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Birth Order Patterns

Each person is born with a distinct character and special gift that distinguishes them from every other person in the family tree and society. When this inner capacity for goodness is identified, acknowledged and nurtured in childhood, it brings strength to society and success to the child. From this platform of success, the child is better equipped to master the challenges of life and experience happiness in relationships..

The unique qualities defined by gender and birth order are also observed through body type, personality. and creative expression This model allows for a deeper understanding of the essential goodness of each person and the subtle nuances of their personality. This greater level or understanding allows parents guardians and teachers to more specifically respond to, guide and support children towards the fulfillment of the purpose for which they were conceived.

There are twelve basic and pure patterns in the birth order, six masculine and six feminine. These are the cornerstones upon which the endless variations of individuality and genius are created.

All twelve of these sacred patterns are within each person, but are combined and expressed in completely original ways. These patterns are also represented by the systems, organs and glands of the human body. These patterns are even present in the dynamics of every group regardless of it size or purpose.

Sibling sequences and the behavioral patterns they imply are universal. The patterns transcend cultural influences and social status. These energetic wonders can be observed in the Kingdom of Nature. The appreciation of the mystery in Birth Order will deepen your reverence and enliven your joy for this divinely inspired universe in which we all live.

Use and combine these brief descriptions found below. There are two main influences: Birth Position and Gender Number. Birth Position is the primary factor and is counted as the number of older siblings you have from your father, plus one. This is the "Number X after a firstborn [Boy/Girl]" If the first child in your family (your father's first child) is a boy, use the left column for Birth Position. If it is girl, use the right column.

You will find that if you are the same gender as your father's firstborn with no opposite gender siblings older than you, you will experience the described traits in a doubly strong way.

If you have older siblings of opposite gender, you will find that two of the categories apply to you! The secondary factor is the Gender Number, which is the number of older siblings you have of the same gender as you, plus one. If you are male, the secondary description is the one on the left (Nth Son); if you are female, it is the one on the right (Nth Daughter). Use this described trait pattern as a modifier to the primary description (Nth Sibling). The seventh child has the characteristics of the number one child as the sequence repeats itself.


Birth Order Patterns

Birth Position #1


First Son

First Daughter

Expressive Mode




"The Dreamer", "The Independent"

"Matriarch Problem Solver"


Mentally Detached, Inward Creative

Strong-Willed, Mature, Family-Oriented

Needs from Parents

Respect, Listening, Freedom, Time

Play, Trust, Closeness, Stability

Parental Relationships

Father's Teacher, Mother's Protector

Competes with Mother, Directs Father

Ideally Becomes

Leader, Public Server, Visionary

Positive Leader, Teacher, Mother

When Imbalanced

Silently Rebellious, Self Sabotaging

Serious, Controlling, Dominant

Energetic Essence

Humility, Self-Actualized

Pure Love of Life

Nature Symbol

Cloud/Mountain, Grass, Eagle

Mother Bird, Mineral Kingdom, Mountain

Birth Position #2


#2 After Firstborn Boy
or 2nd Son

#2 After Firstborn Girl
or 2nd Daughter

Expressive Mode




"The Champion", "The Underdog/Achiever"

"The Priestess", "The Creative"


Emotionally Determined, Physical, Strong

Emotion/Detached, Subtle, Self-Aware

Needs from Parents

Direction, Physical Interaction, Limits

Respect, Fantasy, Space, Gentleness

Parental Relationships

Wants Father, Repels Mother

Self-Reliant, Sensitive, Independent

Ideally Becomes

Goal-Oriented, Competitive, Achieving

Designer, Success Oriented, Softly Alert

When Imbalanced

Angry, Blaming, Reactive, Cynical

Loner, Doubtful, Manipulative, Moody

Energetic Essence

Excitement, Success Embodied

Pure Essence of Feminine Mystery

Nature Symbol

Bull, Horse, Fire, Volcano

Jaguar, Water, Quiet Lake, Hawk

Birth Position #3


#3 After Firstborn Boy
or 3rd Son

#3 After Firstborn Girl
or 3rd Daughter

Expressive Mode




"The Chess master", "The Chameleon"

"Earth Goddess", "Daughter of Solomon"


Quietly Clever, Social Mediating, Quick

Community Aware, Physical, Traditional

Needs from Parents

Challenge, Alertness, Inner Mechanics

Information, Nature, Involvement, Touch

Parental Relationships

Shy, Slippery, Balances Parents

Preserves Life, Extends Social Stability

Ideally Becomes

Strategist, Controller, Advisor

Healer, Community Resource, Judge

When Imbalanced

Manipulative, Secretive, Unethical

Blocked, Dependent, Critical, Willful

Energetic Essence

Fluid Movement of Social Connections

Pure Experience of Feminine Nurturing

Nature Symbol

Fox, Fish, Coyote, Weasel, River

Plant Kingdom, Big Tree, Valley

Birth Position #4


#4 After Firstborn Boy
or 4th Son

#4 After Firstborn Girl
or 4th Daughter

Expressive Mode




"Mr. Charisma, "The Jokester"

"The Mystic", "The Aware One"


Social, Physical, Uplifting, Active

Transforming, Mentally Futuristic, Global

Needs from Parents

Attention, Optimism, Creativity

Recognition, Emotional Support, Privacy

Parental Relationships

King-like, Brings Life to Parents, to Society

Changes Values, Challenges Parents

Ideally Becomes

Entertainer, Leader, Organizer

Inspired Visionary, Teacher, Philosopher

When Imbalanced

Reckless, Demanding, Depressed

Suffering Recluse, Reckless, Rebellious

Energetic Essence

True Masculinity of the Heart

Pure Grace and Forgiveness

Nature Symbol

Large Tree, Thunder, Dolphin, Songbird, Elk

Rose, Butterfly, Wolf, Lightning

Birth Position #5


#5 After Firstborn Boy
or 5th Son

#5 After Firstborn Girl
or 5th Daughter

Expressive Mode




"The Artist", "The Servant"

"The Compassionate"," The Blessing"


Quiet, Gentle, Giving

Physically/Socially Sensitive, Gentle

Needs from Parents

Independence, Compassion, Touch

Support, Broad Vision

Parental Relationships

Innocent, Obedient, Eases Parents

Eases Parenting, Quiets Family

Ideally Becomes

Server, Artisan, Mechanical

Innocent, Caring Servant, Earthy

When Imbalanced

Confused, Dependent, Withdrawn

Confused, Reactive, Overwhelmed

Energetic Essence

Brings Beauty and Peace to All

Pure Tenderness of the Heart

Nature Symbol

Lamb, Fawn, Leaf, Sand

Animal Kingdom, Soft Sunlight, Dove

Birth Position #6

Group Dynamic

#6 After Firstborn Boy
or 6th Son

#6 After Firstborn Girl
or 6th Daughter

Expressive Mode




"The Authority", "The General"

"The Princess", "The Illuminated"


Aware, Dynamic, Commanding, Outward

Socially/Religiously Sensitive

Needs from Parents

Wisdom, Integrity, Truth

Patience, Spiritual Guidance, Freedom

Parental Relationships

Moves, Directs, Challenges Parents

Increases Awareness, Changes

Ideally Becomes

Builder, Political Mover, Inventor

Awakened, Successful, Prophetic

When Imbalanced

Dictator, Ruthless, Narrow-minded

Demanding, Arrogant, Isolated

Energetic Essence

Focused Fusion

Pure Centered Silence

Nature Symbol

Majestic, Nova, Earthquake

Fragrance, Faint Star, Vastness, Birds

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