thats the last thing ur parents want. you seem really compassionate so my best advice is to try to help ur mom make money and try to love your dad and stuff. i hope you're okay and if u ever need to vent more, my dms are open. feel better, hun. 333


im glad that youll listen, i know itll get better eventually and thank you for caring Emelia


Its np


Thats why were here


daisy the money thing is a great idea actually, id love to get a job and make some money, i would just need to get a bank account first . though what is an adopt me pet?


dont worry about ur career. ur still pretty young and just find something that you love. another tip is to find a scholarship to help w money and stuff i'd recommend trying out for like talent searches to help w ur resume for when ur older. also an adopt me pet is a game on roblox and some ppl make money from getting good pets


yoonchigga


also chick fil a hires 14 yr olds but idk bc of the pandemic and stuff


hope everything goes well for u


oh dang i didnt know i could make money off of roblox like that. and ye, i do pretty well in school, im going to grade 10 so i still have a bit of time to think about it. the problem is that im not in any sports and i dont really do stuff within my towns community. theres not really clubs here either so ye but ill definitely look into it


ah we wont have chick fil a here im in a pretty small town


ohh ok


hmm


and ill be 16 soon so im not so worried about being accepted cos of age im just rlly awkward and shy


you can make money by selling small things too like lemonade and stuff


true true


i hope my advice helped!


gl! 33


yess it did! tysm


np! my dms are always open if u ever need anything btw


i know this sounds stupid, but im just gonna go ahead and say it. i feel wrong.. ive been trial staff for abt 1/2 and a half weeks and im doing the best i can but im still not promoted. chefy and the others were only trial for a few days and POOF a week later shes a mod. i know the admins said ill get promoted when i do something but im trying and trying and everyone else is getting promoted. i feel like im doing something wrong or not good enough to be a staff here. this probably sounds stupid but yeah, thats my feelings. @ wholesome of the day!


it's alright to express your feelings and vent off about them, typically they help you feel better instead of holding them up. Also i'm sorry to hear to that you think you are a bad staff but you probably really aren't, I don't fully know what happenes in this sever becuase I'm not very active but you seem like an amazing trail staff, maybe talk with the founder or whoever does promitions about it


Kenzie sweetie


U will get promoted she u don't expect it to happen


I know that by experience


thank you, and ashli is my bff i guess i could talk to her abt it but shes done so much for me in the past few weeks idk if i can ask her fot more i dont want her to think im using her or something.


A trial staff is better than a helper!


thank you kawaii


Kenzie u do things that are special


Make pll comfy


And make the place safe


Yui hug Kenzie 3


tyy


sobs


Kenzie 3 i get how you feel except i've been trial for even longer lmao


I hate my skin! And the weather is bad


Dont listen to them! Haters be haters. Dont let anyone stop you! Its you, not them, I think being a kpop idol is lovely!


Dont let such people bring you down, do what you want to do, keep your head up!


Its your dream, not theirs. Someday, you might become famous and prove them wrong


Never give up


If you need a friend to contact, my dms are always open


thanks for the comforting.


I tried my best 3


It's your dream job! Not everyone will support it, but don't let those people get in your way. If it's really your passion, ignore what people say, it's your dream and they shouldn't be able to stop you! Not all kpop idols are toxic! You can be different! Please don't let them drag you down!


and when you are super successful, you can say i told you so : or just have the satisfaction that you worked hard for something that people say you cant do, and you did it


Ok so theres a party and im kknda fat, in scared that they'll laugh at me when i get into my dressm


Dress


And im stressed


The party begins at 19:30


Someone help


Kinda


Aww sweetie you not need to be feel about that


I still dont know, everyone's kinda thick anddd i have more skin than them..


Ah sweetie don't say that to yourself be confident in yourself just don't hear what people say about you just be yourself


Ill try


Thanks for helping!


Np sweetie!:


I know I'm late but don't let it get to you. I know it's easier said than done, but you're beautiful in your own way. Everyone is. You're going to a party, so try to enjoy the party for the fun of it. If someone laughs at you, don't let it bother you. Instead, act nice to them. Compliment them even! I do this a lot when others make fun of me, and it usually shocks people so much that they go silent and stop bothering me.


Some boy looked up my skirt and im fricking traumatized now.


slap him or tell someone :c


So, my family payed S650 for a farm share so that we get Vegetables every week. The past two weeks there have been no vegetables, nothing. My father went this week to the house and it looks abandoned.


We've tried calling and messaging when this first happened, there has been no response


Really hoping that they didn't just run off with the money


There's been no updates on Facebook or the website


sigh


I've recently been upset, My parents are deciding to send us back to school although there's a choice of also letting us take virtual classes, I personally would be fine with this but, they are deciding to make my 7 year old brother go to school aswell, it's not really a big deal but I feel like its going to be hard for a 7 year old to adapt to this life style and my brother is really talkative and tends to hang out with his friends which isn't any help since he'll have to keep a distance, I know it's sorta childish, but I'm really concerned for my brother if we go back.


@ wholesome of the day! .


Have you ever talked about it to your parents?


You're brother is only 7, it isn't a good idea for him to go back, he's really young. It probably will be hard for him to adapt, maybe use that as a reason to your parents, a child his age shouldn't go out during these times


They've already signed us up for school though.


And whenever I tell my mom she just replies Don't worry about it.


Well the least thing i can think of is talk to your brother about it, tell him what he should do and shouldn't do. Hopefully he listens and stays safe, both of you stay safe


I really hope so.


Im late but yeah. Make sure he understands what to do, and what not to do


Thank you guys for hearing me out.


I'm so upset. I'm in this server, and one of the staff tw committed suicide


I wasn't close to them, but it's still upsetting. They were super sweet, and extremely helpful. It breaks my heart seeing all of their friends on the server upset, and I'm trying my best to help, but it's just super sad:


im really sorry that happened. it is really upsetting and im so sorry that it happened. i dont know what else to say, thats just really heartbreaking:' liv


Thanks. It's just been a wild day. I didn't want to go to the vent channel in that specific server. There are a bunch of people who are taking the day to help out with the server, answer dms for those who need it, ect. It's just crazy.


I am so sorry for your loss and thats rlly sad that it happened : a loss is always hard


Im rlly rlly rlly sorry Im venting again...I know yall must be sick of me already but I have two vents...I am so so sorry


Today I learnt, that, guess what, I wasnt invited to family night. Again...


Like, am I doing something wrong? Is me existing something bad?


My siblings always talk without me and hang out without me


Same with my parents, the entire family just kind of leaves me out, I just feel like they want me out of the family...


Lately Ive been getting flashbacks and thinking a lot about my bullying and friends. For some reason today I remembered the gc they made without me titled BEST FRIENDS or something and with all our friends except for me there and it bothered me. I cant shake the feeling something is wrong and my friends all hate me now too...


Thanks for listening to my vents and again, I am so so sorry to be a waste of your time.


Oh I forgot to do the ping...sry for the ping


@ wholesome of the day!


Its ok


owohug @'kaitokid


@'kaitokid nonono! ur not wasting our time, dw about it hun 33


1. dont worry about family night. talk to ur parents about it. maybe they think you dont like the game or osomething? definitely talk to them about it


2. im really sorry they made that gc, its pretty mean of them. you should also talk it out with them.


Ignore dem haters :c


y!hug @'kaitokid


alr no more hugs or else its in bots lmao


You wonderful human being,


You're not doing anything wrong!


They are just to blind to see you as you are.


Your friends are not friends if they don't consider you a friend, They just mihgt be blind to see you as you are too!


My Dms are always open, if you need a friend, you can add m if you wish!


Ty for the hugs and Ill try talking to them but I dont think they think I dont like the game...they know I really like the game and with my friends I think they will dismiss it. Idk if they still talk in that gc tho


Be positive hun! I'm going though what your going though right now too!


Tbh I dont know why they dont invite me to hang outs and stuff anymore, it just happened ig


Thank you and Im sorry you have to go through that as well hug


I think for now the best option is just to kind of drop hints with my fam that I want to be invited. With my friends, tbh, none of them talk to me anymore but they seem to talk to each other a lot without me. Ill try starting convos more maybe? Thx for all the advice and hugs and listening


Alright!


Yw cutie


do you ever feel unwanted in a way?


i do


to be honest


i cant talk to someone without them just suddenly not responding and just


ignore me


for


idk how long


i also remember the bad times with them


i know its in the past but


one time they got rlly mad at me and started to insult me and cuss at me


they said they didnt mean it but what if they did


i really dont know at this point


what if theyre just trying to be nice to me so they dont have to listen to me whine and cry all of the time?


i also just now made them upset


i tried to talk to them but they wouldnt respond and that kinda annoyed me so i just said nvm and right when i said that they said something but i was too annoyed to rlly talk to them so i just said k and pushed them away


now theyre upset and i feel bad about it


i feel really selfish and i also feel like a crybaby for being so sensitive all of the time


im most likely in the wrong here


theres worse so why am i even upset over this?


i remember being upset before and someone called me selfish cause i shouldnt be upset when i have most stuff others dont and that theres worse


sorry for the ping but @ wholesome of the day!


im hoping i used the ping right


if not please let me know


NEVER and I mean NEVER apologize for showing your emotions


And first thank you for speaking out and contacting us your very strong for doing that


thank you


I agree tell people how u feel be yourself and thoose who bring you down aren't worth your time.


Your emotional cause your human


And sometimes it's ok to cry or not feel know how to feel