I don't know if she's one of the older ones or the younger ones but from both sides of the spectrum that kind of stuff is really serious, even if they don't mean to make it seem that way


Let me tell you I too look serious when I am angry on my brother but it doesn't mean I hate him and don't want him


MamaMiya


There's normal teasing, like calling each other names, and then the serious teasing, which is basically like that


well maybe you do be nice sometimes to your brother but they never have been nice


Yaa she should be talking to her sis first about what she said and then tell her parents


Ohh then it might be serious


i think her older brother is the one that is the most mean in her family


Or else it is just her perspective


he already made my friend aka the one that has the issue and the older sister


We can't really talk in third person here


he made them cry


If they have never been nice and she's been hurt for so long she may need to actually tell her parents even if she's scared too. We don't want the negative energy to sustain bad mental health


he lied about them to her parents


Yaa that's true


Mar she will never tell her parents, i know it


she just doesnt want to be ignored by her siblings


Hmm she loves them thats similar


There is no choice for it


yeah she's a good sister compared to them


that seems like the norm in families. Basically how snitching gets involved and causes siblings to hate each other. But she would be doing the right thing when telling her parents. It's for her safety and her health. If she doesn't tell them the situation could get worse


Ok let me tell yah no oneis good in sibling thingy all are just egoies


i mean yeah i told her that for her safety she has to tell them


Yaa you should have tell her this


but she just says im alright..dont worry about it


Hmm then just slap her twice till she gets to think about it


It is rare for siblings to get along unless they had a lot in common, but usually when a child likes something the other child thinks it's weird and they have different styles. But having them bully her on a serious level is a bit mean. It's kind of hard to not worry about it. I mean if it continues it could really affect her in a bad way


has she ever tried fighting back, or telling them to leave her alone?


no never


she is too scared


Hmm that's what made it so high


I want such kinda sibling I would have loved her so much! But can't be helped now


she tried to fight back once in an argument with her sister and her sister got mad and told her i will stab you and her siblings started ignorig her


that's really not okay


Hmm then it is her ego its nothing to do with anger or sibling problem


i know..


It is no same to other


is she the youngest?


yes she is


she never did anything bad


Then she should be telling her parents right away


she doesnt want to


younger siblings tend to receive more love from parents at different levels


to an extent


Whatever happens she should be thinking of herself first


it's probably jealousy involved


no, the parents dont care about her


Hmmm


they love the older ones


ok that's just wrong on the parent's part then


and her siblings shouldn't get away with it


Yep


yeah..


Its getting more complex now


i mean if she was in my country, i would have asked my dad to go get her and she could live with us


We can't really do much in such scenario


but like she lives 40 hours away from me


if she lives far away there isn't much help we can provide but to give her a bit of advice


yes i try to


You should give her mental support and shouldn't leave her at all cost


i never leave her


Thats the most you can do


kind souls never really realize how bad things get until it actually happens


she should really seek help


Don't let her down and keep cheering her up give her proper advice


Yaa


i mean yeah i try to make her smile which do work sometimes i just cant let her stay in the dark..


thankfully my brother is almost gonna graduate and get a car, we can maybe drive to her house and get her


I feel like having classes from you Mar for having a great mind getting out of trouble! Teach me sensei!


I feel like a big therapy counselor then


because her siblings are dangerous for me


but I'm an older child I get the feeling


and having parents who just don't support you as much


Yaa me too


I feel you mar! We are just the same


if she's on her own it's nice to get help from friends, sometimes friends are more valuable than family ever could be


because those friends have family situations that are relatable


in a way


i'll try to find the conversation where she told me her problems and send it in media


Yes friends are only one who will be there for you till the end if they are good


Mar


you are seem more skilled at this tho! Like pro! Xd


i just have a lot of experience...


so i learned from a young age


Ugh istg, my friend is kinda being toxic to me again. Saying things like I used her and I was never a real friend just some dumb kid I met at school. Today she was making fun of me for doing math hw, well Im sorry Im more educated than you. Wtf. Why do my friends have to be like this. I never had a real friend I thought she was one. I guess not.


@ wholesome of the day!


Yaaa i see hopefully I get mine from my friends and senpai


Uhh browny, that's honestly toxic


if shes upsetting you, its best to stop talking with her.


im sorry i have to hear that shes such a rude person, so youre better off without her


Sucky friend you have there. Your life is better without her yeah.


Yes you should just ignore such people! There are this haters in the world who won't stop what they do! Maybe she is jealous or something but it would be good if you just stop talking to them


She says I barley play with her and she thinks my reasons are lies.


Why would she get mad at you for doing your hw when your education is important. I mean yeah you should talk to her but if she isn't even doing her own hw what's the point? You guys can easily study together if it means that much to her smh. Study sessions are always fun to get things done a lot faster. You aren't using her just because you want to do hw rather than talk. It's just a break


What kind of friend makes fun of a person for doing their hw


I can relate it...it is like she want to be with you more and you just be there for your reasons so it makes her sad


The only reason we got in a fight is bc I started spamming emojis with a friend of hers.


If thats the case then you can just give her your time and you will be back again


and I guess Im always the victim.


Then thats toxic


I get some friends like a lot of affection or want to be with a person for like hours on end, but you're doing important things and she needs to understand that, rather than to accuse you of something false


All the friends I get would do that.


Normal tbh. really, really normal


Ive been used before.


friends would rather hate school and say hw is hard than ask for help because they'd want to play with friends


Mhm.


it is okay to take a few minutes out of the day to do soemthing


Yaa it is like they want to be with you


Thats all


it's not like you get mad at her if she's busy or whatever


She like who does hm at 2pm and blah blah blah she knows I do it late.


She knows me well.


I tell her so much


It is just the same case! OMG just that I am on other side


while she tells me nothing


And my friend won't understand


Same.


Hmm she just wants you then


I do hw at 4 because I take an hour to recooperate from school and afterschool meetings


She sounds like she uses you as a friend barrier


doesn't she have other ppl to talk to


Now then we made it a chat room in venting


until you get back?


Its not like that mar! There are few people whome you love talking and would love to talk nonstop no one can take there place


Its just my experience


the world has way too many people that can relate to each other for such negative things smh


what has the world come to?


All I did was this emoji ” bc she said some girl called her a scammer. She just said go hang out with your amber headed friend. Its not Im important anyways.


Hmm its the same believe me


Doesn't that just mean you'd punch the person who scammed her?


Yea:/


They are the signs she want you


But most of them are not understood by other person


Ive been with her forever.


Yaa ik


I meant was talk to her


We had this fight 4 times in the past 2 days.


If you've been with her forever than she's probably just clingy


because you've been friends for so long


Yaa that's another possibility


A year:/


Prob clingy


Maybe mar is right...


Or jealous


Id think jealous


I was about to tell her if I used you why didnt you just dump me at the start I dont think I was even important to you anyways.


Just try talking about it to her


Maybe it will clear things between you


No, she legit just came and yelled at me this morning again.


Why?


Just bc I had to go again.


But it's early smh


Hmm then it is bit too much


Can I not like sleep


I wouldn't even feel like talking super early in the morning


It was yesterday night when I said I had to sleep


You see try texting her when you are free and then give her some time of yours


And replys later attacking me again.


Ive alr been attacked this week.


like first block teachers are always like hello can you guys here me? like lady yes I can hear you I just don't like talking at 89 in the morning


but yeah that's one clingy friend


if you can't even sleep:/


I'd just go to sleep in the call or while messaging smh;;


yep that happens alot when you are tired


She knows I sleep early too.


Then why would she yell at you...


I try to get less sleep to get some time with her.


Idk.


Just try texting her when you are free and then talk with her for some time


Hmm what can be done other ways?!


Other than talking?


Its like I am saying against me!


She says she will just forgive me after


Now I see the other side too!


Doesnt look like she did.


Thanks @ AnnIE you indirectly helped me! Xd


Huh


Never mind


You indirectly helped alpha I believe


Yaa i got typo there


Oh. Yw ig


I can copy what she said Brb


Oki


And I cant copy on mobile.


Just press on it and then you will have the copy option


She kinda just made fun of me for typing so slow.


It wasnt on discord


Hmm that's abit more then


Ohh


Mhm


Im just ganna ignore her for a few days. I gtg


afk food


Hmm maybe it will not help


Gl browny


people go through so much smh


Yaa and now idk what should I do


If i could explain my brother in 5 words


update on my dad: its been to weeks, hasnt answered anything, i know he didnt run because he left his stuff here. im still sad but i know it will get better


dot/ ashlyn awww that's so strong of you!


I'm glad you're looking on the bright side and staying optimistic.


I too am worried about your dad but I'm sure you'll be alright pumpkin. It's also alright to let loose of your emotions and cry it out. It won't make you seem weak. Just know that we're here to help you and calm you down.


I'm proud of you sweetie


I am sad, I want to be loved, why does loving someone like this hurt the way it does? All I want is to talk to this person, she says she loves me, yet sometimes it feels one sided, other times it feels like my world is completely lifted, idk how to feel about it anymore but love is love


Anastas Like you said, love is love. There is no real definition of what it is since people have different perspectives on it.


You love someone. Yet, you sometimes feel like it's one sided. I know it's really difficult, but it's best to talk about it to her. If you know she loves you, I'm sure she will understand. Love is not something simple.


Never be afraid to tell people you're sad and that you need some attention. But, don't forget to also leave some time to that person. They may be busy taking care of themselves. You care about this person right? So it's best you also look out for them AND yourself.


Take a few minutes to sleep, go watch TV, play games, write stories, sing, exercise, learn something new, read a book, etc. Those are some things you can do to entertain yourself so you won't feel bored and lonely.


Know that she truly loves you and cares about you. She just can't find the right time. For the mean time, you can talk to other people about things that you like


...thank you, I understand, I probably should try getting some sleep soon, and yes I'm sure she does and is just doing things she needs to do atm, tomorrow is another day after all


Gerhardt ofc sleep well isaiah


I woke up.. but again, after feeling the way I feel I am turned and given extreme reassurance that it isn't how it felt... I feel so guilty sometimes when I feel like things are one sided when they aren't;;


Redmer First of all, I'm glad that you got to sleep


Even if you think you're in the wrong, you aren't. This isn't a bad thing, it happens frequently. If you're still struggling, you can try to distract yourself from all these thoughts. Go eat a sandwich, and maybe just chill!


We love you Isaiah, and we know you're not wrong


I'm still awake unfortunately


Well, you can go eat a snack or drink water


Stay hydrated at times like this


@ wholesome of the day! pan pan has being having a very hard time pls talk to him and help him out in dms i dont like to see my friends sad.


thank you.


I'm going to just bomb his dms again.,,


good to see your concern.


if i have time ill speak with him now or later


dot/ ashlyn awww that's so strong of you!


I'm glad you're looking on the bright side and staying optimistic.


I too am worried about your dad but I'm sure you'll be alright pumpkin. It's also alright to let loose of your emotions and cry it out. It won't make you seem weak. Just know that we're here to help you and calm you down.


I'm proud of you sweetie


mariri thank you


i am out of words but @ Ashi On Break i hope you will be fine and pls be safe drink alot of water ect.


lockdown has got the worst of us, huh? you are not alone, a lot of us are going through the same and some are becoming insane, but venting is something healthy, to get it out of your mind for a while, but a hobbie might be the best thing in this case


keep your mind busy


true.


and try to keep some kind of healthy habit or try to not lose your sanity


for me learning something new and discord have prevented me from going insane


stay strong girl, you can do it


I already gave up taking care of myself, and I rather not bother


I'm just tired of waking up


I just can't really deal with my mom, espesically when online learning is driving my stress horribly


Well for one it's never ever good to cover up your feelings. Keeping them bottled up inside will hurt you late. But its good that you vented a little. With the stuff going on with your mom you gotta stay strong i know abuse can be terrible from parents i have a friend that goes with it a lot. Just remember you have people who are always here for you willing to do anything to make sure your alright. Don't give up taking care of yourself because your health is important. You seem like a pretty great person from my eyes. Just keep going in life the pain will never last you'll always find your happiness.


covering up your feelings and not paying attention to them, only makes preassure building up until you cant deal with it anymore


i gto dumped today by someone i gave my love to everyday, we would call, play mc and more together


hes a clown


ngl


im also gonna quit discord


to much has been going on


was it justified or was it without any apparent reason?


and the discord part is your personal desition, no one can do anything about it, but at least we can try to help you and maybe cheer you up a bit as a last ride


it was with no reason


i might not quit


just take a break


again, your decition, and the relationship thing, if it has no apparent reason, well, that's a trashy move IMO


yeah.


but is there hatred or is it just akward now?


well


he keeps calling me g!y slurs and just being toxic


so he is... he isn't nice after a breakup


my take, peer pressure


idk what the others think


tho


You'll need to block him


You're exes, I understand the good times and all, but if he left you for no reason and is being toxic for no reason he isn't worth being sad over


yeah


@ Ashi On Break


Please listen to this,


If your mom continues to abuse you or things like that, call the police, its the best thing to do, when you feel unsecure, upset or just feeling depressed overall listen to your favourite songs, its a good idea, or go for a run, have a piece of fruit, or do something that makes you happy, mine is drawing and server making! I do school at my campus so I can't really help with that but what I recommend is listening to music while you are doing work! Love you!


Emia


now that I have free time I shall now help


Dont worry about pinging people who are vent helpers we are here to help


Continue being supportive and continue showing your care. Be patient with her and let her know that she's not alone. You're there for her when she wants to talk.


its okay to be concerned.


if youre having troubles, try to give her a little bit of space. but be sure to talk to her once in awhile, ask about her day, and maybe give her a compliment. shell open up to you, and after all, friends are meant to help eachother. so be caring to her, but give her some time alone


I'm sorry I'm not good at giving advice..You trying your hardest! She might need a couple days to actually warm up and say what she needs to. You just need to try to keep comforting her. Your doing great!


Ty


mikachu


God, I feel bad for you and her, tell her listen to her favourite song, if she wants to be left alone leave her be for 324 hours, if she talks to you respond with something kind, give her a hug, if you can. She may just be nervous to tell you something, maybe she is waiting to come out? Or she likes you and is worried it will ruin your friendship. lots of love


Ty everyone


Anytime!


We will always help you!


I'm really sorry to hear that. You're a good friend. Just continue to be concerned it's what's best for her. She knows that you care but is afraid to admit needing help. You're really trying your best to help and that's a good thing. Just be there for her when she's not doing too well. It's all you can do, and if she ever needs help she shouldn't be afraid to ask you to help her. She's not like herself so she may not want to explain stuff, but soon she'll come around and feel so much better and you guys will be even happier. Just give her time and continue being there for her. She's lucky to have such a supportive friend.


Mar ty


Aw


that made me smile


Thank you Mar


I really needed that, since I have been feeling alone for years now


You have 12k of us now.


Ty Mar


Somedays I just feel like I shouldn't own Sayumi


and someone else should


No no


It's a very unique server so


It belongs to someone else


Not really me.


Ur an amazing owner Ashley, and the group is amazing


And the community u helped build is amazing too


Yw


None of us would be here talking to each other if u werent the owner @ Ashi On Break


true.


dont make anyone let you down stay strong and brave @ Ashi On Break i love you like milk in my tea


Aw, I mean tbh people tell me so many negative things nowday


love you!


and still put me down, because they feel like I don't deserve Sayumi, or they think that Sayumi overwhelming toxic


It just hurts when I try to ignore it but people keep trying start drama with me for no reason


And always assume that Sayumi isn't owned by me, or I stole the server etc


awww thats so sad


block them


just block them dont make anyone make you feel unhappy


stay strong everyday and always


that's rude. They're probably jealous that you've gathered so many people


exactly


there jelous becuase there server has probaly 50 people and we have 12k


Hi,um well, Ive been really bad lately and kept crying in my bed or my bathroom When Im alone so my parents wont see me.ive been thinking of doing self harm or suicide But im too scared.., and well My parents dont know anything about that because i dont want them to worry and make me go to a therapist, and when Im around people I always smile,make jokes to hide I really feel I feel useless, horrible, worthless.. And well.. I just really needed to say that.., and I really need some help getting a bit better..


@ wholesome of the day!


Im really sorry for the late ping


no worries


were here to help and thats what matters


Tysm..


I understand what you mean, but you're strong okay? Don't hurt yourself just because of how you feel rn. Life changes and you're not worthless or anything like that.


yeah! your life is worth living


Thanks..Thats sweet, i Needed that


Ill try to dont do anything bad


Well first step and best step is always Opening up keeping your Feelings trapped inside will not help one bit. So doing this is good. Second it's best to find something to distract you from self harming or suicide.. Because one suicide only brings pain to others who love and care for you. And self harm isn't good at all and becomes and extremely bad habit. But other then that your good also your not horrible, worthless or terrible. You seem like an amazing person that people seem to enjoy having around. Your life is so much more so you gotta get out there and live it because life is short and it's the experiences we and the people that make it better for us. So keep living on and i hope that you can push through this and be happy


id say the best thing to do is to develop positive self esteem.


start finding whats good about you, and embrace that. give yourself time to vent out negative emotions, and surround yourself by people who make you feel good about yourself


Moka the demon IT'S SO SAD THAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH THIS!


I'm glad you told us about this sooner sweetie


These types of things happens to a lot of people. Even if you're scared to tell people, done be! I'm sure your parents care about you! Trust me, a therapist will make this so much better.


I've told many people to try and do small therapy like writing down your thoughts, drawing them, or just simply saying them. So if you're looking for something to help, you can try those! It doesn't need to be good, pretty, deep, etc. As long as it calms you down, it'll be good enough! You can also try to exercise a bit, eat a snack, and drink water!


If these thoughts of harming yourself keep on getting bad, please do seek a hotline for where you're at! You can simply just type it in Google!


Know that your parents, friends, and us, care about your well being and don't want you to feel sad! YOU MATTER. You deserve every bit of love sweetie


Don't feel so alone sweetie. We all have those times where we hide our emotions. And tbh we do it 90 of the time anyway when we really have to struggle so people don't worry. You never know if anyone is hurting inside until they show it. Don't be so afraid of help either. I know you don't want your parents to feel worried about you but it's their job. They should be worried because they want you to be happy and safe. Getting a therapist isn't necessarily a bad thing. You don't have to stick with the first therapist available, and most never do. A therapist could really help you with your problems right now and make you feel more at ease to admitting your issues. I know we all hate feeling down on ourselves because we may have to have counseling, therapy, or medications for these things but it's what helps us maintain peace of mind in those dark hours. Tears are for those who are strong enough to emit them so it's okay to cry. Just maybe talk to your parents before doing something bad okay?


Thanks,Ill try to, Tysm guys for helping me feel better, and well I already had a therapist once but stopped because I kept repeating myself and it made me feel even worst, Ill try to talk with my parents too, Thanks again you guys are amazing and really sweet


@ 692408666330103968


Moka the demon Thats terrible. I hope you get better and dont decide to do any of bad things. You dont deserve any of those. Try not to cry anymore sweetie. Things will get better.


Yall are amazing


yui hug Moka the demon


Why the bot gotta die now


owo hug Moka the demon


you are amazing as well sweetie


Aw


Tysm once again Ill try to sleep a bit its kinda late for me


Moka the demon Okay! Sleep well sweetie and make sure to take care of yourself


Sleep well moka i hope everything gets better for you. No one deserves to go through any of that


Sleep well sweetie. Sleeping will probably calm you down a bit as you get a bit of rest


Hi air hugs to the extreme no worries about the ping. Im here to help. Even if you feel this way or had been down lately its better to let it out rather than bottling up. Your life is a precious thing and I hope that you can do things that make you feel joy or try to express small things little by little so it doesnt stay in your mind or heart.


Thanks, Gd/Gn guys stay safe


Hope you sleep well


Gn moka!


Gn moka


I don't know how to say this, I was just waiting for my dear brother a few months ago. A brother from my father, since he and my mother are not together and he has a partner. The thing is, I was delighted to have that little human with me. My dad texted me yesterday, he wasn't born. My brother is dead and they live far from me, it feels horrible...


@ FatASS I know it's really difficult when you realize one of your family or soon to be family member is...well, gone. But, you have to stay strong sweetie.


I've lost myself a fair share of family members as well and the way I usually cope with it is to interact with other family. It helped clear my mind. Yet, there was another thing I needed. I needed to cry.


At times like this, it's best to let it out as well. We can't deny our emotions. Hug someone and cry. It's alright. A cuddle will be nice as well. Especially from a loving parent.


I'm really sad that your brother didn't made it. But, sometimes, you need to let go of something sweetie. So, don't worry to feel sad, horrible, and depressed. It's the way we behave.


Don't be afraid to seek us and chat with us. We want to help you


owo hug @ FatASS


It's okay sweetie


mikachu I'm sure they're just looking for some space! You're doing your best, and that's all that matters!


We can forget that, we can't do everything right everytime And that's what makes us humans flawed


You've tried sweetie I'm proud that you did


Remember that we're all flawed beings, no matter how much we say others are perfect


Thx


I hate this


Hm? why?


You're doing a great job


But no one tried to ask me how I rlly am


mikachu Are you doing alright? Do you feel troubled?


mariri Thank you very much for your words, somehow they make me feel better


@ FatASS I'm glad to hear that! Thank you


One thing is that Im going to have a sister soon and there is going to be a big age difference


And I feel like I wouldnt be a good older sister


mikachu Having a sibling can make you feel anxious. And if you do feel that way, that just only means you're going to be a great sister! It really shows how much you care about your little sister.


It'll be really difficult at first. I experienced that with my troublesome brother But, once you get used to it, you'll be alright!


Ty


I feel like I did smt wrong to my bffl


I feel like I messed up smt


Hm? What exactly do you feel wrong about?


Well we were doing smt and I wasnt paying attention to much even tho I think I was trying my best, and then she suddenly got frustrated and then I showed her smt and she said And?”


mikachu Hmm, that does seem like something bad


If you think you're in the wrong, you can try talking to her and apologize to it. The best way to fix things like this is to be direct.


I tried


Well


Did she respond to it?


Yeah she did


did she accept it?


I said sorry and then she said I didnt do anything and that she needs time


hm


I suppose some space is needed.


People do need some time alone and together. Maybe leave her alone for a day or two and see if she has calmed down


Thats so long:c


Do you have any other friends by chance


@ wholesome of the day! hi, i feel... nothing, my heart loves a girl who has a girlfriend, my mum loved my brother more, it sometimes feel like i have noone, my bestfriend moved to a different class, my other bestfriend stopped talking to me because I spread rumours, i didn't even do it, I am bullied for my anxiety, which makes it worse and i have my mental health support team, they are the only ones there for me someday, i only see my dad every other weekend, i don't i could ever good at anything.


I know how you feel.


Maybe try talking to your mum


have a hug!


About like how you feel


Yeah you should tell your mom about how you feel


mariri Mhm


Maybe also tell you bc about how you really felt about her she should understand


I may need to vent later too


Thats fine! Go ahead and let your feelings out later Ill try to help in some way!


hushkyshead It's sad to see people like you suffer like this


Talking to the right people will truly help you. You have mental health support team right? It's always nice to talk to them since they're certified people who can help. I know it maybe really difficult, try to have a family conversation.


We love you sweetie. Even if you think you're alone, we're always here rooting for you


ty tea


ty everyone


Yes we love youuu!


mikachu you can try talking to your other friends! maybe get your mind off of her


no problem emi


owo hug hushkyshead


Time for my vent ig


So I have this friend, weve been fighting for ig a few weeks, but yesterday we had a big fight. One of my friends that Ive knew for like my whole life took my other friends side. She stared saying things like I used them. I wanted to say: if I used you why didnt you dumb me at the start, and the emoji I was punching” was someone who called you a name.” She just ignores the whole this I said. Today Ive been ignoring her. She always questions why Im it online as much as before to play with her. I told her I wasnt feeling good and I told her the truth. The fight started bc I starting spamming emojis with one of her friends. My friend comes attacking me, saying she is always the victim. While she is attacking me and me only. Her friend was spamming too. She didnt even care. Just comes a attacks me. Ive done a lot for her too. She just comes after me and me only. Its just wrong.


@ wholesome of the day!


Yes, very very wrong. That's a toxic friend smh. Why would you bully someone for entertainment and only that person. That sounds like the person who is super bragging and whatever. People really like to gloat and believe themselves as really big victims but ignore the other person's claims all of the time. Just why.


At least you ignored her bullying today. So that's a start. That kind of friendship...never ends well tbh. But at least you're powering through it


Idk ask her


@ AnnIE Maybe try to talk it out with them saying that you dont want to fight saying that Hey this needs to stop this has been going on for a while now and I dont want to lose you as a friend If your friendship means a lot to you then say Our friendship means a lot to me” but like mar said if its a toxic relationship then dont talk to her


It's only fair to spam if they spammed first. Idk why it's such a big deal


Ive alr apologized yesterday


Bruh


@ AnnIE That could really be a red flag to a toxic relationship.


I know I've repeated this many times but, try and reason with her and apologize to her one more time two if you're sympathetic to her.


She could:


1. Realize her mistake. If she does, I'm glad she did, you two can continue on being friends


2. She doesn't admit to being wrong and keeps on playing victim. Just leave her. It may be difficult to do it, but it'll be so worth it in the end.


Either way, I'm glad you're telling us this.


Shes was just like why do you need to say sorry”


ArmyChickenWhisperer yum


Why apologize for them bullying you and making you feel guilty all of the time


STOP


It's their fault


NO


WHAT DID YOU EAT


TELL ME


your family


NOOO


chicken is good


MAR STOP


owo pat @ AnnIE


Shes done a lot for me tho.


Then try what I said


I could say more than Ive done with her ig


Doesn't seem like she does a lot now tho


Yea.


@ AnnIE Like I said, it may seem difficult to do this, but it'll be worth it in the end.


You should really tell her that she isn't doing anything to help a situation by always blaming you and saying you use her when you're barely around to even use her in the first place if you could


Ig I can ignore her for a few more days to see if she says smth.


Before when we had a fight we wouldnt apologize we would just start talking more and say we alway forgive after a fight


Doesnt look like it we did


I mean. I friendship shouldnt end just bc of a little fight


Shes gave me a lot


Yes, but, if fights happen often, it doesn't seem right.


She doesn't give a lot of effort now though


She's just blaming you


I feel like I havent repaid her yet


She has done a lot.


HELP


She's slowly stopping to though


tEa IS TRYING TO EAT NE


Shes spent days working my my birthday gift


Chicken chat please


Plx


Ill try to end the fight and wait for now


Ty thought


Though


Ill end it if it gets out of hand


Np np


Oki browny


Yw


Can I just starve myself to death


ImLoen technically you can. But the urge to eat will probably get to you before you die grandpops


on the other side, you're probably immortal


No it hurts


hurts what


Eating


But it hurts


You can force it.


Eat even the slightest loaf of bread.


You should probably go see a doctor actually


Corona


call a doc


No it is late


What is there to live for though


ImLoen your children


They dont need me


they do


we do


I wanna rant about my fellow friend of mine that doesnt make any sense to me.


This gal im ranting about is the same person I vented about months ago, We are still friends I let her talk about whats wrong that she'd said to me back then, I forgave her she forgave me.


But now another thing that has no sense to me.


We're just roleplaying like we do normally, Then there was this one line where this character said I'm hangig out with my friends, If you're really that bored we can hang out


and then she replied with her oc and with a quot from her You're like your character, and My character like me. Just realize it today I dont need to explain how or why


I dont know what's happening to her in person and I'm concerned about the fact she told me that she has over 9 friends at her school and I have none But i do have online friends but I barely talk to them That doesnt make any sense, I know her friends are hella nice and she has so many to talk to. Im just here wasting my time on games and arts.


@ wholesome of the day!


hey there! What you're describing is what I've felt last time


Kitten im so sorry you feel this way, know your worth ok you seem like a really sweet girl 3


yep!


don't woory too much, it's ok


some people dont deserve your time


why did it delete?


Uh, I'm not sure if this friendship is really going to work out. Seems like it's going down a sort of iffy path. But you should know that you're fine as you are. I do art as well and I'm more of an introverted person.


Aoi Have you tried reasoning with her again? I personally think that's the first thing you should do actually, since it'll end quickly


If you're still having problems like this, maybeee you can try to tell her about what you think in this situation. I suggest going with a more softer tone than an aggressive one.


It could also be that they feel like you don't pay attention to them. In which, you probably are paying attention but just don't have a lot of time. Try to tell her this if it she does think you're ignoring her.


You can tell me what her response is if you decide to follow these steps. Don't worry sweetie, you'll be alright


if you think that you don't feel comfortable with her, you can try talking to her about it. However, if I you also feel uncomfortable about telling her, maybe you can try, like, unfriending her or sumn? I'm not sure.


I'm also not that good in friendship


However


If you have any uncomfortable feelings, feem free to come here!


alright


You can also dm me:


yui hug Aoi


Friendship is those kinds of things that you need to figure out yourself. Just like love, it doesn't have a definition. It varies from person to person and has different values


owo hug Aoi


smhsmh why yui no work here


We havent been talking to each other since my school has been giving us alot of works and homeworks and I only have time to talk to her whenever its past her bedtime like 10pm12am


how does she talk to you


like how is her attitude?


do you feel uncomfortable?


or are you ok?


Aoi Exactly! You probably have a pretty tight schedule and is busy most of the time! You can try telling her that actually, she'll surely understand if she cares about you


She talks to me formally like we dont know each other while I talk to her like im a hyped child


hmm


does it make you feel troubled?


yes


is she ignoring in school or sumn?


Ah, i see, you can tell her about that as well. Don't be afraid to speak out about things you feel uncomfortable or troubled with


her school starts 7am3pm while mine is 1pm5pm and the couple of hours for my HW and modules


Actually, you rlly make me feel like when I was 8


I occasionally had friendship problems as well


That's a really short amount of time spent together.


For now, speak up to her and maybe decide on having small talks instead of long ones. You two's schedule doesn't really match up so find a good time to do small chitchat like 3040 mins


And I am more comfortable with online friends rather than real life friends


alr


You'll get used to it and it'll reduce the amount of stress


or maybe you should try talking about this problem when you talk to her at night


mhnm


that's a good idea


I'll try that later


Okay sweetie


Thank you for helping me


.wholesome


No problem!


Trigger warning I think.


why do I watch videos of near death experiences or people reacting to them fully knowing that it is not only traumatizing, but give me full on anxiety attacks because I anticipate the absolute worst of every situation I see? I already deal with enough having one of those experiences myself yet some times I just can't stop watching... is it bad that I do this? I feel guilty that videos like this intrigue me to a certain extent... idk it's kinds different ig being on the side of having that same sort of traumatic event happen to me in one way so other ways kinda interest me in some sort of manner? I'm weird and confused and I really regret clicking on the video I just watched now bc of anxiety:/ rip me for being dumb yet interested at the same time:


Husein I mean, people have different interests and unique habits.


I don't think what you're doing is weird. It's probably because of curiosity. Maybe your curiosity went a little far, but hey, we can't blame it.


I'm really sad that you've experienced the same traumatic events and I'm glad you're still alive. Honestly, if you still want to watch videos like that, go for it. There's really nothing wrong about it Isaiah


why you so nice to me, I'm so messed up in the head some times


I only experience something like that because I put myself in that situation with my actions


My I see I see. You're not wrong with the putting yourself in the situation part, but you're not at fault here okay.


I'm just trying to be nice to everyone


With the exception of my emergency foods of course


ah, paimon and chicken. yeah ... I used to be addicted to drugs and ended up almost going last year.. glad I didn't and have been working on turning my life around since that day


Amadeo I'm glad that you're doing great right now! Keep up the good work and take care of yourself


I try


Yesu


Hi,um well, Ive been really bad lately and kept crying in my bed or my bathroom When Im alone so my parents wont see me.ive been thinking of doing self harm or suicide But im too scared.., and well My parents dont know anything about that because i dont want them to worry and make me go to a therapist, and when Im around people I always smile,make jokes to hide I really feel I feel useless, horrible, worthless.. And well.. I just really needed to say that.., and I really need some help getting a bit better..


Hey sorry for the Ping. I'm actually going through the exact same thing! I'm so proud of you for telling us! But it might be best to tell your parents. If you're nervous to say it face to face then you can send a letter to them explaining what's going on! Or you can talk to a trusted friend or relative or just us about to work up the nerve and say it: But you will need to tell them sooner or later..Your their child,and parents should love you no matter what! You don't always have to go to therapy. If you feel comfortable with it then you can! Cause if your not comfortable going there it might not even be therapy. Though if you choose not to at least talk with your parents or trusted people. We all love you! You are so sweet! If you need someone to talk to please don't hesitate to call or text us! We believe you can get through this!


in the future please remove the ping when quoting!


Okay:


Hewo...so uhm sighs I've been really been in a bad mood lately and idk what will I do myself...I've been thinking myself that the world would be alot batter without me.ive been crying for the past few days and idk what will I do myself.im always want to see my grandmother again in heaven.my mom doesn't know anything about this I've been keeping this a secret a long time and idk how to confess her like this,I almost killed myself from cutting my arms and I don't want to do cause my mom loves me and I love her too.


That's all from me


Thank you!


@ wholesome of the day!


Does..it make sense? Or not? I can rewrite it all?


uhh


maybe you should think about saying it. And don't save bad feelings, it's okay to feel bad, but you won't feel SO bad anymore if someone knows and supports you to make you feel better


did i say something wrong?


cuz i tried sending my message and it immediately got deleted


idk if what i said was wrong


nevermind, ill just rewrite it


Im sorry Im not that good with words but Ill try  First off, we are lucky to have u and I might not know u well but still. Pls stay, many people love you a lot, even though you might not see it rn. And when you are comfortable pls try talking to ur mom about how you feel, she might not exactly understand but she would probably want to help you. Aikashi Sowwy for ping


okay, so


just realize people do care about you, and your life is worth living. if it helps, reach out. surround yourself with people who make you feel happy. through this, you can develop positivity. im sorry you have to go through all of this. just realize youre not alone


Aikashi hi another potato!


i understand you because i feel the same way sometimes.


But when you alive, you have lots of choice and you can shape your life. but when you die, you have no choice.


I know, sometimes life chokes us but we have to be stay strong. You have someone you loves you, and there are people who are waiting for you in the future. For them, stand up and show whole world you are achieving!


We love you. I love you so much. You can talk to me too when you need. You are strong. Dont think about something that you cant undo.


You are loved


and u are potatooo


Aikashi It's really difficult to speak up to people about this. Even the to the people you trust the most. But, it's worth it. It really is.


A way that you can deal with thoughts like these is seeking for helo through a professional. You deserve love sweetie


Another way you can cope with this is, to do small therapeutic things like writing down/drawing your thoughts or just simply, crying. Crying is one of the ways you can let loose of your emotions, but don't let it get in your way of taking care of yourself!


Speak to your mother sweetie! She'll understand. She loves you and so does everyone in here! No one doesn't deserve love. You can also snatch a hug or a cuddle from loved ones! We humans crave contact and it helps our nerves calm down!


If thoughts about harming yourself keep on getting intense, please do seek a hotline near you! You can easily search it up! I'm really worried about you. Stay strong


Tthank you for these comments.iim ccrying rn. tthank yyou


Aww dont cry


Aikashi Awwe it's alright sweetie! You're gonna be alright


pats head


owo hug Aikashi


.hug Aikashi


owo died


Aikashi dont cry


oo


oof


@ wholesome of the day! ...


Am I being bullied? Yes


Why?


I have no clue, I lost my temper today, I am sick of it, but they do not stop, how many time I have told them too stop they do not, I shouted at them all, saying, What do you have against me? What do you want from me? What have I done to you? and ran out the class, I can not handle it anymore, I really want to move school but there are no more in a half an hour radius, I sometimes question if earth is where I should be? I want to be perfect, pretty popular, they all say, You'll never be a therapist! As being a therapist is my dream, as I have been through a lot and I want to help people with their problems, but they just want to bring me down.


hushkyshead


Im so sorry that this is happening to you, from the bottom of my heart. Its been happening to me as well for.. god knows how long. The best thing you can do is to ignore them, giving them the attention the crave will only make them do it more. Stay strong love, I know youre stronger than them.


Don't listen to them. You're free to be a therapist. Also please know perfection doesn't exist.


You can always tell a teacher about the bullying or maybe the principal.


Selcouth theyll pick on me more but ty


ikaenia ty


And about been a therapist! You will be a really good one i know it! Best of luck!:


of course.. if you ever need help, please dont be afraid to shoot me a dm, okay? im more than happy to help you, keep you company, whatever you may need.


theyll pick on me more but ty


hushkyshead It's okay to defend yourself tho. Or ignore them as best as you can.


ty everyone


Give them a cold look so that they will shever from scare!


Like this!


@ wholesome of the day! ...


From the start of quarantine, i've felt numb and felt excluded from everything, partly due to my controlling mother, it's still the same. I just want to be a teenager and to do what I want.


Have you tried confronting her? Sorry if Im not helping


It can't be helped you see...it is same for all! Just try bearing with it


Try to do something that your comfortable doing, try to confront her.


Zara. . Confronting her makes it worse, at one point she basically removed all apps from my phone assaulted me for using it


its not a option


atleast she's bearable for now


Hmm. Do you have any relieves who can help?


Zara. . dad lives across the country, granny lives with us, i dont know my aunt's number, uncle died, i could try to phone my cousin if i can remember his phone


Try to remember your cousins number:


but atm she's fine, im only leaving or doing something drastic if she either a abuses me again or b that and more


she's also a master manipulator


so no luck for me


Cause then if they have your aunts number they can help to work this out..


Have you maybe tried calling those child/teen foundations? Or even maybe a relative. if you can't call someone then tell your teachers/friends. I'm not very good at confortations or how u write that so sorry if i don't help. if you can't find a solution maybe try what i told u


Ya mabey try what Lindy suggested


Zara. . i dont know about my aunt as from what i've heard broke my mother and her brother's relationship a sibling one up, and did the same with her son my cousin who's 17 years older than me so idk


Oh..


AKAKU MOESAKARU friends know, since one of friends mother is also the same controlling, we talk about her and my mom, mostly about how delusional they are


Maybe teachers or child/teen foundations


teachers, maybe? ill look up those foundations


and see what i get


Wait didn't you say you had a cousin that is 17 years older and had the same problem?


snovee Hello, I think you need to listen to your favourite song, take a bath, and speak to your mother calmly and maybe speak to your friends? I have a mental health support group at my school, speak to someone you can trust?


Maybe ur cousin could take care of you they seem old enough and ive read that adults if ur cousin is an adult can adopt/take care of others even if they're relatives


Relatives or not, adults can help you by taking care of you or contacting the police


I think you need to listen to your favourite song do that everyday for hours, its relaxing


take a bath even tho i dont like baths ill take one


and speak to your mother calmly ill be hit with the lies and the manipulation card


speak to your friends as noted earlier, i speak to my friend as we both have similar situations


I have a mental health support group at my school, speak to someone you can trust? i trust literally noone there, not teachers, not students, noone. there's a councilor but i doubt without any evidence i'll have anything done


as i said she doesnt leave any bruises or anything she just hits a lot of times but not enough to leave bruises, she doesnt hit in one spot but in every part of the body


so no evidence nothing done


There are these things where you can call them and kind of like investigate your mental condition and health


If they see you're somewhat unstable and they find out you're telling the truth then your mom will get arrested or something like that


Or maybe take a video record or record with no video just sound of your mom doing those things to you. Find the perfect time and opportunity. Video recorders/recorders are already downloaded on ur phone/tablet and they can't be deleted. So, maybe try doing it if you want to


snovee


i think option 2 is better


since her insanity breakouts are rare


Im glad i kinda helped


AKAKU MOESAKARU


update on my dad: HE CAME HOME! AAA IM SO HAPPY OMGGOGKGMGMGM


So I have this friend, weve been fighting for ig a few weeks, but yesterday we had a big fight. One of my friends that Ive knew for like my whole life took my other friends side. She stared saying things like I used them. I wanted to say: if I used you why didnt you dumb me at the start, and the emoji I was punching” was someone who called you a name.” She just ignores the whole this I said. Today Ive been ignoring her. She always questions why Im it online as much as before to play with her. I told her I wasnt feeling good and I told her the truth. The fight started bc I starting spamming emojis with one of her friends. My friend comes attacking me, saying she is always the victim. While she is attacking me and me only. Her friend was spamming too. She didnt even care. Just comes a attacks me. Ive done a lot for her too. She just comes after me and me only. Its just wrong.


@ AnnIE Update: So I went to play with my friend for a bit. I asked if we were good and she said no, but she was laughing like HEHHEHE and she usually does that when she's joking around so i think we are good now ill wait a few more days


GLAD UR GOOD!


Am I being bullied? Yes


Why?


I have no clue, I lost my temper today, I am sick of it, but they do not stop, how many time I have told them too stop they do not, I shouted at them all, saying, What do you have against me? What do you want from me? What have I done to you? and ran out the class, I can not handle it anymore, I really want to move school but there are no more in a half an hour radius, I sometimes question if earth is where I should be? I want to be perfect, pretty popular, they all say, You'll never be a therapist! As being a therapist is my dream, as I have been through a lot and I want to help people with their problems, but they just want to bring me down.


hushkyshead People who do this are absolutely horrible beings. I'm sorry that you had to go through that.


Ignoring could be an option, but the bullying won't be resolved. Try and speak up to your parents/s. I think it's best to let them know about this situation and they can easily think of a way to help you.


I'm glad you're brave enough to defend yourself sweetie For now, try doing that actually. You can try building a strong mentality!


Also, I'm so so happy to see you wanting to become a therapist! It's such an amazing job and I'm sure you can succeed! Keep up your hard work!


@ wholesome of the day! i have been having very rough times the past lately i wanted some help for my server to have a server for friends and so on and no one wants to help me what must i do guys:C


snovee Abuse is something very serious. If the sort of abuse you're talking is severe, seek help


For now, try to do simple things like home exercise to lighten up your mood and clear your mind. You can also try doing small therapeutic things which are, writing down thoughts, drawing, etc.


I hope you're doing okay now!


Eh, well I can help.


Alister


i want a cute and asthetic person


I'm not cute. But I'm aesthetic.


You and your friends were going to make a server for just you guys?


Drobman Well, making a server can be difficult.


Don't you have anyone who wants to join?


That's so sweet


How come they said no


no i want help setting it up


ohh


not to make people join yet


i c i c


like did they just refuse to help you set it up?


yes


Do they have any reasons though?


weird. It's a sweet idea to make a server for you and your friends to hangout in


i wonder why they won't help


they said they can design


Eh, I know all about setting up servers but hopefully you can get someone to help. Maybe keep asking around.


are you guys just making a hangout room and things?


caant


idk


no one wants to help me and that just makes me sad:C


afk Crying in the corner


Bondon Hmmm, i see.


Well, for now you can try to do it alone. It does seem boring and all but I think things will be much more easier to coordinate by yourself.


I'm not that good at making servers, but I can try to help sweetie


We can try to help you, and then surprise your friends bunny


yay


It does seem a bit boring to do it on your own without them helping you


I'm sure your friends have brilliant ideas though for your hangout space


yeah i guess


@! zinria You should just leave him honestly.


This just looks like a toxic friendship and I don't want to see you suffer


At first, it may be difficult, since it's your friend but you'll be glad once you cut ties with them.


They do not make the rules of your life, so leave them alone.


in the current world we live in that kind of stuff doesnt just let up at least at my school


if u tried hard enough u could probably get him suspended or expelled depending on how bad the comments and stuff are


oops


bad language


but yea maybe u could just go after his friends possibly if ur able to take care of him


i wish u the best tho and gl


I guess maybe you should tell them the reason why you cant run fast


Maybe see a doctor to figure out why your leg is in pain again. And ignore the people who tease you for being slow at running, because it isn't your fault if you have injuries.


Or you can also ignore them and theyll slowly start to ignore them too


you should visit the doctor


I hope you'll get better soon!


@.SYO That's where your parents are wrong. I'm sure they care about you and want you to feel better, but they're just not the right people to do it. For now, reassurance and cuddles are the best thing your parents can do


seems like you should convince your parents to see a doctor


either way, i hope you get better soon, and i wish you the best


Try to be gentle with your leg til you see a doctor. Don't know what it is so you wouldn't want to possibly damage it anymore.


Tell your parents it is not working out and it's best for you to see a doctor. running/jogging is worsening it


Tell them to seek you a doctor sweetie


Those three situations could possibly be linked, again, a doctor is the way to go with these kinds of things. They're professionals. Once you've found one, you know you're in good hands


You should also tell your teachers about this, maybe they can excuse you from running


Yes, you can try telling her about the whole leg situation and ask her if you can excuse yourself so you can seek help


@.SYO well, does it involve physical activities that may hurt you more?


hm


do you think you can opt out of the activities?


you can try participating in it.


If it does involve physical activities, excuse yourself out of it


Tell your teacher about your condition


im gonna kms and i dont care anymore


i keep thinking if i should or not, cause if i die im positive one of my parents will commit suicide but im just in so much pain i cant take it


Pain is temporary, no matter how long it lasts


If you cant stay alive for yourself stay alive for your parents


its just all the pain i have it doesnt feel temporary it feels like i'll have it forever because of how big it impacted me


guys, im sorry for not being here helping you with the vents, but recently i havent been doing too well, and with how i feel rn, i think i might do more harm than help in here, ill be back when i feel better. Cheers!


afk no one likes me why should i live


dot/ ashlyn Please don't do it.


You have so much to live for. Just like people said, pain is temporary. This world may be cruel, but you can get through if you stay strong.


Please. People love you. You don't deserve pain. Look out for yourself. You're never alone. Talk to a hotline.


Pain might seem like forever but trust me it is temporary, I felt like it would last forever for a year or two awhile back. It doesnt last. Things will get better if you just hang in there. Your skies will brighten and you'll have a smile on your face by the end of whatever you are going through if you are willing to wait for it and work for it. Happiness is something really special. It only makes sense its something hard to obtain after being lost. So wait and it will come back when you least expect it. If our words dont help you please do call a hotline like tea has said dot/ ashlyn


i dont feel safe anymore


i feel bullied


i just dont know


Awwee did something happen?


mhm:


What did they do?


i got yelled at three times


i got hit two times


by?


HIT


: family


Nooo


and then they make fun of me


Whyyy


for crying:


Its ok to cry tho


i know but they make fun of me still


Everyone crys sometimes


also..


is it okay to bite yourself?


like


a lot?


Okay serious time


This could be a start of a toxic/abusive family relationship. If this has happened for a while, seek help. There are hotlines for these I think. A quick search would do the job


If this has only happened once, maybe try reasoning with your family. Say I don't feel okay with this or Please don't treat me this way


uh..


not the first time


but i cant say anything about that


so i keep it all to myself


HappyFrog Please don't. It may be a way to calm down, but please don't. Your health is important


okay..


Agreed


Keeping things to ur self hurts


It hurts a lot


what about picking skin?


Don't be afraid to speak up to people. They'll try their best to help you. You'll be in the right hands if you just, speak.


:c okay..


It depends on what kind of picking skin you're talking about


eee..


For now, don't do anything harmful towards yourself sweetie. Maybe try and bite your nails? It's a way of relieving stress but don't over do it as well.


i only pick at two things


one scalp


two my hands


which hurt a lot actually


Know that there are people who will love you no matter what. Your family may be horrible, but you'll find better people to take care of you.


You matter. And I care about you. Please don't hurt yourself and take care


owo hug HappyFrog


:c but why would you care about me?


i am just a weak lil froggo


Because your human all humans should be cared about


Unless ur trump


:c okay


thanks you guys


Yw!


NO SELF HARM


aaa


Because people are flawed. Nobody is perfect Yes it may sound cliche but it's true.


We humans crave reassurance and physical contact. We have emotions. It's okay to let them out.


I'm just like you and you're just like me


ITS OK TO CRY


If you have people that you trust dearly, ask them for a hug or two


is it?


yes


emotion is not something we can control


then i would hug all of yall


owo hug HappyFrog


yay


thanks yous 3!


i am in a better mood now


I'm glad you are! Remember to seek help if things get out of hand freg


yay thanks yous


np np


Hello


hi!


I need help


You can always just talk about anything in here. Just please don't swear or else you'll get warned


ofc


i'll try to help!


Well


mhn?


I am always sad, many people ignore me and insult me. I've always felt lonely. I have some friends but they are never online in discord and I feel lonely, I don't know what to do. I've tried to make new friends but nobody pays attention to me. I feel depressed and I always cry and I can't control it


People ignore you? Then don't talk to them, they'll know how great you were and they were just ignoring you. You get insulted? Just ignore them, they'll stop as long as you don't show a sign of getting teased and they'll lose interest on it. And if you seek friends it won't happen, making friends is better than finding ones, always go for your actual personality, don't use fake ones because people may suddenly hate you for suddenly changing or using a fake personality since you don't trust yourself, they won't trust you neither


Sometimes when I feel sad I like to think of the things that made me happy and think about how happy I was I always do my best to try not to be sad but it is always good to cry some times there are some times when I dont get to cry in a year


I wrote an essay oo


still hope you understand me, i, myself can't even express what i think


I'll try that, thanks for helping


Kitty I know it's may seem really difficult having to experience this. This happens a lot to people and it makes them sad or depressed.


If people do ignore you, then it may mean that they're not the right type of people. Maybe try speaking out to your friends and family. You can tell them I feel lonely and I feel like I need love


To the people who insult you, they succ. Ignore them. They're only there to make your day horrible.


Whenever you cry, it doesn't mean you're weak. People have emotions and we can't control it. We can however better learn it.


For now, hugs from the people who you truly trust are the best things to recieve. Speak out to them


Talking to people online can help. New people are always amazing to meet!


i cant


i just cant sleep


awww


maybe you can try listening to relaxing music


clear your mind a bit so you can be at ease


but


what about them?


them?


THKEJDUDN


sorry uh


what i mean is


the friends”


how do i make Them leave?


uh..am i being annoying?


Hmm


First of all, no you're not annoying


Second of all, forget about your friends


They're there for a reason. And it's a bad one. So, try and think of the things you like


but they wont leave


they are just


just


Calm down sweetie


No need to be stressed out


why are they here?


They're here because you think they're scary. They're not. You're strong and I'm sure you can forget about them


Maybe eat a sandwich or snacks


and drink some water


but why are they just?..


just why?


im sorry


duck


i shouldnt say that


im so sorry


It's psychology.


You can't force these thoughts out. If you do, it'll be even worse.


Horrible thoughts like these come and go. It's not your fault sweetie, it's simply a natural thing.


Just wait and calm down. Once you know it, you'll be asleep.


It's alright froggo


you're not in the wrong


okay..


owo pat HappyFrog


can i hide under my blanket?.


Of course


Just don't suffocate yourself okay


i know..hm..


ooo


would like my old stuffies help me?


hm..


mhn


hug le stuffies


:c okay.


oo!


hm?


i have water, stuffies, charger and books


i should be okay right?.


mhm!


reading books are good!


mhm


okay..well talk to you when i wake up..thanks for helping me


mhn np np


Sleep well froggo!


night night


gn!


Kitty Yes, I agree with mariri. New people are really amazing to meet. For example, mariri and I. We were strangers at first, but now we are'husband and wife' on discord, and we have a lot of fun fooling around. You can go to the prolly most active channel,'chatroom' and make new friends with the people there. You'll like it, I'm sure you will. But mind that they may not reply instantly, as they may be busy with other stuff! Don't worry, because if you're feeling sad or anything, feel free to come free.:


hi husband


If I tell people anything about what is going on there will hate me Im guessing


mariri hi wife:


Nobody here will hate you


nekoi yep


Just tell us


nothing is wrong about venting


Body state:


toes are bleeding, dance why must you do this


legs are insanely bruised


ribs are showing


hip bones are sticking out


left arm is numb and cold and my fingers are swollen idk either


right elbow is colder than my fridge


bruises all over my fave


biggest eye bags ever


please


just seek help from a doctor


Also I forgot the cat scratches” everywhere


seek a doctor


why


No matter how much you hate it. Just go. You'll be in good hands.


Don't be afraid to speak up to them. There is this thing called patient privacy so talk to them.


Corona virus


Also why would my mom let me go


Talk to your parents


tell them about this


Tell them.


This isn't something that can easily be solved by just staying quiet


They wouldnt help


why do you think so


i wonder if i shouldve just kept my secrets bottled up. i wonder why i even bother sharing. it just makes people think less of me in the long run.


I didnt want to wake up. I was having a much better time asleep. And thats really sad. It was almost like a reverse nightmare, like when you wake up from a nightmare youre so relieved. I woke up into a nightmare. sometimes i just wish i could die in my sleep so i wouldnt have to suffer anymore then i already am. i normally bottle up my feelings, even if it turns into me hurting myself again


Im sorry MiukeyNotFound Idk what to say accept that there is much more fun things to experience and u would be missed, even if it seems like that wouldnt be possible. And ik it sometimes feels like we should just bottle up our feelings but it just hurts us more. Talk to someone that you trust about whats happening or u can talk to us just like you are rn Sowwy if this wasnt very helpful


@ wholesome of the day! i know this is a late ping but..


Keeping your feelings in can become a somewhat habit if you do it to often, but, you're worthy, problems are temporary and they can seem like they last forever, when you get through this, you can look back at what you went through and to realize that you made it through some of the toughest times, you're worthy, you're beautiful, you're amazing the way you are. Please feel better soon


hiyya.


feeling this way is valid, and you have every right to express yourself. letting people push you down isn't the right way to go, and you shouldn't have those people in your life even if theyre family, or people you think are your friends, if they truly cared they wouldnt act this way.


crying is one the best ways to express yourself, and you should never try to stop yourself from doing so, its very natural and it works, so please do anything that helps you.


making people worry about you shouldnt matter, what matters is that you're expressing yourself, and getting everything out, you're not going to scare anyone away, and never will.


Please feel better soon 3 we're all here for ya.


Yeah.. i have bad coping mechanisms..


i don't want to say the exact words.. ill leave it at that


thank you all for your kind messages


You're welcome Nev. We hope you feel better 3


@ wholesome of the day! So, today I had lost it, my anxiety was mixing with my anger issues, I was diagnosed with A.D.D yesterday, my life hates me, my coping mechanisms are not working, give me some, my bestfriend is being bullied as well by my so called'bestie' who uses me. I feel like dying at the moment.


okay, so im gonna try my best to help out with your problems


youre okay, and youre gonna be fine. because youre not alone


i have the same trouble with emotional breakdowns. your best bet to stop this from happening in the future is to just step aside and regain yourself. think about whats making you upset and why. then take some deep breaths and relax. then step back in and settle the situation


if your bestfriend” is using you, its best that you and your other best friend stay away as far from them as possible. dont talk to them, or even be near them. if things get worse, block them on social media


Hmm...well you aren't alone. Doesn't make you any less of a person. If your anger was caused by the bullying at least it shows that you care. We sometimes can't operate how we feel and the way we speak because we don't know how others feel about certain things when we begin to open up. So don't feel so bad about it. You can always get a bit of therapeutic coping mechanisms to help if you have a therapist.


your life is worth living. so dont give up


I would suggest cutting ties with your best friend if she bullies your other friend and uses you


i also agree with mars ideas.


its not your fault so theres no reason to feel bad


hushkyshead Just leave you're friend alone. It'll be extremely difficult at first but you'll get through it.


As for coping mechanisms you can reate a routine. Get yourself ready for school or work at the same time, in the same way, every day. Exercise, eat a balanced diet and get enough sleep. Remember, coping with this illness is something you need to practice on a daily basis, as it takes time to work new skills and behaviors into your daily routine.


Other ways include writing down your thoughts, listening to calming music, playing with fidget toys I personally suggest this more, drawing, and overall normal hobbies that will keep your mind in a stable place.


I hope you can feel better and get through this easily


@ wholesome of the day!


my midterm report card is coming soon, and i know my grades are bad. i don't have much time to make them better. i'll also get it right before my birthday an i'm scared that my parents will take away my presents. they're gonna be so mad at me idk what to do please give me advice


and it doesn't matter that i tried my best, because my parents have a standard of what my best is


Mid term


middle of the first term


well, did you study for it?


it's not a test


it's a progress report


Hmm...parents have reallly high standards huh


Try to explain to your parents. Tell them that you can't meet their best expectations. Talk to them on how much you can't really handle it


if you already had midterms hopefully they do improve the next midterm if it's a bit too late to improve your grade


or ask for extra credit


is 88 grade bad?


no


your parents are the A's only kind huh...


mhm


even an a is bad


such strict parents


but i feel like discord is distracting me sm


It's usual to see parents putting a lot of pressure to their children. They always tell you to be the best and all.


88 is not bad, it's only your parents. They love you but don't want to take responsibility that much.


same


i should really be doing this analysis thing before I fail US history smh


it's such a lot to do in just a 20 day period


If you want to try to take a break from discord.


Make a schedule and turn off notifications so it won't be distracting


i keep on telling myself to turn of discord and notifs but i feel empty without it, like i'm so bored


go to ivy college they say... make A's they say... do better they say...


parents


Well, whenever you're bored, you can try doing hobbies like drawing, writing, singing, etc.


i mean


its normal to struggle in college, my bro just failed a year


the workload though that's the issue


hw is boring


like i'm supposed to be doing hw


ngl


rn


but


i closed discord for two seconds then opened it agian


same


Phone's are actually designed to be addicting. It's not your fault


not my phone


and yeah, education can be boring


my parents took my phone away but i have discord on my computer too


hw is difficult under tight deadlines and super boring


but your grade is high


it's not so bad


i have never gotten a grade below 96


is pressure


Discord is a social platform. I can see why you can't seem to get over it


extreme pressure and dedication ngl


the stress it takes to maintain a 96 and above is difficult


Pressure, if done well, can be helpful. But this kind of pressure is not healthy


child you are a smart little bean smh


i wish I had that kind of mentality


don't stress so much over your first low midterm


Overall, your grade is good. I've gotten 50s before


but i'm scared


my birthday is in 8 . days


i'll get my report card before that


aww happy early birthday!


thanks!


but don't stress yourself out before your bday


it's still a decent grade


it won't harm you


but i'm scared they'll cancel my birthday celebration


only strict and awful parents would deny their kid their own birthday over one tiny grade...


your grade is still really good


Birthdays are such a huge part of life and I can see why you're scared of not having a celebration for it. But, trust me, celebrating your birthday doesn't need that big of a celebration.


People even forget their birthdays


unlike me who took a break to regather my mind and ended up behind and grades are due in 2 weeks now


no but uh


like take away my presents and no cake or smth like that


denying a child their birthday stuff seems kind of much for a grade, whether it's good or bad


you only turn that age one time so it's best to enjoy it


on a great day


Honestly, overall, you should just calm down and focus on improving things you think you need to improve.


Read your books and relax. You'll be alright. Focus on your mental health.


but


how do i stop coming on discord


if you think discord is the problem to you focusing on your studies maybe delete it for a few days


to see if that helps


But you can also try to slowly minimize time on discord


maybe minimize 3040 mins each day


if i delete it i will just go on my computer and go on the website


Try to get into something else


Hmm


i hate myself for not being able to control what i do


Maybe try blocking it off of your stuff


And turning off your notifications


So you can ignore it


It's not your fault. It's normal to be like this


hmm


we all get bored


but i'm bored like all the time


Do you have any hobbies?


Instruments maybe


i'd try switching discord for something less of a distraction


like spotify


Mhn


well


i do play the violin


discord has many people and many servers so it's tempting to try and open it


BUT


when i play the violin


i secretly open up discord too


imma burn my violin istg this instructor...


you can listen to music and work


it's what I do


Try learning new pieces, do difficult ones so you'll be more into it


i just play music that sounds nice but isn't too upbeat or boring


so i don't distract myself


Well, for now you should try doing the things you've been told to. You can always tell us if it doesn't work. We'll try to think of other things


I'm not sure...maybe take breaks during your hw too. Between each subject take a 15 minute break after them and then work on your next topic. I'm sure if you explain it to your parents they won't be too mad


hmm


for hw it's usually one assignment per subject


i'll try listening to music uwu


thanks for the advice guys!


for some reason im all of a sudden really hot and sweating


i did nothing


also i still cant feel my arm


perfect day for 2 hours of dance


ami right?


GRANDPOPS.


TALK TO YOUR PARENTS.


you need to


please


noo


ughh im 1 minute late to my dance class


brb


fingers hurt but i still ccant feel my arm


i broke something


WHAT IS IT FROGGO?...


i wont say but


my dad


is gonna be very mads


and i dont wanna get hurt from him


or yelled at


You broke the vase?


Thenn?


i dont wanna get hurttt


Tell me aksnndnf


no


well anyways


good bye


are you alright isaiah?


I feel numb, nothing, empty, yet at the same time, I'm extremely happy, my day was filled with greatness. I enjoyed myself, the time I spent with my girlfriend. I feel like a shell again, just being here, what feels like a pointless existence yet I know well enough that it's not. I've been content, extremely happy, I have no reason for this to be happening yet it is. I'm Having my urges. My unwanted urges. The things I stay away from mentally for my good, and the good for those around me. My mental health has been better than usual since her and I had set things down the way they have been lately. She makes me very happy, but she's not my only source of happiness. I've been keeping myself motivated to continue working out, every day if not every other day. So why do I feel this way? I'm not sure, but I want to understand why. I can understand that it could just be the balance of good and bad in ones life, and I can accept that, but if it's something else I need to know. Life goes on and So do I sorry for taking up your time, this has helped and I'm over it now.


I don't want a response honestly, I just want to be understood


Eal Mixed feelings that change from day to day are commonly found through many people.


Like you said, there is always a balance of good and bad. I have to say this to stay true but, you can't really do anything about it. It's emotion and we can't control it like robots. They come and go naturally even without us noticing.


It's good to spend alone time. Try to create a healthy balance between individualization and human interactions. As selfish as it sounds, you're doing it for you. And that's what matters.


Dw Isaiah. I'm glad speaking up helped you. As much as I may seem to be mad at you, I'm not. I just really care for you and I hope the best for you as well. I'm starting to understand your situation and hopefully, I can get to know it better.


hi again, i've yet again come to vent, and well, this time is about something else, as i've said before i wasn't doing too good, that's the reason why i havent been helping lately, but lately i feel like i lost all motivation to do anything, i dont wanna see people anymore, i dont wanna deal with people, i dont want to know about the world, and the small group of friends i have have become stale and they have also noticed, ive been kicking people out of my life and when the regret comes, breakdowns happen, and i feel like even if i tryed fixing the situation, the damage is already done...


@ wholesome of the day!


F34rr i hope you feel better and dont loose motivation be strong everyone loves you her we are all family dont feel left out or anything!


we love you!


thats all i can say now:D


It happens sometimes! Try finding motivation to do things keeping you busy! Have good rest! And everyone you know loves you!


hihi,


it's never too late to make things better y'know. i hope you get your motivation back, and make things better with your friends.


you just need time, and thats totally understandable, just dont tear yourself down because you're giving yourself a break from everything. we all care for you, and hope you get better, bby. 33


Damage can never be done. As much as people can say there is damage, there really isn't any. It isn't really your fault. It's just how you feel. And how you feel reflects in the way you behave. It isn't a bad thing if you're going through a lot because a lot of people do. And we are here for you. We appreciate the help you've given us and if you need to take a break for your own mental health we don't mind at all. Think of it as a gift of gratitude to our vents and for your appreciation. So now we all return the favor in helping you now. You really aren't the only person to isolate themselves and start kicking people from their life because they aren't feeling well. We all push people away without meaning to. Maybe if you tell them exactly what's been going on they will understand. If you need a break please take one


Hey! You still have a chance to fix the situation, when something is wrong there's always a solution! Kicking people out of your life it's gonna come in your life and well, anyone's life. But to get them back, you can tell them about what your going through and they'll probably forgive you! I just wanna say, it's okay to cry and have breakdowns. You've lost motivation to do things but we all believe you can get that back! Some tips to get it back would probably be, do some clubs, for example karate, music, soccer anything you desire or want! Sometimes when you help people and you have problems of your own at that moment it could bring you down.. So you can take breaks or stop for a period of time if you would like! We all hope you can get better!


We all love you!


thanks guys, this is why i love this comunity so much


We love you!


not at all,specially if it has some sort of emotional meaning to you, bc people wont acknowledge that it is important to you, and you feel comfortable with it


so i asked my friend to ask a friend i recently got off the line with stopped talking to and they did, so they responded with a not friendly response which really hurt my feelings, and i felt like that was my only chance but i messed it up just by asking but i just feel like im not good enough to others @ wholesome of the day!


its okay! its totally okay to feel that way you're fine


honestly all you can do now is to not overthink these types of situations:0


its not your fault, dont worry


your friend is probably upset, so its best to just leave them be and give them their space.


maybe try again in a few weeks if you feel like it


im pretty sure that they were probably just tired or something!


and hey, you're good enough! you're perfect just the way you are:D


its totally okay to feel that way, thats nothing you need to worry about


aw thank you guys


I really have to stop getting caught in school so i can read each of these vents


Anyway I'll probably just fail anyway, get sad and dropout. So...


I'm sorry about that hun. People are just...So yeah don't worry about it so much. You didn't mess anything up if they have the nerve to give a rude reply to your friend, who basically told you the reply, if that's what happened exactly.


Dw about it so much it isn't your fault. You did your best and they obviously didn't respond too well to your efforts. It's honestly their loss


thank you!


@ wholesome of the day! pls help me i have done my very best in this server nd staff results just come out and i fell like my motivation gone and i am know use to this server pls help me:C


hey, dont worry if you didnt get a staff role


you always have multiple chances, and you shouldnt worry too much


maybe take a break from the server if your motivation is gone


and who knows, maybe youll have that chance again


idk MayXStar


i love this server dont really feel like leaving


and i dont even think ashley really see i am doing my best to help this server lathough i am not a staff


they dont look at that side:C


aww dw honey the people who got the roles today just got lucky. Don't let them make you feel jealous okay? We really enjoy having you here and it's not like any of them are active in the first place. So tbh...you are just as great as them. Most of the people who aren't staffs are the most active members in the server and make the server alive. You don't have to be recognized as a staff member to get recognition from us. There is always another application coming up in a few months when they decide to add more people. People get staff and lose it all of the time. It all depends on how they use their power as trials.


i never said leaving


i just meant taking a break


you dont have to leave, but dont worry about not getting a staff role


i think shes just waiting to give you a chance at the right time


youre a good person regardless


dont let the little things get over you


i know it's hard when you don't get chosen but we're a large group. if they didn't like you as much there really are more servers who are in need of people like you. Don't feel so left out about it. you shouldn't leave over it. I'm not even a staff and remain one of the most active here


we all love seeing you here so don't feel bad about it


and even with it has many responsibilities where you can easily abuse it, and tbh some people do abuse it when they first get it because they feel they have a bit of power. but you do have a big part in the server...which is being a member of our happy family. it won't be the same if you leave


trust me don't get so worked up. it's hard picking people when you have to basically moderate over 12k of us


this


yeah but they could atleast give us a try Mar


like see how we behave ect


i


well yeah that is true but I'm sure they do watch


i don't think they'd give people more roles at the moment until the next app comes in. but tbh the first round of apps is always the most difficult because those are people who are new, so they kind of abuse powers too soon and lose the role of trial


it happens in a lot of servers


oh i did not know


mhm


well we will see what goes on


especially large servers like these


i am going to take a little nap:D


usually they don't grant anyone a role that early because it's hard to adjust too


hmmm


yeah i think a nap will make you feel much better


becuase my head hurts


and i hope you sleep well


it's ok


have some water and rest bunny


thanks bye see you later!


ok


sleep well


afk going to take a nap


pls help me i have done my very best in this server nd staff results just come out and i fell like my motivation gone and i am know use to this server pls help me:C


Sherwood please don't be upset that you haven't been picked! i'm sure you had an amazing application and i'm sure that the next time you apply you will get in. i know you really wanted to be staff but hey, there's always next time! if you wanna talk more my dms are always open:3


ooop


Hm. I wonder why I feel invisible now. I mean I'm not a staff so I guess I really don't mind it, but I do feel invisible lately like it's hard to fit in. I mean people have stopped talking to me and stuff. I wonder what I do wrong...I try helping and then people begin caring about other stuff. I do expect it though tbh everyone leaves me for better things. I'm just not that very interesting of a person..


Mar I'm incredibly sorry to hear this.


I di notice you but I just don't know what to talk about. I haven't really gotten the chance to know your likes, dislikes, and stuff.


I've experienced the same thing. Feeling left out by people. You want to talk to them but they just won't notice you.


You can always try again. Try mentioning a persons name or just ask how their day is going. Bring a fun topic over. Oh, and I'll try to notice you even more Mar.


People do love you and I'm sure they don't think you're worthless


I guess so. People only want to be active for the announcement. They literally stop vc'ing with me or even try talking to me about actual topics. I don't even get dms anymore. They'd rather move on to better things. It doesn't surprise me, and I'm glad people are excited. Just wish they didn't push me to the side all of the time


Mar I'm really happy to see you still being optimistic about it.


For the mean time, you can try talking to new people in servers, I'm sure that'll dk the trick


well considering how many people they picked only a few are gonna move on to full on staff depending on how they do it im not sure


but even still


they might decide none of us turn out as good as they had hoped from our aplications


and thus rehold the applications and u can possibly get picked next time


just dont give up


ive had mutiple of my applications in other servers turned down and i never gave up


and when they finnaly did pick me i made it all the way to co owner


and i beilive the same thing could posibly happen to u


besides most likely even tho ur not staff well be glad to do the things u think would help as long as their logical and within the rules


at least i will


Hake


My chest hurts so bad but I cant tell my parents because it is 12 am


I still cant feel my arm either


ImLoen Loen. Tell your parents. You need to. Your health matters more than your parents's comfortability. Please, I'm saying this again, ask them to take you to doctor. This could result to something even worse if you don't tell about it sooner.


Isaiah, I relate to this so much, I literally cannot stand people constantly tryna flex things to try make themselves seem superior in some way, it triggers me hardcore.


Yup exactly.


Okay, I try to be optimistic and I usually look on the bright side but


Isaiah this is so tru u have 1000 iq


mariri how do I have 1000 iq


because


Tell


mariri tell me


Probably may or may not be a vent but...


Just now my mom told me that my grandmother slapped my cat so hard probably earlier?


My cat hasn't done anything lately. She only slept over the fridge nothing more.


And lately my grandma has been doing those to my pets and they haven't done anything troublesome.


I'm concerned about my pets since they're my only company at certain times aside from my friends and parents.


I sometimes think that my grandma is one of the animal abuse type of people


@ wholesome of the day!


Just let your grandma know that they can die as she is hurting them and should consider that too!


Maybe she will understand


My grandma is one of the strict type, she wont listen even if I tell her.


Then it is good to keep your pets save and away from her


If she keeps doing that, your pets will someday retailiate


Im so bad at spelling


its okay to be worried about this type of thing


just try to keep the pets with you as much as possible


Yaa it is most better way to keep them safe for now


She wants me to stay away from them, because they have viruses in them, which is i dont know if its true or not but, keeping them away from me is a bad idea.


Maybe give them vaccinations


And I don't think cats have some virus


Ahh I see


Thats bad


and theres no nearby vets around that is open.


Thats bad...I don't really know much about that


I am sorry hope I helped alittle...


It's fine, I'll keep my pets safe for now.


Aoi If you can't reason her out of this, keep your pets away from her.


Also, if she says they have some type of virus, try and do research about it. Prove to her that they don't cause that much of a trouble


I'm so sorry that's happening to you Aoi! I am almost certain that tame animals animals that are supposed to kept as pets don't have viruses. I have a lot of pets myself and none of them act any sort of way to make me think they are sick. But, I also know that it may be just your pets your grandma is worried about. As for the situation with your grandma, I would suggest keeping your pets away from her or telling an adult that is not in your household about what she is doing. I hope I was some sort of help! Again, I am so sorry this is happening to you. I hope she stops or it gets better.


alright, thank you to the both of you!


Anytime!


I accidentally put have viruses I meant don't have viruses. I messed up sorry!


np cookie!


yui pat Aoi


I guess I'll answer each from when I was sleeping


well not everyone gets along in the world i guess... i mean if you wish to talk to them about what they've done feel free to because we don't want to make ya uncomfortable. we are more than happy to assist you but we get that people find certain things awkward. it's the way the world crumbles. if only societies could get along but we're created differently, so we all have things or people we interact with. wholesome, serious, toxic, cringey, antisocial, intelligent, insulting, worthy, poor, sensitive, cuddly, savages, etc. so many personalities never even out. maybe it's just something we really have to adjust to. and y'know, what we feel on the inside sometimes reflects how we feel on the outside. some ppl want to be loved or recognized and if their personal life they try flexing to make people think they have no reason to worry about them, and same goes for people who don't flex and actually have good lives, or vent more often. i think the world needs an explanation of people's true intentions if you ask me


okay, so calm down and dont worry


you can always stay in contact with your friends digitally, and by staying away from them physically youre only helping out their health.


dont worry, because things will get better. soon youll be able to see them again too


@.SYO What your health department said is not wrong. I'm sure it's difficult to hear that you have contracted a virus from a pandemic. But, do please calm down.


They're doing this to keep your friends safe as well. If somehow you actually have the virus, your friends could be in extreme danger. And you don't want that right?


For now, you should try and talk to your friends via the internet. Face time them, voice calls, etc.


Try and create an encrypted account


use 2fa if you can


do any of your friends have discord?


try a more encrypted messaging system like whatsapp


then use whatsapp


make a private group chat so its only you and your friends


the only things you can do there is messaging, voice call, video call, and status updates.


or you could use whatsapp


get their phone numbers


You should calm down for now.


Being quarantined may seem difficult and boring at first, but you'll get used to it


Talk to your family


You'll get through this sweetie


owo pat @.SYO


i c i c


It's not really forceful. You should just calm down and follow the safety instructions for the sake of your health


hm?


hm


Well, it's good to see that you guys are taking safety precautions


like i said, try and contact your friends via apps


You can try talking to them.


You can also find ways to entertain yourself


exactly. try to find some new interesting yters


i have some yters that are pretty entertaining actually


how about vtubers


hololive en just came out


try and watch the jameskii ruins roblox series, it's pretty funny


you can also try and watch boffy


oh and there's another vtuber coming out called Artemis of the blue


she's an independent vtuber and her debut is just around the corner


Im sorry to hear you are having to quarantine, maybe try asking your parents to tell your friends your discord so you can stay in touch. Just remember all of us are here for you, if you ever need to talk my dms are open.


@.SYO


and my friend that was my best friend ignores me now and it made me lose tons of motivation bc ive done everything for them including teaching them english and stuff liek that at the time she didnt know much english so everyone wanted to know about her


That friend” doesnt deserve you, you are so talented and lovely to talk to. If you want to talk everyone here at Sayumi would love to talk with you. Just remember you arent alone, we all are here for you


Tell your mom about your discord so she can help you and your friends get back in touch.


That always happens to me and my bf, my friends always send edited photos and say bad things to me to try and get him to dump me. I would tell your friend that all of those things were fake and that they are liars.


That is messed up


If your teacher doesnt believe you then tell your parents about it


Tell them again


Ok


So school just started and when I got back to school everyone was just ignoring me my friends were talking behind my back and students that werent even in my class where talking bad about me next day I have no one to play with everyones doing the same thing as the day before and this just started getting mean now Im really lonely but at least I have my online friends!


@ wholesome of the day!


abbeyTM I'm glad that you're still staying optimistic.


There will always be those kinds of people who are there to put you down. But you need to ignore them. The more you listen to them or deny the things they say about you, the more it gets in your head. Stay strong and I wish you the best of luck in school sweetie


owo pat abbeyTM


I feel like dropping out of school and life.


Because all I think of is work and stress.


People keep saying I shouldn't drop from elite to advanced, I'm too good to drop to advanced they said, all I care about is work and a keep getting stressed awhile getting made fun of and I wone keep up with that, I might just delete discord and start doing nothing I guess.


I try convincing others but it won't help since I'm Too good


I didn't choose to become smart and a hard worker.


All I want is just rest, now here I am talking about bull crap.


Well, now that I feel worse, I'm gonna go and look at school work and start panicking.


ShinglyWarrior Um...I don't know what to say about that other than to not drop out per say...but if you want to drop to a less advanced class than you should do so. Higher classes are more difficult because they have tighter deadlines and a high work load because it teaches you to handle it in the future. If you're stressed about it don't work so hard, even the smartest and most hard working people take breaks. I take breaks from my elite courses also, and just tell my teachers if my mental health is awful from stress and take maybe 2 days from work throughout the week and just relax and do nothing. I get that you like being that kind of person, nothing wrong with that at all, but if it really makes you wanna quit then maybe talk to a counselor or the teacher of the course and ask about workload. A lot of people forget to have a life because they believe they'd fall behind in school. And that does happen but if you fall behind you shouldn't blame yourself because you did it to let loose. It's not like you'll get many chances to relax in the future so take up the opportunity.


The thing is, people won't let me drop to lower stages


I try telling them and they say Just keep up and you'll get there and they don't understand why I need to drop.