@ wholesome of the day!


@ Annie . This used to happen a lot with one of my friends before. Dont overthink about it too much, usually things like this heal by themselves. And try to tell her that u didnt mean to say that, and if she needs space just let her have some space


oh goodness


mikachu Understandable. But trust me if he doesn't like you it's his loss love. I felt the exact same way about an ex of mine and it hurts a lot, but someone else will come along. You aren't alone bby


Mar Thank u could I talk about it more with someone in dms...? sorry if that seems kinda weird


I think I ruined the friendship between my bff and I. I said I gtg I had to go do some hm yes on the weekends she asked me if I just wanted to go or had to go, and the dumb old me said both. So than we started fighting and I told her 1 thing before I left. I hope she thinks about it but I feel like our friendship is ruined.


@ Annie . Don't stress about it Annie. A lot of people have hw on the weekends, even myself. If they gets mad at you for choosing your education over them then maybe you guys aren't really the bff's you thought you were. I'm sorry that happened. I hope you guys work it out and continue to be besties


This is the biggest fight we ever had.


The thing is.


I always say I have to go when I feel hurt about what she says.


mikachu yes ofc


The last thing I told her was next time I saw gtg, remember the timing”


than I left.


Well you did have to leave for an important reason. It isn't your fault that you have hw


It is.


I didnt do my homework form Friday.


I never did it.


Were you stressed about it?


Yea.


The thing is I think I kinda liked her,


Not as a friend but more.


Ohh


So maybe when you guys had your fight you were nervous and said something weird by accident


And then you guys had a big fight


Sometimes it is hard to think when you like someone and you say something on accident and don't mean to


Suddenly I have no emotion for her though.


Ugh whatever Ill just get some rest, thanks guys.


Anytime Annie. I hope you feel better


i might not be accepted into the school i want to go to.


like there's a big chance i won't be accepted now.


which means i'm gonna move.


i don't want to.


you guys won't understand how much pain i'm going through.


it's my dream school and i've grown up here.


i cried for an hour after i found out.


it's because there's no entrance exam now.


it's based on grades.


my grades are good but not the best they can be.


i am better than this, but they won't know.


@ wholesome of the day!


UGH I QUIT. First I had a huge fight with my bff, I get a headache, and now I hurt 3 fingers. I can barley even move them and my brother laughs at me saying Im weak. He doesnt know what I feel. Im at the point where I want to end.


first off, dont give in just yet.


you never know whether youll get accepted until it happens. so think positively


if the worst happens and you have to move, dont worry


were here for you


You are worth so much more than what your grades are or what the school thinks of you. I understand, it really really hurts when you dont make it into a school youve been striving to get into for so long. Its fine to cry and feel upset, that is totally fine and its good to express how you feel. However, if they dont realize how smart and hardworking you are, I dont think thats the school for you; you will find a place where you are accepted and appreciated


here is a hug from me


@ Annie . dont listen to your brother, you are worth so much more your bro just dosent use his mind first and then talks


and dont give up just yet more good things will come to you


why did it delete that


@ Annie . don't listen to him, being hurt doesn't mean you're weak. problems are temporary, they will end. please take care of yourself and don't focus on them, they don't deserve your attention/time. I wish you the best and remember to never give up, you will make it through this.


i bumped into a door when i turned around


omg it hurt and now i feel like there is a bump on my head ew


oh sis sorry


I wanna cry, idk why, but I do and it's kinds annoying. I'm not even sad, just have some sort of want to cry:/


Time for an anxiety attack!


What happen mom :


Of course! What do they need help with


@ chaennie mommm why are you sad


their dog got shot:


What's wrong bb


Omg...


Oh nooo


Iron Italian Asist YOURE VALID idk you that much but youre an amazing person, i hope things get better for you bb


I'm so sorry bby...


i heard from the chatroom. i'm really sorry to hear that. just know it's not your fault. we're here for you


Stay strong okay. The dog is in a better place now. But they'll always be in your heart


We're here for you


Iron Italian Asist I hope your ok: Losing a pet is like losing a family member, especially when the poor thing got shot, awhhh! Make sure you stay strong and remember that dog will always lub u even if its in heaven 333


aww i am so sorry to hear about the dog get shot


@ chaennie your the best love


your cutie doggie is watching you from heaven while chewing a huuge bone and itll wait you there


thank you loves but its not my dog that got shot its Iron Italian Asist


I went in a server to see people talking trash about me because I quit being staff in their server. They banned all the members who liked me. I miss all those members and I miss the server. The reason I cant go in the server is because the owner bans everyone who quits, but not anymore I guess she is getting a heart or she just has favorites. I want to cry the owner was my ex bff. please comfort me qts.


@ wholesome of the day!


Now that's just wrong


wow


The owner is plain out rude


Thats so rude


that's... messed up


You shouldnt do that to someone


They should just accept it and move on


she made a role for retired staff after she banned me


WOW


Wow


that's messed up


mhm.


Wow that's honestly not ok


mhm


@ AnnIE The people in that server are childish and plain trash, you should know that it isnt you fault and that you shouldnt think about toxic people/ groups. You still have sayu and ypu can always talk to us here


Howes change your name its nsfw fjesjjsejfjse


You shouldn't ban someone because they retire:/


I mostly only quit because she made me and my friends and I break a server rule to get members for the server.


Ahh my spelling is


let me get things straight, you quit staff in the server and they where talking trash and all the ones that liked you, got banned


At least is not as bad as being muted for 1 year for spam


@.SYO well... soon after that I made a deal with them.


you shouldnt be friends with that terrible people. maybe its hard to find the new ones, but you always have us! those people are trash, not u! love for u:D


I said i wouldn't be on my acc for a year for them to stop attacking me.


but thats not on this acc.


I hate to say this but... toxic servers like your are really common, you should just forget about it


its on my other account so Im starting to switch account i could say


Wow


They shouldn't have done that


yea.


Thats no good reason to ban someone


They've done it before.


@ AnnIE its oky icey sayu will never talk trash ab u just cause you retired


they had a fight with a member and I was on the members side and they banned me once for that.


Damn


life has weird ways to do things, if a person can be so cold and cruel with you, no matter the person, but it might be fine for you to detox from that person, for a while at least and conversing is always the best way to solve problems, maybe not right now, but you might need to dialogue with him/her at some point and talk about how you feel and try to find a reasoning to these actions. but remember, maybe that person wasnt meant to last in your life or needs to be out of it for a while.


I swear she is 12.


sometimes its good to make the same to them, but thats just like being that terrible as them, and that bad


she told me she was.


oh god


I mean kids are pretty chaotic nowadays


my friends and I reported her.


Honestly that server seemed toxic,


It is


yes


Or at least the owner


she legit had 4 accounts that got banned


Bruh


Kinda glad you got out of there:


the server was really nice


its just the owner


kids are like:'hey i dont like just because' when they dont even know u that good


Mhm


at that point she might be someone... not too nice...


one of my friends replaced me


That's not fair


WOW


thats so wrong


bsjshshshshs


I'm so sorry:


superficial brats


yesterday they asked my friend if she wanted her job back but not me my friend accepted and got mod


i wish she could have deleted the server


remember that u could always talk to me, my dms are open!:


F34rr @ AnnIE but do take this into account


Same with mine:


most of us in vent have open dms, anything we can help you


same here


the thing is the server is slowly getting toxic


im happy about 1 thing.


what happened was not okay. If the server is getting more toxic, imo it was good that you got out of there.


i've realized that many people in my life, actually weren't ment to linger around for long, and it happens to everyone


about half of the members in the server was the people who loved my friends and I.


wow


After the owner banned all of us


so there WAS a downfall


most of the members left because they were only there because of us.


that's horrible:


But also kinda good


Idk


but they gained them back so yea.


maybe it would be healthy for you to unite together in a group chat of sorts like the old times


impossible


ive know her for years


she used me.


Fake friend?


yep.


that's sad


Nobody deserves fake friends


this


Im used to it now ive had a lot i guess.


maybe u could make a new server where u'll be the owner, bring all of ur friends and those people and make a good server again?


It still doesn't make it okay


You didn't deserve that.


It's not your fault about what happened


The thing is idk the people who left bc of us


we alr have a server.


well, then maybe it is time to build back up


but it isnt as much as the server but itll build back up i guess


ig i can see why its growing so slwo


Hopefully.


slow


its because we dont break discord rules to get members.


knowing new people might sound like a gamble but there is people ment to be in your life and people that dont


Wow


we partner to get them not break rules.


Mhm


Anyways thank you guys, I should get back in class.


Ok good luck with classes


same here, but i hope you got something out of us. Cheers!


also have a nice day ya'll!


@ wholesome of the day! hi everyone with this ping! This isnt a vent but I just wanna say how great you guys are! There should be more people like you who are helping the world And if you are a helper dont be afraid to vent yourselfs, I have had this problem before and I just felt like I couldnt even vent about anything just cause I am a helper. I have gotten over that now, and you shouldnt be scared to vent about your feelings in here! Also I know this may seem a little over exaggerated but sometimes you guys dont know it when you actually saving a whole lotta lives, and that why ily u all! Stay safe


thank you! much love to you and everyone else:


awww


youre so cute


yw everyone 333


thank you dude/dudette


thanks! im glad you decided to say that


I was so shy to post it


Thank you, it means a lot


Thanks tho!


Gati Can you pin that?


Tysm bb your all cuties


ty misty.


But again when quoting a msg please remember to remove the ping from it


Please everyone if you quote a msg make sure to put the ping venting helpers out of it or don't quote bcs it pings a lot of people and not everyone likes pings i hope everyone can understand


hi everyone with this ping! This isnt a vent but I just wanna say how great you guys are! There should be more people like you who are helping the world And if you are a helper dont be afraid to vent yourselfs, I have had this problem before and I just felt like I couldnt even vent about anything just cause I am a helper. I have gotten over that now, and you shouldnt be scared to vent about your feelings in here! Also I know this may seem a little over exaggerated but sometimes you guys dont know it when you actually saving a whole lotta lives, and that why ily u all! Stay safe


bb grill ty


When quoting make sure u also remove the @ from the person's name so they aren't getting a million pings tysm qts


I feel like I can't do anything anymore. I just feel so broken, and alone. I keep getting bullied for that way I choose to be. All the names I get called just make me feel more worthless. And I just get mad at myself, and take out my anger on myself. Take it out by harming myself. I hurt myself to the point where I can't feel my arms. I really don't know what to do with myself anymore. I want to give up... @ wholesome of the day!


please, people who bully you aren't worth your time. do not hurt yourself, please. i know it might hurt when they say things, but they're just words. ignore it. talk to people who care about you and block the ones who dont. please stop harming yourself. there are things in life you should look forward to. having a family, getting married, being successful, everything. you need to live to see it. do not give up, please. if you want, my dms are open to you and you can come and talk to me about anything.


Bby...no. Just no. Absolutely not. Not gonna happen under my watch. What you need to do is keep fighting. And ignore what people tell you! You be whatever you want to be no questions asked. You're an amazing human being and you deserve so much more than some bully telling you how to behave. We all have our own unique styles and there is nothing wrong with it either. Be yourself. It's all you can do to make yourself happy, not them happy. Ignore your haters and don't put the blame on yourself so much love. If they don't like you then that's their loss


you havent given up yet, you searching for help with us is a sign that you can still fix things


First of all, u are not worthless, we love you so much Maybe instead of harming yourself you should talk to someone instead and tell them how you feel, or even just vent to us like you are rn. And pls dont give up, I love you so much, and many others do I would be happy to be ur friend, and if u ever need to talk about ur feelings or ur anger, u can talk to me. Dms are always open Suicidal Slut


you are young and totally capable of fixing things


I would. I'm sensitive and weird myself tbh


But no it isn't your fault. We all have to find ourselves one day, and if they hate the way you are they aren't worth getting upset over. People are just mean


Mhm


U can come to me too if anything is bothering you, or you just want to talk to someone


to be loved by others you need to love yourself first, it is a tough lesson to learn, you are full of potential and have a future, what others say about you is only a small feedback of what they think, but if it matters is up to you, and reliving yourself that way is more counterproductive, everyone needs to vent, and this is slightly more productive than selfharm, life has ups and down and how much of what there is in your life is up to you.


mikachu It's hard to talk about how I feel if I, myself don't even know what's wrong. And sometimes I'll just say random things and make a fool of myself. I just can't find the right words.


Suicidal Slut I cant either sometimes, and its totally fine, I understand. Even if u dont know what ur saying I wont judge u


I'm sorry. I know that what they say is something really small. But if it happens so often it just seems like something big to me..


i know i am far from being the best here, but my personal advice is to to an extent do a detox, it is hard, yes, but try to have youtime and give less importance to what bothers you. slowly and in small amounts start geting the toxicity out of your life


We're all a bit clumsy. tbh you fit right in idk why they'd hate you. Not everyone is cool or popular. And there are many different types of people. It doesn't mean you're any more special.


and most importantly, try to keep your mind busy in the process with things that will make you not think about it at least distract you a bit from it, you are your worst enemy


I just think It would be to hard for me. Because I know I'll just give up


and only you can overcome yourself


Mar I used to have a good group of friends actually. But.. they always get me in bad situations and that's what is causing all my anxiety. But they keep on forcing me to do all this crap. And sometimes I just can't handle it. I'm still just trying to work on getting rid of them.. Because I know that they aren't good people.


yes, but health isn't any joke, if you really really consider it severe, a trip to the doctor or psychiatrist can never go wrong, many people need it and dont acknowledge it and some of them commit suicide, searching for help is the greatest sign of strenght there is


it is up to you, but we hope to have helped you, most of us have open dms, if you feel that you need further assistance, you are very very welcome to search out and i personally hope you the best of luck


Get a new friend group. That's really the most you can do to improve. My friends kinda grew a bit toxic once we all reached high school so I was by myself for a few years. But there comes a time where you'd get along with a new crowd


Don't give up just yet


Thanks, all of this really has helped me feel better. I really do try and talk about how I feel every once and awhile rather then bottle it up all the time. But yeah, this really helped!


it is mostly built up pressure from what i have understood, so venting from time to time is a way out of it


And it's alright I have have a bit of anxiety also. But it shouldn't affect your hopes. There is always someone out there who has your back. Like we do


that's why we are here


It's why I love this place, everyone is just so kind and helpful and makes me feel so special and loved. I really am grateful to be in such a loving community:3


So this is continuing from my vent from yesterday about someone that I like. u can scroll up I asked him if we could talk and he said sure and then I asked him So, do u feeling comfortable/happy when I talk to u I guess? and Im kinda freaking out about what he means:c He said Ummm.. and then Comfortable :c I dont know what that means @ wholesome of the day!


uncertain, that's how i would take it


how i digest it is another thing


but i dont have the context so ill brb


ill read it if i find it


Ok:c


ok i think i got the download


you are the one with the issue/situation i understand


yeah


and to be swift it is a love interest and you are not sure if he is comfortable around you


correct me if you need


mhm


and he replied and it is confusing for you


ok...


you two are already friends or are you yous partners?


friends


close?


kinda I guess


was there a change in his attitude after these events?/ did he notice?


like after I asked him?


idk I just asked him


he called me but I didnt say anything


some people believe me are completely oblivious about what happens around them


mikachu my take is that he was shocked or was expecting a response


but as i said before, i dont know him


Did I mess up


not at all


are u sure


what do I say to him


only you can take my word for it, but was ok, from here on it might be complicated tho


people trend to forgive everyone is still a person and thinks independently from what you think


BUT


things do work out if it is destiny and you worked for it


sometimes the everything like it used to be promise can be false, or simply broken


but it CAN work out


im kinda scared now


well...


it is scary, personally i have been able to keep my promise once, but she also didn't give up


i've been a fool several times and have lost great people, but im not the one venting rn


do u think it would be ok if i told him that im sorry if that question was kinda weird


is it authenticfrom you?


im not talking about meaning, im talking about your character


wdym?


how you are, your personality, how you behave


i usually would say sorry for stuff like that


is it consistent with what he knows a you?


if yes, just be yourself


ok ty


a friend will always be a friend


anything else my dms are open


ty


wonder what happened with the others


actually


if he asked me that


I wouldve said the same thing


oh


well


remember, dialogue is your greatest tool


and your bestest friend is confidence


you might ignore him but he will always help you


no worries


stay safe out there and Cheers!


ty u too!


@.Slusznie u fine then?


So I feel...empty in a way. Also very hurt and lost in a way. Like what does it take to feel included for once in your life? Does it take a day, week, year, lifetime? It feels like I'm not the kind of person to really like..have friends or whatever anymore. I get ignored and neglected so like...what's the point in all of this? I honestly love helping people, like it's a goal to make them smile, but now I feel like...it's come to a point where I've helped more than enough without looking after myself as well. Idk maybe I kinda like need help knowing what it feels like for people to want you around and stuff, even around your own house. I'm so invisible I don't get recognized a lot, even with family. I can sit there and they'd just forget about me until I like cry or sleep. I kinda feel like it's caused by my shyness but I do try to be active and stuff and like it doesn't help me in a way like my brain continues to not feel well. My mind gets confused as to why do people really not get the hint? like do they not want me around or something?. So like the journey to finding myself feels a bit meaningless now. I wrote more but that would honestly be too long. I just wonder why no one talks to me sometimes or cares to try a lot. Or maybe that's the paranoia talking again. Me just has stress to relieve I think


@ Im sorry that u lost ur friends, and I know its hard. Dont lose hope, pls. If u ever need someone to talk to or a friend Im here  I hope u can get through this


Mar First, thank u for helping all of us And I think u should also help yourself first. I think ur family really cares about u, even if its hard to realize that. Maybe talk to one of them about how you feel, I know u think they wouldnt care or wouldnt listen and I thought that too, but instead I talked to my aunt and grandma and they helped me and actually listened. I care about u  and u can talk to me too. Dont overthink too much sorry if this seems rlly bland


im on such a disgustingly downward spiral that it honestly makes me feel sick to my stomach. i have no idea what the hell the rest of my life is going to have for me and i am terrified that im going to mess it all up. i practically already have with my grades.. what else?


i just feel so lost. what can i even do?


@ wholesome of the day!


ikaenia Even if you feel lost and dont know what else to do with your life, always try and plan what you want to do in the future, try and make a huge goal for yourself. You wont feel as lost anymore


ikaenia Its okay if you dont know what lies ahead of you, alot of people dont, including me. No matter how scared you may be always do the best for yourself, sometimes going with the flow helps too, ya know? My grades are torn to shreds, I'm worried about them a bit but I know the moment I try my best to bring them up they will get better. Just wait until you get hyper or feel the need to do something, having energy helps wipe out homework quickly for me so maybe it will help you too! Know that there are people who relate and are there to help you through it. Theres no reason to be terrified as well, there isnt a way you could possibly mess up anything unless you dont try, so give everything your best and you'll be okay


Waking up in the morning with a smile on your face will help you get through your days happily as well


Go to bed happy and you're bound to wake up happy


And ready for what the day lays out for you


I yearn to feel some sort of physical suffering for all the things I've done wrong. It may sound weird but I just want to feel the kind of pain one would to make sure they're still awake or alive. Idk why I crave for something that's horrible like pain like that but I do... it's awful because people will change hoe the see me and judge me and such so.. sighs why do I feel so empty when I'm up late wishing I could be with the one person I want, yet the person her and I sometimes barely even talk? I want to feel the pain that can fill this husk I feel I am sometimes, a life where I don't need pain or some sort of physical straining to feel more alive than I usually do is something I yearn for. I hate being this way and yet after trying to get rid of this yearning by working out it still sits and resonates in my mind from time to time. Maybe I should give in to my wanting, maybe I should continue to let my shell suffer, idk I'm lost yet I'm so in love I can't stand the thought of doing something like that knowing it'll hurt her and make her sad. I'm sorry for taking up your time for reading this, I'm a bit confused with myself in a weird way


And thank you


Mar today has just been sort of bipolar for me, and it's been messing with my head hoping tomorrow is different like I should on days like this, not every day can be so good or life would be boring


Malca Not everyday is going to be the best ever. Sometimes it lasts for weeks but things happen for a reason. It lets you think and release emotions that you didn't know were there. But it's alright. I hope today gets better for you and you get through your struggles. You are a strong human being so I know you'll get through it


You're a good friend... I hope things get better for you as well


ok im just gonna put this here


my hobbies arent as fun as they used to be before and im usually not feeling good/having low motivation to do stuff


i really dont know what to do


oh


i suggest you talk to close friends and try exploring new things to do!


and if you don't feel motivated to do anything, i say don't push it.


take it easy, drink a glass of water and just relax 3


i talk to close friends a lot


i dont know why this is happening


it may be cause of some things that happened recently that kind of ruined my mood


ah do you mind telling me about the things that happened? if you dont want to you dont have to!


i dont mind


just one of them is a triggering topic for me and im trying to forget about it and the person


should i dm or should i just talk about it here


its okay


dm maybe? do what makes you comfy:D


i think dm is a more appropriate way so ill do that


alright then


dude, no joke, you might need profesional help, everyone hits bottom but some people need help to get up, a doctor or some kind of drug to help you get through this, we are here with you, but please consider searching for profesional help, for me thats the most i can tell you bc i am not qualified to deal with a situation like this, but looking for help is the sign that you still want to continue and that is the bravest and best thing you can do, good luck my man


please, please hold tight and push through


you can do it


if you've been able to get here, you're able to get out of this


any help here @ wholesome of the day! ?


ight


please, it's okay


get help, when you hit bottom, there's no where to go but up.


You know you should have a professional help if you can...


We love you, you can tell us anything you are comfortable with.


feel free to vent, as this is a venting channel, it makes you feel better


hey, it would be better for u to go to the psychologist


it sometimes helps


We would all be scared too.


You are not alone.


kinda late, but i fully agree


if youre able to get professional help thats great


well be here to support you all the way


Thibaut This is really concerning and i feel like you need therapeutic help honestly, you should try and focus on the more happier things in life mike any good thing that happened to you or any achievements that you have accomplished. Maybe see a doctor or search on google for things that might help you and make you happy, always try and call a friend, maybe take a relaxing walk every morning or meditate. Try and make this month feel more positive. I hope your ok 333


Therapy is a good thing. It helps you


Yeah


No matter what they say, do what helps and makes you feel okay


hey, remember that my DMs are open, so u can always talk to me!


same here


same


Just know that we love you


hai hai Patton much apologies for this ping.


I don't quite know why you're having these dreams. I really haven't then a slightest idea why. but my advice here is to keep in mind that there's nobody out to get you. now I also don't know you very well but you seem timid and sweet, considerate and soft like a cloud. what on earth would make someone wanna hurt a bean like you? try thinking of your happy place. things you like, people you care and enjoy, you're favorite activities. that's something you could do to at least keep yourself calm.


I'd still refer you to a professional help center of some sort though, perhaps there's something that can be done to help you sleep better. a hypnotic maybe? aside from peaceful music and a cool colored room.


Maybe taking drugs to help you isnt the best idea no offence to the person who suggested it I feel like more natural solutions work better., but i am no therapist. You can maybe try the more smaller approaches before taking pills


well, it was a suggestion, always when being recomended by a doctor


drugs hopefully antidepressants do help, but it's not safe


Have you ever wondered why you have thoughts of death? Is it ptsd? Maybe try and recall how and why you started thinking that way


bb grill no drugs are out of the question as a solution..


Oh alright


Try meditating, relaxing music or any of the other peaceful approaches then. Also try and get a therapist to help you. They obviously know more


PTSD is a possibility, oh.. it's about the anniversary of when I almost died last year


okay that makes sense


please be okay:c


Maybe try and avoid things that have to do with anniversaries


like maybe chilling at home all day


Um idk they just dreams and I don't try to think about dying or anything like that


youtime


All i do is sit at home


Enjoying yourself and calling friends


Okay


Hanging out online


Everyone's always busy..


hmmm


You can call me if ya want


I go by EST


so I won't be online during night time


You dont really need friends to help you, sometimes being lonely is more peaceful


I might throw myself in vc later, it all depends


As a solution when you feel bored and lonely


depends on the person, a lot of people need people around them to be comfortable


True true


and others the complete oposite


For me it depends on the situation


Would you describe yourself as an introvert or an extrovert Isaiah?


but, you dont have suicidal plans per say, you want to live, right?


it is all thoughts


I think they have thoughts on others death, not so sure about suicidal thoughts


well, you got my idea


I don't want to feel and watch myself die”


so yes, thoughts.


I feel like meditation and chill music is the best way


You got this


F34rr yeah. I've ruled out suicide for years


Meditation doesn't work for me anymore, I go straight to projecting over it


bb grill extroverted but many situations can change how I deal with things


Okay


oh, thats good


you are very strong willed


Try and make some friends in sayu


An easy way is jut to always talk in caps when needed


Or just ask


may i suggest a morning jog?


it has helped me deal with anxiety and slight depression


i used to do sports and when the quarantine began i hit rock bottom, that among other things helped me to get through


I've been walking and working out recently, I've been keeping myself motivated to that extent


that's nice


I can't really do what I want in terms of walks because it rains often where


Here


well but from what i understand you are in a good path


it is just a bad time, that's it


live strong and push through, good luck my man, anything most of us have open DMs and are willing to help you. Cheers!


Thank you all


So I won't say all of what's bothering me since I thought it count as spam.. also because it's really long . Anyway so basically one of my problems is that. In 6th grade some who was my friend she was using me just for answers to lessons. She's always talking to her friend during class and it annoys me. But I stayed quite. She soon started to like getting rough with me


This has been going on for months. And I soon let out my emotions and my anger to over and I wrote a bad note..


I got suspended for 10 days.


My other friends were comforting me and said Zara this isn't you! Talk with us!


And that was the biggest mistake yet. I'm not a 7th grader and still can't really get over that.


And that was last time I made a friend for now;;


Thank you for taking the time to read this I'm sorry I didn't say the rest but I didn't want to flood the chat;;


I used to have a friend similar to the one you described. She showed me that I didn't really mean anything to her and she would talk behind my back also. She never really treated me like a friend should. She wasn't loyal to me like I was to her. It took me a long time to realize what a toxic friend she was.


I don't think writing a bad note was a good decision. Instead you should distance yourself from this friend as she seems to be quite toxic. She isn't worth your time if all she is going to do is constantly hurt you.


Find your true friends who will be there for you when you need them and comfort you when your feeling down. The ones who stay by your side and overall make you happy and a better person.


I've never been the best at giving advice but I hope this helps.


Friends will come to you who don't use you, a lot of the friends you have now or in highschool won't be around forever


I just have a tuff time making friends cause like I'm in a whole new school I still don't know anyone there though it's my second year there, really though I'm a very shy people in face to face school so I never really talked to anyone and that was probably the reason why I didn't make friends


Understandable, being shy can be a bit of a bump that way but it'll get better as it goes hopefully as time goes the more you'll be able to talk to people


Hm. Nightly venting hour. I kinda feel like ending it. Y'know. No one pays attention to me. And then I get told make them pay attention and try as much as possible to fit in. Yet I ask what's going on and no one listens. I don't feel included or wanted, just worthless and isolated. I don't feel like I have a reason to even try fitting in or belonging anywhere. It's loneliness 101. Sometimes just the slightest things confuse me and it wouldn't matter. Idk what to do about it either. It's like no one even cares to see that I want to feel welcomed. I always cry and stuff to myself about it and it hurts my feelings. Idk what to even say or do anymore. Just lurk and let others enjoy themselves without me @ wholesome of the day!


dont ever think youre unwelcome or unwanted in anyway


whatever you think, its not the answer


were here for you and we support you


i myself wanna see everyone feel welcomed, and that includes you


Maybe theyre not the right friends,But dont worry youll find great one,We Care about you and Youre Welcome here,And Feel free to talk about your problems here Anytime, We will listen and try to help you


I've been there before, but please, don't end it. There's always gonna be someone out there that does want you, that does need you. You aren't worthless, you're worth it to somebody. If no one listens, I'll listen. You're wanted by somebody, you do have a reason, and don't even try to fit in. Just be yourself, be what makes you happy, if you're pretending to be like everyone else, it'll just make your heart hurt even more. You matter, everybody gets lonely, but just know that it's not over yet, it doesn't end there. One day, I know, that you'll get the greatest amount of friends, and you'll look back and remember this time, where you were lonely, where you felt left out or, unwanted and realise that people want you, they need you and you're deeply cared about by somebody, even more than just somebody. I know you're an amazing person, and you deserve much more, and you deserve to feel much more happier. I do hope you get better, and find the right friends. For now, just be yourself, and don't listen to what other people say, everybody gets lonely, but one day, they'll get the ones their looking for. We're all here for you, to listen, to make you feel better, to make you feel included.


Hoped that made you rethink about, ya'know, and it made you feel better!


So


Here it goes


Today has been really tuff on me and here is why


So first I had a panic attack and then someone came to me saying they tried to commit sicide and the thing is that's just gave me a flashback of the time I found out my friend killed himself and then one of my friends is wanting to quit everything and I'm trying to do so many things at once that I'm finding harder and harder to keep myself together and keep up this smile and I don't know what to do and I don't want to really tell anyone but I'm having trouble sleeping because of this and I feel like it's a heavy weight of you know what I mean


But yeah


That's all


hi, i'm sorry about your friend: please don't forget to take things one step at a time and to pause and take a breather to clear your mind. do something calming to help temporarily distract you from all the negativity in a good way. it really helps when things get too overwhelming to bear. and venting it all out to someone/ to people really helps get that heavy feeling off your chest too. this venting channel was created to help people get things off their chest so don't be afraid to pour your heart out okie?


Do you ever just feel like the embodiment of nothing


Like I'm quiet and picked on at school, verbal abuse is really getting to me,


At school I only have like 5 friends and I don't even get to see them 90 of the time,


And online, nobody chats to me or pings me even if I'm in 5 servers and regularly chat, nobody cares


So yeah


Cries in sad


Try your best to insert yourself in conversations by saying something related to the topic, it's what I do:'


People will respond if you do that most of the time.


Having a few friends isnt necessarily a bad thing. If you want friends to see all the time I think it would be best to broaden your horizon and talk to some people you dont talk to much while also keeping the friends you have now. I'm not a person who enjoys having a bunch of friends, my only friend irl is my boyfriend and i have a small group of friends I dont dm a ton but i talk to them in a friend server, so I may not be much help in this situation. But dont worry too much about it, you will find more friends eventually just give it some time


Less friends also depletes your risk of being turned on or issues being created that serve 0 purpose


That's how I look at it


If you worry too much about wanting more you'll forget about what you already have, and once it's gone there is barely any chance you'll get it back


I'm sorry you get picked on, I hope they stop, people like those are just rude and like to set out anger on others, or don't like to show how weak they really are. Maybe try ft with your friends? Or maybe make a gc and talk to them all. Maybe try getting up into the topic, or just starting up a dead chat? If you need someone to chat to, I can talk to you! I'm sure somebody cares but not everyone gets noticed, and that's okay! It'll take a little time probably, it's normal, but eventually i'm sure you'll get lots of friends! I know you're an amazing person, and you deserve lots of friends. In fact, I can be your friend if you really want me to, and we can chat whenever if you feel lonely!


I didn't have much to say to your vent, I'm sorry about that, but I do hope that those kids stop picking on you, and you get more involved, and get more friends like you deserve.


spin elyria thanks for responding it really helped me


Aww, no problem! I'm glad it helped. 3


idk man i just feel kinda sad for no reason rn


hey, well... people can be cruel, or simply oblivious, im so sorry to hear you suffer a lot of this kind of stuff, but you havent given up yet, and that's how strong you are, you trying to fix the issue is a great sign, and well, dont be cruel with yourself, things dont make sense a lot of the time, and well, if people ignore you or dont notice you, well, try to grow alongside those that do pay attention to you, we are here for you and thank you so much for searching for help.


i agree. besides, never think youre being ignored.


because theres always someone out there who cares about you. even if you doubt it


Replying. One moment. this is just if you felt like you didn't get much responses. '


Love, Im so sorry that youre feeling this way. Unfortunately, I know where you are and know how you feel. It is truly numbing to not be noticed when you try to make a point or bring anything to conversation. I can say from past experience that your best course of action is to stay calm, and to not let this bother you, even if it seems hard. I will always be here for you whenever you need me and I am sure many others will be as well. Love you hun


I guess it can be hurtful not being noticed or having a proper conversation with someone without being awkward or something. Some might even start to overthink things before sending a message, starting a conversation, basicly some things that have to do with socializing. I don't think its that the people who you're trying to communicate with aren't purposely ignoring you or anything. Some could be so caught up in the conversation, others would be hesitant because they havent talked to/know you. While some do just ignore you. Nowadays, I'd just keep trying to join/start the convo, what you say might catch someone's attention. Then they'll include you as well. So, just keep trying. Hoped this helped in some way.


so


my parents are abusive


my mom said things like


just wait until your dont with school, and then ill tear you into pieces


i wish you were dead, life would have been easier


@ wholesome of the day! help this qt out:C


and


i literally


have like


30 mins


until


IM SO SCARED


WHAT DO I DO


SOMEONE


30 minutes until what?


Hey! Calm down.


CALL SOMETHING FOR ME


Hey! Itll all be over soon love, how old are you? I would call cps because of that situation they shouldnt get away with that!


NVM


Go in ur room or bathroom


yo, slow down


What little happen, I am lost...


YES


AND THEN


guys calm down


MY PARENTS


call cps love


Calling cops rn


sia bby calm down


Calm down okay? Were here for you


itll be okay


im used to this, my mum says things like that. pls calm down, it will be okay


Sia 3 calm down calm down Take a deep breath and tell a teacher about ur situation


youll get through this 3


NO


I DONT


HAVE A PHONE


does anyone else around you have a phone?


if ur in school then tell the teacher right


do you think you could be able to borrow a friend's phone?


Sia 3 Tell someone around you or a teacher


ITS ONLY ME MOM DAD AND MY 3YR OLD SISTER IN THE HOSUE


she's at school


oh


IM IN MY HOUSE


uh oh


O h


a principal might help you


hmmm


I REALLY WISH I COULD SWITCH TO HYBRID


do you have a house phone?


LIKE SO BADLY


NO


yeah it would be good if an adult, like your teacher knew about this


omgg


they are supposed to care for the students


omg


try getting ahold of your principal


ok but what will they do?


IM SO SCARED


she won't kill you.


so they could help you call the right authorities to handle such a situation


ITS NOT THAT EASY FOR ME MY SELF TO DO IT


with what are you texting right now? your laptop?


I NEED SOMEONE HERE WITH ME


YES


LAPTOP


We're all here with you


Yeah, just calm down.


I CANT TRSUT ANYONE


You'll be fine


I DONT HAVE TRUSTED ADULTS


I can totally understand


Take a deep breath


I WONT


YESTERDAY


but its important for you rn


WHEN MY DAD HIT ME


I STARTED BLEEDING


oh..


a friend's parent that you know?


O h


You need to get out of there


Please


I BARELY LEAVE THE HOUSE


can you run away somewhere?


i don't know


do you have any way to contact friends?


I DONT KNOW WHERE TO GO


just try to calm down and get somewhere safe


WHERE DO I GOO


u have discord right? do you have friends u know irl?


Police station


Oooh Um Go out from your house and go to police stations or idk i


YES


go to the police station and report it


I CANT


IM 13


you can


JUST RUN OUT


I DONT HAVE A PHONE


run


UR AGE DOESN'T MATTER


AND I DONT KNOW WHERE TO GO


just run


seriously


You dont need it


POLICE


just run to the police


search it up on your computer


ITS NOT THAT EASY


woah woah what happened love


Still Tell the Them About ur situation Go to the police station


search up the nearest police dtation


yea.


MY PARENTS ARE ABUSIVE


AND I HAVE 30 MINS TILL SCHOOL ENDS


bby you need to do this for your safety


IM SO SCARE


What happened?


run


RUN


BRO GET OUT AND RUN?


Alright that isn't okay


SIA WERE HERE FOR YOU OKAY? ITLL BE FINE. RUN, ITS FOR YOUR SAFETY


Honey do you walk home or take a bus?


I CANT


IM REMOTE


You can honey


bby you HAVE to do this


its hard


I believe in you


You're at home right now?


and itll be difficult


run.


but do it for your safety please


its for your safter bb


we dont want you getting hurt


if you dont know where the police is go to your a friends house that is close to yours


hold up, running might not be the best idea, bc they'll think she is just mad, you need the help from an adult


honey do you have a phone?


I WANT TO SWITCH TO HYBRID


SO BADLY


what


SO I COULD SEE MY FRIENDS AGAIN


AND THEY COULD HELP ME


IM JUST


SO SCARED


Im so sorry for you.


you dont have any way for them to contact you?


Is there any door or window near you?


Run.


I CANT RUN


run to the nearing police station


WHY?


I actually have people who can relate to you even myself tbh


WAIT


Do you have a phone?


JUMP OUT YOUR WINDOW


Do you have a window upstairs?


break a window


NOPE


I DONT HAVE A PHNEO


PHONE


run to a neighbor if it's too hard to go to the police station.


i don't know..


You have a computer right?


JUMP OUT A WINDOW


I DONT KNOW THE NEIGHBORS


that you're using for school


it doesn't matter


Is your house highv


YES


Get like a weapon or something and try getting down the stairs?


It doesnt matter its for your safety.


Then try and get to the neighbors.


Alright it may be a little weird, but if you can access help through that computer do so


is there any window downstairs?


message a counselor


It doesnt matter if you know your neighbors its for your safety


a teacher


please


anyone


isn't there anyway to contact authorities through the web?


get them to help you


in the US or smthn?


idc who it is


Should I just call the cops?


message your teacher


or counselor


they'd call for you


we dont know where she lives tho


NY


YONKERS


How old are you?


NEAR YONKERS MIDDLE HIGH


shes 13


She's 13.


tell one of your teachers.


Can anyone call the police for her plese


POLICE?


ok obviously your mother isn't going to let you get away with leaving the house


you need to message a teacher to get the police involved


ITS NOT THAT EASY FOR ME


LIKE


I CAN DO IT


I know


BUT


I NEED SOMEONE WITH ME


I know it isn't


IRL


You cam


trust me


WHY?


IM NOT THAT STRONG ENOGUH


TO DO IT ON MY OWN


YOURE SO MUCH STRONGER THAN YOU THINK


I dealt with those kind of mothers for 2 years


but you need to contact help


YOU'RE STRONG. YOU'RE SO SO STRONG


YOU CAN DO IT


SIA LOVE YOULL GET THROUGH THIS


REMEMBER ITS FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY


SIA WE ALL LOVE AND CARE ABOUT YOU


PLEASE JUST GET TO SOMEHWERE SAFE


Just get out of the house and run.


Don't let your mother scare you. Or get away with abusing you. You can always tell your teachers and counselors to keep your situation a secret, and they can get authorities involved


IT ENDS


But that isn't okay for you mother to threaten you


EST


PM


You have half an hour


Contact a teacher


BROBRO OKKOK UH


or any online help


IM IN SPANISH CLASS RN


WHERE'S YOUR NEAREST WINDOW?


BRO


THEN TELL HER


let your SOANISH TEACHER KNOW


TELL YOUR TEACHER


you need to go to your teacher and let her know


Send her a private message asking if you can leave class


So she can help you


IS THERE ANYWAY YOU CAN CONTACT A COUNSELOR


guys, in the US is there any way to contact authorities through the internet?


yes


Honey this is about your safety not about school


LOOK AT THE PIC I PUT IN WHOLESOME


you can text 911


There must be I thinK


yea.


deletedchannel


babe she doesn't have a phone


THE BOTTOM RIGHT IS MY TEACHER


SPANISH


Honey what you have to do is literally ask the teacher if you can leave class early


You can text her


email someone


get them help


She will understan


d


IM SCARED


you need help


I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO


text your teacher


Your teacher will understand if you can't be in class rn


We can get thought this togehter sia


AND


I PROCRATINATED


Send them a message and tell them what's going on


TELL HER.


i dont wanna pressure you, but you HAVE to contact your teacher


ON HW


FOR 2 WEEKS


hw doesnt


matter


rn


THAT MAKES IT WORSE


YOUR SAFETY IS MORE IMPORTANT


HW DOESN'T MATTER YOUR LIFE IS AT STAKE


HOMEWORK DOESNT MATTER


BRO, YOUR EDUCATION AND STUFF DOESN'T MATTER RIGHT NOW, YOU COULD BE IN DANGER?


YOUR SAFETY IS SO MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN SPANISH HONEY


YES


FOR ALL SUBJECTS


YES IT IS


OMGOMGOMGOMG


THAT DOESNT MATTER


YES IT DOES


SCHOOL DOESN'T MATTER RIGHT NOW


SIA IT DOESNT MATTER RIGHT NOW YOUR IN DANGER


SIA CONTACT SOMEONE PLEASE


CONTACT A TEACHER


IDK WHAT TO DO


SISTAR GET SOME HELP FROM YOUR TEACHER OR ANYONE


YOUR GRADES AND ALL DONT MATTER RIGHT NOW


EMAIL THE TEACHER ABOUT IT


get help.


If the teacher takes forever to get emails


EMAIL THE TEACHER


23 MINUTES


its life or death.


send them a message


IM SCARED


ASK YOUR TEACHTER TO GO ON THE TOILET AND THAN SNEAK THOUGHT THE WINDOW


GET HELP.


you have no group chat?


IM ON THE 2ND FLOOR


BRO GET HELP?


IM TOO SCARED


EMAIL YOUR TEACHRR


DO IR


I CAN TEXT THEM


Email her


Honey where is your mom?


now


IS THERE ANYONE YOUR CLOSE WITH FROM YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD?


YOUR LIFE IS AT STAKE


NOW.


THROGUH MICROSOFT TEAMS


BUT


WHAT DO I SAY


TEXT THEM IMMEER


WHERE'S YOUR PARENTS RN?


TELL THEM WHATS HAPPENING


DOWNSTAIRS


TELL THEM BOUT THE SITUATION YOUR IN


HONEY MICROSOFT TEAMS HAS A PRIVATE MESSAGE ICON


MESSAGE THEM


AND THAT YOURE GETTING THREATENED


BY YOUE PARENTS


CMON YOU CAN DO IT


THOSE TEACHERS WOULD RATHER HELP YOU BE SAFE THAN TO SIT AND TEACH THEIR STUDENTS RN


EVEN AT HOME


YES


CAN SOMEONE HELP ME DO IT


around the lines of: my parents are abusive and i do not feel safe with them and i fear for my life


SIA YES WE ARE HERE FOR YOU


CAN SOMEONE JOIN VC


OKOK


Why are you guys screaming


You don't even have to be straightforward with them if you're scared


Just tell them that you don't feel safe and you want to call authorities


yeah, helpers, chill, caps dont work


yEs


IM IN VOICE CALL 1


JOIN THE 2ND ONE


anyone join her please, im in class rn


WAIT


JOIN THE 2ND RN


MY TEACHER IS TALKING


Uh honey where's your mom?


THAT DOESNT MATTE


is she anywhere in sight?


I CANT HEAR


i think she said downstairs


DOWNSTAIRS


I HAVE HEADPHONES


yes


20 MINS


BRO


Hey hey calm down okay we will help you


GET HELP?


your gonna be okay, try and stay clam


why do i get pinged


TELL YOUR TEACHER


TELL TEACHER


HOW


TELL HER NOW


IM SCARED


you can do this


DON'T YOU HAVE A CHAT?


PRIVATELY MESSAGE


I DONT WANT MY PARENTS TO FIND OUT


@ Baby girl she is in... trouble, her parentss are abusive and they are figuring out how to help her


THEY WON'T


Tell her per chat


please


you really have to message a teacher whether you think it's not important or not. those teachers would rather risk their lessons to take 5 minutes to get you some help than teach you spanish. and don't let your mother speak for you. you have to tell your teacher exactly what happened before the problem escalates. your life is way more important than your education because they will help you catch up with everyone


TELL YOUR TEACHERS ABOUT WHAT'S GOING ON


you really have to send a message


like rn


Theres private messages in microfsoft teams, i use it too. your gonna get through this


THE VC IS FULL


JOIN MUSIC 3


some teachers are available after school hours


lock yourself in your room


and message a teacher


F34rr omg really?


THATS MY TEACHER


SPANISH TEACHER


@ Baby girl yes


your gonna get through this


who is getting abused?


OH NO SHE CALLED MY NAME


AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO


Sia


@ Baby girl Sia


I've honestly dealt with abusive family before and tbh you can't let it get to you for so many years


Sia its going to be okay


it gets worse


i need you to lock yourself in that room and message them right now


miss, creo que tengo un problema, mis papas son abusivos y temo por lo que me puedan hacer


whether it's the principal a counselor or any teacher you know


they will take time out of teaching to help you


you will get through this, stay calm. panic will just make it worse


yes


even if they have to physically go to your house themselves and get you away from your mom


sia if your parents are abusing you call the police


they're gonna help


both helpers and you, we need to all keep our cool


Yes


idk if you can hear her yelling


We can


love tune her out


ignore it


bby calm down pls PLEASE contact someone


keep the door locked


your spanish teacher


idc what she treathens you with


dont panic it only makes things worse


IDK WHAT TO SAY


I DONT KNWO


IM SO SCARED


Sia you can do it i believe in you


Lock it with your chair


any teacher that you currently know, someone from the school's office, a counselor, or principal would literally message you if it's an emergency. don't be afraid to get help


Is there a lock on your door?


SHELL GET ANGRIER


15 MINS


SO WHAT LOCK YOUR DOOR


IM SCARED


LOCK IT


JUST LOCK YOUR DOOR


IMMEDIATELY


LOCK


please lock your door


IT


PLEASE


sia we believe you, you can get through this. your strong, brave, and beautiful. dont panic it will get worse. we are sticking with you through this process


Lock it. Now.


LOCK IT.


I CANT


Honey your lesson doesn't matter right now. That teacher can easily catch you up with the class another day


please Sia lock your door you have to


WDYM YOU CAN'T?


MY DOOR LOCK IS BROKEN


you need to message for help


THEN COVER YOUR DOOR


BLOCK YOUR DOOR WITH SOMETHING


try locking it with a chair


you have time to block the door


block your door


please


do you have a desk


well that's an issue, block it would be the next best thing


WAIT LET ME TAKE A PICTUE


or dresser


to push in front of it


okay


you have so much time to block that door and you totally should


your more then what you think you are, we believe you and know you can do this


Sia you must absolutely seek help right noe


Now


BLOCK YOUR DOOR; AND FIND A WAY OUT


and trust me most teachers would literally drive to your house themselves and literally take you away from your mother when school ends


GO TO WHOLESOME


they're here to protect you


I SENT IT


it's their job


Sia 3 Sia hun you have to lock youur door


Sia you can do this. we are going to stick with you. stop panicking and calm down, throw something at the door


block it with your drawers


block it with the dresser


sia bby you got this!


Idc what your mother says to you, you can't let that influence you to be afraid to seek help


we believe in you!


just remember, do not resort to violence


Sia, please just lock the door and call the police


Sia we believe you stay calm


it will only make things worst


BLOCK IT WHEN THE DRAWERS AND STUFF


SHE CAME


AND THEN LOOKED AT ME


we believe in you. you're such a strong girl. telling us was a smart choice


her mom went up to her room i think


You should have something to protect yourself with


AND SAID TO ASK THE TEACHER WHER SHE POSTS HER HW


AND


LEFT


stop panicking, it causes stress and makes things even worse


Calm


Honey calm down


breathe


is she sus about you?


stay calm..


don't panic


pls hun calm down


WHO IS SUS?


you'll give yourself a heart attack if you panic


ABOUT ME


stay calm


what?


suspicious, srry for slang


THEN THATS GOOD


ATLEAST ILL HAVE A HEART ATTACK


AND DIE


THAN BE TORTURED


THAT'S NOT A GOOD THING RN


please sia call the police..


please


I DONT HAVE A PHOEN


she has no phone


Sia has an abusive mother and we're helping


You can still call somebody even without a phone.


please Sia


yeah but I think it's a school computer and those block websites


NO


ITS MY OWN


MACBOOK


THEN CALL SOMEBODY


Honey they have online call apps


sia please


and you can text 911 if you cant call


I DONT KNOW HOW TO


And if you're afraid to ask the teacher to do it for you


CAN SOMEONE CALL FOR ME


Sia please


you can do this


american helpers, is there any website for goverment authorities or police?


NY


2ND FLOOR


I get you're young and you're afraid of getting in trouble, but that shouldn't stop you. Your mother literally can't get away with that. It's illegal. You really have to message a teacher if you can't call yourself


does the NYPD have a website?


Have a private call with your teacher


keep them in a call


We hear you Sia just stay calm


while they call authorities


and wait for someone to show up


stay in the zoom call after everyone leaves


and tell your spanish teacher!


can u put the link @.SYO


If you're afraid to tell the whole class message the teacher in private and ask to call them after school


TELL YOUR TEACHER ABOUT THIS


Im unsure if there is a website for it


F34rr they do have a website where you can contact the police


Hey sia, if you have any way to contact your teacher just use that if you are unable to call, like remind or whatever your teacher uses to contact you when they need to, or download a call app quickly and call for help. Everyone understands this situation is scary but if you continue freaking out nothing will get done about it


Sia please


Aliinnit that is golden, is it useful tho?


Microsoft teams does have a meet button in the chat box


call them


OMG


5 MINUTES


Sia you can do this


we are with you


Honey breathe


F34rr it is, I havent used it but i think it is


BUT MY MOM KNOWS IT ENDS AT 2


Sia 3 in any case you have to face your mother in a convo, pls DO NOT resort to violence


Sia we believe you bby


STILL


JUST STAY IN THE ZOOM


IM SCARED


BUT THE TEACHER LEAVES


sia please


NO


STAY


CALL


NOT ZOOM


SIA


OFFICE 365


If your mom tries yelling at you tell her you're having an important afterschool discussion


stay calm


message the teacher privately not to leave that you need them


dont panic it makes it worse


I use microsoft also. Ask your teacher if they can call you when they're done teaching for the day


and explain what happened


MY MOM COULD HEAR


Sia 3 bby calm and dont panic we are here with you


NONOON


if you are cant to get help before time runs out go to the bathroom and lock it until your mother has calmed down or as long as you need to, bring your laptop or whatever you have with you if you can so you can calm down as well


SHE DAID ADIOS


TELL HER TO DTAY


STAY


she doesn't have to hear that you're giving up all of your privacy to tell people what she does to you. You can type it


Sia please


NONONONO


PLEASE TELL HER TO DTAY


EVERYNOE LEAFT


SIA TELL HER TO STAY


record your convo with ypur mother if you can, but make it so she doesnt notice


SHE LEFT


sia please


Ask her to stay before your teacher leaves the call


BRO


CALL SOMEONE


AND BLOCK THE DOOR


Honey send them a private message


they're still at their computer


WATCH MY LIVE


CONTACT YOUR TEACHER OR COUSBEELOR PLEASE


IN THE CALL


SO YOU CAN SEE


your live isnt loading for me but sia please


someone screen record


please


IT'S NOT LOADING FOR ME


someone in vc use OBS or something


PLEASE


SOMEONE TALK TO ME


Sia please


please sia


I NEED TO HEAR SOMEONE


my god, i still have two hours of class


I have an hour but I don't have meets today


just a lot of work


someone in vc record her call or something


BUT


THEY CAN JUST CLOSE MY LAPTOP


someone in vc should record it for evidence


yes, that's what i've been trying to say


i know mothers


they'd lie to authorities


bc their child is a minor


whats happening?


get it recorded


Sia isn't safe


That's what's happening


i know that but


it glithced for me


and i couldnt see or hesr anything


NOO THE ADULT


IS


DEAFENDED


Please sia calm down


Deafened on call


deafened, doesnt hear anything in the call


THEY WONT RESPIND TO ME


get her attention one way or another


chat them


CHAT


spam them


Xswag


PLEASE


TEXY


LISTEN TO ME


SOMEONE


ohhh


hm


GOBLIN DOES


so what is whole pronow


can you repeat what your parents threatened you with? Possibly you'll have to face them in a conversation, then the focus is to help you get through the convo


I CANT TALK TO MY PARENTS LIKE THAT


THEY WILL HIT ME


no, peacefully


AND SAY ARE YOU TRYING TO MAKE ME MAD?


Sia, Would you please calm down with the caps?..


Yea


she is the one with the issue, give her a break


MY TOTUR IS COMING


but we as helpers need to keep our cool


omg that's brutal


SCHOOL IS OVER NOW


Please tell your Tutor when they come to you, They can help you. They can report your mom


I CANT


How come you arent trying to get a calling app or dm a teacher?


MY PARENTS WILL BE THERE


she no longer has contact with teachers


There is some way to contact them


PLASE


she has no phone


BBY STAY STRONG


PRAY FOR ME


Laptop


YOU GOT THIS BBY


good luck


I HAVE TO GO


WE LOVE YOU


U should be able to email them


MY MOM IS YELLING TA ME TO COME DOWN


remember, dont hit back


GOOD LUCK ILYSM


Contact us asap


you can get in more truble by doing so


CONTACT HELP AFTER ASAP PLS


Please give us an update honey


we're here for you


Yes


Well


we love you sia 3


gl


did we stall too much?


hm.


Idk


Good luck sia, Everything's going to be okay and I apologise for telling you to calm down with caps


lets just wait


I hope shes okay


What happened...


abusive parents and threats


Sia


Oh..


she already left to face her mother i think


Yup


People were telling her ways to contact help and she didnt take them, she is the one who stalled. She will be fine. Hopefully she will get help afterwards


Hopefully


We shouted to contact friends, neighbor, police, teachers ect...


I hope she is okay


i i...feel...bad


me too.


Same


There is a way to contact 911 on any device as an emergency type of thing, maybe she was just scared to do so


its going to be okay everybody


Yeah


yes


yeah, thanks shah:


The lock on the door was broke and she didnt block it


Maybe she physically couldn't push it or something


I hope she's alright


and if something happens the tutor sees it and reports it


I'm kinda super worried now


She's literally my age


what a beautiful world we live in, eh? a 13y old fearing for her life


gee I feared for my life at the age of 14


i know what it's like...


i hope shes okay.


and i was trying to recover faith in humanity


i feel bad for her


Sadly adults take advantage of the power they have over their children


That's why I told her to record it


S C H O O L S


Parents really take advantage of minors


but she was asked to leave her room


so recording wouldnt have helped much


She really needs to get a phone asap, it would help her alot in these situations


i do hope the tutor notices something


Yup


maybe the aftermath but i can not think of any advantage that isnt that


and even using an aftermath is cruel


Hhh hopefully she doesn't see us being like I feel bad then feel worse herself


when she comes back


we have to continue


but depending on the situation


will change our focus to: it wasnt your fault


ok helpers?


I feel kinda like we're peerpressuring


i hope not


yeah


well...yes we were slightly


exactly


i didnt want to come off as pressuring her


We have to keep encouraging her to call or text someone, it's the right thing to do. Not all peer pressure is a bad thing, especially in this situation


Oki


Dont feel bad for trying to help


it is in a blurry line between pressure and help


Well she is only 13. Even if peer pressuring in this case is a good thing to have a support team, it's still hard for a 13 year old to gain confidence


especially in that environment


Yea


pls ping me if she cones back


ping the helpers


i feel like i actually didnt help, i only kept overthinking and repeating myself and same here


it's normal to feel like you're overthinking things, but helping her was the right thing to do


she knows she has people to support her


Yeah i feel like we did just repeat CALL


at least her mother wasn't overbearing to not let her use social media


otherwise she would've been in big trouble


Big big trouble


OK MY TUTOR CAME


Hi honey


IF I DONT COME ONLINE AFTER THIS


YOU WILL KNOW WHY


We do hope you're alright Sia


PLEASE


PRAY FOR ME


GTG


prays for you


Of course honey


sia bby! we love you 3


I wish I could help though


a bit more


we love you sia


We send lots of love


We believe in you


Mar sameee


F34rr mhm i've been that dark hole before with no way out. i want to help but i really have no idea how


well, there is so much when you are from a different country


but still


i feel like i could have done more


but idk what i could have done


that i didn't at least try


well, this once i will use this emoji unironically, i dont normally use them, but it fits the occasion


yes


is she okay


she hasnt come back yet


:I


:'I


anyone pls ping helpers when she comes back


i'll be leaving for a while


Hey everyone i miss my ex and idk what to do.


im sneaking on discord


so i might not respopnd to somethin right away


F34rr im back


my mom gave me food and then hit me on my head really hard while i was eating


i managed not to choke


Well, you managed to go through


I had a stroke


Mind of i ping the other helpers?


sure


@ wholesome of the day! shes back everyone


We were all sooo worried about you


im glad


please take care of yourself ok?


thank goodness youre okay..


Omg are you okay?


ya are you ok?


Tries to hug through screen but forgets about screen


That goodness


Sia, please stay safe


no


not really


sorry i had like 10 people dming me


aw


i was so worried


sia, if you dont mind me asking


what happened?


so


my tutor came


and we reviewed what i have left


they said


i was failing


but when they ask WHY?


i cant say


bc of my parents


bc even my tutor thinks my parents are good caring nice


Sia 3 sorry but please just make a whole paragraph


oh ok


Ty bb


Meanwhile i Will begin with the other person Who needs suport, if you are done ping me so everyone can join in


Also sia went your done ping venting helpers 3


Ty sia my spelling is bad


my tutor came and we reviewed what i have left. they said i was failing, but when they ask WHY?


i cant say bc of my parents or my parents would be 1000000 angrier, bc even my tutor thinks my parents are good caring nice.


So after my tutor left 55 minutes ago, i was working on the assignments while my mom was calling me names and yelling at me. And i cant say Stop yelling at me, i cant do the assignments bc then she would yell more stuff at me. I really wish I was in hybrid school right now so I could finally see my friends again and vent IRL instead of typing and not being able to express my feelings properly.


@ wholesome of the day!


Hm..


Then when my mom gave me food, she yelled at me more and then hit my on my head so hard that i have a headache now and can't even complain.


Bb get some rest, if you can contact the police please do.


i cant rest


yes


i have a handful of assignments to do


from school


same tho


Try to get an icepack and rest a bit


Dont overwork urself Take a small nap


Yea


sia take a rest


Why wont you call the police?


She doesnt have a phone


You can also do it on a latop Im prett sure


Let me search yo if you can call 911 on there


No but Ill find out how


Like I said run away.


Get to scatter


Safety


I dont think so


I searched up and it talks about tablets and stuff


She needs to contact a teacher or principal


Yeah it is risky but its more risky to stay at her home,She needs to go to a police station or an adult and talk about the situation


If she contacts a teacher they can call the cops for her maybe


It depends how the teachers are


Mhm


Hows it going?


On her bio it says ping or dm


Well she has a headache and a bunch of school work,but we told her to take a nap


This girl, sadie, is a bit downed bc of his exs parents notballowing her to be with him yeah, Just like a tragic love novel


And you migh help


Oh I see


She fine for now


About sia, she OK?


hi guys


im doing my past due assignments


math currently


Math can be quite tiring, I hope it goes well. Good luck!


4 pages


of math


nOOO


now my stomach hurts too


Aw, I can relate to that feeling. I get sudden anxiety at stressful times, but I know you can do this. I support you.


its not anxiety


there was something going on from 1:30 pm est


about me


my parents are abusive


Dino


well


i mean i do have anxiety


also add a ping at the end after you send what your typing


afk doing hw with a headache AND stomachache; ping or dm or i wont respond


Sia 3 I hope you feel better soon. I understand how it feels. Even though we just met, just know you have my support.


my dad left to go to the hospital last Saturday, he said he wasnt feeling good so i let him go. i visited him one time. everytime i ask my mom if i can borrow her phone to call my dad my phones always dead cause i use discord so much she said i dont think his phone is working. which made me start crying because i think hes dead and now i wanna kms. i have this one teddy bear that was his when he was a kid. he gave it to me when i was 5, all i can do right now is lay on my bed and cry while squeezing this teddy bear to death. i havent seen him in over a week, i miss him so much and i dont know what to do honestly all i feel is pain. my dad has helped me overcome so much and has made me live my best life and if hes dead ill probably kms @ wholesome of the day!


I know how you feel 100 you need to stay positive throughout everything thats happening in the world currently. youre dad will get through this because he is strong and so are you. keep hope and you and your dad will get through this.


ill try my best, but if i dont see him soon ill start self harming again since i have really bad separation anxiety


please dont do self harm i also have bad separation anxiety to the point i deleted this part because i dont like sharing it . just keep hope and send prayers


thank you so much


There are 5vstages to losing someone, and everyone must live through them, no exceptions, ABDAB were the letters if I recall correctly, and it is natural to suffer a loss, but what isn't natural is to stay down, sooner or later, we must go on In life, to keep pushing in the name of those that arent here with us, but remember you still have life to live, yes a loss Is a loss, but he has lived his life, and I'm sure that either way, he will follow you in your life by heart, stay with those who are still here and please, yes, suffer it, but don't let yourself settle at any point in that mindset


I, as a lot of people, have lost family too, and I know what it is to suffer ABDAB, but one must go on, continue through hardships


yui hug dot/ ashlyn


just know that ill be here to support you ok?


i understand how you feel


my grandfather 56 young came to America for the first time ever. He pointed at the best highschool and said That's where my Grand daughter will go to in 3 years smiles


then he passed away from a heart attack


only 3 months after he got to the US


This happened when I was in 5th grade feb


im now in 8th grade


Sia I know you are probably asleep right now, time zones, but if you do read this I want you to know that you are strong and can get through this, contact a teacher immediately about your situation and seek help immediately


i dont know how I feel, i kinda feel relaxed and happy


sorry I dont think this is rlly a vent


I was laying on my bed getting ready to sleep and trying to find a comfortable spot like normal, I was thinking all of these happy thoughts to help me sleep then i stopped and looked up at the ceiling


The thought came to my mind that one day i wont be here


I will eventually die


Lose everyone I have


And feel nothing


I'll be another body buried in the ground that will be forgotten


I had to turn on my tv to distract myself and it worked a little bit, it definitely made me feel better


It's just strange I had that thought out of nowhere


I havent thought anything like that in a long time


Its upsetting to think I wont be able to see or feel, breathe, see people


Right now it upsets me but when I'm dead I wont feel a thing


I can happily inform that you will be able to do all but touch people realistically, one doesn't just die, the physical body is it's own manifestation of ones being in a way, but the soul doesn't ever die, the consciousness you possess now will carry on in the afterlife! All emotions and senses other than taste and smell are held by ones soul. Memories stay as well, they just aren't as good as the brain makes them unfortunately, a life never ends, a body only dies there's nothing we can change about our physical selves and I wish we could. I hope you think about this at some point and put it into perspective next time you have thoughts like this.. I hope you feel better soon and I am always willing to talk about things like this if needed!


So how much cursing is allowed in venting


I'm pretty sure cursing isn't allowed anywhere in the server


Hi, Im sorry to vent again but Ive been doing research about ADD and I have many symptoms and I feel like I might have it. I dont want to self diagnose but I do want to get it checked as it is affecting me a lot. However, I dont know how to tell my mother to get me therapy for this and if so, how to tell the therapists that I think I have ADD. Any advice? @ wholesome of the day! also, the thing is, Ive been trying to study for the past hour almost but I cant focus. I have to read the same sentence like 10 times and force myself to stick. Its very annoying and I ended up getting no studying done, and this happens a lot. Especially with online school studying is even harder now so I dont know what to do. Ive followed every study tips and set up tutorial for studying I could see, but none of them are working for me and its really really disturbing...also, Im a maladaptive daydreamer so its even harder because instead of working I cant focus and want to daydream instead too. thanks for listening.


Are you taking about ADHD?


Yeah, the inattentive type of ADHD


Oh, ok. Brb


Hi, Im sorry to vent again but Ive been doing research about ADD and I have many symptoms and I feel like I might have it. I dont want to self diagnose but I do want to get it checked as it is affecting me a lot. However, I dont know how to tell my mother to get me therapy for this and if so, how to tell the therapists that I think I have ADD. Any advice? also, the thing is, Ive been trying to study for the past hour almost but I cant focus. I have to read the same sentence like 10 times and force myself to stick. Its very annoying and I ended up getting no studying done, and this happens a lot. Especially with online school studying is even harder now so I dont know what to do. Ive followed every study tips and set up tutorial for studying I could see, but none of them are working for me and its really really disturbing...also, Im a maladaptive daydreamer so its even harder because instead of working I cant focus and want to daydream instead too. thanks for listening.


@'kaitokid same situation


its okay! you don't have to focus on studying at the moment, and um in the mean time you should maybe do more research on the symptoms of add? if you do you could maybe convince your mother to take you to go check it out


uhhh... I couldnt convince my mom to go to doctor for my own disorder. But maybe your mom is more understanding. Talk to your mom confidently and tell her you really need help.


i really hope you get things straightened out! and its fine to vent! thats very healthy and im proud of you!


Thank you, and Ill try but shes one of those people who believe that teenagers/children cant have mental health issues


i see.


Aww thank you


And the most important thing is your health. Dont think about anything but your health. You can study all you want but dont lose your health.


@'kaitokid mine too


Ive been trying, but its like I keep beating myself up over not being able to concentrate


well if she doesn't let you get it checked out, i'd say its fine to self diagnose unless you're very super duper sure that you've got the same symptoms of add.


Which leads me to try and study more, even when its affecting me


Ill try doing more research about it tonight


just please make sure to do as much research as you can


Im trying to cope with my disorder on my own;;


Hi, Im sorry to vent again but Ive been doing research about ADD and I have many symptoms and I feel like I might have it. I dont want to self diagnose but I do want to get it checked as it is affecting me a lot. However, I dont know how to tell my mother to get me therapy for this and if so, how to tell the therapists that I think I have ADD. Any advice? @ 692408666330103968 also, the thing is, Ive been trying to study for the past hour almost but I cant focus. I have to read the same sentence like 10 times and force myself to stick. Its very annoying and I ended up getting no studying done, and this happens a lot. Especially with online school studying is even harder now so I dont know what to do. Ive followed every study tips and set up tutorial for studying I could see, but none of them are working for me and its really really disturbing...also, Im a maladaptive daydreamer so its even harder because instead of working I cant focus and want to daydream instead too. thanks for listening.


@'kaitokid Try asking your therapist about if they think you have ADD of not and ask them to diagnose you.


do you have a therapist?


I used to, but I had to stop going and now Im too scared to ask if I can go back


don't be scared! its totally normal to come back to therapy every once in a while


try. and dont be scared. its gonna be good:


im sure they'll be very understanding when it comes to these sorts of situations


I hope so and thank you guys, I hope it will be


again im super proud of you for being brave enough to vent about this!


Have you tried using your daydreaming in some way?


you're welcome! we're always here to talk 3


Its a coping mechanism for all the stress I get because of the symptoms Im having, but it ends up being very bad as it takes up most of my day


Then I get more stressed when I cant daydream


Do you listen to music to cope with it?


Sometimes, as music is a big trigger for the daydreaming


Ill end up going on daydreaming for hours on end, and then I come back and I cant focus on anything I do anymore


Ill be inattentive, get distracted easily, and Ill have to do things a lot of times to get it to stick


Wait up, I'm debating whether I should send my message or not.


Ah okay, tyt


Well, whenever I feel stress or anxious, I would grab a speaker and play music at a low volume and I'd hum or sing along quietly, and basicly do the little things that make you happy or puts you at ease. For example, accomplishing something like drawing something simple like a circle or a drawing. But we have different ways to put ourselves at ease. I don't know if this helped in any way, since I'm not good with words and making sense of anything.


Thank you, Ill try it! Thats actually a good idea and I copied that onto my notes so Ill be able to save it for later


Since I havent been able to get any studying done now, Ill plan out how to study for tomorrow/later today instead and Ill try my best to follow the plan


Thank you guys so much!


@'kaitokid hey! as someone with ADD everything will be okay, they will prescribe u some medicine to try and help


Well, it isn't that severe, but I needed to vent it, a few days ago I was told something, a confession, from who's easily the person I have cared the most in my life and I considered a great friend, the fact that she actually didn't like me at all, and I was a very weird kid, yes, but I was clingy and at the time she was like my only friend, now to know that she didn't like to have me around, made me feel bad about myself for making her go through so much over many years, and I actually doubt if she still feels that way, I don't feel mad about her not being comfortable about me, but I do feel bad for lingering for so long in her life @ wholesome of the day!


Well, it isn't that severe, but I needed to vent it, a few days ago I was told something, a confession, from who's easily the person I have cared the most in my life and I considered a great friend, the fact that she actually didn't like me at all, and I was a very weird kid, yes, but I was clingy and at the time she was like my only friend, now to know that she didn't like to have me around, made me feel bad about myself for making her go through so much over many years, and I actually doubt if she still feels that way, I don't feel mad about her not being comfortable about me, but I do feel bad for lingering for so long in her life


F34rr its always ok to vent. And i went through the same thing my sophomore year. My best friend for five years ended up bullying me and leaving me out of everything for no reason and i was confused. And some girls are just rude like that, and dont feel bad you were just being a good friend. Its her fault for not being mature.


I'm sorry, you ping it again


yea


yes please


oh no, she's a great person, but she never told me anything, but if she hinted about it, i never noticed


Sorry for pinging again


well, yeah


dont disconnect for too long, dont leave the game.. what a good status


@.SYO yes its for death bed but gamer version


@.SYO ah yes roblox


Heyhey lets not have convos here in venting


yeah, people arent... the brightest a lot of the time


let me guess, age group is like 1316


yeah, teens, a lot of the time are... dumb, myself included


it is a stereotype, they are still people


your generation, as well as mine, i know perfectly what you are talking about, is chaotic, almost anarchy


my generation is cruel af among themselves to the point that everyone gets home to cry bc of the social environment when they are part of the problem, thats why being anti social is a benefit for me


yeah, gen z, it is very common for us to be snakes and toxic


based?


woah, slow down a bit


i've been there before


actually, i think i am there


but, it sounds cheesy, but let things flow


you try to improve yourself and specialize in something you like


make a distinctive of yourself


then, you wouldnt care waht others think or say, because you would know YOU


I wish i had a normal dad or no dad at all


Basically my step dad does inappropriate things to me, its disgusting. He's been doing it for years ever since i was like, 12 or something


I know I'll get through this somehow but I dont want to experience such things anymore


What innapropriate type of things, and how do you feel about it?


Uhh inappropriate touches


And what gender are you?


Im a girl


Hmm


How do you feel?


I'm your therapist now.


Well back then I felt disgusted with not only what he was doing but with myself. I grew up in a religious family so I felt like my body was tainted or something.


Now I just wanna get a job and move out as soon as possible


Maybe try and keep your distance from him and make it clear to him that you don't want him touching your nono areas


Maybe try getting his hand off of wherever


Yes I do push him off and keep my distance but sometimes he's so persistent


Then try and tell him to his face that you're uncomfortable with it and try to tell your mum first and get her to talk?


Ive talked to my mom a few years back when it was getting rlly bad. He's been caught like twice now he still doesn't stop


What did your Mum do about it a few years back?


He moved out for a few months then came back:v


Wait what


Okay, so your Mum made him move out for a few months but he came back?


My mom cant support us by herself unfortunately so yeah


you're almost there


Talk this out with your Mum, ask her to explain very clearly to your idk dad


If he continues, then tell him clearly face to face with a strict voice to stop it


It doesn't matter if he's a flipping adult, nobody should do that to someone


Not that good at confrontation but I'll do my best


Good job buddy!


Thanks for hearing me out!


Np! If you ever want some help or something, ping meee


I'll keep that in mind:D


Have a good day/night


Ty! I hope you also


Note: this message is in a Nato Military format to prevent people being triggeredFoxtrot Lima Alpha Sierra Hotel Bravo Alpha Charlie Kilo Sierra Hotel Uniform Romeo Tango Sierra Mike Yankee Hotel Echo Alpha Romeo Tango Period


India Tango Romeo Echo Alpha Lima Lima Yankee Delta Oscar Echo Sierra Period India Foxtrot Oscar November Lima Yankee Tango Hotel Echo Romeo Echo Whiskey Oscar Uniform Lima Delta Bravo Echo Alpha Whiskey Alpha Yankee Tango Oscar Oscar Victor Echo Romeo Romeo India Delta Echo India Tango Whiskey India Tango Hotel Oscar Uniform Tango Mike Alpha Kilo India November Golf India Tango Whiskey Oscar Romeo Sierra Echo Period


I understood half of it then it faded from me


Just read the first letter of every word then piece them together ig


whiskey?!


fr


this channel isnt a joke dude


Its in a different format so people dont get triggered, just read the first letter of every word and the Period indicates the end of a sentence


I decoded it


Flashbacks hurts my heart


It really does


If only there would be a way to override it without making it worse


Thank you


Hopefully that's accurate eee


Its accurate, you did good


But about the flashbacks, I understand they may hurt worse depending on the event. One good thing to think about though, is that you made it out alive. you are in this server, typing in chats, being alive, so congrats to you! you made it through tough times and now you're working forward!


Just think about the future, and not the past


@ wholesome of the day! .


oh my


let us digest it first


spin it happenned to me last night


spin so how have you been feeling lately?


spin hey ayo, its me Mimi from Vees. I never knew you feel this way but now that I know, I want to help you. You are worth the trouble and anything somebody says bad about you isnt relevant or right. You dont need to listen to them. Listen to your friends and us. We love you. I dont think youre annoying or a brat. I think youre amazing in your own way. I love you.


Thanks, guys. A lot.


just try to relax, and do what you feel is necesary


chichi


My mother moved out. Im with my dad and sister, they are trying to work it out. This has got how I do and act in school, I dont participate much anymore, and overall I always think im stupid when I dont understand something...Im not getting sleep too. I have to try acting happy all the time. I turn of my camera in online school meets cause Im scared of what people think if I cry on camera or how I look etc. I feel alone all the time. I struggle with easy assignments now.


I know every couple need breaks, but I dont think they can salvage it.


Ive also been starving myself sometimes.


Hey, look. You arent stupid for not understanding something. We still dont understand a lot of things in this world, and thats ok! You need to be able to have enough confidence in yourself to ask your teachers for help with the work if you feel like youre falling behind, no matter how easy it is. If you feel like you need help, you should ask for it instead of sitting there, falling behind even further to the point where youve fallen so far behind that it gets really bad. Ik that your mom moving out has messed you up a bit, and thats alright, I completely understand and know what that feels like, but im sure she wouldnt want you to fail because of this.


Thanks, guys.


Ill try to keep taking better care of myself.


Anytime


Robux


when I eat it hurts when I sleep it hurts so why do either


ImLoen please don't think that neglecting yourself is the best course of action here. even if you don't want to take care of yourself, please do it for the people who genuinely care about you take things one step at a time, until you slowly start to get better and feel better. if you want to talk about things, we are here for you and please don't be afraid to do so


ImLoen I've experienced that once. I don't really think my case was terrible but it was still pretty painful.


I suggest you should try to seek helpful ways to fix this via contacting people that can be trusted ofc and take a break from your phone and spend some time doing activities such as, reading, watching tv, home exercises, or just writing the thoughts in your head. I'm no doctor so you don't need to trust me that much.


Through my experience, reading and laying down without doing anything really helped calm myself. You can at least try to eat/sleep even the slightest and then slowly, but steadily make your way on to a more healthy schedule


Know that there are people out there who want to help you and care about you! Even if you think you're lonely, there will always be people that love you dearly qt!


, it's okay. The first part felt more like the vent and the bottom felt more like the message thing


tw?So very unhappy. I always like hide my emotions from like, everyone. This has been going on for years now. And I, I feel like no one notices. I have suicidal thoughts which isn't expected from me really. But you know like, it's the little things I think? And like it's gotten to the point where I just think everyone mad at me. So when ever I try telling my parents and sister what was going on with me I just like hesitate to even talk about my problems. So then I just, don't. I always didn't like talking to people about my problems like I don't know what they'll think of me


I also did think like self harm but I'm like a coward person. I'm afraid of pain! I cry a lot when I go to sleep and I try to cry quietly so no one hears me..


And like I really only had 3 friends but I still don't share my problems with them. I'm just always staying quite. Today or at this moment I'm crying and started to stop sleeping on my bed and just going to sleep at like 1:00 am 4 am. I'm just very lonely like no one to talk to about my problems without being scared. I keep bullying myself! I call myself names. I have like the lowest self confidence and I really don't show it. I have confidence in others! But not myself. Now my mother always tells me Put you first as in like think of yourself more. I really don't do that.


And that's why I'm very unhappy. Despite all the other reasons that is one of my problems. Thanks for reading, sorry it's so long. It actually took me two days to work up the nerve to actually write this.. I'm sorry if there are some misspellings.


Zara. . First of all, don't think that people won't care. No mature parent would ever leave their child having these thoughts


Now, I suggest you should speak up to your parents or anyone you absolutely trust. Like, your closest friends. It may seem hard at first so if you're having troubles, try to practice on conveying your feelings. You can write down your thoughts on a piece of paper or just simply say it. Say the things you want to say and get used to it.


Once you know you're ready, you can try speaking to your parents again. Don't worry about messing up or stuttering. The only thing that matters is your feelings.


You have incredible parents. Your mother told you to put yourself first, and that is really thoughtful her. I'm sure they will understand you.


Lastly, know that I'm extremely proud of you for being brave enough to speak out to us! Always keep in mind that we care about you and love you We appreciate you, so are you willing to appreciate yourself?


I'm always here, ready to talk whenever you feel like it so don't be afraid to contact me sweetie


p.s. If you experience more suicidal thoughts you need to see a therapist. They're the most professional people that can help you more efficiently


Thank you so much for your kindness and support! I'm going through a tough time rough time right now so you were very helpful messaging this! Ilysm!


Zara. . Don't worry qt! I'm always here to help sweet people like you


You can also try drawing your feelings. It's a good way to calm down. It doesn't need to be good, it doesn't need to be pretty. As long as it's true to what you're thinking is enough


I will also try that method! Thanks agian for the advice!


mhnm! no problem


Ugh it happened again. My friends were fine 1 second ago now it feels like Im just a victim to them.


@ wholesome of the day!


Did something bad happened?


No.


did they say anything?


I just closed chat for a bit and she got mad or smth.


Yes.


what did she say?


They said I used them


i


why?


did they tell you why


Idk


maybe try asking them?


I alr left.


ask them what'd you do


oh


I only left bc I didnt want to start a fight. I leave because I feel like crying.


ah


its okay!


that was the right thing to do.


its okay to cry and feel upset


poor browny


meany friends


your feelings are completely valid and thats okay:


Legit 2 fights and it hasnt even been 3 days yet.


just drink a glass of water and just lay down for a bit


Im going to sleep


Ty guys


alright then


sleep well:D


Aww Browny air hugs to the extreme


Sleep well


afk bed


sweet dreams browny!


Check pinned messages if you want to hear a message from me, everyone if you're feeling down or just need some encouragement please read it


thank you so muchhh qt!


Just making people feel a little bit better


Sometimes when it comes from someone you dont expect it means a lot more


yes yes! and the same goes for them! knowing that i helped people really makes my day


Well, almost time for me to feed my cat, if you want to see a picture of him feel free to dm me


oki oki! cattos are good


Feel free to ping me whenever you vent! My notifications on servers are having problems atm and only pinging works everytime.


That's all I have to say sweet pumpkins


my friend has a family issue her siblings are being so rude to her and her sister said im going to stab you and she looked serious, my friend was depressed for days and kept saying im fine. one day she told me everything they have done to her i just want to help her and give her advice but she keeps saying she is fine, she doesnt want to tell her parents about her siblings problems because her siblings will ignore her and it just hurts her deep inside, please tell me what to do she doesnt let me help her


@ wholesome of the day!


first off, good for being concerned about this. from that alone i can tell youre a good friend and someone to trust


Okay, so dont listen to her, tell her parents. She could get mad at you but she will feel much better.


i dont know her parents she lives in another country


Hm.


Convince her


but she helped me a lot and i want to help her too


she is the only friend i can trust


secondly, this sounds like a very serious situation. if youre having trouble settling this, explain it to your own parents.


perhaps they can get in contact with your friends parents, or help you settle this problem


Yea


i try to convince her but she just says thank you for trying to help me but im fine


Keep in mind dont just leave when she says Im fine, when girls say Im fine their not.


i know she is not fine


Im


Um


Ok, firstly, do not listen to your friend about her being fine. At all. Ignore everything relating to her being okay because that really isn't okay. She's probably scared or worried and doesn't want people to freak out, but it's a really serious situation. If she doesn't want to talk to her parents at least try contacting some form of help, and convince her to talk to her parents in private about what happened. It seems like she's a quiet person who really cares about her siblings whether they mistreat her or not. But even if that is the case her siblings shouldn't bully her in such a manner. There's a time when it's normal sibling teasing vs. serious teasing that can be taken the wrong way


Mar os typing a paragraph


Is


you do a good job with worrying about her


yes


Yea what mar said


i dont think her siblings ever treated her good


Get contact with her parents and tell her


she doesnt want to tell me her parent's number


or her brother's discord


i just want to talk to her brother about how they treat/bully her but she won't tell me


Urmmm


I gtg. My friends being kinda toxic again.


you have toxic friends?


oml the friend that has a sibling problem is in this server i


chichi


is it just her sisters bothering her or is her brother involved also?


You see @ Baby girl it is more common for a elder siblings for hating there younger siblings...most likely the reason is there bro/sis giving them wrong replies and insulting them due to there ego! It hurts the elder one alot! But it doesn't mean she said is right, you should tell her to tell her parents as it can be bad...


Yeah most older siblings do get bullied by the younger ones due to their experience and maturity levels but saying things like stabbing her isn't okay


Excalty somewhat it happens everywhere and sometimes we do tend to say such things but don't really mean it...


but they seem so serious