Where does joy come from? According to one source, it does not come from having a house with a three car garage or a nice boat or many other things associated with success. Rather it comes from making a difference in another person's life, or creating something of value.

This concept may be difficult for many people to accept. I am not saying you cannot have a house with a three car garage. However, I am saying there is little true joy derived from the house or other similar possessions. I believe part of joy is having a friend or family member you can share your intermost concerns with and having them trust to also share with you.

Life in 2013 is very complex. Social media have created an atmosphere where sounds and images are a part of individuals' lives from the time they awaken until the time they go to sleep. Can it be different? Many job requirements dictate sound and images in our lives. However, I believe the time off the job can have reduced sound and images if one makes an effort. Try to find a way to replace thouse sounds and images with joy.

Meredith Fouche

Sharpsburg, Md.