Ask the Dog Trainer: Watch your dog for information

VERO BEACH - I find it amazing that we live with dogs and share our homes with dogs, but we spend so little time paying attention to what our dogs are telling us. Our canine companions are always watching us for information about how we feel, what we are doing and whether or not they will be included. Even with our bigger brains, we do not understand what our dogs are saying.

I think the big problem is people are so verbal. If the information isn't given to us in words, humans seem unable to connect. Dogs communicate through body language. They are eloquent in their postures and expressions. But because they are not verbal, we don't get the message.

In Dr. Patricia McConnell's book "The Other End of the Leash," she talks about the primate desire for ventral to ventral contact. Primates like to hug. Ever see dogs hug? Canine ventral to ventral contact usually means hostility is eminent. Even with my own dogs, if they are playing and it progresses to up on their hind legs sparring, I know I need to stop the play before it escalates. Yet how many of us hug dogs? Even strange dogs? Ever watch the dog? They often turn away, move away or perhaps even curl their lips. Yes, your dog might have gotten used to you hugging it, but it is an acquired taste.

Do you know staring and direct eye contact is threatening to dogs? Many dogs will look away, but some will aggress. When two dogs lock eyes, it is often the beginning of a confrontation. Bending over a dog and hovering or reaching for them is threatening as well as is putting your face in theirs. Again, your dog might be ok with you. But that doesn't mean every well-meaning stranger should be able to hover and intrude on their personal space.

I often think we hold dogs to an unrealistic standard. We expect them to accept handling, petting and a general invasion of their immediate area pretty much regardless of the situation. I know I don't like strangers in my personal space. It seems like dogs should be allow the same rights.

Take some time to observe dogs and their behavior. It is fascinating to watch how they respond to our advances. It will make you a better dog lover, whether you have a pet or not.

Cissy Sumner of Best Behavior Dog Training is Vero's first Certified Professional Dog Trainer-Knowledge and Skills Assessed and Certified Behavior Counselor Canine-Knowledge Assessed. If you have a training or behavior question, email Cissy at or visit for additional information.
