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21_123
Yeah, yeah, relaxed.
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21_125
Um, no, not really. Like I said, I don't drink that much-
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21_127
So, I-I wouldn't be able to tell you.
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21_129
Um, definitely, yeah. I mean, when I'm at parties and stuff and it's getting a little later, some people, um, that drink-- Like, drank too much, they start throwing up, or they get hurt, or they're really loud and obnoxious, and that's not fun for anybody.
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21_131
Yeah.
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21_133
Yeah.
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21_135
Yeah.
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21_137
Um, no, I mean, I've never, you know, been friends with anybody that's gotten into like a serious accident and stuff. It's just-
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21_139
-very, like, obnoxious things.
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21_141
Yeah.
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21_143
Um, I know it's definitely risky, but, I mean, I guess, we still do it. [chuckles]
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21_145
It's just there.
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21_147
Um, well, definitely not in my family life, because my parents don't really condone-
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21_149
-alcohol use, but, friendships, I mean, when I'm hanging out with my friends, or we're at a party or something, there's usually alcohol involved.
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21_151
Yeah.
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21_153
I guess, I mean, since it's just there.
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21_155
So-
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21_157
-it ties in with the whole belonging thing.
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21_159
Um, it probably will have a very small role, if any-
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21_161
-in my life, considering I have big plans for my future. So.
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21_163
I mean, I don't think I would be, you know, drinking as much or going to parties as much if I'm studying for school, or in college, or trying to get in law school and things like that.
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21_165
Yeah, definitely.
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21_167
Um, maybe less than I am now. I mean, I don't drink much anyway, so-
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21_169
-maybe, like, one drink every once in a blue moon.
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21_171
Yeah, definitely.
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21_173
For sure.
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21_175
Well, I mean, I guess right now I would try to stop in high school, and once I get older, maybe just like, socially once in a while, but not anything big or anything.
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21_177
Definitely, yeah. That's a good word.
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21_179
Maybe a five or six.
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21_181
Because, um, it's not something I do not care about at all, but it's not something that's just constantly on my mind that I want to change about myself.
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21_183
Yeah, yeah. Definitely.
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21_185
Um, I'm pretty confident that I can considering that I'm not really an alcohol user per se.
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21_187
I'm not really into that whole scene, so, it's-it's not gonna bedifficult for me.
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21_189
Um, on a scale of 1 to 10-
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21_191
-if I can quit or not?
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21_193
Maybe like an 8 or 9.
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21_195
Because, like I said, it's not a big part of my life. So, it's not really that difficult
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21_197
Yes.
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21_199
Um, probably to stop, maybe next party I go to, not have a drink at all.
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21_201
Yeah. I mean, I can just tell my friends-- My pa-- My friends aren't really that pressuring.
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21_203
It's just like outside people that I don't really know that well.
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21_205
So, I could just tell them, "Hey, I don't feel like having a drink today."
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21_207
Um, definitely, I'll have like all my senses there and I'll be aware of everything that's going on.
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21_209
Um, health concerns, I guess. I know alcohol is bad for your health.
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21_211
So, that would be one.
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21_213
Yeah.
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21_215
Yeah, that would be okay.
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21_217
Yeah.
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21_219
Right.
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21_221
Um, how would you, um, advise me to like get maybe my friends to stop drinking?
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21_223
Okay, yeah.
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21_225
Oh okay.
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21_227
Yeah, that's a good idea.
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21_229
Yeah, for sure.
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21_231
I mean-
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21_233
-I was just planning on telling them that I don't really want to drink anymore. That wasn't me.
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21_235
So.
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21_237
Yeah. I mean, at least my closest friends, for sure.
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21_239
No. No, I think I'm okay.
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21_241
Okay.
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21_243
Okay, great. Thanks.
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21_245
Yeah.
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21_247
No problem.
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22_1
Yes, um, my top value is family happiness, um, that's-
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22_3
-that's number one to me, especially now. I usually do this values clarification sheet, like, every two to three months-
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22_5
-just to see if anything changed, and every time it has changed.
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22_7
Yes.
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22_9
Yes, it's the most important because it's a little lacking, so I know that that's something that is very important to me.
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22_11
Yeah. Um, I can just pretty much say that my family hasn't been on one accord, so, like, if-- I feel like if we all just can fall in the middle, which I know everybody doesn't really follow that track. So, um, I think for my part, 'cause I can't change anybody, is to be more present and, um, just listen and understand my family members, and-and be able to voice what I feel as far as how important family happiness-happiness is to me.
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22_13
Yes.
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22_15
Yeah.
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22_17
And I want them to know how important it is to me, especially now, and I do this, like I said, every two to three months just to see where I am.
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22_19
And, um, these definitely are different from-
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22_21
-what I usually pick.
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22_23
Um, and then the second one I said is religion. Um, it was number one at first, um, but somehow with a big situation that happened in my family you kind of lose sight of your faith a little bit, which is normal. And not a lot of people-- They, uh-- Well, in my church home, i-it just seems like, "Oh, you lost touch of God, oh my gosh, you're the devil."
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22_25
You know? And it's kind of like, well we all face those challenges every day, we're not perfect, you know? And I feel like my faith is still there but it's-- You know, as long as it's still there, that's all that matters.
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22_27
Yeah. I lost faith, and so I'm not afraid to say it.
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22_29
You know? And once you say [unintelligible 00:03:12] people that don't really feel like that's—
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22_31
Yeah, I know that.
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22_33
I know that it's normal.
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22_35
Yeah, well, it's a—
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22_37
Yeah, it's like a shock to them when you say something like that. And it's like, "Well, we all go through things where we're just not sure, and--" I still have a little bit, I'm not saying that I'm off track, you know? I still have a little bit to go on. And the little bit that I do have are the positive things in my life that I look at and I'm like, "Okay, well, I'm not in this situation, so I'm thankful," and-
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22_39
-you know, I'd still have faith to keep going on, but sometimes you feel as though, "Where is God?"
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22_41
You know?
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22_43
Yes.
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22_45
Yes.
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22_47
Mm-hmm.
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22_49
Yeah.
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22_51
I've accepted that. At first, I was like, "Whoa," I think I was focused too much on the first time I did it-
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22_53
-then the second time that I did it-- I did five of these total-
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22_55
-but the second time that I did it I was so focused on, "What did I read about last time?" You know?
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22_57
So, and I just went ahead and blanked that out and I just went and I-
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22_59
-compared and I was like, "Oh wow."
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22_61
Mm-hmm, and that's what I felt wasn't-- At first I was like, "Is that not normal?" You know?
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23_1
Hi.
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23_3
Yeah. Um, yeah, I guess it kind of- it kind of started like five, six years ago.
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23_5
Um, it kind of escalated a bit. Um, I've just recently moved out, um, from living with my parents. So just made it a bit worse, I think.
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23_7
Yeah, I am- Yeah. It's the first time actually, yeah. Um, I was going to a few years ago. I just thought it'd be easier to stay at home, so.
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23_9
Yeah.
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23_11
Um, don't know, it's kind of, I haven't really told anyone, so, I mean, it's made it like better in sense. I feel, hopefully this is, this is it like, it- it'll help, but I don't know. I don't like thinking that I've like have to do this. I never thought I'd like be the kind of person you'd have to actually go and like get help if that makes sense.
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