Holding back crying is bad cause it's really good for you


you have all rights to be sad,mad,annoyed or anything. you are 100 entitled to your emotions because you are a human being not some emotionless object.


As we people should showing emotions is what makes us...us


I do sometimes. It's good to express your emotions! Never EVER say sorry for how yoou are feeling.


And saying hey I need help is fine cause as a normal person should we care for our brothers and sisters we do need help everynow and then


should i talk to them about it or no


Only if your comfortable


But yes absolutely


alright


But if they come back at you with insults or try to guilt you don't talk them


No one needs negative vibes


The less negative people you talk to the less negative emotions you'll have


@ wholesome of the day!


help im so scared


i dont know what to do


my gf is about to commit suicide


she says she wont stop


i need help i dont know what to say or do


i keep on repeating stop and dont do it but she wont stop


What is she doing?


shes getting pills


At this moment?


shes gonna overdose


i keep on telling her stop


Okay you need to stay calm


why does she want to?


have you asked her?


Tell her her worth


she says she wants to cause she wants to stop hurting everyone around her


Tell her people care for her


Atm stop wont help


Shes scared anxious


Call the emergency number for your area, if you call ahead even if you can't stop her they will be there in time


she needs you right now


And yes like Dio said


Keep trying to help her though


Talk through to her.


Because the best case would be that you stop her


She needs to know that this isnt the right option


Theres hope


Theres a chance


Stay with her and talk through to her like Siddie said, and make sure youre breathing alright. Ive been in your situation before and its really scary so I understand.


im back


she still wont stop


AGH lunar tell her you love and appreciate her and make sure she knows this is the wrong decisoin


Call her


right now


call someone


Call 911


no


call 911 please


call a suicide hotline prevention


Any


Just stop her


Call 911, suicide hotline, and wait until they get there.


just call someone and tell her that shes beautiful and kind and loving and tell her she shouldnt do it, too many people love her


daisy they cant come to her house tho and stop her just call 911


This is no joke and calling 911 is the best notice


alr u two are right, call 911


please call the police now


Kenzie it doesnt matter if they call the hotline they can have someone to listen tell them words of encouragement


But for the other person


They call 911


this is urgent


lunar sorry for the ping but please update us im really concerned and i know ur busy but:c


update


she stopped


sorry for taking so long


she is


still alive


we are talking


That is good, but now, I must vent.


Make sure she is alright and keep her company.


Okay yes good


lunar tell her if youre not there to always call her local suicide hotline


Aperia and go ahead


Mmm


What are you feeling at the moment


Traumatized.


Upset.


Angry.


What has helped you in the past for those feelings to stop


Honestly, nothing. I would sleep it off, but I can't sleep. It's almost 3 PM, and I've already taken my naps.


Lets do a check up list to make yourself breathing and calm down


How is your breathing Aperia


make sure to take deep breathes


And dont let that person get to you


Alright.


they said mean and hurtful things that hurt you but dont listen to them who are they to tell you who you are as a person.You are much stronger than you think. Theyre just trying to feel something. You are so wonderful for being here. You are you and who you are is amazing and special dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Its also okay to be sensitive it means you feel emotions stronger youre heart is special to you and to many people. Feel better soon we all care luv


uhm i was in school and my legs were fine, but in the morning my mum shook


my foot up and down and made my toe even more sore


then at school i was a bit ok then my legs started hurting alot


I dont know how to stop the pain but


my toe and legs are hurting so bad rn and idk how to stop it at all


i feel alot of pain and in gym i almost cried cause of all the pain


I was in, please help


@ wholesome of the day!


We can't really help though the internet! I suggest going to a doctor.


Lovely.Starlight aight


I've Been Muted In Fruit Salad I will Never Forget To Break The Rules Ever The Again


I Always Read The Rules This Is My Favorite Server So Why I Got Muted


I will Never Push The Wall One More Bad Thing I Will Get Banned


Maybe you broke a rule without realizing?


Thats good that you understand


I also got banned from a server for a dumb reason


If anyone needs to talk to someone my dms are always open!


man this is kind of shallow but we had a reading exercise today and i had a hard time comprehending and completing it compared to highschool reading tasks. it feels like the skill level took a large turn. i feel like I won't be able to graduate college at this rate lmfao


any academic peeps have advice on improving reading comprehension?


Practice makes perfect ig I never went to college but basically take your time study at home sound out the words break them down use a dictionary if u need it


If you have trouble pronouncing words, maybe find the online version and play the audio, then try to repeat the word


okie ty guys!


han i know this is a bit late but you should probably read more books and take a lexile test to see what your lexile is, then read some books above ur lexile score so you can start learning more words. make sure you write every word you dont know down or something so it helps improve your memory and vocabular


y


thank you I'll do that!


@ wholesome of the day!


I'm being isolated since I'm symptomatic, I'm honestly fine with self isolation but I'm slowly starting to lose contact with sanity, I've just took a test for COVID today and now am waiting for the results, I'm pretty sure I'll be tested negative but who knows?


Could someone tell me how to keep sane when isolated in a pretty cramped room?


hmm i understand what you feel like, you should really focus on stuff you like to do like drawing or something. also read a lot of books and facetme and talk with your friends. we all understand you


Alright


Try to find ways to distract yourself. Try finding new hobbies and such to keep you busy


Yeah


Thank you


Try to do other inside things you like to keep your mind off of negative thoughts


I'm just not doing a good job at keeping my mental stability during this time @@


It's not really negative thoughts


Just


It's just me going insane


istu its alright. You can do this, even if you get positive to the Covid19 test, its not gonna be bad! Make sure youre trying to be healthy by eating lots of nutrients. For me, staying in my house isnt a problem. Im not an outdoor person so Im fine with staying home, sometimes I wanna go outside but sadly I cant. Have positive thoughts and try not to panic a lot.


MimiKit thank you, but it's not really negative thoughts that keep me up it's just me wanting to get fresh air, I myself am not even an ambivert but staying in a room alone for countless hours with no company but the people on the other side of the screen sorta makes me go a little insane Y'know?


Its okay to go outside for a walk, just beg your parents


I'm not walking out this room no matter how much sanity I lose


Trust me, the word insane” describes me the best. I could ligit go kill someone rn


Oop


I ligit am psycho inside


Just trapped


In a body


O h


I reallly wish I wasnt so unstable right now, my emotions are all over the place, I cry at the lightest insult from my parents, and Im so anxious. I have a driving test again on Thursday and theyre making me stay here at their place till then, I cant wait to go home. I miss my girlfriend and I miss my cat, they both bring me lots of comfort.


I wanna go home so badly


I just wanna take my car and go home to them


I hate it here


God


I understand why they wanna keep me here until then but I dont wanna stay


Idk how to cope right now, give me ideas..? @ wholesome of the day!


Its ok to cry everyone does it


People have lots of problems


i mean, thats really hard being away from home but i promise you can get through it. i like listening to soothing music and hugging soft plushies and stuff


or drawing


And thats what where here for


or maybe even just get some rest and drink some water


Yes try what Kenzie 3


Said


try to find something to help you feel better any special hobbies?


Its super hard


I only have my switch here, I wish I brought my sketchbook..


i understand what you mean but i usually try to do things that make me calm down.


Especially


When you have other things coming at you


Just try to relax


Its very hard


Okay..


And I feel your pain


yes yes do that


Thank you


Mhm


That I have


I hate them


on break, will come back later I'm so sorry your going through something right now and yes it will get better venting does help my DMS are always open as well if you need a someone


I'm typing this with tears, this hurts me so much though it's not a huge thing.


So i have a group of close friends, and we have a group server and our own channels in it, i always talk in my channel for comfort but in the end i always get hurt. Cause no one says anything even though theyre online and active. It makes me feel like im annoying them, and i just cry over it which i think is stupid. Being ignored is one of my fears and really triggers an anxiety attack. My mind takes it in multiple negative ways. I want to talk less, but again, talking there is really my only way i cope with stress. It's been happening for a long time now, i cry each day cause of this. I'm too scared to tell them how i feel, cause i think they'll be mad or just ignore me again.


Not sure if i should ping for this so im not gonna.


I hope you feel better! I felt this before, I got ignored by my friends


And It really hurts me.


But I overcome my fears and start a new life


Eclipsa I hope chu get better! I'm sure there are friends irl to help chu overcome this! I would feel hurt too if i were u, but chu can always tell them how much u hate being treated this way, or leave the server, if u feel this way.


I had many times I got ignored just like u did, so I know how u feel.


Thank you so much! I'm trying to gather up the courage to tell them, just may take some time.


I'm sorry it happened to you alot, being ignored may seem like a small thing but it does so much damage. Hope you feel better


Being ignored is something that seems so miniscule, so small.. yet people don't realize just how badly it can affect people. You're already showing strength by working up enough courage to tell them how you feel, so take your time and do it at your own pace. Very few things can compete with being noticed by someone, it's a fantastic feeling when someone acknowledges your presence. Stay strong Eclipsa


thank you! And you're right, such a simple thing, easy to do, can hurt someone so badly


@ wholesome of the day! Can someone help me please? Im litterally crying about a ban in a server.


What's up?


Why would you cry over a ban?


Their loss if they banned you.


Why did they ban you?


If you mind me asking.


But it was from violating dms and I told the person I was from another server and I told them I didnt see their dm status in the server they banned me in so they banned me in the server


Sorry if its confusing


That's kind of messed up.


Yeah.


Its okay


Did you say it was an accident?


No need to cry


They banned you because of the DM status..?


Its just a ban


Do not repeat your mistake again


And move on like a big person


Violating dm status”


I didnt even get to talk much in the server I was banned in


Was it an accident?


You didn't read their status, correct?


Yeah cuz I didnt know their DMs were closed


Mm.


Well, it's nothing to cry over. Honestly, it was only a simple mistake. You should just remember to read those things in the future.


I just never got to see the community of that server


i


To me, does not seem like a good community.


Its Mimi feed I was banned in.


I wouldn't recommend any communities like that one.


Try and find a community less strict..


mimi feed?


Yep


umm


I was banned from there


You in it? cait


Im not in it but ik what it is


and ik the owner


Ooo.


Wait who is the owner


Galaxy the wholesome bear 3 Anywho, if you have a mental illness like that, dont worry. If you need someone to talk to on a daily basis just feel free to slide into my DMs.


I think Im going to find a server to fill that spot


Mm, alright.


Any recommendations?


rejected


Eh, I have none.


cait who is the owner


I didnt even know the persons DMs were closed


I was warned then banned


Those red lights its together but autocorrect dkdkekdkdjjd


I guess


I didnt even know that their DMs were closed


It doesnt


Um I see none of that


It said something else when I dmed then


Like Im the turkey


Cuz their friend had whos the turkey


Well I didnt read the roles and actually I came to their DMs from another server that doesnt have dm stays


Mm.


status


I would ask an admin or moderator to ask the owner.


Also make sure you tell them that they made me cry


@.SYO


that the owner


I litterally told them that I had a mental illness that makes it harder for me to stop talking


Well I didnt notice that when I dmed them


Im going to read discord tos now


And see if they have anything with mental illness


Welp I guess its their loss to have an amazing person in their server. right @.SYO ?


Galaxy the wholesome bear 3 That is right, to me at least.


Im going to find a great server to fill that spot


Alright, you have fun.


anyway i have some hw i gtg do rn so thanks, goodnight cu all tmrw or later


I honestly think you should drop your friend


i did!


shes mad at me


and is now trying to get my best friends to turn on me


she said


oml


wow


that's fake friend


That's a toxic friend


mhm


yes


agreed


dont waste your time with her


u can tell ur best friends wut shes been doigng


ignore her


she doesnt deserve you


period


lmfao hes not a heart breaker? you barely know him. dont be shy, unblock me. but i dont want to


i've known him longer than her


As for your parents you need to just ignore most of what they say because parents will always have very big expectationa of their kids they don't mean any harm to you they just want to motivate you


twilight what you say is so true


If you want you can sit with them and talk to them about it


thats what they tell me


i try


my mom never listens


makes up some weird excuse


twists words


Then ignore what she says.


but parents end up taking it the wrong way all the time...


ill try


ikr


they dont understand us


Well instead of arguing with them just listen and say okay and just don't listen to what they say


also my mental health is going down but i cant seem to take a break from discord because its addicting


okay thanks twilight


Believe me it will save you a lot of time and drama


thank you all of you


yw even tho i wasnt able to help much


As for your friend tell her to stop being so toxic and tell your best friends about her.


Now go do your hw.


Tea.


tysmmm


I came too late.


its okay


im okay now


thanks guys


c:


love you


ywww


I'm sorry I couldn't help.


nono its okay!


im gonna go finish hw and then go to bed


i have classes tomorrow


sigh


a language class


Hope it goes well and good luck.


gl with ur classes:


anyway thanks love you all goodnight!


Alright then go do your hw!


I also came late im sorry i couldnt help;;


It's okay you'll make it later


Dont stress yourself over your homework as well! Stressing before sleep is bad especially in my experience. Goodluck with classes and may you have a good night's sleep


Alright. After others venting and telling us horrible events that has caused anxiety or sadness, possibly depression, I gotta confess.


I've always been that person people could speak to. But right now, I'm honestly not feeling any sympathy or sadness for anyone. I feel very empty inside, almost like I don't care. Do not take this statement as an insult, I deeply care about your situations. Anywho, I would normally feel terrible for those kinds of situations, honestly I'd take them more seriously than i would with my own.


Today, I've been feeling very lonely. But, I haven't felt sadness, anger or annoyance. I'd usually feel angry and sad, but today I just feel different. It hasn't been a normal day ever since an incident that happened in another server, not the incident I've mentioned before. I wont lie, I feel very disgusted with myself.


I'm not one to ask for help or advice from people during such situations, but I honestly have a migraine from thinking about my feelings way too much these past 3 or 2 days.


@ wholesome of the day!


im not very good with the whole loosing emotions topic as ive never heard of it except in cringy gacha movies nor dealt with it but maybe try to think of something that could trigger some emotion or watch something funny maybe itll make you happy or laugh. but try to do something that would make you feel good Aperia


Just seeing you say those cringey gacha movies made me laugh.


GREAT


atleast you felt something


If you feel empty, I tend to talk to someone I trust and love


I don't have someone I trust.


You don't?


Nope.


Trust has been a thing I kept for myself.


No one else.


Ok!


Aperia ah, i can definitely relate to that. its so hard to trust people because so many peope will stab you in the back just like that. its very hard to find trustworthy people.


Yeah!


Mhm.


All honesty, I've never trusted someone with anything.


That's why I use vent channels to spill my emotions out and ask for advice on rare occasions.


I


oh 00


omggg


im gonna go try to save my shirt


afk trying to save my shirt death is coming upon it


Oml


Lmao


So uh


How do you make people not ignore you?


im back


wait no im not


Wow


afk searching up on youtube how to get chili out of a white shirt


okayyyluis


What do you mean?


I'm late


Hmmm


Well


A lot of people are ignoring me


Spam.


Kidding, give them time.


Yeah


but its been 1 week


Mm.


And all the people I know is wellnot busy


Well, try and start up a small conversation..like how have you been? How's your day going? And all that jazz.


Yeah!


Idk if that will work though


Siddie, not everyone deserves attention.


Kindness and respect can run out from time to time.


Don't let anyone take all your attention and kindness.


If someone is having a problem, Help them but if this person wants you to be by thier side 24/7 then you have to tell them that you have a life of your own and you don't have all day for them


That's what I do when I feel someone is leeching off of me


I do take time for myself. I don't always respond to people's situations, but to whoever I do help, recently it hasn't felt like I actually cared about what they're going through.


Yes I know this feeling


You don't have to feel terrible about yourself


Take a break and make it clear that you are not an angel, you are a human and you have your own problems too


, that simple mistake in your writing made me laugh.


Angle.


Heh


Anyway just don't help people 24/7


Take breaks


I'll try my best.


And don't feel like a terrible person, you're great.


Oh, how beautiful.


Let's have some tea and talk in chat shall we?


Tea.


Yep


@ wholesome of the day! Well okay, i don't usually vent here that much, but I'm starting feel like I'm starting become more stress, and I guess building up self hatered, since I have a very low esteem due to many things, I apparently feel jealous of my friend, since she's very pretty along with way more better than me, I just feel like I'm garbage compare to her, I usually just compare myself to people because It just always been a habit, It's hard to really stay happy, when everyday I always call myself ugly, or just not attractive whenever it comes to my friend, I also just compare sayumi to other servers, and just develop this sadness, where I just feel like my server isn't that good enough.


Okay, first off, you are beautiful no matter what. Do not let yourself down like that. Two, try and give yourself a relaxing mechanism to relieve stress, like taking long walks or listening to music. Three, your server here is the most kawaii, beautiful, well organized server.


hum


Your server is amazing! You shouldn't let other servers and people let you down like that. So many people love your server, and thats how you can tell you did a wonderful job! Even if those things let you down, it doesn't change the fact that you are an amazing, sweet person.


I suggest not putting yourself down and telling yourself how good you are and how well made your server is.


mhm


Ashi its hard to feel good when you compare yourself to others but just know that you are amazing just the way you are, You are beautiful both inside and out. Sayu is also one of the best servers out there and it has come so far, this is an amazing server and your are the most amazing server owner, so please dont think that. all of the members are here for you and we love you


I'm not really beautiful, in honesty, I don't really like my skin color, since every school I went too was filled with white people, and I been bullied for how I look, along with race.


Don't let those people get to you.


Bullying Impacted my, and made me insecured, to a point where I can't walk into a classroom without feeling like the black sheep in the crowd.


They are slackers and wont get anywhere in the future.


Those people dont care. what matters about people the most is people's personalalities.


The sad, thing is, I don't understand why I compare sayumi to other servers, I just feel like everything I do is nothing but a disaster.


As much care, and word I put into a server, it's never enough.


Your skin doesnt matter Ashi, they couldnt recognize how amazing you really are as a person and that is their loss, You are absolutely beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise


It's always someone who hates it, it's always someone who thinks it copied.


Everything I do Is just a disaster, even I am one when it comes to reality.


If I can't fit in anywhere where do I even fit in? Inside of the garbage can.


Those people want you to make you feel bad, but they dont understand the hard work you put in.


I'm sick of how much people put me down for so much things, I've tried my best to work my hardest for, I'm tired of people picking on me just because Im the black sheep in the crowd.


It makes me just want to give up even exisiting on this world, because all I ever ask for it to actually feel like I'm welcomed, not a outcast


But my skin color, just never fits people taste at all.


You look the way you do because your beautiful and unique. You don't need to be a specific race or anything.


People spread bad things about you, but the birght side of you overpowers those bad things. They try to make you look bad, but you are sweet and amazing. They just dont know you


Well thats because its their job to find flaws in things they can't achieve. Sayu is an amazing server built with so much love and hardwork. They just cannot accept that and would rather pick on you about other things so please don't let their comments get to you, so please stay strong Ashi, you can do this!


Dont compare yourself to people higher than you. you will be special to everybody, especially to the pepople in this server. You are unqiue.


If you let their mean comments hurt you then you are letting them win and they'll take advantage of that to make you feel terrible about yourself, in this situation you should try your best to stay strong and positive though it can be hard but we are here for you and we will always support you and Sayu. You are unique, amazing and absolutely beautiful so never compare yourself to others because you are one in a million and no one else can compare with you or be like you.


mo god are we using big paragraphs


I'm sorry Lmao I'm just getting really worked up.


its fine


Same here


it shows that you care


uwu


owo


WE LOVE YOU ASHI, PLEASE STAY STRONG


MHM, DONT LET THOSE BAD THINGS GET TO U!


I love her most.


Aw


thank you guys honestly


reading that made me tear up


in happy tears of course


Don't cry


Since all I really needed is just a boost, since I been letting negativity get to me lately


Yes dont let those haters affect you instead take their mean comments as compliments as the only reason people are mean is because they arent as good as you.


Ashi is best girl


Yes.


Halo welcome to meh vent


I was kinda becoming attached to dis server, and I was rlly enjoying it! I was helper, and I recently noticed I became trial mod! I was super ecstatic! I was just messaging in main chat, when I left to go attend to my own server, I had a question so I went to ask in main chat, and I noticed my nick was changed and I no longer had helper, or trial mod: I am super confused, cause I dont know what I did wrong, and I was never warned or even informed about this


If I did something wrong I am truly truly sorry: I still love sayumi


Thank you for listening to my vent


maybe it's best to privately message the admins about this matter.


Okay, I will


Someone in my server made me feel really bad about my body, they said I would never look as good as the girl in my pfp and Im already self conscious about my body so that comment made me feel even worse about my body.


Just ignore them. I mean, yes, your pfp is beautiful, but I think your inner beauty is so much more important than how you look! I mean, I'm sure you are a real cutie and this person who said that to you... maybe they look really bad too? As long as you feel healthy in your body it is not important how your body looks like. And if other people tell you that you will never look pretty... then they have a really really bad heart. And maybe just ban or kick this person from your server!


Thanks


Inner beauty matters MUCH MUCH MUCHHH more than just being attractive. I love you the way you are, and you should never be sad about your body. theres no perfect body, and everyone is beautiful in their own way 3


Smile, your an iconic queen


I know I don't talk in here like at all but I needed to get this off my chest: I have a crush and we both like each other, but we can't date. I don't know why it bothers me so much but it does. I just wish we could be together... My vent isn't very long, I just needed to get it off my chest.


@ wholesome of the day!


yea


why not?


is it cuz of ur parents or his?


It's because of our parents.


Oh my..


well then do it secretly lmo


lmao


i haave a bf my parents dont know about lmao


Sometimes dating in secret can get you in trouble:


if they find out


as long as i have good grades and stuff they let me cuz they just think boys are a distraction


my sister's like 20 and she's never kissed anyone or had a bf


Thank you, I appreciate it.


i mean im tempted to date my crush in secret XD


oooppp


Sayumi Censor here


Well lets see


as long as my grades arent lower then 86


Im most likely to get forced marriage but Ill run away faster. If you like each other, go for it. Be yourself, if your parents dont support you then they dont have to.


If I get a B my dad will smack me


yeah ruh if you aren't happy, and i wanna date him but he's also taken w


and im very sorry to hear, my mums scream at me if i have a B


MimiKit If I get a B my parents will get mad at me


What


Only mad tho


My parents are strict


Yeah


You dont know my main


My parents bully me everyday


aww


why?


i have to deal with 2 mums


why the heck did it delete that, i use spoilers to not trigger people w


Kenzie 3 have you tried talking to someone outside of discord like an adult tell them how your feeling? Sounds kinda like depression


depression?


yes


Yea


no i havent..


afk crying


Yeah depression happens from time to time it's not that scary don't worry it's okay to be sad without a reason just ask an adult or tell your parents that you're not feeling too well.


Also talk to your friend and tell her what you feel.


Sometimes things just build up inside and it's not good at all to keep it in talk to an adult you trust take small baby steps talk to your friend as well let her know how you feel


Honestly this emotion always happens to me. I feel like everyone and everything I love just doesnt feel the same way about me. I just want to die. Suffocate and die. Gasping for air because I deserve it. I always try to look happy. For the most part, I was. Until today. I have made so many mistakes and I feel like I should just disappear and leave this earth entirely. I am just a mistake. I am saying that with my complete and utter beliefs. I just want everyone to know how much I love them but I just cant seem to do that. I said a really hurtful thing to my mum today because its how I feel about myself. I dont want me. I dont think anyone wants me and if they did I dont deserve it. As Im typing this I am holding a very sharp piece of equipment to my hand. Thank you for reading this. I just needed to say this. Thank you


being sad for no reason is valid, i happens to me a lot, but if its a constant feeling you might have depression and its okay to talk to a therapist or something


i suck as a venting helper


maisie wait wait wait stop what you're doing drop the sharp object and listen.


You might feel like you've done a lot of mistakes but believe me everyone does mistakes and no matter how bad they are they are from the past.


Look to the future!


Also just go to your mom and tell her sorry and tell her what you feel.


Akiro Thank you. I'm doing that rn


ty ur a good venting helper


maisie also life has ups and downs so please have patience and don't. Give. Up.


Akiro Tysm. I was in a really dark place earlier and I just couldn't rely on myself not hurting you knwo


MamaMiya ah, talk to my friend? @ Ashi On Break hey ashi. we need to talk. thats the ashi i was talking abt who else?


Well look just know that you deserve everything good that happened to you


i just feel empty inside all the time, i hate being alone and forced to think my own thoughts. during quarantine ive been unable to talk to people and my friends and ive just been thinking about how much of a terrible mistake i truly am. i want to say im lonely but im not, i want to say im sad but people will ask me why but i have no reason. i always tell people that no one is perfect and that they dont need to be the best. i can never believe my own words, i cant convice myself that i am worthy of attention because im not. i hate my looks, i hate my personality, i loathe every part of myself and it would be better to just give up. but im scared, im scared because its bad to self diagnose, its bad to not love yourself, its narrccistic to love yourself how to spell. but i only ever tell myself the negative things. i cant focus on the positive, theres almost none left. sorry if this vent made no sense but i just need to get my feelings out e.


kaylie don't listen to your family also please eat a lot and look whatever you look like you're always beautiful from the inside. also no, You're not a mistake.


Kenzie 3 tbh i feel exactly how you're feeling right now. selfconscious and usually get embarrassed. i always try and avoid conversations as i always think i'd/i'll mess something up. i usually just listen to sad songs on spotify. im scared of getting humiliated and horribly judged. i've never really spoke about how i feel to anybody and its just really hurting me atm. i recommend speaking to somebody you trust about what you're going through. times like this can be hard but i reckon you'll pass. try do stuff you really enjoy doing cause that can usually help.


liv noob mouse cheese ew thanks. but its scary as if you went through this you would know. you cant just go up to someone and say that that easily. my mom is in her room asleep and i just went in there but i couldnt get out the words to say anything and she was asleep and my dad would just never understand so scratch that. wel ill try in the morning im going to bed now thanks for all ur guys help wishh me luck xx


mimi! you don't have to be completely alone to feel lonely and you don't need a reason to feel sad this is how humans work they always have good days and bad days also like I said to the other person you're always beautiful on the inside and please have patience because life is like a rollercoaster it goes up and down.


And the virus thing will end eventually just keep talking to your friends on the phone and playing games with them and DON'T. GIVE. UP.


Also there's a reason why you get attention, it's because you're an interesting person.


kaylie nothing will ever satisfy the eyes of the human


Just know that people sometimes make fun of you because they're jealous.


So don't listen to them.


Sometimes people tease those who are better than them


Looking for every single imperfections to make them feel bad


Don't listen to them


They will never be satisfied.


Remember to always have patience.


mm


I hate it


I want her back


Its been almost a year now


11 months


september 18th, 2019


thats when she went missing


I just want her back, thats all I ask for


I vented about this in another server but all I got was a ;;


thats it


please


I just want her back


Who?


my cat


shes been missing for 11 months


Well I hope your cat is in a better place


11 months is too much


or with another owner


I really hope shes in a different house


getting loved and treated well


But I hope she's okay


same for me


Don't think about it too much


Ive been trying to but it always comes back into my mind


That means you're a good person and care about your loved ones


It's normal


I vented about this in a server and all I got was a ;;


Well they probably didn't care


and everybody else ignored it


i know how its to lose a cat. i've lost 3 in my entire life. 2 sadly passed of old age and one other went missing. it didn't come back for 4 days and then never came back. i really miss it though. don't lose hope in finding your cat. she is probably looking for you 2. misses you, wants you etc.


mm


I hate it


I want her back


Its been almost a year now


11 months


september 18th, 2019


thats when she went missing


thats it


please


I just want her back


teakettle.exe  this makes it sound like a troll


Just straight up say that you lost your cat


wait wdym


its a really horrible feeling when you lose someone you really loved. doesn't matter if its an human or animal.


I mean they won't care enough if you typed it this way


Don't speak in riddles


Speak what's in your heart


you right


I'd suggest avoiding cat pics at all cost


its aight since I got like 3 cats back in november of 2019


but I still miss her


Hm well be on the look out for any cat that may pass you by


Maybe someone took her


probs


or maybe she


yknow


yeah when i lost the 3rd cat me and my family looked around every cat shelter and sadly never found her


yeah it did


Im sorry about that


I once lost 2 baby cats because my grandmother didn't like them so she threw them in THE STREET


Ikr


That's why I never talk to her


bRUH


Anyway just don't think about your cat too much


spend time with your grandmother/ grandfather while they're here thats all im saying


o dreamys typing


nnvm


liv noob mouse cheese ew they're not here they love in America


So I can't really talk to them


Oof


imagine throwing cats into the streets just because you dont like them


I wanna start making music about my feelings but i'm kinda scared that people gonna find out that there are mg feelings


Then, why would you make songs based off of your feelings if you dont want others to know they are about your feelings..?


It's not a bad idea if you have a passion for the music industry, but I still dont get why you would make songs based off of your feelings and then getting scared others will find out they are your actual feelings.


It's a way of expressing your feelings


Putting your feelings into a Hobbie you like is the best way of expressing your feelings and even sometimes coping yourself


It doesn't have to be for attention


Shiro can I Listen to them? I like music


Aperia2599 i mean


My friends


I dont think ill share it with public for now, its my first song and idk how ppl gonna react to it


You do you bud


Saira it takes time and it's okay to be sad but don't let it take over your whole life put the past behind you and try to focus on healing. You need to let him go otherwise you'll never move on and find happiness


i honestly feel you. youve just got to try not think ab it, i know its hard but try to do things to distract you from thinking about it. its okay to be sad and it will take some time to get over him/ her.


Saira don't let one bad apple spoil the rest... Just because someone has forgotten about you that doesn't mean that you don't matter just don't think about them too much and try to look forward to the future because the past never helps.


Saira


Maybe you should hang out with other people to get your mind off him, if he moved on, so should you! The best way to get rid of somebody is to meet new people and make new friends. Though it is a quarantine right now, so it might be really hard, but you can always learn new hobbies and try new things!


it's not that easy to get over someone tho and move on, and i know that myself. u just have to keep trying


That's why you gotta distract yourself.


Mhm, thank you all for your piece of words, I will try harder. I wont let my emotion control me.


you're welcome, sorry i wasn't much help.


No no, its okay u understood my feelings and im grateful for that. We all been through tough time so sometime we just happen to not have anything to say.


i got ghoted TwT


s h o s t e d


why can i not type


I feel sonsad i cant help


So ehm i was crying 3 times today


From stufff but im not telling


but theres also other stuff i cried abt and yes


my head hurts aswell


and im still shaking and i also feel like crying again


@ wholesome of the day! naw


You scared me


i thought i was getting results


its about my turn to vent abiut how much eggy bullied me just now


WHAT


I dont bully


sure


guys this is the venting channel..


stop


cwy


is sad


ydfg'


is it weird that im just not interested in any person? romantically throughout all my life? like at all? kdndkddn now that i have reached legal age 18 my parents have been pressuring themselves into my love life and talking about hooking me up w boys and im just like... no? i dont want this, i laugh it off but im scared theyll do something more than just words and actually force me into a relationship bc uh its common in my familys culture and its stressing me out i dont what this at all ahhh TTTT


aw... i will! thank you for taking the time of your day/night to listen to me, eden!


Why cant I go up and talk to a girl? Just why? Ive had this problem for years. When I see one sit down or see one already by herself, I just cant do it. Its like Im paralyzed, I want to but Im afraid. Im afraid of being embarrassed. Being immediately told to go away.


Thx


It has been long ago before lockdown that I had a hug irl... Thus I cannot have it, yet, until lockdown ends...


Idk, I might be finally feeling lonely; I cannot even visit one of my friends...


They should bring loadshedding more often As an irony...


Im gonna try to support anyone that has any problems irl in dms Im new to this so I hope I can help someone


I'm sure you can help


Not that weird if you care about it very much


Shiro Honestly, males who don't respect woman ends up getting kicked in the face and become a low life, so don't let them get to you queen, as a female we have to deal with those types of annoying males.


@! ok I'd say take another route, so they wouldn't find you or a short cut


Whos fighting who


@.SYO You've might've gained a attachment to your plushie, as if it's your safe object that helps you whenever you're stressed. Id say maybe take it wherever you go so you can feel safe


Ooh you like krew as well


For some strange reason whenever I'm embarrassed instead of just being, uh, embarrassed? I carry around this guilt wherever I go, and it fades away over time, but I honestly think it's strange and really overwhelming, is it normal by any chance?


@ wholesome of the day!


yea


Alright.


Everybody faces embarrassment in a different way, so i think its normal, your letting it find its way to the door


Oh.


so uhm this is a little vent but I want to get it off my chest..


So as you know,I have 2 siblings but I also have school next month,so its going to be real tough for me,but Im still a bit stressed cause I have to take care of my siblings and mostly my sister cause my mom always says she has to go” downstairs,and I understand that,but I feel like Im under too much pressure and putting my sister to bed is going to be tougher so...I might need rest but my sister wakes before I can just shut my eyes,but it happens everyday,and even have trouble sleeping...


@ @ wholesome of the day!


Aww


I know what you mean


You need sleep but you cant get it


Try and relax


Maybe


Take naps?


During the day


When you have spare time take naps it will help a lot


Yea


But mostly do the important things first of course


It's hard ik


Then you have no excuse for people asking why you're sleeping, that's what I'd do


have a emotional support squeeze


Im positive youll be able to pull through any problem life throws at you! Just look at your problem from a different angle and try to find a solution!


tell your mother she needs to start doing her own work. its her responsibility because she was the one who decided to have a child. youre not your sisters mother, therefore you shouldnt have to do this all the time. its nice to help out but you dont have to do any of these things


how old is your sister?


I...I can't do anything right


guys please dont swear when venting, server rules still apply


I...I'm sorry


I...I'm such a monster


That's always rule one


B...But


I...I loved him


H...How could he replace me like that


Well he didn't love you clearly, I promise you that he isn't worth this pain


I...I thought it wouldn't be this painful


B...But it hurts so much


Yeah


I...I tryed to date another person and got my heart broken again


No matter what if you get through this and I know you will because I believe in you you'll be stronger and wiser


I...I just want to forget about him


Try to get your mind clear and set straight before you try to date another person again. You deserve a lot better.


Trials and tribulations are what make you human


You can forget about him, but it will take time. Let time heal you


You have to be patient zero, let it heal you.


Sticking in the past will only hurt you more.


H...Heartache can't heal my pain


Also have supportive people around you


I swear I'll help you because I'm your friend everyone is my friend till they do something wrong so I guess you can talk to me if you ever feel like this but don't wanna be public about it


Of course heartache can't heal your pain, but it will soon go away you just have to trust that in time it will get better. Right now you have to take care of yourself and try your best to not remember him. You need to move on, otherwise you'll always be hurting..


Let friends help and support you through this.


I...I


I...I should overdose


no.


Don't do that


you shouldnt.


It's not worth it zero


The memories and pain won't go away just because of overdose.


H...Hang myself


Infact that will make it worse


Zero no:c


More pain and self harm


Is not the answer


You have to go talk to someone, a trusted friend friend or maybe a parent


Y...You know that I'm happy for him


Someone who won't judge you


I...I hope she loves him the same way I did


You deserve happiness zero, just like he does. You deserve a lot more than this.


zero you shouldnt overdose or any of that. its not worth it and think about how hurt ur family and the ppl that love and care ab you would be.


T...That's what I get for sticking with him


talk to someone


that u trust.


Yeah


L..Lucas


Look, that's what we get for dating. Dating bites, and sometimes it hurts. But that doesn't mean a breakup is the end, it's just learning and experience for the next relationship. Right now your job is to recover and learn from this.


c:


Yes exactly


C...Can we talk


We are all here for you


Go talk with lucas, I think talking to a close will help you more zero.


friend


Me?


She seems to want to talk to you


Okay I mean yeah you can


uwu


I...I'm sorry if I'm causing you trouble


Don't ever think you would cause anyone trouble here zero


You didn't


J...Just like I caused him


What no you're not at all


Go have a chat with lucas zero


yeah


B...But what happens if he or she doesn't want to talk to a mistake like me


That wouldn't happen


If lucas doesn't which I doubt that, there's other people here as well


Dw about it zero


I...I'm only going to hurt you


I'm here for you remember dont worry


What's important is you getting better and


youre not a mistake


go talk to them zero


If we were a mistake, we wouldn't have survived pregnancy or lived


So we're here for a reason


I...I didn't ask to be here


okay uh please just talk to someone irl


I...I didn't ask for a abusive dad!


But somebody did, you just have to find that person who did ask you to be here


Im acc worried ab u now


i


I...I


An abusive dad isn't your fault zero..


No one did but we are here and that's our blessing


I'm fine...


No you're not


Don't lie


We want to help you


So please don't lie


Zero, choose someone here to dm. Lucas, cait or myself and we'll be here for you


I'm not lying I'm fine...


zero do u have someone to talk to irl


I promise I'm fine...


I'm just really tired...


Hmmm


you arent fine.


If there's anyone to talk to irl, a friend perhaps


Go to them and talk it out


I...I'm just sleeply


I...I'm laying down


A physical appearance of someone you know or trust is better than online. All we can do is give you words of advice xd


Okay just rest zero


Just relax and breathe


I...I haven't slept in 510 days


I


go to sleep.


Maybe if you're tired, have a nap


Or even slepp


If it's night time


I...I can't sleep anymore


u dont want to end up in hospital.


try and sleep


Being sleep deprived and heart broken isn't a good mix


S...Sorry


Taking care of yourself is now more important than ever


It's okay don't apologize


Just rest or sleep if you want to


I...I'm so sorry


Stop saying sorry


No no zero, don't be sorry


It's okay


c:


I...I'm sorry


yui hug Mellow


its okay zero honestly dont be sorry


Shhh


chu havent done anything


I...I


You don't have any reason to apologize zero


Yeah you haven't done anything, you're just expressing your emotions like we all do


It's alright zero


No need to say sorry


We're all human and like to freely express emotions


yeah


please just go rest zero


There's nothing wrong with telling people how you feel


I...I honestly thought he loved me


Yeah


Well if he did you would still be together


But rn don't even think about him


Just try to rest


try not to think about it rn and do something to take ur mind off it


We're all crybabys sometimes, no biggy zero


I know several people like that irl


Just be careful who you trust with your heart


Gender doesn't matter, anyone can be fake. Just be a little more cautious next time.


Just forget him, and cry as much as you like it's not gonna matter to anyone as long as you feel good/better afterwards is all that matters


I can't cry anymore...


That's okay


it's because you're tired


You haven't had sleep for days now


zero can u talk to ur parents


or someone ur close to in ur family


N...No


How come?


I...I um


Can't, she told you? Her dad is abusive


They are your parents they would understand. Maybe your mother?


M...My mother knows that's why I'm in bed


Why don't you go have a chat with your mother?


Well try sleep please it will do you a world of good


I...I'll be fine


O...Ok


I...I'm not going to hurt myself


Yui hug Mellow okie like I said in dms dw about taking to me anytime


That's good then, go and sleep


J...Just gonna sleep it off


Sleeping is a good start


L...Lucas I want to talk to you if that's ok with you


Yeah best place to start zero


Of course


C...Can I dm you?


Ive got to go now but if chu want to talk anymore at any point, my dms are open.


T...Thank you!


no problem. 3


Dm me anytime luvvie


L...Luvvie?


Dw I call everyone luvvie


It's just a. Sweet nickname sorry


L...Lucas kun!


I...I'm sorry my apologies


No no it's okie


0 100


i think im going to die from this parent teacher interview. everytime I dont do what my parents expect me to do, they hit me. they once made me clean the toilet outside in the backyard, and said I had to sleep there with no food, unless I cleaned it. Im starting to get scared, and right now, im panicing. If i did something bad, my father would hit me with a broomstick 10 times, harder than ever. I dont know what to do anymore. I tried to say sorry, but they just kept hitting me. My dad even yells at me because i didn't close the door. At this point, im thinking to go to an orphanage. I dont know what to do anymore, and i dont like this lifestyle. My friends keep saying its going to be ok, but i dont think thats true. I dont know what to do. I feel like im going to break any moment now. I dont think i can handle this anymore. If i call the police, my dad might get arrested, and I dont want that. Im really tired of this, yet I dont know which path to take. @ wholesome of the day! sorry for ping guys, I really need help.


oh god, thats straight up abuse. call the police your father deserves to be arrested you should want that as he is hurting you for no reason. and maybe you could live with a family member aunt/uncle etc. but please, do something that is not okay please please do something you could call the police or run away or something but yea no get away from them


im so sorry thats happening to you


Hii minsoo, thanks for the ping and hopefully others come to give advice.


That sounds like a very rough situation, I personally feel that's a rather horrible situation to be in. I wouldn't be able to put up with that for very long.


Do you know why your parents do this? They have expectations for their child and want their child to succeed in life, which is great. However they are going about it the wrong way, with punishments both physically and mentally scarring. That's clearly not how you bring up a child, since punishments don't do anything but make the child feel depressed and anxious.


Going to an orphanage wouldn't be a good solution, I don't recommend it because you're throwing your life away for some complete strangers to take care of you, and there's no guarantee that life in an orphanage is any better or being adopted by another family.


Your friends saying it'll be okay are both correct and wrong. It will be okay but I doubt any time soon.


As for your father abusing you, I'm sorry but you should really contact the officials for that. Kids helpline or police, since your life is in danger and no child should ever be brought up like that. I know you don't want your father arrested, but since he is abusing you quite extremely there is no other choice minsoo. I would encourage you to call the Police up about it. Whatever happens after that is up to the officials


I really wish I could help here but All I can do is say


Im not doing much but I hope it helps the others got you they are good


yeah you can have someone call 991 or tell someone you know, if it continues, it'll get worse please act fast


Minjun hey bb, that sounds really rough. try talking with your parents and if it gets really bad, i would talk to one of your friends and ask them if you could stay with them for a while or something, but definitely dont go to an orphanage. it may sound like the solution, but trust me, its not. i hope you're okay, you dont deserve any of this. 33


Guys dont hurt yourself, it isnt worth it


Your father is a scumbag, but I would rather your father be rehabilitated and still have a relationship than be placed in a foster home, if you are still of that age or have to live with someone else


Dear gosh this world can be messed up


I hope you recover


@ wholesome of the day!


What do I do when my grandma calls me a bullshitted mistake?


And also would anyone know the answer why she made me hate her own dead husband just because he drinks too much alchohol?


my grandfather never does anything bad to her or anyone


Bullshitted mistake? What does your mother or father say about you?


Your grandma isn't your parent so, therefore she has no say in whether you are a mistake or not


And well, if your grandfather never did anything wrong, I don't know why she would make you hate him.


you shouldn't have to listen to that at all cause any genuine grandmother should never say that to her grandchild, but if you need to vent to anyone about anything going on or you're mad/upset about we're open


It could be out of anger or rage or feeling lonely since you say he's dead


People sometimes say things offensive when they are missing a loved one in life


before he died she was also acting like today, she just doesn't does that when anyone is there with us.


Well all I can say is, don't listen to someone who's always been acting this way. You don't deserve it and shouldn't listen to the insults she gives you.


As for hating grandfather, that's not up to her. You can decide whether you liked your grandfather or not.


maybe shes grieving today especially more than other days, sometimes the emotions tend to take over but it should never be made an excuse


She has her own opinions, and you have your own.


Don't take the insults to heart, you deserve more than that


If you ever want to vent again, people will always be here


c:


Yw btw


no one deserves to put down like that, especially by family, people say things because they're hurt or want to put that hurt on other people, whatever she said wasn't true and you're strong for coping with it


@ wholesome of the day! I'm feeling extremely suicidal, does anyone have any tips or advice to help me feel better, or any hotlines that are text only or have a text option?


Please dont do it


If you ever need to reach out to someone professional, Here are some hotlines I have listed down:


National Suicide Prevention Hotline:


Crisis Text Line:


741741, I have used this one personally, If you ever feel too scared to call; This is only through text to text.


SAMSHAs National Helpline:


1800662HELP 4357


I copied and pasted that


It isnt worth it. It seems like the answer but youll end up regretting it. Please stay


But there


I'm scared to die, but why do I feel like it would be better, even though I know it won't?


the person I cared about most has been gone for months and I just


it's been hard


Oops


Hang on


you can dm me


Okay


ever since my mom passed away back last September, I haven't had the best mental health and I got myself into a lot of bad situations because of it. just when I thought things were getting better, everything just kinda crashed again.


This is the first time I've seen this channel


And well


My things are too much to spill


I'll say a few thjnhs


Abused since age of 3


Dad that will spend 5000 plus on a airplane I stead of supporting his daughter


It's hard on a phone ok?


Er


Mom that doesn't let me do anything but study and fill out her forms and look at her emails for her on top of chinese and english and school


And that's why I'm in the closet right now secretly typing


I wake up at 6 30 am to clean the house and do yard work


I on e had a NEHS form and she made me fill it out even though I had no leaderships


She pushes me beyond my limits just because I'm GT


Yeaaah


Hey y'all just to let you guys know cause some of my friends are going through some hard time rn that if any of you guys need to talk about anything I'm here. I don't care how minor or major it is I'm here to listen and help you in any way I can


DMs are always open


Try your best and if you fail its not a big deal tbh


If they tell you why tell them because the exam is too hard and they shouldn't get their expectations too high.


These days, I've been wanting to vent, but about nothing? I just feel empty. I feel like I'm slowly drifting away from everyone I've ever held close to me, the thought of losing the people around me torments me, I don't know if it's quarantine that sorta makes me question like my whole existence also it's not like, oh why am I living I wanna die questioning my existence it's just like What if I'm in a simulation, what if nothing I do is important, what if I'm not important y'know


@ wholesome of the day!


can someone help me please


Hm?


What's up


Im crushing on this dude and I want ur guys help with what to do/what he will do if he like me back


If it was meant to be it'll go fine


Just be yourself


He'll love you for who you are


Or he's not worth it


Be you and relax


Don't over think the situation


Or else your brain will go


Pretty much


Go with the flow


Your important


why are yall so wholesome


Sometimes it won't go according to plan


And that's okay!


The sun will rise and you can start from scratch again!


I think being yourself is the best thing you can be towards someone else. Never force yourself to be something you are not.


Also istu quarntine has driven everyone crazy just to know that we as YOUR friends and supports will not leave you because the fact that your helping other shows us the person you are. And people like you deserve the best


Hi yui, Im sorry to hear that! I also went through similar days youre describing; so youre definitely not alone, These emotions pass and our minds can just get tough on us sometimes, especially if youre really vulnerable. Im sure that you do matter and youre an important person to many people in your life. Take a deep breath; Reach out to your loved ones. Theyre all here for you!


@ I really appreciate your feedback it's people like you that make me smile keep up the great work, and remember your important


If you need it, you can do .crisis and mimu will send hotlines, etc


Same goes for you Case!


No, no, it's not like depression!


Aw thank you


Thank you guys for the advice remember, 3 big meals a day!


As for Yui, Im glad you came to vent. Its hard to keep that inside you. Dont let it consume you. Personally, even before quarantine, I had a lot of people drift away from me. Because of school and work. But to me, You are important not a simulation at all. You are as real as it gets and are a caring person. I can see that you are a helping hand to others air hugs by the way nice to meet you. Im new.


Are we allowed to use mimu for hotlines, etc?


in this channel


Also, Sonisunnay I'm really glad you considered joining welcome!


Also ! I don't think your aloud to


That's a shame


istu yay


It really hurts that I'll be on rapid testing coz one of my fam has been tested positive and I'm really afraid if I'm positive about the covid... I don't like being poke with injection coz I'm traumatised about it.. ahhh I can't stop thinking about it


UChiaki aww air hugs Im sorry to hear that. I hope they dont poke you or inject you with anything sharp. I hope they access you safely and not make you feel uncomfortable. Im sure you are gonna be okay. Just take deep breathes and try to distract yourself by doing something positive so that you dont think about injections too much.


Yeah


My parents keeps telling me I'm dramatic


And it starts tommorow


UChiaki air hugs you arent dramatic. Its your real feelings so I hope nothing but the best for you! Safety first


TW: Suicide


I cant do this.. I know we broke up but I still care about my ex... and finding out hes attempting to commit suicide because of how his life is falling apart? His sister told me this because she felt like I should know but I didnt take it well. I start crying so hard... I wish I stayed and supported him more. I feel like Im so selfish for not realizing the way he was treating himself.. Im so overwhelmed I cant even explain how I feel about it... I thought I was over him, I thought I was feeling free and happy.. but I just keep getting constant reminders about it and I just... what am I supposed to do? should I talk to him.. I want to be able to help him with some way...


@ chaennie talking to him is a better way


If you wanted to stop him for attempting suicide you shoul talk to him and just comfort him?


UChiaki


Youre right, I should talk to him and comfort him.. I dont think I want to hear news that he ended his life so soon.. I want to be there for him while I can and help him so it doesnt ever happen..


I will support you BB


Thank you:


im


deleted it


bruh..


@ Auvelle Doll! Q what happened


@ wholesome of the day! is rhere a number i can text because i feel horrible and i need someone to talk to


i dont want to die i just cant keep it in anymore


Im here


im hee


here to


i need a professional though


im here too


then not meh


Hm Ill go find some online numbers


They might not be the best tho, Im sorry


brb


yeah call your local mental health hotline


Yeah, mental health hotlines etc like the ones they sent


yoonchigga my dms are always open


mine too


i u just pinged again


dont quote peoples msg with the ping in.


p i n g


PING


OhgodhelpIgotintoafightwithmyfriendandIcanttellifitsajokeorshesliterallymadatmeforlikingananimecharacter


@ wholesome of the day!


U alright?


You ok?


what happened..?


So basically


We were talking


Then I'm like


shoto todoroki is hot


And she's just like your a stranger, don't talk to me then hung up


wow


thats mean


I don't know if it was a joke or


That's not good..even if you do or don't she should respect your opinion;;


The thing is


She's probably joking?


But she didn't go back into call then went offline


Maybe you should ask her and see if she comes back on?


Mk


She sent me


An picture


Of animal crossing characters saying You hear something?


Nope


must've been the wind.


She's not really ignoring me


Just


She isn't replying back


She's just sending me memes saying You hear something? or something like that


Aight I think she's joking


It wasn't like


Anything bad


Buy like


but it hurts anyways


But


I was sorta panicking.


Aight now I'm going back to thinking she's mad


She said yOu hAVe dOne An UnForgIvEaBlE sIn


Then I made a joke and she immediately went offline


We joke about these situations all the time but usually it doesn't go this far


She likes anime characters too but for some reason she's against the fact I find shoto hot


Mk.


I'm too scared to


What if she's joking?


Hey


Just tell her its not funny to like say stuff like that


It might not be easy, and you might be scared, but its for the best


if you think its going to far just tell her how you feel and that isn't funny, if she keeps going with it then shes just a fake friend


K so I really need help Im crushing mad hard on this guy and I really dont know what to do someone please help I need advice: @ wholesome of the day! sorry for ping:e


Okay well


Do you chat with him a lot?


Mhm


We talk all of the time


Daily and hourly


What do you guys say?


Are you best friends?


We kinda talk about a lot


o,o


Friends yes


Hmmm


the best thing to do if you're really close to him is confess, but reassure him that you'd want to stay friends otherwise


How long have you been friends?


3 years


Mhm, but you should be careful, too. Is there any sign of him liking you back?


Wow


Ahhh Im just too scared to do that


Yuh I'd say if you feel comfortable go for it.


Its okay! You can take your time to gather up courage


pastellia . He always teases me about liking my friend and I do the same to him


Go through your head about what you will say to him


Teasing is a good sign


As long ws it's nice teasing


As


Could say that too


I was gonna say like Celine likes you she told me” and pretend its my friend


Idk


Yeah hes just joking


The only way to know is to ask/confess


In the end there's no other way around it


Ahhh ty


Ly all of you


Np and good luck celunaria


Thank you!


Goodnight everyone, just remember if you are having a rough time and are scared about talking about it but it must be addressed or you need some advice or just need to talk to someone about how you feel don't worry even though these people in the server aren't professional but they can help you through what you're going through without having to pay for a therapist that helps you not as much instead of talking to someone your age that might understand what you're going through. These people helped me through some struggles, if you ever need to talk to someone or need to confess something that was weighing you down, Come here, no matter what we love you and will help you Have a Good night or day


And maybe your a helper here! If you are always helping others, maybe It would be good to come out too as you should know how effective just a few words from someone like you and how much you help us all


stop lying


He lost someone as great as you


Humans are selfish creatures. Are we not? Maslows theory of human needs tells us. People will ask for help but will not return the help if it does not benefit them. We always seek attention and it honestly isnt a bad thing. If we need help then we should seek it. Helping others is what I am here for as well. Please reconsider those negative thoughts as it is demeaning to your stature. Its okay to be selfish at sometimes but please if you have to be selfish dont be selfish in this way. for anyone whos thinking about committing suicide please reconsider.


I need help how to broke up with my bf coz he is being very toxic To me..


@ positivity reminder!


I'm sorry for the ping but I don't know what I'm gonna do rn


Ok


I'll help you


Oh


Hmm


Just say like this thank you so much for being in my life but Im very sorry i have to break up with you. Have a nice day goodbye


Idk what will I do to this I never had a bf


Or that


I have a boyfriend


IM A SINGLE PRINGLE


Oooh


So i get it


SOMEONE GIVE ME A BF


Girl


Chill


Having one is hard to deal with


Yea


True


Your time will be spent with him


Like the whole time


Mhm


But


Since he is my online boyfriend


Indeed


I'm gonna write a very very long paragraph how he treated me so bad


And how it hurts me


I cant do nothing but just to hope


Do it


whyikeepsayingindeed?;;


Yeah I've been a rebound so yeah I'm gonna end my love life


Oof


Your a brave girl!


I'm scareddd


why is this motivating me


Oops XD


YESH


This channel is to motivate


Wait ima go to write a very long paragraph


Byeee wish me luck


Don't you want like simple


I prefer short and simple


But he is been toxic and I wanted to tell him all my feelings about it


Ok


Good


Good luck


Thank you


can i talk about something similar too?


Suree


srry if this is overwhelming u


I'll be here to help everyone


well uh


my bf seems like he doesnt really care


Ghurl same


he just responds with oh or ok


Is it like a weird atmosphere on your chatting?


Does he always been like this since you two have this relationship?


1. wdym


2. nope


Gad it's the same...


Did you ask him if he's bored or tired?


Maybe talk to him?


I recommend asking him that


Before going any further


Since when he starts to be like this?


Communication is essential after all


idk but its not recent


hes like this after hes had a breakdown or after we fight


I think you should talk to him more often


Maybe he could be depressed or fatigued or even just not in the mood


Yea true


Yes talk to him about it


but the thing is


Don't make any rash decisions until you're sure what's causing him to reply with ok or oh


i feel like he'll get mad or blame himself


It doesn't hurt to ask


He should understand since he's with you


If he keeps saying that ok and oh just say like this why are you keeping saying that? Is there something wrong? Maybe i could help you, im your girlfriend and Im here to help you


But try not to be too upfront, just casually say Are you feeling okay? Is there anything bothering you or making you feel sad?


Something like that


Yea


Say it like soft and comfortable


Don't be afraid to ask him, you're his gf and are allowed to know what he's feeling


I havent chat with my boyfriend since my bday


Oofies


Im just getting worried about him


Ive been texting all day long


but how will he take it


will he understand what im saying


You'll have to find out


Ofc he will


Loco its hard to find out cuz he's my online boyfriend


There's no other way, you will have to tackle it head on


Yeah ofc


He said he's gonna be more active but its getting more quiet


Maybe it's growing apart?


It happens sometimes


Idk


Hmm, you can't really talk to him much so you can't know why


He's sister also used to use his account but this is really different


Loco yea


We kinda have a fight but were ok now


But


He's just like... Idk


Just the disadvantages of online dating huh?


Been there before many times


Yea


I wish you good luck and hope you find a solution for the both of you


Thank you


maybe i will talk to him about it


I did it!


I just send him the break up paragraph


if he says anything degrading you in anyway


dont listen to him


you know none of thats true


promies?


Yes promises


what does he mean by that


I don't know also


But he says harsh words


why are people so mean


no one deserves that


yeah


hes not the one


Why tho? If you truly love me then you can handle anything, i can already see your future, you wont probably have a ever lasting long relationship, because of this attitude


That's what he said


look whos talking


you're the one with the attitude


He is talking very harshly to me


he sure does have an ego


He is immature


savanus like what?


if hes going to treat you like that then he was never worth it in the first place, I would suggest blocking him which would be the most beneficial thing for your mental state


Did someone ping me in here?


Yes they did


UChiaki sorry for the ping but I'm very sorry he did that to you. He shouldn't have reacted that way and accepted the break up more peacefully. I hope you're okay.. tomorrow is another day


Thank you so much I'm done with him btw Im gonna move on and start my new self tomorrow


I hope youre ok now. 3


Yikes


That's a yucky person


air hugs Im glad you are done with him. A new self is a selfloving self. Toxicity is gone so Im glad


How many times am I going to recieve a phone call from telemarketers and robocallers?


More than 1 times


I get it now a days at random from 2 to 20 times a day.


Gosh no wonder why I am always Sceptical about phone calls.


And it is mostly robocalls that keeps on going like: Stand a chance to win 1 Million Dollars worth of airtime; press 1 right now Infinite Loop. I end the call, because I am not interested for airtime, nor am I interested for money


And Telemarketers going like: Hello, can I speak to Mr Young? and I keep on telling them: I am sorry, you have got a wrong number. And they continue on like it is Mr Young's number, so I ended the call.


Sorry if I sound angry about it; I just needed to vent.


Yes. More than 1 times.


uuu... I am getting the feeling something intriguing is going to happen...


oop


I need to get something off my chest, TW,


someone pinned their suicide on me. i dont wanna talk about it but i needed to get it off my chest.


i feel bette now after saying it.


thats good, at least you got it out of your system, i'm glad you were able to speak up about it


Thank you so much


Uh hi, so Im here I kinda went through a break up yesterday. I really cant tell if Im over him or not, bur I kinda do miss him a lot, and the fact that the break up was so out of the blue kinda hurt me.. A a a a a Ill be okay I think


Really really short vent bc my brain cant process much


I feel you. I dont even know what to say. But take care of yourself girl. You need some care and love around you esp when times are tough  @ M u y


@ positivity reminder! pls help me,my mom just talked to me and got angry about me idk what will I Doo? Can y'all help me calm down? Nor be responsible?


Why is she mad?


She's mad about my studies


Hmmm


I passed my module that's incomplete


My mom is also mad at my studies too


awh


Idk what to do


I think you should enjoy while your studying


That's the problem


I don't have to enjoy studying


My eyes are always in my phone


calm down, you can do it! think of positive things, like you can get ur dream job


I can't get rid of it


You can study in your phone tho


She may cancel my studies


And I'll be stuck in grade 8 again


Nor may not be study anymore


Just try your best while study


Put the phone away


And focus


But I wanna listen to music tho


You can hear music while studying:D


Hmm I guess I try that


I'm really crying rn


You can take a rest


Or hear music


I used to do that when Im crying


Hmm...


That helps me


I guess I'll try that:


Okk


Thx for the tips himari:3


No prob


Its 12:00 AM


And Im crying like a lost kid


Smh


Rip


Break ups here and there


Youll be fine my dear, if not today then tomorrow youll


It happened two days ago


And no cap


Im attached to him


Im trynna detach myself but its really hard to do so


stop worrying so much i guess.


thank you i really needed that


Noticed and read Ashli's Message about Comfychoo... This seems very intriguing... However, Ashli has a point, and Ashli might have someone to team up with her. I have to admit, intriguing stuff most of the time interests me, but Comfychoo? They will definitely be blacklisted. All I need is evidence and their Server ID, and the Blacklist reasons. I hope you do not mind sending those to me, I would like to help support your server. Ping me when you have decided Is it fine?Y/N


MegaPlasma dont you put that in questions?


this is venting


Oh, sorry...


no its not ur fault


even i dnt know where it belongs


Oh ok.


If you are ever feeling like you don't matter check pinned messages and remember, cheesu luvs you


@ wholesome of the day! Hi chu a qt


Im fine but Ive been better you ash?


youre all mega super duper ultra cuties and I hope youre all taking care of yourselves to the best of your ability!


lub you all


@. Venting Helpers . Hi chu a qt


@ Ashi On Break no you


@ Ashi On Break


692408.666330103968 Hi chu a qt


@ .Ashi 6666 noo


You're more cute


ms.dak.i0472 tysm


You too


Hi...


O


so


i have been going through alot for the past few years


and


i feel left out


like always


nothing ever happened in my life that felt special to me


like litteraly anything


not even a small gift


everyone always hated me.


Sometimes when my mom is mad at me, she yells at me and asks me DONT WE GIVE YOU EVERYTHING YOU WANT?” And i have to say yes, bc thats exactly what she wants to hear, but its NOT


they NEVER give me anything i want


nothing


And so im thinking about... su ciD E


Nobody has ever given me anything special


maybe one of you will..


@ wholesome of the day!


No no no don't think that way


Aw..


Don't do a side pls


Don't do it please


There are so many people that care about you


Mhm..


wait


trigger warning


something that might trigger some people


We will always love you..


Dont do it please..


no..


nobody likes me


everyone calls me toxic


I've been in your shoes before


With friends


The best thing to do is to let go


Not only friends


Hey listen dont think of sde as ur first answer. Maybe try finding new people and get to know them. My DMs are open and I would love to be ur friend. But Im just saying we are always here for and Ily


Oh


Yeah what Chefy said


My dms are closed atm but you can friend me


Hang in there you can do it, have you tried manifesting? If not Ill try manifesting for you!


Yui hug Sia 3


Whats manifesting


Like asking for what you want


Aww


Anything


Aww air hugs tightly Dont ever think that your life is not precious. It is wonderful and we care about you. Tell her the truth, that everything isnt tangible. You need hugs. You need someone to listen and not have to say anything but just be present. Im here for you!


Basically ANYTHING


Ok...


that


means alot


to


Please dont just because it seems like its so bad you want to take an attempt dont. You have your whole life ahead of you, and who knows how great it would get. But please just be safe and dont take an attempt.. even though Im a total stranger to you I care about you. Nobody should take their life because every life is precious and we shouldnt take advantage of it. Because there are people that want to live but cant, and you have that choice to live your life to the fullest. Sia 3


m


me


I've lost someone to suicde before and it hurts


and I barely know them


Ill try doing it for you! 3


Please don't do it


You have people who care for you


Like we do


You guys..


are the best people


i have ever talked to


Its no problem, its just that sucide is a strong thing to think about.


to me


suicide feels like nothing


The small gift we can give you now is our words and support. You are always welcomed to say what you need and know that we will talk it through air hugs


Its taking your life away, its not being able to see how beautiful the world is anymore. Its leaving your friends behind


What about your family?


And the people that care about you behind


They would be sad if you did it


nnothing..


o


So yeah I believe that its a strong topic to think about. Even if it seems like nothing


Taking your life is a biiig choice


Trust me people would miss you


t r u s t m e


Hey hang in there for us. If u needs talk more my DMs are open 24/7


The word feels like nothing but its you” that we think about. You are so precious and beautiful. You arent toxic at all. You just were missing us in your life


My dms are closed but you can send me a friend request


My dms are always open


gnn


Good night


Stay safe!


so me and my ex had broke up like a month ago orr like a weeks ago? i kinda forgot but once we had broken up ive really been just upset about it and my mental health has been all over the place and i some days i dont get even get out of bed like that, and ive also been just upset about me and him breaking up and when we had first broken up i was just overthinking about so much like he didnt ever like me and hes glad we broke up and just a whole bunch of other stuff and i really hadnt had anyone to vent to about this because my friends told me basically they didnt want to hesr me complaining about him and stuff.. and some one of my friends arent really any help so ive been just keeping this to myself for a while and its also really hard for me to stop thinking about him and its honestly like super hard for me to let him go and move on


and people are just telling me like my friends well get over it move on but its really not that easy to get over someone whove you honestly been super attached to, its really hard to face reality well for me and just accept their not coming back or anything


like i even wish i can get over him quickly


and whats annoying is when i actually try and slightly kinda do he just pops up in a server im in


imma spoiler this just in case we arent allowed to talk about it


i blacklisted sayumi for the comfychoo thing when nii blacklisted, and now that i heard sayumi's side im indecisive . both sides are too good to be true how the heck am i supposed to know who should be blacklisted bro should it be both? just comfychoo? just sayumi? or just none at all..


@.SYO I first off think that you should blacklist comfychoo and thats it. but if you dont want to risk it just do none at all. Maybe you should ask in questions bc thats why the channel is there after all.


@.SYO It just depends, which server hurt the other, or which one caused the most damage.


the server whom caused the most damage during the mass blacklist, is the one whom deserves it


both sides are wrong, but if you think about it, which side was the one whom went overboard


and that'll give you the answer on who to blacklist, and who to not.


I did not, like the fact that sayumi name was painted on as a highly toxic server, so I told my side of the story. And I will not be called toxic for it nor, a liar because every bit information is true.


Even when, comfychoo decided to paint my adminstrators as if their manipulators, but at the end they weren't. It was only them being toxic, not my staff.


So, I do not care, if people blacklist sayumi, I've told my story, because I dislike onesided stories, they will never get you anywhere but lies.


And that's what comfychoo did, they aren't innocent nor is sayumi, but the fact they called sayumi toxic, when they have over 30 pages on toxicity, along with slurs racism and other nsfw topics. So I find it hypocritcal how they put us down over 34 pages of nsfw, when they had 5x more of it.


You have to trust yourself, and see who's telling the real truth and who's just throwing information, just to throw it for entertianment, and attention and not defending.


Ugh I feel like my mom always blames me


She gets mad when i do or say anything


I'm really annoyed by it


She never listens to me


She embarasses me in public


I never wanted her to come to my school because I feared she was gonna yell at me in front of my cladd


Class


She never listens


For some reason I'm always in trouble


She always compares as well


She never changes


Sometimes her words are harsh too


Im sorry to hear that your mother acts the way she does. Have you tried talking with her? Having a one on one conversation? I know they wont always listen, but its better to give them that type of reminder. If she continues to not listen I suggest contacting your school councilor for help. They can really help. Trust me, I would know.


Mothers...mothers can be irrational. They dont tend to our needs 100 of the time. But Im sure your mother tries her hardest to be the best mother she can. But in some cases, this isnt true. Every child deserves a mother, but not every mother deserves a child.


Just, sit down and talk with her. If she ignores what you have told her, contact your school counselor.


2009 im going through the same thing.. well that is a part of all im going through and my dms are open, so if you wanna talk to me, im free. Because i understand what you are going through.


Thanks guys


But she's not the type to have a convo


She gets mad


She gets mad when she doesn't understand stuff roo


Too


2009 its ok my mom too..


There's not one day I don't cry or argue with my mom


I'm seriously sick of it


She doesn't even listen


Whatever I say is talking back


She always complains we dont do stuff


Even tho we help her


I get sometimes it's my fault too


But I'm really fed up with it


When I even try to talk


Have you tried sitting with her a telling her your feeling?


She finds me annoying


do you mind if i agree with you?


And doesn't wanna hear it


I do


Well


Let me think


I try to tell her what she does but she just gets mad


She always gets mad


Well then you gotta treat her the simp treatment


It's kinda sad how kpop make me more happy


Just say yes to everything she says


Than my own mim


Mom


Well just try to ignore what she says and try not to argue with her too much


Also try to avoid her but not too much so it's not suspicious


I can't even be in my own room


She gets suspicious of me


Tell her that it's your privacy


Sometimes what she says really hurts


I have no privacy


I literally


One time


Went downstairs with my tablet


To check on the kittens


And she got so suspicious of me


Like i was a spy or something


She never comforts me


I always reside to the internet


That's why I'm attached I guess


I'm on my phone a lot and my laptop because it makes me happy


Well just try to force your privacy


She doesn't like junk either


I made her a bday card


She just threw it away


She always compares me


She also embarrasses me in public


I can be looking at something


To like buy


And she says I'm slow


And she gets mad


I always end up crying at a store


I was CRYING in the mall


Don't get out with her


Stay home


Or go with your friends if she let's you.


Which I doubt


Nope


Well then stay home


What will she do? Drag you out?


She even got mad at me for


Staying at my cousins


She was like didnt you just go


Do you wanna live with her now


I have to go


Because my sister goes sometimes


And i can't stay home alone


I can try to avoid an argument


She just brings it to me


I feel like she just fights because she is bored


Like i would be doing nothing and she'd get mad


Well then just have patience till you become 18 and just bounce away


True


I just need to be more patient


Honestly I need to bottle up my anger


No no no


Don't bottle up your anger


Try to express it in another way


What do you like doing?


Like your Hobby


I mean


I play games but like


Art


Dancing


But I don't wanna sing in my house


2009 well try to express your feelings in art or dancing


Ah ok that sounds nice


you ever feel like you are having a rough time check pinned messages


Hey...


Hey!


My boyfriend sometimes makes me mad. I see that he is online for hours but he dont even say me good morning. I think I dont even come to his mind unless i text him. Im thinking that I wont text him for a couple of days, and Im quite sure that he wont text me at least 23 days. If he does, I will talk to him.


Trying to not communicate in a relationship is just a no no, you should try communicating like eden said and if he doesnt seem to care or even try to respond clearly they arent worth your time


I feel empty. I don't remember when I last felt happy, or anything, even. I just feel like life is beating me up until I can't, won't, fight back anymore. And I feel too depressed to keep fighting and I'm starting to think everything would've been better for everyone if I just never existed. Not that I died, that would just hurt, more than do good. No, if I just didn't ever exist, all of my problems would be solved. There wouldn't be anything to hurt me more. I wouldn't hurt my friends, family and loved ones more than I have. Sure, I would be more lonely but at least I would be saving others the energy of trying to aid my hopeless attempt at life. My friends wouldn't have been held back by me, my family wouldn't have to pay for me, my meds, my therapy, and the food and water that I don't deserve. Everyone has worked so hard to help me for no reason. I don't deserve it. There's nothing I've done to help them as much as they've done to help me. And I've still failed them. Even with their help.


For: the 0 people who care and the thousands who cant relate


@ wholesome of the day!


Aww..


I know you are strong!


But I dont


You are strong and loved! You can fight it again! I know you can do it


But I don't think I can


I don't believe I can


You havent failed them. A lot of ppl have support from their family members. You deserve ppl to care for you. air hugs being empty is normal tho I honestly have friends be in your shoes and not existing would def be a sad thing. I spread love to you and I just hope that you write out more about what frustrates you and what you feel makes you feel this way. There are so many things you can do small things that is always helpful. Please dont ever feel like your existence isnt enough it is enough


You have to stay strong. All this may be tearing you into pieces, making you weak, but you gotta put yourself back together. I really do feel the same, but you have to know you are loved and appreciated for what you're already doing. You could be helping someone without even trying to, you're existence could be helping someone. You never know, so don't think you're existence isn't worth anything. Don't think you don't deserve anything good, that's not a healthy mindset. You deserve lots of good things, i just know it. Trust me, you're not alone, some of us could be feel the same thing, and we will fight with you. I will fight with you. Continue to battle all this, i believe in you.


I'm sure I'm not alone but you know how everyone is unique? Nobody knows what it's like to be in my particular situation. I haven't worked for anything and when I have, I've failed. I've hurt my friends more than helped, hurt my family more than helped, hurt everyone and haven't helped. And they still help me. They still support me, pay for me, house me, even though all I've done is hurt. If I died, I would be gone but my parents, friends, family, would all suffer and I don't want that. If I never existed, all my pain would be gone, all the damage I've done would never happen, all the people that spent their energy on my lost cause would use it on something worth while. I know that there are people who feel the same, but nobody has done the same awful things I have


I don't deserve everything I have but I can't give it back


I feel trapped. I can't go back and decide not to exist, though I wish I could, and I don't want to die because it'll only cause more damage. I can't do anything. I have a therapist already, and everything I would need to be normal. To be stable, but I'm still not. Ive let everyone in my life down by existing and wasting their time.


you are fine


you let no one down


just be calm


I've tried


take a deep breath in and out


and try doing some activities like sports or games


That doesn't help


Everyone suggests ways to get better, to feel better, and I've only let them down more, because none of them work


you are not letting anyone down when it doesn't work


air hugs Your hurt is yours only yes. Everyone is unique because ultimately youre right Im not in your shoes but I honestly feel that love is the best thing to give back. It is intangible and its something you can always give. Ppl love thank you or even your presence is what is needed. I think being able to just self love is what you need the most. The resources are there yes and It takes time to even grasp what you can think is normal but Just know that you arent wasting anyones time. Being trapped is a mental force field, you can always walk out of it.


watch this phoenix


oh I can't post links


ROAD TO REDEMPTION Tyson Fury


Watch it


This is really sweet. I'll sleep on it. Thank you all


I'll talk to my therapist more later


I really appreciate the effort


Sleep well everyone


I appreciate you Phoenix for writing


Or have a good day ig


I hope you sleep well much love to you


Bye


Im sorry for any spelling mistakes because Im crying when typing this. But my pet fish died. He meant the world and much more to me and everyone he knew. Rip Tom. 20192020...


Awww its ok let it


Out


I know how it feels for a pet to die


I had hermit crabs


but they died


Hello, my friend kept a lot of secrets from me and I don't know what to say


It's okay


You don't have to know everything about your friend


And they don't have to know everything about you


That's how you keep a healthy relationship and don't risk them turning up on you and telling your secrets


Yeah but


the secrets are like really hurtful


For example, like she talks behind my back


That's not good


Yeo


Yep


What else?


That's the only one


One secret I mean


Hmm


Well then if they keep talking behind your back then you need to confront them about it


That's what I got


Goodbye


okayyyluis if she talks about you behind your back, you should confront her about it. you don't need thst negativity in your life, you deserve better. tell her how you feel and if she doesn't apologize or stop, you need better friends


Ive had someone talk behind my back before


SouthGamer they're unhealthy, stay away from people that do that. i would usually give them a second chance if it was a long time ago, but depending on what they did u should get out of that toxic relationship. don't trust them with anything


just be calm and find better friends


Thanks.


I sorta have to go back to school soon and I don't know how to socialize and I stutter alot and everything I end up doing makes me look dumb does anyone have any socializing advice


@ wholesome of the day!


O h


That's hard


don't think so much about what others think of you! you probably think everuone is judging you, but they aren't! i promise you. think of a random girl or boy sitting down eating lunch, are you going to spend all your time thinking about him and judging all his flaws? no you arent! don't care what other people think of you, just be you. make some friends. don't overthink, just act confidently and they'll believe you are. if someone is sitting alone, go up to them and introduce urself! if someone doesn't like you, then who cares. there's always someone who won't like you and always someone who will like you, you can't control other people's opinions!


istu oh hey yui I'm currently going to a French school and I don't know much French and they don't know any English or other languages I go around not worrying at all and ignoring anyone who laughs at my mistakes and I try to focus on learning so maybe you should do that!


why do you worry about what other people think


Alright, I'll keep that in mind, but I've been told it's like impossible to talk to me irl because how awkward I make everything


you're probably going to think oh they're laughing at me because anxiety gives you that feel if everyone's thinking of you


i promise you they aren't


Don't go to school to make friends, go to school to learn!


just be chill


if you act confident, they'll see you as confiden


Akiro correct


istu then prove them wrong


you could be scared inside, but put a brave face on and a smile


By not talking to anyone and letting them come to you


i promise u it's gonna be okay!


But I have good friends


Believe me you'll be better minding your own business there


yes


then talk w your friend group but also be nice to others


if someone needs help, offer them help


But shouldn't she/he be able to be their selfs?


Yeah


smile at them and make their day


compliment smth about them


then people will like u and be more comfortable around u


Averi yeah but not around the wrong people


Do you guys know how to get rid of stuttering?


don't be nervous


just don't overthink what you're saying


try to get the words to flow on your mind and don't be scared to say anything


I'll try


you can practice the words in your head as well


before you say them


istu before doing anything just know that it'll be alright and count from 1 to 5 or 3 then say go in your head and talk


It doesn't matter if you stutter that's normal


istu be calm and practice what your going to say before hand!


Alright


Also good luck with school


Thank you.


Bring in the good grades.


np hunni!


Helge not all schools


So boring


Not all schools.


ofc not all schools


Depends on where you're living.


I live in australia


Like schools here are pretty cool


Oh


That makes sense


istu look you're not going to school to get compliments you're going there to learn so ignore everything they say about you because some people will never have enough.


Anyway I gotta figure out how to read this French book


Cya later


cya


Good luck!


Bonne chance sur votre FranCais


I come online to escape from some form of reality and I put on a facade, a happy one only ever showing someone I wished to be and not who I actually was. Its much easier to control yourself online sometimes, so people end up seeing the better side of me and liking only the better side of me. If they knew the other side they wouldnt like me the same anymore and sometimes its so hard keeping up this facade pretending to be happy when Im lowkey hurt at what they said but know that they dont mean it. I always pretend to be happy


nego scaramouche superiority everyone can relate... We all put on our happy masks but sometimes you need to take it off and show the real you to the people you're pretending to.


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Read my text please


It got deleted..


AKAKU MOESAKARU what was the text?


It was a pretty big text


About my anxiety, my depression, my panic attacks and my insecurities


I guess here you cant talk about it


Oh thanks i just did it


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I dont vent but this is something that I really just need to talk to someone with


Please dont read if you arent comfortable with bulling, abuse, racism or self harm.


I have this friend” who is really abusive


He hits, punches, kicks and pushes me


He insults me, is racist to me and makes fun of me behind my back to my only friend


He also excludes me from hanging out with my only friend


He intentionally makes my friends ignore me


And he is one of the reason my anxiety is so bad now because I fear that he going to take away all my friends and hurt me


And I cant tell my friends because they all just dont believe me even though he has bullied them as well


And I cant tell any teachers because they will tell him I told them which will make him more angry


I cant tell my parents because if they find out Im friends with a boy I will get in trouble


Not only does he force me to show him my arms something I dont like to show people because of stuff I did in the past he makes fun of me for being self conscious of them


Ive attempted once because of him


And it makes me want to actually succeed because not matter what I do


No one believes me and none of my friends will actually support me and help me confront him about it


Sorry if this was super long...


@ wholesome of the day!


you should contact the police about this


I dont know...I dont want to get anyone in trouble


they will listen and do something about it definitely